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How To Turn Your Side Hustle Into A Full Time Income For Military Spouses

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Matt: Hello, good morning, welcome in my name is Matt, and it's Thursday, August 12 I've got a little cup of coffee so I'm in a good spot, a better spot than, than if I didn't have a good cup of coffee, so we've got an awesome guest who's going to come on Today we're on day four of our Instagram real challenge and we've been doing as well. And we're just you're rocking over here I mean we're having a good summer, and we're looking to. Yeah, we're just, we're gonna have a good little interview this morning every morning at 10am Eastern Monday through Friday we get on here live we do wake up legendary bring on a guest, somebody in our community or somebody who got referred to us but most people are just inside of the Legendary community who are getting results they're working hard, and, yeah, I, I've had the pleasure of kind of getting to know our guests this morning Kelsey just a little bit through our business blueprints and she's just working hard grinding, and she's tried different I will I won't tell her whole story, but she's, she's tried different MLM stuff and her friends and family we're super pumped about that. As I've been there so I get that, and good morning to all of you guys who are just tuning in, and what we're going to do is just bring on our guests, I mean, screw it, let's do it. Kelsey, what's happening?

Kelsey: Hey what's up. Good morning, everyone. Thanks for coming on. No, thanks for having me. I'm super excited. I know in my Decade In A Day training, the one goal I set was to eventually be on the Wake Up Legendary show so here I am today, like, a little less than two months later.

Matt: That's awesome. Congrats. Thank you. So tell us a little bit, you're a military spouse and you've done a lot of moving. Tell us a little bit about your journey and how that led you to looking online for just something to do basically.

Kelsey: So we're currently in Germany right now. We got stationed in Germany. Geez We got here like early April, but before I was here we were in South Carolina, and I was only in South Carolina for about a year and had a job. Their job was crazy like my hours. My hours were seven in the morning to six at night, and I would work every other weekend. So it'd be like Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday, and then Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday, like it was, it was a lot, it was so draining, so I knew coming to Germany, I didn't want to do that so of course I'm job searching here, and I was still trying like kind of finding those same jobs where it's like, oh, it's the weekends are sometimes here and the hours are kind of crazy and it's a half an hour drive. So I was feeling very discouraged, and this is kind of embarrassing to say but one of the days, I broke down completely like I had a mental breakdown and I was scrolling through Tik Tok and an even older woman today but I saw that she had an online business and was making money. So I was like this is like a sign or something like on my phone crying and I'm just like let me see what this is about. So I immediately signed up, had your second guess, and just started like I literally gave it my all. And since then, I mean this, I do this full time now so thank God I saw that tick tock video. Eventually, like where I am today.

Matt: Wow, super cool, super awesome. So when you, when you dove in and got started. Were you already kind of conditioned in the place where you were like, I already sort of know that there's people out there doing this kind of thing. And, or did you have some skepticism or what did you think,

Kelsey: So I was a little skeptical, just because I just dive in headfirst like I didn't even consider anything. And like I've done, like smaller MLMs in the past so like I kind of know how those work and after doing some Google research I knew this was a little bit different. Not like referring friends and family and bugging the crap out of them because I've done that in the past. So I'm like, I'm somewhat computer savvy in a way. I have a degree in accounting so I know how to like, do some computer stuff. So I was like, you know, this is perfect for me and I really didn't know that people were actually making pretty good money online from social media like TikTok and Instagram like it's crazy, like, and now that it's like wow this is amazing.

Matt: Awesome, super cool. What, what, when you got started. So, when you get started with a, with a challenge and with, you know you're diving in and you're trying to sort through what's legit and what's not and you're you go through day one you go through day two, you are through day three, what are you thinking.

Kelsey: I was a little overwhelmed, I'm not gonna lie, just, and I feel like that's everyone's first reaction, you're learning something brand new, like it's okay to be overwhelmed, I mean, I feel like being overwhelmed is almost a good thing. Just because you're learning so much. And I've even gone through the 15 Day Challenge basically twice like I've watched some videos because it's either I forgot or I didn't write something down, or, like, I caught something I missed the first time.

Matt: Cool. Yeah, I feel like the whole overwhelm thing, I was just, we're on a decade of the day last Friday. And so he's like oh my gosh I'm so overwhelmed and I kind of, maybe you heard me say this before too, but I sort of unpack and stretch or I unpack why having your brain stretch to that overwhelmed state is a good thing it's a healthy thing it's, well there's, it's really like the sort of the rapid exponential, mental growth or whatever you want to call it like, that's one way to go about it I'm not sure it's the only way, but I think it's the best way, where you're just, you're short of, you know, thrown into the deep end right away and it's like swim. Okay, I guess as a funnel, and social media and videos and somehow they connect and how do I do this again, and then you sort of like even with the challenge or the decade of the day you kind of rewatch and you're like, oh, that connects to that and that connects here, drive traffic here. And I do think the overwhelmed feeling like Bridgette just commented, super overwhelmed I think the overwhelming feeling is like largely pretty common. What, um, what, what, when you're getting started creating content. So take us through this, when you're getting started, You're, you're creating content, what, what was that like, Are you a content creator by nature?

Kesley: Definitely not. So, I actually started the 15 day challenge, I think, mid May, I didn't start actually making content until mid June, June 12 So I waited a while to just put my face out there because I was so scared, I was like what are my friends gonna think what's my family gonna think, I don't know how to make a video never, I've never used Tik Tok before this. So YouTube will be your best friend when you're first starting out because I had no clue, like if you scroll down to my first few videos like they are atrocious like don't even do it. I feel like once you start, it gets so much easier and like you learn from other creators too and everyone's so supportive like it's okay if the videos aren’t 100% perfect because at the end of the day, no one really cares. No one's really looking at it, looking into it that much.

Matt: Yep. And honestly, so I think I think here's what, like, a lot of that's a good point. And I think what a lot of people don't realize is when you put out your first couple like crappy videos, crappy videos. I think that like, for the most part, the people who see those initial first few videos and are like wow that video sucks and they swipe. It's like, there's probably another, like, 3, billion, I don't know how many people are on TikTok but there's at least hundreds of millions of other people who will see your next video, right like so, those are original 100 People they showed your first real shitty video to those people will never see you again. Ever. And guess what, they're probably going to watch about 100 more TikTok videos while they're sitting down and they will be evaporated from your brain in about 60 seconds right so it's only our weird sort of like it's maybe not narcissism, but almost narcissism that thinks that like somehow people are like, thinking about, you know, in three days they're like still sitting down thinking like wow and Kelsey’s videos are so crappy like. What does she have any business with, creating a TikTok video for? You know what I mean, it's funny like scrolling through TikTok. It's like two days later, like I couldn't even tell you the most viral video I watched, more or less the worst video that I watched.

Kelsey: I mean overthink it 100% Like just don't overthink it and just post it. And yeah, like I said my first few videos were terrible. But it gave me confidence and it helped me get out there and here I am today I make like three to four videos every single day. 

Matt: Yeah, totally, totally. And even just because we create on our end like our staff and stuff we create some TikTok accounts in different niches and stuff like that and basically what we do is, is we create them and, and sort of model after other videos to see sort of what takes and what doesn't and see if different niches are taking stuff like that. And what we found was, what we found is basically, if you can take certain, so we found a couple things. Number one is, if you can take original videos from people who are, Let's say they're out a million followers, there's a certain formula that they're using to get views, and it's typically edutainment. Super educational videos with a little side thing of like maybe humor or a little like weird thing, like for instance, one thing that, that I did was I created this like TikTok and I was teaching people how to create T shirts on Fiverr and create T-shirts without needing inventory and one of the, one of the tools was using Fiverr and so I said five RR. And I stole that idea from a guy named Austin who used to be. No, he still is on TikTok, but anyway, I saw his video I was like oh that's really funny because I looked in his comments and ever, like there was like 10,000 comments making fun of him about saving five RR right and saying like Miss or miss mispronouncing things and just doing weird little nuance, things like that, we found works really well. But for the most part, like your first few videos are going to take a really long to get where I was going with this, your first few days will take a really long time to create, and there won't be much payoff so tons of time, little payoff. And then as you go those two things balance out where it's more like a lot less time than before, with a lot more payout because I'm actually starting to get the hang of it, I can get a feel for it. My personality is less uninhibited. It's more free and sort of just free flow, and that's where people start to feel like, oh okay, like this, this person's school, this person belongs here, and that tastes a little bit of time. And so, you know, people who are sitting out here, watching us live on Wake Up Legendary are judging you know, my day. Whatever. I'm now Dave 30,000, to their day too, it's just not going to work very well. Same with your day 60 Or day 90 To your to their day one or two, it just, it's an unfair comparison.

Kelsey: Definitely, definitely. And I guess one kind of good TikTok  tip is, like, follow other affiliates that are in your niche like, you know, in the make money online niche like Barb McGowen and Michael Patrol and like there's, there's so many. And you guys can model off of each other, you guys can chat like, oh, this worked really good for you like any tips on how to do this and I guess like don't really be afraid to reach out to other creators and kind of see what they're doing, see what's working for them, because honestly like everyone's super helpful at least like the people that I've come in contact with like everyone is willing to help you. You just kind of have to ask sometimes and just reach out.

Matt: No, it's very true, it's very true, and some of them, and that's really interesting because some of the most successful tech talkers and content creators that I see are people who definitely took training, but what they did is they took it a whole step further and then they started reaching out and networking and connecting with people, and, and sometimes I want to give an encouragement to everybody who's on here you get a little bit. You get a little bit hesitant or you get a little bit like, I don't know if I should reach out, they're busy or whatever, right, and then you don't reach out you don't get that help that you want, but if you just sort of break through that. Those are the people who are willing to just sort of break through that just be like, Hey, I love your videos, I saw you do this, is there a reason you do this or I saw you do that, and you'll be surprised at how, like, especially somebody who's like lower to mid tier, maybe not somebody who has like 8 million followers but somebody who's that like, like, you know 10 To 50,000 followers or something like that or 100,000 followers, they'll probably message you back and be like, hey here's everything I do like and whoa, and then I also do this and I do this and I do this and you're like, oh my gosh like this is great, and you can build long term friends like, which is really powerful too, but I feel like more than anything like when people start and that's like, like we are legendary we can't really take credit for that. Because mostly, you know, we sell a digital product for $7 and we sell our Blueprints for 2500 bucks I mean, you know, we have other things that we sell to, but we don't sell a lot of stuff like, in the grand scheme if you get into other for instance like we talked a good bit about like ride talk a good bit about Motley Fool, in terms of like they're a stock investing education platform, so you can buy for, you know, whatever. $250 a year or something, their advice on stock picking right and it's a membership and then and then as soon as you get in, right, like sometimes people criticize legendary for, you know, only being about selling. I mean as soon as you get into the Motley Fool, you are sold and pitched, probably five to 10 different. totally different high ticket products at like 1500 ish to $2,000 a pop. And, and, I mean it's, it's from day one, the moment you get it, like, hey, hey, we've just got this brand new live webinar coming out and on that webinar they teach for about 15 minutes and then they pitch, and it's, but I think that, like the community when we go back to the community aspect, there's no community aspect in that. But there is a big community aspect in the in the way of legendary but we don't sort of like we can't actually take credit for that at legendary that was more of a byproduct of us just kind of, hey, let's get everybody in put together in a Facebook group or like let's, you know, just let people sort of network and do their thing, but it is a really powerful thing about sort of the community. Anyway, that was.

Kelsey: You're good, You're good. I wanted to circle back. I know you mentioned the blueprints, kind of going back to my story. I told you I haven't haven't been working since January. So when I heard just the 15 Day Challenge at bay, like, I had no money, like I was broke, I had probably had like $900 to my name, but like, just to live off of that is really, really difficult, especially another country you know everything so brand new. So what I did was I had to use credit cards to pay for my training, like I was going headfirst like I was diving deep and I was like I need to make this work. And honestly, doing that helped me in two different ways like of course one the education of the community 100% And then to the back of my mind I was like I need to pay off these credit cards now I want my investment back. So I feel like that motivated me to work even harder than I would have if I didn't purchase, just because I was like I want him to like have to pay these off, like, let's go and just dive deep into this.

Matt: Yep. No, I exactly what I did, I mean, when I was first starting, and it's funny because, Like, in your case, I don't know if you feel the same way but like in my case, I'm like, Would I recommend for someone else to do that or not, I'm not sure, like, you know. Yeah, right, like crazy. I did the first time, and so it was funny because when I was first getting started in 2011 I was laying in my bed in Chicago and I mean, I was very very broke, I just got out of college, just married. I was like 21 or 22, and I was laying in bed and I was texting. A mentor of mine, and there's this big event live event that was happening in Orlando, called live the dream, and it's kind of like a, it'd be similar to like, if, if legendary hosts in a mastermind like, kind of similar, except there's gonna be hundreds of people there, and there's like a $500 ticket, you got to get flights, you got to do all this and I was like, I mean dude like I have like 100 bucks in my bank account like it's actually not possible you know I mean and he's like well, like just thrown on a credit card or something and actually the interesting part is he that he wasn't. He was like dude I'll buy your tickets, like if you can get here, I'll buy your tickets, I got a spare bed like buy your plane tickets now he, he was wealthy enough that he could have bought my plane tickets but what he said was he was like hey look, this seems like a pretty defining moment for you. He said, owning a business involves a lot of risk, and, you know, a few 100 bucks for a plane ticket if you put that on a credit card or if you find a way to borrow that money to pay it back or something. It's what a lot of businesses do especially pretty rare that a business wouldn't do that to some level to get started in some degree like my wife started therapy practice therapy practice got funded and started on a credit card, and it was a six months free interest credit card and pay it over off over a year, and her business, smoking, right, and so, but he said this is kind of a defining moment like, maybe, that if that amount of risk and that amount of. If that's too much, then you might have to just be honest with yourself that like, hey, this isn't for me. I can handle this and tolerate that and that's okay but you just need to be honest with yourself. And so long story short, I have this internal sort of thing, where it was like, well, dammit, I like I don't want to just, I feel like if I say no to this now I'm kind of saying no to like this forever. And so I bought that plane ticket and I went, and it cemented that as a reality for me, even though it's on a credit card, and then, you know what I did, which was even. I mean, not that that was dumb, but what I did that would probably dumber, was I ended up putting, I don't know, 25 to $35,000 worth of just buying traffic because back in that day we didn't have tick tock, by traffic we had to place ads we had to do, and you can still do that now. To this day, it's overvalued, I mean, the amount of traffic that you can drive for free now is more than it's ever been in the history that I've ever seen. And, you know, long story short, and sort of viewed that as well. I just sort of viewed that as an investment. And I thought to myself, like, hey, I want to learn a high income skill that I know is going to pay for a really long time. And what I ended up doing was I said, Look, there's going to be a day where I'll, I'll pay all this off and I'll pay it off faster than if I was going to go to school and get an MBA in marketing, and, and I'll probably learn more, because it'll hurt when I lose money. Rather than me going and getting drunk for four years or two years at a college and, you know, whatever, and not really learning anything in the trenches, and it was true. I mean there was a day where it might have been over the course of a couple days or a couple months or something but paid all of that off, And mine was more of intrapreneurship where I learned how to work inside of companies and bring value to companies with my high paid income skills, and it was sort of hanging out in communities, it was learning, watching reading, consuming a lot of content watching a lot of videos and it all kind of piled up into this experience where no I, well I really understand marketing, like I really know how to carry out detailed thorough marketing campaigns that I just I didn't know how to do that before, so I'm not perfect, but it did pay off in a big way for me and I think that there's sort of this like Megan says, you know skin in the game to hold yourself accountable, and I think that that's probably really true of your story too. Kudos to you. You did pay it back. I mean, we did accomplish that, so that's great, congrats.

Kelsey: Yeah, yeah and I did it in a short amount of time too and I feel like I did it in a short amount of time because of me going all in and using my credit cards, you know, and I feel like if I didn't do that, I wouldn't, I wouldn't have been as motivated.

Matt: There's that pressure, and honestly, I see that sometimes where there's a little bit and I'm not. I just want to huge disclaimer I am not encouraging people to take on debt just start a business on the internet, most people who buy anything online they don't make anything but the truth is like what I see is that when there's a little bit of pressure applied it doesn't have to be financial, it could just be something else, but specifically financial pressure for people, it creates this sort of, well it can do two things for you it was the healthy thing. For some, it creates an unhealthy pressure where they're willing to do anything out of desperation. In your case it created this healthy motivation, like, Hey, I, I'm going to put in, this is a great entrepreneurial trait of yours. I'm going to put myself in a situation, I have to figure it out. Right. rather than doing this sort of nonstop mental game where it's like, oh my god oh my god, should I do this, should I not should I do that. Oh my gosh, is this right or is this wrong or what do I do? And then, and then they never do anything, but in this case, that sort of healthy pressure pushes you into a place where you're like, Tim, I'm gonna figure this out, and I'm gonna make it happen.

Kesley: Yeah, exactly. And it was crazy to me too and, you know, people have reached out to me for advice and tips, of course I always answer the back but some people say that they think it's too saturated. There's too many people doing it. And I'm like, okay, like Riddle me this like millions and millions of people go to college for the same degree, every single year, and you don't think that's too saturated either like it just blows my mind I feel like people just overthinking, like, No, I can't do this, I can't do that. And it's like, you can't because you're not willing to you need to kind of jump over that barrier of, you can't to I can and I'll make time for it and I'll try my hardest and it just blows my mind sometimes, no excuses but things people will say to like get themselves to believe it's not true. They shouldn't start it and whatnot.

Matt: Yeah, yeah. At the risk of being inappropriate Dave, always at our masterminds calls that mental masturbation, where it's like, sort of like you're entering, and it's just like you're overthinking everything and it's just so it's yeah it's really cool to have in your, in your content creation, in that content creation process for you, like, are you, number one, how many videos are you creating each day. And then also, like, do you go live or like how frequently are you messaging people? Do you do a Facebook group like what does that look like for you.

Yeah, so when I first started on every single day I would do at least three videos. This past week or two, I've kind of scaled back a little bit, just due to like, you know stuff going on in my life but I just haven't really had the time to do it. But normally it's like three times every single day and what really sucks in my situation is I can't go live, I've tried to go live. But I think because of where I am. It doesn't work like it'll allow me to hit live but then it says connection loss like, can't do it. Like, maybe it's because I'm in Germany, I'm not sure exactly why. But yeah I can't go live, so that's kind of a bummer but I did start using Instagram. I'm slowly learning that and what's so cool about, you know, just buying $7, 15 day challenge, there's, like, so much like free training even after the 50 days like exe for example this live show every single day Monday through Friday. And if you have the blueprint, the Thursday training with you which is 9pm my time I think 3pm Eastern time. And it's like, and plus you have the Facebook community and everything like there's so much free education, and I feel like sometimes people just look right past it, and they don't even know you don't even see it.

Matt: Yep, I agree with that. I agree with that. Then, I feel like, yeah, I feel like with the whole that's super interesting with a life I'd never would have guessed that the, what it is, in terms of connecting with your audience connecting with your people. What do you, what does that look like, I mean, are people, mostly messaging you just asking how do I do it or like, do you, do you convert most your sales through doing that is mostly automated what does that look like.

Kelsey: So I get a lot of comments in what I'll say is, you know, because I have a free ebook linked in my bio and I'll say, Okay, grab my free ebook and then message me with questions so I'll follow them back. I won't directly message them first. I don't want to be too pushy and kind of scare them away or overwhelm them. I feel like sometimes people get overwhelmed. So I say, you know, Just grab my free ebook and message me with questions. And I would say eight times out of 10 but when meeting me let me be like, oh, what does this mean like to know more about this. So I'm not the one messaging them but one messaging me and I feel like that's really helped me it gives that personal one on one aspect. And of course, they can always message you on Instagram, if you're not following them, which I think is huge. I wish TikTok had that. And if you have your Instagram, linked in your TikTok, anyone can do that.

Matt: Yes. Yeah, I wish tick tock had that too. Yeah, I think it's interesting, they didn't put that in there that feature,

Kesley: I know I mean, I get it but I don't want the same time I mean yeah there are a lot of, you know, the younger generation on TikTok, so it's kind of like a safety thing. But for business owners, it's a little bit more difficult.

Matt: Yeah. What was he, um, so you created this ebook, did you have an idea for that. Did you like, buy a white label ebook? Did you create the whole ebook yourself and read it yourself? What did you do for that?

Kelsey: So I kind of went like the cheap route, I mean it's so, it's a simple to I mean, I spent a lot of money on it but basically I just created a short little four page ebook in Google Docs, and then I just converted it to a PDF, and that gets emailed. As soon as someone opts in to my email list, and it probably took me, I don't know, less than two hours to create. I kind of just did a small little guide if nothing crazy it just kind of gives the person overview of what affiliate marketing is and what I do every day so it's kind of like a good little like first step and if, like they think it's something that they could do or they have interest in it that they've messaged me.

Matt:Wow, fascinating, that's cool. And two hours. That's nuts. I feel like I talk a lot of people creating lead magnets and stuff, and that's exactly what I tell them to do, go to Google Docs type it out, and then also you can take it a layer of if you want to you can find somebody on like Fiverr or something be like hey here's a Google Doc, go turn this into a PDF for me and make it look beautiful and put images in there and stuff like that too. But you don't even have to do that like people really after. And honestly, here's like, here's one thing that I think is, is kind of badass and cool is if you really take the time to like put together a, even if it's like two pages and you craft it, and you make it really valuable, and you give real value, it could, it can literally just be all size 12 Arial font, and like, and, and people would look at it and be like, maybe this person's like, really onto something or like maybe this person's actually got like real information, and they're not trying to be like a marketer and like make this all pretty and, you know what I mean whatever, because there's, there's a lot of people who write like stock market letters or financial newsletters or like, or even just like copywriting newsletters and don't use a single image, it's like a sans serif font and like it's a couple pages just just nothing but content, and I respect like I kind of look at those people when I read those and I'm like, this person's like, they're on another level, they're not spending time on all the design and stuff although you could do that and I get appeal. They're actually just creating really great content that's concise and thought through, and not bloated and sort of overdone.

Kesley: Yeah, yeah definitely like it, like I said, it only took me two hours, I just quickly you know I ran it through Grammarly after to make sure no spelling errors and I just uploaded it and like I feel like when people you know, do their lead magnet or their free ebook or whatnot, they overthink it, they're like oh it pretty pixelated pay for this and pay for that. And it's like just starting off small. You don't have to give them this 50 Page beautiful ebook that costs you $100 To make like, just put something in there you know like tell your story, you know, people don't want to hear that. I feel like the biggest thing is just don't overthink it, just, just do it.

Matt: And I also feel like I also feel like one thing, I mean, if you're confused or you're not sure, like how to create a lead magnet or how to do that like, honestly, yeah, open a Google Doc, and start typing. But here's the thing is, like, most of what most people don't understand is like you could in virtually any niche that you're in, like, Okay, So let's say that I'm in like keto, or let's say that I'm in, I always give the example, like dog training right so like let's say I'm in the. I'm in the dog training niche, and maybe I'm like a little newer, but I'm really interested in it, and I think I can create good content with my dog around that content, you know, that concept or whatever. And, but I'm not sure what I would do in a lead magnet giveaway or something right. Well, number one, like many affiliate companies, they actually have lead magnets you can give away for free. Number two, you can probably look through their course, buy it for 37 bucks, get some ideas, and put some little teasers, in a lead magnet. Three, you can probably go on YouTube and find some awesome ideas for a lead magnet around like dog training watch and watch some training videos, stuff like that. I just think like, even I know what I used to do is, if I had paid for a course, and it was in my same niche so like I, maybe I'll buy a course on Google ads, and I'm also selling other courses in the make money online space. I would do, little tiny lead magnets like how to generate brand new customers on Google in my here, check out my two page report on how small businesses can generate lead flow on Google, using this one simple Google Ads trick or something like that right and I would go through this course and I would take some notes and then I put it into my own words, and not give away the whole course or plagiarize but I would, I would get some takeaways maybe I'd spend 30 bucks on ads and test it out and then put it into a little giveaway thing, right. I just think for the most part people overthink that process and they and they think, Oh, I haven't got the results or I'm not a dog training master. It's not the requirement marketing is just to get somebody's attention it's not to claim that you're the end all be all of whatever niche or industry, you have so much more freedom. I think that people just need to realize they have way more freedom than they give themselves credit for.

Kelsey: No. A lot of times too. Sometimes I'll get messages and people want a one on one training session with me and I'm like, I'm like, I wish I could, but like, I'm still so new that I feel like I don't have enough to give you yet, like I'm still learning. I said, you can take the same training that I took, they're like well why don't you offer them just because they see me and they see what I'm doing and they see my results. They just want everything for me and I just can't give it to him.

Matt: Yeah, well, Kelsey the easy way to work is, is, whatever you are selling or whatever, are recommending you just you just tell them you must complete this training, and then you get free training with me.

Kelsey: Right, well I've actually done that in the past. I've heard the word first it oh my god it was so well I said the first 20 people to sign up for it, I did it after a viral video too, so I was watching this, actually have a huge viral video the next video I made a video and it said, I'm going to do something I've never done before the next 20 people to sign up for this $7 business, dollar challenge in my bio, gets a free Zoom meeting with me, and I immediately everyone's commenting like I signed up I signed up I signed up, and then I said okay once you get to day three messaged me, I should be back, of course, like, message me any questions you have along the way. but we'll do the Zoom meeting after day three, and it motivated people to actually start the challenge and of course a lot of people will find a challenge to ever start, but just from that I had. I mean, there were a lot of people that signed up and got the Zoom meeting. So yeah definitely helped. 

Matt: Nice. Yeah, I, those little things are really good. Also, I think that people are a little hesitant to offer something like that because they're, they think that like oh my gosh, like, I'm gonna be flooded, but the reality is, like, not everybody's going to buy, and then not everybody is actually going to claim that session right not 100% of those people claim that session right, not not even,

Kesley: I think, like, five or six actually did claim, like they actually made it to day three, and then did the zoom with me.

Matt: That's cool. That's awesome. And I, you know, I also just want to say like, people. It's just funny. Now that I'm on the other side of like having gone through that, that growth that you're going through right now, and seeing sort of like one thing that's really helpful to me is I started going to live events, here's what I saw, I saw that the people who are selling coaching, and who are selling like a group coaching package right for like five grand or something. I realized I was like, these people in the skiff sound bad, but like, these people are not smarter than me, like, these people don't actually know more than me. Like, they just had the guts to offer it, like they just have the guts to be like, no you know what, Like, 99.9% of people haven't made five grand on the internet before, and I'm not to do that because I did it. And I have the value of feeling a little bit nervous about it. But the truth is, the results in the proof are there. And, or even 10 grand or 100 grand but people overdo that they overthink that right they overthink like they overthink like they turn on a rampage chair but they turn, they turn the whole coaching thing into thinking that they must instruct a person on what they're supposed to do. But the best type of coaching that I found especially in the early days in the sort of grassroots I'm still getting going, is much less that and it's way more like, it's like, it's like a mid, high ticket offer that's like a, let's say $1,000 to it could it could be up to $5,000 or something like that. And it's simply a, Hey, would you like didn't look once a week, on how I, on how I built an XYZ business right, or like how I built a full time business on TikTok. So here, here's what it is and then you just basically give the offer and you say like, here's, here's what you'll get for 1000 bucks, you're gonna meet with me in a group setting for six weeks and it starts on September 1 or something like that. I'm just making this up. If I were you. I'm basically saying if I were you, here's, here's something I would consider and think through, again, don't stop what you're doing, but you can build out this really simple offer that's like hey, if you want to work one on one with me, you can make an application on this page and the, the page would be like a ClickFunnels page or something, just got a video of you, and then beneath it is an application, and that can be a Google form that you embed or it can be whatever kind of form. Form on ClickFunnels Right. And, and it just basically is like hey, here's the deal. A lot of people want to work with me. A lot of people are really interested in how I've been able to do this. So here's, here's what I do every couple of months, I accept a new, new batch of people right, and what you could do is you could just make it a monthly thing so if you're going to meet with me four times over the next month, and it starts, and we started up again every single month. And all we do is for two hours a week, we go on Zoom, and I on pack you get to sit and basically look over my shoulder and watch as I go through my routine, and I'm going to show you how I create my content. I'm gonna show you how I find my content, I'm gonna show you how I set up my funnel. And if you don't think that that wouldn't be worth 500 bucks, or 1000 bucks to somebody totally crazy for you. But for you, you get away from one-on-one coaching, you don't have to get into that if you don't want to. It's group style, which means that people sit in on a meeting or a webinar on Zoom, and they sit and they just look and watch and you say hey, here's my holes, here's my whole screen. You've got me on camera. Here's my gripe, here's what I'm doing, ask me questions as we go. I'm gonna create a video to the end you can even share your phone screen, as you're in the TikTok out alright here we go. You guys ready here we go. I'm going to make this video, whatever. And, and you can unpack your best performing videos, you can go back to the best performing video and say, I'm going to actually recreate this video and do a couple things differently. Here's why. And, and you can go through that with people over four weeks, two hours a week so you know, your whole like group coaching could turn into three to five grand a month to maybe 10 grand a month for two hours a week, eight hours a month, right, like that's a that's a stupid profitable business,

headache, and we're. Oh my gosh. And then you just because what I did back in the day is something similar to this, and I just set hard boundaries, I said, if you have questions throughout the week. If you're wondering a bunch of stuff. I want you to write those questions down if they're not urgent. Don't type an email to me that scattered and unclear, come to the call with those questions, we'll get those questions answered. Even if I have to stay an extra 1020 minutes to answer your question, and then, and then after that, if there's something urgent or it's a little thing or something, you can send me an email with a screenshot, I can get back to you. But what I found is when I set up that hard boundary, it created, it made people, formulate their questions clearly and then it also made people really respect that boundary and value what they paid for. So anyway. All I'm saying is, there's a few things you could do to make that really work if you set something like that up, the first thing is, you would have that I did is, as an affiliate for a course as I just said you have to finish the course before you can even qualify. That's it. You can't even you can't get on one on one with me and there's exclusivity right, but then there's sort of this A, she's not, she's not able to spend a bunch of time with me on Zoom or, you know, I'm not able to just use up all of her time for free, like that's not a thing, and that's healthy for people, people need boundaries, people are unbounded boundaries a lot. And you can set that boundary up and you say hey when you finish day 15 I'll give you a little link let me know. Send me a message, I finished a 15 I made him finish the whole dang thing. And then, then, message me, I'll give you a little link, and you can see how I do my private coaching, and you can. At that point, you can sell it for 1000 you can sell it for 2000 you can sell it for whatever you want. But it's a cool way to supplement your income by doing it as a four week thing. Last point, and then I'll let you go. And I'll let you know that by doing it in a four week thing it's very specific why I do that if you ever get sick of it, you can just stop right. So, don't do this, monthly, monthly, monthly, monthly, and then you're like, oh my gosh these people keep paying, and I'm stuck. Right, yeah. Just make it $1,000 Or, you know you can set it to 20, you can set it to 5000 and people 50% Discount say hey I just launched this, you can have it for 50% off, and we have to finish the challenge, and you've got to buy and whatever. And then at least if you really get sick of it, and you really don't like it, and you're like hey you know what, I just want to be an affiliate, which is what happens with most people when they start doing that, they're like okay I think I just want to be an affiliate, or some people are like, I never want to be an affiliate again, all I want to do is coaching I love this I love people, then you can say like, I'm done with it on to the next thing. Anyway, what comes up for you?

Kesley: I was gonna say like what's cool about you know Starbucks, a 15 day challenge. You know the blueprints is, yeah, you start with affiliate marketing but there's so many different branches to brands, like if you really aren't feeling affiliate marketing you know there's online coaching there's, you know, mentoring, there's the masterminds like there's, there's so many options to take and I feel like people just think it's only affiliate marketing that I can do and it's like no like once you are in it like you can you can grow so big and I feel like people are just like oh I only like want to do this and like why not try different things. I mean, I'm still so new, like I want to eventually try coaching. I've actually talked to a girl that just signed up below me . Her name is Kelsey and I'm helping her right now one on one. But I told her like eventually one of the coaches so I'm gonna, you know, kind of, you're gonna be like my guinea pig. I'm gonna help you out. And I think that's a really really good start to me eventually expanding, and I haven't even gone through all of the affiliate marketing section of the business blueprints like I'm still learning, and what's it's crazy. There's so much content it's such good content. I feel like I still have so much more to learn, and I'm already on the right track 100%.

Matt: Yeah, but oh there is an, the new affiliate blueprints insane, like, yeah, it's insane. And by the way, in the realm of the coaching thing the coaching and consulting blueprint is really underrated in terms of the resources that are given there so make sure to look through that too, especially through like the PDFs and stuff like that because I feel like those are really valuable. Yeah, interesting. Cool, I think, like, sometimes I get into these, these, these calls and we start going down this whole, you know rabbit trail and stuff like that. And then I sort of like ice, like, come back out of the hole, and, and then realize like, okay, you know what, like that was cool to explore that, but keep rockin keep doing what you're doing, Because it's working, and add on things as you want here or there, try different things as you want here and there, but you've really got something going and you're killing it, and I think that's a big credit to your consistency to you're definitely a, a very good student. 

Kesley: In terms of how you look at not just training but you also look at other marketers, which is really key to, and like, yeah, like a huge thing even marketers that are in your niche and I feel like that like the biggest, I feel like the biggest help for me is all sometimes you know going to the doctor is nice for like a totally different time relating to me and see their viral videos and what they're doing. Because if that's working in their niche like let me transformative time, and I feel a lot of will miss that opportunity and they just need to, you know, expand what they're seeing, because, of course, a lot of people that are that make money online niche only watch make money online niche videos, and they only recreate those videos, and I feel like they're missing out on a huge opportunity to look at other creators in totally different niches. And I feel like that. It's funny because a viral video that I had about a month ago was from a niche where they build tiny homes and houses, and that is when I used that idea into the make money online niche, and it was in it blew up. 

Matt: Super smart, super super super super smart. i Yes, I hope that just sunk in for everybody because that was of everything I said and everything you said that was a big golden nugget of. Yeah, Robert just said that as a gold nugget look at other niches. Yeah, and getting into those other niches and sort of like just giving a little creative thought a little creative energy, connecting it and then, and then I think about the other thing. The last thing that I want to say. It's just a compliment to you that you've been very strategic in the way that you've taken sort of those ideas or those content ideas, or what have you. And you've taken them, and you've become a real like you've become really meticulous about how you execute the content, like, like, I think that sometimes we talk a lot about at Legendary just get started just post your video. There's also a level of truth to like, hey, you know, taking an extra 10 minutes or an extra 20 minutes to like, just make sure that that word is placed just in the right spot and make sure the timing and the duration of your, of your captions are put right in the right spot, says it just the right way and it kind of captures a humorous element or captures a, you know, an interesting like whoa, it makes somebody come back and watch it again like being a student just as I would call this content production, not the creation aspect of the production element. Not that it has to be amazing camera angles or anything like that but like, just little tiny curiosity things as I look through your channel. Man you have become a master at that and that's one thing that like that will really really help, long term, because that's the kind of, that's the added layer that you go from, you know 5000 views 8000 views to like millions of views, potentially.

Matt: And it's in that one viral video that I had, it was about like a side hustle that I found, but I never mentioned, the actual side hustle in the video. So of course that created curiosity, like what is she doing like What's she doing from home, and of course like comments were like how how do I start, how do I start, how do I start another big thing is, replied to every single comment, like, if even if you can't do all of them down the road like weeks later, you can still reply because then that pushes your video out again, which actually just happened to me last week I gained 3000 followers because I went back to my viral videos I commented back the people that I missed the first time, just because there were so many comments. 

Matt: Yeah, that's like it pushed a huge video back out to the view page.

Kelsey: yes it did and I got like 5000 likes on it and then even more comments and I was like, oh my god like this is overwhelming me right now, with everyone doing it, But it's cool, like if you ever have that our own video like maybe don't respond to every single comment maybe leave a few and then go back to it in the future.

Matt: Wow. Now that helped me a lot. That was a gold nugget. Cool. Wow. See, thank you enough, especially with that last little bit there, that was awesome. And

yeah, if you need it, I'll, we'll wrap up because we've been going here for an hour we could sit here and spit and keep going but. Thanks for what you contribute to our community. I know you give a lot of time and energy to helping people and we use that and thanks for coming on and if you need anything. Hit us up, let us know, you got any final words and final thoughts.

Kelsey: My mom just messaged me wanting to say hi, so hi mom. You know, I really appreciate you guys inviting me on the show, like I said, when I first got into the decade in a day this was like a dream of mine, this is like my first goal like beyond the Wake Up Legendary shell so I'm just happy to be here.

Matt: That's awesome, really cool. Um, well if you need anything, let us know you're a rock star. Kelsey: Thanks a lot.

Matt: Yeah, we'd love to have you on again someday. 

Kelsey: Sounds good to me. 

Matt: Awesome. Alright guys, well have a good Thursday, we'll be back here again tomorrow we do these little things every Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern or we just like to highlight people and and see what's happening in their lives and see what's getting them results, I think that, You know, you might do yourself well to watch this back again and take notes because this turned out to be. There were just little tiny things Kelsey was dropping there that I don't know if everybody caught fully but they were amazing little gold nuggets in there, and, yeah, you might, you might do yourself a while to check that out again. So, we'll be back again tomorrow on Friday and then and today we're just about to send out the email for day four of the Instagram challenge you. So we're on day four now and we've got some today is going to be a really awesome day to talk about how to grow your Instagram following, faster, so we've got some tips from Chris on that, and it's going to be a great Thursday, we'll have day five, tomorrow to wrap up the Instagram challenge so if any of you are new or unsure how to get reminders, you can get reminded every time we go live, you text the letters WUL  to 813-296-8553 And then what we do is we send out just a short little text message. Every Monday through Friday, around 10am, I'm gonna get a text message from us, and there's a little link that you can just tap right in the text message and you'll join. We'll join the live and you'll tune in to the live right on film. So, that's all we got for today guys. Have a great rest of your Thursday. See you next time.

How To Attract More Views To Your YouTube Videos

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Matt: Greetings everybody, welcome in, Happy Wednesday. It is, let's see what is today? Wednesday August 11, we had last minute cancellation for our guests so I've got a fun little mini lesson for today if you don't know who I am, and I'm the CMO here at Legendary, and we've got an awesome day what's up King, Nina, who's in the house today, Robert. Felix is in the house, what's going on, Felix Good to see you as always hate so I thought what would be cool today is, since our guests had a family emergency, what I thought would be cool, you guys can let me know is if I actually just pulled open. I mean this is dangerous, we're getting into dangerous territory here when I do this but what I thought would be cool is if I pulled open, you can see this is, I'm live, here. Let's see. There we go. I am live, and if I pull up on my phone screen. And we did a little content example for the day so many of you are doing the Instagram challenge and creating a lot of video content on TikTok Instagram. And here's the thing. Some people are getting a lot of views, some people aren't and some people aren't getting as many views as they should. And so what I thought would be cool. Let me know in the chat if you're down, but we could do a little share screen today, and I want to tell you about one of the biggest secret ingredients to getting more views on your, on your Instagram videos or on your TikTok videos, and we can we can make this our little mini lesson for the day so let me move this around on my screen, that sort of sound cool, awesome, ready. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning, welcome Stephanie, Daniel, Bryan. Hey again, what’s up, Andrew is in the house Brian. Good to see you. So for those of you who are just tuning in, typically we have a guest on every single day set five days a week, but rather than that today since they have a family emergency what I thought would be cool is if I unpacked a very specific strategy to getting a lot more views on your content and by the way, more views, equals more leads, equals. Well, more views, equals more traffic equals more leads, equals more sales, right, and so it all starts with sort of views, whether that's on an ad on a, on a video on a blog post on whatever it is right it's attention. That's what we're trading here, we're, we're, actual traders like day traders of attention. Right. And so what I thought would be cool. I have a few that I've put up, But what I thought would be cool is if I gave you all just a couple examples, a couple nuggets from people that I know who are crushing it or who have crushed it. And I've, I've basically here's what I've done is I've taken formulas from people who have been super successful with video marketing, and I've broken them down, and I've had other people implement those exact formulas, and they've got huge results meaning, tons and tons of views on their videos, and guess what those translated into eventually sales, right. So, um, let me move this around here on my screen, and what I'm what I thought would be cool first is if we pull the open, and I'm going to pull this open on TikTok just because I'm used to sorting videos on TikTok, but really TikTok. Their algorithm functions pretty similarly to Instagram. In terms of reels and stuff, and how they're created. Alright so what I'm going to do is I'm gonna share my screen, and I'm gonna pull up in a window here. So here's what I thought would be cool. First, what I'm going to pull open here is, it's a profile, and let me scroll up here. And let me do a little sort of like TikTok. Okay, so what I'm doing right now as I'm sorting his channel from most viewed videos to least viewed videos, and in order to do that I'm using a tool called Sort For TikTok. Okay, so I just put the name of this Google Chrome extension in the chat, you can see it if you're on Facebook. Here you can see it, But it's just called sort for TikTok and what it did there. Is it sorted? Then it sorted the content from his most viewed videos to his least favorite videos. Now, no matter what niche you're in, I'm going to show you dog training, we'll look at Kido we'll look at

little make money online videos from some of our affiliates will give you a couple examples from different places but here's my point. My point is, there's just one ingredient that goes into content that I think most people miss, and it's the reason a lot of people make. They might be 30, 60, 90, 100. They'll make content for I've seen people for years. They'll make content and they think the secret is just making content, but the secret is a little bit deeper than just putting out videos. The secret goes a lot deeper than that actually. So, what I wanted to do is pull open a couple of these and then what we're going to do is talk about, and we're going to unpack what you guys think and I want you to be really engaged here in the, in the chat with me, but we're going to unpack what these people are doing inside of their videos they're getting so many views. Right. I want to give me one little nugget. And then, and then what we'll do is let me see if I can, I'm going to hit Share, and I'm going to share with you another screen. For those of you who are just tuning in, I'm also going to pull open my phone screen, and I'm gonna give you some examples in different niches of how I would create content based on the thing that I think most people are missing in their, in their video marketing okay so we'll do that live, I will not practice this, I will not rehearse it, but I'll pull open my screen and we'll just create some content, we'll see how it goes. Sometimes what I do gets a little while, but we'll see what happens. Okay, so let me make this a little bit bigger. If you all can see this screen okay and it's big enough for you. Can you just hit thumbs up on this stream right now so that you can see it? Okay, just let me know that it's large enough and big enough for everybody. I just want to see a few more thumbs up to make sure that it's, I don't think that makes it bigger or smaller or anything, since this is great, Great, great, great. Okay, awesome. Oh there's a thumbs up, there's some so we just got a little delay. Okay, so. All right, this guy here. I'm gonna own it, I just looked him up. Basically what I did to find this account guys is I just want to search accounts and I typed in dog training, right, and then I just what I was looking for are people who have a lot of followers right so if you look at this, he's got 1.4 million followers 550 4000 followers 1.1 million followers. So any of these with, with, you know 100,000 Or more followers are going to be good ones to look at because if somebody's got 1.4 million followers, and he's the CEO dog behavior. Really, really good chance that this guy is taking this very seriously, and it's probably pretty successful. So then what I'll do is I'll use this Sort For TikTok, And I'll hit the start. And so this is going to scan through his whole channel. Alright, so it's scanning scanning scanning scanning scanning and taking all of the top viewed videos the most viewed videos and it's putting it up right at the top of the page. All right, so now it's done. Now we've got all of his best performing videos right in front of our very eyes, right, and so if he's the CEO of say at once in dog training would check this out. This guy has grown a following of 1.4 million followers he's getting a ton of traffic. And really all that he's doing is selling leashes and T shirts, right, like check this out. Our training. Private one on one lessons in the comfort of your own home. Alright, so in home trainers meet in home training, Blah blah blah. Now, check this out. The interesting part, maybe I'm wrong here, but from what I see he doesn't even do an online training right. How crazy is that, I mean, during the times of COVID. He's got videos he's got stuff he can watch on YouTube and Instagram, but he's not even selling a digital course. A student could easily be making 10 grand a month plus, if he was just selling one single digital course, but he's not so it is what it is. But, um, okay so, over here, let me see if I can zoom in a little further, there we go. Alright so what I want to do is I want to unpack. I actually think what I'm gonna have to do is share a tab, so I can share the audio with you. Yeah, there we go. Okay. So, there we go. Now, let me make this a little bigger.

Ready go. Okay, so what I thought would be cool is if we pulled open one or two of these videos and I unpacked, what's going on here and why he's getting so much viewership. Now the trick to this whole game. For those of you who are newer to creating video content. The trick to this whole game is that in order to get more views or in order to bump up your viewership. The first, the main thing that you need to do is to get people to watch your videos okay so if you're taking notes on this little mini lesson, a few times. Okay, it's called CPU time. It's the amount of this percentage of time that somebody watches your video. That's how you're going to get more views. So, if you are if you make yourself a little bigger, so if somebody watches 25% of your video on average, so if they throw it out when you post a video they throw it out to 100 people or so. And if, if they only watch on average about 25% of the video. Then, TikTok or Instagram or YouTube or whoever they send that back to their algorithm and say, Well, you know it's probably not a great, it's probably not a great video because they only watch 25% of the video, right, but in the case of a video that you post and let's say on average they watch one and a half times, meaning they watch it one time through, and then they watch it again halfway through. Now Tik Tok is going to go back to its algorithm and say hey, this videos, really good the view percentage is really high, or maybe they watch it on every screen times, right, then it's going to go back and it's gonna say hey, launch this out to everybody on the freaking platform because for some reason, everybody loves watching this video they sit on this video they stay on this video. The reason that happens is because the reason that they do their algorithm that way or they've written their algorithm that way is because it keeps people on the platform longer, right, if people are watching videos and staying sitting here looking at their screen longer. Well then guess what, they're going to stay on the algorithm longer, and they can sell more ads because of that, because they've got more people who are just sitting on their platform right. So the whole point now type to me in the chat if that makes sense, type makes sense if you get what I'm saying because now we're going to unpack what are the different elements, what are the different ingredients in the recipe that are getting all of these views, so we're going to do it in a few different niches. And just as a fair warning, I haven't even watched these videos, I went out and grabbed a few different niches that we can look at, But I haven't really unpacked it. Okay, but my guess is, because this has been true over the last 10 years. This is probably going to be pretty freaking exactly what I think it's going to be so. Okay, here's what we're going to do, we're going to we're going to just, we're going to, we're going to click on this 17 point 6 million video view because it's got so many views, and I'm just curious what the heck is going to happen in this video. Okay, let's see what happens

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Matt: Okay. So a few things, if you're taking notes that I that I took note on here is a little bit of humor, okay, if you're taking notes, a little bit of humor, a little bit of lightheartedness, right, think through these things through these platforms and think through sort of the way people go on social media and digest content. It's a little fun. It's a little loose. Right. Okay. Watch this again. I'm going to refresh this, hang on, hang on, hang on, I’m gonna refresh this.

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Now, did you notice that he had a headline right away on the video. So check this out, check this out, check this up. Do you see this. My main lesson for today. Now the one thing that I think might be missing from many of your recipes, and he did it right here is a headline, is a compelling headline, is a great copywriting headline. Okay, so a great copywriting headline about this, what is a great copywriting headline do to me in the chat, what do you think a great copywriting headline should do in my copywriting, I mean, some of you think that this is video and that copywriting is only in the written word, no video content creation is just copywriting, that's all that it is, it's great copywriting and what great copywriting does is type to me in the chat, what do you think it is, what do you think it does. It hooks somebody. So what do you mean by hooks Sarah Tell me more. It grabs attention, okay what else intrigues, hook, grab attention grab attention grab attention. Curiosity intrigues captures attention hooks your viewer hooks the consumer grabs the interest of the viewer grabs attention evokes interest hooks people draws me in. So, telling you what's happening, grabs people by the brain, okay. So, I think most of you are probably right here, it grabs their attention, and many people in copywriting and call that push them right, it's like a little like a little fishing hook right. So, before the hook happens, what do you have to do? If you're out fishing before somebody is actually writing on, right. You got to sort of Chum the Waters, right, you've got to sort of Chum the Waters and set the bait right before you can actually land that hook, so. So here, in this particular instance. Let's see what's the date on this 11/23/2020 So, can you do this, proper dog greets now there's a cert there's a few elements I feel like that are going on. Number one, he did a great job of making this feel sort of real life, right, what he's actually doing is he's doing a dog training session, but for those of you, for instance who might be, let's say you're in the dog training niche and you're like well I'm just starting and I don't have a whole dog training business, dude. Right, so what do you do in that case, you can set this up with a friend you can set this up with a, with your spouse or just either yourself or something right so what you would do is you would find a place or find some sort of tripod or find some sort of way to set your camera up and or find somebody to record it for you, and you can literally just stand there and just have your dog and say, and here's what here's what else you could do for you could say well actually, before I give a headline, why don't you guys type to me in the chat, what would be a good headline, I mean this is a good headline I guess 17 million peeps so you know I'm not saying that we can do this better, but what would, what do you think would be a good headline for this type of video, because I kind of think, you know, this is a good headline and it grabs people's attention. But I think if you're brand new, you might not get 17 million views using this headline, he had a little bit of an audience. That's not to say that you can't, but what do you think might be a good headline on this one, tape to me talk to me. Let me see if you answer. Brad says can you do this, makes you want to see if you can do it brilliantly. I need a tripod to make my videos, no nothing is missing. You don't, I'll show you why. What's next, dogs, dogs, meeting strangers. Okay, what would you do when tired people walk up to pet your dog?

Can you predict this dog's reaction? Oh yeah, that's pretty good. Are you putting your dog in danger? Does your dog bite people? Now, listen up. Listen up. Listen up, listen, pay attention. Pay attention. I was just reading this email this morning, okay and I was reading the email from Motley Fool I read a lot about stocks and investing and I read a lot about marketing on these different newsletters so I've put my newsletters in one folder in my Gmail and I, and I read through them to try to get copy ideas and stuff right. And the whole pitch, the whole entire angle of the and it sucked me and they do this so well is that it's the fear of missing out. Can you guys write that down. Can you please write that down, FOMO. It's one of the biggest drivers in marketing. Fear Of Missing Out fear of missing something that's going to be great or something that's gonna be revolutionary right. It's the fear of missing, and actually what I would say is not the fear of missing out can you write this f o m i. Fear of missing information. Everybody typed that in the chat because I want people who write, or people who watch this as a replay, I want them to see. Fear of missing information. Fear of missing information, they're missing a piece, they're gonna miss a little piece of information. Now the trick to that, because all they were writing about, here's what they did in this email, they said. They said, Chase, what did they say they said, you know, companies like Apple and companies like Google, you know what, let me just, I'm gonna, I'm gonna watch this, watch this, we're going to we're going to go into my email inbox, you know I was going to share my phone screen which is dangerous. Now we're going to go into my email inbox. This is getting pretty sketchy here but just check this out, I'm gonna pull up this email from Motley Crue.

I don't know if this is going to be interesting to you if you're finding this interesting, but I just thought this was such a great example of copywriting and applies directly to video, because of the way that they did it.So this is an I'm not an advertiser and affiliate or anything from Motley Fool. But check this out, check this out. While everyone was hunkered down in quarantine a largely overlooked Wall Street Journal article by Best Selling Author Walter Isaacson sounded the alarm for the potential end of the so-called Digital Revolution, and more importantly its immediate replacement by the third and final existential trend in modern society. The Coronavirus blog will hasten our transition to the third great innovation revolution of modern times. This will drive the first half of the 21st century. Fortunately, we've been tracking this moving movie story net for months now at The Motley Fool, and to see the potential impact on society here substantial be the understatement of the century, I'm quite certain. Just look at what some of society's biggest names have to say. Now, notice what they see, what they do with this, the way that they've blocked this out? See how they blocked the name of this out right, eventually impact will re Thomas every sector of the economy of infection societies in the environment as blank, blank, blank, blank, blank, innovation, transforms profit pools value chains, and business models, the future of manufacturing is built with, like, right, the blank wave is similar to the information technology with the 18 1980s and 1990s coming blank revolution is poised to change the world. And on and on and on and on. Right. Every single person, every single one of those quotes ties back to the great innovation revolution that Isaac. Isaac's he mentioned in his articles now, it keeps going, keeps going, keeps going, keeps going now. What he does is he unpacks down below. Right here, why is the president of a publicly listed Japanese company and three saying the sector could soon give birth to multiple companies besides Google, Amazon and Facebook. And in another email the follow up email so that's what they do in the whole email is they just talk about Google, Amazon and Facebook. Okay, because a lot of investors have stock in Google, Amazon and Facebook. What they say is look, if you're looking for those huge, you know windfall returns for Google, Amazon and Facebook. Times are changing my friend. Times are changing and things. Those days are gone, right, and so they say and you need to tune in to this live webinar in order to see and make sure you don't miss out on what could end up being the industry that that mints the next school, that mints the next Amazon that mints the next Facebook or something like that, right, because this industry has the chance to be even bigger, right, augmented reality, artificial intelligence 5g, the manufacturing of all of that kind of stuff, the people who make that, or were they Real Stock gains can be found right. And so, what they're doing in this is they're driving that curiosity, but here's what's really key: it's left me feeling like, if I don't sign up for that damn webinar. I'm going to miss out on, you know, potentially huge investment games. Everybody see that give me a little thumbs up, just type a little thumbs up, or hit thumbs up in the stream if, if this makes sense to you. 

What this guy does is he comes right into the video. So he does two things. That is key with video content, listen. The first thing is he doesn't introduce the video, he just starts walking with the dog. Okay, now he might be, he might say this headline better by saying all dog owners must know this about dog greetings, or your, your guests are at risk. If you do this with your dog right or something like that. And, and think about the human psychology of that so if I'm a dog owner, right. Or you could say something like most dog owners don't do this, and they put people at risk. Most dog owners put people at risk by not doing this one thing, right, and he could just have that on the screen. He doesn't even need to say it, he couldn't say it, but he could just put it on the screen. Right. He just walks right in, and he, he could put that right on the screen that says most dog owners put people at risk by doing this one stupid thing, right, or most dog owners don't owners don't know, or, or they could say, most dog bites result as be because of this or something, I actually think he could maybe even bump up. If he were to do something like that with a headline, but in TikTok or Instagram, it's very easy just to put on these little stickers, like these little text things right on to the actual video. It's super simple to do. Alright, now the other trick to really great video content is actually helpful. Right, so the part of the reason that this feels so helpful and so instructional is because he's, he does very expensive dog training, he gives these little mini lessons on TikTok for free and people feel like they're getting a little bit of a little nugget for free, right, and that's the reason it feels so valuable. Okay, so let's go to another one. Let's go, we're going to jump over to the Keto queen, okay. 

Alright, so I wanted to do one in the more health and fitness kind of niche, and she's the Keto queen. I have no idea what that means at all. But she's a Keto queen, and she has multiple videos on different channels, basically just different recipes, different ways to cook keto meals, stuff like that, like I actually barely know anything about keto. And so anyway, but there's a huge, I mean keto is massive, massive it might have hit its peak, but it's insanely huge lots of people are keto. So, this keto queen, I have not seen any videos from her at all so we're just gonna dive in and we're gonna check out like one or two of her videos. For those of you who are just tuning in, as a reminder, the reason that we're doing this reason we're looking this up is to get some ideas get some, get some feedback, get some real rock and it just, just some, just some real world examples of why content goes viral, right.

Now, this is a good, this is a good copywriting headline, now she could again probably do this even better, but it's a good copywriting headline what she could do a little bit better is probably say something like, she can Well number one, I think she could show her face like her teeth a little bit better, but the way that she leads that in or whether she brings that in to start the video by saying, here's the teeth whitening, here's, here's my secret teeth, teeth whitening solution forget about, whatever, and I like how she does, forget about, you know, baking soda or whatever she said, I think that's powerful.

Okay, this is insane. This is insane. But, anyway. The funny part about this is that I think this is insane. But what I think is funny about it is the formula issue used right there, is actually pretty legit. And let me break this, let me break this exact formula down for you to hang on the back. It's gonna clog your drain, it's going to stain your face, I don't I mean, that's the funny part though, let me share my screen here. I'm going to share a whiteboard screen with you guys. Zoom whiteboard, okay. So, let me pull up in my little whiteboard. The funny part here is that she actually this a little smaller, maybe. The funny part is that her, her formula is actually spot on. So, yes, I probably would never do this in a billion years of work disgusting, and it's gonna clog drains and stain my face and skin and basically stain everything it touches and clog everything, every drain that goes on but anyway, we don't have to debate now, the bigger point here is her formula for this is exactly what I teach. It starts with. Oh, actually, before we get into step one, it does not start with stone, but it starts with, it starts with a really good hook.

So she brings in this, this incredibly interesting. This hook but you notice what she does, there is she actually holds up the ingredients, right. So, the hook. How is she creating curiosity she holds up turmeric, which, if anybody knows turmeric, that crap stains like crazy ground turmeric does stuff you get it on anything, it's impossible, like, and then coconut oil right, and she holds these things up and says, Here's my teeth whitening secret, right. 

So the formula starts with A, and then it moves into a little bit of edutainment right so she's, she's, and we talked about this a lot in education and entertainment. And then, I don't know I didn't stay long enough, but typically you have some sort of call to action. We'll watch it again and see if it has some sort of call to action at the end of it, the edutainment piece, basically goes like this, she says something like, here's my secret here's my teeth whitening secret that I've been using for years, and it works on sensitive teeth, and it doesn't involve harmful chemicals, check this out, right, so that's what she could say, and then, and then, or if she didn't want to say all of those negative things, you can give a cool headline like here's, here's the teeth whitening secret I've been using for for years, and, and instead of saying, and it doesn't. And there's no harmful chemicals, and whatever that kind of stuff. It instead of saying that she could just put a little sticker with words on the video that says no harmful chemicals. Safe for sensitive teeth, right, so then you can actually read it as she's talking and now you've got multiple sensory things going on. So you don't want to overdo that. But you'll notice in the dog training in the dog training video he did that in that one. But you give a little hook right it's copywriting oh here's the teeth whitening secret I've been using for years. And then if you put right on the screen and it says, no harmful chemicals, safe for sensitive teeth. Works like a charm every time. And then you go into, here it is step one dude. No, she doesn't say, step one, you don't need to do that, but you can walk people through and if you say step one do this stay step two, do this, he you know, then you can make your headline be something like, here's my four step formula to making money online in any niche. Step one, blah blah blah. Step two, blah, right, to be step one, set up a sales funnel. Step two, choose your product. Step three, you know, set up your email autoresponder Step Four get traffic like and follow for more, right, comment, right, whatever. So, my point though, is having this little hopefully this little introduction that you have three seconds to grab somebody. Okay, see it's got to be quick, here's my secret, teeth whitening formula, it's safe for sensitive teeth, has no harmful chemicals, it works like a charm. Every time I've been doing it for years, check this out. Here's how to do it right, or here's, and you can use words in copywriting like here's my weird. Here's my weird. This is super weird. Here's my weird secret for teeth whitening. I've used it for years, not many people know about it. Right, something like that. Right. Makes sense. No, it's not illegal to do a video like that. In fact, most people who get started on TikTok or Instagram or video creation, they'll use other videos as inspiration sort of like, it's sort of like in music, people, there's, there's nothing new under the sun in music people draw off other people's inspiration and stuff, same thing except on social media, there isn't really like copyright infringement unless you're actually using their content and pretending to be them. Right, or you're using their content without their permission but if you're just creating your own unique content. You guys can go on and if you're on the Keto edge I mean we can do something like this and get a bunch of views, right. So, that I mean for me here this way she does the exact formula. Exactly. And this is the edutainment based formula which is, you start out with some sort of hook, you go straight into. Here's how to do it, you give them the exact steps you unpack the formula, and then you give them a call to action, comment, and follow for more, right, or something like that. The reason you want to give a good comment is because when people are commenting the video keeps playing so your play rate goes up.

So, so, we've got here let's, let's check another one. Let's check in.

Stop screen. Okay, let's do Stacy La. She's in the make money online niche, and if you haven't seen her content as content, she is. She is one of the most consistent content creators in this niche that I've ever seen. And so what I did is I did my short for TikTok, again, if you're new, you can go short for TikTok. 

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Matt: Okay, you guys see that. Now, just give me a little thumbs up if you saw that that was powerful. Do you guys see that? Give me a little thumbs up. What is she doing they're a side hustle that no one knows about. Right. Get remember on it earlier when I unpacked the Motley Fool example. So in this case here, what she's doing is she's unpacking this that no one knows about right, there's a little side hustle, that no one knows about. Right, so only a couple people in the world are doing it the way that she said to do it. Here's the secret that no one knows. Internally, for people who are interested in maybe a side hustle or looking for a way to make money, they immediately go on about it. I can't miss out on this. Can't miss out on this. I need to watch. Right. See how powerful that is. Several really powerful content creation formula. So then she unpacks the steps, What does she do she actually shares your screen now on TikTok. If you're creating it on TikTok, well you can do this on Instagram too, but what you can do is you can literally you can pull open the TikTok app. And by the way, if you're in our Instagram challenge you can just create the video first on on TikTok and then download it and put it on to Instagram using something called Snap tick, if somebody could type in SnapTik app into the chat so everybody can see it that'd be great, but what you can do is you can start out with your video, like this. And you can just hit record and say, you know, basically. Do you want to reduce these, these huge bags under your eyes well I've got one little serum, no one knows about that will help you get rid of bags into your eyes and make you look 20 years younger, you ready for it. And then what I can do guys is I can flip the camera on my screen there's a little button up here says flip and what it'll do is it'll flip this camera so it goes back, and then what you do is you use your phone just point at your computer screen and say go to XYZ website hit this, get this, get this now, you don't have to be an affiliate for every single product that you put on your videos. Okay, you can use some videos just to get views just to get more of an audience, right. That make sense? Everybody understands that you don't need to be an affiliate for every single thing that you talk about, in fact most of them you won't be the place where you're going to drive that traffic is in the link in your bio. That's where all your traffic is going to go, promote and pitch your products every single video. The point is that you're teaching them a free little mini lesson in every one of your videos and you hook them with a great copy. It's not enough just to say, you know, here's how to make money on the internet or here's how to start off your keto diet the right way, you have to work in a little bit of copywriting, you have to work in a little bit at angles. You got to get creative with your words and how you do that you got to become a craftsperson of of copy really. So hopefully that makes sense. One other one other guy that's really, really good to look at if I were all of you, I would go look at this guy Spencer. Spencer hacks, and if you saw his videos.

He doesn't have a lot of videos so we're gonna take a second to sort. But what you can see is, most of his videos. He's posted this video twice the same exact video he got 2.6 million views and then 1.7 million views, and other people have done this exact video. They literally just went right here. And they were like wow I could make that video, and they went on and made the video but they replaced a few things like they chose a different niche so they didn't do a kid's book, they did, you know, a romance novel, or a, you know, whatever. But you could do kids books and then don't do like the froggy book example that he does, he could do a different example. Check this out side hustle with zero competition World's Easiest side hustle. So you notice how he just doesn't say like here's a great side hustle he says World's Easiest side hustle side hustle on autopilot right side hustle $2,000 in 30 minutes right easy side hustle, number one, right. World's Easiest sign up so he gives a little, he gives just a little tiny examples he gives little, little secrets and hacks, right there. You have to get creative with your words as a marketer you have to create your, your main goal is to drive attention and curiosity and marketing. Alright, so this would be another good one if you were in this niche to look at and, you know, if I'm brand new, if I'm brand new and I'm like what age, what kind of content, am I going to create, right. First thing I'm going to do is I'm gonna go look at people who've been successful in my niche which is why I did this, which is why I went through the dog training in the Keto and to make money as I went through different niches and what I do if I was brand new, is I would immediately. The first thing that I would do is I would immediately go and look at their top viewed videos, and I would actually try to create something similar. I will probably go right here and look at this video. I would take notes on what the music is. I would take notes on what he's using for hashtags, which by the way are not very many. And I would take notes on how he started. And what's at the very beginning when the, when it starts races. 

And then, what does he do, right, it gives this little tiny hook right at the beginning, and then he goes straight into this. 

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Matt: Okay. So, look, the point there being, there's a formula, okay so edutainment has a formula in these small bite size miniature videos, the formula is you give a really good people on that headline, you get them to dig it. And then you move through the steps, step by step by step, now he might be good, but guess what, if you spend the next 30 days creating mediocre videos getting mediocre results, it'd be better for you to take the next 30 days, well maybe not 30 days but the next three days, trying to figure out how to craft videos like that right So, already in my mind, here's, here's the kind of thing that I'm thinking about in this niche. I'm already thinking through, maybe there's another site that I could do that on, maybe it doesn't have to be Etsy or maybe it is a T, but I'll do it with a different product, right, do it with different products so I could say here's wouldn't have to say with zero competition but I can say with almost no competition. Here's a side hustle, that almost nobody knows about. And if you get on this before everybody else finds out you can make a fortune. Check this out, and then I'll go into Etsy and I'd say, type in homemade, right, and then what I would do is just type in like homemade space, and see what comes up. Oh I like that right homemade frames, and I'm gonna jump on that right away, and then I'm going to do what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna find the cheapest one, they're gonna do that I'll listen on Facebook marketplace, maybe I'll even maybe I'll listen on different places, and I'll list them for sale as soon as somebody buys and then I'll do that, have it shipped over to them, straight from Etsy I won't even touch the product right now here's the thing, this might be a really cool thing but in my bio, if you've got a link in my bio, I have an even better side hustle, I love it even more involves less work, and less time and less energy, it ain't free, but check it out my buy or something like that right, whatever it is right or I offer coaching on how to do this at a larger scale, if you want more information, go to the link in my bio, Right, so what I'm doing there is. I, as a beginner. What I'm trying to teach you is, number one, a formula, the number one recipe to your videos being viewed a ton, is that you have amazing copywriting and hooks and angles inside of it. Number two is you don't need to reinvent the wheel, there's tons and tons and tons of video content examples that you can learn from that you can unpack that you can use in your own marketing, and it's super super powerful. So anyway, all that to say we're gonna wrap up for the day. We've been going for about an hour now. Hopefully that was helpful, we're going to have day three of the five day Instagram challenge video, and posts in our Facebook group going out. That's going to go out here in the next hour, and we're gonna be sending out an email about day three as well. So get ready, start creating your content, and we'll post about it here in just a sec. That's it for today. We'll be back here tomorrow with a special guest, I'll be back here again tomorrow. We'll see you. Same time, same place 10am Eastern.

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Matt: Happy Tuesday everybody, we are running a few minutes late today but my name is Matt and I am here live, and we are at, at least my time seven away am. But if you're here and you're part of our Instagram challenge, and you've been posting Instagram reels starting yesterday I want you to give me a thumbs up, hit the like but also give me a thumbs up here in the comments and let me know that you've been part of our Instagram challenge we're doing a five day Instagram challenge if you didn't already know that. And in this little Instagram challenge group, We're doing free little mini lessons each day, and we've got, you know, last yesterday. I think yesterday we had somewhere around 1300 comments of people posting their reels and lots of people who are brand new to this whole thing. Diving in headfirst, and getting really cool results. Some people. And I wonder if I can pull a couple of these up, let's see. Let's see, let's see, let's see, let me do a different share screen here, share, share screen. So we've had a couple people who have just, I mean they literally just got started, like Nathan's over 500 views in his first 30 minutes. So this happened very fast. Mira got her first commission. We've had this, this person is the Bluegrass affiliate she had 20,000 views she had 8000 views here, if you guys can see this I think you can see it yep 3600 views for AJ 8000 views for Mark, and the list kind of just keeps going. Sure, this is Callum I think Callum was 6300 on his very first ever video 3500 3200 For Melissa. So my point in showing you those is, there's an incredible opportunity to get a lot of engagement on Instagram rails right now. We started this challenge just to get you in the habit of creating it, It forces you right so when you wake up and I say to you, you've got to make two videos. That's it, that's the only thing you've got to wake up and you've got to make two videos. Suddenly, it puts you into engineering mode it forces you to be an engineer to figure it out as well before your anxiety levels maybe were too high, and you're like, I don't really know how to do this I don't know how to post this how do I get started right. So, the underlying goal of this challenge is that it just forces you straight out of that anxiety and like pushes you straight through it, and there's a lot of people that So Amanda, just commented, uh, what kind of results, is anybody getting a lot of views, Amanda just said I got over 6000 views on each of hers. And this is only day one. The other thing I want you all to remember is like, this is day one, you're just starting a disease or first thing you've ever posted. Okay, so just keep that in mind and remember, we're just getting this thing rolling. You know, to create mastery, it takes a little bit of time sometimes so. Anyway, thanks for joining us here live this morning we've got an awesome guest, you don't know, on Monday through Friday, okay 10am Eastern, we go live with a new guests typically the new guests sometimes somebody has to cancel last minute, we don't have a guest, but we've got a lineup of like, 30, to 60 people already scheduled way out. And one person that we wanted to bring on his name's SK and he is from London he's killing it, and has been selling different test style stuff, and has had a really good week almost making $5,000 in a week, and so on a feeder thing so SK, what’s going on? SK: Hello. How are you?

Matt: I'm doing good. How are you doing today? 

SK: I'm good. 

Matt: Yeah, good. Well thanks for coming on. I appreciate it. 

SK: Thank you for inviting me. 

Matt: Yeah. So tell us a little bit about you and your story over the last few years, you know you're working as an engineer, and doing some other stuff and then COVID has lost your job loss, can you just bring us into your world and kind of what happened.

SK: So basically I came to London in 2013, so I came in as a student I say you can study engineering, I say automotive engineering, and after finishing that I got into engineering field, I got married as well so Mike was going well, and then COVID it lost my job in New York straight away so I had to shift from engineering straightaway to retail I was working part time in retail, while I was doing engineering, and I basically had to shift to that job because I needed a job. And shortly after that in January, I went for divorce, so my marriage was suspended, and like I needed something to be distracted I needed something to have a distraction. I have a history of, like, tenuously now another history of brands so I just didn't want to fall back into it. And then I basically needed something to get distracted. I started, I came across someone's post on Instagram I think about social media management. So I was looking into that. And then I came through TikTok, to Legendary. So I just went into it. I started the challenge, and it just went from there. From January till now. So like, during this whole time I've tried different social media platforms. TikTok wheels you're doing. I've been doing it for the last couple of months. I've tried different methods of TikTok. I've tried showing my face. I've tried showing without my face. I've tried different Pinterest, Twitter, pretty much anything you can think of, I've tried it, and I think I've finally eventually liked it, got to the point of learning where I'm like, I know what I'm doing. Finally, still learning every day but getting there, and just helping people every day.

Matt: That's cool man. That's really cool. So you're, you're working really hard.

SK: I'm sleeping like three or three hours a night, all year round and man I remember when I first started, it was, it was four hour night see again. I was and, you know, some people say, Well, isn't that unhealthy Well I, I feel like there's probably seasons of life right like where there's just, there's this quote from Elon Musk where he just says, you know, at the end of the day, I worked 80 to 100 hour weeks and it's double what everybody else is doing. And there's more work that can get done during those hours, and it's just time, it's the science of time. It's just as our works, but I don't know if we necessarily want to promote that style. Yeah, but I will say like, there's certain seasons right and so I also think that there's the other side of the coin where I see people who, you know, I see people who sort of downplay or kind of shit on that lifestyle because they're uncomfortable with it or because it's, for them it doesn't work, but the truth is is like they, they're what works for someone doesn't always work for everyone else. And so when people apply that to every single human it just doesn't make sense because I go through a period of time, about 10 years ago where, you know, for two or three years, it was fine for me to sleep four hours a day and when I woke up I was like, I'm ready, I'm hungry. And, you know sometimes when you're hungry, it's like, I don't care what time I'm waking up or going to bed or, like, I just need to make sure, eating something. And drinking your coffee, and all you know it might not be sustainable forever, but it might help me get my business off the ground,

because that's what it is, because I was home working I'm still I still got my nine to five job like I do have enough resources to leave right now but like I still have it for some reason. And like, I'm trying to balance my time with what I'm doing. So having that job waking up in the morning coming home like I finish around 10 o'clock and then I'm up at like four o'clock just doing what I'm doing. Pretty much,

Matt: Yeah. Yeah, and I just think people when they have a job or when they have other things going on, they're able to put in a little bit of time but if you're able to, you know, even. So, what I found was helpful for me was putting a little bit of structure around it so it was like Hey, as it was always based on the condition that I could function. So I had two minimum wage jobs. I was working as a $7 an hour barista and I would get up at 4am or 3am, and I would watch Google Ads training. Facebook ads training that I'd figured out how to create viral videos and all this stuff are blogging, back then, and I would do this. I would wake up at three or 4am work until about six, so a couple hours. Sneak those in before everybody else is up and for me I feel like it's finding your rhythm. For me, I just enjoyed the feeling of waking up before the rest of the world. It made me feel like there was a secret power that I held that everybody else was resting and sleeping and slumbering, and I felt like there has to be something that I'm going to take away from this. There has to be a payoff someday. That took a long time for me but there was a there was a point where started to pay off, and then the, you know, I would, I would go to work and work, whatever 10 hours a day or something and they come home and do the same thing for five hours while everybody else is sleeping and drinking beer and watching TV. I was working right so I like that kind of mentality but I would put boundaries around it. Do I have the energy and then maybe I'll only do it for 30 days right so then, for some people they need that structure of, I'm only going to do this for 30 days so if I'm only going to do it for 30 days. Then, I'm not gonna just do this indefinitely and make my life chaotic, I'll do it for the month of June or I'll do it for the month of September, right. So, you're crazy busy, you are pumping hustling, tell us about the different styles of business stuff you're selling, like just tell us your journey of how you got into sort of selling things online.

SK: Well, basically I started off with Legendary. I finished the entire 15 Day Challenge. And after that, while the while I was going to the Mac I was following up on Mega vision really and different people come on every day and they have like different, different ways of modeling, and I can, I went through a lot of the videos and I've tried a lot of the training techniques and stuff. And one of the, one of the things that I really wanted to work on, like people's mental health, something to do with mental health, and I was kind of trying to focus on that at the same time and like I was just seeing different ways of how I can do that and then I went into software as well, because like I was I was a bit nerdy with computers so I thought I was just going to go into the software field, see how it goes. I went and found a mental health product, an online therapy, and other products. So, I went a bit crazy on that, and that's me off the ground. And then, and then I started with the software product. It was basically online therapy. And as soon as I sign up for 200 bucks, pretty much, and then every therapy session I will give 50%. And like I spent, I went through quite a few of them until I found something that actually I thought was helpful. Yep. So, that's kind of what could we have no, like, I didn't start off with any make money online niche I exclusionary started with, because I just wanted to be a little different from the crowd and see how it goes and I wanted to see if it works and I did do all that I did like when I started I was worked on time so I didn't have time to actually go and learn new things every day I was pretty much every single hour Australian taking some something new. I was reading a book and I was doing something else. And I reached the point where I think in two months, I've been grinding, and I made no money, and I could feel the burnout, like I could literally feel myself burning out like, there was nothing to do, there was nothing I can do. And I just like, okay, like can I just give up so I actually did. I did give up. I took a week break. I just did nothing for a week. I was like okay this is not going to work this coming up, but, but then like when reality hit me like I have to go to work, I wasn't happy at work like obviously I was working in retail at the time. And 10 hour shifts 10 hour shifts on my feet. Retail managers and you know how it is like getting customers. I've literally been covered by customers like every single day on a daily basis. So then I kind of noticed at some point that I'm actually good with people, like I can talk to people, I suck at copywriting I'm honestly gonna say suck at copywriting, I am terrible at it. Maybe, but not that good, but talking to people, talking to people, I'm really good at. So, that's when, that's when I started at TikTok about, you know where people said different quotes. So people have different quotes, they're not before the modulation but about like just little bits of quotes. So what I started doing was I started taking this course, I started taking animation videos from YouTube, and started joining them together. And that kind of blew up. That literally blew up like I think I went over about 10k In less than a month 10k followers. And yep so that's how it started.

Matt: What types of videos? 

SK: It can be anything like it can like the video, does not need to have a connection with what they're saying, pretty much, it's the reason for me going animation is attention seeking, like, it's literally going to grab your attention so there's something going on, even if like sometimes I would call video sometimes it's different animations sometimes 3d So anything that's going to grab their attention, and that you know how the dictum algorithm works so that the more people see it, the higher it goes, and like, it just started going straight away. And then, again, we Instagram that time. And what I started doing was I just started owning my TikTok, getting rid of the watermark, and putting them on Instagram. And that's the other going as well at the same time. So I was like okay that's actually working, and that was working and I had people start messaging me and they were talking to me they were asking me about how to do things, blah blah blah how I got started, and that kind of led me to because instantly, if you know Instagram and TikTok is like really annoying to text, they're like their messaging system is horrible.

What I started doing was, at one point, I checked my stops, all the links in my Instagram and TikTok, I did not put any link that there was only one link there, which would lead them directly to my Facebook Messenger. So anybody who wants to talk to me, they would go through me, and I could talk to them, I could. So basically what you do in a sales funnel is like basically treating them through the processes and so I basically made myself a sales funnel. I started talking to people. I know, I can't copyright obviously So following up emails is not going to be my best thing. So as they started talking to me the more they started talking to me, that's how literally my numbers went up, because I started talking to people, people started trusting me trusting the other person, and I, as I went through it I went to the point where I stopped sending anyone links. I literally would have liked to shoot a conversation without sending them any links, and I would wait for them to ask me. So I would wait, I would mention what I'm doing, but I would never say, okay, go, go do this, I will just mention it. And I would just leave it at that and leave it and like I would just build up their curiosity and what I've noticed, I've also faced is even like in in lots of places, people would just come and people would just talk bad about something and they would just send me a link and be like, This is good. That is good. I would just go there, I wouldn't, I would say what I'm doing. I will say what they're doing, I will say thing dividends, but never ever send the link. Like, I've just completely stopped that until I've asked, and I don't know if you know this, but like, last month I've literally hit my first 15k a month, and sent a single personal link before being asked.

It's amazing what, what, helping people and allowing people the space to make a decision for themselves. Right,

exactly. And the only thing like I think like there are obviously there are some leads and stuff which you know are going to convert. What I did was, every two, three days I would just go and I would just send a message ‘hey how you doing?’ that's pretty much like you know how to follow up emails, my Facebook Messenger became like literally my email list. I became the sales funnel. Right. So like, things that I was not good at and things I'm good at I kind of mix that up together, and just put that in and that's pretty much what's been working for me, like, yeah, that's pretty much it.

Matt: That's really cool, and I feel like it's a refreshing way, in the era where lots of people seem to be spamming their links on social media, and lots of people seem to be, how would I put this inserting themselves into a sales process a little bit, it doesn't fit. I feel like your approach is so refreshing.

SK: Yep, so I've actually had people tell me like when they reply like oh I can't believe that you've applied, like I've messaged so many people no one replies I'm like, it's just connected to my messenger and like my phone, like I literally have to put my phone on airplane mode because it just doesn't stop pinging now. Yeah, so that's just what it is like, I just got rid of all the links I got rid of all the funnels, I don't know, like the one thing that I do is like I just put in the opt in page opt in page of them so they can follow up with the funnels, with whatever I'm promoting whichever software even legendary so you guys do have your own follow up system, you guys hire copyright like professionals to write your copywriting, I am nowhere near that so I know.

Well, we don't. I mean, Dave and I read all of our copies, because you guys are good at it. I'll be honest with you if you haven't, practice.

Matt: Yeah, probably, probably the end but the minute I saw that I can talk to people like I can literally talk for hours and hours and I can read very close with people like a lot of the conversations that I've had, like literally went very deep with them. And like I can remember I can pretty much remember whoever so far, whoever bought anything from me. I can remember all the way from their kids names, so I can just, I'll just go very deep in that, and that's pretty much how it is like so they feel the trust in me. So you know in a sales funnel where they say like talk about yourself, blah blah blah. I just keep that and I just put myself in there, and through a meeting, they have questions like, they actually have a human to take from, and that will add together guys always say, people don't buy products people buy from you. And that, by that portion of the people buying from me, I am putting a lot of emphasis on that. And that's pretty much why all the hours, like I am, I know I'm working extra hard like I know I'm working a lot and like I'm talking to a lot of people every single day but it's working out. Yeah. Yep, and pretty much even someone I've spoken to yesterday, she just like she spoke to me for the first time yesterday she needs some help, and she was just amazed and she was just like, she couldn't believe how much I was helping. She's from she's actually from legendary she's broke she said he's gonna be on the line so I hope she is somebody I spoke, I spoke to her for the first time yesterday and she's just like, she was impressed on like that speech he was like, I just like helping people. And he helps lead me to something else that's good, if not, fair enough.

That's cool, that's cool and I feel like I sort of feel like there's this. It always feels over simplistic, but just helping people, is a real thing, right, and like, and, and this is not like some sort of cliche thing that, you know, people talk about just in this industry writer, it just didn't see affiliate marketing industry like when people remove themselves out of that. Right, there's, there's multiple industries and businesses that that principle is true. Here's an example. When I go to a card like an auto mechanic, okay and I'm gonna get my car fixed, those people are, just like some of the people online, they're known for. There's kind of sketchy tactics, and the, the, the auto mechanic, the first one that I found that knew how to look at me and say, Hey look, most people aren't going to describe to you exactly what's going on in your car, they're just gonna walk out to you, and they're gonna say this thing needs fixed. Here's the deal. And, yeah, and, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to walk you out into the shop, I'm going to point to every single thing that I think is wrong or needs to be fixed with your car. It's your decision to either do the research, or take my advice on what I think you would do. And if I think something's going to be good for three or five years and you don't need to fix it. I'll just be honest with you, and I'll just tell you hey, you could probably put that off for about two years, we'll put a reminder in our system to remind you in two years, hey remember that thing that couple years. Might be time, you know, Now to do it and then you can save while you're, you know you can save 10 bucks a month, and in two years, we can do it, you'll have the money, and the first guy that did that I still remember it was maple garage in Denver, Colorado, and I remember it because I've never had a mechanic do that for me before, and I never went anywhere else when I was in Denver I always went to Maple garage there near downtown Denver, and they were the best, they would actually describe things that things I could understand and they were so here's the word- helpful, right, they were so helpful. Take the time, just like you deal with that and this applies to any business is long as you are helpful, and you give good service, and you provide an actual real, tangible value to somebody, it changes the relationship now suddenly they're like, I can't even though you you're not getting paid for this. You're giving me all of your time and energy. This is crazy.

SK: I know like a lot of people, they think that they're trying to help people may not be coming over salesy but I have actually experienced it myself I have done it myself I have done wrongly, where I think I'm coming off sales, but I still like when I wouldn't reread my conversations now, at some point. So that's why I stopped, I stopped sending them any links because that is the ultimate way that you can show someone that you know sales. Like, I am genuinely just helping you. And that's what made the difference and I've noticed that with a lot of a lot of people, they just come off like that. And one of the most recent sales I've had, it was from someone who sent me a link. So they just like you know one of the first people who just like spamming with big links blah blah blah, send a message like, hi, man. How are you doing, that's what my reply he's like, yeah, the sales pitch again, and I'm like listen, I'm not talking to you about sales, I know you're doing a sales pitch but you're doing it horribly wrong. And then I tried, I actually like spend some time explaining it to him, I think it was like two, three days to him I did water steps and blah blah blah, and like he did some things, and he eventually became my customer, like he's a good friend of me now, and he's actually improving what he's doing. So, in the first couple of the first whole week I did not send a single link, and like I know people get like when they start talking to someone they're like oh I need a sale, I have to send the link somewhere. It doesn't need to be like that. He just, you just talk, you just talk, if you get a sale. If you don't get a sale you get a connection, that's what I say. It's either you either get money or you get someone to trust you, one or the other. 

Matt: Oh, that's deep. 

SK: But that's pretty much how it is, you may be talking to 50-100 people, you're not going to get 1500 sales, but I can assure you, right now I can get 100 people to do something for me, someone I've helped, I'm probably much more. So people who actually like who have gained their trust people who I have helped in the time people have not made any money from, like there are people have made money for someone else and I've helped them through this, like, even though I had no benefit of it, which I know like someday the future, they may they will come back they have come back to me actually like people that have come back to me like after three, four months when they see me doing something new, and they're like oh I wanted and I wanted from you. So, that can, that happens and then like within this time. Like, I've learned to get my own separate bubble as you call it, I just as I say like you do have the burnout I did have my own burnouts, I still have like some ice. You know when you just constantly keep getting tired when you're not sleeping, you're constantly just tired of everything. I've got my own separate bubble I've got people who actually motivate me to wake up to basically do things every day, people who just talk to me constantly people who just like the losers, there are some people I just go on phone calls with every night just to have a chat just to like freshen up, and they keep motivating these A B someone is texting me all day just checking up on me. People are making sure that I'm eating and that I'm sleeping, which I tend to forget a lot. That's pretty much just like the more you help people you actually like, build your own community and view your own trust. And that's, that's pretty much what's the difference between what I'm doing, what made me like what gave me success and like what I was doing when I first started it was like, I started from nothing, I had no idea how to do any. When I started it was just completely blank. Like I had to learn all that and I just, I just got rid of the sales sector is the human factor in it, so I just treat anybody the way I would treat them if I met them in a pub. It sounds revolutionary, but it also sounds very like simple common sense right yeah,

because once this, once the money starts coming people kind of tend to forget. They do tend to forget like, oh I need to maintain that paycheck. I did not make a month of money until I went through the lesson trilogy, like it is working for other people. I know like you got the funnels and stuff but I just put the human factor.

Matt: And I also feel like, you know, there's some people who are gonna sit on here and hear that and then what they're gonna say is, they're gonna say, Well geez I don't know if I want to do that forever but I also want to give you a tip, and give everybody else here tip. Eight you don't have to do that forever I talked about my, that's how I started. And I did that for a long time, a lot of messaging, tons of interaction, lots of just in the nitty gritty with people. And eventually, I sort of built to a place where I had enough testimonials right so all those people I just, I said hey, I don't know if you got any value from our interactions but I'm just wondering like, Would you ever consider writing, like, a couple sentences about your interaction with me, or creating like a short 32nd video about our interaction, and most people because I gave them the option of written or video. We're like, Yeah, of course, like you were so nice, and they write things. Here's the thing is though right things about you that you look at you're like whoa, like this person really like values what I gave to them and it helps validate what you did, but also, you can put that right on your pages, and what it helps to do is to automate, right, you can now start to automate because now that you've built a little reputation and brand. Now people are more likely to trust you and less manual labor has to go in, because you can sort of reap the rewards of what you need those seeds you placed younger out.

SK: So that's the it's just basically the starting off so I would say I'm still starting off but like level but I did have like people compliment me which is like, which kind of blew me away like I realize that they're seeing me like that, like, as you said, like you don't really see it like you're just helping someone and you don't see how someone else's.

Matt: And that's a powerful lesson. What a lesson for people and. Oh. Are you frozen? I think he might be frozen. All right, can everybody see me okay. Because I think SK might be gone but it might be me who's gone so I'm not sure. Okay, I'm still good. Okay. I think we might have lost SK. His internet might have gone out, so move him off the screen, and that's okay we can kind of wrap up. I felt like we kind of hit on everything we wanted to hit on there. And I think his internet went down so guys if you are newer, or if you're unfamiliar with our brand new, brand new Instagram five day Instagram challenge that we are doing. I want to share my screen here real quick with you. And just briefly remind you that this, This new Instagram challenge is really powerful. Lots of people are seeing great results on it, and you can go to the Legendary Marketer Facebook group, and you're gonna see it right away. Okay, you're gonna see it right away I just posted a link in the comments, and you'll see the Instagram challenge here, make sure to jump in on this Instagram challenge. We're going to wrap up for the day, and I hope you guys all have a great rest of your Tuesday. Oh SK, he's back. I'm going to give him the final word before we close out. Hey, I think we lost your internet but you're back, man. Just went out. Give, give the people a final farewell. Do you have anything to say to people who are just getting started creating content? 

SK: Yep, just, just go ahead and do it like my first videos that I've ever made, were just like me talking randomly. I had long messy hair, I didn't care about what it was like, as soon as you get rid of that fear like the first few videos you are going to be very scared, but get rid of the fear factor just put it out, and the world actually sees you in a much better light than you see yourself. So whatever you think yourself the world thinks 10 times better than that and that actually happens a lot. So, that's what it is and like if you're starting, if you're starting out selling some DVDs starting off even athletes marketing something. In the beginning I will switch to helping people, don't, don't try and sell switch to helping, and you're gonna see your results blow up I've literally seen people go from make no money for months to like talking to me and then making money in the first 13 days in the first one week in the first verse month, like, he will. That's not the mentality changing, everything's gonna change. 

Matt: Yep. I love it. I couldn't have said it better. SK thanks for coming on. Now we're also always here to help. So, if we need anything, Just let us know. 

SK: Thank you. 

Matt: Awesome. All right guys, that's a wrap for Tuesday. We'll be back here tomorrow with another guest for legendary at 10am, Eastern, we'll see you back here again. And let's, let's rock it we've got Susan here who just said she had less than 30 followers she's up to 50 had 1200 views on a video 800 on number two, and I can't wait to see where you're at in five days but I also can't wait to see where yet in about 30 to 60 days, because that's going to be insane. So, for everybody who's here. See, I'll be back here tomorrow again. I'll see you back here at 10am Eastern.

How To Start Your Affiliate Marketing Business From Scratch

 

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Matt: Greetings everybody. Welcome in, Happy Monday, and if you are here with us, and you're here, live. Welcome in, we've got a free Instagram challenge, starting at noon eastern standard time today. If you are newer in our community or if you haven't heard about this yet, I don't know how you haven't heard about it, we've been sending out emails like crazy, but maybe you haven't heard about it, and that's okay, we'll have another email going out here in about two hours. Or, let's see. Yeah, about two hours from now talking about how to get started and how to create your first piece of viral content fast alright so I am pumped to announce this brand new challenge I think it's going to create a lot of virality in our community, I think it's going to create a lot of virality for you. Alright so if you haven't seen it already, I'm gonna put a little link in the chat and Roxy if you can pin this link. This link in the chat goes over to Dave's introduction to our Instagram challenge. Alright, so he's got a short little introductory video. It's about five minutes long, and he talks about the challenge. And if you're in on the challenge if you want to be in the challenge you need to go to that post and comment. Hell yeah, Dave, I'm in. Alright so this little Instagram challenge is, we're doing it because we've seen a real opportunity in the market marketing is always just about opportunity it's about where can you get the most for the least amount of price or time you're either gonna pay for ads, you're gonna use your time for marketing right so either one of those two things and so on Instagram right now a lot of people are still on TikTok. Great. TikTok has been one of the most viral hottest trends over the last 12 months, or 18 months really that we've ever seen and it's still hotter than ever. I thought you know man maybe TikTok’s like gone down a little bit, no that is not the case we are still on our team right now, we start channels on TikTok in different social media platforms and test them just so we can test to see. Right, and so we've got one now on TikTok that are, I think, three out of the first four videos that we've placed over 10,000 views. We got 1000 followers in like three days, it was just, it's stupid, the amount of views and virality that you can get. Alright so for everybody who's here it is on TikTok, TikTok ain't dead. All right, think dogs. I mean, geez their role in rockin and rollin. But we are going to get this Instagram challenge rockin ‘and rollin' today so what's, what's going to happen is around noon today, there's out it's about a 20-25 minute video I'm gonna post in our group in our Facebook group. All right, give me a big photo, and in fact, you're going to see here's what you're going to see, okay, you're going to see this on. Let me share my screen here real quick. You're gonna see. Oh boy, I think this is it. Let's see. Yeah, you're gonna see this, I was just in Canva. You guys think I don't create my own stuff, I create my own stuff. All right. I was just in Canva creating this five day Instagram challenge photo. Okay, so you're gonna see this in the Facebook group here later today, about two hours from now at noon Eastern, and then there's going to be a link in the post, it's gonna link out to a little short little video, I'm going to walk you through tips to creating your Instagram profile, I'm going to talk through how to get great content ideas, and in that video. Towards the end of it I have such a good tip. Such a good tip for creating your content, it's stupid. Okay. It's one of the coolest little tools you're going to want to tune in and see that so make sure in the comments, there's a little comment I think it should be pinned. Roxy was in private chat with me and let me know if that's a pinned comment. So it's pinned at the very top there's a little post, go get on that post right now or after the wake up legendary show, don't leave the show for goodness sakes but and go comment on that post that you're going to be in on the challenge, the challenge is happening in our Facebook group that's where all of it's happening we're gonna be posting in there every single day. All right, so it will be in the year. Okay. All right, so it just

dropped this link here one more time just in case you weren't able to see it, or you missed it, or something like that. I'm commenting one more time here in the live chat with a link to our Facebook group so go get in our Facebook group if you're not already, and there we go. Alright, so today we've got an awesome guest, and let me stop my screen share here, there we go, we've got an awesome guest on today. As always, if you're newer to our community, we've got a. We do this Wake Up Legendary five days a week at 10am Eastern every single day five days a week, and we bring on a new guest typically every single day, unless you know something, an emergency happens and they can't make it or something like that. Okay. And today we've got an awesome guest, his name's Chris, I'm going to bring on Chris Chris, where are you from, man.

Chris: I'm an Oregon Albany, Albany, Oregon. 

Matt: All right, awesome, awesome. Well, welcome to the show, thanks for coming on, man.

Chris: Happy to be here

Matt: How's your morning? It's early for you to be up? 

Chris: Yeah, quite early, earlier than I'm used to our later use when I get up.

Matt: Alright, so bring us into your world a little bit Chris tell us a little bit about, you know, give us the history you know in your questionnaire you said, you know, for the last 20 years you've done some construction grocery things just walk us through sort of your experience of life how you thought about life, and then bring us into your whole internet journey and what that's been like.

Chris: Yeah. So, like you said, I've been working construction, most of my life started out I had two uncles that, you know, had contractors, or general contractors licensees and so I grew up around it, raised in the country on the farm, hard worker. I thought everything was physical work you know and that's what I had to do and

so I got a lot of jobs working with my uncle's. Most of it under the table at the time, then I got into adulthood. When I had to pay taxes and went and got a job working for somebody who wasn't in the family working construction, did that for 20 years probably 20 years, had an accident, shortly close to the end of my construction career where fell off with a two story house, and, yeah, shattered my school I was in the hospital for good six months, and then another six months of therapy, physical therapy, but because of that, I ended up having a lot of blackouts and seizures and stuff and so it was hard to get back into the workforce because everybody. Anytime I got a job I would be on the job work and all of a sudden just crash or pass out or seize up or something. So, it was hard to keep a job, or hold a job after having a very good work history, always, you know, everybody liked me. Prior to that, obviously, but I had a lot of trouble keeping a job so I had luckily I had a lot of connections to where I could do side work you know here and there anytime somebody needed something done, I could go remodel a house or or do roof or carpeting or whatever, and I was doing that for the longest time, and then pandemic, this whole pandemic thing happened in the end of last year, I, everything just started looking really, really sour for me so I ended up losing my job, the business that I was working for the company I was working for sold out. And a lot of the just every single employee was like at that point,

I couldn't find anything, it was right in the middle of it, endemic and I couldn't get it to work and anybody who knew about my past wouldn't hire me because they were afraid that something bad would happen. You know, so,

how that is a problem, ended up losing my house by two cars, my family that I had had kind of just fell apart. Wow. And, yeah it was it was a mess all that ended up happening between

November, the beginning of November and the end of December are just all just one big goals, that kind of a match, something I wasn't used to. I actually ended up. Yeah, I actually ended up, out on the street, I have kids and I know that if I went to them, they would probably help the dad out but I was too proud, I guess, and I didn't want my kids to have to raise me after raising them so right I didn't say much to them they didn't know much of my life or what was going on, they probably would have stepped in, but I didn't say nothing. I ended up with no house, no car, no job and no wife, and then I was on the street, on the street for. Oh, I don't know if mums are probably living on the street. I thought I was going to change my life into that type of lifestyle. At that time, and it wasn't fun, it wasn't anything that I would ever suggest anybody doing if you have health, I would definitely go get help. Because people are more and wanting to help you than you would ever think and don't let pride get in the way. But yeah, I just, I'm old fashioned and I didn't want my kids to help me out so it just so happens that when I was, I was, I don't even remember where I was going, but I was walking on the side of the room. Picking up cans and bottles. Oh, just prior to this, this event that I'm about to explain. I had purchased the program through Legendary. And I had no money. So a friend of mine showed me a checked on video, and I didn't have any phone or any computer or anything so I just sat there and watched it with him and it happened to be somebody, advertising for legendary, and so I said man that really looks good, you know, I talked to my buddy about it. And I didn't know how I was going to get any money. I didn't even have $7, you know, to go out and spend on it or nothing, so I actually decided at that moment that I didn't want to be on the street, No more. So, immediately went out and started collecting cans, bottles, anything, any way I can get money, and I went back to my buddy, and he helped me order it with the money that I gathered from, you know, pop cans and stuff. And yeah, we ordered the program for the 15 day challenge, and that's how I got started with that. And I was trying to do it as much as I could but I didn't have a phone or a computer or a laptop anything, I'd go to his house every once in a while, check in and do, or the 15 day challenge actually took me nearly a month to complete. Because of this whole scenario but and do it. Somewhere in the middle of the challenge. I don't remember exactly where. But, I was walking down the street black and pop cans, getting food or some money for food and drink and, you know, trying to get my stomach and my daughter, of all people, she was driving down the road and saw me with the backpack, walking alongside the road. And she pulled over and picked me up and she was pretty upset about the whole thing, kind of mad kind of sad. And she told me get in the car and now I'm sitting there, you know, it's not the most beautiful day outside, so of course I got in the car, and I was upset that my daughter had to pick me up, you know, and she said that I wasn't gonna leave on the street in the morning I was going home with her and. And that was, that was pretty hard to take in. Yeah, I support you. I supported my kids and didn't support me. So yeah, it was really hard but on the way to her house. Actually, in the car. I was so emotionally bothered by the whole situation I actually seized up in our car and started having seizures. On the way to her house. She pulled over on the side of the road and got some help, and called an ambulance, but got me to the hospital. Got me taken care of. After that we went to her house and she never get she never let me go back out on the street again. I love my kids and they love me. But that was a really, really hard pill to swallow. After that, I got to use her computer and things started to pick it up.

Matt: So you're taking the challenge and you're sort of like damn okay I see this opportunity. The interesting part, Chris, I'm just so fascinated. I don't know man, I mean, I haven't been on the street, I haven't. But I've been in a place where I technically had no money. I had credit cards right, so I was overspending on credit cards and, and, you know, I basically I was just racking up debt but I was kind of in that place where like technically I probably couldn't afford rent, technically I probably couldn't even afford gas, and I lived that way for a couple years, Just because I was working a minimum wage job and just didn't have money and enough financial resources, and it is just interesting to me, I'm not trying to trump your story or anything but for me too. It was like I'm gonna wake up at 3am before I go to work, I'm gonna sit here and watch videos on Google ads and educate myself on this whole digital thing because it's where the world is going. And I think, you know, for you to go out freakin pick up Hopkins and like, there's just a difference there that's interesting because I listen to and watch and witness and have witnessed over 10 years, people who are in the same situation as you are similar situation, and they say, I mean, can I get a handout, please, or Can somebody please, you know, can somebody sponsor me Can somebody pay for me Can somebody, you know, like, where do I find $7 Or where, you know, Where do I find $1,000, or you know whatever. And it's, I don't know I mean, you know, I just want to say like, you know, good for you, man. I mean, that's, that's a hard place to be in, and, you know. Thank God you've got the DNA that responded with, I'm going to fail, I gotta figure that something out, I have to figure this out and it's on me, because that's, you know, I just feel like sometimes I'm, I feel most blessed I'm not. Whatever I just that my DNA sort of says to me, Hey, man, time to figure this shit out. You gotta figure this out dude like what are we going to do here, and then figure it out because there's other times where people, their programming has taught them, you know when they get in that situation, I can't do anything. There's nothing to be done. And that's hard. That's a harder place to be in. In some ways it's easier because everything else is somebody else's fault. But in, it's a, it's a better place a healthier place to be in like I have to pick this up, I've got to figure this out. So kudos to you man. 

Chris: Well thank you yeah it's really, it's really a dramatic change. I actually owned my own house and both my cars, and with everything that had happened to me is just one pitfall after another. Very bad turn of circumstances that I didn't see coming, I'd never experienced something like that my entire life. My whole life I busted my butt I worked hard, you know, physical labor made a lot of money. No matter what I did. I was really, I was really I don't mean to brag, but I was really good at. Yeah, the labor part of my life was read into me. My parents taught me values of the 40 of the Rich Dad Poor Dad, Poor Dad scenario but wait, I made good money doing, and I didn't know much other than that. Yeah I did try online things you know but

Matt: I wanted to just like it because I read this book and you read the book. Well Rich Dad Poor Dad, it's a great one. But have you ever read the book The Four Hour Workweek? We've heard of this book,

Chris: I've heard of it. I haven't looked into it too much.

Matt: Okay, so this, it's an older book sort of soldier except for that but from about 2007 It's called The Four Hour Workweek and in the book, I would say some of the principles and some of this stuff might be just a little bit outdated. So, but, in the book he talks about a scenario where he says look, most of our lives are controlled by fear, but the fear itself is irrational. It's not tied to anything concrete, we're scared and fearful of things that are abstract and that, you know, we fear or we are scared of losing everything right but what would that actually, what would that actually be like so he does this exercise. This is crazy. He doesn't exercise where he says, for two days, I just, I just went out with nothing and just slept on the street, no money, no nothing. I just walked out in shorts, T-shirt, and had a blanket with me as a pillow. And I just like I was just like okay, and he just went out and he just said like, what if I didn't have anything that I own, what if I didn't have anything and he was, you know, he's, he's a very successful dude, so like he's now off of his phone, he's not doing anything. And he said, You know, sometimes we have this fear of losing everything, right, And he said at the end of the day though. What most people don't understand is on the other side of that is, you can usually pick up the pieces. There's, there's a new starting place, there's a new beginning. And sometimes it's, it's meant to be that way or sometimes it's, it's, there's, there's purpose and meaning in that whole process. And I just thought that was cool and it reminded me of your story because, you know, you, you even tight. You mentioned today for a title suggestion, like it's a new beginning right, and I just feel like some people on this show, like myself, even, like, I'll just be real honest. I very much fear losing it all, and I've thought though recently, you know, man, what if I did lose. What if everything was lost, right, everything, house, cars, every, like, your scenario, right, absolutely everything and I just, it's so inspirational for me to see you sitting here right here today. Now, you know, having gone through like a short little seven day challenge and then, you know, making your first 1000 bucks online like that's crazy, and you think how many people in the world. Don't hit that place, especially when everything is stripped from them. And what a cool inspiration.

Chris: I can tell you without, without any question in my mind that this your program at Legendary has completely changed my entire life, my entire thought process there, the knowledge I've been given knowledge that I've learned and continue to keep learning, reading books, I've been reading, I'm on another book now but it is changed my life so much that I cannot imagine, with the information that I now have. I cannot imagine ever falling into a place where I couldn't get out of it again. Right, and at one point, like there was no hope, not too long ago. Not too long ago, I felt like there was nothing no way I could do to change the way I can get fixed because nobody's going to hire me. I thought I wouldn't ever be back up there again. And there's, there's no words to describe what I have been able to take from this entire process and journey that I've had, it's, it's unbelievable believable, how much this has helped my life. It'll never be the same again. It will never be the same again. I got back into my family, and everybody took me in with open arms, and I knew they would but I didn't want that to happen. I didn't want somebody to take care of me. I'm the big guy, you know I'm the guy who's supposed to take care of everybody else you know. So, when everything started falling apart I was thankful that they helped me out, but at the same time I still had that pride in my head, you know. So, now I'm back to a point where people are coming to me and asking me hey what are you doing? What you were just on the street, not too long. What the heck are you doing, and they think that I might be doing something illegal but they may see how I'm dressed and how I, you know in living, and it's, it's completely, completely changed my life, even so much so that it's better than before, I lost my job, I mean I'm making more now I'm doing better now than I did prior to the entire event happening. So if this event did not happen to me I don't know if I would even be right now where I'm at. Yeah, it's just, it's, it blows my mind even for me to think about.

Matt: It's crazy. It's absolutely nuts. What, so now what I thought would be interesting or what comes to mind for me is that, as you got started, you get started in the challenge you start to create some content on TikTok was that what was that whole TikTok process like I mean, was it. Did you feel like creating content was tough? Was it difficult because you're at like what 13,000 followers or something.

Chris: Yeah, right now, yeah, yeah. I actually. It took me quite a while, it's kind of my story but it took me quite a while because what I did is I jumped on that train right away, and I didn't know anything about what I was doing. I didn't go and look it up on YouTube. I just started doing, right, and with nobody's advice I just jumped right in and actually asked my daughter, she does TikTok, well how do you do this, and she taught me the format of the whole thing. My youngest really. Yeah. And so, actually she's, she's a little upset because I won't promote her right. But anyway, yeah so I had to learn that from, you know, people around me ask my kids or whatever but it really started out slow because like I said I didn't go and look it up or anything like that so I'm moving really slowly. And then after I got some more advice and then I started studying it it really picked up for me really really really overnight. Once I realized how to do it. I just needed to look into a couple other people that were doing it and how they were doing it, that it didn't even take much effort, you know, really. TikTok is phenomenal as far as I haven't posted a post probably for good three weeks, because I've been trying to. I'm actually trying to do this Instagram challenge thing but I've been setting up my Instagram trying to figure it out and watch a lot of videos on that stuff but there's other things on the side, you know I'm doing side work to get in order to supplement what I'm doing here. 

Matt: That's an awesome man. Congrats, that's huge. What, uh, for somebody who's newer and or somebody who's got a following on let's say TikTok or something or they're, but they're newer to content they're new to getting started with that. What would you tell that person if they're hesitant to get started on TikTok and are hesitant to kind of get moving?

Chris: Well, I know from experience, it's really scary to be putting yourself out there, and my very first TikTok. I had been putting it off and putting it off because I made excuses for myself and I didn't realize until later that that's what I was doing, but it was because I was so scared to be in front of so many faces, and I didn't have a prompt on the face, there's no reason why not, why not to just I was scared to. My advice would be, what I get, was, I was so nervous. All I did was I just put the camera in front of my face, and I said, literally, these are my words ago, somebody told me to make a TikTok, so here I am making a TikTok. That was my first video, and I mean it was literally probably 10 seconds long, but it gave me encouragement after I started seeing a couple followers jump in and I hadn't really had any prior to that. It was just that one little short thing I had within a day 600 views, and that's a lot for your very first video I thought anyway at the time, and just those words. That's all I say, and it gave me the encouragement to do the next, and then the next and the next, and I'm encouraged a lot by seeing progress. I jumped on the train right away. But it's getting past your own fears, getting past your own fears. I think it is the biggest thing for most people. Agreed.

Matt: I agree, getting past that voice in your head that isn't really actually even all that defined. It doesn't even really have any sort of, I don't know. Yeah, it doesn't have a definition, it's just this sort of abstract weird fear that's out there and. Who is it, I don't know. Why do you care so much, I don't know, I just, it's scary.

Chris: The majority of people. Majority of people on this earth don't even realize it, but because of history and the way we've been, even just in the United States. It's almost been in our DNA to live in a state of fear, and regardless of what you're doing it doesn't, Doesn't matter. People are just in their minds, or it's embedded. They live in a state of fear, and they don't even know it most of the time. Yep. From experience I can tell you from experience that there is nothing. There is nothing I am aware of. In my wife, that is more fearful, to me anyway, and having my own kids take care. I mean that was hard. That was hard to swallow. So now I get motivated so I get really motivated when somebody tells me I can't do something. So, anytime somebody says, Great, You can't do that. That's impossible. I just, oh yeah, watch this. 

Matt: Yeah, totally. Well, cool, Chris, man. Thanks for, thanks for coming on. And seriously, your story is an inspiration. I think there's going to be a lot of people in this journey, who are really inspired by that Hey, make sure you go in on our Tik Tok, or our Instagram challenge this the next five days it's going to be fun, you've got some viral videos on your TikTok, man. Take those videos you septic God out, take those videos just strip them there and put them on reels that's an easy way to film get those things out so Curtis if you ever need anything man we're here and we're always here to help, but thanks for coming on, man. 

Chris: Yeah, thank you really appreciate it. 

Matt: All right. Okay guys, man I don't give him a follow all right his stories are inspirational, and it's just powerful. We're going to be. It's what is too much on and it's what is too much with the number much on TikTok, you can see it on the screen there. And just as a reminder we're doing an Instagram challenge starts at noon Eastern Standard Time. Today we are going to post in our Facebook group, and on this live if you're watching as a recording there's a pinned comment with the link to that post on how to get involved on that. Alright so, starts at noon eastern standard time today. For those of you who are here to rock and roll, we'll see you on the Instagram challenge. We'll see you back here tomorrow at 10am Eastern we're here every day five days a week 10am Eastern for Wake up Legendary.

One of The Most POWERFUL Ways to Identify Your Target Customer

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Dave: Alright my friends what's going on this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to another episode of wake up, legendary I can tell you, I'm feeling legendary this morning, there are some mornings that I am not, and I have to Wake Up Legendary I woke up, Legendary this morning. I already have been training how to have a great morning and excited to speak to our guests this morning, helped me to welcome to our show virtual stage. Okay. Ruben Hernandez what's going on my brother?

Reuben: Hey Dave, thanks. Thanks for having me.

Dave: You're welcome, man. You're welcome. Where are you calling in from?

Reuben: Wichita, Kansas, USA right in the middle of the country.

Dave: Man I don’t think I’ve ever spoke to anybody in Wichita, Kansas.

Reuben: Yeah, we're right smack dab in the middle of the country that is the air capital of the world, all we do is build these airplanes.

Dave: Okay and that's exactly what you've been doing for the past 25 years?

Reuben: That's exactly what I've been doing for the last 25 years. I am really not that happy to say that but, you know, that's sort of what my story is.

Dave: So you've, you've tried other businesses you've always dabbled. What led you to Legendary in online marketing?

Reuben: Well, like you said, I've been an aircraft for 25 years, and for the 25 years I've always had a side business. I had a vending machine business. I had a bounce house rental business for the last 15 years. I just sold a couple years ago and I was about to go full time with that. Okay, so I've always had, I've always had another side hustle on the side but I've never really had enough money to quit my full time job. Okay, so what happened was, when I had the bounce house rental business, I started to learn how to do web, how to do web. With SEO design, and that kind of stuff. So that sort of led me to, it was a natural transition over to like affiliate marketing because I already knew how to market my business much myself. So when it came to the point where I decided to walk away from the bounce house business, I got all these marketing skills and I have always heard about affiliate marketing but didn't know exactly what it was exactly. So that sort of led me just, just a normal transition from marketing my own business, to finding affiliate marketing. That sort of thing happened.

Dave: Gotcha. And how did things make sense for you, was it the 15 Day Challenge did you go through that and you got clarity and you decided that you liked our community and you were looking at other people that tell us a little bit about how you found clarity about what affiliate marketing was and why you decided to start with that business model.

Reuben: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Like I said, I was sort of a traditional SEO website builder. And so, fillip marketing was sort of backwards. I don't know exactly how to explain this when you're more one on one. Affiliate marketing made more sense because I could actually directly talk to the customer via, via a sales funnel instead of just building a website, just going to broaden that out there with affiliate marketing it made sense to me because I was able to build a little sales funnel and target the exact person that I that I wanted so he cut it, cut to the chase with your program, I was able to streamline exactly what I wanted target exactly who I wanted in the sales process made so much sense and it made my life so much easier through your course to ultimately get to the goal of what I wanted to do, if that makes sense. 

Dave: So it does. I mean if anybody's not familiar with, with, with SEO and building, blogs, I mean, you know, basically, is setting up a WordPress site, which is something that you know you need a hosting account, you can pretty much upload a wordplay, press site to that hosting account and you just kind of begin writing articles, you know, you begin putting content on the blog and you're targeting specific keywords or key phrases that people might be typing into groups or for example, you might have an RV blog. And so you're, you're going to write articles about what are the best RVs to buy. Under $50,000, you know because you're thinking, What will somebody type into Google, and then on that blog, maybe you have, you know, I don't know, a guide or books or courses or some sort of affiliate links out to various things that you're selling on that blog. And the challenge with that, it's a great model, but you have to be dedicated for a long period of time.

Dave:  Absolutely, and it's really a, it's, a solid foundation of a business, if you're committed to it for a long time, but it's slower than molasses. What else would you add to that?

Reuben: Yeah, absolutely, that was sort of what might be attracted to affiliate marketing was because affiliate marketing, actually, as you will know is passive income. So like you said, when I'm, when I'm building a website you know the SEO process is just slower, so it's time consuming, and with my story with me, still working a nine to five job and having to work 50 hours a week, you know, having to come home and then continuously building websites we can keep updating websites and continuously, the SEO world is always changing so all the changes where you have to keep up with everything. So it really is trading time for money you continuously are working what I was doing was creating another job for myself, you know, whereas affiliate marketing. My goal was to create passive income. Okay, and that's what the business model affiliate marketing does is it absolutely creates passive income, but my, my goal is I like to sort of join both worlds because I believe there's a place for both of them, as far as being an affiliate marketer building the simple sales funnels that are really automated and can create passive income via there but I think as a business model just in general, I think an affiliate marketer has to have both worlds because I think you have to have a website to act as a hub for your business. Yeah, so I think that's maybe the challenge that I'm trying to do is that I'm trying to join the two worlds where I want to have affiliate marketing, and have passive income I want to build sales funnels, but the same time I want to have a guarantee of a website for long term. For my long term goal of having an affiliate marketing, slash digital marketing business online and omnipresent, sort of ways.

Dave: And really it's just about driving traffic, it absolutely is, you know, so. So, in terms of your,

your approach, since you already know a bit about blogging and writing, and kind of ranking content online for various different niches or search terms, you know, there's, you can never have too much traffic, absolutely online. So, if we know that you're building up we just throw up your TikTok handle Ruben Hernandez on TikTok and you built that profile up to over 40,000 followers in a short while. And also, also we talked about multiple streams of income, but on the internet, multiple streams of income, what you what, more importantly, is a better thing to talk about is multiple streams of traffic, which you're also doing with still blogging, so we'll talk about that in a second but I want to know more in a second how your blog, what give us some tips on that but first, since you said that was crazy about the TikTok, 40,000 followers. What happened was crazy and how has that gone for you?

Reuben: I'm really not an outgoing person as far as being comfortable on cameras and I don't know how I'm doing now, but, you know, great, great, thank you for that. I have no idea what I'm doing I'm just sort of going on a whim here, but anyways once I found TikTok I just sort of got down there I just said what the hell just this let's see what happens right. So, the first I had some success I had a couple 1000 followers involved you know that's that's pretty cool. At the same time in my mind I'm trying to figure out, okay, am I going to go to ClickFunnels website and I'm going to go to WordPress website. So I had that in the back of my mind but I thought well I got plenty of time, you know, there's, I'm not, you know, the first month I really didn't get any leads for a couple of weeks so I thought I have plenty of time right. So anyways, I'm about to close to the end of the second month, I started getting another couple of 1000 followers and I thought okay, you know 2000 followers a month. I haven't quite figured out exactly how to do the sales funnel WordPress and stuff, but then at the end of the second month in one night I went to 15,000 followers in one night. So at that point, I was just blown away, not for one that, you know, we all have this complex if you want to follow me or whatever but it just blew my mind that overnight I had 15,000 more people that want to follow, you know, and then I was really failing forward, because at that point, overnight I had 25,000 followers but I didn't have my funnel set up, because it was a crossbreed sort of between a my WordPress site and then your landing, squeeze pages and sales pages that you provide, and I had a double opt in on there like I had leave an email twice and had an all messed up. But to answer your question, yeah with the traffic TikTok was a wild ride. I just continuously gained followers and, you know, and I'm trying to learn exactly who my market is because at first I was getting a lot of people that I was getting a lot of older people and then I was getting a lot of UK people so part of the challenge for me now that only driving traffic is trying to find out who the heck am I talking to you know who can relate with me and who I resonate with. So that's sort of where I'm at with that.

Dave: What have you discovered about who you're talking to and, and what are some of the looming questions that you still have that you're trying to answer right now?

Reuben: Well, one of the common factors. One of the common feedback that I get is because I'm an older gentleman, I think I come across with this trust factor so people tend to trust me. And I think that's, you know, I don't know my face or maybe just seem like an older gentleman whiter wiser guy not that I'm old. But I think that people trust me. To that effect, and I think that my biggest obstacle may be would just be to find that, find my target demographic so I can target them exactly and tuck exactly to them because I didn't really confused at this point, and I don't have any problem you know saying that because I'm trying to fail forward, because I love that phrase, trying to find exactly who I'm talking to so I can say hey, you know let three days, I'm talking to you, this is exactly what you need to do this exactly right. 

Dave: Yeah, well, I just want to give you some feedback on that question and on that on that issue, because it's, it's the answer for you, I think, is right there in front of you in the challenge that I think we have is we want to cast too big of a net sometimes, you know, we don't want to leave anybody out. And what happens is, is, you know, we end up trying to speak to everybody and we speak to nobody. And so I think that, I think that what's important, yes we need to figure out who we're talking to, but who. But if, if, let's just pretend that everybody was, was you, right, everybody knows you, just pretend that everybody was you everybody was your same age, and had your same challenges because are you marketing products and to make money online niche?

Reuben: Yes. 

Dave: Okay, so what's most important is, is that you understand the problems that the person is having that is would be interested in the, in the solutions that you're selling, right here that you're marketing and what those problems are, or those pain points are, are telling me what are the pain points that you have or have had that have made you interested in wanting to make money online?

Reuben: Okay, well, like I said before I've been with the aircraft company for 25 years, and it is a great job and I do have great benefits and I was able to support my family through the whole time. So in a perfect world, someone would say, Yeah, you got to make you get there, right, but I've always had this voice, I've always wanted to have my own business, I wanted to have my own thing, I wanted to live on my own terms. 

Dave: Keep going with that, talk about your story, tell me what you're paying for and points are.

Reuben: Okay, what would that what my point is, is I'm tired of always going into my nine to five job every day and not feeling fulfilled. You know I go in there, in the mindset of all the people there are just sort of just the humdrum going through the motions, you know, it's a factory blue collar setting, you know, and I'm walking around and I've always had with my head in the clouds so to speak. I've always wanted something more. I've always wanted to be for myself, I think myself not to go into my hope, not a victim mentality or my background but I know. I expect it. Dave: Don't be afraid to speak it.

Reuben: I can come from a little rougher background and a poor background and I know that I'm not sure I think I know that I broke the generational curse. You know, because I come from a line of people who have families that's poor, we really haven't had a lot of opportunities or a lot of We come from poor families. So with me, I broke the generational curse by having a steady job and raising my kids and I've been married for 20 years, so I've totally gone across the grain and changed everything right. So now even, even from that aspect whenever people say, from my neighborhood or from my area, they say, man, you know Reubens life is easy, but he got this big time job and you know, he because my job is and which is that we build aircraft that is a good job, packing it in, he's this he's that and then he came from the neighborhood and now he's doing this. But me, I still want more, you know, not only more for me I think it's my turn. A lot of people in this space don't want to work the nine to five for their whole life. I did it for 30 years, so I'm like the opposite. Yeah I'm looking, I'm looking to retire in the next three years, maybe sooner, though, the way things are scaling maybe sooner because I want to retire I want to do it for, for, for, for me, for my family and I want the freedom, and I want the opportunity to finally live. You know I've been putting in work for my whole family, which is fine. I've been working for a whole family, and they're all provided and they got everything, and they're good to go. And now it's going to be my turn. That's what I'm waiting for. Does that make sense?

Dave: Now I don't know about any of y'all who is listening in right there. But if I came across that video we just took that clip, and that was on Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, I don't care where I found it. Somebody just held a phone up to my face, and was like, listen to this guy real quick. I would be like, I feel that right now. I feel that.

Reuben: Well thank you that you actually brought that out of me I didn't know what I was gonna do this you know what was going on. Yeah, bring it out man cuz sometimes people are a little hesitant to bring it out you know I don't want to write it.

Dave: You see it's in there in, what, when you speak your pain points your own personal story about a product or you know, a why you pursued a particular venture product, you know, you know, I wouldn't I mean if we were sitting here talking about, you know, we were sitting here talking about a health supplement or a pill, and you were like, look, all my whole life, I've wanted to get ripped I've wanted this six pack I've I've walked around I took my shirt off and I felt embarrassed like I had a dad bod or a little flag hanging over land boobs or whatever, right, and now look at my six pack, finally got it, it's my turn. So, now, you know, you, I want you to check this out because it worked really well for me. So my point is that, that it's less, I got to figure out, less who exactly the person is that I'm talking to, and figure out more. What are my pain points that I can talk about that I can share? Honestly vulnerable, right, that I can, that when I share them, It hits other people in the gut, and then you know what the right people who are attracted who do trust you know what it might be an older crowd it might be a Hispanic crowd we don't know yet. Right. We don't know yet, it's less important to know exactly who I'm targeting and more important to figure out and go inside me, and bring up that good shit that's in there.

Reuben: That's making so much sense it's almost like I'm doing it backwards . Is he that's my analytical brain with SEO? I'm trying to target everything whereas what you said. He just brought it out on me that I need to just be me and tell a story, and then that's going to happen.

Dave: Yeah. I mean, be me, it is a generalised statement. It's, it's, I need to figure out a way to tap into some, some emotion. I need to tap into some passion. I need to tell a story. You know, that's what I need to do as a as a marketer, I need to, you know, I need to figure out what story can I tell that people can, that will touch on the pain points that people will say, some of them, ditch i i It's my time to I've been working my ass off for the boss, this job that I like that I'm grateful for, or that I hate that I know what it's my time now is I've put in my work, I've taken care of everybody else my entire life. And it's my time, you know what that does psychologically to people. It tests, from a marketing standpoint, right, because it's all about psychology, right, right, we want to, we do want to understand people. What that does, when I, When I told when I told the story that you just told us that taps into that sort of almost like nature of, I don't I'm not calling you self centered. Yeah, but everybody, there's a law of self preservation. Nice. Yeah, everybody wants something for themselves, right, they want to be first in line, they want the best.

Reuben: Yeah, that's exactly, you know, once I talked to my wife. My wife has been totally supportive. The whole deal is I sort of tell her because my youngest son is 15 so in three years, he's going to be 18 of course, so my daughter just started college now. Okay, and I have their colleges basically paid for. Okay, at that point in three years my son's gonna graduate. Okay, and I have everything all my ducks lined up in a row. Yeah, you know, so they're in my mind at the actual I certify, not that I have to justify so you know what I did, bam, bam, bam. Now, my thing, and then I don't think that's gonna be a problem because I've always been able to make money I've always been able to see the opportunity, like I said, the shoe wants foreigner, afraid to leave my job, but now I'm gonna be afforded the opportunity, because of this program because this community, the people that I'm with have been awesome they've been manager has been teaching me and it's just man so awesome right and I'm ready for me. 

Dave: Yeah, well I think a lot of people can relate to that, and it's, it's, for most of us who have tried things in the past, whether it was a vending machine business or whether it was, you know, it's, there's tons of products that are absolutely game changing life changing save lives, whatever that are sitting collecting dust on a shelf because the creator, the founder or the inventor, couldn't tell a powerful story about the product. Exactly, exactly. And so what we need to do is we need to figure out which is why my number one thing. For over a decade now, this business has been story selling. I need to figure out how to unleash that inner, you know, passion and vulnerability, and I need to be willing to talk about that, those ugly pain points that I might think are embarrassing or whatever, because that allows people to kind of relate and until I can get somebody to say, I am having that pain to see we talk about people's we touch on people's pain points and get them to listen to us. One of the best ways is by telling our own story, not just looking at the camera and saying, Do you hate your job? Do you hate your boss right? Right I mean because we can do that, but it gets old when we have somebody screaming at us, trying to just pitch us that feels like a pitch, absolute whereas nowadays, marketing, you know, native style marketing where we're just creating content like all the other content creators out there is better. It's better. It's better absorbed by our viewers, our potential customers. When we tell it in a less threatening way that lowers their, their, their buying defenses, because we're just telling our own story and that's why I asked you what's driving you what are your pain points. Now what's going to happen as you tell that story, and that becomes your message that you just told and I want you to go back and listen to this and I want you to crystallize this and clarify this, is you're going to see the people who resonate with you, there will be some commonalities with your customers, you know maybe there'll be Hispanic as you said maybe there'll be 40 to 60, maybe 50 to 55 We don't know yet, but that's less important to focus on them right now. Right, And more important to figure out how to unlock some of these hesitancies that we have to communicate a powerful message and a powerful story is that,

Reuben: That makes so much sense and then with all the different social media platforms out there, it makes it so easy to be able to be able to relay that message out there, you know, just like just TikTok, and I started reaching out on Pinterest and Instagram reels like, like, well, of course you know a lot of people are doing that, but, but yeah now I feel a lot better. That made me come out and say it because I was probably lacking in that area. I was probably lacking in the area of them saying okay, who's this guy that's on TikTok pointing around saying you're tired of work he is tired of this. And instead of being the genuine mice myself and, you know, I do have a story to tell, and this mine is genuine, it's going to resonate with somebody, so I'm learning a lot right right now like I said, I'm loving it, right, right now you're throwing knowledge right now. I love it. 

Dave: Well, it's just an experienced man I mean, absolutely. You know, it's just being in the marketing game for a long time and in, you know, just seeing what works and what doesn't and after a while you just, I have focused so much, so many times on other stuff over a decade, and, and what always works, what's built this company what's built other ventures in the past has always been that powerful passionate, vulnerable, let me tell you my painful story, what it was like, What happened and what it's like now. And so you can, because my listeners are in that first phase, like there's that painful place to where they haven't found a solution yet. And when I tell them what it was like, what happened and what it's like now, selling the structure that heroic journey story I unlock. You know, I unlock a connection between me and my viewer that nobody else has with them, because everybody else is out there, you know, everybody else is pointing and doing all right. And, and, and that's cool, that's that that works to a certain extent, it gets you started, you know the pointing and the music and the trends and so forth that gets you started that gets you kind of from that kind of that that zero to like to like that level one or two, but to take it to the next level, you have to begin to build your brand identity. 

Reuben: Exactly, that's what I'm working on now. 

Dave: You understand?

Reuben: Yeah, no, that's exactly what it is, as I've said, I think I've been fairly successful with the pointing with the driving traffic which have and all that but now I'm at like, Okay, now what, and that's where I go more to the point where I think that one thing I'm going to be able to offer to potential clients is not only getting them started with affiliate marketing, but building their brand and building omnipresent via a website and learning how to host and learn learning how to build your business and an operating from from one centralized website.

Dave: Yeah well you have a lot to offer. I mean, just like the majority of us have a lot to offer. It's just kind of like that, that life changing product that I said that so many people have invented or the skills that they have, but they don't know how to market it so it just sits on the shelf or it stays inside of them. You have a lot that you can package, and offer both as an affiliate and also as your own course creator coach, or running your own events virtual or live right kind of core four that we teach here you. You have a lot of knowledge and a lot of information that you could charge for easily. Okay, easily, and I, this is not a guarantee of income, but easily generates a six figure income, I mean that's the starting point for you based on what you know and how you could add value to other people's lives. That's not the problem. The challenge for you is to dial in that message to attract people to where you become the hunted. Instead of the hunter, as the way that you do that is now that you've done the pointing and the music's and the trends and you've gotten a couple of videos to go viral, You got a little bit of a list and a little bit of a following. The next step is you need to develop that brand identity, like I said, which is Reubens own, you want people to be thinking about you. I want to do business with that guy because I relate to his story. He makes me feel comfortable. I trust. And, and I and I know him because he's told his story. I relate to it. I've. He's been where I've been. And this is the guy that I want to connect and work with. Does that make sense? 

Reuben: Yeah, no it does because I think that I do resonate with a lot of the people that are in the nine to five, drive, drive because I am a blue collar worker as well. And I do do like a lot of people do I don't get up at five o'clock in the morning and work 10 hour days, and work this Saturday, so there is a trust factor when they are sure that somebody, you know, knows that that I'm going through the exact same thing they're doing. I'm making sure I'm waking up sometimes a couple hours earlier or staying up late or when everyone's asleep to put the work in to try and accomplish where I'm at, or what I'm trying to do.

Dave: Well, you are a trustworthy guy brother, and you are a guy that is worthy of listening to following and doing business with pain, pain premium fees for your knowledge and your advice, and, and what's most important in combination with dialing in your message and your brand identity is continuing to build your belief, because for you to be able to, this is a challenge for all of us we have to believe that we are worth a $5,000 price point, the question is, what's your hourly rate, you know, that's a question, it's a mental exercise to say, right, somebody asked me to work with them right now for a half a day, what would I say my fee is, you know, and it's a mental exercise to, to, to, to look at how much do I believe I'm worth. And can I confidently without hesitation, without laughing without looking down without I mean looking somebody's dead in the eye and say, that'll be $5,000 If you want me for a headache consulting, right, because it's a lot of people think that selling high ticket stuff is about the tricks and gimmicks of sales funnels and all this kind of stuff. It's 1,000% it's what Well, let me say, 1% of it is that it's the mechanical stuff, 99% of the dynamics, it's the confidence in the belief in yourself, and the belief in in the conviction that you have when you tell them the price, and what it's going to do for them, and then not have to act, desperate, not have to beg just say this is what it is, if you want it or not, if you don't, there's other people out there who are will be willing to pay that, that the next level of building you in your business in your brand what's coming up for you as I say that?

Reuben: Yeah exactly how I'm going to continue to, to go through the process of what I've already built. I'm going to, I'm in the process of writing an ebook to use as a lead magnet to sort of help give more resources, and of course I'm building a website, all about all about affiliate marketing. So my goal now is just to continue to drive forward, and the community I can't talk enough about, but how much help that I'm getting just with with you spit knowledge today and just everybody that it's just, I'm getting all the help I can and I want to in turn help people as well, doing that but my endgame is to, to, I know everyone says this and everyone's familiar with, with, with Calvin Hill, you know, but that sort of I think I think that's sort of how my direction is going to go because he talks a lot about the WordPress sites, he talks a lot about doing the SEO and being out there so I think my long term game is going to be the affiliate marketing niche to make money online of course but, but, broadening it out a little bit more with the with the website, SEO, and helping people, not only start affiliate marketing business we have a 15 day business challenge, but also a built a brand builder built their business. Yeah that's my goal.

Dave: Well brother, the sky's the limit and we're here to help in, you know, take what we talked about today, put it into action, come back, and let's keep working on it. Let's capitalize, keep clarifying the questions that you have and see sometimes it's just and this is the power of, you know, call it coaching mentorship feedback, whatever you want. But, you know, sometimes, a quick conversation, a little bit of feedback, a little bit of perspective can make all the difference in the world to give you the clarity that you need to now know, you know, the focus.

Reuben: There's other people that I've that I've talked to that's in the same space, and just a little bit of feedback that that they gave me on what I'm doing, necessarily wrong or I'm doing right, but the feedback has been huge, you know, for me, and that really helps just like today I'm taking away so much information, taking away so much knowledge it's going to help me moving forward. And I just know after this, a lot of people are gonna reach out to me and say hey, I saw you on the show. This is what I think are this this that and that's only going to help because, you know, lots of times when I first came into this space you'd hear people saying that, I'll just want to help people you know I really want to help people and at the beginning you think they're probably not genuine, they're just saying that. But really this community, your, your community to build that we're a part of really does help, we reach out and in turn, I built that man, that man mentality. I'm not just saying, I want to help you but really meaning it, I mean who does that shit I you know I really mean it. You know, because the change is just making my life. And everyone says this and it sounds cliche like yeah whatever but the changes making in my life on my bed I want to have. I want you to have that chip, real, you know, and I'm being honest, I'm just saying. It's crazy.

Dave: Well, and, I mean, people can tell when you're genuine and when you're not Not I, I feel your genuineness and it's also the beautiful thing is, the more value that we add, the more we attract income into our life, we give, we have to deliver value, and then ask somebody to do something. So I'm going to give you this value, I'm genuinely here to help. And if you want more than go check out my course, Right, or if you want one, and that's gonna have to blend. You know, giving value but not becoming just people pleasers right because that was a lot of what you were talking about in the beginning of the show was, you know I've done so much for so many people that now it's my time. Well, he is correct in the formula for taking this business and blowing it up to the moon is, you know, doing whatever I gotta do to get my business off the ground which you've done pointing to the trends. The music. The TikTok viral videos but then developing that brand identity, and adding value telling your story and giving invitations and recommendations for people to come and get more from you, by following your recommendations buying your courses, going, and, you know, taking your recommendations for the products that you're promoting so you know. Look brother, you're on the you're on the path, you got the passion to you got the excitement about it you're, you're, you're open and humble and willing to take the feedback, and I appreciate you being so open for the feedback because it's helped a lot of people on the show today as well who were just listening in, so I'm sure everybody is very grateful for you being so willing and so and have taken action that we can actually give you feedback on. 

Reuben: Absolutely, yeah thank you for that Dave I feel a lot better. I mean, I didn't know what to think, coming into this of course, you know, a little nervous but I feel comfortable with the way this is going and, and just the fact that you were able to bring out what was inside of me. You know what I mean and I think that resonates with the people just being genuine and just trying to do the right thing and trying to just push push forward. 

Dave: Yeah, we'll keep up the great work. All right, brother. Have a great Friday. Thanks for sharing your time with us. Okay, come back and see us here in a couple of months, and let me know if there's any other ways I can help, okay buddy. 

Reuben: Alright, Dave, thanks for having me. Alright, see, Ruben. All right my friends go follow this man, RuebenHernandezJ1 on TikTok, get connected right, lift them up, give them some comments, give them some likes, give him some feedback, you know, reach out. Alright, that's what this is all about. It's about, you know, lifting each other up supporting each other's ventures and businesses. We'll be back for another episode. As always, on Monday, have a fantastic Friday, a Legendary weekend. Get out of here, change the world, start by changing yourself for. All right, We'll talk to you on Monday. Peace.

How To Build A Side Hustle Business That Pays Hefty Commissions

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary episode today with a guy from down under. As they say, at least here in America. They say that over in Australia but this, this guy is somebody who is a blue collar guy, just like myself. I'm just a few years ahead of him in this online space. And he is quickly working towards a better life for he and his family just like most all of us are so with that being said, let me welcome to the show Simon Clark what's up brother? 

Simon: What's going on man, oh man I'm excellent thanks for having me

Dave: The pleasure is all mine, my brother. The pleasure is all mine. So, what time is it there in Sydney? Is it 10:10pm?

Simon: No, a few minutes past midnight is looking to be like.

Dave: Thanks for staying up for us bro I know you get up early.

Simon: I wouldn't have missed this man, this is a long journey, long, like I started in April, and learning everything up until now, I remember from like, I think it was April 18 And then I knew I said I was going to be on the show, like many other people have come on the show and I watched the show every single day without fail, might put me in the best state of mind frame of mind to be where I need to be do what I need to do. And yeah. 

Dave: Wow, man. That's awesome bro. That's awesome. I love to hear that. So you started in April of this year. Yeah, yeah. All right, I'll talk to us about just that beginning journey I mean, what led you there and how, how did it kind of all happen, how did you get started?

Simon: 2020 I was baggage handler for from 2011 to 2020 so for years I was doing baggage at the airport, and obviously the pandemic, big effect with us, and we got the snip, and it was the best thing that ever happened, like at the time I was freaking out right but in hindsight, it was the best thing that could it happen. So I sat at home for six months for those six months and I ended up searching for jobs, freaking out, you know that as the story goes, and I finally found work in a warehouse, doing just forklift driving. My hands are like callous to the death robot permanent like, just me and I cannot get this grease out of my hands me and so it's just, it's, you know like, and working in high views, especially outside of Western Sydney, and it's like the blue collar area, you know, it's like the rougher area of Sydney. And in saying that the workplace is the workplace, but it can be toxic. And this warehouse was, I've been there for over 10 months now, and I'm still full time just pumping it, but it gave me that push that I needed to search for No, because I always say, Man, I hate, I hate my nine to five, I hate it but I hate it. And I never in my life. I never read a book, bro. My mother was always telling me, pick up a book, don't don't get involved in the bullshit that's going on, you know, don't run with your friends and be crazy, you know, and get into mischief and whatnot tonight yeah yeah. And so a lot of things happened, I lost my mom, I lost my dad quite, quite young, and from financial situations like financial struggles and stuff kind of couldn't figure out why so many people have been shit together when it comes to their finances, and some people don't. So I finally thought about my mom and I picked up my first book, and it was all the book called Barefoot Investor. That book led me to Rich Dad Poor Dad, that led me to thinking Grow Rich, then. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. It's just like my mind started exploding also like people actually have done this, and people like to document this, so other people can learn from it, it was just, I never read a book with my wife and my mind just opened a whole new world. And it shifted my entire mindset on how I look at money especially after my rich dad, poor dad, and being in a container on unpacking shipping containers for a living at this warehouse, so it's 1000’s of boxes, we're just talking about the pallets monotonous work that is boring as hell. But with the boys, the conversations mostly consist of you playing on the pokies, you go into the pub you're having to be, you're going into a fight on the weekend, you lost all your money, Iraq back up at work. Can you do the same shit over and over and over. And, um, they're like hey man if you live like you stepped on our book like, and they're like, you know. 

Dave: So, and, wow, that's, that's really stumped and man, I mean, information really expands right it's like, it's almost like us humans are like a sponge, and we get so dried out, You know, and then knowledge is like water, and when we finally, when we finally get some. It's like we, you know, if, if we're open, if we're ready for it. We just soak it up right.

Simon: A lot of it is timing at the right time, you know, a lot of things in my life started coming together and this information. They're just, it was mind blowing. So, in short, up, went to Google, how to make money online, started seeing drop shipping Amazon FBA, all these things popping up. And I finally found a review of a drop shipping course that I was going to be looking at getting into, but they were asking for so much money up front and I was like, this is not rock rocking with it. And at the end of the video. And it was a fellow called Jason Foster, he's been on the show before, and that guy's a legend, shout out to Jason for racing from Jamaica. Yeah man, Yeah. This year, champion, so I linked with Jason and sort of asked him like a marketing you talking about, and he guided me through it step by step.

Dave: How did you find it? How did you find his stuff? Did you find a video on YouTube?

Simon: I was never on TikTok. TikTok like, I'm not gonna download what is the purpose of that, like for years. I was DJing, like often, I don't really talk about it online as much, because it's like an alias. But I created a solid foundation in DJing in Sydney, and a big following where I was like, hustling mixtapes through Facebook, through Instagram, always creating content for my DJing, but it was never making enough, and especially when the pandemic hit. It was never, you know like, I was like, what, what else can I do I know I can create content. But how, how else can I, you know, one of the MSI multiple streams of income, the income generating activities and whatnot you know want to say like Rob, have been harassing me for way so a few marketing is like, it was just mind blowing to me, it was mind blowing. And it's yeah it's very powerful, very powerful, very nice. Anyway, so, so, from Jason did you go through our 15 day challenge is that what happened and then. Okay, tell us about the next chapter. Okay,

I found the 15 day, and that was the whole thing, it was like seven bucks and I'm also kidding and expensive to sleep so jumped in, in several bucks come through the 15 days, shout out to Bonnie she was the business environment. And when I got to the end of the 15 days I was like, okay, backseat, my car but now it starts, and all of a sudden, from April to June. So for two months I was like, getting ready to get ready, putting it off like seating me like too scared to jump in a fight. Okay and then I finally was done, and then one day I just once I hit post I racked up all these videos with TikTok already had 60 videos really bang, he posts. That's just started. He posted again posting and posting and I was like, once I was in it and running in the, in the marathon I'm like y'all want to come doing this, and then I started seeing things happen, And over code, and then a commission control. I'm telling y'all like. So, that's my honest man like this is me like my Mrs. is gonna be like, I know you're on Wake Up legendary but she took a while to come around. And then once she started saying commissions, you see. Okay, keep going, keep going. 

Dave: Yeah now that it's almost like my story to a tee. I think people for, I don't know how people view me like I really don't. I feel like some, you know people on some pedestal or something, but it's like what you just described is exactly what happened to me. That's exactly how it happened. It was just some time ago, and not too long ago like 10 years ago, something like that. 11 years ago, whatever. And, yeah, same exact thing man I was just I was, I got a couple of leads first and I was like what, and then, because I mean I'm chasing people around, doing network marketing, you know what I mean and I was 25 years old and I was offline chasing people then when I came online and I started generating traffic and getting getting leads and then I made my first commission I did the same thing with my wife. She was super skeptical and then, you know I got like a commission of $2 and I was like, you know, could have thought it was, you know, millions of dollars but yeah it's great, it builds that initial confidence and so what, so that, April, May, June, but basically you You screwed around for and got ready to get ready as you said for two months, so that would be, April, May, June, so July, I mean, are you talking about basically the last 30 to 45 days you've really started kind of.

Simon: Yeah, so from June 13 I've just been tracking and writing down like everything. Like, I found out about Power of Publish. Calvin Hill started seeing the, you know, people that are really, you know Brian Brewer and whatnot. I mean, Darryl Grey Jr, a young fella. Yeah, it was just it's amazing to me but what's even more crazy is like people doubt, like that imposter syndrome that you guys talk about, and I had that, but at the same time I'm like wow man like I've done great things I can do great things and I can achieve great things like, I truly believe in myself like I tell my children and they’re young, like a four and an eight year old and I instill that in them you can do you can do amazing things with your life, you can do anything, You know it's, it all comes down to that.

Dave: That’s really important man. I mean, you know, it's, it really does. The, the, the most successful people in the world are oftentimes, those who simply just have the confidence and the self esteem, to be able to go after something and try and really just get in the game, you know, I've watched so many people from my life who are so wildly talented skilled I mean masters at their craft, but they just lacked the confidence they lack of belief within themselves. And so, although people don't want to read the book don't want to work on the mindset, don't want to, you know, we have so many people who come through our, our training and are just like, I'm waiting to see if this is BS, you know, I mean, they're they're looking there, they see that we're selling other advanced training for hundreds of 1000’s of dollars and they're offended, like, I can't believe this. You know, and it's like, if you would educate yourself by reading the books by learning marketing by expanding your mindset. And, you know, developing a mindset of abundance versus just such a mindset of lack, then you would see it, in being learning from other people who are marketing now as I learned marketing, instead of looking at the world in this confused way like how are they making money, how are they so successful. Is this a scam? I started to look at things and say, Wow, that's really interesting how he just how he just use that angle at that car dealership or I would look at restaurants and say, Wow, what's really interesting, the less options they have versus these restaurants that have huge menus like Taco Bell or like a Five Guys Burgers or a Chipotle where they only one type of food, they tend to do better, that must mean, because people have less options they get less overwhelmed, and probably also in the back of the kitchen, there's less things to go bad, right, I just started looking at the world differently from a mindset of business in marketing, and I realized that it wasn't that I was getting cheated, it wasn't that people had an advantage that I didn't have, it's just literally that they do things that I didn't know and as I began to learn them. And as they began to build my belief that bigger things were possible, even for me, that this little $1,000 I had in my bank account wasn't the last money I was ever going to have in my life and I needed to protect it and, you know, nobody got it from me right nobody can get this $1,000 Thieves and scammers right instead. Right. It's like money to invest in me because this meant that I can make, whether it's $7 or $7,000 the best investment that I know is, In my education, and it's not particularly in college, you know, I just, I made this joke to my wife because a friend of ours just graduated who is literally the worst communicator in the world, and in, in, graduated with, like, you know, a master's degree in Communication I'm going. College is a scam, this, this is, this is bullshit. You know this is incorrect, but the education from one person who's succeeding like yourself to me, or me to you, is the real world. That's the, I think that's the way that people, That's where we need to seek our information now and 2021 and so you're doing that right now and you describe your work environment, what is that like for you now to be around people talking about the same old shit all the time. Are you like, Is that becoming intolerable?

Simon: It's hard to make it. It gets harder and harder to rock up and be there and be around it every day, but I use it as fuel, like, regardless, I just use it as a fuel bike. For instance, let's say that like this is slightly off but it's still on the day that I posted my first, like TikTok you know, in doing whatever. The day I posted it. I'm like no one's going to see this, it's not going to happen. And I walk into work on the Monday, I posted it on a Sunday 13th of June, I walked in on a Monday, and one of the boys ran off and he's like, so you will take four bro so you clear off occurring on anybody knowing about any of these, and I was like super, you know, so, what gets what I'm saying is like to use it as fuel is like. I'll come into work and the boys are talking about the same old same old like it is bickering in between or the boss isn't paying me he's not doing this for me, that's what I wish. It's bullshit like this is our wives like like she like where I'm like, bro, like, you know you can do you can hustle another way like I worked with one fella, and God loving men, one of the, one of the, one of my best my stays is a good dude. Yeah, one like I've tried to tell him I'm like, bro, check some invest $27 or 20 bucks into your brain and pick up a book, or go check out this book my rich dad poor dad man it's switched everything on how I'm looking at things, and he's like gay but I need more hours bro, I need more, I need more hours this is bullshit and I'm like, bro, like, come on man. It's not the analysis bro it's not about, I'm like the Cashflow Quadrant. I'm like, his employees they're self employed, and they like the cash flow what I like on my bro, you want to be a business owner, and an investor. I'm telling you man, I'm like, I'm there, I have a pen. I get the copper box. We're chucking it onto the pallet and I'm writing the Cash Flow Quadrant on the box and I'm like, boys, I'm like boys, have a look. Have a look problem, and then like, what is this you're like you're crazy dude. 

Dave: Like you're worshipping the devil or something. 

Simon: Yeah, and I'm like, bro, it's Robert Kiyosaki and Robert Kiyosaki isn't his weapon. Anyway, it's hard. It's hard to, it's hard to rock up every day and do that but at the same time, when the negative comments come from the boys that know what I'm doing. It never comes to my face but I know when I leave, and then come back. You know sometimes it's you know, there's talk or it'll get back to me and I'm like bro like whatever man like, Bro, I can show you how to do this stuff like this, right, right, I'm helping me, and a song you know. 

Dave: Yeah, I think we have a hard time. It's sort of like growing up when somebody is like I used to tease the girls that I was into, right, yeah. So So in a sense, but that was still hard for probably those girls to deal with me right, I mean it's not it's not easy. When somebody is teasing you, we, as human beings, have a weird way of going about being jealous or being actually interested. A lot of times, what I find is people just have a hard time, you know, humbling themselves and saying, I actually look up to you for having a set, and having some guts and doing something different instead, you know, but instead so they come across and we'll we'll make fun of poke fun of, you know, give. I think that's a real common thing I think that was spot on that, that we feel embarrassed like we don't want anybody to see us and I think the reason why is, is because we know how people are going to react to us trying to do better our lives, we know they're going to say, oh look at Dave he thinks he's better than he thinks he's smarter than you know, I think, I think, you know, I think. I know that in order to be successful, you have to be willing to walk through that uncomfortability of what people are going to say, the jealousy, the hate you have to be willing, what's coming up.

Simon: So, getting uncomfortable, getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Yeah, and it's like, Man, I love that. I love that because it's like, I pick my uncomfortable. I have to, like, you always say my beauty in the shows, you know, you got to pick your heart. Both paths are hard and painful. It's hard being rich is hard working the nine to five or doing all this is, is, is hard both is hard, and a formula like this. Get screamed at Brian my supervisor that belittles me on a daily is always an article, but a lot of the time you'll play the power card and he'll, he'll ensure deal with the boys talking shit or break my son's heart because I'm coming home late, I say, I think for like two minutes, and he's like, why are you always working, why you're like why are you always working on working for you man, but at the same time I'm like I'm doing things for to not have to do this for the rest of my life. So it's like, what else is hard on the other flip side is like the TickTock comments people that are coming in the comments and like you're a girl. You don't know what you're talking about, you're Derrick. Oh, these these I'm throwing some Aussie slang at you man like you. 

Dave: Right right right. Yeah. And he's like, looking up like the words like what is pokey mean what is on the on the right,

Simon: You know, but it's, that's hard but at the same time, I'd rather not have to scrub the grease out of my hands. For the, you know,

Dave: And kids don't understand man you know like when you have worked for you they you know they don't understand and quite frankly they don't really care, they just want to spend time with you.

Simon: Just play Nintendo with me man, like, yeah, that's yeah.

Dave: I, you know, I, I'll say it just in case anybody hasn't heard it, You've got to pick your heart, you know, being being being broke is hard and be in a work in a job for a boss that you hate is hard being poor is hard, it's hard. It's really hard, and being successful being wealthy is hard too, it's hard in a completely different way. Both, but there are similarities. Both require a lot of work. It's different work though. For me, the work is very different today than it was 10 years ago, 1112 years ago when I was so broke I couldn't afford to pay attention, you know I worked a lot harder back then. So you got to pick your heart, you know, I think for being broke in poverty. The hard thing is, it's both mental and emotional, it's also physical but I can promise you being successful. The heart is mental, it's mental, you know what I mean. So, so, you know, for me being poor means physical hard Ness, I got to be out there digging ditches, I got to be working in the sun 10 hours a day, I get to be eating shittier foods, you know what I mean, I gotta be sleeping in a shittier bed. Right, I gotta be sleeping in a bed that's uncomfortable that has springs poking through it, that's how you sleep springs broken through it. I remember sleeping on my mattress that was just laying on the floor. When I was starting, when I started this internet marketing journey my mattress was on the floor.

I’ve got like, 30 new crates with zip ties in the mattress, and I'm like, it'll do for now, but it doesn't have to be forever you know I can change.

Dave: Now, one of the things I value most is my Sleep Number bed. You know, it's a $10,000 bed where I can adjust the frickin firmness and my wife can adjust her. It's, those are the things right. A lot of times we don't understand. We don't really realize what it means to have money, how does the quality of my life improve? The reason why we don't know that is because we've never experienced it before. Right, so we can't even imagine. Wow, what it's like to sleep on a bed that has the ability to adjust its firmness by a, you know, just, just, you know what I mean I mean, just a couple of of whatever you would call it I don't even know, know what the fuck, I mean, but, you know, or to eat a better food just uh but not have to eat McDonald's every day or, you know, I mean just to feel better, you know, to be able to pick up we have Uber Eats I don't know if you guys have that over there but I have a clean, eat this this food, it's $10 a meal but it's it's they deliver it right to the door. I never have to worry about whether I'm going to, you know, the delivery fee, you know what I mean. So I can just keep working, you know, The food just comes to the door and then I just eat a clean meal, and if I was to me that shitty greasy ass meal which I do sometimes. I got to ship for 24 hours, you know,  I'm, you know, I'm blowing up, you know. Yeah. So, but so I think that, that, you know, the quality of life that we I was talking about the hardness how the heart it's hard to be poor, but it's also hard to be successful and wealthy, that we have to choose our heart, which, what, what have what hard do we want. And and and I, you know what I, what I suggest everybody do is get real, get real loose with your money when it the beginning, right, because I think for me, the more successful I've got the more I've had to be smarter with my investments in my money and I don't want to get too flippant with just blowing money because then I end up like an athlete who played, you know, sports, and now is broke, and that's a lot of like professional football players and stuff. There's a big one, people who win the lotto they win the lotto but then they don't know how to manage their money so they end up broke, but most of us are, are tight with our money in the wrong place or the wrong time. You can't be tight with your money. When you're not successful, and I know that sounds, What the hell are you talking about Dave, but, but you can't be on a on a on a budget, all the time when your show broke because then you're afraid to invest in things that can expand your mind. Now here's what I mean, go and stay at the nicest hotel in your town for one night. In the next 30 days, that should be a goal that everybody has. So you can only experience, what is it like to be in a room, to be in a building, to be in a bed. That's the best money can buy. Right? to eat the food. That's the best money can buy. Because if we never experience what that's like, then you only always know what you have. And so you don't have anything that you're, you're actually striving for, what actually you know sometimes we just want to get rich, but what can getting rich get us? Right. And so, there's one thing which you mentioned which was the reading of the books and expanding our mind and beginning to see the world and ourselves differently, but then there's also another thing of, of going to a car lot and sitting in a Mercedes Benz, or sitting in a Rolls Royce, don't just look at it on the internet. Go touch it, feel it, smell it, experience what it's like. And now you get to see the difference between what your life can be like, and the quality of your life. Go into a Sleep Number store, lay on the bed, order one, a bed that has a 90 day beyond 30 Day roof. You know how some of these things are like the mattress sending it back. Order the goddamn thing, and send it back just sleep on it to know what it's like to experience better quality, and definitely think is a life changing thing it's one of the reasons why we do our masterminds in 20,000 square foot mansions, because when you walk into a home light, you never know what you, what you have until you know what somebody else has, right when you walk into a, what you don't have into your experience or somebody else has. When you walk into a 12 thousand square foot mansion, and you look around and you experience the kitchen and you experience game rooms and you experience just what it's like to just live, or just hang out in that house for a day. It changes everything. Right, it changes because you know what you don't know, it's just, it's an exercise of expanding the mind, and having, you know, something that you're actually striving for, versus just this arbitrary, I want to make more money, or I want to just, I want to just stop working for this boss a lot of times we're running from things I'm and we're just trying to get away from pain, but we never give our Tan's self a chance to actually dream for something pleasurable. 

Simon: That said, this makes sense to me. I think it's like, you know, in the cycle, I'd say like my upbringing and experiencing what I know. Yeah, my mom was always, she was horrible with money she wasn't she wasn't the best with money, My dad, not so much, and the book, like ask yourself who taught you about money.? Yeah, right. I take a look at my parents and I'm like, yeah, they taught me and they're like how good they were with the money. I'm not very good. I'm like, Okay, so maybe I need to have financial work. I started learning, developing my financial IQ.

Dave: So I'm going to talk to you about money. One of the powerful questions. What a powerful question. It's true. If you look back at our history, if we look back at our childhood, all the answers are there. They really are. I mean, I mean, a lot of times you know like when you're fixing a car or fixing something at the warehouse of formula, or something, you know you backtrack okay what's, what's happening and then you go back and you kind of reverse engineer and you say, Okay, well the, it's not going it must be something with the hydraulics and then it's like, you backtrack it, and you work kind of backwards to try to find the problem, right, in the same thing, I believe we can do with ourselves, right, it's like okay, I have this, you know, I have this kind of tightwad budget, you know coupon cutting hoarding money, you know, thinking that everybody's trying to get it from me or I got to, like I said before I've got $1,000 I need to protect it like it's the only money I'm ever going to get. It's like, Who did I learn that taught me that, who taught me that. Think about money like that who taught me to think about abundance and lack right who taught me to have such a lack mentality. When, When, when the government is printing money, when there's people that are making 1000s of dollars an hour, when there're people who are making, I mean imagine making 5, 10, 15, 20 thousand a day, forget a month. Imagine making it a day. There's so many millions and millions and millions and millions and millions of people who're just there every day, just existence, every day whether or not $20,000- $50,000 just drops in their bank account. What because they have a business, a system you talk about the Cashflow Quadrant, they're on that business they have people and systems in investments that are working for them. Right. And then it takes time to get there right but I mean, that reality that's April's reality. So imagine growing up around somebody like that which your kids can as you continue to grow and you know you can give them a different experience. But imagine how much more abundant thinking they'll be.

Simon: I didn't understand assets and liabilities, but can be understood, and that's even, you know that goes further into it but it's so simple, the way it's explained in that book, were, like, the general outline is just understanding the difference between an asset and a liability and investing more in assets than you would liabilities, and I'll just say like I was one for years spending, getting the latest Jordans or the latest Nike TNT. You know all the, all the shoes and collect and then I was like, how am I doing this, and this is like four years ago. And then, my own personal, you know I lost money here and lost money there are lost parents, you know, big things big life changing things happen in my life and I was like, Holy shit, like, I've got two males two females I gotta figure me why am I wasting money on shoes for. And then, you know, the financial education started coming into it and then obviously, I'm like, oh, what's the acid, gonna put money in my pocket, or liabilities. Let's take it out, and it's like it comes down to it CSL is powerful. They say knowledge is no longer. They say like, they say knowledge is power, but I read this the other day thinking I would grow rich, but when I read it like two months ago. And in saying no, knowledge is only potential power. When you have a direct plan of action and like it just, you should see me in a way of me and I do, I do the voice. Constant every single conversation I can get into the we're talking about like, yeah, to better themselves, I'm like yo man you can either bury yourself in a 15 day challenge when you can do this.

Dave: Well keep up the great work, bro. We'll definitely have you back and keep us updated on your journey. 

Simon: Okay, and, like, yeah, just just just keep the fire blazing bro. All right.

Dave: Appreciate your time. Alright my friends go follow this guy okay he needs the support. This guy's fired up and ready to support you as well. This is what it's all about. All right, I look forward to having those of you who also want to put this knowledge into action because knowledge is really only power when you put it into action. And have you guys on the show as well to, to share your story in your experience, once again, massive shout out to Simon go follow him there's his tick tock right there Simon side hustles. Give him a follow, support his stuff, lift him up like his stuff is common and stuff. As I say, every day, that's the best way that you can support others but also support yourself by putting out that positive energy and lifting these people up. Got the comments blowing up for love for Simon. Appreciate all his work, and what he shared, Especially being up at midnight, staying up at midnight, to be able to come on with us so we'll see you guys back here tomorrow for another episode. Get out of here, peace be legendary. Talk to you soon bye.

How To Build An Affiliate Marketing Side Hustle As A Fast Food Worker


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Matt: Hello hello welcome in. It is Wednesday, August 4th. We're here to live. I'm here live 10am Eastern is Eastern on my side of the world but I'm a morning person so it's fine. Other people have had some interesting funny issues with the timezone thing but if you're here and you live with us. Let me know here in the chat, let me know that you're here, you're live and also just like let us know where you're tuning in from we've got people all over the world watch these things, and let us know where you're tuning in from, it's fun to see where all the different people are from. We've got an awesome guest, and for those of you who are newer to our community or maybe this is your first time ever, tuning into one of these things you're like What the heck's going on here. We do these live Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern every single day. We've been doing them live for years but Dave and I are together. I've been doing them live now for about, I would say, I don't know a year and a half or so. And we just, we go live every day with a new story from somebody else who started their business. But you know found legendary or found how to market online are starting to TikTok, in this case, and, and started crushing it so I'm going to bring on our guests, and if you all can give me some clapping emojis or something, or some like, you know, celebration or pumped up emojis or something in the chat, that'd be awesome and help me welcome to the digital stage Jennifer. What's happening?

Jennifer: Hello, good morning everyone. 

Matt: Good morning. Where are you, where are you, I was gonna say calling in from but more like, where are you tuning in from or where are you, streaming from? 

Jennifer: Upstate New York. 

Matt: Okay cool. Nice. So I read through kind of, we do a little questionnaire and there's not a lot of detail that typically comes through the questionnaire, but I did a little reading so what I'd like for you to do is bring us into your world a little bit. No one here has ever met you but just bring us into your world, about how you found the online space you've tried different MLMs, maybe talk to us a little bit about that and tell us where you're at today.

Jennifer: Well, it started back in the 90s Basically I wanted to try and find something at home, and a lot of things it was either ads or newspapers or things like that the download pre, if you know, that was way back when the power model that's another MLM. You know, we try to sell the other people and, you know, get that line going. So, a lot of that stuff did not work out, and 2017, we became an affiliate through those stuff because of the paranormal investigator, didn't know how to implement that, you know, I mean we put the link out there and constantly, you know, every once in a blue moon you get some money but it wasn't like it is today where, when I was scrolling on TikTok and I just had a personal page I was like well you know, kind of see what this is about because my daughter, you know, kind of introduced me to it, did a couple personal videos but it was more kind of a watch or and next thing I know I see a 15 day challenge constantly and I was like, you know, I've already tried, you know another marketer and they kind of sideswiped me and pushed me aside and that didn't work out so I'm like to $7 bucks, you know, I could go to McDonald's and pay for a whole meal for about $10 and also a lot cheaper. So yeah, I click on it and it's a game changer for me, it, you know, everything that was implemented, worked, and within, not even a month I got my first commission from because I had my surgery in February, and a couple days after I got out, I decided, well, what am I going to do besides, you know, go out and investigate. So I decided to take my time and while I was out of work, put this into play and it just remembered. 

Matt: Wow, that's cool, so you're. Wow, that's, that's really cool, because I feel like a lot of people are, are trying to start some sort of online side hustle or I know people for instance who, who do like even weird stuff like jewelry businesses or something and I'm like, Would you please just like take the, take the 15 Day Challenge idea, especially people who are in MLM or stuff like that, or any sort of affiliate marketing. So you're like, tell us about I'm just, this is more just for my curiosity about sort of your interest in paranormal activity like affiliate marketing and how you work that stuff in.

Jennifer: Well basically I do the same as what I do with the digital products, you know, a lot of paranormal investigators they're out there looking for new equipment to use, you know, each year they want to upgrade. So, I have an affiliate program through go stop, and I send it their way and they're like oh you know, the new stuff, what's on sale. It's basically like doing an Amazon or Walmart or Target, you're doing the same thing, and implementing that by getting their emails, they get, you know newsletters from me and all sorts of emails, and I just put it into play as I would with a digital.

Matt: That's awesome. That's super cool. And I bring that up. The reason I bring that up is because I think a lot of times, one thing that I have. One thing that I see people have issues with is finding a way to connect their passion or things they're interested in, into sort of a monetized like business or side hustle of some sort, right so it's like they come online and they just do what they see everyone else doing but then they're confused, maybe not. How do I tie these things?

Jennifer: They are afraid to just split off and try something new, and that's the thing, go out there do it, try it if it fails, it fails, try something else. I mean, remember the whim of things I just you know like my TikTok I don't overlook it, You know when I don't oversee anything I'm just like, okay, yep, I'll post this. I'm just on the fly. You see me on my bike all the time I post videos on my bike, I'm in my truck. I could be with the kids. I mean anything.

Matt: What, what's the name of that one that you were talking about Go Stop? 

Matt: Yes, Go stop. Yep. How did you find, like, how did you go about finding that was just through research and stuff.

Yep I researched it, because we were looking for equipment. And then I just happened we happen one day just to kind of see, you know, we went to the bottom of the page and it says affiliate program I like it. That's perfect, you know, nice, so I've kept that. And it's worked. It's you know, sending more of the paranormal group, you know out that way but you know I do help people and that's that's our passion we help people understand what's on the other side, what's going on, same as I do with my digital. I help people. I help people learn, you know, it's about learning, instead of selling you don't want to sell, push, push, push, you always want to teach them that there's other ways than you know, pushing a sales product. So it's, I've already done all the work before I was always helping people. Nice. And that's what I'm out here to do is, I'm on my TikToks I'll tell people send me a personal message, give me, You know, give me your number. We'll call each other. And I've talked to plenty of people over the phone. And next day, they have signed up, it's just much easier than, you know, typing all the time.

Matt: Yeah. Yeah, that makes sense. So I think the interesting part to me is that I get a lot of people come to me and ask me, you know, how can I make my content on TikTok better. And the thing that you've said probably five times now is I help people. And I think that that's so underrated. But here's the tricky piece, the tricky piece is that there's this game that happens inside of people's minds where it's like, well, I'm kind of newer here, right, so like, I'm not, you know, for instance, I'm not a dog training expert, I don't do dog training for, you know, my full time job so how the heck am I supposed to help people with dog training I don't even really know much about it right. And then I tell people, so that problem comes up a lot. How have you combated that or how do you sort of deal, I call that imposter syndrome. And really what it is, I think, here's what I think it is, I think it's people misunderstanding the goal of marketing, right, the goal of marketing isn't that you are the world's foremost expert in fact most marketers aren't people who do the digital courses are the people who are, let's say an affiliate marketer or referral Digital Marketer, they're usually not the expert, they're usually. Yeah. How do you deal with, like, break through to create content Howdy, was there any was that an issue with you or not really?

Jennifer: No because I'm used to doing research all the time before, You know an investigation so you do the research. Right, right, keywords down and make sure you know, that's the information that you've got to correct, check another site and check that site to make sure, okay that is correct. And then just go for it because nobody's an expert in any field you do it doesn't matter. So you just do your best, do your research, write keywords down and put it out there, that's all you need to do. That's the biggest thing.

Matt: It is the biggest thing, and getting past that is really huge. I just, you're so right there. I mean, there's definitely no more than you, but nobody perfect knowledge but I like I like how you frame that with research, and typically without because that's exactly what I tell people to do is I say, Okay, if you're struggling making content you've got this little weird throw I feel like I don't really I don't know enough to start making people content and helping people. Right. And so what ends up happening. Long story short, they do nothing. They just do nothing. And after they do nothing and they are you know maybe try to create content they start just unpacking their story and I'm like hey that's good, but people who watch content are sort of wondering what's in it for me, right, like, well, what's, you know, great cool you're sharing your journey that's great, you should share that. But also, You should be helping people, you shouldn't be teaching people, you should be instructing people. And the best way to do that, that I know, is to go on Instagram or TikTok or YouTube and see what other people are creating right so check this out. If I was, if I was, I'm going to share my screen here. Excuse me real quick. And I'm going to show you if it's cool, I'm going to show you your TikTok, is that okay?

Jennifer: That's fine. 

Matt: So, I just downloaded this tool you're going to love this if you don't know about it yet, but, Um, I just downloaded this little tool, excuse me, on Google. Google Chrome, and it's called sort for tick tock, check this out. So everybody who's on here if you haven't seen this already, I talked about this a few weeks ago but if I were, like, looking to see what's working for other people. I downloaded this sort of TikTok extension on Chrome and I hit start and it sorts channels videos by most watched. And so, it's gonna put the most watched videos up at the very top. And sometimes it takes a second, but let's just see here we go. So, now I've got all of Jennifer's videos sorted by top to bottom. And I can now come and look and see what kind of content gets washed right so if I wanted to come into the dog training niche, I could come in and search dog training. And I could say, Oh wow, 1.4 million followers, CEO of dog behavior follow Okay, so, this guy's got a lot south and dog trainees got 1 million so let's do this one. So, if my niche is in dog training, check this out. I'm going to sort this out. I'm going to get a sore. Now on a bigger channel like this it might just take a second and might take a few minutes. But, Here you go. So, right here. And for everybody who's in the comments let me know if this is making sense just type a yes or a y. Let me know if this makes sense, and, and what's happening is now I'm going to get flooded with ideas of content, and I'm going to get shown exactly what type of content in this niche gets watched the most, right. So, this plugin is called sort.

Let's see sort for tick tock. Yes, sort for TikTok,, so yeah it channels massive numbers of people posting on their channel for a long time and it seems. Hang on.

Jennifer: It is pretty neat. Of course when mine comes up it's in my pajamas.

Matt: Well, hey, if that's right. It's what works. Exactly. So check this out. Now watch this, if there, if somebody is out there and they're like well I want to start selling dog training, I want to sell dog training courses Well, check this out. If I have a dog or maybe I don't. I could do it. I could do a duet with this or I could do a stitch with this video, but look at this style video everybody watch this I'm gonna see if I can. I don't know if this is gonna allow me to share audio. Share, share, Chrome tab, oh we can share audio. Okay, so I'm going to share my tab audio here

have to teach any dog, stop polling. Step one, you want them to learn that polling gets unknown. So as soon as tension is on your day, you stop and wait but at least go slack. You can do this on any call center dog polls, and you feel tension, stop, wipe it out later, go relaxed then in case you can see the dogs slowly starting to slow down posts are stopped late overlaps. During this part until the dog found longer pulling. So you hold the link early on by your side show, and relax. If a dog potion or Flink backs up your brace. If the dogs really put in those sometimes, in short, throw your leg across the dog. This makes the dog more spatially aware and more in tune with you, left and right fencing help massively. And then you get to the finish also walking nicely that when you saw the dog stops you know

how to teach. Alright so there's even probably things this person could have done better to make that video even better, but you get the point. 10 million views on that, and instantly that took us two minutes I think two or three minutes. Now, I've got 10 million video views. I've got an 8.1, I got a 5.9, I've got a 5.6 5.5, like all kinds of videos and some of them, here's the crazy part. Like here, I've tried not to just freaking take over this right now but I have to share this. So, if you look at them, they're, they're like clips from the internet, right, like they're not even like they're just like viral internet clips, they're not all like He's instructing everything right so like, there's, there's some strategy behind growing a channel where you can, you can take things that are already working or things that are you know whatever and put a little comment on it, or put a little over a little over. Voiceover Thank you, right there. And immediately, you've got a new piece of content, so people, you this this is, this is something I'm passionate about.

Jennifer: You don't even have to show your face, you can show short videos of something else that's going on whatever your niche is. Yeah, and you can just do the voiceover with your voice and you know you can do those videos very simply, and, you know, 60 seconds. It's 60 seconds of your life.

Matt: Yes, put it out there. Yeah, especially for somebody to go, especially, especially if you can actually do and basically do that same video, like I would go on, if I was growing a dog training channel or something and I had, because we teach one of our things in our Blueprints. Is it done for your campaign for a dog training course equipment, and on that. We've had many people, many, many people make sales with that campaign. And one of the ways that you can easily do that is just to grow a TikTok channel, utilizing other people's videos, so I would model. Is there anything the question people ask is, well, that's just copying. And so I said, Well, you can put a little, a new headline on it, and if the content is just to you, like, you're creating the video and you try to create it as simple as possible, and basically keep things like second by second, see, here's the thing, the actual content and who's delivering it and all of that needs to be unique, but you can go second by second, and model after other successful videos, and I'm talking like some people think this is just kind of like a game where you throw a little content here and sprinkle out old content here with the people who are really successful people like Stacy law or Calvin Hill or something like that. Hundreds of 1000s of followers, they get they get so they get obsessive it's like almost weird, like because of how consistent they are and how, second by second their content is just a punches, every single second, and then you're suddenly like, Whoa, that video goes viral, is it by luck. No, it's because they have a set formula, and they follow the formula. If you don't know what the formula is you go short by tick duck, and you find that for, anyway, I'm ranting, what comes up or what's, what's there for you.

Jennifer: No, you're absolutely right. I mean, there's so much out there you can learn, and if you're not familiar with it, research it. It's the big thing, you do a little bit of B research, you can accomplish anything. No matter what it is, you know, whether you're doing your videos or you know if, like for me I just kind of make a video on, I could just be filming myself riding the bike or filming myself in my truck, and I'll be like, looking back at it, next day and be like, post a little short version of that, put that out there. If it fails, it fails, you just go on to the next stop trying to rehearse and do it 5 million times because no matter what. It's never going to be perfect for you, because you're going to constantly look at it and review it. You got to just do it. Get it out there, and that's it. You know, it's it's the biggest thing I've learned, and you know doing lives on, on our parent home page, it's like, yeah, we can sit there we have tons of overs, God forbid I mean, you know, all of a sudden somebody you know, falls down a couple steps and we all start laughing while we're doing our live you know it happens you know you're in the dark, where you're going. Yep, they're okay, they're fine. But let's keep going, you know, With this you just, it's kind of like, you just create a video you watch other people's videos and say like, yeah, I could do that but give it a twist. If it's your own flavor. You've got to do it for you, and not do it for them, you know, so you want to just kind of give that a little twist and put your own little words in there, you know, either do words or voices, whatever you want to do and just give it your own kind of style and put it out there. When I started doing the print on demand, which, as I always say, stops the cycle, I can't stop that nine to five cycle. We got it, you know, this is another way of doing it you know I do the print on demand. I bought the shirt, say hey you know, this is my advertisement just like our shirts for our groundcare Normal. We went around, that's an advertisement. People don't hand out a card that's my business card, you know, so it's the same thing as what I was doing, but now I'm able to implement it. Do the funnels, get the emails and get results.

Matt: I love it. I love it. I love it. Well I can also tell that you just, you love it, like, I think you would enjoy it, you're passionate about it. You're on fire about it I imagine you like. 

Jennifer: Yeah, I just summed that up with like a group of people and just like going after it just about ready to quit my job. Getting there I'm getting there. 

Matt: Yeah, well it's, it's a process I feel like it makes sense.

Jennifer: It was hard in the beginning, yes it's a lot of work and there were times where I was struggling with it in my head and I just was like you know what I got to walk away and I walked away for a little while took a breather. Got back at it, and was learning again. And there's some, some things in the course that you know you're like, Okay, I'm second guessing it, go do the research, because you can find it someplace else. And the terms that you understand, you know, that's all it's, it's all about doing the research and the more research you do, the more you learn, the more you can be an expert, even though we're not all experts at it. But still you have that knowledge of what you need to put out on your tic TOCs Pinterest, Twitter, Facebook, whatever you want to post. And there's plenty of platform platforms to post that. And Tik Tok is the main one, we all know it, we've all seen them we've all scrolled by and said geez I know that one that one that one that, you know, but everybody's learning, you learn as you go, especially when you become a new affiliate to renew program, you're learning everything about that program, so it's no different.

Matt: I love it, I friggin love it. So, you're, you're doing a lot of different stuff you're selling digital products you're selling, you know you've got red bubble you've also got paranormal stuff, where, where do you see this all going or what do you have sort of an angle or end game are you just really trying to keep pushing all mediums and see what kind of works?

Jennifer: Yeah, basically I'm pushing everything out and seeing what works and what doesn't. You know, it's all about testing. You want to put something out, you've got to test it out. If you don't put it out there, you'll never know. And that's the thing, not knowing if you don't put the work into it and get it out there for people to see, you know, it's not going to work for you then. Also, get it out there, push it out. That's that you know, either way, you got a 5050 chance either it's gonna work or life is all about 50/50 chances, we'll just put it out there.

Matt: Just put it out, and also like, and also, not just that but like, you know, I feel like if it does come up to a 5050 chance at least stack the deck in your favor by putting out a lot for me to put stuff out, I might as well put out a lot.

Jennifer: Exactly. I mean I've pushed you know quite a bit out and just to see what works. You know I was on vacation this past weekend on a camping trip and I still, you know, was working on my phone. I have my cute computer and everything at home. So even on my phone I was doing a little bit with emails and things like that so it doesn't matter if you have a phone, tablet, computer, you can do as you're on vacation. That's right. Did although on my way home. That was a different story. Getting caught in a hailstorm.

Matt: So are you taking content from TikTok? I'm looking at your Instagram here. Are you taking content from TikTok, those videos and doing reels? I see a few of them are you doing, are you gonna do that more often, because what I'm seeing is I'm seeing their algorithm really trying to compete with TikTok.

Jennifer: Yeah, and that's what I saw, too. That's why I started posting on some reels to see how that would go, and how far that would go. So yeah, I've been posting a little bit on my Facebook page, you know, just to kind of see what happens on that. But yeah, the reels, the, the algorithm on it is insane right now. So if you're just starting, definitely you know get some hands on those reels that might push it out more and help out.

Matt: Yeah, I think, we typically do what I instruct people to do and we're doing a training tomorrow for our Blueprints community on Instagram rails, because we've got multiple people now who are. We've got one guy and I don't want to make any big income claims but we've got one guy in particular who mostly is low through Tik Tok, but mostly through Instagram that I know is, is almost too, he's, he's, let's say he's over 50 grand in 30 days. And that's as a disclaimer to everybody here, that's not what any typical person who buys anything online will ever see or ever make. Most people don't do anything and make $0 So, you shouldn't expect those same results, but what I'm seeing is that that particular training is for a business blueprints community, we sent out an email yesterday about that. It's at 3pm Eastern, it's our Thursday business blueprints webinars we do every week. This week we're bringing on somebody, super special to talk about Instagram reels, and we're going to be launching a challenge. Next week as well for Instagram reels, and we're going to be doing that in our Facebook group. And we typically don't do those unless we really believe in a medium. And so we're going to be teaching people how to go on Instagram rails, how to take your content from tick tock, and you can use this tool called Snap tick app where you can strip the watermark off posted straight onto rails, boom, you've got double the content out in the world, it's kind of a no brainer, but also Instagram Rails is very seriously realizing that that their loot they have lost. Instagram has lost so much traffic and so much attention to TikTok, that they're basically willing to do whatever it takes, right to get any further. So they're throwing so much traffic at reels, it's crazy and the same thing might happen eventually to YouTube short so I would also recommend people go and post those on YouTube shorts too, because there's going to be a day where YouTube figures it out a little bit, maybe, I don't know that for sure but probably there's pretty smart over there, and they'll probably hit that algorithm just like, just like Tic tock did just like Instagram is starting to do, and so we always want to keep people, you know one step in front of the in front of everybody else who's marketing online. 

Jennifer: So, I have a few of the shorts on, on YouTube on my YouTube page so nice. I've already started that and of course the reels and the Instagram. It's amazing. It really is an I'm out there to help more people and just lead him on to a future that can change, that's for sure.

Matt: Yeah, so what, for everybody who's here, what, what advice, or I'll give you the final word what advice or what thoughts do you have for people who are here who are maybe they're hesitant to make some first content, or maybe they're just getting started and they're a little overwhelmed, what do you have any advice for people who are getting going.

Jennifer: Yeah. Stop overthinking and just do it. You've got to get it out there, you'll never know when it's going to work but hey, if you put it out there you know what's out there. And yeah, some things you can't take back but hey, it's a work in progress, and it's learning and progress. Just do it. Just get out there and do it because you'll never know if it's gonna work for you or not, if you don't put it out there.

Matt: So good. Well, Jennifer thanks for coming on and sorry about your hailstorm fiasco.

It's pretty sore. It was brutal, I don't wear full face coveribg and I don't have a windshield I

I have a panda saber 1300 And there's no windshield, no nothing permanent, I can handle rain, but not hail, I cannot so yes I'm very well worth the trip. I would always do it again with my girls. And we've got another trip coming up in two weeks. We go to Gettysburg for our group, for a paranormal group. So there's a big bash going down in Pennsylvania so back down to Pennsylvania two weeks so I love both of these and both of these have been paid for through legendary.

Matt: I love it. Very cool. Awesome, thank you so much for coming on. Thanks for taking the time. And if you need anything from us, just let us know. Okay, thank you. I appreciate it. Awesome. All right guys, give Jennifer some love and also go follow her on TikTok. All right, follow her journey she's got cool stuff on there, but she's just overall a cool person she's killing it she's crushing it, she's a biker. I think she put it all the way through her videos but it did look like she posts some stuff as she's going on her trips and stuff too, so it's just fun to watch and fun to tune in, so make sure to give her a follow. We'll be back here live, Thursday and Friday of this week with new people and new stories for you to listen to tomorrow if you're a business blueprints member, and you've purchased our business blueprints, we have a massive, massive training happening tomorrow at 3pm Eastern, it's the same time as our typical live webinar that we do you can go in the back office, and you can register for that under business blueprints. All right, and then next week. Stay tuned. Okay, stay tuned to your email. Be watching if you see any emails from legendary David Sharpe, we got something cool happening next week. And that's all we got for today. We'll be back here tomorrow at 10am Eastern.

 

Repurposing Content on TikTok And Instagram Like A Pro

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Dave: What's going on my friends and family is Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up Legendary it's yet another day. And it's another dollar, dollar, the iron iron I used to rock and roll here in a second man I'm fired up today. We've got some. We've got some great guests. I was just chatting with them, and I'm gonna bring them out, well, what the hell without further ado, welcome. Kendra and Monique what's going on. All right, where are y'all calling in from? I know that, well first of all, who’s Kendra and who's Monique, introduce yourself, where you're from and also where you are right now.

Kendra: Okay, I'm Kendra, I'm originally from Maryland, and that's where we are right now. 

Mo: I’m Monique, I go by Mo, originally from Chicago but currently in Maryland, yes.

Dave: All right. Nice, nice. Well, welcome. Let's get Moe's name if we can change the MO there so we can have it. I don't know how to do that. But anyways, maybe the technicians, you know, in the background can help us out with that. So, um, so you ladies are a married couple, you are business and accountable, accountability partners as well. You, you have a son together. And, and you are kind of taking this plunge into the online world for the first time or is this something that you've done, you've tried before other things, give us a little bit of what led you to Legendary.

Kendra: So we tried, we tried drop shipping or we attempted to get into it, trying to kind of understand it but a lot of the rules regulate all those things kind of changed, and kept changing so it was proven to be a little bit more of a challenge. And with the time restraints that we have because we recently lived in Atlanta, so we were kind of like, okay, with the time that we have, what is it that we could do that we both can feel passionate about, and actually feel like we're giving value to the people that we're talking to, because you add value with your products but when you have things and services that you really believe in, it's easier for you to speak about them. So, this I would say is our first official goal online, but yeah, we had trial and error there. 

Dave: Is there anything you would add to that Mo is she telling it all, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?

Mo: Yeah. I mean, yeah with, I mean, started with drop shipping, we watched tons of videos like we went through the whole YouTube cycle of watching videos, everybody's doing it this way that way that way. It just became overwhelming, and so we try to do it our way with the tidbits that we didn't learn. And at the time that we were trying at Amazon, and a lot of other applications that we were trying to, you know you, they were very difficult, very difficult just to get your foot in the door, not even a toe. You know what I mean? So, it just got to the point where you know we needed to try something else that we could help peoplel with that we are passionate about and something that can create longevity for us, meaning we can revamp it each and every time but in a different way. 

Dave: So, so what happened next?

Kendra: So I got on TikTok. Very informative. And honestly, I was not a TikTok fan, I was like my son uses this application I can't use TikTok, what is that going to do for me. But there's a whole nother world inside of TikTok, and it was very informational came across a couple, I won't even call them influencers, they were you know people like me and her who were trying to create some longevity and some stability for themselves, especially when you know Covid hit and things of that nature and it was very inspiring and one, two videos in and I was like okay, so I showed her and I'm like okay we can do this, we can do this especially if we hold each other accountable. We can do this.

Dave: So you went through the 15 day challenge. Is that how you got kind of your, your foot in the door, your toe in the water?

Kendra: The 15 day challenge was very informative, very helpful and it led everything to make sense from the beginning. It wasn't a whole bunch of oh well yeah you know this and this and this and that but not really explaining anything, it said. 

Mo: Exactly, and that's what we like, I'm big on structure, so if it doesn't have structure. I'm wasting my time going to get lost or I'm just going to get annoyed, so the 15 day business builder challenge, the fact that you took it step by step by step, per day. It allowed the viewer to take one day at a time, really one day at a time, digest and absorb all that information. Try to make it applicable to what their passion is and what new venture they're trying to start and just continue through the 15 Day Challenge. With that in mind just building their knowledge building building building, and I would say a certain order, and I loved it. Yeah, I like how every day you have to stop. I love that.

Dave: Stop and process, now if you were to fast forward to today, you, you tell us about, just if you are you are you exceeding goals, are you on track. Are you getting results just to give us a quick snapshot of where you are today? Go ahead.

Mo: Well today, I will say that we went out last month. Yeah, we had a really big, really big day last month. We've been, you know, doing videos and shelling them out on TikTok, always looking at analytics, always doing that. And we finally have one big day, we had our 1k day, and we lost it. I was so excited. And since then it was just it just kept us inspired to keep going, keep going, keep going. And so as of right now we just, you know, moved to Maryland, getting everything together but we haven't lost sight of the goal. So we'll develop the content that brings people in, so we can explain how Legendary and affiliate marketing, US, and keep building that up. 

Dave: Gotcha. And how long ago was that that you went through the challenge. 

Kendra: April, we went through the challenge of April. Yeah. April has some big things, I could say that video content creation, things that were really big things for us getting our footing and feeling comfortable in front of the camera was a thing in the beginning. Stop caring, or wear regular black shirt or white shirt or just, you know she wears a white sox head, you know, just once you stop caring about the aesthetics of everything, you can create content back to back to back, and you know what, I feel we both done is created a genuine audience that actually wants to learn how to provide a service that will, you know, be rewarding for them and rewarding for who they're teaching as well and that was really important because, you know I like to inspire people to do greater things and think outside of the box and doing that has been really rewarding for me. I had a video a few weeks ago that's still trending on TikTok right now, And it was really exciting because everybody was like yes, I want to do this I want to learn, you know, I wanted to take back on my time and I want to be more present with my family, and that's been a really big thing because one of the biggest things that you can own is your time. And people realize that, but it's really important that it's become even more important to us as we've been embarking on this journey.

Dave: So is that one of the things that you're focusing on in terms of your content is the, the, I know you wrote in your initial questionnaire, so we can get to know you a little bit more was that you were talking about sort of the idea of getting your time back, the idea of society in how, in the messaging we get about finances and the messaging that we get about all kinds of stuff right but specifically, you guys are talking to an audience of people who want to start a business and want to build a business and want more time and financial freedom. What are the kinds of content, I mean there's so many different approaches that people take especially when they're new, oh I'm going to look at, you know, one way is just, I'm gonna look at what is working for other people and so we get into the side hustle style content, or, or, you know, more entertainment style content or somebody has a shtick like we had a gentleman who shoots all his videos from his bathroom and still talks a lot about, you know side hustles and stuff but what is your what is your groove, what did you, what did you find out that hasn't worked, and what is working really well for you in terms of your marketing and content creation.

Kendra: That's a good question and it's really funny because for me, what Works is controversy and entertainment. But for her, it's education, people like her page for the longer, longer TikToks the 15 seconds. It works for some but for her, she gets more out of the longer minute long TikTok where people can really absorb what she's saying and what she's talking about. But for me, that 15 Second, in and out kind of talking about how to use an intellectual property and turn it into money, things like that, or you know something that you have always liked, and using the word side hustle but also making it look like making it known that it doesn't have to be a side hustle right, it can be something that you can turn into your main thing, right, with me. 

Mo: I like to be funny. So when it comes to a lot of my videos, I tend to put a little bit of humor, even though I thought of a trending thing that's happening on TikTok at the moment. I know what's funny. And we know what can really relate to people. So out what's relative, what are we, we're coming out of a pandemic and possibly back into another one with the new delta strand

strand is actually American Airlines and then it's Allegiant after that so just right exactly, that's it's funny I don't care who you are, with the videos that we put out I tried to gauge, and pay attention to the, to those particular people, the people who want to actually learn, because I get questions day to day to day to day, how do I do this or if I do this, how will I do this so I love explaining the details to people, because that's what's missing with YouTubers that say that we have to explain this and they just skip over a lot of vital information, people just want to get started and if they have enough confidence to get started. The sky's the limit.

Dave: Yeah, I think that as just a side note for everybody who's listening. A lot of times we get way over complicated, and we just, we try to do too much in our content in our marketing. And I think the point that you just made that people want to just get started. Time after time, whether it's listening to our successful students who come on this show and tell us right from their mouth. We watched something for two months, three months, four months, seven months, I read the emails, I watched the videos, like it took me time. Most people, when they're, when in and also understanding who your target audience is very important because for me, I had to understand that my target audience was new people who wanted to get started, it wasn't people who were already started. It wasn't people who were, I mean it might have been people who were already started but weren't having success or, or who were quite unquote struggling, but it wasn't people who were already having success, those weren't my. And as a matter of fact, there was a period of time to where I marketed to those people, and they, they didn't, they didn't buy, they didn't respond because they didn't, they were focused on income producing activities and they already had their business up and running, it was the people who felt like they were stuck who didn't understand what they were doing who needed additional training who needed additional support. And when I transitioned back to that, that messaging and really understood who my target audience was, that's when, in, that's initially worked for me, and that is what works to this day, it's really important for us to understand who our target audience is generally. I'm not going to say all knowledge space, but for sure in the make money online space, and I would assume that most in the health space, like if you think about somebody who is your target audience for like a weight loss or a fitness program, is it going to be somebody who's already got accountability who's already motive who's working out every day, who already understands how to do their diet. No, it's not gonna be the person who's sitting around saying, I need to do this, and they see an ad that catches their attention or somebody who resonates with them. Same thing with relationship stuff, if your relationship is going good. You're not even in the market for that, but if you feel like you're in crisis, right, like you're trying to save your relationship or, or you're trying to get the girl or guy back then. Those are the dudes who are buying the how to get the girl back or how to, you know what I mean the women who are buying the Matthew Hussey relationship advice, he's a big guy in the relationship space are the chicks who are trying to find love. You know what I mean it's not chicks who already fall in love. So I think you make a great point. So, add anything you want to that but also want to understand for the audience. How did you both settle in to finding your own, like you said, I'm more in the controversial and I shorter, quicker content I'm more in the long form, detailed education. How did you both like, come to accept and realize that that was the style that you like and that's what you did best with?

Kendra: We actually were having a conversation, coming up with the road because we drove from Atlanta to Maryland which was a 12 hour drive, so we have to talk, but we were actually talking about how for her, I've noticed in her content that it is about the educational style, and I literally, it just out I can't remember what I was listening to I listen to a lot of articles but it says that you attract the type of person that you are. She's a very thorough individual. And because she likes structure that works for the audience that she draws in, she draws in people who need to know, detail by detail, I draw on people who are like, I don't know if this will work but I'm going to try it anyway because I'm an adventurous person. So those are the kinds of people that I draw in, and after a few hundreds of comments on videos, I realized that those are my kind of people and those are her kind of people so I encourage her to keep making that content because I had a little bit of extra time on my hand once you know job structures and things like that the type of work that I did my day started in it a little bit before her, so I had to analyst behind our content and say, This is what's working for you, and this is what's working for me so her longer videos were doing well and that would tell her we would have our little fireside chats at night and I would talk about, you know, this is going well you should keep doing this or you know vice versa. And it actually worked out really well for us. Anything to add to that Mo?

Mo: Yes, my guy. I work in banking. Okay, so I was around money all the time, helping people manage insane, You know, entrepreneurs like you can tell fresh entrepreneurs how their money works. I did see some Amazon FBA people, you know, when I was working. And so, you know, I took some of the things that I was seeing, and observing and learning since starting Legendary Marketer. I was looking at things a lot differently. So going into banking and finance, and, you know, talking with my clients and working with them and seeing what they've got going on. I'm like, it clicked. A lot more people are doing this, and a lot more people are wanting to learn how to do it. What am I good at? I'm good at money, I'm finance and I'm good at budgeting. I'm good at, you know, structuring a whole budget for people, why not add that to my TikTok structure, why not. It works for me at a nine to five pace, it can work for me here, especially if I'm touching on those really important things that are that, that are important to the audience, you know what I mean, they're gonna listen, especially if it's a way out, you know. Yeah, I feel that wholeheartedly.

Dave: I really love the difference in understanding kind of how you communicate, and in, you know, like, I'm more of a adventurous I'm not a kind of a detailed structure person I know I have to have structure, because if not I can adventure my way right out into the forest and before you know what I'm, I'm way out there, you know what I mean. My wife keeps me within kind of the boundaries you know what I mean like I play hard. I will go all out. She understands my personality, but she provides this wonderful structure and I've now adapted it, and, and I use calendars and I use routines and schedules and stuff like that as much as possible and systems like even this . My form of content creation, personally, is this show every day. At the same time, it's a weekly. It's a daily routine that's the same every single week. And the reason why is because for me personally, if we didn't have that I would never create content, because I don't personally like to have the phone and be just like looking for content opportunities all the time. Right. It's just not my kind of personnel, it's just, I don't know it's just, it's just not something I do especially as I get older I find myself less and less kind of interested in posting, particularly for any, you know anybody who's not business related I'm just like, I don't give a shit what they think you know what I mean so I'm not like posting on my personal Facebook profile or whatever, what I'm doing or what I'm eating anymore. But my point. My point here is that I am more of an adventurous, sort of, kind of, no boundary structure kind of adventurous. And so creating the structure and the routine for me to create content and record content works really well for me. However, the way in which I show up when it's time to record and create that content is very adventurous as you saw at the beginning when we got started I didn't come on and be like alright, let's plan out the conversation, what are we going to say I was just like, and I think that my style, I've had guests who are like, Wait, we're gonna go live, like, I don't even know. And I'm just like, what do you need to know, do you like because I'm just going to go wing this, you know what I mean. Well, yeah, I'm just Well, I'm going to flow but, you know, for, for a lot of people that's kind of really scary for them because they want to have everything planned out, but I think my point here is is that identifying both how to work within your daily routine, what's going to work best for you are you somebody who can kind of create content on a whim and make it interesting, and make it edutainment right, or do you need to set up structure and then secondly, the type of content that you create. Are you more of long form detail oriented, kind of more play to people's analytical side of their brain, or are you somebody who can sort of common kind of winging it and you're a little bit more adventurous and it's, you know, I think, if also if we're looking for content out there to model. That's also a good thing to know about yourself is, ooh, I can do a good job modeling this, whereas right if I'm looking at content that's not really exactly like my personality I might try to try to find content to model and recreate that is more, I just thought that was kind of a little gold nugget and I wanted to expand on that. Is there anything else that you would add to that that you feel like I left out or, or do you want to move on to how you're repurposing content on Instagram and TikTok, but anything to add to that last segment, are you good there? 

Kendra: Yeah, definitely. 

Dave: Okay. All right, cool. Sometimes I can get a little bit all over the place I want to make sure it comes across clear. So we titled this how to repurpose content on TikTok, and Instagram like a pro. And so, let's talk a little bit about how you are. Have you been repurposing it this entire time, or is that something that you're starting to do now. Talk to us a little bit about how you're beginning to repurpose or how you began to, and what you're doing as far as repurposing now.

Mo: Okay, so I started doing that. So when I got on Tik Tok and, you know, my father we started to get an increase. I started to toy around with how I can wedge, Instagram, and TikTok together, because I didn't have a lot of time during the day I had a nine to five, so I had to figure out what can I do to still get my content out there that people will see and receive. So I found that you know I just add my Instagram bio to tick tock and also in the settings you can have it or you can select to where whatever videos you upload to tick tock, it will automatically reroute you to Instagram and have it posted there. So that's what I was doing from the beginning. Oh wow, so I don't have to post in two places. Each time it can just automatically go over there as well. So I use that to my advantage. So, the moment I was doing that I, you know Instagram will pop up immediately after I upload into TikTok. My video is still the same, I might have to adjust some sizing, but send it on over. I get hundreds and hundreds of views per day. I get inboxes every day. Well, how do I do this? I even had people at work, asking me to do this, what is this that you're doing and like how can I get involved. I do hair, how can I do this or I like doing nails, how can I do that, and I will talk to them about different ways for that niche that they were talking about how this can work for them, but it's just like on both platforms, it's just working, and I love it. And now that reels are a thing. Yeah, we are doing. 

Dave: I think stripping the logo off using an app like snap tick. You guys can everybody watching concerts that and that's a little app that you can strip the, the TikTok logo or watermark off of your video and then re uploading that video, even if you got to do it manually reels, is, is really important, because there's a couple of different ways that you can, oh snap tick dot app is the app, there's a couple of different ways that you can upload to Instagram. You can obviously upload something that's just a regular post, you can upload it as a story, you can upload it as IGTV, but the particular function on Instagram, that's getting a lot of play right now because it's in competition with TikTok, are those reels Right. Those reels, and that's really important for everybody understand that's the reels that are on it, and I think we are the early adaptors, right now, for that particular landscape in the in the marketing space and quite frankly if you have a niche that's less known, like, like if you're in, you know fishing niche or if you're in the real estate niche or you're in the dog training niche or the, you know, wouldn't say personal development, there's quite a few people who are doing personal development stuff but yeah if you're in like a less known niche then you're really going to be early to reels and be able to take advantage of that momentum however TikTok’s momentum has not slowed down, I mean, Tiktok still I think a lot of times, marketers get into this whole it's oversaturated who would listen to me, when there's all these other people out there so how have you dealt with any negative self talk that has popped up inside of your head. How have you stayed empowered, not just motivated but empowered to be confident and to share your message? Give us a couple of tips from each of you about how you've dealt with your own personal self-talk and turned that sort of if it's, if it's, if it's negative into a positive. Talk to us a little bit about mindset.

Kendra: So mindset is very very very important for me because I do find myself getting into those negative talks or at least I did more frequently. And so when I would think to myself okay I've seen this type of content before, I've seen this kind of funny or I've seen this kind of punch line or something of that nature. I'll try to tell myself that everybody may have that bit of comedy within them and they may have a way that they would do it, but I still have my spin that I want to put on it, and I still go forward putting my spin on it and I'm proud of the product at the end of the day, because I didn't allow myself to doubt me and think no, don't put it out don't put it out. I just went on ahead and did it, and when I did it, I was, I got, you know I was received well. When I did put it out and so there's this thing about people that are going to be attracted to your content regardless of how many other times they've seen it, and you just have to know that your content is attracted to people that are like you, or people that aspire to be like you, and make sure that you feel confident and that your individuality is what's going to really make you stand out on platforms because you are an individual and nobody can do you like you don't think about the next person or what they're doing or how they're doing things just feel confident that the way you're going to deliver, it's going to be received by who is supposed to be received by and great and viewers, they're going to gravitate towards what's relative to the correct they are. Now for me, I'm a perfectionist, which is a gift and a curse has always been that way. So, I would have those negative tips. I will watch something that I do that's cool, and I will think to myself well yeah I can do it, but my brain gets so elaborate on how I want to do it, and it has to be perfected in each and every each and every step. And I tend to overwhelm myself because I have this such a high standard for this particular content that it brings more negative thoughts about, I don't think I'm going to be able to finish this I don't think it's going to be up to par I don't think it's going to be all of that. And so then I have to talk with her about it. I'm going to say then I come in, bring me back now, it's like you know what, you got this. Do it your way, period, just do it your way. Do it your way. Don't waste time on trying to think about all these logistics in regards to that video just put it out there, just do it and so I do it. I get a lot of messages and likes and followers based off of this content so it's like it is received and I just have to keep telling myself. Don't think too much. 

Mo: Correct. Having that accountability partners really, really, because when she gets to overthinking, I'll talk to her and tell her you know, it's just content, just put it out is something that you're passionate about, put it out your passion is going to show through people are going to feel what you're putting out just put it out for thinking. Don't overthink it. That's one of my mottos: don't overthink it every day. I tell myself don't overthink it, just put it out. Just be.

Dave: I mean you've, you've, you hit a couple of things that were really important but just to focus on that piece that you just said Don't overthink it. I think we all go through phases of thinking that what we create today is going to live forever and be on a billboard in Times Square and at all 8 billion people in the world are going to see it and watch this particular piece of content, all day long and we're going to be judged and critiqued and potentially nominated for a Grammy or an Academy Award and it has to be perfect, you know, and it's like no tomorrow, within an hour. It's gone. It's not, it's gone. I mean, most content is down in the feed within an hour. And that's, that's, in, we don't hope for that that's not what we want, because we want our content for people to engage with it and to like it and to get into it for it to be persuasive and so forth. But the truth is that the majority of content that people make is buried in the feed and nobody ever even sees it. Mine too. It's not like, oh, there are some people who everybody sees their content. Now, everybody as you get a bigger fall following bigger audience, bigger email list, of course, where people are going to see your emails but everybody at the beginning 98% of their stuff, nobody even sees. And I think, while that can be depressing. If you choose to focus on that, it's also a little bit liberating because it's like, you know what, it's not that big of a deal, it's not the end of the world this is not going to be what I remember, I mean they're not going to play this at my funeral this one TikTok video I'm about to record right now right, they're not going to say, and this is what an asshole Dave was looking at the video, I mean, what an ass this guy was legitimately not even funny right this was how bad he was on camera, you know, nobody's gonna say that so again. Yeah, it's, it's, it's hard to, to not overthink when our brain is literally built and made two produce 6000 thoughts per day or how many ever thoughts, it produces but it really is kind of, if I was to sum up the most successful people, as well as my most successful moments. It was those who have the shortest distance between idea and execution. 

Kendra: Bingo. That part.

Dave: And not just starting, but following through, right, because all of us have a tendency to be great at especially entrepreneurial types, you know, great at starting stuff but then, you know once we get in, it's like, oh man, let me tweak and what do you think about this and I'm gonna rebuild this whole thing you know I'm gonna, you know, let me rebuild the whole funnel rewrite every email and let me reshoot my bridge page video every day for the next 365 days, you know, and it's like you're not getting that many hits to it's not you don't need to split test it, you get it get 1000 views on it, so you got some data for when you create another one you actually got something to split tested against, you want to go and re record your bridge page video after you got 23 views. It's like, no, no, no, no, stop that. Leave that alone.

Kendra: Exactly. And then spend your day spinning your wheels on things that you should just leave alone to just let it and let it work, you know, I see some content creators. So my older videos were trash. I didn't really you know I'm not proud of them, but they're there for reference purposes and you never know, a person can see a video today and go back and watch videos from three months ago. And I'd say, because that content was relevant for them or it was a tidbit that they didn't get in the newer video, so just put the content out, leave it there, let it work, creating exactly forward. Exactly.

Dave: Don't spend time, my older videos all I could have did this different, it's like a relationship right it's like, it's like the early content is like all of our early relationships, you know what I mean, it's like, it's like, it's there, you can't go back and change it, you know, you made some mistakes. You crashed and burned, you hurt some people you got hurt, you know, in some of that early content is, You know you look at it too long, you get your own feelings hurt, you know what I mean it's all of us have that experience, and it's, you know, if you, if you, if you continue doing it, similar lead of being in a relationship you learn how to just do it better, be better be a better person partner, you know, and so, look, I'm really happy for you to I mean, you're, you're being. You're doing a great job, you're, you're, I think inspiring a lot of people in a lot of different ways. Keep sharing your message Keep sharing your, your voice. Keep doing your thing. Proud of you both excited for your future, excited to see where you go from here, and any final words for those who are, you know, tuning in and likely hanging on your every word this morning as they as they're inspired by your, you know, your work and what you've done so far.

Mo: I would say just keep at it. It is a journey journeys require sacrifice, they require a lot of energy from you. And this is something that you really want to be a success at. Keep going, just keep pushing, be inspired by what you do, be inspired by yourself, be inspired by all the things Dave's put up there all the wake up morning calls, just be inspired, be willing to take in inspiration, because that out of a negative mindset, think about something else, but just do not give up on yourself. 

Kendra: Absolutely not. You got it, she said. Don't give up on yourself and make sure that you show up for your sectional every single day, that is going to be most important, showing up for your business, showing up for the people that are waiting for your content because there are people waiting. You have a uniqueness to you that people are waiting for. So just show up. And one last thing, something that I am working on, and I'm pretty sure all of you guys weren't giving yourself grace, yes. 

Mo: Okay, so you've got 24 hours in a day. Right. We all say there's not enough time to do everything in 24 hours but if you have some type of system that works for you, and you can't complete something because you have this other stuff that you're trying to get done. Give yourself grace, whatever you're able to complete and do take it for what it is, you have another day. Just keep pushing.

Dad: Yeah, well, well said. And I, I love to give yourself grace. I also love the show up for yourself and it made me think about showing it for yourself like you showed up for your boss. Show for yourself like you showed up for your boss because when you showed up for your boss and you were like yes sir, yes ma'am, you know, if we treated our, you know, if we treated our business the same way that we treated everybody else our, our US ourselves as our boss, the same way that we treated our boss all of our lives. You know we all would be. We all would be billionaires, you know, but for whatever reason we sometimes. Well we just treat others and other people's belongings and lives, oftentimes better than our own and it's a it's a I think it's a journey of learning to love oneself, more, and also respect oneself or honor oneself or you talk about giving yourself grace, that's what comes up for me is, is, you know, believing that I deserve more. Believing that I deserve more. And, you both are a great example of that. So keep up the great work, and I will talk to you soon okay. 

Mo: Bye. 

Kendra: Bye. 

Dave: Kendra and Moe will put their TikTok handles up there you guys and gals can go follow them and connect with them and add them to your network in your you know your support group and your family and please lift them up, you know, one of the great benefits of this community is, is, is in one of the reasons why do this and we do this Matt does this every morning is, so we can connect everybody together, you know we can connect people within this community together. So you can, you know, you can go and follow everybody on various channels, and when they create something you can share it or comment on it or give it a like, you know, that's how you support fellow entrepreneurs you ever heard of the, you know shop local support local businesses, you know, instead of massive corporations, well. Let's support each other, you know Let's support each other by giving a like, giving a comment, you know just dropping some love down when you see somebody within this community creating something, you know, allowing the inspiration and motivation as they were talking about to come into your head and heart. You know not. Let's see your or a judgment, right or or not taking it on as guilt or shame or you're not good enough right the comparison itis we always talk about, so hopefully when we have these amazing guests on like, like we did this morning with Kendra and Moe you guys can go and follow them and when you see them out there, lift them up and the way that you do that, it's not, we're not. You can pray for them if you want you can do all that stuff. I mean whatever your spiritual practices, please pray for me while you're at it, but give them a like, give them a comment, you know what I mean, lift their content up, lift their message up. That's what this is all about. We'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode. Be Legendary and get the hell out of here. See ya. Peace.

 

How To Jumpstart Your Affiliate Marketing Business As A Single Mom

Dave: What is going on my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary, another episode, another week. Let's go. Okay, we've got a fantastic guest. A wonderful and motivated and inspiring newly single mom was kicking some major ass, let's welcome to the show melody, how's it going Melody?

Melody: Good morning. Good morning, thank you so much for having me. 

Dave: So you're, you're, you're fired up, you're, you're, you're not going to let you know, anything in life hold you down, you're going to make it happen recently coming newly single mom, which, you know, I know I'm saying that like hey, newly single mom Welcome but that's obviously a difficult transition, plus some past business challenges, learning lessons, right, learning events, and you're still going, what is what is keeping you motivated right now.

Melody: Oh my goodness, just, just, you know, I, you can't when you, you become a single person, whether you're a mom or a dad, or maybe you don't even have kids. You just realize, everything is now fully on your shoulders. And so, you know, while I have a full time job and I am absolutely so grateful for that. There is no such thing as stability and security in the job world. And so I was just like holy cow, like this is a moment of what happens if something happens to my job, like, now what am I going to do. And so that is what keeps me going, and no matter what. I'm the type of person that I find something and I set my mind to it, it is time. 

Dave: Nice. So you found Legendary tell us, tell us a little bit about what you did before, at least in terms of side hustles or second income streams. Tell us what you did there with it with your network marketing experience, how that, you know transpired and then how you found Legendary in what, what has happened since you found us.

Melody: Yeah so, I started. I've always kind of been doing like MLMs, and I never, never had any success. I'm a little bit here and there, but it's just nothing ever felt good to me because I'm not an in person person like I want to do things online, I kind of don't want to also go out there and genuinely, try to be friends with people, knowing that I'm just trying to like get you in the door, and so that always felt a little like spammy to me and, and not natural. And so, you know, I just kind of I've always been in that space and I've always been one to like what can I do to earn extra money online. And, and so I came across it. TikTok, I came across Legendary on TikTok, like so many other people, but honestly I was probably on TikTok because I just wanted to get my mind off of things that were going on in my personal life, and I kept coming across, legendary, and I honestly probably scrolled through so many of them, just saying like, whatever, like I'm not going to do that. And, then I just kept seeing people that were making a pretty big impact in their financial situation and I'm like, Okay, let me check this out. And so, I kept watching and looking and stalking people, not really stalking but right, I was just kind of following them. And I, I was always also one to invest in myself. And so when it came up to this course it was $7 and it was 15 days long. I kept saying to myself, like, at one point I said, What is, what is the holdup. What are you so resistant about and I think it came down to. What if this doesn't work in fear of it not working. And so I jumped in, I was like that's silly because I've taken so many courses I've gotten certifications. I'm not scared to invest in myself. So I jumped in and was blown away by the amount of value that you get in this course. The personal advisors are incredible. And I was just like this I get like you get this advisor and they help you, like, for $7 Like what?! And so it is, it's. I am so incredibly grateful, and so I just went through the course, and it has been amazing, and I was able to, you know, get my first commission. That's not everybody's story. Some people are seeing people way later. But that at that very moment, and like, literally cried. Not because I got the permission, but it was a moment of

stability for me. And I was just like this. And I knew that the type of person that I am, that if I just kept going, that I would see incredible results, and so I kept going and I kept going and I'm committed to 14 Cops a day that is my bare minimum. And I do work this like my second job, instead of having to go out and get a second job. So it's pretty cool.

Dave: And those are more results than you've gotten in past businesses that you've done all the network marketing and so forth kind of almost put together. I don't know if that's accurate if I read that correctly, but yeah.

Melody: Oh yeah 100% Like by far.

Dave: Yeah, that's awesome. You know, I think that's a great testament to don't stop before the miracle happens, you know, and that's not like the skies are going apart, it's just that your time is coming, and you just have to find the right information from the right people in the right environment. Timing is up to. I don't know, I mean is it odd, is it God, right I don't know I mean, sometimes it feels divine when you make that first commission, but it's more just about finding your tribe, finding the people who you can trust. Sometimes it takes us a little longer to trust than others, that's okay. But if it feels right your gut tells you, hey look, these people are real, this is authentic, and I think it's easy nowadays to tell the difference between people who are just flexing with, whether they're rented or owned Lambos and sports cars and mansions, because even if they are owned, why they need to throw that in people's face and try to use that to bait people in the truth is is that if you have something of value. If you have something that will really change people's lives. You don't need to fluff it up with all of the additional flexing, you just presented to people in, like you said, undersell over delivery. And that's the best feedback that I could ever hope for is what you just said I went through and I got way more value than I ever expected. And then I went, I got results with.

Melody: Yeah, absolutely. And so many people do get results and they're dedicated and they put the time and effort in. If they just take an implement because you can learn and learn and learn and go through this challenge and continue to learn. But if you are not taking action and implementing what you learn, you're still going to be at that place of no results though.

Dave: Yeah, you have to avoid the Lifetime Learning syndrome, and I think that's very common for a lot of people for whatever reason, probably because of the way that we were raised in our education system, and then job market to where we are told in condition to sit in a classroom and listen to somebody talk at us. And then we graduate to middle school and then high school and then college and it's all just a bunch of the same stuff, right, learning, learning, learning, learning, and then we get a job, oftentimes not even in the same industry that we've been learning learning and learning about but then we go back to taking orders, and just kind of do your job, don't ask questions. So, people prefer sometimes they feel safer to sit in that learning kind of mode because well, that's what I'm used to, but when you break through that, and you begin to get a bit uncomfortable being uncomfortable. And like you said, you turn around from consumer to creator, which is the transition that you went through you did that, rather quickly though, when you do that, and you said when I get involved in something I kind of take the bull by the horns plus newly single parent, you got to your backs against the wall, you've got a motivator there, but if you guys can find your motivator, even if you are in a perfectly healthy long term marriage and the sky is not falling and you don't have, you know tons of financial pressure if you can figure out what is something that I can drum up that can push me, right, that they can push me. Maybe I can erase my plan B. Maybe I can stop, I can figure out what is the story or excuse that I'm telling myself, and I can, I can say that out loud and I can say this isn't real. This is just something that I'm telling myself I'm not actually as safe as I think I'm not as secure as I think I am because if my job goes away tomorrow, what am I going to do. That might be the motivation that you need to do. This is what happens. Does that resonate with you, Melody?

Melody: Oh 1,000% Because I think in the past. It was just easy to stop or not keep going, or, you know, try another thing to get results, because I didn't have to do anything. I mean it was easy for me to say, Okay, this didn't work, whatever the obstacle came into play like that didn't work. Let me try something different. And until, like, you have to. It's not like I have to, but it's a choice. I don't want to put myself in a position where something bad happens. 

Dave: I mean I think we all do, like, it's like pay now or pay later. That's kind of the, the, the, the motto that my wife and I live by in race and our kids are What do you mean by that Dave. Well, it's either put in the hard work while they're young, set the boundaries create the structure, right, sacrifice social stuff and in kind of ticket keeping them out late like we're real rigid with our children in their, in their structure and their schedule and boundaries with them in our kind of our week weekly and daily rituals. And the reason why we're like that is because we believe in the concept of pain now, or we can have none of that stuff and just kind of wing it and kind of say hey, we're not gonna sacrifice all this stuff for our kids, we're gonna live our lives to write well then we'll probably pay later. Because by 18 that child's not going to be ready to be able to go out in the world, to survive on their own, you know, to be able to take care of themselves. I believe business and taking in kind of approaching our financial situation is the same concept: pay now or pay later. It's paying now with extra time and energy, and maybe extra money, or pay later if all of a sudden you lose the job, and you have nothing to back it up now you're scrambling. Right. And so the reason why that came up for me was because I think that if we all frame it like that, even if we're in a comfy situation right now we're not a newly single parent, we're not newly on our own, or we don't have some. We didn't just lose our job, we thought about what if I did lose my job. What if I'm right, it's either pay now or pay later because if we don't prepare. If that happens, and we've done nothing, we're going to be scrambling, what comes up for you is, do you agree with that?

Melody: I absolutely agree with that and I think for me, I was just like okay, let me do this and let me implement these things now, and it's a choice. But I think so many people get into a position like that where something happens with their job or something, and then they jump into something, and then they're in a desperate, energy, and if people don't like that energy they can sense it. It comes off more like spammy. And so I was just like you know what I'm good at. This is just what I'm going to do to help me be more secure in my financial situation. And so I jumped into this definitely with a mindset of I'm not desperate, This is just a twice instead of going to get a second job for extra income.

Dave: Yeah. No, I, I, yeah, I, it's, it's, I think that many of us. We can either, you know, we can. I saw a comment, delayed gratification, I mean there's a certain mindset in this and you've been somewhat conditioning your mindset by doing some network marketing and stuff like that and not having immediate success. So, if, if you guys think that you don't have it in you to, like, put in the work in it have that delayed gratification, I would I would invite all of you guys to look at some of the things that you've done in the past that haven't worked out, you already know what it's like to have delayed gratification, right, you already know because if you didn't get results with what you were doing before you put in the work, you know what it's like to put in work and not get results. So now, taking the experience from the past, putting total and complete focus into a business model every single day. We're bringing out people who are ordinary folks who are not, you know how in network marketing, you know, it's always the same. And I, I'm not trying to bash Network Marketing here but I just was involved for so many years, and it was always the same 10 people. It was always the same 10 top leaders who were the diamond earners, the big, you know, top people in, there was never, I was constantly looking around for the new success stories and I was like, Where are the news, like where are somebody getting results who just started two or three or four months ago, right, and there wasn't any of those, but every single day we're bringing out, ordinary people who just got started, who have ordinary things, they're not even full time, they're not even full time doing this right, all these other people that I had ever met, were all full time network marketers getting success they were full time that's what they did full time because they had had success for a long time. And sometimes they had parents or family members that were the business that there was all kinds of things that I, they weren't telling, right, but every single day here, we're building, hopefully you guys is belief or listening, watching this and also you melody to comment on and cheering your experience, because melody, you're also realizing what we're doing here is real we I got on 30 seconds before I said nobody got any questions, she said nope guess we're just gonna wing it. I said, Yep, we are, and then we went live, right, there's no script, there's no bullshit here, it's just, look, this is a model that you can do from home. This is a model that doesn't require you to have clients and customers and go out there and do sales and all this kind of stuff, you're just learning how to use the, the internet, in a way that adds value to people's lives and gets them to get to you to become the hunted, instead of the hunter. That's it in a nutshell, and melody you can relate to be in the hunter, right when you're doing some of these business models, most of them out there. It's like you're like the hunter, you're, like you said, befriending people and handing out business cards, shaking hands and kissing babies, and it's like all trying to eventually close them in on something, and that's just not what we're doing here. Would you agree with that or add anything just for anybody who's listening who has done some of these business models in the past, to understand the difference of what we're doing here with affiliate marketing, and then if you wanted to go on and sell your own courses coaching or or events.

Melody: Yeah, I definitely think that I can agree with the hunter and hunted. But, legendary is nothing like any of those, and you know it teaches you a skill that you can either, you know, promote this course or you can promote whatever you like. I mean, pets are a big deal. Sports apparel is a big deal, like, whatever you can think of, there is an affiliate program and so you can take what you learned from this course. And if you don't want to promote an educational course or something like that, you can promote a product or whatever. And so, it's, it's, it's awesome, because a lot of people, they don't want to promote, you know, education for me. I love education. I think that that's where a huge part of the industry is going. And for me, I enjoy growing because learning is growing.

Dave: I wanted to add something else. Melanie, you can probably relate to this, I would assume, king of the shiny object syndrome of wanting to, like we buy into this multiple streams of income thing, right, it's like, make sense, right, and, and most of the time my experiences we as entrepreneurs, especially new entrepreneurs, just go about it the wrong way. Right, we'll start a business over here and affiliate market and then all of a sudden, we'll go over here to like Amazon or we'll go over here and get involved in crypto right models that don't complement each other models that are, are, are in conflict with each other, rather than in collaboration with each other. And the best way to create multiple streams of income if you're running multiple businesses, is to create businesses that compliment each other, oftentimes businesses that may even collaborate with each other. But let me give you an example so if I create, let me, I'll show you, tell you guys how to maybe approach this from just strictly doing affiliate marketing. So, if you guys create a, a, a business in a specific niche, and then all of a sudden you kind of get that going, you systematize that melody you said, I'm creating for TikTok today. Maybe you systematize that to where you're creating TikToks today. You upload those two reels, You do one YouTube video good solid YouTube video week, any email your list every day or every other day. That's a system. Okay, every week, I'm doing the same thing. Right, I know what to expect. I know what I'm doing I can plan for. Now let's say six nine months down the road you kind of, or a year, let's say a good year down the road you got that humming that business in that niche is pumping out 10 12,000 a month. Okay, that's a helmet. Alright, maybe more, but 10-12,000 a month at that time and now all of a sudden you get that little shiny object multiple streams of income that we all get right, We get a little bit kind of bored or maybe something becomes successful. The difference is we don't do it before something is successful, we stick with it till it's successful. But here's the catch and I want you guys all to listen to this very closely. I take that same system of the amount of content or TikToks or Instagram reels or YouTube videos or email is all I do is I just go and I attack another niche. And I replicate that same system so say for example you were doing education products and to make money online niche. Now I replicate that same exact system then you mentioned pets. I replicate that same exact system into the training, the dog training niche, right, so now I'm just doing I'm doing for a brand new channel on TikTok, for example, four TikToks a day, duplicating those TikToks over to Instagram, one solid YouTube video week emailing the list everyday or every other day. Now for the next year, I've got a brand new business, but I'm not learning the business model, all over again all I'm doing is replicating and what it's like. As you become a McDonald's franchise owner, or for somebody who's opening, you start an initial business and you franchise it across the country. Because you already understand the system in order to understand the business model, right, and then you can, I know people who have replicated brands, affiliate marketing just is all they do is create the content, they don't create their own products and they replicate those affiliate marketing businesses in niche after niche after niche now that's an advanced strategy, but that's how deep the rabbit hole can go and how big you can expand this and you never have to learn anything new, really, you never have to start a business that's in competition. Rather you're multiplying streams of income based on a system that you already built that comes up for you as I, as I say that it does that make sense to you.

It makes a lot of sense and I think that that is ultimately where I want to be. And I think, for people that are just starting out, my biggest piece of advice would be to master one thing before you move to the next. For me, if I do too many things, that's where I kind of fall off and become inconsistent and that is absolutely not what I want but in the beginning, like I was making 14 drops a day, it took me longer because I was just trying to make them be a certain way but then as time went on, those 14 tops, a day, were you know in an hour, or 45 minutes versus two and a half hours. And so when I could start to master that and get my time down, and then start to implement other things, that's when you would want to do it but don't I would say don't do too much at once because that's where people can struggle. 

Dave: Absolutely, and I think giving yourself a full year, at the beginning, not setting unrealistic expectations by saying, look, if I don't see results in the first 30 days or 60 days, or 90 days, If I don't see some serious results. I'm out of here, right. Give you understand that most businesses out there, really take time to get into significant profit and I'm talking about, like brick and mortar businesses, usually have to give yourself a year or two or three before you break even on whatever financing loan equipment that you bought. So I tell people, give yourself like how long a really important question to ask yourself is, how long are you willing to commit to this before quitting, or doing something different. Like, how long are you willing to commit to this and I'm asking everybody who's listening. How long are you willing to commit to this before quitting or doing something different because if you look around and nobody's fixing in your, you know, the only fish in the bowl. You may think, these are my goldfish here and everybody's looking at me kind of waiting for me to succeed. But if you're looking around and tons of other people are single doing this they know that the model works. We know that it's possible. The tools are at your disposal. You know there's training at different levels depending on how much accountability you want, how much feedback and coaching you want, you can start no matter where you're at. And how long are you willing to do it? So did you have a different set of expectations, and I'll ask you directly, Melody. Do you have a different set of expectations now than you did in the past that's changed for you at all or do you think it's really just your backs against the wall, and you're like, I'm throwing out all my. I don't know any excuses or whatever like, what do you think it is? You think it's an expectation thing or something different?

Melody: I definitely think that I'm in a different situation. But as far as expectations, I've definitely been in others where I'm like I'm going to commit to this for at least a year, and I did work but I didn't get the results. And so when I came here and I got those results and I saw so many other people getting results I mean like, I just from the get go, I'm like if I'm going to do this I'm going to do this and I'm going to commit. And so, but I also know like at the deepest core of my soul, like, I'm going to be in a completely different place in six months, a year from now and so it's just this, this is what is aligned with me and I love it and it's amazing and I'm so incredibly grateful for what you have created here.

Dave: Thank you. I mean, I'm incredibly grateful for people like you who have come in and taken action and not because of any, you know, weird, you know, not because we're telling you to do it for a year and, you know, just trust but because you're doing it you got results, and, and you're like okay I can see how I can replicate these results over and over again, I think you're somebody who's been exposed to entrepreneurship before so I think you sort of already had that commitment mentality and just what you were doing before wasn't working, I think for people who are brand new, who have never done any sort of entrepreneurship or business on their own. Maybe you guys might want to look at the expectations that you have and just make sure that you have realistic expectations for them. Because unrealistic expectations are resentments waiting to happen. You know, and usually we'll either, you know, blame ourselves or blame somebody else but either way blaming doesn't help anyone or anything. Get Rich that's for damn sure. It might keep you broke right. So let's talk briefly about what you, what have you done in creating content and marketing that has worked and what have you done that you've learned doesn't work.

Melody: So I, you know, what is working is. Man, TikTok has been a thing. So, um, I, that's where I mainly am, on the form that I chose, and you know I started in the beginning. On. TikTok, and I actually had another personal account, that it was just for funds before 2020 happened, and I was kind of on there but what I was doing, which didn't work so take note of this guys if you're growing slowly and you have multiple TikToks Okay. Because what I was doing was I was being my own biggest cheerleader, liking and sharing my stuff and then I would go to my other account and I would go on my video and I would like and I would share it. Well, that didn't work so well for me. and because I had that personal account and then I came on TikTok with risewithmel, originally, and then I think I might have gotten like shadow banned or something, and it took me quite a long time to get to 5000 followers, and like it was over a month, and so I started a third TikTok. And it rose with Mel, one. And when I created that third one. Nothing like it was like nothing happened. And so I was just like okay, let me see what's going on here so I did some research. Tiktok research and they say, if you have multiple accounts that God does not like that if you're going in between and liking and sharing your own stuff, that God does not like that. And so, the instructions that they said to do on TikTok. What do you log out of your accounts that you're not using and I was just like okay, I have 5000 followers, but I'm going to start this new one, and that I had to really sit and think, should I do this, And I did. And so I logged out of those, I don't go into any of those counts at all, and I was able to grow to 5000 over 5000, in one week. And so, if you're struggling in that area. I would recommend one account, don't go in between accounts and, Like, like, comment and share and stuff like that. I didn't comment on my own stuff, but I did like and share it. So that definitely didn't work, and then the things that do work the best, are, where you're kind of showing people how to do something, Like how to become an affiliate on Amazon, or how to, you know, go to Upwork and find a job that could be an online job or just other things that aren't specific to just affiliate marketing but learning what people can do and like more upset, more or less, teaching them. So that's been the best that has been working.

Dave: Yeah, and how you can kind of learn how to do that is, is really just by watching other I mean the biggest thing that I think people don't, don't just overlook is just, we had a guest on last week who said, you know, I have a system, I do one video in the morning, that's, you know, based on. That's an inspirational one that's based on me working out one in the afternoon, that's a value, teaching something or some, something that I saw, worked on somebody else's video not reinventing the wheel and then one at night to where I'm basing it off a trend a trending song, a trending something that's, you know, a trending topic, tying that into my channel, but it's, it's, you have to reinvent the wheel as far as content nowadays, on the internet. You just have to sort of either ride the wave, when it's happening if there's something that's trending or find let somebody else do the testing for you, right, if and. And so, there's, there's a, what I mean by that is, is that if I see a video that's blowing up that's based on a, you know that somebody's showing somebody how to go to Upwork and fill out a, you know, a job offer or Fiverr and do create thumbnails for people's videos for $10 or $5 a piece that's in that video is blowing up on TikTok well you know that people enjoy that content people like looking at that content so let me recreate that in my own voice with my own way. And a lot of that comes from spending time researching looking at other people's content and videos, and kind of seeing what's working out there, I think a challenge that a lot of people have is when I'm, When I'm doing research, getting sucked into too much content consumption and also getting into comparison itis of comparing myself with other marketers and content creators out there, how do you avoid that.

Melody: Avoid that comparisonitis. That’s definitely a thing. 

Dave: Yeah, how do you deal with that, I mean, a lot of people, for a lot of people that's paralyzing. It's paralyzing; they just can't get over the idea that somebody wants to listen to them. 

Melody: Yeah, and I think I have definitely struggled. I think everybody at some point struggles with it. you just have to say, This is my commitment, this is what I'm going to do I'm going to put my head down and I'm going to go, and there is going to be somebody that's doing the exact same thing, it's going to make less than you and there's going to be somebody doing the exact same thing as you that's begin. Way, way more than you. And so you cannot compare yourself, or it will really bum you out. And so just do, just do you. And don't worry about what other people are doing. I would say model, if they're having success, but if you don't get 100,000 views on that same video that they just got 900,000, you know, he is on. Don't worry about it because I've created it. I've literally created the same video on a different account, and I've gotten it went viral and then I did it on a new account, and it got a couple 100 And so you just, It's just, just do you keep pedaling. 

Dave: Yeah, Jordan said lol that's my problem. Jordan I want to say, you're not alone. You know, I want to let you guys all in on a little secret melody you think I should reveal a dirty little secret of mine. It's a dirty one. Look, sometimes I even am amazed that people listen to me like they do. You know what I mean, like, I'm like, wow, you know, like, I wish my wife and kids listen to me like this, you know what I mean, like, you know, it's like, I just go home and my wife's like, can you take out the garbage, I'm like, don't you know I think I am. She's crazy you know I mean it's like sometimes it doesn't. And I've been doing this for 10 years I'll show up to events and people will be like, you know, we're taking photos or I've been asked to give autographs, I mean, you know, it's crazy right and I mean I do it like humbly I'm gracious I'm thrilled I'm honored. You know what I mean like it's not like this total DB who is like, oh yeah, who wants their next picture with me? You know I mean, it's like, but I think that a lot of people who you look at and you're like, oh, they just do this naturally, you know, they're just naturally like, know that they're worthy of being listened to, I think, I think I've talked to some, some other really successful content creators, I've talked to even some people who are mildly famous, and they all have a level of imposter syndrome, that is kind of like, I wonder if they find me out, find out who I really am, you know, find out who I am behind closed doors because I'm a goofball man, I mean, I am. You know, I often will be doing some real silly shit like at home with my kids or whatever and I'll be like, like, imagine if this is on video. We're like, you know, seeing me like this, you know, like, like dancing around in my underwear, you know what I mean torque and in my boxer briefs. Just, just being, you know, we're all, I think, just regular people, and, and those of us who, I think, command, more, more, or who, you know, attract people to, to follow us or whatever, are just those who people are able to look at and say, I like the way that person lips, like, I like how comfortable that person is in their skin. I like how authentic how real this person feels, or I like how funny they are, you know, all of that is just really kind of, when I say step into your power, what I really mean by that is step into your skin. You know, like you're given this set of skin. This face, this body, this, you know, this personality that's unique to you. And it's beautiful. When it's exactly how it was designed to be used, not least, not least, brutal, you know anxiety of rejection or worrying about what people think you're really, really caught up with your own unique swagger. And that doesn't mean that your authentic self and everybody's gonna write you have to be valuable. If you present that in a way that it's just natural. But all of these natural connections that allow from your heart to somebody else's heart. And that's, I think this stuff really nowadays in 2021 is really right now. People are just thirsting for that sort of communication interaction, would you agree with that.

Melody: Definitely. I mean, the connections that you can make, are, are incredible. And I think that so many people, though, are very skeptical. And so when you get into DMS and things like that, that's when, like you can truly build, you know, a different relationship than just, you know, the views or the TikToks or the comments. So, and I like to, I have Instagram connected to my TikTok. And the only reason why I have that connected to my TikTok is because I want people to be able to go to Instagram and then voice message me so that I can have that voice connection with them because of TikTok. You get so many characters and then you're done or you just don't have the same response, as you can over voice and so that's cool, that's that's cool yeah you can do that on Facebook Messenger do. Well, Melody. It looks good on you, so keep it up. All right, keep it up, you're, you're, you're, you're definitely on the path, and you've already had a couple of quote miracles, right, miracles through hard work that have happened, and there's many more. I can see coming your way, and I know you can see them too and that's what's that's what's really important is that you go from other seeing them to you being able to see him that becomes your vision right that's what we mean when we say vision we kind of have a belief about the future that this is what's going to happen, this is what I'm going to make happen. And, yeah, and I see it, I see it and I believe it with you and for you so keep up the good work and please come back and keep us posted on your journey.

Melody: Awesome, thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate it.

Dave: You're very welcome Melody, you earned it, we'll talk to you later. All right, take care, see ya. All right, my friends. Well there you go kicking off Monday with yet another one, another one. I feel like DJ Khaled, another one right, another awesome, inspirational, member of this community who's living Legendary, you know, being Legendary, has said F average, you know what I mean you can read the hat, you know, be Legendary. Right. What does that mean to you or to me it means that, you know, I'm going to live my best life, you know, I'm going to I'm going to step into my power into my skin that was given to me. And I'm going to make the most out of it, I'm going to stretch it to its limits, and you know that's what melody is doing, and that's what I invite all of you to do as well, and the payoff, on the other side of that uncomfortability at first, is, is rewarding. It's an income but it's also impact. And it's also inspiration for others but here's the key is when you become inspired by your own story, by your own life by what you're doing, right, the fact that you're overcoming odds, you know, a melody mentioned that she's a newly, you know, single mom, well, you know, that's a tough situation, and I'm sure many of you guys have been through breakups or divorces. But what's inspiring is when you put one foot in front of the other, and you say I'm not going to let this break me down, I'm going to turn this into a breakthrough. Right. And sure that's absolutely inspirational to other people, but if you can create and see the power of your story, and become inspired by what you're actually doing. That's a whole nother level of motivation, and I invite you all to live in a way, market in a way, build your business in a way that inspires you, and if it inspires you, your own story, what you're doing, it will surely inspire others. Join us back here again tomorrow for another episode. Get out of here. Peace.

How To Jumpstart Your Affiliate Marketing Business In Just A Few Months


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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary yet another episode. Oh my gosh, you would think that we would run out of guests one day, the list only gets longer, and the people just keep being awesome, I can't say that there are more awesome less awesome that would be disrespectful to previous good guests, but they are as Awesome, and today is no exception. We have a Kentucky girl. All right, all the way from the great state. SarahThompson what's going on?

Sarah: Hey Dave.

Dave: How are you? Are you proud to be a Kentucky girl? 

Sarah: Yes, it’s in my blood. 

Dave: There you go. There you go. Yeah, I read your little part about having a dream or looking at people who sat front row at the Kentucky Wildcats game next to Rick Pitino right, and always wondering, did or did those people did they save their whole life to get that see, did they get lucky, like, is that that's kind of the things that you look at in Kentucky or you anyways and say, How do these people get this type of money, is that right?

Sarah: Yeah, or luck or how do they know the people to get those tickets?. 

Dave: Yeah, right, right, right. Yeah, it's interesting. You grew up in a big college sports town or state like Indiana, Ohio is like that a little bit with their Buckeyes right in the end is like that with their Hoosiers. I mean Florida is a little bit like that with our gators and Seminoles and stuff like those hurricanes, we get a little crazy, but um, but yeah it's interesting. You know, when you see somebody sitting front row at a Miami Heat game or whatever you know you know that ticket cost $20,000 You know how, just, I think, thinking like how can somebody spend $20,000 on a two or three hour ticket also stretches your mind a little bit as well like cuz most people that would be, that would be a huge stretch right. 

Sarah: Yes, huge. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah. But here's the interesting thing is that there's people who spend that like you spend $20 

Sarah: Right at the drop of the hat. 

Dave: Right now that's a, that's a mental exercise.

Sarah: Right. 

Dave: Kind of stretching your mindset about what's really possible, right. So tell us about how you grew up did you grow up around people with with big money mindset, or what was life like growing up in Kentucky, and in what led you to eventually become an a physical therapist, and then how did you find Legendary and start online marketing, see if you can package that up into a little nutshell for us.

Sarah: Whoa that’s a lot of questions, so I'm from a really small town in Kentucky. We're coal miners and farmers, where I'm from and Kentucky. Good, good people where I'm from. My parents both worked hard their whole life, but no online business people, you know, no out of the box bankers really and I'm not saying that to insult my family I'm just, they're not that way. How I became a Physical Therapist Assistant, I was actually in a really tragic car accident. Damaged both of my legs. I have nerve damage, went through eight months of physical therapy and decided that's the route I wanted to go. So I've been doing physical therapy for almost 15 years now and I still love my job. It's very rewarding, but it wears my body out a little bit. I'm 35. I don't think that's old in any regard. But when I come home at the end of the day and my feet hurt, or my back hurts because I've had to lift people or because I'm tired, and I can't give the best of myself, to the people who mean most to me. I started looking at you know what else could I do, because my family needs my income. My husband's a hard worker, But we like to have extra things. We like to do extra things and we like to travel and, you know, we were used to a certain lifestyle so for me to just quit my job is really not even something I would consider. So I actually had some free time at my job on TikTok. And I kept seeing these videos with these people making money online and you know just like everybody else, I think I will admit, they just scrolled right past initially you know just move, yeah right, yeah right, very skeptical, that's me. But I must have liked one of the videos at some point in time because they started showing up in the algorithm. So finally, a tightwad as well. Finally, I was like, You know what $7 I'm gonna do?” You know I'm gonna, I'm gonna see what it's about. And when I tell you that I sent that $7 and I was hooked. That's the truth. And I still tell people all the time. $7 is like. I kicked myself for not spending that $7 The first time I saw the video, the 15 day business builder challenge. Amazing. But I tell people all the time that these calls. These wake up legendary calls, and the support you get with the Facebook group, it's unmatched, like there are days where I'll be down or I'll think I'm in a slump and I'll listen to this call while we're night, and it's like what I need to just push me a little bit, or you know, to give me maybe a fresh idea or a new perspective. So, that's really kind of how I got my start. And that's still what I'm doing, I mean I've been, I still tell people I'm new. I mean this is 11 weeks for me. I'm not in any way coming on here and saying I'm a pro but I have it all figured out, but as I don't, I just, I'm learning as I go, and making money as I go.

Dave: Yeah, no congratulations for the money that you have made you, you, you told me what that was in your message and I was, I was, I was pretty surprised so I wanted to say congrats for that is that is that exciting is that life changing what does that been like for you?

Sarah: It's exciting because when I had my business plan advisor call with Josiah He's awesome. Gotta get that guy a huge shout out. My first goal was to make $1,000 By July, and then to make 20 $500 By the end of July. And we now surpass that. I don't want to say what I've made here like I'm bragging, but it just happened. And it's definitely life changing money. I mentioned I'm a tightwad, we were at Myrtle Beach last week, and I had prescription Oakley sunglasses, and the ocean took off. I mean I had either side, my prescription sunglasses or my five year old and I went from the five year old. 

Dave: Good for you.

Sarah: But, yeah, but normally that would be an expense that I would be like, you know, I don't want to spend that money, we don't really have that. I'll go to Walmart and buy some $10 glasses, but I'm going to go ahead and just get another pair of prescription Oakley sunglasses. Dave: Girl, get you some, get you another pair.

Sarah: Okay yeah, maybe I should be an affiliate for Oakleys right now because those things are game changers for real. But it's just things like that, like, I haven't made the kind of money that you know, you know, paying cash for a home or anything but my family's going to be able to breathe a little easier, because, you know, We just went on vacation, stress free. And we're going on another vacation soon. And it's paid for, and that's nice.

Dave: Well, I just found out also that Oakley does have an affiliate program. All right, so just, you know, just throwing that out there. 

Sarah: I know that it's good to know, they might be hearing from me soon. 

Dave: Yeah it's like hey did you know that I was like, the guest on July, 29 for Wake Up Legendary? And I gave you guys a shout out, okay like exactly did you know I'm famous on TikTok and stuff?

Sarah: My daughter, she's 11 and her softball team. They all know I'm on TikTok, and they're all Sarah. Can you plug me? Sarah, can we do a TikTok?

Dave: Right, can we swap shout outs? Yeah, yeah, nice cool so your husband brags on you a little bit right and tells your friends embarrassingly that you're famous on Tik ok. Yeah,

He's proud. Like, when I started this, I didn't tell anybody running. Obviously my husband knew we knew we shared everything and it was money, but I didn't tell my best friends, I didn't tell my parents until I made a little bit of money and didn't tell those people. But my husband were like in the car and he's like on the phone telling you know all of his friends I'm like Jay, like, I don't really tell people, these are for strangers on the internet like I knew, but now he tells me he just tells me he's proud of me which is nice. I appreciate that. Sure. And I actually think I'm about to branch out and might start on another form of social media, other than just kicking off in a little bit unsure of myself first. Do I have all the skills to implement those and do it for a while, you know, I guess I was kind of second guessing myself, but the more confidence I have about it,

say more about that, I mean I think that's a big thing that's that's like the number one thing that people are like, all wanting to, to improve is their confidence, how do they feel more comfortable, how do they find their voice, how do they find their, their, their, their character if you will? I mean and I and I'm not saying you're not being authentic, you're not. But for me, honestly, like, I do have an on switch when I'm recording content and when I'm taught that I'm a little bit more animated I'm a little bit more off. I'm a little, I'm on versus when I'm hanging out on the couch like I'm off and I, that's kind of my voice that's sort of my messenger voice versus, you know my kind of hangout lounge around at the house, voice and personality. I'm a little bit more laid back there. But talk to us about how you found your voice, how you found your confidence I mean, give us some specifics, so people can, kind of, kind of relate to your journey, and be like, Oh yeah, I'm there and although they may feel like they're failing or whatever. We're not getting it. Maybe we could help them, let them know that they're actually on the path, and even though it's uncomfortable. This is kind of what building confidence and stuff looks like so anyways, tell us what say more about you building your confidence and stuff.

Sarah: Well, when I first started. That's what I do most of the time is take jobs so it's videos, and it's my face. Normally, you know, my husband, when we went to Disney World a few years ago I snapchatted all of it for my family so they could see what I was doing. He's like Sarah, Snapchat helps you be comfortable on TikTok. So the best thing I can say about maybe making TikTok videos and being confident with that is that you know you just got to trust what you're saying and just do it, you know like, I think everybody says this, you go back and look at my first tape talks and they're like, What was I even doing, you know, but I won't delete those because that's how I started. And I don't want I don't want to give anybody the false pretense that when I started, I knew what I was doing. One of the things I say in my labs all the time is that I do stay authentic. I'm not going to be somebody who comes on here and says, y'all, I made $10,000 yesterday and I'm going to be a millionaire by October, like that's, that's not me, I'm only going to tell you the truth, and I'm only going to be who I am. You know, so realistically, I'm Sarah. I'm a healthcare worker. I had no prior experience, but I took the training that changed my life. And because I was willing to learn something new, and implement some skills and give this a little bit of time, I've been able to be successful and so I think the best way to have confidence in what you're doing is to have confidence in yourself and your abilities to learn a bit there. Because never in my videos. I've got this 100% figured out, learn from me because I'm the best, like that's not ever gonna be what I say, I'm very, actually, I don't pride myself on and I don't mean that. But you know you see some people making TikToks and it's really bad that they're being truthful, I don't know if everybody feels that way or it's just me. And I have found too I feel like I should say this, my tech talks that get the most views or likes or comments, or the TikToks or they're just me talking about me honestly. I had a tick tock go viral, or not, not a rule but get a lot of views. A couple of weeks ago it was me, at 5am, And I was talking about how I was going on vacation, and because of the $7 training I took a few months ago, I had a vacation budget that was bigger than what I expected. It was just me, no makeup, hair wasn't a mess, being me, because that's what people relate to. If I was to come on here and say, I have a business degree and I've been doing this for 10 years, but you can do this too. You know, I'd be cool yeah but it's gonna take me some time. That's, that's not really yet like, Yeah, I had no experience and I'm doing it. If I can, and if you're willing to learn, you know.

Dave: It's amazing how, over the years, I've continued to to be astonished that the stuff that I think is gonna work the least or that I, I guess the best way to describe it is the stuff that I, that I don't overthink the stuff that I just get like I have an idea and I implement it and I don't sit there and overthink it, like it's just kind of like, okay, I got spaghetti thrown against the wall, see if it sticks like those are the campaigns, those are the videos, those are the posts, those are the emails that always do the best and I think one of the reasons why that is is because those are typically coming more from the heart, and what comes from the heart reaches the heart versus the ones that are super over thought I really try to strategize them, and I go from my heart and start creeping up into my head, does that resonate with you?

Sarah: Yeah. I walk every day in my daughter's softball practice, and I made a seven second video that said, you know, I took a $7 course I don't have a boss, I didn't buy uniform, I don't deal with products or shipping comment if you're interested, I would have to look to know the right number, but there's so many comments that I haven't even responded to all, because people just want to know how they can make more money. Like, there's not many people that you're going to encounter in the day that would say no to learning how to make more money, you know, and this training taught me how to make more money and so it's, it's easy for me to talk about it. You know I could tell anybody about it, you know, those videos that are just genuine just may like I said, here's the mask. I'm walking in because I'm a busy mom and my daughter's softball practice. I've got a few seconds to tell you what I'm doing, and people respond to that. Yeah, I'm not perfect, I don't have an office in three hours a day with a babysitter and, you know, I'm making this work as a full time mom and why, and worker and busy person. And so that makes it relatable to other people because that's where most people are, you know, people that need extra money, don't sit around in their life, the chair thinking, oh yeah, I could do that, you know, most people are already stretched for time.

Dave: Kara morgan said I think I've gotten stagnant and stuck in my head again. What would you say to her?

Sarah: What I mean I'm not gonna lie that can be me too, but don't stay there because I had to have a talk with myself that week, you know, I will go through doubting myself, or thinking, I'm doing the same thing everybody else is doing this is going to be overpopulated or, you know, are people getting tired of me saying the same thing over and over again. But as soon as I do that, I'll just continue what I'm doing, and then I'll get reassurance and I'm doing the right thing. Keep at it. I'm a firm believer that if in your heart you know what you're doing is right, then you can't be wrong. You know, if you go to sleep at night and you think, I didn't do anything today Wrong again, all I can do for myself. Keep doing it, you know, keep pushing because I think I made my first big commission in five weeks, and I don't know how many times in that first five weeks I thought am I wasting my time, or am I gonna feel silly in another month, this doesn't pan out for me. But in the back of my mind, I could tell him myself. Because of those mindset training, Sara, you can do this, you have learned how to do this, you have people supporting you, telling you you can do this, so just stick with it. Stay with it, and you can do it. So that's what I would tell you to get out of your head. go for a walk. Clear your mind, something I do sometimes too and I mean there's three people that look up to the new gag. Safety Law, Barb McGowan, and Sarah the affiliate the blonde affiliate but like those three. I watch them, and I get inspiration from them. I don't copy them, but you know if you feel stuck and you're seeing other people that you think aren't stuck, go see what they're doing. Reach out to them and message them say man, Scott, you got anything for me. Go back and watch these Wake Up Legendary see what other people are doing because I'm willing to bet that everybody can relate to being stuck in your own head.

Dave: Yeah. There's so much inspiration around. It's, it's, when we, when we look at somebody. It's that that information can either cut, you know, when we look at them, it can either be translated as inspiration to get us fired up to go in and, you know, message and what we know more authentically and get fired up or it can kind of translate and transfer right into our head as like, oh, you know, and then that leads to the overthinking so I think the I think we have to realize that that marketing is art and science, the sciences is that there are certain processes that work better than others but the art is. This is the best way for me to explain the art and artists, which take inspiration from looking at something, or seeing a painting or seeing a man or woman, or seeing a beautiful sunset. And then they paint, maybe not even that sunset, sometimes they do an exact copy of that, but rarely you know, most of the time, where’d you get your inspiration from that? Well I saw this beautiful woman and, you know, sorry this just popped into my head. I don't mean to be creepy with Saudi, but the curves are this, this man and his abs kind of like my six pack coming, you know, it's on its way. You know, but whatever it is, right, it's like, oh I was inspired by that. And that doesn't mean that I'm copying, but that's where I got like my inspiration like I think watching other people do their thing for me when I see somebody who's passionate and they're doing their thing, I'm like, Yes, I'm gonna do my thing too, right, you know, like so. I think that, I think that that kind of transferring somebody else's power in the form of inspiration, like you're talking about looking at somebody, but not letting it go to the head in the form of overthinking in comparison. Have you struggled with any comparisonitis up until this point, how do you battle that?

Sarah: Of course, I think it's just natural for us to compare ourselves to other people. I try not to let it get in my head, but you know those people that I said I watched it first, but they were talking about making $20,000 in the first month or, and I haven't done that, you know, but then I think about my lifestyle and I'm, I'm not saying I'm any of these other than anybody else, but I do have a full time job. I have two kids that are full time and are involved in church. My husband started his own business. The same month, I did. He's a contractor, full time contractor, and he's also a hospital umpire and referee. He has a busy lifestyle. So, I tell people all the time. If I had more time with this. I feel like I could do more. And when people ask about business blueprints like I've touched on those. But it's ongoing, there's so much education there and I just need time to get to those. But you know, right now I'm doing the best with my time that I can. My kids are young now and so I have to make choices about that, you know, so I do tend to compare myself to people who are doing better than me. And not to be ugly, but then I compare myself to other people who I'm doing better than and I'm just like, you know, we're all just doing the best we can, because when I say beauty of being an online business owner, is that you don't have a boss. That's what I mean. Somebody asked me the other day, so who tells you what time to post your tech talks, and I'm like, nobody likes it. Nobody tells me what to say, what to do, when to do it, how to do it. Like, it's only, you know, so what I've made is because of my work what I haven't made is because of my lack of time. What I will make in the future is because I'm going to commit more to it. And that's the beauty of being a business owner.

Dave: Let me ask you a question, feel like that pressure, like, like what you just said, We're all on you, is that, has that been, has that been empowering, or intimidating?

Sarah: I mean it can be both. Now, mostly empowering, but sometimes intimidating because I'm the kind of learner and person that I have to, to do something new. I can't have uninterrupted time. Like, I love my children, but they can't be running around and maybe focus on something, and some people can index, amazing for them. So maybe in a business owner is something I've never even thought I would say, but I'm doing it, and I'm kind of doing with it, you know, that's empowering, and my intimidated by all that I don't know yet, and all that I haven't conquered yet, a little bit, but I have the confidence that I can do it. So a little bit of both, there but mostly I'm empowered by it because I never thought I could do it. Honestly, and I am.

Dave: Was that confidence that you say, I have the confidence that I know I can do it, was that something that you think existed before or do you think that has been built in the months since you started?

Sarah: That has definitely been built in the month since I started. And like I said I had no prior business experience at all. But whenever it's explained to you in a way that you understand it's, it's not rocket science, you know, No, it's new. I tell people all the time it's something I've never done before. I had never heard the term funnel builder email autoresponder. That was all foreign to me. In April, okay. But because of the education I received. I understand it, And I know how to move forward with it. Now, I need more time to do more, you know, but the confidence that I have about it is there, largely because of all of the talk about your mindset and how you speak to yourself. And, you know, there was somebody on here the other day, I think it was you Dave actually who said something like, my wife and I are doing good, we're going to get a divorce, and you said, don't speak that into existence, don't, don't give that life, don't give that wings. So when I start to think, I'm never going to have time to make my business any more successful, I think. Yes you are, you know like you got time off at work that you want to, you know, some extra time take a day off and do it, or when I did the training I was actually between travel sports sounds and I have more time, that's when I implemented all my stuff, we're at a really busy point in our lives right now so I don't have that extra time but I know what will be there again, you know, your mindset is so important and how you speak to yourself, and it's even kind of changed how I speak to my children, a little bit like, we're not going to say I can't do that, we're not going to say this is too hard. We can say, I had a bad day today wasn't good, but that doesn't mean tomorrow can't be good.

Dave: Yeah, I do the same thing with my kids, we really challenged them. I don't shame them if they say I can't because they don't, they don't know they're just trying out language but I say, I don't even, sometimes I joke. I'm like “I can't” I don't I've never heard that. I don't know. Wait, can't eat, I've never I don't use that word. Do you want to use that word, you know, just kind of teaching them, you know, to try to delete that word from their vocabulary. My dad used to say can’t could never do anything. Right, that was his way of telling me, you know, stop crying basically and saying that you can't do shit and start doing it. The other thing that he used to do, and he still does, if something's I'm frustrated with something he'll be like, don't let it whip you. Right. So, listen, I wanted to ask if there's people who I know who have more views on their videos than you do, would have gotten a lot less leads and made less money, what, what would you attribute to getting people from your content into your funnel. I don't argue, are you giving a hardcore call to action every video, click the link in my bio, talk to us a little bit about how you end your videos or tie your content into actually then checking out the link in your bio, and then going through to check out what you're promoting as an affiliate?

Sarah: I definitely have a call to action at the end of all my videos. Sometimes I feel really silly, putting that in there, but it's kind of proven to work, you know, another thing I do with my videos that always start with a hook, which I'll say that. And then, in the comments. Something I did with a video that went viral was, leave a comment if you have more questions, and then that opens up the people who are actually watching the full video, you know, because, you know, they listened to the video if they left a comment. And then it gives you a communication with them, you know, you can then follow them back and message with them, they can ask you questions because I feel like I answer a ton of questions in the videos on my every day, but like, what up, I don't even I have over 40,000 followers, but if one of my videos gets 300 views. I don't know what percentage that is like 1% Yeah, so most of my followers don't even see all my videos. So, always direct people to the link in my bow. Something else I do that could be right or could be wrong, I don't know, because I was a skeptical person at first, I just always say, Follow me. You know if you think if you think this is a scam, or if you think I'm gonna fail I don't say that but follow me, watch my journey, you know, it's almost like am I there yet, you know, because, and I've got people who have messaged me that have said, I was your follower when you had 1000 people and had made no money, and I love seeing what you've done now. That's cool. And I don't know if those people have bought or not, I don't mean that, but you always have to give people something to do at the end of your video, you know you don't want to just throw right past, like Oh that was cool, you know, like, for me, the comments is big, because like I said that opens up that opens up a communication with them, you know, and then even if we start like direct messaging, it's almost like a relationship is formed there. And I don't mean this to sound ugly but like people in my town who said I follow you on TikTok, you didn't follow me back and I'm like, I don't. I didn't mean not to.

Dave: Don’t you know I’m famous, don’t you know I got 1000’s of followers and the fact that you follow me got lost in my 1000’s of notifications.

Sarah: I didn't mean that I just meant like, TikTok names are weird like they don't even say your name, half the time, you know, I don't, I don't know these people who are messaging me I don't know their situation. What I do know in my life. Is that an extra $1,000 A month a game changer, or a week or two days, whatever it is, it's a game changer, you know. So, let people know that you did it, And they can do it too. If you take the same steps you did.

Dave: Yeah, or whatever your niche is right I mean, you know, we tend to talk a lot about the Make Money Online here on the show and, you know, is this, this works in any niche, it's just about learning the content, the questions the pain points of the target customer niche. And, and kind of devoting, you know, at least, a particular channel about that topic. i You said something about direct messaging people. And I wonder, how do you try to follow people who follow you and also how do you engage with them? I was talking to somebody last night, who said, I love the idea of conversational selling and connecting people in the DMs and stuff like that. But, like, chatting it up with tons of people is time consuming as hell, can be overwhelming. So how does, how do you operate, and has it proven to get any results for you by doing so?

Sarah: I didn't follow everybody back then. Exactly, leave a comment, and they say they want to message me or anything like that, I will follow them and direct message them. Then I don't spend a lot of time in my DMs. But I feel like people are more comfortable asking you personal questions like, I'm a mom of four, I really don't have time. Can I really do this? And that's when I, you know, that gives me an opportunity to say, of course you can or I had somebody in my q&a the other day say they're in a wheelchair can they do this, or, you know, truck drivers who, their time is totally different than somebody who works a regular nine to five, you know, I don't spend a lot of time in my DMs but I do feel like people that I messaged directly, we have like a more of a relationship. And they, they trust me and when I'm saying a little bit more because I feel like and I don't know a lot about sales, but I feel like somebody who's authentic and real. You're more likely to trust them. That's one of the things I liked about you. You didn't come on here and say had a day MBA and, you know, blah blah blah. I'm a genius but you can learn from me like you're just real, you know, you're actually, my husband, you'll have a lot of the same story and so I can I can you know relate to that. And so that's what I try to do. I feel like the best you can. Just be yourself and be normal.

Dave: Yeah, a lot of dudes have stories I do, I mean it's really kind of just a pretty common dude thing we just do really dumb shit when we're young, sometimes, Sometimes we get into drugs. We work construction, we think I would have stayed in construction and made it a career honestly if I would, which I think it's a great grab for your husband to start his business. So, well, Sarah, Look, you're like, just really easy to listen to and, you know, seriously, it's so clear, so, so cool. I just, I'm so happy and happy for you proud of, you know, shout out to your awesome husband for being awesome and supportive and just kind of, you know, keep up though. Keep doing what you're doing, it's working and it looks good on you. And it's, and I can tell that you're helping people and you're making money and you're having fun, and it'll be awesome to see where you go next year. I hope you'll come back before then and keep us kind of updated on your journey. 

Sarah: Yes absolutely.

Dave: All right, cool. Well, I will let you get on with your busy day, I know you've got kids and work and all kinds of things going on. And, and we'll, we'll check in on the next time on the next episode. 

Sarah: Okay, sounds good, thanks Dave.

Dave: All right, Sarah, See you. Alright guys, she is super cool, you guys should go follow her connect with her and have her as a part of your network, you know, I mean, just so, so much value, and wisdom from somebody who's been doing this for such a short period of time, like I think that's one of the things that a lot of times we forget is how much we can learn in a short period of time, each one of you guys who are watching this who are thinking, you know, oh, I've got to be doing this for years and years and years, and before I can have value to give an experience to give into before I can actually step into a role of like a leader or a teacher, you know, day after day, we have people here, and Sarah is a phenomenal example of somebody who's been doing this for just a couple of months, and few months, three or four months, I think, and is, is full of wisdom and information full of experience from things, you know, and some of it is from training that she's done, but most of it is from taking that and implementing it and now she's got the experience to be able to share with people, just before we end, I just wanted to point that out, that each and every day that you don't build up your experience bank, right, it's like a savings account of value each thing that you like. Let me put it to you like this. You wonder how do I become more valuable and how do I give value to the marketplace, you do stuff, you build up your experience, beans, a cow, and then you can talk about those experiences, talk about what worked and talk about what didn't work. And that's value that's value. And that's exactly what each and every person who comes on the show every day has in common, they're not from the same place, they'd all have the same accent, they don't have the same upbringing. But you know what they all have that experience from the app from the training that they've taken with the action that they've taken, that's their value. And that's what they're using to be able to teach and train, and inspire and deliver value to the marketplace. It's literally, to learn, to teach. Write that down. Because that's the common thread that ties all of these incredible guests and members of your community right here together. All right, so have a fantastic day. Get out of here I'm sure you guys have busy days, take some action to build up your experience savings account today, and you can deliver that experience as value. As soon as tomorrow, peace, see that here tomorrow.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to wake up legendary we have a fellow. Well, a guy who's cut from the same cloth as my, me and my history. I'm excited to hear his story. Let's jump right into it. Please everybody in the comments, and who are jumping on help me welcome Eric Foreigner to the show. What up, brother. 

Eric: How's it going, Dave?

Dave: Excellent man actually so you, you know we have you, the title here is, you know, former alcoholic. Now crushing it online. So tell us, tell us your, tell us your story in a nutshell, bro.

Eric: All right, so, um, basically my story stems from Rob born in Las Vegas grew up in a highly gang populated area. I wasn't getting myself I was like, one of the only white families in a highly public Hispanic area right so growing up was rough. I got involved in drugs and alcohol, age, and then eventually kind of got out of it transitioned into construction, pretty much at 18 years old, and went on the road. From that point forward, it was back in, alcoholism. My first prison sentence was in 2021 or 2018. So 2001 was my first prison sentence for DUI. So I was 21 years old, and I just kept going from there. I get out for a short period of time, go back to construction, get on the road, you know road crews are mining, specifically, and I was constantly on the road just drinking Stella's and picking up alcohol. No, non stop, and so I've been in prison four times for DUI. And it's not because I'm a bad guy because I'm right, right, and so I decided to make a conscious decision that I need to change my life at 41 years old. I need to transition, construct, and figure something else out because the road is not for me, it ruined my life. It sent me to prison, many, many, many times. And so I transitioned from that directly into network marketing in 2016. I got into the MCA Motor Club of America. I was promoting that for a little while, but didn't do too well. I was slowly trying to learn off of YouTube. I wasn't doing well. I was spinning my wheels. I had all the pieces in life but I just couldn't put the pieces together. Right. And so, anyways, fast forward to 2020. Delving back into it. Beginning of 2021, I jump into legendary marketer and here I sit

Dave: Nice man, nice and things are going better for you well for you to give us kind of an update both talking about your business, it seems to be blowing up a bit right now but also on a personal level I assume you're doing well staying sober? 

Eric: Yes, sir, 100%

Dave: Nice. 

Eric: Okay so I'm on parole right now a probation device now, I paid off since I've been out working online and working my nine to five as well. While doing this, I was able to pay off all my fines, all my restitution came out to be like $10,000. I'm doing super good, you know, life Today is a lot better than it was before when I was drinking. I have obligations and goals and my mindset is definitely different now. You know, I want to give back. I took so much in life and I was such a greedy person, by going to prison and getting drunk and leaving my children behind, and I was, I was being selfish by leaving my kids when I go to work and get drunk so, you know, in a nutshell. My life is transformed. I can . I owe a lot to my wife. In my higher power, because of the support that I have with her through the trials and tribulations this last prison sentence I went to I thought for sure she was gone like every other time. You know when you go, you find out who your real friends are when you either have to move or you go to prison. And so, so, you know she stuck with me the whole time and it's really it's transformed my life to another level catapulted into another level to where I see somebody that has backed me up to this whole process you know me getting in trouble with my alcoholism to try and work online as, as well as working 12 hour shifts in construction. So, man. You know, my life today is different. 41 years old I wish I would have figured it out earlier. But, you know, y'all got some time.

Dave: Yeah, I think, I think many of us can can relate to that, you know, I'm sure there's some people who are older than 41, you know, listening who wish right but you know which wishes are for our for witches bro you know what I mean like this, we don't, we're not, we're not doing abracadabra here life is. I think what I realize, and I think you are too is that, you know you can turn your mess into a message. And you don't have to sit in your shit, you know what I mean you can turn your struggles into your strings you can turn a pile of shit into fertilizer. You know what I mean, sprinkle it around on your life, and, and, and turn it into something that is meaningful to you, and also can be meaningful to others. And, you know, that's where I think when we figure out how to mix our purpose with making money, for example, which I really think that I've begun to figure out or I did when I entered into this industry. After also doing network marketing myself, I failed miserably. When I got online and started kind of creating content and started to find my voice a little bit, and figure out how to, Instead of always just talking about like features and benefits, which I felt like I was doing when I when I was in network marketing, like I was like, my juice is the greatest juice or you know whatever talking about the product, you know what I mean like, and that's just how I was trained. When I got into affiliate marketing, and I started marketing online. It was more about storytelling and content creation. And so that's where I really personally figured out, and I don't, I didn't do it on purpose I just kind of did it because I needed content, you know what I mean like I needed stuff to talk about, just like you do on TikTok and YouTube and stuff like that. And, and so I started to sort of kind of slowly take a risk with some of my story like you just did right there. And I was like holy shit people likeness, and just like the comments are blowing up with, hey awesome Eric and inspired keep going, hats off like you get that sort of positive reinforcement, you know like that, people are like, Damn, that's pretty cool and you're like, Yo, maybe all my skeletons in your like and you're like, maybe I'll pull out another skeleton. And then people are like holy shit, you're like, I'll put that one back. They're not ready for that one right. You get the point, they're like, damn, like that's cool you know and I feel like that's what's happening for you is that, would you say that that kind of describes what's going on what's been going on in your business at least?

Eric: Yes, it was the first TikTok I had. I ruined it. So, if I got on there and I tried to do what everybody else was doing right and it didn't align with my character he didn't align with my avatar. And so as soon as I became me and just started talking about my screen. I made a new TikTok, the first video I had had like 10,000 views I think my fourth one, it hit over a million. As soon as I started telling my story. So, you know, it just became a personal thing, you know, it was hard to open up at first and let people know that about me because I didn't want people to prejudge. And that's the biggest thing is worrying about people prejudging, but my wife had told me you got to realize that how many people drive drunk and just never got caught, you got to realize how many people do the things that you do. Right. It's just, I've never gotten caught. Some of the things I've ever met are unlucky. Right. And so with that being said, you know, I just started disclosing my story. I just started telling everybody my story. You know I really put a lot of heart and I put a lot of passion into, you know, connecting with people, and you know working the nine to five and connecting with them working on the road and getting drunk and wherever else may be. And so, you know, just like going anywhere. If you go to the barber shop enough you're gonna get a haircut, right, and so I continued to go to that bar and go to that barbershop but either way, my TikTok is calculated because I started to use my, my story, anybody else's story. Right. 

Dave: Yes, powerful. So I think this is, I think this is, I think this is, this is a tricky one for all of you listening right now, because everybody I think has a tendency to think that when they hear or kind of a story like yours and they hear a strategy like yours that okay, what I need to do now is I need to go out there and I need to kind of air all my dirty laundry and figure out how to sort of tell my story, because that's what storytelling means. And I feel like there's, I feel like there's a couple of different, you know, there's a couple of different ways that you can approach storytelling. The first way is the first way that you can approach it is, you know, you can do kind of what Eric and I did, which was sort of, you know, you'll kind of just begin to become super vulnerable with a lot of the scary shit that you're afraid to be prejudged about. If you feel like you don't have an, and I'm telling you, like the reason why that works is because everybody likes you know other cultures as well because I didn't grow up in other cultures, but I can tell you people in America, love a comeback story, just look around, and the reason why they love a comeback stories because it's entertaining, and people love to see a train wreck, but they also really love to see you come back from that train wreck and I think it's human nature Eric like, like for example like when my dad, we used to be on construction sites and he used to like fall or hurt himself or hit his head, like my first reaction was not like, Oh, are you okay, it was to laugh my ass off that automated. And then, you know if he laid there and was like, Dad, I freak out, but he got back up. I was like okay cool, like, you know what I just, I think that people love to see people get hurt and then come back from that. That's why that works. Now there's other ways to tell stories and we talked about this all the time and we train on it, but we'll keep the kind of focus on, on the formula that you've used. So, kind of talk us through that first experience, like what happened for you when you actually got vulnerable and sort of told more of your comeback story. How did you tie that into actual content, and then products that you were promoting? I believe you're promoting stuff in the make money online space. So how did you tie that comeback story with all those kinds of, you know, with all those kinds of rough parts that you were scared to talk about? How did you tie that into the products that you're promoting?

Eric: Okay, so this formula is gonna work for anybody in their story right, this is how you connect with your audience and this is the formula that I came up with. So the first thing is the outcome that the person wants right so you gotta put yourself in their shoes. You gotta come from yourself, what kind of outcome would you want? If you were in their shoes right. Think about that. And this is what your content should be about. And this is what I started utilizing. And the second thing is the problems that they face, like in their life in your life. What problems did you face growing up? What problems did you face at your job? What problems did you face? So this hub we're building content and the third thing is the questions that they asked. So in your comments right, you know, throughout your journey online, the comments that they're asking, would trigger things that you should put your content about so you can form an avatar. Right. And then the fourth thing is the roadblocks that they face and they encounter. So if we can figure out what roadblocks, we face as a person, cuz we got to find our own avatar, personally, right, just for me, once you find that roadblock that I face which was drinking which was going to the buyers, you know, it could be a different upbringing for anybody, but there's a rope, everybody has roadblocks and trials and tribulations, if you can put those into video form or on paper or something like that, utilizing words that sell right, getting emotional. Putting emotion in it is powerful, so my transition happened with your question. To answer your question, it happened as soon as I noticed when I put something on Facebook I started telling my story how I've been to prison, you know I got married and while I was in prison, and all this crazy stuff right and just transformed all the way through and I seen the power that one Facebook had I had like 90 or 100 comments on it which I usually don't get a lot of comments and just random people that I never even knew, so I've seen the power there. And then I started to apply it on my new tic toc. Right, and I just started playing that, that is the formula that I came up with. And that's when I saw the transformation and it became more comfortable, but if you have a background, like, like my, I guess you could say. Tread lightly on what content you come up with first let them go. Let them know you're the person, right. Let them on live I did live on TikTok, every single night 7pm Not to sell people but to get on to help other affiliate marketers and all that stuff right so I'm building my character I'm being I'm becoming transparent, right and then they're seeing actually you know might have a story but I'm as good as due to, right. And so, you know, don't judge a book by the cover and don't judge yourself either, because if you do you're gonna set limitations on yourself. And that's what I do my entire life is set limitations.

Dave: So you said a lot of valuable stuff right there so I want to go back to the formula that you broke down, can you go. Can you go back over that again and Can you talk us through kind of how, how do you apply that do you try to apply that to kind of every video, is that kind of a loose kind of before you're gonna make a video you just kind of maybe look at that formula and say, Hey, am I. Is there any, you know, like sometimes you can look at something and it'll, it'll remind you I need to kind of make sure that I put this in the video talk us through kind of how what that was one more time, read it all out. So, and maybe you guys can comment that comment down in the COVID show like that read my writing, but yeah, I can go back over that for us one more time, like how you use it like in practical applications.

Eric: Okay so how I find my content is through questions, okay I built I base my content that I make off my hook. First and foremost I find out what questions people have. Right through other people's chats, through people that get fired at jobs or people that are struggling financially or whatever I go through people's chats and I find, you know, how do I do this or what did you do for this and I'll make a hook on that, on emotion, right. And so as soon as I find that emotional hook. Then I start to add my formula.

Dave: A hook is basically the question what do you do if you get fired from the right job today, and you need to pay rent by the end of the month like that would be an example of motion, and all kinds of based off a question or based off somebody, somebody experienced something they're going on right now.

Eric: Right, so you can be like, What would like here's a good hook, what would you do, how do you do, what if. How can do you, these are all things that you put, you're making it not personable, but you're asking them right, and so it could be like, what would you do with an extra four hours a week to spend with your family, and they're gonna click on it like okay what would, what would you do right, that's just an example, so that would be your hook and then you have your body and then you got your call of action right so that's the formula, the outcome that they want I go through questions that's the number one thing is what outcome. Does my audience want, then everybody's audience is different if you find your avatar. You know you can get in the online space and be like everybody else and promote the same way, and you'll never, I can say you'll never get to that next level right until you become personable with who you are, because then it's become easy if you try to put on a front all day, then it's not gonna work it's gonna get old after a while, it's hard to put on a show every day. So anyways, the outcome that they want is based on your experiences. You know, are they going to want more time with their family, or they want more financial freedom, or they want more, whatever right, more vacation time. And then the problems that they face. What problems in life are they facing, so they can get the outcome that they want. Right. Is it because of their nine to five, is it because they're always on the road, is it because whatever it could be anything. When you make it personable. And then the third one is the questions that they ask, and so that's what I was telling you guys I go in through comments, you can go ask the public calmly as well. And then you can find out what the public's asking about affiliate marketing or network marketing, and once you find that out it's gonna say how much does marketing costs or what does it take for affiliate marketing? So then I base my questions, or my, my hopes and my, my material might write my videos based off a person's questions and the fourth one is the roadblocks that they face what's stopping them from getting to that point, you know, do they need a vehicle to get to that point do they need some assistance? Do they need me to go live every night pm to get over the roadblock? Oh, That's the formula that I have, you know it's a simple formula. It's all in my, in all of my content, I've tried to put all steps in there, so that I hit all of the troubled areas of, you know, my audience. 

Dave: Well, what I, what I love about that is that you're creating content that they want versus content that you want to create, right, and this is a big marketing lesson that I continuously, I think, forget. And I have to remind myself of and I, and I forgot about it for, like, I would, I would forget about it. Forget about it. Forget about it, like get lucky, create something that was based around exactly what people wanted that would take off, then I would forget about it. Forget about it. Forget about it, create content that I wanted to talk about things that I wanted to talk about. And then I would get lucky again and talk about something that they brought in, and then that would take off that I'd forget about it again. And now. And here's an example. So, like I like today, like, I love to talk about self care, personal development. Emotional Intelligence like I love to talk about mindset, I love to, but, but not, not everybody wants to talk about that you want to talk about that but if we like people are like, oh I want to talk about that, but if I gave you a choice about how to make more money and get more leads, or do better self care and increase emotional intelligence. People in this niche would pick, get more, make more money and get more leads, every time. Absolutely. Right and so and so that's what I'm, like, like, that's not particularly the content that I want to talk about slowly all the time, but it's what they want. So there's this lesson in marketing, which is to sell people what they want, not what you want, not what you want to sell them, or sell them what they want, not what they need. Right. What most people in this industry need is personal development, they need, you know what I mean they need to develop habits they need to, they need to transform their mindset from employee to entrepreneur, like that's what most people need, but that's not what they want. They don't want to know that they're not, they don't want to bother with that, right, they just want to know how to. What do I do to make money right now, and that's a, that's a conflict so I have to kind of sprinkle that shit in kind of without people knowing that I'm doing it because I know it matters. But I always have to come back to what a people want, Right, and, and what I love about your formula there is that you're going and doing actual research, you're actually, whether that that ask the public calm you mentioned that, whether it's whether it's going through your comments, whether it's going through other people's videos, comments, whether it's asking your audience, you're finding out exactly what they want and then you're turning the titles in the hooks of your content into common questions that they are asking that is on the forefront of their mind every day in creating content around that. Right, exactly.

Eric: 100% I'm creating content, what makes their life miserable. Right, because why life was miserable before and absolutely 100%. You know when the thing is I get to the point now where I don't have to research and dig, dig, dig. At first I did, because I was trying to find who I was and my avatar. I was trying to find a speak out, how to speak to people. Now that I know how to speak to people. It's a lot easier. You know, but I might run into another problem with, you know, yesterday a person was injured, now he's working construction and can get out of it with no money. So I have none of that but I have family members that were so I can put myself in their shoes and their struggles through that, and I kind of just reverse it, I guess you could say, and just tell him that there was hoping there's people out there that are just like you that are looking for the same opportunity. Just building a valuable target the entire time. It's easy really once you find out your avatar, you can literally sit down, be you, without having to worry about anything and it will just flow.

Dave: Can you still hear me clearly, I can. Okay, so now like what comes up for me when you say that dude is that, like, if any of you all are listening right now and you're like, when you're like thinking to yourself, like what is he talking about when he when he says avatar like no, we're not talking about the movie Avatar. I mean, like Avatar who's your perfect customer, and, like, I want to pose this in a different way, I want to say exactly what you said in a different way so like people made and I want to make sure you guys get what Eric is saying because it's really important. Here's another way to say, find your perfect avatar, find your perfect customer, or what is the person who wants to buy, who's who you want to buy your product. What are the questions that they have and what are the things that they want to hear people talk about every day, because there's this cific, there's this like I just said like with people in the make money online space the affiliate marketing based like they don't like they, they gravitate and watch the videos all the way through the talk about the things that they, that they want to listen to most right and what that is, is that how to how to get more traffic, how to get more leads, how to, how to make more money, how to go viral on TikTok, right, so here's my point in saying that, that what I believe, for most of you guys, you need to do to be able to take your accounts and your traffic and your lead flow to the next level, is you need to try different questions and topics within the within the kind of broad spectrum so if you're going to make money online today's talk about traffic generation talk about blowing up your TikTok panel talk about lead generation talk about landing pages, but there's something that people want to hear more than anything, if you test out different subjects, And you find out. This is the cat. This particular topic is what people want to hear more than anything. You can literally kill a year's worth of content, and continue to blow up your traffic and lead flow, zero on that exact path at the time topic that did not deviate from it and Eric what I think most people do where they make the mistake is they talk about too big of a broad spectrum of shit that they might have one video that takes off and they feel like they got lucky, right, maybe with that video they thought that was the most interesting their target audience was most interested in. Right. Would you say, first of all what comes up for you as I say this, do you think what I'm saying is accurate. What do you think are your target avatars to patent? What is the thing that they go crazy to hear?

Eric: Okay, so yes it's absolutely perfectly well. And then their catnip would be basically the struggle in life right. My audience is directed towards the nine to five, blue collar worker, don't see the family, gone on the road. The list goes on, you know, people that are eager to work and have been doing the same thing forever want to change. So, their catnip is basically seeing my transformation, coming from, you know, working a nine to five or that's like a stereotype, but working 12 hour shifts, six days a week five days a week, while working my nine to five and it's having the strength right emotionally because get them come become emotionally attached to your people, when they see that emotion, you can sit there and talk about funnels, you can sit there and talk about all this stuff, but you got to talk to your audience in the right way, Like, you're saying when you hit their heart. 

Dave: When you hit their heart, you get their attention, right?

Eric: 100% So once you hit their heart, you know, if you get emotional when you're doing you're doing something or you look back at your video and you get emotional about it because it just never, ever watched like a comedian. That is so funny because everything he said is true. Like you know I mean, like, don't just don't just be talking about something just be random life and the way they say it just makes it so funny, right, and so that's that emotional attachment you need when you're making your content so that's what I try to do is there catnip is getting that emotional content that emotional bond with them. Right, so they know hey there's another guy that relates with me, and that he just is not talking about cell, this cell that so this system is just the map because I'm a guy that knows nothing. Right, so you got to speak to your, your, your, your, your, your traffic or your people, with the whatever you're trying to promote right so you could be people or people started different levels right so when we're talking my traffic is people that are struggling in life and they want to change.

Dave: Let me, let me say this back to you because I want to, like, I, your answer actually like I wasn't actually expecting you to say that but, Like, of course, that's exactly what was built my point was that I, people could relate like and make a deal. And it made them feel like they got a duration that they were in. Right, right, exactly what you're talking about, it's an inspiration. Right. And that's what I think so many of us do because we get caught in the weeds of thinking that we need to over explain and do too much to our content. That's where we lose people, because what I really think, is that people who buy the most and who, who get the most attached to creators like yourself, is, is they get attached to people who are entertaining and inspirational because people want more than anything, they, they don't pick up their phone and start scrolling on TikTok because they're like, sitting there ready to walk into a classroom and set up an autoresponder like what they want and what they like, what they want is they want, hope that they can get out of the shitty situation that they're in. Right. I think that's why the vulnerability here, what your life was like, what have you, what hole Did you crawl out of, like some of you guys are sitting and thinking and now's when I didn't have homelessness prison story like these guys, you know, but did you struggle with depression? I'm just trying to think about the questions that people are asking, who are listening to us right now, the excuses that they're making, of why they can't do this and what I'm saying is you don't have to have a down by the river, homeless, addiction, alcoholism story. If you talk about things vulnerably like that you crawled out of a depression hole that you, that you sacrifice, years of your life and a job working for a boss that you hate, and you felt used and abused, right, that you were inside of an abusive relationship or relationship where there was no love, and you and you wasted decades of your life and that didn't really go out there and go after your dreams and goals, like, like when you start to share those vulnerable pieces of your life. And now what you're doing about it. Now how you're doing things differently, and why there's hope for those people, right, maybe listening to where your catnip is, are you picking up what I'm putting down?

Eric: No, yeah. And so just for the everybody out there that's, you know, thinking about getting into this business are working for themselves or whatever it may be just trying to do on the side. If you don't have, if you're not coming into this with, you know, backstory of being, you know, an exceptional a top ranking affiliate you don't have all this you know money to prove that you made all this money. Just start with your story because that's all you have. So, it doesn't matter what it is like Dave was saying, it could be from a bad relationship to being a stay at home mom, and never really having you know just all you do is stay home and your husband goes to work, you have nothing to do but to take care of the kids, you can you can if you're a stay at home mom and you're trying this opportunity, you can relate with those types of people stay at home moms that you know don't don't have a job that wants something else to do. So there's just so many ways, everybody can actually connect with people it's and I don't mean to make it sound like it's difficult thing because it's not I transitioning from construction into this and this and that just acting to myself, at first I didn't, I tried to act like everybody else and it didn't work for me. And I, I stepped it up and now I'm getting over 150 leads a day.

Dave: Well, check this out, man. I just wanted to, like, I watched my husband Shanice Jenna said I watched my husband take his life and I deal with that memory every day, like, wow, first of all I just want to say, Wow, but how I mean I just wonder how many people you could inspire by the fact that that you went through that and are now picking yourself back up and moving forward. 

Eric: You know, millions of people can relate with that. 

Dave: Well, millions of people I mean if it's not that exact situation if the feelings in the, in the sadness in the trauma in in the inspiration, they can relate with the feelings. Alright, so it looks like I'm having an echo here. But, so save one more time, just pretend I'm one of your one of your followers, somebody who's been watching your content and you talk about kind of what you're talking about now. And they say, Eric, I don't have a story, I don't have anything that's nearly as entertaining, if you do, What, what would you say?

Eric: So I guess I would start with basically what was your childhood like you know we got to find out from the ground up, you know, write down all of your good memories, write down all of your bad memories. You know, if you, you know, just different situations you just write them down in case personable, personal, but you could write down all the good times and bad times in your life right, and you can make content literally out of the good times and bad times in your life and how you took it from one point. And you, your thought process behind it. Right. So when you're, when you're on, you know when you're trying to tell somebody how to find their avatar we're trying to find out how to tell their story, or what their story is going to be, is based on like their history now where they've come from where they're at and where they're going to be right there, past the current in their future talked about that here's where I came from, you know, this is where I'm at now, and this is where I want to be. Right, and that's super inspirational and even though you don't have a story of prison or getting in trouble or drinking or alcoholism or whatever you may have been in a family that you know is super wealthy, and you've been the black sheep, they want you to go one way. You want a different or, you know they want you to go to college, and the kid beaten college and you and you just said I don't want to go to college, I want to use them for myself, and you could use that stories, hey, my whole family's been telling me no, to go to college now I'm on Tik Tok now they're making fun of me, but then I show them how much money I'm making, and now they're all trying to jump on Tik Tok again with me, right, just, that's just one little hook right there, no chills thinking about it because I just could relate. I can feel that relation no joke. I got chills thinking about that because that is power right there. That's power and you can take your situation, your story, everybody's unique man, everybody's unique, it doesn't matter your story. Everybody has a similar story next to it and all you gotta do is speak to one person, one that's it, because if we speak to one person correctly, there's going to come in the masses down bro. That's wisdom right, that's really, that's really. 

Dave: So you're now getting 150 leads a day?

Eric: Average. My biggest update on TikTok when I hit that million 400,000 on the, on the Europe you can play I'm not sure you can play into the screen but it's a short video, and you guys can see the power of it. But 1,400,000 I think the next day. I had like, almost 410 leads right one day one night, and then it trickles down 300 And they'll get 75to 150, impressive because anybody can have a video go viral, like in getting right what's impressive to me is that you're averaging 150 a day?

Eric: You know why

Dave: Why?

Eric: The call to action. If you don't tell it because people, no disrespect, but people are like sheep, right, if you get through a video, and it comes to an end, it's like okay, there's no sequel to it. Okay, there's no part two. You just gave all like, like Dave says you, you turn the water you don't give him the whole boat right in the sense, you know you got to leave them to say, Okay, if you want to see more content like this, go ahead and give me a like and a follow don't always send them to your link, you know, and that's just spam it just sounds okay, That's what everybody says right, give me a like and a follow you want to connect with me or see transparency, join my live tonight 7pm You'll see who the real person I am, blah, point blank, they look in your eyes, they feel it, they see it, they live it.

Dave: Dang you’re getting serious. So you're not always giving people a call to action?

Eric: I tell them to click the link but a call to action to either like my video, comment on my video, or follow me. Right, so if you know, there'll always be the link in my bio, but either way, if I tell them to like and follow, and they do like unfollow they're most likely gonna like unfollow and then check out my bio and maybe click on my link anyway, right so you don't have to throw that link in there that's a little golden nugget, you don't always have to say click them only kick them only click them on LinkedIn to them on LinkedIn, it sounds salesy scammy, whatever else, be you, follow me, advertise. 

Dave: I like that because people who come to you and buy don't always pressure and be like, link, link, link, link right link in the bio link in the bio link like right. Everybody is saying. And the minute that, especially if there's other people that they've seen say that, that you say that you're just sounding like everybody else, so give them a call the app, right, right, and people are going to go to your profile and look at your link anyways, right, they're going to do that, they're going to go stop you and check you out. They like the content that you create. So, let them buy, let them come to you, get them hooked by getting the follow right get them hooked by getting the you know, I think that's one of the most important things that, that is oftentimes underlooked is getting that subscribe, or that follow, versus the clicking of the link, because the average person is going to need to see your content a few times, set well seven right that's and that's, that's something that I've heard a lot too. I don't know if it's two hours 200 Right, but it's more than once that people are going to need to hear from you and see you to buy from you. So the most important thing that we need to do is we need to get somebody to either like, follow, or subscribe to whatever channel we're on. And then the next most important thing, If you think about it, is getting their email, right, that allows us to follow up in the, in the inbox. The third is delete right, that's lead generation. I think you could consider in 2021 Somebody subscribing or following your page, also a form of lead generation, but it's always been considered getting the email right that's been considered the lead generation. The third most important thing is making the sale. Right, that's the third, but that only comes after doing one and two. So what you're saying is you're more focused on calls to action that are built in based around telling them to like and subscribe your page and in are you doing any you ever do any free giveaways lead magnets, free gifts that you allow that you say hey you can download my book or my ebook or anything like that?

Eric: Not yet, so go back a little bit. You don't find your audience, your content, find your audience, right. So that's the first thing, and then lead generation. I have read some, but right now, you know, in order to actually capture a lead to make it yours on tick tock because that platform can go away anytime you need to catch that email address you need to catch that that individual because if TikTok goes away if Facebook goes away if whatever goes away tomorrow, and then all of your leads are gone, right. So, you know, to get back to what you were trying to say and was with the lead generation. I think if you put out the content that's specific for what you're trying to talk about your leads, your audience will come. And when you start showing your TikTok or any account out, start building value first, start building value, start beating people to like you. For you who you are because if you start putting out. Call to Action content right away I believe from my last tech talk experience, people will click on it, people won't click on it they're not seeing your story they're just seeing some random dude, that's like everybody else. So, you know, if you tell your story if you don't have a story and you haven't came from, you know, extensive history of marketing, just, just talk about you know, so did you lose a tick tock, is that what you were saying, Yeah, well, so I started my first TikTok, and I started out with the very first video was, you know, transform I guess from working nine to five to this and I'm making this much money and just clicking my like my link in my bio has just started. And it started out with like 10 views and then 20 views and 30 views because of all my calls. Like my link if you're starting to learn how to make money from home. Right, it's not like Hey, I came from this, just you know, I know that you can do it right. Anyways, my first talk was screwed up. I spent like months on it just to get 1000 subscribers, months, right, and I was happy when I got 1000 Then I got my, then I was going back and forth from business account to personal account to get my link on the, on the page, which is a bad idea. Stick with just the creator when you first start out, you can't get your link but either way, when I, when I tried this formula for the first time I knew Tik Tok, I had 1000 subscribers in two days, or a day or something like that. So, he already tells me that's the bottom line of storytelling. Storytelling, and then. Okay. Another funny thing is Dave I forgot to tell you is my in my hashtags, you know I put passive income, you know, affiliate marketing like that. But my main one is going to be like construction might or might if I was to work from home mom or I was a stay at home mom, I would be a target or hashtag like, you know, for the day like the trending hashtag for the day, that was, you know, corresponds with what your story's gonna be about, and then your second one we should we work from home moms or stay at home moms. So then I was like, people rocking I'm on like my target audience construction so people that are in construction and they're struggling seeing construction all day looking at planning construction videos, they love my video and I know it's a construction video that suddenly goes into how this dude just transformed his life in six months to making money online, and so they'll come on my live and they're like, I don't even know how you're on my for you page, but I'm here right so you can actually utilize and attract your audience through the hashtags to powerfully. It does work. 

Dave: That's a good tip because I think most people have a tendency to use it. The most common, which, which is the most obvious which could also, which could also be considered spammy, your eyes. If you're in the make money online space and you're talking about affiliate marketing and then what's the obvious hashtag, hashtag affiliate marketing, right, right, instead of what you said, which is use a hashtag that's based around a story that you're telling right on who you're kind of, again, if you're a construction, you know, hashtag carpenter hashtag, hashtag lineman hashtag electrician exactly builder, as my babysitter. 

Eric: Hashtag babysitter hashtag stay at home mom hashtag whatever here's my formula. So I switch it up, so I do one trending one broad and then one specific in the morning. And then my second video for the day is three niche and three trending hashtags. And then for my third view of the day I do three niches, three brand specific. So I hope you know if that makes sense so one trending tweet would be a trending viral like hashtag. When you open it on your search, you'll see those trending one that's the trending. and then a broad would be like babysitters, construction workers, stuff like that and then specific would be work if work from home side hustle, affiliate marketing right so you just hit the trending right then you hit the broad of who you're trying to hit, and then you hit the specific or you're trying to do good, really good tips, right, you got to know Facebook training, except for what's in legendary and just my own trial and error attribute, you know, and everything. It works well, bro.

Dave: I'm happy for you man, what would you tell somebody who is, you know, thinking about getting started with the challenge right now and coming into this community, and taking it seriously.

Eric: Okay so first and foremost, if you're going to start any program, it doesn't matter if this 115 Day Challenge doesn't matter what it is, it doesn't matter, right. If you're not going to let go of what the mentor says with the training says 100% and put in all the, the actions, you're not going to see the amount of like success you would if you put all of the action in so no matter what when trying to say is, no matter what you get into I recommend the 15 day challenge because it runs you from ground zero, and from knowing nothing to establishing a foundation which you need and you can build off that foundation so what it does basically transforms you from knowing nothing to having a link online, and to promoting yourself and then you becoming richer, you'll find your avatar. So, you'll find the challenge. This one is great. This is where I started, I transformed literally in six months, I've been with you, Dave like three months? Two months just like that, not very long, right after the 15 day challenge, I got so much more value than I did when I was working or not working but utilizing YouTube 2016 trying to learn, and you know, I came to the table with some knowledge, but I had all these pieces that were all just floating in the air everywhere that I got from here and from here and all I was on this learn mode, learn, learn, learn, learn, learn, and I never applied what's great about the 15 day challenge is, you learn a little bit then you apply a little bit, you learn a little bit, then you apply a little bit so you earn as you learn, no joke, my first commission was like nine days or something, nine days after starting, I think it was a 15 day challenge, so it was just applying the tools that we learned in it, and you know, if you're starting out and you want to just accelerate and just skyrocket from this point forward, I recommend running with Dave Sharpe and this definitely for sure 100%.

Dave: Well, bro, I appreciate that. And, I mean, what makes us great is people like YouTube coming on here and today to the community.

Eric: The Facebook group, it doesn't matter, it can be, it doesn't matter, any question

I have a Facebook group. It gets answered and there's probably 50 different people that are going to be supportive, and then give me directions to a link or a video or, you know, if you're if you're new and you're in you're getting into this or you're are in the bikini challenge, reach out to that, that Facebook group, just stay acclimated Don't you know me in the Facebook group every day answering questions, asking questions, just be a part of it, it's a lifestyle change, right. It's a lifestyle change you know if you need to wake up earlier in the morning, an hour earlier so you can work on your business and you're working nine to five, that's what you got to do, man, if you still work out, then you gotta wake up an hour extra so two hours extra rarely is sacrifice in this business, right, it's not about the money because it's the cheapest business model to get in. 100% passive income. To start out, you can't, can't go wrong, right, store all these other things you could do. I looked into it, it costs so much money and your SEO and all these things are right. You can't become personal with a person. I don't believe it's gonna be a long term sustainable business for a person that's just starting out. So this right here is the groundwork and the foundation for anybody that needs to get going online, and anybody that needs help. Follow me, kind of my life, whatever. And it doesn't matter if you're in this program or if you're struggling, it doesn't matter, kind of realize, I'll give you a system, maybe gold nuggets, astronauts. So, you sign up with whoever I got your back.

Dave: Yeah, well that's, that's, that's lost. And I think that if you guys can pick

What error, like his approach to this whole process, is that my takeaway is that the mindset, the approach, is wrong. It's not how I can make money today. Right, it's how can I establish a following in a friendship base, right, because ultimately a loyal following a fanatical following are just kind of friends online like you would, that are like people who listen to me they would be like Yeah, I know David Sharpe I'm friends with him like, even if we don't know each other even if you only watch the show and I don't know who you are, you think of me like a friend because you listen to me and you come on the show and you, it's like we're kicking it together you know what I mean it's like you see me every day you think, right, so, so it's like, who can I help today. How can I how can I how can I go live or create content that inspires provides hope in that in that, you know, how can I be friendly to people, how can I be of service to people, not because I can make a buck from them today, but because I can earn their trust friendships in delaying gratification. Right, what will happen when you have that mindset is that more than what you think will come today, and a lot more than what you think will come later on, And that asset you're experiencing right now and I'm happy as hell for you, bro. 

Eric: I'm ready, I'm ready to rock.

Dave: Man you know you are rockin bro you ain't ready. You're done getting ready to get ready, right at that for a while. Now you're ready, you're rockin and you're helping other people get ready to go after their dreams and whether they, you know, start a business, whether they work in the make money online space, whether they do affiliate marketing where they learn from us, you're out there providing value to the marketplace, providing inspiration through these vulnerable and emotional stories that you're telling and sharing yourself. So you're earning every like you're earning every follower you're earning every lead you're earning every dollar through turning your struggles into new strengths, and there, you're rockin ‘you are rock and roll up the good work man, and come back and keep us posted in the future.

Eric: I'm sure I'll have you on the show again in the future. 

Dave: Of course if you're speaking it into existence right now.

Eric: 100% manifestation, all the way vision boards do you guys have a vision board. Yeah, the vision board is 100%, you know, you got to see what's coming. There's all kinds of stuff but just the power of mindsets, it's awesome. You know I was in a deep, deep, dark place in my life before the prison four times, you know, I thought about suicide, many times. And you know what these are alright. 

Dave: Well congrats for you. Alright, I feel that I feel that brother. I feel for you and for where you're at. Yeah, thanks for sharing it with that brother. 

Eric: All right. I'll talk to you. Alright guys, have a good day. 

Dave: Alright guys, that's it, we're gonna wrap up I'm on my phone so we're just there's not going to be no close this is the closed piece, get the hell out of here. We'll be back here tomorrow.

Stupid Simple Funnel That Built An Email List Over 2,000 In 2 Weeks


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Dave: Another day, another dollar what's going on guys, that was a corny corny joke, but I had to add energy this morning, you know what I mean so what's up. How you guys are doing good to see you. Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, wherever you are around the world. Those of you who are listening to maybe a replay or on a podcast or your butts here live, come along with the program. We're happy to have you. No matter how you're tuning in. I'm just finishing a protein bar so I'll be cleaning the excess protein out of my teeth. Over the next five minutes while Jr talks. So let's go ahead and bring this dude in the man, the myth, the legend J.R. What up, What up, what up.

J.R.: Hey what's going on what's going on. Thank you for having me on. Really appreciate this, I've been looking forward to this for a long time. I've been speaking this into existence since I took that 15 day challenge, to be honest and heard the first podcast.

Dave: Wow, bro. That's pretty cool, Man, that's pretty cool that's cool to hear. Did you tune into a Wake Up Legendary show like as you're going through the challenge like like pretty right away or did you go through the challenge and then kind of, you get it get a little bit more into the community and get a little bit more into the community have any kind of find these shows and what did your journey look like when you because we're going to talk about your simple, stupid, two step or stupid simple, I guess we could call it simple stupid stupid simple, it's better to say stupid simple right because if we say simple stupid than that would imply that the funnel stupid, but what we want to imply is that it's simple, right, so we'll say stupid simple we'll talk about that here in a second, but talk to us about the moment you saw Legendary saw the video, and, like, take us through that first chapter here just in a nutshell.

J.R.: Yeah for sure so I first saw Legendary, so my wife was like sending the TikToks all the time, like on a daily basis, and I have not had social media and about 10 years, I just don't I don't play with it I don't mess around with it I always thought it was like more of a negative than a positive for my life so I basically gave up right after I graduated college, and she was. Yeah, she was sending me all these links and I thought the videos were funny and enjoyable and then eventually I was like man I just need to download this app so I can watch these easier and check everything out and then all of a sudden I watch one, and then down the rabbit hole right I started scrolling, and I have a background in, you know, sales and marketing and I did you know network marketing and E commerce, for a while so I'm interested in your business and and that type of stuff and then people started popping up on there talking about the type of stuff I like. And then all of a sudden, I think it was Sarah and Calvin, were probably the first two that I actually saw and I hopped into one of Calvin Hill’s Power of Publish live. And if you have not been in one of his lives before you need to. Okay, it is like a masterpiece. Okay, what he does in those and how he runs through everything. It blows my mind every time but. 

Dave: Hold on, you can do that, can you duplicate that can you implement what you see him do into your marketing.

J.R.: As far as going live, how does he go live?

Dave: Yeah

J.R.: I think I could absolutely have a lot of like experience doing those types of, I don't want to call it presentation but you know, walk through.

Dave: Because I mean you just gave a major plug to Calvin and Calvin deserves every ounce of that plug, but what I just want to just, I just want to say, and since you're a guy who understands speaking things into existence. In Europe, you're a marketer and you like how much of what you see him do. Are you trying to model, not just from learning from what he says, but by then implementing it into your own marketing, that's kind of the question not, you don't need to answer that, but that's a question for everybody right now, because for me, I'm not. I wouldn't say that I'm, you know, some unique kind of entrepreneur marketer but I would say a lot of my personal success has come from being blown away by what somebody has done. And or is doing in a campaign or on an ongoing basis and saying, like how can I actually instead of trying to reinvent the wheel, how can I take, what really worked well on me or what was really impactful for me or what I see is working, and then utilize it, you know model it, So just something to chew on and I think also a belief builder for you to, to take things to the next level because Calvin's talented but really what I think he has that most other people don't have is just the confidence to be able to say, I'm gonna do this right, because that's what really attracts people in is when you say a masterpiece right it's his confidence in the way that he presents, it's not really that he has such unique information, just like I don't have such unique information, but it's the delivery the confidence that you, does that. Are you picking up what I'm putting down and what's coming up for you as I say this? 

J.R.: Yeah, yeah, no 100% I think it is not so much about the content, it's about how, and the like the conviction behind it you know how you write fit the connection.

Dave: Because we can all sing the same song right, but we sing it differently. You know what I mean. So I can sing. I can sing a, you know, I can sing a Billy Joel song, but it's not gonna sound any way, Like, we're saying the same exact word so he doesn't have words that I don't have. But it's the delivery, it's the, it's the tonality, it's the pitch, it's it's the it's the it's the it's the performance, the emotion, the conviction, right you see most people who go up and sing, and they just kind of stand on the stage and they just kind of hold the microphone, right, whereas Billy sit down and he's done it right, hit banging on his piano and he's got lots of emotion. I think it's just something for us all to think about that people don't, and this is not directed at you, Jared just, it just kind of triggered this thought in me, that people don't have words that I don't have. They just have confidence and as you say conviction that I might need to build. So I could say more about that or continue on with your, what happened for you in these first few days you saw lives from Calvin you, you're on Tik Tok now. After 10 years and not being on social media. Talk. Talk us through because eventually I want people to understand how you went from being off social media for 10 years to now, marketing and having success generating leads, and kind of crushing it online so continue to take us through this journey.

J.R.: Right, yeah absolutely so yeah, once I you know I, I got his ebook and went through the funnel, and it was basically for me it was like it was a no brainer that I was going to start this 15 day challenge, because I looked into. I think I had looked into like starting a marketing agency and some type of program like that in the past, like, up front, I was going to have to pay, you know, some absorbent amount of money, and I had just lost my job due to COVID and it was like, I can't, it's not even feasible I'm living off credit cards right now just to support my family. Right. But I saw this and I was like hey, there's, there's literally nothing to lose, it's $7. I read a lot of reviews watch some YouTube videos. I knew that you guys were legitimate company and I saw like the caliber of people as well, who were participating and having success and that's really what attracted me. It was, you know, the, the caliber of people the authenticity of the people. You know the community that you guys have built. And once I got into the Facebook group, and saw these live started going on I couldn't attend the lies because I'm at work every day at 10 in the morning, and I'm technically working right now, we're not going to tell anybody about that. So basically I would just read, I would listen to yesterday's every day, every morning, on my morning commute because they're typically 3045 minutes, so it was perfect for me. Yeah, and I just started diving in and, and for me it, it just kind of all clicked together. I knew, I knew the potential for income was there, I knew the process was there and then once I went through that 15 day course, and I saw how you guys do your process. I was 100% I was all in, you gave me a business advisor, I spent, I spent two hours on on one meeting with this guy, like he spent two hours on zoom with me answering every single question I had, walking me through every concern that I had like, and then from there I still text them to this day, you know, I will talk to him to this day, and he gives me ideas and supports me along the way.

 and who's that?

J.R.: Quinton Carlson. He's the man dude. Yeah he's awesome. He's awesome. So yeah that's kind of my story.

Dave: You're glad that you took those videos that your wife was sending you and getting you on social media and kind of on the internet, basically, after 10 years, and now you're well. Are you happy that you took that step now and Is it paying off?

J.R.: I'm ecstatic about it, and then a couple things have happened. Number one, you know, I've grown since I filled out that form and everything when, when you guys first contact started this process. In my mind I was like I'm only a month in so it's like a caveat everything that I'm putting in this when we talk a month from now it might be totally different. And in a way it kind of is because a few things that happened to me that are, that I think a really cool number one is my, the first tic tock channel I started actually got channeled I built it up to about 120,000 followers, and then a post got flagged, and then from that moment forward, the next three weeks, every post that I put out there. It was only going to my existing followers, I couldn't get it out to like anyone else, so I couldn't grow my phone and I was trying to just push through it I figured it was a temporary thing. And that was like a struggle for me, it was like, I did all of this work I built it up to this point and now I'm like, boohoo, you know, what was my life, like, what am I gonna do. I was in like, you know, you kind of go through those phases of business right where it's valleys and I was in that valley and I kept trying to start new tic tock channels right because I was like, I just started doing, I know what I'm doing now, I'll just start a new one and growing, but every time I started one the same exact thing would happen I would post a video, zero views, and I will do what I did, I heard Josh, on here, the dad Trooper nur the winning edge formula, right, right, yeah, awesome guy so on Here I DM them on Instagram. And I asked him, I said hey I know this happened to you, this is what's going on with me, and we just had a conversation, and that one conversation with someone in the community, literally changed everything for me. Well, he pointed out to me that I explained that I was taking my best videos from the other panel right you're like, Okay, Let's start with that, I'm just going to repost them on this new chin. But what happens is, tick tock. When TikTok sees you post a video from that account that's kind of, you know, not, it's a shadow banned account right, the account that the video gets posted immediately well well as a talker easy. He said you can only create new content, moving forward. So here's what to listen to. Listen to this. Here's what happened. Okay, eight days ago, those eight days ago when I had that conversation with them. I started a new channel. Okay, I started a new channel called hustlers underscore handbook in eight days. On the homeless that 200,000 followers hustler's handbook, yes so hustlers underscore handbook. Okay. Okay. So, literally, it took me, you know, six to eight weeks to get $100,000 on the previous row. It's ridiculous. In my mind, it's like I see it as a I was met with that adversity and the success gods were like hey if you can push through this we got something better on the other end. Right. But if you don't want to be stuck here. And I made it through man. I made it through and I'm freaking pumped out of my mind.

Dave:  I bet you are. Dude, I bet you are.

J.R.: Pumped out of my mind right now, because it's like, it's crazy to see how to ask the growth.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, well that's a different that's a, that's a, like, that's what your crossroads between a breakdown or a breakthrough look like, and everybody's Crossroads looks different and the problem is, I think, is when you're at that crossroads, you don't know you're at that crossroads, until you get through it. When you're at that crossroads, it's just a big brick wall standing in front of you. Metaphorically speaking, and it's just, that's all it feels like it just, it feels like that it looks like that, it sounds like that, it's just a brick wall. And if you can get through it over and around it, under it, if, if you can get to the other side, you see that the other side was basically now you have that choice Do you want to have that breakout or that breakthrough, you know, and that you know you can look back and actually see the fork in the road like. That's why they say like Hindsight is 2020. And I just wonder how many people who are listening to this are either there right now, or can take this story that you just told and use it as a way to be aware and look out for those that break through walls up ahead because they're up ahead for all of us. And they actually keep popping up. It's like a game where you get to a different level that the walls just look different, you know what I mean, sometimes they're higher, sometimes they're painted different colors. Sometimes they're invisible and you run into them and you didn't even see it until you already hit it, you know, but it's, again, it's like beating a level, and then you'd like celebrate for a minute, like you're doing right now, but don't worry bro, because there's more of those up ahead, but now you know, when you come up to it, based on experience from previous levels that you can look back and be like, this is one of those things, it looks a little different this is weird right kind of like playing the video game like damn, this is weird, where they come from, like, you know, in a video game there's some new stuff. Each level they got to keep it exciting, but at least you're like, Okay, I've, I've met an obstacle like this in the previous level. And so I need to beat this level to get to the next level. Does that make sense

100% Man, that's exactly, it's you know it's. If you're not being met with adversity, you're probably not growing.

Dave: Right. And I mean you're gonna have adversity, like I said, even in games. And I think the way for us to get to this place to where this becomes fun is that we can kind of gamify this process instead of taking it now it's hard to gamify it when you're kind of like in that desperation mindset to where you're like, This must work growth, I'm going to actually die. But the truth is that, even if it doesn't work, you're not gonna die. You know what I mean, it might suck. You know what I mean, like if you fail or you quit or no matter what you do, it doesn't work like it's, you're not gonna die, it's gonna suck your ego might get bruised, You might be out a little bit of time and money. But that's happened to all of us before in life, we've done some stuff to where we're out of time and money and it was like that sucks. You know what I mean, maybe it was a job that we felt had a future and then we got fired or quit or whatever, but I think if we get to the place where we can gamify it sort of using the metaphor that I told a second ago with the kind of game and in the next level. Like it becomes a little bit more fun. So do you feel like now that you've got through level one, do you feel like it's a little bit more fun now versus when you were first starting in it, maybe you had you were taking yourself a little bit more serious and kind of like putting more pressure on yourself or I don't know I mean, are you starting to or do you see yourself beginning to sort of gamify this process, so you can make money in it not just have the highs and the lows like I'm really excited.

J.R.: Oh my god, that sucks like it but like actually begin to look at this more like a game.

Yeah, no, I think for me it's almost like, what it's like trying to maintain the exact same excitement, no matter what's going on externally, right, like that, everybody when they first start something they're fired right they're like, I gotta change my life, like, this is my future this is my everything and then they get met with that first thing and they're just like, Oh man, I was wrong like this is Yeah, nobody really makes money doing this. Yeah, all of those things that start getting sad right. But for me, you were talking a little bit about like, you know, losing time and money, and you know we've all been there and, and, and like we kind of talked about earlier, my wife and I were in network marketing for like five years. Right. And at this point in our life. We basically had to take that, where, you know, I don't necessarily. I wouldn't necessarily do it all over again. Right. But I'm here, I got a ton of mental tools, and skill sets and knowledge, and, like, a ridiculous discipline and personal growth from everything that came with that. And we got to meet some of the most prolific speakers and leaders and those types of people, right, because that's what they are like, it's, it's unreal like the level they get to. And that's kind of what everyone's striving to do with that, or I guess you kind of have to get to, but for us it was basically like five years of, you know, starting this business, where we were grinding we were, we were, you know, doing meetings we were recruiting people, we were, networking, I was literally out and about, face to face in the gyms and the grocery stores and the gas stations bro I was meeting I was exchanging phone numbers with two to three people every single day, non stop, that's who I was, that's what I did my wife was with me we were, if we were heading into a bar, we're in that bar we're sitting next to them. And we're worried, we're going to become best friends. And we mastered it, like we were Yeah, you know, but you know it is what it is, what it what it gave us now though, It gave us the ability to immediately connect with people, chips, and now she, in, in her business. She sells athletic apparel and she does personal training and meal plans, and we're starting to build a course through a lot of stuff that I've learned on Legendary that we're going to start promoting for her company. And she's got this incredible following of moms in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania because she said they love her. They connect immediately, they get in onto our Facebook page where she, you know, provides all these free workout things and promotes the leggings and athletic apparel, and they love it. They love it. I look away. How much money she makes just doing that. That's the beauty of, You know, making money online and building these communities, and, and, you know, leveraging them by just providing value to them. 

Dave: Right, yeah, yeah, yeah, and I mean, it's, it's a personality thing too, I think certain personalities do really well in network marketing. I mean for me I'm just a dude. I, one might think I'm extroverted but dude I'm the biggest introvert in the world. You know what I mean, I, it's like the hardest thing in the world for me to turn on and go just start prospecting people like out at Walmart, like, you know, bumping somebody into their car, you know, on purpose but acting pain you happen to keep your business options open you with like a smart sharp person, you know, that's how I got recruited in the in the network marketing for the very first time, you know what I mean. But yeah, I think a lot of people will get out of network marketing like sales plus scale but a pyramid scheme, blah blah blah. You know, but the truth is I learned more from that industry than probably any ever, because it taught me about community building, it taught me about culture building, what culture looks like getting people like, how do you get people to work that hard when they're making basically no money. I'm not talking about sitting at home in your underwear on your computer I'm talking about getting dolled up and getting gentlemen up and going out into the bars, not even to hang out, but basically the just prospect of people, you know, you know, always, you guys think you guys think that being on like on the internet is some crazy stuff. When you're in network marketing, like all land in your bought into the idea of kind of prospecting everybody that you run into, you're never relaxed, everybody's always somebody who you could potentially be prospecting, you know what I mean. And, and, you know, and just, I mean the two on ones, the freeways, driving all around town to meet people dragging people to home and hotel meetings, I mean, the commitment, but most of all, the speaking, like you said because you, he comes from folks, the company, the largest company in the world that rhymes with Ram way. And those guys, let me tell you something. Those guys are the most, as you said, prolific speakers dude, I mean, those guys, the Dexter Jaegers man, the bill. Bill Brits, the, I mean some of these cats man are, I used to listen to their audios, and I was never even in that company but I would just listen to their audios to see kind of how they spoke cuz I was like, how do you get somebody in that business, who makes a half a million dollars a year as a doctor, holding a phone up recording everything that some guy who just rolled out of a trailer who made 10,000 A month hanging on every word that that guy says, You know what I mean, Like that's the culture of the that kind of business, you know, and I'm just like, how does, but it's, you know, it's built around, personal development, it's, it's built in based around building people's dreams, getting them inspired. It's less about features functions details. It's more about vision inspiration. Dream building, you know, and storytelling. You know what I mean, that's what that's about. That's what network marketing is about. And I think for me, kind of, that's where I was introduced to entrepreneurship that helped me to be more of a storyteller, it helped me to focus more on community building, because I came from that versus kind of coming into this world of online marketing where there's a bunch of analytical kind of, you know, like feature and function selling marketers who are all trying to say my course or my business is better and I'm over here telling a story about being an addict, and we had a construction worker because that's what I was sort of exposed to in network marketing so I would, I would say that if you guys have a network marketing history like Jr, and I do that try to look back, I was in Market America this Jr, writing German in some of the people in that, I mean we're talking about some of the most, the best storytellers and culture builders and community builders that exist on this planet, man. Look back at your experience and instead of looking at it like I failed or that was a scam or whatever look back and say, how are the people who are succeeding in that succeeding like what are they doing, what are their skill sets and if you think back, it's a lot of what I just said. Right, so feel free to say more about that if you have anything more to say but I want to kind of move on to this this funnel that you're using, and hear kind of how you're getting such amazing results because you are so cool transition and you want to add anything to what I was talking about.

R.J.: Enough said man you crushed it.

Dave: Yeah, I mean, if we've all like seriously if any of us, if you've been in network marketing, you know, and if you don't, it just sounds like gibberish but like if you've been in there, you know, like you know what it's like you know what it's like to be in the room and income over that first meeting, where somebody says hey come over, we're having a business meeting at my house and then you walk in and the doors locked and the window shut the whiteboard gets rolled out somebody gets up at the front of the room and starts drawing circles on the board, you know, and you're either like I'm out of here or you're looking at those circles going I'm gonna get so rich, it's unbelievable. That was me. So, you want to talk about the marketing first that you're doing, like the content and how you're doing that or you want to talk about the like the funnel, like what would make sense first because I want you to share the value that you can with people so they can try to, you know, so we can help them out. Sure, sure. Yeah, I think. Right. And also, do you have time restraint?

R.J. No I’m all here bro, alright, so, Yeah, let's talk about let's dive into the content. So the way I do my content. Basically the way I thought about it was, I don't want to. I'm looking to attract the right people. Right. And who are those people for me those people are, And what are they interested in. Right. So for me I post, really, like, three types of content. My and I do three posts a day sometimes I'll do more if I'm like doing a repost, which means just taking a video that already did well, and reposting it, which on TikTok, really cool thing about that is, the Repost can actually get more views than than the original video that's crazy. Yeah. So my first post, typically around 1230 I do a like motivational type post, and it's always insane, it's almost always in the same exact place for whatever reason, I make videos in my basement or my laundry room door that right on in the background, and then it's total darkness in the room but you can see my Silhouette, and I'm just like doing pull ups or push ups or something like that. And then I just have some text, and it's either like reading. Like, it's just text like the sound of someone's given like a motivational speech, or it's just a quick seven typically eight and a half second video, where the text is there and then I just have the call to action. Follow me for daily motivation. Right, and those types of videos in that, like in that spot, those ones really pop off for me for whatever reason so I just sit with that, and they're super easy to make, I mean I just turn on the camera for like eight to 10 seconds, take a video of me doing some, some chin ups and throw some text on there, right, and I find text that has already blown up, like, I'm not making this stuff up. Right, I'm not smart, I'm not that smart. I'm finding people who have already had success in their videos and I'm just emulating them and putting my spin on it in the background like with a different video right. And you know my newest account, my most popular video is honestly a video that I don't even like, like it's, it's like a, and that's the weird thing about this, and the one thing I realized is I don't have to like the content, it just has to beat the out. Right, right, it's, I like it better when I'm having fun and I think it's funny, you're cool. But, you know, I've, I figured out how to find emerging trends, when I find them. And if I hop on them early enough, that video is gonna blow up. It's just, it's gonna happen. As long as I'm providing quality content, right. And so, that's my first post for the day. I don't know if you have any questions on that type of stuff there. 

Dave: No, I think that just, I think that it's just good to point out that we got to create and give the audience what they want, not what we want to do. I think that's just another great reminder of that.

R.J.: Yeah. Okay, so then after that, normally my next post that's going to be my core content right and I'm going to be talking about how to make money online I'm going to be talking about how to do sales opportunities side hustles. And the weird thing that I found for me personally, is that TikTok doesn't like it as much when I create it myself. I don't know, maybe I'm just not as good as it yet and I just had to keep working on it, I did have one recently where I recreated it, and I got like 100,000 views, but I would do a duet of me doing absolutely nothing, right here where I am right now watching someone else's video, and almost every time it was gonna get 100 200 500,000 and, and the reason behind it is because I just do a quick search I'm like okay, what is the most popular video in this space in this type of content I want to create in the past day or week it has to be almost like it has to happen like yesterday, preferably, or that day, like if it's starting vlog, that day I catch on to it, like it just go every time to do is put a good hook like a text hook. And I literally don't even just sit here and just kind of watch the video, and then put a call to action, follow me for daily signups, follow me for daily opportunities, you know, something along those lines. Anything you want to hit on there with that?

Dave: No, it made me think of a guy named Derek Jacks who's a guy in the relationship space he actually makes content for women. And he always does sort of reaction videos, and what you're describing these duets, are essentially reaction videos to where it makes the, it makes the audience, the person who's watching your video feel like you're watching something with them. And there's just something in human nature about that, That, that people that take off that people enjoy watching that versus you kind of sitting there talking at them. I think the second reason why that content works is because it's, it's, based on finding something else that's already proven to work. So usually what this guy will do is he'll grab a video that's already gone viral, that people are already talking about, it's already proven to be either. Usually it's proven to be. What's the word to wear it? You know people are kind of debating about it or are getting controversial. Right, so it's proven to be controversial and he'll give his sort of his reaction or opinion to that, you know, so it gets people kind of fired up, like, because they're taking sides and stuff. I just think it's a, I think it's just a brilliant thing for you to do that because also here's the other thing, there aren't those so easy to do you don't even have to think you don't have to make you have to come up with anything.

J.R.: That's the whole deal. That's why I started doing it because I was like, I was like, I'll try this, I heard you should do duets and stitches right and because that plays into the algorithm so I was like, okay, that's literally the easiest thing I can do. So when I really, I make those videos in about five minutes. I, as I'm getting into my car to go back home from my job, I take, I set it on my studio right where it is here, I enter the car like as the video starting, and then I just watched the syntax, though the hashtags and whatever, and that posted right around that, you know, 435 30 a window that I'm looking to hit for my second video. That's all it is, I don't even have to spend time creating that daily video, which is awesome for me because I've got, I've got two little girls under the age of three and a pregnant wife that's due in the next couple of weeks here so you can imagine, time is not readily available for me you know.

Dave: When you get home, your time is not your own.

J.R.: Exactly, exactly. window at night when the kids go to bed, you know, hang out with my wife unless she doesn't want to hang out with me, you know, it's like, you know after 8pm That is my, that's my time to make money, right, that's my time to, to make content that's my time to go live. I'll go live at noon during my lunch break as well. I'll do whatever, you know, and, And that's kind of how I utilize that. So yeah and then I guess the last type of folks that do for the day is normally I shoot for around like 7/7:30. And it's a trending piece of content. So I'm just trying to find whatever the trend is popping off emulates to my, to make sense for my audience, right. So like, you know, whatever that means, whether it's, it doesn't have to be one specific type of niche that I'm going for on that last one, like the first two Volmer fitness and motivational typically and then the second one is business and, and, you know, that type of stuff. Yeah, personal growth, you know, whatever. And then the last one is just whatever I'm feeling, whatever makes sense, whatever I think is gonna pop off, because that's the busiest time on TikTok writer's block right because it's gonna everybody on the East Coast is chilling at home. Scrolling on their phones, and then that's going to build for the next hour and then the next timezone gets it, and then the next time. Yeah, and I'll often find times where, and then I'll go live after those that for typically I shoot for about an hour. And I'll go to bed and I'll wake up, like today I woke up with an extra 10,000 bolivars. I've got 1000 followers a day since I started this account. 

Dave: You’re talking about the new one?

J.R.: The new one.

Dave: Yeah. So

J.R.: Before I forget this dude I just want to point this out because I think this is really kind of interesting and important, you're, you're, you're going a bit more general, in terms of your audience. So, less and marketing always defies gravity dude you know there's these rules that we all try to play by and or we say this is the rule, this is how you got to do it the niches are in the riches for example, and when, and then a marketer comes along, like yourself, and many others go more broad, who, who make content that's not every video related to like affiliate marketing affiliate marketing or whatever your topic is, right, like if your topic was parenting. It's not parenting parenting, you know you're getting we're getting your children to sleep at night getting closer, you know, you're going more with the fitness slash. In, It's not, it's, it's, it's, it seems to be entrepreneurial focused because those are your calls to action, but it it's it's inspiration, and there's, it's, if I was to, and I want you to, I don't want to label this for you. But if, but what the vibe, I'm getting is that the main themes of your content are basically inspiration, motivation, and entertainment, and I say entertainment because you're looking for those trends and typically the trends that are popping off are popping off because people enjoy watching them. How would you describe themes of your content?

J.R.: And you nailed it. You nailed it. I and my thought process behind it was kind of like people who are into fitness and motivation are actually the people that I want to be hopping on here, and maybe they'll see one of my videos about, you know side hustles or about, you know marketing or whatever it is, and it'll get them interested right because they're already those types of people who were like, you know, typically hard working people they're motivated, right, like those are the people I want to find and and help and work with right because that was me at one point. And it's like, it's content that I love any, like it's stuff that I like right so it's enjoyable for me too and I think I don't know if it was you or who it was, where I heard it but it was basically like hey, whatever niche you choose, make sure it's something that you're, you're passionate about or interested in or into, because not, you're going to get bored with it, you're going to meet these obstacles and you're not going to push through them because you're not hungry about it like you're not that into it, right.

Dave: You got to know how to talk to the people, I mean in the best way to talk to the people that I relate this back to my drug treatment, days in the counselors who reach the clients were all that reach the clients the best were always recovering addicts themselves, versus just people who went to school for but had no experience with the actual addiction. Right, and I feel like, like if you're working with somebody who's six or 700 pounds like the my 600 pound life show. It's so much more. It's you can connect with somebody so much more of you also were extremely obese at in your life at one time, saying, and I'm just using. I'm using examples of people in desperate situations, because a lot of these people, like everybody else, have their own desperate situation. Everybody wants to feel heard and understood, not ashamed and judged. And if they think, or suspect that you don't understand what it's like to be in their situation and you don't speak the same language both verbal and vocal language but also the language of the heart. If you don't, if they don't sense that you have walked that walk and know what it's like and you're creating content, it's not going to resonate. Whereas, with you, if you're showing them that you work out so you're willing to put in that work. You're showing them that you're a hustler because you're filming these videos in your car, and that also seems to be something that really kind of does well for a lot of people is just kind of this, I, I don't know but I'm watching you, I'm watching your content you're filming in your car. And so I think. I think that's also an important thing to kind of remember. Let's, let's transition to, unless there's anything else about the content I want to talk about the lead gen, that you've been doing and how you've been doing that, is there anything else to add to the content section you feel would be important.

J.R.: Just to kind of piggyback off of what you said like connecting with people and, and calming, like letting them know that maybe, you know, basically, if you want to connect with them, show them your failures, right, Right, yeah, yeah. The most popular video I've ever had that I just posted on this one. It was this brand that was about broken men like when a man is broken, right, and I don't like speaking those things or like you're I mean but it like it connected with all these men who are in that spot, and they hop on my lives and we're talking about their situation and the situations that I've been in personally and like my weight loss journey, and all of these other things like you were talking about, and that type of stuff has really helped me connect with, with people so your flow.

Dave: Well, I just, I mean, you said it right there, man. A huge reaction from you, you kind of see people who are in pain and feeling desperate and if you, if you look at every single person, if you talk to customers in any of the big three niches, which is health, wealth relationships. But let's not call them health wealth relationships because that makes it sound like, oh, things are great in my money and I just want to make them better, right. No, well, it's not well, it's broken as shit. I can't. I'm so broke I can't afford to pay attention. I got a Boss i Hey, I got somebody said desperate to get on my 70 Hour Workweek situation Becky said that just now, desperate, desperate to get out of my 70 Hour Work Week situation. Okay so that's that niche. So I got to speak to somebody, pain of not being able to see their kids like, and can you relate to this and how do I speak to their pain is not by saying, you must hate being in your 70 Hour Workweek, You must hate your boss, if you do, listen to me know that ain't the way to connect, because then they feel judged to change. It's, I know where you're at, because I used to miss out time with my kids to write in i i lived with this overwhelming shame that I was missing my children growing up in this Guild, and I knew I was going to have regret, but that taps into pain, weight loss, well, I'm not going to I'm not going to, you know, I'm not going to connect with people by saying, you know. Alright, get up off your lazy ass it's time to work, you know, if you want to be skinny you got up, you know. Right, I mean, who's gonna listen to that, I kind of talk about I DadBod, I got to talk about my struggle. I got to talk about my getting real. Yeah, you're getting into the fridge at midnight, we're heading up the lunch meat and the, you know, and the ice cream in the pickles and the chips and all this shit when everybody's asleep, you know, in the shame and knowing that as I'm eating it, I'm just killing the exercise that I did that day and it just feels like a vicious cycle, right, you know, that's the connection that that you'd set that you, you know, you said worked so well when you talked about that broken man video, and I think just, you said I don't like to talk about that But brother, you know, there's a way to talk about these things, by, by, by telling the, the, the end chapter you, everybody, even if you're still in the shit you can add a happy ending to the story because you can either talk about how you got out of it, or you can talk about any tab of the lunch mate, you already know you already know about that lunch me yeah I mean, so let's talk about the Legion. Okay, so we can get you out of here, within a reasonable time here which is, you know, maybe the next 10 minutes, you're so gracious dude you're so this is so valuable. I want to repurpose this if you'd be okay with it too because I want as many people as possible to see this but let's talk about the lead gen. How are you doing lead gen How are you taking all these, these hundreds of 1000s, or millions of views, and actually turning them into leads, and then sales because so many people that I know have maybe a lot of views on their content, but they're not able to transition and convert those into leads.

J.R.: Right. So I think, honestly, a lot of it is just having a call to action on some of my videos, right I know certain videos, where it's like a trending piece of content about business or success, where I can say okay at the end of this video, I'm going, or, or if I do an educational video which I'll do maybe like one of those a week, like here is how affiliate marketing works or how this site also works, whatever. And at the end of it, I'll say, Hey, there's a free starter guide on how to do this, and the link in my bio that generates tons and tons and tons of traffic. The other way, I'll do it as all, I'll end it with a call to action that says, DM me on my instagram for help, and I do it on Instagram for a couple of different reasons. One, I'm trying to build a following on Instagram as well. And in order for people to message me on there, they have to follow me so I'm just gaining followers that way. And the other reason is TikTok actually limits how many messages I could send today. I was, I got the first video I went to. I got one video that got a million views and I had a DM call me to action at the end. You can imagine how many DMS I got right. So it was like, I, I got through them I answered every single one, but on tick tock, I could only answer like 100 a day, and they had like some type of spam filter right it's like you're answering messages too fast, because I created a template, I have a template on my phone that's like, Okay, here's how I'm gonna answer this question here's I'm gonna leave it off, here's the questions I'm gonna ask them like tell me about yourself. Tell me about your goals, tell me what you're looking to accomplish and I'll give some recommendations, right and then I'll have conversations with people. And when I identify somebody that I think is a potential, a good potential candidate for, you know what I'm promoting I'm spending more time with that person, I'm connecting with them, I'm getting done because that's what I'm good at, that's what I that's one of the skill sets that I learned from, you know, network marketing messaging all these people and creating templates and figuring out how to genuinely connect with them over, just text messages. Right. And a couple of my higher end, you know, things that sales that I have made just from direct messages, you know, it's people that I've personally talked to, and they're, you know, pumped up and everything. 

Dave: So kind of, so once you're doing this conversational selling, right, you're then dropping a link after you sort of build some connection with somebody, you're dropping a link, you've got kind of pre built pre made templates, kind of, maybe in your note section on your phone or something. Is that where you kind of keep them? Exactly, Yeah. Okay, so what are some of the questions that if you give somebody a call to action to DM you what might some of those templates look like.

J.R.: So someone will typically hit me up and say, you know something like, I'm ready, or how do I be successful or you know something along those lines. Yeah, I respond with, okay cool. Tell me a little bit more about yourself, what you do for work and what specific goals you would like me to help you accomplish, and then I can give some recommendations. That's it verbatim, and then add in parentheses which kind of builds like some credibility, I say, sorry if it takes me a second to get back to you, I'm literally answering hundreds of DMS, and like an emoji in there, right. So I throw that out there and then they're they you know they answer and if they don't answer, guess what, they didn't want it. Right, right, right, and if they didn't make the effort to get over to my Instagram and DM me. Hey, I didn't want it either. Right. And I don't know if that's a good thing or bad thing.

Dave: It’s a great thing because you're qualifying them right so the more if they took that step then their suit then they're, they're super qualified, so when they answer back, you're going to get all kinds of answers. What's, what's your next template Id kind of follow up question so you don't get into sort of overwhelm because I can imagine some people are thinking, Oh, this must be time consuming, so I can understand how having more template ID stuff work. So, what would be when I send back and say, blah blah blah. This is what I do and yes I'm ready and what, what's your next response back to them?

J.R.: Yeah, so it depends what they are looking for because people are looking for help with fitness stuff. I threw away my wife's business with plants. Awesome, or they're looking for help to make money. Right, yeah. So, basically, depending on what that is and if it's, if it's, you know, for me, you know, helping them make money online and everything. I say, well I do like a feel felt found where I say, Hey, here's what here's what I highly recommend right now, This is, you know the way to help anybody, you know make money online, and I say, are you familiar with it, and typically they say no I'm not. I've heard of it but I don't really know how it works. And then I respond again, right, with, okay, no worries. I was the same at one point, right, here's what I did, I found this basic store, and here's, here's what I would do. I would find a basic course that you can get into that'll teach you all the fundamentals of how to get started and actually make money. The one I took was really great, and helped me out a ton. So that's what I think you should do, I leave it at that. Right, because then the next thing that's going to happen. I'm not pushing anything onto I'm just saying right right you're getting them to ask you for it. Correct. Never throw it out there, only if they asked me if they don't ask, whatever, There's plenty more. But they'll ask him then I'll send them I'll say, here's the one that I took. Right here's the one that I use. Check it out, and I do like a little, it's, you know, it's really great they'll actually assign someone to hop on Zoom and answer all your questions like, yeah, you I mean, I tell them why.

Dave: Yeah, like it, but it could be anything, if we wanted to make this generic for whatever you're promoting I mean it could be literally, it could be anything, I think the big point the big takeaway for everyone listening, is that there's an element here, of, of becoming the hunted rather than the hunter, and I think the difference between how I used to market versus how I market now is the same thing that you discover, I used to chase people around, you know, both offline and online because I took that same mentality, online, to where I would you know basically kind of hound and chase people and prospect people online, until I cook until I realized how to become more magnetic to I realized how to create desire in people to want me and what I have. And part of that is restraint. Part of that is dangling out enough curiosity in throwing out chumming the waters. That's why in the business blueprint I use this concept called the fishing formula, which is about chumming the waters which means getting the fish to the boat, there's no bait there though, they just smelled the blood or the fish so they come to the boat, and then the bait. I'm not giving them everything I'm not, you know I'm not like I'm not making them a five course meal saying, please sit down and eat with me, I'm just dropping some bait out there to get them to bite right, once, once they bite right now I kind of got up and I can I can I can sort of, I can drop more, kind of, it's almost like the crumbs that lead to the, you know what I mean that you if you want to attract a bear, like leave crumbs of food or whatever like keep bringing instead of jumping on them and dropping links and trying to pitch them on the first message, get them to ask you I think that's the kind of biggest, biggest takeaway for me and for, for, hopefully everybody listening is you, is throw things out in a way that there's, they, they're either going to be not interested in not respond, or they're not going to be able to resist asking what you're talking about, Would you say that is accurate.

J.R.: Yeah, yeah exactly and I think it's much more fun for everybody that way as well. 

Dave: People love to chase, I mean, I think we really forget the fun of the chase, and everybody likes a chase you like it in your relationships. You like it in your dating life, you like it in your, I mean, I chase watches, I chase. I've chased stuff all my life. I still love to chase my wife. She plays hard to get all the time I chase her right. I take the bait. I love it. Right. And it's, it's just, I think it's human nature. So, let's keep it moving and bring this plane in for a landing. So now that you've basically you're doing conversational selling, becoming the hunted rather than the hunter is there anything else you want to add to that, or what would be the kind of final step and, and how would you, what else do you do that is within this sort of simple funnel and recap for us what the two kind of steps are because I think we titled this the the stupid simple stupid simple funnel, we didn't title it two steps but recap for everybody in case somebody just came on kind of what the process looks like in a nutshell.

J.R.: Yeah yeah so basically you know you've got my link in the bio there, it's offering a free ebook, they click on the link right there's the capture page right so all they have to do is put their name and their email in, hit enter, and then it goes to the next page, where, you know, they're gonna get an email with the e book and after they do that and they're all my emails. Right. And then after that it's basically an opportunity, a, you know, here's a small video, and it's, you know, the number one reason, you know, people aren't successful in online business and then I've got, you know, basically, a page where they can opt in to go to the next step and see my offer. Right, that's it, that's all right.

Dave: So you're using kind of two calls to action, one is just straight up clink, click the link in my bio, and then the other is DM me. So, you're doing a combination of those calls to action in your videos, what other let's end on that note, because I think a lot of people get overwhelmed or confused about what calls to action they should give. Are you giving in some videos a call to action to just simply follow you. Talk to us on a daily basis, which of those three videos that you laid out, have a call to action, and what's the call to action, is that as kind of on purpose, as the types of videos that you create?

J.R.: Every single video I do has a call to action to know which one's going to pop. And I don’t want to miss the opportunity. One of them has a call to action and most of them. Just say, most of them just say follow me for daily motivation follow me for daily signups. That's how I build the following because they see that thing, click the Follow and there we go. Other ones will have. I call to action, to follow me. Every. There's not a single video output out that I know maybe there's one or two but every one of them. There's a call to action to follow me. And then if I want to put another call to action. I put that in there as well. I just time it out so it's not like both at once and I'll just say a free link in my mind, and then after that. Follow me. Follow me for more Yes sir, daily this, right. So every single video because I don't want to miss an opportunity on a viral video, right, that doesn't have a call to action on it, you get a million views, but there's no call to action so nothing.

Dave: Incredible. Anything else that you want to add that you think people would, would be valuable for people to hear that I had a question is not prompting?

J.R.: No man, I hope this was valuable for everybody. 

Dave: Yeah, it was really valuable. I want to. I want to be able to, with your permission, put it in some of our other training and get you know as many people as possible to watch this because I think the way you laid things out, was, was brilliant and clear. And so, if I could get your permission. If not, that's fine too but I think that if we can get as many people to listen to this and see this here, it would be valuable, I'm sure you're going to gain a lot of fans, sure you already have. But from this. So, bro. Just incredible. Incredible.

J.R.: Yeah full permission, listen, I owe you guys so much, I appreciate what you guys do. I'll do anything for you guys, honestly. So, absolutely. 

Dave: Well, thanks man and looking forward to meeting you soon and hanging out and working, many months and years into the future, congrats on your success. Give your wife my absolute best for being such a pain in your ass to get you on the internet. And, and then, you know, so much credit to you for taking that and running because you could have totally just been a crusty old crab and said, You know, I'm not, I'm not doing any more of that entrepreneurial stuff and I'm not getting on that old internet it's just, it's just a waste of time but now look at the future, and the opportunity that you've opened up for yourself and your family and those young kids that you have. It's just, to me , what's really kind of inspiring and exciting is that you've opened up a door of opportunity for your family to get more of you to have more of your time to give them more opportunity. And with three small children, so early in their lives, you have a chance to live with no regrets brother. Amen.

J.R.: Yep, you hit right there. 

Dave: All right, well, I'll let you get out of here, dude. Keep up the great work, we'll talk to you soon. All right, appreciate it guys and gals that was worth that's worth the realist were, that was very, very clear and helpful, and I'm so so grateful to J.R. for that, that masterpiece, right, he called Calvin's content a masterpiece. I'm going to go out on a limb and say what he just dropped was a masterpiece and I hope that that builds his confidence and conviction to be able to know that what he puts out is just as good, it can be, and have as much of an impact as anyone else's content on on the public on people who are listening because it had that impact on me, and if you guys all would blow up the comments would love for him more than you already have, because there's been tons of love, but if you've gotten value from this, if this impact do today, especially the end the week strong drop some love for Jr in the comments, and let him know how much that was appreciated. He took time, over an hour, to sit in his car while he's at his job to break that down for us. We are grateful. Now it is time for you to get on out of here, have a fantastic Friday, a great weekend. Take this training in this business in this opportunity seriously, and you too will realize all the dreams and goals that you have. Most likely, more than what you can imagine, with that said, Peace be Legendary. See you on Monday.

 

How To Stay Consistent With Affiliate Marketing On TikTok


Below is the transcription for this episode:

Dave: What is going on my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Hey, I am super excited about today. Okay, and I'm going to tell you why, is because every single day in our community we have people who are looking for, basically, to answer the big question of how can I start making money, when am I going to start making money right, this is kind of such a, you know, it's it's the question that's front and center on every single person's mind, as they're building any business but especially this right because you're working, you're creating content, and you see other people like Stacy law, who I want to bring on here in just a moment. Really kind of crushing it. So I want to figure out what is her secret today and have her breakdown and dissect a little bit of her journey over the past year or so, basically going from brand new to now making triple her salary. Okay and I want to confirm with her that that's actually what she's been able to achieve. Now we're going to talk about some numbers and results but I want to give a big disclaimer here. Before we start, the average person who tries, or goes through any information makes no money at all. Any person who starts a business, especially online, usually makes no money at all. And the reason why I believe this is simply because they don't do anything right, or they don't do what it takes to be able to succeed. Now, sometimes it can be a skill thing or sometimes it can just be bad luck, I guess. It's certainly not the case with Stacey, since it's not the case. I want to try to get as much information from her as we can about how she's been able to do what she's done. This is going to be a good one but that being said, Stacey was. Welcome to the show. 

Stacy: Hey everyone thanks for having me again.

Dave: I love, can I just say I love your tattoos like you look what I like what I think my wife is going to look like. Here in like a year or two, because she got her first kind of floral tattoo on her. Yeah, we actually went to, we actually went to Toronto for her to do that.

Stacy: Right in my town.

Dave: Are you, are you from Toronto? 

Stacy: Yeah.

Dave: Where did you get your tattoo? I have a what's the, you remember the name of the place.

She just moved. I wonder if you guys maybe went to the same artist. 

Stacy: I know, imagine that. That'd be funny. 

Dave: Yeah it was it was it, it was a young girl she was probably in her early 20’s, but like so good, my wife found her on instagram. 

Stacy: Yeah, that's where I found my artist as well. 

Dave: Yeah, Instagram, and they look very similar, like they're really, they're really nice, they're real, I mean, sometimes a floral design isn't done right, but yours and my wife's looks excellent. Stacy: Yeah, it all depends on the artist. Yeah, but they are really great. 

Dave: Do you remember what your tattoo artist name was?

Stacy: It was Lou.

Dave: Lou? That's the same place. Let's talk about marketing. So while we've got you know 100 people on the call, guys we were just having a little conversation about the lovely tattoos here.

So, you know, I talked I intro, this show today with this kind of big question that I hear so many people say, which is like Dave I'm doing the work, or I'm posting the videos let's take TikTok, for example, I'm posting the videos I'm making videos, I'm starting to kind of find my beliefs, my message, but I've, I've only made one or two sales, you know, can you take us through your journey and you kind of explain a little bit about what it, what it looked like when you started. And what, when you started finding momentum. What, what changed or what do you think was the main reason why and I'm sure you get that question a lot from people as well. How fast am I going to start making money? 

Stacy: Yeah. Yeah so, I mean, when I first started I was brand new politically and marketing like Legendary and the first thing that I ever tried and started learning with affiliate marketing which, which honestly was awesome and I've loved it so far, but when you first start you, you're really not sure what's gonna happen and for me that was kind of where I was sitting, and I kind of made this commitment to myself to just, no matter what happens regardless of the results or the income is it just be consistent for at least three months straight, like don't even really look at the results because who knows what's gonna happen, and I find that when you focus too hard on getting the result, you sort of, you lose your path, you can you, it kind of ends up doing this because you're chasing the result, instead of chasing like the knowledge and learning how to actually build an online business. And, I mean I've tried other online businesses before we talked about this last time I tried dropshipping and in social media marketing and doing you know advertising for other people. But with that, I didn't really do what I just said. I was always kind of looking for that fast result because to me results meant I was doing it right. But with this, I learned that results don't actually mean anything. Results are just results, what if you're doing it right, you actually learn the process, because if once you learn how to do the process right and you're consistent with that you can replicate results whenever you want. If you're just focused on getting results and you don't actually learn the process, and kind of take note of that in your mind, you won't be able to replicate the results again, because you won't really know what you did so for this. It was more focusing on learning the process and perfecting a process versus hurrying up to get results. And the funny thing is, as soon as I learned how I started doing that, that's when I started seeing results. So, like consistency which, I mean, I was talking about with Matt like consistency is a really big thing, focus on being yourself, focus on the process and be consistent with that and then you'll find your audience because the people who are like you and can resonate with what you're doing will come to you and it sometimes takes a while it may not come quickly. But ultimately if it takes you a year to build a business, or longer, even like five years to build a business that will sustain you for the rest of your life. That's a very short time in that, you know, big picture. So, I mean, for anyone who is really looking at the results really quickly just try to focus on, you know you're building something that you're trying to make sustainable for ever, not just quick results in quick money which I know a lot of people, you know these last few months I've kind of seen a lot of people are kind of in that mindset. I think the main thing is to just focus on building something amazing. And then the results will come.

Dave: I think I think people are, I think people have always been focused on money, and it's, it's, it's a bit of a, I think, employee mindset, it's how we've all been trained that if I put in an honest day's work, I'm gonna get an honest day's pay right if I put in a week's worth of work I mean, we have people who come to work here at legendary and they they're, they're like, why didn't I get paid at the end of my first week and we're like, Have you ever had a job before like there's we paid two weeks and a rear so there's even people who have had jobs who forget that, and they want to be paid at the end of the week. So I think there's a completely different shift in terms of the expectations of when you're going to get paid for the work that you put in that resonates with you at all. Was that something that you had to shift or not really. 

Stacy: Yeah 100% I used to work shift work, and it's the same thing like you have this set job and you're kind of trained, I mean I've been working since I was 15 years old so I mean, it's, it's kind of one of those things that you need to train your mind to realize that when you work for yourself, no one's paying you, you don't have a boss anymore, you are your boss so you're working towards goals instead of paycheck. So that's kind of a shift that you need to, to, to put in your mind that you're not really working for some beated you know handout money to you you're working to achieve whatever goal that you set out so you need to be very careful when you're making your goals because sometimes they're not realistic so it needs to be something that you just need to change that, that you know you're your own boss, you are working towards whatever income you want to make and it's not a paycheck anymore.

Dave: So you mentioned the shift now we're going to come back to your process and stuff. Later, I want to learn more about what that means to you, but I want you to briefly touch on, if you will, for those who don't know, kind of, what you used to do versus what your life looks like now. You can you talk a little bit about how you used to work 12 hour shifts to make extra income, just to pay your bills, how you missed time with your, your daughter, and how eventually you quit that job, you found Legendary, and I want to make sure that the quote that I quoted earlier about you actually almost tripling your yearly salary in six months this year was accurate, can you take us through just the nutshell version of what that looked like leading to where you're at now and what's happened. 

Stacy: Yeah, so, so I used to work at a nuclear plant, and I worked shift work not all the time but my regular job was nine to five, but for me to really, you know, make extra money if I wanted to get ahead in life I had to work shift work so that meant working 12 hour shifts rotating days and nights, and that meant leaving my family leaving my daughter at the time she was two and a half when I started doing that and, you know, for all the moms out there, it's hard to leave your kids like it didn't feel natural to have to do that and and have someone else, you know, raise them it was my mom that was really lucky. My mom was after her fourth but my husband and I went to work, but it's still not what I wanted as a mom, but at the time, that was just what we had to do.

I did that for about. I worked at that job for about 15 years but the shift work was for five years, and in the time that I was working 12 hour shifts, I actually worked six years and the time like an extra years time in the five years so I worked six hours six years worth of time in five years so to me I looked at that as I last year. Like I know it doesn't really work that way but to me that's kind of how I was visualizing it and that's the years was the time where I could have been with my daughter with my husband or spending time doing the things that I want so I kind of did a look at what I really wanted for my life and at that time I had already started going down the road of online business trying to make money online I knew it was possible and I kind of started with dropshipping and I tried to to work that out, and it was very hard to do that. Plus, trying to start an online business like less, spend time with my family so I made the choice to just leave one of them, and the one that I picked was my job, which at the time, people think you're crazy because I mean I had worked there for 15 years and it was a job with pension and benefits and, and, like people messaged me like are you okay like what, what happened, and my response was, I'm actually great, like this was the best decision I think I ever made. It wasn't easy and for the next year, in a bit like I struggled because I thought that dropshipping was going to be the thing and it was much more complicated than I thought. The profit margins are not what what everyone thinks it's, it's difficult to actually run a sustainable business that way and, which is what led me to Legendary and affiliate marketing, it was the one thing I hadn't really tried before and I'm not even really sure why it was just something that I didn't think that I wanted to do, but I've been hearing more about it and I've been seeing actually people post about it on Tik Tok like which is, which is kind of interesting because that's how I found you guys, and so I started doing some research and I decided you know what, I'm going to try this. One last thing, and I'm actually going to commit to it like I kind of explained before for the next three months, I'm going to just, like, go for it, and, and no matter what the result. I'm just going every single day. So, that was in December of last year. And, you know, the first month I just wasn't really sure what I was doing I'd never been on TikTok before I didn't really put my face out there I didn't like hearing the sound of my own voice or seeing myself on camera, it was just so weird, which is what a lot of people struggle with. And I just had to say you know what it probably took me a week to make my first kickoff. And I've mentioned my cages go post it, and then from that point on it, kind of history because from that, that first video I posted three times a day no matter what, whether I felt like crap whether I was tired didn't really matter, every single day and I posted continually I worked on building up audiences, you know, in different areas. And, the results just ended up coming once I sort of worked on the process when I, when I started focusing on just being consistent, putting out the content to help people learn the skill of affiliate marketing as best as you can go through the training and really focus on learning the skills. That's when I started seeing a change. After a little while, you realize, you know you focus on, on your process you really start to see what's working better and what not, and you actually need some time to do that it's not just, you know I posted for a couple weeks and why did I not get any sales, it's because you actually have to take a look at what you did look backwards and see the things that didn't work. Those are almost more, the more important things than the things that did work because the things that don't work teach you something, they teach you something that you didn't know before that maybe you thought was different. So, you know the failed failures I don't really like on that but know what it is the failures are almost better for you, long term because that's what teaches you to, you know, pivot and make your business better, so it was really just like consistently for me that that I think got me to where I was, where I am today.

Dave: And where are you today? I've already given the disclaimer so everybody knows that your results are not typical, but tell us, give us actual results of where you're at. You don't have to tell us how much money is in your bank account but just give us an idea of how life has changed financially for you compared to your, your, your job that you put in.

Stacy: Yeah, so for me I have, I you know I was, we were talking about, like, The results but I mean, you know with legendary, and the two times platinum with legendary, but not only just with legendary I have other affiliate programs that I've been, I've been working with as well like other software other things that I've been, I've been working with that, even those alone are almost as much as I made in a year, at least outside of legendary as almost as one of the year in my in my old job so I mean, I don't have we don't have any debt anymore we're actually in the middle of renovating our house which, which I was never able to do working my job I could not save up enough money to do that. I have my dream behind me because pretty much older furniture is in the middle of our living room right now, we're renovating and, you know, we can't. Well, we can't really travel right now, because, you know, Ontario is not fully, you know, open in Canada but we could go on vacations if you know we were able to, which we have never been on like a family vacation in years like away. So, I mean, and not only that I can spend time like the most important thing to me, I can spend whatever time I want with my family whenever I want now, because I know the process, I have a system in place and a process in place that allows me if I need to generate extra income to do something I can do that I know how to put that system in place and make the income I need to pay for whatever it is I need which is when I was working a job before it's okay I'm going to have to I'd have to calculate how many days, weeks, months of work, I would have to work to like buy something that was more like I need to calculate how much time I need to spend to devote to buying something that you need, where now, it has nothing to do with time, it's more of a, I can implement my system, or, and it will generate the income for me and I can kind of put that in place and walk away. It's in do what I want in the meantime where that is not possible, working my old job there is no way I'd be able to do that and I don't have to ask for permission from a boss or my boss, if I can maybe take, you know, a couple days here and there off so it's completely changed. You know it all together. So I mean, I don't even really know how to work. My life is just completely different. It's what I wanted when I first heard about this a few years ago when I first heard about making money online, starting an online business. This is what I dreamed about. And this is where I am right now and it's not even really a monetary figure, it's the time freedom, and it's the freedom to live your life, how you choose to do so and that really doesn't have, you know a specific amount tied to it. Everyone's will be different, but for me I mean I made over and above what I would, what kind of needed for my dream life, and I don't see it as something I really don't. 

Dave: Yeah. Well, I say the same thing if I would have tried to set goals, and I did, I would have short changed myself. And I think the tricky part is that I didn't hit my short term goals, but I've far exceeded my long term goals. Does that resonate with you? 

Stacy: Yeah, that, that makes sense, and that's something that I also had to learn, because I think that's also tied to sort of a job mentality where you, you make these goals that you think, you know, need to be little, little things along the way when really focusing on the big picture is what I think helps people really propel past the results that they really think they want because when you've never made that kind of money before you, a lot of people don't believe that it's actually possible and. And one thing that I've learned and actually, the great thing about what I'm doing right now is I meet a lot of great people who come to me for help, but what really happens is they help me to, I learn things from the people in my community in my group as well, where, you know, somebody shared something with me that that put what I was thinking into perspective where people kind of, they think they can do something but they don't act on it, or they act on it not believing that they can do it. And I think success comes when you join those two things when you actually believe that it's possible and you act on it because belief alone is not going to get you anything, and actions alone are not going to get you anything if you don't believe that you could do it so, believing that you actually can and taking action every single day just to work on that belief and put that belief in action, is when the results happen.

Dave: And I have the saying that you can't think yourself into a new way of acting but you can act yourself into a new way of thinking, I didn't invent that but it's a saying that I love. And, and I think you're right. The magic is when that belief starts to build. And, and, but it doesn't build first, and then you take the first step, you take the first step, and then it builds, and sort of like watching a baby walk. You mentioned your kids. I have an eight, seven, almost eight month old son and he's just starting to pull himself up right now. And each little thing that he does Stacy. He builds more belief, you can see it in him, he gets a little bit more bold, he gets a little bit more courageous, he gets a little bit more cocky even, you know, he started sitting up right.

I feel like the same exact thing happens with us, we do something. And when we do it, I think that's the part that we should, that we should focus on. But a lot of us miss the fact that when we started we were terrified, or totally insecure about the process, and now all of a sudden, we may be doing things, and actually taking action, but because we're focused, like you said, on the money. We're missing the miracle of the process, which you've mentioned several times, which is the building of confidence, and the building of belief, from the steps that we are taking you believe also that a lot of folks are missing their motivation because they're missing the miracles, because they're not focusing on acknowledging themselves for those steps that they are taking what comes up for you?

Stacy: I can actually relate to that myself because that was me before, and I think that's why my previous businesses didn't succeed or my perfect ways that I was trying to make money online, didn't succeed because I always failed to, like, document the process that I was doing in my own head I feel to miss the little wins like even just starting, or oh I posted a pickup today or I you know I sat and worked on some new emails, those are all went down and and do something that you weren't able to do before. That's a win for you and if you, if you don't document those and this is something that my husband actually, you know, it's very good at, reminding me about doing on, I'm still working on this, but if you don't document the small wins you'll feel like you're not successful, which really hurts your motivation it hurts you. You know when you don't feel motivated, it's really hard to move forward so without documenting those tiny wins those little things that are not related to money whatsoever and I'm not talking about results here I'm talking about processes, when you don't document those small wins, you kind of lose that motivation because you think you're not achieving anything.

Dave: So I agree with what you said whenever you have something that he would tell you to, to document like can you, Can you take us into, like, let us be a fly on the wall of what that conversation looks like, what, what type of things was he pointing out to you?

Stacy: So in the beginning, you know when, when I'm first starting out again. This is one that always comes into my head when I'm, when I'm first start thinking about getting on social media I would say but like who would even want to follow me like who would even want to like learn from me because I haven't, I haven't achieved anything, and he was hitting me like, What do you mean safety like what have you not achieved and like I haven't really made the money that I think people are going to tie to like that and he's like safety, but doesn't have anything like the amount of money you make doesn't have anything to do with what you've achieved but you you've tried multiple different business models that people can learn, learn from you. You started something new and you can document your journey, you are, you know, you're you, and you're trying something else, and that's something that you can use document and share with the world that you've actually achieved a lot, but you just don't see it, and he was very good at kind of reminds me about all of the little things that had nothing to do with money that I had achieved along the way, and, and when you start looking back at that, it really does help you see like you know what I am doing something and know the results may not be, you know at the time, what I wanted in what I thought equal success.

But I, when you start looking back you see that you are succeeding and you're working towards your goal you're going along your journey to along your path towards what you want, and eventually you'll hit the, you know the monetary results but again like money doesn't really have to do with success in a way, like it's all about.

Dave: I'm gonna drop a, I'm gonna drop a gold bar on everybody right now and I hope this, at least I think it is, you know, maybe you guys might think it's a little crumb but I hope I can see this clearly enough that everybody can understand it because I believe this was one of the secrets to my success is that I learned to to take normal everyday things that usually we just ignore and don't really look at, like their big deals.

For example, for me, it was getting off drugs and staying clean. Right. I mean, that was something that most people did. Hush, I don't want anybody to know that I keep that skeleton in the closet. You know what I mean. But I looked at that and I said, I don't have any financial success now. This was back when I was starting, I don't have any financial success. I don't have any wins, like, I don't have any businesses or 1000s I wasn't even thousandaire when I started I was hundredaire you know what I mean like if I had 1000 in my bank account I thought it was rich, but I looked at this thing that I had done, which was get clean from drugs and stay clean for a couple of years at that time or a year or whatever, and I learned how to tell that story in a way that, that made others feel inspired by that. And also, I believe that it helped them look at their own life and realize that they also had achieved things. I looked, I took stories that happened in my everyday life. I'll give you a funny example: one time my wife got into an accident and broke her neck. It wasn't like a hole, it was a fracture in her neck, and I actually wrote an email about it and turned it into like a marketing angle, she actually got a little upset about that because it was kind of like too soon moment she was like, still a neck brace and I'm writing a marketing email about it. But I learned to take those every day moments. People can let me know in the comments if you're picking up what I'm putting down. I learned to take those every day, moments that most of us miss, Stacy, that the most of us just as you were doing at the beginning just overlooked because we're always looking at the Lamborghinis and the mansions and saying all that I need to have that before I can have the authority and the platform to be able to actually speak with confidence. And what I learned to do is I just learned to take those, those, those sort of everyday achievements that all of us have actually had done, but nobody vocalizes nobody turns those everyday achievements into like a heroic story. And what I did was I learned to take those every day. Moments those every day wins that we all have, but none of us give ourselves credit for. And I learned to take those every day little wins, like somebody cutting me off in traffic, and I just inside I was raging. And I sat there in my seat, and I just said a prayer for that person. And I said, You know what, they must be having a bad day. I'm not going to make it worse by Robert Johnson, and I drove home, and I had a beautiful dinner with my family. That's something that we all can relate to because some days we pray on other days, we have our peaceful nature to us and we say a prayer whatever for the person and we go on home and we're good people right on that day, we don't. We didn't contribute to the misery of society. That's what I learned to do Stacy, that's what I learned to do at the beginning, and I still do that today. I take those small stories that all of us have in our life. And I put words to them. I actually turn them into a story and what that helps people do is look at me with more inspiration and more kind of motivation and positivity, but it also makes people feel seen, because I'm also telling their story. And if I was talking about Lamborghinis and mansions that would not make anybody feel seen because 99.999% of people can't relate to that, but when I tell those everyday stories, and I turn my everyday normal life into a heroic journey, it's funny, it's exciting, it's inspirational, and it also makes my audience feel seen and heard, and like, they're the hero of their own life, what comes up for you as I say that Did that make sense. 

Stacy: It makes complete sense. It, it, I think it's an amazing way to reach out to people, and like you said, people feel like they, they are seen I liked the way that you said that that's, I think that that is why when you kind of spin that into like what we're doing, especially with social media, and even like TV that is why I think people love reality TV and love social media because a lot of the times and a lot of the accounts and a lot of the channels that you see doing really well are just people who document their day, and people are really looking for, to feel like they belong to something, and that they're okay and that they're not, you know, doing something so wrong so I think that that is a great way to do it, it's something that I personally need to work on for myself because, you know, I've always kind of struggled with join people my weaknesses, it's something that I have, I have been okay with saying now that i i It's something that I personally need to work on myself and I think it's a great way to actually find your people like find your group, find your audience because your true authentic you, is, is who you should be showing and will really actually attract more people than you think. And it's something that I'm working on myself. It's something I need to be better at but you know, again this is a journey. It's something that, you know, a process and a journey that I'm on myself so you know I will get better at it and you guys will see more about my, like, my life, I'm sure as I go along but yeah I think that's an amazing way to put it. 

Dave: Well marketing is storytelling. At the core of marketing, great ads, you know, there's this watch brand named Paddock Phillipe, it's like this, this super 200 year old watch brand, and they have an advertisement. And it's kind of the most famous advertisement, it says you never really own a Paddock. You merely look after it for the next hour. And I mean, to me, it's like oh my god it's like, it's like, what they're doing is they're positioning their watch, as a, an heirloom right there are other, there are other advertisements that I remember is, they have a steel watch called the Nautilus, and they say it's the most expensive steel watch in the world right positioning, you know, and then they tell you why they're positioning it as a luxury item, even though it's a steel watch. Right, I mean this watch, you know, this watch is $35,000 for a steel watch, whereas this Rolex is $9500 You know what I mean. So, it's the story: What is it, what story are you telling in your marketing and what we all fail. Our biggest failure is, simply, as I said, seeing everyday situations and happenings in our life, the moments where we have a motion, particularly where we're angry, or we're sad seeing those moments, and then telling that story. If you read a great novel, if you read any book. What sucks you in. Is not the 30,000 foot perspective, it's how a author takes you through the details of somebody's day. The details of somebody's outfit. The details of the smell of the room when they walked into the restaurant, the details of the taste, the way he felt the way she said this in her face moved right it's those, you can we can string, a small little moment in life, that only lasted 30 seconds or two minutes into an email into a YouTube video into a tic toc. Right. I think what we're all looking at are these big achievements, and we're stuck on. I need to make this much money, and then I'm going to do something right. But the truth is is that people can't relate, they're not as interested in, when you make it to the top of the mountain because they're not at the top of the mountain. What they want is you to describe what it's like to be at the bottom of the mountain. In what that climb is like, so they can feel like you understand that. And when you understand when they feel heard and seen and understood this was, I was at an event with my wife, she brought me to go see Oprah. About five years ago down in Miami. Oprah is one of the best storytellers. And the best at making a large audience there's been many women who have done TV sitcoms, or up, you know daytime shows talk shows, I guess they're called. Many women have tried this over the years but she's built the biggest audience in Bend the largest influencer and the sentence that she said that will always stick with me that all that actually I didn't understand when she said it took me a couple of years, and now I think I do is that we all want to be seen, heard and understood. That's all. Yeah, that's all we want, if my marketing is all about flexing right, flexing what I have, or flexing what I've done, or flexing what I've achieved. I'm not making anybody feel seen, heard and understood. Matter of fact, what I'm making people feel is probably jealous, envious, less than, and not seen. So I hope you guys are picking this up but I'd appreciate it if you set it in the comments if you are, because this is the, this what Stacy has said and what I'm now piggybacking and adding on to it, I believe, is the missing piece that so many of us have. And unfortunately, it forces us to quit before the miracle happens. Miracle happens in your business. Do you agree with Stacy?

Stacy: I 100% agree with that, I do everything that you just said completely resonates and it's, it's what I'm even seeing from, you know what I've been trying in my own business, people don't necessarily. You think when you're creating that people will want to see the results that you're getting, but the best content that performs the best is really the ones where you document what you're doing, and anyone investing hair right, right. 

Dave: Yeah. Like, being like, Oh, I got to be perfect for this, and then you get all dolled up or I get all in my comb my hair just perfectly look like the perfect gentleman in the video flops right yeah whatever video takes off and it's like what Yeah, right, because I can relate to this shit. Exactly. 

Stacy: And that's it and you know any woman can relate to because the time that you go out and you, you just throw on whatever, like you said messy when you go out someone's like, Oh, you look nice and you're like, what, it's never you know what I mean it's that moment.

Dave: Yeah, I do that to my wife all the time like she'll like to set a pair of sweatpants.

Right, but then she'll get all dolled up in the eye like what and she's like, she's like, she got cuz she spent all that time getting ready, and it's weird. You've said the word process that you guys call it process up and Canada but I wondered if you could just say a little bit more you said find your process, find your process do your process you. You said that so many times that I just.

Can you say more, give us a little bit more context about what is your process, what did that look like for you to find that. And now what does that look like on a daily basis in terms of your approach to things, and how you think about creating marketing?

Stacy: So in the beginning I'll start from when I, when I first started that my process just began with learning the skill, and being okay with implementing it imperfectly, because you're not going to be, no matter what you do, right in the beginning so a lot of the posts that just began with trying something, and seeing the result. So in the beginning, that's what I really suggest that people do is just try and watch, try and watch, try something and see what happens once you kind of have been doing that for a little while, you can look at the, like, when I say results I'm not talking about money, but look at the results from what you do, whether it's how many people if you're posting on social media for example, how many views that gets whether people are commenting whether it seems like the people you're trying to reach, are actually, you know, receptive of what you're saying, once you kind of have that down, you can start to make, you know, a plan of okay I have some examples of what, what has worked and what has not worked so I'm going to focus more on what is working. So that is sort of the beginning process is just to determine like try and fail and figure out what works best for you personally as a marketer, as you know, regardless of what is it that you're trying to do. And then after that, for me it was more of continuing that process of trying and failing, but then putting systems in place like automated funnels your email marketing sequences to complement that you the content that you're creating the marketing that you're putting out there because the goal as, you know, an affiliate marketer in it, at least for me as an online business owner is to, to have as many things happening in my business without me having to touch them so your automated process like learning how to build great funnels and learning how to how to send out emails to your list, emails that you know, aren't they are selling like you said that are really just, you know, genuinely, you know, reaching out to them to make them feel like you understand them. So a lot of the process for me is just try and failing, like, really focusing on what I see work, and then in my day now I just kind of tweak those processes look through and check to see the traffic's on my funnel, check to see whether my emails are being open, look at the views on my, on my content, and really just try to slowly pick away at the things that I think will make those things better, and allow me to actually step more and more away from actively doing those things to me. I mean freedom to me is, is not the money, it's being able to live the life that you want so the goal for me is always find ways to do what I want to do with the least amount of time that it will take for me so I'm always looking at ways of perfecting, you know what my funnel looks like or researching other other brands other funnels, whether it's affiliate marketing or not, that, see what they're doing and watching what works. So, I mean my day now is, is really more focusing on creating content and usually how I start my day, then I follow up with all of the different audiences and groups that I've kind of built around what I do, whether it's, you know, calling somebody's YouTube channel going into my Facebook group and helping people out. Messaging VMs for anyone who is looking for help. And then, you know, after that it's just kind of repeating that process every day. So it's not really anything complicated, a lot of people think that there's some secret process that's out there some secret strategy that you need to do but it's really just trying to get better and better at what you know already work, getting, getting to learn those skills, and instead of always having to refer to notes, getting them in the back of your mind that you are, you know that without thinking about it so it's not like anything complicated for me it's just, you know, working on what I know works, and helping as many people along the way.

Dave: So we know that you're, you're kicking some major tail on TikTok. And that's, and that's awesome. You've, you've been able to keep your views consistently high. Whereas, I've seen other people who have kind of gone kind of shot up to the moon with their view counts, and their audience, but then, like for example I saw a couple of people recently who, like, had a great message and great entertainment and great content, I call it edutainment. And then all the sudden they went off doing this big affiliate launch and got kind of confused. Our audience started pitching hard and they're just their views just shot they almost killed their channel, doing that. You've, you've just consistently had good solid view counts, and continuously grown your tick tock account. I want to talk about YouTube here in a moment and then we'll wrap up these are going to be the last couple of questions but what would you credit the growth on your TikTok channel to?

Stacy: I think it really is what you already sort of mentioned that it's being consistent, because when there's two things that kind of come into play with social media that I think people don't realize one is your audience, they follow you for a reason, and usually it's for a specific video that they find it's usually your most viral video you get a lot of your followers from but not even you get some from, you know, all along the way. So when someone is following you for a specific video and you're, You've been talking about something for a while. If you suddenly change what you talked about and it confuses them, they came to you for a reason so if something is working, like don't like it would be silly to change that. I mean, it doesn't mean you can't try something else. But that doesn't mean try it on the thing that is currently working for you so if you find a messaging or a way that you deliver your content or a type of thing that you do that is working just stick with that and write it out as long as possible and don't try to change it, unless it's not working. If you suddenly see that you've been doing the same thing for a really long time, your messaging has remained consistent and then you've noticed that your views are going down, that is the time to look at your content and think okay I might need to make a change. Another thing with social media is that there's an algorithm in place.

I mean, I've been having issues with my TikTok account but even though I haven't been able to post for a little while because TikTok is being silly right now. I still am getting views on my content, I'm still getting consistent views because my messaging I think is consistent people come to my account for specific reasons because they liked the content I was creating for certain, for whatever reason that they decided, but also that algorithm is going to show your content to people who, it has looked at in the past have followed you like do and watched your content so if you change that in the algorithm is showing the content to people who liked it before, it's not going to work if the algorithm is not going to work in your favor so I think the algorithm part of things that people don't really realize is that you're training the TikTok algorithm to show your content to specific people and if you're constantly changing that. It's going to be very difficult for you to get followers because the algorithm is not going to know who shows your content. 

Dave: So, yeah, so I think that's something that people just don't really realize that I think is really important. You got to train the algorithm guys that was a that was a boulder I hope you have a dump truck to catch that boulder and carry it back away with you because I see people who have grown massive accounts on, say, tick tock, for example, like, there's a couple of comedians who use the same exact sound every time one guy that I'm thinking of in specific. He's the guy who is the. He acts like a store worker, and people come in and they say, you know, you know, he pretends to be them he's like, hey how you doing, and then, and then he pretends to be the customer. I'm just looking. And then, the music drops and it's like that. Dun dun dun. And he's like, and then he starts to be like he kind of says what's in his head like I wasn't, I wasn't going to try too hard so you I was just saying, How you doing, have a nice day. Like any, and then it's like he's just, he's got the same stick, it's the same structure in a joke every video it's just the content of the joke is a little bit different. He's talking about all the different scenarios that happen at retail stores, and into him as an employee. Another one is this young kid, kind of a heavyset black kid I don't know if you guys have, have seen his content, he's usually in a car, and he uses the same exact sound. And he's, he's like, why are dad's always like, you know, whatever things that dad say, And then he drops a salad, and he talks about his thoughts in his head, and it's just like why are teachers always like, why are neighbors always like, why our motto is like why are sisters always like, and then, you know, it's, but it's the same thing. And the reason why I bring that up is because you just said.

You got to train the algorithm. In, the moment that you go from talking about online marketing stuff for making money or building a business online stuff to even talking about like family stuff, or even any video that has a different type of content. I would think when we talk about machines, artificial intelligence, it's smart but it's not that smart. He gets confused, and now all of a sudden, it's just like a confused buyer does nothing. The algorithm is just going to say hey, I'm confused by this person, I'm just going to set them aside.

Stacy: I Do. Exactly. I agree with that. Yeah and it doesn't matter what social media platform you use yes they're all gonna have slightly different algorithms, but essentially, at their core, that is how it works, they know what we do, they can see what we look at they, they know us very well which, You know, people who are not marketers that's probably scary but as a marketer, it's amazing. But, I mean, you have to know that it's trying to figure your content out and who the best people to show it to they've the algorithm, and you know the people have ticked off they want your content to succeed because that means that you're going to keep making content, and they're going to keep having viewers so they want to show it to the right person, but if you are not being consistent, then it's going to be very hard for them to know who to show that. I think another big nugget that I'm taking out of this. 

Dave: Everybody, this is such a big theme in our community and on these, on these shows every morning is consistent. Be consistent, be consistent, but that doesn't just mean throw any old thing up, be consistent with your message and your topic in your structure. Does that resonate with you if you are also talking about that as we talked about the algorithm? 

Stacy: Yeah, For sure, it needs to be they don't just look at. I mean, again, this is a computer, it's not a human that's looking at your content so it's everything to, you know, like you guys see this screen behind me I leave that there, because that is what I started with that I tried changing them out that seems to be what works like I analyze everything about my content too. You can even see the text that I use on the overlay on top of every video that's the one that I think is the most clear you can see, like, kind of how I'm always positioned in my videos, even down to like the way that I deliver my messaging and what it, what it includes kind of how I build that out everything is consistent, because I have seen that it works. And when I kind of deviate from that I do try you'll see sometimes every once in a while I have like one or two videos where I'm outside or where I'm not in front of the screen where, you know, but I just find those don't always work as well. And, you know, I will try something every once in a while but it came to a consistent way that you do your content, the way that you do your emails, it can go outside of just social media, the way that you just build your presence is very important because people are looking for that they're coming to you for a reason and you need to remember that it's more than just humans who are trying to figure you out, it's also the social media algorithms and everything like that so being, you know, consistent with what you do is very important because you can also then determine what is not working. When you're not consistent with what you do when you change it up all the time and that thing stopped working, you are never going to be able to figure out what it was that you did that caused that to happen.

Dave: There's a lot of gold to be mined in what you're saying today I just have one final question speaking about doing, what's working, I mean you've got some YouTube videos here 490,000 views 100 and 111 views to. Why are you not doing more YouTube?

Stacy:  It's something that's on the list, I mean, my husband has been saying the same thing is like I think you need to make more YouTube videos and like I really the only answer that I have because I know I need to. But the thing is, I'm still really doing it all by myself. I record all my videos myself, I edit all my videos myself, I make all the thumbnails myself, I do it all myself and it's, you know I used to be very hard on myself for not doing more. Now I turn it more into a motivation where I am doing what I can and I have a very high standard for the quality of content that I put out, so I don't want to rush. You know, anything to just put it out just to get views that's not really why I'm doing it. When I post something on my youtube I really want to make a video, I've researched it the best that I can. I've been in it, so that people really understand, and when I do put it out, people will know okay when she puts her stuff out, it's good, it's going to be good so that they will wait so I will get better at, you know, posting more content on my YouTube channel and it's coming for anyone who is waiting for it but just know that the wait will be worth it when it does come out because I'll make sure that it is good. That's a good philosophy so I actually have one more question. Are you repurposing your ted talks onto your Instagram rails? Yeah 100% That's the strategy that I've been doing. I haven't recorded any new content onto my Instagram yet. Because the reason why and this is something that I've even posted in my Facebook group, the reason why I even started Instagram was because when you're running an account on a free platform like social media, you're at the mercy of their algorithm which we just talked about and that could mean and what I think a lot of people probably haven't seen even on tick tock is that you may or may not have your accounts there tomorrow. And it's really not good business sense to build your entire business on something that you don't own. So what I suggest is to, for anyone who's watching this, who's in my group, that you diversify your content in as many places as possible because you want to be able to reach your audience. If something happens to your main traffic source so my main traffic source is tick tock. But, even me personally, I've been having issues with tick tock lately where I haven't been able to post they're not allowed me to posting so thankfully, I started my Instagram account and I've been more heavily posting there now, but the great thing is that I can just repurpose content so if anyone's feeling overwhelmed like oh my gosh and other social media platforms like you don't have to create new content repurpose everything that you have in as many places as possible, and build up your audience in as many places because then people can find you if something happens. And then when you get to a point where you can build your own, you know, somewhere where you can house your own audience yourself on a platform that makes you own, I don't even know what that looks like. But if you were to do that then, you know, you're a little bit more safe, but for right now with social media just diversify as much as you can, and that way you won't lose your business if something ever happens when you get to the place that you are, why not just open up an Instagram account is scoop up an extra nearly a million views on videos that I'm looking at here right now like, it just makes too much sense. 

Dave: Yeah, you know, I think, something that a lot of us are, you know, are kind of that a lot of us are kind of looking at it, and just, it just also missing here is, Well, is that is that while you're building your business I guess is the best way to say it. These platforms are also building their business, they're trying to figure out, figure it out as they go to, you know, and so, you know, they're, they, they're competing for your bit your business like in your business is your content creation, they want every platform tick tock Instagram wants the best creators. For that to be their main platform, right. So, it's really smart for you to be on these different platforms. Give them content, because they want to push it forward, they want, they want to give you the most views so that's your focus. And, and, also, also understand that they're trying to figure it out as they go. So if all of a sudden you get throttled back, or you're not. You're not getting as many views or whatever, use, if you've diversified like that, diversified your traffic, ultimately you still win because you kind of are like hey what my money's no good here. Okay, I'll just go over here to Instagram, you know what I mean. 

Stacy: Exactly, yeah. 

Dave: Yeah, so they're going, you know, it's I feel like we underestimate the power that we have as creators today, because of all these platforms that I'm telling you right now. You look at the announcement that Mark Zuckerberg just made yesterday. I think about the metaverse. Okay this is his new vision for what the internet is going to look like and all of the work, all of the focus that they're putting in to their platform for creators, for creators, right, that means that they're going to tailor the platform in focus a lot of their attention on us creators, because they know if they can attract the most creators. Then, if they have the best content that people are going to continue to stay on their platform, that means that not only are you going to have the same chance that you've always had to build an audience and sell your own stuff, or products you're an affiliate of. But these platforms are going to continue to share, advertising revenue with us, and increase it higher and higher kind of like YouTube does, because they know that if they don't, we're going to go to these platforms like Twitch, or like YouTube, to where they're going to pay us, and they're also going to allow others on the platform like even Facebook just launched this new app to where you can, you can leave stars, your audience as they're watching a live stream can actually pay you we could implement it right now on our live streams can actually pay you. It's simple Stacey, it's like, it's like, Have you ever bought something on like on your phone, or it's just Apple Pay, you just click it. 

Stacy: Oh yeah.

Dave: Well, there's, there's, there's an app, a function or a feature that they just launched on Facebook to where you can send somebody stars in pay them while you're watching their live stream the same exact way with the same ease you don't even have to put in your credit card information, with the same ease that you can unlike unlike Apple Pay, so if you guys think that, that there's a lot of opportunity out there right now or if you're thinking that somehow you missed the boat. It's just getting started. 

Stacy: Oh yeah, yeah, opportunity is everywhere, brilliant, like I truly believe that.

Dave: Yeah, well listen, You have given us so graciously, an hour of your time this morning, and I know it was so impactful, you've gained tons of fans. You know, now if many people already said they already know you but I just think we still much for your time. Congratulations on your success. And, you know, hopefully we can twist your arm and get you back for another episode here in a couple of months. 

Stacy: Oh yeah, I'm not going anywhere anytime soon, so I'll be here forever. Whenever you need something, Stacy will tell your husband that I said hello and give it to your family. Our best, and we'll talk to you later. 

Stacy: All right, all right. Okay, thanks. Bye everyone.

Dave: See you Stacy. All right, listen, I'm just gonna say this and then we're going to end there was so much gold in that episode, that if you, if you don't go back and mine the pieces out. You're You're insane. Like, seriously, even for me, there's bits and pieces to go back and listen to to just tease apart in terms of training algorithms and in terms of her process. Yeah, Ruby says it was an amazing interview, Lucinda, tons of love for Stacy and that I mean these episodes are awesome. And I think one of the coolest things that I like is also having returned guests like Stacey was on a couple of months ago and it's been really cool to watch her journey like back then she was just kind of like taken off a little bit and I think she was, you know, she was kind of like, I don't know like, Is this happening like and now she knows it's happening like she knows that she's earned it. She owns it, and it's awesome to see somebody sort of step into their power. So, anyways, you're not here folks. Have a fantastic day, be Legendary. And we'll see you back here again tomorrow 10am Eastern time. Peace.

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Dave: Hey, what's going on my friends welcome to Monday, I'll spare you the singing in your ear on Monday morning, it's not a good sound, I understand that. So, I want to talk to you folks, you wonderful beautiful guys and gals are sporting and people from all around the world about how to predict the future, and understand where the hockey puck is going. So to say so to speak, anticipate the future, in a sense, in the way that we do that, is that we look at the past. All right, so we're going to look at the past, briefly, and then I'm going to talk about the next kind of hottest trends that are happening right now. And the way that we know this is that we are a community of 1000’s of marketers here. And for the most part, we stay pretty much on the cutting edge of what's working, what's driving traffic and what's getting results on the internet. And that's one of the benefits of being a part of a community like this, a family like this on the internet, within this industry is that we get to learn from each other. And so we're investing a lot of time in this kind of new hot trend that's happening right now. We're going to be investing a lot of time and training you guys on it over the course of the next couple of weeks, and, and even to the next couple of months. All right, so check this out. Let me give you an example of being ahead of it on top of the kinds of trends that are happening on the internet. I think I talked about this briefly last week a little bit, but I got an email from a traffic expert.

Okay, from a traffic expert, I'm on his list. And this was a week or so ago, he said it's time to start taking tic toc seriously. And I like this guy. This guy actually has done some training for our community and is really good at the mechanical stuff, the mechanical setup, but he's not directly involved in our community. Okay. And so for us, we've been on TikTok for the past year and a half our community as a whole, we've been teaching talking about having guests on the show we've been teaching about it in our business blueprints, we've been doing tic toc challenges, we did a couple of TikTok challenges back in, I don't know whether it was, I think it was 2020. But tic toc is something that we were on sort of the cutting edge, if you will, right, I don't want to get too high up with my lingo here but I think you kind of get the point. So, We were on the cutting edge of TikTok marketing for at least the kind of info space, you know, the education space in the affiliate marketing space, it was not a whole lot of people that were doing any marketing on TikTOk back in, In, in 2020 for this particular space. And so there was like this big onslaught of our affiliates that went on to TikTok, and a lot of people were like, oh legendaries everywhere on tech time, you know, and it's like, Yeah because it's still works well, but back in 2020 when we all jumped on TikTok.

Most of us internet marketers had never seen anything that worked that well, like that fast to get traffic that fast to go viral that fast have videos that you know got 20 4050 100,000 views that fast, to grow, accounts that had 100,000 followers, like, in some cases a couple of weeks, a couple of months now. Not everybody was able to do that. Part of it was consistency, part of it might have been luck. But for the most part, it was consistent if you were consistent, and you really worked. You have worked at perfecting your skill set, you could get some pretty significant results marketing on TikTok, compared to other methods that we've done, you know, over the past 10 years, you know, usually internet marketing, for the most part can be a pretty slow kind of grind, you know what I mean, you know, building up a YouTube channel, you know, the biggest thing that would get massive quick results in the past was paid advertising, and that required a significant budget. So now all of a sudden here in 2021 halfway through, you know the Guru's are like time to start taking TikTok seriously. And like we've already known that, so that was an example of hopping on a trend when it was super new. Now for those of you who are listening and thinking, I missed the boat on TikTok, it's saturated now, you know saturation is a myth.

This is something that you normally, normally hear from people who haven't done much in getting many results. All right, so I just want to kind of give you a little bit of a heads up whenever you hear somebody saying, Is it saturated?” It's usually considered the source, right, TikTok is still a major player in the game. And what I want to talk to you about today is how to multiply those results. So here's the new kind of hot secret trend that's popping up right now, it's Instagram reels. All right, it's Instagram reels and those of you a couple of weeks ago, or it was just actually last week, maybe it was, maybe it was a week and a half ago, something like that we had Chris, the young man from Maryland who kind of took us through his process of Instagram doing Instagram rules and building an Instagram channel. We actually, we actually have contracted, Chris, paid him. All right, hired him as a guest trainer to come in and train all of our business blueprint students. All right, we've paid him handsomely to actually come in, not just on an interview, okay to where we just were sort of learning a little bit about what he's doing. But we actually paid him and hired him to come in we're going to be doing this training on August, 5. All right, so if you are a business blueprints student. On August 5 Chris is going to be doing a live presentation on one of our Thursday coaching sessions to where he's going to go for as long as needed.

Plus, with a completely and totally prepared presentation to take us behind the scenes and break down exactly what he's done to be able to crush it on Instagram reels, right now if you're not a member of the blueprints, you can catch his free interview that we did just a couple of sessions ago I think it was last week or the week before. But, if you are a blueprints member, kind of prepare for that, get ready for that mark that in your calendar of course we're going to post the replay back in the replay section of all those live coaching calls. If you're, if you're not a blueprints member I can tell you this, that this one training that we're going to do with Chris on Instagram reels. This could be one, this, this could be worth the entire investment, and this is kind of what we're talking about when you're looking for, like, as an investor, right, when you're looking for a hot stock that you can, you know, put a couple of 1000s into, and it's going to skyrocket to the moon, right like everybody's been talking about with Dogecoin and Bitcoin take it to the moon, and it goes. And then it goes.

Everybody, you know right now crypto’s kind of silent about it because it's, you know, it's, it's volatile, but this would be an example of a skill set in a platform that you can learn, investing in yourself, right, not just looking for the next hottest stock or cryptocurrency, you can invest in yourself that if you applied it, you could get multiples of returns in the in the in the 10s in the 20s in the hundreds, in the 1000s over the next couple of years, right, and that's not a guarantee, I don't know what you're going to do with it what can happen for you. And most people who buy any. How to information get no results at all because they don't use it, but this would be an example, you're looking if you're one of those people who's looking for that burning bush, you're looking for that, you know, where's that next opportunity, you know, and what I noticed is usually the people who are kind of like looking for the skies to part, God himself to come down and deliver the next newest investment scheme on stone tablets, you know, they're the people who opportunity is usually right in front of their face and they always miss it right, or they get into something and then they get shiny object syndrome, and they don't follow through with it suddenly don't see the results but this is an opportunity this is what I'm trying to say, Okay, listen. If you're looking for an opportunity.

If you're looking for an opportunity to invest in yourself. If you're looking for an opportunity for the next big thing. If you're looking for an opportunity to take a ride to the moon. This is one of those opportunities. I'm just trying to be as ridiculous as. Hey, hello. Right, yes. Neon flashing signs, right, go to the moon right now. No Bitcoin necessary, no Dogecoin necessary. Right, no cryptocurrency necessary. And how about this, for those of you who already have the blueprints on the house, baby. You know you already made the investment in yourself. So, let's help you take things to the right. So let me take you back 10 years when I first got into this industry. I was obviously just is new and green is, is everybody, but I want to I want to help you to understand what happened back 10 years ago so you can kind of understand how it's continuing to happen over and over again, and how you can take the emotions out of things and understand how trends happen and how patterns happen and that things typically happen over and over and over again the same way. So back when I got on the internet. This was 2010 or so. 2009, 2010.

What was really hot was, believe it or not, Google ads right everybody was on Google all the affiliate marketers were on Google, just doing straight up Google ads, and they were taking, you know offers like a legendary offer or a dog training offer or martial arts offer network marketing training offer whatever the offer was, and they were just buying up all the Google ads. So when somebody would search for a certain term which Google was, like, new hot it was, It was cool, it was like, Whoa, like, the Internet was still kind of fair, this was Myspace days you know what I mean this was Facebook was there but I was on my expense. Now if you guys remember Myspace but I kind of feel like I'm a grandpa like come here and let me tell you a story about when I was young. But yeah my space. So, so what happened, kind of like right as I was coming on the internet. Was that all of these affiliate marketers, kind of took over Google ads, you know what I mean. And basically they were kind of putting up the same exact landing pages, This is what affiliate marketers do. They use similar marketing material. That's why it's important to be different if you can, right, because what happens is is, these, these, these platforms like Google like Facebook, they have kind of smart artificial intelligence that's able to see, obviously, if advertisers are using the same link, and they can in some cases even see I guess by scanning pages and stuff, if they're using the same page design, but a lot of affiliate marketers were using the same exact link right just with their affiliate ID at the end. And what happened was there was something called the Google slap. And all of these affiliate marketers, and even information marketers who were selling courses with mostly affiliate marketers, basically, were making money hand over fist, like, I would say that this was. I mean, someone somewhat comparable to kind of what's happened with TikTok over the last year, year and a half, but you could ramp up so much quicker like you could.

It was paid advertisement and paid advertising, a little bit different because if you have an offer that works really well. You can ramp it up as big as you want, you can guarantee traffic into your funnel because you're, you're sort of paying for it, you're not doing sweat equity to earn it. Like you are with kind of free sources so anyways. So yeah, the Google flap happened. All right. And so all these people who are like making money hand over fist like a lot of them, when that slap happened, and all of a sudden a lot of their income dried up, and there were two types of people. The first type of person didn't understand that these sort of things happen, right, that the Google ad was a trend, it was something that was hot. And all of a sudden marketers came in and ruined it right, marketers ruined everything we ruined everything because what we do is, marketers copy each other, right, and marketers go in and when something's working for one person. Everybody runs over and starts doing that thing right you'll hear this from me you can hear the same kind of concept from Gary Vaynerchuk like marketers screw stuff up, right, Because we go and we basically annihilate something we squeeze every last drop of juice. I mean, imagine like a lemon that you're squeezing into your water that is so dry, and you're just trying to get one more drop on it.

Right, so that's like what a marketer does. And so there was, there was the type of people who, when that happened, they were like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe this is happening like I just got my account deactivated. Well that's what Google did was they went and they deactivated everybody's account, they shut everybody's account down. And so, this group of people who were like oh my gosh, you know, my business it's they got emotional they got in their feelings, right, there was another group of people that were like, Okay, this sucks. This definitely sucks. There's no doubt this sucks. But I need to intellect over emotion. I need to stay non emotional about this and I need to start looking for the next trend. I need to start looking for what I can do that can work now. Right. And, believe it or not, Facebook picked up that slack. Where, where, nowadays, you guys know Facebook for coming on the internet now no Facebook has been super hard on advertisers.

Well, over the course of the last eight, seven or eight years, right, from about 2010 to about 2018 or 90. Okay. Facebook was kind of the Wild Wild West, like there were a lot of people who are making a lot of money with Facebook ads, and their compliance on Facebook ads was fairly low, right. Another thing that was super hot from the organic perspective with YouTube. A lot of the people that got on YouTube back in 2010, 2011, 2012 YouTube was still fairly new, nobody really understood it, like they do now, everybody nowadays, being a YouTuber is almost like a job title, you know what I mean. So, Facebook ads, after the Google Ads slap, that's what happened. That's what everybody called it the Google Ads slap then it was Facebook ads, it was also YouTube. Alright, so now what's happened over the course of the past couple of years. Well, Facebook has clamped down on their compliance. Okay, why. Well, politics, the 2016, and specifically the 2016 election to where they were talking about Russian interference, and all of these different countries, you know people interfering and kind of creating fake groups posing as political activists and stuff, creating Facebook groups and stuff. There was a lot of talk that this was from other countries.

So of course, Facebook had a spotlight on it so they started to crack down on that. The other thing was cryptocurrency. Cryptocurrency went through the roof. And all of these crypto Ponzi schemes popped up, and also all of these launches of crypto coins to where you could get in early, right. And so they started to crack down on that. Also the biz op space, Like, make money online kind of get rich quick style stuff, to where, whether it be network marketing or affiliate marketing with a lot of claims and stuff like that where they were talking about, you know, burning meal, starting a business, just all of these pieces, they started to kind of clump together and say, Look, we're gonna crack down on these specific industries because these are the ones that are kind of pausing us the most Harper period specifically political and cryptocurrency, but kind of the make money online stuff got thrown in there as well. And so now all of a sudden, the Facebook game, which was one super easy hot person who was making money hand over fist, started to clamp down. Now Facebook's still good. Just like Google's still good. But the trick is you have to be different. You got to be different. Okay, now 2000 And kind of 20 ish. What was hot? Well, TikTok became hot. TikTok became the new trend like everybody was sitting at home during the pandemic, and they were scrolling their phones, Instagram was also hot back in 2017, 18, 19 right but TikTok just from the perspective of posting pictures got a little bit kind of played out.

So TikTok in 2020 was like everything. Right now what's happening? Well, platforms like TikTok blew the roof off things, there's decent existing platforms like Instagram, who are launching reels, okay, and they're trying to compete now with tick tock YouTube are launching shorts. Right. Facebook has stories and stuff like that and I'm sure they'll come out with something that's somewhat competitive, but this is what this is what's happening now. This is what's hot now. Right. And the reason why I say it's hot now is because the platforms are more relaxed, they're more loose first of all there's not a lot of people doing affiliate marketing on Instagram rails right now, or YouTube shorts or even still tick tock as a whole, there's still a lot of opportunity on TikTok, I would take your TikTok videos take go to Snap Tick, take the watermark off of it and repost it on Instagram reels, right, I would take that same content and try to post it on YouTube, short, right, take advantage of re purpose in the content. But here's the big one. And once again we're going to do a more in depth training for all blueprint clients on August 5 We're going to have Chris come in, and he's going to kind of break everything down for us and teach us everything that he knows. But here's another kind of message that I want to give you this morning.

Don't get emotional, right. Don't get emotional about things fluctuating or things being hot and then not so hot, right, understand that there's a pattern of trends that happen on the internet. And if you allow yourself to understand that this is just sort of the name of the game and in history tends to repeat itself. You can not get emotional about it, and you can just understand there's going to be new things that are going to pop up, and more and more new things are going to pop up over the course of the next few years, right, if you think that, oh, people are going to stop innovating, right, the internet is the most lucrative platform lucrative tool in lucrative ecosystem that has ever hit the planet, it's more lucrative than anything the gold rush it hails and companionate it's, it's a pales in comparison to, you know what's going on with the internet, real estate, All this stuff. I mean, the average person cannot get into real estate, make money and build wealth, they can get into the internet and make money and build wealth, and then they can of course invest in real estate, but understand that people are going to continue to innovate these platforms are continually going to continue to innovate. These platforms are going to continue to be in competition with themselves. And that's exactly what happened back in 2010. When Google slapped down on all these different advertisers Facebook popped up and said, we'll, we'll welcome you over here, it will let you run wild. Until we get big enough that we need that it's stuck that you get so crazy that we have to start clamping down because it's affecting user experience. And what happens with user experience, let me just explain and understand real quick.

Google's most important person is accustomed. So when you what Google wants is when you come to their search engine and you type something in that you actually find what you want to find find something unique find something special that you want, versus just five to 10 ads, of all the same thing, which is what an affiliate marketer will do like if you let us do it. We'll just slap ads and there'll be 10 of the same links right. Well, the same thing will happen with TikTok and will happen with Instagram, they will let us run wild. Until we just go crazy on the platform. And until there's so many people on the platform, doing all kinds of crazy stuff but they have to start clamping down, whether it be deactivating accounts. If you're doing some crazy stuff, whether it be deactivating advertising accounts. If you're just slapping links up, you know, or if you, if you're using the same exact link as everybody else and there's tons of advertisements on the platform. So understand that, you know, there's a few takeaways from these history lessons. First and foremost let me recap and then we'll then we'll wrap up. History repeats itself, it happened back with Google, then people went to Facebook and YouTube, then they went to Instagram, then they went to Tik Tok now they're going back to Instagram and TikTok, YouTube shorts like these kind of shorter, quicker, pieces of content to get people hooked into what you're doing, and then you can take them to your Facebook groups or YouTube channels or your email list. So understand that the attention is going to move around, and also platforms are going to compete with each other. Okay.

Platforms are waiting for each other to clamp down so they can welcome all the advertisers and the marketers over to their platform because it will bring people over to their platform so you got to take advantage of Facebook and YouTube and Google and stuff, competing with each other. Okay, I know, Facebook, Instagram are competing with each other. Here's the second thing. Don't get emotional about it. Just stay logical, stay strategic, here's this, here's the third thing, try to be different after you've been on the platform for a little bit of time. If you're, if you're on the platform for a certain period of time doing kind of what everybody else is doing to get your get your channel your account, off the ground, that's fine, but eventually you need to sort of find your own unique message and your own unique voice and your brand, because if you don't, Then you are going to become irrelevant, on that particular platform. What happens on every platform is that anybody can capitalize early, but it's the people who are unique and different and sort of create their own stick or their own brand.

Those are the ones who last long term. Back in the Google slap in 2009 and 10, not everybody got slapped it was really the people who were just doing copycat stuff of what everybody else was doing those who had unique landing pages, those who had unique message, those who may have been promoting the same offer, but weren't using the same exactly that feel the same exact link is all the other marketers, didn't get slapped. So after you've been on the platform for a little bit of time you can get it off the ground doing the same thing that nobody else is doing, but eventually you need to shift to kind of developing your own brand and forth, the value of being a part of a community is never evident, until, like sometimes you don't even realize it because you don't really notice like to be out on your own, but those folks who are not involved in the Legendary community back in 2019 2020 who got on the TikTok train if you will, would have never known about. Right, they would have never known about it because nobody else was teaching, nobody else was talking about it, nobody else was capitalizing on.

So, I know sometimes we come into this community and then we have a tendency to want to sort of linger and go out and do our own thing and that's totally fine, but I would just encourage you guys to stay close to the middle of the bow, just because we have such a unique power of having so many different 1000’s of marketers in this community who are bringing these new Hot Trends when they discover them to us so we can share them with you. And again, that's what we're going to be doing on August, 5, with Chris. Okay, he's the guy who, if you remember, facial disability can't smile but is still crushing it, grateful rock star of a guy who is just if you're not inspired by him in his story, what he's doing. You got to check your pulse because the dude's unbelievable, right. He's unbelievable. He's got me so fired up still. And I want to lift him up and I want to. And I want all you guys to be there to support him as well. When he is, does his training for all of our blueprint students. I want that to be the most packed coaching call that we've had in a long time because I want to lift Chris up. Chris said that growing up he didn't have any friends, was bullied and stuff like that. The fact that not anymore, right, not at this community we're lifting him up, and we're going to give him a platform to be able to, you know, shine his light and take all the hard work that he's put in, and be able to develop his message and develop his confidence his self esteem.

That's what we're all about so August 5th, mark your calendars that's going to be a Thursday coaching call for blueprint students. If you want to be a part of the blueprints and maybe you, you know, you passed up on that opportunity or something. Reach out to your business plan advisor and say look, I think it might be time to make an investment in myself, maybe I didn't see the value in myself, maybe I didn't understand this whole process, back before, when I said no, but now I get it. And I want to make that jump I want to make that leap I want to make that investment in myself because I want to take my life, I want to take my business to the moon, I'm worth it, Warren Buffett says, this is legendary and he says the best investment you can make is in yourself. This is what he means right here right now, this is a huge turning point, massive opportunity right now for so many of you who are looking to understand this game, position yourself in this game, and understand how this works, and get some big wins, make the end of 2021, this last leg of 2021. The biggest six months of your life are like in terms of growth, maybe in terms of finances. There's no better time than right now so I hope this was a valuable history lesson for Professor Dave this morning with the history lesson coming in, dropping the history bombs on you this morning. We'll be back here tomorrow. Okay, with another episode. Another guest, actually the reason why I bought an air solo this morning was because our guest canceled at the last minute, he couldn't make it, so I had to come with some heat. Hopefully this was valuable to you. I'm looking forward to August 5 that blueprint coaching call, and my friends have a kick ass Monday, get the hell out of here. We'll see you back here tomorrow. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary we've got another Venezuelan. On the show today we actually had a previous guest just this week from Venezuela, Ada, I believe, was her name and she was absolutely lovely and inspiring to talk to and listen to her story and now today we're going to hear from William, who is, you know, is another one of those true inspirational stories, somebody who's who comes from, you know much. Well quite frankly, his country is really struggling right now and many of his friends and family are feeling a sense of hopelessness and he is sort of a shining light of inspiration and is not only building a better life for himself but has a motivation to give back to his friends and family as well. So with that being said let's go ahead and bring on William. What's up my brother? How are you doing, welcome to the show.

William: I'm good, thank you for having me Dave, what’s up?

Dave: You’re up, you’re up. So tell us where you're calling from and where are you currently right now?

William: I'm living in Chicago right now. Yeah, I'm studying here. I'm here in the United States as a student. So, yeah.

Dave: Okay. So, what led you to Legendary Marketer, how did you get started online, and how did you find us? Yeah, so the very very first time I heard about affiliate marketing was like one and a half years ago, maybe there were a lot of people talking about affiliate marketing. On TikTok basically, I'm not like a social media guy but I had TikTok. And so there was one guy, he kept talking about affiliate marketing affiliate marketing and I was like, let's see what this is about. So he had like a video lead explanation so just click on it and he was explaining how to do affiliate marketing by blogging. That was the method he was doing. It looks just so complicated. He didn't even talk about sales funnels, email automation, nothing. He was right, I was like, No, this looks so complicated, I don't know what a blog is. I don't know how to say that, like SEO search engine optimization, I don't know.

Dave: I don’t know SEO FBO DEO right?

William: Yeah. I mean, it's so complicated, it's just not enough for me. And then, and this year on January we're just crawling on things are like people, and I came across Calvin's live, and he was planning stuff and we were like, Oh, this looks interesting, but he told me like I kept watching his live videos for about, like, I think, one month like everyday because it was really interesting, like, pretty much about one month, for me, even think about getting the chorus line getting the lender magazine, and played with like, maybe I can give it a shot. I can probably buy and see what medicine. Oh no. So I got through that 15 Day Challenge. And he's, he was really really really interested and yeah because I thought it was easier than blogging, and it makes so much sense to me, it makes so much sense, I mentioned all this already, this is where I love the like from the beginning like from the start I loved it. And then when I finished the 15 day challenge I jumped right into it. This is for me, this is for me, I love this. I love being on the computer doing stuff and this is for me and I really jumped into it really seriously, it was like this for me and I'm gonna make it. I don't care. This, I mean I like this and I'm enjoying it so much, I mean, and it will be more like learning than just seeing and making money or I'm not, I'm just focused on learning and enjoying it. And that's my mindset but I think mine is a really really gained mindset and consistency. So, that's my mindset. I think that's what has been helping me a lot . I'm just focusing on just learning and enjoying and helping others, and I am doing so much. 

Dave: Well, that's awesome. I, you know it's funny because I've seen you on these wakeup shows every day.

William: Yeah. Yeah that's cool I mean, For those of you who are like listening to this wondering, you know where we get our guests from just people in our community, I mean it's not. I see so many of these gurus out here and companies who bring in, You know all these, you know, other entrepreneurs and being, you know, gurus and stuff. And, and, and, you know here. It's pretty cool to see somebody who's in on watching our show every day. Now, on to share their story, and I just, I love that about this whole process and kind of what we're doing here.

So thank you for being now a guest, but also a great listener and somebody who's attended and learned and put so much good energy into the show and good energy into the community, it's really appreciated and it's really helpful. 

William: Thank you for having me. I really enjoy the show every day so even when I'm working, I have my herbal tea and I listen to the show every night, learn so much from so much, I didn't even know anything about copywriting like nothing I've learned so much, like so much. 

Dave: Yeah, well I like your attitude about, you know that I'm not in that I'm not completely focused on making money here in the beginning, I focused on learning, just so happens that you, you have an are making money, but that's not your, You're not hanging on every set that comes in, you're focused on learning as much as you can and laying a good strong foundation so you mentioned mindset. You come from Venezuela who, from what I know about Venezuela, it's, it's, I mean, we had ADA on a couple of days ago, she talked a little bit about what's going on back there but going on back there but I mean it's it's for some people a hopeless situation, a hopeless life, I guess, and here you are, you just have this, this wonderful mindset that's, it's all about working hard and all about learning, can you talk to us a little bit about where you came from, and how, how do you think that you've developed the mindset that you do have about this. Help us to understand what makes you tick and how do you see business and where do you think you develop this mindset that you have.

William: Yeah, so. Well, I'm a civil engineer from banking . I went to college and I graduated as a civil engineer. So since I was in college, my mindset was like, I don't care about grades, I'm just focused on learning. If you learn even whatever type of job you're doing, whatever job you have. The most important thing to me is to learn whatever you're studying, whatever you're doing. If you're nervous, you're a digital marketer, because that's when you're gonna, it's gonna get you the results now so since I was in college, I was really focused on learning. I just got to learn this really well, and you can learn it. The good rates are gonna come and it happened. I've learned. I was one of the best on my entire college, but it was focused, yes on lending lending lending because he focused on the result is easier to get discouraged, you see in marketing, like the the marketing thing is, there is a lot of that that’s simple, it's not easy but it's simple, like building your cell phone of building your email automation, simple, easy for some people, and all that very simple, but if you're focused on the result, it's really easy to get discouraged. So that's why I don't when I am, I'm not saying I never get discouraged. Keep going, keep going because you want to be an entrepreneur there's gonna be obstacles, I mean, Thomas Edison he played like 10,000 times before he perfected the light bulb, you know, but he kept going. You know, so that's the main thing I had like, I know there's gonna be obstacles, tit won’t be easy, but I'm enjoying anyway so every time something comes up, I just gotta find a way around, you know, for example, TikTok used to be great for traffic, I don't think it is anymore as gray as they used to be. That is not going to stop me and now I'm working on phase one, it used to work in around, find you have a plan, and it can fail as entrepreneurs, find a way to work around, and replace those plans that failed, you're like, why that didn't work out, because that's, that's, that's what it's all about, to me. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah, I had, it was interesting, I had somebody comment yesterday in one of our groups that, like, oh I want to refund you failed me and kind of all this stuff. And, and I just thought, and I thought, you know, this is such a common attitude, this is such a, this is such a. I've seen this over and over and over, over the past 10 years, where people just have a pattern of everything they do. The grass is always greener on the other side, and it's always exciting. It's always exciting kind of looking from when they get started, and then when they get in and get involved in and approach it the same way that they've approached everything need fast results with, you know, where's that it's kind of looking for that, that unicorn, you know the get rich quick kind of opportunities, and, and then when things don't meet someone's expectations, mostly because they don't put in the work, all of a sudden now, it's, I gotta find somebody to blame. You know, it's, it's a pattern. I see this pattern happen over and over and over and over again, it doesn't matter. In most times when somebody has an attitude like this, it's been thing after thing that they've done in it's like Insanity, because it's doing the same thing, expecting a different result. Basically, relying on waiting and hoping to find that perfect get rich quick lotto ticket. And when, when, when it's not that. Getting cynical, getting angry, getting bitter and blaming somebody else. I think this also happens in personal relationships, you know, people get into it could have happened to me, you know, I very easily could have not worked on myself and blamed my wife for all of our problems got a divorce, I probably would have found a new life, done the same exact stuff got a divorce, and always looking for somebody else to fix my problems instead what I did in my marriage anyways was, I took a look at myself, I said, What do I need to fix? What do I need to work on? And that's a difficult thing for people to do is take responsibility. Who taught you the value of personal responsibility. Was this something that you were you where you were that you model tree growing up by friends or family was it something that you learned, coming to the United States, talk to us a little bit how you develop this mindset of putting in the workforce, almost, I don't know if this makes sense to you but delayed gratification. Where did you learn this, where did you develop that from?

William: Well my dad, he was from Spain. And he taught us like since I was like, quite some years ago we had a convenience store. And I was in my first year of high school. And I had to get up at 6am and take care of the customer and get everything ready and get to school by 6:45am because we started classes at seven in high school. My mom drove me to the high school. And yeah, he's really taught us how to, like, take care of that. And then when I got into college. I have many, like, friends, they were really serious about their career, they were really really certain that we used to have to show them. We have to help each other. How can I get better medical status? I can get better grades and I can learn more. We have to help sell them a lot, and that's where I think I got this thing actually helps you know that that's where I want to help people help me by not just focusing on learning, helping people having fun and enjoying it.

Dave: I'm interested in how different cultures, people grow up how they develop different work ethic, and how they develop different sort of mental blueprints, do you, what do you notice about people growing up in Venezuela versus people growing up in the United States, and then how they end up approaching opportunities, such as something like online marketing or entrepreneurship and I know that it's not everybody's not the same and, you know, because I'm sure there's lots of people in Venezuela who are skeptical and who have, you know, but is there something that you've noticed because there's a lot of people who watch this for American and I just wonder if there's something that you notice about this country and how people approach things like entrepreneur and ship in this country, that may be different from other places, Venezuela, other places in the world, so that we may learn maybe some of that we may be able to see some of the blind spots that we have in this country, and, and how we can be more successful, is there something that you notice different about people in the United States versus people in Venezuela, or other countries that many almost be that may be hurting us in the way that we approach entrepreneurship.

William: Well, I think that for example here in the United States, I'm going back to my country Venezuela. The last 20 years have been a disaster, but in the US. It wasn't like before, but it's been all the time. I think here in the United States. Everything is already so secure and is made for people you know like, for example, I'm going to just pull this garbage thing, unemployment. So the government is probably giving you some money and helping you out in Venezuela when you lose your job, you have to figure it out somehow. Because you're not gonna get any money or any help. Right, so it's really that you have to figure it out by yourself all the time. You have to try this. Try this, try whatever many things and just do your best, and, you know, just go ahead and get biohacking or something like that, you know, we're like, really used to this like adapting to new situations and going on in here it's so much like safe than there you know, you know, and there is so many others, like, tools, you can when you're, for example, digital marketing is determined to be more, more meaningful than focusing all the time I have to figure it out. When I cannot blast, Like get around, and we are also more like. I think our culture is more like a robot culture . Our families, you know, here are more like individuals, everybody is like the best one. And you know, and there we really can, our friends, is your community, that's one thing. 

Dave: Well, I'll say, you're very nice and you've been very respectful but let me, let me say what I think is I think that there's a shitload of opportunity in America, a lot more than there is in other countries. And I think that Americans, and I'm an American. So I'm talking about myself. I think that we tend to look at opportunity, as if it's just, it's, it's, I deserve it. You know I deserve it. I'm entitled to it, and, and just like you talked about through this pandemic and with unemployment, there were so many people in the country who got, you know, lots of, lots of money in, and then in recently it's been hard for restaurants in in local businesses in my area, to even get people come back to work, because they're, they're getting more in unemployment than they would be to go get a job. And look, I have no problem with people getting, I mean I pay taxes and I hope that that tax money goes to people who need it. Unfortunately, I don't think it always does, but I think we have an in Lori Richardson just set it. I think we have an attitude of entitlement here in America. And I think it also is in other wealthy countries, America is not the only first world country, the UK, Australia, there's all kinds of countries who have lots of money and lots of opportunities. And if we go and we talk to people from Venezuela, from Cuba, my barber is Cuban my barber came over to Mexico in a raft raft and came up through Mexico came over into America went to Las Vegas, and basically battled his way to citizenship. Now he's the busiest hardest working guide that I know. And here's, here's my point of saying that all you Americans are going Dave, why are you putting us down, no no no no no, this isn't about putting Americans down this isn't about putting anybody down. This is about us realizing that the world is bigger than just what happens in our local town, and that the opportunities that we have here in America that we have on the internet actually William no matter where we live in the world, because we can connect with people from other countries, the opportunity that we have right now is so abundant. It's so ridiculous. There is so much that you can do right now with just a cell phone, that I don't care if you're living in America, if you're living in Venezuela, if you're living in the UK, if you're living in Singapore. If in any way shape or form you are playing the victim, that you are doing, poor me, that you think that you got it bad that you think you're entitled to any opportunity as DJ Khaled Said, stop playing yourself, you're playing yourself. You know what I mean. And I think that opportunity is precious to William. And I think that for me right now, it's, I'm having a lot of fun doing what I'm doing because I did put in the time to learn the skills, so I now, and I did what other people wouldn't do yesterday, so I could do what other people can't do today, right, man. So Sue Haas, no more for me. Congratulations. Congratulations. Because, the moment that you decide. No more victims. No more poor me no more. I got it, that no more. I'm entitled, no more. I'm the CEO of my life. That's the day that everything changes. Do you agree with William what comes up for you as I say this?

William: Yeah, absolutely. I mean I think this evening, any other meal they're asking for our life. It's all about taking action, you know, and taking responsibility. I'd say there's a lot of people to buy, like whatever they buy for whatever but you don't go through it. You don't take action. You don't even like, do whatever the court tells you to do. You're not gonna succeed, because it's just, Just like that. And you've been doing that thing in every aspect in your life and you're just the same person. You're just maybe in a different scenario but you're the exact same person. You are like a great father. Three sisters, husband, but whatever you're doing your best in your family, you're going to be in you're going to go into your best and your business, you're going to your best and your job, because you're the same person, you're just changing scenarios.

Dave: Right. And oh by the way, as far as living in places that are, you know, third world countries or that, that are cheaper to live in. I know a lot of internet marketers who actually choose to go and live in, in countries that are a lot poor and have a lot less opportunity because of the cost of living is cheaper there, but they can use the internet to work globally, and make a lot of money, right, so they're making a lot of money, but their living expenses are really low, and so I got friends who live in Thailand. I have friends who live there. You know I have friends who live in Colombia. I got friends that live in Costa Rica, you know, I got friends that live all through South America, you know, and, and, in, in, when you, when you develop these skills you put in that work to really learn the skills and develop your mindset that first 12 to 18 months. You can go anywhere and you can do anything, and no one is in control of your destiny anymore. So what are your future plans, William, you're a civil engineer, at, at, trade, that's what you went to school for and so forth. What, what is in your future, How has your life changed the direction of your life, your plans changed. And where do you see yourself going over the next 12 to 24 months. 

William: Yeah, so my original plan when I first came here a few years ago. I didn't even know English I learned English as a second language here and that's what I came here for. 

Dave: When? When?

William: Four years ago.

Dave: Come on. William, you're unbelievable, man. I'm just shocked that you came here, you didn't know the language you learn, listen to what I'm talking about guys. I mean, I know. Just anyways. Congratulations, brother. You're really an inspiration. Thank you for just finding us and being here and sharing your story with us but anyways continue with the answer to my question.

William: Yes, I was working on an international project in Nicaragua. It was a Venezuelan company but they sent me out to an international project in Nicaragua. So once I was there. I think I learned English because you know that's gonna help me to work in an even better company. And my first goal was like I'm gonna go like, take one year go to Chicago learn English, and then come back and work at a Marriott company in a national company, but you know, long story short, Things change bank COVID here so I gotta stay here, then the situation in Venezuela, kept getting worse and worse and worse for now. I got to the point where I have to support my family. Like, I used to support my family all the time but now I have to do it regularly like every week. So, I just kind of got a little bit stuck here so I was aware. I got on like a regular job here, but I said like, this is not the job that I want to be doing every day. So that's why when I found out about the fraud and legendary in the affiliate marketing thing, And I love this so much or at least for me, and jumping in to my goal. Actually I started working, only four days in my nine to five, right now, I used to work five now I'm working only four and hopefully soon I'm going to only three and two and, hopefully, you know, bigger when my goal is just dedicated like full time, these are America needs full time in the filament nothing but I'm thankfully. And now I guess we can make things harder for me, and I'm doing it. I think the smart way just you're learning, implementing, because I don't want to get into a financial like throw in, that's what I tell a lot of my people that have done the problem for me like, don't get into a financial like struggle, you don't feel comfortable just go through it like take it easy learn if you see something like you're lying, you will be like successful jump on it but don't get into any financial struggle because that's the worst thing, anything can do. If you're in a country where that is not your country's even worse. So yeah, I'm pretty honest with people like, yes, you say something like, you're gonna have it in your life. Don't come like that people don't come back and oh just complain that nobody's putting a gun in your head like buy right now, just take your decision be responsible. See if that works for you. You're not jumping, like, all the way in, or just halfway, you know.

Dave: Yeah. So you said that you think traffic on TikTok is slowing down. I agree. I disagree. I don't know I think that, that it's all about just staying ahead of trends I think right now, Instagram reels, is on the come up I think everybody needs to be taking the content that they put on tick tock, taking it to the taking the watermark off of the once you post, tick tock, take a watermark off of it. Remove the watermark from TikTok video just Google that there's a couple of apps, if you somebody can post it in the snap snap tick. Yeah, and then post it on Instagram reels, like Instagram reels right now is, is, is blowing up, and they're looking to compete within TikTok. But you've also begun a YouTube channel, you've also started a Facebook group, you fit what you used to tell me in your little, your little your little message that you shot over to us talking about what you were doing that you have to deal with. That's the triple threat, that's like, So talk to us a little bit about what's kind of got you to where you're at right now here in just a couple of months, and like what what has worked best and what have you learned, like what is the big kind of aha moments that you've had, as you've, you know, tried and and actually put all this stuff into action. Yeah I'm so digital is really good. I think that's what I call the triangle of success like, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube.

William: At the beginning just starting out. I just focus on TIkTok because to me, it's still the best one, you can get a lot of traffic from tech though you do it the right way. But then I started noticing there was like a pattern, like most of the successful affiliate marketer, they have data, they have Facebook group and they have YouTube, It was like, all of them and okay this is a parking so let me say a, and yeah, it works really well because from data you can get a lot of traffic like faster than any other platform. And then on Facebook is your nurturer your, your ideal customer know your customer and people, you can just build a better relationship with them on Facebook because they, yeah you can post video, but you don't really like, have that relate direct relation with people on take going live on TikTok, I’ve gone live like few times because as I'm doing this like, I'm not doing it like full time. I don't have the time to do it like I would like to do every day but I know the hard traffic. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah, I just, I mean, you talked about watching Calvin's lives and stuff like that and I just, I think that, you know, looking at what worked, you know, A lot of times, it's, it's really simple to just revert your civil engineer, reverse engineer what worked on us. And sometimes that's the quickest way to kind of look at the first successful marketing campaign that we've ever kind of dissected and torn apart. What worked on me what got me to buy this product, and I would I would invite all of you to every to start, you know, putting on your marketing glasses, you know, the world changes when you become a marketer because you go from just kind of like just seeing the world as a consumer, to now you put on these glasses, and you see the world through the lens of a marketer. Right now all of a sudden you see everything and you're like, oh my gosh, it's almost like having an x ray vision right you put on the glove, it's almost like okay I'm chilling out yeah I'm the consumer, you know what I mean I'm just here hanging out buying stuff shopping, but but then all of a sudden, it clicks and you're like, hold on a second. Let me, let me look at what actually got me to buy what I just bought. Right. And so, again, okay, I saw this ad. What about the ad? Did somebody say what message resonated with me, what really got me to pay attention, what was the pain point that they stuck their finger in it. When they said that I went, Oh, he's talking about me or she's talking about me, right, and then we begin to see the world. With these new marketing lenses that we have on through the eyes of a creator and through the eyes of a marketer, right now, so if we if we do that, then it's constant we're constantly learning and no longer do we have to just sit around and wonder, well I wonder when the sky is our going to part and the stone tablets are going to be hand delivered to me that's going to reveal the secret. You know we don't have to wait for God to appear and be like, here's the marketing secrets, he just looks at what's working on real human beings, for example, let me give you another example. I used to go to the mall. Before COVID, and you could just walk into Gucci, or you could walk into Louis Vuitton right now since COVID, what a lot of the stores did in the mall was they made it so you had to wait in a line, because they only had so many, they only could have so many people in the store, at a time, so people could be socially distance. But what happened was that lying outside of the store created all of this buzz, like why are people standing there, you know. Now, even after COVID at my local mall Gucci and Louis and now some of the other stores are keeping those lines there, they're making you stand in a line to get in the door, and they're saying that the reason is is because they're going to match you up with a personal associate, a salesperson, but that's bullshit because you never had to do that before you can just walk into the store, but what they realized was, is that creating that list creating all that buzz creating people literally standing in line outside of the door, made other people come and stand in line in so when you finally got up in your spot to go into the store, you're more likely to buy something because you know that you just stood in line for an hour, and you don't want to do that again. Right, it's your. Now, and also maybe things will be sold out next time. So for me I looked at that as, of course, I'm like, I don't want to stay on this line. But while everybody else was complaining. I'm standing in line with my wife a couple of weeks ago. This is genius.

Brilliant. Right, we as I had, because I had my marketing lenses on, you know what I mean. So deep do you feel that the way that you see that and of course I brought I started telling that story because I said, if you're not going live going live, work done you will. So maybe you might want to consider doing more of that, you know. 

William: Yeah, that's true. And I just went on, I'm glad you brought that up. When you said, just look back at what got you into this, because I remember when I was watching this life video, it took me like I was was everything everything to me like one month for me to even think about getting the programming, starting writing that happened, he was consistent, he was considered a day every day and I was consistent, to going through his life video. So, and I want to say this because you just have to remember your path, like, you know what, we can know he was really consistent, he knows what he was talking about. So when you remember that like I have to I have to be consistent with my, you know when I post my content making content going live. I have to be consistent. Consistency because people are not gonna buy that the first thing you need to eat is seen on social media in your own healthy buy in, and also offer so much value, you know. So, value value value and be consistent. Consistency consistently that's all it is like consistency mindset, and just giving value, value value. 

Dave: Well I want to, I want to tell, I want to point something out to everybody, is that, we'll just set it took him three days to make a decision to buy. Alright. This is why what you just said is consistent, following up via email, staying in front of people is so important because most of the time, the people who are going to buy from you, you don't give them a chance to buy because you quit what you're doing right before they're about to buy. You just stop what you're doing right because you think that it's not working. But really, people were watching you. People were their skepticism was lowering. They were trusting you more, they were liking you more, right, Patrice just said it took me months to watch and ask questions. How many of you, Laurie said it took me four months, I wish I had started when I found it originally. How many of you, it took weeks or months for you to make a decision to just simply spend $7 In, to go through our challenge. How many of you just drop a comment if that's you, because what we're when we share this and we look back at what did it take for me. What did my journey look like? We can learn so much. And then, then we can have proper expectations of what the buying process will look like for somebody else, If we can have more realistic expectations. Okay, William said it took me a week, Jasmine raised her hand Dreama says it took me two months to decide to spend $7. But dream oh we know you don't spend $7 on that grande strawberry mocha vanilla latte. I don't know why it takes so much time. Dee says you just kept showing up David Well hey, not only do I keep showing up out there on the internet but I keep showing up right here every day at 10am Eastern Time. Monica says about two months. Robert Bronner says I haven't started yet and I'm not sold well Hey Robert. That's cool. Just keep watching, or don't watch doesn't matter to us, right, it's your life, you get to make a decision, but what you want to do. Jeremy, about seven months Jarius six months. Too good to be true says, Chetziva, too good to be true. All right, that you keep having that attitude in life, watch other people succeed right, you could sit on this, you could sit on the bench. But Patricio said six months for me just had a zoom call yesterday, several months, right, I bought it right away, said crystal clear, took me about three minutes.

Freakin $7, not $7. 5 months before I clicked the link to see the price. Oh, you're killing me.

But look, look, does this give us some insight into what the actual buying process can look like for somebody, so that way we can plan to, you know, really plant our flag and be consistent have realistic expectations and then what happens is that snowball gets bigger and bigger and bigger and as more people are watching more people are buying, and that's what we mean, in sales and marketing when we talk about keep your pipeline, full, keep your pipeline full.

We've covered a lot of stuff today William. It's been great to chat with you, my friend. Is there any, any, you know we had some people here who said, you know it's too good to be true sitting on the fence still haven't bought, what would you say to somebody who's thinking about maybe going through our 15 day challenge getting started, how it's impacted your life and how, you know, just tell them just in a couple of words, what your testimonial is so they can hear it, and what it's done for you, just in a sentence or so, so they can hear that before we wrap up. 

William: Yes I think the value that this entire course, like gave you for just seven is way, a lot more than $7 To be honest, and you're gonna go and just put all the work in, you know, like, be consistent today working in focusing on learning and, and you're going to be successful means you're in the right mindset, you're consistent, and you're focused on learning and implementing when you're learning, taking action because some people don't even take action, but they just taking action is, it's gonna take, maybe longer for some people than others but you're gonna see because it's such a great business model. He's such a great business minded person. That was, like, a lot more than $7 So, yeah, it's amazing. It's really good.

Dave: And yes we do once you enroll into the challenge we have other advanced courses that you guys can take our business blueprints for example masterminds that if you want to, you know, get more accountable if you want to have more step by step hand holding, learning, accountability, all of these things, they're available to you. There's no pressure, you're not, you know you're not, you're not forced to, but yes there are other things for sale, and we are a company we don't just, you know, build our whole business off of selling something for $7 the same way that, you know, Apple doesn't just make money off of selling iPhones, they have computers they have, you know, TV, they have all this kind of stuff. But I think the point here is, is that there's something for anyone no matter what your financial situation is, what, where you're at in life right now, if you want to build a business if you want to be an entrepreneur and if you're looking for a supportive community that's actually going to be honest and is actually going to, you know, is actually just got to be real with you about the good and the bad of this business, then there's no better place than this community, it's not just because of me. I do have confidence in what I do and I stand behind what I do and say, but it's also because of people like you, William, who have gone through our program in who do come back and participate in the community to support other people into into give other people inspiration, even if it's just from watching you, even if it's just from seeing you put this stuff into action that's a real big inspiration. And I just want to thank you man for your time today. I want to congratulate you for the action and the success that you've had just in this short little bit of time that you've been building this business and my, my best wishes to you and also your family. I know that, You know, many of them are going through tough times right now. And I just want to tell you. Keep up the great work because you're absolutely an inspiration for me and for our community, and I know your inspiration for your family too. So thank you for your time today, brother. 

William: Thank you for having me here, yeah, thank you so much. 

Dave: You're very welcome. And we will talk to you later, my friend.

William: See ya.

Dave: See ya William. Alright guys, well you can follow Will on TikTok, you can start there, we'll help you, that's his handle you can look them up, give them a follow Adam to your network, add them to your connections and your community and your family here. And yeah, everyone is welcome here. You know, want to know all of you who are all in and who are building your business and in this process. I want to tell you that, you know, we're happy to have you here, and we're here to support you along the process. And if you're somebody who's just kind of watching. Tune in and trying to kind of get a feel of who we are, what we do and what this is all about. That's okay too. You're welcome here. We're going to give you straight talk, I'm going to judge you would pull your chain a little bit, and I appreciate all of you for commenting, and interacting and engaging. I don't normally pay attention to the comments all the time because I got to be present with the guests but I really appreciate each one of you guys for answering questions and being so willing to be honest in the comments that adds a lot of energy and it, you know, it helps fuel me and it helps fuel the guest and I think it gives other people who are watching a sense of kind of family and community that they're here, kind of listening to the conversation with other people so thank you guys keep coming back, and we'll see you on Monday. Have a great weekend. Get out of here, have a fantastic Friday, and the week is strong, we'll see you back here on Monday.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe welcome to Wake up Legendary. I've got a quick announcement for everybody. In 2020 people were not able to come to any of our masterminds because well quite frankly we didn't have any. We have dates scheduled, if you have a mastermind ticket for this particular event, turn your mess into a message that's going to be the theme for this particular mastermind, and it's going to be happening September, 9, 10th and 11th. All right, so as you can see right there. This is an exclusive limited t-shirt. We're going to be giving them away. Okay, so not here to not here to sell merch, just to make that announcement so we sent an email out over the last couple of days, we'll be sending more out over the, you know the next couple of weeks. It's first come first serve in terms of booking the slots, or the seats, and then we're going to be having another mastermind if you can't meet. Make the September 9 10th and 11th, December 3rd, 4th and fifth now remember this is for those of you who have purchased a mastermind ticket or took us up on our blueprints and mastermind deal as you're going through the challenge or as you were coming into Legendary Marketer you saw us. Hopefully you saw us make an offer for you to get all of our blueprints and mastermind tickets, you know, for that kind of bundle deal anyway. Turn your mess into a message, baby 2021 Okay 2021 September, 9th, 10th and 11th that we're going to talk to somebody who actually I think is selling a little bit of merch. With that being said, I'm going to this girl's gonna, we're going to, we're going to go into all the details, she's going to be a really cool and exciting guest with that being said, Bre, welcome to the show. Hey, what is going down, how are you and where are you calling in from?

Bre: I'm good. I am currently in Tucson, Arizona, that's where I live right about now.

Dave: Nice, nice so you are doing some interesting stuff you've been starting this, you've started this affiliate marketing business. In May of 2021, so this year so May June July, and we're basically about to move into our third month now, like doing this. We also have a full time job, give us a little bit of, like, who you are, in a nutshell, and what led you to Legendary Marketer and and just let us get to know you just in kind of a two minute drill here. All right, cool.

Bre: Well, I'm originally dated with a degree in diagnostic medical sonography which is just a really fancy term for ultrasound. And then I got hired at a clinic out here in Arizona. In 2018 So I've been out here since then, I started TikTok in 2020 like when pandemic broke out. You know, I just got on there for fun and I started my personal page. I had no idea how it worked. I was just posting like crazy videos and I'm obviously obsessed with country music specifically Morgan Wallen, and I was that guy has gone through so many scandals 2020 It's not so like, yeah, like my videos have just blown up because I was just making like, you know, hilarious videos referring to, like all this stuff and give it like a baby like the poor dude had a rough year.

Dave: Basically the videos that you were making in 2021 were about this, this country music singer named Morgan so like a lot of your content was about this is, this guy.

Bre: Yeah and it's just like, like I just left a joke around and mess around and age like I didn't know anything about trends I didn't know anything about hashtags I didn't know anything. So I was just making these videos it's been crazy and my friends would be like you're so funny like that's good stuff, but when I talk to other people like maybe I’m funny.

Dave: Right, right, it's like it's like you live your whole life going I'm the funniest person I know it's about time people notice right.

Bre: My mom thinks I'm funny like that. But, my page blew up so big. Considering that, I'm just an average person like I have like 30,000 followers on it. And that's not reposting consistently, it's not from interacting with people and I had known then what I know my page would be so much different than marketing unknowingly this whole time for Morgan wallet. If I could have been making so much money because I was by like Morgan Wallen, coffee table I have a coffee table I have coasters I have all this stuff and

Dave: Hold on a second let me, let me. Your microphone is kind of like being off your shirt or something and I think it's still then, is that better yeah well either take it off, or hold it still. Yeah, because it's kind of like going boom boom boom.

Bre: I'll just hold it because it's connected to my earphones and I don't think I'll be able to hear you well and that's okay. So, I was actually marketing without knowing it and I just wasn't making any money, because I was posting all these cool things and I was finding and these videos are blowing up like getting hundreds of 1000’s of views, and I mean if you could do the math and you figure you know people are asking me for links, they were like, where did you get this Where did you get this, and I was just giving that the link and I was just like, hey, like check it out. And then, you know, come to me and I find affiliate marketing, obviously Legendary, and I'm like, holy moly, I could have been making money, this entire time. And so yeah I started doing that and then I fell in love with Legendary I fell in love with you know the mindset change because right out of school, I was making a lot of money like I made pretty good money, but I had never had money before in my life, and so I didn't understand how to use money, and that was so important, and I definitely got into debt extremely quickly because I never had money before and now I have all this money and now I think I read it that this wasn't the reality. And I think for me the biggest thing I've got here at Legendary besides all of these awesome tools and resources and skills. It's just a mindset change, like no matter how much money you have it's not going to matter if you don't know how to use it properly and if you don't understand, like to live within your means and things like that so that's kind of where I'm at.

Dave: Yeah, well that's great and that's one of the reasons why I don't personally do a lot of flexing on the internet or within this community, Even though I have the ability to do so. I thought that was fun. See these kinds of things you know what I mean to where you, you, you drop a dad joke or something and then you look at your kids and your wife and nobody's laughing and you're like, I thought that was funny. So, like because there's such a huge flex culture, online, and in the entrepreneur space, you know, over the last couple of years, we've all been on Instagram, particularly Instagram has been, been the worst for the flex culture, but you know, we see private jets, we see we see we see exotic cars, we see iced out jewelry we see all this stuff. And we think that that is success, like that's like I gotta look like that, and I gotta have those things to be successful. So, when we get a little bit of money, or we get a credit card, we go we spend on on drip right clothes on jewelry on all this stuff early in the game cars, houses, and before we know it you know this dream of entrepreneurship of building a business, or even having a good job is now a nightmare. And so it's a great thing that you bring that up because that's not just a problem in entrepreneurship, that's a problem in society because once you turn 18 You start getting bombarded with credit cards, as well as student loan debt, and you could graduate call, I mean, most of the time you do graduate college, with six figures in debt.

Bree: Yeah, yeah, for sure, and it's funny that you say that because I was actually thinking about going to school. I would have my lifelong dream to be a doctor, and that mindset has changed completely. See, like entrepreneurship has changed my mind for what I really feel like success, is it's definitely not about the money anymore, it's not about the house or the car, it's about like what I'm worth towards now is like, I would love for this to like business to blow up and I could you know quit my job tomorrow but even if that doesn't happen. I just want to come to the point where it's like okay maybe I only have to work two days out of the week, or maybe I'm like you know I want to have that freedom, More than the money, and I think you like just having that mindset of recognizing your freedom is so, so much more than money.

Dave: Yeah. And I think that living in America anyways we have a lot of freedom that we don't realize that we have, and is all we have to do. We start traveling, and we kind of, you know, we take our problems back and say, I'm grateful for my problems. I don't want other people's problems. But there is, there is another level of freedom, right, because, because as much as, as much freedom as we do have just to kind of move about freely and live where we want and kind of do what we want, say what we want right the freedom of speech and all these kinds of things that we have the freedom to bear arms all these all these rights. There is another level, you know, there's levels to the, to the freedom game. And I think that's something that a lot of people are kind of shocked by when they're exposed to a community like us, where we're like, for me personally, I've not. I wouldn't even know what to do with myself driving into a job, or having to go somewhere for eight hours a day, or, or sitting in traffic like I haven't done that in so long. And just detaching now there's nothing wrong with that because I did that for a period of time, because I had to get to where I was where I was going, but there is there is a there is a there is a whole new world sort of waiting for people to kind of discover when they are their skepticism and they lower their pessimistic attitude about what's possible and just,

you don't have to be a super duper positive person positive thinker. It's just, were you ever skeptical, or did you just not know this world existed.

Bre: I was always wondering how like people were making money online, like I've always wondered that and I just didn't know how they were doing it, and I've had people tell me like you could be one of those influencers, I'm like, I know I'm just a regular person like I didn’t even know I would get started and so whenever I first came across Legendary It was obviously on TikTok. Yeah, I was super skeptical and whenever, even when I started the seven day. I mean the 15 day challenge, I actually locked my card. So that like no other charges could be

Dave: For real you thought that there was going to be just like just we're going to start kind of dinging your card. 

Bre: I just thought it was too good to be true, you know, like I just had that mindset, I was super skeptical about the program I was super skeptical about the process and chinos obviously I went through the challenge and I was like, Well, I'm going to give it a shot, you know, I'm going to try and see and sure enough it worked like, it would just, it blew my mind because it just, it works, and I couldn't believe that it actually worked. So yeah, I was super skeptical about it and just seeing the opportunity that is here online, you know, it's definitely changed my mindset of my life direction. Absolutely.

Dave: So, let's talk about what kind of you're what you're doing. You, you, in, you're not, it doesn't seem to me which I don't really know yet, really what you're doing. Because, I mean, for those of you who are new to the show or whatever like there's not a big interview process, I don't. I didn't even talk to Barry before we went live, I just said hey how you doing and so I'm learning right along. Everyone else here is listening and I think that's one of the cool things about the show is that there's no prep, and there's no script, and you could say some crazy stuff. I would have no control over it, I would probably respond and shoot the shit with you and figure out where you're going with it right but. But what exactly are you doing, how have you turned this hobby on? This passion. Now, how have you begun to monetize it in your own really cool and creative way because that's what I want people to hear today. Is that you, instead of looking at what everybody else is doing and trying to sort of follow the crowd and really get this kind of big comparisonitis that we all have kind of naturally I think we all want to kind of be with. I feel like it's a natural thing and I'm only saying that because if you feel like you're wanting to look at other people and see what they're doing and do what they're doing, I just want to let you know it's normal, something unique here So walk us through what you have done, and kind of how you're doing and so we can kind of understand a little bit more.

Bre: Okay. Absolutely. So, um, the first thing that I noticed is on Morgan Wallens page, he actually doesn't have an email list, like I've put my email into that. Well, maybe they just didn't get my emails, like I don't know. So then I talked about on his website or his Yeah, on his on his personal website, you know, and people are always like, What is he doing what is he doing I'm like okay, so what if I build an email list and just give them updates because I'm obviously paying attention to what this guy is doing anyway so I'm obviously you know, doing all these things so I kind of built an email list of quite a few people. And then, you know I just honestly like there's so many affiliate programs obviously Amazon's a big one but like Etsy has an affiliate program, and I didn't even know about that so many cool things on Etsy. There's so many different places that have affiliate programs that I had no idea about until I started researching them. And so I started applying, and then I would send out a few emails like Hey guys, this is what he's up to today, this is the things he's doing and hate, by the way, check out these cool other things that I found right. And so sure enough, I'm sending out those emails. Those people want the emails they want to know what this guy's doing these people are crazy they put up billboards in Nashville when he got banned from the CMAS hey these people just want links. I'm in a Facebook group, with the Morgan Wallen fan page. These are literally asking for you to find things that they want. So, all I had to do was go on the internet find things that they want make sure they have an affiliate program, and share it with these people so it wasn't a lot of times it wasn't necessarily that I was just out there like throwing my links at people, people asked me, Hey, he would, you know, where did you find these things. And so yeah now I do that a lot through my email list. One thing I did have my other TikTok page banned and I was almost at 10,000, which is super disheartening, but that actually shifted my focus to maybe building a more permanent platform because now I see that the process works, and I see that, obviously it's successful. So that's been my focus the last month, as I am actually super interested in blogging, it's a really really really hard thing to start. It's not easy, but as I've been giving a lot of my attention and time to that because I want to build a platform that is my own that nobody can ban, nobody could take down, you know, a God forbid that my other pages get taken down or something happens on YouTube or whatever, right, like I want to have something that is mine. No one can take it down and people know where to find me. 

Dave: And some of the most successful sites like for example, back when I was doing network marketing. Back in the day, like these new sites like MLM Help Desk and business from home, they were sort of, they were the, they were the news. they were the, they were the. They were sort of the bullhorn, right, that communicated that news about the industry. Similarly to news channels, who, when you want to know what's going on in the world or you want to know what's going on with the president or you want to know what's going on with you don't go to whitehouse.gov, you turn on your TV and you let that station communicate those things to you, right i mean that's tip I'm not saying use personally but just society does. So I think we underestimate the power of having that hub, and even that website to wear on a specific topic, particularly with this sort of kind of strategy to where you're communicating news about an artist or a musician, or somebody, or, or a sports team or something. This is a, this is like the true definition of niching down. Right, so a lot of people might think okay hey I love country music I'm going to get into country music. But the real power. I think that you're showing us all and teaching us all right now and reminding us of is the power of super niching down like niching down all the way to a specific artists, because the contents that much more potent, because it relates to a specific person and even as you said in 2020 He had a bunch of drama.

I mean that's like to say because I so if you can find an artist or a musician or somebody who has a lot of drama, who has a lot of things going on in their life, who's not just cute, who's not just to somebody who we all like to look at or like them grow their family but who's going through divorces who's having kids who's having I mean like Drake would be a good example, like Drake is somebody who he had the kid who was sort of a secret there for a while, and, and, and then he finally kind of let everybody know that he had a son, and they remember he brought up to the music awards here just recently, and everybody got to see like him kind of walking beside his dad and I don't know, I'm sure this boring guy is much more interesting than Drake is but that would be a good example of somebody who you already know 10s Or hundreds of millions of people around the world, like this person. Love this are obsessed with this person, and if you can become the go to hub for news for drama for like TMZ for show dates for appearances, where they were spotted at what talent they might be in right now today because you looked at an Instagram picture and Instagram story and identified that you know that was this Seattle tower, you become almost like a stalker right, but people love that because they want to stop these people they want to potentially go and catch them coming out of the studio somewhere, and these are the type of fans that will go and drive hours to just maybe get a glimpse of it am I, am I hitting the nail on the head right now?

Bre: Oh heck yes these people, myself included, are bonkers. I can't even tell you the amount of money they're willing to spend on this man is just insane so yeah if you could be that middleman, on whatever.

Dave: It could be like you said sports teams that's huge to like have blinders on a sports team, what about that, that's even more niched down, right?

Bre: Yeah, this, I mean these scandals all the time like I mean, obviously now it's past like a rod would have been a crazy one like right when he was going through all his scandals. There's so many things that people

Dave: Like, they may follow your Britney Spears right. She's going through this whole thing to where she's trying to get her life back right now. And if you became obsessed, like say you were Britney Spears fancy you're already interested, but like that's somebody who I'm sure a lot of people are sleeping on right now that's just one that popped in my head.

Bre: Oh yeah, that's huge right now I can't tell you how many like posts, it's like free Britney right, okay. But, but definitely I think finding, and then another thing too is, I've made a lot of friends with these people right so I built this page and I share similar interests with these people so when I share things with them it doesn't seem like I'm trying to make money off of them. To them it seems like, oh, brief on this really cool thing, she wants to share it with us. So focus on building a lot of relationships too, and the money is going to come later, you know.

Dave: Yeah, no, so I like how I like you. You've. So would you say that you've positioned yourself as, like, the number one fan, or would you say that you've more positioned yourself as somebody who communicates like what's going on with this guy. What would you say kind of if somebody was to describe you who followed, or maybe who's bought some merch or something from you. Like how would they describe you?

Bre: I think initially it would have been the number one fan, but it's definitely transitioned now to like the news center, more or less my email list is more so where I share a lot more detailed things obviously my TikTok is more like the entertaining thing. So I would say now it's more they come to me like hey, what's, what's going on and Morgan like we had heard everything and like Well dude he's been off the radar, you know like his sister actually followed me on Tik Tok. I was blown out like if they know me, they know. Right. Yes, I would say that they come to me more so just for like news but also they view me as a number one fan. He hasn't reached out to me to like give me backstage passes or anything like that yet which I'm really like, come on dude,

like, come on. But, yeah, I definitely think that it was initially number one fan but now it's transitioning more to like a news resource because he doesn't have an email like he doesn't have any updates going out.

Dave: Do you think that you have a part of you that is, is potentially hoping, or open to, if he and his team reached out, or his team reached out for you to come in, maybe onboard him as a client or work, or have him hire you, I mean is that, would you be open to something like that?

Bre: That thought has actually crossed my mind a lot and a lot of people have asked me that they're like, What would you do this team reached out to you, you know because you're actually doing a lot for him like right now, you know you are marketing for him not only his music but obviously his merge and other things like that. What would you do and then like, well, I have the skills out like I know how to do these things now thanks to legendary but yeah I think I would actually do that and like I love country music to be able to do something like that. Amazing. I think it's a huge opportunity for me. You just never know what's going to happen. And so, I haven't gotten that email yet. 

Dave: See, I, even I mean, I think that's just the tip of the iceberg for what's, what's like your potential and the opportunity for you now that you kind of understand how to navigate these platforms and you understand kind of the psychology of a, of a target customer because that's ultimately like what you've learned in, in, I think the one of the easiest ways to understand a target customer is, is kind of, is kind of be that target customer first. And that's exactly what you were and I think a lot of people miss that. I think a lot of people, for example, you guys. Many of you came in and wanted to learn how to make money online, I mean I would think that that's why the majority of you're here or else you love this, this, this beautiful baby face showing up every day I don't know what it is, but I mean it could be, it could be my good looks, I just don't think it is, I think most of these people want to build a business online. And what I think a lot of, a lot of us miss is, is just looking at what drew me, like, what did I like, what would How would I like to be communicated to like what message resonated with me. Did you do, did you and do you have that awareness to stay to both speak to your audience like you'd want to be spoken to, and how are you staying connected because I think sometimes we'll move we become the creator and the communicator is sometimes marketers get they get far away from, who they're talking to. One of the reasons why I do the show is because personally I want to stay connected and attached to my target client, right. You are somebody who I love to market to people happy you've got a good personality or we're super grateful. But in general, somebody who wants to build a business online. Do you understand what I'm trying to ask here, like how, how are you? How are you working on improving your understanding of psychology? And what do you think has worked so well I guess to be able to connect your writing and your emails in your, in what you're saying on your videos like, what do you think is, what do you think is your kind of secret sauce that's resonating with people and getting them to kind of know like and trust you?

Bre: I think just being like I said just being friendly and being myself, these people that are on my talk page have followed me on Instagram, that we actually have exchanged phone numbers like a lot of these people I know on a personal level. And so obviously I can't be in 3000 places at once so going live definitely getting to know people over live, you know, in the Facebook group, a lot of people messaged me and say hey, like I've seen your videos are so funny, like, do you have an Instagram and so they know how I speak they know my voice they know my personality. And so, when I write my emails, or when I'm posting videos or whatever, I try to stay within this spunky, like high energy vibe, that is me, like, I know that's not everybody, but that is me and that's how these people know me, and so on my page. Yeah, sometimes I post a few personal videos, they usually don't do as well because that's not like what my page is about. But I want these people to know me and know who I am and know my personality, so they're so they know me, you know, it's like, like branding, kind of, you know like, yeah.

Dave: So yeah, I mean, no I totally get it and I think that's really important. I think that's kind of like, I think you could do it either way. So any of you who are listening who are kind of having kind of thoughts come, I think you could do it either way. I think you could do it without showing your face at all like totally behind the scenes like I really, I know that that's possible. I've seen it done before. Of course, you know, it's hard to kind of connect with those people and get them on shows and stuff because they are literally behind the scenes and nobody knows who actually kind of runs the business. But I do think the way that you're doing this is the perfect combination of about 90 to 95% your topic and then sprinkling in bits and pieces about yourself, maybe even 90 to 97% your topic, because a lot of what people in, I'm a good example of that to people will connect with you, not because you're constantly talking about yourself in your personal life but just because of the way that you deliver your content, you know, you build connect with your quirks and that's one of the things that I, I really constantly try to remind all of you about, is that like you got so many of you, all of you have your own unique personality. It's beautiful, it's cool, it's funny, I know some of you are sitting there thinking you're beating yourself up thinking, No I don't. Right. And if you turn that frown upside down and get out of your pessimistic

glass half empty beating yourself up mode, we can, we can get to this place where you'll admitted you know that you have, you're a special type of snowflake, right, you're a unique person. And the more you bring that out, the more that you kind of, that is your brain. Breathe. What are some of the kind of things that you do that are quirky, that you know that people like about you, and that is one of those kind of intangibles, it's not just the content about this guy Morgan, but it is certain things that you do or the way that you do them and now maybe even you do them intentionally because you've realized people like them about your kind of know you for those things, you're smiling is something specific coming up for you?

Bre: I don't know if there's anything in specific but like on my page I'd actually like to do a male, like makeup of Morgan Wallen, which was just like, painted on moustache and like I made myself a mullet and he wears it like an earring. And that was hilarious, in my mind and I was like, oh my god like there's nobody that nobody sees this and then it blew up, it's like, and then you know people are like, oh my gosh like do another Morgan skit, you know, and I like, okay, like I look like an idiot, but that's the thing is like I grew up in a really small town so I had, like, oh my goodness, like what are people gonna think of that and I realized there's crazy people out there just like me that like this and think I'm funny and like me as a person, and, and just who I am at the end of the day, and you're going to find those people online like you're going to find your tribe, you're going to find the people that love you for you. And so I would say that just, they know that I'm crazy and I honestly would post pretty much anything these skits are just hilarious, in my opinion, if you don't understand the scandals, you probably won't get the humor but you know I just think just being willing to put yourself out there and some people aren't as funny and silly but maybe you have a different story to tell, you know, maybe you've been through a certain thing in life. People will resonate with you and they'll connect with you, and sometimes you don't even know why, it's just, it's just who you are, but just being yourself and people see that and they love that. 

Dave: Yeah, I totally agree. So one of the things that I like about what you've done is that you basically have just like all the, like, basically said, kind of, I gonna try to be perfect with this, I'm just going to do this right, and I don't give a damn how it, like, looks like I'm not gonna worry about having a fancy website and all this kind of stuff to get started. And you basically just on your, your link bio have like links out to like, literally, like Amazon, like pages, right, it took for various products, right, this other one, the iPods case. Right. I mean it's just, it's literally just it's linking right out to the particular product and then this was Matt's favorite before we went live, you know the Morgan Wallen make Molyneux great again Flack, you know 1499 Every time somebody buys that you're going to get a commission because you've, you've used your affiliate, your Amazon affiliate link, and then you've got a little product site here it looks like on RedBubble to where, you know, people can order it looks like T-shirts and stuff and did you are in iPhone covers and stuff like that. And it looks like maybe these are designs that you made or something or had made and somebody, somebody can get them on a t- shirt or something. Is that right,

Bre: Yes I do, I mean there's a lot of ways to make money online. I definitely think affiliate marketing is one of the easiest ways after trying other ways. But yeah, I do a few print on demand things and I create the signs myself. Yeah, but obviously I think affiliate marketing is way easier and that's what people ask me like, what's the easiest way I like affiliate marketing.

Dave: Right. I mean, in your doing just affiliate marketing and like such a simple and easy way like you're not, you're just linking. I mean, in that particular way you could certainly ask you this, your email list, how are you actually getting people's emails?

Bre: Yeah, so I did have my ClickFunnels in my in my bio at one point but because I shifted my focus to building a website, I took that down, I've just left the links of things that I've made videos on, you know that had that are still trending like I still getting likes people viewing those things coming in every day. So I leave those links there so people can find them, obviously, but as far as the email list I did build it with my Click Funnels, but like I said I'm transitioning to a website or blog, where these things will be on there forever, you know, and so that's how I built the email list, initially but like I said I'm in a transition stage. 

Dave: So, yeah, that makes sense. I mean, I just wonder, even during this transition stage. Would it be suitable to, like, what do you have your email list in Aweber get response or something like that, 

Bre: AWeber.

Dave: Yeah, just to just to at least keep a link up with a little Aweber form that because AWeber, you can build little landing pages and Aweber as well, just so you can continue to collect email addresses, like, I just, for me, lead generation is the blood flow, it's the, it's the lifeblood of every business and I think a lot of times when things are working, and we want to grow to the next level I've talked about this the other day, we stopped doing what is working and what got us to where we're at right now because we want to grow to the next level. And I think my personal opinion now after doing this myself right and seeing just 1000s of other people. As we grow, we just want to make sure that we don't stop doing what was working and we can never ever underestimate the power of lead generation, it all starts with building your list with generating leads, and then curating those leads by sending emails and sending communication to them, you know, on a daily basis or regular basis. And so, anyways, I don't have to answer and you don't have to commit and I just wanted to throw that out there for you to think about to just at least tenue generating those leads because we just it's such a valuable thing to have somebody's email address, and even, you know, another thing that you could start is community. There's a product named community which is exactly what we use every day to send out messages. Okay. And you can get people to also text you so, so you can have your own personal number to where you can message alert list to where to where. And you can also allow you to respond back to people in this app. So it's kind of it's kind of a, it's kind of a, it's kind of a, it's kind of like an email autoresponder to where you can blast the entire list. You could also make like segments, so if you wanted, you know, if you wanted to segment down, you know, people who were interested in shows, or people who were interested in just general information or whatever, but most people just have one number one big list, it's easiest to do it like that. You could also set up, you know whenever somebody has a birthday you can send them out. A birthday video like it's just cool, it's another thing that you can kind of more own and control. I know you don't own community, but it's sort of like an email list, like you can kind of own it, control it, and it's not gonna get banned and deactivated because you're paying for it as well, and the prices are really reasonable so I'd invite you to kind of think about that maybe as well.

Bre: Yeah, thank you for that Dave I honestly didn't know that you could just put the little Aweber thing in there either like I'm really new to this. I am not like an expert. I get it like I don't know, I really do. I'm still learning so I appreciate you giving me those tips, because I had no idea.

Dave: Yeah, and I understand you wanting to transition into and have your own site. I think that when you lose an account you start looking around and going, Okay, What other shit can I lose. Like, what else can people take from me? And so you want to transition in, you know from maybe a click funnels to a blog that you own on your domain or you want, like there's like you start thinking about how can I, you know, if that's more of your strategy matches that as well, like your strategy matches having a blog and a website to where you can post more long form articles or post to where you can give more information and people can essentially read things sort of like they would read, read news on tmz.com

Bre: Yeah, I appreciate that and I definitely think about it because, yeah, I don't want to stop collecting emails.

Dave: You shouldn't. And I would, I would even potentially, I would even potentially, if I was you, I would take the links up at the top and I would just drive them directly to a landing page, and I would make some, some irresistible offer for them to opt in to that page, and then once they opted in, I would have links to all those products.

Bre: Yeah, that's definitely what I was doing at the beginning because I was like, Oh, you'll get email updates and people like it. People are crazy like they just want to know where he's at and that want to know that. So that's what I was doing initially but like I said, in this process of transition. It's a lot of learning to, you know, it takes time to like okay, sit back, okay what do I need to learn and what do I need to get going here. So that was definitely where I was going, that's how I built the email list initially.

Dave: How many emails did you generate so far?

Bre: I would say like 3000. 

Dave: Wow. You don't want to stop collecting enough from these people. I mean because they're so willing to give you their email address, and you could so easily, every day, send out an email, which would, if you want to blog you need to work on the written content. So on top of, and that's your whole business right if you're going to continue down this path of marketing to artists or musicians audiences, and you remember you could duplicate this right you could duplicate this win if you, and there's many out there. Other artists, musicians who have fanatical followings. But if you're going to be blogging right if you're going to be writing content on a blog, one of the best things you can do right now is begin to practice writing, and I know most people think well I know how to write, but writing succinctly, Clear, concise, and persuasively, with comedy humor stories sprinkled in is an art. It's not just a science, not just something that, oh, I'll do that when I'm ready. No, it's something that you work on and get better as you go. And so right now, if I was in your shoes, I would drive everybody in all of my content, just simply opt in to my landing page, and then I would offer all those free kind of swag and recommended cool stuff on the on the on the thank you page, but everyday or every other day or at a certain set time of the week, right, I would send out a weekly newsletter, or a daily newsletter, write daily, daily Morgan update whatever. And in that email, practice my writing tell the story deliver the news deliver the drama, whatever, but it also gives me an opportunity to make a call to action in put more product in front of these people's face every single day and it's proven, at least in my career, that people buy more from email than anywhere else. It's just for some reason, it's just like people go to their email to do business, I feel like, whereas they go to social media to socialize and scroll. I think we get lucky that people buy so much from social media. But, you know, it's just another place that you have an opportunity to be able to put something in front of somebody's face, and it's also easy if they can't do it right then for them to go back into their inbox, and pull up that email, and find it and follow through with what they wanted to do, like, bought, like maybe they're standing in line and they see the email, they wanted to buy that iPhone cover, but then they get called on, it's easy to go back to the email and pull up that email and find that link, versus go find that video that they saw on social media. Does that make sense?

Bre: Yeah. Yeah absolutely and I'm really green. I'm like a new baby, marketers, so all these tips are amazing. I really appreciate you sharing them with me.

Dave: Yeah, well, thanks for doing the initial work to make it so I could give you feedback. I mean, that's one of the biggest challenges in this in this kind of whole process here is that it's difficult to coach somebody while they're still on the bench but it's easy to coach somebody while they're on the field, because they're taking swings, you can step back and look at what they're doing, and for you to have met you know taking just absolutely this is what we talk about guys when we talk about taking action. Take, we all get tired of hearing, take action, pick action take action, but this is the, this is what can happen. Firstly, your dreams expand, you make money, you get results, you get excited to get fired up. But then also, if you're a, if you're in a community like this, you have stuff that we can give you feedback on. You know what I mean, which is like, that's how the whole coaching process works and I think the reason why people get burned out on coaching is because a coach needs a player. Yeah, you pay me to coach somebody who's on the bed so I think that that's the part that we play as clients and customers, it's sort of like I was talking to my therapist yesterday, I come to those calls who act as a coach for me. Right, I and I have multiple coaches I have a couple of my life right now, and I come to them, ready to work, and I come to them and I say this is what I've done over the past two weeks, and I come, I came to my man yesterday and said, Look, I made a commitment, two weeks ago, I didn't do it. I didn't follow up on it. Here's how I felt, here's why I think I did it. Here's the field that I had, and I want to bring it. I want to be accountable for it and work on it and process it, man. A coach can work with that.

Bre: Yeah, that'd be coachable. Absolutely. Yeah, and don't be afraid to try what they're saying, like, what's the worst that could happen, it doesn't work. Okay, well, you're exactly where you were before you tried it right. I mean, chances are it's going to work if you execute properly but I know I've stopped thinking about what could go wrong, but think about what could go right, you know like, stop, stop selling yourself short. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I mean, and taking responsibility, I mean, like I see so many people who, and I'm looking at one of the comments Suhana says I bought get rich quick programs but, and I'm not calling you out or trying to embarrass you, but it's like, what I learned is, and what I've what i've what I've like seen over 10 years in this industry is that most people buy things and don't do anything with them. You know, like, there's literally nothing that I've bought that I didn't learn something from, even if it was marketed as a scam yes thing and it was like it was mostly BS. Like, I still found something that I just like taking total responsibility for my success, not anybody else's responsibility to come to my house and sit next to me and coach me and get me up off the couch and point out things for me. Well, did you notice this did you learn this, did you see this did you try that, like that's my responsibility and that's the, that's the responsibility if I buy a gym membership, it's not the gyms responsibility to bring the equipment to my house, it's my responsibility to go to the gym and workout and nobody ever buys a gym membership and says, Yeah, I bought a get get ripped fast program and it didn't work like we don't do that, right, because there because gyms have been around for a long time, the internet's new and selling information is new and in this is, it's such a it's, it's such a typical common thing for people to say, well, in the easy thing to say, well I got scammed. Right. I don't have to take any responsibility if I say that right I could just blame it on you. Right. I bought your program, and I didn't do anything with it, and it's just, it was a scam. Right. It wasn't a scam I wasn't scared. I'll tell you what a scam. College is a scam. Taxes are a scam. Right, there's a lot of shit that you do every day, willingly your job in many respects is a scheme. You could look at it and say, I'm showing up to this, I'm driving, two hours, air each way every day to go and bust my ass, to you know make minimum wage. Well this a holes out on a yacht every other business skit right. We don't call it a skit, we call it a job. We're grateful to have a job, right. So, I mean, I'm going to get down off of my soapbox here, but, but, you know, I just I say all this to praise you, to praise you, to say, you did this, you went out there and took action, you're on the show because we noticed you because you're kicking some serious tail, and doing some cool stuff, and you hit me up and say, ou know what I want my $7 back, you know, I see people who literally call their credit card companies over $7 It's like you didn't get $7 worth of value. In the end, you couldn't, you want to refi you couldn't just email customer support, and just say, Oh well, but $7 back well I'll mail you a check. I'll put, I'll put $10 and quarter's in your house, like I don't want your $7 you know what I mean. So, well, I'm going to call my credit card company right now and get my $7 back. Who has time for that?

Bre: I have been amazed, like that's another thing too about going viral. I always feel like How cool it would be to go viral, you'll see how many miserable people there are in the world and it's just mind blowing. How many haters there are for no reason. So, yeah, definitely.

Dave: I love talking about making money online and I'm saying that I can show you some tips and tricks, but you don't have to buy my shit. You don't have to come in, sign up, I'm not coming to your house and say, pulling out a nine millimeter and saying, Cornell spent $7 Like, it's like, don't buy it you know who you are, you know that when you buy stuff, You have a tendency to be skeptical and look, he's just, look, I mean, obviously, this is 10 years worth of dealing with this and that's where this is coming from, it's not right I get fired up over this, but what I mostly get fired up over, is when I see somebody like you. Oh excuses, who just, it's like,

what, it's just like, you know, I want to do this. It's either I want to do it or not, I mean it's like, why waste your time completely complaining and bitching and moaning and whining. If you're not going to do anything with it just move on with it. The other thing I tell people is, Maybe you weren't cut out to be an entrepreneur, maybe this isn't for you. This isn't for everybody. We're not sitting around trying to convince everybody that this is easy. It's like this shit takes work, you have some hustle, you gotta have some hard. You clearly got that girl. 

Bre: Thanks Dave.

Dave: Well, any final words for the folks out there that are sitting on the fence today wondering if today's gonna be the day that I go out there and start kicking some major ass.

Bre: Yeah I would say just go for it, just, you have, you have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. Don't be afraid of what people think about you, or what people say, just don't just don't hold back because the longer you wait, like, for, for me, obviously I lost a lot of money that it could have made, Had I acted sooner, but I just, I honestly was a little bit skeptical I didn't know if this was going to work, but don't wait, because you're going to, you're going to lose more money waiting, than if you just invest in yourself now.

Dave: Well, you are a rock star. And, yeah, I hope it's dude reaches out to you like asking me to come and work from, I hope you're like, Nah, bro. You know what I mean like I'm not even, like, all out, you can hire me. Right, but I got I'm running my own business here. I mean, I'm running my own business here, because you know that you got a lot of potential and a lot of opportunity that's ahead of you, just simply because of the way you approach things and the way you take the bull by the horns and start rocking it so, keep up the good work and let me know if there's anything I or we can do for you, and we'll have you back if you'd be willing to come on okay. Bre: Thank you guys so much, you guys have a great day. 

Dave: Alright see you Bre. 

Bre: Bye! 

Dave: Alright my friends go and follow her for sure you really, I mean just a rock star is so worth having in your network and learning from and getting a different perspective on how to build this business and do affiliate marketing. So, guys, again, what I said I threw in the shirt. If you haven't registered for the event and you have a mastermind ticket, go ahead and do that now. You can do that. We send out some emails where you can contact customer support, support at legendary marketer.com We'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode. Get out of here. Have a great day, be Legendary. We'll talk to you later. Peace.

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Matt: Greetings Happy Wednesday. Everybody welcome in my name is Matt, and we are, I think, live. Let's see if people can let us know if we're live here or not. If you're here with us, and you can hear me okay. I'm getting a little bit of like, hang on a second here, I think I know what's going on I'm getting a little grainy thing going on on my end. Hang on. Okay. If you're here live with us, let me know if you can hear me okay if you are, if my voice is coming through. Okay, I'm getting a little bit of lag on my end, but it might just be me. So, we've got an awesome guest today, And it looks like we've got people here live with us. So, let's rock and roll this thing. Let's see. Dally, Patrice can hear me okay, all right. I think that little glitch is actually just on my browser so we'll forget about it. We've got an awesome guest today coming to us from California, and I'm pumped to bring him on and pumped for him to be able to share his story so Adolphus what's going on, man. Happy Wednesday, good to see you, man, I'm pumped, thanks for coming on the show by the way, it's always fun to have new people, new guests. Tell us a little bit about you man, I mean you started, you know, trying to go online in 2019 But, take us back a little bit about, you know just what's work life then for you and why did you go, you know come online stuff like that.

Adolphus: So I've been staying in California. And, you know, work life, I didn't really have much of a career coming up, you know, I just, my environment is kind of like, you know, options that I've seen. I chose a certain option and I ran with it and you know, I was I, Being a knucklehead you mom's and so that's what a little bit, you know, I found myself only able to get like warehouse jobs and things like that, because they were the easiest nationally to get like temp jobs and things like that. So that's the type of work that I normally, normally do. I found myself working in the warehouse. I was able to have a tough time living back with my mom, me and my daughter. And that's when, that's when I really wanted to like change started doing something different. And that's when I started searching for, like, how can I do, what else can I do, you know, I mean, a few options. In my mind, you know, there are a lot of opportunities out here but sometimes you don't really know about those opportunities, so you just only know a few certain ways to make a living. And actually begin my journey.

Matt: Yeah so you initially that you wrote down that you found, like drop shipping or maybe making like T shirts for E commerce and stuff, what initially kind of attracted you to that was it just that it was new and you're like always, like, I can actually do this or what was there anything in particular or was it just kind of the first thing that you saw?

Adolphus: It was my environment. You know, I didn't see it online. I've seen it in like, you know, the streets and stuff everywhere I live and all those people were making shirts, you know, rap, rap labels. Labels music labels and, you know, just regular people, they were expressing themselves through their shirts. So I was like, you know, I have some good ideas. Let me try to make shirts, you know. 

Matt: Yeah, what did you do? 

Adolphus: By going to Google and ordering some shirts that impress them and just start selling them out in the streets. And then I found out like hold on, there's more people online. So I went online and made a store, you know, sharing the link with my friends and family and Facebook and stuff like that, made a little bit of money but not a lot. Yeah.

Matt: Do you feel like it lit kind of this spark of like what's possible?

Adolphus: Yeah, that led, that was my first time making any type of money online, right, like, you know, I didn't try like, what did you do little surveys and stuff like that. I didn't try stuff like that where you make a few cents or something like that, actually, actually creating something and selling it online, that was my first time.

Matt: That’s cool, and I feel like even like people have that moment and they're like, you know, I know people who have that moment and they feel a little bad or they feel like they, you know, I don't know they they feel like a sense of shame like oh, like, you know, they've only made five bucks or they only made a couple 100 bucks or something you know and it's nothing but I feel like, you know, if I look back on some of my journey like the first 51st $100 the first 500 bucks, whatever, like, okay, sure, maybe that first 50 bucks is not like life changing, right, but I do feel like, once you're open to the potential and you start to see that little trickle coming in, you're like, Alright, I know this is possible. I know that it's possible to pull this off somehow. And I just gotta figure it out, right, and it and it sort of keeps, like, I guess if, if you're, when you first watch a video your first, you know, read a blog post about, you know, how do I make money as a consultant or how do I make money selling products online or whatever writes How do I start an E commerce or something like that. It starts a spark, it's like the first spark and it starts to smoke a little bit and there's a little hint of fire, and then I always feel like that first 50 bucks is just kind of like, don't know, it's like a little, it's kind of just like throwing a little gas on the fire or something you know it just kind of helps it ignite stay ignited, you're like, dang, okay this is possible, so okay so you you dive into that whole realm, you get a little bit of, you know, you make a couple sales, and then, and then what's your thought?

Adolphus: The thing with me is it was a little bit pricey, because this was before I knew about print on demand, the type of thing where, you know, I'm putting that money on shelves and stuff like that. And my pride was in the way I wanted it to be exactly how I wanted them to be, so I'm going to make them myself right, but they've got a price. So I'm like, you know, oh no I kind of lost the passion for it a little bit, and I wanted to make money, or where I don't have to put up a lot of money. I don't have to invest a lot, every time I make a sale, you know, so that's what led me to say, How can I do that?” I started searching for ways to make money, just not investing in physical products. Yeah, that's how, that's what that's what led me to find affiliate marketing, I already had heard about it. When I found out about it in 2019, when I really started researching it, but I didn't never, I've never really dived into it. You know, it was like three years ago. I think it was like 2014. I tried to create a website using my little knowledge. It was a little too techie and never got finished. And I tried it, never got it up and running and I never started again. Right, I thought that was the only way to do affiliate marketing, I really do like your website or like blogging. Really, I started watching YouTube videos about affiliate marketing, and that's what really made me want to like, dive in and laugh and do this, you know,

Matt: I got you, I got you. Interesting, okay. So, you use, You're on YouTube, like most people you're on YouTube or some sort of social media channel or something. And you see, and you get an idea and you're like, that's crazy. I can probably do that. So, you go on to now you're on sort of YouTube, Facebook, what, at what point did you sort of find Legendary and discover the 15 Day Challenge. What were your thoughts on the challenge? Did you take the challenge, I mean did you, did you read our book did you take the challenge. What were your thoughts on that? 

Adolphs: I always was always marketing in my eyes. I started looking online right before taking the challenge before I heard about it. I heard about like the other programs or something like that, and I wanted to like bills today, right, and they really caught my attention, but I wasn't ready at the time you know I was still new and kind of, you know, scared and make a move or anything so when I was doing a buddy of mine Facebook. He said, He sent the link to a 15 day challenge to me and said Hey, have you heard of this and I was like, I heard a legendary marketer, tweets and so he said you should try it out. So I just clicked his link and signed up, and I liked what I saw when I got in there. I felt like okay this is what I need to do. 

Matt: That's cool. When you show he sends you this little link or whatever you look at the challenge like hey Dang, this is cool, I like this. What had you had you like been trained by other people or had you done other training or like what, how did you compare it to other stuff or was there anything in particular that you felt like was different?

Adolphus: Yeah, I had taken a course before about affiliate marketing. Well I was kind of, I was hard headed for like the first. Now, seven, eight months. When I started affiliate marketing it was hard to learn from anybody who wanted to invest in my knowledge, right, so I just was looking on YouTube, and just, you know, I caught myself documenting my journey, but really I was just making videos about anything I've seen right. So, I wasn't getting results so that's what made me say you know I need to learn from somebody, and I took the course before and it helped me get my first few sales, right, and, you know, to help me get that Amazon's been going like your Amazon Associates always promoting those types of products, and all the little sales here and there but that's what made me look like there's more you know there's this is a little bit right here that's kind of far. Yeah, my buddy, that's when he was introducing me to a high ticket so that's why he sent me the Legendary which he should be doing. I didn't know what that was like he was like hey, that's cool that you're on that Amazon stuff but dude does get on it and all our commissions aren't gonna go very far.

Matt: So, dude you're on TikTok you're on YouTube. I mean, first of all, I mean you put out quite a bit of content, man, I mean, especially on YouTube and that's like a lot of thought and a lot of work that goes into that. Which is cool because you're building, you know, a long term asset for yourself, but all those channels, all those videos, all that stuff like this building a long term asset. I'm curious what your thoughts are on, you know, was it hard for you to get started with, with, like, creating content was that difficult was that confusing was it overwhelming What was it like,

Adolphus: I didn't want to be on camera at first, when I started YouTube, so I found a way to not show my face, and just, you know, show my screen. And I was just you know looking at stuff online, and I'll find some information, and then I'll just record my screen and talk about it behind the camera right, and I did my first like 20 to 30 videos like that on my channel. And it started getting me some views and comments and, you know, people know what I'm doing a little bit. But when I, when I put my face on camera, not really started kind of like I'm making a connection with people. So that's, you know, you don't always used to think that I you know I had to show my face to get some results but you don't have to, but it's just all about your connection, connection. And I made a lot of crappy videos, you know, I made a lot of crappy videos just turning on the camera just No, cuz I was just trying to get used to the camera. And I ended up moving, coming up with about two, three, almost 300 ish shows me just talking. And I think I know.

Matt: Heck yeah. Well join the club on the crappy videos thing man I mean we're all, I think. So first I like videos and training and stuff that I did. I was like oh my gosh, did you really put out

Adolphus: One thing well every now and then, you know, I might do team or whatever crappy videos but that one, and 11 video maybe, you know in that video takes off and brings me some results, and then there's more crappy videos down the line another take on results, and even today I don't even like watch the video, but everybody else wants to click my links and stuff. Matt: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, I feel like. So I was like, and, and the cool part about, like, you know, I, I know that TikTok and like Instagram and all that stuff is really hot for good reason, it's just that they're on fire but I like somebody who's investing the time and the energy into something like YouTube too because the one thing I think people underrate is that long term evergreen, short of traffic that just keeps coming in and that can can come in for years like around the decade of the day training the other day we were, and I was live just sharing screens researching some dog training programs, and lo and behold, this guy who's selling his dog training program online. We searched, and I wish I could pull it open again. Sometimes when you search on Google, it's sometimes it pulls up YouTube videos sometimes it doesn't. And, and right now it's not pulling it up for me but when I searched for the best dog training program right which is, I mean people search that all the time. What came up was this dude's videos from 2013, 2018, and then maybe one more, but he was like the first three videos for that. And I was explaining to people like, look, sure you got amazing traffic that comes through TikTok you got amazing traffic your reels and shorts and all these things that are transitory I call them transitory they're, they're here today, probably gone tomorrow or gone pretty soon, right, you're not going to get traffic for these for years. This dude's still building his like digital products business for his dog training program through videos that he made on YouTube. Years and years ago and he's probably getting paid from YouTube for ads on that video too, right, so he's probably monetized this video. So, I mean that is ultimate evergreen, that's. And think about something in the dog training niche too is something that's like, that's legit sellable. Right, I mean at this point there's so much traffic coming from that, that it's like legit and asset that somebody who's acquiring YouTube channels and wants to grow a dog training YouTube channel or purchases channels in different niches like they can condense all of that info and grow their business through that way. So anyway, I just, I want to commend you and I think that strategies are really smart. I think that through, you know, adding TikTok and rails and all that stuff is great, and you definitely shouldn't do it, which you're already on TikTok and you're killing it, but, but with the whole, the whole YouTube route, I think that, you know a lot of the. A lot of the spice and flavors got lost because people have turned to the shorter term quickly, let's make it happen today. But, you know, I think that the, the execution, and commitment, and sort of the, the commitment to the long term they're early on takes a lot of focus. So that's cool. I'm glad to see you doing that.

Adolphus: Appreciate that. Yeah, the tech smoke is one thing I want to say about that YouTube is like you're saying like, any niche like no if you get into dogs dog training, whatever type an engineer. I wish I would have learned this when I first started, but I like whatever product that I'm going after promoting if it's let's say for example a dog training product. I just like to say sorry to just straight out dog trainer reviews or something like that, right, like, it's the quickest way to get results like instead of trying to go after the big time. Where's that big time people going after the words, that's a little more easy low hanging fruit, to get some traction. And the reason that I found that out, I mean I found that out by searching and stuff looking at other people talking about it. But personally, I have a video review. Right. I produce videos in the head with less than 100 views. And that's how I had one of my highest, highest sales from that video right. It's targeted at people watching, and I should just let them express that they don't care how many people watch the video, if they are not ready to buy, or do some type of action, then it really. But if you get less than 100 people that watch the video but every one of those people, they're ready to buy, I mean it's still that way.

Matt: So what you're what you're talking about I want to I want to go back to this dude because what you're talking about. You said the words low hanging fruit, can you see my screen, okay?

Adolphus: Yeah. 

Matt: Okay. So, in terms of selecting video styles and stuff like that and especially on YouTube, what you're talking about is doing something like reviewing videos, right, and you found some pretty good success with that. Now, when he talks about low hanging fruit. I mean, let me draw a little tree here. Okay, so what you're saying is up here there's some pretty difficult fruit to pick meaning videos that are or video topics or keywords right it's really about keywords that are hard to rank for. So, what would be some examples of like the higher hanging fruit? 

Adolphus: Like affiliate marketing affiliate marketing is a broad keyword. 

Matt: Yeah, lose weight, lose weight, dog training, great to see. And for everybody who's watching, when you create a youtube video and you, you know, let's say in your title right you just title it something like, How To Lose Weight. Right, well there's billions of other potentially billions of other videos that have that in their title, and you're competing against all of those other videos, right. So, what an officer is saying is there's these low hanging fruit, right, that are easier to pick and easier to use when we say pick we mean rank on YouTube. So when somebody types in, let's say for instance, they type in best dog training program, hit balls right seed now we're down to a very niche audience, and you've got to do keyword research to make sure that people are actually searching this, you need to make sure that it's not just something you thought up and then actually nobody's looking for this, but we can say best dog training program for pitbulls. Right. And if there's enough people searching this, this is a free niche, this is called a long tail keyword. So there's this, this means that it's not just dog training program, it's best dog training program for people's, or let's say that you have a product review right so like let's say that there's slim belly fix slim belly fix, that's a product I think on Clickbank or some weird thing, I don't know, reviews, right, so now it's not just like, it's not just like, lose weight, it's a specific product review of a very specific niche product right, so somebody, the reason this is powerful is exactly what adults are saying, which is the, the amount of searches is going to be lower on this, and you're going to get, let's say in his example that he said 100 views or whatever, are less than 100 views. But if I get people who are coming to my video who have typed that in, don't you think that they're probably interested in buying that product, and they're doing their due diligence to actually purchase that so it's called a hot lead, or like this is not just warmed up traffic, but this is hot, traffic, I mean this is, this is perfect traffic needs perfect offer, and create this real quick. This is something I draw on our decade in a day training every single time we do this training, but it looks like this. Perfect traffic. Traffic meets perfect offer now I say offer but in this case, here's what I would say content. All right, so let's make this about content today since that's what we're talking about: the perfect traffic, meaning meets the perfect content. And that's where sales happen, right. So, you put that review video right in front of somebody's face, it doesn't matter if 50 people watch it or if 100 people watch it. If you've got a great hook you bring somebody in and you hook them, and you give them a really good intro to your video, you educate them, you give them an actual good review for instance in this case, and then you give them a very clear call to action right there's a link down below this video go tap the video, you can purchase get a 10% discount checkout right now. Right now they have reason to act now, they don't want to lose the video so they're gonna go purchase that little discount or get a bonus or some, you know, whatever makes them a really great offer. So we can put the offer right here, and that's where your conversions are gonna skyrocket. Right, so I love that I want to just pull that up and because I love that tip that you gave, and I felt like that's a big thing that's lost with people is like oh, I've got to get billions and billions of views, it's not really the case. I think a lot of people on YouTube who have grown big channels started with small amounts of views, and you have to start with small amounts of views, when you're first getting started, and then over time, because you need that you have to rank for those smaller keywords because you just simply don't have the traffic its subscribers right.

Adolphus: YouTube is going to push your videos to certain types of people anyway, so if you just share your videos for whatever keyword you're going for. That's, that's all you can do you can do your best video you can do the SEO on it. Make sure he knows what your video is about, and let you build the wedge, you know, it's not gonna, you know, as a new channel. A lot of people complain about the views, and really issues the way it started to me, for me, to my model. You actually, probably. And then again if you're doing value videos or you're just teaching something. You know, I just like to practice copywriting like, I'm just now getting into it and really like heavy. When I first started, I would just turn on my camera and just say whatever, you know, try to edit it up, but now I'm learning that as formulas for stuff, you know there's formulas and, you know, like you said, have a look. And, you know, have a call to action and capture all of that so I'm learning how to pull formulas together.

Matt: That's actually really good man, good, that will be the most beneficial thing for you, and I have some. Yeah, some tips and resources but, man, I video content, the more I watch video content right and I watch people who take off on video. The people who take off on video, or copywriters, because they understand they've just taken the written word and applied it in video form and it's so powerful, dude. Like just, there's so many people who are not fancy, they're not creating like, if you take a guy like Calvin Hello, right, that guy on Tik Tok, He's fancy that guy can create some real fancy content he's creative man he's. He just has equipment that's fancy like he's just got the, you know, he's, he's got the flyer man. And, but a lot of people don't have that, and people in our community. You know he's got 1.2 million followers so he's on kind of another level, but people in our community, get hundreds of 1000s of followers with pretty ugly videos, but because they understand, copywriting they understand how to how to give an amazing curiosity based hook, and it doesn't need to be amazing. It's just the poor curiosity in the created open loop, which I think is probably something you're learning about in your copywriting stuff, they create open loops that force people to have to watch the entire video because it's just too juicy, it's just they got to find out what's gonna happen right. So I think there's a thing that I love that you brought that up too because you mentioned it in your, in your questionnaire, and I feel like, well, we would have been lost if we hadn't actually mentioned that, but I think that that whole copywriting thing. There's a great book called I think it's called the 17 or 17 word sales letter, like, 16 word sales letter. I'm gonna put this in the chat here, 16 or sales letter. It's a pretty cheap book, get that book they bought it for our entire staff a couple years back. It's a really good book. And it's written by a guy who's a lead copywriter for a company that's done an insane amount of digital products sales online, I mean, they're the biggest, the biggest of the biggest private never even heard of them, but it's just there in the background and lots of different brands and they just, you know, they have a formula for writing copy that sells and so it's, it's probably the highest paying skill online I would say because you can apply it to so many different things. And, yeah, that's cool. That's awesome.

Adolphus: What was the name again? 

Matt: The 16 word sales letter. 

Adolphus: I just bought like three books, and I'm buying that one.

Matt: Nice, awesome. Yeah, it's the more you can study that and really, you know, the cool part is really just a study of human psychology. I mean that's really it. It's behavioral psychology, what makes the mind latch onto things like video, like written word, like, like what makes people attached to things and latch on to them, and what can hold somebody's attention. And the cool part is is the cool part about that is like, yes, that changes over time based on like people's based on people's like attention spans and how people have evolved over the years but really the things that make people tick, and the psychology behind people, you know, watching more of your video or reading a sales letter and buying doesn't really change people are motivated by a lot of the same things, and curiosity is a big one. So, man, to talk was really big. 

Adolphus: Yeah, TikTok had like 70,000 in that, like my highest view count. This experiment channel that I was creating on TikTok, on my face. You know I was just practicing the curiosity thing. And let's step out that I'm talking about everybody going crazy. What's the last step and just people kept watching over and over, I guess.

Matt: Well I feel like so here's like, that's a cool thing because like little strategies like that are super nice because they play into the TikTok algorithm right so you leave a step out of your like three simple steps and then you never get to step three, right, and then like, and you do it on purpose. 

Adolphus: This is kinda this is marketing man, this is genius but you'd leave a step three out and then, you know what if enough people ask in the comments, then you can you can drop them a video reply and be like hey here's step three, and then people are like, Damn, that's cool, that's cool. Like that. And then it also leaves a website link. 

Matt: Well, it's also like, it's also like, it's also. Here's what I think is underrated about stuff like that. People come to respect you a little bit more, right, because we see you as somebody who's exercising, like a very strategic person. Curiosity based sort of strategy about how to market and how to like get people's attention, and they respect that, and, and it's different than just people just posting like, oh my gosh I made so much money or oh my gosh my dog training program so great, go and look at link in my bio and it's like, okay, do you just keep screaming about how great your product is we get it, like, okay, but I feel like in reality, like, doing something like that, it positions you in somebody's mind differently it positions you in their mind is like, dang, okay, this guy actually knows marketing a little bit like I see what you did there that was smart, that was any leave and get people who are more experienced to be like, damn, okay that was, that was pretty good. Like, whenever this guy, you know, I wonder what he's doing and that little positioning thing. People don't understand that you can have the best copy in the world and you can have the best sales video in the world but your conversions could suck if you're all, if, if the positioning that they come from, is bad, right how they, how a person is referred to. Is everything, like, what does someone else say about something else and what's that person like are they trustworthy do they feel like, you know somebody, somebody like refers me to an auto body shop to like get get paint touched up on the car, something like that, like, like, I'm gonna really consider like does this person care about being cheap, do they care about, like me, do they care about, like, how did they refer me right was it like, oh, there's something in this for them. Right. Was it honest like all those things play into my mind of like if I'm going to buy and give my business to that company. Same thing goes in the online digital courses space it's like, well did this person really provide me with value did they give me sort of, and that goes to your review video strategy is like, did they give me value did they really unpack things they did I feel like they were honest and entertaining and they're for the most part, humans are like, I want to just give business to that person, like, you know what I mean when it comes down to a hard decision it's like well I just, I feel better about working with this person, they gave me a cool vibe and like, and it doesn't even have that much to do with the product, it's just like they just, I like the guy, I like the girl,

Adolphus: You know, and I know that because I've been that person shopping around and I like certain individuals, or the way they presented something, it was something that made me want to do business with them and so that's, I know that's what's happening. 

Matt: Happens all the time in psychology. It's crazy. Alright man, so you're creating content, you're on your daily grind, you're hustling. What would you, you know, I'm going to give you the last word to our community what, you know people who are out there who are maybe trying to make their first video, or a lot of people here just start a 15 day challenge I mean they're brand new bro like you've been around this industry been online for a couple years, there's a lot of people here who are like, I just discovered that people could buy my shit online, like, what, what would you say to those people.

Adolphus: I would just say that, you know, the fact that you are here starting, you already took a leap. I just think that the more you learn, and not probably you probably heard it, but the more you learn, the more you're going to earn. So if you stop learning, then you know you're going to start wrong. So that's, I've got a net position in the world that comfortably stops trying to learn more stuff. And that's why I wasn't given jobs. All right, so, you know, and that's another thing about gaining a position. The money is getting transferred online every day. Anyway, period. So, get in front of them, you know, find your way through your niche.

Matt: Make sense, man makes sense. I love it. Well, thanks for coming on. I appreciate it. I know it's early there, but actually it's the same time it's early here too. I'm an early bird though so it's fine. But, yeah. Thanks for, thanks for coming on. It's just great and if you need anything you need any help you need the resources, whatever, always feel free to reach out or we're just here to help so

Adolphus: Appreciate man. Cool. I'm glad to be part of this group, I like I'm always in this group, all the time. So I'll do a lot.

Matt: Thanks man. Appreciate that. Alright guys we're gonna wrap up for the day go give him a follow, or a subscription or subscribe on YouTube. You can find them right there just search it on YouTube Adolphus online you'll find them right away, give him a subscribe. I'll also put his TikTok, in the, in the comments down here. So you can go hit him up there to give him a follow and watch his stuff. Leave a comment, hit the like, help below his channel up, and so all we got for today guys, have a good Wednesday, and we'll be back tomorrow at the same time.

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What To Do When You Feel Like Quitting For Affiliate Marketers

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Dave: How many of you have ever felt like quitting before? Anybody? Just Just drop a comment if you've ever felt especially at the beginning, especially at the beginning of your journey. Have you ever felt like quitting before? Just get this given up just throwing in the towel and saying, You know what? Hey, I've, I've. I give this an honest shot. I gave it an honest chance. Roy Crockett says to me. Good morning, Laurie. Vanessa says Yup. Sarah says, yup. We see you. What's going on, Gus. Good morning calling. Good morning. Gus says Yup, me. We'll check this out. My man, Josh, who I'm gonna be bringing on just a second. Heather says guilty. My man Josh actually did quit. But here's a little secret that I know about Josh, you'll know about Josh here in a moment. He's not a quitter, not a quitter. So he got back in the game. And today, he's really thankful that he didn't quit. So let's go ahead and hear it directly from his mouth. Joshua Smith, what up my brother returning guest Good morning. Welcome back to the show.

Josh: Good to see you, Dave, thanks for having me back. And really grateful for the opportunity and excited to be here. So thank you.

Dave: Now you said it's been a big year for you. And you're damn glad that you didn't quit running through those three or four things that have happened for you so far. in your life just this year?

Josh: Yes. So this year, so far, the first big milestone for us was after five years of struggling trying to pay down debt, and get our credit in a good position, we were finally able to get in our first home. So that was a really exciting moment for us. Then a couple months later, we were able to get our dream vehicle. And the reason we were able to do that, or the reason we wanted to do that in the first place is because our family's growing. So there's a third milestone, we're expecting our third child here in mid to late November. So it's been a big year, it's been a fun ride and excited to see where the back half of the year goes. 

Dave: And you're glad that you didn't quit, right? 

Josh: 100% I'm very thankful, I'm very grateful. You know, the funny thing about quitting is right, if there's a difference between quitting and running into trials and hitting roadblocks, and getting up and moving forward. So that's, it's gonna be fun to talk about, I'm excited to share this so

I can remember man, you know, for me, there's a balancing act of giving, of being here, of being somebody who has, is out there promoting my training, promoting our platform, promoting our community, being the sort of, in essence, the spokesperson for our community here. And, and, and, and in doing what I promised that I was going to do, which was deliver training and be here to support people like yourself every step of the way, but not getting your way and not doing it for you. Right because if I do it for you or I get all up in your inbox each time that I see you having a little struggle to coddle you and be like, come on Josh. It's gonna be okay. So the reason why I say that was because I remember not too long ago where you seemed frustrated. You seemed a little frustrated. You were very when you first got started. I remember you were very gun home, which I'm sure you're like that with everything you do in life. Every gun Whoa. And then I sensed frustration. I sensed frustration. But I, you know, I didn't get in your way. I didn't come in. I just sensed it. I knew it was there. I knew you were running up against the Crossroads to where you either have the breakdown or the break through. Yeah, and I'm happy. I'm happy to see that. You had that break through?

Josh: Me too. That's for sure. Yeah. 

Dave: And so congrats on that man. 

Josh: Thank you. 

Dave: I think it's a huge inspiration for so many people here who have had ad accounts shut down and TikTok accounts shadow banned. Your very first TikTok account was shadow banned. So walk us through the first chapter because I feel like you're in the second chapter. Now. The first chapter of your business being gunho in having some momentum but then hitting a block wall and then the decisions that you faced as you moved into chapter two.

Josh: Sure. Okay so so here's the deal it was it was last year 2020 about April when I really got started a dove into you all as training got into affiliate marketing Give me the business model here's here's another thing I didn't do ahead of time, but I actually did a day training he got so gung ho about that and like Alright, I'm gonna get on Clickbank those are running ads and I found an offer that lined up in my niche what I thought I wanted to do at the time. And what happened was you guys put out a very clear warning like, hey, know, Facebook's policies know their procedures is I was one of those people. I was like, Yeah, that's great. But I'm all about launching it perfectly and like learning as you go, it which is great, to an extent, except when it comes to Facebook stuff, like when you get a warning from a coach or a mentor telling you to understand and know this stuff, like pay attention to what they're saying, I just completely ignored you guys say, you know, know, their policies know their procedures. And I actually launched a Clickbank offer. I got my first sale within 24 hours in my first week, actually, you know, made a solid amount of money. And my first ad campaign was actually profitable. I was building an email list. I was making money. I was like, wow, this stuff really works. And what happened was, I never went back. And I never learned their policies and procedures, and I was in blatant violation of policy and procedure. I got my ad account shut down. And unfortunately, I actually never got it back. So I moved on from that. I started doing the TikTok thing. You guys had a challenge. I think it hadn't been April of last year. Your original TikTok challenge. You guys kind of identify that trend. And you brought in guys like Jake Thornhill, Jonathan Montoya, dama, borrowed a couple guys to do some TikTok training. I was like, Alright, well, you say it all the time, you know, two sources of traffic.

Dave: I muted myself. 

Josh: I was like, I see something, but I can't just move it just exercise in my mouth over here. Well, I was just saying that statement was before. Yeah, yeah, that's right, Matt. So I saw what those guys were doing, I saw what they were saying. I was like, man, there's, there's really something here. So you guys say it all the time, your training, you know, you got to have two sources, usually try to have an organic try to have a pay. I was like, Alright, I'm gonna focus on organic. I took the training that you guys had there, in my original TikTok account starting to blow up, we blew up pretty quickly. I was having a lot of success with that. And then what happened, it kind of all happened at the same time, that account actually got what I believe was the shadow ban. Again, I like to pay attention to trends, I like to, you know, monitor what's happening with all my analytics, and I stopped showing up on the for you page posted for about a month, a month and a half consistently trying to fight through trying to break through. And what happened was, I never got back on the for you page. And it was around the same time. And I'm very open and honest about this. Now. The whole reason in the whole, the whole reason I kind of shut down my business and kind of quit cold turkey was Yeah, I lost a little bit of motivation there. But what happened was people say, if you guys changed my life, you hear me say this all the time, but I'm going to preach this until my face turns blue. People say that money and success changes people, but money and success already amplifies who you are deep down. And if you have some internal issues that are buried deep down, the faster, you get some success and the more money you get coming in, those are going to rear their ugly head very, very quickly. And what happened was my wife actually sat me down and she was like, What you are doing is not okay, she's like, I'm not liking the person you're turning into. I barely even recognize you right now with some of this stuff that's going on. And I was like, I had that moment where it was like, Okay, you know what? The whole reason I started my business in the first place, right? I'm a family man. The whole reason I want to get on my own and have a business successful, that I can work in very limited time and make a good income. It's like I spend more time with my family. So to me, it was like if I'm gonna lose my family along the way, if I'm gonna lose the people that I'm doing this for the people that I care about along the way. It didn't make any sense. So I quit. Yes, but I quit with the intention of working on myself, working on my relationships, and then coming back when my mind was kind of in the right space. So I went on for probably 678 months. It wasn't until we were on a family vacation this year. We go to South Padre Island, Texas every year as a family and We're out on the beach. And all of a sudden my phone goes off and is like, oh, congratulations, you received the commission. And sure enough, somebody texted me right after. There's somebody that I talked to in July of 2020, who's like, hey, finally pulled the trigger on the blueprints. And like, I'm excited and ready to move forward with my business, like, thank you so much. And I'm like, holy crap like this. This literally the whole reason I started this right was to have the opportunity to make some sort of passive income like doing the work once, and then months later, or years later, a campaign. Right. And so it kind of refreshes me. And I was like, Okay, I'm in a really good spot. Now, you know, my relationships are great, my relationships are thriving, like, I think I'm ready to get back to this. So we got back from vacation, put a plan in place, at the end of March, wrote it out. It's like, Look, this is what I did last year. This is what worked. And again, I'm a person who pays attention to trends and likes to study. And so I'm looking at guys like Calvin Hill, Brian Brewer, Sarah, Sarah Ravel, Raphael, I'm not even sure how you say her last name. But those were a few that were on my radar. And I was like, okay, so I looked at what they were doing, I looked at what worked for me last year and got going with another TikTok account that I had already that I had posted on a few times just kind of played around, or sometimes where I thought I might be ready to get back to business. And you know, I would post one time and then not post again for three or four weeks, was never really to get back to ready to get back to it. But anyway, I hit the ground running with that account, April 1, it just got right back to the process of you know, posting a couple times a day, trying to add value going live, things like that. And sure enough, business started to take off again and go in the right direction. So that's, that's a bit about the story.

Dave: Now, so now, you're my I love that I can relate to so much of what you just said from the breaking the rules part that you hit on with the Facebook ads account, like going against their policies. What I did, when I first got started, was marketing in the network marketing space. So I was doing affiliate training on how to generate leads to frustrated network marketers who are chasing their friends and family offline. So what I would do is I would take the company logo, and I would use that as my image. So if I was targeting people like Amway, I would use the actual Amway logo. And not only is it funny enough, I never got my ad account shut down back then. But I started getting cease and desist letters from companies, you know, like, Hey, stop using our logo, dude. Because the reps were like, Oh, this must be a sponsor training or whatever. You know, so I sort of broke the rules at first. I didn't listen and didn't pay attention back then. We didn't, we weren't as clear. This was 10 years ago, we weren't as clear. What was what the policies were honestly, and they were a lot looser back then actually. And I just didn't understand kind of how to navigate compliance back then either, right? Which it's an ever evolving thing. But also the family piece and becoming somebody who, you know, it's almost like, it's almost like, I agree with you that success doesn't change you, it just makes you more of who you already are. And, and sometimes, you know, we can, we can, for me, my business in the early days, I used it as a mask for some of the insecurities that I felt inside as if making money and so forth was going to was going to somehow solve some of that inner pain and hurt that I had in there. And also, not finding a balance between work and life, man, I mean, just just like, Oh, yeah, I'm like, Oh, yeah, I'm gonna do this. So I can spend more time with my family. And then I like never spending any time with my family. You know. I had no boundaries, you know what I mean? And that wasn't fair to them. You know, my wife many times over the years has been like, I don't even really care to make more money if our life's gonna be miserable. You know what I mean? If there's not going to be any boundaries, if there's not going to be any, if there's not actually going to be, how long do we have to wait for that family time to kick in? Yeah. So it's interesting, I think, I think that's great that you bring that up, and I just hope that a lot of people feel they can identify with that and understand that this journey, sometimes on the way to getting to freedom. There is a lot of there's a lot of challenges, and I would invite all of you in particular. Literally the guys, I can't really speak for the ladies, because I'm not, I'm not a lady. But for the guys to lean into your family when they're talking, when they're when you feel like maybe they're criticizing you and you feel like maybe they don't support you, they're probably just doing the best that they can to support you. But it's probably difficult. I know, for me, it was it was it, I can't imagine being in a relationship with me, Josh. So, so, so lean in. And what I learned to do, and this is just for the fellas out there, who may be trying to pull their, their partners and spouses, instead of always saying, well, you don't support me, why aren't you supporting my dreams? Just simply flip the script and be like, Look, how can I make you feel loved and supported? And just ask them? What can I do to make you feel loved and supported, as I, you know, pursue this goal that I have that I'm currently working on. And when you do that, instead of working on trying to get them to support and understand you to flip the script and try to understand them and make them feel loved and supported and ask them what they need? A lot of times, so much more progress can happen that way. So that we're in chapter 220 21 hits, and what, you know, what are you doing, you said, you pay attention to trends. I know you're about to hop on Instagram reels, because that's at the early beginning stages, like Tick Tock was 18 months ago or so. What else is popping up for you this year and working in these first six months in 2021?

Josh: Well, it's funny because, you know, I say I pay attention to trends in you know, marketers will tell you this all the time, like the ones who can pay attention to trends and see them and jump on them early. They make exponentially more throughout their journey than other people do. However, that being said, like, at the same time, I was doing another thing that marketers say all the time, I was simply modeling after success, right? Like I was paying attention to some of the top dogs in the affiliate marketing space and seeing what they were doing on TikTok saw that there was still an opportunity there. And then really all I did at the end of the day, I stayed consistent with my posting, but then the thing that I think really helped my business and a lot of other affiliate marketers are catching on to this is the lag feature, the tick tock offers, right. And again, all that is an extension of things that online marketers have been doing for a long, long time. Whether it's a webinar, a live training, whatever it is, you're going live.

Dave: We're doing it right now. Yeah, yeah. The platform is different, right. But the strategy was the same. all I was doing was sharing a bit about my story, being there for my audience answering questions that they had about online business, affiliate marketing, again, I was being very vulnerable, upfront and honest. And, you know, people are probably sick of hearing me say it by now. But like, I talked about it all the time, like full time dad, full time husband, full time employee, and then a full time or a part time entrepreneur, like it's so you know, it's all about sharing that communicating that message is being honest with people, I kind of took a little bit of a different approach. I feel like a lot of, you know, some of the training you guys have, you know, talks about, kind of like the presentation style, or the webinar style, and there's some people who are fantastic. Add that there. What happened was, you know, I had a system of going live that was really working for me. And again, I got a little too much trying to model after other people and I stopped. It's funny because Matt just did a training on this last week about, you know, don't don't get away from what's working right. I was looking for the next thing to help expand and grow my business. Like, well, I've been doing something for the past two and a half months that's really been working. So I started changing it into a presentation type of style in my life, like I started going this way a little bit. 

Dave: I want to stop right there, you just dropped a nugget. You just blew up a big ol hole in the ground and there's a lot of gold there. I just want to find it out real quick. Folks, listen. The biggest mistake that I've seen in the past decade of watching marketers blow up their business is they stop doing what is working in an effort to try to add something to their business, add another stream of income at you know, the transition from doing affiliate marketing to creating their own courses, if you're going if you have something that's working. So for example, if you have affiliate marketing Converting for you and generating revenue and income for you on the front end. And all of a sudden, you want to go and create your own course, because you, you have this idea in your head that I'm gonna keep all the money on this, instead of taking a portion, which isn't true, there's always going to be processing fees, advertising costs overhead, there's always going to be that there's always pros and cons to every model. But I still love selling information. So let's just take that example, because I've seen some, some dudes who have made a million dollars in affiliate marketing, blow their business up, because they stopped doing what they were doing. And if you want, if you want to add an additional stream of income, if you want to add an additional stream of traffic, if you want to somehow some way, try to systematize something or just improve something, just make sure you don't stop what you're already doing that's bringing in any revenue whatsoever. Because here's what happens when you basically kill that, take it outside behind the barn and shoot it, right. Because all of a sudden, now you have this other idea. And you want to take things to the next level. What if that doesn't work? What if the what if the what if it's going to take a year of testing to finally dial that in, you've killed a stream of traffic and or income that was probably in momentum phase about to start growing, or it was already growing. And instead, it's so easy to just add something on the back end. So for example, I'll just practical application, if I'm doing affiliate marketing, say I want to steal my own train, okay, sell my own training, or course or something, I'm not going to change anything on the front end, I'm going to keep the front end exactly the same. And what I'm going to do is I'm going to market my email list, whatever my offer is, whatever my email course, I'll start out by simply just charging people $37 to attend a live webinar with me or something like that. super simple, super easy, but not killing that front end offer that's working. And maybe even that follow up sequence that's currently working. It's Josh, it's kind of like somebody who has a carwash business. And people in the town are starting to hear about it. So they're coming in, they're bringing their car to get washed. And all of a sudden a guy has wild hair and says, you know what I'm going to, I'm going to not just do outside car washing, I'm going to do detailing. So I'm going to start washing the car washing. Okay, and now I'm just going to do the details, because there's more money in it. And now all these people around town are coming for, they don't want to detail. They don't want to get out of their car, they just want to sit in their car for a carwash. They pull up, they realize that you're not doing car washes anymore. And they turn around and they leave. And you're sitting there going, but wait a second. I mean, not, Oh, hold on, hold on. I'll detail your car and wash your car, then we get into desperation mode, because we realized we just killed something that was working. So hopefully that made sense, man, but I've seen that happen. And I have a tendency to do that too. Because I've also a variety slash add slash, watch the next move entrepreneur just like the rest of us.

Josh: But here's the thing, too. To add to that a little bit further, right? What happens is, when we start unknowingly or knowingly kill that area of our business, we start blaming other people, right, rather than looking in the mirror and being like, okay, has my content shifted? What was I doing? They changed what I was doing before work? Right, we have a hard time looking in the mirror and understanding that and thank goodness, like, I caught that very, very quickly, and was able to actually take an inventory and go back and I'm like, oh, there's been a shift in my content, there's been a shift in the way that I've done live. So it makes sense, right? But what happened was, for a little bit there, I was starting to think like well, you know, maybe maybe the opportunity to promote certain programs is dying on this platform. And you know, start looking at things and be like well then there's brand new affiliates that you know, seemingly weren't making any money and then on the back end because as an affiliate and Legendary you see all that so like all of a sudden these affiliates seemed like they came out of nowhere and they're killing it and they're doing the exact same thing that I was doing and I was like wait a minute, wait a minute. So I start trying to blame everybody else and get sucked down these rabbit holes of like, now next thing you know I'm on like a webinar presentation for a completely different product or the Amazon business. We do any of this so like click off and like, take an inventory of yourself here Josh like look in the mirror. And for some reason. It's so hard for us to do that. But the Once you can do that successfully, it consistently seems to always happen again, maybe they plateau a little bit, but then they go back like this. And it's like this linear thing right here, even though it's kind of all over the place and starts to get more linear. So we got to take an inventory of ourselves and stop blaming everybody else.

Dave: Well, really, I want to get real, I want to get, I want to offer strategy for people right now around messaging, in around consistency of theme of structure and of topic. And what I mean by that is thing, Oprah show, there's a time there's a theme, there's a structure, and there's common topics of that show, think Jerry Springer, think Maury Povich, think news channels, they everything is always there's a theme, there's a structure, and there's topic consistency. Okay? consistency on all of those pieces. So if the 10s, or hundreds of millions of people who watched Oprah all of a sudden, one day, and I could still remember, it was 4pm, when I was growing up, sat down at 4pm. And all of a sudden, there was a new intro song. And there was a completely different they all of a sudden, they were talking about sports, I would go, I'm not here for this, what's going on? The world isn't right. What hold something's not right. And I would eventually tune out because that's not what I was sort of programmed to expect from that particular content creator. And what happens is, is online, we do something, say, for example, like this wake up show, right? We do it for a period of a couple of years, or a couple of weeks, or a couple of months, right for some of us. And then all of a sudden, you know, we get bored with it. We say, well, I've been I've been doing this every day, for so long. And you know, I'm just, I'm just burnt out, I'm not feeling it anymore. So what I'm going to do is I'm going to switch it up, I'm going to switch it up, I'm going to switch the name, I'm going to switch what I talk about, or I'm going to start going from marketing being the main content, Josh, and I'm going to talk about fatherhood in entrepreneurship, whatever. All the sudden, that audience that I just spent all that time conditioning to expect something certain at this time from me in this structure, all the sudden, all that work to where they're finally it's finally becoming something that they look forward to something that they've tuned into enough episodes that they trust me, they know I'm going to be here, all of a sudden, I changed it on them. And that that audience that I worked so hard to finally get to buy into me and my brand and what I was saying, I lose. And it's not because I'm a bad guy. It's not because even what I'm talking about now is not valuable. It's because at this time slot in this structure, this topic, okay, right here on this wakeup show, people are conditioned to expect a certain thing. And that's why the audience has consistently grown. And this happens on social media channels. This happens in our business with entrepreneurs all the time. And it is, it's where many businesses go to the graveyard to slowly die. You know, the main. So here's, here's the punchline, just because you're bored with it, or just because you feel like it's not working. Doesn't mean that it's not, it doesn't mean that others are not. While you're getting bored. Your audience is slowly trusting you. You know what I mean?

Josh: 100% I love that you use the word board to ride because we do what we do as entrepreneurs, we get bored. A lot of us experience shiny object syndrome. We're like, what's the next thing? What's next thing

Dave: That adrenaline hit, you know what I mean? Like, sign up and start something new. 

Josh: Yeah. But the key to anybody who experiences long term success and success in business or anything you do in life, right? It's about mastering the mundane, like success is going to meet boredom. It really is not, but the achievement of success, the money coming in when you experience success. That's nice. That's fun, right? But the process of you know, waking up at 430 in the morning, every single day to plan out your day. So you know exactly how you're going to execute in your spare time. You know, spending time in gratitude. Maybe you're trying to lose weight, maybe you're stretching early in the morning, whatever it is right? The process behind it. It's boring, but that's the key to long term success is being Consistent with that stuff, and being able to do it over and over and over again, you hear successful entrepreneurs speak on this all the time, people like oh, well, what's your key to success, and they all say the same thing. I was willing to do what other people weren't willing to do. And I was willing to do it consistently. And every single day, when I didn't feel like it, right, I wanted to lose 10 pounds. Well, I don't feel like going out and running a mile at 430 in the morning. Well, if that's the only time you have to run a mile, you better be doing it, otherwise, you're not going to lose 10 pounds. So people don't understand. And this is a great segue into what the Winning Edge formula is, right? It's all about this concept of learning how to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations in the way we do this by intentionally putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations, because that's where growth happens. Nobody ever experienced success from sitting in their comfort zone. And I'm sorry, if people don't want to hear this, but it needs to be said like, you cannot just sit in your comfort zone and do what you've always done and expect to get a different result, you have to step out of your comfort zone, you have to be willing to do uncomfortable things to make the impact and experience the success that you truly want.

Dave: And that's a great, you know, that's a great that messaging that branding that you're developing with this Winning Edge formula, is something that the more you build on this, the more you mention this, the more you talk about this, and the more that you stick with this branding, and this messaging, and the more that you build our lives, that are that where you mentioned that the Winning Edge formula live show, or whatever it is, right? kind of look at what we've done here, you know, Wake Up Legendary, you know, I'm so obsessive even about brand colors, and being in the same place every day. You know, I'm not in a different location every day. I mean, dude, I've got all kinds of places I could sit and be. And, and, and, you know, showing off this and doing that, but what's most important is the consistency of the look, the feel, you know, the messaging, the structure of the show, or the content, and then the topic. And that winning formula, what you just talked about right there, that messaging, which is sort of the foundation of your marketing, is the most important part of your entire business, because that's what people are going to remember about you. And the more that you tie your story into that which I know that you do with sports and growing up and how, how much you learn from that experience. I think you played football growing up, right? 

Josh: Yeah. 

Dave: So each one of you has a and can and needs to develop a message you need to develop an identity. And I think that that's a difficult thing for most of us because we, you know, we we, that wasn't something that was really important that was talked about to us when we were growing up. Who are you? What's your identity? Right? Oftentimes, we didn't have strong models, whether it be you know, male role models for us men, or, or sometimes we had to look outside in pop culture, music or athletics or whatever, which is one of the things that I did you know, I looked at athletes a lot, and I grew up watching and rooting for the bulls and Michael Jordan, and I think the consistency of the jersey and the shoes and the moves and so forth, gave me something to grab on to, you know, when I was a kid, I also was also a sports fanatic baseball, Ken Griffey Jr. I can remember watching Ken Griffey Jr. and modeling his stance the way that he had discovered that he put his elbow up, and my dad always wanted me to get down and put my elbow down, but I wanted the hot dog and look like Ken Griffey Jr. That's us as young people developing our identity, and developing our look and feel, our swagger, our vibe, you know, our message, what do you say? What are you saying to people when you're talking and even when you're not talking? And this is what we talk about when we talk about developing your brand. This is brand new, right? Not just logo development, but everything that I just mentioned, and then tying your story into it. But this Winning Edge formula thing that you got going man is a great kind of brand. It's a great message. There's a great story and message behind it that you can just use can ride that for 2030 years in this industry, but we're never going to change, it's a timeless message to constant reminder for people, you know, to, if they're getting ready to buy something, or whatever, or they're going to go through some training that you recommended to accept that come that uncomfortability and know that they're in the right place, if they're comfortable. And one of the things that I say to people oftentimes, like, on our decade of the day training that we have, for blueprints, members is, if you're not overwhelmed at the end of the day, then we're not doing our job. Right? 

Josh: Right. 

Dave: Because I already know that they're gonna feel overwhelmed. So what I want to do is I want to shift that overwhelm into a positive frame, instead of a negative frame. And similarly with you with the getting comfortable being uncomfortable, all you're doing is you're creating that's called framing, you're creating a positive frame for people to feel uncomfortable, so they can embrace that. Instead of being like, Oh, I feel uncomfortable putting my credit card information and probably don't want to buy this because I feel uncomfortable. And then they hit remember your content, you're like, get comfortable being uncomfortable there like so. A lot of nuggets, a lot of good stuff, man, a lot of good stuff. So you know, you really kind of got at least some of your start here at legendary going through, would you say to somebody who's brand new here in your shoes back in 2020, who's getting ready to maybe go through the challenge or feeling skeptical? You know, you've achieved a lot of things over the last six months, because you didn't quit? Talk to us or talk to that new person just for a moment before we wrap up?

Josh: Yeah, I think that the key right is to not quit to understand that the only true failure in life is if you quit, right. As an entrepreneur, there's gonna be ups and downs and especially with learning a new skill, whether it's affiliate marketing, you know, whether you're doing the 15 day challenge and learning about online business, it's gonna be like drinking from a firehose, at times, there's gonna be like Dave said, a lot of overwhelm at times, but you got to spin that into a positive and understand, yeah, you're overwhelmed, maybe because you don't understand this stuff yet. But you know what, there's gold, there's light at the end of the tunnel, because when you do understand it, if you can grasp it, and more importantly, you can take action on the things that you're learning. You're on the right path, you're gonna, again, you're just starting to take action, right? Just just understand that you need to develop some sort of consistency, you need to take action. And no matter what roadblocks you run into, you can always come out on the other side, you know, if you keep pushing it, you have the right people around.

Dave: So yeah, well, bro, keep up the great work. I'm looking forward to hearing what happens for you and comes to light here in the second part of the year. Congrats on the new house. Congrats on the new car. Congrats on your new baby. In your family, great health and an amazing birth experience come November. And, you know, congrats to you for growing, evolving through some of those first chapter challenges that entrepreneurs face that many, you know, choose not to grow through. I always say you either grow or you go, right. And you chose to grow through those challenges. And you did that on your own and by yourself. Sure you had support, but you made that decision. And that's just a big deal, brother. So super proud of you, excited for all your all your momentum here, man. Keep up the great work and come back for a third time and see us on the show.

Josh: Well, thank you very much. I appreciate it. I look forward to the next time. All right, man. Dave: Well, all right. We'll talk to you later. Josh. See buddy. 

See you later, Dave. Thank you. 

Alright, my friends. Well, you can go and follow Josh. As you can see on the screen there on TikTok connect with him there The Winning Edge formula, you'll find his profile there. And he goes live and and and, as you can, as you heard, produces a lot of content. And it's all about delivering value. It's all about you know, so I'm sure you'll get that from him. There's no doubt. And also, once again, an opportunity to expand your network here within this community, right with more people who have sort of paved the way for what you're trying to accomplish now. And please remember as we wrap up, that there's no challenge that you're going through right now that somebody like Josh has already been through, right hasn't already been through and overcame. And that's important to remember because you're not going where no man or woman has gone before. It's not that it's not like you're not like, you know, Jeff Bezos today Who went to space all the he didn't even go where no person has gone before somebody has actually been there before. And I actually wanted to say this, I forgot to mention this, when we were talking about quitting something and starting something new, you know, Jeff Bezos just recently stepped down as the CEO of Amazon, to go full time with Blue Origin, his space company, but he didn't shut down Amazon. He's still, I believe, the majority shareholder, he's still very invested in the success of that company. And that's a great example. Now your, you know, your business may be at a smaller scale than Amazon and who loses it on a smaller scale. But it's a great lesson when somebody builds something, whether you've built it for 20 days, 20 weeks, or 20 years, like he did at Amazon, that once you've built that up, don't don't kill that stream of income, don't kill that business just to go and pursue something different and something new, which is exactly what he did step down as CEO of Amazon, to go and pursue space travel with Blue Origin, his other company. So there's a lot of lessons that are happening around us all the time if we just, you know, have enough self awareness to see them and then relate them to our situation. But today was full of nuggets. It's worth another listen. Please go connect with Josh. He's absolutely awesome and has proven himself to be a great leader. We'll see you guys back here. Tomorrow. Gone. Get out of here. Go do something Legendary today. We'll see you back here at 10am eastern time tomorrow. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe. I’m gonna come in just a little bit more relaxed here on a Monday morning, you know, for those of you who have not had, you know, your, your coffee there you're still kind of in that weekend, sort of, you know, drowsiness, we'll get you. We'll get you woke up here, we'll get you woke up here over the next couple of minutes, Look, we've got a returning guest. Now, I know a lot of you guys say, hear me say, almost every episode. Hey, come back, keep us updated, you know, come back on the show, let us know how it's going. Well, we've got a returning guest now that can be a bit of a challenge sometimes because we have such a long wait list for people who are brand new, getting results, and, and up and coming in our community. So we have to balance that ratio of all of these new and amazing success stories, to give us a platform to be able to speak and share their journey and give us some inspiration. But, you know, we also want to try to weave in some of these repeat wake up legendary guests, and this morning we've got my man, repeat guest the man, the myth, the legend, Frank Andrews what's going on my brother. 

Frank: What's up, Dave, thanks for having me man. 

Dave: Hey dude, you're, you're, you're welcome. Thanks for coming back. It's, it's you're you're back here simply because you're continuing to do the deal, you know, and you're, you're, you're, you've not only got an incredible story but man you're, you know you came into our community you're getting results you're continuing to get results you're continuing to get your full time, you know, and as the, you know, the title says of this episode from homeless to full time online biz. So, you know, tell us, for those who don't know who Frank Andrews is, give us the nutshell version of how you went from homeless to where you are today.

Frank: Okay, so yeah, I guess it all started really about 2015. I had, you know I've been on like a 10 year run of, you know, you know, drugs and all of those things right, and so I ended up in prison, and like it happens for a lot of people but I just, you know I really sat in there and realized that I wanted to do something more with my life something better with my life. So that led me into studying, personal development, right. And as I started studying, personal development, and started applying it to myself. I just had this realization like Man, if more people had this information, you know, the world would just be a better place. Right. You know, I think. And so and so, wanted to share what has helped me, right. And so that led me to the online world. I Became an online marketer and then I began to like to study marketing and sales. I kind of fell in love with that aspect of it like I originally came online and I just I wanted to learn a little sales and marketing so that I could teach personal development but as I came online and started studying that stuff I just really fell in love like you know copywriting the power of words, you know, and different things like that. So, you know, there for about four years, I really struggled like you know I did jump from opportunity to opportunity, trying to figure out what would work and what wouldn't. And then, you know, really what happened when I switched my focus from network marketing to affiliate marketing and when it really started taking off for me. I think mostly because like my personality type, I'm not very much of like a nurturer, I guess, you know, that didn't work well for me but yeah so you know it's been about I guess six years or something like that the first four years was, you know, it was a struggle, the whole time and then, you know, eventually I figured it out, and when I got introduced the Legendary is when it really like I had figured it out and I was able to get by and whatnot and then I found Legendary. And that's when it really kind of took off for me like I knew I found the program right because when I was, you know, during that four years, I was trying to make money, obviously, right, but I was also looking for a program that would really help people, you know like they could really take somebody from, you know, working a nine to five or whatever, living their life, not happy in their life, to actually be able to create some freedom, you know, and there's a lot of programs online and you know maybe all of them could help you potentially, but most of them don't have like the combination of, you know, value, like the value that you all provide, as well as like, you are really good at getting people to take the actions necessary to move forward and build a business right, and a lot of companies have one or the other, you know, And I think you guys do a really great job at doing both. So that's kind of how I ended up at Legendary.

Dave: Well thank you, but congratulations on sticking with it until you found the right fit for you, and I think that's true for a lot of people because we've all tried a lot of things, and sometimes we just, we just can't stop until the miracle happens, you know, and, and hit you know miracle I don't mean, I don't mean I found the secret program that I hit a button and money started blowing out of the computer I mean, it's just a good fit. I just found the right fit, the right time, the right people, the right place and it, it all clicked, and the cool thing, which I've witnessed here is it's not just one or two people we have 1000’s of those stories here, and it's something that I think we're all proud of, not just me, I'm a small part of this we're all part of if I introduce somebody as an affiliate to our training and they get results with it. Even if that's my only customer. That makes me proud. Right. 

Frank: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, absolutely. 

Dave: So, you know, your story reminds me a lot of mine in the sense that I also did network marketing, and, yeah, I can relate to that I smiled when you said I'm not the nurture because we were just on a virtual mastermind over the weekend, and we were talking about finding methods marketing methods that fit your personality. And, you know, and network marketing, you're right, there's a lot of connecting and, and, and having people over meeting up for coffee. It's almost like you've got to make friends to nurture those relationships, and for me. I mean, I've got a family of kids, I've got a business that's hard for me to keep drawing for a couple of friendships, let alone. Hundreds of friendships at a time. Whereas, with online marketing. Right. I don't have to really nurture any relationships I can connect with people over messenger or I can write them an email list. We can do like what we're doing right now where I'm connecting one person at a time, but simultaneously connecting with hundreds or even 1000’s who listen to replay of this. Through that process of one to many versus one on one, or as they love to say network marketing, two on one, right. You know that one too many. Concept dude is so powerful and I think it's one of the eight wonders of the world, you know, it's like that secret Eighth Wonder because if you can figure out how to leverage that one too many concepts using the internet. It's almost like finding this hidden magical power that you didn't even know was available. Can you relate to that?

Frank: Oh yeah, absolutely. I mean it's literally magic. I mean it's really magic, you know, I mean it's super powerful. That's one of the things that has helped my business, the most, you know, and when I first started video wasn't really a big thing, I mean it was just kind of coming in, but now I mean, you know, videos, it's just, it's where it's at, you know. But yeah, it's definitely powerful and and and that's what I enjoyed right like I enjoy the art of right like making graphics, I'm getting into editing videos a little bit, you know, because and let me tell you why because I think, you know, there's so much negativity in the world right, and a lot of people that are using the magic of media, to keep people messed up, you know to keep them aggravated and things like that. And I just want to be able to be the force in the world that uses that same power, but for good, you know. Does that make sense?

Dave: It does, and I've always also looked at, you mentioned copywriting, you know, for me. I also, I have a history like you to where I had addiction and alcoholism, did, did a little bit of time in county jail and in a, in a treatment center. You know, I was lucky I actually got, you know, some rehabilitation which was helpful. And, this was back in 2004. And, what I realized was I had a little bit of a hustler, kind of, you know, gift to grab right when, when we're out surviving in the streets and stuff, dude, you learn how to say the things in and position and angle and sell. You know what I mean when I came when I came online, It was like I had all of these kind of raw skills and I guarantee you, 99% of people, if not all, every single one of you guys listening, has those raw skills, those kind of whether whether you've been called a manipulator in the past or a hustler, somebody can they say you can talk the ears off of a jack rabbit or, you know, or you could sell yourself out of a wet paper bag. I mean I, I could sell ice to an igloo, sell the shirt off my mom was back, I mean I've been said these people have said these things all my life, but I never really, you know, I never really was able to kind of develop those skills in turn those kind of what before were liabilities or struggles into strengths. And what I found with the art, you mentioned the art of this, the art of marketing to me, is turning that mess or those raw skills into strings, turning that mess into a message, what comes up for you when I say that,

Frank: Well, what comes up is that what I'm currently working on right now, you know what I mean like, I'm kind of in this place where, you know, I think I'm really good at sales, but I enjoy doing the marketing or, like, you know, making videos and different things like that so I'm trying to figure out, you know, my kind of what makes me happy, and what moves my business forward. You know, but, yeah. So what was the question again?

Dave: So, you burned a few brain cells just like I have right, it's kind of my mind. Oh, I know I, my wife, I forget what happened the other day, dude, but somebody said, Oh, I'll tell you what happened. We were doing a virtual mastermind on Saturday, you know, we had a virtual mastermind that we've been doing for our, our mastermind clients and because we haven't met in person and you know my wife told our babysitter slash nanny that, you know, hey, we need you to work on Saturday because Dave's got to work on Saturday. And, so I came home Friday night to the Nanny, and he said to me, Well, I'll see you tomorrow. I guess you've got some virtual thing going on and I'm like, I looked at her and I was like, what, what are you talking about? I didn’t remember what I was doing and she probably was like what the hell is wrong, you know what, what are they, are they pulling some wool over my butt. And then I had to laugh because it was like, Oh that's right, I've got an all day virtual event tomorrow but it's amazing how, even with the brain cells burning, We can still get this done, gently.

That's what I want people to know man, that's probably my core, my core message like, man, look at me, just like look at me, if I can. If I can do this. I know that anybody out there who wants this can make it happen, especially with Legendary sales, you know.

Dave: Yeah, no I mean no matter like what, what is going on with your, with your mindset where you're at mentally I mean how many brain cells you've burned what, you know, color skin you are religion background culture, I mean, there is room for you here there is room for you online but there's, especially room for you here in legendary for you to have the space to develop those, those, those raw, talents, and basically figure out how to use what you've got and turn it in to profit, you know, in turn it. You packed, you know, and I think for me also, one of the things I know a lot of people and let me just not assume, how many of you guys struggle with some sort of either addiction. Addiction in the past, depression, some anxiety, some sort of have a history of trauma of PTSD, of being abused or even being an abuser and your, your, your, you know your recovered your change from that maybe you are somebody who went in, you know, just had anger issues, I don't know, we've all got our imperfections. But for me, Frank. This business has both helped me make an impact on others, but it's also, through being that like positive light and kind of speaking positively and showing people there's another way and showing people ways to grow themselves and to make money and build a business. I've actually had a massive therapeutic value for me. I think primarily it's helped one of the main reasons why I've been able to stay sober for so many years. And also one of the main reasons why I've been able to. There's been a lot of therapeutic value that I've gotten from constantly serving in helping others, can you speak to that at all? Does that resonate with you? 

Frank: Yeah, most definitely. Well, It's like you know if anybody's ever been in recovery and AA it's kind of like what they tell you, you know, you have to help others to keep your sobriety or whatever but it's kind of the same thing in business, you know, the more that you're out there talking to people and helping people, the more you're going to naturally learn from them. I mean I used to do a lot more things like one-on-one coaching and things and I would almost feel bad because I would feel like I learned more from them than they learn from me, you know. So yes, definitely, you know, the more that you give it out the longer you'll be able to keep it.

Dave: Sure. There's a phrase that I would invite all of you to write down and it's just the only reason why I don't often say that because it makes me sound like, you know, you should write down everything I say. But, but this is, this is write down worthy and the reason why I'm sharing it with you is because for all of you listeners Frank may have heard it before but it's because you may not hear it unless you're in 12 step recovery. It's kind of one of those phrases that only they're in. It's that you can't keep what you have, unless you give it away. You ever heard of that Frank, you ever heard that before?

Frank: That's what I was trying to say. He said that much better than me, and that's why I'm partnered with you guys because you can say things much better than me.

Dave: You can't keep what you have unless you give it away. And when I first heard that I was like, what, how can I keep what I have. If I give it to you, if I have this piece of material, and I give it to you, how, how do I still have that piece of material and physical pieces of material are very different from skills and personal growth. Personal Growth multiplies, when I share it with somebody, personal growth within me actually grows, it's sort of like, if, if a personal growth if we think of personal growth, and we think of actually upgrading our own skills as a seed, the watering of that seed, And a lot of watering that seed is continuing to learn, learn, or learn more. That's only a part of the watering. The majority of the watering in the sunshine for that growth that personal growth seed and that skill set seed inside of me to grow is actually sharing it with others, is actually putting it into action and serving others. And that's what you can't keep what you have unless you give it away really means, and in recovery, it meant, the more I help others, the better of a chance that I have to stay so clean and sober, and in business, marketing what it means to me is the more value that I deliver to the marketplace, the more my income will go up. 

Frank: Yes, absolutely. 

Dave: So, it's just, it's it's it's something that's a very simple concept, right, but it's very difficult to put into action and understand because we have this concept of serving and helping and providing value to the marketplace is oftentimes difficult for us to do at the beginning because we're not used to being teachers, or, or people who are speaking and sharing. So how did you develop your voice, to be able to feel confident enough, even when you were starting with little to no results to go out there and deliver value in teaching and share, and ultimately it started tracking sales to you.

Frank: Okay, so when I, when I first came online, like I said before I've been through like a little personal development journey. And the thing is, I mean, I just felt like I was gone, my life was over. And like these principles, skills and principles that I'd started learning had literally saved me, so I had supreme faith in their effectiveness. Right. It's just to get confident on video, I mean, obviously my first videos were horrible. I'm still not the best on video. But it's just doing it, you know, over and over and over and over again, I mean, The more you do it the more comfortable you're going to get, and you know obviously the more comfortable that you get, the better the videos are going to be. So it did for me it was really just doing it over and over again, you know, I'm still not super confident on video, you know, but I just, I just had to put it in my head. You know, one thing that stops a lot of people is they got to put their makeup on do their hair set up the screen and all of these different things, and all of that, doesn't matter hardly at all you know and that's what we'll keep doing it so you know just turning on the camera and talking into it over and over again, you know, that's what I did for me, I'm still working I feel I'm not a great teacher, you know, I know a lot of stuff, but I'm getting better at making it clear, and, you know, being able to explain it to people, but I'm not super great at that. Which is why I love you guys so much because I don't have to be great at that, you know.

Dave: Yeah. So, I do agree that one of the biggest things is people. If people have a challenge with it, you know, feeling like they have to look their best, if they're going to do a video look their best eye. It's like, it's so difficult to convince somebody that they don't have to look their best to do a video. 

Frank: That’s not what people want to see. People want to see the opposite. People want to see you in your messy buns sweatpants, you know, struggling to make your coffee or whatever it is you know that's what people actually want to see. And I think understanding that can be a big help when it comes to making videos like people don't want to see a mess, most of the time don't want to look like a professional. You know the studio and some guy that knows exactly what he's talking about now they want to see a real human that they can relate to. And that's what keeps people watching you know, unless they really want ultimately

Dave: I think that’s hard for people to believe though. People, for whatever reason, that they, what you just said is absolutely true, but for some reason that's really difficult for people to believe out themselves, that people actually want to see me in my basketball shorts, but basically just had rolled out of bed. Why can you explain a little bit more why you think that people why you, why do you keep Why would people rather see somebody who looks just like they rolled out of bed versus somebody who is all perfect and talking perfect and never stumbling like, what is it, is it the believability, is that people actually are less skeptical of that I mean, why do you think that that raw shit is more effective?

Frank: Um, because there's so much fakeness in the world I think people really crave something that's real, you know what I mean like, especially like if you go online and you look on Instagram, everybody has a Lamborghini and 10 grand and the prettiest girls, you know, and that's not real life, and I think people are just tired of that you know they can't, they can't relate to it. They think it would never happen for them. You know, so I think just, just being relatable being a real human.

Dave: Well I'll tell you, I went through that evolution myself, man, I mean, there was a time, and I don't know. I don't know what I'm trying to think about, like really what changed in me. Maybe it was that I, I started having so much less time, like when you have babies and stuff crawling around at the house you literally have less time to worry about all that shit. The, the, you know I think getting older, I think, helps for whatever reason you just care what people think less. Although I do find a lot of people in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s who still really struggle getting on camera and thinking that they have to look their best. But, but I think ultimately what it was freeing for me is that I just did a lot of personal development work I did some therapy, I, I can I've been in recovery for 12 years, working on myself, and, and I think just learning to love myself, you know, we had Chris on from Maryland, who has a facial disability and can't smile, yet he's still building his business having fun and living life to the best of his ability, and doing it in a beautiful way. And, and he talked about last week, just the biggest thing that's been impactful for him is just learning to love himself, and just do self care, you know, take care of himself off camera, eat right, you know get sleep, really, there was a time in my life to where this was this was about. This was like before. This was about five years ago or something where my wife and I were going through a challenge. It was when we had our own five year old, and we're going through a tough time in our marriage. And we had separated for a period of time and I was living in a little house that I rented. It was just nearby, and I would walk around my house and I would just say self care self care self care. You know, I literally would just that would be a month or that I would say. And it was during that time that I really learned how to take care of myself, especially because I didn't have my wife or a woman there. My mom, whoever takes care of me, you know what I mean. And, and I think that I know I'm rambling a little bit about this but I think the reason why I'm saying this is for everybody who's listening is, is, is learning how to love yourself and take care of yourself, nurture yourself, treat yourself like a king or queen when you're not on camera makes you feel more confident to just be who you are. We got to have to dolled up and comb your hair with a perfect part and look all the park, learning to love yourself and accept yourself for who you are, which is a 24 hour job right, but it's the notion, it's the most rewarding job, and it really helps with confidence in feeling comfortable in your own skin. When you're on camera, you agree with that frame.

Frank: Oh yeah 100% That was actually one of the biggest things and I don't want to go into it too deep, but like, that was one of the biggest shifts, is when I was sitting all by myself in the jail cell, and I was reading this book and, like, I just realized that I had this inner child inside of me that nobody had taken care of. Ever. Okay. I decided that day, I decided that day that I was going to take care of that little kid right, and that was really the moment that everything started, you know I didn't happen overnight. It still hasn't happened again whatever but you know that's when it started for me like that moment I'll remember it, you know, was you have to decide who to take care of that will get in, you know, I'm not perfect, I don't take care of them sometimes but I started getting better from them, you know and I focused on it and like anything else you know like once you become aware of it and can focus on it, and put your energy into it, you know, you can start to fix it or whatever. 

Dave: How many of you guys can relate to what we're saying? Nicole or, excuse me. Yes, Nicole. Nicole said self care is absolutely needed. I literally just learned the hard way 26 years of dedication and nothing but my kids, family finally hit rock bottom. Like, guys and gals. Listen, I was in treatment, carrying around a teddy bear that I had to go to Build a Bear, like, you want to talk about. This is not some shit that, that men talk about in, in, in society, but let me tell you something. We need to talk about it. We need to talk about it, right, because I don't know about you but I'm sitting around, like some Neanderthal man carved a wheel, I mean I'm not, you know I'm not chasing after saber toothed tigers. You know what I mean, I mean I'm trying to be an emotional man raise my family, teach my son how to deal with his feelings, trying to be able to deal with people within our team who are having different things going on in their lives, conflict resolution, I mean, my emotional self is a huge part of what drives me and who I am. And yeah, I was in treatment and want to build a barrel like this is the job niche ship. This is an animal's left dude, this was many years ago but almost left I was like, this is the most emasculating shit I've ever done. Right. And, and, yeah, I carried it around in this building dude, it's actually still got it at my house, and it was my little boy. I realized the exact same thing is that I love my parents. My parents are still alive, they're, they're there, they did the absolute best that they could, but there was a lot of things that I didn't get that I needed that I made, and have made the decision that I'm going to be the one who's going to give me those things now. And I'm gonna seek out the people who also can help to, you know, to nurture those things within me, and I also in creating corrective experiences for myself and my little boy inside through fathering my son. So, Man, I tell you, this is the shit man that you wonder how people can get on camera and feel comfortable with themselves. Sure, I mean you can fake it till you make it, I mean you can force it, until, you know, you break but the way to do it, which is sustainable and really will create not just income but also happiness, that help you to feel more comfortable in your own skin, is to look at this business not like it's just numbers not like you're you're counting, you know the marbles, you know you're not, you're not. This is not just dollars and cents. This is a journey of growth. And the more that you grow, the more money you will make. That's my wholehearted belief, I've realized that I've seen that to be true. And I'll never stop preaching that message, I just want to thank you for being so willing to be so, like, transparent and authentic, because that's what makes I think our community great is that we have people like you who are willing to say this is who I am, this is the real journey this is really what happened. And this is why I'm where I'm at right now, regardless of my past. Your past is beautiful, and it's taken you to go through those experiences to be where you're at right now and I just want to remind everybody who's listening that you've all been through, like experiences that you might initially be ashamed of or society has changed you for going through those experiences. Right. But what I find is that society as a whole is just more of that in which is giving me things that I don't need right kind of like that I didn't get what I needed as, as some of the things I did when I was a kid, society as a whole, most people are shaming and blaming and will do anything to make you feel like shit about your life and what you've been through. And so it takes a real focus to cut that stuff out and say, Look, actually. Actually, all the shit that I've been through, has brought me to this exact place in life, to give me the exact experience that I have, and I can turn all that experience that mess into a message. 

Frank: Yeah, absolutely. 

Dave: So, well, what final words would you give to somebody who's just contemplating they're in contemplation mode, and they, you know, I know there's so many people who got started. Three months ago, six months ago, a year ago, and are just kind of getting ready for that perfect time to get ready. What would you say to those people, Frank?

Frank: Well, you know, it's like one of my mentors told me the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, you know, you missed that boat, but the next best time is right now. So, you know, stop, you know, contemplating start moving towards it, you know, even the little step, you know, and doing now, you know, I mean that's just do it now, and don't just do it like do it tomorrow, the next day, you know, just keep doing it, but you gotta start, you know, yeah. 

Dave: Yes you do, you do have to start at one place that you can start by connecting with the frame, we've got this tip top profile up here, I'll leave that up for the remainder as I close out the show. Dude, I want to thank you man, for once again, an amazing show, an amazing conversation, keep up the fantastic work brother. If there's anything I can do for you let me know and maybe we can have you back for a third time in the future.

Frank: All right, Man sounds good, I appreciate you having me on. 

Dave: Alright Frank I will talk to you later brother thanks man. 

Frank: All right, man. Have a good day.

Dave: There it is. Go give Frank a follow that guy's, like a real inspiration in my eyes, you know somebody who's not afraid to look at their past and look what they meant, embrace it, use it as good, instead of as a way to feel bad because we all have a choice and can make the choice to take the past, and continue to pile on shame and guilt about decisions that we miss made or failures, whatever we can continue to pile on the guilt and shame. And we can allow others to pile on the guilt and shame and hold it against us but ultimately I know that we hold things against us, even more so than anybody ever would. And quite frankly, if anybody treated us the way that we treat ourselves, we'd probably beat her ass. That's a whole nother conversation here's my point is that you can take, similarly to how Frank has all the struggles and challenges, and mistakes and failures and bad decisions in today, turn on all those struggles, into strength. It's a simple decision, and how you drive that decision, home and forward is is that you say, I am going to take all my life experience and everything that I've been through, and I'm going to use it to inspire people and I think, losing to make the positive impact, and I'm gonna use the stories. In the end, to my marketing messages. Use them as analogies and use them as forms of entertainment in ways to keep people engaged. And I'm going to make the best out of my life which is this wild pot of potion with all kinds of different ups and downs, and I want to turn all that mess into a message, and that's, that's a decision that is literally a decision that we all get to make every single day is do I want to sit in my shit, or do I want to pick my shit up. Right. And, and, and turn it into a wonderful creation, right and mold it into literally I'm envisioning holding an actual pile of poop, but into a wonderful beautiful creation. And you know what the beautiful thing is we each get to make that decision every day. And I would just invite you if you haven't made that decision to make it for the first time, and watch and see how powerful it is, how impactful it is to have that shift, and to drop that bag of rocks that you've been carrying around. Right, I know that many of us carry around that big bag of rocks. And it's such a beautiful thing to take those rocks ship them down into little stones and just turn them into little things that I can fire out into the universe as pieces of content and value and stories that help people, and then you'll be amazed when people start giving you feedback like and it's really inspiring and thank you so much for helping wow I love listening to your stuff or reading your emails. That's when you become addicted to turning that message into a message. So, my friends, have a great week. Get out of here, do something great today, be Legendary. We'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode.

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Dave: What is going on my friends, this is Dave Sharpe welcome to Wake Up Legendary, we have another awesome episode in another awesome guest who's going to be talking about how she used, coming into Legendary Marketer used our training used our business blueprints to build up her business, which is a side business doesn't doesn't even feel like work to her. And it has grown to 30,000 followers in three months, and we're going to learn exactly how she's done that so all the way from Spain, everybody helped me welcome Ada to the show. How are you doing, Ada?

Ada: I’m good thank you for welcoming me onto the show.

Dave: You're very welcome. You're very welcome. So, is Spain your, is that your homeland is that where you were born and raised and you currently live, are you just visiting there? Look, tell us, tell us, tell us kind of your, your background a little bit.

Ada: Yes, yes. Okay, so I'm actually from Venezuela, and I was born in Venezuela and I have been living in Ireland for the last decade. And at the moment, I sense working remotely so I came to work from Spain for a little bit for a couple of days together with a little bit of someone and worked on it for a little bit of some time. I'm actually just going back to Ireland soon. But yeah, so, I'm from South America.

Dave: Nice, nice. So, you've done a lot of things and you had a food truck in 2019. You, you, you launched an online international student abroad agency in January 2020 You were trading also in the stock market in 2020. And, and then doing some freelancing jobs you started network marketing. Also I mean you're, you're kind of all over the place doing lots of different things. Now, you're doing some affiliate marketing, tell us, what led you ultimately to finding  Legendary Marketer.

Ada: Yes, well I was basically trying to define, send them as the same process I was trying to look for different things I was also trying to find the current streaming thing, because I know that I'm an immigrant only child I have to take care of my family and I knew that, which only one, one job like a knife I was not going to be able to create everything so I have to start from zero, and so I have been doing like opening events and so I have been trying to do different online events, plus the, the fans, look at reading aloud, listening podcast is checking what people is talking about. And this doesn't have anything to do with something really really interesting, it's actually really interesting to learn something was not my thing at all like I just, like, end up like hate and it's just been so many hours we've got a computer every day, and a food truck was actually pretty good. She was very entertaining. It was really funny, but it was so much work so it's just laid back, there's no way in every food truck or a restaurant, it has to be there if we wanted to make it work. And with a pandemic, I was like, Look, I'm going to go online, I'm going to study abroad because I have been working in the industry for seven years. I know how everything works, and. But what's not expected, and then to come after being working for like seven months failed in the company and the agency and everything I invested as well like all the money that I made. And then they sent me, and I had to basically shut down the company so all the effort that I have made on time to maintain it was like. So I ended up doing delivery, so I was just using my card and delivery just kept listening and stuff was trying to find out a way to do it. So then destroy it online, I can't. No other somebody on TikTok, actually was a friend that sent me a tic tock on like look, maybe you can try to an affiliate marketing, I was like,

man I have tried everything, and I was never negative. Everyone I was like, I was like a little you're ready like a join.

And then your marketing isn't working, but it looks, it looks like it's going to work but I don't think this is going to make the thing that actually I want to be at it's not going to give me a lip. So I just decided to give it a try, and I found like literally I found like the answers of all the stuff that I have been looking around for first couple of years view so, because I have been working on digital marketing and I know I know but you can make money in mind that you need to learn just the right way to do it. I was just struggling to define. Gosh, way to do it, and it was kind of, you know what I got when I was like, oh gosh, she can actually do this. It was like it actually started blowing my mind when I started understanding. I was working. So, this has been the way. And also, I was also very dressed. Last year, because it actually happened together. When they condemned kids, and my mom was going through chemotherapy, and I couldn't, I didn't have time to take care of my mom. On Friday. I was laid off from my job, I had to close a company and everything just came together. I was like, this is something that I have to do, it's not just for fun. It's just that I have to do it because my life depended on it, my mom's life depends on gosh my family life depends on that. So I knew that it was, it was a way of finding the way, what's actually much. Actually, I still have this insight, I found everything.

Dave: So I gotta ask, How's mom doing? 

Ada: Mom is doing pretty good thing gosh she went through a very very hard chemo, and it was very intense, but they like she's amazing. I actually sent the link and I was like, Mom, I’m going live.

Dave: Hi mom. That's great, that's great. Well I'm sure she's incredibly proud of you. You said You're her only child right so I'm sure that your her absolute pride in jewelry, and I'm sure she's, she's incredibly proud of who you are and just, you know, you remind me a lot of of my youngest daughter who is my, my daughter, my five year old daughter, who is also very driven. And, and, and just just never quit, you know, and I think that's part of a lot of people's early, early entrepreneur journey. And I think that when our family members sometimes they're looking at us, and they're seeing us trying all kinds of different things, and they're like, What do you do?” Really, why not just get a real job. I mean, you know, they, they, it's hard to understand it because they're not actually not supporting us, they just don't, they just don't understand what we're doing and that's okay. But then when we finally get it, when we finally nail it, when we finally start succeeding. It's, it's, you know, it's such a reason to celebrate. I know for me, and, and, like you said one of my greatest joys, has actually been able to turn around and do things for my family, whether it was spent more time with them, be home with them, whether it was to be able to do things for them financially, whether it was to never let my parents pay for a meal around me, whatever it was, you know you've probably seen the video or videos of me giving my dad cars and houses in my mob cars and all this kind of stuff. It feels really good. And I think that's one of the things that's become one of my higher purposes, for being an entrepreneur and striving to make more money. It's not just because I'm ingredient want to just get rich, it's because a poor person financially poor can't do things for other people. Now you can be there, but more resources equals more opportunities to be able to help and serve people. And it sounds like that's a bit of your motivation, as well, just, that's my particular way I would word it. Does that, does that resonate with you?

Ada: Yeah, yeah, totally 100% And those are things so since, like, energy there a lot of prices and stuff, but all my family have been integrated, and we, it was not something that we choose to do but we have to do. So, it was something that we had to do. And since then I have been leaving a road as well. I was the first one to integrate and it was that I had to start supporting and it was, it was a little bits, and I grew up in a very, very nice family like I had a really nice holiday, it was all, all the time, really good. And since some time where I couldn't, we wouldn't be able to do the same things anymore, and I started realizing that they are like needing more, they need more support. They were in different countries all over the place. At the moment, and, and it was just that it was just like, I can't get the support I can tell you that I love you every single day. But it's not just that. I want to be able to really help. And Steve, it has been, like, a way to motivate them to do other stuff. I haven't been like, teaching them, like, look what I'm doing and this is something that actually you can do it as well. So I have been trying to teach her and she's like, really happy, and even, you know, my cousins or family that are in different places it's just to give them more fans, not only love. But being been able to support them financially and teach them what I'm learning, which is, I think, I think, teaching them something that it's going to they're going to take their life is as great, and this is something that it has been driving me forward on this journey, because I just find out that I love teaching lessons, and it's just making it so easy. It's been just mind blowing pretty fast and pretty easy. Whenever you start talking, because I enjoy, and I take it as a hobby, not as much like I'm literally working on this activity to be something that I love doing on something that I know that it's, you know, it's going to help them doing something better for them for themselves and their life. So that's, that's present with you.

Dave: I, I'm just, I'm sort of taken aback right now because I'm thinking about. For example, how many people in America, you know, think that, you know, our lives, live just, it's, we have such a different experience because we didn't grow up in the type of crisis that many people in other countries for example Venezuela grew up in, and the opportunity here in America is quite frankly, I would say so much more abundant than, then other, other countries, particularly like Venezuela and to hear you. A young, intelligent, you know, full of life and energy woman who is, has, has fled, you know, immigrated away from your country into, into your other family all over the world. And it's, it's, You've got not just this survival mindset, but you've got this mindset to thrive. And, and, and to, to give back and to teach your family and other people that you knew and grew up with these skill sets. It's spiritual. It's, It's, it's, I mean it's just, I don't know, it's something that I, it gives me just a wonderful dose of wonderful gratitude and inspiration this morning to envision what your life has been like what it what it is like the connections that you have to other people in your country, who are may feel hopeless or it just to just to show them it's kind of like, give a person a fish they eat for a day teach a person how to fish, They eat for a lifetime. And then you're using all this work that you've put in to. Now, landing on digital marketing the internet is huge opportunity, and you're using that to, not just give family, a fish, but to teach, friends and family and of course, people online I mean anybody who's really willing to listen right because what we learn and what we realize is that the more value we give, the more valuable we become and the more value we get, that's a great example if you're wondering what giving value its folks, the more value we give out the more value, we become how much knowledge we acquire and then how we can turn that knowledge into teaching it to other people, the more we will prosper. The more we will make, the more abundance we will have, and I'm just I'm so inspired that you come from, and I hear that you had a great childhood but you come from a place in a country that right now is really, it would you agree there's not a lot of hope there for a lot of people, is that accurate to say?

Ada: Yes. Yeah, no, the people are just hopeless because people, they don't, they don't say no, something else says there have been so many years. It's really sad because a lot of people don't even know that they see the world outside, and there's so many other fans and there's so many opportunities outside and. And it's not only, like, you know, it's not only Venezuela, there's so many countries as well. And, you know, it's hard to think that we have a world of opportunity. That's even me so many things online if you just, you know, if you want to learn because one thing is one to learn a lot of people just like they just do another completely hopeless, and you know there's nothing you can do but if people really want to go forward. They live. And I know that people there, a lot of people that relate in some way, a different country, say like, look, I live, so it's possible outside or not in the country that know what is happening here and I know there's a lot of people that there's more people and more people around, doing this, and you don't need. You don't need many fans. To start, I'm really happy when I see people like text me and people from many other different countries. I just found out that it's so powerful, which you can do using the internet, a good one to do good. And so one thing that I always talk about as well as a term they read on the side, I love it, and it's for elevation. So if I help you, you know we are all going to cooperate with each other, we're going to grow with each other. So, you've been part of a community that wants to grow together, so I will have you on this with what is happening as well and we will have somebody else. That's going to keep blowing and basically just sharing information, and I think it's silent information. And that's why I think it's, this is how it became so say for me to maybe start growing my account on TikTok, it was just for my art like this is something that I really actually work and and I just want to kick people off today and I am completely honest, I'm not lying. I'm not showing any expensive cars or anything like that. This is trying on my face and talking about the things that go on isn't the same as if I'm talking to one of my friends, easier to talk to them than to talk to a lot of people that it's actually interested in what you're doing. But I'm giving hope to people. There's no one else and I'm like no, no, yeah, they're, they're more, you can do way more, more than that.

Dave: Well I was thinking about when you were talking about when you were when you're given us more detail about some of the mindset that a lot of people in your home country Venezuela have. And, you know, feelings of hopelessness or like there's nothing else out there but you know, there's also a lot of people here in America think that same way, that's the interesting thing about it is that we all we all are limited by buy, how we think and how we see the world. And that's why there's so many people who live in the richest, most abundant country, you know, the United States of America. At least that's what some people say I don't know. I don't know if it's the richest and most abundant. I just know there's a lot of opportunity here, but there's still a lot of people, there's still a lot of people who feel hopeless, who feel like there's no opportunity, who feel like they're who are just negative all the time. And, you know, it's just, it's interesting that you don't just have to be from a country that's being torn in a crisis, to feel hopeless at anyone. As matter of fact, How many of you guys out of the many of you who are watching this live right now have felt like that, even if you've lived here in the United States, I know I have. Because when you grow up with opportunity around you, no matter if the opportunity is big or small, whatever. Sometimes we just get desensitized to it. And I think we should stop dreaming. And we, you know, remember when you were a kid, you know you're just, I watched my daughter and she pretends she plays, she trains, anything is possible and over the years that gets kind of smothered. And I feel like one of the biggest challenges that we have as new entrepreneurs is learning how to dream again. It's learning how to allow somebody to give us hope. It's, it's, it's, unclogging our creative channels and learning, thinking for ourselves, learning to, as you say, just be our authentic self, when you're creating content, the greatest gift that you have is just your beautiful, wonderful authentic self. It's just your honest self, and you say that that's kind of your secret right over the course of the last few months as you've grown your accounts and you're building your business. It's just sharing authentically what you're learning and what others elaborate on that and tell us what other secrets or strategies you're using that are working. 

Ada: Yeah, so basically when I start. And I think this is a problem that a lot of people would have when they are there. I would say,  No, but we weren't talking at the beginning, like, Okay, why don't you find a job, like, I know. So, since I opened my account, you can see the difference between the last video and the first one is completely, you know, very elaborate. I was talking about various great hash screens. Straight, I know what I'm going to do I'm going to say, Amina. Maurice me when I started when asked more often. And then at some point a resource was actually talking to me and I was like okay, let's talk to people. And one thing that I found is that, I just started creating conversation and people. People are replying to the team tags that I'm posting and getting back to them and then they probably just send another text and then I just reply. Some of them have been like, oh my god I can't believe that you're answering all this, like, yeah, let me just take some time but I do, I answer. I do want to have a presence. I think that's been so personal with toddlers it's actually it really just takes a little bit more time, but it's not, they're just looking at what you're posting, but if you get back to them that personalization. That's, that's, I would just say that much of being human. So it's not somebody just recently talking to somebody that you're scrolling down on your phone, it's somebody that is actually talking to you and answering your questions you're asking how and I'm telling you how to ask him when they have no idea what I'm talking about. No worries, I will explain to you. So, after I started getting a little bit more confident in front of the camera. I started doing life, and I realize that nobody like me has just people doing life but it was like, I guess this is how we'll start. And, then I started going live more often. And like every Sunday evening, I was doing like every Sunday and I was like well let's try on a Monday morning, and then I just realized there were a lot of people going live on Monday morning because it was my morning how to get there. And so as people from, from Australia, from the Philippines, from Indonesia, and I'd like this just like your meeting, and we get into a conversation, as we're doing here. And it's amazing because it's also using this because you're setting in a certain location, you're going to get people that is leaving their location, and that's not that there was what I thought about the algorithm, but it's actually know people from all over the world, that though, goes in line on this checklist you're posing. And I was also, and I keep being very surprised at the feedback as well, of people that really really want to learn. And they're willing to learn something new, they're willing to leave what you're talking about. They're willing to share information. Since I fell off. There were more people who wanted to talk, I opened up a Facebook group, and, and then I am trying to create this validation group of people that want to learn, and keep helping each other on the way, and sharing valuable information and also going to be 100% Honest, I also go into like polls. And listen to other, you know, other people's experiences. What is the word for them so maybe it would work for me. And the fact that having issues, testing user testing based testing their untested wash, not what other people are doing but what I'm just, I feel comfortable with, and the things that work, are things that made me feel comfortable with doing what I'm saying with who I am, and all of that, and to be myself. Be very personal with people, talk to people on sounds like it's not just them talking to the camera but actually referring to people.

Be very honest with any questions that they may like to relate to. So, these are the things that have really worked for me. I know some people will say, “Look, how can you be answering every single moment? They get their comments that people are actually asking me how to do this and say bye to them. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if they're like 1000 or 2000 comments that he had and why. As soon as that sense of like yeah, somebody's saying that you're talking about this to the camera and you're actually talking to people, somebody is actually listening to what you're saying, and you're listening to them. So I think that it has been. It has also helped me a lot to create content, because it's basically I'm answering their questions and more content. If they have a question so yes reply with more content on there, more. So it has been getting like it easier and easier to live into the tick tock, to create a Facebook group and create Instagram accounts, and it has also been very fast, because all the accounts that I have been grown have been all organic, as I said at the beginning, I took this as a hobby and I was like, I know I have to create this. You know most of the best fit my mindset. I was as well like I don't want to get super stressed, if this, you know, if it doesn't work because I have so many events. So, I'm having so much fun I'm really enjoying what I'm doing and use in, you know, I have also been getting like really good feedback from followers, people so it feels even even more comfortable to talk about it, and it feels good, because people say like look, it's actually helping me, I'm very happy like, can you help me a little bit more. Can you give me some good advice? And what I'm saying is literally what I have been doing and things that I've been working on. It has also been my experience and I'm sharing as well my experience of all the work before I get them to not worry, so I think those are the most valuable things that I can do. They honestly, like, you know you already traded, it doesn't mean that if it didn't work for me it's not going to work for you but I'm just giving my experience, and all those pieces of information I can they're very very battle, and more than being a superstar and pen or being like green screen I'm amazing videos it's just been like, 100%, and willing to help. We need to help, because, you know, maybe a lot of people will also be related or will be feeling the same, the same way that I have been feeling hopeless, sometimes, like, they don't know where to go, What to do next. And we have articles like this secret that I have been wanting to bash, I know that I opened an Instagram account, and just go into the new Instagram accounts, but I don't feel bad anymore, is not, I'm not ashamed of what I'm doing, I'm not. I am not worried. Any comments on anything, if some, somebody says I'm not appealing. And I'm happy because when I converse, I forget what I'm doing, how I'm doing. That's why I'm doing it. Yeah, so this is just the best month I have been teaching this myself, I have been learning a lot. Myself, your year or whatever, because it's, it made me happy.

Ada: Well, you, you sound happy, what you're saying, matches what I'm seeing. And that's really important because I think people. What you said a second ago you said, I'm, I really hone in and focus on what I am comfortable with. And that is really, I think something that we don't talk about enough, is that there's lots of strategies that you can buy. But if it's, if it's really hard or you're not comfortable doing it, or it's it doesn't feel right, You know, like, you don't feel comfortable in your skin doing it for an extended period of time, I'm not talking about just the awkwardness of shooting your first video, everybody's going to be uncomfortable doing that, but I'm talking about the people are the most beautiful selves and their most confident selves, when they're doing something that they love doing that feels comfortable to them. And if you ask anybody who's really successful, they'll tell you that their work doesn't feel like work. Their work doesn't feel like work. They're having a lot of fun. I mean for me. I'll tell you. I love what I do, I mean, I'm not gonna say every single minute of every single day, I'm like, Oh, I'm so grateful. But I mean, I love what I do, I mean, it's, I'm comfortable doing it, I now pick, I mean I do these lives and you saw just come on 15 seconds before we go live, I just, let's go live, let's talk, let's, let's there, I got nothing to hide. I got no there's nothing that I, I'm not trying to trick anybody there's no, it's all just I like doing this and I have fun doing this and I think that comes across to people, I mean I don't know I, I would assume it does. But anyways, I just wanted to comment on that because I thought that was really powerful. One of the things that I also wanted to say was that I know you've been your blue business blueprint students of ours here at legendary, and you've used the training. You've come in, you've showed up to the Thursday coaching calls you've, you've gone through the training you've implemented, and it's so interesting now, you are out there, delivering value you're confident, you have lots of foundational information to be able to share with people. In other words, you're now becoming your, you know, you're, you're, you're becoming a great person of value you're becoming a great leader and teacher, you're, you're stepping into your power there. But you also were not afraid to be a listener, a learner, a student. Can you talk to us about what that experience has been like for you learning here and showing up with, even though you've done going up with, with an empty cup ready to learn.

Ada: Yes, I have to say I love learning. I love learning, and I have. The thing about being learning. being able to start implementing stuff. It has been even more equal. So my theory is like hey like every Thursday. I'm going to live, because I have to be bigger. I have to tear like I'm learning and keep learning. I don't think it's something that I can say that I learned everything because I don't think so. I just, I'm just starting. Gosh, that there is so much information like this and the fact that I can have, like, the step by step so the good stuff. And I have been doing everything from zero and then we don't have a lot of experience just because I have all the information step by step and somebody that is guidance on the basics, has been amazing. And there appears to be information as well on the cause, on Thursdays. They have helped me so much with everything. There's really no, everything is changing, and Facebook, the algorithm and everything is changing. This stuff is on Facebook for three months, when you open it again. So if you're not, if you're not on, like, like, like you have no life and internet since I started doing know that. I thought, that's actually pretty easy. I can sort of do this and I need to work on them. But it took us a lot of time to learn step by step. And the magic. the blueprints, like what do you want to do after that, what is the first affiliate after the rest of the training and the training, the best then. I have learned issues that you can count on people like this, something that I really, I really like and really not. It's just the community. As you and Matt that are around helping us, are answering any questions you know I have hashtag issues, online and sent in and we just get back to me or it's been Thursday. And I thought it was the end of the world this morning. So the experience of having a community and having somebody to backfill. This already has experience and the knowledge to tell you everything I know the best thing to have. And, like I have, I have paid famous before and because, is this just the best thing that I have ever lived within that has worked for me. Also, interested in as well to see how people have been drawing on the way. And the way we show it, and then the way we can help them on the way that they want to arrive first, and they can help you. So that's enough of a community there. That's not only just the training that she can, like, alerts you know, whenever, like when my hair or something I keep the videos, Bob's also the, he calls it military Haven. Whenever we're gonna need to do some tic tac, what can I do? Somebody already went to help, and I think it was a BMW. The community is the bandits you know I love the most. And it has helped. Also, like so many things are ready to record. So, it hasn't happened to you, probably. Probably somebody went through that already. And there is a way to go through the information on that duathlon's answer. And it is asked, and somebody is going to get back to you and get back to me, and maybe because the series, which was the thing that happened to me before and they pay very expensive paintings and then nobody has to or like, they don't worry. You know, I don't have a product, I don't have a company. And the fact that you can do everything from zero.

People will be 100% When I'm talking to myself, let's help each other. Let's grow together, because together we're stronger. It's the thing that I really love the most, and the blueprint is just amazing.

Dave: Yeah, well, you're somebody who, you know, bought the training in a muted. And the reason why I'm saying that is because so many of us buy gym memberships and never go to the gym, you know, so many of us are information hoarders. You know, we're information junkies, we listen, we attend webinars. I mean there's, there's probably a lot of us on this call right now, if we're honest, bought in the past, right, have bought a course, and literally five minutes after buying the course you're back on Facebook scrolling, as if you're, you're looking for the next kind of hit. It reminds me a lot of addiction, you know, because when, in many respects we get addicted to the chase, we get addicted to the fantasy that we're going to find the magic secret. And so once we buy something, you know, it's kind of like buying a new watch or a new purse or a new pair of shoes. You know, it's like, there's so much fun and searching, shopping, and all this kind of stuff. And then you get it home and you're kind of looking at it and sitting there and you're kind of like, Alright, what's next, you know what I mean, like it's just human nature, it's not that we don't enjoy what we buy. But there's a, there's a, if we understand this about ourselves. If we understand this about ourselves, we can learn to train our brain to be more disciplined, that when we buy something, for example, those of you who have bought the blueprints are considering buying the blueprints to actually use that to come on the live trainings to be resourceful and realize that if you have a question. You're right, it's probably already been answered on a previous training. And as all you have to do is go to the life page where all the training recordings are and I'm not talking about the main course I'm talking about just the Thursday blueprint coaching calls, and just do a little keyword search command F, just type in some keywords email bridge page funnel, and just see if there's something versus back on Facebook, back on wherever scrolling looking for the solution. I tell people that everything you need to know to make your first million dollars, and more, and beyond is right here. It's right here. It's right within this community, it's right within this training. It's all here. It's just a matter of how much do you want to squeeze, how much juice do you want to squeeze out of this piece of fruit, or are you the type of person that wants to take a little nibble here and then go chase another piece. Take a little nibble here and go chase another piece of fruit, right, that's, that's human nature that's okay, I understand that I get that right. But there's, there's a lot of benefits to when you find a fruitful tree to sit there in take the piece of fruit off in in squeeze every last drop out of it. In a gracious and exciting way. One of the things that I really love about you from just talking to you here for almost an hour now we'll wrap it up here in just a moment, is just the attitude that you have and I just would like to finish with that because you're from a country that's in crisis, and even though you had a wonderful family. Hi mom if she's still watching. There's no doubt that you grew up around a lot of hardship, and a lot of crisis, and in a, in many respects. For many people, a hopeless environment, you, you also,

As many people do when you buy something you could very easily come in and just had kind of an attitude of entitlement when you bought something like, alright, I paid the money now. Why, why, Why am I not rich again, the train must be a scam. It also, the third thing is that after all of the things that you tried before this, the network marketing and the food truck in the academy, some of the more successful stuff before, but you still started this is where one after all of that, all of your life has been a just an event after event from literally childhood of overcoming obstacles, and you have a million reasons to be negative. And you have a million reasons probably just like others that you could find to look at life and just look around you and just, you know, see things as glass half empty. What, talk to us and leave us with just a few words about how can we find more gratitude, like, how can we how can we improve our attitude like, how can we harness the passion that you have for life and for this business, and just the overall positive attitude that you have, How can we give us a hook shot before we wrap this up.

Ada: Yeah. Well, I think that there's nothing better than helping people. And if you're not doing this for you, because that's the first person that you have to care for this affirmative for yourself and be better for yourself, like, be the best you that you can be, just do it for the rest of the people that are around you never know who can be held. Just by chairing the thought of information motivates somebody else, just by being given to somebody is by saying good morning and I looked, and, if you want to just, there are a lot of bad things in the world. But it does mean that you have to be far apart. It doesn't matter where you are in the world. It can be that good a good person. And the best part of yourself for the rest of people that are sick, and just don't do it for money, don't have any money but for the best things that you can do with the money that you're going to make you know it's not for you. This is the rest of the people that you're going to help. But Magennis. The best part is, find the motivation there. Can't help, I can't hear you.

Dave: Sorry I was muted there, you know, see I still have, I still have a technical challenge there on my side as well. I'm actually quite good, I'm actually quite a technical klutz. I have a hard time sometimes turning on my computer but it's not stopped me from business online. What I was saying was, I'm sure mom is watching and, you know, and obviously so are many other people, hundreds today or I don't know, maybe 1000s You know people jump on and off and. And then many will catch the replay and then listen to the podcast, but, that one person that's most special to you, who was probably listening was mom who just went through this intense chemo treatment and is a lawyer and is coming out on the other side. I'm sure that she is so proud. And, and I know if I was her I would be. And so, thank you for your time today. Thank you for putting in all the work that you have so you could come on and share it with us. It's not just, you know, you're making it look easy but we all know that it's not easy. It takes a lot of work so thank you for doing that work. And thank you for being an inspiration, not just to us but also thank you for inspiring us with this attitude. you are sharing this information with people that may feel hopeless right now, not who may not even be on TikTok scrolling and just find you but actual friends and family. You know, we sometimes get this attitude like, Well, my friends and family don't support me and so I'm just going to go, you know, focus on the internet people and, well, maybe they're just so hopeless, that it's not all about you. Maybe they're just feeling hopeless about life and you're that one person in their life. That, that, if you continue to build in you continue to grow that you'll become an inspiration to them. I know that's happened in my life, and I can see that that's happening in yours, and it really looks really good on you. So keep up the great work. All right. Please come back soon. And please get out and please get on Instagram reels too because that's the next hot place that's blowing up right now. All right,

It started out this week already. 

Ada: Alright, thank you very much. 

Dave: You’re very welcome. Thank you. We'll talk to you later. All right my friends are not just, I mean, listen Please, find, find another way that has the type of students and people that we do here at legendary, I just income, constantly overwhelmed. Constantly overjoyed and constantly motivated and inspired by the shows every morning, I'm the one who benefits the most. I know some of you guys watch this religiously every day. But you know, I feel grateful because I'm, I'm benefiting so much from being inspired in learning, and in hearing the stories from people around the world, you know, I know a lot of you guys think that all well this is a great strategy for Dave and legendary marketer to do these shows every day they get to showcase students who are using the training and students who are getting results and clients in the community and 50. But you know what my dirty little secret is you don't my dirty, dirty, dirty little secret is, is that these actually have these actually helped me every day. Please help me stay inspired, they helped me get excited, they helped me stay closely in touch with my, with, with people who are in this industry people that watch the sales video or were scrolling on TikTok, and who were at one time, just a prospect just somebody who has a lead. Right. But they turn into customers, and I get to talk to them and I get to listen to them and I get to be inspired by them and I get to learn about how they think. And I get to make friends. So here's, and this goes a little bit about, you know, to what he said as far as doing this until you love it. Do what you're doing here to love it. It may feel like a job, it may feel like hard work, it may feel uncomfortable for doing it until you love it, keep doing it until it benefits you so much that you want to do it you need to do it, you need to do it because you want to plug in, because you want to feel alive, because you want to feel passionate about what you're doing, right, this business, this industry gives you that opportunity that freedom to feel passionate about what you're doing. He does, in a way that I've never seen or experienced any other business. So, be Legendary my friends have a great Friday, awesome weekend to see you back here Monday, as usual, get the hell out of here and have a great day. Have a great weekend. Peace.

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Dave: Well my friends, my friends, my friends, welcome to Wake Up Legendary very important very special call today because we've got a real warrior here with us this morning. Somebody who is an inspiration to me, and he's gone from being bullied. Okay, to step into his power to find his passion, and really seeming to be in himself. This is going to be a great story with integrated episodes by my friends. Please help me welcome Chris to the show. What's up Chris, how are you doing, my brother. 

Chris: I'm awesome bro I'm awesome. 

Dave: So, tell me where you will get into your story here in a second. Tell me where you're calling from on right now 

Chris: I'm just on my phone. 

Dave: Nice. How old are you?

Chris: I’m 18 

Dave: Okay, okay, well, tell us a little bit about your story my brother because it's an inspirational one and I'm ready, you know, I'm already, I don't even know you, and I'm already inspired by you, my brother. So tell me, tell me a little bit about your story and why you're doing this, man.

Chris: So basically before I got into online. All that like I didn't really know what I wanted to do, when I was at Kroger. So like before. Like, I would test like, do whatever, and I wasn't in a really good mental state because I was actually going into the patient's disability and all through my life. Like a lot of a no really like mess with like mental health and stuff like that. I was just lost. I didn't know what to do in life. Like, don't, like, I was like, Oh, maybe I get facial surgery, like, going over so I can feel like that's a thing so like I sold the cost for the facial surgery and it was really expensive. I wanted to find a way to make it work. So I resorted to a lot of ways, and I failed numerous times, but I kept going and kept going. I eventually found the city of marketing and all the legendary the really good community, and everything just worked out for me since and I've left, like, basically stability in the past.

Dave: Well, man, so. So basically, you started to kind of look for ways to make money online because you wanted to get this surgery, to be able to smile right. The facial disability that you have, keeps you from being able to smile. Is that right, my brother, how much was that or how much is that surgery. 

Chris: It was near $100,000. 

Dave: Really. Yeah. Wow. Well, you know I can, I can understand how that will, that, that, that'll kind of set you back in your chair. So, um, so, so you've kind of you've kind of. So from what I'm hearing you kind of like said okay look like sure, if, if I make a bunch of money then maybe I'll consider getting that surgery, but the most powerful part about what I heard you say was that you were going to kind of leave all of that, that, wanting to have something that you didn't have, kind of in the past, and just embrace who you are, what you do have and make the best out of it and that's kind of the mindset that you're in, this to this, you know today when we talk to you am I right? My dog, man, listen man, like, I don't know if y'all are hearing man saying but a lot of times, you know, we a lot of times we you know we we complain about things like like trivial stuff, and it's like, we don't know what somebody else is battling through or going through, you know, I just, I got a lot of props and a lot of respect for you for, for, I know you setting the thing that you was looking up to me with my brother I'm looking up to you my man economy. You know what I mean. So, so, so, how, how long have you been, how long have you been doing affiliate marketing and sort of talk to us a little bit about the journey like, I mean, was Legendary your first real exposure to it or talk to us a little bit about how you got started.

Chris: So I started. So I was 16 I think, like that, I gotta do something. So first, I looked into Thrall checking that worked a little bit but not really. And then I looked into, like, Lord Father, He called this, and then I finally found affiliate marketing, like off YouTube, and I didn't get any attorney. I was just stuck for months, I tried to build, I build cycles, blog stuff, etc. Like I thought I just couldn't get it to work. And I was, I was always hearing about Legendary Marketer, and people are saying like, if you really need help getting started in marketing was really help you stuck your head this month so I decided to hop on it, and it really helped me on getting by, affiliate marketing, like struggles and stuff like that, because I'm struggling for months. Like, I started in 2019 and then saw actual results until like week one.

Dave: So, you've been hustling and you've been on your grind for a couple of years. 

Chris: Yeah, because, like, I feel, many times I was like this or like, I like going to a job and I really didn't want to do, because, like that wasn't really like my end goal and my latest work a dog because I wasn't like see any vision, like, four weeks that because like I would just be there and just sit there. Like, if I started online like I could do something like, 

Dave: Yeah, it's your tenacity from such a young age. I mean obviously you're only 18 right now but I mean the fact that you started this at 16. And in, as you said, didn't see success, right away, tried many things and didn't see success, and, and that you, you stayed the course is really, you know, it's really, I think it's a big message of a lot of people out there. Here, for sure. What what did you know obviously I heard that you don't want to work a job and all this but I mean what, like inside what kept you motivated to continue to keep to keep hustling to keep trying, building, even on all those nights where you don't I mean, you were like, I'm sure you got frustrated just like the rest of us?

Chris: Honestly, I was listening to something that says Like. Like, I thought like that, to be honest because I was like, like, I gotta do something because I just looked around me I was like, I had to like elevate because either I quit and just live the life I don't want to live, and like, and just like let my dreams crash and never to use anything, either I like try and get there because the way I see it like if you want to get something like, since you're already here like us have to try it for us, like, there's like no point in not trying. 

Dave: Yeah. So, Let me ask you a question, man. Let me ask you a question. Let's say you went on, and over the next couple of years, I know you will. There's no doubt in my mind that you will be successful. But I'm just curious about this place that you're at and I'm sure every day you're working towards getting total acceptance of yourself exactly how you are. And for those of you who are listening Chris has a physical disability that keeps him from being able to smile. What if you, let's just say over the next 12 months, you made enough money to be able to afford the surgery, would you get it, or would you say, you know what, I'm not even going to get it because I'm going to continue down this path that I'm on now?

Chris: Right now I'm in a state where I like somewhere completely accepted because I was like, when I was born like this I don't really want to change who I am. So I completely accepted the fact that, to be honest like right now, it doesn't really affect me like, Like sometimes I'm actually glad that I had, because it just makes me my own special person. So like, I'm actually glad that I have this on

Dave: My dude, man. It's just, I just think that this, this, this episode this morning is, is a big blessing to a lot of us man because Chris, one of the biggest things, as you know man from from, I assume that you've watched a few of these episodes before like you've been a part of this community is that, like, you know, the common struggle that people have, which is basically, it's not the mechanics of learning like what to click in, like, like we're all mostly pretty smart people we can motional figure that out, but it's like a fear of rejection. You know what I mean. So talk to us a little bit about this mental process this mindset training that you've gone through that you've put yourself through to be able to overcome this fear of rejection or deal with the fear of rejection, that you may have, because I mean, I can't say that I'm completely over it to I am a human being I do have fears, but talk to us about how you've wrestled with this over the course of the last year or so.

Chris: So, in terms of like, like these people don't have visibility and like my like my build up?

Dave: I'm just talking about, we all have our. We all have our. I think especially when we get started I can remember what I got started doing videos back 10 years ago I would redo, I would do the same video 100 times longer tapes, because I was just I wanted to get it perfect, I want to be perfect, and I didn't, I couldn't accept myself for who I am. But clearly, that's been a big part of your journey, so I just want you to speak to people who are struggling with accepting themselves for who they are, who are scared of being rejected. That's what I'm, what I'm asking.

Chris: Okay, so does that make sense. Yeah. So it's just look at it from like a broader spectrum like, I think everyone was like, we're like a special guest, and like, so, like, I didn't really, except myself that then I learned to do is like, I just sat down said that like, I'm just be happy to sit down to feel discipline, and just said, I think I really have like a process. I just sat down one day and by just like learn to like that's something I'm gonna, I'm going to be here right now so I didn't really have like a thought process for like two people, except themselves, like just build on each other and you can do stuff I can push a little more higher state of mind. Some people are healthier than that's actually what you're getting in our hearts and minds, and probably towards consensus. I love myself, I love who I am, I accept myself for me.

Dave: Gentleman, you're wise beyond your years bro, like in terms of self care and self acceptance piece because the reason why I'm asking about this is because not, I mean, whether you had a facial disability or not, well, like, I think, at the age that you are this, this wisdom that you have about self care, which is what I hear you talking about, you know what I mean like, for me, I didn't really look, I mean I'm 37 now man I probably really didn't learn about self care until like four or five years ago like really taking care of myself like not doing stuff that makes me feel shameful or not like I realized that a lot of the reason why I felt bad about myself was my own behavior was the things that I did like for example, if my wife and I got into an argument and I said something mean, I felt guilty and shameful about that. It wasn't that I felt bad as a person, that was the behavior that I felt bad about. And so I learned to be, I learned to pause and think before I speak, I learned to try to go to bed earlier, eat better, like you said, Just learn to love myself more and accept myself before I was more an intern that built my self esteem, made me feel better about myself made me feel more confident, and that's kind of what I hear you describing that you've done as well. Right.

Chris: Yeah. 

Dave: Yeah, it's interesting. There's this phrase that I believe in deeply. I actually learned it in recovery when I was trying to get clean from heroin addiction back over 10 years ago. You know I had spent a lot of my life trying to think of myself as a new way of acting, you know what I mean like, like just like be like, you know like this, like it's all mental. It's about mental toughness, you know, and, and what I realized is, what you just said, which is actions. I can't think myself into a new way of acting, I need to act myself into a new way of thinking. And in, what, what that's what that's meant is that, and just to kind of explain what that means to me is that if I do the action my mindset will eventually follow my, my mind will follow. But so I got to do the action even if I don't believe in it. So for example, like, eating good, like if you've been eating like shit for years, who is deeply unhealthy doesn't doesn't feel good. It doesn't taste good, you know, we don't get those hits of sugar and all that kind of stuff. But if I do it long enough, eventually my brain will catch up and I'll actually enjoy eating healthy and not feeling bogged down and not feeling all tired after I get done eating. And that's an example of kind of acting myself into a new way of thinking. Another example would be doing a video whether I feel like it or not, and just posting it right eventually if I do that African enough I'm gonna believe I'm gonna have more confidence because I'm just gonna be better at it so talk to us a little bit about your journey of content creation I know you gave me an Instagram link. Is that your main method of marketing right now? 

Chris: Yeah, it's mostly through my Instagram and basically videos about my story, and stuff like that and people really like it. So, again, a bunch of traction with my Instagram like in a really short amount of time. 

Dave: So that's the gram, so basically what you're doing is you're, you're posting your reels, I see. Oh I see what you're talking about, am bro yeah Wow holy. Alright so all I'll let people see what you're talking about, and hopefully you guys can go, Whoa, give Chris a follow. Let me share, let me share my screen and we'll, we'll check it out together. So I like the fact that you're, that you're, you've got kind of this really clean process of creating actual content, actual posts, you've got a theme, you've got a brand of like colors here for all these posts, and you're really consistent with that. Now on the other hand you say that you're also doing a lot of reels here, which are more, you're, you're telling your story you're showing your face, stuff like that. That's an interesting combination. Talk to us a little bit about your strategy, kind of how you came up with, obviously you're on TikTok as well, Is that right?

Chris: Actually I did not sit down for a really long time and didn't see success, so I like once I was on tape, I was like, like almost every day for 200 days, and saw the zeros, it says,

Dave: Crazy bro. So talk to us about this, I mean some of your videos here on Instagram are just, just like blowing up dude I mean it's easy, like, over a million views on some of these some of these videos, man, I mean, are you are you just basically taking videos from that you do on TikTok and reposting them on on your Instagram reels are kind of, what's your thought process behind like how you've built this this Instagram profile?

Chris: Basically just honestly people's nice face having success, and obviously, like specific or like unique twists on the video, upload, and all that content for my 200 days on TikTok. I just recently did an interview.

Dave: Wow. I hear that a lot of men think a lot of people are sleeping on Instagram reels right now.

Chris: Yeah, this is just a bombshell right now like almost everything that goes viral, matter of the content, plans, they're, they're really trying to like, make sure they get their engagement with TikTok, so they're getting like creators.

Dave: That's really amazing. 

Chris: So now's a good time to be on Instagram reels, because they're, they're showing a lot of love. And they're trying to compete with TikTok. 

Dave: Damn, bro. Yeah. Wow, so that's, this is, this is awesome. I love how clean your profile is, man like everything's like talk to us a little bit about what branding means to you.

Chris: So, branding is extremely hard because they build some credibility and trust so that was my very first stage naked, very clean and build a brand around it. People we're experts on this to make sure everything was laid out perfectly, so that my grand will be solid because that's turning for a good cause is very very important.

Dave: You're the expert now my brother. Hey, I'm like, if like three to like, you're the you're the expert right now you're the authority on, on Instagram right now. As a matter of fact, you know what I mean, maybe we need to get you out, and get you training our community higher you come and try it out offline. But now this is, this is great, man this is, this is incredible. You know what I mean, like, I'm, I'm just impressed by, by what you've done, and just you're who you are man, and where you're going with all this. It's just, I think that this episode is one that a lot of people need to hear because, you know, we're all battling different things man but it's like, I think some of us, and I like your humbleness because you're not like, Yo look bad, like you, I, you know I can't smile if you can smile. Like, I mean you're not like you're the way that you've turned this, I like I've been saying this for almost 10 years. Turn your lesson to your message, turn your struggles into your strengths, man. You know when I was a dope. It was a junkie man, you know what I mean like, I thought, like, you know, I couldn't even go and apply for a job because I had charges on my record. You know what I mean like possession charges and just BS stuff that revolved around my addiction. And, you know, I was, I was like, how am I ever going to make a life How am I ever going to be able to make any money, you know, how am I ever going to even get hired for a job, and I, I went through a similar process that you described, although the circumstances were a little bit different. And I got online and like instead of being bitter, but that's what I can identify with you about that . Instead of being bitter about my, my, my circumstances, or, or in my case it was my decisions, you know what I mean, I decided to be better, not bitter. You know what I mean, I decided to be positive. I decided to try to turn my mess into a message. And that's what I've seen you do man, I'm seeing you do that right now, and it's, it's just a big deal. Chris So I hope that you can take these words in today for me, and let them blow you up even more with confidence and self esteem that you're on the right track man, and that as a young man, you have a future that you're going to inspire and impact a lot of people, and you're going to make a lot of money, you're going to have, you're going to have the life that you that you deserve you already have the life that you deserve because of how you're living in here, but, but man it's it's it's incredible is there, is there anything that I can help you out with any questions that you have for me. 

Chris: Honestly, I want to say it's a really big inspiration. You want to be one of those, like, just really wanting to sit down and talk to someone like this. I really like it. It's really like I'm doing this for a really long time, like it is nice.

Dave: Well it's bro it's my pleasure, man. You know what I mean like it's my pleasure, and you know if there's anything that I can do for you. Don't hesitate to reach out and let me know. You know, I'll drop you my email at the end of the episode and, and you can weigh that I can tell, you know, fortunately because you are who you are, you've sought out indirect mentors, some direct mentors, but sometimes when we're young, or we don't have money we got to find indirect mentors or people who we can learn from from a distance, who don't even know us, and then from the actions that we take and the results that we get, then we get noticed by people. And, you know, and, and then people want to help us, people want to mentor us, just out of because they're inspired and that's kind of what I feel towards you. It's kind of like this, you know there's a lot of people who want help, want you to do everything for them. You know, they want you to kind of want to hang out and, and you're a great example of somebody who's like, look, I want a hand up, you know what I mean, I want to lock arms with some people. So talk to us a little bit about how, just before we kind of wrap up here in a few minutes talk to us a little bit about how you've redefined your circle your friend circle who you let in your life after being bullied in school and in your younger years, as you said, how do you how do you how do you think about your circle now?

Chris: Honestly, I never had any friends, but I was, I was like, I was like, a social guy like growing up like high school, like I never really had that many friends I just had like people hanging around with, because like, Oh my God, he's like an athlete so like he has a lot of friends like he's just talking to you. So like I never really had friends I'd only have one friend, and I don't really like to let a lot of people in my circle. To be honest, and a lot of people think I think a lot of people think having friends is important. It's neat. Like, I think you can still be happy just having like one person like I have a moment like I only have one friend, still only one part of my circle, because like, like I can be there for myself and make sure like I'm hiking for myself.

I just know, like I know he was like a circle so I don't really see it as being so important. 

Dave: Yeah, well, let me let me ask, let me ask it this way. What have you found more connections, and have you found. Have you redefined what community is, I guess, now that you've found, people are like minded online?

Chris: Definitely I’ve found a lot of people that can really build my strength up online, and a lot of people that are like they were just teenagers looking, or like they're adults looking for a way to like, just let go like concrete on, so definitely a lot of connections online. Yeah, like me.

Dave: Yeah, I think, I think well, and we've all got our own kind of quirks and weirdness, you know what I mean. And, and, it's, it's nice. It was nice for me, too, to come online and find people who were all over the world who also had a passion for entrepreneurship and affiliate marketing and making money online. No, it just kind of opened up my horizons, you know what I mean like when you're growing up and you're in high school and stuff like that and your, your hometown. It's kind of like, is this all there is in the world you know what I mean like is everybody like this. And then you get online and you start marketing online and creating content and you, you, there's people from all over the world who are messaging you and you build relationships and it's just, I don't know it was life changing for me. And it's, you know, it sounds like that you're developing those connections as well, you're certainly developing them here, and I think that, that, you know, we've got, you've got a whole new fan base here just of people that now know you are going to follow you and learn from you and be inspired by you, and, and, and I'm, I'm one of them, man. 

Chris: I really appreciate that. 

Dave: You're welcome, bro. Well listen, any final words of wisdom or advice for anybody who would be sitting on the fence here at Legendary who's been wondering, you know is, Should I do this, should I go through this. I mean, what what sort of experience, would you give them based on what he what you've done here and what you've learned and the results that you've got from kind of take the next step going through our challenge being a part of our community, what would you say to that person who may be sitting on the fence or just what was your experience, kind of in a nutshell? 

Chris: Basically I would say definitely taking action can get you a massive gain you to like, like, really far and change your life, like in a switch, so like, I would say like, taking action can can really like change your life and just change everything around and like, you can just, like, change your future in the way you would like, completely like not imagine. Yeah, yeah. This is crazy. 

Dave: Yeah. I mean, would you ever, would you have ever thought, a couple of years ago that you, Or even if it was six months ago, whenever you really started to pick up steam, would you have ever imagined that you'd be, I don't know where you're at now on the mindset you've had and had made the money that you've made now?

Chris: Before I obviously did not know where I wanted to be like I did not know what the handle was, I had. So I definitely never imagined this.

Dave: Well here's what I want to tell you. All right. The results that you've got so far, even though they're being to you right now are the freckle on the pimple of a gnat's ass compared man, compared to where to what you're going to think when you look back in another year or two or three, and mark my words for that man, because you're going to have some months, and you're going to have some years in the future, that just, you're going to think you're going to look back in as, as, as big of results as you've had so far. You're going to look back to today, a couple of years ago Damn I was broke back then. Seriously, man. Like, like, even like, like it's crazy because we just don't know what we don't know. You know what I mean, we don't know it if we've never experienced it, but just the path that you're playing now in the, the, the momentum that you have and the mindset that you have and the story that you have, Chris, I want to remind you, man. This story that you have about, like, this whole facial disability thing and not being able to smile and doing this shit anyways. And in having the Kahunas, I mean you're the dude who I don't know if you've ever seen that meme, but he walks around with his Kahunas and the wheelbarrow. I mean, you know what I mean. You're that guy. You're that guy, you know what I mean. I mean, I mean, I mean, I've met a lot of people. I've met a lot of people in my 10 plus years in this space. And I've met a lot of people with big colonists but you know, big guts, right, for those who are listening, I know you're they're females and I know y'all are going well, I don't have gone is what do I have, well listen, you, you got your co owners female there sometimes bigger and better than most men that I, that I know So, but, but Chris, honestly, man. Your bravery, your courage, your story is inspirational . I've met a lot of people in the last 10 years man, but your story ranks up there as probably as definitely top 10 Maybe top five, maybe top three, like it's inspirational ish shit dude, so. So here's what I want you to just know coming from, from me man. Is it that brothers keep inspiring people, you know what I mean because people are going to look at their life and their problems and the shift that they're going through, and they're going to say. Seriously man like I'm complaining. I need to get in that and that's not that's not, I know you're not going to get bitter about it because you've already trained your mindset but honestly they're going to look and they're gonna be like you know what, like I can, I can do this, like, I can do this. It takes like it's some people's story and the what and their circumstances are just more inspirational in your, it would. It's not like you were just given this you work for this Chris, I mean the last two plus years, you've busted your ass and fought for this, so you you've earned the right man to be able to go out there and share that story and I just and I just want you to stop that man, and be a platform every chance that I can to come out here and share with us and be a part of this, this, this, this video okay my man? Keep up the good work. 

Chris: All right, thank you. All right, Chris, I'll talk to you later, my man will come back and see us. Okay. Enjoy your day. Our new Chris Alright my friends. Wow. Come on now, come on now. God bless it. Come on now. Let's go. You know, let's go.

Let's go man. Let's go. Let's drop the sheet, let's just, let's go. I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say something y'all read it every day, but I'm gonna say it right now to cover the kids' ears, I'm gonna say it right now. Y'all read it on my hat every day, I'm gonna say it out of inspiration from Chris. Fuck, average, Be Legendary. See you tomorrow.

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Matt: Greetings and welcome, everybody. Hope you're doing well. My name is Matt and I need to shift over a little bit on my video. Today we're going to hop onto a whiteboard, and I'm not going to waste any time getting to the whiteboard as you can see here, it says, which direction do I point? There we go. It's, we're gonna we're gonna unpack how to execute a perfect evergreen affiliate business, and this strategy I feel like a lot of newbies a lot of beginners, a lot of experts, and a lot of six figure affiliates seven figure affiliates could also learn from, and I'm going to unpack something that I personally learned about eight, nine years ago 2012 There was a product launch release, and I got insider look on how a perfect affiliate product launch should work and how it should go. And at the time I was already running an evergreen affiliate business, and I was basically through this product launch instructed how to do these perfectly. And so a lot of times, here's what happens in the world of affiliate marketing or online marketing digital marketer, whatever you want to call it. What happens in the world of digital marketing is people get into this little flow okay they start generating some leads they get their newfound business up and running, and then they get some evergreen affiliate business coming in, meaning they're promoting one offer to one niche, and they get a little bit coming in, and then what happens is a little bit of shiny object syndrome six and a little bit of, well maybe the grass is a little greener on the other side sits it sets it guy. So, for everybody who's here. I want you to type to me in the comments if you're ready for me to dive in and unpack a strategy that is number one, how to execute a perfect evergreen affiliate business number two, how to still participate in awesome product launch releases. And then number three how to make sure that that income stays consistent time after time after time after time, while also being able to patent, other launches or other products or other solutions things that you're excited about, okay, because the truth of the matter is, things change over time and if you've just got one affiliate offer and you want to mix it up there's nothing wrong with that but executing that right this, this, there's a great book called execution, it's a business book it's by Raj, I can't remember his last name but execution is really everything, and I see. I see a lot of people messing this up and and basically here's, here's what I see, so let me, let me make this a little bit bigger I'll make myself a little bit smaller, but what I want you all to do I want to see in the comments, can I see Cynthia's, show me Evany says yes Chrissy says yes I'm ready, Jim's ready. Christina's Ready Ready Okay, so, consider this a mini free lesson, okay because this is going to be really valuable, especially if you're on here and you're starting to see a little bit of results, or you're brand new, and you're like, Hey, I'm not really sure I haven't started promoting anything yet I'm still trying to figure it out. Once you do take notes if you can, if you can't take notes, I want you to watch this back and take notes. And I don't care. Again, if you're brand new, if you're six seven figure affiliate or eight figure affiliate, I don't care, because this is going to be valuable to you, and it's valuable on the basis that I've done this but also that I've seen a lot of people miss this guy, I've seen a lot of people mess this up and it hurts their business. In some cases it kills. Okay, so I want you to be very careful with what you're about to learn this morning. Okay so here we go.

One thing that I see a lot happening in, in the digital space in the affiliate space. All right, is, and then track with me if you can, if you're familiar with this or if you're if you recognize what I'm about to unpack here is, is somebody comes online, okay so affiliate comes online, and they look for a product or service that they can promote that isn't their own right, so what does that mean that means they're an affiliate marketer or their referral base marketer, they're going to promote products that are their own and make some sort of a commission. Okay, So, what do they do? They find the first thing they do is they find an amazing product. Okay, so they choose an amazing, amazing product, whatever that is, maybe it's a dog training course, you know, in our case we teach how to do it with digital products but it could be a service. This could be anything, this could be a dog collar, it can be absolutely anything. Number two is, they find traffic or they start generating traffic, so they're so they're going out and they're finding people to send to this offer. Right, so what do they do? They create some sort of social media profile, okay, they either do that or they start a blog before they start running ads of some sort, right, paid advertising something like that okay with, with the goal here being the start generating some form of traffic to their offer. Okay, Now they point people over to a what, what do we call this funnel right so they point people over to an opt in page. And then, and then really everything after that it's just offers okay so they're just, they're creating offers so maybe they give them a free lead magnet or something like that or they, for, for whatever they use, they're getting people to join their what email list. Okay, so they're getting people to join their email list. Now, when they get people to join this email list, they start acquiring an email list and it turns into 1000 emails here 10,000 emails here okay and it starts to pile up, and it starts to add up and pile up and pile up and pile up. Okay, so here's what happens. Okay, follow me because I watch this happen all the time and it's not anybody's fault, it's not your if, if you've done this or if you're here and you're attending and you've done this, it's, it's not your fault, and there's actually nothing wrong with it. Okay, So I'm not trying to shame anybody or telling anybody they're doing something wrong, there's, there's a lot of ways to run a business okay there's a lot of ways to do this online thing, but then what usually happens is some little shiny object comes along, right, and successful affiliate. And if you're not a successful affiliate yet, consider this like, you know, everybody's talking about the vaccine Now consider this like a little vaccination for you about what is probably going to come when you get success. This is like, I'm giving you a little bit of a shot. This is a miniature shot of what's going to come. So if you're not here yet, I want you to pay attention. All right, so this little shiny object comes along and suddenly, here's what happens on their, on their TikTok, on their YouTube on their ads on their paid ads on their Facebook group. Okay, all the places that people start generating traffic on the front end and this is all front end traffic. This is all front, and traffic. People stop. They stop doing what was working. Okay, here's what I've worked in both working at legendary also running my own businesses running my wife's business or not running helping advertise that and just looking at consulting and running ads and paying for traffic, doing all this stuff in multiple different styles of business and styles of business models. Here's what I've learned is about 50% of running a successful business for a long time and I'm not talking about a little bit of success for a long time. He's just simply to not make an effort is just to not screw up. What's worse is just not to interrupt or mess up what's actually working with, with your sort of, you know, fly by night thing that you know you think is going to be the next big thing. Right now I'm not saying you can't do product launches because you certainly can, and you probably should once you find some success. But you shouldn't stop doing what's working, everybody typed that in the comments if you hear me loud and clear.

I shouldn't stop doing what's working, if it's working. I should double down on it, right, if my goal is 10 leads a day, and I have a strategy that's getting me 10 leads a day. I should keep doing that strategy and not second guessing, right, or maybe even double or triple down on it. Are you guys catching this? Don't stop doing what's working. It sounds simple, but the problem, the reason that that's not so simple, is because people will let me use me as an example, I don't I don't need to say people. The reason that's so hard is because we have this internal self doubt and people wonder why we talk so much about the dynamics now. Hey, if you're like, Oh, here he goes. He's gonna, he's gonna get into Dynamics and now this is all mindset, stick with me. Don't leave because I'm going to get into mechanical, how to execute the strategy, but some of you people come in here and you think, Oh, well all this talk about self doubt and dynamics, This doesn't really apply it does apply, and it applies, way more than you think. Because there's a lot of people out there who get to five figures, and they get to six figures, and guess what, little, little things of self doubt little messages creep in little shiny object syndrome sinks in, And they get distracted, and then it's not as if their business loses traction, their business sometimes actually dies, it actually dies. So I want you to pay close attention to this next piece because here's what happens. Remember I just talked about the front and traffic. Remember I talked about that. This is where all of the fun. This is where all of the traffic is entering into the funnel. So, and again this can happen through ads, this can happen through TikTok, this can happen through YouTube, this can happen through any, any sort of traffic generation Facebook ads all this kind of stuff. Okay, So, right here, front end traffic here's what happens. The big mistake that I see happening is that people stop doing what was working on the front end, and this is really the key mistake, so everything is working, everything was humming, you had a great, what I call evergreen business, meaning the pipelines full of leads, you've got people flowing in you've got new customers every day. That's an evergreen business, it's a pipeline that you can keep full all day long, all the time. It's a long pipeline, and it's full of new leads and new customers, so guess what that means for you. You've got ongoing recurring revenue that sustains your business, period. You know what that ultimately means is you've got profits. So the only way to grow that thing is through revenue, and through profits, right. So what happens is a lot of affiliates stop the front end traffic flow, or they get distracted with their front end traffic flow. Okay. They stop the lead flow, they stop the pipeline. They adjust, they change, they do whatever. And the thought is, well if this doesn't work I can always go back to what I was doing, I can just always kind of return. But here's what happens is, for instance, on a tick tock or YouTube channel or something like that I've actually seen this in the last few years, probably in the last five years I've seen this happen on multiple different social media platforms where affiliates do this, and again it's totally fine and I've seen my friends do it I've seen affiliates here who would have seen it just, it happens all the time but I want to explain exactly what's going on, is people have this sort of this front end offer but they've been doing and successful and whatever, and then they want to change it up right, they want to make a change or they not even change they just want to test a new offer maybe. And so they've got this front end offer that's working well and then suddenly they switch it. Okay, so they make a change to what was working, remember that. And so their audience, let's say they've built up 50,000 followers on TikTok, or they've got, let's say they've got like, you know, 400 500,000, followers on YouTube or something like that.

And, and their subscribers are used to seeing exactly the type of content that they've been doing, meaning they've been educating them okay they've, they've been using education, they've been entertaining them. Alright, edutainment entertainment, education, entertainment, edutainment. Right. And they've been giving what I, you know they've been giving value, real value to their audience. Okay, now suddenly they switch, and the tone switches, and they start promoting Okay here's the big word ready for this. They start promoting on their social channel, and I want you to write something down if you're brand new, or if you've got a social media following. I want you to write down I shouldn't be promoting companies and products in my content. Now maybe if you go live and you're doing a special thing whatever Sure, go for it. But I shouldn't be promoting and that includes I'm talking to you guys as affiliates with legendary there's a few reasons for this, but even in some of our affiliates they do this, and they do it for different companies and they did do it for all sorts of different products but you shouldn't be promoting here this isn't the place to promote. All right, let me show you the place to promote. So you have your front end funnel. Or actually, let's take, let's take this back let's take this back. Let's take this back gainer. You've got your social media. Watch me break this down real quick, pay attention. You got your social media channels. Okay, or you got your ads or whatever but I'm just gonna say social media channels here, okay. Or it could be ads or it could be your blog, or whatever, right, it's all of this front end stuff. Alright, then you're going to send people through what a sales funnel. Okay, you're going to get their opt in, you're gonna get their email. Okay, so here is your email. Now, understand the difference between front end. And what, back, back, and. Does everybody understand the difference between front end and back end, front end is social media your ads your blog, this is where people are introduced to your brand, introduced. This is where people are warmed up. Everybody understand the difference between front end and back end this, the back end. This is where your promotional stuff your side stuff, your, your, your secondary offers your launch style stuff that should all be back here, right, and why should that be back here, why would you only commit the time and energy to promoting on the back end when somebody is warmed up, because, because people because people need to be. There's a great book by Gary Vaynerchuk, Gary Vee. His social media is Gary Vee, but his name is Gary Vaynerchuk. It's a great book by Gary Vaynerchuk, his book Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook. And the idea behind that is a boxing analogy that means you should give value, give value, give value, ask for the sale. Right. And the big thing is, is that people start doing this on their social media, and then they start to think that product launches are the place that social media channels for their front end, traffic source is the place to promote our offers, and here's exactly what I've seen happen, you're ready for this is exactly what I've seen happen. What happens is is they serve promoting on the, please hear this, they start promoting on their YouTube channel, or they start promoting hard on their blog or they start promoting hard on their, on their tick tock or whatever it is, right, and it becomes this whole pitch fest, of a launch or something like that a product launch something people do this MLM to like it's just people who are affiliates that happens all the time, and they're so excited about it, they don't realize what they're doing. Right. They're so hyped up and amped up on it they don't realize what they're doing because the shiny object is blinded them to reality, what they started doing is they end, the phase where they are giving value. So, over here, they stop giving value, and instead it becomes a pitch fest. Now, can you guys type to me in the comments what do you think people are going to do to a tick tock channel or a YouTube channel or a blog. A blog or an ad, or something like that, it becomes a pitch fest, their followers their people. What do you think that's what you think is gonna happen.

There, Monique says they're gonna tune out. Okay, so Monique says tune out. What else, they're going to unfollow, oh, oh, they're going to unfollow and ignore they're also going to report, aren't they, they're going to mark it as spam, aren't they, well, yes, they're going to leave, they tune out. They're going to unfollow, they're gonna delete. Okay, now you know what the other thing is going to happen, because they're doing this whole pitch fest pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch, pitch no value. Yeah, guess what, they're going to get marked as spam, they're going to get reported your ads accounts definitely going to get shut down, you're going to get. You're going to get. In some cases, I've seen this happen on YouTube, as I've seen this happen on Tik Tok channels you're going to get. You're going to get shadow banned. All right, your channels, probably going to get shadow banned because you're going to have so many people who are reporting. Right. You might even get your whole channel banned. You might even get your whole entire pension, your own entire social media profile banned completely right. And all of this because there is a shift of focus or a distraction right now is that distraction necessarily bad, no I want to repeat this again for everybody in the back, listen up. It's not necessarily bad that you want to do a cool new launch or for a new dog collar got released and you want to launch a new thing and you're really excited you want to promote it. Here's where this happens, you do this shit on email, guys, you do it on your email list. You do it on your email list, can everybody type to me in the chat. Where do you do your launch style promotions or your one off promotions or your hot new discount on your coaching, or your consulting or you're launching your own new digital product. Where the hell do you do that, you do it to your email list, why do you do it, because they're warmed up people, they're warmed up. They've already said yes to you. They already know. They're already interested, Right. So then you don't have to post to tick tock, 45 times

about this new hot new thing that you're excited about where people mark you as spam and get annoyed and they're like, Dude, this is so stupid. No, you send up 45 emails. Right. And then the worst that happens is they unsubscribe. Okay, they unsubscribe or maybe get one or two marked as spam, but they've already said they love you, so just put in your first email say hey look, I'm launching a new product this week. And if you're not interested, you might he might get a little bit annoyed here you can just unsubscribe, it's not a big deal but if it's not interesting to you just don't open the email that's okay too. Right. You don't have that report to do that on a social media plan, you'll have the report to do that in your ads or on a blog post strike is on new, but you've given, you've given plenty, and plenty of value over to your email list. This is where you do that kind of thing, and this is how you execute a perfect evergreen strategy. So how does this evergreen strategy work again. Okay, you, the first thing that that any great affiliate has to get his front end traffic somehow, right, so let's run this through again. You can do that through a blog you can do that through. You could do that through TikTok, you could do that through YouTube, you to, that you could do that through paid ads you can do that through Pinterest, you can do that through Facebook groups you can do that through Twitter. Okay, lots of different places that people are currently listening. Okay. And then you should have some sort of funnel where you can collect emails, and you can start building an email list, okay, this is a valuable thing, and some sometimes people don't think this is valuable. The reason they don't think this is valuable is because maybe they're a bad copywriter, or they don't know how to communicate well, or they're just unskilled and haven't done it for years to know the power of email marketing, that's fine, but you need some sort of funnel, you're gonna have an opt in page, and then maybe you have a bridge page with a video or something on that, that sort of helps connect or, or whatever. And then you need an evergreen offer. Okay. What do I mean by evergreen offer it mean that you can have a high LTV and so whether that's a high ticket product or you got multiple upsells, in the actual thing, or maybe it's a coaching that's a high ticket thing or whatever, something with a decently high LTV so that you can maximize profits right so you've got this in this order. Now this, for most of your business, should go virtually untouched. Okay. And listen, and listen close. If you want to or you think it's time to make a change, here's what I would suggest to you, you're ready for this, here's what I would suggest. Just don't touch what's already working. Right. Don't touch what's work, if you're going to, if you're if you're like, Well geez I think I've got a new niche or I think I've got a new evergreen offer I think I've got, do it on a totally different scale. So if you've got an awesome TikToks working awesome YouTube Those are awesome ads that are working, don't go and edit all of those or change all of those, or try to do that on that current thing, right. Instead, go out and, because here's the alternative, go out and create a new account or a new ads account or a new profile or something that's totally separate, a new blog, a new sample. And in the case of a blog, you might be able to write a new blog post, okay. But, you create a new account, and you get a new funnel. Right, and you get a new evergreen offer and you test all of that outside of what's working outside of what's working outside of what's working. Okay, so that's this, this bottom piece here. Your moneymaker. Your business isn't thrown to the wind. Right, that's such an amateur move you don't want to just throw your business to something else just on a whim, just because you think it might be cool or maybe it's just new or whatever. Sure, if you want multiple streams of income that's a great stick that in and then and then if you really really really want to, to do other short of launches or new stuff, new shiny stuff that's cool. There, you can get MSI multiple streams of income.

Do it to your email list, people do it to your email list, and then at least you can see how does this convert this convert well are the lead someone good, right, because maybe it's a totally new company maybe it's a totally new product, it's a totally new dog collar that people don't like or it doesn't work or something. At least then you haven't given up, and here's my last point, here's my last point, and I'm just pounded through this very fast but here's my last, I don't want you to watch this. This happens all the freaking time to somebody who's got it, let's say they get a YouTube channel, or TikToks really hot right now so let's, let's start up to talk, so he's got this really hot new TikTok channel. Okay, we're Pinterest. Let's say that we got a new one of these social media channels. Okay, now check this out. Now, on this channel. Let's say that they are creating videos. Here's some videos that they're creating. Okay, so three ways to get your dog to stop barking. To stop barking and this is just pure value, straight value. Okay, that's the only value. Okay, that's it. Now, they also create a video that's. This is the best new dog trainer training course, okay, and all they talk about in this is they talk about Jake's new course. Okay. And it teaches how to get your dog not to market the mailman and it teaches how to get them not to bite or chew up shoes and stuff like that. Watch this, Watch this, pay attention to this, this is crazy, and everybody misses this, even some of the most experienced marketers misses the best new dog training course, of course, they give a little bit of value, maybe in here, just a little bit about a probably not that much, but all they're doing is they're just, it's a rah rah affiliate message, rah, rah, right, what do I mean, it's a cheerleader affiliate message, and all it is about Jake's new course right Jake's new course Jake's new course tissue course link is in my bio link in bio link in bio like him but now we see people do this with legendary okay so he's today, the legendary 15 Day Challenge is the best thing ever legendary 15 digit lizard people crazy on tape talking about this a while back, and, and you know what's crazy is that I told people not to do this. I said don't do that so I'm proud. We're probably like the only business in history that has said, Hey, don't do this. And if you want to know why, especially from an affiliate marketer's perspective, it is because you're growing someone else's brand.

This is probably the number one takeaway from today, you're growing someone else's brand, and this is why Dave and I are out on social media. Just, just promoting and having our affiliate links all over stuff, and, like, like I don't, you can't go find a social media profile where I'm out there, and I've got an affiliate link attached to, like, like my TikTok account with 800,000 followers right. That would be pretty lame right if I was the CMO of our company doing that. Right. We pretty lame, be kind of like stealing sales right, But I'd also be like growing my growing my sort of assets on the backs of people who then are, you know, it would just be a really lame thing to do, right you can see how that would be doing now that we actually, I tell people directly, like, Hey, don't do that, because guess what people go, what do they do they go to Google and they search. Jake's new course, Lincoln by a you know so they search, you know, Jake. Jake's secrets to getting your dog to not bark at the mountain or whatever, right, they find it on Google and then you actually get you don't actually get any cut of that. Right. And now, Jake is also growing his tech doc in his YouTube and everything else. Thanks to you, and nothing's growing for you, right, you see that, you see how that works right. Instead of building curiosity around their offer, what they're doing is they're giving away everything up front, and losing all their potential traffic they're not getting any leads, they're not getting any sales because they're giving this away, all on the front end. Right, right.

This makes sense to me in the chat and gives me a little bit of feedback if I'm making sense to you guys just makes sense. It's a huge mistake by the way. Huge mistake, huge, huge, huge mistake. So rather than getting just value after value after value after value after value on your, on your social media platforms and your ads, things like that. Rather than doing that what people start doing, which is the right way to do it, they start getting this rah rah mentality they start cheering on someone else or someone else's product or some other stupid thing right. And what happens is it is d values. So what I'm trying to save you from here is from devaluing your value devaluing your brand by attaching it to somebody else on the front end, sure, if you want to go and write emails and recommend things to people on the back end, after you've generated the lead after you've got them cooking on a sales page or something like that Sure, that makes sense, but up until that point, you're just losing. You're just losing so much value. You're losing so much potential traffic. So some people will hop on any social media platform. I think a lot of people do this with TikTok, and they'll just be legendary marketer 15 Day Challenge day forever is the best thing ever, if people go to Google and they search legendary marketer 15 Day Challenge Dave Sharpe, and then the purchaser challenge, and it was you who was sort of your first social media touch, but you didn't get credit for jack squat. See what I mean. And this happens so often, guys. So, my point and we'll and we'll wrap up with this for the day, this little mini whiteboard lesson is all of your front end, everything on the front end should be value based. And for the most part, it should be brand-less, meaning if you're an affiliate, it should be pretty brand-less until you've collected the lead. Okay. And on the back end, you should be trying to maximize profits, maximize sales and conversions. This can be pitches, right, this can be pitches, this can be by now. Okay. I encourage you, I encourage all of you guys if you haven't done this already. Don't you know don't go spending money on a bunch of shiny objects but one one company that does it particularly well is, it's a company called, The Motley Fool, and they're all about. They're basically information marketers around the stock market right so this is the Motley Fool, and, and if you ever see an ad from them or you see social media content from them. They're, they're always talking about one of the most underappreciated stocks in the entire game. Right. Why is everyone talking about AMC stock, And you know what they do, they just give value, value value value value and the same would be true about the stock market, right, or I'm sorry about TikTok, right. And then guess what right here. Click here to unlock our highest conviction explosive growth stocks. Interesting explosive growth stocks, and then guess what, here you go here's a sales letter, but up until that point, you know, on their social media blog, everything like that, they're not sending you that they're not saying, Hey, here's the best, this, this, the Rule Breakers is the best new thing ever, right, and if there's any affiliate marketers for them they're not saying hey here's the, you've got to check out Rule Breakers No, no no no, they're giving value they're talking about relevant things they're giving value and then poof, you've come right over here. And suddenly, they've got this one year subscription for it for $275 Okay, you see that. All right. So, on the front end value based brandless on the back end. And this is, this is all built into an evergreen offer meaning it can run forever and ever and ever and never lose steam, and on the back end you're trying to maximize sales by by throwing products and offers that you believe in in front of your people after you've proven that you're going to give them value. And after you've proven that, that you really have their best interests at heart and that you're not just sort of a fly by night, you know just hey, please buy everything from me. Right. Okay. Make sense, you're giving value based stuff you're teaching people stuff that's relevant to your industry and relevant to your niche. So if I'm in the, if I'm an affiliate for a dog training course, and guess what I'm going to do on a create content around three ways to get your dog to stop chewing your shoes, one, step two, step three. Right. Okay. So all we got for today guys. Hope you enjoyed this mini lesson if you enjoyed it, leave a little comment, let us know that you enjoyed this, I would watch this again if I were you I would watch this again. This is one of the biggest mistakes that I've watched affiliates make over and over and over and over and over again. And it's not, again, if you've made this mistake or if you've done this before or whatever I'm not trying to make you feel bad, I don't feel bad. I've done it, everybody's done it, it's pretty common to have happened. All right, it's not, it's not a huge deal. Don't get down on yourself. But this is super important that you understand this, right, I see a lot of affiliate marketers who have made six seven figures and their business, ends up fizzling out and dying because of this loss of focus as loss of mental, the dynamic piece right they lose focus they lose their attention is scattered in a million different directions. And, and I just wish they could come into our blueprints and actually see what we just updated our Blueprints I wish they could dive into our blueprints and see how this is unpacked, step by step because I watch people sort of that focus at the moment that focus gets lost a little bit, I see it with, I've seen it with our affiliates, but I've also seen this in so many different industries I research and study and look around and all these different industries, and I see this all the time and I watched the shift right well where did their traffic start to go away. Always when there's a little shift in distracting, in, in their focus and suddenly that creeps in, and their main revenue driving business is now distracted, and people who are on their channel I like the hell's going on with this guy this guy can't pick up his mind or why is he keep changing, you know what is he keeps switching what's going on here. So if you've gotten into Evergreen, literally a business or even just an evergreen business, don't stop what's working, keep double down on what's working. And if you want to introduce something, introduce it as a one off to people that you've already got the know like and trust factor. All right, everybody. Peace out, have a good morning. We'll be back here tomorrow, same time, same place 10am Eastern peace out.

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Dave: Yo yo yo what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary just get my little camera here set up. Alright, so hopefully you guys are doing fantastic today. If you're not, you will be by the end of our time together. I'm, I'm assuming, and we are going to be talking to a girl, a woman, a mom, somebody who is also a nurse for 13 years, who has decided to stay home and is now a stay at home mom, who's been building the business, and getting some pretty cool results that she's going to be sharing with us today. So with that being said, all the way from Ohio, Jessica what's going on. 

Jessica: Hi. Thank you for having me. 

Dave: Yeah, you're, you're welcome. Matt said you're a little nervous before the show so

let's shake off and name it and claim it, and let's have a little fun. So you're kind of new to all this stuff your husband's done a little drop shipping before, right, right, right. But that was him not really particularly you.

Jessica: I mean we kind of both did it, but he really was. You know the front runner of it. That was hard. I don't ever recommend that to anybody.

Dave: Was it his idea to kind of get in as he is the more entrepreneurial one, and he kind of got you in or I'm just assuming that because you were a nurse for 13 years, or do you have the entrepreneurial bug.

Jessica: Sure. So, what really happened was I did stop working full time, about a year and a half ago. But we still needed to, you know I needed to bring in money. Still, we were kind of looking for ways to support us. And he was on TikTok, and he was like oh all these people are talking about dropshipping stores, and he was like, why don't we try it, and I was like okay, sure, and then we tried it and we tried learning from YouTube and that’s just when we felt right on our face, so. Yeah, it did not go over very well. 

Dave: Interesting, interesting, so when is that?

Jessica: Was probably about six months ago. Okay. And what happened after that. Um, well, I was scrolling through TikTok, and I saw that. I know you can learn so much from TikTok. Um, but I saw a woman and she was telling her story and it intrigued me, and I got that you know what if she can do it I can do it. And, um, you know, she was talking so great about how legendary you know changed her life. And I was like you know what, I'm just gonna take a chance on myself, and I'm gonna do it. And so, I paid that $7 And I took that course, and I'm forever grateful. 

Dave: Has it changed your life as well just like hers?

Jessica: Oh my God, that's, and like not even so much in like the financial part is amazing. But also, like, I'm a nurturer by nature. So, when I stopped working as a nurse, I kind of got into this like, What is my purpose? Like you have so many titles in life like, mom, dad, you know, wife, husband, but I kind of lost the, what is for me, you know? I don't have anything for myself and I really was starting to lose my purpose, and it really, I gained so much more than just, you know, making money, and I came out of my comfort zone, and it gave me confidence, and it's just amazing because it kind of unlocks, like a part of you that you don't realize is there like I never would have thought that I was a creative person, or, you know, in those aspects so it's really cool to see how much I've grown in even a short amount of time, you know, so that's really cool.

Dave: And there has been some money that's made you've made some, some, some pretty some pretty, you know, for some, I guess, everything can be life changing it's all it's all relative to somebody's situation. But I think that you wrote in your pre pre game, little thing that it was more than you expected so you've been surprised by the results that you've got here in the last couple of months is that, is that accurate?

Jessica: Yeah, um, you know, I went into this with zero expectations that I was really going to get anything out of this. And for me to have committed myself and put the work in. And to actually see results. It's amazing. And like, nobody knows that I do this, you know, so like when you, you try unconventional ways to make money. Sometimes people just don't understand what you're doing or why you're doing it. And because we had failed in our previous endeavors. You know I really didn't want to talk about my affiliate marketing because I didn't want people to be like, oh it's just another thing that she's trying and, you know, so really nobody even knows that I do this. Yeah. In some ways it's better that way. Right. Yeah, because not, you know if the people in your circle are not going to give you the energy that you need to keep going, you know, sometimes you just need to do it alone. And that's okay.

Dave: And that's one of the benefits of affiliate marketing in this business that we teach here is that you can do it worldwide you realize well I've got 50 friends, and then there's seven or 8 billion people in the world. I don't need it. I don't need their money. I don't need their approval, I can actually go out into these seven or 8 billion people in the world. I can deliver value to them, in exchange for money. I can even get validation from them, I can build new connections. I can still keep these folks as my friends, we don't have to break up, but I don't have to do business with my friends and I think that's the difference between the old fashioned. We're just a good old town who kind of shares referrals and everybody does business and you got the banker and you got the plumber and you got the, you know, the hairstylist and the barber right and we all know our buddy's business and we all somehow are financially connected with each other. We all write for me. Same as you. I keep my friends, my friends, I don't do business with them, right, because business tends to muddy up relationships in my experience, many business expectations get, you know they're not expectations are clear, somebody doesn't live up to your expectations, so I get to keep my family and my friends, my family and my friends and I get to just have fun and enjoy their company and talk about dumb stuff. When my hoodies smoke cigars or whatever. And then I get to come over here with you guys and talk about something that, as you said, they don't understand. They wouldn't understand it, they don't want to understand it, they, if, If it was just like, sometimes they're like, man, what do you what it what is it that you do. And then you're like, you know, you're like, and I don't know why people really even ask that because it's like, not like they really want to learn it, or write it, or to write, they just wonder, Are you like, are you doing, are you like just did you just get lucky that I can't get lucky like that too, you know what I just, you know what a lot of times I'll just say I'll be like a marketing company. And they'll just. And they'll be like, okay, okay. Right. Lately I've been like, well, I've got some investments and stuff. Yeah, I had a neighbor that asked me, what is it that you guys do because my wife and I are fairly young, we've always been the youngest people in our neighborhoods that we've lived in. The other day I said, actually a real estate investor, right, it's like, I do have some real estate, but like I don't want to go into explaining and just because I don't need to. And isn't that. I mean I know I'm ranting but I just can identify with that I know that some of you who are listening, can't yet, but stick in there, and we're trying to give you some hope for what maybe the future will look like for you as you as you keep going down that journey, right Jessica right. 

Jessica: Absolutely, absolutely. 

Dave: So, what, what, you know, would you, would you describe from an internal perspective, as far as the growth you've been encounter coming out of comfort zone that kind of stuff you mentioned introvert, and you talked about this a few minutes ago and I said well has it changed your life too and you said, yeah, there's the financial aspect but there's also, also the growth aspect, could you talk to us a little bit about what that experience from that side of things has been like over the last couple of months.

Jessica: Sure. So, you know, like I was telling my husband, I'm like, you know, if nothing more were to ever come of this. At least I know that, you know, I was always be, don't take the risk, play by the book, you, you know, do what you're supposed to do, and I learned that it's going to be uncomfortable to come out of your comfort zone, it's going to be hard, but you grow as a person, when you do that. And, you know, sometimes you have to feel uncomfortable, and just do it anyway. And, um, you know, I know it's hard, and like this is what I tell myself all the time, is that like life is hard, but you have the control to pick your heart. And if it's gonna be hard, you might as well get something out of it. Right, so like I just keep pushing every day and I try to, you know, know that it's going to be uncomfortable, but it's okay to be uncomfortable. And, you know, it just amazes me how much because I never posted on social media, never, like, I never, I had a Facebook page, but like I never posted, and for me to create like three to five TikToks a day is completely something that would not be my norm, But I did it. And, you know, it gets a little, it gets easier the more you do it. So like in the beginning, if you look at some of my TikToks from the beginning, I was just like, they're terrible. They're absolutely terrible. But you get better, and it gets a little easier, and you know sometimes it's hard for me to like. I know what I want to say but sometimes the words just don't come out the right way. And so a lot of times, I really speak on my TikToks like it's usually just set to music and I'm, you know, pointing to words or I put the words on the screen, because the words don't always come up the right way. Um, but yeah, you just kind of have to go with it, and it doesn't have to be perfect and that was another thing that I really learned, like most of my videos that do really well, either have like a misspelling or, you know, it doesn't have to be perfect. And so that I learned that too is that you just kind of have to let go, and it'll be okay.

Dave: Yeah, I want to just tease apart a couple things you said. The first one was that life is hard, and also business is hard and online marketing is hard and vending machine businesses are hard and growing companies are hard and being a nurse is hard and being about, like everything is hard. And there's, having a job is hard, being more is hard. All the things are hard, right, and, and just kind of settling into that and saying you know what I'm gonna, I'm gonna learn what it takes. So this is not so uncomfortable. It becomes comfortable for me. I was watching this thread in one of our Facebook groups about, you know, page builders and funnel builders and they always tend to be some of the most popular posts in our Facebook groups because they're, they're a way for us to kind of look for something outside of ourselves some tool seven thing, it's gonna be the magic bullet. You know that's gonna be the magic solution, you know, and it's it's a great analogy would be like a golf, a golfer who maybe many of our husbands or brothers or friends golf, and maybe you know the golfer who goes out and buys the most expensive set of clubs, and any still sucks, or the or the guy like me who might buy the most expensive or best or different or try you know all the name brand knives. Still can't cook or, you know, or the fishing pole still can't catch a fish. Right. And so, what makes us good as marketers as online marketers it's learning the skills. It's learning how to navigate the platforms, the marketing platforms, you know, how do we drive more traffic, you know your funnels are not the problem. How can we get to a point where we can also be making enough money to where we no longer have to shop based on price for everything. Yeah, you know, there's, there's this same post that I'm talking about everybody's like, well this is a little bit cheaper and this is a little bit cheaper and it's like, aren't you tired of shopping based on price. Are you tired of not ordering, what you want from the restaurant, because you always because you're always focused on the right hand side of the menu, and never the left hand side of the menu, right, because your eyes always wander over there to see how much that T bone steak is so you're going to go with the chopstick. I just, you know, for me, I, I, you know, I think that's one of the most brilliant points that you make. And that anybody could possibly make especially for our community full of a lot of new and hungry entrepreneurs who want to succeed. But spend a whole lot of time shopping around in researching and getting ready to get ready, because actually starting is uncomfortable. Right. And so let me kind of play around here, let me hang out in the Facebook groups, let me out now back to research now. Somebody else said there was this other tool that's $2 a month cheaper, this one that's got one extra feature, whatever. So back to the drawing boards in the safe zone. We're I don't have to take any action because taking actions is uncomfortable, what comes up for you as I, as I say that I mean you brought the point up but I just wondered if you had any. If you had any thoughts that came up.

Jessica: Yeah, so, you know, I get that all the time, like when people messaged me, or, you know, they are like well what do you use What software do you use what do you recommend, or, you know I don't have a lot of money right now, and I really can't afford to, you know, buy the expensive software. I usually just tell them, you know, sometimes you have to go with what works best for you, like in a matter of, is it user friendly, because something can be free. But if you can't use the software or it's, you know, not as user friendly as other software then you're not, it's not going to be good for you, so don't look so much at the price of things, because more than likely you're going to be able to make the money to be able to afford the more expensive software, or, you know, the more user friendly software. Um, but yes, a lot of people do get hung up on, I want to get the best value or I need to go with the cheap route. And, you know, I understand that because I did that too. Yeah, no.

Dave: And I think it's natural human nature to want to do that right to shop around to get the most value, but I think that there's a transition from consumer to creator. Yeah, that we have to take where we focus in order to be successful, I found that I need to focus more on making money than saving money. Yeah, you know what I mean. I need to focus more on creating and marketing than shopping. Yeah, yeah, it's a mindset shift I feel less than it is about me trying to convince anybody I'm not trying to convince any of you guys to buy the most expensive software or anything like that, I'm just my point is, is that we do this kind of dance around the tools and the shopping and the software and you know the tool, what, what landing page builder and it's all just procrastination right, you just keep going in a circle, and then you just, you know, you go in the circle and you go through the motion and you never get anywhere, because you're so focused on. Which one should I use, you know, and, yeah, you kind of get stuck.

It's kind of like the carpenter, I mean who I use this is this analogy to who would he I mean you get to hang out in Home Depot for four months, you know, go back every day looking for a hammer, you might buy a frickin hammer, you know, buy the hammer you just, just, and then because then you realize oh my god, regardless of what hammer I bought, I take it out to the jobsite I still need to learn how to pound a nail. If I don't know how to use the tool and I don't get comfortable with the tool and I don't get comfortable walking around with the tool I need to be able to use the tool in my sleeve. And the only way for me to do that is I gotta get out of shopping mode, get out of getting started with somebody, somebody starts their business. This has been a traditional thing, weather, no matter what kind of business you start. The first thing is, you know, back in the day. Got to get some business cards, you know, and then it's like, right. Number one thing, got to get some business cards, you know, yeah. And then it's like, I don't register my business and then it's like much, go down and talk to the Chamber of Commerce or whatever right and and now online it's like my domain name, and all these things are, you know, all these things are fine or whatever but it's like they're also distractions, You know, because the most successful entrepreneurs that I know. Shoot first, ask questions later, break stuff, go fast and it's about speed of implementation. And it's about thinking less, and more, you know, I don't know if you find that at all, but I find what I get in my head and I think about things too much. I just, it's never my best work, my best work is when I get a thought I get a feeling it's raw. I take it to the market, and I shoot the video right away. And then I build on that.

Jessica: Yeah, you know, I tell people all the time, the way that I kind of have to look at it, or how I did look at it was like survival mode. Like if I did not take this opportunity and look at it as a survival mode, then I would have looked at it as an option. And when you look at it as an option, then that's when the excuses, or, you know, why you can't do it, or you know, all of those come into play. So I really had to look at it like, there is no failure, like I have to go in, I have to jump in, I just have to do it, and there's no room for me to not succeed.

Dave: I guess, if you were homeless right i mean like you you still had a home and food on your tables and some money in your bank right so how did you create a sense of urgency. And that sense of burning the bridge without actually in reality, having, like your back against the wall.

Jessica: Well, because here's the thing, I honestly believe that you have to hit your rock bottom, to change. You know a lot of people don't change until they hit the rock bottom. And I was in a situation that yes, my husband does very well. And yes, I was a nurse, but I stopped doing that, and you know, we spent our entire savings through COVID, just to survive. And it was becoming a pretty bad financial situation for us. And you know I don't talk about this a lot, but I do provide care out of my house for kids. So I, I'm not really a stay at home mom, but because I do you know I offer child care out of my house. But I don't want to do that anymore. You know, I don't want to do that. So it's not other people's kids. Right, right. So, I knew that one, you know, if our washer where to go. I'm like, Where would I come up with that money, you know, so it was kind of a, you know, an uncomfortable situation, you know, my husband doesn't have a retirement his company doesn't offer that. And, you know, because I stopped working as a nurse, you know, that my retirement was going away so I'm like, there are a lot of things that are not good, and that I need to find a way to, you know, help our situation. So it was kind of a, you know, an uncomfortable, you know, moment there, so.

Dave: Well, I guess, if we, I guess if many of us here who are listening and many of us here who are kind of, you know, dealing with a bit of complacency, really ask

ourselves, how, how many weeks away, am I from true financial disaster, right, like how many, how many weeks or months of savings, do you have set aside. How many, how many medical emergencies

are you away from total financial disaster. And because I think we get so used to living paycheck to paycheck. We don't really realize how close we are to potentially being homeless to potentially having to pause on our computer. If you have a computer, or sell something in your house, or I don't know. You know, just really be in a tough spot. Yeah. And so, I'm just saying that you, although you were homeless. Although you still had food in your pantry. If your washing machine broke. How would you get the money to pay for that and your family needs to have clean clothes, your children need to have clean clothes, and then if you didn't make anything happen after that. The next step is, I can't pay the rent, I can't pay the mortgage, you know, and now you're in a really tough spot. So I think that sometimes we get a little. We get a little, like I said, complacent and comfortable with living paycheck to paycheck, and having so little, because we're used to serving by you being like that. Yeah. And, and we've never really known I mean I know before I started to actually develop some savings. I didn't know what it was like to have saved $1,000 in the bank account to me was like, I'm good. It's like, I look back on that now, there's, there's, like, a line of thinking like you never really know how broke you are, you broke you were until you got some money, you know, and I look back on some of those times and I'm like, Holy shit, how was I not freaking out, you know, like how was I not totally freaking out. But you know I did put the work into my business and I did, I did kind of have that same, so what's our point Yeah, I think my point is is that, like, like, I think she's right, I think you're right that hitting rock bottom, is, is, is sort of a necessity to want to change. And I guess here's some of what I'm trying to say. Don't get comfortable at rock bottom. Right, right. Aren't you right? Because what is more rock bottom than a couple of weeks away from not being able to pay my mortgage or my rent if all of a sudden, I didn't have any work. That's, that's it guys, we need to wake up. We need to wake up. I mean I know we may have, we may have watched our parents live paycheck to paycheck, we may have watched our parents rack up credit card debt, we may have, you know, been taught that just have faith, it's gonna come in, but you know what, it's a lot easier to live when you got six months savings, it's a lot easier to live when you don't have a mountain of credit card debt over your head. It's a lot. You know what they say, Money doesn't buy happiness, but most of the broke people who are broke saved that phrase, yeah. You know what I mean. Because I want to tell you something when you're staying in nice hotels and you're driving the car that you want to drive and live in the house that you want to live in. You don't say those kinds of things, because you don't want to lose what you have. Right, right, am I, am I speaking crazy talk. Are you picking up what I’m putting down? 

Jessica: Yeah absolutely, absolutely. You know people just like that's the thing is, like, at least for me, I didn't even know what affiliate marketing was four months ago. And if, and this is what I try to tell people all the time. If I can do it with zero experience, zero knowledge, even what affiliate marketing was. You can do it, and like, if it can change my life the way that it has changed my life. It can change your life, and don't, you know, if you are struggling or if you want more money or need more money. That's the whole reason to start, you know, like you can't see more money coming in, you can't make commissions, if you don't start. But yeah, don't get comfortable. Don't get comfortable at rock bottom, that's absolutely right.

Dave: Well, I am thrilled for you and thrilled for your family. I'm thrilled for you to know your future excited about where this is going to take you where you're going to take you. I mean, and, you know, I'll let you have the last word if you have anything else that you want to share, for people who might be on the fence or, you know who have kind of stumbled into our community or need to start over. What would you say to those people?

Jessica: I would just say that you can do, you know, people. you can do hard things, and you can do more than you think you can, but you have to just get started. And, you know, there is a community of support. Oh my goodness, you know, Legendary Marketer has such a wonderful support system that, you know, I, again, I didn't have any experience in the marketing world. And if I had a question, all I had to do was either one when I was going through the course, you know, talk to my advisor, or two, there is an entire community of people that want to help you that want to answer your questions. So like, if you feel like you're going to go down this journey by yourself. Like, it's not like that, and I have met the most amazing people. Through this opportunity, and it just, it's wonderful. It's wonderful the support that you get. It's wonderful, the friendships that you gain, and just the confidence in yourself is, you know, let alone a mate.

Dave: Well, I don't know about this whole not being able to find the words that you said earlier, But you've found some amazing words to share with us today, and I just thank you for your time. Keep up the great work back and, you know, continue to share your journey with us if you'd be willing.

Jessica: Absolutely, thank you so much for having me, you know, like and honestly, like, one last thing. You know when I purchased the course, and I was watching your videos and sitting on my couch, like I never in a million years would have thought that I would be doing this today, you know, like, you buy things or you purchase things, and you know you see people, and you're like, that couldn't be me. That couldn't be me. And it is, you know, it can happen and it can happen for anyone so thank you for having me.

Dave: You are. You're very welcome. So we'll talk to you soon, keep inspiring Be Legendary and give my best to you and your family. Thanks. All right, my friends. Another fantastic episode, a lot of nuggets in there, a lot of hidden gems that if you have your ever sifting pan out, and you're looking for the gold you can find it. In today's episode, that's for sure I will thank Jessica once again for coming out and sharing her journey with us. You can follow her there. At nearly, marketing, as it's spelled @milimktg she's on TikTok, at that particular handle. Alright see ya later, get outta here, peace.

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Dave: What’s going on Legendary people? This is Dave Sharpe, happy Monday. Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, wherever it is, where you may be tuning in today, we've got a great guest as we normally do these guests they never cease to amaze me how we continue to keep pulling people out of our community as a matter of fact, the waiting list to come on the show keeps getting fuller and fuller because we just got so many incredible people who are going through our training here and a part of our community and who are implementing stuff and getting results and I was thinking about something over the weekend we may be one of if not the only communities and companies that actually want to talk to our students who want to have real conversations with our clients who want to talk to our affiliates, you know, no BS just unfiltered, what's going on, what are you learning what are you doing, and this morning we're going to do just that. So I'll bring on our guest this morning, and we'll go from there. Welcome to the show, Michael. 

Michael: Hey, hey, this is Michael Martin everybody

Dave: Funny, funny story i i literally just I didn't roll out of bed, I've been up for three hours or so but, you know most mornings I'm hanging out with my son, my daughter I'm having a few cups of coffee and, you know, sometimes I'll do a little work in the morning, Michael but most mornings I try to not do any work in the morning, you know, so anyways I'll look at my phone and I'll try to you know look at a little bit of details about who the guest is going to be so I can have some prep. That's that I don't usually do that usually I just come out about two seconds before and kind of read things as I'm getting started, but yeah man I hopped on I saw your name, I was like, I wonder if that's the Michael Martin that I know from the past we have done some marketing side by side in the past together. And it sure was man, so like great to reconnect to we're reconnecting live in front of you. Who knows, whoever is going to be watching this, so welcome back into my world and I'll welcome myself back into your world and here we are.

Michael: Exactly, yeah it's good to be here. Yeah, it was just one of those things where, you know, coming back in the online space was a big decision for me honestly, it took me a couple years to actually really do it. And so I did look at, you know, different things on the market. I got to see what converts do well, what kind of, what kind of offers are out there because I personally love the info space. I love seeing people develop and sell things to people that are actually valuable. And then also, you can see them grow and I like to come alongside people and help them along the way as well, so. So yeah so I weighed out a couple different things and it was a lot of testing going on and I was just like I just couldn't let go of sharp because like I've always just resonated with your, with your story, your mess and I know a lot of people say that but that's the, that's the power in store. Yeah, that yeah yeah we connected on that. That's funny because you share that picture with your head at the computer right or you turn around like this, think of that picture. And that's one of the first opt in pages I ever used with an affiliate.

Dave: Yeah you talking about the one where I'm just sitting there at the king of the table almost and I'm just it's a real fuzzy picture and um, I got the iMac on the hair I'll bring it up, I'll see if it's the one but, yeah, I mean, we used to back in the day make them and I still like to do this, you know, ugly, ugly opt in pages, you know, we're looking kind of eye catching like what the

hell, brown, like you had brown color around it borders, it was so ugly but that taught me a valuable lesson back then is like it's not about how pretty, things are, you know, it's about what what's intriguing what's pulling people's minds and what's sucking them in and it was all about the headline and the picture too, you know, that yeah,

if you can use if you can kind of combine those two here let's see, share screen, this, this is, this may be the picture, I think it was. And you see that where it's kind of like, you got this one, then I've got, I've got a few others of me when I was. That's one that I know we used on a, on a landing page back in the day. I've also got these, or, This is me on a construction site. Right. Do you save these pictures from your URL, do you have any pictures of like when you first got started that you, that you use or reuse to kind of tell your story.

Michael: Some, not really accessible right now on this computer but yeah I had some old hard drives that I'll pull up for, for different things you know story videos, welcome videos that people can kind of see where we were in the past. Um, you know, it's been, it's been a long journey, you know we're nine years into this now, since we started into 2012, and we've had some really great, great success and then, you know, it kind of got pulled out from under us, you know, things like that can happen. And so I shifted, took a big shift. My wife was already in real estate because we got to retire her from her job. By doing online business I jumped into real estate with her just to take a breather, you know, I just had to get my headspace clear. And so we took about $3 million. You know, in sales, real estate business and did exactly what we were doing before, you know, driving traffic getting leads, putting people through an actual automated process that was through a Tete a Tete spot, artificial intelligence, and I just put all these things together because that's what I had learned in the past, right that's what we do. Yeah and applied it to that and within about 14 months in that business to $8 million business and rinsed and repeated a couple times over the last couple of years and did really well with it. 

Dave: Yeah, that's awesome. 

Michael: So yeah, so, so yeah, it's fun.

Dave: So I think just what comes up for me when you said that was how we were. We all of us in many of you who are listening right now are under estimating and undervaluing the skills that you're learning and how those are transferable. You know, we, we kind of, I feel like when we first get started. It depends on how its presented to us but have a very bizarre be mindset, like for me, my first business, like any business venture was network marketing, and I got presented this business opportunity and it was like the only way it was presented was I can get in and build this business only. And what I realized as I got into online marketing because I failed miserably offline, I was a 24, 25 year old punk kid who had no, nobody listened. Nobody made eye contact with me because they didn't want to catch whatever poverty, disease I had. You know I'm driving around in an old Ford truck, they're going, I don't want to do business with this guy now, later, never. right. And so when I came online, I started to learn, you know, direct response marketing, email marketing, there wasn't so many automated bots back in 2010 11 but they started to pop up in the last four or five years. And if I wanted to go back now I've stayed online this whole 10 years besides a year or two, I didn't do much but if I wanted to go back into construction. I would do it tote I would do it totally different than my dad did it, and I would protect possibly blow up my construction business, fast, and it scale it in a way I have more leads that I knew what to do with because of the transferable marketing skills, and I just want to highlight that because over the past few years since, in between your online marketing it's like a sandwich you went back into real estate, you have. That was the meat of the sandwich here for the past few years. You used what you learned to take a real estate company and excel its growth. And I just think we undervalue that, because we just don't know what we don't know. We don't know how powerful these skills are that we're learning. 

Michael: Right, exactly. Yeah, it's funny because people you know back in when I was doing online marketing because I'd say, Well, what would you do if all this fell apart, you know, that was always the big question like well if you don't have these products to sell him or this company goes if you're an affiliate of this company and they go away what happens, whereas you're right. It doesn't, I just redirect it, I take everything that I'm doing now and apply it to something else, whether it's online, semi online offline whatever and that was the shift I had to make I was actually thinking about doing a small business you know local small business type, you know just sell ads for them to a platform for them and just do that. We've got a business right here that we can already take and excel. So that's what we did. So what brought you what made you want to get back online. Did you forget what you said a few minutes before we went live was the 32nd Did you get bored or what was it that drew you back on to the internet was it was it COVID That pushed you back on it, was it just you had that itch you needed to scratch, you're too good at it to not do it, what was it, I missed that, I just missed the camaraderie that we would build here in regards to just helping people win and helping people succeed. I'm a nerd. I'm an analytical kind of nerd. I kind of like to sit at home and you know do the numbers things and kind of check out conversion rates and things like that so I love, I love doing all that stuff. My wife is the talker. She's the real estate agent like she's the one who goes out and just loves to do all that. I told her when I started with her I said this isn't a forever thing, right, this is just for right now until we can, you know, figure out what direction I want to go. And with everything out there you know there's there's so much English so much garbage has been tossed around over the last few years and I just kind of steered clear and just wanted to do, do it right, you know, they wanted to get with the right program the right people, and I didn't, I didn't even reach out to you. Here's the funny thing, I didn't reach out to you, I didn't reach out to any other people that I was testing there or anything. I really just wanted to get in and start from scratch because in all honesty, three to four years old, long time, like in this world, it's a very long time since people have moved on to create their own products, they've moved on to other opportunities or they just gave up. And so I just have literally started this from scratch, and I wanted to do it that way because then I can go to somebody and say yes these products and what they teach actually do work for these skills these traffic skills these sources, whatever it is, do work, and not just make a bold statement, you want to be a product of the product, if you will, you know, as we used to say in network marketing right. Go there, don't go there. 

Dave: You know you want to be a product of the product.  Oh my god the different phrases and various shit I heard and learned from, from, from MLM and network marketing is just, just, money's in the front, money's in the front. Front Loaded with lotions, potions and pills sit in the garage right Monday. That was the thing. Yeah, why we get into this, I think the thing that attracted me to digital auto right in marketing, was that I was doing marketing. The first, you know, deal I was ever in it was a cell phone company I've signed up the company shut down before I ever got the company went out of business, but then I got in, and then I did a skincare company, and it was these purple boxes and and I built a big huge downline in a pre launch but that company never launched right so I was successful, but I'd, but I didn't actually make any money, I just, I, you know, I use the lead generation skills to kind of generate a bunch of leads and. And then I got into numismatic coins, which, I see that resurfacing nowadays they're back into that same ol would you like to own gold and silver, you know, and I'm like oh my god this is like deja vu. Because I got numismatic coins that were the auto ship product, and I was paying $100 a month for it I was like this is great, I'm collecting gold and. And then, I was so broke one month, I didn't have the money to pay my half of the bills when my, my girlfriend, now wife, and I was like well, awesome I got these assets right I'll just go and take them to the pawn shop or the gold shop and I'll just I'll just sell them, and I get there and they're like, Well yeah, thing that's worth $20 I'm like when I paid 100 for it dude, and I didn't understand the difference between bullion and numismatic. Right, right. So I've done so many things . It's unbelievable but this is selling information right Michael, it's this, it's this fascinating business which is what we teach here at Legendary. The core four ways to sell information online courses, coaching or events, live or virtual or affiliate marketing, and the idea that I can sell, package my information, or I can just promote somebody else's information. There's no deliverable there's no, there's been all kinds of businesses dude over the past five years that have satellite drop shipping all phone games has just steadily stayed the same, or, or grown was funny because you mentioned that because there's a course for every one of those things, you know. Right, I mean, that's the whole thing is, when you think about it, the Googlers who are teaching Amazon and dropshipping, they're actually making their money from selling records. Right, exactly, exactly.

Michael: And that's insane that's, that's why I love this space and here's the thing, even back in my, in my, in my hay days, you know, I had a lot of, I had a great Twitter strategy that I would use and in some ways like launch but that no product, because see everybody is different strokes for different folks right and I've had traffic stuff where I've could have done paid traffic and done products for that as well and I'm just not a product guy, like I'm the type of guy like I want to sell other people's stuff that's just appealing to me. Some people want to create courses, y'all create courses I'll sell it right, but I don't have to deal with all the merchant processing, there's a lot of things that affiliate you know we don't have to deal with. It's a lot of headaches, and it lets me actually focus time on helping people develop in what they're doing, you know, and that's that's always been my passion and my focus.

Dave: So, I would prefer to be an affiliate to a man. I got into this company we were selling this was 2016, and I got into this company, and we were selling water machines water filtration devices, and we came in and we just blew it up like it had a, it had a multi level marketing plan, but we were mainly we were doing, we were kind of building like affiliate marketers online, and we went to this company event. And all these old school guys are like they put our like landing pages and Facebook site up up on the upon like literally in this room full of leaders do. And they go, this is how not to do it. Here we got. We blew that out so bad that they had. A delay of like 90 days to get the product out because we came in and sold so many of these water machines. So I was like why? Why are people such crabs, new Why are people so small minded

that they are so threatened by something new in people who have an abundant mindset, because they just asked us, How are you doing it? Can we learn from you? We would have happily shared. Yeah, so I was like, god bless it. And that's, and that's when I was like, You know what, I gotta create what I would like and Legendary has. I'm no longer there. I happen to be some of the glue here but the community has blossomed. And it's become much bigger than me at this point, but I would just love to, I don't think, I don't think people realize how good you got it when you're literally just selling other people's stuff especially if you can make reasonable Commission's, right, and you don't have to deal with, as you said merchant processing all these other kinds of things.

Michael: Yeah. And, you know, just in transparency, you know, it has its, it has this downside like you were, you have, you know you're at the mercy. And that's kind of what pulled me away from the industry for a minute because we had, we had the rug swept out from under us, not just once or twice. And but my thing, that that was partially my fault I have to take ownership that I was putting all everything into too much into one thing. Does that make sense like, I'm a believer in focus, I'm a believer in focus because you've got to, you've got to create a baseline of a business, whether it's your lead generation, whether it's your sales or money coming in, before you can actually start trying to venture in other things you see all these people trying to put all these eggs in all the different baskets, but there's no yolk in any of the eggs. So, yes so you got to, you do have to just get busy work because the beautiful, beautiful things of affiliate marketing high ticket affiliate marketing is, you can generate pet Yup, very fast, very fast. If you get busy and, and understand how things work in this world. So, yeah, it's a great space.

Dave: Yeah. You know one of the things that we talk about a lot here at Legendary and we've been kind of hammering this quite a bit lately is this idea of not going out there and being a kind of a sales person for the product that you're the product that you're promoting and. And what we mean by that is, is, you know, it is basically going out there and announcing the actual name of the product and or the company that you're promoting in your content, and even on your landing page. I want to make this as simple as possible so everybody understands what I'm talking about. If you do that, it's like you're a glorified salesperson for one product. Right. And instead, as an affiliate what we should be doing is, we should be building our personal brand, right now, whether that's David Sharpe, whether you want to call yourself, you know whether your money man, whatever your doesn't matter whether you use your name or whether you use something that's, that's, that's, that you think is resonates with with you or kind of describes you, that's more generic. The bottom line is that what happens, let me make this really simple, not only can you pigeon self pigeonhole yourself into a corner, kind of putting all your eggs in one basket. Here's the other problem is that when you're out there going, Hey I just took the 15 day challenge or I just went through Tom, Dick and Harry's training course over here and I want to tell you all about it on your TikTok via YouTube video, you know what people do, they go, especially if it's the first video they've ever seen of you, they go, you know, let me go look this up myself. And then all of a sudden, guess what you didn't get them, here's the simple thing you didn't get them to opt in, so you don't have their email you can't follow up, and you didn't get them to click your affiliate link, so they become cookies to you. If they do buy.

Michael: Yeah, yeah, it goes back to what we were joking about product with the product you know you have this, this persona for yourself but here's the thing, and I'm a little counter, counter when it comes to this whole when it comes to the branding conversation because I think too many people take it too seriously. It's like, just be you just need Dory, you know, some people go, they get caught up so much in this whole like, I've got to create my brand, I've got to do this I got to do that shit about your brand, you know, I mean, like it's one of the things, not at this point, like, go out there, get educated, do it in your, in your persona your name, and just, and just go out there and do it, and let the results of your lifestyle at the results of whatever it is you're doing let that brand, you know, and then if you want to start developing some sort of revenue. So many people get so wrapped up in this whole brand thing or I agree, and it drives me up a wall sometimes, you know.

Dave: Here's the thing, if Matt if, you know, I'm an Apple guy. I think most of us, most of us are at this point. If this had no name, the no name device, but it worked like it does. I wouldn't care, what it's called. If it was called nothing, just oh did you get the nothing phone. No Name. Whatever. I wouldn't care because of the value that it's adding to my life how easy it is how easy it is to understand, and I think for us. And I, I also think for you. Being kind of out of the game for the last couple of years. It has been more proven over the last couple of years that nobody cares about high production, Nobody cares about logos, because of the content the videos, the stuff that's going viral that people are eating up to is the lowest production just somebody pulled out a phone and shake it in their hand, it's grainy, but it's valuable. It's funny. It's interesting. Right. That's what, you know, that's the videos that you pull up on, and I think a lot of marketers get frustrated dude because they're like, why is my stuff not going viral Why am I not getting the attention, I've got I upgraded my phone I bought the latest iPhone I've got the high tech equipment I got the microphone, you know like, I don't eat this microphone I only use it because I bought it on one of those. Oh, I'm going to upgrade all my audio video equipment tangent I got I used to go on more I'd spent all this money on dumb shit I never used. But I do this show every day. Look, you can see my ghetto setup, this thing, I don't even know why I've got that back there. For some reason I think it makes the image on my webcam on my computer look better. I've got a, you know, I got a goofy little one of those eye. Things that clips to my desk here to get my face some light which, you know, only shows more of my, my wrinkles and grays and everything else that's going on in my face. It is it's a ghetto setup I'm 10 years into the game. I have money to spend on equipment if I want it, but Michael, here's the other thing: I wear the same shirt every day. I wear what I wear. Sometimes I will, I just pick the shirt up and smell it, I had it on last week, I just gave it a sniff test like, you know, nobody cares.

Michael: They don't. 

Dave: They don't do video training the bag that actually had done training in an event, and it's all video training. I'm like one take, you know, start learning how to do things in one vs two back when we were doing a lot of blogging. Blogging puts videos on blog stuff, because that's the thing for me, like it's always been the one time I stuttered. I don't care, you know, whatever, let's just put it up there and see what happens because people resonate. You know, that's what they resonate with if they see if they see it look too perfect than it looks unattainable for them, they're like, I can't afford a camera crew, I can't afford this. And it puts it already puts doubt in people's heads if they can actually build an online business, or

train their dog, or if they can, right, because with anything that let's look at another niche like. So let's say I'm, I'm watching dog training say that's your niche. And, you know, there's a whole big professional crew there and it's all edited up, I'm going to be thinking, what are they adding out that the dog just beat the guy in the hand right I'm going to be more skeptical. So the other reason why one takes one of the reasons why I go live and I prefer to kind of deliver content in this format is because there's not a whole lot of dudes out there who can, or are willing to just sit with a different person every day, totally unscripted in life. They're just not not in this industry. It's rare and I don't know anybody else who doesn't, but, there's no bullshit here. There's no edits, there's no horseshit, there's no What did they add it out, oh maybe Dave said something that he regrets and not if I say it's out there, somebody heard it. 

Michael: You gotta go, you just go through it, you know that’s it.

Dave: I‘ve done this now for a while on this particular show, so many people in our company and Matt have done it, that does it at least once a week, sometimes more. We all get that practice of delivering content and just talking and not worrying about not being inside of our head and so forth. And it's, you know it's a, it's a valuable thing so anyways, I wanted to ask what's different four years ago compared to today on the internet.

Michael: And I was gonna just touch on that it's crazy because you know, when I Okay, when I came on, Let's start over there when I came on Twitter had no paid marketing. So Twitter was a free for all, you know, so that's where I kind of found my baseline was I need to go find free traffic. Twitter is a great place, but whatever there was no out no no algorithms at that point you know it's it's a rolling feed. So I started there and found some really great results and then of course paid, you know sponsored traffic came in there and then it kind of just algorithms kicked in and kind of screwed it all up. But that was fine. It gave me enough of a launching point to go. And then I did I was on the forefront of YouTube ads, like when YouTube launched their ads, I was one of the first ones on there so like I was paying like maybe one or two cents of view and it was just like, there was no there was no smart bidding then it was just, you just did, you know, and there was nobody really doing it because back then, nobody wouldn't do videos. Everybody was scared to do videos. So we killed it there. And so, so figuring out that part of things, you know the YouTube traffic side of things, all these smart bidding and letting things kind of just go for a while so the hour and that's, that's a big different thing for me as it's been hard to adjust for that because I'm such a hands on, I want to change things so the impatience in me is killing me. One of the other big things is Snapchat, all those things, all these quick video, you know, video social networks that have been around. Instagram stories and rewind. I am now. Yeah, I just started on Tik Tok about five weeks ago, and I didn't tell him. Yeah, maybe I'm just hard like, I'm gonna hop on Tik Tok because I've got other networks right but I've actually pushed out and said hey I'm on Tik Tok and follow me. But like I said I want to see how fast I could get out there. So I just hit my 1000 followers Yes, last night while I was asleep. So, my little link, you know I'm in, I'm in business now. And, so I can do labs there now, which for me is going to be crucial because that's where I can actually go in and really just talk to people like this cuz I'm all about raw transparency, let's just talk. So, I think it'll be fun. Yeah.

Dave: Well, I'll tell you the one of the big differences between now and five years ago, is, is a platform like TikTok, and it's just the beginning, you know, for this. I mean they really, they really nailed something and did something special with their platform . I don't know what you call their algorithm, it's just it's more than an algorithm though it's the way that the app. The way that you can create content on the app, integrate so many things. The music that the edits how easy it is to use, and then reach how they, how they, they kind of push it out to a small audience and if it gets a certain amount of views or hits a certain criteria they push it out to a bigger audience. And if you keep hitting the criteria for the next level, you know, like the or your watch time or whatever continues to meet the criteria then they push you out to a bigger audience, and we've got people who, you know, in their first whether it be five weeks, five days, first five videos first five months, I mean, sometimes we get in this instant success kind of mindset because of TikTok, but are just doing what you have to basically sometimes spend years on YouTube trying to do. Yeah, and it's, it's, it's just, it's, it's, I would say that, I would say that the paid advertising that you described where you kind of, you can, or they want, you can set it and forget it, and let the kind of smart targeting kind of kick in on a platform like Facebook is different, but I'll tell you what, there's a lot of things that are the same. There's a lot of things that are the same. And this is one of the things that I want to say to everybody who's listening who thinks that you might have gotten to the game late, or that you missed out on something you missed out on some opportunity, whatever, here's what I've discovered is that the same thing that worked 10 years ago, works today. It's, it's your message. It is his, it is how you deliver your message and your content. It's how you tell your stories, not your story, you know, sometimes we get caught up in thinking that marketing is about going out and telling your life story. Well guys, I'd like to start my tech doc channel today and I'd like to take it all the way back to 1963 Right, no, it's just learning how to make a point and tell a story. You know what I mean, wrap that inside of a story. And just, yeah, we get, we get, we, it's not even about we're getting good at it, I mean I tell stories all the time and it's like that kind of fumbled out or whatever but it's, it's just your message in how comfortable, can you be in your skin. And the same thing that applies offline when you're, you know, kind of, you know, it's like my daughter right now she's five, she's in camp right now, she's she's doing acting and drama this week, and she gets embarrassed, right, and she says that she knows how to identify the feeling her mom helped her with that. And she gets embarrassed. Right. And it's like, I said to her this morning I said look, I said, the quicker that you can get over that, just in life in general, and just get comfortable in your own skin, just have a good time, the better off your whole life, the more successful because being embarrassed is simply a reaction, it's dominated by caring what other people think. And the more we can get over that, the quicker we can get over that, the more creative we are, the more in flow state we are, the better we can get at delivering value in serving, being in the moment with somebody in thinking about them and how can I serve them, how can I make them laugh or how can I entertain them with this story, Versus, how do I look.

Michael: Right, exactly. And that and see and for me you know I didn't care before either really but, but there are certain things you have to let go of sometimes and sometimes old habits are those things like I mean, when it came to doing TikTok, you know, I didn't have three minute video start now, which I would never do a three minute video anyway it's not just doesn't doesn't fly for me when I've tested it now but you know, letting go of all the different things that I thought that I had to do in a video right like I gotta have this or I got to do that or, you know, you got time for that, you know, And, but the upside to it was, this was six, you know, when when I, when I first left the industry, I had about, we had we just had our twins, so they were one, and then we have a baby now who's 10 months old so we've, we've had a lot of kids and lo and our houses, hell and we'll sometimes mount, like I said my wife had to take the kids out for this hour so I could actually have quiet time. But the beautiful thing with TikTok is, I don't have to talk. You know to me like it's true up all believe in some of the guys here it just kind of did the whole point and thing and just that, and you don't realize that in the background it's clack, clack, clack, clack, clack going on in my house right and it's, it's just, it's been interesting, but it's definitely like you said a lot of this stuff is the same. I mean, still building lists, we're still engaging on the technical side of things, you know, we're still, we're still, the whole game is getting people to to look at whatever you're selling, and then generating a list and engaging that list and doing that through their stories, they're like you said, telling stories I mean yeah the pitchy stuff, eventually, people like to buy stuff eventually but you just got to sprinkle it in there, you know, you can't just go, hey look what I'm doing come by this look what I'm doing come by this. No. Where's the value? What problem are you solving for these people? And you'll hear this over and over and over. We serve solutions, you know what I mean, that's what marketing is, it's not, it's not buy buy buy. And so, so yeah, a lot of that stuff is the same, just the modes of delivery at times are a little different, you know that's that's really what it is.

Dave: Yeah. And how can you make somebody, I mean I think the secret to selling. If I could just try to keep it as simple as possible, make it so nobody feels like you're selling them. Right. You're always just suggesting inviting, right, like if I was going to do a webinar or even if on a webinar I was going to do a pitch, or in a video I was going to do a pitch. I would say something like, I'd like to invite you to the inside, right, I would like to invite you to take the right, I would, I would like to encourage you to take advantage of right it's never like this kind of blatant sales pitch I think a lot of times when we think of, you know marketing we think there's this, there's got to be this awkward kind of where you present in you, you, it's like you're starting to sell and people go, Well, I don't like to sell. And it's like, we'll never shall always invite, always suggest, always just simply recommend, you know, and that makes it really easy to transition from whatever you're talking about to the story you're talking about. And that's the formula, It's like, let me tell you a story. And then the transition is simply, well look, this is, this is the product that I used in that scenario that helped with my, my, you know, my rash. Right, so I would recommend I would invite you, if you're having that same rash, click the link down below, right, and go check it out because let me tell you something. My inner loins, were to work its magic down there right, tell the devil was between my thighs each and I'm thinking of this because we're in Florida in my, I'm actually old enough, in, or maybe I'm heavy enough now I don't know, but I gotta I just recently switched from boxers to briefs. And the reason is down here in Florida. My thighs as I'm walking around my son, outdoors, they're rubbing together. It's like there. It's like it's starting a fire in between so anyways.

Michael: Yeah, I get it, we're close enough, we're in Georgia so we get it. Yeah, yeah, I just, I try to tell people like, think of yourself as like an air traffic controller it's down there directing the plane. You're just, you're just guiding people. They don't need to hear you all the time, you know, occasionally, yeah, but you know just just guide them to where they need to go, and it helps get that people through that process a lot easier.

Dave: But what's your experience, we'll wrap this up so you can get back to your family, and let them back in the house you know they're, they're probably outside looking at the windows of the door What, what's, what's your experience with say our 15 Day Challenge and how we've done things here and our, you know, I would assume you are recommending that. What would you say to somebody who's new and what they might expect to experience as they go through it.

Michael: Yeah, I would, um, I mean, yeah, I went through it, you know, I could, I could easily go back and look at it. I actually went through it, and, and it's great like I made it step by step. Now, for some people, you know it's gonna be brand new information, you know, I mean like they're gonna it's for most people, I'm sure it's gonna hit them like a ton of bricks and they may have to go through things a couple of times, which there's no problem that like there's no, this isn't a race, you know what I mean and I know a lot of people get into something like that and they want to speed through it and just just check the box right. But, like we were talking about earlier, all these skills that even in the 15 day challenge that you're being exposed to and starting to learn more about are skills that you can take and create a whole business around just one of those small one of those skills you're learning whether it's understanding funnels and capture pages are like, you know, building list and just marketing, there's so many different caveats to these businesses that you should just, you should try to soak it all in and then understand the end game. And for me personally the way I look at it. The end game isn't that you're going to be doing all of these things all the time for the rest of your life trying to build an online business right, you get in and you understand how everything works. And then you start to get some results, you take it, get some results, and then you pick the things that you like to do, you know, you pick the things that you're good afternoon, you're passionate about it, take the other stuff in either outsource it, automate it figure out ways I mean we're in the world of automation these days no people don't, you know, some people say all auto autopilot stuff you know No, but it's a it, that's the world we're in now like I said I did it in real estate, You know automated the whole front end process of just engaging people through text message and just warming up and it's really just a qualification process who's serious and who's not. So I don't want to waste my time calling people who aren't serious. So so yeah but there's all kinds of things you can do that you'll, you'll absorb through the 15 day challenge, And, and then actually, you know, figure out how to blueprint for your business, moving forward, and it's going to look different for everybody that's why, that's one thing I like about it to the whole eight the 15 Day Challenge all it is is it's not a one size fits all right, there's, people are going to find what they enjoy what they don't, and they're just going to go and focus in between. No, all of it you've got to understand the mechanics of the whole business, because you can't really tell people you can't automate. You can't outsource stuff that you don't even know about, you have to understand a little bit about how it works. You don't know if the person you're paying to take care of it's doing a good job or not, you know, so understand it and understand that it's full, this is a business. And like we talked about earlier, you can take this and do anything with it. Like for instance, online space and offline space I mean you can help so many people build their small businesses, You know you can, you know just build yourself up. There's just so many avenues you can take with this so my other recommendation, last one is, you know, use the resources that are there, contact that business advisor and get on the phone with them and understand that they are there. These are people who had my son go through it as well. I didn't even tell you that I have an older son who was 21. He's 21, and I had him go to the challenge, and you know get on the phone with the advisor and just give me his take on, you know, and what he felt about it, and he loved it like he felt like you know they were walking him through they knew what they were talking about they weren't. These aren't like sales people, right, and people like always think oh I'm gonna have them call up somebody to be sold, no he actually was talking to him about how what kind of products, he's marketing as an affiliate and showing him like different things and it was very, he loved it, like and I had him test a couple other ones too and it didn't go so well for him. So, um, so yeah I would definitely. That would be my number one thing, stick to it, get through it and connect with the advisor.

Dave: Well, it's, I like to, I like to think about it like this. You're right, people are going to kind of choose their own path. But what we do is give them sort of like if you think of a football field. There's boundaries, right, right here is kind of the rules to the game. Here's the boundary stay within these boundaries, stay within these business models, right, and we'll give you the tape to study, you know what I mean, you can understand who the competitors are out there who your competition is which in many cases is just going to be yourself, but we'll give you the tape to school give you the tape to study, we'll give you the place to run. You know what I mean we'll give you the place to run, we'll give you the audible giving you, in many cases you'll build a team here too. You'll build a team of people who support you. You'll build a team of people who celebrate you, you'll develop fans. Seriously, developing fans people come to watch come to listen from this community. I'm not even talking about people out in the potential leads or people that you're going to do business with, I'm talking about you'll get friends, teammates and even fans, right here from this community. And then it's up to you how high do you want to run the score up, you know, how high do you want to just want to play the game, you want to hang out at the stadium, or do you want to run the score up. And we got people who are running the score man. I'm looking forward to watching you do the same so thanks for your time, brother. Thank you, like we said, Thank you for the time as well, and let me know if there's anything I can do for you. Okay. 

Michael: Awesome, thank you. 

Dave: All right. See, Michael. All right my friend Michael Martin and I are going to put up his info one more time. He's on TikTok. He's new; he's five weeks into tech talk. Remember he's coming back. This guy was marketing in succeeding at a pretty high level back when, when he was doing it from 2012 to 2014 or 15 or 16 I guess he did it for about four or five years for you took some time off, and then has come back now. And, I'm really excited to watch him. See what he does with his business, how he operates on platforms like TikTok that weren't around back five years ago, and. And that just goes to show that just goes to show my friends. If you think you were late to the party you were late to the game, you ain't you ain't you ain't late to the game. The best time, right, to plant a tree was 20 years ago, but the time was today. I like that. I get out of here. I had a fantastic day. We'll see you guys back here tomorrow for another episode. Peace.

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Matt: Greetings, I got my hand on the way there. Greetings everybody, welcome in this is Wake Up Legendary today is Tuesday. Today is Tuesday, I think. I'm really used to hosting these. On Wednesdays, and so I've been guest hosting, see if I like it

better that way or that way, to keep it this way. And I've been guest hosting more this week so, how are you doing? We had a last minute cancellation so we're going to change things up a little bit today we're going to do some free coaching, we'll do a little q&a. We'll give people a taste of what our Thursday business blueprints webinars are like. So welcome, in Good morning Coleen and Nina, and Kathy what's up. Good morning, Thomas. Maria Tariro Gus, what's going on Yamini good to see you. Who else is in the house Felix what's going on Benny, always good to see you, Carlos, awesome welcome in Dave, all the way from Australia, what time is it over there. Hey, and also, as you're tuning in as you're getting in here. Where are you tuning in from, and you don't have to give us your GPS coordinates, I'm not trying to be that creepy but where are you tuning in from let us know where you're tuning in from. And it's just cool to see all the different places around the world that people tune into this thing. It's very cool. What's up, Christopher Harvey, Catherine, Cesar Judy. Who else jeez, Brenda Pixy crystal Judy's from Iowa Coleen. All right, nice 12 hours ahead okay nice Virginia floor Michigan Kansas Ontario is Edmonton Alberta Houston Nebraska all kinds of good stuff. Well welcome guys.

Comfort specific time I should be. Sorry guys, we're back baby we're back. Hey. Hey, are we back. Are we back, let me know. Sorry about that guys. Can you hear me okay am I coming through loud and clear. The. What I was doing was flipping through my apps, closing down all the other apps that were open on my phone and then I just closed this too. So, sorry about that.

Hey, so, I'm back. Can you hear me okay am I coming through? Maybe sometimes my video might go blurry a little bit but my audio should come through just fine so we'll run through that regardless. I'm just chilling out in the backyard today so basically the deal in Phoenix is, if you're out and about before about 8am You're good, and it's gonna be it's gonna be really nice and you're gonna have some good sunshine but after eight eight you're gonna have some cool weather but after 8am It's like, it becomes a nightmare, so. Yeah, Ben, he just, yeah, I just took a quick coffee break just needed a quick coffee break guys that's all. Hey, so, today, for everybody who is here, we had a guest lined up today. He had an emergency come up last second. So, basically about 10 minutes before we were gonna go live and just said like hey I can, I can make and so. So we're gonna have a totally different style of life today. I'm not going to present to you I'm not going to, I don't have PowerPoint slides or anything like that. What I thought we could do is if you guys have cue questions, we could do a little q&a in the in the chat over here, I can give a little bit of, you know, update on on what I've been thinking and learning in digital marketing recently too but sometimes people are out here and they've got questions and they're wondering, different things about, you know, digital marketing or you know whatever, I don't know, marketing, TikTok, Pinterest, Facebook ads all kinds of stuff, how do I drive traffic, how do I get going. That kind of thing so Gage has a question, gauge we are working on. We're working on this. We've had this request a few times. Will we be getting any Pinterest classes soon, we are working on that for sure. And we'll be getting something out here, relatively quickly. 

At what point in the course slash blueprints do we start to make posts in AWeber pretty much starting at all. So Nina, this is a good question but I want to push back on the question just a little bit, right. So, I just want to make it really clear that like, this is your business right so sort of all address the question, but implied in this question is, is sort of this feeling that like, someone needs to tell you when to start your business, right, or when to start. You should just start, okay, that culturally, or even socially a lot of times in school or different stuff. We've learned that we need people to tell us when is the right time to do things but you're an entrepreneur now, empower yourself, you can just start this right now, like just start. Just get going. There's no, you don't have to wait for anything, but we do go through more detailed stuff about how to set this all up in the decade in a day so if you haven't attended that yet, that's really when we sort of get into all of that kind of stuff. So hopefully that makes sense.

Glen, I'm not gonna hit big on affiliate stuff just more from a compliance standpoint but if I was going to answer this more generally, if I was starting promoting anything I would set up a tic tock account, I would probably post minimum five times a day edutainment educational, educational, entertaining type of post. Yeah, that's what I would do, um, where do you find content. I mean. So typically if I join a niche, if I'm going to enter a niche which I've done in multiple different niches, just for testing and playing around with stuff. I've gone into the spirituality niche. I go on TikTok and I search hashtags like hashtag spirituality, hashtag manifestation, things like that. And then what I'll do is I'll look at their most viewed videos, because guess what those are their most viral videos they've gotten the most followers, and I'll figure out ways to recreate similar style content I'll change background images I'll change the audio I'll change a few things but I study I become a student of exactly what type of content they're creating what are they doing in the content that type of thing. Is it necessary to have an active online presence before applying for affiliate programs? Not necessarily but there are going to be some affiliate programs that won't really play ball with you until you do. So, for instance, like Chewy. Well maybe not chewy so I got to choose without an online presence but there are a few like digital products, and physical products that if you were going to apply to be an affiliate sometimes they require that you have. They require that you have a following, or some history of promotion, just so that they can review it and make sure that you're compliant, but in general I would say no, don't wait. I wouldn't wait on that. Is there a specific time I should be posting. No, I mean, you can look in your insights and see when are the most viewed videos, when do you and when are you getting most views. So I would post during the most popular times obviously. But in general, No, not really. So, I just wanted to touch on this because I hit on this a lot in our Thursday business blueprints webinars. Is there a specific time, the answer, honestly, is you're asking kind of the wrong question. I, it's not a bad question to ask, I always specify it's not a bad question to ask, but I want for everybody who's out there sometimes beginners and newbies in the online space or in content creation think that it's about sort of finding the right pieces of the algorithm to fit in. Rather than asking those questions, the better question to ask is, what, how can I make my content better and make my videos more viral. The content always wins. That's the kicker, always wins. So it's less about when the video is getting posted, how many hashtags I use, it's always more about the content, so hopefully that's helpful. Okay there we go. And for those of you who are just tuning in, we're doing a q & a. If you've got questions you can ask them in the chat. We're just doing a quick little morning q&a For our Wake Up Legendary show today

make soap. What kind of content would you suggest for YouTube videos? I do a few soap making videos but they don't get much traffic, candy, are you selling soap or are you, you're making soap. Okay, this is easy. So if you're making and selling so that's going to be my assumption here, or you could be teaching others how to make So, which is also something that you could do as a digital product just think about that. But, um, first of all I would get on, I would get on TikTok. Because if you're doing a lot of YouTubing, YouTubing is going to take more time so keep doing YouTube but add in TikTok on top of the candy. And then the other thing that I would do is I would create specifically for the content, I would create content around the chemicals that exist in different soaps. So, this would be so easy for you to go viral on TikTok, it's not even funny. You can easily go on TikTok pull up a different kind of soap, each day or a couple times a day might get expensive buying a lot of crappy soaps, but you could go into the grocery store, and pull up a soap, right next to your face and be like, here's all the nasty terrible stuff that's destroying your skin that's inside of the super popular soap you're ready, and then you can cut to the back of the ingredients and start pointing out the ingredients right. So I think there's a way for you to go really viral if you get creative with your content. And then from there you could also, you could also be an affiliate for different kinds of kinds of soap you could sell your own soap you could sell a digital course on how to create your own soap that's healthier, better, all kinds of stuff like that, hopefully that's helpful that would be a really easy one, though, because not a lot of people who do that kind of stuff are good marketers, so people who make so not a lot who are even decent marketers I see them at farmer's markets and stuff like that, and they're they're just they have this amazing product. They have no clue how to market it, so can you talk about the difference between building a website versus click funnels are other options streams of income capabilities and things. So Brent. A website is more like it's a site that you're going to have multiple different links up at the top. It's really like, it's the it's the Home Hub, and base of a brand or a company right like that's a website, it gets more info and it's more informative, a sales funnel is directly, its direct purposes to drive leads and sales and conversions, right or appointments or whatever your conversion is that you're trying to get. So, a website is more of like a legacy, kind of, it's a branding tool. Okay. Most beginners in their beginning days don't ever need a website, frankly, and some don't ever need a website, unless you've grown into a big larger company, but the beginning stages a sales funnel to drive leads and sales is really what you need. That's the main difference though, the next decade and a day, I believe is next Friday. Next Friday. Not this coming Friday but the next one. How do I know if my funnel works? I tried to test it, but my Aweber never saved the email. Oh. So, Gabrielle, that would be how you know if it works. If the email doesn't show up. The other thing is, don't use the same email that you signed up for your AWeber account with, because sometimes that won't work. So you need to use a totally different test email when you go and actually test it. If you, if you wanted to email.

Actually if you want to drop the link to it down here, we can test it out for you, I think drew might be actually watching this, he can test it out and message you, or you could email drew at legendary marketer.com And he could at least just give it a quick look over question Is there more training to the deck is there more training to the decade in a day, I'm not sure what that means, Brian. Is there more training, I mean if you attended the decade in the day, that's all of the training predicative it's seven and a half hours.

There's a company that charges 30 grand set up and running commerce store is it worth it. Kevin that's just a question I can't answer I don't know any details about them. In general, the only way that I would pay 30 grand for an e commerce Store is if I had proven sales already but if they're just setting you up a fresh, new e commerce Store from scratch. Absolutely not. That is absolutely not worth it. That's my opinion. That's an insane price for an e commerce Store, but if it's different if they're selling you an asset, right, if they have a consistent. So if I would if it was me and I'm not giving you advice here but if I was sitting down and I was looking at a 30 grant ecommerce store, I would be looking through their sales history right if they're going to they're going to set this up for me, then I want hard numbers don't believe anything that anyone ever just tells you about their business or about what they're selling you asked for hard numbers, right, so what do you mean 30 grand isn't currently generating sales is it already set up, are they creating this from scratch, do they have the history, what's, you know, what's the percentage of success rate on their ecommerce stores are they, how long do they last with the lifespan of these stores right did they last 24 months do they last 36 months for the last 48 months do they last 10 years or their stores got dating back to 2015 Did they see an uptick in just 2020 because of the pandemic and now the sales are going to drop off. What is, what are they selling like see all of this type of type of stuff Kevin is stuff that you need to be really digging in, otherwise if you're not digging into those things and you're just slapping around 30k You're doing what's called a form of self harm meaning you're self sabotaging here and you're putting yourself in a situation to get scammed. Right. A lot of times people say well I got scammed a lot. The truth is, a lot of times people put themselves in a situation to get scammed I used to do this all the time, so I'm speaking from experience here. I dropped $1,000 on two different solo ads and never produced a single lead for me. So, you know, don't put yourself in a situation to get scammed, be my answer. I think, I think, in general, not in every case but I think in general, Gaby solo ads. But if you do your due diligence to the nth degree, then potentially get some results from some solo ads. But in general, I would stay away. That's, that's, I want to use vendors lists as my lead magnet. I'm kind of circling one follow up send Tabitha I would send follow up emails that talk about how to choose vendors, and what to look for and what you do in your vetting process so not only give them a vendors list teach them how to use the vendors list, and then sell them on whatever you're, you're trying to sell.

Let's see what helps to stay disciplined creating content. The way that I don't know but the way that I've sort of taken this approach when I was starting to create content for the first time was somebody explained it to me, as if, like, basically it's a life or death situation. Okay, and I know you've got to trick your brain into thinking this, but it's a life or death situation you've got one shot. Today you have to wake up and make three pieces of content, life or death. Right. It's sort of like the Senate and and when you think about it that way there's a million things that you do throughout your day that you could create content before that. The other thing Alberto is ask yourself why is it so hard for me to create this content, what internal blocks do I have because if you find it really difficult like this guy, Mark who was on yesterday I think he's actually in the comments today, he creates on some days 15 pieces of content, 10, 15 pieces. And it's just a rapid fire, right, and he's got a very, very full time committed job he's got kids under the age of 10 So, there's just generally if people aren't creating content consistently and doing content creation consistently, there's probably an internal block you're worried about what other people are going to say you're worried about what they're going to think or what they're going to comment or what your family's going to say or what uncle Leo or Tony's going to say or, you know, whatever. So, there's probably more at work there but, in general, I just tend to wake up and be like hey, the only important thing for me to do today. The only thing that would be a failure is if I don't get my content outside of that live life as normal, but I've got to get my content. I believe in the back office you can re attend the decade in a day. But you could ask your BPA, or email support at legendarymarketer.com but I would check your back office first. So there you go. Let's see, let's see, let's see. I'm sorry, let's see. Let's see. I don't know. I lost the questions but I'm scrolling up bear with me bear with me bear with me bear with me.

Okay, being on camera. The back officer states there what is the best software to use to edit videos, I use software. Well, I listen, I would just make all your videos in the TikTok app and make it really simple but I download TikTok, and I make all my videos inside of there, the ones that are edited a lot unless you do a crazy good job, the ones that are edited a lot, they don't look natural, the platform they don't get a lot of views. But outside of that I use a program called ScreenFlow. You could also use Camtasia, you could also use OBS or an open broadcasting studio. I think it's called OBS and is free, it's on Mac and PC. So ScreenFlow Camtasia OBS. Also, Robert, I suck at my videos, you don't suck at your videos you're just new. Right, it's like, what a what a three year old who just hopped on their bike for the first time say I suck at riding a bike, it's like, no little three year old, you don't suck at riding a bike you just freaking out on it for the first time, of course you're going to, you're not going to be a pro. So, refrain from that though because using I suck as anything or when it applies to anything it's just kind of a kind of shitty way to talk about yourself, you know what I mean. At least that's my take, I would say, Hey, I'm not a pro at making videos yet but better be better damn well believe I will be here soon.

OBS Premiere Pro Yep. Let's see. So wait, I don't need a website, well you don't need a website, you need a sales funnel you need your own funnel. Where do we sign up for that I already covered? That seems a little harder to be creative selling digital products but some ideas on what some ideas to post on stories ideas and places like that quick little videos, dt. So I go through this a lot in our business blueprints webinars. I host a webinar every Thursday for our business blueprints members, and one thing that I have done over the course of the last six actually eight months. This started back in October of last year, is I tell people there's a really easy formula if you're creating short bits of content, it's, you start up the video by saying, with some sort of little intro hook curiosity base thing so you say something like, I'm going to show you how to XYZ, without, and then insert a pain point, right. So, for instance, I'm going to show you exactly how to get that freaking dog to stop barking at the freaking mailman, without having to shame it or without having to throw stuff at it or without having to hit it or abusive, right, I'm going to show you. The friendly way to finally get your dog to stop barking at the freaking mailman, or for that matter, the Amazon guy or anybody who comes up to the door, right, you're ready for it. Here we go. And then you give step one, step two, step three, this can, you can apply this to any niche soap making. We just talked with a soap maker on here just a second ago. I'm going to show you how to make clean, healthy, non irritant so in four simple steps chicken soup. Right, stuff like that, right, or here's three things you need to look for in the soap that you buy. That won't irritate your skin. And then he flipped to the back of the label you say the first one is the second one is this third one is this. Right. Comment from or follow from whatever those pieces of content go viral all the time, and I've been teaching this for decades on the Thursday business blueprints webinars we've been doing now for about two and a half years straight. And people are getting huge results from that type of content and that type of formula. Huge. What can people do and get their URL? Okay, yes, we just need a TikTok. Okay.

Um, what kind of help do you need with this? I can help you. I've been building WordPress sites. Okay. Say, I don't know what niche, is Pinterest a good strategy to learn? Yes it is. Pinterest is a great strategy to learn. Let's see our Blueprints constantly updated with content information as it comes up. Yeah, we just did a, so Jenna we just did a whole redo of the entire blueprint section. And then, for instance, like right now. TikTok is by far the hottest most traffic driving platform that we've seen in a really long time. And a lot of people are also gaining a lot of interest in Pinterest. So we're going to update the blueprints with some Pinterest training coming up here soon. Don't sit and wait around for that by the way if you guys are sitting, waiting around for that don't never wait for things right. That's why I hate even talking about it, but we've been working on it for a little while now, but we just bring in new training into our Blueprints all the time. And we've also, the, the interesting piece about keeping them updated is that's part and parcel why we did the Thursday business blueprints webinars, it's very strategic in why we offer weekly live coaching is because we'll also cover things like that right somebody's like, Hey, I got a cool case study about Pinterest or hey I got a case study about this TikTok funnel that I did or whatever, that will dive into it, the last three weeks we've been on with this, with this girl. This lady named Angel, she's in the health and fitness niche. She's picking her product so we're going through life, and helping her pick her product. We're also going through live and, and she's unpacking the different style of content that she's doing and how she's creating different styles of content to grow her channel faster so there's, it's kind of built in. Right. Part of our entire course itself is live training and it's weekly, so it's always, I mean it's never pre recorded, which is really cool too. So, is there a way to set up the ClickFunnels so that it's on the base root of the URL versus a sub folder, yes, you can do that Richard you go into your domain settings, and you set a default funnel for your domain, you can absolutely do that.

The 14 day trial expired recently I'm going to click models to set up my sales funnel, before it could actually, I was asked to provide my business name for tax compliance I was not aware that I may have, you can just put in your own name, Paul, if you don't have an actual business, then that's fine, you just need to just put in your name, you're a sole proprietor, so. Yeah, I haven't recommended this book in a long time Benny, but I should recommend it again. It's called Building. Building a story brand, you guys can see it right here, I don't have any financial gain by talking about this book, it's just a damn good book, it's an awesome book on marketing. I would also recommend it in terms of marketing. I'm a little bit of an old school marketer. So I like things like Dan Kennedy. It's a little bit old school style marketing but I think used in current updated technology like TikTok or content creation on Pinterest or something like that is really valuable. He's a big direct response copywriter. Dan Kennedy is his name. He wrote books like The no BS guides to copywriting no BS guides to time management stuff like that. The other really good book flipping with the business blueprint still helps in this type of business book, flipping cheese. I'm not sure we and Emily and I'm just going to tell you straight up. I know that we don't have a section on books, but that's mostly because we focus on selling digital products right so, but I don't want to take away from your sales. I mean if you're killing it with book flipping, go for it. Keep rockin, You know I never discourage people from the businesses that they're currently doing. Here's what Emily probably would help you on after you've got some successful flipping and you've got some real tips and real strategies. We have our digital courses, business blueprints, which teaches people how to create awesome digital courses. you might get some real good tips on how to sell courses. Right. But if you're just beginning and getting started and you're like hey I need help with book flipping, I'm not sure that we would be the best fit. But again, you're probably here because you're you're looking to sell stuff online so make sure to go through our challenge and and learn why we recommend high ticket selling digital courses, particularly high ticket courses but you know that can high ticket whatever that's, it's, that's a relevant term right it means different things to different people.

Maria, the answer to your question is yes, although I don't want to get really deep into like our affiliate program on the show that's not really the purpose of our show.

If you're an absolute newbie, you can have a look at a one on one coach and it's going. Alright guys, please try Maciel. This isn't a place for you to pitch your, your coaching or service, it's a good way for you to get banned from our page though so guys, no pitching please.

Damien, you can contact your BPA about that. To set up your LLC and stuff like that we do give you a free console for that. What's the best way to set up a business name, um, like brandy. I'm not going to give you a lot of. It's not really my role to give you a lot of tips on that but, you know, when I first set up my LLC I literally className enterprises, LLC, so you can do. Barnett enterprises LLC you could do B B Enterprises LLC right for brandy Burnett, whatever you want to do respond. Don't overthink that though, just an LLC. Um, let's see I need some creative content from a paranormal page. I'm running out of ideas. How do you do it, Jennifer, I would say do green screen content. So have like paranormal videos or stop tell stories about the craziest paranormal stories right and search on like your TikTok. Search on TikTok paranormal, and look at other top videos or like weird videos and then just do green screen videos over them. So that's what I would say if I was sitting in your shoes. That's what I would do. Um, watch ghost hunters. Brandon: Yes. Brandon, yes, Brandon, I would say it's always good to follow up.

Okay. Chase Yes It very much is when you're selling things to cold traffic, guys, you have to understand that, typically for a digital product you're only going to convert like half a percent or 1% or 2% or maybe up to five to 10% of those leads into sales. Right, so not even just clicks I'm talking about leads people who watch a sales letter, or read a sales letter or watch a sales video. You're not going to convert like 20% of those people into sales. I mean you'll be lucky. I mean, you would be you would be crazy lucky to convert 10% of them, but 5% is is awesome 2% is kind of industry standard for any sort of cold traffic offer so if you've got no sales, here's Chase, get, get yourself 500 opt ins and then tell me, I want you to email me, what is your rate of conversion, then I can tell you, because the main piece about making sales online is traffic. Right, especially in the beginning it's not as much evaluating as converting or not it's just about how do I get more traffic, that's the big kicker.

Okay, we've got a lot. We've got a lot of comments. How do I choose what to sell. I mean, the first piece is what niche you are in, so figure out what niche you want to be in, do you have. Do you have any particular niche that you want to create content in or that you want to sell a product and, ultimately, you need to go through a little bit of a process, and you can do that in our affiliate marketing blueprint, or you can do that in your business plan class. So if you haven't gone through our challenge and got to the business buying class that's what I would recommend, the page got no support and on how to get past this. I paid off. Okay.

I don't know what to do because I feel like it's holding me back and we have three kids. Let's see. Okay, so, Brent makes sales but makes some sales, my friend. Sales care revenue sales cures all, especially that one. How do you find a niche when you have to look deep for talent? I have no passion for a particular niche, well what do you love? Jay, what do you love? What do you love? That's a good question to ask, what do you love or what means a lot to you. Right, what have you learned in the last year that feels important to you that feels meaningful to you. That's a good question to ask to start. You can always link it in TikTok  June, you can just do a business account you can, and then you can put a link.

Can you talk about all the equals niche, as well, not sure what that means, sorry. Yeah, reach out. That's a, that's a good Brent, you can reach out to Megan. She's in the comments right here, she's very trustworthy, she's spoken to our mascot. Her and her husband have spoken at Brian and Megan has spoken at our masterminds they're awesome people. They won't scam me. At least they better not. Now they want, they're great people and TikTok they're several green free green screen effects, if you're doing TikTok Yep. Alright guys, we're 39 minutes and we're gonna wrap this up for the day. Hey, we're back here tomorrow we've got a guest lined up, I'll be here. Same time, same place tomorrow for Wake Up Legendary and take it easy, Have a good Tuesday.

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What To Do When You’re Lacking Time In Your Online Business

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Matt: What's going on everybody? Happy Monday. Good to see you all, I’m guest hosting today. Okay, hang on. Just realized that my microphone was up about a million miles away from me so

Happy Monday. How's it going? I'm happy to have you here. I'm guest hosting today Dave is out today. And so we guess hosting the show. We've got an awesome guest as usual today, who's kind of sitting in the on deck circle right now. And the funny thing is we have guests who fill out a little questionnaire, and it said something to the effect of, I don't know I get 40,000 subscribers on our followers on TikTok and I looked last night when I was kind of, you know, hey, who's the guest tomorrow. What's, what's the story? And, you know, lo and behold, he's got 66,000 followers now so he's, he's going at it hard, and it's just creating awesome content, and he's doing a great job and I think we're gonna learn a lot from him and his journey today, both in terms of strategy and how he's going about it but also in terms of dude's got no time I mean, he's just like the man's got no time it and that's a frequent thing from people that I hear is, Well, I just can't find the timer I just, I don't know. You know, how am I supposed to create three videos a day? I don't even know how it's possible. Well, we're going to bring on Mark this morning, and what I would like from all of you guys who are signing in here, I see Jordan Colleen, Robert. Adam Marie. Catherine Willie, Mark. Who else is here in the comments? Zinab, Sorry if I got that wrong Robert De what's going on. If you guys could comment, with, with some sort of emoji. Like a clapping emoji or a, you know, I don't know hands emoji clapping or something to welcome Mark to the show. Awesome. And let me see if I can bring him in Mark. Yeah, there. Mark: Hey, what's up. 

Matt: Hey, welcome on.

Mark: Oh, it's a pleasure, man, thank you, I'm stoked to be on. 

Matt: Yeah, awesome. So, I'm gonna let you kind of just tell your story and your journey to this whole thing you're, you're a senior VP, you've got three kids under the age of 12 which is nuts. and you've got, you know, baseball and cheer and all kinds of good stuff so why don't you tell us a little bit about you and sort of your life, and then, and then bring us into this for entering the online space, and why you chose to do that.

Mark: Yeah, yeah absolutely so I work for a midsize company in northern New Jersey. I run the company. It's about secondary people so my schedule is 7am to eight 910 o'clock at night, Monday to Friday sometimes Saturday sometimes Sunday. I have 3 kids under the age of 12, two boys and a girl. They do like you said baseball cheer lacrosse gymnastics. Fucking gym, you know, whatever, whatever they're gonna do at any given time, you know, and it's always funny because it runs on like a Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday baseball games on Sunday, so it doesn't stop. I got divorced a few years ago. And with that came alimony and child support, and kind of just having to encompass all the financial responsibility, my life on top of now, somebody who's no longer in my life. So, you know bills started piling up and it was just tough so every night I'd sit there you know kids are going to bed 10 or 11 o'clock at night and I'd sit there and I'd watch, TikTok, you know, was everybody go on tick tock, you know you're watching people shake their ass and, you know nice cars and I came across one person, one time, like six months ago about affiliate marketing and I just kind of started looking at it a little bit and then I kind of saw it more and more come into my face every day you know every day, and April 16 My son turned 12 And that was the day I pulled the trigger and I paid seven bucks for the 15 Day Challenge and, and then it was just all go no quit, you know, from that point on, I made my first tic tock video may 2, and I haven't stopped since June. It's been a crazy ride.

Matt: Well I mean you're sitting here, basically 63 days in are so 65 days let's call it, and you're basically averaging 1000 followers a day, stupid, stupid. So, I don't even like that my brain can't comprehend that I started 10 years ago when like, you couldn't really grow us social media following now you wasn't really a thing. So it was like if you were new or you were trying to grow something online, it was like, I guess you run paid ads or I guess you throw some videos out there on Facebook and hope your friends and family, like us, or something you know it was just weird but now there's this whole ecosystem of TikTok and and now even Instagram reels. We've got a few clients who are just smoking it on Instagram reels YouTube shorts Pinterest. That's crazy. It's wild time so you come online and purchase our challenge. Had you I'm not sure if I read this but had you purchased anything else before this had you tried other stuff.

Mark: Nothing, nothing at all. You were the first and the only program, I don't. I did a lot of research before I bought it right seven bucks, I mean shit I spend $30 a day on coffee and Starbucks you know it's it's what it is, but I did a lot of research, and I realized that you guys are the best at best right so prior to doing what I do now I was an auto mechanic for 15 years and, you know, you can't learn to be an auto mechanic on YouTube right. You can't go and work on people's cars for safety reasons and just learn from somebody who has to go to school. So I went to lincoln tech and it was 60 grand and you have to finish the school you can't go back and keep doing it right unless you pay another 60 grand, and now it's like a five grand, at least in New Jersey. But I did a lot of research before I pulled the trigger. So, you guys were the only person I went with.

Matt: Got it. Yeah, in your, in sort of diving into the 15 day challenge, as it's brand new. What was that, so I'm guessing there were sort of some pieces of it that were really exciting and like oh my gosh this is so cool. Were there other parts that were like, I don't know about that or I'm a little skeptical or was what was like the sort of journey of going through the challenge I'm curious.

Mark: Yeah, so I have to see this right like you guys change my life. Alright, let's just throw that out there. And even at 41 years old, I'm going to try not to cry like a little baby, but you guys straight up change my life. The course was amazing. Dave was awesome. Even my advisor, and I'll throw a big shout out to Jonathan. Jonathan Wheeler, I speak to the guy, three times a week now, you know, two months pass, you know we talk quite often. But the motivation behind it to just kind of kick my ass into high gear and keep pushing was great. The course in itself is awesome, you just, you learn it all and you guys structure in a way where it's not too confusing. But if you get hung up you can just kind of go back and watch it again, you know it's a no brainer. So the course in itself is amazing. The Blueprint was amazing. I mean everything was amazing. I couldn't, I couldn't speak more highly about it, and that's why I kind of decided, I'm going to promote you guys not because it was easy, but because it's the no-brainer thing to do. Yeah, I don't feel so good about it. Yeah, it's awesome. I mean, when I promote this program, and I get on Tik Tok and now it's funny because when I took the course I wasn't expecting much right, no disrespect, but I was just expecting Seven Bucks I'm gonna learn through some shit, you know, how hard could it be right, right. Oh man, it's, it's, it's hard, you know, I spent six, seven hours a day in the business now, two months in, like, 10 at night till three four in the morning. I'll put tick tock videos up at three in the morning like Yo it's 3am Eastern Time, and I'm still posting. It doesn't stop right because it's a global thing it's not, it's not dedicated to just me in New Jersey, it's, it's the planet so you know you have to constantly keep going. But the one thing I learned was, it's possible to do it, it's really that easy to make money online, once you kind of just build through the process and the steps and follow the process and believe in the process. 

Matt: Yeah, I think that's a big deal. Well there's, I mean, she's just so big. I don't know, there's just such a.. Yeah, sometimes I forget that for $7 Right, there's a ton of value that's given ton of value that's provided but also, like, Sometimes I forget that it is so challenging right so I've been through the course so many times but I've also like helped revise the course so many times that I've kind of been through and I'm like man, okay yeah I know there's a lot there. But it is true. Every time I go through it and I've been through a lot of trainings online and stuff but every time I go through it, I'm like, like, seven bucks for all of this like seven bucks to get an inside look on, you know somebody who's done hundreds of millions in sales online I mean, what other place, like, are you gonna find that, I mean, other entrepreneurs other people who have done, you know, even eight figures online aren't willing to really give away their secrets and, you know for under 1000 bucks man I'm really deep, sort of secrets, deep stuff that's in there it's just really powerful I think it's, it has to be the most undervalued course or program on the internet by a longshot $7 It's like a large latte at Starbucks, you know, it's crazy. So without question, you get going. Enough about the challenge, tell us about your, tell us about like your decision to go on TikTok, was it hard, was it easy, how's the content creation process been like, you know, take us back to the first day you're posting like what's that like, you know?

Mark: It's scary. It's scary right I mean, I'm a jokester right I joke around at a time, but like, in all seriousness, like, I'm a 41 year old guy with a gray beard and I'm losing my hair and I'm like, Who the hell is gonna want to listen to me right like so, I get my basement at like 10 o'clock at night and I go up against the only wall that still standing in my basement because thanks to Philly marketing and making money I can now renovate my house, you know, on top of everything else I'm doing right because I needed something else to do right. So I get in the basement and I get home, you know I put the kids to bed and I'm sitting here on a stool and I just fired off a video, and I just kind of ran with it, and people started watching and I got addicted to it right and you're nervous and you're shaking and it took me three hours to make a 32nd video. And, yeah, it's not because you know you're like shit I my eyelids this way my hair like I don't know, it's weird, you know, and I just said, Fuck it, I'm just gonna fire it off I did, and the next day it was three videos and the next day it was five videos and she I post 10 videos a day sometimes 1015 videos a day. I follow the Grant Cardone method, you know, just, you gotta get out there right if you're not first or last right the Ricky Bobby thing 1015 videos a day, dude. And some of them get 10 views and some of them get 3000 views and I don't give a shit because if I can reach one person or two people out of that 30 people that watch my video. I have an opportunity to teach somebody what I know. And to really set them on that mat so yeah it's a scary process but for I'm helping a guy right now in the UK, right. And the guy's in his 50s and, you know, the job that he did before this was completely off spectrum. And I said to him bro just post it, just make the video, don't worry about it. There's always going to be somebody out there that wants to hear your story, they don't care what you look like they don't care. They have no hair, they don't care that you have tattoos, they don't care that you smoke cigarettes or drink tons of coffee just posted, and go. And that's really the best advice I can give you.

Matt: I love that you actually mentioned that Grant Cardone thing about that too. I personally like, I don't know if I love the guy, but the principal. Next thing is so powerful and I remember. I remembered this private a couple years ago we were, we used to do these live events at our studio and in or in St Pete's. We used to do these Brand Builder events, and I remember saying, you know, look, you can either take the average approach, the typical approach that a human would take which is kind of a mediocre approach. So if I come up here and I say you got to post two or three videos a day, that's what you'll do is the bare minimum you'll post too. But if you go in and you take the approach of. If you take the approach of Grant Cardone with the 10x rule is like well, take whatever result you want to get, whether it's, you know you got to post two videos a day to get X amount of dollars, why not 10x and be the best, and obsess over it. I love that you pointed that out because you're doing it right now there's no secret. I mean there's no you know secret potion that you're pouring on your content you're just doing, you're just going harder.

Mark: Yeah, and you know it's funny. And I'll get into this in a little while if we have time but I mean you guys have taught me so much about growing as a person, and expanding my empire right because for me it's not just making a couple of bucks. This is my new life. Right. But before I get into that. Imposter Syndrome, right we talk about it a lot like thinking that you're not worth it, and thinking that you're not good enough to receive blessings in this universe right and I post about that a lot in my Facebook group because that's, that's the hardest thing is overcoming what's in your mind. You know, I look at Tik Tok and I follow a lot of the big names out there, especially the guys that are on your platform and your scoreboard, and I'm like man this guy hit you know 100 grand 150 grand she's been doing it five months, what am I doing wrong. Should I post more videos like her over like him and I do it, and it doesn't do anything. So I had this light bulb in my mind. It's like This is me, this is what I'm trying to convey. This is what I'm going to do, and that's it, I'm not going to follow somebody else. I'm not going to do, how they do and I'm not going to sit how they sit, I'm not going to put the backdrop that they have. I'm just going to pull my phone out, talk like me as a person and convey my message, and that's it. And that's the best advice I can give somebody when you're first starting out and you know you got to have the best backdrop right you got to have this behind me, or you got to be in a certain place. Now, I'll be walking in the mall with my kids, man I pull my phone out and just start making TikTok. And it's crazy because it's just something pops into your head and you got to talk about it. Just do it. Don't worry about what the trends are or what TikTok algorithm is doing or just put videos, and it'll get out there and that's really the simplest form of it. Wow, I love that. I love it. Oh, it's crazy, it is. But yeah, that was the biggest challenge for me. And then once you know, like I said before, once I took the challenge and I kind of grew through and after the first 30 days I didn't start making money until after like two weeks and right so really it's been 45 days. And like you said I just hit 10k on your platform yesterday right so I hit gold before we came on, and that was kind of my goal, just to kind of hit gold right before get into because that's such a big accomplishment, but I promote on so many other platforms, not in the sense of social media but when I get my youtube channel going, or my Facebook group going, and I start sending out my ebook to people. There are other forms of affiliate links in there that allow me to make several income streams at one time, but teaching somebody else what I know in such a short period of time is really where my satisfaction comes from in here, because if I can do it, middle aged, middle aged 41 year old guy who's got no time in the world. To do this, and still make almost $20,000 in total in such a short period of time, anybody can do it.

Matt: Yeah, I just, I think, as I look through sort of your channel and stuff. I think that one big advantage that you have with the sheer volume of content that you're putting out is almost mind numbing to me. But I think the big advantage that gives you is, is your, especially when you start to collect followers, the amount that you are in front of those people is insane. But also, I feel like it gives you an advantage because on your end, you are, are, your brain is learning this new skill at such a rapid rate, and you're starting to pick up on things that work things that don't work. Also, we had a guest a few weeks ago that talked about, you know, the more that you post and the more that you sort of are active on social media posting videos, your brain starts to learn and be able to almost predict like ooh this is going to perform well or or. This isn't going to perform well. And I just, what I see on this is, like I just see a rapid improvement as I scroll right. I just see a rapid improvement both in content style, and also just in design and just like how you're learning and, you know, whatever you're putting up is like the, the thumbnail, not the thumbnail I can't think of what they call it, 

Mark: Like the banners?

Matt: Yes the banners Yep, they're just improving and improving and improving and the beautiful part about it to me, is that you're doing all of that without really I mean maybe you care but it doesn't look like you care about what it looks like or about what people might say about you fumbling through your beginning stages. Talk a little bit about why you just don't care or maybe you do care, but how do you how do you, what gives you that confidence, what gives you that sense of who cares.

Mark: Yeah, I don't, I don't care what I look like I don't care where the background is or how the camera looks on me right because it's not about that. It's about what I'm putting out in the world to try to get people to understand. But what motivates and drives me is my work ethic, or my mindset to have a better life because I was kind of just done right. You're tired of being broke all the time, right, like, I'm tired. My kids have a good life, but it's a good life because I work 20 hours a day seven days a week, right. It's not a good life because it was handed to them because I just made all this money. And I need to ensure that those values are instilled in them but that they have food on their table that my bills are paid and, and that they have a sense of freedom that I never had growing up even though my parents had a wonderful job but we grew up poor shit, you know, I don't ever want to give that to my kids and I'll work as hard as I need to. And for me, if you're really doing something you love, it's not really working right. So, this does not work for me, it's fun. It's addicting. It's, uh, you want to be in front of the camera you want to start talking and, and I just don't, I don't care because the ultimate goal is to get people to do what I do to help people succeed as much as possible.

Matt: If that makes any sense. Yeah, totally makes sense. And I also feel like that that might be one of the secret tickets there is that, that sort of sense that you want to leave with your kids, and that sense that you want to instill because that's a power, I mean, that's a powerful message, that's a really cool powerful message.

Mark: Like I tell them all the time. I'm sorry to cut you off but I tell people, like your situation right now right. Look at yourself. If you did one thing, and it didn't work. How long would it take you to get back to being broke, right, like this. So if you spent seven bucks. I tried the blueprint. I had to borrow the money because it didn't happen. Right. And what's the worst that can happen? I borrowed the money and I gotta pay it back in five years because I'm broke, but if I spent the money and nothing happened. I'm exactly where I am right now. If I spent that money and it changed my life. What do you have to lose?

Matt: Right. Yeah, not a lot, I mean seven bucks.

Mark: Yeah, I mean do these, these things cost 10 bucks a pack right I mean, you know, it's it's it's a no brainer to people and they got to get out of that mindfuck of I'm not good enough, you know, everybody's doing it if it was easy, everybody would do it. It's not fucking easy, it's hard as shit, what the reward is huge. If you just do it. Just do it, just do the word man, it's crazy and again you guys taught me, like, yes I'm promoting your course and yes promoting ClickFunnels and AWeber and get response to a traffic sequence and you know I promote seven different items with the course and that's wild. you know where my mind is right now 40, or 67 days later, buying real estate, and building an empire and taking these high income skill sets that I learned, and I'm working on a consulting company right now and how to how to go into small businesses, and make them profitable, and learn that skill set from you guys, like, affiliate marketing is wonderful, bro. That's the passive income that's gonna stay there forever. I can't, I can't lose the money I already made right. It can always grow higher, but I'm working on creating another company to help people do what I do. And then, real estate, and then another avenue and then another avenue and once you get this in your head that you can't be stopped, it just, it just fires off at a million miles now. And, and you're just growing at such a rapid rate that you can't stop. I love it. That's the beauty of it, man. It's wild. It's life, life altering. A lot.

Matt: That's really cool. Hey, on your, on your TikTokI wanted to just also touch on something on your TikTok you do something with, you know, you give away basically a free ebook, right on your thing, that sort of helps brand you sort of helps build your brand, as opposed to and we just sent out an email yesterday to all of our customer base and whatever about that basically about, you know, Hey, start start promoting yourself like serving building your brand. With that, how, you know, how is that gone, and then also you know sort of what's been the response and. Have you seen it when you start doing that and, and, you know. Yeah. Has it helped or just told us about that experience creating.

Mark: So, when I first started my beacons Link was directed right to your sales page right. I, again, you fail a lot in this business right you fail, you just constantly try and then I did the two page process and that worked out pretty well. And then I came across the legend right Calvin and I mean everybody talks about him right he's he's the myth that he's the legend. And I got his ebook and I'm like, yeah, yeah that's it, that's it for me. So I redesigned something. And the minute I sent that out is when everything changed for me. And then I kind of split tested, and I took it down and just went to a different website and then went back to a two page process and I wasn't getting the hits like I was so it was only when I started getting out a free ebook was when my traffic really just went like this, Because I gave value to somebody right I'm talking about the process, it's like hey, go to my website, get the free ebook that I'm gonna give you, you can read all about it. And the eBook has my phone number where you can just reach out to me directly if you have any questions. That's all areas. I love and then it just, it just blew up from there too, because I'm giving something to somebody for free, not hooking you in like yo, buy a course and we'll talk nah man here, it's free taken, call me, let's work it out and then if you're still ready. The links right in the book, click it and let's roll.

Matt: Man, that's cool. That's really cool. And yeah, I do feel like I do feel like that, having something like that is. I almost hesitate, bring it up because honestly Mark sometimes people are like, sometimes people are like, oh my gosh that's so overwhelming to think about right that's so overwhelming, you're like oh my gosh, how can I write my own book I'm gonna write my own ebook, but I like that you've laid out sort of your journey of like hey, you know what, I don't have any book to start out with, so I'm just going to start with what I got. And then slowly build your way for people to see that process I think is really powerful. Appreciate that's really cool and also I mean think about how easy that probably was to write like sometimes people overcomplicate this right. I love, I love how you titled it says seven proven steps to a successful affiliate marketing business, it's like, you didn't even say about, you know how to make, how to make $50,000 in your first month online, you know, or some dumb random claim that you can't substantiate it literally just if you start a business, start an affiliate marketing business which by the way, doesn't really require a lot. You could write that book. Yeah, yeah, pretty much based on what you learned in the chapter and honestly,

Mark: That's, that's where we got it from, you know, I, I just took your like day I think it was seven to 11 and I kind of just rolled through it and took little it's in bits and pieces and you know you learn copywriting, and I just kind of rolled through and you guys hand it on a platter and I took it. Now, I don't know if you have the old version or the new version. The old version looks like my kids wrote it, I did do an updated version. It's that that's a little nicer but it was simple to your Canvas, Canvas free, I just grabbed it, typed some shit up, lined it all up, threw it out there. And, yeah, you know, the biggest thing is it to everybody. Now, it's a scam right, it's a scam because it's confusing. So how do we make it not confusing? Here's free. I want your money, free, read it if you like it, let's talk. That's it, because they need to trust you right it's not. They're not buying, yes they're buying your product, but they're buying me when I buy you, they only see you after me so they have to trust me and like me, and I say my videos, I'm no bullshit, right, this is what it is. I'll show you everything you need to know step by step. You just gotta put the work in. But by giving them something for free upfront, it makes them feel like they can invest our time without money. Yeah. Yes, There you go. That's big. That's big. So it was a game changer for me. I highly recommend it and I tell people all the time, people that I help you take a copyrighted ticket and take my just change and change some words, use it, go. It's the best thing in the world. Yep, share sharing is where they say Sherry's Carrie right taken, that's cool.

Yeah, especially with something like an e book right that you're giving away for free which isn't like a, you know, let's say a 20 $500 or $5,000 paid course that would be a little different but in this case, it's like, Hey look, you know, let me provide you some value take go read this freakin thing, read how I set it up, read how I put it together, like it's pretty. Yeah, yeah it's, and I like that he did that in Canva you made the whole thing in Canva, but hopefully bro 11 minutes at like 2am Yeah, it's not, it's not perfect, you see it like if you have the openness black with blue in the line through it. All the lines. I've got the new one. I think about what you do. Okay, that was a fiber outsource bro 50 bucks. You got to learn outsource when you can, right. Yeah, it's kind of make it, you know, I made some money so I'm like, let me spend a little money right that's what you do, but the first one I had was in there was 11 minutes in Canva. Nothing was straight, nothing was lined up, the fonts were all off. I just got to get it out right, got to get it out, who cares, take it, and it was because people see imperfection, as honesty, and it's not a sham. It's just not the best writer in the world. I'm not the best. I'm not an author, all my shit was misspelled everybody was like, Yo, your shins misspelled I'm like, awesome. Appreciate it.

I was gonna say the word, actually on the cover I just noticed I had looked at it from our end and didn't notice that the word actually is misspelled, and nobody cares.

I'm not the best. It's not the best, you know, written book or ebook it's, but it was all jacked up, and that just shows people that it's just me, you know, one o'clock in the morning on camera, making a book.

Matt: Yeah, the I think the interesting part about, Like as I listened to you is, you have a lot of like similar characteristics I think the way that Dave thinks through a lot of this is just get it out just get it out just push it out just get it out doesn't need to look amazing doesn't need to look pretty, like just let's just get it out, And, and that for me learning and watching that. It's been really powerful over the past couple of years working with him because it is so true. It's so true when you've got that inspiration when you've got that little spark of sort of flow state you just got to go and get it out and let people respond back to it right let the people tell you about it. And you've got to be in a place where you're okay to handle that feedback, where you don't care as much what people think or say, but you can take the feedback and take it and internalize it and sort of, hey, is this real? Is this legit? Is this not? Is this okay? Correct. Right, and then sort of make a determination,

Mark: Correct, you know, when, when I in front of any listening right these are guys that are, and women that are already in the program are already taken the program right so when you start, like, your mindset changes right, you know, I always tell people read right I read Rich Dad Poor Dad, and that's kind of what triggered the mindset to be like, holy shit, I can do this. And then as you can see like I have some extra books up here I've been constantly reading, but as you go through the process, you're going to lose people around you right you're going to lose certain friends that were kind of around you that were negative or the family members like myself, my whole family's like you're 41 years old, you have three kids, and you're gonna want tick tock and make videos and make money. I'm like, fuck yeah no like it's a joke, and now my mom's like, Wait, how much money did you make it can you, can you show me how to do this. And I'm like, yeah like 500 bucks an hour. But yesterday, consulting business, yeah you know and you just, you fail, and you laugh about it because there are trolls out there, man, you're going to put content out there, and there are people that are going to hammer you and report your conflict, I'm sharing right now on Tik Tok, because somebody reported like three videos, and I've been like tick tock jail so I'm getting like 11 views a video and cool, I'm gonna put, I'm gonna put 15 out now, so that when it's over, you're gonna get you're gonna see my face everywhere. But just fail, fail, laugh about it, fail some more laugh about it. Call somebody who's been doing this right, there's, there's 1000s of us on this app on your group called reviser cold somebody, Hey man, I'm feeling kind of shitty What should I do great, let's do this. Who cares, make money, change your life. Fix yourself and just do it. All set. It's fucking a mate, this is awesome. Let me tell you, I'm 41 years old. I'm ecstatic, like I said on, I get on these things and holy shit, I love it I get on Facebook. I'm doing this consulting course on my own, on TikTok I'm making videos. It's just such a high like holy shit on the internet people see me, you know, that's cool man. It's wild. I love it.

Matt: That's really cool. I can say like I love when I can actually feel like just the real, raw sort of excitement and then like fun. You know, I can tell you're having fun with it too which is like an obviously an added bonus, but I can tell that like, you seem and feel like just such a go getter in life, lifelong learner kind of person, there's like a whole nother skill set a whole nother put the sandbox for me to play in that I never even knew is possible.

Mark: Hell yeah, you know, I, you said it before, right like Dave and I have some similarities and I appreciate that because like I sit there and my goal is to like go rent out a Sheraton somewhere and charge people like two grand a ticket and just fucking talk, you know and get on stage and and tell people that journey and teach them, and that's it that's a goal for me man, I can't. I can't tell you how excited I am that I can get to that point, because, you know, again, I don't keep like going back to it but you guys changed my life bro it's wild and the internet is such a powerful tool and, and, to now be able to sit down with somebody on a voice chat right I've got like setups from this guy in the UK, the other day.

We're going through and he's like should I promote the course and I'm like, is that what you want to do like are you passionate about it and he's like

well you know I'm like, what would you do for the last 20 years and he told me and I'm like, well, let's run with that right like if you can go back 20 years, or see yourself four years ago and tell him like, what do you need to be successful now and let's start making content on that tell your story and do affiliate link through that way and start making some money and then you know get monetized or YouTube once you get big enough and we can grow your brand that way. So it's not just about reselling a course or reselling this, you have to love what you're promoting because if you don't, you're gonna fail because you're not your heart's not in it. You know, I love coffee a lot but I'm not going to promote it because I don't love it in the sense of, everybody needs to drink it, I just drink it. But I promote education because I'm a huge believer in bettering yourself constantly. So, yeah, yeah it's fucking a process is awesome. I love it. I can't I wish everybody would do it.

Matt: It's awesome. I love it, man, I love it. I love your energy too. I love, I got nothing. I just, there's nothing else, you know, I have nothing more to add or give to this conversation, better this is just powerful. I think people just need to get the hell off a hearing, and go start, you know, just do it.

Mark: I mean, you're, I gotta say like I love you guys you too, like I watch all the videos when you interview people follow your shit and I'm a huge fan, or like, I'm starstruck.

Matt: I love, I think, I mean, I think, you know, thanks. Yeah, I mean I think we try really hard to put spotlight on people who are working their ass off and, you know, the interesting thing here is just like one interesting thing I'll close with this is, it's just, it's, you notice how Dave doesn't have a big social media presence right and I don't really either I just, it's just not my thing. It's not me, it's not who I am. But Dave, it's neither of our things. Neither of us have ever really enjoyed the social media thing like that doesn't it excites you, it empowers you, it does the opposite for us, but also, you know, we're not in this big, like I don't come on here because I hope that somebody someday is going to follow me on Facebook and buy my shit or that somebody is going to go, you know, I'm going to blow up my tic tock following some people do that we sell courses like you're watching, they do like a new course release or something they do a big course launch or whatever, and they have this whole massive massive brand that's theirs and it's their name and then that explodes and then suddenly, you know their course fizzles or their or whatever, but you know everybody's sort of like, okay, that was weird, and that one person or maybe two or three people gained everything. And we're just not really interested in that, it's just not our thing we're interested in growing something really Dave said something a long time ago, which could, you know, I don't know people would take this but he said I just want to get rich doing boring things like, I just want to be boring. I want to set up systems, I want to set up a platform where people can benefit and learn and grow and have their lives changed, but I'm pretty cool and he is pretty boring, like he's a he's a cool dude, but he's pretty boring and I am even more boring than he is. It's like this out of the limelight I'm just boring which I feel like for customers and also for affiliates and just, you know, for people who are, you know, even our staff, you know, like, having people who are sort of off the cuff, they go on video and say crazy shit and have PR nightmares all the time, you know like, we might say some crazy shit here, there but for the most part it's, it's, we're interested in, in being around here for the next 30, plus years or whatever. So, it's just, it's just slow moving. I mean we're moving fast, but we're just kind of in a bigger shift that's just moving gently forward, and consistently forward if that makes sense. But anyway, Mark. Thanks for coming on, man, I appreciate you so much and your energy too, and having, I feel like having your story kind of be out there and in our universe. You know a lot of times I'll tell people on our Blueprints calls and stuff to go watch certain calls, and because we have people on there who they'll show up to our Blueprints folder like hey I made videos for three, the last three days, I got 15 videos up there, and doesn't seem like much is happening. So these are the kinds of things where I say hey, there was this great guy on his name's Mark, who's on Monday to live, whatever today, do I need to go watch that he need to go watch that ad and go study and see how many videos this guy put out, and then we'll chat about your results, right, is unless you're producing what somebody at the top is producing that should you really expect much for results. And so, thanks for sharing and being willing to come on, because it's a powerful testimonial testimony to what's possible when you kind of enter that teknicks mindset and really go for it.

Mark: Yeah. And, you know, I'll leave you with this as well and thank thank you, again it was it was it was a fucking pleasure man, I just love it. Thank you so much, but to everybody listening that's just starting, or putting in this a while, the big guys, it's 10 years 15 years right it's not, It's not a race but it's a marathon. So take your time, mess up and fail, it doesn't matter. Trust your gut, and just, just fucking do it. Just do it. That's it. Do it. Get it over with, and strategically go for the long haul, because I'm not going anywhere. Bro, you're gonna see me 10 years from now.

Matt: I love it. Cool man. Well thanks for coming on, I'm gonna let you go. And if you need anything, we're here, we're happy to help. 

Mark: Yeah, man, I appreciate it. Hey, have a great day and please reach out and I'll definitely hit you up. 

Matt: Sounds good, see ya Mark. Thanks man.

Alright guys, another one, another one is DJ Khaled would say marks a good dude you should go give him a follow at the affiliate motivator, and we'll be back here tomorrow. Same time, same place, I think I'm on again tomorrow I'll have to double check, but I'm pretty sure I am. I'll see you guys all here again tomorrow, same time same place 10am Eastern, we're always here, and we'll see you. Peace.

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The Big MISTAKE I See Affiliates Keep Making 😤

If you're an affiliate marketer who wants to make more money online, I beg of you to stop doing this right now.

This mistake one little thing will destroy your sales.

This mistake will steal commissions straight from your wallet.

This mistake is something most marketers (even some of the more skilled marketers we see) don't pay much attention to.

This mistake is something most ‘gurus' and ‘goblins' won't teach you (because they've only got their own self-interest at heart). Stick with me because this is so damn important.

This mistake will have you wondering, “why aren't people clicking my link and purchasing?”

This mistake will confuse your audience, cause more people to report your social media channels, and could lead to shadow bans, decreases in followers, and more complaints.

Wanna know what it is?

Should I just tell you already?

Okay.

Over and over and over again, I watch affiliates post videos on social media that explicitly talk about products and services by name.

And this fails to create curiosity.

Which is why, in the weekly recap email I sent out, I forced you to click a link to come to this page to find out the big mistake I see affiliates making.

I wrapped that email in curiosity.

And you should wrap your content in curiosity, too.

Because if not…

…people pre-judge what you've got to offer them.

Affiliates of Legendary Marketer do it with our products. Affiliates of other companies do it with other companies too.

And here's the thing:

If you've got a TikTok channel, a YouTube channel, an Instagram account, a Facebook group, etc… and you're trying to promote a certain product, here's what 10+ years in this industry crawling through years and years of data has clearly shown me:

Many, many, many of the viewers and followers on your account are watching your content and immediately going to go to Google to type in that company or product and they're looking for reviews.

And guess what?

Many of them are going to do that before you've had a chance to get these people to your affiliate link where they get cookie'd and you get credited with the sale.

What does that mean, Matt?

Well you know how when you go to a TikTok channel and you see a little “link” in their bio?

Well, sometimes you'll click that link and it will just say the full name of the product right on the button.

And right then…

Your viewers oftentimes close TikTok and go Google search the product.

No commission for you.

This means you're doing the marketing to get someone else rich. Probably another affiliate. Or… you're just helping build the brand of some other person or company.

That's why we at Legendary caution affiliates away from mentioning our company in their video content. We actively watch affiliates who create amazing content and are working their asses off, but are earning 2x, 5x or even 10x less than what they should be earning… all because they keep talking about our 15 Day Challenge or Legendary Marketer in their content.

So Matt, what do you recommend?

We recommend having an “evergreen offer,” something you build curiosity around and make people “click or tap” a link in your social media profile in order to actually see what it is. Don't mention the product/service until they've actually got to your affiliate link.

That's huge!

So for instance, if I'm in the weight loss niche…

…I would NOT create a TikTok account and start creating content about how Slim Belly Fix is the best solution for you to lose weight fast. The people who view my videos would not only think my content sucks, but they'd also just go Google search the offer, look at reviews, and buy from some other individual.

I would be leaving a lot of money on the table.

However…

If I'm in the weight loss niche and I want to create a sustainable, long-term affiliate business, I would instead make content that's EDUTAINMENT.

Education + Entertainment (and a little curiosity sprinkled in, too)

I would create videos that showcase my journey, share tips about how to lose weight by changing your diet, and focus solely on giving away real value.

And then… I would create curiosity around it.

I would NOT mention the evergreen offer I'm promoting.

I would have a curiosity based headline in my profile. Something like, “The ONE Secret To Weight Loss 99% Of People DON'T Know.”

And below that, I'd have a simple link to my capture page where I collect leads.

That way, I'm not losing leads and hemorrhaging sales.

That way, I'm not building someone else's business.

That way, I'm not sacrificing my time and creative energy for nothing.

And that way, all the viewers and followers I've acquired actually have to go to the link in my bio to see what it is I'm offering them.

They can't pre-judge my offer.

They can't go Google search, get lost, and never find me again.

They must go through my funnel in order to find out what it is that I'm offering and they must go through my funnel to buy.

So, to all the content creators out there…

PLEASE

Do yourself a huge, huge favor.

Keep giving value. Many of you are crushing it.

Focus on being educational and entertaining.

But if I were you, I'd STOP talking about specific product or company names in your content (including ours). You are losing so many leads and sales, it makes me almost sick to my stomach to think about. And it should make you sick to your stomach, too.

Focus on serving YOUR AUDIENCE.

Focus on building YOUR FOLLOWERS.

Focus on growing YOUR CHANNELS.

Focus on expanding YOUR BRAND and growing YOUR COMPANY.

And enjoy a more positive response from your audience, less shadowbans, more leads, and more payoff from your efforts.

Pushing Through Your Insecurities And Changing Your Life With Your Online Business

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 Below is the transcription for this episode:

Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up Legendary really excited to end this week with another fantastic guest, it's a matter of fact, this happens to be someone who has a newfound founded, confidence and is somebody who is a parent, a mom, like many of you out there, consider yourself to be shy, but, but through building starting. Okay, that's the first step of course, starting your business, and then working in building your business. Truly, can transform your life and that's what's taking place in today's guests life, so everybody in the comments please help us welcome with lots of love and support and comments to the show. Cynthia what's going on, Cynthia.

Cynthia: I'm doing Well, Dave, thank you, thank you for inviting me. This is like a dream come true actually.

Dave: That's nice. That's nice. How so? 

Cynthia: Well I watched this, I watch this every morning so it's, it's more where like I just, I always said to myself that you know I really want to come onto the show and prove to myself that I'm worthy of coming on this show and as you said it's all around, confidence and building confidence and I was one that never was, you know, showing my face even on camera. And then over time I've been able to show my face an yeah just be a bit more confident within myself as well.

Dave: Awesome. Awesome. Well, here you are. You've, you've earned the right to be here. We reached out to you to invite you, and so hopefully you can take that in both today, but also after this is over and help that continue to contribute to your, your confidence and, and your ever evolving self esteem, which I think is a lifelong journey. Okay. I noticed for myself as well. So, this isn't your first business, you're not new to work in business. We won't go too much into what you do in your, in your kind of full time career, but first and foremost, you are a mom. I believe you're also a wife because it is your husband who's noticed this kind of growth, you're, you're, you're also have a, you know, a career, to where you have dedicated some, some years of your life. Talk to us a little bit about guessing the thing that's most interesting to me is this kind of noticing from your husband. Talk to us a little bit about that. He noticed what has taken place over the last few months. Give us some of the context so we can help understand, understand what's, what's kind of gone on within your life within your household because of your business.

Cynthia: That's such a good question. I haven't really asked him, to be honest, it's more around I think within myself that I've been able to see that, for example, even from a work perspective, I've been more confident in enough to actually say to my boss, look, I've got this particular side hustle I have, and. Beforehand I would not be able to mention that to my manager and you know if I, I may be able to you know finish my job within a certain time because I all I want to do is just go home and actually work on my business so I think for him, for my husband it's more rad that I just find happiness in what I'm actually doing and therefore I'm just a bit more, I guess from that perspective. Yeah, a bit more confident and and able to say what I want and, you know, be the person that I really want to be and I think it's one of those things where it's really nice when your husband says that, but he's, he's not a touchy feely guy so he's not the one to sort of mention these things, but I just kind of picked on, that he he's mentioned to me already but yeah he can definitely see the competence in me. He just doesn't articulate it. When you had you hadn't told us in your, in your questionnaire, you know, I was so shy and not an open person before affiliate marketing and this online business has made me get out of my shell and become more than, as even my husband has seen a change in my confidence in me, so that's where I got that question from.

Dave: So I, it's, I think it's less important, what others think of us, even our spouses. I do think it matters what they think. But I think what's most important is what we think of us. So, how do you mean, why do you think confidence is growing? I mean it is it. Are you now, at this point, going from an employee now adding an entrepreneurial element to your life. Are you finding yourself with, with, you know, pushing through more challenges are you finding yourself getting out of your comfort zone. I mean, talk to us a little bit for some of those people who are listening who might also be, you know, feeling uncomfortable, and what is on the other side of that uncomfortability, at least what has been on the other side for you.

Cynthia: Yes. So, could you repeat that question again, sorry just one. If you don't mind. 

Dave: Yeah, I, I've always said that on the other side of uncomfortability is growth. Okay. You have to walk through the door of being uncomfortable in order to experience growth, and then that growth usually turns into money, right, because right? That's one of the things that growth can turn into. So, on the other side of your uncomfortability of working you're working your business. What is the main uncomfortable part of you starting your business, Ben. And then what are the gifts that you've received pushing through that uncomfort.

Cynthia: Yes, I would say it's more that I've been able to kind of, like, especially with TikTok like you're going to get comments and you're going to get people mentioning certain things so it's, it's really not taking things in a defensive way. And I think when I first started I probably did take things in a defensive way. You know, I was also in a situation where I was. My role was redundant last year so I had to go through that and, and just grow as a person and realize that, you know it's not me, it's actually where I just need to explain it in a way that that person can understand or maybe they're just not the right person to be explaining that information to, because they're not maybe interested in what I have to offer as well from a value perspective. So it's really, it's really just yeah make understanding that don't take things personally. Also, another component is, like, not necessarily. I think the other thing I was going to mention but in terms of like, not taking things personally, not being afraid to also tell my story as well. I was very shy in saying that before and I think I was really just focusing on the side hustles and how to make money online and I realized that it was just more on the lines of that.

I was probably getting followers that would not necessarily be followers that were quiet.

Not long term followers and not, you know, creating my brand and that's what I'm trying to do now is just recreate my brand and people resonate with me and understand who I am, and hopefully for long term perspective like, it doesn't sound very spammy, as well as the way that I articulate it and then therefore it's more about a adding value me showing them that I am able to help them in whatever capacity that I'm a people person in itself, and that's what I do in my corporate life. That's what I want my corporate job is but it was more around how to how to actually show myself, and I did that over time, with in my videos and you'll see that some of my videos and I'm sure my face, then eventually went to a point where I, you know, Master, my face with filters and then after eventually I did show my face and tell my story. 

Dave: Yeah. And I think, I think for those of you who are listening who are like, kind of like thinking, Well yeah, It is a little scary to show my face, like I, especially I would imagine, as a, I mean, I'm, I can creep out and I think the more I get the more creepy

man.

Because, for your physical safety, but also just there's a lot of creeps out there who are just creepy dudes, you know what I mean.

You know what I mean, you know, I mean this is just real, like not a whole lot of not, there might be people that want to like kill me, but there's not a whole lot of people that probably want to kill me and rape me. You know what I mean. And I'm just being like, like I'm just being real, you know what I mean. But, but if you're, if you're, if you're kind of uncomfortable.

As somebody who's, you know, thinking about potentially putting your face out there on the internet. That's really normal. You know and I just want to I want to normalize that for everybody because you know there are ways to not put your face out there, we cover this in our training, we talk about this somewhat regularly on these, on these, on these episodes, we don't talk about it a lot, though, because it's like, 100 times more powerful to, to have a spokesperson for your brand for your business, that people can relate to and identify with and feel like they're doing business with someone. Right. And so when you say I'm building my brand. Can you, can you describe what you, what that means to you.

Cynthia: Yeah, I think, when I say building my brand, it's really about just showing more of myself. And, you know, why, like my why my, you know, in terms of even just the value that I bring you know for affiliate marketing perspective but also just in terms of even just my personal tips like business tips as well and I think it's just really around also demonstrating that they can do these people can resonate with me and you know it's like in. Like if you build trust in people like you, they'll eventually buy from you and I think that's a big thing as well like for newbies that.

When you think of, for example that you don't have any followers and you're trying to, you're like I counted how much authority but it's, it's where your story can actually, you know, make people to really like you and you know eventually buy from you essentially and that's what I'm trying to achieve and work on as much as possible with affiliate marketing.

Dave: I wanted to share something because this was something that we included in a training program we sold. And it is, it is basically how to kind of go about thinking about your brand in your message in sort of what you stand for. So if you look down here. One of the things that I've done in the past, is, kind of sat down and asked myself, you know, what are the things what, what, what is my message all about who I am all about. And, what I came up with was what my message over the past 10 years has really been about being a whole entrepreneur, you know, I don't just talk about mechanical stuff, I talk about the dynamics as well. I talk about personal development, I talk about self care, I talk about mental, physical, and spiritual growth, development and health within those within those, you know, within, and you can see kind of what this what this. Hold on a second what this looks like is, is my values, kind of being inside of this triangle if you go back to my values, they're sort of having grit, which is sort of turning your struggles into your strengths. It's having passion. It's kind of turning your mess into a message, and then it's having empathy, which is, I want to make space for everybody to feel comfortable no matter where they're from, what they've experienced, up until this point, what hurdles or struggles they've, they've had to endurance out of their life. And I want to let them know that I understand what that's like to struggle and that even though they may be going through struggles they can overcome that, if you were to kind of look at my messaging.

And what my personal brand stands for and has stood for over the course of the last 10 years, this is essentially it right now. I've refined that brand a bit through, like for example in legendary developing kinds of core colors that I wear. Kind of a core of place that I typically stream video and so forth, that people see me so this kind of set is familiar. And, the stories that I tell also encompass this, these values, these topics in this kind of message, right. So I would just offer this to those of you who are, you know, kind of thinking about okay, what, what is branding mean, what is branding mean out there on TikTok what is branding mean out here. If I'm doing affiliate marketing as just a, you know, a new person, a one person show here. I'm not the only spokesperson. I'm also the only employee of my business. Right. So how do I develop my brand, well, what is your message in one sentence, and then what are the main topics that you talk about, and then within those topics, what are the values that you stand for, right, if you, if you apply this formula in fill in the blanks here, it'll give you a starting point, that, to allow you to kind of stay on topic and also find stories that that connect with these particular topics in these values, Cynthia, what comes up for you is that is that valuable to you in terms of, you kind of finding your message and in developing your brand is what I went over just make sense to you, give me some feedback based on what I just went over.

Cynthia: Yeah, no I mean I'm very much a picture person so it's really good that you actually did in that way. And I think, yeah, I've, I never really thought about it from a value perspective, which I think that's, you know, you think of companies and how they actually do have values, just from a corporate perspective and that kind of. Yeah, that does, actually, I guess, if you think about it, a company has a bread and so you as the person who is the bridge would be demonstrating those values and explaining those flower values so that people can, I guess, connect with your messaging as well from a brand perspective. Yeah, definitely. That was really good.

And you can allow those sorts of values to guide the topics of your content, right.

Dave: So, you know, grit being up there at the top is sort of like, it's also work ethic, it's also grit is doing the work putting in the work when nobody's looking, overcoming the challenges. You know, you can easily. You can, you know, you can easily throw in their integrity as well for me as a, as a, you know, as a, as a value as well. I like to try to play the long game, instead of the short sort of cash grab game, but that, though, when you list out those values and it doesn't have to just be three, it can be as many as you want. It allows you, for me, allows me to have a guide, what mine is. Because like you said, you got away from that kind of topics, which,

you know, kind of make a couple of bucks.

Like you want to move towards Hey let me show you how to build a business this is not going to be easy. This is not going to be, but it's worth it. Right, and kind of build more long term relationships.

Cynthia: Exactly, yeah, that's, that's exactly what I was thinking or not thinking I'm actually doing at the moment so I just, I just noticed that within the comments and engagement levels and even though at the moment my views are not as high as it would be in terms of the side hustle piece but I try to mix it up as possible so I can still have that influx of traffic but also enough that people can see that. Yeah, I'm, I'm building a business, or have a business and if you are wanting to obviously build a business yourself, then these are some of the tips and values I can provide to you.

Dave: Yeah, absolutely. So what are some of the things that you've learned or what are some of the other things that you've learned that you could share that works for you. For example, it looks like you're marketing quite a bit on TikTok, and then you're starting to kind of build a YouTube channel. So, what, what, what, what hasn't worked, I mean obviously you've covered the side hustle and now you're moving more towards kind of storytelling and in trying to kind of talk more about developing skills I would assume, but talk to us a little bit about what else you've discovered that's, that's worked well.

Cynthia: Yeah, I've found that at one stage I was. I had, I was using beacons, what I thought of as a website or, I guess, would you call that a landing page, right, is that one of the things where you can put all your links there in it.

Dave: Yeah, exactly. 

Cynthia: And I just found that it, I just really wanted people to just focus on one product and go and not they started as the one product it's more around to collect emails, I needed to have like a sales funnel that allowed just Okay, going to go into the sales funnel, provide me with your email in terms of, you know, going, there's a free video for you. And I made it very simple for them to just click the video and I use your blueprint as a roll around how to do that on, on cover in terms of the clicking the video. So entice them to actually click the video.

And those are some of the things I learned. But yeah, I had a whole host of, you know leaks before and I don't think that was the most effective way for me. But I think the other thing is, yeah, just having, especially with TikTok, it's one of those things that you can't that people's attention span is also very limited so try to have something that hooks them, but enough that it will, you know, not tell the entire story or tell the entire situation, particularly if it's a side hustle for example, that I'm trying to demonstrate and, and get them to also watch my whole entire video so before I think I was doing it where I was, you know, telling them everything at the start of the video. And I realized that, you know you've kind of got to keep the pegging and get them to eventually, you know, watch the entire video so you get the engagement as well. And the other thing is that I wasn't doing as much as. Also, I was probably getting the two, you know I would be like go to my biolink and not really, I guess, focusing on mixing it up a bit around, potentially, for example, you know, follow for more tips or in terms of call to action followed follow for more tips or otherwise. What's your comment, like, you might ask a question that I'm asking, do from that said so I can get more engagement from a commenting perspective. Yeah, no, that's, that's, that's good stuff. I think we are.

Dave: I think we, what I think a lot of people don't realize is that if you provide value people will like to be so much more motivated and curious to try to learn about how they can do more business with you. You know, you don't always have to be so obvious, and that goes a little bit against the grain of the kind of hardcore direct response marketing call to action, everything has to have a call to action. But, you know, nowadays, with social media, there's a blend of direct response marketing, which is kind of one clear call to action, one thing to do at a time.

And, and also, like soft seed seeding things in, you know, being a little bit more clever with the way, and a little bit more subtle, right, it's kind of like, it's kind of like fashion, right, sometimes, subtle is is sexier, and it's more attractive than just by Here I am, you know, here's my body, you know. You know what I mean, so I think that marketing is a lot like that too, particularly nowadays on social media if you're doing organic free marketing. If you're doing paid ads, it's kind of pretty much like boom, here's my value here's my body. Do you love it? Am I sexy, click the link, you know because you want to take advantage of every viewer. Whereas, organic, free, free marketing is more subtle, you want to romance them a little bit. You know you want to not give it all away on the first date, you know what I mean. And I think because if you do it a lot of times people will unfollow you or they'll, you know you won't like you want to build the, you want to build. The, the, the, sometimes to the climax right you want to build to that a little bit, and sort of, you know, do some do, some court like court your, your court your, your prospects along a little bit, you know what I mean. So I think that it's the way they explain it. But after this.

It's an analogy in analogies that can help us kind of make sense of kind of, you know, complicated things but I really think that there's a lot of new marketers just trying to hit a home run. You know what I mean, in the first five minutes of the day, right and it's in it's kind of like that makes sense in real life, right, it was like if you met somebody on a first day and they were like, yo, let's go hop in bed, you'd be like, get creep Get the hell out of here, you know what I mean. But it's, it's about, it's about people, it's about learning how to have a good time, it's. And then, and then people begin to you, they, you start moving from place to where they die or to where people are curious. They want you, they want to know how they can work from you and learn more from you. I think that's just a mentality to have versus jamming everything down everybody's throat all the time, in trying to get that first sale I had somebody not too long ago, was like, I need to make my first sale, how can I make my first sale I need you to help me make my first sale and it's like, Dude, you're never gonna make your first sale with that attitude you're not, you know, it's like, it's all that guy could think about was just that home run, he wants to hit a home run in the first five minutes of the day, and then what go lay down and go to sleep, I mean I don't know what what about the token sale, do you not I mean What about the third sale. What about the sale? What about building a system of business, a real business here, he's just trying to make the first sale. It's like Cali bro, you know, it must be hard to live with dude.

But, you know, thinking about how can I create content and in that gets people asking me one team me wanting to fuck curious, right, here's the other thing that you talked about and I covered this yesterday with Brian Brewer, but this is so so so important, and I want to just go back over it again, which is you mentioned having one front door, right, instead of the link tree, or these, what if there was another one that you said anyways there's all kinds of these little services out here that you can use, you can basically just throw up. They allow you to create little buttons that are quick they're easy to use. Okay, great. If you're going to use one of those just have one option on it, right, because the reason is is because if I want you to think about this, I want everybody to visualize walking up to a wall that has two doors and not, what do you do, You just kind of have no idea, like, yeah. Which door. And so, in a confused prospect to a confused human being does nothing. So the reason why it's important to have one front door is because it's very clear, there's no other options for somebody to have when they've clicked your link. And in, so then you take them on to the first helping offer, and then if the first helping was good, Right, the cooking was good, they got value from it, then you're gonna have a chance to be able to serve them a second helping a third helping a fourth helping and you can do that via email follow up. It's such an of course, why because you're collecting emails on that landing page, and that's one of the most underrated things there's been so many people who are so people are so focused on how many followers do I have on TikTok or how many subscribers do I have on YouTube and it's like, my question is how many people do you have on your email list, and how often are you emailing them really powerful value, because it's been proven in my career over the last 10 years that the majority of my sales as an affiliate always came from email always came from email because people were more likely to do business from their email inbox, than when they're on social media. So, this is another image and it doesn't matter whether your traffic's coming from YouTube or Tik Tok or whatever the same formula applies but Cynthia is this kind of description of what you were talking about that's been a bit of a learning lesson for you.

Cynthia: Yeah, for sure. I mean, initially I think for the first couple months I probably didn't do and that's another learning curve as well probably didn't do the like focus on the email side and then. Then I had a whole bunch of like you know links and. And then I realized that I was just losing, you know, building those emails, like at the email list and I didn't, I haven't actually created the, I guess a freebie of some kind, so I thought I really need to, you know, start building my email list as much as possible and, you know, TikTok is great for you know to have that traffic because it's, you know, constant traffic all the time but the email is see if anything were to go wrong in terms of TikTok I really need to build that email list and I eventually have, which is great but it's it's more around. I was just so conscious about that and, you know, it's like intellectual property, you've got to make sure you've got back up. 

Dave: Yeah, you don't own your TikTok account.

Cynthia: Yeah exactly, they own it. 

Dave: Exactly, they own all the content they own everything right so it's kind of like, wow, when we think about it like that we're like holy shit. That's scary. You know what I mean. So that's why you want to have multiple streams of traffic, multiple streams of traffic that's gonna. Everybody focuses on multiple streams of income but it's like that's kind of putting the cart before the horse that's the reason why you don't have even one stream of income is because you're focused on multiple streams of income, focus on multiple streams of traffic, and even if that means, TikTok, and email that's multiple streams of traffic.

Cynthia:  Yeah, that's, that's very true, yeah, yeah, that definitely, yeah.

Dave: So, what if somebody was sitting here, you know skeptical about legendary, what would you tell them what's been your experience in, and would you recommend it to somebody who's new and who's looking to kind of get involved in a community and a platform to help them learn online marketing?

Cynthia: Yeah, I would definitely recommend Legendary I, you know, I think it's a great community because they're just genuine people, even the people that I've seen a lot on TikTok as well they're just always wanting to help out. I mean, one of them is Rob Leivo James little. Find your way. There's even a few others that I can't think of off the top of my head but, you know, I tried to also claim as well and, and help them out from this perspective or do it this way, they might do the same with me as well and we just help each other out.

I guess, you know, I've committed Legendary with the people I know. I'm not trying to get my family involved but I've just talked about it so much that I actually believe in the whole entire course because it's where you have, you know, especially the blueprints you have, you know the the core four and you can go in any possible way, if you want to and, you know, go through affiliate marketing and that was my thing because I wanted to start with that but I also have, you know, consulting skills as well and I really wanted to do that but it's just, it's, you know I've got a nine to five, and I can't really focus on that, you know, from that perspective. I feel, I feel like for myself I would have to really just put a lot of effort into that, but you know you can. You can also create your own course. There's just multiple things that you can possibly do to, you know, set up your own business and I like my, I'm very highly educated, I went to I went to uni and basically that's university or college for those in America but essentially, I was never taught how to do a business plan. And one of the things that I really appreciated was, You know, having been able to actually put a business plan to life and understanding you know who my target market is and just really reflecting on the things that, what a business, really should, Should should be and should look like.

Cynthia: Hello?

Matt: I I think we lost him out there. He disappeared from us.

Cynthia: Okay.

Matt: His cameras gone or something. Oh, I'll send him a message, well I really appreciate what you said I was, I was just obviously listening and, and, yeah, I feel like putting your business plan together is a big piece that you don't get elsewhere. You know what I mean. It's a piece where we actually sit down and put it together, figure out your target market.

That's cool. That's awesome. Are you thinking of becoming a mastermind soon?

Cynthia: I wouldn't mind, but I believe you have it really late for me too sometimes.

That's the only problem but I do watch the record. The recording of it. However, like, I guess, do you have it all the time at a specific time or is it, you change it around. 

Matt: Yeah, we've got one coming up later this year in September and I think December.

In Florida, And then we also have virtual masterminds. So, we've got one of those coming up here really soon too. Those are kind of nice because you know when you're living in Australia it's hard to travel to Florida and.

Cynthia: Now, that's okay but it's definitely something I want to do in the future because I just, when I was told that by even I think it was a James Jordan who is my advisor and he was like yeah before me about just around the masterminds and I was just blown away when I got to soar it I really want to do that as an experience would be amazing just to see, you know this like minded people, that'd be great.

Matt: Yeah, it's it is really cool, it's I feel like my first mastermind I was in 2011, and yeah, it was just, I remember getting there, I had a couple thoughts I was like, wow, these people are all just like me and then the other thing was, like, Oh, these people aren't that much better than me, like they don't have ocean, they don't have. They're not like, you know, they're just, they're just average normal people, and it's really empowering to see that so yeah it's really cool.

Cynthia: Yeah James says the same thing as well. He explained it to me.

Matt: Awesome. Well hey, I don't know if Dave's coming back here, I think his computer might have, I don't know what happened actually, so we'll see. 

Dave: Oh, can you hold on a second. Sorry about that man, my entire computer just crashed so I don't know, I don't know. It's actually a fairly new computer so that's never good hope, you know, good thing I didn't have some big long sales letter written out. Yeah I think so. So, yeah, I, I heard a little bit about the masterminds that you guys were, were talking about because I kind of had my phone up there for a second and then I like my computer booted back up but, you know, for somebody who's living in Australia, or, or some other part of the world. You know how I just wonder what's your perspective of going from kind of a local job. and maybe your job, connects you with other people around the world, but to be in a world wide entrepreneur connecting, and having the ability to be able to do business with people all over the world, and to not just have the ability to be able to earn from and serve people in your local community, but also the, the idea that now you have the ability to be able to, to earn from and serve people all over the world, is that an exciting concept for you as it is for me?

Cynthia: 100% I even say, I would say to my husband cuz I can see.

Like most of my following list American and people in Australia don’t really know about Affiliate Marketing. And I think it's just people, even outside of, you know those two countries I've just mentioned. Yeah, it's, I'm just meeting a lot of people a lot of entrepreneurs, and able to you know, connect with different people and having even like strategy calls with a call at times, just to build that relationship as well and it's just, it's amazing it's it's what bounces me as well, because my role, like, the, the job that I do from a nine to five perspective, it can be like a, it's a high stress role and this particular, you know, I guess, yeah affiliate marketing just, it brings out my personality you can't be yourself in corporate life and it also brings out my crazy so so it's just it's fantastic. I really love it and yeah I'm just having a ball each day. 

Dave: Yeah, well, that's awesome. That's awesome. Me too, I mean I have, I have a lot of fun to really do it. It's, it's, it's amazing, it's amazing how much fun I have on a daily I hope I live a long life because I really, I think I will be you know I really I had, I had an aunt named, aunt Bess, and she, she lived to be 98 And like we have no idea how she lived that long because it wasn't like she was the healthiest person in the world, but she was happy as hell. You know what I mean, she was so happy. And she had just an absolutely great attitude, such a positive attitude about everything. And she lived to be almost 100 years old, you know what I mean so I really think that that your, the amount of stress that you have in your life and how actually just happy you are really contributes a lot to your health, and in the amount of time that you actually live, but is that something that you believe as well and, and it sounds like, having, you know stress is an important thing that yes you're managing, but you'd, you'd love to eventually have a lot less of it right.

Cynthia: Ah, yeah definitely it's. And that's what I said, Because I mentioned here as my role was made redundant last year and with my new position I kind of was upfront with them and just said to them that because they, you know at one stage were questioning, a little bit about my business and I was able to navigate it, just say to them, This is what makes me bring my best self to work so well. This way, but it's either you take. You're gonna reproduce, then you've got to accept this.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, no I like that answer I think for many of you who have jobs and they may be questioning or curious. It's, that's a great response, this, this, This allows me to bring my best to my job as well, and to be my best self and to stay motivated and stay passionate and stay excited because I'm, I'm doing things in all parts of my life that make me happy.

And yeah, then you're then then if they're not okay with that you're always, you know, you're always, you know you can make that decision at that time. What's more important to you, you know, and no decision will be wrong, you know, for some of you guys maybe that decision, You know. Anyways, that'd be a tough decision, if they backed you into a corner but I'm thankful that it sounds like they didn't, in your, in your job. And by the way, if any of you guys have a job, which I know many of you do, please don't feel bad or weird or like your any dip. Just, I believe that how you do one thing is how you do everything, and having a job in early entrepreneurship is a smart thing. It's not a dumb thing, it's a smart thing in quitting that job too soon, if that's something that you want to do, can be detrimental, can be a bad idea. So, how you do one thing is how you do everything, embrace that job, do the best that you can in that job because you know that, as you start your own business, you're going to be your number one employee. And the thing that I always ask people sin, this is something that I always ask people is would you hire you and would you keep you on payroll, and a lot of times it, you know you guys are talking about mastermind. A lot of times I asked that in a live room to where I can see faces, and the, and I can tell nobody has to, you know the. A lot of people don't have to say a word. I can already tell what the answer is, right, because they're, because they're with them a lot, there with them all the time. The question that I have for all of you is, do you think that some. You're at your job and be miserable. So are you willing to inform me if I wasn't, you know, if I wasn't kicking at getting promotions and making good money. Be a soft time in my business, because I still need to develop some habits and I need to develop some parts of myself. That, I'll need to be successful in my business. Does this resonate with you Cynthia?

Cynthia: Yeah, No, I think, definitely. This last year when I was made redundant twice. Sorry, it was, it was my second redundancy and it was where I have had to really just and that's where it's around the confidence pieces is really being able to just not being a people pleaser, that's that's my, my, my situation is just make laser and you can still be, you could still be a somebody that's very helpful, and able to you know be there for people but you've got to also be helping yourself time and that's why with my new position I was not firm, but I've, I was kind of I navigated through the situation and to use my negotiation skills but use, even my the, what I learned, you know how you said about. It's all about dating and showing and eventually getting to a point where you're essentially like trying to get people to like you and understand you and that's what I'm trying to do with, even with my, you know, with the company that I work for currently, but also the other thing is that even with my interview some of the things that I was showing and just, you know, try to explain things from a selling perspective but not showing me in a value proposition way like I was just showing them in different skills and they were just like, Yep, you're going to get the job and it's, it's where that's the thing I can bring skills that potentially I don't have in my job and and kind of bounce off with what I've learned from legendary but also what I learned from work and combine those two together and then eventually like the aim is to, once I feel like I've getting an income that is consistent, that within my business, it's where I don't need to work for an employer anymore and that's the long term game. 

Dave: Yeah, well, well, there's no doubt in my mind whatever you put your mind to Cynthia you will achieve, there's, there's 1,000% confidence in you and in that so thank you for coming on. It's been wonderful to get to know you and, and, and, you know, have you share more of yourself and and be vulnerable and let us kind of know some of the ups and downs and all arounds you've, you've, you've gone through, congratulations on your success so far I know, it's just the beginning for you, so keep up the great work, be Legendary. It's been a great episode so You've crushed it so you've, you can feel absolutely great about that. And please come back okay and keep us posted.

Cynthia: Thank you. I appreciate it, David. Say bye to Matt and thank you everyone for listening as well. Appreciate it. We'll do it soon. 

Dave: All right, take care, we'll talk to you later. 

Cynthia: You too, bye bye.

Dave: Alright my friends. Well, there you have it. Another fantastic episode from somebody who has watched the show on a daily basis, and is now a guest crushed it. And my question is how many of you guys will come on and share your journey through ups and downs and all arounds and, you know, eventually to your success. How many of you guys will do that with us as well? I hope each one of you guys will be willing and able to do that too and if that's a goal, first of all, I'm honored that you want to come on and do that. But if that's the goal. Then let's all see together how we can achieve that how you can achieve that over the course of the next 90 days, six months, right, because we here at legendary want to give you a platform to be able to share your message, develop your skills, right, build your confidence and go out and make a lot of money and build a business and in a life that you love. So, have a fantastic weekend. If you're new here, get into our Blueprints if you can. This is where a lot of the magic happens in the ongoing accountability and coaching. If you want to take your game to the next level. We've got masterminds coming up we're going to be sending out registration links for those pretty soon, we've got two here that are going to be happening. The year long from then and then we've got a virtual mastermind right around the weekly email and if you haven't gotten that email contact Customer Service. Have a  fantastic day or night wherever you are in the world, be Legendary. We'll see you back here on Monday. Peace.

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How To Turn Your Affiliate Marketing Business Into A 6 figure Income Stream

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Dave: What is going on my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Welcome to Wake Up Legendary, we've got, we've got an exciting episode this morning we're going to be talking to a guy who I would consider the king of giving away free value it's led to multiple six figures in revenue per year for this for this guy. I can verify that. And that's not including the income sources in the business that he's built that I don't know about. I know Brian Brewer. Well, obviously I'm not sitting next to him on a daily basis seeing everything that he does but what I've seen from Brian is absolutely impressive, and this is somebody who many of you guys have already learned from this is somebody who's inspired many of you who are inside of our community who you've already got free value from you've learned from whether he's made, quote unquote, affiliate commissions from you or not. It's very likely that you've seen his content and marketing out there, and again, you've, you've learned something. Why, because that's his whole approach to building a business online. If you don't know who Brian is, you're about to be introduced to him. Super Down to Earth guy. Completely and totally cool, has an awesome lifestyle, and is somebody who today. If you haven't gotten any free value away from, from up until this point you will today, and I can, I can say that, just without a doubt, even just talking to this guy you, you're going to learn from them. So my big question to you, as I bring Brian on, would be how would you like to build a six figure multiple six figure, even up to a seven figure business without ever having to sell anything without only ever giving away free value. Think about that for a second, only ever giving away free value to people. That is the conversation that we're going to be having today amongst probably some other things I'd like to welcome to the show, my man. Brian Brewer what's going on, brother.

Brian: Hey Dave, thanks for having me on. Thanks to everybody who's tuning in to the live stream here today. Also if you're watching the replay as well. Let us know, and thanks for tuning in and just Dave. It's a pleasure to be here, happy to be back in front of this community again for a third time. Thank you so much. 

Dave: How's it going, Wow, three, three man, amazing news. A couple of years that we've spread these, These three sessions out over but, wow, time flies, and we're having a lot of fun, aren't we, I'm loving it. Want to keep going as long as possible, you're traveling, you're kind of doing what you're doing, you're doing your affiliate marketing thing, you just got back, I think you're back in your home office now and you just got back from a vacation, where'd you guys go.?

Brian: Yeah, so after the kids got out of school at the end of May we went away to a cabin in East Texas for a little while. Then we went to Colorado just round Colorado Springs in Canyon City and, and, um, towards the end of the mountains and stuff and then we went to Santa Fe, I just kind of cruising around and yet now I'm back home this week for a couple weeks get back to work, create some content and focus strategy and then before you know what we're going to be off to Michigan to see my family and wife and I are celebrating 10 years in Jamaica this year, this summer as well. So we've got a lot planned so we have a busy summer here. Lots of fun.

Dave: Yeah dude, that's incredible. So for those who don't know you give us the nutshell version of who you are. What's your reason? Why have you chosen affiliate marketing in sort of what led you to where you are today?

Matt: Absolutely, so I'll just try to be as brief as possible here I started in 2012, just like everybody does for the most part and gets into affiliate marketing or any business, how do you make money online and I came across affiliate marketing, it made sense to me because at the time I was working in a restaurant 50, 60 hours a week, we had a newborn, newborn baby, it was our first child she was four months old so I was busy. And I didn't have the time to build the quote unquote traditional business where I was taking on clients all that stuff so affiliate marketing made sense to me. I started with product review blogs, and evolved over time. 2016 is when I really started creating content going on youtube creating free courses leading with value. And really, since then I've done a couple of different things, but for the most part, I've been following that model of giving as much value as possible creating consistent content on whatever platforms are relevant, at the time and bringing in traffic. And yeah, in 2020 I went back to a full time affiliate marketing business I had been coaching and doing, you know, selling courses and stuff like that in 2018 2019, and just decided I liked the affiliate marketing model provides the freedom to do the things that we just talked about like go to Colorado in Santa Fe and spend time with the family and spend some time hanging by the pool, and it's a great business model and obviously you can scale it to multiple six figures and hopefully, you know, later this year or early next year I'll be on a seven figure run rate, and that's the goal.

Dave: Yeah, it's interesting because you've kind of gone full circle in your affiliate marketing journey, what, what I've seen over the past 10 years, is that in affiliate we'll have a lot of success doing affiliate marketing, then sort of go off and say well I want, I want to I want all the money, right, so I want to create courses, and all this kind of stuff, sort of abandon the affiliate marketing, you know, revenue the the kind of momentum that they were building in the city. Having affiliate marketing, going over here, running, everything went for the marketing Oh, that's a lot more overwhelming that that takes a lot more kinds of people. And what happens is, unfortunately, because I've now taken my focus off to the affiliate marketing stuff I was doing that was working really well that I've worked really hard to kind of get going. 

Now that's really tapered off all this other new business where I'm making quote unquote all the money is not what I thought it was going to be, it's, it is more difficult can it be done. Absolutely. I mean, it is creating your own courses and all that, is it a good business model. It absolutely is. It's just important to know what you're going into when you go into it and understand the difference between just selling other people's products, and then kind of taking it all on yourself. And then, and then oftentimes they'll, they'll either see that through and just kind of figure it out or kind of say, You know what, doing affiliate marketing was a lot more fun and a lot more simple, and so I'm just gonna do affiliate marketing, sounds like that's kind of the path that you that you went on.

Brian: Absolutely, I mean the happiest I've been over the last five, six years is when I'm doing just affiliate marketing, I'm really promoting one front end product, and just kind of following up on the back end, with additional revenue streams and really building a community, you know 2016 2017 I did that with Shopify and E commerce, and your same thing hit multiple six figures with their affiliate program really kind of listened to people, and told me I needed to create courses and like you said, it's a great business model, obviously, it works, but it's totally different. And you really should. I think I should focus on one or the other. And, yeah, in 2018 I really successfully derailed a real passive $50,000 per month affiliate marketing, business by trying to sell courses, But it was fun to learn a lot, and here we are now at no I've learned now I'm now I am not tempted to like you say, go after all the money and I'm perfectly content, you can do a very good business right now with affiliate marketing. 

Dave: Yeah. And so, I mean, some of you guys might be listening saying, Well, Dave, don't you teach the core four ways to, to sell information right affiliate marketing courses coaching events. i Yes, we absolutely do and that's a fantastic question. And so what's my point in saying what I just said, my point is that if you have something that's working really well, don't just kill that income stream. Right, right, and that's kind of the number one rule even Warren Buffett has of investing as the number one rule is just don't lose money. So if you have an affiliate marketing stream that's working really well. If you're going to add another income stream if you're going to create your own course. Don't abandon that original stream of income, make sure that whatever you're doing, you can maintain that affiliate marketing stream of income that you've already created. And to figure out a way to do whatever else you want to do. In addition to that, right now if you're going into a niche, some of you guys may be coming in as sort of experts or professionals you already have a passion or an expertise and you want to package that and sell that information. Well that's fine, you're doing that from the beginning, right, you're not killing off another income stream to start that we can teach you and show you how to package that information and sell it. The main point here is just. And I've seen this happen over and over again, affiliates, because I guess entrepreneurs Brian because we're, we already got shiny object syndrome and it's part of what makes us good. It's a double edged sword, it's part of what makes us successful. It's just we, there's a new hot thing or we want to participate in this launch. And in doing so, oftentimes we abandon what was working and then we have to learn the hard way and then we have to work really hard to get that stream of income going back again,

you know. 

Brian: Yeah, and that's what you don't realize until it's too late, is, is when you're building something and you're, you have a singular focus, You are not only starting to gain momentum but you're also creating this group of people who are kind of hanging back behind the scenes, paying attention to waiting till they get their tax returns, or they, you know, their their car payment is, you know their notes paid off and you know, whatever it could be months or even years in some cases that people kind of hang back and if you stay consistent. You know, hey, you'll be there when they're ready to buy and guess what, that's how, that's how the snowball effect kicks in and you know really, you talk about the shiny object syndrome, I just got to bring this up because I recently hired a performance coach to kind of work on more your internal stuff, and one thing he helped me realize I was kind of getting to that point where shiny object was kicking in, I need to I need to do more. I need to look at something different. And you know he assured me, he's like, think about it, you're just bored at this point. My systems have gotten to the point where they're running so well that little bit of boredom sets in, so what's the solution? Well, he says go macro or go micro with your content, create a whole bunch more content or get really, really detailed so that was a good realization and a helpful realization from some of the most recent coaching that I have bought into that really helped me refocus say hey, things are going great, don't have them. 

Dave: Let's just see what the real problem is, and I was in recovery personally when I cleaned opiates, aka heroin addiction and drug and alcohol addiction. One of the things that's a real kind of danger zone for a person in recovery is when things are either going really bad, or things are going really good, because what happens is when things are going really good is oftentimes we want to shake them up. Right. Why, because of how you just said, we get a little bored, right, to get, we get maybe a little burnt out on doing the same thing over and over again, or we're just sort of a little bit addicted to sort of that chaos and that excitement and that adrenaline of something new, of building something new. And in order to build a big company, or a big business, even if you're the only person employed inside of that business. If we look at all the strong businesses, they've all stuck with a system, over years and decades and decades. And there's also a saying in recovery that says if you never leave the basics you don't have to go back to them. And what happens is similar to business. We recovery people who are looking to stay sober they you know they stay sober clean for so many years, doing a very kind of basic routine of going to meetings and calling people and doing service work, and then all of a sudden they get successful and get their life back and it's like, oh the career took me in this direction in the marriage and the kids and all of a sudden. Damn I relapse because I wasn't doing those basic things that gave me the life that I now have. So I think that same principle, like you just laid out really applies to us entrepreneurs and I've experienced a little bit, that a little bit lately as well i i get kind of, you know, burnt out or I get sort of bored if you will, of certain things of doing them on a daily basis. So I sort of introduce other hobbies lately it's been watches, you know, so I'll, I'll spend a little bit of my time now introducing, maybe a hobby, where I can shop and look at watches and stuff and I've chased a couple of watches throughout the state over the last couple of months I'll go on a day trip and go and meet somebody new and buy a watch and, you know, it kind of adds a little bit of that sort of thrill of the chase, which shakes life up a little bit but it doesn't particularly. It's not like I'm abandoning my business or, or going and starting a new one, right. Interesting but you framed it in the way that you did in, I think it's, I think this conversation is really important for people who want to understand what are some of the things that may be coming down the road, that you're going to run into as you become more successful. I'd love to transition, I want to talk a little bit about how you've built your business, you've built your business obviously with free content, and a lot of it. But I want to talk about this idea of this linear marketing that you mentioned, like just a moment before we went live. I didn't even really hear all the details of what you meant by it but I kind of have an idea. And, and what I can tell you that I just want to tee this question up with is that I was thinking about this actually this morning that, you know, there's a couple of different affiliate products in ways you can promote as an affiliate for legendary for example for our affiliates, the best way for our affiliates to promote our products is sort of in an evergreen way, in an ongoing way, because our sales cycle takes a couple of weeks to even a couple of months, we talk to people we talk to them on the phone we get them on webinars. These wakeup legendary shows, and as long as somebody is a customer of yours, you're going to get paid on all their purchases for the lifetime of that customer, whereas there's brilliant products that are more promotable

like the last mode and participate in something for a company. So you kind of have to decide if I want to interrupt my evergreen pipeline of promoting this particular product with this launch. What you've done to my understanding and I want you to explain this as to if you found a front end product, it happens to be legendary for you. But if there was something that had that evergreen nature like our products or our system does, then it could be that too. And then you've put these products, other products on the back end through email follow up and so forth, would, would you kind of explain your process and your approach to affiliate marketing,

Brian: Yeah absolutely so everyone wants multiple streams of income that's kind of like the buzz topic. And, you know, for me, I think, based on my experience that perhaps there's a right way and a wrong way to do that or a more efficient versus less efficient way to do that so the way that I believe that promoting multiple products and in generating multiple streams of income works best is, as you said, have that one front end product right now, for me, it happens to be legendary marketer. Three years ago, four years ago, it happened to be Shopify. But for me the key has always been having that one front end product because then there is concurrency and consistency across all your content, if I post in my Facebook group, which has now grown to over 7000 people. It's going to be framed and positioned around legendary marketer, if I'm posting on tick tock, is going to be framed and positioned around legendary marketer and the same thing with YouTube as well so no matter where people find me I'm kind of talking about the same thing. Hey affiliate marketing is great because here's how you learn affiliate marketing. So there's that front end product. And I say, I've stayed consistent with that for over a year now and that's part of the secret sauce or secret to success. So now we get people in whether we're using a two page bridge page whether we're using our own kind of webinars or video sales letters or if we're if we're creating courses that introduce legendary marketer however we're promoting that on the front end, you know there's multiple methods that work obviously. But then, after people buy into Legendary. Okay, that's going to open up another set of problems for them. So someone comes in and they start getting the affiliate marketing education well what's the next thing they need well they're going to need a bridge page or they're going to need a website, they're going to need a way to collect emails so the second product I promote is ClickFunnels happens to be the affiliate or the website software that I use. Well, because that's the next logical step, it's not, it's not disrupting everything, everything's promoted on the backend via email, but also what happens is that product is now tied to the purchase of Legendary Marketers, so there is a sunk cost there. So people are more likely to convert on the ClickFunnels now versus if I was just promoting Click Funnels on the front end, because once again, they're already invested so it makes sense for them to purchase this product will that help me win my dream car, which is a Click Funnels contest where they now give me money to drive my brand new truck because I referred enough affiliates. Okay, well what's the next thing they're going to need well they're going to need an autoresponder because they got to manage their emails if they're going to be in affiliate marketing, Or even if they're doing any other business models that you mentioned inside legendary marketer, they're going to need a way to manage email so I promote an autoresponder. Okay, couple, you know, maybe 10 1215 days go by, what's the next thing they're going to need Well now they have their knowledge and their systems set up now they're going to need traffic. So I promote a white labeled product that is essentially like affiliate marketing but I didn't create it, but I get paid right away through my Stripe account, but I promote that and that basically teaches people to finalize their Facebook profile because traffic is the next logical step. Well guess what, now that they have these systems in this traffic setup, what are they going to want they're going to want more streams of income. So I showed them how they can white label that product that pays me a $500 commission when they buy into that $1,000 product. Okay, great. Now what's the next thing they're going to need well we are on the back end of all my systems day 29 or whatever. I promote a little mastermind that I run, it's just something I do once a month. It's for fun, I don't promote it on social media but it's for people who want more access to me, because I've gotten in. You know that's monthly recurring revenue for me, you know, so that's $97 a month from every, every member so that's, that's another stream of letters, there's what six streams of income right they're all congruent and making sense, not none are cannibalizing the other then on days, someone when someone's been on my list for 35 days, or 60 days or 90 days, that's when I can promote the launches internally to them and those are the 20,000 30,000 $40,000. If you have a big enough list and been doing this a long enough time. And that's it, that's the system.

Dave: And if you haven't ruined them by making the list feel  like just promoting or they feel confused. The way that you just laid that out that that out and the way that you have your, your entire linear affiliate marketing set up your promotional setup done is, sort of, in my opinion, just absolutely textbook, and the way that you just lay that out for those of you who are listening who are just wondering, what is a successful setup looks like you just heard it, you know, you just heard it in, and hope you all were listening, you know, I don't want to shove this stuff down your throat but I hope you're listening because that was, that was exactly what also we teach in terms of the the fishing formula in the blueprints. You can have as many offers on the back end as you want. But having a consistent message on the front end. Once people finally say okay yes, I'll take you up on that product in the experience that you give them if they can't grow it, and it makes sense. And you introduce things right at the right time, in which they need them, they become so trusting of you that each recommendation that you give, they usually say yes I'll take that because you've introduced these, these products or services at the right time at the perfect time. You haven't overdone it, you haven't undergone it, you're not afraid to sell you're not afraid to put things out there in front of them, right, and you're even the era, at the back end after they've been around for 30, 35 days, introducing a form of coaching with your mastermind that allows you to do that in a way that doesn't get in the way of your affiliate marketing income so if one day you decided you know what guys, I'm just not, I'm not going to do this coaching thing anymore, it's just, I don't want to give up the day of the one day a month I just don't want to give it up anymore, right, or for whatever reason, I'm just not doing this anymore. You could cut that out. And it would not even remotely interrupt or damage your main affiliate marketing business in your main income stream. Am I right about that the first five income streams would just keep humming along?

Brian: And you're right, I mean, the majority of my money comes from affiliate products, I, a relative to the affiliate income you know I make very little on these masterminds once again it's just more fun and get good conversations going with good people who really want to take it hopefully to the next level. But yeah I mean I could cut it out tomorrow and nothing would change you know I have to cancel the monthly recurring revenue but other than that that's, That's it, and that's a small portion on the, on the very not very back end but towards the back end there.

Dave: Yeah. And I think that's just it's really great for all of you who are new to kind of get out of this biz op mindset as well to where it's like, basically this singular bizarre mindset which to me, I experienced that in network marketing, quite a bit because I got into the network marketing companies I was selling whatever lotions, potions, or pills and I don't have anything against network marketing that sort of gave me my start. Many many seems like a lifetime ago, but a different load right. But the leadership and the trainers and the owners of those companies made me really feel like that was my business and if I was doing anything else that I was sort of, I was sort of cheating, or I was, I was, you know, not doing it right. And, and, you know that that kind of, so I got real kind of weird about it and everybody got real weird about this kind of, you know, me having any other income streams or whatever. Whereas when I got into the affiliate marketing world and I got into selling information via courses, coaching and events, and of course doing affiliate marketing, I learned what you're talking about, which is how to set up a consistent message on the front end but have all these multiple income streams on the back end. And the beautiful thing is, and I want to point this out and confirm it with you is that those additional income streams are literally, I hesitate to use this word because it's a little high p but set up on autopilot, because of the email follow up. Right.

Brian: I mean, you know, you don't want to say it too much because people automatically put up their red flags but yeah I mean it is, it's as automated as you can possibly get. Because it's affiliate products which I don't have to fulfill on, and because like you said the automated systems and. And the cool thing about introducing things at the right time. You know, there's this kind of deception, I think, out there that wants to spend money more than willing to spend money to solve their problems. And then power them and then introduce the right things at the right time, people are more than happy to buy it.

Dave: I agree with that, I can't manage it, it's also a, it's also such a one of the things that is important to us is that, you know, we paint the picture of what's possible with building a business online doing any one of these core four business models we're talking about, but we're also realistic about it right because you could have an absolute dream lifestyle. That doesn't mean that you're making millions of dollars, it might just mean that you're working from home, working the hours that you want, or that you just have extra income to be able to do the things that you want to do take an extra vacation I don't know what your dream life beads do but I know that this business model, if you follow through with it, do it and you're successful with it can give you that. Now, on the other side, it takes, it takes work. It takes an investment of time, it takes an investment of money. Yes. Yes, money, it takes an investment of money. And you know what, here's my here's my experience. If I'm the guy who's out there constantly looking to get things without spending any money or get the best bargain or get something for nothing guess the type of people that I'm going to attract into my life. I'm going to attract those same people who don't want to pay for jack shit who want me to give all of my time in exchange for no money. Right. So I think the point that you make is, is, is on target, and it's also something that everybody needs to hear, is if you want to build a business. Yeah, you're gonna have to spend time, you're gonna have to spend money, but if you spend money and you get what you pay for, it adds value. Isn't that how the economy works, that's the, there, there is no fairy tale, right, there is no, you know, It might be a, it might be a. And of course we hear this and we've heard this for years, this is a this is a, you know this is a snake oil pitch that we've heard for years that you know you can you can do you can do real estate with no money, you can you build a business online with no money is all it is is it's a, it's a rot bait that marketers use to kind of, you know lure people in with this sort of false sense of I'm a good guy, I'm here to help you. When the truth of the matter is, it's not reality. Right, and honestly the, You know, here's what I said I bought a watch from a guy the other day and he said, he said. Basically I wired the money right away, right, like we got on and. And he was like, he was like, hold on a second let me pull up when we pull up the conversation. He said that was, he said. He said you beat the other customer on customer speed. You certainly beat the other customer on the speed aspect because he said that he said that another customer had a deposit or was going to send the deposit today on the wallet. Well I guess the guy didn't send the deposit, right. So I sent it right away. I said the whole amount. And he said, you certainly beat the other customer”. I said yeah I strive to be the best client, I can be because that's what I seek to attract in return.

Brian: Right. You know it's 100% True like you are your own first customer avatar. So, have you hire your own first customer, Avatar you, especially when you're, when you're creating content, because you are going to attract people who are similar to you so if you want to attract people who are willing to purchase, you have to be the person who is willing to purchase and invest. And if you're not going to be that person. You know, you have to be. If you're not going to be that person, you're not gonna attract those people, it's got to be at first, and do other things that that those type of people would do in the type of things, those people do is invest, look for look to provide an outstanding experiences, but also to move quickly and do what it takes.

Dave: Yeah, and look guys, we don't give a damn whether you spend money here, spend money with us but don't spend money with us, this is not, honestly, there's, there's, there'll be 1000’s of people that we do business with just this month. So it doesn't matter whether you're listening to this and you say well these guys are just trying to get me to buy something. No, we don't care if you buy anything or not, we really don't. If you want to just hang out on these lives, if you want to just go watch Brian's TikTok or his YouTube videos, just hang out and just kind of get free value totally fine. We're talking about if you want to get results in your life. And if you want to have the conviction to be able to say when you're marketing something, and you're suggesting something maybe as an affiliate, that conviction to say, yes, you should buy this, it's worth your money, it's worth your time. 

Brian: Yes, I've also put my money where my mouth I've invested in coaching. Remember a ton, and you just mentioned that a little bit ago, so if I

an investment in helping me realize that it was just bored of setting in may have made me, or will have maybe make me 10s Hundreds, a million now. I don't know. Yes, just because it's so I have already received my return on that investment. Right, probably actually literally but I know that I saved myself by investing in that coaching.

Dave: Yeah. And you know the other thing, just in terms of, of being willing to spend money in exchange for something, there's a certain element of self esteem that goes along with that, in my opinion, knowing similar. Similarly, I put in an honest day's work for an honest day's pay. Even if that day's work was only an hour long, right, we're not trading time for money here that's not what we teach, but similarly if I get information that I've that I've paid for that I've, I've, there was an exchange of value, and I threw in my part, it's kind of like, you know, there was a song back in the day, I got five on it, I don't know if you guys know that song or what they're talking about what they're talking about grabbing a sack or you know what wacky tabacky and homeboys like I got five on it, right, and we say that back in the day, what you got on it, and I'll tell you what, if you were pitching in, you wouldn't get in hot dog, keep it super real.

Brian: Right,  you take a look at that in that exchange, you mentioned earlier in the economy. If there are people like me, investing in performance coaches to go to the next level, then there would not be performance coaches to provide the value the free value would not be there on the TikToks in the YouTubes if there wasn't the exchange of money happening behind the scenes from the people who are willing to invest because that free value is, is marketing. No matter what you're doing you're in the business of marketing the business you're in. 

Dave: So talk about I think a lot of people when they try to wrap their heads around. Okay, hold on a second. Let's say for example selling information. So I'm selling, say a course or have some sort of training, and the information is in there. Well, for me to market that I just need to go and tell you to buy that thing because all the information is in there. Wrapping people's head around, people wrapping their head around teaching in giving away free value, even in some cases, giving your best secrets away, maybe not word for word what's in your training course. But, but, but giving away some of your best, if not all of your best stuff. Oh, way up front for free as an affiliate is, how you get people to trust you more and I think that's something that people have a hard time wrapping their head around but you're the king of this giving away free value having free communities giving away funnels, giving away bonuses given all this stuff away. Walk us through your mindset of how you kind of, you know, maybe what you did before you did this have you always done this in sort of your philosophy of giving away free value in define value for us too, because that's another ambiguous term, but giving away free value in order to earn trust, and then get get sales.

Brian: Yeah absolutely so a couple of things there's let's try to unpack that reasonable, logical order. So first of all define value right value is, is obviously something that educates or empowers or helps people or shoulder some of the burden or what have you gives folks confidence right, but it also highlights the affiliate product right the affiliate product is still the one thing that can change everything. So it all started for me, really in 2016 late 2016 I had sold private preview blogs. I had done some drop shipping, you know, I saw this e-commerce thing was, was, was coming, coming up strong coming up hot back in 2016/2017. You know, so alright cool let's jump out in front of this as an affiliate This is my first step of building the Brian Brewer brand or putting my face out there. What am I gonna How am I gonna monetize this well, I'll create a course so the first thing I did was I started creating a course very simple course, I figured I'd sell it for 100 bucks or whatever, didn't really have much of a plan but showed people, there's by store product boarded how to run your first Facebook ads. I think I have something okay. Well, let's just see what happens. Let's just give this thing away and start building an email list, right. So that's what I did I just packaged this, you and I call this a free course it was just a two hour training video of me voiceover screen share just step by step by step really boring, packaged it as a two page website page one collects the Email page to hosts the course obviously with an affiliate link below the video right real basic, but yeah I packaged it up there, it was like I'm gonna give this away for free, let's go on YouTube. I created micro training on YouTube, you know, search friendly micro training sites that attracted people who might be interested in doing this whole drop shipping thing, and always my call to action was make sure you check out the free courses linked in the description below. So I just kind of went for it. And what I saw happened blew my mind. My brand new YouTube channel from a guy with no YouTube experience at all. I think I hit 30,000 subscribers in the first year, by month 13 I would go from zero to making $50,000 in a month, and it was all because I had this big piece of cheese, sitting here, that not only was valuable, but also facilitated the conversion. And because I had this big piece of cheese, people were tuning in to what I was saying people were recommending my YouTube channel, because I wasn't selling straight from YouTube, and I would start off with say hey stick to the end of this video I'll show you how you can get my free drop shipping course, people stuck to the end of the video the content goes crazy. And that's what I'm doing now, in a sense, where I'm creating these trainings and giving them away or these funnels and these templates and these scripts and all these things. I'm attracting people. And it's also facilitating the conversion when I give away a free funnel you better believe I'm giving that away so I can get more Clickfunnels monthly recurring revenue and win my dream car and all that cool stuff. But because of that, because I'm giving away your value on Tik Tok or value on YouTube, then, oh by the way, by default, my Facebook group grows faster, because, because people. Obviously, trust me, but also by giving away that value by really educating and empowering people, as I say to make a positive change in their lives by purchasing the products I'm promoting just by teaching first. I am getting them to invest. And once people invest, even if not with money yet once people invest their time and learning, that's a sunk cost. And they will be more likely to continue to invest.

Dave: Yeah, That, I mean, that last five minutes folks, if that's that's a rewinder, that's a real Listen, that's a that's a dowel that back once or twice.

Brian: Well, you know, just like we say back in 2016 I found it by accident. But in 2020, I've proved that it works, it's repeatable.

Dave: In any niche. Here's a great example. I was talking to, I was, I was talking a moment ago about watches. Well, there's, there's this new, there's this new sort of discovery that this gray market which just basically means you're a second hand dealer you're not like an authorized Rolex dealer. But the second hand gray market dealers have discovered it's a new discovery that they've all recently discovered over the past year or so, and it's changed their business. It's taken by these gray market dealers in Dallas, or in some smaller city in Pennsylvania, or, or another one in Texas that I know of. And it's taken their business from just, you know, trying to work deals with friends and family and kind of hand out business cards sort of locally to get people to buy watches from them to these global businesses that they have people reaching out to them from all over the world, because they want to buy watches from them because they know like and trust and want to know what that discovery is everybody that they've discovered is posting free edutainment right educational entertainment value on YouTube, how they do it, how they do it is they literally have a camera just follow them around in your their cases with all these cool watches and selling watches and then the behind the scenes stuff. I'll give you some examples. Roman Scharff is one if you want to look them up, the timepiece gentlemen is another one. I mean you guys could literally look at these YouTube channels, the timepiece gentleman has over 100,000 followers on his TikTok, it's, it's two guys. I mean, guys, we're, we're, nobody knew who they were, they were just one of the guys was in prison, seven or eight years ago, you know, came out, turned his life around got into watches struggled to sell a watch here they are locally in Dallas, and then started to create content giveaway that free value in for a guy like me, who likes watches, I've got one watch on right now I've got one watch sitting right here I've got another. I mean it's just something that I like, something that I'm interested in right now in this chapter of my life again to avoid the boredom of my kind of daily grind. Well I like to sit there and watch these guys kind of running around with these cases full of awesome watches that I just don't know. I also am getting a bit of a different business idea from watching different guys in different niches, but there's tons of guys who are just sitting at home who aren't watching it for any business aspect, they're just enjoying it. When the dude, you know, bust out a case of protec Felipe's or bust out a case of Richard Mills or whatever it has a couple of million dollars in a watch case. So it's fascinating that you're sitting here talking about in just explained in amazing in very clear detail, but you've been doing this now and proven this model of giving away this free value you just gave all the ways and examples that you do it, but I just also gave you instantly another example in a different niche of guys who are doing the same exact thing, and it's exploding their business. So what, in your experience, do you think, keeps the new person, from, from going out there and beginning to sort of duplicate this, this same winning formula. Is it the fear of putting themselves out there, I mean, you have lots of experience working with people too. I'd like to leave people with some sort of hey here's what might be happening with you that's keeping you from taking the actions that you need to take to win. What, in your experience, are those roadblocks or coatings that most people deal with. 

Brian: Yeah, I think it could be a couple of things but I think one thing that that might be tripping a lot of people up and I know this because I was in the same boat, many years ago is, is that, that that employee mentality where I should do this, and then make this, and I should create a tic tac and make a commission. Right. That's kind of the way that most of us who aren't lifelong entrepreneurs, because I am not. I didn't start this entrepreneurial journey until I was 32 years old. So those of us who aren't lifelong entrepreneurs, we have to get out of that mentality of I should do this and then get this right, because that's not the way it works. So obviously when you see an opportunity like you know a TikTok for example where there's all this. So that's one thing. Another thing is when you see all this opportunity on TikTok, you know, you think wow that's so much traffic you know I can, in, and I can just get in front of that to promote my thing. I think it's really hard for newer person to understand that there is too much opportunity on social media to waste all your time selling on social media, you know, hopefully that kind of resonates where like, you know, if you sell on social media, you're going to get some views, especially if it's, it's a viral platform like TikTok. But you should know that if you go over to YouTube and try to sell on YouTube, you're not going to get any traction these days. It's too late, but you can still get massive reach on those platforms, if you give people something that they're interested in. Finally, I guess just to kind of finish that thought off. I think people see opportunity they want to go attack it right away, right, Like, but there's value in kind of delayed gratification because the third reason is, you know, it is, you read something that valuable while you're not really making any money but I'm gonna go out there and create this big piece of value that's going to take me a week or two. They just, they just don't have the experience to trust the process. And I think that's another thing that trips beginners up, but you're really the results come after the hard work is done. And if you do more of the hard work up front, then you know there's less work to do on the back end and what I mean by that is if I give away a free course that's packed with value that also increases the conversions. I don't have to bust my butt every day, given all this free value i on social media, because the value is there, I can be a little more casual a little more hypee if you will because guess what, all the value sitting there in that free course that you can have for free by the way if you click the link wherever So, yeah.

Dave: and I love the idea of giving away a free course, I think that in even calling it a free course. Because, as you just said you literally can put your course on your thank you page of your bridge page, your bridge funnel, right. So, the free course can literally be my 20 minute free course, to where you're literally just, you're literally just taking somebody over 20 minutes it for example, the watches that are going to keep their value, or even make you money that you can enjoy wearing versus how to avoid watches that the minute you buy them are going to depreciate 50%, you're going to enjoy wearing them, but you're going to be mad as hell when it goes time to sell them right in 20 minutes I'll save you more money and more headache and more buyer's remorse, then a lifetime of learning on your own. So, simply click the link below, enter your email and the free course is yours. And then down below the video, say I'm a watch dealer who sells watches on the side or whatever, click up, click the link, fill out the form and tell me what watch you're interested in, and how much you'd like to pay for it, right, and I'll see if I can source that watch for you if I have that watch in stock already. I mean, that would be my call to action.

Brian: What you're doing there in that hypothetical scenario is, is really you're giving people the confidence to buy. When you show them how to buy a watch that appreciates in value. These are people who want to spend the money but they just don't want to lose the money right so there's, I guess, give them the confidence to buy and guess what, yes, they're going to buy and I think that's another thing that's that that's missed and kind of my last thought that I have is, is that's really, you know what we're trying to do here is we're trying to give people the confidence to buy they'll, they'll follow us. When they believe in us, but they're gonna buy when they believe in themselves and when we're selling information. We're not necessarily in the information business, we're in the leadership business, and that's what it's all about.

Dave: Well, Brother, listen, I mean this was 51 minutes of absolute pure gold that we're going to do everything in our power to have everybody in our community, listen to thanks for your time, brother. Seriously man, you're becoming a friend, and obviously it's great to be in business with you, and I'm looking forward to many more years to come.

Brian: Yeah, hopefully we'll get to meet in person in September and, you know, at the mastermind there and, you know, it's just been a pleasure to be part of this community. Thank you for having me out again thanks for everyone who watched and obviously reach out to me if you need anything,

Dave: Alright see ya buddy, thanks, guys, listen seriously, I mean, that was just about curculio eight all of you guys. Bookmark that session, go back listen to it again, and Brian is somebody who I've known for long enough that I could recommend anything that he's seen or doing when mastermind or whatever it is, would be a bucket of money. My full endorsement of anything to sell. So, it is, he was nice enough though to come and just lay out so much value from years of experience and both successes and mistakes as he talked about at the beginning, just really, really valuable and it's not often that you know we get to hear from somebody who has had some experience so much experience and also so much success doing this business, it's it's really a rare treat. So thank you guys for tuning in, we had a huge number of people listening today and I think that's all because they know how much value, Brian delivers on a daily basis. So, get the hell out of here. Have a fantastic day where you listen to the session if you don't have anything else to do relist into the session. And if you do go execute, and real Issen to it, maybe later on today or this weekend, be legendary my friends, we'll see you back here tomorrow 10am Eastern time. Peace.

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Matt: Hey, what's going on everybody welcome man what's up? Yeah, Manny, good to see manage what's going on RJ? Why are we in the backcountry? It's too early for cheese. So it's merchant accounts stuff. It's not anything personal. Good morning, RJ. How you doing? Good to see you, Catherine. What's going on? Kathy Roy, what's happening, Kara? Good to see you as always Angela, what's happening? Good to see you. Welcome everybody. I was doing my morning walk. I'm parked in the parking lot here in Phoenix. And typically Phoenix is just 100%, Sunny, beautiful weather all the time. But we got some rain. So I'm chilling in my car now. But it's awesome. When we get rain. It's just I wasn't planning on it this morning, I was planning on having a beautiful little stroll through the park on my morning walk before it gets up to a, you know, an ungodly temperature here in Phoenix and got rained on a little bit. So it was great, but change your plans. So here we are. We're live Happy Wednesday. Good to see everybody here. We've got an awesome, awesome guest. I think you guys are going to really enjoy this. Well, I shouldn't say much different but it's a little bit of a different style. And this guy has taken a really creative approach to creating content on tik tok and other block forms. So I don't know I don't have a lot to say or offer. So I'm just gonna bring in Dominic, and we're just gonna wrap this thing so Dominic what’s going on?

Dominic: What's going on guys? How's it going? Hey, real calling in from a little town outside in Washington state called goldendale kind of out in the middle of nowhere. So as you can see, like you It's beautiful out here. 

Matt: Yeah, it looks awesome. Are you on an acreage? Or like, are you just hanging out? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I can freakin hear the birds chirping back there. It's awesome. The dental. Nice. So bring us into your story a little bit, bring us into your world and your life. And just, first of all, you started, I know that you started doing some stuff with digital marketing way back in the day. 2013 14. So take us back there. Give us a little bit of background. And then for everybody who's here and tuned in stay here because we're going to go into his TikTok strategy and stuff like that. And I think you're gonna find that really interesting. So dominant, give us just a little bit of background on you. And then how do you find legendary?

Dominick: Yeah, so I'll kind of do a kind of a quick recap of how everything came full circle back in then. So I'm 31. And back in about 2012 2013 kind of just started sticking my feet into digital marketing, like very basic stuff. This is like selling products on Warrior Forum, learning about email lists, but at the time, my mentality was, I don't want to say not in a good spot. But you know, I was like, I don't want to put in the work that has it. You know, I was so much looking for the golden ticket, you know, I had, you know, done everything from SEO to selling products to trying to do this firm and making digital content like everything. And so after hopping around for a while, I was like, man, nothing works. In reality, things work. It's just I don't want to take the time to put it into place. So you know, you kind of fast forward a few years, I ended up becoming a manager at a small retail shop, and I ended up getting laid off. And this is just around the same time that I'd started doing YouTube. While I got laid off eventually, like a couple months later, YouTube became full time. You're doing that. And as that grew, which is what I'm doing now. You ended up kind of getting on tik tok with my niche within that time growing that and then finding a guy by the name of Calvin Hill was like, Man, this guy's got killer content. And he's the one who kind of introduced me to legendary and I kind of took some time and I realized like, Oh, this isn't just like an affiliate program and this isn't just like a Hey seller product like it's an educational program. So it's like wow, okay, you know, I got to speak with you know, some of the people there beforehand, bribed me to purchase to get in and just like a man like this I'm impressed. Just all the tools and stuff that you guys have to offer on so now that that's going to become a thing. Now I'm kind of coming full circle back with the niche and knowledge back to you. Actually, like, let's do a company where I can teach people how to be financially successful on YouTube and TikTok, that's what I want to do. There you go. And and that's not to say,

Matt: That's awesome. That's awesome. What? So when you say your niche, can you tell us a little bit about the niche that you might have said in our questionnaire, but I don't remember. 

Dominic: Like a niche that I'm currently in or?

Matt: Yeah, like, like so. So you said like, you wanted to bring that to basically take that kind of content approach, take it into your niche, what niche Are you working in, or what niches have the market.

Dominic: So before I'd kind of, I don't want to say, you know, the make money online niche, but I was like, you know, you can never really find a voice. And somehow I have a background in audio engineering and just kind of producing stuff like that. So I had a bunch of equipment. And I used to always listen to scary stories, right? And so, I ended up becoming a narrator. And that ended up working out you know, I was like, well, let's just do it and probably going to go into where it blew up, you know, it really took off. And so that was going with YouTube, and then I saw a couple people doing it on TikTok cuz I'm like, TikTok is like 13 year olds, that nobody gets on kick. Come on, man. And I saw that there's people who do that. And they're like, several million followers and like, dude, there's an audience here for this. I'm like, wow, I can do this. And sure enough, I just started posting stuff. You know? So yeah, to answer your question, basically. Yeah, and not just the scary stories niche, but like, things are just like, strange are paranormal. Yeah, it's just, there's a huge niche for buddies.

Matt: Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So that is the right handle for that. So tell us about what you do. Because guys, this is this is. See, I think a lot of times people only know to do what they see. And so this is the reason I'm so excited, and thanks for reaching out, by the way, and like saying, like, Hey, is there any way I could pop on it? Because of love, the reason that we really, really want stories like you people like you to come on the show is because you expand new creativity, you have an element of you that is super creative. Maybe that's that audio thing that you know, you've got just a creative juice, I feel like thinking outside the box a little bit. And, and so for everybody who's watching, like, if you go look at that TikTok, well, I'll let you explain it. Tell us a little bit about what you do on that TikTok channel. 

Dominic: So, first, when I first started doing it, I found a guy by the name of his name is Mr. Bolen. And he's like this, this ex navy seal. And he basically tells like, you know, just just scary stories, you know how, shut the camera up and have like, you know, 10 things you shouldn't do during the night, and he'll do a green screen, and he'll start telling you things. And I saw that format. And I'm like, Man, that is such a cool way of storytelling you guys would probably ever meet. He has several million followers on YouTube now. And I was so inspired by this content. I'm like, I'm already doing that niche. Anyway, I'm like, I can add my own thing to it. So that's how I started doing it. And right when I started in the TikTok game, you know, I'm like, Alright, there's got to be some sort of algorithm to this that I can kind of figure out so I put my feelers out there. And I like watching guys on YouTube, like rube and Robert Benjamin. And I'm researching and I'm posting like 10, 12 times a day, I'm trying to do everything just, you know, basically, like you guys describing a you're in the ocean and you cast this massive net. This is important for all you guys to hear too, because this is the kind of stuff you got to go and TikTok, right. So when you first start out, you want to cast a massive net, right? And because the reason is you're looking for that one fish, you're going to catch lobster, you're going to catch tuna that you're gonna catch all sorts of fish and you're looking for that one fish that is just going to blow your head off. Well, I was trying to separate dueting videos. I do everything from like, you know, Bigfoot encounters to the most haunted places in the world to surviving everything I could find. And then I ended up finding this one video. And it was hard like a robot voiceover and then I noticed they use this special program. And like, it's sad, I guess I'll refrain from saying I hear but and I'm like, man, I had that same thing. Like I'll like I'll use it and so it was like disturbing facts that will ruin your day and it was just kinda like listing some facts and like, I could do that and so I kind of put my own spin on it do a little did a little Photoshop Blitz and did it do that series has been my that that was it. Man. That was my 100 pound tuna. You know, today that's my 8 million view video like that sky rock I saw I basically for the first moment wouldn't say 100 1,002nd month 100,000 to like almost 400,000 Now I'm going to be hitting a million here the next month just from like, a lot of that series of people love it man. So I called disturbing facts that will ruin your life. You know, it's just like seven to 10 facts I just put into my I narrated, put in my own thing and I'm I'm doing other stuff but it's so it's kind of like all in that vein. Yeah, the hell out of here, man. I say, correct. 

Matt: So. All right. So when you're creating this, so you're building. And what I always tell people is when you're building these social channels, you're essentially. I mean, it's a miniature, like an asset. Like it is a real asset. It's almost like imagining us talk about YouTube channels, the way we talk about YouTube channels, it's like, it's almost real estate. Like, it's, it's an and digital real estate, that someday people sell YouTube channels, like people sell them, then. Yeah, yes, of course. So I just feel like the social media channels like Oh, great, you're on social media posts and videos, where the hell does this go? The first question shouldn't be where the hell does this go? Or where? How do I monetize it? The first question is, how do I create extremely viral content? I like where you started with casting a huge net, throwing the big net out there. So you, and for everybody who's listening, pay attention to that, that's such a golden nugget there, cast a huge wide net, play around lots of different styles of content. find lots of people who are in your niche and say, What, they actually just look at their videos and look at what are the most viewed videos and say, What are they doing here? Like, what exactly are they doing? I tell people all the time, go bookmark those videos, and then watch them over and over and take notes and what's going on here? How can I put a spin on this? What can I maybe do with a little different sounds like that's what he did?

Dominic: Yeah, and what and just and this is for all you guys too, I'm gonna give you I can give you a specific so if you go to discover, you can put it by most like so by default TikTok, what's the most relevant, you can type in a hash. So what I do is the first thing you want to do guys, if you're on TikTok, you want to stay in your lane, you want to pick a niche, if you're going to talk about dogs or want to talk about motorcycles, you know, just make sure that that's what you want to cater to your audience. This is kind of marketing 101 for a lot of people, but some people, they'll post pictures of their feet that post pictures of their dog, you know, and I'm, as a viewer, there's no incentive for me to watch your content. So if you give me a separate lesson, once you've done that, you guys need to go ahead and start finding the hashtags. Start like finding the hashtags. And then when you go to the discover page, you can just start typing lightsabers if you're doing motorcycles, right. So I look at like Harley's, Harley Davidson motorcycle biker, he started finding big people in your niche, you could sort of buy most like, in the past few days, you start seeing all these TikTok pop up that have so many likes, this is content you need to be recreating, or looking at and saying, Oh, this is what a and b, do editing and stitching. That's a huge thing. I undermined it at first. You can do it and like an actual commentary, or you can just sit there. And so one of my most liked videos was this iceberg falling into the sea, right? Man, I want to just get into the news the whole time that I made a reaction. It was like, you know, like one bite and rising from the sea. And all I did was put a caption over it. That said, the beast rises from the sea, but a little mermaid thing. 5 million views, man. I was like, Are you kidding me? And all it was is just a bunch of people commenting and they're like, that's an iceberg. I'm like, Yeah, that's right. Keep having that controversy in the comments, you know, because all people understand. But all it does is when you have controversy and comments, people just you know, that they're typing and stuff like that. And your video keeps playing on repeat and playing on repeat, and it boosts your watch time. So with the TikTok algorithm, all they care about is they don't necessarily want original works. Yeah. And they want a hot watch percentage. Huge, just like any other platform, they want you on the platform. And so if you can do that, and people like it well, it's a rigged algorithm, Mike, it doesn't like my content. No, it's just not enough. people watched it for a long time. So it's not gonna get pushed out. If you give it if you give Tiktok what it wants, it will give you more than enough because it's basically utilizing YouTube for itself to grow. So it's a machine you just have to figure out how the machine works. You know, once you get it. Yeah, once you get it, man, it's like, and I was like, you know, I always thought you had to be like a model or maybe a beautiful girl. Dude, I'm just I'm just, I'm just a regular dude, man. Like, I'm just surprised to see him. And I'm like, wow, it's crazy. It really is.

Matt: Insane. Yeah, I feel like, I feel to me at least I feel like that the TIC Tock algorithm. Yeah, it's just interesting. I feel like the whole viewing thing. And somebody was on the other day, James Allen, I think is his name. And he was like, it's not even really about likes, like people doing shout outs to do like, like unfollow for more. That's, that's maybe not the best ever call to action on TikTok. It's more about how we create content that, yes, is going to get people to comment, because during that comment, the video keeps playing. Right. And especially, you can create content on TikTok that virtually says nothing that has almost no, like I've created a channel in the manifestation and spirituality niche. The whole video is just sound vibration, at like a certain decibel level. And then I give a theory on the screen. I don't say anything, it's just that sound. And then I get a theory about that sound that sort of opens brainwaves or whatever. Like, I actually don't even have a clue. But I was just testing the algorithm, I created one video, got 50,000 views, and I had 1000 followers in three days. And I was like, here, guys, here's a quick way to get 1000 followers, like, start, you know, and all I did was model it after another channel. And it was like, Oh, this sound is already on tik tok. Let's throw it up there. You know. So it's, it's Yeah, and I feel like that's kind of the same with that video that you made. But once you get your niche, I mean, you're really really niche. So once you get into that space, and you start creating that kind of stuff, it finds those people who have watched those videos once or twice or three times, and then it's just like, yeah, TikToks just gonna be like, here, go for it. Let's throw that in front of all these people. It's insanely powerful. So when you're creating those, like, How many are you creating a day and what's your process like to create this like stuff on tik tok or YouTube?

Dominic: So that's a really great question. So I guess we'll start with TikTok so Baca ads in the past we've had as much time to like dig in so my posting has been kind of far and few between but you know, at this point, since I've such a following, it's not as big of a deal so it's more for the longer this point, but within the first is very important for everybody to hear once you have and I kind of have the same thing to once you're under like 1000 to 10,000 you don't have an audience yet nobody knows who you are. So you need to be like a virus literally and you need to be posting if you can 10 times a day, some people can't really do that. So you need to be posting as often as you can. And that's the approach I did so I would look around and I would just try and find what's working. I would do everything from you know finding video clips on TikTok to post I would do wedding stitching videos. You know, all the above just anything I could do to try and like oh can I recreate this I Everything from like horror facts to creepy caught on camera videos to, I mean everything in between and just like, okay, that will work. And so my process was once to build up a following that I kind of found like some like, like the fact thing I'm like, Okay, well, this format really looks good. I'm like, What if I use the same format for like the most haunted places in the world? Or, you know, creepy sight, you know? And so I'm like, okay, I kind of leverage that sometimes it will work sometimes of whatever crazy conspiracy theories kind of anything too. And so that's kind of how by leveraging an app to write 1000s of works, and then use that format and can do the same thing. And then like, Okay, so once I had a format, I would find other people's content kind of the same thing. I'm like, why didn't that work? Good. So I would take that and apply my own format. Yeah. And with YouTube, it's kind of the same thing, too. I kind of look around at my competitions. Doing pay guys is a huge pay attention to your analytics. Otherwise, you're stabbing in the dark, and you're wasting your own time. If you see if YouTube's saying, hey, people really liked this content, you know, the amount of time, the amount of watch time, rinse and repeat, why would you go out and do something else? The same with TikTok? Like, give the machines what they want? Like, that's huge. So to answer your question, like simply, yeah, and we'll buddy, I ride the wheel. Now, if I see you working, you know, I'll repeat it. But I do want to keep trying new stuff, too. Because you never know what's gonna be the next big hit, you know, for every, for every 20 niches, you know, 20 nets you put in the ocean, you're going to have one that's going to have a big hole. So that's why I'm not worried if like, I have a video that flops like, that's okay. I'm looking for one. I'm looking for one. Yes. And once you get that, yes. blows up, buddy. 

Matt: Totally, totally, totally. So in terms of yours, in terms of your style, are you doing basically a similar style? Like, are you continually kind of creating a similar style over and over and over again now? And then? Did you just I mean, was it really throwing spaghetti at the wall? And then just kind of stuck?

Dominic: Yeah, at first, because I'm like, I don't want to copy. You know, some of these guys. I'm like, somebody said, that's all they do. They just did the green screen thing. And they tell stories. And that's how I started off. But I'm like, Well, you know, I might find content within that niche, I want to be my own thing. And now people say, Oh, well, you're him to point out. So I'm like, Yeah, I kind of got to find my own leg to stand on here. So I did some of that. I tried other stuff. And so but yeah, that's what it is. Mainly, you just got to, you just got to feel around. And you can stick to one thing, but you could also do several things, you know, but I try and once that kind of kind of format. I

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Matt: Can you hear me? Yeah. It just said that my connections are a little low. And so my camera just, I can try? I'm totally good. I can hear you. Fine. I can see you. I think my camera just just kicked my camera and it's grayed out. I can't turn it back on. But I'm totally here.

I don't know what's going on here. I was loving this. 

Dominic: Yeah. So this is for everybody. Like let's, let's check this out. So basically, you want to you want to really be known, hey, you know, if you think about it, every single celebrity, every single person who has something of value to offer, whether it be David himself, they have a very specific thing or a lot of like a lane that they stay in that they give you a value, right? They're not, they're not basically a chef cook and everything that they specialize in a small thing or a small handful things and they do this thing. Really, really well. That's why we're here, right? That's why we're at Legendary, but not because Dave's a literal chef, but because he teaches us you know about marketing and things like that. So you want to basically get really good at your niche. And you can either offer like one major thing, if I wanted to, I can make my channel just distribute backs, but I could also do other things. So I use like, I utilize that with just doing the facts as well as you know, maybe a couple other things that I know are kind of going to hit. But ultimately I try to stay in my lane, if that makes sense. And just you know, we'll try new things but also not try to venture out too far from the realm that I'm known for. And then you know, the thing your viewership kind of is like once you build a following, then you start getting views no matter what you have to try as hard to kind of like make these reaches because you're following knows you. You know and that way I wanted to say before I forgot this is guys, once you get on TikTok and once you get to about 1000 followers, I cannot I cannot underestimate the power of live and how powerful going live is inches for whatever reason, man it the algorithm to just boost your, your profile and your views like crazy, for example. So there's one time I went live at night. It was just like a Hangout just talking to people answering questions. It was like three, four hours or just having a good time. I got the gig. And just from the live session itself. I'd gained like 1300 followers, but then I went back to my profile and I saw that I had gained 13,000 followers just from TikTok pushing out my profile while I was live. And I'm like are you kidding me? It's just some like wow out and yeah, and so you know, you get on like, TikTok discord and everybody's talking about like, you know, dude, I went live and you know I blew up or I'm blowing up and so if you go live consistently that's so huge. If people want no specifics, I would try to dedicate at least 30 minutes to an hour a day. If you can focus on one TikTok and you give that time. I just connect with people and talk with people. Yeah, that's a huge one man. So I think that all kinds of answers to your question, man.

Matt: So I just feel like a camera back here. Oh, all right. Sorry, we're back. Yeah, I'm not sure what's going on with my camera. But if I go in and out I'm still totally here. I just don't know exactly what's going on. But what I wanted to say about that life piece is absolutely yes. 100% There are like multiple different TikTokers in our community that absolutely will not only just blow up their channel, but specifically what they'll do. If they'll create a piece of content or two pieces of content that day, go live later that night talking about that piece content. And they'll drop that content and say, I'm going live later tonight, though, drop those pieces of content, they'll say I'm going live later tonight to talk to this, follow me to follow me so you get alerted when I go live or whatever. But they'll be they'll actually, they'll generate way more leads and sales in any niche that they're in, whether it's coaching, consulting, whatever, we we have a girl in our community who's doing Relationship Coaching, whatever it is, and they'll generate way more leads and sales than the average tick talker who's out there and it's like, well, why can't I make any sales when they go live? They just like people underestimate the power of going live like it's a little mini webinar and you build trust in a way that you can't build trust just by watching videos. It's not possible.

Dominic: Dude, it's it's a it's a whole other world man raised so if anyone's listening, which many of you are literally you can't the fact that the fact that you can just talk and how you can be a real human being you know as since 2020 and everybody has been locked away and like you know, and just that being in the digital age with everybody having a face on their phones, we as human beings we crave that interaction so when you can have that one on one and just be real and get away from the the social media where everything's going to be perfect you just be real so many people crave that and so when you give them that by just having conversation by laughing by telling jokes by just you know, saying Hey, how you doing man and just giving them like value? Dude, it creates this trust value. unlike anything then people start like wow, you notice me and we can have it it's crazy man. It's just like it's a whole other world man. It's like you're giving value without even trying you know, because people like Enjoy your and your lives. Matt: And they'll just watch you. You know I want to add what you're saying where this is also really important guys, there's another nugget. Nobody really talks about dropping the nuggets, man. 

Dominic: Yeah, I wouldn't do it for free. So people were saying well at the new TikToking they include a CTA? Well what they don't tell you is most people just like oh will follow me for more follow follow follow follow like guys, I'm telling you now that's not good enough if you if I'm watching something you just tell me go follow up as a viewer that's not enough incentive for me to really you got to give me specifics for example, follow my channel more for how to grow your Tiktok follow my channel more if you want to gain 1000 followers in 30 days follow my Tiktok for more if you want to gain $100 a day give me specific because those trigger see the thing with the thing with marketing and selling is there's all those subconscious neuroscience little like triggers, you know, and there's specific things you can dig into that automatically trigger the subconscious that you're like, oh, wow, yeah, I want to learn that wow, that's interesting. Because if you just say follow me everybody says that, you know what's the like, what are you going to offer that Joe Blow isn't? You know, there's no incentive so if you've given specifics, or motorcycles for example, follow me if you want to learn how to repair a Harley Davidson follow me if you want to see me ride my bike down Highway 84 you know what I mean? Just Just write something very specific, and everybody can be different. But all CTAs are vital. A perfect example with my fact videos, I said the comment below which disturbs you, and I get so many comments being like, oh, what this fact that this back bothers. Now, would I want a really good engagement? Can I not have the CTA? Yeah, probably. But you know, I want to make sure that that is definitely there. Like I don't want to miss anything and add to the CTA part, the hook in the beginning is also important. If you just start the video off just going on. You got to be like, here's how to make $100 a day. Here's how to fix a swimming pool when it's 100 degrees outside. You know, you have to be something outrageous that's gonna be like okay, go on, you know? Yeah, create some sort of ridiculous talk, say something outrageous, do something outrageous, just for this first two seconds, man that that captures me and, and, you know, making cuts often every comes up. If you're just kind of doing a DIY video but just kind of doing like an actual, a more original style video, which a lot of us are going to be doing. I'm sure many of us are also in the online or make money online niche you know, we're helping people out by learning stuff like that too. You know, making cuts, often talking, adding captions to your video. This is all very important stuff guys adding trending sounds to your video and then taking the volume of it pulling it all the way down to zero. So that way it's not blaring in the background, but it's still it's up visits and yeah, guys, I mean, it's just when you learn these little tidbits you're like wow, I never thought of this stuff before.

Matt: It's the power man. That's the path you just dropped like 25 gold nuggets right there. Forget about one you just dropped like 25 gold nuggets. But the one I really feel like you hit on is because I've done so much research and we go through some of this stuff in the decade of the day when we unpack TikTok and stuff like that. But we like the whole entire algorithm when it comes to video creation. Like, like, in any niche that's educational. So if you're trying to sell any sort of digital product, typically that's going to be an educational style course. Like whether that's dog training, whether that's how to play tennis, whether that's how to shoot hoops. Like, I'm just obviously at a park and I'm sitting here and there's people playing tennis, you know how to hit how to hit a backhand, like Serena Williams, you know, or unpacking Serena Williams back end, step one, blah, blah, blah, notice her first foot placement. Step two, notice our grip on the on the racket, you kind of would look in, you know, quick view into racket, stuff like that, people are going to look into that, and suddenly, boom, you're gonna be freaking right into the ticket, you're gonna be right into tennis. TikTok, right, like, you're gonna immediately launch into tennis stick Doc, everybody who watches instructional videos on how to play better tennis is going to be watching your video. And then suddenly, you're going to start building this audience, and then you can do it. But the key is that little hook, like you said at the beginning, and then you get into the short little bite size clips, boom, boom, boom, boom, you can do this in any niche. In particular, we've seen people do that in the make money online niche very successfully. Spencer mega is a great example of that Calvin hills, an incredible example of that. You mentioned him earlier. But yeah, I've seen Yeah, I've seen people do this in every freaking niche people in, there's this past week, on the decade in the daddy of an example, we unpacked a little bit about this guy who does. Dog Training is one of the most famous TikTokers on YouTube on dog training. And he sets up his videos with that. And then we went into, you know, his little YouTube strategy, we saw that, you know, when you google search something on YouTube, or on Google, he's got videos that pop up that he's out on his youtube since 2013, with millions of views, and it still comes up on the first page of Google, but maybe tic tocs, he sets them all up with that short little intro thing they talked about. And then step one, do this. Step two, don't do this. Because your dog's gonna freak out. Step three, don't do this. Because your dog's gonna jump and bark and bite somebody. And then he gives just a call to action, I have an awesome, I have an awesome course. There's a link in my bio that teaches all of this and more specific to old dogs beyond all this stuff, go to the link in my bio and purchase the course. And he's, it's insane how large this dude's brand is. But he's built for himself a whole movement on not miniature. It's a massive online Empire with the exact strategy that you just said, it's so powerful.

Dominic: Yeah, and Calvin Hill is like, kind of the first ones to like, prefer me to kind of put that the marketing aspect to it where I'm like, yeah, I'm like, this is all my lunch. I knew, but I'm like, yeah, it makes sense. Oh, yeah. So if you guys are wondering out there, how can I do a TikTok and make income from it? Like how, you know, is the creator fund relevant? It is, but here's the thing with the creator fund, or the creator fund you everything you make a day, it's not like Google AdSense, where they're like, Alright, you know, here's your niche. And here's the X amount you're going to earn per 1000 views like this is set in stone. Nature's gonna drive us to the TikTok crater. It's like, you know, they say it's based on views. But it's also some engagements based on niche, they don't give you that format. So they're like, Oh, this day, you earn a couple of dollars this day, you earned 20. I mean, there's no, you have no idea what's going to happen. And it's nice little side change, but it's nothing like an actual income, you know, Unless Unless you could survive up like 200 bucks a month, which, and there's some of you who can, but if you're like, Okay, why don't you know, I want to create actual, like, passive income, I want to build a list, here's exactly what to do. Okay, check this out. So you can start a brand new tic tock, right. And here's what you could do, guys, you go to your edit profile, you make it a business account. This is because you can add a link and you could do two options. You can go the free route, which is basically not having a domain and you'd use a you can use several different What do they call that? They're like, you click the link in the responses. Yeah, again, I'm not gonna name names. Yeah, I'm not gonna name names here. But you guys, you guys go and find out. But there's a couple big ones I use. In fact, I use one of my profile, but what I would recommend you doing in the future is actually

Matt: We can name this fine, like, Okay, this one? Yeah, yeah, we can. Link tree link tree is a good one. Yeah, yeah. I would rather give those out to people so that they know you know where to look and stuff, beacons, beacons is a great one. If you're looking for something to put a link in your bio, that's, that's awesome, it's great. 

Dominic: You can kind of customize that you can put as many links as you want, you can and you can make them like move and vibrance Stop. So, you know, at the end of my video, I'm like, if you want to grow your tech talk and create a passive income, and learn how I went from zero to $300,000, in 30 days, click the link in my bio and download my free ebook. And people are like, wait, really, so they click the beacons that page like, and there it is vibrating, you know, create a passive income and, you know, gain this many followers, and this amount of times, they click on, they're taken to my landing page. So you guys want to build a landing page attack, your beacons that page, you just start funneling free traffic man. It's like, well, that's not gonna work. Well, here's the thing. Because you know, as we all know, the list, his list is so powerful. So you kind of want to use what you can use your tech talk to either promote affiliate offers, or you can use that to capture leads, and then you know, have a follow up sequence to have a bunch of products in there while giving them value. So you can give them value within your tic tocs, you can do it within your follow up list. But that's a great way that I'm finding to build a list is just, you know, put a TikTok out there to get 10,000 views, and I know X amount of them are going to convert, because TikTok is doing all the heavy lifting for me. So I pointed to my follow up page, they go in, or let's say for example, you're like, well, I don't want to do a landing page right now. Maybe I just want to make some quick bucks with affiliate marketing, you can do that. So let's say for example, you're in the dog niche, right? And you're like, Okay, well, I have pictures of my dog, like how do I make money you can, you can literally take a video like, you know, lately, spot hasn't really been eating his food very well. So, you know, we change that Legendary dog food, and his behavior has just been through the roof, you show him like running around, you're like, if you want to try legendary dog food, go check it out my bio, like it works for spot, you can go check it out, too. And in your bio, you would have an affiliate link right over to legendary or deal. Yeah, the Legendary dog food, you know, as an example. You wouldn't have to sell them. You could just say, Look, here's the results I got, if you're curious about it, and automatically you're building that trust, because you're not shoving it in their face. You're not saying this by this, you're saying hey, here's what worked for me, you can try to. And naturally, you'd have that curiosity. Yeah. And those are just some examples, man, you don't need a million followers to make money. You can be doing it. Like Calvin Hill said, Man, if you have even under $1,000 you could be making money. You know, just by giving them the right content and pointing in the right direction. It's incredible.

Matt: It is incredible. Oh, my gosh, I could freaking Yeah, I feel like both of us could just rant about this for days.

Dominic: I do want to say one thing. Here's one little thing. And yeah, this isn't my I even I struggle with so every single niche is kind of like, oh, why can't you make 1000 bucks real quick see, like an initial like mine? It can be really hard to monetize like, yeah, I can make one of the crater funds. But, for example, you know, this is, again, you guys want to hear this because not every niche is going to have a specific pain point, right? Sometimes you may have a niche that's more entertainment based like mine. In that case, Chuck, all right. Well, you know, you got to stay, take a step back, and that you kind of got to apply generality. niches, you know, like, maybe, you know, make money with TikTok, grow on TikTok, kind of shoot on a wider net. But if you're in a specific niche, like dogs, or maybe motorcycles, or I don't know, house repairs, then you can get really nitty gritty and give your audience exactly what they want. But if you're in a large niche, like let's say, like, while I'm in the comedy nature, or lip sync, or dance videos, or I just give my political opinions, that can be kind of harder to monetize, but you still can, you can still build a list, you still find general things that would apply to your audience. You know, for example, like, you know, if you're on the ticker, and this is important, guys, if you're on the TIC Tock platform, and you're like, well, let's say I'm, let's say I'm in comedy, like, and I could sell myself, but what else can I What else can I offer? We're on the platform, what can you offer that'll help other tick knockers, I'm sure other tick doctors would like to know how to grow TikTok, I'm sure other tech doctors would like to know how they can earn passive income, you know, you're not going to get everybody but you're going to get a few. And so I'm like, Well, once you kind of get enough of an audience in that niche, kind of like I have that you can kind of start to leverage that and be like, well, that's okay. If only you know, X amount, you know, click and follow through, because I have such a following now that you didn't make that happen. So yeah, and just know that, you know, it's work in progress, and you're not going to go from zero to a million in a day. You know, I've been doing this now for three months. And it's, you know, it's been a slow burn, you know, some days I don't really post much at all on Sundays, not to post like, four times a day. 

Matt: You know, it's an algorithm that is changing, too. But everything stays the course. A man you give it what it wants, and it will give you everything you need.

I never thought in a million years I would hear somebody say it's been a slow burn, while they've got 700,000 followers on Jake dock in three months.

Dominic: Well, I think as people they have this expectation that I'm gonna blow up, I'm gonna get a million bucks. That doesn't happen. I may be less your Charlie denuvo you know, like that. That's not going to happen. Yeah, yeah. You may have days we only make, you know, like $1,000 a day or $200 in a day. And then you'll have days where you get like, 10,000 a day, you know, it's just, that's what I mean by slow burn, you know, and not every day's going to be a boom. So you kind of got to have that. For and not to get disappointed and beat down the new removed record, I'm going to quit. Because if I had that mentality, I wouldn't have even done it, you know, but I'm like, you know what, this is a long term game. You know, that's fine. I'm gonna do our man a year from now with this, you know, and then I could use that to do anything, I can funnel traffic anywhere I want. And so, initially, I made this YouTube to funnel traffic to YouTube. Then that becomes a whole other thing. And I'm like, Well, now I can have way more followers on here than any other channel. So like, I could just utilize this, you know, so.

Matt: So what's the plan? I mean, what's the honor thing about stories where you merge? Will you do anything like that? Will you? What, what have you been thinking through for the long term plan?

Dominic: Well, like I was telling you guys, and this is important. So if you're gonna have a Tiktok, this applies to me to where you can get to kind of brand yourself. And even if you're doing stuff like Calvin Hill, you're like, hey, I want to teach you how to grow passive income, you're branding yourself. So in order to respond to that for a long term thing, you can end up doing merch down the road, once you get a following, you could do a merge with Teespring. That's very easy to set up. So that's why I'm gonna be huge. As well as just you need to be selling courses, definitely building a landing page. For No, I'm doing like kind of like the dark, strange paranormal and scary stories, I could still build a following from people were like, hey, even though I have 700,000, I'm sure there's at least 10,000 knew that, hey, maybe you won't agree with tik tok quickly, like I did, go ahead and check the link in my bio. So definitely building a list of my long term game, and just teaching people how to make passive income on TikTok. And so the important tip for you guys to I think this is very underlooked is at first I was like, man, because my honesty doesn't have a pain point. What do I sell them? I don't know what to do. So I'm like, okay, what's the number one thing to do? And a lot of people don't understand this, go and look at what other big creators in your niche are doing? Are they? Are they advertising? product service? Or are they just throwing out apps? I didn't really find much with my niche. Some people were saying, hey, go download this app, but do that. And so I said, Okay, so people are stepping back and kind of just going for a general stab at the whole, just, hey, try this out. And so I'm like, Okay, well, if that's the case, I'm going to speak to my tech talkers directly and be like, well, you have a TikTok you wanna grow on TikTok? And so, you know, yeah. I know, the illness can be slow, but

Matt: It's okay. You know, so yeah. But it's another asset, you know, what I'm saying it's another asset, and it's big, it's a huge revenue driver, even current day stats tell us that. And it's the ability to launch and relaunch and especially if you know how to do limited releases, type things and do really good launches, you can monetize that thing over and over and over again. That's cool. I really liked that strategy. I think that that's smart. I think that with a little bit of critical thinking, and a little bit of strategy and a little bit of, you know, just, you know, strategic thinking, I think that that's a great way for you to build that growth that keeps it going. And also, you know, I think the really cool part about that, too, is like having grown something in a niche like that. And just grown a huge channel, it gives you so much credibility, which is which is huge given that, you know, if you want to suggest to other people like hey, here's some tips and strategies, or Heck, I mean, you know, we have a course that's 15 second free leads, but someday, you could freakin create your own course about TikTok and give it away as a free front end or create a one page PDF. Here's my exact content strategy. Here's what I do. Here's what I do. Here's what I do. There's just yeah, there's so many freaking endless things. But anyways, dude, thank you so much for coming on. I was watching the comments. And I don't again, sorry about my video. It's just, it seems chaotic or something. I don't know. I've never had this happen on stream air. But I was in the comments. And I can tell people or people are commenting things like, Hey, I'm going to rewatch this I'm taking notes and there's so many good gold nuggets coming out of this, I'm gonna actually rewatch this so it's really clear to me that you came with some huge gold nuggets to drop and I appreciate that a lot. And I know our community does too. And I just think I'll keep growing and keep going with these channels. And what I love to do is have you on again, maybe in a couple months or something check in 6090 days. And and and just in case we have a lineup for this. That's a long way out. But just in case, feel free to reach back out to us just like you did before. For anybody who's watching the show, if you're out there getting results, do exactly as he did, which is to actually just freaking reach out messages and be like hey, here's the results I've got so far. You know, I'd love to come on wake up legendary we can three on the show. I mean we've got a really long lineup of people but we would love to get new people, new voices, new faces. It's awesome just to see real people. You know he's out in the middle of nowhere in Washington State and he's just open up the phone and hop on stream yard and share TikTok gold nuggets. So thanks so much. We loved having you on. I loved having you on. Everybody here seems to love to have you and help or anytime you want to pop back on, send us a message. We'd love to have you back. 

Dominic: Fantastic, man. Yeah, well, let's you for the next 30, 60, 90 days and maybe in September. I would love to show people the results that you know, keep coming and how I can leverage that further.

Matt: Awesome, man. Appreciate it. 

Dominic: Appreciate it, guys. Thank you so much. Take it easy.

Matt: Okay, guys. 

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary we have yet another exciting guest all the way from India currently living in Australia, please everyone on this beautiful Monday morning, help me welcome Yamini what's going on Yamini?

Yamini: Hi Dave, how are you, thank you so much for having me here. 

Dave: Oh, you're very welcome. You're very welcome. Well, we're excited to hear from you and talk about marketing with you. So tell us a little bit about how you got started, you know what led you to Legendary, what have you learned along the process give us a little bit of just kind of who you are in a nutshell.

Yamini: Okay, so basically as you're told I'm from India and I am a student here in Melbourne, Australia. And, like I lost my job during COVID, in 2020, and since March, like, I didn't have any job I was doing like random jobs like food delivery and the services. So, it was like, I was always finding a way, like, if I say like way back when I was 17 I lost my father. So since then, I have been trying to find a way to do business. My father was a businessman so that came from him. So, like, then when I lost my job, I felt like noticing it was not safe to do nine to five at all. So I had to do something else. And that Job didn't start for nine months. And I was just doing random things and I was trolling TikTok, and then I found some was doing this course. And then I thought, okay, let's give it a go. So when I started this course I was like, because I'm, I have a marketing background I did MLM, so I was like, Okay, let's give it a go and when I started learning, I understood the concept and it was like blowing my mind. Oh my god, how is it that it can be to start a business, like, then from there on my journey started in January, and since then, I'm making good money and learning as well. And yes, this course really helped me a lot. I really wanted to thank you personally, I was so excited, really, thank you so much. Thank you so much for making this opportunity for our students, because due to working right. We cannot even make like more than 2000 in a month. So, this opportunity is making your ID dreams come true.

Dave: Wow. No, that's great. Thank you for saying that. Are you now making enough to go full time? Are you making enough from your own good business to be able to provide for your life, full time?

Yamini: When I started this business, I was doing a pizza delivery to be honest, and, like, like one month, we didn't like it. When I started this journey I will take that job, and within one month I left that job because I started seeing results from here. So, if I say this month like before 10th of this month, I was already up above 10k. So I was like, I don't want to go back to that job, so of course I do this business, like full time now. 

Dave: I don't like nice people and I want to just give a disclosure to everybody. The average person who starts any business online makes no money at all. The average person who buys any course makes no money at all. And the reason why that is is because usually they don't do anything with it. And sometimes it's, you know, just the law of averages is not everybody's going to be successful with something but I asked you that because, you know, you've got a lot of odds against you, you know, you're, you're, you're primarily marketing to I would think in English speaking as their first language. Probably most, a lot of people in the UK in America. And, and I would assume, English is English your first language?

Yamini: No it's not. I have Punjabi and Hindi. 

Dave: You're 22 years old, right 26 You're currently where you did you say you're in college. I guess I'm fighting right now. Good. You were a pizza delivery person when you started. Right. Okay, you're a female. Also, you can make it even more. I mean, I'm a male I don't know what it's like to be female, but I can only imagine that, you know, the harassment, the, you know guys think they can talk to women any kind of way they want. So, you know, that's just the nature of so many men, unfortunately. I can only imagine, I know what it's I know how women are treated in pert in real life with guys gawking at them and making comments and stuff like that I can only imagine when guys get a little internet courage, they probably say all kinds of crazy stuff to women online, and act weird and creepy and stuff like that so you're, you're a woman. You're, you're from India you're living in, in a country that you didn't grow up in. Is that right, you don't have any family around you right now. No. Okay, so here's why I'm saying all of this is because for those of you who are listening, who are thinking, and who have all of these reasons why you can't be successful. Well sometimes when we compare ourselves to other people we put all of our odds in all of the things that are stacked against us and all of our problems on the table, and then the person next to us, does the same thing and then the person so if we were all just pretend we were all sitting at a round table, and we all put all of our odds and problems and challenges on the table that we thought were so bad when, when we see what other people are dealing with a lot of times we take our problems back and we say, who I don't want your problems, I'll take my problems. And so everybody who's listening. If you're not inspired by that, if you're not inspired by the fact that, you know Yamini has all of these different obstacles that she's overcoming and being successful regardless. And from what I know about you, you're a hustler too, I mean you're, you're, you know you're not afraid to go out there and put yourself out there and create content and create value so talk to us a little bit about your mindset around this, how are you able to, you know, how are you able to do what you're doing, how do you view your business and how are you, how were you able to overcome being new, and get started delivering value and speaking confidently about what you are marketing

Yamini: Based on, first of all, I think that when you're coming to the marketing market with the concept, we must have that knowledge to give to people right before we are coming to, like, any market we should gain full knowledge about that product or anything. When I started learning, I felt like it's so good. And it was easy to understand the concept. And I like the way you're teaching, right, so that's why I studied, like before coming to market I researched poorly about this one. So then I started in the business so that, like, and another thing, while I was living Pisa, my hands in the morning I literally saw, and that was my motivation like no avenue, like you have to just do something else, like when you get my, you should have a passive income that you can spend time with your family. Right now, I'm making a really good income. I don't know, like people who are beginners, whether they make or not, but I am making enough income that I can go back with my family to India. But still, like, I want to grow more in this business, and this is something I have in mind. My target is, like I make my target like I have to achieve this goal and this much of time, like, whether it's take up followers, whether it's income, whether anything so maybe that mindset, like because I really want passive income that mindset is taking me to the level where I want to load income, I just work work work every day, every day I walked into a total electron 11am here so just I'm putting in work, and plans are coming by cells so I just see my messages are popping off Commission's here there, but I really don't care about that I just book and do trainings every day that maybe when I have knowledge, when people come to the ask any question I have right away answered. It does the thing. Taking me forward. Yeah because I found that. Whenever someone's talking to me I was like, how am I answering each and every question. Like, that way I feel okay so the knowledge I'm gaining from the code whenever people ask me anything I'm ready to answer so that is the one reason I'm doing quickly. 

Dave: Wow, that's a really great answer and it's really insightful. You know, because I think I think some, I think so many of us when we start out, we don't give ourselves enough credit to actually answer questions and think that we have enough value and knowledge to actually teach and actually answer people's questions and to actually coach people, but if you can't do that then, then, what value are you to other people. There's a couple of different ways, there's basically two ways that people can be of value to people. The first way is to have a product. I'm selling a product I have sunglasses, and so I have this product and I can sell it to you for a good price, and I'm, I'm a value to you say I have watches, I'm selling watches, and I can, I can give you a watch that you want at a price that you want, whatever product any kind of product. The second way that I can be a value to somebody, is I have knowledge, knowledge that can help them get what they want. So, if I don't have a product, if I'm not selling a product. Okay. The other way that I am of sort of value to people I'm talking about in business everybody, not in personal relationships, but in business, this, the only other way that I can really be a value to somebody, is to have knowledge, that, that I can coach, or I can point them in the right direction or I can answer their questions, so that if we think about it, just like you just said in those simple terms, then I need to, I have to. Even if I'm a beginner, I have to step into a mindset to where I'm ready to answer people's questions. And if I don't know the answer. So let me ask you this. What if you what if somebody asks you something and you don't have experience with it or you don't know the answer to it. How do you respond to them while still being confident?

Yamini: Okay, so I usually say them. Okay, so it's been a while, like if someone asked like question which we do in the beginning it's been five months in the business so if they ask any question that I'm not aware of it, then I just tell them like, Okay, that's a really good question that I've never heard of. Okay, give me some time, I'll get back to you as soon as possible, because whenever someone joins business through me, I stay in touch. To be honest, I just stay in touch so that I can add value into their life, like, I don't want to sell something, which I don't know about or like about, and I just keep telling them to keep bringing, bring the question so that I can learn more. So I just take time from them and then think about that and give them the right answer. I don't give them the wrong answer like, I just don't want to prove myself right that I know everything. But anyway, we are human beings that don't like everything right, I just take time, and then I just research about it and tell them how we can solve that.

Dave: Yeah, I love that, I mean it's so you're making it you make it so simple and it's, it's really.

The other thing that I want to point out. The other thing that I want to point out is that so many of us come online, we want to start an online business and we just want to have passive income. Right. But the truth is that passive income doesn't really exist, the only way to, now I've got a couple of passive income sources, I've got some investments in the stock market. I've got some investments in real estate, but the truth is that my most passive investment is probably stocks that I own, because I don't really do anything with those, you know, I have to make a decision if I want to sell at some point. But that's, there's not really much that I have to do now real estate. There's tenants, there's, there's ongoing some people would call real estate passive rental properties that my wife and I own, it's not passive. It's passive some of the time, but you got to buy the house, you got to fix the house, you got to get it rented or sold ready, you've got to find tenants, you've got to then do maintenance, you've got to then they move out. It's passive probably 75% of the time, if you find good tenants right now. Now I don't consider my online business a passive income stream. I don't. It's my active income stream, because it's an active income stream, right, because look what I'm doing right now. This is something that I'm doing for our business here, and I do it every single day of the week. I also write copy, I lead a team of 80 plus people on calls and make tough decisions and build, you know build webinars and deliver training and all this kind of stuff. It's an active income stream, and in what you just mentioned about having relationships with your customers, people that buy through your, your links, is if you go into it with that mentality and this is for all of you who are new, so you have the right expectations about what Active and Passive income is, you just said something really key. I like to keep in touch, I like to have, basically what you said was I like to have a relationship with my customer. That's a big deal. I think that's a lot of things that you may need that a lot of people don't want to do, or they just don't know that it's a good idea to do it because they want passive income, but they're not looking for it. They're not looking for passive income in the right place. Our business that we build and run every day that creates cash flow for us is active income, and then we can take the money that we earn, and we can invest that into stocks or crypto or real estate, which can create passive income. Does that make sense to you, and, and what comes up for you as I'm as I'm talking about this difference between active and passive?

Yamini: With the right thing because this was obviously we had fluctuations, right, and that's totally I totally agree with you, like using right like yes, this is the activity going on and we can earn money and then invest, and then that is our passive income. You don't even have to work for this like you said, like you're working every day. And we are not working for you.

Dave: I think a lot of people come into this business thinking well I'm going to get out of my job, like you, I'm going to I'm going to get out of my pizza delivery job, and I'm going to I'm going to come into this I'm going to spend a little bit of money. I'm going to set a couple of things up and it's just going to run on autopilot for me. Right. And, and anybody in everybody who has that mindset, or that expectation going into this always fails, that is a what, let me just speak directly to everybody who's listening, that is 100% of the time a recipe for you to fail, if that is your expectation, one, like just you heard it here first. Now, can you, and you're a great example of what can happen. You went from delivering pizzas, your hands were sore, making probably very little money to now making more money than you've ever made before working from the comfort of your home, your hands no longer hurt, the quality of your life is much better, but you're still working every day. Right. Yes. I'm working for it, and you're working a lot, I would assume you're working many hours throughout the day right?

Yamini: I'm happy to do this with happiness. This is making me happy. Before the work I was doing, it was not like there was a nice night every single night. Now I'm so happy whatever I'm doing, even if I'm not sleeping, that makes me happy. I watch it every day. I sleep into it and that makes me happy. So, I know that, as long as it makes me happy. 

Dave: Yeah and I think that's important, because it's like, it's like, as long as we have the right expectations and we know what we're getting into, then we, we have a we have a chance to really succeed, you know, and so that's why I think it's important for us to really look at the difference between active and passive income so we have the right expectations when we go into building any business, this one especially. 

Yamini: And you made a great point. I went from being sad every minute of every day working delivering pizzas to now I'm happy it's off. I'm working hard, but I'm happy every day. Yeah.

And like every single day, to be honest, I think like, oh my god what I did right this year, like, I thank you every day to realize, because I literally saved that much. Like last year, if I say my earning was half, then the only guy on in four months. It wasn't easy. They think young people are earning 10k a month and we can do the same thing. It wasn't easy. I worked hard for this one, but still, like, that helped me a lot, like, yeah, it changed my life.

Dave: That's amazing. That's amazing. So you're doing all of this with free traffic, 

Yamini: 100% free traffic. I didn't run out. 

Dave: Well, that's incredible. So, what you are mostly using TikTok is that primarily you are also getting, Like what would you how would you break down the percentage of where your traffic is coming from, like, TikTok YouTube etc.

Yamini: Okay, so my main platform is TikTok, so from TikTok I'm taking to YouTube, and then I use Facebook and I personally like Facebook, because marketing on Facebook is way easier than on TikTok, because in the groups, people are already those who are interested in business and on TikTok, we have to like figure out who is actually a business person, right. So, if I can say like 50% of traffic comes from TikTok and then 40 from Facebook and then 10 from YouTube because I don't use that when it was still YouTube is bringing is not my sales for my software's like get your spot and Clickfunnels I made videos about all of them, and that's bringing me sales, which I really like, that's the best kind of passive income still everyday I get sales for that because of my that video, and Facebook, I use a tool that is totally free, we generate trainings, but that will help us to raise to the more properly. So, did you say you're using Facebook? So it's an email, messenger Pro. So, that is a tool to work on Facebook, where we can generate leads, without spending money on ads. So, we can actually target our audience, like we can know actually, these people are in this group interested in the business, and then we can contact them and we can help them.

Dave: Well, I mean, you know, and also just, you know, just for anybody who's listening common sense would also tell you that Facebook, you can type in, and I break this down in the blueprints, under the Facebook marketing section, you know, you can also type in affiliate marketing or network marketing or make money online, just write into the search bar and it will bring up tons of different groups with 10’s of 1000’s of people that you can go in and you can add value into those groups by answering questions and by, you know, making posts that are valuable to people and, you know, for me, you know, the strategy on Facebook to where everybody just, you know, private messages everybody who makes a post in a group and tries to sell them something their messenger is sort of a sort of a, you know, it's sort of like a kind of a spammy way to market online. If you're providing some sort of value like answering questions, it's amazing. Like, I think a lot of people underestimate how many friend requests and how attractive it is. How many people would want to follow you and be your friends and then all of a sudden they're seeing your content and on the Facebook timeline. If you just come in and leave a valuable comment on a post, like, just leave a valuable comment, it's just amazing because if you look at every post in most Facebook groups they're all shitty comments, they're all just, you know, they're all like somebody post a question and then everybody's like following her yeah I wonder about this too or whatever, or there are people just, there's no comments. And if you actually just come on to a post and just leave a valuable comment that takes like 45 seconds for you to type out, I'd be absolutely amazed by how many people would then, you know, go over to your profile and friend requests you and then become kind of like a fan of yours from one single comment.

Yamini: This is how I like people to get to know me on Facebook. And, like I was when I was doing like whenever there is no I was just like I have so many groups of people who are asking questions in the group, but I was the first person to text and reply that come in. So if they feel like taking help from me, they come and pick up from me. So yeah, I do, like many things like hello and these things, I just helped them out. So, we can actually give them services right for whatever we know. Yeah, that will really help me a lot so I just connect with people from Facebook, I like Facebook more than TikTok, to be honest, I noticed. I noticed it was a really quick copy. If you need a very good customer that's on Facebook.

Dave: Well, that's interesting. That's interesting. Well I think having a combination of two I mean, like, if we're if we're honest, how long does it take to record a TikTok video if you're not going to be a total perfectionist I mean, you know, it doesn't take that long, you know, I mean if you want to sit there and reverted 1000 times then yeah it'll take all day, but I mean, if you, you know, most of the time, most videos that do really well for people are ones that they just recorded quickly and threw up there, you know what I mean, like we're the one that you spend 1000 hours trying to edit it. 

Yamini: Right, exactly, that did happen. Late in the beginning when I throw a video without even thinking I get like tons of views. And when I make a video like, Okay, I like this video, when I post that video that doesn't have a view either What if people don't like my choice, or what we don't matter. 

Dave: Yeah, I don't know why but yeah, pretty thing that I've always done that I was like, Oh, this is a masterpiece, I mean people are gonna love this was like crickets you know like dead tumbleweeds like nobody, nobody even acknowledged it it was it was as if it didn't exist right and then I do something that I just pull out of my ass. You know it's like takes me 15 You know, sales letters that I've written videos that I've shot things that I've just done sort of off the cuff from the heart from the top of my head, just did, you know, I put them out there and it's like freakin blow up and explode and it's just, it's weird. So, back to my point, you can put up a couple of TikToks, two, three, TikTok videos and a half an hour, you know, every day, and then what are you going to do with the rest of your day it's like, you know, sure you can record a YouTube video, get it up but I mean most people are not posting a YouTube video every day, right, you're probably posting a video once or twice a week, am I right. 

Yamini: So, I do it. 

Dave: You do it every day?

Yamini: I do every day, because, like I, my, this is my full time job right now. I tell people as well. If you want to establish your business and on TikTok, if you post five to six times every day, five to six videos every day. Like there's no chance to fail. Seriously,

Dave: Everybody listen closely to what just happened. So I'm like, you know, three, three TikTok videos a day, and you know most people do one to two YouTube videos a week if that and she's like, I do a video every day. I do six on TikTok, and I do one on YouTube and I'm on Facebook all day long. This is my full time job . I treat this like my full time job. I'm the number one employee inside of my business. I'm the number one employee inside of my business. So why, why am I wait making, you know more in half of in two months that I made the entire year delivering pizzas, because no Dave I'm not uploading three videos per day on TikTok I'm doing six no Dave I'm not I'm not uploading one to two videos per week on YouTube, I'm uploading a video a day. No Dave I'm not, you know, just focusing on one platform I'm doing all that and I'm over on Facebook, generating leads, having conversations delivering value.

Yamini: I do a lot of work every day, that's bringing evidence, and that's making me happy, like on TikTok I really post every, if I'm not well. Still I post every day. I'm out, I'm on trade. I come home at night, I post like this, I feel like this is my work and I have to do it every day. I skipped one day. I'll be behind for one day of my business. So, I do this every day and I send 40 to 50 requests to new people every day. I post YouTube videos one to two times a week because I don't know why I'm listening to YouTube videos, that's where I like what is working for me. And the Twitter archive account as well so I post, tweet, tweet, like, two to three people there, I get so many customers from Twitter as well. Oh, and then many platforms, other platforms so, like, a whole new level, talking. 

Dave: I don't know if it's because, like, the work ethic, it's it's like, it's like, seems like it's different with people who are like not American, honestly, like for some reason, like, you know, I've met a lot of people from India, for example, who just worked their ass off, who just who just worked circles around people for and I don't know why that is, I don't, I don't. And I'm not trying to say Americans don't work hard. I love American, I'm American, I'm from America. I've been, I've lived here all my life I love America, but it's just like the way in which, like I've had developers and stuff in the past I've had virtual assistants who have been like in the Philippines or who we have some great people who are from at least one, Roxie on our team who's, I believe, from the Philippines she's, she's incredible works her ass off, it's unbelievable. It's just, where did you get the work ethic from, where can you tell us a little bit about how you learned that was something that was shown to you by somebody, is it where is that coming from that drive inside of you?

Yamini: So, I was only 17 When I lost my model, and we were having a really really great business, we were having good money, like, but when we lost our father, he was the only one doing that vision. My brother didn't know anything about that. And I was too young to do that. My sister was married, we had three siblings so, like, from there, like I was studying as well. I was in my first semester, and when I saw my father working. I was always like, since my childhood I want you to be a businesswoman, like, I want to do a business I don't do job at all, but circumstances like we have to anyway start from zero, then, because we need money for business right so I started my journey where I worked two months for free just to learn. Then I started working for a job, I was a teacher, I worked in a MLM company. I did a cleaning job in Melbourne, I did fundraising in Melbourne for two and a half years. That Job was like, we have to stand on streets, and ask people for charity, right, two and a half years when it's summer whenever it's been there. Now I might have noticed that if I'm holding this business today, I have to stand on the street. Oh my god. No, do it, wake up and do it. That's, like, we just knew the perfect thing to do that. And now I believe this is the best thing, and I don't want to lose this man, and I work hard for this every day because of opportunities. You bet, very rare in your life, like I was 17 and now I'm 26. After nine years I bought this opportunity to make money. So nine years of my life I did a job. That's why, like maybe that's the thing, which brings fire in is that okay now we go, something that can actually give us some good life. So we have to do it now.

Dave: But it wasn't like you were successful in previous business ventures right i mean you literally came right out of delivering pizzas right into doing this.

Yamini: No, no, so I was doing mmm like that pyramid scheme for one and a half years. I did that, and even I was earning, like whatever I did, I never lost something I was doing good. I don't know if I leave rain or mine, that comes from your parents. My parents are very supportive. My mom right now, even, like, they're very supportive, every time this poor me whatever I do okay do it, try, you know, there's nothing to lose. Just go and try and rebuild everything, whatever you want. So I did, like everything, even this job, which I did in Melbourne, that was also marketing. I learned so many things from there, which is working for this one. All my last, like when COVID started.

Dave: Vernalisi, made a comment, women have safety nets here like other countries, you have to make it happen or no checks period. And that's kind of an interesting comment. Because in America. For example, you know during COVID, they sent out checks, did they do that in India, did they send out checks to the government, send out checks to people or are they sending out checks to people through COVID?

Yamini: No, not at all like, like here in Australia if I bought it for COVID test it’s free. In India you have to pay for COVID test, everything is poor like the government, like they don't even give you food because maybe I don't know what was the issue but yeah. No, we didn't have any. 

Dave: It's interesting, it's interesting. I'm not saying that America or India or whatever is good or bad. I don't want to make this political, but what if, what if, what if you didn't have any fallbacks What if when you lost your job or if you lost your job, you couldn't just go down and file for unemployment in India, if you lose a job. Can you go and file for unemployment, is that something that exists to where they give you money for so long after you lose your job. 

Yamini: No. 

Dave: All right, so sometimes we don't. And this is one of the things that I've learned, traveling in different countries all over the world is that people live very differently than how we live, for example how you live wherever you're from. So maybe you're from India you come to America, you're like oh my gosh, right, or you go to from America, you go to Somalia, or you go to Ukraine, or you go to, you go to India, you go to Bangladesh and it's like, oh my gosh, like what a completely different way of living. So my question to all of you who have been struggling to find the drive and the motivation that self drive and  that self motivation to stay with it. What if you didn't have any safety net. What if you didn't have a safety net? What if, if you did not work to create that you literally starved. There was no unemployment, there were no checks that you could get from the government. There was no family that could help you out, there were no friends that could help you out. But specifically, whatever, whatever sort of benefits that you've gotten from, say for example, the government what if those like for many people in America, if you earned under a certain amount of income through COVID You got a check for, I don't know, I didn't get the check, but it was, it was something like a couple of $1,000 I think maybe it was 1200 I can't remember what it was. But if you earned under a certain amount of money you would get, you got a check and I think they sent those checks out twice. And if you had two people in your household you would get two checks, right or if you had more kids you would get even more money than that. What if that didn't happen? What if that didn't exist? My question to you basically is what if there was no plan B. What if there was no safety net. Right, it's hard to kind of pretend like that. But here's the truth: it's some people's reality. It sounds like it's your reality, like and especially after your father died. You didn't even have a, you didn't even think that was going to take care of you now you are completely and totally all that. That's a difficult place to be in what you did as you stepped up and you said. You said hey, you know, I gotta do it.

Yamini: I mean, I, yeah, I'm going out of India and I'm doing. Yeah that's what I had been saving, I invested that for my education. I came here because I know that Australia is very different from India. I know what are the positive points, and I know I like America as well. That's why you will see so many people migrating from India here. Well it's not with every job, they have government jobs separately they have private jobs, but you have, you don't have any benefit in private jobs and government jobs are not easy to do.

Dave: Yeah. So Brad says people from other countries do so well here in the United States of America because they see and do what has to be done to take advantage of the opportunities. Most of us here in the US take it for granted. Now, I have to agree with that, as an American I have to agree with that, I have a barber who, who, who, who came here from Cuba, he, he, he fled Cuba, went on a boat to Mexico, and then got into America back in 2015 I don't know the full story I, or all the kind of details I just know we came up into Las Vegas and then somehow got his citizenship, but it just as he's like kind of telling the story. I'm just thinking about what he was talking about like the boat and everything that he wrote in on. And it's like he literally put his life on the line, he literally, and I was reading about a boxer an athlete, the other day who did the same thing like he came over on a boat in New Mexico, and lives in Mexico right now, it's just my question for everybody this morning as we're listening to your mini story and about the things that she's that she's gone through and overcome and our work ethic is success leaves clues, and sometimes even if we, we can't eliminate the plan B, you know, you, you live where you live and we, for me, I'm grateful to live in America. But I think there's a mentality that we can have which is I'm not going to accept help anymore. I'm not going to ask for help anymore. I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna expect anybody else to do anything for me. That doesn't mean I have to you know be so prideful, but I think there is a little bit of riding right there is a little bit of pride in entrepreneurship to where you say, I'm going to, you know, I'm going to go out and, you know, I'm going to create something that, that I'm proud of I'm going to be self made in a sense, right, and that's, that's honestly the path that you're on and I think that that's, I think that that's a noble thing to do and it's clearly working right it's clearly working works, and that's why mindset is 90% of this game, because you can figure stuff out as you go right I mean you can figure it out as you go. You don't have the right mindset. You have to have the right mindset. Well, listen, I, I'm proud of you and super happy for you and it's been really inspiring to talk to you this morning and thank you for sharing your, your authentic story and what you've been through and hopefully everybody's walking away from this episode inspired on this Monday morning, the same way that I am, to not take things for granted, to not take opportunity for granted, to, to eliminate the 15 minutes that we have to throw them out the window and say, You know what I am going to, I'm going to, to, to, I'm going to create something out of thin air, I'm going to, I'm going to I'm going to build a business, with the help and support of my, my family and my friends here in entrepreneurship, but I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna sit around in complain about a life that I'm not doing anything to change, right, I'm gonna stop that, starting today, because what we have to realize and this is the tough truth is that everything that we have, we've manifested that we've tested that right and that and that becomes proven and the thing that I love about this business and having this community is that we have, we get to talk to people from all over the world. Here you are from India living in Australia, you get to give us a perspective about what it's like in a different part of the world to come up with no handouts with no with, with, with no very little way your father passed away. You sure you have family support, but it's probably not obviously not financial now you're supporting your family. Right. It's just a powerful thing for us to be able to see that because it sort of eliminates our excuses so thank you for that this morning.

Yamini: And I just want to say, like everyone life in India and here if you compare it's way harder, right, whatever you have, like, take advantage of that and grow into your life. Right. Right now, if we say, like, if there are a lot of legs, live the current example, like right now, the COVID situation was that bad. Like, they didn't have beds. I lost a few of my family members, right outside of that country like not only in India there are so many other countries like that, where, like, the facilities are not that good but yeah, please take advantage of what you have in people in America, Canada, Australia, you guys are so lucky. And I'm really happy to be here like outside so that I can actually because we all have something special in us, right. So, actually we just need something to bring that sparkle out from us, and you have every opportunity available in your country so take advantage of that and follow them, which is amazing. And you can be making good money. Oh, good.

Dave: Well, thank you so much for just telling your story and doing what you did. Up until this point to be able to come on here and tell that story this morning. You guys can follow you. I'll put her TikTok and YouTube stuff here up as I close out the show, hopefully you'll come back and keep us posted here in a couple of months on how your journeys stay Legendary. All right, and I'll talk to you soon. 

Yamini: Thank you so much. 

Dave: All right. Bye. All right, well, there it is. It's just amazing. It's amazing what is possible. And it's fun to talk about it, it's cool to talk about it, you know, motivational speeches and stuff like that and and go in and you know go to some event and hear some motivational speaker, you know, get you jumping up and down and, and tell you you can do it, and then it's like, like we tune into a show an episode like this just some random couple of webcams a couple of people sitting in different parts of the world, and somebody is telling their story about basically coming from. Unbelievable odds, and it just, it strikes a chord with me anyways I don't know about you but it strikes a chord with me to make me want to work that much harder today to make me want to have that much more gratitude today to make me want to take things for granted, just a little bit less today to make me want to appreciate the people that I have in my life still if I still have my father or my mother, you know, in my life today, right, because, again, as I said in the beginning of this episode if we put all of our problems on the table next to lots of different people from lots of different places of the world, and we see what they're dealing with what they're up against the obstacles and the odds that they have to overcome to be successful. A lot of times, we take our problems back and we say, No, I'll take my problems, they aren't as bad as I thought. And so, sometimes, in my hope it is this time this morning. This episode is that for you to give you that motivation, not just to jump up and down and say I can do it I can do it I can do it I can do it but to see it to hear it, to experience it from somebody else whose problems and obstacles may have been and may be more difficult than yours, right, and that's okay, because in a way they were more difficult than mine. Okay. I grew up in America. I grew up in, in the, in the richest country in the world. Right. And a lot of times even somebody who's poor in America is richer than somebody who's, who's living middle class in some of these other countries that are not even remotely as wealthy as America. And so that's why, as Brad said in the comment a few minutes ago. The reason why a lot of times people succeed here in America who come from other countries is because they see the opportunity that sometimes we don't see just blind to it's just right under our nose the whole time. And so my question to you is what opportunity is in front of you that you've just been ignoring, that's just right there it's waiting for you to grab it it's waiting for you to, It's waiting for you to seize it. It's just you just blind to it because it's always been there. It's always been there, so it's kind of just blends in now it's kind of like the couch you don't even notice it in your house, it's just, you expect it to be there every time you come home you sit down, there's not a, oh my god, you know there's a couch there I know some people who are living in dirt huts, it's matter of fact I was down in Mexico before COVID And I was, you know, there was a certain they were living in circular houses we drove to a town there was circular houses with, with all these doors open, and the reason why they had circular houses because they could keep the doors and windows open, so the wind could blow through the house and cool the house down. There was not a single piece of carpet, there wasn't even a concrete slab, it was just dirt inside of the house. And when I come home every day I expect there to be carpet on the floor. I expect there to be some sort of a floor like a wood floor or something. There's wood, there's carpet on top of the wood floor on top of a concrete slab in this house that I'm in right now. I expect that to be there every single time I walk into this house. That's always been there but if you put me inside of a dirt hut in Mexico. I would be so grateful, so I think entrepreneurship is a lot like that. Sometimes there's all this opportunity in front of us, but because we expect something to just happen results to just show up people to just respond to do what we want them to do. We don't keep trying. We don't keep. We don't keep trying different things in different angles because we just expect things to be there, and there's all this opportunity in front of you, and sometimes we just don't see it. So hopefully an episode like this this morning on Monday, gives you a different perspective to realize how much opportunity is sitting in front of us all, be Legendary. We'll see you guys back here tomorrow. Peace.

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Below is the transcription for Tuesday's episode:

Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Welcome to Wake Up Legendary, and for those of you who may be wondering well what do I do after one, two, three or 18 years. Inside of a job or career and all of a sudden, bam. Overnight, the same thing happened to my stepfather. He worked for Sears, for decades, and all the sudden rug got pulled out from under him, bam, gone. didn't I mean totally unexpected. Right. So I think a lot of you guys are going to be able to take a lot away from that, from this particular conversation because we just all went through something to where the rug got pulled out from under us right. We all just go through something that is called 2020. Okay. And on top of just there being what we went through there was also other things that made it more challenging in many of you guys may be feeling like you're starting over on what do you do, right, so let's have that conversation amongst other things, please everybody in the comments help me welcome to the show. Rob What's up buddy.

Rob: Thanks for having me. 

Dave: You're welcome and your affiliate army, right. There you go brother I see you have a little dart board there as well is that, is that a hobby or is that just hanging on the wall for art?

Rob: It used to be a hard hobby, now, now it's just TikTok art.

Dave: Okay, my dad used to play darts growing up he had, you know he was, he was a dart thrower,

Rob: Any sport where you can hold a beer. I'm good at it.

Dave: All right, so, so tell us about this 18 year losing the job and how you got started online,

Rob: Especially when you get Employee of the Year like two years before then. And basically, being in the IT department. You got to expect it at some point, the whole division got let go. I was 15 years old. So, not understanding at the time that all the certifications and the training, and I was doing Incident, Problem and Change Management at the time that all of that didn't mean a whole lot once you went back on the market if 50 years old they take a look at you be like little old their AI chip. So, at the same time, it's also at that time it was 16 years as a single dad. So there was no other income, there were no other options. Well, it took about five months to get back to work again. And Dave the new job 30% Cotton pay, because I told him the first thing that came my way. Okay, I'm not gonna work there. Sure, but when it's not for you. It's for somebody else. Yeah, so I got back and got my finances back together after five months of pain. First thing I did was join Legendary through Brian, of course, I think he brings in everybody just about. And then from there in October, it's just been meeting up with other people within Legendary getting everything together and just working as a team to make this happen.

Dave: Yeah, well that's cool man, I'm so you just kind of fumbled upon it were you like on TikTok were you on YouTube, were you on Facebook like what was, Where did you see Brian and some of his marketing.

Rob: So I'd seen a few of course. Then I saw Brian's and then finally I was like you know what, it's tough. So, I'm gonna jump in.

Dave: Had you ever done any online marketing affiliate marketing, any, Any drop shipping anything like that before? 

Rob: Nothing before. So you went straight from the cubicle basically kind of cubicle life corporate America. Yeah, maybe you weren't in a cubicle, but you get what I'm saying to be a kind of entrepreneurship, which has no walls No limits. No, I mean just, you're kind of, there's no direction and a sense I mean there is right because that's kind of what our community provides and what our platform provides, but it's a very different dynamic in my opinion, to go from employee to entrepreneur would you agree. Yes, yes, disagree, by the way, I don't care I want you to disagree. It's fine if you disagree with it.

Rob: The mindset is completely different. When, when you're working at a job, everything is managed by. If you're not lucky you have a manager, and if you're lucky, you have a leader. Most people have managers, and it's just time management for them they don't, they don't really care about a whole lot. Yeah, you meet a leader, and your life gets exponentially better, but in affiliate marketing, you need to become the leader, because if you're the manager and you're just time management, yourself, you're gonna hate your boss, and that's never a good thing. You're the boss. 

Dave: Oh well, said my friend. 

Rob: So the first thing I tell everybody is. You have to figure out how to fix yourself to break away from the previous for me, the longer you're doing like the longer you are alive, the harder this can be for you, because you've been, I've been through the system. I spent 50 years 52 years at the time I threw the system. The only thing that's really saved me is, I've got the 30 years of IT Helpdesk. And being an incident and problem manager. I have the mindset that when I'm at work eight hours a day. When you come to talk to me, it's not good, like you're not coming to talk to me because things are sunshine and happiness, your systems are broken. We have to fix them. We have to find out what broke, figure out a workaround, or fix it permanently. And that's the same thing when you're trying to do affiliate marketing, every day, they're going to be problems and every day you have to treat those problems, as if there is a workaround, or a permanent solution. And yeah, if you can do that. You've got it made.

Dave: Well, you're, you're essentially describing somebody who's solution oriented versus somebody who's problem oriented and this is this is this is common and you can kind of, you can, you can absolutely look at others and kind of tell how they think. But it's more difficult sometimes to diagnose ourselves right, am I up in Maya, because we all want to think highly of ourselves, but the truth is that oftentimes we have a hard time seeing solutions, finding solutions, and getting out of the problem. one of the things that that I've been sort of trained to do a lot from recovery like 12 step recovery stuff was to get into the solution, get into the solution, get into the solution, because for a long time in my life I lived in the problem, right, and I thought that the solution to the problem was, was, I don't know get high, get drunk, escape. You know what I mean, like, numb pain, whatever, right. And I think that's, that's a pretty common thing with a lot of people in the world right ? It's kind of like we use a lot of things as escapism. But in entrepreneurship, it's a sobering reality, pun intended sobering reality and if we want to be successful, we must remain sober, to stay present and try to find solutions versus, I think, I think in entrepreneurship. A lot of times we use other things as escapism like we get into. Actually, I saw one of your TikTok stories where you talk about shiny object syndrome. That's a form of escapism, right, because instead of staying with the problem in getting into the solution in overcoming the challenge we use the scroll on Facebook, we get into other people's rabbit holes, the YouTube rabbit hole, we just say screw it and go grab a 12 pack or we jump to the next guru goblin opportunity whatever and think that's going to be the Holy Grail, when really it's just an element of escapism. So, how do you feel about staying the course, and getting into the solution. When, when, shiny object Syndrome and using other opportunities and jumping from thing to thing that form of escapism is so common in this industry.

Rob: So, it’s right there on the T shirt. It's right there in the Facebook group, legendary has Facebook groups, full of people, and I created a Facebook group that mirrors your Facebook group, give her, maybe minus 5000 or so people, but it's the same basic setup to where I would go into the legendary Facebook group, I would research, my issues. There's not a single person that hasn't had the same issue that you're having right now. And if you treat that Facebook group like it's a job, you will be able to get through some of the things that the people that are ignoring those that have come before you have already told you what to do when you face this issue. And when I created my Facebook group, my Facebook group was just, I only created that, because I had seven people from legendary Facebook group, we all got together and decided that we were going to do this together we're going to follow each other around, we're going to share, comment and like each others. We're doing tic tac toe. So we're gonna follow each other around and create the Facebook group so that we could post our content right into discussion. And yeah, that would give us ideas on what others think. And my best two ideas that I've ever had, came from legendary marketer Preston McLean. He posted a random TikTok about, if you could do anything. Pick any subject in any field and I will find an affiliate link for you. And I was like, that sounds like something I might want to do, as to copy or model that, but instead, it clicked off an idea in my head after watching it, and next thing you know I was off to the races having a great time, and he's gonna come to me in the future for a favor and I'm going to grant him that fate.

Dave: So, No, that's awesome and I mean, you're you're not ashamed of modeling success I mean and I love that because you're so many people I think get overwhelmed with the idea that they have to reinvent the wheel, and it's just kind of like, well, legendary has a big Facebook group that provides a community feel and keeps people together, Maybe I should create a Facebook group and Oh, lo and behold, six months later you got 5000 people and, you know, you know, kind of, you know people who get together in joint venture, well gosh, you know, they, I see collaborations between big marketers and they're doing launches and other things. How can I duplicate that ? Let me get seven road dogs here who were in the early stages of their business and say hey let's lock arms and comment on each other's stuff. And so the content that I created I got six comments on it, right, I got, I got some yeah I got likes you know I got I'm getting a little bit of momentum, that would have, what a wonderful, beautiful idea, and in a very quick way to get into the solution I applaud you for that. 

Rob: It pushes you through, like, you'll see every affiliate marketer out there, talk about the valley of despair. And that's where the shiny object syndrome comes into being. You start off and everything's wonderful gets a little harder and you're like whoa, then it gets really hard, and you stop what you're doing and you pick something else. But if you have other people within the Facebook group that you can talk to, they can drag you kicking and screaming through that valley of despair and get you to the other side, so that you can then have the success that you wanted to have in the first book.

Dave: Sure. No, nothing like a support group, nothing like being locked arms with 2, 3, 4, 10 people. It can be a small group and I can, I can attest to that in any area of your life but particularly in business, in the early stages of your business. It is so beneficial to have a little team that has an agreement with each other that we're going to hold each other accountable give feedback, like and comment on each other's content or ads give feedback on what each other's doing share ideas with each other, and you can have a little Whatsapp group you can have a text chat, you can have a Facebook group that's just for you guys. I mean, there's so many you can have weekly zoom meetings, you can have FaceTime sessions you can have Skype sessions with each other. I mean, there is an unlimited and abundant amount of ways for you to communicate and stay engaged with people that are completely free by the way, are totally free, I think you can sign up for a Zoom account for free and have a couple of people on a meeting or something or up to 100 I'm not sure.

Rob: So I do Facebook rooms Monday, Wednesday and Friday, Sunday from 7pm until 10pm. It's the Facebook room is free inside the Facebook group, and we just sit down we share a screen, I, I go back to my Help Desk roots, and I sit down and like if you're stuck with the AWeber account or no matter what it is, we share a screen and we just start walking through it, or we just sit there and chat for an hour. 

Dave: That's cool, bro. That's really cool dude. So you're taking time to say you're a single dad. Yeah. Okay, so instead of sitting in front of the tube or drinking a 12 pack or whatever, right. You're sitting, I mean, maybe you're having a 12 pack I don't know, it sounded like you enjoy your beer there along with your sporting activities. So maybe you are having a 12 pack or a couple of beers right, just sitting on the instead of just though, being a couch potato, right, you're, you're using your time to mastermind in to learn, but also to be a value to others three days a week. That means you still have four nights of tea or to yourself. I think some of us, it's just, you know, when you think about it at first you're like wow he three days a week for up to three hours at a time, but it's like, but what else, like if this is what I want, if this is my goal to build a business, to build an audience to build trust and value in the marketplace. That still leaves me with four.

Rob: I tell the people I talk to all the time. This is also selfish, for me, I've learned as much if not more, talking to 78 Different people over the course of the weeks, then they learn talking to me now agreed, I will take what I've learned from helping the one person, and just regurgitate it to the next person that gives me the same question, I seem like a genius, but during the course of all of these conversations. I'm absorbing everybody's input.

Dave: And you're learning how to teach and you're getting comfortable answering questions right you're getting comfortable and through, I mean you may have already been but I'm speaking to those of you who are listening who are like, well I don't have any help this experience I don't have any leadership experience I don't have any. Okay, where do you think you're gonna get it from. Where do you think you think it's just magically downloaded into your brain ? Do you think I was just born with it? Rob was just born with it. No, this is the perfect opportunity. Warren Buffett said you can multiply your income by a minimum of 50% by working and focusing on one skill that's communication. I think that's a conservative, a conservative prediction gave me this coming from a guy who I value what he says. I just think about what he says. And he's and he's always very conservative with his suggestions in his wisdom. So where better, how better. What better opportunity. Then, in, not a professional setting doesn't need to be corporately, you don't need to put on a suit and tie, you could do it in your underwear if you wanted for God's sakes, to just sit down in a Facebook group on a live or a zoom on a live, and just give value just help people with the things that t you and Rob here's something I want you to speak on just for a moment. So often, I think people overlook some of the things that they know because they, they, they don't realize how valuable those simple little things like you just said, setting up an autoresponder. If you know how to set up an order autoresponder, my friends, you could build an entire business out of just that one piece of knowledge, going to other entrepreneurs or marketers or even businesses insane, do you use email marketing. And if you don't, I have a simple service where I help you set up your email marketing and show you how to start getting leads and broadcasting those people that could apply to restaurants. Every restaurant should be collecting emails and sending out daily deals. Every plumbing company, every construction roofie. Now, this is not a core thing that we teach, which is kind of a local kind of marketing agency stuff like that, but it's just something that if you know how to do it. It's a valuable thing to other people, and I'm just using that example because that's what you just used was setting up an autoresponder. But Rob, how much do you think people underestimate what they're learning here and what they're practicing and how valuable that could be to the other people in the practice they could get by just helping people. 

Rob: I'm older, so I go into Napoleon Hill, and as my, my Facebook group is called a F for affiliate mastermind and the mastermind comes from Napoleon Hill, one of his principles. But I think that a lot of people, even so if you look up SMART goals on the internet, it says, You need to be specific, it needs to be measurable, it needs to be attainable. And then the next one is, is it realistic and I'm like no, no, that's the same thing as attainable. So, I replaced realistic with return. What are you going to give back in return? And that is the key right there to success. I do that three nights a week. And again, when you talk about modeling. Let's talk about Legendary. So when you started Legendary. You had a goal, you wrote down your goals, you had definite monetary and everything else that you wanted to reach, then you had to map out how you're going to get there, what you were going to give back in return to get there, and that is the key, and I'm looking around right now, and this is one of them. There are dozens and dozens of things that Legendary gives back in the Facebook group and the advisors, and all the videos I must have watched 92 videos, and my first year is my first few months, all these weekly webinars. And I believe you had growing pains and what December in January, where you found out you were giving so much back that you couldn't keep up with the demand. And if you're going to have pains. Those are the best paints to have. And I'm trying to have. Those are the things I want to have. So a lot of this is all you have to do is be a week ahead. I think Matt, that was one of my best videos. All you have to do is be a chapter for a week ahead of the person that just went through, you will help them, and you're good to go. That's all you need to know about some of my YouTube videos. They say, day one, I set up TikTok, did this, this is how I set up my things. Day two was working on my Facebook days three video, and I just went through the process, I didn't know what to do. So I just showed people what I was doing while I was doing it, and then video number eight, describes how I had messed up Facebook and had to restart. Yeah, and it worked.

Dave: Yeah, now dude it's it's so true man the one chapter ahead thing and here's another thing that I'll drop on all of you, you know, nearly 200 people listening and 1000s that are going to hear this, this replay in the future lean in on this one because this is, this is a gold. This is a gold boulder. When you realize that 99% of people are either starting or looking to start over. You realize that the simplest things that you could give somebody to where you could help them get a result with something simple, will elevate your brand and elevate your mark your value in the marketplace more than any complicated thing that you could ever teach or do. And I constantly have to reel myself back in from over complicating things or things that are too advanced. Because, 99% of people don't need that right now. 99% of people need or are in that just getting started or starting over phase of their business. And so, is there certainly a place for me to deliver more advanced tactics and strategies. Yeah, and I mean sometimes I do it right here on the, on the wakeup show depending on what we're talking about something that might apply to somebody who's building a small double six figure business, like the idea that I've seen so many affiliates over the years who get to six figures for example, in kind of earnings or revenue to where they're making six figures per year, and now all of a sudden they, they stop what they're doing and go, promoting other things and doing other things and, and I've seen more people ruin their business that way because they just stopped doing what is working, like what got them to their to where they're at right now that would be more of an advanced kind of level concept, but most people are in that, that that larger bucket to where what they need and what they want is something simple that can help them just move the needle that day, that they can see a result with that they can wrap their head around, and I don't know who it was that said this, whether it was Einstein or one of these kind of famous people who we've taken quotes from but they said something to the effect of like brilliance is not taking something simple and making it complicated it's taking something complicated and making it simple. And so I think that, to your point, a lot of times we overcomplicate things, and we think that we need to have the whole book of knowledge before we can start giving back and adding value to the marketplace. When really, just as you said, or as Matt said being one step ahead. It's even more relatable, and it's even more effective because you're so new and you're so fresh that you have the experience of jebra wood as well and doing it yourself. And so somebody who's been in the game for 10 years, I feel like I'm a senior. I'm like an Oji in the game and, and sometimes I forget some of the, like what it's like to set up an autoresponder right you know what I mean. So I gotta I gotta, I gotta work hard to keep it simple, and to stay in that type of information that's relevant to that 99% of people, and not make it too complicated. And so that's a fascinating thing right here's somebody who's got 10 years plus in the game, and I have, I have to work to keep things simple and explain things and make things simple. Keep things to where people can understand them. Robert, I'm not sure what comes up for you if anything as I'm talking about this but I just, I'm trying to give people hope and inspiration, based on your amazing story and what you're doing, that no matter where you're at, particularly in the beginning, that you're where you're at, is extremely useful for somebody else, you're probably, you're probably undervaluing, the impact that you, you have, if you just, if you can find the courage, and you can take the risk to put yourself out there and begin being of service to people. 

Rob: Yeah, and again I go back. I always go back to the Facebook group. You live and breathe with the people that you're going through the course now with. So, age does matter. In the beginning, when you're going through things everybody's having the same problems in the same areas at the same time, it doesn't matter your sex, where you're from. It doesn't matter what color you are, it doesn't matter what language that you speak, every single person that I talked to, they get stuck in the same place, whether they're from India, South Africa, or jersey. Everybody gets stuck in the same places, but a lot of it's IT related, where they get stuck, and that's why I say live and breathe in the Facebook group where you'll network, make friends, answer questions, get questions answered for you. And the whole point of the community is to be part of the community. If you skim over that part. You're gonna get what you get.

Dave: Yeah. And part of, Part of what I just also want to say just to help everybody also understand where the responsibility needs to fall. You have to take responsibility to make these connections yourself, okay, you can't rely on other people to make these connections for you, and, and even as your Legendary it's a great idea I saw somebody, you know, I've heard this in the past. Nobody's been upset or anything that we don't kind of organize groups because we've certainly thought of it, but ultimately at the end of the day, it has to fall on the shoulders of of you guys who have to take responsibility to lock arms and be the leader in a sense and say hey I'm forming a group or a pod or I'd like to have some kind of road dogs to lock arms with you, you can't wait for me to come along and invite you, if something happened for yourself what Rob is describing here about having a few partners and kind of accountability, people in your corner. I invite all of you guys to step up and be the one to form that group, don't wait for it to be formed for you don't wait for somebody to invite you to one, right, because then we get back into our kind of our younger kind of childlike self like hoping that we get picked for the basketball team, you know like out on the court where we get picked last for the dodgeball ball team and. And we feel smaller we know you all are adults, you have to step into your leader role your leader mindset and if this sounds like something that you want to do that be the leader who forms and invites other people to run with you don't wait for it to fall in your lap, Rob, any words or response to that.

Rob: So when I was in the Facebook group, I reached out to 12 people initially, the 12 disciples, people because we were all in the October timeframe, and up to 12 people I reached out to. I told him, Hey, how about we get together, we help each other out. We like to share and comment on each other's, whatever it is if you do Facebook, YouTube, I don't care if the 12 people I reached out to 10 jumped at the opportunity. and 10 jumped. And they were like, Oh yeah, man, what, first they were like, Okay, what are you talking about, can you explain this again is really explained real quick so there's not a whole lot to it. For me, or 999 a month, no for. It's just a, you reach out to 12 people, you're going to get seven to 10 people. If in your range, that is dying to be part of a team.

Dave: Yeah. Yeah. So, um, transition a little bit to kind of your, your different offers and stuff so you're obviously kind of teaching affiliate marketing and helping people with affiliate marketing their affiliate marketing businesses which is cool but you're also doing some cryptocurrency stuff and you're, you're kind of taking your, your ability to share information, share value into the crypto space also potentially doing some, some affiliate offers in the in the crypto space. Is that right?

Rob: Yeah. And again, this is what that's what I got from Preston McLean when he was like well if you could affiliate marketing for anything. Yeah. Would it be. Yeah, I was like, Well, I'm, I'm new to crypto. So let me take a look at it, and next thing you know I realized that the exchange that I'm using as an affiliate link, the bot, the artificial intelligent bots that I use, they have an affiliate link, the legend, the ledger hardware wallets have an affiliate link, it's all built in for you,

hopefully not any other cryptocurrency Ponzi schemes that popped up right. All I had to do was show people, again, it's always the same thing, show people what you're doing. And then if they're interested in it, they will click on your link. Look at what's going on, and they'll either gonna follow you or not bother. The only difference was. Wow, the difference, since it was all exciting and new. Yeah, yeah I was averaging three to 400 people a day, jumping in and following and I was like I think I could get used to this, I like this, but it all comes down to, again, if you pick something that you're going to do anyway, and something that you enjoy, right, not a single person was to come join, you would still enjoy doing. Right. It's not going to happen because you enjoy doing something, and you're sharing your experience. People are going to come. If you're sharing your excitement in your, in your adding value through teaching them and showing them stuff people are gonna pay attention. 

Dave: Yeah. Yeah, so the other thing that I want to point out which I have, I have another coaching client who's doing cryptocurrency stuff, and, you know, like I'm not a crypto guy, like I made 20,000 or so from Bitcoin back in 2017 it was literally the most stressful money I've ever made in my life. You know what I mean. Like if I think about like the amount of stress compared to the amount of profit, it just wasn't worth it to me I'd rather just put my, my investments in more passive stuff, but if I wanted to, like, if I wanted, if I was looking for a hot market to get to do affiliate marketing in and just if I wanted to only do affiliate marketing in it, and I was looking for a hot market cryptocurrency would absolutely be one of them, right, you look at the trends, people all over the world are interested in crypto, it's a huge FOMO thing, people have a fear of missing out like they think that this is kind of the, you know the next.com boom or whatever it is for many people right there's a lot of people were making a lot of money in crypto. I'm not a fan because I don't think there's potential. I'm a fan because I am not a fan because of me. It's not crypto, it's me, right, I don't want to be checking my thing every two seconds and they're doing okay and you're doing. Exactly, exactly. Dude, you also know my lane. So I have my primary business and then I have, you know, investments in real estate, those are where I invest my money. But, but, you know, if I was looking at hey what's a hot niche, and I was passionate about crypto and if I was just looking for a hot niche crypto is like an example everybody if you guys are like, when we talk about picking a niche. That's an example of a super hot niche. And as you were talking about Rob, if you can, if you pick a niche and you say cryptocurrency affiliate programs in Google. Man, you, you would be overwhelmed by the amount of, um, you could also go to any site, any popular site, and you could just go to the bottom of their website, and you could see. Do they have to check this out, so I just typed in one super quick, let me share my screen real quick just to kind of show you guys how easy this is. So, if I typed in Coinbase, for example, right, so here I am on Coinbase Coinbase is the app that pretty much is the biggest kind of, I wouldn't call it an exchange but I would call it a wallet that you could buy cryptocurrency in, and you can store your cryptocurrency in Coinbase, you know, they're they're bringing more coins in as well that you can buy like Dogecoin and different stuff but anyways, I joined 50 similar people on Coinbase, they went public, it's a pretty big exchanges, but this is kind of like, this is probably the most popular well known, like wallet slash not really exchange but where you can buy crypto. So, what the hell, how can I do affiliate marketing with Coinbase? Well, all I gotta do is scroll down to the bottom of the site. Okay, and let me look here. I can even go Command F, and I could type in. I could type in an affiliate and say oh wait, there's. Oh, there it is right there, look at that. Look at that. There it is right there. Okay so I could click on become a coin base affiliate Rob in this beautiful thing, dude. I just pulled this up in two seconds it's like become an affiliate promote coin base earn commissions, right and then it gives you like information about their, their, their, their program a couple of details and then you click on become an affiliate, and there's probably some sort of an application process or something like that. Yep, you apply here or whatever, and 50% of the order sale amount. That seems pretty significant.

Rob: I might have to switch over, I'm only I know we're at your boy right only getting 20 I feel I'm feeling cheated. Well, hold on a second. So, zero. I feel like I'm bypassing myself but you could type in beer on that thing and they'll be an affiliate link at the bottom. So there's an affiliate link for, if you type in affiliates for beer. You will find 20 different affiliates for the micro breweries, by all the different types. Yeah, you can't name anything that doesn't have an affiliate link that goes with it.

Dave: It's crazy bro micromatic affiliate program 10% Commission's 90 Day cookie 10% A lot of these are probably like physical products so there may be there's, there's, there's less of a profit margin to be able to pay a commission bottle keeper affiliate program. Who knows what the hell that is right but anyways. Yeah No, dude, it's cool as hell right that you can craft a beer club affiliate program. I saw a beer bong. What's that one, beer, beer, or beer bomb calm. Here's the affiliate program for beer bong. We're the only drinking novelty company that makes majority of the products in the US,

Rob: People using that you might not get a lot of returns. Go for it.

Dave: Now look at this dude, look at this like all these all these beer bongs. Oh this is a badass man, I don't drink so I'm not into a lot of this, but if you're a drinker, dude. Like, there's this guy on, on, on Tik Tok.  Yeah so this, this cat right here. Alright, check this out. This guy right here he's got 9.9 million followers, basically what he's doing is he's always drinking now he's, he's kind of almost got a Dan Bilzerian vibe. At this point, but like he's always got a goose with them. and, and, and he's always drinking some beer, like here he is with a dad like us scientists. Here he is with his dad. Yeah, there's like he's always drinking with his, with his family, like, even his grandma. He gets his grandma out there and they and they drink but anyways. Here's a dude who, nothing about any business stuff, nothing about any, he just havin fun. He's getting his dad and his grandma to come on and drink, and he's got this duck that he's always like doing kind of silly shit like this like he's got the duck inside of the grocery store without a shirt, you know what I mean, just being just being you know being hilarious, you know what I mean, this guy is probably making so much money, now he's, he's, He's promoting his, his website, which has merged. Right. But if this guy, if this guy would, would, would make some affiliate links in promotion, find a beer bomb company to promote based on his stuff with all these followers. Dude, he would be making hundreds of $1,000 in a month in affiliate commissions in its entire channel. We're having a blast, bro. Just having fun. You know what I mean. And I look at, look at this one right here, like here's his dad like he's got his dad, and he's got the beard well. Look at this shit. Can you see that we can see it? And then there's this mob freak it out I mean look at this dude, I mean it's just, it's just, it's just that video right there had 11 million views on, you know what I mean. So if you guys are wondering, you know, what are some examples of some niches and I give you credit for this Rob because you, you brought up the drinking thing in it's just, it's here's his grandma dude. 

Rob: When we talk about what you are going to give back, what are you going to return. He's giving you that pure entertainment.

Dave: Yeah. Look, drink in his hand, his grandma. Yeah. Grandma getting drunk dude, you know what I mean, it's just unbelievable man and he could be over here on this we're balling affiliate program thing. So, a lot of you, a lot of you guys are like, you know, having a hard time kind of, I don't know, trying to, I don't know I think I think some people take take themselves too seriously, I think, I think some people, you know we have a hard time kind of branching out and getting creative, but just in five minutes there based on you, talking about drinking, throwing darts at the beginning and it's just, and then mentioning the beer affiliate program. We found some ideas that got the juices flowing that any one of you could go and build a business in that niche or at least a side hustle, like a sub niche just having fun with that. It just blows my mind.

Rob: I guess, to be Debbie downer here for moving this in a little bit, but I talk to beginners all the time. And the first thing I tell them is, don't worry about your funnel, and don't worry about your email responder, you need to go do what you're going to do. I'm eight months in, I still use Legendary’s back office Legendary autoresponders, because I don't want to do it. It's not, that's not the area where I feel like I need to be to make what I'm trying to make. I want to be the one making upfront stuff. Yeah, more content because I only do content I don't do sales, so I have to do content to stay relevant. So I left, and I got third years of it. And I, I teach people how to use builders on how to use AWeber, how to use Get Response how I can. I teach everybody else that wants to do it, how to do it. I've become an expert, and literally all, but I'll use them. My back office does what my back office was to do, and I work in the front office.

Dave: Well bro you're, you're, you. That's a great point, you realize the idea of the mechanics and the dynamics that was probably the simplest explanation of what I mean by that, because the mechanics are the tip of the iceberg. Sure, they're part of the business, but are they the big ones? Are they the largest part of the business? No they're not. They are simply the tip of the iceberg that everybody sees and thinks, Well, my whole business is me setting up a funnel and an autoresponder, that's the business. And so they spend all this time setting up those couple little pieces of software, and then they say, whoo. My business is running. And then it's like, Wait, hold on a second, nobody's coming to the funnel, nobody's Wait, what Hold up, wait, is this a scam. Hold on a second is this does this even work right and it's like, well, yes, and that was the tip of the iceberg. There's the dynamics which is all of this other stuff, the messaging, the, the content creation and audience building. You know the fishing formula which I teach in the blueprints, which is picking your target customer, you know, finding out where they hang out, creating bait to get them chumming the waters to get them to come to the boat bait to get them to buy, right, and then second helpings third helpings. What are all the boxes that I need to check to bring people to me but then also move them through the process. That's the part of the iceberg that a lot of people never see. And you're brilliant for steak for kind of focusing on the real income producing activities, Rob, because so many people get bogged down with that tech, and at the end of the day, it's the least important, it's not not important. It's just the least, it's actually the least important part of this business.

Rob: I believe you have a video about the affiliate graveyard, and one of those gravestones, has to do with tech debt, has to deal with people getting stuck trying to create all the technical stuff. Yeah, they get stuck, they flounder, they take two weeks off, they come back, they try to work it some more, they take two weeks off, they come back and then they never come back. Whereas, Maybe not do the tech stuff. I mean, we were talking earlier about, just find something that you know how to do and do it. That's how fiber came into existence. It's just simple little things that people do. And for me, I'll spend $20 To save a week's worth of my time. And it's the same thing for a lot of people if you're working a full time job, like I coach softball, I work full time, and I'm going to college with my two daughters, they're all, they're all three of us go into college at the same time. So, yeah, I still spend 567 hours a day doing this, but I'm lucky where I can jump in and out of this while doing the 95. When I'm on board meeting the day, if I am. And I don't have any input so I shift over to the other laptop. And while I got the headphones on I'm going I'm doing, then go back to the meeting, don't tell you

right now it's just us here. One of the things that, that you guys could do, right, if, if you had some virtual assistant or something or you hired somebody like that is just say hey watch these videos, man, I just bought this course watch these videos, right, and and and set this up, you know what I mean. I mean there's just no rules, you know, to this game about what you can do, you have to be creative. And if you want to be the CEO of your business. How does a CEO, there's been many things that I've bought courses, things like that in the past that I say I get somebody who works with me for me, an assistant, something like that and I say through this, and, and set this up. I watched a YouTuber, he went through three assistants, trying to do it, but he ended up. All he does is make the video. And at the end he walks out, and that's it. Everything else is taken care of by his virtual assistant, like you said, it took him three tries to find just the right one. But now all he does is walk in, does video walks out, goes back to his life. Everything else is taken care of. Yeah, but again I say in the beginning. Your focus should be on meeting people, being in the Facebook group, working together as a team, even if, like, I know Amanda. Amanda has been here. I was in Amanda's TikToks before she got on Legendary and was on this side of the screen, and you could see it in her face. The moment she was doing her TikTok, you could see it in her face. She was going to be a rock star. And it's the same with, say, Cynthia Marie. Anthony Torres. He looks like a movie star that's just doing affiliate marketing to figure out how to do it next month. And you watch some of these people and it's just their week, those, this is my group. James Liddell, the hardest working man in affiliate marketing, got it down in Florida, if you watch, find your way videos, find your way one TikTok videos. He always does videos from the beach in Florida. He's already got half of what we want, just with the view. And we all got together and we all decided to do this and once you make it to say month eight. You feel like you're getting into the groove at that point, you've got past the little hump. And now you're getting into a groove, the people that are still with you, not everybody will be with you. But if you're in a group, you gotta, you got to let the load that fish on the outside edge is gonna get picked off. So, I'm having a great time with the people that I grabbed from the Facebook group, the Legendary, and they're still around, we still are eight months later, we're still in each other's content.

Dave: No, it's awesome dude, I was, you really got me with that affiliate marketing graveyard thing, you know, what happens is that, that a lot of people end up, you know, falling in that affiliate marketing graveyard, you know, and, and that can consist of lots of different, lots of different graves, you know those graves could be those graves could be, you know, technical stuff, you know, autoresponders, as you said, it could be funnels. It could be. It could be money, limiting beliefs around the kind of money and success. It can be the fear of stepping out of your comfort zone. There's so many different, there's so many different, quote unquote, you know, graves that are, are, are kind of dug, because they, you know, because people just, you know, typically fall in these kinds of graves that, that, that, that unfortunately and not to be, not to be too morbid here but there's tons of other bodies already in, and it's, it's, it's, it's usually things that are somewhat simple that we find a way to overcomplicate, you know ourselves because we like to do that as human beings. And, you know or we or we just or we just are trying to do this alone, and that can be difficult as well as you say that the fish on the outside of the school gets picked off, you know.

Rob: Well, one of the ways to not fall into one of the graves in the graveyard is to take the time to watch the video that shows you where the graves are. If that's all you have to do. It's a lot easier to stay above ground. If you know where the pitfalls are located, and for some reason, all of these videos that are there, they show you what's coming. Yeah, it's not a suspense thriller, they show you the end of the movie first, and then they take you through it.

Dave: Yeah, no I totally agree with that man and and I can't tell you how many days, I, I get questions from people. You know, it's funny. You talking about this affiliate marketing graveyard, You know, we've been running this, this, this legendary marketers club for a couple of years, and if. right into our back office, and you go to, you go to the marketers club right we've been doing these live training as well there's 123 live training replays. But it's interesting. The first one right there. The first one, you know, is the affiliate marketing graveyard.

I've been through 92 Yeah, do you for some reason you have a few more links than I do, but I've been through a lot of them

Dave: Yeah we've discontinued products and stuff like that. So yeah I got but anyways yeah Matt does a brilliant, brilliant overview of that, and again this was something that he did back in 2019, and it's the first replay there but he just, he, it's so, it's such a powerful example, as he draws it out because he literally walks you through all of the things that we've seen, 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of times over the course of Matt nice combined 20 years in this industry. And, and so I think it's really empowering for any one of you to kind of watch that and realize what Rob You said a moment ago. What you mean is hours and 1000s of people have dealt with before you, and it's just not new, there's a solution for it, it's not something that's earth shattering that we can't solve that we can't help you with or that you can overcome. It's literally something that everybody has to go through. And it's crazy because you wouldn't believe Rob the amount of people that we track that will buy for example the challenge and not go through, or will buy the blueprints and not go through the training. I mean, it's just, if you just spend a couple of days of your life to just go through it and then to revisit it every couple of months. Man, it's just, it's life changing, but we get high off of the purchase, right, and then we don't, the follow through is not there. 

Rob: After 2020 and 2021. Everybody should have seen everything that's on Netflix by now. So, you have the time to go through some of these. I've used up prime, I've used them all up. So, these are the next videos to go to. 

Dave: Yeah, well, brother. Thanks for an awesome hour line hour long chat, you guys can check out Rob on TikTok. Here we've got his Tiktok handle up there is his affiliate army Facebook group. The guy is clearly, you know, somebody that you that you want to have in your corner, and yet another yet another yet another awesome example, right, of somebody in this community somebody inside of our community here that in the names that you listed off, I don't even know who they are, Rob like those people I've yet to meet them I've yet to even hear of them, I mean because the amount of people here that come through our stuff and are going and taking in, put it in into action is just honestly it's the overwhelming, \

Rob: They're the ones that kept me going

Dave: It’s hard to keep up with. It's hard to keep up with, if somebody was sitting on based on your experience here at Legendary somebody was sitting on a checkout page are kind of in the comments and watching this and on the fence about going all in and if they, if what they could learn here and the people that they could meet here could change their life really changed the trajectory of their life, what would you say to that person based on your experience?

Rob: Not going back Never going back Never going back. I will never have a single income ever again. That's all you need to know. Do you want a single point of failure, or would you rather have multiple income streams. And if you're with. number one, good luck, I've been there. I mean that's why old people come back and tell you, you might not want to do this. 

Dave: Yeah. Yeah for real man. 

Rob: Never going back, no lies detected in that statement. 

Dave: Well, Brother, listen, It's a fantastic day, I know you've probably got 14 meetings here to do and then plus all your other stuff that you're doing so have fun with that. Be Legendary, stay Legendary my friend, please do it on your journey. And I appreciate the conversation. This was amazing. 

Rob: Appreciate it. 

Dave: All right, Rob see you buddy out. Alright guys, there it is. Whoop, there it is. Hey, another, another fantastic example of what's possible. I'm somebody who just, I don't know, kind of had their back against the wall, sort of similar to what I said yesterday when you remove the plan B, you know, and you're, you're, you know, you're sort of left with Okay What now, you can do amazing things, you know when you, when you fully commit and apply yourself to what you're doing, you know, and step in and take a risk of being that leader. First leading your own life and then leading others. It's amazing where you can go and what you can do, and that's a great example. Rob this morning with his story and experience I appreciate him for sharing that with us if you guys want to get a text message reminder about this show every morning on your phone text WUL The letters WUL to 8132968553 Again, that's 813-296-8553 Get the hell out of here. Have a fantastic day. We'll see you guys back here tomorrow, Peace.

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SAS Affiliate: Successful Course or Major Scam?

David Sharpe bio

Over 80% of advertisers and publishers have switched to affiliate marketing in the last year. If you're ready to elevate your income, you're likely exploring marketing courses.

Becoming a successful affiliate marketer means investing in the best courses. Learn everything you need to know about the SAS affiliate marketing course and why it's right for you.

Everything You Need to Know About the SAS Affiliate Marketing Course

As far as affiliate marketing courses go, SAS is one of the most popular. SAS, or Super Affiliate System, offers a comprehensive course. As a legitimate, reliable program with clear processes, you will learn the essentials of marketing directly.

The course covers six weeks with 50 hours of training videos. These videos are in English, but subtitle options in German, Spanish, French, and Portuguese.

Each part of the SAS program is broken down into microtasks so you can take as many breaks as needed. If you're working on building passive income, you'll benefit from this kind of flexibility.

Before you get started, there's a welcome unit to guide you through the program. You'll discover how the course works, what it includes, and the basic benefits of using the program.

Basics like goalsetting and support resources are covered. The rest of the units are divided by week, which is broken down for you below.

Week 1: System Setup

The first unit of this direct marketing system teaches you all about setting up your affiliate network. It highlights the use of Google, Facebook, and Youtube ads. It also highlights website and presale page setup.

It's important to learn about website hosting before you invest in paid ad campaigns. Once you have the site and system set up, the system guides you through different paid ad setups.

Week 2: Google Ads Setup

This unit covers the basics of Google Ads but doesn't go into extreme detail. You'll discover how to setup up campaigns based on keyword search. Then, the unit teaches device and location targeting.

You'll also learn about ad split testing. Unlike other MLM companies' affiliate courses, SAS doesn't cover keyword match types. It also leaves out auto versus manual bidding on ads.

SAS leaves out defining what negative keywords are and their impact on Google Ads. Earnings per click aren't included in this unit either.

Although these details are excluded, you still learn essential information for paid Google Ads. The simplicity of the unit ensures you won't be overwhelmed with excessive information.

Week 3: Youtube Ads Setup

After learning about Google Ads, this affiliate marketing course guides you through every part of Youtube ad campaigns. Youtube runs on Google Ads so that you can extend your marketing efforts there.

This unit discusses channel and ad setup. It also explains why you should exclude mobile targeting for your direct marketing efforts. And, you'll learn common mistakes to avoid when advertising on the platform.

Week 4: Advanced Ad Tactics

Once you make it through the first three weeks of the program, you'll learn more advanced information. This should give you enough time to use Google and Youtube ads, so you're familiar with the basics.

This unit covers tacts for Facebook, which has stringent rules and policies for paid ads. Here's an overview of each microtask within the unit:

  • Common Facebook ad mistakes
  • Staying compliant with Facebook's rules and policies
  • Breaking through overcluttered newsfeeds
  • Advertising to people's inner motivations
  • “Hacking” peoples' trust
  • Creating profitable, engaging headlines

Each of these segments teaches you how to leverage excellent copywriting without overdoing it. Staying compliant on Facebook is easy—once you know what rules to follow. As a novice affiliate marketer, you'll soon appreciate the value of compelling copy.

This unit doesn't teach you copywriting hacks specifically. But fortunately for you, there are tons of free, high-quality copywriting courses available.

Week 5: Presell Pages and Scaling

Moving into the fifth week of the course, you'll learn about preselling pages, something any MLM company uses. As you grow in experience, you'll need to scale up your presell pages, too.

This unit covers split testing each of your presell pages. You'll learn how to avoid common mistakes, too. Then, it addresses the basics of scaling up and how to bump up your payouts.

Once you're confident in your direct marketing abilities, you can start scaling up your affiliate campaigns. One great feature of the SAS affiliate program is its inclusion of preselling page templates. (That's an invaluable resource, especially if you lack the time or skill for web design.)

This section reveals the big moment and strategy for internet marketers' financial success. It reveals the “secret” of leading traffic to sales pages to bump revenue.

Week 6: Product Selection

The final week of this affiliate marketing course ties together everything you've learned. No matter where you are in confidence and ability, you've got to apply everything you learn at some point.

Once you make it past basic and advanced ad tactics, it's time to choose what you're selling. Product selection is all about picking a niche you feel comfortable in.

Once you have a product selected, you'll discover Clickbank offers. You'll even learn how to find offers on other affiliate networks. And, most importantly, you'll learn which mistakes to avoid when choosing offers.

Legendary Marketer Is Here to Support Your Business Success

Whether you need support in finding the best affiliate marketing course, a community, or a coach, we're here for you. We only share the most reliable resources to boost your passive income and business endeavors.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Is Vector Marketing a Good Business Opportunity?

David Sharpe bio

Many people share the dream of leaving their current job and working in a lucrative industry that lets them set their own work schedule.

After all, why wouldn't you want a better work/life balance while significantly boosting your income?

One such company that offers this opportunity is Vector Marketing. However, a quick search on Google raises several concerns that are worth looking at in more detail.

Let's consider if Vector marketing is a good business opportunity.

What Is Vector Marketing?

Vector Marketing is the sales arm of Cutco which has been manufacturing kitchen cutlery, accessories and sporting knives since 1949.

In 1981, Vector was founded in Philadelphia to sell knives direct to consumers through a network of independent sales reps. On its website, the company claims to sell over $200 million of high-quality Cutco products each year.

The fact that the business has been trading for 40 years suggests it has a successful business model that independent reps can use to make money.

The high yearly seven-figure sales figure is also likely to attract the attention of many budding entrepreneurs.

The company also has some attractive messaging on their website advising their primary focus is helping individual sellers to succeed. By teaching reps new skills, they can help people develop into successful sales professionals.

Reassuringly, Vector Marketing states that they are not a multi-level marketing (MLM) company. Legitimate MLM companies sell products to consumers, but they also encourage their members to bring on more recruits.

An MLM company can grow quickly, but often only the people at the top of the organization make a high income.  Independent sellers at the lower levels typically make very little money and may leave when they see poor results.

Vector Marketing also does not operate a pyramid scheme model whereby the only way to make money is to recruit others. This trading method is illegal, and you should never partner with a business that operates in this way.

So far, Vector Marketing appears to be an excellent company that takes good care of its sales partners. However, a closer look raises some potential issues.

Can You Make Money With Vector Marketing?

This question is not easy to answer. Somewhat unusually, the company offers what they call a base salary. This guarantees payment to the sales rep if they present the products to a qualified prospect, even if they don't make a sale.

While this initially seems to be a good deal, there is no section on their website to advise how much they will pay. They also do not mention if this fee covers transportation costs or how it equates to an hourly wage.

The company also seems to offer fantastic opportunities for reps to progress up the ladder. This can lead to working in more advanced sales positions and management roles.

But, again, there is no data displaying how or when you may qualify for these jobs. These vague statements do not mean Vector Marketing is being shady, but it is a concern.

Many other direct marketing companies also trade in this manner. By offering potential benefits to independent recruits, they hope to benefit from their sales endeavors.

However, the sales reps often find themselves receiving very little in return for their efforts. This is one of the reasons there is a high turnover in the industry.

Another reason to be wary is that you need to find a target market that can provide a steady stream of customers. People generally do not replace kitchen knives that often, so you are unlikely to make many repeat sales.

Also, it is not easy to sell to customers in the internet era. Many people will already buy online, or larger companies can advertise to them through paid targeted ads.

Benefits of Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketing allows you to sell other people's products with zero upfront investment. You can work with a partner that shares your values and provides products and services that align with your passions.

There is also no need to limit yourself to selling one product; you can choose as many different goods as you like and sell them simultaneously.

If you do not have an advertising budget, you can still make sales from the comfort of your own home. For example, you could write blog posts, record podcasts, or create video content and post them online.

When an interested consumer clicks on an included affiliate link and makes a purchase, the seller sends you a commission. This can range from a few dollars to thousands of dollars, depending on the product you sell.

If you prefer to use paid ads, you could preplan your marketing strategy and allow the ads to run on autopilot. You can also use a combination of paid and unpaid advertising methods.

However, it is possible to waste time and money using ineffective affiliate marketing techniques. You could become discouraged and give up before you begin making money.

One way to increase your chances of success is to work with others who have an excellent track record in the affiliate marketing industry.

An experienced team can help you avoid common mistakes and guide you towards more powerful strategies.

Choose Legendary Marketer

This Vector Marketing review can help you decide if the company offers the right business opportunity for you. If not, you may find affiliate marketing is a better fit.

The Legendary Marketer team has combined their many years of experience and expertise. We've created coaching and consulting programs to help you achieve your online marketing goals.

But, we don't pretend this is easy; it can take hard work and dedication to become an authority in your chosen sector.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Everything You Need to Know About Usborne Books

David Sharpe bio

Are you thinking about joining the over six million Americans who own a direct selling business? Do you want to make money from home talking about books you love?

If so, then you're in the right place. So, keep reading to learn all about Usborne Books and their business opportunity. Plus we'll show you an alternative way to make even more money from home suggesting books to your friends.

What Is an Usborne Books Business?

Usborne Books is a division of its parent company, Usborne Publishing. The publishing company creates educational and entertaining books for kids of all ages. Their popular books cover a range of topics and have been a favorite among families for years.

In 1981 the publishing company founded their offshoot MLM company, Usborne Books at Home. Direct selling consultants sell books to friends, families, schools, churches, and more. Consultants are invited to begin their business by other consultants who then become their downline team members.

There are currently over 35,000 consultants selling over 110 million dollars worth of kids' books each year. The Usborne Publishing company has its own in-house team of writers, editors, and designers creating their own line of books. This complete control over their product allows them to continue to create quality products each year.

Additionally, Usborne allows some consultants to earn an additional certification as Education Consultant. This certification allows these consultants to sell Usborne books to schools. The commission earned on these school orders is lower than in-home parties, but it allows consultants to sell in bulk.

How Much Does It Cost to Start Selling Usborne Books?

The usual cost to purchase your new business kit is $99. With that investment, you will receive ten beautiful books your kids will love. You will also get five mini-books and some of the business supplies you'll need to start your own Usborne business.

Usborne does regularly runs special deals that allow consultants to start their business at a lower cost. If you can start during one of these deals, you can start your own business at a lower cost; the last one was $30. Their website also boasts a mini-business kit for $30, which comes with fewer books than their regular starter kit.

How Much Can You Make Selling Usborne Books?

Since you own your own business, you can work as much or as little as you want. Some of our consultants are busy moms who can only hold one party a week. And you'll receive an average of about 25% of everything you sold in the previous week.

As you build your team and sell more inventory, your commissions will increase accordingly. But remember, there aren't any minimums. You are only limited by how many customers and team members you can build.

How Do Usborne Consultants Get Paid?

Usborne consultants are paid directly by Usborne books. Your commissions are paid out weekly on Wednesdays by direct deposit. If you choose not to set up a direct deposit, a check will be mailed out each week.

This is different from some MLM companies that require you to purchase your inventory in advance and then earn it back by selling that product.

Pros of Starting an Usborne Business

Usborne Books has been in business for many years and is a quality company to be affiliated with. The biggest pros of starting your Usborne business are:

  1. It's a well-established and reputable company
  2. They only sell quality kids books you can trust
  3. Because they write and publish their own books, they are in control of the quality of their books
  4. If you have kids, this is a product you'll buy anyway, so you might as well share them with friends

As you can see, if you're looking for a way to make money from home, this is a great option. However, there are some downsides so let's jump into those next.

Cons of Starting an Usborne Business

Just as there are some pros to starting your own Usborne business, there are some cons as well. Some of these drawbacks include:

  1. Books aren't a renewable resource, so your friends won't need to keep purchasing more after their initial purchase
  2. Depending on how large or small your circle of family or friends are, you might run out of people to sell to quickly
  3. While the quality is good, their price point is high, making competition with cheaper books online steep

If you love buying books and have kids who love to read, this could be a great business for you. However, be sure to think about these stumbling blocks before you invest your hard-earned money. You might be better off starting a business that uses a different business model, making money suggesting books to friends, such as affiliate marketing.

Is Usborne Books a Pyramid Scheme?

No, Usborne books isn't a pyramid scheme. Instead, it is a multi-level marketing business. The main difference between an MLM and pyramid marketing is that consultants are encouraged to sell the products more than their encouraged to recruit new team members.

Companies can get into trouble when the lines become hazy, and they stop focusing on selling their products. Usborne, however, delivers a great product and their consultants join to help spread the word about these amazing books.

But, if you want to make money sharing amazing books with your friends and family, there is another way to make money online. You should try affiliate marketing. Affiliate marketing is similar in that you recommend amazing products that you love and receive a small commission anytime someone purchases that product.

The biggest difference is that you're not limited to your immediate circle of friends and family. Because the majority of affiliate marketing is done online, your customers are anyone with an internet connection.

Are You Ready to Start Your Business Today?

If you're ready to start a business, but you're still unsure about Usborne books, then you should consider an alternative. You can still suggest your favorite books, but you're not limited to selling only to your family and friends. And you'll never have to have people over to your house again.

With affiliate marketing, you can still work from your living room, but your business is online. And you can sell to anyone else with an internet connection, regardless of where they live.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Can You Really Make Money With Telecom Plus?

David Sharpe bio

Today, the telecoms industry contributes around 5% of the UK's GDP, which means it's extremely important in the country's economy. Given that we need to call one another, plus use the internet for a wide variety of reasons, it shouldn't come as a surprise that this industry is so lucrative! This means there's money to be made for you here.

What's interesting is that while most MLM companies focus on tangible products, there's actually one that hones in on telecom services: Telecom Plus.

What is Telecom Plus and is it worth your time to join this MLM company? We'll tell you everything you need to know in this article.

What Is Telecom Plus?

Telecom Plus is a company based in London, UK. It was established in 1996 and first started off as a business that strictly focused on telecoms. Later on, they'd go on to expand their offerings by becoming a supplier of other utilities for consumers.

Telecom Plus is best known for their flagship product, the Smart Box. It allowed customers to plug this device into their phone sockets and make calls at cheaper rates since it'd reroute their calls to more cost-efficient networks.

So what else does Telecom Plus offer? Their services include:

  • Mobile phone tariffs
  • Broadband internet
  • Phone line and internet bundle
  • Gas
  • Electricity

Most of the above services are sold by their associated company Utility Warehouse.

How Does Telecom Plus Work?

Telecom Plus works on the same model that all other MLM (multilevel marketing) companies do. There are 2 main components of operation: directly selling products/services and recruiting others to become distributors.

For the first part, it's pretty straightforward. Those who join Telecom Plus will sell the above services to consumers.

Recruitment is a bit more complicated but in theory, is an easier way to make money. Essentially, you get others to join as distributors under you (your downline).

In turn, they recruit others as well, which builds multiple tiers underneath you. The bigger your downline, the more passive income you'll make.

Is Telecom Plus a Scam?

When it comes to MLM companies, many people are wary. This is because the recruiting side of things is almost identical to how pyramid schemes work, and those are illegal.

However, you should know that MLM companies are completely legal since they do offer legitimate products for sale. Depending on which you're looking into, some might have some questionable products that either don't work or are even harmful.

When it comes to Telecom Plus, they're one of the better MLM companies out there. They've won a Company of the Year award before and also ranked in the top 20 for the best MLMs in the world. They're also listed on the London Stock Exchange and have been around for over 20 years.

So as far as Telecom Plus goes, this company definitely isn't a scam. And when compared to most other MLMs, they're one of the more solid choices to go with.

How Do You Join Telecom Plus?

To join Telecom Plus as a distributor, you need to pay them £100 (which is around $140). While most MLMs charge a sign-up fee, Telecom Plus's is on the higher side.

How Do You Make Money With Telecom Plus?

As we've explained above, the 2 main ways to make money through MLMs are by directly selling products/services and growing your downline. Telecom Plus's compensation plan aims to reward their distributors through both.

First, you can get a Customer Gathering Bonus (CGB). You can earn up to 40% per customer if they sign up for Telecom Plus's services through you. On average, you can get a CGB of £20 per customer.

Once you've sold to 6 customers, you'll become a Qualified Executive (QE). This unlocks the Customer Volume Commission (CVC), which gives you up to 5.3% in commission for each customer, so long as you maintain at least 6 per month.

When you hit 10 customers or more, as well as 50 customers in your group (downline), you'll become a Senior Executive (SE). This increases your group CVC and gives you some cash bonuses and eligibility for the Company Car Programme.

When you reach 15 customers and 250 group customers within 12 months, you'll become an Executive Director (ED). This further increases your group CVC.

Finally, you can earn money through infinity payments (get paid for every tier of your downline) and Leader Group Customer Bonuses. You're eligible for the latter once you hit the Group Director level.

Do People Make Money With Telecom Plus?

There's the potential to make a 5-figure (or even 6) income with Telecom Plus. But when it comes to MLMs, pretty much all of them have 1 thing in common: less than 1% of distributors actually make more than $1,000 a year.

To really make money in an MLM, you have to grow your downline instead of selling directly. And to grow your downline, you have to have excellent marketing skills.

These skills take years of studying to develop and most people with no marketing experience find it difficult to get into. As a result, this is why just under 1% of distributors are able to make a decent living with MLMs.

Look Into Affiliate Marketing Instead of Joining an MLM Company

While you can join an MLM company as a distributor and make some money, the reality is, it'll be a long and tough road. And the odds aren't in your favor, considering only a very small minority of distributors can earn a living off MLMs.

If you'd like to get into something similar but with a lower barrier to entry and better chances of making a profit, then you need to look into affiliate marketing. Practically anyone can succeed at affiliate marketing and you won't need to pour tons of effort or money into it. It's a win-win situation!

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Tastefully Simple: Can You Make Money Selling Food Products?

David Sharpe bio

Multi-level marketing (MLM) companies made more than $35 billion in 2019 and continue to grow.

MLM companies involve a chain of people, or consultants, who help sell products and services in local areas.

There are endless industries involved with MLM but one of the most lucrative industries the food industry.

Keep reading to learn more about how food products and MLM companies come together with Tastefully Simple!

Tastefully Simple Is an MLM Company

Tastefully Simple has a large reputation in the food products industry along with affiliate marketing.

This company has an abundance of consultants who are ready to bring recipes and meal packages to anyone with interest. Tastefully Simple has been around for more than 20 years and was founded by Jill Strahan.

Many people have their concerns about MLM companies and they often get called Pyramid Schemes. Although Tastefully Simple resembles another MLM company called Pampered Chef, it is a unique offering.

MLM companies have consultants who host in-person and online parties to sell products to retail customers that you know. The customers will also result in finding other recruits. As more people learn about the company, the more money that can be made. This could be a risky way to earn money if you aren't able to continue the chain.

If you are unsure about committing to this company, do your research. This will help you determine if you are passionate about their offerings or just want to make a purchase.

What Does Tastefully Simple Have to Offer?

One of the largest factors for Tastefully Simple being so successful is their excellent products and foods.

Tastefully Simple has various meal kit plans ranging from 5-14 day meals. They also offer entertaining kits and freezer meal kits for when you are busy during the week.

Ordered meal kits are becoming relevant because people don't have to stress about shopping or cooking something the wrong way. Each meal kit comes with the necessary ingredients and a recipe with details to follow.

Along with partially prepared meal kits, Tastefully Simple also sells individual food items. Drinks, bread, and dips are some of the popular items people order through consultants. You can also get sauces, dressings, and soup mixes. Tastefully Simple will easily satisfy every tastebud for you and your recruits, making it all the easier to sell.

Depending on the time of year, Tastefully Simple will run sales and put together package deals for ultimate savings. This company offers so much to foodies, chefs, and recruits.

Beyond food products, Tastefully Simple even has you covered in the utensil and tool area. You can find the best spatulas, spoons, and mixers.

Target Audience

Tastefully Simple is a great company to get involved with because they reach such a large range of people.

Not only do women of all ages shop at this company, but so do men and professional cooks. This company offers delicious foods and quality products that keep people coming back.

If you know a lot of people who enjoy luxury foods and gifts, you may want to consider selling for Tastefully Simple. This is the perfect hustle to prepare for the holidays and even get some shopping done while you work!

Something that many people appreciate about this company is that they have food options for every type of culture. Asian, tropical, and Mexican foods are highlighted at the company and you can encourage friends and locals to try new flavors.

If you are planning to sell through Tastefully Simple, you should consider selling to foodies in your area, home cooks, and those with a sweet tooth. Anyone that loves food, which doesn't exclude many, will have an interest in this company.

If you have consulting needs and require guidance, our Coaching and Consulting Business Blueprint can help!

Another advantage that this company has and why it can reach so many people is that the prices are affordable. People can spend only a couple of dollars to as much as their heart desired per order, making the commitment less scary.

What Are the Expectations & Reality?

If you look at online reviews, you will see that selling for Tastefully Simple can end in much of two ways— with you broke or having a surplus of money.

Depending on how much you put into the company, you can earn more but there are a few expectations that you should know about. Once you become a sales member, you will gain access to their wholesale prices, which will help you sell them.

As you host parties, which can be time-consuming and expensive if you are hosting them in-person, you will earn money through orders.  Commissions, bonuses, and incentives are given throughout the year to help give you goals.

One of the positive aspects about this company is that they don't put a lot of strain on their sales team, so don't feel pressured at first. As you host parties and get others just as excited as you, they can be hired under your name.

This is where it looks like the pyramid scheme, because the more friends you get selling, the more money you make and the higher on the scale you become.

Does Tastefully Simple Have Food Products You Can Sell?

Selling food products through an MLM company can be a risky move, but it can also make you a lot of money.

If you are passionate about food and know other people who are as well, Tastefully Simple is the company to get involved with. There are so many products that will make putting in orders easy.

Prepared meal kits, food products, and supplies will keep your friends' and kitchens stocked. By selling for this company, you can earn back all of your money and more.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Is Wealthy Affiliate a Scam?

David Sharpe bio

When we think about affiliate marketing, our minds may automatically go to MLM companies that use direct sales to stay in business. However, affiliate marketing is a much broader industry that includes social media influencers, bloggers who use paid advertising on their websites, and more.

Affiliate marketing has generated quite a bit of buzz for both entrepreneurs and businesses. In fact, 81% of businesses now use affiliate marketing for at least a portion of their marketing campaign.

So, how does Wealthy Affiliate fit into all of this? There's a lot of confusion surrounding this company. Is it a scam, an MLM, or something else entirely?

At Legendary Marketer, we provide industry information and resources for those who are new to the online business world. Now, we're going to take a closer look at Wealthy Affiliate to get to the bottom of your pressing questions about what it is and if it's worth it.

What Is Wealthy Affiliate?

First and foremost, Wealthy Affiliate is a platform and resource that claims to be a sort of one-stop-shop for budding affiliate marketers. It was founded in 2005 by Canadian affiliate marketers, Carson Lim and Kyle Loudon.

What Wealthy Affiliate offers are courses designed to teach people the in's and out's of online affiliate marketing in any niche. They also provide a website-building platform that is purportedly beginner-friendly and they allow you to purchase your own domain name. They also offer tools like their keyword search engine, JAAXY, which they claim is the number one keyword generator on the web.

In addition to these resources and tools, Wealthy Affiliate is meant to operate as a sort of digital community. Through Wealthy Affiliate, you can connect with other affiliate marketers who also use the Wealthy Affiliate platform. Some users can also access an online “coach” who will answer questions and talk you through issues with your website and more.

The idea is a good one. After all, we know better than anyone that when you're starting out in the digital marketing world, you need to learn the ropes to avoid costly failure after costly failure. So, where does all of the confusion come from and why do people wonder if Wealthy Affiliate is some kind of scam?

Is Wealthy Affiliate an MLM?

A big source of the Wealthy Affiliate confusion is that it's hard to discern whether or not the educational platform is also somehow an MLM. If you're unfamiliar, an MLM (multi-level marketing company) is a company that sells products but uses direct sellers (affiliates) to complete sales and bring in recruits. If you ask us, the recruitment process is a big part of what makes an MLM, well, an MLM.

Wealthy Affiliate exists in a sort of grey zone here. What we mean by that is that when you build your affiliate brand and website through Wealthy Affiliate, you're allowed to promote just about any business. In other words, you're not restricted to pushing Wealthy Affiliate memberships–you're not even required to.

That being said, Wealthy Affiliate members who do bring new members in through the referral system are rewarded for doing so. As a result, a lot of Wealthy Affiliate members, while they may be promoting a variety of brands, are also recruiting new Wealthy Affiliate members.

Is it an MLM? We'll leave that up to you to decide, but there are signs that point to “yes.”

How Much Do Users Have to Pay to Use Wealthy Affiliate?

Wealthy Affiliate does offer a free subscription, but the access to their tools and resources is so limited that most people end up opting in for a premium membership. (In fact, the free membership is referred to as a “Starter” membership–the implication that you'll go premium is built right in.)

The free membership will get you:

  • Limited access to training materials and courses
  • 7 days of access to the Wealthy Affiliate community
  • Limited access to website building tools

The premium membership, on the other hand, allows you to use any and all Wealthy Affiliate resources. The first month costs $30. After that, you can pay $49 per month or pay for a discounted 6 month or year long membership, which come out to the equivalent of $30 a month.

Is the Training Worthwhile?

The real question is, is it all worth it?

Some users have noted that the training materials aren't quite up to date anymore. The truth about any kind of digital marketing is that you can never stop learning, because the internet is constantly evolving. If Wealthy Affiliate resource creators aren't updating their materials, you're paying for advice that best case is no longer relevant and worst case can actually harm your business.

That said, are you going to make money using Wealthy Affiliate?

Will You Make Money With Wealthy Affiliate?

This question is not easy to answer. Because Wealthy Affiliate doesn't require members to focus on recruitment-based commissions, they're not really responsible for how you make your money–or how much you make.

According to their website, you won't fail. They promise. Unless you quit.

In other words, Wealthy Affiliate isn't really beholden to you or your success. As far as they're concerned, if you aren't making money yet, you will eventually. If you decide that their products and platform aren't worth the monthly fee, you've failed only because you “quit.”

Get Updated Marketing Resources and Courses With Legendary Marketer

Wealthy Affiliate does tout a number of success stories, and we're certain that many people have learned the ropes of affiliate marketing using their resources and tools. That being said, you'll have to invest on a regular basis to retain your access to Wealthy Affiliate, and it may not be the most affordable option–or the most updated.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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The Ultimate Review of Southwestern Advantage

David Sharpe bio

College students nowadays are tech-savvy and looking for innovative ways to make money over the summer. Some MLM companies market specifically to this demographic, and Southwestern Advantage is one of them–although you won't be using much of your tech knowledge to make a sale.

If you're a college student who has an interest in independent business endeavors and marketing, Southwest Advantage may have an appealing ring. The question is, is it all it's cracked up to be?

As always, Legendary Marketer is here to provide tips and tools for anyone who wants to enter into the field of online business. Today, we're going to look at one of the oldest MLM companies in the country–and one that isn't exactly “online.”

Read on to learn everything you need to know about Southwestern Advantage.

What Is Southwestern Advantage?

Southwestern Advantage is one of the oldest companies we'll likely ever review. We're talking 166 years old. That's right, Southwestern Advantage was founded in 1855, making it arguably the oldest MLM in US history.

What do Southwestern Advantage affiliates sell? The company specializes in educational resources for elementary schoolers, including books and CDs. More recently, they also added a series of subscription-based parenting websites to their inventory.

How Do You Join Southwestern Advantage?

Southwestern Advantage is marketed almost exclusively to college students, particularly those who are looking for ways to cover tuition. Available affiliate positions are seasonal, typically spanning about 12 weeks, and many college students take these positions over the summer. In fact, it would be almost impossible to take on this work during the school year, as affiliates work 12-hour days, 6 days a week.

Once you become a Southwestern Advantage affiliate, you are sent to a specific town (one that has been selected for its population that includes a lot of parents and young children). Southwestern Advantage may set you up with a host family to live with, but this is not a guarantee.

In order to officially join the Southwestern Advantage team, you'll have to supply a “letter of credit” to the company. This must be signed by two legal adults who are willing to provide a financial buffer, and most students have their letters signed by their parents. Before you ask your parents to sign, know that they're agreeing to shell out $500 apiece if your endeavor as a book salesperson doesn't pan out.

Once you're signed up, you'll need to buy a set of books to show to interested parents. At a minimum, this set will cost $350. You'll also attend a week-long training conference in Nashville before you get to work.

How Much Money Are Students Making as Southwestern Advantage Affiliates?

Okay, we know what you're thinking: that's a major investment just to get started. How much do you stand to actually make in return?

One thing that impresses us about Southwestern Advantage is the commission rate. Most MLMs offer a commission rate that ranges between 10-30%. Southwestern Advantage, on the other hand, offers a commission rate of 40%.

According to the Southwestern Advantage website, first-year participants made an average of over $11,000 during their 12-week season. Participants that returned the following year made an average of over $23,000 and by the fifth year, the average was over $72,000.

The trouble with these figures is that they don't tell the whole story. As far as income disclosure statements go, this one is pretty cryptic. After all, averages tend to be skewed by the top sellers–and the top sellers tend to make up a minuscule fraction of the sales force.

What Are the Pros and Cons of Becoming a Southwestern Advantage Affiliate?

Like any MLM, we're not looking at a black and white opportunity, here. There are compelling reasons to become a Southwestern Advantage affiliate, but there are also some obstacles that are worth considering. Let's take a look at the biggest pros and cons.

The Pros

We may not be able to tell you how much most affiliates are making with Southwestern Advantage, but it's clear that there is a possibility of making decent money. Plus, this intensive program (sometimes referred to as an internship) does give college students a chance to test out their skills in sales.

The biggest pro, in our opinion, is the chance to experience something new. The week-long program in Nashville can be a good opportunity to learn and network. Spending a season in a new town is also an unusual and positive experience.

The Cons

Most of the time, one of the big pros of becoming an MLM affiliate is the ability to set your own schedule. Southwestern Advantage expects you to talk to 30 potential customers a day. We weren't exaggerating when we said that you'll be working 12-hour days, 6 days a week. This is pretty much the opposite of setting your own schedule.

Another downside is that Southwestern Advantage is using an outdated sales model. The reality is that while the door-to-door sales technique has its merits, it's not the best way to maximize your marketing skills. Without providing an outlet for digital marketing, Southwestern Advantage isn't giving its affiliates the opportunity to flex a more useful skillset.

Start With Marketing Skills to Build Your Independent Income

At Legendary Marketer, we're all about embracing different marketing opportunities, side hustles, and business endeavors. Southwestern Advantage may be a way for college students to make decent money, but it's lacking one important feature: digital marketing.

If you're a college student who wants to make money now while also learning the digital marketing skills needed to take control of your own future, you've come to the right place. Take advantage of our low-cost online courses that will teach you everything there is to know about digital marketing. Already, over 80,000 budding entrepreneurs have registered for our $7 Online Business Builder Challenge and gained crucial digital marketing skills.

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Beauty MLM: SeneGence Review

David Sharpe bio

Have you been approached by a friend or someone you know to join their SeneGence team? You might be considering selling lipsticks, skincare, makeup, and other beauty products to make some extra money on the side.

Yet, you're probably wondering if SeneGence is a reliable MLM company that will help you start building an income. There are tons of different MLM companies out there that are simply looking for people to shill their products.

Be sure to keep reading for our complete SeneGence review and see if this is a beauty MLM company worth spending your time and effort on.

What is SeneGence?

SeneGence is an MLM company that has been in business for over twenty years. You might think that this makes the company legit as most MLM companies only last about one to three years.

Their slogan, “Products & Career opportunity that work,” helps to empower the people buying and selling their beauty products.

They started with selling lipsticks but have now expanded to broaden the cosmetics they sell. You'll find that the merchandise they sell ranges from makeup to skincare, even anti-aging products.

Products are sold in Australia, Canada, Indonesia, Mexico, New Zealand, Poland, Switzerland, the United Kingdom, and the United States.

Are the Products Worth It?

If you're thinking of joining an MLM company, you'll want to do some investigation into the products you'll be selling. After all, if you're trying to sell to your friends and family, making sure that these are products you can stand behind is crucial.

Unfortunately, a major issue with SeneGence is that their products do not have good ingredients. In their lipsticks, you can find Propylene Glycol and Parabens, which can cause harm to your skin. Many people have reported tingling or burning sensations when using SeneGence products.

Who would want to sell or use products that can cause irritation?

If you want to dive deeper into product research, you can check out the reviews left by real customers. While there are good reviews, you'll see that SeneGence does not work well for many people.

Joining SeneGence as a Seller

Joining direct marketing companies can still have some sense of appeal since you feel like you can become successful at being your own boss. If you're wondering how you can join SeneGence, you're going to have to find someone to sponsor you. Your sponsor is someone that already works for the company and sells products.

Just like an MLM company, you'll need to spend money before you can even get started. Starter kits right now cost $65 but are valued at $131. Your distributor kit includes a guide to help you get started, checklists, beauty books, and testers. You'll also get a website so you can start selling products online.

You can even upgrade your starter kit so that you can get more products to show for demonstration. By having more products to demonstrate, it could be easier to help sell products to potential customers. If you're looking to have access to more of SeneGence products, you could be looking at paying $1,000+ for the ultimate starter pack.

Don't forget you will also need to pay a monthly fee to keep selling SeneGence. That means you'll always be paying the company money and trying to make it back in the process.

Selling SeneGence Products

When it comes to selling for SeneGence, you'll find that it is a very basic formula. You will sell the products and receive a commission. Unlike a lot of other MLM companies that offer tons of random bonuses for doing certain things each month.

The commissions received on products can be anywhere from 25% to 100% on products you purchase. The more products you sell, the more commission you will make.

Many people that work with SeneGence have found out it is better to have the products readily available to potential customers as they will make more money. Yet, that means more money out of your pocket. You also need to think of the drawbacks if you aren't able to sell certain products that you've already purchased.

There are ways for customers to purchase through your website, but you'll find that your commissions won't be as high when customers buy products this way.

Making money by selling SeneGence isn't impossible, yet it is going to take a lot of time and dedication. You'll also need to know a lot of people who are interested in makeup and skincare.

Recruiting New Members to Join SeneGence

One thing you need to know about SeneGence is that it is a multi-level marketing company meaning there are different levels that you need to go through to make more money.

One way that you can grow within the company to receive a higher income is by recruiting new members to join SeneGence. You'll become their sponsor and earn commissions each time they sell products.

The more people you can recruit to sell SeneGence, the more money you will make. You'll even be offered bonuses when you've reached a certain number of distributors and sales.

Yet, what happens when you run out of friends and family to sell products or recruit? One way that many people find success when joining an MLM company is through social media. Building a social media account, whether it is on Instagram, Facebook, or another platform, can help you expand your audience and find potential customers and distributors that want to join your ranks.

SeneGence Review: Should You Join?

The bottom line, if you're deciding between joining SeneGence or not, is that it probably isn't worth it. The company itself is legit, yet it is going to be difficult to keep up with finding new distributors and selling products.

Using our SeneGence review, you can see the pros and cons of working for an MLM company and decide for yourself. You might be spending more money and time than what you can make from working with the company.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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The Story of Keith Raniere and NXIVM

David Sharpe bio

You've probably heard of NXIVM because it's made major headlines recently. It inspired productions like the Vow, Seduced: Inside the NXIVM Cult, and others.

But, how did NXIVM fail as an MLM company? What happened? Let's go through what NXIVM was, and what caused its downfall.

Keep reading to find out what you should know.

What Was NXIVM?

NXIVM was a multilevel marketing company, founded by Keith Raniere. He had previously started several pyramid schemes, including Consumers’ Buyline Inc and National Health Network, but none of them succeeded. He had previously been involved in multi-level marketing businesses such as Amway.

Raniere eventually stumbled on the idea for NXIVM, which provided executive success programs to entrepreneurs and the elite. The program was founded in 1990, as the Executive Success Program. NXIVM was a self-improvement program, that meant to help people achieve their goals and overcome their fears, among other goals.

How Did NXIVM Work?

Many members were recruited into these programs, and people gave large amounts of money to support NXIVM and allow it to expand. Because the group was invitation-only, it gave off a feeling of exclusivity that allowed it to attract more people. Once a person began taking courses, they would recruit their friends or influential people they knew to take courses as well.

The more classes you took as a part of NXIVM, the further you moved up in their rankings. The group distributed different colored sashes, based on the level you achieved at the company.

You could also get stripes between sashes, as you would as a child taking karate classes. The levels possible were student, coach, proctor, senior proctor, counselor, and senior counselor.

Of course, you had to pay to take the classes, which is a major part of how NXIVM made its money.

NXIVM also offered intensive programs, which could last five days, eleven days, a week, or two weeks. At these programs, days would last around 13 hours each day. NXIVM classes were held all over North America, including in various different cities in Mexico and Canada.

As people went through the program, they would be able to coach other people below them in the hierarchy — for a price, of course.

That makes it distinct from more successful multi-level-marketing companies, such as Tupperware, which recruit anyone regardless of their status and use affiliate marketing to produce more awareness of their products.

How Did NXIVM Fail?

NXIVM's problems weren't so much based on its business plan. NXIVM has powerful financial backers such as Seagram's heiresses Clare and Sara Bronfman. In fact, NXIVM probably would have lasted much longer, if it hadn't been for its major criminal and legal issues.

NXIVM is actually rather unique when it comes to multi-level marketing disasters — to put it bluntly, most MLM companies aren't also sex cults. Within NXIVM, there was a secret, exclusive sub-organization called DOS (otherwise known as the Vow) that only young women were inducted into.

Members of DOS were abused by NXIVM's leadership, which ultimately lead to NXIVM'S downfall. To put it bluntly, many members were coerced into sexual relations with Keith Raniere and/or other members of NXIVM's leadership.

DOS was just one of the sub-organizations of NXIVM. There were also men's-specific groups, groups for yoga, and the like. DOS was notable for the abusive conduct it entailed, which has been detailed in various articles, documentaries, and court documents.

Lessons to Learn From NXIVM

The main lesson people should learn from NXIVM is pretty obvious: don't start a sex cult within your multi-level marketing business. While you may want to work with people from other countries, it's important not to commit visa fraud in order to do so.

However, there are other lessons you can learn from NXIVM which may be more applicable. Casting a wide net and allowing lots of different people to be a part of your business tends to be a more sustainable business model, in the long run.

Professional image production was an important part of NXIVM. But, you need the substance to back up the style. Make sure that you always have a strong business plan when you're putting together your business, with backup options should you run into any problems.

NXIVM also used various forms of immigration fraud to subvert the laws and manipulate its members. While that may be a good way to cut costs, it's certainly very illegal to lie on the visa paperwork. So, no matter how much you want to save money, you'll probably want to stay away from committing crimes.

Where Is NXIVM Today?

NXIVM founder Keith Raniere, along with members Allison Mack, Nancy Salzman, Clare Bronfman, Kathy Russell, and Lauren Salzman, were all charged with crimes in association with their NXIVM involvement.

In October of 2020, Raniere was sentenced to life in prison for sex trafficking, conspiracy, and other charges. Clare Bronfman was sentenced to six years and nine months in prison for her crimes. Other members have pleaded guilty and are currently waiting for sentencing.

While some members of NXIVM remain, the group has mostly disintegrated, and its major financial and multi-level marketing activities have ended.

How Did NXIVM Fail as an MLM Company? Now You Know

Clearly, NXIVM had some major issues that caused it to fail as an MLM company. But, it still works as a great cautionary tale when you're trying to get your own business off the ground.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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MLM Company: All About Neways

David Sharpe bio

Did you know that the health and wellness industry is projected to reach a value of $4.24 billion by 2026? We're always going to need to keep our bodies in good shape, so it's clear that this market is here to stay. If you're not already working in this industry, then perhaps it's time to consider a career change!

One way how people are getting into the health and wellness market is through multilevel marketing (MLM) companies, such as Neways.

What is Neways and can you also get in on this lucrative industry by joining this MLM company? Read on for a thorough Neways review.

What Is Neways?

Neways actually first started off as Images and Attitudes in 1987 by owners Thomas and Leslie Mower. They only became Neways in 1992 and as of 2015, this company actually has the name of Modere.

This company offers safe and eco-friendly personal care products, which many consumers seek out. Mainly, there are 4 types of products Modere offers:

  • Collagen supplements
  • Food supplements (such as vitamins)
  • Personal care products
  • Home care products

One of their most popular products is a bundle called M3 Body System. It focuses on weight loss and provides users with supplements that help you burn more calories, suppress your appetite, and improve digestion.

How Does Modere Work?

Neways is no different from any other MLM company. Their business model has 2 parts: direct selling of products and creating downlines (the MLM part).

Their distributors can choose to sell the above products to consumers. Or they can choose to recruit others to become distributors too.

When it comes to MLMs, what makes Neways unique is their use of social retail. In fact, some say they're the first MLM company to use this concept in their business strategy.

What is social retail though? This is where distributors (and clients at times) are given rewards when they share their personal product experiences on social media. Neways rewards for social retail include both cash and reward points.

Is Modere a Scam?

Modere is not a scam. While many don't agree with the business practices of MLM companies, they're completely legal.

However, keep in mind that this company has gone through several rebrands. This is never a good sign, as it means that previous brand names were so tainted they had to start all over with new ones.

In fact, one of Neways's weight loss products was recalled by the FDA in 1993 since it had harmful ingredients. Also, in 2003, Neways tried to sell an anti-aging dietary supplement that had human growth hormone (HGH), which was illegal since HGH is prescription-only. The Mowers were also convicted of tax evasion in 2006.

As of the rebranding in 2015 to Modere, there hasn't been any scandals associated with this name. However, we'd still be careful.

How to Join Modere

To join Modere, you have to become a Social Marketer. This means paying $29.95 to buy their distributor kit.

The above is just the bare minimum to join Modere. If you're more serious about distributing on a full-time basis, there are also the Builder Collection Packages, which cost $399 each. The 4 packages are Pro Fitness, Pro Collagen, Pro Skin Care, and Ultimate Pro.

How to Make Money Through Modere

One way of earning money through Modere is by directly selling their products. However, this takes a lot of effort and the payoff is alright.

The main way that people make money through Modere (and any MLM) is through recruiting. This generates a stream of passive income with relatively little effort.

Modere has several compensation plans available for its distributors. The first is the customer acquisition bonus, where you can get up to 60% per customer on their first orders, as well as up to 25% for re-orders.

The exact percentage depends on how high up you are in the ranks. You start off as a Promoter, then move onto Bronze, Silver, Gold, Platinum, then Platinum 1, 2, and 3.

In addition, you can earn various bonuses and incentives. They include free products and even trips!

Do People Make Money From Modere?

Yes, people make money from Modere.

But the real questions should be these: how much do they make? And how many people actually turn a profit?

If you take a look at Modere's income disclosure statement (which is very similar to all other MLMs), around 63% of Modere distributors earn $200 or less. Just 2.38% of distributors make over $10,000, 1.19% make over $20,000, and just 0.23% people make over $50,000. As you can see, very few people can turn a good profit from Modere.

The only real way to make money from Neways and any MLM company is to have extensive experience in networking and sales. And as you can tell by the statistics, the people good at these things are far and few.

The truth is, you need to start early in marketing to really get anywhere with MLMs companies. Otherwise, you'll be spending a good deal of time trying to figure out how to market products and failing in the process. To be a top MLM earner, you must be adept at reaching large audiences.

Try Out Affiliate Marketing Instead of an MLM Company

After reading up about Modere (or Neways), it should be clear that joining an MLM company is a high-risk decision that comes with very low-value rewards. For most people, becoming a distributor isn't worth their time, especially since they end up losing money.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Neal’s Yard Remedies: Legit MLM or Marketing Scam?

David Sharpe bio

In 2018, it was reported that the sale of organic products reached over $50 billion in the United States, alone. As more consumers become concerned with what's in the food they eat and the products they put on their skin, the organic market is going to continue to explode.

Back in 1981, Romy Fraser anticipated this growing interest in organic products in the UK. She launched what was originally a small business but grew over the decades to become a successful MLM company. That company is Neal's Yard Remedies.

If you're hoping to get ahead of the curve with the organic products trend, becoming an affiliate of Neal's Yard Remedies may seem like the way to go. Is it all that it's cracked up to be?

At Legendary Marketer, our goal is to provide new entrepreneurs with the tips and tools they need to succeed in a digital world. Now, we're going to take a look at Neal's Yard Remedies. Read on to learn more about this organic wellness company.

What Is Neal's Yard Remedies?

Neal's Yard Remedies is a family-owned organic wellness company that uses direct sales to sustain the business. In their words, they are a modern apothecary on a mission to help consumers heal both inside and out. They offer a well-curated line of products for skincare, aromatherapy, bathing, and overall wellness.

Today, Neal's Yard Remedies is owned by the Kindersley family. In 2009, the family decided to expand the company by opening sales to affiliates, thereby turning the company into an international MLM.

Is Neal's Yard Remedies a Legit Opportunity?

Admittedly, Neal's Yard Remedies has had their fair share of issues. For example, as recently as 2018, the company ran into legal trouble with the state of California for failing to disclose the presence of lead and cadmium in some of its products. Seeing these kinds of issues can be offputting, but the truth is that most businesses hit these kinds of roadblocks from time to time.

So, is Neal's Yard Remedies a scam? Or is it a legit opportunity?

We're here to tell you that Neal's Yard Remedies is not a scam. It's not an illegal pyramid scheme. It is a tried and true MLM, and there are some compelling reasons to join the sales team. These reasons include:

  • Selling products with a generally positive reputation
  • Earning a commission to boost your income
  • Practicing your skills as an independent entrepreneur and marketer
  • Setting your own hours of operation
  • Learning more about the needs of your market and how to meet them

With these kinds of opportunities, it's not surprising that the company has done well while expanding to more countries.

How Much Can You Make Selling Neal's Yard Remedies Products?

When you become a Neal's Yard Remedies affiliate, it's a lot like investing in your own small business. The upside is that you don't have to put in the work to research and create new products. Your job is to find new markets for Neal's Yard Remedies products and bring in money for both the company and yourself.

First, you'll pay between $100 and $123 to begin your membership as an affiliate. Then, you'll make an additional purchase to receive your starter pack for $59. From there, you'll be able to continue purchasing Neal's Yard Remedies products at their wholesale price and selling them at their suggested retail value provided by the company.

How much can you make doing this? Neal's Yard Remedies offers a 25% commission on retail sales. You can also earn a commission off of sales made by members of your downstream that you have personally recruited. If your team hits certain incentives or milestones, you may also earn bonuses, although these are often difficult to achieve.

It's hard to say exactly how much you stand to make selling Neal's Yard Remedies products, as the company does not provide a public income disclosure statement. (If you've looked through our reviews of other MLM companies, you probably know that we're a big fan of income disclosure statements. Not being able to find one can feel like a bit of a red flag.)

So, if we had to guess, would we predict that you're going to get rich quick with Neal's Yard Remedies? Not quite.

Why Won't I Get Rich Quick With Neal's Yard Remedies?

Like all MLM companies, the allure comes from the possibility of making a boatload of money while working on your own time. However, expectations and realities don't often align in this line of work. Why is that?

No matter how good the products are, your ability to make money with an MLM comes down to your ability to reach an ever-growing consumer market. There are more organic wellness companies now than ever before, so the competition is steep. Plus, as an affiliate, the stakes can be high once you start investing your own money into these products.

The best way to approach any independent business endeavor is to harness the power of online marketing. When you know how to reach consumers and build a trusting relationship with them online, you gain the potential to reach thousands–millions, even–of people all over the country or the world.

In the end, Neal's Yard Remedies isn't going to provide you with the in-depth training you need to really achieve your financial goals. So, where can you learn how to market your business online?

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Neal's Yard Remedies isn't a scam and it's not a pyramid scheme. It's an MLM company offering a legitimate opportunity to individuals who are looking to start selling organic wellness products on their own time. The only problem is that if you don't know how to market yourself and your products, you stand to lose money on your investment, rather than see a real profit.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome, welcome, welcome to Legendary Marketer in our Wake Up Legendary show, this morning we have a fun and interesting gentlemen, we're going to be talking to from Oklahoma. Okay, and I'm excited to hear Brett's story and how he's been achieving the results that he's achieving and learn everything that we can from him so Brett, what's going on my man welcome to the show.

Brett: Hey Dave, thanks. I'm honored to be here, it's certainly my pleasure.

Dave: Hey man, I, I'm honored to have you man, so you're, you've got a lot of interesting cool things about you. You're, were a general manager for a large electronics retailer founding partner and a fishing tackle business. And also, you're an avid vintage Volkswagen enthusiast Right, absolutely no other car. Wow, so how many, how many Volkswagens Do you have, so is that like Like, like, buses, is that like bugs, are those the main ones that you're enthusiastic about?

Brett:  I've owned all of them except for the Froilan which is like a little pantry truck and a fastback. I've never had a fastback Volkswagen but I've had buses, bugs. You know, I've had a lot of them. I just it's just a hobby of mine. I love them.

Dave: It's interesting when you get into the hobby. I would say that I've started my first hobby, just recently with watches. Are you, are you a watch guy at all?

Brett: No, but I have a buddy that is like a watch fanatic and that's all he talks about.

So it's just weird how you, I don't know man, I guess. Personally I've never, and this is kind of weird to say, I've never really had a hobby before. It's always been, because I can't really call my business a hobby because it's been a business, right, I played sports when I was young, but for the last kind of 10 years, I've really just worked, you know, and I feel like I'm just kind of getting to this place in life to where I'm starting to kind of enjoy things that are just related to building a business, or having a family, and, and, in watches is kind of my, my first kind of real I would say real serious hobby so when did you, I'm just curious, when did you get started as a, as a with Volkswagens as your hobby, look around like what age and what got you started in that just just a nutshell and then we'll get into the marketing stuff, yeah sure I was 1978. I got my first Beatle. That started it, it was a crazy girl where I was growing up, from Southern California. Yeah. And so all my buddies had bugs or buses or whatever and just bled from one thing and all of a sudden I found myself just obsessing over the whole vintage course in the early 70s, or late 70s It hadn't been done back then. It was just Volkswagen but now of course vintage and I love you know the community that are with vintage Volkswagens. I'm in many groups on Facebook, which helps me with my business that I'm doing now. So yeah, that's great.

Dave: Well awesome so, how did you find us? And what brought you online, and tell us a little bit about how you got started in the nutshell version of your story.

Brett: Sure. Mine's probably a typical story where you know you work long, hard hours. As a general manager electronics company I was responsible for upwards of 200 people, millions of dollars in merchandise customers you know the whole thing. My time wasn't really my own and although that's my choice you know I was, I had a company efficient company as you mentioned, and that's still going, and it does really well today it's just, you know, it's just not a big company and makes enough money for my partner so he he's young, he's doing, he's a face company. And it wasn't until 2014 that I just found out that I was on the wrong track for my life and what I wanted to achieve for me and my family. We had a tragic event happen at one of my locations and the way my company handled it was just wasn't good. And so that started me like, what, what do I need to do to get out of this, and spend more time with my family and I did a number of things with regards to the internet you know early on, doing a blog and trying social media just nothing really worked. I didn't really dedicate enough time to it. Yeah. And then I just remember waking up last year one day and said you know what, enough is enough, I've got to, I got to change or it's gonna put me in my grave, and that's when I found Legendary through. Oh, he's a pastor. 

Dave: Jake? 

Bett: Yes, yes. And I just like the way he delivered his comments and how he spoke to the opportunity and I jumped on board underneath his links and fortune to do so. However, 2020 had other plans for me. It was a difficult year, to say the least. I was fortunate though that we didn't lose anybody in our family due to pandemic, but both my father and my oldest son, were in the hospital almost back to back, my dad had a heart attack, and my oldest son had a TBI that we were dealing with a military traffic accident actually, while in the military. So that derailed my plans. And so everything went to the sideline until I walked away from my job. In April of this year, I just left. I turned my keys instead of done, focused, I focused on doing this. I believed in myself and fortunately I had a great platform to help me with that. And I was amazed at the response when you start talking about opportunity. And it's just been a blessing ever since.

Dave: So that was April and you've kind of been. It would say that you're. There's no turning back now?

Brett: Oh I’m committed 100,000% And I'm not, there is no, no, No more salary for me it's going to be me making my own way. And it's just, it's just a good feeling, you know, I mean I felt good guys it's an honorable thing to have a job obviously you know you provide for your family, it's a good thing. But there is no feeling, at least to me, like Friday morning that you get that, you know, the email that was coming to you. And, and that you did that, you, you created that source of income and it's such a. It's almost elation kind of a feeling, you know,

Dave: Yeah, I mean that's I was, I just kicked off another training for our blueprint clients and I said, I mentioned my first check, which was, you know that I had earned basically as an entrepreneur, and it came from a company that I was associated or an affiliate for, and it was for $2.50, but the way that I reacted to that check you would have thought it was like five.

Brett: Yeah absolutely whenever sent I think my first one was like $2.80 cent one and I feel you man that was. That's right, exactly how I felt.

Dave: Yeah, like I can do this. Sure, right, it becomes real, it's it's it's real and then you. Then, it was a physical check that came in the mail. I had to actually take it to the bank and deposit it just to make sure that it was, It was real, it was an actual check and they took it. And I was like, Hey, we're good, you know, $2 into the bank, investing back into my business. So I did the same thing, I, I, I didn't turn in my keys and quit my job but I did kind of say, I'm done with construction. My dad and I were working together kind of going from job to job as sort of independent contractors and I just kinda was like, I'm done. You know, I'm just going to focus 100% I'm not gonna focus on getting any more jobs doing any more jobs, I'm done. I'm just gonna focus 100% on this, and it was scary, and it was probably much more scary for you being so close to, I would think retirement and, and, and, I don't know if you gave up anything but my question is, is, is, I can't recommend that people do that because that's not, that's that wouldn't be a responsible thing for me to do an honorable job, but it is an honorable thing to have a job, and I also believe that how you do one thing is how you do everything so if you're, if you're, if you're really, you know, if you're really kind of just dropping the ball at your job it's not likely that you're going to step into your own business and just start crushing it. So I would say that before you quit if any of you guys are considering quitting. Make sure you know, kind of, kind of evaluate yourself or have somebody else, others evaluate you to say where really am I am I do I got potential does this company want to promote me? Have I climbed a ladder as high as I can go like am I crushing it or am I just barely getting by. Am I quitting before they fire me? But I do want to ask you, do you think that kind of cutting the umbilical cord cutting the anchor right so now all of a sudden you have to make it to the other side of the ocean. Do you think that sort of, I guess, eliminating your backup plan did something to mentally in was a catalyst for you to start getting bigger results in your business.

Brett: I think that's absolutely true. And that's the reason why I walked away and you're right I don't recommend it. Even on my social media I tell people I don't recommend you, you do what I did, it was a drastic measure. Yeah. And I just had to do it though, I mean I felt that I wasn't given the time to do what I wanted to achieve outside of work with my quote unquote side hustle.  And you know, I haven't been full with my money. I've stuck it away and my whole plan was to listen. I'm going to give this thing a shot, turn my keys in my plan to tap into my 401k Until I, you know, as a cushion. Until I achieved three months away from it I'm three months into it almost and I haven't had to one time, because of the opportunity that, that you and your company has provided me, and it is. That is just a good feeling. I talked about new regulations. You know I didn't have to tap into that at all I just, I'm able to get income that I needed to make for my family and it's just been awesome.

Dave: Yeah. I would also, I would also say, I'm going to ask you this too but I can certainly say living below your means, is incredibly important for the first. While in your business. I know, I know I just mentioned, a watch hobby. Well, I can tell you that there was, there was, there was nine years of this business to where I didn't really buy anything. I bought a house from my family and I had some nice cars. I did have a watch or two along the way, I'm not saying that I didn't have a watch I remember buying my first Rolex down in St. Thomas in 2013 or something. But I wasn't collecting you know what I mean like I was, I wasn't, I wasn't going out and spending silly money on stuff and going out to dinner all the time and buying the most expensive car and remodeling my house and all this kind of stuff like I wasn't. I was living below my means and I really realized how much I was living below my means. Looking back on it. You said you stash somewhere, can you just you, obviously you've been somewhat smart with your, with your money, Can you talk to you from your perspective, some advice for, for early entrepreneurs about actually think about money and how to what is what is being smart with money, especially early in a business mean to you.

Brett: Well you have to understand what the long game is right. If you live for today and today only that could get you in trouble down the road. And I, how can I, you know, it's just knowing what particularly having a younger family I'm an older man with a younger family. You know that kind of helped me make the decisions I made. I left the military when I was 35, and didn't have a penny saved to my name. And I met my wife 25 years ago my current wife 25 years ago and she's helped me really think about our futures you know I had someone I felt that my future is with and she is my soulmate and, yeah, so her and I together really without her probably wouldn't be where I am today because the support that she offers like conversations and having like said I have, I have four or five children, my older sons married, have three children still here at the house, and you know we're looking out for their future and the only way to do that is make sure that we were financially. Steady. Yeah. How old are your kids? I have a 29 year old, and a 17 year old. She'll be 17 on the Fourth of July, and then a 15 year old and a 13 year old.

Dave: Okay, so you don't have, you don't have super young kids?

Brett: No No No

Dave: Okay, I was like holy shit because I feel tired, you know, and, and I'm looking at you like do you have young kids do I need to stop complaining?

Brett: No, I remember the day that we didn't have to buy any more diapers, it was like Yeah, yeah, but no they're not. They're not that young. Okay. All right, good. So back to complaining again. You maximize if you have the opportunity, what if you have a matching fund and 401k Wherever you're working right now is something that I took advantage of to maximize what we did without like you said, You did without your hobbies for so long. I did the same thing. I could have owned multiple Volkswagens. Instead I chose to buy, Volkswagen, you know, lithographs and little key chains and if you look behind me you might even see a couple of little toy buses up there on my bookshelf.

Dave: You know a toy bus is a much smarter decision. Right. 

Brett: Oh, I absolutely want one too.

Dave: I have a 21 year old and he wants to get a bus and wants to drive it around the country and all that so it's kind of cool.

Brett: That's good. So, you, you're now kind of into action mode your marketing, you've been at this now for a few months you're getting results you're spending a lot of time, I guess on TikTok, is that right is that you have a couple of other platforms and channels but you seem to be, you're on Facebook, you're on YouTube, but, but you also are on TikTok. Can you talk us through a little bit about kind of what you've been doing that's been getting you some of the best results, honest and transparent, not pretending to be something I'm not, you know, at least I tried to think as to why I'm counting for us. You know I can't, I can't help how people perceive me but I tried to be as transparent and honest as I can. I think that helps. Tick tock, she certainly was a game changer. You know, I think that's been talked about and talked about and talked about, you know, and I think it's just scratching the surface truthfully. And I am expanding into the other platforms, you know here lately it's been YouTube. I'm really diving into YouTube and starting to work that angle. I feel like I've got a really good handle on TikTok. I'm into organic growth and Jonathan Montoya has been a huge influence on that. Another legendary marketer has had a lot of success and, Yeah.

Dave: And it's just started out here start Jonathan started out here and really took off in one of our content challenges that we did, but a year and a half ago, we did a 30 day content challenge and he kind of, he was hungry, hungry guy could tell, but that was kind of when he, his business just started to explode. Yeah. So it's been interesting to watch guys like that kind of grow as seeds here planted in our soil and then sprout off in the real, real, you know, real, real pretty solid and serious marketers.

Brett: You know you can't I just, I hold him such a high regard because of, you know how he's handled himself and his business and its influence what I'm doing, you know, and I think Pinterest is another up and coming one that I take advantage of,

Dave: I know I know well we're working on releasing some, some really powerful training around that because it's, I think it's I think it's as powerful as TikTok in certain respects it's untapped. Obviously, you're Are you, are you into that yet. Are you just wanting to go,

I got a few pins up on my business account that I have is slowly getting traction. You know views go first then clicks and works that way so if you're, if you're doing TikTok content there is absolutely no reason why you can't do a Pinterest pin because you can transfer that video over to pin to Pinterest and catch people's attention. Spread the news.

Dave: Yeah so, I noticed that your tic tock handle was, was, was, was, uh, I thought it was coach Brett. Where'd I get that Twitter, Twitter, okay. Yeah. Where the hell I got that from.

I don't know, that was a good one though but that's Twitter because I, I was a personal trainer for a while, coming out of the military and that's where I picked it up and, and helping veterans, was my goal. And so I help. I helped people that needed my help and it wasn't anything I was trying to get money on. I just wanted to share whatever I could with the people that gave everything to me.

Dave: So, for sure man, for sure. And you were in the military to write, didn't you say that, yeah, you spent 10 years in the Air Force, thank you for your service brother,

Brett: My pleasure. Happy to do it, and it was a great experience.

Dave: Yeah, I, a lot of my uncles, almost every one of my uncle's including my father and my stepfather were both all in service so 

Brett: Such an honorable thing to do. 

Dave: Yeah, for sure, for sure. So, the coach Brett thing it just got me thinking, you know, because you said honesty and transparency is kind of what, if I say I said what's worked for you, and you were like well honesty and transparency and the biggest challenge that so many people have when they're starting out no matter what niche they're working in. A lot of times we just talk about the make money online niche because because it people are new and they just get into the make money online niche it seems they were a person that was looking to make money online so then they get into that niche but it doesn't matter what niche you're in, whether it's dog training parenting whether it's health, diabetes, birthing, whatever. When it's, there's an adjustment to, to, even if you're taking a little bit of knowledge that you have or hell, even if you're a full blown expert, and you've gotten paid for it. In other, you know the circumstances. Now all of a sudden taking in going online and filming yourself, or writing posts with authority and with confidence is the thing that like most people struggle with, and they can infer me. I know that confidence just speaks with confidence, even if you don't know what you're talking about. I'm serious dude, because two people can sit down at the table man in a business deal, usually the one that's the more confident one the more conviction is going to be going to close the other person on whatever. Okay, so that's why I say it's kind of like golf dude, you know, like my dad always said, A, you know, no matter how you play as long as you can look good, like out on the golf course. That's why guys buy clubs and clothes and all this different kind of shit because they're trying to compensate for their shitty game. Dude, I started in 2020 I started playing golf, quite a bit with, with my father in law, my dad and my stepdad, and I like the first thing I would have normally done right is gone out and bought a nice pair of clubs, I'm going to do this, but I made the commitment that I'm going to play with shitty clubs. These clubs that I've had for over 10 years, and they are the worst clubs in the history of the universe. They are so bad. And I was like if I can't play with these, then I'm in if I can't get excited about the game, I'm not going to go spend a couple $1,000 on a new pair of clubs, because it doesn't, you know, it's not going to change my game, I'm still going to suck whether I got bad gloves are good, but, but if you to see if you see me walk out onto the golf course Brett, man I got swagger, until I hit the ball. If you were to watch me just operate out there walking in the way sometimes I look at the ball and I get down and I find the right angle of the dangle and all this shit. But then I but then I actually hit the ball and it's like oh my god, this guy is this guy. But when I look confident doing it, my question is, like, How have you tracked, how have you found confidence to speak about what you're speaking about on the internet, and actually get people to follow you and listen to?

Brett: Well I think one of the benefits of being in. First of all, my first career in the military and then secondly into the retails at one I had to speak to large groups, 1000s of people and on occasions. And so I mean that helps with the ability to deliver a message. And I just, I just think that consistency, as long as if they're seeing, you have a consistent message in a consistent way. People are more likely to tune in, you know if I'm saying something different every time I'm on whatever platform, then I lose credibility, and that would be the death of my business anyway. So I try to stay consistent and. And when you get that first positive response, off of whatever platform you might be on such a boost, you know it's a confirmation that you're on the right track. And then you take, you know the trolls for granted and you just kind of push them aside. You can't let them get in your head, you celebrate them. Well actually it's funny you say that because I have this thing, my wife whenever I get a troll we kind of share that what they what they say and have a laugh about it but, you know, people want to do what they want to do but nothing is going to do rail, what I've started.

Dave: So, if somebody who doesn't have a previous experience of talking to people like you do, what what I mean if you were, if you didn't have that experience you're revising somebody who's brand new, because I just really feel that such an important part, I mean really, people remember only 10% of what you say anyways that's been proven and 90%, of how you make them feel right. So confidence in the energy that you have in project is really important in your communication so what so what would you say to somebody who is brand new, who doesn't have that experience, how could they, how could they, how could they work on, and eventually adopt some of that confidence to be able to, you know, gain people's trust and just to get people to know because again people listen to people that they feel know what they're talking about or believe in what they're talking about. Right. Even if you don't know what you're talking about you actually believe what you're saying. Because you don't believe what you're saying and you're trying to get me to believe it, that we have a problem. I mean, since I'm answering my question. I just want your perspective on it as well.

Brett: I think that you can't compare yourself to anybody. I see that as a big mistake from people who are starting out, that they see someone who might have been in the game for a while and say they're making, they're doing this awesome stuff in their business. Look at me. I can't even get anybody to view my videos, we can look at that, that is, that is a quick way to get to a dead end street, you know, so I would recommend that one, you set a goal, somewhere that could be a small goal I'm going to do a video a day on tick tock. For this week, and I'm going to show you how that comes out and my messages that are always going to be positive, and they're going to be angled to what's going to of course benefit my business but I'm going to deliver content that's going to be of value to my audience. And as long as you stick to that, no matter what platform you're on, I believe there are people out there, they're going to resonate with your message that you're trying to deliver. 

Dave: You gotta, you gotta just, you gotta wait, you got to hang in there until he finds your tribe and your tribe finds you.

Brett: Exactly. It's not like you going okay I'm on, I'm in business and people are following you, you have to build that audience.

Dave: Yeah, I almost I almost get a little bit worried for people who have kind of massive success with a piece of content right out of the gate, because it can give false expectations that that's what it's like every time it's kind of like a drug addict who gets you get you get super high. The first time you ever use it. And then you're always sort of chasing that high versus building up to it, a TikTok, you said is a game changer. In, and guys I just want to remind you like always do for many years, many people have been successful online without tick tock. Without TikTok, building, running ads, building YouTube channels. You know, cultivating email lists from organic Facebook marketing YouTube marketing again running ads, we got David dill, talked about Twitter. We've got just a couple of people on Twitter who are really kind of doing big things we've not even as a community, I think really tapped into Twitter. Yeah. So, it is a game changer. You think it's just getting started, what are your predictions for the rest of the year really and then maybe in the 2022 And what are your goals, what do you specifically see like what is your predictions for kind of the marketplace and how the world, because you know a lot of people have come online after 2020 Right so, is, you know, at one time any of us who were talking about making money online were just a bunch of scam artists and now everybody's beating down our door saying, I need to make money online as well. Funny Oh pandemic and make that happen. What's your prediction about the marketplace in terms of, do you think that, like, we're in this early stage before there's going to be a bass like everybody's going to come online and be trying to work from home and making money online or do you think things are going to level one. I mean, it's kind of an opportunity question for the people who are listening. Is this actually an opportunity that you should seize now or will it still be here in five years, etc.

Brett: I think five years from now, if man is just going to be a whole different world on, You know, doing what we do, because if you look at companies that are automating right. I think that what we see now is just the beginning of where companies are going, you know, the company's main objective is to have that bottom line look sweet actually tooling pay out their constituents whether it's investors themselves employees benefit share the tighter that gets the more automated we become as, as a society, and I think if you don't see that coming. You need to open your eyes and you need to prepare, you know it's, it's not like a doomsday thing it's just something that the more prepared you are for that to come. Then, the better off you're going to be in the future and I'm not, I'm not trying to bring everybody down on this but it's happening. I mean, I saw online the other day I think it was McDonald's that had a burger, automated burger flipper. I know it was, it was one of those arms you normally see in a factory building cars and this thing's flipping burgers man.

Dave: Well, Dude, think about it, I mean, any robot could build a better cook, a better burger than I can't. I'm so ignorant I actually touch the top of a hot grill one time I mean I'm like a total Klutz in the kitchen. And I just, I would much rather have a robot cook and I burger than me cook and my burger any day, you know what I mean. But, but that's how companies view things you're absolutely right, so if you think your job is secure. You've got another thing come in because, you know, it's all, it's a it's a, it's a corporate family until it's not

Brett: true and you know in my, in my world retail world they, they make it sexy, they call it operating model changes, an operating model changes means that people are losing their jobs. Right, they're reorganizing and people are going away. And it's necessary in business, I get that tough choices have to be made. I had to make a lot. I had to deliver a lot of bad news to a lot of people. And, and this is just a way to ensure that I don't you know I personally don't have to do that anymore and hopefully people will see that there's an opportunity that if that happens to them, the world's not coming to an end, you have a choice. Now, get into this digital world. I'm telling you it will change and change your life.

Dave: Well, it's nice to see, and I'm not trying to age you here but it's nice to see people of all different ages man you know what I mean like of all different, I mean, you we got, we got, we got a, literally, 18 to 80 within our community. I mean it's incredible man, how many different age groups and demographics and different countries and different backgrounds coming from doctors, lawyers, construction workers stay at home dads stay at home moms. It's fascinating and, again, my opinion is 2020 was a warning shot for everyone to wake up, and many did, and many went online and figured out creative ways to make money or maybe they did something offline. Right. I mean some people just got checks from the government, which is fine, and, you know, that's, that's, that's not going to make you comfortable, that's not going to make you. That's not going to make this not going, that's not sustainable. It was something that may have helped you or your family out if, if, if, if it did great. But it's not a good thing to rely on. And, and, and you know it was a warning shot though it was a warning shot for people to, to come online or to kind of realize that not just I could lose my job is something crazy like a pandemic could hit. And if, you know, if, if you guys think those of you who are listening right now think that it's going to be another 100 years before our next pandemic. I don't, I don't believe that, I think, I think the way that technology and science and people who are not good people out there who want to take America out and want to take other people out or believe the same way that they believe. I believe there's going to be other things that are going to pop up that it's going to be in your best interest to be completely independent from needing to go anywhere to be connected to a job to an office to accompany reliant on anyone, including the government for a paycheck, and to be able to stay home and the safety of your home if you need to, and not have your income interrupted because you can be doing business and receiving money from people all over the world would you agree with that 100% Spot on. Yeah, this person to rely on is yourself. And yourself, get it, yeah. And you know what a lot of people say that like I Are we got lucky in 2020 You said it was a tough year. Well, hopefully next time it comes around, it won't be a tough year for you because preparation will have met opportunity. And for me it just so happened, not because I'm smarter it's honestly because I stumbled on this because I didn't have a career I stumbled on the internet marketing I got started. 10 years preparation meet opportunity. Everybody came online at 20. We had one of our biggest years and we're having a record breaking year this year, while the world is suffering and in going through financial hardship many of the folks who came online, many years ago, were able to kind of reap the rewards I cut you off but it's interesting, right now

Brett: You're dead on. I started with Legendary February last year. Right, right before everything, hit the fan, and, and then my family's issues with, you know, in the hospital. Yeah, four or five months and yeah, you know, and a lot of people could say well you're making excuses and when you're working 15 hours a day, having to go to the hospital. Yeah it's been with your family, it just was, it was too much and, but it did help me make that decision, I was like, I potentially could have lost my father, my son was in a critical condition for a long time, he's great now, Everything's fine. Very neat but he's wondering. And, but it did help me make my choice this year. Right. You know, it kind of was like, do I want to have to suffer through that again? Or if I'm working at home and something traumatic happens in my family. Now I have time. Absolutely not. I can go to them and help where I can when they need it. Before I couldn't.  

What's really important man and I'm happy for you that you were able to do that and I'm thrilled about your progress and your success. You guys can follow Brett on Twitter at coach underscore Bret (coach_brett)t, or Brett coupe is a cooper cope is actually copy for me to remember copy copywriting. Well Hey Brother, keep up the great work, keep up the hard work might give my best to your family, and it's been a privilege to thank you for your service again and an honor to chat with you today. If there's anything I can do to help you out my friend, please let me know don't be afraid to reach out and come back and keep us updated. All right,

I will do that Dave, thank you so much for this opportunity. Thank you for developing this company that it's life changing for a lot of people. 

Brett: Thank you.

Dave: You're welcome. Brother, you're very very welcome my friend take care, stay Legendary buddy. You got it. All right. All right my friends happy Friday Go Go Go build your business live your life have a fantastic day. All right, we'll see you back here on Monday for another episode if you have the ability to get into our Blueprints. things are blowing up. We've got a lot of exciting things coming down the pipeline as well here at Legendary. But as they say killers move in silence, you'll know when it drops. We're just thrilled and excited to be able to continue to build an impact and serve, and our communities growing and it's just, it's a fun it's an exciting journey it's an exciting, exciting journey that just never gets old right so we're glad that you're here if you're brand new to our community. Welcome. You can binge a little bit this weekend on Episode Two, if you want to go and find us on Spotify or Apple just look up Wake Up Legendary, and you can catch some of the past episodes, you can also scroll up and down our Facebook fan page at facebook.com/legendarymarketerofficial, and you can watch the interviews yourself. My name is Dave Sharpe. You Be Legendary Get the hell out of here. Have a great day and a great weekend. We'll see you back here on Monday. Peace.

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Dave: What is going on my friend Good morning, Dave sharp, I'm going to be piloting this airplane today. And I want to welcome all of you to wake up legendary. If you're brand new here, we do this show five days a week, five days a week, that's roughly 20 episodes per month. And each day, pretty much we have a client or student or an affiliate of ours who is taking our training and our platform and getting results and crushing it. And these interviews are completely and totally unscripted, unplanned. Matter of fact, I just logged on about 30 seconds ago, said hello to Jacob, and asked Matt, our cmo if we were ready to go live. And so with that being said, let's welcome my man Jacob to the show. What's going on, brother?

Jacob: All right, thank you for having me. This is awesome

Dave: Were any lies detected? 

Jacob: What you just said from your side pretty much sounded like straight facts from what I heard.

Dave: I logged on for about 30 seconds, I'm literally here, you could come on here, literally and just bomb the hell out of us. And I would be totally unprepared for that. And quite frankly, I would let you bomb away. Honestly, I wouldn't like to kick you out or boot you off. Because that's just how I think that businesses should run their business these days. I think that being transparent, and having real conversations with clients and and is kind of the way to do business in 2021. I don't have an intuition that you're going to bomb us this morning. As a matter of fact, I think we're going to talk about a lot of cool stuff. But what's your thoughts on Jacob, the idea of us doing the shows of us having these conversations in just such an authentic way and just kind of doing business in that way, versus, you know, maybe some of the older ways, more traditional ways where you put on that kind of suit and tie and that smile and told people what they wanted to hear?

Jacob: Well, the authenticity and the transparency of live streams totally resonates with me. My affiliate marketing business right now almost runs entirely on live streams, like I'm promoting on TikTok. And I do live streams every day. Pretty much six days a week right now. I go for two hours a day, usually sometimes closer to three hours. Like my TikTok strategy it almost exclusively relies on the live streams. I only post one video a day on tic tac, but then I stream every day. And I don't have any. I don't have any plans. I have like a few pages on my computer. I go over just basics, like affiliate marketing stuff like my funnels, just like graphics to teach people the basics. 

Dave: Yeah, give visuals and use visuals throughout when you're talking. Yeah. Yeah. 

Jacob: But it's just a raw authentic like transparent stream. Every day just field questions. Tell people everything they want to know. I don't hold anything back. And like, you know, I'm not in a suit and tie. I've been wearing the shirt for like two days now. 

Dave: Something I love I love on the internet that, you know, viewers can't smell us, right. Yeah. So you know with that transparency just like that authenticity, like I show people like I'm in my living room right now. I'm not in a studio, like, basic equipment, like streaming out of a phone, like anybody has, like, I always like to drive home that point like anybody can do this, you don't need any special technology, you just need to sit down and learn the skills. Yeah.

Dude, I had no idea when I, when I just talked about what I said, you know, with the king of the the live stream in the end the gist of what we do here every day that you do that, you know what I mean? Like, it's hard for me to keep up with what everybody's doing. And sometimes, I'm getting to know the guests like, in real time, like right along with everybody else, because our team, you know, tees up these interviews and stuff, and then I kind of just kind of show up about 30 seconds ahead of time, and I'm like ready to rock. Gonna like getting to know people on the fly, right? Which kind of gives it more of I think it's honestly better that way. But I had no idea that you did that much live streaming. And that was such a foundational piece of your business. Like what a what a what a what a kind of weird. What do they call that a coincidence? So while you're your business, is that heavily about live streaming? And that's really driving the majority of results. So when did you discover that? I mean, when did you do your first live stream? And how long have you been doing affiliate marketing just in the first place? I know you were doing drop shipping before this?

Jacob: Yes, I tried drop shipping. I did it for like a few months. I was dabbling. Kind of like the end of 2019 into 2020. I did see like, I never made any real money with it. I had sales coming in like I was able to see results. But it's actually right when the Coronavirus hits. So like the whole supply chain for China was completely gone. So I kind of just pushed that aside, and then I lost my job at that point. Because that was what you were doing serving bartending restaurants, which was funding like, obviously funding my online businesses, so I had to kind of pull back because I didn't know where money was gonna come from. But luckily, the pandemic assistance kicked in, and I was fine. So I started looking into more online businesses. And I found affiliate marketing, it seemed like a great business model. Yeah, so I tried the blogging style. And I tried the more direct response model with things like funnels, and email marketing. And I was when I started this before I found Legendary Marketer, I was just learning from you. And I got the basics down. I was kind of running solo ads, like just paying people with email lists to send their traffic to my funnel. And I did that for like $300 on ads, and I think I made one sale like a 130 dollar sale. And then I saw people on TikTok making crazy money, or at least claiming to make crazy money with high ticket affiliate marketing. And then I went through Legendary Marketer training. And I learned how you can promote high ticket products with basically the same strategy that you would promote low ticket products, but for much higher commissions. So once I found that you could do that, I've just been with that ever since. And that was in December. So I went through legendary marketer training in December, and I actually struggled for a few months to really see any good results. I think it was like three months in when I actually started to see profit. But like I tell people, my first month I made $2 in commissions, like I think I made two lucky commissions. And I wasn't streaming at that point. I saw people streaming and I knew it was like the way to go. I noticed that the people streaming consistently were making like, they would have people on the top of the leaderboard consistently. So I knew that was the way to go. But honestly I had so much anxiety like getting on a live stream. I had anxiety getting on TikTok in general, like just putting myself out there because I really don't use social media. I'm not actively on the internet. Yeah, I've always all the things I've done online were like behind the scenes kind of stuff like drop shipping, you don't show your face. So when I started putting myself out there like this was way out of my comfort zone. And the live stream was just like another step out of my comfort zone. So I avoided it for months and then it was honestly just like maybe a month and a half ago I just really like had a talk with myself and I was like Jacob if you want to make this work you got to get on the stream you got to do with like it's obviously what's working. Like you look at the Legendary leaderboard, I always tell beginners when they want to start getting into promoting Legendary like look at the leaderboard, look at what people are doing. Like obviously that's what's working. You know, that's why I finally just stopped taking myself and shook myself and said, You gotta do it, you got to go streaming every day. That's what I do. Now I stream every day. I like to force myself to do it. And it gets easier as you go. But that's really the only way to make it easier is to just kind of throw yourself in the pool.

Dave: Yeah, yeah. And you know, it's hard to kind of track what everybody's doing in our community. Because, you know, you can't particularly see a leaderboard for people who have health offers or jujitsu offers or self defense offers or weight loss offers, like, but yeah, you're right. You can, you can, you can see, you know, our affiliate, you know, leaderboard and most people are doing live streams. Ken says, What do you stream about? We'll, we'll ask Jacob about that here in a second. But the first thing I want to talk about, or ask you, you mentioned, the anxiety you mentioned. And I think that, you know, there's always this, there's, there's this kind of there's this, there's this trend, to where these, these these gurus and want to be gurus and goblins who want to be people's, they want to be there. They want to be their guru, so bad. There's some guys out here who so badly want to be gurus and goblins. It's hilarious. But they want to, they want to tell people, you know, oh, well, I'll teach you how to make money without showing your face. And they'll make it so easy for you and all this kind of stuff. You know, kind of enticing people in with this sort of, Oh, we can just we can just show you how to do it, you know, without, without you being uncomfortable at all. And that's, that's cool in one respect, but, but I also think, from my perspective, the people who have turned marketing and online marketing into a full time career, not just something to where they make a couple of bucks, here are a couple of bucks there from some silly little gimmick that they're doing. They're building real brands, they're building, they're pushing themselves out of their comfort zone, they're doing exactly what you just said. So I'd like you to talk a little bit about if you would say a little bit more about pushing through that anxiety, particularly as somebody who came from the restaurant industry and who was a server and who wasn't even on the internet, and who didn't even post before. I mean, this is so many people's story, this is so many people's situation. And then some want to be a guru or Goblin comes along and says, oh, come here, and I'm going to show you how to make money without being uncomfortable. You pushed yourself through the uncomfortability. And now you're really, really doing so much better. And in getting much better results. I just like you to say a little bit more about what that process was like, maybe we can inspire people and let people know why it's important to kind of push through some of the uncomfortability and not just go for the the easy way out gimmicks and so forth, where they're never going to be uncomfortable. And you see I'm quoting, never going to be uncomfortable.

Jacob: Yeah, I think like what you're getting at with never being uncomfortable is you could take the easy way out today and like not step out of your comfort zone. But then you're going to be uncomfortable for probably the rest of your life stuck in some job you don't like. And that's really like what's driven me to push myself out of my comfort zone. Because, you know, I like working in restaurants. I'm not doing that right now, since the pandemic hit, I've been actually doing Remote Jobs, like just random, like call center jobs. But I don't like working 40 hours a week. Like as much as I like working with people and like restaurants, I don't like doing it 40 hours a week, which you really have to do to make any real money. So like that, to me it is uncomfortable, like having that lifestyle. And so you'd hit the other side of it like putting myself out here on the internet being this like a public figure. This also makes me uncomfortable. But at the end of the day, like I'd rather do this, I'd rather push myself into this uncomfortable zone to give myself a better life. So you kind of have to take you know, there's going to be uncomfortable aspects of both sides of it, but one of them has a better payout one of them is going to, you know, reward you so much more you could stay in your comfort zone today and be uncomfortable with a life you have for the your whole life or you can be uncomfortable for a few months. Like I was now uncomfortable on a live stream like I'm still honestly a little nervous to be on this one with a bigger audience. But yes, my TikTok streams like I usually average like 10 to 20 people. And like it's a lot of the same people over and over again. So I see familiar faces, right? It's hard at first but it gets more comfortable as time goes on. And now my life is already just drastically improved because I've been able to make enough money online to quit my job. So I just took out that uncomfortable part of my life. And it used to be uncomfortable like being on live stream is now like it's second nature to me and like you just hopped on, like I saw you have on here like, with like no preparation. It was like, like, that's how I do my live streams with TikTok and I just like to turn the camera on and like I'm setting things up like I'm not thinking, right, figure it out.

Dave: Oh, yeah, dude it's hilarious man because actually the more I prepare, the more nervous I get because of preparation anxiety, you know what I mean? Like trying to make everything perfect. Whereas if I don't prepare, I just, I just, I move right into this flow state and I'm completely external, completely present with people. I'm not worried about slides or notes or anything. And I'm not saying those things are not important because I have found that if I'm going to do an actual presentation or a sales presentation, or if I'm going to speak in front of a live audience, it's helpful to have slides, props, a plan. But even then I like it, a lot of times, I'll deviate from that. And I'll go over wherever kind of my head and heart takes me based on what's going on in real life. Like not just one I planned on doing, but what is actually coming up for the person that I'm talking to, or what is coming up with a live audience. And I think giving yourself permission to do that. And then, and then allowing yourself to find your flow state is a magical place that I try to be in as often as possible. What comes up for you as I say that?

Jacob: Like when you say like flow state, I definitely, that definitely resonates with me like I think I'm there right now. But when I'm streaming on TikTok, like, I do it six days a week. So I'm not constantly in the flow state. But I know exactly what you mean, when you say that, like you just get in your zone. And I got on the stream, I got my phone in my hand, I got my computer, I'm showing off like this, like I have, like, just visuals to kind of not a full structured presentation, but just kind of my general business. And I just come like I'm in the zone, just rolling through everything. You know, it's showing everything so perfectly. And I'm getting great feedback from the people in the stream telling me like, thank you, this is what I've been looking for. This is the best, like, this is exactly what I needed to know. It's nothing planned. I'm just like, talking off the top of my head. And to get feedback from people like just kind of just spitballing things like it's an incredible feeling. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah, it really is. And I it's funny, because people's statistically anyways, people's biggest fear is speaking in public, but people but people, a lot of people's, at least that I've talked to in and I've talked to a lot of marketers, entrepreneurs, so I'm, I could certainly be best are my stats could be biased. But so many people also want to crush it in front of people. You know what I mean? So while it's a fear, it's public speaking, presenting as a big fear, it's also a big dream, right? It's a big dream to be able to crush it in front of people and get that positive feedback. And the cool thing about the internet, these platforms like Tick Tock or Facebook and YouTube is that you actually can do a lot zoom, even you can do a live presentation, in the comfort of your home, in the safety of your own home, in the comfort and safety of your domain, right with your drinks and notes and whatever you have, that's not in the camera. So it's not like you're saying on stage naked in front of everybody, right, which is kind of how it can feel sometimes, you've actually got a little bit of protection, you know, you've the cameras only on this part, and you've got your other notes and props. And so it's a beautiful I think presenting and speaking guys and gals, let me be real direct everybody who's listening, presenting, communicating, Warren Buffett said, and you can look this quote up, you can double your income over a lifetime by simply improving the skill of communication. What does that mean? Certainly written communication, right. Writing more clearly, we write in terms of copywriting as marketers, so that's one example of how your income can skyrocket right? easily double if you master copywriting but I mean, just good clear written communication, but also verbal communication. How does what does that mean more in well, live streaming, shooting videos, being able to do zooms, being able to communicate on camera now we're in 2021, folks, and we just went through a pandemic of zoom is now a household name and live streaming and doing all these things are the new normal, so uncomfortable, yes, but necessary. I think so. It's a great example of what he's talking about. I think that's conservative, you can make 50% more over a lifetime as the quote, by mastering or just improving the skill of communication, Jacob, I don't think that you would consider yourself a professional public speaker. But what comes up for you, as you as I'm talking about, you know, the what I just said, with Warren Buffett and you actually improving your communication and getting outside of your comfort zone and communicating with people? What comes up for you? I mean, I mean, communication is a big deal to a huge skill. And do you see yourself as actively working on being? Have you ever thought of it like that, or, talk to us a little bit about what comes up for you around the topic of improving the skill set of communicating?

Jacob: When you remind me of the high income skill, it's one of the modules in your 15 Day Challenge sales and presented a few months ago, I was struggling with making things work, not seeing the results I wanted to see as an affiliate. So I was going back through the training, looking at those high income skills, like copywriting, sales, and presenting lead generation is the third one on there. But looking into sales and presenting, and just looking at my own business, cuz that's what I do. I look at, you know, structured training, and I try to apply it to my business and see if I'm lacking, see if I can improve on that. And I noticed pretty quickly, like I was definitely lacking in the sales and presenting aspect to that communication. And I realized, like, the biggest thing missing was those live streams. I looked around and saw so many other people streaming So effectively, and so consistently, and they were just doing so much better than I was. And so I realized that's what I had to do. So I jumped into the stream, no real playing, like I said, I figured it out as I went, which I've pretty much done and am still doing. But once I started really communicating just in this transparent way, like exactly how I'm doing right now. Yeah, I saw massive improvement, like numbers across the board shot up, like in every particular every possible metric. So yes, absolutely. Through effective communication will definitely, dramatically increase your business as far as earnings and really everything.

Dave: Yeah. And I do believe you have to find your groove and your own personality and sort of your own as I call it your own schtick, right? Like, you know, you have to find your groove really, we can all compare ourselves to others and try to sound like others and be like others, but finding your own voice is really important. What does that journey bed like or look like for you?

Jacob: So when I started promoting on TikTok, like I did, but most people do, they spill down the for you page, they find other affiliates promoting the similar or same products. And they look at their most popular videos, and then kind of rip them off and replicate them. And that's a good way to get started to kind of learn the basics of the app, it's like you have your training wheels on. But that's not going to happen, you're not going to be able to build your own brand, you're not going to be able to really learn how to make good videos, you're not going to learn how to really communicate, because you're just taking other people's words and other people's ideas. That's a good way to get your foot in the door. But as you go, it is important to create your own identity, create your own words, you know, communicate your own original thoughts. So that's been a journey for me as it is for most people. And you start off with other people's ideas, even with affiliate programs, like they give email scripts, you just copy and paste them. So you get that foundation. And then you wake up to what I do and I recommend all my audience followers to start off with those email scripts that you get with any affiliate program. But then go through and rewrite them, put them in your own words. So and then that sends you kind of you know, increase, improve your copywriting skills, improve your communication skills. But you shouldn't have to start off with a blank slate. Like that's what a lot of people struggle when they're starting their affiliate marketing business. And they have like a blank slate in front of them. Where do I even begin? Like they're given tools with just about any affiliate program they often will give you if they don't have a leaderboard to live to. They'll give you the scripts they usually give you like a landing page like some sort of sales copy, like start with that and put that in your business, fill in the holes and then go through and then putF it in your own words and kind of adjust it as you go. And that's what I've been doing pretty much for the past like six months. I started off with like other people's content, other people's words and emails and funnels, and I've slowly been just suggesting that to fit my own personal voice and my own personal style, but I never I never started with a blank slate because that will that will keep you at a dead end for a while.

Dave: Yeah, no, really well said, I, you know, I want everybody part of the vibe of this show is to inspire but not be not not overhype. And to make it seem as if it's just we'll do this and you're going to get instant results. And if it's not happening for you, then something's wrong with you. Right? That we want to be real. That's what I'm trying to say. We want to be realistic about expectations. So you're here in Jacobs, a streaming game changed the game for me, it was live streamed live streaming and going live on a platform like TikTock, which we're live here on Facebook. So you can go live kind of on most platforms nowadays, you can go live on it, you can go live, that's Instagram, it can go live, at least audio on tick on Twitter. They kind of adopted the clubhouse thing. They're about to adopt live audio on Facebook as well, I think. But some people, Jacob, I know, have gone live and are going live and are not seeing a lot of growth. How do you approach going live? How do you prepare to go live in terms of like, what are you talking about on live streams? How do you keep it interesting and engaging? And what have you found that works the best? 

Jacob: So a big thing I see a lot of people making this mistake. And I did this too, when I started on live stream they have a really reactive approach. When you need to have a proactive approach, you need to get on stream and like just start talking, I would do this, I would get on stream there'd be zero people in the room. And I would just start talking, like just rattle off ideas in my head, maybe pull up on a computer screen. And that's what makes people join and actually sit in the stream. Because if you're just sitting there, like I see a lot of people with TikTok, I'll be scrolling. When I see the live streams. People just sit there with their arms crossed, maybe on their computer, but not even looking at the camera. And like there's nothing going on so like, why would anybody join that room to watch you sit on your computer? But if you're already talking, you're already speaking, even if there's no one in the room, it'll get people in the room. And then you have that audience. So you really do need to be proactive in that sense. You need to lead the room, don't don't always ask for questions, or wait for questions like definitely answer questions and respond to the room. But if you're waiting for the room to give you cues, then you're not going to get anywhere you need to really kind of show people What's up, you need to start the conversation you need to really, you know, set up set things up and make something happen before waiting for anyone else to come in. So that's the room itself. But it even goes before that. Because to get people in your room, and to get that traction, you do need to have actual like content on TikTok, you know, invite people into the room. I've noticed that my for what I do now from my videos, like I say I only post one video a day. And I've been doing that for about a month now. And it's something I've had with growth in the past month. But I keep my videos very short, sweet to the point like those classics like seven to fit teens, second long TikToks like the current base, honestly critical snapper in depth. It's just basic, catchy, almost flashy, not crazy, I don't do crazy, flashy income claims. I try to avoid that. But just like quick, short, sweet to the point just to get people's attention. And those are the videos that go viral. And then you get the traction. And that's what's going to get more people in your live stream. So I find that works for me just like short, sweet videos, even if it's just one video a day that will get you there. And then with the stream just being proactive. One of the best examples of this is Calvin Hill. I'm sure a lot of you have watched his streams. Like he commands a room with like hundreds of people. And he doesn't wait for people to tell him what to do. He puts the camera on when he gets to work and he shows you what's going on. So I started adopting that strategy, just really leading the room, not waiting for questions to tell me what to talk about, but just talking.

Dave: Yeah. Well, Lori Richardson said I get distracted mid sentence by comments asking something and then feel very disjointed in my speech patterns. And I think the comment stream can be a live streamer's worst enemy. Because especially if you're by yourself and you don't have a guest or somebody that you're interviewing or somebody that you're talking with that tends to Be the person that you feel like you have to talk to and talk with. And so for me, one of the most annoying things when I'm watching a live stream is when somebody is talking in a stream of thought, and then somebody makes a comment. And they go down there and stop or interrupt the thought, to go and respond to the comment or to even welcome somebody to the room like, hey, so, yesterday, what I was doing was I was going around, and I was putting signs on the corners, because that's how I sell houses. Hey, Brad, welcome to the room. Hey, Susan, welcome to the room. How are you guys doing? So? Where was I? Okay, I was right that that kind of, for me that, that that honestly drives me nuts when I'm watching a live stream. And so if somebody starts doing that, you know, I'll almost almost instantly go away because it's just like, the moment you do that it's kind of like you lost me, right? Because my attention span is short, shorter than it ever has been. And, the second that you stop, like doing it strategically with a cliffhanger is very different than being sort of on your heels, where you're so easily thrown off by people coming into the room. And it's almost like this reaction, like I'm talking and somebody is here, so I better acknowledge them. If I don't acknowledge them, they're going to leave. And it's actually the opposite. Oftentimes, when you do acknowledge people and you, it's almost like sometimes people just want to be voyeurs, right, like I way or is right, people have a desire to sort of watch without being called on sometimes. It's kind of like, what is my opinion of just human being human nature, it's kind of like being in a classroom, like sometimes the last thing you want to do is you want the teacher to call on you, if you're not raising your hand. If you're raising your hand, then you want to be called on to write, clearly, you want to be acknowledged. But if you're not raising your hand, if you're not saying I want to be acknowledged, and she calls on you, or he calls on you, then you feel embarrassed or you feel kind of singled out. I think the same thing is true in live audiences, the same thing is true, but on live streams, people have a desire to want to be essentially an onlooker fly on the wall or particularly in the beginning, when they're warming up to what's going on. Because they're non committal at that point. They don't know whether they want to keep scrolling. So I think it's so important you make an amazing point, both with Calvin but also how you're doing that as well. I do it, I do the same thing on these shows. I'm, I may be browsing the comments or trying, you know, I may, but I'm present. I'm moving. I'm talking. I'm not stopping what's going on in the comments. It is honestly, oftentimes a distraction and not something that I am paying much attention to, right? Because I understand how that can throw listeners off and just make it difficult to follow somebody. I'm a little tangential, and I bounce all over the place. But if I'm my normal bounce all over the place and I'm having 50 different conversations with people in the comments. I cannot tell you guys, if you're doing that, how difficult to track and kind of listen to that is, it has nothing to do with who you are. It just has to do with the difficulty. You want to make it easy and simple for people to listen to you, Jacob, what comes up for you?

Jacob: I mean, that's your way you're talking about not welcoming every single person in the room. I definitely agree with that. Because I've been on the other side, right? Join a live stream. And like I'm immediately called out like my name and I'm like, Okay, hold on. I'm just watching. I don't know if I want to be the center of attention here. And like so. For me when I post my streams. I never don't welcome people. Because there's so many people who come in and leave like two seconds later anyway. It's not worth your time to be calling people out. I just stick to my script, you know, I see the comment stream indefinitely be distracting. I see it come in. But I don't answer every comment. The second it comes in, I'll take a look at it. I'll make a mental note. But I'll make sure that I finish my train of thought with whatever I'm talking about first. Before I get to that, I have a great audience. They're really patient. Sometimes it takes me 10 minutes to get to a question. But I tell them I can't wait to get to it. I'm going to get to it. And I go back through the questions. I scroll through and I make sure I go back and answer everything that everybody asked So I get to everybody's questions. But I don't let it distract me, I don't let it, I don't let it cut me off from finishing the last person's question or finish that train of thought that I was already on. So I think it's really important to have that mental organization of finishing complete thoughts before you start tackling the comments section. So if that means like, avoiding don't even looking at it, sometimes like that, I just completely avoid it. And I just got through it. When I get a chance.

Dave: I would almost recommend that I mean, very rarely, like, especially unless it's a paid training. I'm not even answering questions, man. No, and I'm just, I'm being just straight up. There's, there's strategic reasons for that. There's also just, if you're a paid customer or not, like and so I'm not gonna, I'm not going to spend a whole lot of time here asking questions, like, if you're a customer, something that I'll ask questions, but the strategic part of that is, is that, like, there's an element of authority that you kind of give away when you when you allow one of your viewers to kind of steal the direction of of your presentation. And there is kind of an unspoken rule and like kind of sales where whoever is asking the question, kind of has control of the conversation, right? So you know, because if I'm asking questions, I've got you sort of explaining yourself, right. So if the customer is sitting there asking questions, and the salesperson is sitting there explaining themselves, then you know, the salesperson doesn't have a whole lot of control over the direction of the call. That's why when you're a salesperson, the best thing for you to do is learn what questions to ask, right? So you can guide the conversation based on those questions. And your customer is doing the talking and explaining, and in a sense that will essentially kind of make them qualify themselves to you. If you ask the right questions. This is not sales training, we could go deep into that. But my point is, if you're doing a live stream, and you're taking questions throughout the entire live stream, then what's happening is you're allowing your audience to maintain control of the live stream. So they're the ones who are driving the direction. And what people are looking for when they tune into a live stream. They're not looking for them. They, they're there to learn. They're there to begin from. So they don't want to be in control, even though they're asking questions, right? And they don't know that by asking questions. They're not trying to take control of the call. So they're not doing anything wrong. It's just naturally the way that people interact with live streams. And, you know, in social media content, you ask questions and comments, you make statements, you respond to things that the person said. So, in a sense, the reason why I want to recap and kind of tie this point together, the reason why I don't take questions on live streams is because I don't give up control of the direction of where the live streams are going. by constantly asking questions. There's a setting for that. And for me, that setting is typically when somebody bought something, and I'm doing if I was an affiliate, I might do a bonus live training for anybody who's bought something from me once a week, to where I'll get on a zoom, or I'll get on some sort of a live stream. And I will answer your questions live if you're somebody who's bought something from it. But besides that, you guys, all of you who are listening, have to sort of step into your best self and realize that they're there to learn from you. And they're there to listen to you. And that's ultimately what they want you to do. They want you to speak, they want you to talk, they want you to teach, they want you to show them. And they don't want control of the conversation, right? They're just doing their thing in the comments. So don't feel obligated to respond and just do nothing but long form Q and A's. Because quite frankly, those are not very interesting. Most people don't ask very good questions anyways. So you end up spending two 5, 10 minutes answering uninteresting questions. And instead of just presenting something really valuable for 15 minutes, and being done with it, I'm more experienced, so I can go on for 30 to an hour every day. Plus I got a guest here but if you're by yourself, it's better in my opinion, Jacob to come on for 10 or 15 minutes with an awesome stream of consciousness. One complete thought one, like a nice tip or something simple four bucks to one presentation, not a million different things that you're trying to talk about. And just if you got to make them shorter, make them shorter. But don't just sit endlessly doing q&a, what's coming up for you. But what's your response? Or what's your opinion on what I'm talking about? And does that make sense to you?

Jacob: It makes perfect sense. You set a lot. So there's one thing you were talking about before, like, writing Q and A's only to paid customers. And with TikTok, it's a tricky spot, because a lot of the people in my audience are paid customers, a lot of the people in my life have invested in the products I'm promoting. And then the other half, maybe haven't, or they're thinking about it. And I don't know who's who with the tick tock names like they're these, like, half the people have like user numbers. So I can't tell who's a paid customer who's not. So I really, I like to be open and take every question that comes up. Yes, I lead the work. Like, if I have something I'm talking about, I'll finish my whole train of thought before I get to those questions. And you know, people don't like a boring q&a, where you give these short answers. I see a lot of this happening, where people will answer the question in like 10 seconds, and then just wait for the next question. And like, the way that has been working for me is I'll take a question, I'll answer it. But then I'll go off on a tangent, and I'll pull up my computer screen, I'll start giving examples. I'll take it to the next step. And I'll turn that one simple, like two word answer question into like a whole presentation. Sure, because I try to stay up for a while. Because that helps us with the TikTok algorithm, being on live stream is going to push your videos out there. So like affiliate marketing, especially with the model I'm using, like direct response funnel, email marketing, it's really not that complicated. It's you can't do it, a two and a half hour presentation on it every day, like going over the same kind of stuff. Sure, I kind of just bounce back and forth into like, it's kind of the same, like a 15 minute presentation, right? Like funnels, email marketing in traffic and products like value ladders. And I kind of go over that same presentation, probably a few times per stream. And yeah, broken up with like, little mini q&a sessions, right. But the whole time, I'm really just kind of winging it. Mostly getting it myself. But I think the questions sort of guide like what I'm talking about.

Dave: And I think that's an excellent point. And you're describing how, you know, how it looks in real life, you know, something that I might throw out to you and others who are listening is to create some more exclusivity for those who buy through your links. So you can easily if somebody signs up, have them forward, you the email, the the, the the sales receipt, email, for whatever they purchased, and you can add them to an exclusive list inside of your autoresponder to where each week you email out a zoom link, you guys can all get a zoom account, I think you can have 100 people on a zoom account free, I'm not mistaken. But there's tons of different tools, you can also add people into a Facebook group, it's a great way to get customers into a Facebook group. So because it's kind of like if I have a tick tock account and a Facebook group, and they're both all free people, I might be saying the same thing, especially if I'm reposting content. So the way I might use a Facebook group as just an affiliate is all my free stuff on TikTok, my facebook group is for paid people. So that might be where I do my paid q&a. And what that does is that gives me whether I'm putting them on an exclusive list once they become customers to where I make invites to private coaching calls each week, or whether I'm adding them to a Facebook group. What I'm doing now is I'm creating exclusivity within my audience. So I'm dangling an additional character bonus for them to buy through me to where they're going to get added to an exclusive list which everybody loves to be on. I'm also then going to have a chance to be able to serve them at a higher level, to be able to also even tell them come prepared with your questions to these coaching calls. And now I have one or two hours a week or three hours a week, whatever to where I'm doing this one call for all paid customers. And I also know these are customers. So once I have them on the webinar, I have a chance to be able to make other offers to people who are already proven to buy so it's also a great place to make other offers, whether it be for a course or coaching or something like that. So something for all of you guys to consider. Right? putting people on a bonus list or an exclusive list after they buy, and then creating a, a more private exclusive space to where you can serve them at a different level, to where you can maybe take their questions, or, I mean, do a lot of the same things you're already doing on TikTok just for those people only. Anyways, just an idea, Jacob, or sometimes it makes sense for you to do inside of your business, sometimes it doesn't. But those are some of the things that I've done over the years that have helped me to drive more sales, because I'm offering bonuses, that would be considered a bonus, right. And I could also even create time deadlines to where, you know, once a month or twice a month I run if you buy through my link. This week, I'm going to add you to my exclusive private list, my exclusive private Facebook group, my private coaching calls, etc. Those are some of the ways that I've driven more sales as an affiliate over the years by creating these kinds of different spaces based on whether your customer is a non customer, and adding new to different lists and so forth. So food for thought apply, swipe and deploy at will if it makes sense for you guys. And if you're doing something that's already working folks, then there's no need to deviate from that. Keep doing more of that. I see a lot of people, Jacob, who get results and they say, What's everybody's opinion, and I'm just like, do more of what's working. So clearly what you're doing is working, right, so do more of it. And then make small tweaks and improvements as you go to see if it helps to make things better. If somebody has any thoughts on that, because I'd like to move on and bring this conversation in for a landing so we can let you get back to your business and back to your daily schedule. And maybe we could schedule part two, with you at a later date. 

Jacob: Yeah, That sounds great. But I mean, just going off the last thing you said to those miners, I mean, that's been my whole journey. For the last probably six months I've been doing this, you know, people talk about like, I always preach this, everybody says this, you have to stay consistent, you have to keep showing up every day. But it's important to keep in mind the definition of insanity, doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. If you're showing up consistently every day, but what you're doing isn't working, then you need to make an adjustment to fix it and do something different. Just because you're showing up every day doesn't mean you're doing it right, if you're doing the wrong things. You know, it took me a little while to kind of get the hang of that where I was doing the same thing for like four weeks at a time not seeing great results. And then I realized, like, I need to really dramatically change my strategy. And I'm just doing the past few months really doing it in shorter than four weeks, because that's a long time to reflect. But like every week, I would just get what I've done over the past week, look at my numbers like my views on TikTok like my opt in rates on my emails, the open rates, like just look at everything, look how it's going. And then if it needs to be improved, which it always can be, you just make those adjustments where they're most desperately needed. But just little tweaks over time, is going to leave you with a very optimized business, a well oiled machine.

Dave: And one tweak at a time is always what I recommend, don't make a bunch of huge changes. I see people I see affiliates all the time. And they have something that's working. I've been observing a couple of affiliates, even within our community who are just absolutely crushing it. And then they just make 180 degree turns and just do something totally different or go promoting something totally different. Or it's just like, you know, everybody's got to learn on their own. And I'm not here to manage anybody's business, but it's just one small tweak at a time in parts of my career. When I was inconsistent and indecisive I would switch things up dramatically like a bunch of stuff, like every few months, and I mean it drove my wife crazy because it was and it was sort of this. I had this kind of inconsistent kind of energy where I was like throwing spaghetti at the wall trying to see what stick but also man, it would just kill momentum that I have. And part of if you look at all the great businesses, they've been doing the same thing for years with minor tweaks. You look at McDonald's are still doing the same thing that they did back when they started Coca Cola. They're still selling the same soda. It's maybe with a different design on the K Disney's still doing the same thing, just with tweaks in the theme parks, additional things that are added. We look at all the great businesses to polti. I love restaurants, for example, five guys you go in, and they've got the same core food, the same core process, you know what to expect. They might make small tweaks, but they're not completely changing five guys tomorrow are not coming out and saying, Alright guys, we are now a taco business, we're going to try that for six months and see if you guys like it better. Right? They're, they're sticking with what works. And I can't stress that enough, what you just said is so important, making small tweaks, one tweak at a time seeing if it improves or hurts. And if it improves, stick with it, and then test something else. Great point. And one to really put in your back pocket everybody and listen, listen to and remember, if somebody was based on your experience sitting at one of our checkout pages are kind of on the fence. They're watching this live stream about legendary and aware really, they can take their life from this training in this community. And this platform, both learning from the training, but also learning from others. Could you talk a little bit about how it's just in a nutshell impacted your life, and in the potential that it has to change somebody else's as well.

Jacob: I mean, as far as potential goes like this, this program, this company has given me the opportunity to completely quit my job. So I'm fully online right now. And now I feel like I really have the ability to take my business wherever I want. Like for the past few months, I've really just been kind of focused on TikTok, which takes about two to three hours a day, and then working full time, but I just quit that. So now I still only have to work like two to three hours a day, keep this machine running. And now I have the freedom to do what I want to do, like my next project I want to tackle is getting into starting a YouTube channel and starting making better videos. Because I have a channel that has like 100 subscribers, it's pretty small. But that's like a long term goal I want to have is to have a, you know, good YouTube channel for that digital asset. But working full time, like I honestly didn't have the time to do something like that. It's like a huge thing to tackle. But with this business like this simple affiliate marketing business, I've tried all the other businesses out there, I've gotten into drop shipping, I had an eBay store, I was doing print on demand. And like all these things are great, they work. But you're not going to make a full time income, like any anytime quickly, like to be able to sustain it long term, not like you could with this. So like this is really just, I think the best opportunity to get into a full time income online, even if it's not what you want to do forever, I think it's the best place to just get started. And once you have it running, then you can take your business wherever you want to go. So I'm not 100% sure where I'm going like I take things one step at a time. And I kind of figure it out as I go. I see a lot of people procrastinate and hold back because they don't really have a long term plan. And that is important. Don't get me wrong. But once you have the first step, once you know, first thing you should do, like you can't wait forever, you just have to just get started. And sometimes you have to figure things out as you go. And if you don't like it, then you live and learn and try something else. But if you sit there and contemplate and think oh, maybe you're never going to get anywhere. So sooner or later, you got to just pull the plug and jump into something.

Dave: Yeah, well do you are a natural now I know it might have been uncomfortable. And you've clearly pushed through that uncomfortability. But I mean, the value that you deliver the value that you deliver today, it's been a real pleasure to be a part of it. So keep it up, bro. keep growing, keep learning. That'll obviously keep earning. But it's really impressive that you've gone from restaurants and serving and in just kind of completely offline completely, just behind the scenes to now pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, applying what you've learned and taking it to the levels that you are. It's really awesome. So keep up the great work and I can't wait to have you back and just continue to grow with your brother.

Jacob: I really appreciate that. Thank you so much. If you saw my content when I started you probably wouldn't recognize what I'm putting out now like this has really been a journey like I was really even when I was posting when I started like I was uncomfortable. I can probably tell by watching my videos, but I never let it hold me back. That's one thing I, you know, proud about it even when I was uncomfortable, like filled with anxiety I always showed up every day and just did the work I had to do. And eventually I got to the point where now I'm still a little uncomfortable honestly, sometimes being online like this, but much more comfortable than I was. And obviously things are working out well. So I feel great about it. I really appreciate everything you said. Thank you so much for having me at the same time.

Dave: You're so welcome. And it's so it's so deserve brother. Alright, so we'll do Part Two soon if you'd be willing. Okay.

Yeah, sounds good. Absolutely. All right, Jacob well be safe brother. Stay Legendary. here as well. 

Jacob: Thank you. 

Dave: See you, buddy. All right, my friends. Really, really what a cool dude 860 affiliate on TikTok is, if you want to go check him out, give him a follow. Clearly, Jacob spent a lot of time and his life quite a bit throughout almost every day six days a week. So somebody else to add to your network, somebody else to add to your massive online mastermind. And somebody who clearly has taken our training, our ideas or philosophies, turned them into his own and applied them in a way that has dramatically changed his life. Yet another incredible success story is that they just keep coming. They just keep coming. I just keep showing up to the show. Every day, our team keeps cleaning up our clients and customers are our affiliates who are all part of our program here. And it's like, well, I get to just sit back every day. And just and just interact with you guys on this show live, who are you know, who have come through and used what we've put out for you to use, which is some training on how to fish not just something to where we're giving you fish. And then you go out, you learn how to fish and you guys are catching fish, you guys are filling your boats up. And that's a really, really cool feeling. I got to just tell you from my standpoint, so everybody Keep up the great work. I hope to have each and every one of you guys who hear this on the show. And that's my goal. Anybody who wants to be I'd love to give you this platform and I'd love to celebrate your success with you. So we'll be back for one more episode this week tomorrow. Between now and then you know what to do, get the hell out of here and have a fantastic day. And we'll see you tomorrow.

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Matt: Hey, welcome in, Happy Wednesday, good to see you. Daniel Vega is in the house. What's going on? Daniel, good to see you. Who else we got in here? Where are you guys tuning in from? Happy Wednesday. Good to see you. We're back here. We've been here live every single weekday 10am Eastern, we go live on these things. And typically Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday is Dave, Dave Sharpe. And my name is Matt. I'm the CMO here at Legendary and I host on Wednesdays and occasionally other days if Dave's you know, out on blinks golfing or hanging with his kids or maybe taken Erin on a long weekend or something like that, but typically I'm hosting every Wednesday and then I do a little fill in here. There. We got Daytona Beach, we got Texas, Puerto Rico, Jersey’s in the house warehouse. PA, South Africa. Hey, I'm on the go today. So I'm on my phone. As you can see if you can give me a little thumbs up and just confirm that my audio is coming through really clearly. That helps me just know that hey, you can hear me. You can see me Okay, Mason, what's up North Dakota. I'm from South Dakota, my wife’s from North Dakota. Love the Dakotas. Just not the wintertime man. It's so damn cold down there. Up there. I shouldn't say down there up there. So I moved to Phoenix. But anyway, a different story for a different day. Hey, welcome in. We do these things live. For those of you who just got here with us. There's lots of people tuning in. Lots of people are joining us right now. I am live. I'm on the go right now. So as you can see, I'm not really in my office. But hey, it's 2021, 2020 was the year and change of COVID. And everybody's just working from anywhere, right? So who gives a crap. So we're just pumped that you're here, we do these live again, like I wouldn't be hanging out right here. If we weren't live. This is not pre recorded. And we come on, we get real guests who have either taken our challenge or, you know, bought our blueprints or whatever and went on to have success in affiliate marketing or digital marketing summer and coaching and consulting like those people. We've had people purchase our training and grow their hypnosis businesses. We've had people purchase our training, our blueprints and go create Relationship Coaching businesses. So if you're here and you're wondering, Is this just a buy it so I can sell it? You know, just become an affiliate? No, that's not the case. Any type of digital business you want to grow, whether it's selling other people's products as an affiliate, making your own digital products, coaching, consulting, or even events and masterminds. We have training for it. And we want to help you grow what you want to grow, not what we want to grow. Right. So we're just so pumped that you're here and that you're tuning in with us. I want to bring on our guests today, all the way from the UK. His name's James. James, are you out there my brother? 

James: Yeah. Hello. 

Matt: So am I correct that you're from the UK? Yes. London. I wanted to make sure I didn't botch that. So cool. You're 23, you're basically a graphic designer. Are you doing that freelance by yourself or you work for a company or tell us a little

bit about that? 

James: No. So at the moment, I work for a kind of a full service design agency. We work in a small team of people. And I said build websites, great graphic design branding, wherever it's included. And I do that as my nine to five But then I also do my affiliate stuff on the side.

Matt: Cool. That pays the bills, and then you've got all your other side. hustles going on the side. Yeah, pretty much. Nice. Okay, cool. Do you. How do you feel about your job? That's always something that I'm curious about and are interested in. Did you get this job? By you know, sort of going to like University and getting a degree in that or did you kind of learn it yourself? Do you enjoy it? Tell us a little bit about how you know your interactions with your job.

James: Yeah, so graphic design I learned in school, I started doing it in school. And then I chose to take up university as well. I finished university pretty much a year ago. Today, today, yeah, pretty much like two days or something. Yeah. And then I did it. During my time at university, we had a thing in the UK. I don't know if you have it in America where you can take a year out to work. It's called a placement. You know, I'd call that a gap year. Yeah. So it's like a gap year. So we, I took a year out to work for this company. And then once I finished my placement, I had to go back to uni for a year. But they offered me a full time contract for once I finished my degree. And so I'm now back with a company that I did the previous year. Nice.

Matt: Awesome. Very cool. I like that whole idea of a gap year. I don't know if I've just always been a big fan of that. I'm also just a big fan of people, you know, doing whatever they want to do. But I don't know. I wish I had. So you're in, you're in sort of your nine to five. You have that? Are you mostly working from home right now? I'm guessing?

James: Yeah. Yeah. So in the UK, we're in very kind of strict lockdown rules at the moment where you're not really allowed to work in the office. So I do have an office. It's not far from me. But at the moment, I just worked at my home office. 

Matt: Okay, cool. Awesome. That productivity level just went down a little bit, right? Well, it's like, I don't know, it's just interesting. It's just interesting. I feel like my observation of the world is, I don't know, it's a fascinating time, like, my observation of most of the world is that people have largely continued with their level of productivity, or their level of sort of efficiency that they had before it. But I feel like globally, it's gone down a little bit. And I feel like, but the interesting piece, too, and you should, I don't know if you can speak to this, but I also have friends who, when they, when COVID hit, and they, they sort of got sent home, right. And then suddenly, they didn't have this black and white difference between their work and their life. And they started doing work at weird times throughout the day and their work life has bleed into their personal life. And they didn't really set hard boundaries. Like I've been working from home for a long time. So that's actually been part of my life for a really, really long time. But I have friends and I know people and there's articles, a wall street journal article just came out yesterday about how, like, people are just quitting their jobs, because they can't handle setting the boundaries. They don't know how they don't have the skills, they don't know, people are just quitting. They're just like, Alright, I can't do this.

James: A lot of people are doing that as well. Now, what I think is quite good about my generation. In particular, if people don't enjoy their jobs, they won't stick to that job for 20 years. They're just going, they just don't need it, then I'm just gonna go find something better, which I think it's great for everyone. And anyone that can do that is at a very privileged level. 

Matt: Yeah. So All right, we got nine to five. Now we've got sort of the whole affiliate thing. We've also, just for everybody who's watching we do a short little short little, like Question and Answer thing in the form of a, I don't know what you would call this like a survey for our guests before they come on, just to give us a little background on them. And you said that you're done with a Pokemon channel on TikTok, which I freaking is just like, dude, Pokemon is like total total resurgence right now. And people are talking about, you know, the values and things like NFT's or digital art, stuff like that. And for some reason, I've just seen Pokemon around a lot more. But anyway, tell us a little bit about that as sort of your first was that your first sort of venture into content creation?

James: Yeah, I think so. I've done a few little bits on YouTube in the past on various channels, but never stuck to it. But I really committed to this Pokemon kind of TikToks I love Pokemon when I was younger, and I got on the bandwagon just before it started becoming big again I'd say it probably began maybe like eight months ago. So I started the channel maybe a couple of months before the big boom where I basically just created content because opening packs and stuff on video. And it was crazy like the responses I was getting. I had companies approaching me asking me to become effectively an affiliate for them if I promoted their stuff if they sent me stuff as well. I'd open it on camera for the and it was really successful and probably the most kind of gratifying thing for me. TikTok in general is with YouTube, it's all about kind of subscribers and average views, but Tick tock, you never really know what is going to happen with a video. So you can post if you posted the exact same video five times, you get five completely different sets of new counts, one would get like 1,000,000 and 1 would get 500 views and it was crazy. But I managed to start a series that I haven't seen anyone else doing because there was a few kinds of Pokemon craze at the time. And I started this one series, and it was completely original, I came up with a clip of myself and I was averaging so many views. And there were channels with 200,000 more followers than me. And my numbers were just blowing them out the water just because I have this, like I had this original concept. And then it got to like December this year. And I decided to kind of stop because, well one the money even though it wasn't investment, I think I spent maybe like two $300 in the end. And now that collections work like four or 5000. But continuing to invest in it is so expensive at the moment. It's ridiculous. So it got burned. I was like, I can't. I don't want to feasibly do this at the moment until I've built some other forms of income. Even though I was getting sent stuff, I wasn't getting sent the expensive stuff, like the ones that are gonna go up in value quickly. So I kind of call it quits on that. But the second I call it quits on it. No joke, literally, I was going through my sixth off like a couple of weeks later, every other typical channel had taken the series that I started and they were all doing it. But all of them because they don't notice I've stopped that loaning side privatizing videos. And literally all my feed was filled up with this series outside. And that was like, it didn't bother me at all. I was happy for people to use it. But that was quite like, Wow, I've actually made an impact on this whole community. Because it's people from everywhere in the world doing it. 

Matt: That's crazy. That's really cool. That's really cool. I love it. So that's your first step into the world of content creation, you come up with an original idea, it blows up, you're doing well. Now you're shorter and have shifted into content creation a little bit in the make money, online space, stuff like that. But you wanted to title this so this is so cool and curious to me. You want it to be titled today, how to get your first 10,000 subscribers on social media, which I am a follower, right on social media. So I just want to get into that. But first, I want to make sure that the people and I're going to drip this out for people but the people who are here with us live this morning, if you can comment that you're ready, because we're going to dive into exactly what this title is. For today's show. We're going to dive into how to get your first 10,000 subscribers and I want to see a lot of engagement. We got quite a few people here who were alive. There's gonna be a lot of people who watch him say a recording, typically a couple 1000 but for everybody who's here, Sarah is ready. Okay. Who else Roy is ready. Jill is ready, Amanda, Megan Laurie? Okay, Kathy, what's up? Kathy? Good to see it. William Baggett, Frank. Okay. I just want to make sure everybody's like, just ready for it. Because I don't want you to miss it. Because this guy James is, he's got it kind of figured out here. And you could probably take some really great little nuggets. All right, James. I think they're ready, man. So let's, let's unpack it, I might have a few things to add or, or drizzle in or whatever. Consider whatever I add to sort of the icing on the cake. But you're gonna bring the cake here today because most people here have maybe very few followers or a few followers or whatever. Like, tell us just if you're starting over again from zero, and you're like, Alright, my goal I want to get to 10,000 what are you going to do? How are you going to hack that when you titled this what was in your mind?

James: So kind of to give a bit of background I've on TikTok now I've gone over the 10,000 mark three times of freedom. And I've also mentioned on a few private Instagram accounts that I use separate but also just not for legendary. But if I speak to that I want to talk specifically on Tick Tock because that's where I feel I have the best knowledge and I feel that that's where a lot of people are now promoting.

Matt: Yeah. And our show is sort of what's working right now. So I agree, let's go into TikTok because it's obviously working right now.

James: Yeah, I would say to what the most moment of interest to me personally, those two I've seen the most engagement. Obviously they're two free forms of traffic. So I would say that I think it's easy for me to say what I see people doing wrong. within their first couple of months or sometimes weeks, you see people adjust. But often, the first 1000 followers is definitely the hardest. But what I see a lot of people doing wrong is they see channels, bigger channels. For example, in the UK, I'd probably say there's only me and maybe two other people that have channels kind of above 44,000 or something like that. Now, I see a lot of people just copy what we've done. And that's absolutely fine. Like I did the same, that it's okay to make the same videos, a bigger channel, if that's full. One out of every three videos, unions come into that your own that you've come up with, you've found the treadmill TikTok, and you forgot how to turn this into a brilliant thing. And even if it doesn't perform well, doing that, one video can be copied the next two half the original. So I kind of have a two on one policy is what I've tried to stick by.

Matt: Yeah, I would. I would typically tell people to go and bookmark and actually look up TikTok on your computer, don't worry, you can do it on your phone too. But on your computer and actually bookmark videos from people that you respect or people that are in your niche, maybe it's health and fitness, right? Go find health and fitness, or on the decade in a day, what we teach, what I teach is go to channels, like if you're in the dog training niche, or if you're in the health and fitness or if you're like a relationship dating coach, go find people in that niche and actually bookmark all their videos that are above let's say 100,000 views or a million views, if they're a really big channel, and bookmark them. And then Canada and then sort them in the folder that you have them on your browser, right bookmarked, and sort them by the most to the least viewed. And just watch them and unpack and take notes on the formula, just for those high watched videos and see what they do and actually become a student of their content. And then what you'll find is, the more that you sit there and just you got a notebook open, and you can write down, okay, the first 10 seconds, here's what they do the 10 seconds to 20 seconds they're doing this, and you'll see you'll be able to become sort of a content. I don't want us to be a curator, but like a student of content, and then you can create your own stuff. See what you're saying, though, study those things. Maybe if you're going to take like let's say, I go into the relationship and dating niche, right? And I want to be a dating coach to dudes who can't find a date, right? They're just, they just, they've been stuck for five years, and they just can't land the day, right? And it seems like every girl is saying no, they're doing something wrong. So they go in, and they find another person in that niche they find and that person has a video that's 2.6 million views, right? What you're saying is, hey, literally go grab that video, make it your own. But you can take the exact formula second by second and recreate that video and change out a few things, but there's nothing proprietary about that video. Nothing.

James: Look 100%you can do that. That is what I would encourage people to do because we Tik Tok there are certain things that work better than others. So for example, movement at the start of the video tends to do better. Usually saying some sort of tagline along the lines. Here are three reasons why and then have a little right and the last one is very important. So people have to stick around because we think what a lot of people don't realize, like it doesn't really matter. They don't really matter. The two things that are the most influential are the watch time and the comments, watch. So if you want to encourage people to comment, and you need people to watch depending on how long the video is, you need to watch. So what I what I've heard from personal experience on my channel, I sometimes get a little bit of stick from people like Why don't you post longer videos when you do this once you do that is because tendency is the longer you post the video, the worse it's going to perform just purely because of WhatsApp which is fine. But it's very, I'd say it's very important to get caught up in the view on TikTok because I have so many examples. Not specifically on my boyfriend. I can use something on my family now. Well actually another video I had on another channel that I have performed. I gained from one affiliate pose. I think he got something like 800,000 views from that. I gained 30,000 followers from one video, but then recently on my current affiliate channel, all things affiliate. I have a video that 1.4 million it probably gave me about $1,000. So it really depends, like, how you encourage people to follow you, how you encourage people to interact with your content. And I know it sounds really bad. But I deliberately tried to annoy people. Yeah. Like, I know, it sounds horrible, but I'm British, I don't really care what people because we have quite thick skin, you know, we have dark humor, a very thick skin, I couldn't care less on the podium, if I wind them up, I'll use it to my advantage because, for example, one of my videos got 800,000, but on my current affiliate Channel, as well, and on that video, probably 50% of the comments, were just people getting angry at me because they miss understood the job. But I deliberately wrote the job, because I knew that they would misunderstand it. So I've done a bit of reverse psychology. So once I explained it to them, they were fine once I'd put it in the comments, because I know that that's fine. But this is after they commented, and once they comment, then it gets pushed out to more people. So then they're not angry with me, they realize I'm actually not being horrible. They then told me that the video did really well, that the video was probably just a legendary marketer making over $1,000 just for one video, because the interaction was so good. And I tend to find that when I annoy people, it seems to perform better for the video. So it seems to help with interaction, because every five people that post a comment, one other person will probably buy the product. That's the way I like to look at it. And as long as you can take that and have a thick skin about it. You just gotta remember that. You're never gonna meet these people. They're never going to affect your life that much.

Matt: Right. Yeah. Yeah, on the note of like, so annoying people is one way to do that. But also having weird quirky things in your video. So for instance, Scott Austin. I was looking through his channel, he's an affiliate marketer, and he had this one video, the most viral video that he ever did. And it is, Are you familiar with the service called Fiverr? Yeah, okay. So it's spelled Fiverr right? In the video, he purposefully says, he's unpacking, like how to create a T-shirt design company, right? And he, he, purposefully says five r r com. Rather than saying Fiverr. And, and his comments, I think, the amount of comments that were like, Did you hear what he just said? Or like, it was just like his comments were flooded with crying, laughing emojis, and all of the people just blowing up his comments, because he did that on purpose. But people were like, are you serious?

James: He made mistakes as well. Yeah. Yeah, he made a mistake, an obvious one. Yeah. And people will comment you spell this wrong, or you know how to spell this. You might make this much money, but at least I know how to spell the Thank you. I now that I have your bank account. 

Matt: Right? Exactly, exactly. And I struggle with that a lot. So this is the lessor for made. And I'm proud of that again. That's a lesson for me because I'm like a perfectionist. And I like to see everything and just perfect little spaces in order and design and everything. And, and one lesson that I've learned from Dave is that this also works in copywriting and sales pages. Typically, a sales page that is designed perfectly has everything in perfect rows and boxes and everything converts way less, like infinitely less than a sales page that has things that are a little bit quirky, or maybe like weird language are kind of out of whack and they're highlighted in weird bold colors and just that kind of stuff. It's the same thing. It catches somebody ‘s engagement. It's not that we're getting measured or anything but it captures somebody's attention. It's the same psychology that you're talking about. That's so fascinating. And I yeah, work so it definitely works. I know it works because what I did as an example one Thursday on our business blueprints webinar, is I took that video, and I posted it to a different channel, I took it and I made the video while I was live demoing it for people. And I posted it to my own channel. I was like, I'm gonna remake this video, watch this. And I did five things. And then I got this was this was the, I want to say maybe like the 10th video on the channel, there were less than 100 followers. And that video alone got 354,000 views over the course of three months, and it was like hooked up to some random affiliate offer or something Sales still came in through that offer months down the road. It's just insanity. But I love what you said there first about creating one that's sort of modeled after somebody else's successful videos. And then for the other two, what kind of stuff do you do?

James: I would literally take any sort of trend, any sound that's currently trending because it obviously takes off, it's so important to get on the trends early. I would make a sound and it might take me all day to think about it. I'll just sit there and think, how can I turn this into something about the $7 course or just something about affiliate marketing in general? Because that's, that's another thing like, now that I'm on none, I'm on a roll. Another thing I see, I feel like a lot of people make mistakes is they only post videos where they're like, this course is $7 buy this course for $7 Wireless cost $7. Why does this cost $7? And it's like, Whoa, right? Chill, posts, maybe post a funny video, that has nothing to do with affiliate marketing. Just to get your traffic. I know that tik tok is based on niches. And it's important to attract your niche and not random people. But maybe post an informative video, and then post a funny video. I don't want to see at the end of every single one of your videos in the link now, because it was very thin very quickly. Like I think I probably only say check the link in my bio. I actually went to a stage a couple weeks ago, where I didn't say it like weeks, I'm still converting, I was still getting conversions every day. But I didn't have to say it. And it's because once you say that I think a lot of people sometimes are a bit like am I missing my best ever converting video that made me quite a lot, probably like nearly $2,000 in a couple of days. Who didn't even mention my bio dimensioning I just said like, what you could and then set it that I wasn't like don't care about go follow me go do this, you don't need to. It's important to relate with people and give yourself a personality rather than always come across. Like you're just trying to force a product down someone's throat. 

Matt: Yeah, of course, like one of probably one of the most successful, really influential content creators that's in our community is a guy, his name is Calvin Hill. And he spoke at one of our most recent masterminds, and he's never doing that weird, like, buy from my link and purchase from my link. Like, he's just thoughtfully creating really powerful content. And, and people see that and have a level of respect that they don't have when you're just $7 and you got to buy it right now. Come on, buy it, go, go go go go, it's like water, like, you sound like a used car salesman, like sign on the dotted line, sign all the data, like come on, come on, you know, like, it's like, took my keys and my my cell phone and your you know, holding me hostage until I bought and and you're more likely also to get social media channels shut down by doing that too, because people are going to start reporting you as spam. And your channels are probably going to get shadow banned, too. Because people are going to constantly report your stuff. And then they're like, Look, you're creating a bunch of shit that people don't even like. People are just angry about it or upset or they think you're spamming them or something. So you're totally right, on creating content that's actually engaging. And the thing that people don't realize, this is the big thing that I feel like people do not realize is that when you create this content that goes viral, that has nothing to do with your offer, it might have something to do with your niche. It might be creative and fun and have to do a little bit with your niche, you're going to drive so much traffic, because you're going to get so many views like people don't understand the volume of traffic that will happen naturally and organically. Just from creating content that's creative. And actually, like we call it edutainment creative content. That's totally entertaining. But also you can sprinkle in a little bit of education in there where people are like, Damn, like that was actually that was really interesting. But also like, that was funny like this guy's that's the kind of person somebody wants to buy from. It's something we teach in our attraction code. It's something that Dave's been teaching for years and years and years is like people don't want to buy from scammy losers they don't want to buy from people who are influential, who give off sort of a vibe and a feel of like, hey, this person doesn't need me. They're not craving my purchase. They're just here to share awesome content and I'm here to watch it by shift. Yes, that's the reality. I think that's kind of like you're getting that.

James: Yeah. 100% I think it's important also, that you plan, that if you're a talker in particular, you should plan what you're going to post and when you're going to post it. So, for example, when I posted one video, if I'm being completely honest, as a TikToker, I know when one of my posts isn't great. And I know when I have a feeling I'm like, I think this one might blow up once you consistently start getting the 20-30k videos, and then the occasion to entertain and the occasional a underpay whatever, you start to get a gauge of what you think will actually perform well. Don't get me wrong, sometimes one that you don't think will do well, well, and then one you do think will do well. But you do start to get a bit of a knack for it. And it's okay to not post content that you think is gonna blow up like, personal recently, I've been so busy, I'm really struggling with creativity. So my recent few posts have been so average, and I've not really, I've not expected them to do well, like my, my partner will be like, Oh, it's got 500 views in five minutes. Oh, that's really good. I might Don't worry or fall off. Like it won't. Because I know, I know, I know, having worked and I know from the early interactions help form. But what I would say is, if you're going to post something, either once people are or use the five, our tactic or some other new thing, right, this he gets several 100,000 have a educational video to post straight after that gives a snippet of information. So one of my videos got kind of like 800k. And that was just me talking about setting up a $3,000 funnel. And that blew up that did really, really well. And then loads of people come in and show us and show us and you don't show us anything. And then I was at like my recent post. And then I did a whole video. Like in 60 seconds I showed up to show how to suffer the entire Pinterest funnel niche. And it was one of the hardest who knows I've ever had to make. Because it was so fast. Yeah, I'll post that straight after. And that video also did extremely well, because all these people were then looking at our page. And then they were like, Okay, this guy posts educational stuff. You don't have to tell them everything. You want to tell them and then go to a service or product to learn more. And more. Matt: Yeah, so then when they go to your service product to learn more, that's when you make yourself we're giving away a snippet of information to then encourage them to take a package of information is better than not giving them anything and expecting them to buy the full thing.

That's marketing, baby. That's marketing. And some people go too far. The other route, they give away everything I give away. Okay, well, I got everything I need here. 

James: Yeah. And you're definitely not going to sell anything. So what it's not to help people, but you're in the affiliate business to make money out of it. At the end of the very sorry. 

Matt: Yeah. Wow. Fascinating. Man. That's so fascinating. There's a question down here. I wanted to just answer it if we can. Brian wanted to know, do you storyboard or write things down? Do you use a teleprompter or anything like that?

James: Occasionally I wouldn't say I storyboard. I would say if I hear a sound in the day, like for example, if I've got my notes, now, I write down the kind of sound and then instantly think of Oh, I could potentially use like. So like I've got all these notes here that are all kinds of sounds and video ideas that I can then make later in the day. But that's about as far as it goes. If I instantly think okay, that sound I could say this to it. I'll just write that sentence down just so I remember it for later. Because I don't know if I always will, because I obviously work full time. So I don't use a teleprompter because I'm quite good at it. I don't make too many mistakes. I'm speaking it doesn't usually take too many attempts. I would say it's better to go kind of naturally anyway, I feel like if you're reading off a teleprompter all the time, it comes across a bit. It's a really long piece. But the good thing about TikTok is you can film five seconds here 10 seconds there 15 seconds, and just move about a little bit. It's not good to just kind of brighten the camera but today I'm going to show you how to set up a funnel and then hit upon $1,000. It doesn't work. It's better if you're here, and then you're here and then you're here like instantly perfect to keep people engaged and when you're doing things. And then you don't have to remember long sentences you just have to remember you have to remember a sentence, sentence, sentence. So it's like if no one's more TikTok and look at my videos. I very Rarely speak for longer than like 10 seconds. Yeah, totally. It's just quick, like snapping them out.

Matt: Yeah, yeah. And I tell people, like when I'm doing those kind of videos, I tell people, give them a quick little hook five to, like, it should be five seconds max, like, Hey, I'm going to show you how to blah, blah, blah, in less than a minute. Here we go. And then get into step one. And like, each of those should be their own little five to 10 seconds snippet, like 10 seconds, Max. Yeah, like, five seconds is like step one, go here. Step two, do this. Step three, step four, Step five, Step six. And then and then you can do a quick like, like and follow for more, or you can just leave it, you can just cut it off at the end. And I even tell people to, at the very end of your video, have that cut as quick as you can on the last word that you say so that the video restarts quickly. And people don't swipe. Because if you have this, like three seconds, like thanks for watching my video, we're only conditioned to do, they're conditioned to swipe, they're going to go to the next video. Amanda is curious if you follow? Do you follow people back? Do you get a combo with them? Do you think it's, uh, do you do much engagement like that people are always wondering.

James: I did for a while. I did quite a few kinds of comment 5k and follow me and I'll send you a message where I would then push people. And that sounds okay, for getting followers and stuff. Maybe he'll open the doors. I don't follow too many things right now, just because my channel at the moment in particular, it's really hard to keep track of, I don't know, like, every time I go on it, I'll have like some videos I posted two months back, and then I'll have followers in there and everywhere. And it's just a bit like, okay, who do I follow? Who don't I follow? I think if people ask me questions, so if people comment on my video and ask me a specific question that I can't really answer in the comments, I will then follow them. Message him directly.

Matt: Oh, okay. Okay, cool. I think I think kind of what she may have been getting out there is like, sometimes people are like, sometimes people are like, after you post a video you should go like and follow other videos so that you get on the for you page more something like that. Like there's these weird theories. I tell people you can give me your feedback on what you think. But I just tell people to look at all that's bullshit. All that matters is your video, your content, that's all that matters. If you nail the video, you nail the content, it's engaging and you sort of hit the algorithm right where it needs to be hit. You get a lot of like reset comments, you get a lot of engagement, you get a lot of view time that video is going to go and your channel is going to go regardless of anything else that you're doing in terms of like, Oh, are you liking are you going live? Are you doing a creator account? Are you doing a business account? I've blown up accounts with one or two videos. I've taken over 10,000 followers with one single video. And it was in the manifestation and spirituality. It was one video I went to that has 3 million followers. I found their most viewed video and was like, oh, okay, I'll get a different background. And I'll put different text on this video, but it was just using his cell phone. And it just blew up you know, it's like this is just this is not rocket science here. This is just finding something successful. And modeling is the same thing people do in the stock market. There's people on TikTok who model the stock choices of politicians and CEOs of huge companies and because of our Patriot Act in the United States that has to be made public. So everybody can see the stock choices of people who are in the Senate, the House of Representatives, and then they just copy them because these people were insiders.

James: I completely agree with you about the whole following and liking other content is similar like that's all how things work synced up puts out your video in the first 20 minutes to a handful of people depending on how they want these four levels to take off. That's how the videos work. There's four levels sometimes your video will skip if you have a video that suddenly 3000 in the first half hour is because TikTok has let you skip the first three levels and depending on how it performs on that level that will depend where it goes viral and it's informed very well that's why some videos I put videos on my wall and then it stop.

Matt: And then it fizzles yeah, before you go into the four levels. I'm with you in my mind on what those are but everybody Your might not be one of those four levels just real quick.

James: Don't think you can quote me on that. But I think it's so the first one is the first handful, it sends it out for about 200 people. Yeah, it's like 200. It's like 200 people, and then depending on how they perform, it will then send them out, then since 2000, and then that's kind of where for the first two hours, then after that two hours, depending on how it performs, he will then hand it out to kind of 10,000 men, depending on how it performs there, it will then go out to 200 to 200,000 bucks. That's usually how the videos perform. 

Matt: Yeah, and a lot of people in our community, a lot of people watching this and stuff like that. They'll get themselves to about all of their videos just showing like 200 views, right? It's like 190 views or something, it's like almost mysteriously, that amount. What I tell people is like, Hey, this is your test batch of people that they put it out to they said, hey, let's show this to 200 people see what happens. If it doesn't go beyond that you're doing something wrong in your content. That's the end of the story.

James: Also, that 200 is completely random, that that is not based on your hashtags. It's not based on your niche, it's not based on anything completely random. It's only the face of the 2000 people. That's when they bring in other related videos. So that's why I say the whole following the liking videos and other niches, or similar content, because you know, the first few 100 people decide how well the video does and then nothing to do with affiliate marketing or wherever you're promoting.

Matt: That’s powerful stuff right there. That's powerful. So people would do well to rewatch a good portion of this, because you dropped a lot of awesome nuggets in this. This is one of the more powerful, here's some great tips to take right now and implement in your content creation. So thanks for that. James, I really appreciate that. Do you have any? Do you have any thoughts on just you know, for people who are here, they're new, I look honestly, like a lot of people who watch these. A lot of people have been in our community a long time. They've been around the block. They're currently trying to grow their business, in a lot of different niches and industries and all kinds of stuff. But also, there's people who are here day one, like literally purchasing our $7 challenge, like 10 minutes ago. And they're like just discovering this world of digital marketing of freelance digital marketing, content creation. What would you say to those people who are starting the challenge today or kind of just get started in this sort of digital world?

James: I would say, don't focus on the numbers. Pick your niche, pick something you're interested in between you're passionate about keeping separate. That's my personal preference. So if I was to do a tick tock now that was about fitness stuff, which is what I found on Pinterest, I would make mistakes, I wouldn't do that on the currency. Because I think then you've got more reach, you have two channels. I would say just don't get don't get beat down about the clicks and look at, for example, on my clickfunnels for legendary marketer in particular. In my first week, I think I did just over 1000. I only had about 40 people click my link. And I did over 1000 whereas now I have how many. But those 40 people were so nice. And obviously very interested that I got more sales than probably the next 2000 people that clicked on it once I have a few viral videos. So the numbers really don't matter. It's the quality of the people you're bringing to your stuff, right? Whether that's through ads, or for Instagram or Pinterest or for ticks. It's all about the quality, not the cost as much. And don't. It's very hard to get caught up in numbers. That's why a lot of people will stop YouTube or a lot of people stop Instagram. It's all about the numbers. It's not, I can assure you it's not. Yep. numbers that would mean sales.

Matt: I love it. I love it. All right, James. We're gonna we're gonna call this thing a wrap for the day. Hey, we really appreciate you taking a little bit of time out of your lunch break to come on here. Hopefully we didn't keep it too long, but honestly, thanks a lot. Thanks for coming on. Thanks for dropping some gems. 

James: Thank you for having me. 

Matt: Alright, see you James. All right. Dang, that was awesome. Hopefully you guys got some good value from that. And if you did leave, leave him a comment. He'll look through and see those comments. But Geez, that was really great info and yeah, hopefully you got value from that, hey, we'll be back here tomorrow, same time, same place Thursday and Friday of this week, same time, same place wake up legendary. If you're newer, or if you don't already subscribe to our text messages, you can text the number on the screen 813-296-8553 you text WUL, you'll get a short little text message every time we go live. In that little text, we don't pitch you, we don't sell you stuff in this text message. All it is is every day 10am Eastern, you're going to get a little text message that says hey, we're going live. And here's who our guest is today, here's what we're talking about. So make sure to get on that list and make sure to tune into these every single day, it's important to get a little dose of inspiration that it's you're filling your day with a quick jolt of 30 to 45 minutes, maybe an hour of impactful what's working now. But also you get a little bit of inspiration sprinkled in there to have people who are actually getting results in their businesses. People were totally brand new to this. I mean, James Yeah, he created some Pokemon thing last year, but he's like, he's been in this affiliate marketing industry for like, I don't know, 30 days or 60 days or something like that. So it's just a reminder that look, even if you're even if things are taken off a little slow, or you're just kind of getting going. But there's a big, big, big space for you in whatever niche that you want to be in. So thanks to everybody for tuning in. We'll see you again tomorrow.

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Below is the transcription for Tuesday's episode: 

Dave: You guys know you like that intro? Like that intro music right like a little theme song here every time it goes on I like, drop a little shoulder like that I'm like, anyways, my name is Dave Sharpe. I'm going to be your pilot today. We're going to take this plane for a little ride and talk to my man Thaddeus. if you guys are new to this show, or you're wondering, when we do it, why do we do it? Well, first and foremost, make sure that you text if you want reminders every morning Wu L to the phone number 813-296-8553. Again, I feel like the guy on the infomercial. And wait, there's more again now. WUL stands for Wake Up Legendary. WUL to 8132968553. And we'll send you a little text message reminder. Just like that. I actually just got mine. So let's bring in the man of the hour. My man Thaddeus, welcome to the show, brother.

Thaddeus: What's going on, Dave? How are we doing this morning? Good. My man. Where are you calling in from all over here in Georgia? It is about 45 minutes north of Atlanta. 

Dave: I see you got that Falcons hat on, my man. You know, always really are you a big sports fan there in Atlanta. I'm a big Falcons fan. I've just kind of fallen into that. I've always kind of been drawn more to the football aspect than the other teams. I was a Braves fan back in the 90s when I was younger, but baseball kind of I don't know. It just never really captured my attention for very long.

Dave: Well, me too. I was a big Rays fan growing up, John Smoltz back in the John Smoltz in the Greg Maddux arrow right when they had the foursome. They had John Smoltz, Greg Abbott and two others Steve Avery, I think was his name. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Then who had one more? Kevin?

Thaddeus: Smoltz Glavine Maddux Avery cannot remember

Dave: Yeah, that's it. I'm glad it was a Glavine. What was it? 

Thaddeus: Tom Glavine. 

Dave: Okay, okay. Yeah, they were they had I was a pitcher growing up in baseball, so I mean, they had what my other favorite pitcher was Randy Johnson for the for the Mariners, Seattle Mariners the big lefty, but, man, I think they had one of the best pitching staffs of all time there back in. I think it was the 90s with Yeah, Greg Maddux was kind of their top top of the food chain. starter in and but they were all good. I mean, they were a fun team to watch. So anyways, let's talk about you and your business. How did you get started? I mean, this is your first venture online. Am I right about that?

Thaddeus: Absolutely. Well, like I would say, I mean obviously in 2020 so many people are obviously stuck inside. And as the year kind of progressed, I started you know, I stumbled across TikTok started watching you know, random videos, just you know, like so many people that you have on the show actually stumbled across like a someone talking about some books and I actually read, I will teach you to be rich. And after reading that Emraan likes the setting, I think it is his name. Dr. Rahman. Okay. Yeah, that's right. Raymond Rama. Yeah, I might be mispronouncing it. Yeah, me too. Anyways, you read that. So I read that, you know, and I started, you know, because I've always really been big into, like, trying to set myself up for later. And then, after reading that, it really made me kind of dive into my own financial situation and realize that, like, I was nowhere close to anywhere being prepared to actually see any type of retirement. So, you know, like, I started dabbling into online space, trying to figure out ways to make money online. Obviously ran into a lot of roadblocks, a lot of like, just kind of, you know, nickel and diamond, so to speak. And then I actually ran across Spencer Mecham’s TikTok, and he was talking about affiliate marketing. So I was like, Well, what is this? I've never even heard of affiliate marketing. And he simplified it so well that I was like, I started digging into it and digging into it, and then I stumbled across people talking about the 15 day business builder challenge. So TikTok does what it does and keeps feeding me those videos. And I was like, What is this challenge I have like, I've got to figure this out. So I literally went online, actually looked up Legendary. And then boom, here I am. And I just, yeah, I fell in love with the whole concept. And I think it's just amazing, especially if you're just starting out. Yeah, it's a really, really great concept. So that's kind of how I wound up here.

Dave: So going through the challenge, what did talk to us about some of your aha moments, I mean, you talk about the book and how you had sort of, you know, some aha moments about, you know, your financial situation, or, etc. But talk to us about some of your aha moments going through the challenge and kind of learning about affiliate marketing, the different ways that you can sell information and so forth.

Thaddeus: Well, when I was going through the challenge, like, like, after watching the videos, it was kind of like one of those things where, you know, you, I've always been one to, I'm super observant. So when I start doing something, I notice it everywhere. So then everything started to click, like, okay, so when I'm looking for that new TV, like, Oh, those are all affiliate people talking about, oh, you know, click here, oh, I'm looking for a new cat food for my sick cat. Oh, those are all affiliate links, as well. So I just started seeing it everywhere. And I was like, Oh, my God, like this is like so super endless and limitless, and what you can actually start doing with it. So those were like the big aha moments that I had, as I was going through the challenge and realized that, you know, it's so vast and almost endless that I mean, literally anything that you're passionate about, you can start doing. So that's what that was like the biggest aha moment as I was going through the challenge.

Dave: So you started to kind of realize that, like, people were doing affiliate marketing all around you, and you never knew it.

Thaddeus: Right. Exactly. Yeah. I mean, it's like you go online, you start to start looking for this, that or the other, and you're all over affiliate marketing websites, and you don't even realize it, you know, blogs, metrics.

Dave: Right, exactly. Like if you google something, and you're sitting there reading a review of a website, or a review of a product, right? A lot of times we just read those reviews and never think, why did this person write this review? Right? We just read the review, and we take it at face value. And we just believe it for what it is right? Instead of looking at the beach, reading between the lines, if you will, and asking ourselves, well, what is the motivation behind this person writing this blog post? And are they recommending this product? Because they get paid a lot of commissions? Are they recommending the product? Because it's a good quality product? Or are they doing it just out of the goodness of their heart, just reading between the lines. One of the things that has happened in the online space, is when you launch a course or something a bunch of people go out and start writing blog posts that are negative about you. And so what sort of naive person who doesn't really understand online marketing, they might read that article and be like, Oh, my God, I found this article about this guru or this company or this program. And people have written articles like this about us. And maybe they might, you know, bring them to me and say, Well, what do you think about this? And I say, Well, I think the person is doing affiliate marketing, they're trashing one product, in ranking for the name for that product, right? Or that course, only to then go in at the bottom of the blog posts say, Well, here's my number one recommendation or whatever. And it is as if it's just a gentle, innocent recommendation, but it's really an affiliate link. And I say, well, it's a clever way to do affiliate marketing, you know, so that's cool, dude, that's really that's really an interesting insight. Somebody yesterday said, I finally clicked how all these influencers make money. You know, like people with these big, huge Instagram accounts and stuff. I never knew they had all these cars and all these expensive things. And it looked like they were just posting content, and I was like, where are they making their money from? And it's like, I finally got it. They're recommending products, and they're an affiliate of those products. It's kind of mind blowing, isn't it? Bro?

Thaddeus: That's it. I mean, absolutely. Like it's crazy when you just don't know what you don't know. You know? Like, that's like the greatest way to say it. Exactly.

Dave: Exactly. So now you do know so how is life and the way you see your future different now?

Thaddeus: Well, the way it is now, like I'm, I mean, like I'm all in like this. It's actually been just so eye opening to the possibilities of what my life can actually look like, you know, the, I'm thinking down the road I'm thinking to the next day. So yeah, like my life. Like, I mean, they don't it's not. It's not like I just have some renewed purpose but it almost feels like it. You know what I mean? Like, I've always had a purpose, but it feels like that there's just something more for me beyond just the 40 hour grind the 50 hour grind of just wasting away at some job that just doesn't fulfill me, you know, that's probably the best way I can sum up and like how my life has really changed. And also, you know, with, with my partner, you know, it's just, it's renewed her interest in things. I'm getting her more involved with it. So it's been, it's been actually really, really, really good for both of us. So it's been an amazing process, to say the least.

Dave: That's cool, man. That's cool. It is interesting how I think that was really well said, not not too overhyped, but not not, you know, not kind of understating. And it's like, it's not a renewed life. It's not like you're born again. But it feels like you are right, it kind of feels like you just have this kind of new sort of motivation or purpose. And you just see the world differently. What's your perspective? I know you are working? Or do you still have a job? 

Thaddeus: Yeah, I'm still working. I work in a plastic manufacturing company. So I work around just plastic all day. It's, it's, it's one of those jobs where it's like, you just do the same thing over and over and over, until basically you wilt away or you retire, you know, whichever happens first. Yeah.

Dave: So like, how do you see that it's got to feel good? Or I don't want to put words in your mouth; How does it feel that I can only imagine some months ago that you kind of maybe saw your future as retiring there, or like, maybe you could get a better, different better job at another company or something, now it's like this 180 degree turn to where you see maybe working for yourself. And just, that seems like a pretty extreme contrast to be to see your life in your future and one on one path, and now seeing it on a completely different path. Can you describe what kind of thing has changed? Or if it's changed?

Thaddeus: Well, absolutely. Like, you know, working at a place, you know, everybody, every place somebody works, there's always like that, that older generation that's there. So it's almost like you're looking into the future of what your life actually has in score if you continue on that path. Yeah, for me, it was like, I do not want to be sitting around and just be cold and miserable. And just like, the only reason you got that job is because it's got some good fucking health insurance, you know? 

Dave: I mean, I wouldn't be straight up honest with you. It's such a common thing, right? It's like, I got the job. I'm keeping the job because of the health insurance. Oh, I mean, and I have people that work at where I work at it, that's the only reason they continue to have that job is because of the only the health insurance like you didn't know you're falling apart physically, you know, knee replacements, you know, you know, hip replacements, you know, but oh, I gotta have that health insurance. outlay, right, I'm

killing myself at the job, do my body but at least I got some help in the job providing the doorway for the insurance so I put my body back, back together.

Thaddeus: Right, rather than sitting back and actually like taking it easy and enjoying the fruits of all those years. You slaved away, you know, so yeah, like I said, like I was on that path. And that verse, like I've always just felt like that there was something more to life than just that. So yeah, I definitely had to take a step back and realize that if I continue doing what I'm doing, that's that's it. That's, that's the path that I'm going to be on. So yeah, now after realizing that I can actually take control over it and do something about it, rather than just sitting and waiting for like, yeah, it's 180 just like you kind of said, it's actually an amazing experience. Am I echoing? No weird echo. That's not me. Okay. I just want to make sure I'm not coming in. 

Dave: Oh, actually, is that a microphone in front of your mouth? 

Thaddeus: There is a microphone in front of my mouth. 

Dave: You’re coming in super sexy actually. 

Thaddeus: And you know, I'm rocking the robe. I got that for the Falcons rocket. I got my nice little mix. So yeah, I'm trying to. I'm trying to be like you Dave. 

Dave: Now at this point, you actually may be making me look bad. Like I need to go get my Hugh Hefner author clothes on.

Thaddeus: I'm all about that leisure life, you know,I want to enjoy life. You know, I don't want to just sit around. That's it. You know, sometimes if I feel like it, you know.

Dave: If you’re in your underwear right now you don't have to let us know. Just leave it up to the imagination. Exactly. You know, You put your own imagination into it. If you're in your robe you damn well better be in your underwear will better be in your underwear?

Thaddeus: I got my sister's brother living with me so I can't really rock the no pants party. Too much

Dave: So yeah, Yeah, that would be that weird you know the weird dude kind of Sausage Party going on.

Thaddeus: I don’t want to feel weird like an old dad.

Dave: Last night my alarm went off like, dude, I'm like running around. Like in my I had thrown a pair of sweatpants. The frickin cops came. You know what I mean? Because the alarm in the house went off and I'm like running around in sweatpants and in no shirt and it's just like, oh my god. You know, like, I just felt like just an old dad like What's going on? When I was 12, just a funny dad story, I was smoking a cigarette in my dad's house in the bathroom. And instead of like any intelligent human being would have done, he just threw the cigarette in the toilet bowl where there was water. I took some toilet paper and I wrapped the cigarette up in some toilet paper and kind of did this and threw it in the garbage can and went back to bed. Right? And so yeah, some time later. Like I hear screaming like, the bathrooms on fire.  My dad busted open the window outside with the hose like spraying. Outside, nice half asleep in his underwear. In his tighty whities. Right? And I walk outside. I'm like, What happened? I knew exactly what happened. What happened? It must have been spontaneous combustion. This  happens in the bathroom all the time. Right? 

Thaddeus: Exactly what that was. 

Dave: So you've kind of blown up on TikTok. Actually, I was just looking at your channel. You've got like freakin 85,000 followers, you’re driving traffic, you're you're you're creating content. you're rocking and rolling. Talk to us about getting started going through training and then getting into actually putting that training to work and taking action with it. And some of the hurdles you had to overcome at the beginning and sort of what you've learned along the way. 

Thaddeus: Well, funny you asked that, like, I feel like that I'm like, almost like the typical process of affiliate marketing with someone who's just starting out, you know, like, I'm not one of those, like, immediate I didn't like to blow up overnight. It didn't happen in my first week or my first month. In fact, it was like a really slow growth, you know, because I guess I was trying to figure out my voice. You know, because so many people try to emulate and be just like everybody else on tik tok, they try to make the exact same videos with the exact same everything. And that's good. And all you can actually get some traction that way. But it's not genuine, it's authentic. And people can see that. And people know that. So you've got to, and that was my problem when I first started and that was like, the biggest hurdle that I had jumped over was that I you know, I was so busy trying to be like everybody else worried about putting a link in my bio, rather than focusing on the content creation. You know, that was some of the biggest hurdles I had to jump over. And it's funny you say that I've kind of blown up like I was literally, before I made this video that went super viral. I think it's like 3.5 million. At this point. You know, I was literally on the verge of just almost giving up on TikTok, and like, switching to a different platform. That's like, it's just not for me, I'm getting no traction, like views are like 100-200 per video, you know, which is some better than some people get, but at the same time, it's you're never going to grow with that type of views. And then I was like, You know what, like, it had been about four days since I've posted and I was like, You know what, I've got it. I've got it. I've got to stick with it. So I've got it. I've got to stick with this. I'm committed to this and I have to put in the work. And then I'd you know, this was something I had my drafts that I had recorded months earlier decided to drop. It literally blew up over and over a weekend and like I'm talking about I mean, it was unreal how quick it happened. 

Dave: And were you just just shitting your pants? 

Thaddeus: I mean, just oh absolutely like I was like, I'm like Oh my fucking god like what the like, I don't even know what to do. Like, like, oh shit like, dude, like, I gotta keep posting a video like I'm at the same time I'm trying to build this Facebook group so I'm like, Oh shit, I'm like, scrambling around like a madman, like literally like my hair's on fire trying to get everything, anything together so I can try to capture this lightning in a bottle you know?

Dave: It's like oh now I'm famous]holy shit like now I can't let my I can't let my followers down now right like it's like shit I gotta keep delivering you know what I mean? Right,

Thaddeus: Right. And then like you had like rather than comparing yourself to others like now you're trying to like okay well like I've got to try to compare to myself now and it's like oh shit like, I don't even know what to do you know? It's like It's like somebody who's like you know you blow up and you're like okay, well Hey guys, I'm Thaddeus

Dave: It's like the dude who busts in the party, right in his underwear or something. And it's like, it's like, everybody's just sitting around you like, already like, but you're like, how's it going, guys? Party on Dave Right? You know, I'm here now. Yeah, that's good.

Thaddeus: It's been good. It's kind of I mean, it was a great push, though. So like, you know, it really pushed me to really dive into all these things that I've kind of like I wouldn't say half fasting but not certainly not full lasting. I would say maybe like seven eights asking, you know, that was that that little bit like rather than, you know, I got so caught up in trying to get the system set up that I didn't really focus on how they actually worked.

Dave: You're hitting all the nails, bro. 

Thaddeus: So like, I you know, focusing on the copy focusing on like, making everything that to me unique rather than just trying to be another, you know, another fish in a big pond, you know?

Dave: Man, you hit two things right there that I think are the number one things that people focus on, is first and foremost, like if people are gonna choose TikTok as their organic marketing method, which by the way, guys, there's other platforms. I know, we talk about TikTok a lot. There's Facebook, there's Pinterest, there's TikTok, or there's Twitter, there's YouTube. But for example, you take Twitter, the number one thing that people ask, and it's like, well, when can I put my link in my bio? It's like the first it's like, and then and then. And then the other thing that pops up is, well, you know, if I can't put my link in my bio, what's the sense of creating content because then I can't sell anything, and it's just all this kind of setup, initial getting ready to get ready to get ready to getting ready and just kind of just just just, you know, my dad used to say this funny thing on on construction sites, I feel like we're, you know, a couple homies just sitting here talking, and everybody's just listening. But we'll just, we'll, this is not PG. So my dad would be like, if I was if I was like, doing some dumb shit on a construction site, not getting anything done. He'd be like, you know, he'd be like, why don’t you get something done, instead of standing around fucking the dog, you know? I feel like that's like, what if that applies, you know, it's kind of like, like me on the construction site. An example of what I'd be doing is like, pull up to the construction site, finish breakfast, have a cigarette, you know, tie my shoes, you know, stretch a couple of sips of coffee, have another cigarette, like that kind of stuff. If I got started and got the work done, I could go home at two o'clock, but instead I'm going to sit around and fuck the dog in and have to get home late, right? Because I know, I feel like that's kind of what we do a lot online. We're just sitting around. And, and and then, you know, the other one that you mentioned was the funnels and just all this bullshit about setting things up. But I know it's really important. And I know that it's, I know that it's like something that we look at when we start sorry, I just had to block this guy because he's been an idiot. We have to, we have to, yeah, I know that that's part of the business. It is the mechanical part of the business. But it's literally only the tip of the iceberg. And there's that entire iceberg. The rest of the iceberg below the water that you don't see, which is what you're talking about. Am I right?

Thadeus: 100% like Like you said, it's all important stuff to have set up but it's not what you need to be focusing on because all the funnels and all the all the you can write and have the greatest emails, you can have the greatest funnel, but if you don't know how to drive people to it, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. You know, like if you can't get somebody to even say I okay, like I'm feeling this person, I'll go, I'll go check out what he's talking about. Because if you're just saying, Oh, just click the link in my bio, click the link in my bio. It sounds salesy. It just sounds like you're trying to push something. It sounds like you're like, you know, like you say, in all the training, you know, it's like you're trying to sell some what, uh, you know, magic oils or, you know, lotions, potions and pills, I think is the term is the way you say it. You know, rather than just being authentic to yourself and how, what you're promoting actually benefited your life in how someone else can relate to that and benefit their life. So yeah, I think you summed it up really well there, you know, all that stuff is below that. And that's like that, that's the stuff that you need to have. But it's not what you need to be mainly focusing on.

Dave: I mean, what I've learned is that, here's what I've learned man in 10 years is that a couple of things that you've started to experience. Number one, some of the most unorthodox, unpredictable, almost accidental shit is what kind of sometimes works. And a lot of times, I'm like, I can't believe that worked. You know what I mean? Like, seriously, a lot of times I'm on purpose. And, you know, don't get it twisted, guys, I'm not, you know, just throwing spaghetti at the wall. After a while you start to know what works and what doesn't. But it doesn't mean that you don't take chances, it doesn't mean that you don't occasionally throw some spaghetti on the wall and go, can't believe that stuck, you know what I mean? The other thing that I've learned is that, well, I want to hit on the other thing that you said that was really important is that, like, just just shoot it, create it, write it and get it out. Because sometimes the goal, the that rocket ship, that's going to take you to the next level that's going to go viral, that's gonna, that's going to convert a huge part of your audience, it can be one email that you send, that just is so powerful in such a powerful story and ties so powerfully into whatever it is that you're promoting, or marketing, that it just converts a huge percentage of your audience. And maybe you felt scared to send it usually, sometimes the things that you feel most scared about are the ones that ended up being the most powerful. And the The other thing that is I've learned is that I basically all of the automation, horseshit all this, these these complex systems and everything that we hear, kind of marketed in ads by gurus and goblins out there on the on the internet, you know, you know, we're gonna, you know, as your business automated and kind of all this stuff. And so we've tried to set up all this technology and get all fancy and stuff. Honestly, it's nothing but a big distraction. And for most everybody, it's not even appropriate at the level that you're at in your business. It's only appropriate when you have tons of traffic that's coming in. And you literally don't have enough hands, or in some cases, when you have tons of traffic and you change it and you try to complicate it, it actually hurts your business versus just keeping it simple. And focusing more on connection. Rather than trying to just automate everything, and make sure all your technology and everything is perfectly set up and all your pages look nice, right? The ugliest, just whatever I could get up the fastest usually, is the best option. What comes up for you, as I've only recapping honestly, what you've already said. But I just wonder if you could say your experience on one or all of those points?

Thaddeus: No, you're I mean, you're 100%, right, I totally agree, like automations are great. Like, once you've built something, you know, to make it simpler for you. But if you're like you're just starting and you're trying complex automations and you want all these elaborate systems, while they're super cool, you know, they're not necessary until you start actually having something a foundation to build on. That's like a you know, you build the foundation, you know, and then you build a little bit of frame. And then you maybe want to add a second story, that's where that automation stuff starts coming in. Not that foundation. The foundation point is just having a like you said, the you know, a simple, ugly little opt in that just says hey, you know, you want to learn how to make money online, and your email, you know, yes, something simple to the point. And, and or whatever your niche is, right. You want to write exactly what you want to lose weight, you want to do want to be a better parent, you know, whatever, whatever your niche might be. Absolutely. Taking perfect or imperfect action. That's one of the phrases. I've heard recently that that really sums it up. Yeah, it doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be perfect at that moment.

Dave: Yeah, man. And also making that connection between going through training and realizing that in order to really understand how to do something, and to be able to do it in your sleep, and for it to be able to be easy and all this, you actually just got to go out and got to do it a bunch of times, right? There's the reason why we go through training, there's so we can just have a direct path from A to Z, which in our affiliate blueprint, that's what that does, it's a to z doesn't mean that it's an instant download in your head, and now you're a pro, you have to apply this stuff. And over time, after you apply it, if you actually then after you put in your 10,000 hours, you can consider yourself or you will be essentially a master of it. But you have to put in that which is kind of scary because a doctor goes to school for a long time. And then you know, somebody is his first patient. But, it ain't that serious in online marketing. You know what I mean? Like, it's not that serious, the beautiful thing is, is that you're not doing heart surgery, man, you're not doing brain surgery, you're not going to kill anybody. You know the only thing that you're going to bruise a little bit is probably your ego. So if you let that go, and I don't know, if you've dealt with that at all, any imposter syndrome, it sounds like you did more at the beginning when you were kind of trying to be other people and comparing yourself. But man, I found that just the older I get, also, the more I deflate my ego, man, and stop trying to look cool and be perfect. And all this shit. I mean, honestly, man, now I just wear the same thing every day. I got fancy shit, nice stuff, but I don't even show it off or talk about it. Because I don't think anybody gives a shit about it. I just think people care about what I say, the value that I bring, the intention behind why I do what I do if I'm a good person, or if I'm a POS, right? From FOMO I was a POS. I wouldn't want to deal with me if I'm a good person who has integrity and does what I say and say what I do. And I have value to add, then I'm gonna, people are gonna want to do business with me, but they don't give a shit about anything else. It took me a long time to realize that man, are you? Where are you at in that journey of deflating ego, while building actual real self esteem, not just kind of, you know, image management type, you know, kind of ego stuff to where, for example, followers don't equal dollars in your bank account. Right? So I might get an inflated ego, because I've got followers, but, but really, I'm not making that much money. Right? So I need to humble myself by saying, look at what I'm doing. I'm doing something right. But I need to also figure out how I can monetize this following and maybe I need to add more value instead of being so kind of crazy and just creating, I don't know, I just wonder if you've had any struggles with ego or ego deflation, or just what this kind of journey has taught, has taught you on a personal level.

Thaddeus: I think that the biggest thing is, I've never really been one to have like this huge ego ever in my journey. You know, I've always realized that, like, while I may know some things, I don't know everything you know, so I've always been willing to accept that in myself and been kind of humble, and modest, so to speak. You know, I like that. You kind of said it, like when you're talking about the fancy stuff, like to be honest with you. Besides you, the majority of other people don't give a shit, what you've got going on. They want to know how it can benefit them. I mean, at the end of the day, you know, I've read this, I read a book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. And that is exactly what that entire book is all about. People give a shit about themselves. And how it ‘s a lesson that simply nature, you know, when you're on your own, I mean, no matter how many people you have around you, you're on your own solo path. You know, because you can't, no one else can live your life for you. You have to do it for yourself. You have to make those decisions for yourself. So I get it. Like there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. But at the end of the day, if you're so worried about being like, oh, what do I look like to other people? What do I look like, Oh my god, like I don't I don't want to look foolish. You know, people don't really give a shit. They just want to know how what you're talking about can benefit them on their journey. And that is the moment everybody can figure that out. The ego can just go away, the pride can go away. The only thing that I've really struggled with in my journey was probably a little bit of pride in. I've always been wanting to try to figure it out myself. And that's something that I've recently realized that is only going to hold me back and reaching out and asking for help from others and accepting that help is the quick way that I'm going to grow. So I wouldn't ever say it's an ego thing, but more of a pride thing.

Dave: I can relate to that. I mean, when I started to really, in, you know, my pride has gotten me in some tough situations. I mean, my pride almost crushed my marriage, because I just didn't know how to be married. You know what I mean? Like, it's like, Who, who, who, you know, my, my parents divorced when I was two, nothing, nothing wrong with that, don't hold that against them. My mom remarried, my father didn't. I mean, there's no handbook on how to be married. I mean, sure, you can watch other people or whatever. But there's no substitute for, you know, going through it yourself. But then also, when you run into a brick wall, which I did a few times, and thank God in that moment, I had enough humility to ask for help or be willing to accept the help, that kind of was presented in that moment. And it was sort of a divine intervention. And I kind of feel like that happens a lot of times, if we choose to look at it that way that we'll be in a place where there's, we need help, or we need to, we need, we need a solution. And sometimes it's presented. And, and it's kind of like this story that was told . It's just like a parable or a story about the person the guy prayed for because he was out on a boat or something and is out on an island or something. And I can't remember and I was totally into butchering it, but anyways, he was praying to God, and God said, Well, I did send help, but you You didn't take it. You know what I mean? Like, I don't know what that story is. But I wish I could because it's so powerful. But it's basically like, sometimes the Help is in front of us. And we just, we choose not to see it, we're unable to see it. We're too prideful to see it. We're too prideful to ask. And in many cases, that has almost cost me marriage, friendships, Business, Business, relationships, or just businesses as a whole. That's so powerful for you to share that. And it takes some vulnerability to admit that, you know, because for whatever reason, I don't know about women, but us males, I do know, we have some pride around asking for help. And you know what, I mean, admitting that we don't have all the answers, you know, and a lot of us end up turning out to be that guy who knows a little bit about a lot of things, you know what I mean? Right? We try to act like we know, you know, and I'd honestly rather be the dude who knows a whole lot about like, one or two things. And then I can outsource or hire help, or like, I just don't have to know it. And that's kind of what I've surrendered to in life is that you want me to fix your car. I'm gonna jack it up. You want me to cook you dinner? That shit again? You want me to know, I mean, there's so many things, dude, if you want my help, I'm just going to be the worst. You know, I just can't. I know, but there was a time in my life where I wanted to know a lot about everything and just be the man with all the solutions. It's kind of like how I acted in my marriage. My wife for a long time would share feelings and I, I can fix that I'm going to give you a solution. And then I realized, as Christmas Dave, she just wants to be heard. She just wants you to validate her feelings and just say, Holly, honey, that sounds difficult. I love you. Is there any? How can I make you feel loved and supported right now? That just changed everything you know, not to have to know everything and fix everything. So now today, I focus on being an expert in the world that we're in here online marketing. I don't try to be a cryptocurrency expert. I don't try to be a stock market expert. I don't try to be a real estate expert, but I happen to have investments and things in a few of those different categories. But I don't do it myself. You know, my wife actually handles some of this stuff. We have other professionals. I don't like it because I am bad at it. I always lose. Right? I'd love to be a great poker player, right? And go sit down with the homies and go out to Vegas and know I was going to go out and have a good chance to win. But the truth is, I will lose. And I've lost over and over and over again. Every time that I have I've picked cryptocurrency coins and lost my ass. You know? I want to be the guy who kisses everything I touch turns to gold, but it's just not reality. And and so yes, that ego deflation and swallowing pride and just knowing my lane and staying in it. So it sounds like your lane for now is Tip Top. What seems to be the Our future Where do you see yourself going over the next couple of months?

Thaddeus: Well, after that, that whole video kind of blew up. It really jumped started my whole Facebook group. So I've been doing a lot of stuff on Facebook, I'm starting to expand into YouTube. You know, I've got a, like a video or two, that I tried to post there. Absolutely, absolutely horrendous. But, you know, it's all about that imperfect action, you know. And so um, that's, that's kind of what my main focus is on now trying to build that community and add value to them by helping them kind of get started directing them where they were, where they need help that, you know, through YouTube videos and stuff like that. So that's my main thing right now TikTok for the attention, Facebook, for the community, YouTube for the education, and then just see where it takes me.

Dave: It's gonna take you places brother, and you know, I let your stick. I feel like it's like that realness right there of just being like, this video is horrendous. I don't even know what I'm doing here. But I got some good shit to tell you. So listen up, right? Like that, that angle, bro. Like, and I'm just giving you feedback, because you can create your online persona. And those of you listening, wondering, you know, how do I really blow this up? Like, you know, sure. You create, create, create market market market, you're going to get lucky, which is where preparation meets opportunity. And that's what you're describing that happened a time or two on Tick tock, but also you can evolve your brand and what I call like your stick, right and your thing, you just as you said what you just said right there, that really resonated with me and really made me just kind of like you in that moment. Just more, right? It just made me feel more connected to like you were just being more real and authentic. And it was funny, and it felt good. As nobody. As we go back to what we were talking about a second ago, the pride. Nobody wants to hang out with somebody who thinks they're perfect or tries to be perfect. But people love if you listen to Howard Stern, I do quite a bit. He's he's just he's just, he's an interesting cat to listen to. He's had an extremely long career, love him or hate him, which you probably do and that's exactly what he wants. He's had an extremely long career in radio maybe longer than anybody else. And his income has steadily risen I think he just closed a deal for some obtain million dollars for renew his contract with Sirius radio. Stupid money, stupid money, more money than any other radio personality in the world by far. Okay, stupid money. But one thing that he does is he uses humor. I forget what it's called. What's it called? Babe when you like to be self deprecating humor, right to where you kind of like, he's like, nobody likes me. It's kind of like he or you know what I mean, on. It's kind of like, yeah, nobody likes me. It's like my walk. I can't believe I landed my wife. She's hot. It's that self deprecating, kind of like, where you're just like, I just absolutely these videos totally suck. I know. Sorry, I'm gonna try to get better for you. I can't even believe you guys watch them in the first place. But check this out. Because I can show you how to do XYZ and XYZ time and it changed my life. Right? So that self deprecating kind of humor in stick is real it makes people lean in more rather. And that's what I think a lot of the bro marketers who do the lambos and the McMansion shit don't really get is when people when they do that people actually look at them with a bit of jealousy and envy. And that's why they get called arrogant. I didn't understand that for a long time. Right? I didn't understand that. I do now. But I don't know. I just wanted to give you feedback on that. Because I think that with you, it fits really well with your personality and it doesn't seem like you need to do anything different. But I just wanted to give you some of that real time feedback, because I see a lot of potential for you, man, I think you're gonna keep blowing it up. And I'm really excited for your future.

Thaddeus: Well, thank you, Dave. Thank you. Yeah, I mean, it's, I think that's kind of key for anybody is like, you got to be able to like, except that you know, maybe you don't, that's not the greatest video in the world. But like you said it adds value. It teaches somebody something, and that authenticity and being able to like Alright, yeah, that was absolute trash. But you know what, like, if you just listen to what he's saying, you know, you're actually going to get something for it. You know, it may not be the greatest thing to watch. But, you know, it kind of reminds me like the 80s movies, you know, there you go back and look at them now. They're actually terrible. Terrible movies, but you know, they're at least you know, they were entertaining for the time, you know, so yeah, it's all about growth.

Dave: It's all about growth. If you look at the most kind of kult-ish and crazy crazily consumed content on the internet. A lot of times it's in chat rooms, forums and these kinds of things, these kinds of underground sites and shit that look like absolute hell, like you log on to the site, and it just looks like something from the 1970s or something. It's like, who built this site? Where did it come from? And is my computer safe being logged on to it? You know what I mean? Right? Right. But, the content is so interesting. And it's so engaging, that people just flood these kinds of forums and these types of sites, as just another example that it doesn't, it doesn't matter what something looks like, it's also a lesson in direct response marketing. What matters are the words, the content, the page design, actually, it's better if it's more ugly, more whitespace. So the words pop out more. You know, it's just another example of that kind of, hey, look, we're not here to be cute, we're not here, we just the content is really good. And I don't know, that's the vibe I get from you. It's like, I'm not here to impress you. I'm not here to. I'm not here to, I'm not here to blow smoke up your ass. I'm not here to be perfect. But check out what I got to say.

Thaddeus: 100% You know, I would rather be honest and authentic and have authenticity, and actually help you rather than, like, dazzle you with a beautiful page. Like, you know, it's not about the page because it's about what you know, it's like looking at the fancy cover on a book. You know? Yeah, it looks really cool on the show and is actually terrible. You know, like, Alright, well cool. Yeah, well, thanks for that. And then, you know, but yeah, that's, that's what it's all about.

Dave: So Thaddeus, if somebody was like, kind of like on the fence about coming into Legendary going through our training and being a part of our, our tribe here, what would you What would you tell them based on your experience,

Thaddeus: I think it's an excellent opportunity to get really good training and, and to really get your foot in the door with online business. You know, again, like it is just training. It's not the end all be all, but it's a great jumping off point. And it's great for somebody who's unsure they're not really like I don't really know. But it's a great test of the water type, type environment, and then the community Oh my god, that community is amazing. And that in itself is worth every dime, you'll invest into your business. Because throughout my whole course, the people that I've met and the friendships that I've made from legendary, it's been absolutely just, I mean, I'm not trying to overhype it, but it's been life changing. And that's like the best as honest as I can be. But yeah, so if you're on the fence, you know, dive into that pool, you know, don't dip your toe in the water, you know, dive in and figure it out from there. But yeah, I feel like Legendary is definitely beneficial to anybody that's really wondering whether they want to do online business or not.

Dave: Yeah. I love that. Because it's like, you don't have to, it's kind of like, it's kind of like, it's kind of like staying it's kind of like getting and staying clean from heroin addiction. Right? Here. I go with the analogy, right? The metaphors. I love using these because they help me make things simple and make them make sense. But I got clean from opiates and opiate addiction. That's it. That's a kind of a more PC way to say heroin addiction, right? So I got clean from opiate addiction in 2008. And of course, it's like, okay, I'll put down the hard stuff. But what about all the wacky tabacky or sippy sippy here or there. Come on now. And I was like, I can't imagine my life like this. For the end. It was like, well, you don't have to, you don't have to worry about the rest of your life. Just worry about today. And and and I think so many of us, when we come into starting something new, we act like it's a lifelong commitment. And it's like, I feel like that holds us back from doing so many things in trying so many things. Because again, we think we get into this catastrophic thinking of, oh my god, if I do this, this is what I'm going to be doing for the rest of my life. And what if it does work out, my life is ruined, I will have. It's like, as if you're a cat, like you get nine lives, like I don't want to waste one of my lives, like on this decision. And it's like, I mean, I know successful people who make more decisions in a day than indecisive and unsuccessful people make in a month. You know what I mean? Because they're scared to pull the trigger on something and like you said, just jump into the pool. I know when I jump into the pool, I can get right out of the pool. It's a good analogy, right? I mean, or I can just sit there and get my toe and go. I don't know if I want to go in. Right or I can just jump in and feel it if it's cold as shit I can get out right away if I don't like it, or I can hang out for a little while and then leave or I can stay or whatever. So I'd love to leave people with that. That is because I think that was such a powerful point. And my hope is for you, brother, that you will continue to do the damn thing in your robe and your underwear, and have a lot of fun. And make a lot of money and continue to go out there and spread your message of realness and inspiration. And I hope that, you know, you'll come back, keep us posted. And if there's anything that I personally can do to help you on the journey, don't hesitate to reach out. Alright, man. 

Thaddeus: Thank you, Dave. Thank you. I appreciate y'all have me on today. And I'll be excited to come back if y'all have me.

Dave: See ya my brother. I'll talk to you soon. 

Thaddeus: Thank you, Dave.

Dave: Alright, guys. Alright, so go and follow this dude, what a cool cat. Right Cool, cool, cool dude from the Atlanta, Atlanta baby, Falcons fan. Eyes. That was a really, really cool and inspirational episode with that, yes, as most of these are. But if that resonated with you today, anything that he said, act on the emotion right now an anchor and make it something that's real and not just a fleeting feeling, you know, act on and I always say anchor in the emotion anchor in the emotion, if you're having a if you're feeling inspired right now anchor it by going and doing creating some content or doing something on your business. So you can anchor that inspiration, that positive feeling to taking action in your business, versus feeling fearful. And then doing something in your encouraged fear in your business, right? We want to try to bring up and do things that make us feel positive, empowering emotions, and then take an action to connect the emotion with an action. Right, that makes us more excited to take those actions. All right. So I'm feeling inspired. I'm gonna go in and cement this in with some action inside of our business here. And I cannot wait to continue this journey with each one of you. If you're new here, welcome to our tribe. Welcome to our family. And we're excited to continue to support you every step of the way. All right. Be Legendary, my friends, get the hell out of here and have a fantastic day. And we'll see you back here tomorrow.

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Below is the transcription for Monday's episode:

Dave: All right, my friends. Good morning, This is Dave Sharpe, I hope you all are doing, and actually hearing a little bit better now that I've turned on the very fancy and important microphone. Yeah, so good morning, we have yet another. How do we keep coming up with these people, where are they coming from, well, they're coming from our community, they're coming from going through our training. Isn't refreshing to actually have people who, you know, are our, you know, operating companies and training platforms that actually want to talk to their customers and clients. Instead of most companies and gurus who sell things online who don't want to hear from their customers, especially not publicly. So anyways I just logged on 15 seconds ago, still kind of rubbing the sleep out of my eye, even though I've been up for it seems like four hours since my son woke up at the crack of dawn this morning. But anyways, with that being said, I'm going to invite a woman who knows all about that, six kids, and a growing online business. Let's hear what it's all about. Krista Welcome to the show. 

Krista: Hey, thanks for having me. 

Dave: You're very welcome. You know all about that butt crack of dawn, don't you?

Krista: Oh my gosh yeah and all night long. I, you know, let me just take a moment of silence and just really kind of pay my dues to you. 

Krista: Thank you. I mean seriously six children. It's outrageous. It's insanity, I mean for me. Dave: Look, I mean, I can handle pretty much anything in life. But that's what I've learned about myself, but kids, they test every single fiber of who I think I am on a daily basis

100% I feel that we have six kids under age eight.

Dave: God sakes. That's, yeah. That's the big guy upstairs throwing a little salt bae little, little humor down on you. 

Krista: Right, exactly. Yeah, what do they say, God let you make plans but God laughs or something. 

Dave: So, man, I would have like after four, I would have shut down the factory. You know what I mean. Yeah, but I gotta say, honestly, if you don't shut down the factory, then those surprises, they tend to happen, you know, for sure. Well, I don't know how you do it, I just even the fact that you're, that you're alive, and that all of your kids are still alive, let alone, because I mean that's what when people bring kids over to my house, like to for them to play with like my daughter I basically say, well, we'll keep them alive that's about all we can promise, right. I mean that's kind of some days that's all you can do right I mean you, it's like building a business and, you know, nurturing your children I mean some days you just, it's just about keeping them alive, right.

Krista: For sure, for sure, and I finally now started realizing like I need to delegate, I need help, you know, my parents just moved down so they help us a little bit. My dad is here in the other room watching the kids for me while I'm at this interview. But yeah, it's like as moms, we just think we need to do it all, like and have it all and you can, you can have it all and do it all and be at all. 

Dave: Sure, you know, but well, and I gotta, I gotta say so like you're doing this and I'm teasing this up. You guys may think, Oh, why are we talking about kids on a Marketing Show, but it's all relevant because, especially when you're working from home. It all matters, it's all kind of the same thing you're trying to, you're trying to fill pockets of the day but oh my gosh I'm tired, I don't really want to stare at a computer screen, I don't really want to record something I you know I want to just take a nap. Oh shit, I can't take a nap I got six kids, I mean, it's like, just this, just keeping your kids alive, let alone nurturing them, let alone building a business, you can have anything and everything, but it's a lot of work. So, just tell us a little bit about kind of how you are finding the time in how you do find the balance, especially now just finding out that you've been doing most of raising your children, kind of like on your own like without and knees and stuff like that I mean wow like how are you finding the time?

Krista: Yeah, I now just recently because I've been getting so busy in this business I just recently hired a babysitter to come and help me a few days a week. But actually she was supposed to come today and she canceled so I had to call my dad up but they literally just moved down on me a few months ago so I have been doing this all on my own. My husband is amazing. He gets home from working all day and then lets me go and do some work in the bedroom and just record videos and bat videos and do whatever I can do to keep growing my audience and creating content.

Dave: So I mean so many moms if dad comes home, or just gonna be in like, there's nothing wrong with this so I don't want to make it sound like any, any moms I'm shaming you for this, but like a lot of times when the other parent comes home, it's like give me a timeout because I want to go take a nap. You know what I mean, like, and so you're finding the energy. So, first of all, how do you find the energy, or do you make sure you get enough sleep, are you naturally just kind of energetic, are you what are you doing to just keep your energy up?

Krista: I mean, I've always been like a morning person so I have tried to wake up before the kids, although this past year has been so hard but the twins, they have not been sleeping at all. And so I try to put them down for a nap. I tried to do as much as I could. Any nap maybe for like two hours or something so in those two hour I tried to be so intentional and just get whatever I can get done, just batch videos or email people or like just hustle, you know, I just feel like if you're intentional with your time. I mean there's so many like time wasters out there right now like just scrolling social media and whatever, watching TV, but it's like if you're intentional with your time I feel like you can get a lot done.

Dave: What does that mean to you because you're right? I mean, you can get lost on TikTok or Instagram for 15, 30 minutes, even an hour and just like that. So how really can you say a little bit more about how you are intentional and what that looks like for you. 

Krista: Yeah, so I guess when I wake up in the morning, I try to in my head, have kind of a game plan for the day, and it's kind of a bummer sometimes because if they don't that, Then I'm like, Oh, I get a little bit behind, but I try not to beat myself up about it because I'm like okay I can spit it in somewhere else, like, you can always find time I feel like if you have a great amount of like, why, and, you know, I really wanted to make extra money to help my husband out this past year was really hard with pandemic his salary got cut. I mean, and when I was pregnant with the twins, I had to be on bedrest, and we had to pay for daycare for the other kids for just a couple months. And that was so expensive that I had to do something to make extra cash and I tried everything. And then this is when I came across it. TikTok and another couple moms doing this and that they were crushing it, they had a huge audience and I just kind of started modeling what was popular out there. I did dabble with TikTok, at first, but I wasn't really teaching anything I think that's the key is just teaching something that people can get out of it like can learn from you, so I wasn't teaching right away but when I crossed over and started modeling these other popular videos and teaching people about affiliate marketing and high ticket affiliate marketing etc is when I really saw my audience grow and my income grow.

Dave: So this has all been in the last two months?

Krista: Yeah. 

Dave: Have you ever done any marketing of any sorts or anything like this before.

Krista: No, I have been on Instagram first and I have grown my following over there. But I think Tik Tok was totally just organic like I started on there and I, over on Instagram, I was just posting random pictures of the family we were doing matching outfits, etc. But like I wanted to talk to be something more. And so I started only teaching, like on this account that I created on Tik Tok I started only teaching people about making money online and how to do affiliate marketing, and I feel like it just blew up like it's grown so fast, like,

Dave: Yeah, so I was, it's interesting because I was thinking about this yesterday. I get a lot of thinking time on the weekends because I am on a lot of long walks with my son. It's like he loves to be outside even though it's 150,000 degrees outside, but he just loves to go on walks and. And I was thinking yesterday, like how different my life, and even our business is, since I completely and totally stopped using social media for anything except business, like there was a time to where I mixed in, kind of like things that were for family and things that were like pictures of my kids and pictures of different things that I was interested in like a car or a watch or like cigars or just like a little motivational quote that was cut, but now I exclusively and totally do this show, and then we take the show and we kind of syndicated out in a couple of different places but this is sort of my, you know, in for me I'm mainly creating content for our community here and giving our customers, clients affiliates a platform to speak but for an affiliate like you, or, or others, you know you might exclusively be marketing on TikTok, but I feel like that focus of being like so clear like, I'm not going to make this account about multiple things like I'm not going to make it about the things I'm interested in my kids and kind of have mixed messages I'm just going to be completely and totally focused and dialed in about this one message, one topic is one thing that I do. And I don't know if it's for us it's, it's just for me personally it's brought so much clarity and peace, and it's brought us so much momentum because we're creating consistent content, and it's, it's, it's, we it's now. You know it's had time to kind of like an avalanche right it's like a snowball it gets bigger and bigger and bigger. Does that resonate with you at all the focus and kind of what I just said and what comes up for you?

Krista: Yes 100% I, and, you know, there are other platforms, I feel like you know like Instagram is good, like they have stories and everything and you can show your like I show behind the scenes like, you know, we went down to Marco Island last weekend, that I just showed you know what we were doing as a family because people are interested in that. Also they want to see how a family of eight like gets around and how do you travel and stuff like that so I've been trying to show some of that also, but like when I'm on TikTok I'm trying to keep it just business and so that people know they can come here to learn this specific thing, because honestly, I hate to say it but we can all be a little bit selfish, like you go to social media, a lot of people go to social media to see what they can get out of it, you know like, we're like, I don't care, you know like what you ate for breakfast I don't care what your dog is doing right, you know, it's like I want to learn something.

Dave: Exactly. Yeah, right. I get that. I think that's a great way to explain it because it's like well I'm interested in watches, and I'm interested in cigars, but maybe only a small 1% of my audience who follows me for business stuff is also interested in those things so those kinds of posts kind of send mixed messages. Whereas, if every single post is about the same thing, or at least the same topic. I just think from my experience personal experience of trying lots of different things in really also looking at what works, what works, whether it be television, whether it be radio, and whether it be now online is a theme, and a consistency of whether it be the topics like if you look at any sitcom or you look at any talk show, they always have the same intro, they always have the same like kind of theme song that introduces the show, they have the same format for the show, so you're I think human beings like an element of predictability, and then whatever the variety is like if you think of Jerry Springer Why would human beings like to watch that sort of chaos. Well, it's structured chaos within a template. And the same thing with Oprah and the same thing with Sally Jessy Raphael the same thing with the prices, Right, right, you know, you know, sit down and every single day it's just this totally there, you know, we different thing you sit down and it's the same theme song it's the same structure. It's the same kind of format of the show. And then there's variety within the show with the different guests etc. And I think that that's, if we look at what's worse, we don't really have to play a guessing game, and feel so pressured to mix in pictures and posts and videos about family and about this and about that, we can just simplify it and make it business focused or whatever the topic is of your account, and that's kind of what I hear that you've done on TikTok that has exploded, you to 100 and almost 70,000 followers in two months, right. 

Krista: Yeah, It's crazy. That's the thing. I mean, you don't have to reinvent the wheel, you know like you just take you look at other people's accounts, or whatever, whoever you follow in your niche. And it's like, what are they doing that is working, and then you take one of their most viral videos and you just model that like it's, it's, it's so easy, it blows my mind and I tell people all the time, you know, like they're like, how did you grow your account so fast, etc, it's like just take, and I feel like you can apply this to any thing in any platform. Just take what is working out there and what is going viral, and just recreate, just recreate that same, that same thing. And the thing is it's, it's not going to be the same as that other person's because you are the brand like people are there to watch you and you're gonna put your own spin on it, you know, so it's like, don't feel bad like people are like, Oh, I don't want to copy I'm just like model my videos. It's like my team members or whoever signs up with me or whatever, it's like just a model, my videos and you should definitely see some growth.

Dave: Well, it's interesting, you know how we tend to overcomplicate things. So, this teaching like you had this kind of lightbulb moment to where you said okay I need to be teaching something. Talk to us about things like that light bulb moment for you, and then how you transition to actually feeling credible enough. I think a lot of people kind of struggle with that imposter syndrome so what was the lightbulb moment for you like to realize I need to be teaching something. And how did you overcome your own sort of version of imposter syndrome?

Krista: I just felt like I had my own personal account on TikTok where I was just posting, you know, like just dumb stuff or whatever, you know, and I wasn't growing my account at all like I was like oh my gosh I got like one follower today or something like what the heck. And so, I mean really, what I did, like I said, is just look at what other people are doing, we're doing that work, and I'm like okay, like they're bringing value. They are teaching on a subject, and I'm like I can, I can do that, you know, and I feel like, yes you have imposter syndrome and everything, but I was looking at some of the people that were supposed to be experts in the field, and I'm like, they're not that great, you know like, they don't deliver it that well so I'm like if they can do it, I can do it, like I am a strong woman. I'm a mother of six, I can do this.

Dave: Well, yeah, and I think that's a great way to frame it is, why do some of us look at something and say if they can do it I can do it, while others look at somebody and say, well they're doing it but I could never do it like that I really feel like that, the folks who, who, who, in, there are more people who look at people and say, I could never do it like that, or, There's already people who are doing it, why would anybody listen to me, whereas you're saying that when you look at people, you said, God, if they can do it I can do it, I feel like that is such a huge gold nugget in a success leaves clues kind of thing. Can you just say a little bit more about that kind of how you, how you think and how you look at other people and then size yourself up and say if they can do it I can do it.

Krista: I mean, I, I just feel like I just feel like my mom raised me to be like a strong woman and it's like, don't let everyone anyone look down upon you or whatever and like with the technology that we have nowadays. You can learn anything, so fast like there are training programs out there I have invested in myself. I have bought training programs that are amazing, and the Legendary is awesome. And I, like, you can just you can learn it, and you can do anything you want to do nowadays like don't, and don't listen to the haters like there are so many people online that want to bring you down, it's like the crab syndrome, you know where somebody tries to climb out and get three, and they try to just pull you back down, no like you. You cannot listen to that, you know, and I feel like my husband and I have never listened to anyone else like we've always done what we wanted. We have six kids, it's like we are growing an online business. I'm going to launch my own online course here soon, and it's like, I will not let anyone tell me that I can't do it, you know.

Dave: Yeah. And I love that because I think that so many people I was thinking about this the other day to Krista, I love that philosophy and I love your outlook and I love who you are as a woman too because, you know, my wife's the same way, and, and I think you have a little bit more endurance with kids, but, but, you know we all have our strengths and weaknesses our kids really kind of, it's just funny how certain people are really strong in some areas. My wife's a wonderful woman but just our kids just, you know, for whatever reason we are just exhausted, you know we love them to death, we give them all of our time and energy. But I don't. I can't imagine, I think if you have more kids, you just step your game up, but when you're looking at somebody with six kids and you have two kids, you're kind of like holy shit like I would die if I was them but I love. This is what I was thinking about the other day, people think there are rules to life. And there are. There's no frickin rules. You literally can do whatever you want to do. And people think there's rules, man, there's like these made up, make believe rules that people think in and I see it all the time I see it here, let me give you an example. It's like when, When people come into our platform in our community, and then they start, the way that they ask questions is how I really know that there's these rules that somehow have been ingrained in people because it's like they're always asking for permission. You know, like, When can I start? When can I start marketing, you know, like, When can I start doing this when should I stop, and it's like they're, they're constantly asking for permission, and it's not a bad thing, and I'm not trying to shame anybody for doing that, I think it's been ingrained in us from society, it's like we've said in school. Can I go to the bathroom we asked the boss, can I have tomorrow off so there's so many, so much too much programming about us, asking for permission for these, these rules that have been enforced on us or made up to get us to all kind of stand in line, but you sound like you, you bought that system. Can you talk more about how you think about rules and how you think about shooting first and asking questions later and just what comes up for you as I say that?

Krista: I totally agree, and I even see it with my boys now like they're going to the public schools and everything, and it's just like, it's kind of sad like that, it's like, Oh, you got to listen and you got to stay in line and I agree with that, I mean to a point like you got to respect authority and everything but then it's like, oh my gosh, I just totally see them, like conforming, and it's kind of scary, you know, like, totally, and my husband and I, our plan, you know, is once they get done with elementary school, we are going to homeschool them and just teach them what we want them to know about like, finances, finances and entrepreneurship, and, like, not fitting into that little mold like it's like you can do anything you can be anything, you can go anywhere. It's like, no you don't have to stay in this box and I just see so many people for so long. They get so comfortable and complacent and it's just like, it's just really sad but you have one life to live. And, you know, like you said you don't have to abide by all these rules that life sets on you, you know.

Dave: Yeah. And so, we totally talk about just parenting but business focused I'm so I love being a parent like. It's amazing. I really do like It's like my favorite thing in the world, but we'll do a follow up on that so like you, you know, I see people in so many of you guys who are listening right now, you know, you're here to start a business, that's why you're listening to this, that's why you're here within our community here start a business. I just want to speak directly to you guys for a moment, and remind you that there are no rules, you don't, I'm never gonna give you permission because I'm just not, I'm not your boss. I'm not your guru. I don't want to create dependent people. I don't want to create dependent clients and students. The moment that you decided to just even enroll in our, you know, 15 day challenge is the moment at any time after that you could give yourself permission, and you have to do it, not anybody else, you have to give yourself permission to step in to a boss role of your life, the CEO role of your life, to where the decisions they float uphill, you're responsible for making the decision, not somebody else, not the teacher not the boss, and it's never gonna happen until you pull the trigger until you step into that moment in and you gotta do it over and over every day. I have to make decisions, I have to be decisive and Chris I think that it's, it's just hard to make decisions, Right, and people are indecisive and it's like, well, I'll put it off till tomorrow, or let me ask other people what they think. It's like what are the most common questions in this online marketing world. I've just started declining the question in our Facebook group, because it's like what's the cheapest funnel builder, researching, stop asking for everybody's opinion, just, just go with one who gives a shit, honestly.

Krista: Don’t waste your time, especially don't waste your time like hours searching for the best price to you know like, my husband I have started to learn like learn this, but it's like, time is money like forget it just pick one, move on, like don't second guess yourself, just pick it and move on, even with the 15 day challenge, it's funny because it's a, it's an amazing challenge, but it's 15 days and day one, day two, I did it all in one day, like, you know you're supposed to go day by day, no like you can get it

all done. 

Dave: Now everybody's gonna be trying to go through it in a day because Krista went through it in a day. 

Krisa: Yeah, I mean like, I have the time you know it's like time is money, get it done. 

Dave: It's like here's another thing like, like, like, I don't really spend a whole lot of time negotiating, you know what I mean and here's why. Like, like for example if I'm buying something like say a watch, and I'm like they want $2,000 more and I really want. And it's like, Who gives a shit like at the end of the day, like the time and energy that I'm spending trying to sit here haggle. I could just be making another move, I could be going, I could, I could take that time and energy to go create something that's going to bring in, you know 100 1000 times that revenue, or, or five times that revenue. And I think, you know, whether it's that I'm, you know, so check this out. Here's a great example for us online marketers, so I'm like, getting my, my funnel set up and I'm like oh god is, you know, maybe there's another funnel builder out here somebody else. So instead of just taking the time that I have, maybe half an hour to work that day, and just, just getting one just starting, who gives a shit just throw a just, you know, just write a bunch of stuff on a paper and throw a dart at it and just go with one right, and you can use that our to set it up instead. Hold on, I'm gonna go in and I'm gonna go to the Facebook group and I'm gonna ask other people's opinions. Now, and then waiting and then the answers, confused me more. And then I feel more scared because somebody projected their fear onto me. Somebody projected their negativity on me now I'm feeling afraid because I've now adopted somebody else's feelings because I'm letting them do the thinking for me, and then doing the testing for me, and I've wasted the hour and I filled with other people's fear and skepticism or in decisiveness or whatever, instead of just taking action and trying it myself. That's the difference for everybody who's listening, you want to know, because I know how Krista executes. I want to hear from her but she executes the same way I do. At a certain point time every minute counts, and I can either hold for other people to make decisions for me and I can adopt all their fear and negativity and all their opinions, which are like you know what, now my attendance. Or I could just execute, and find out on my own, and now I'm the authority who can teach, and now I have the answers because I actually did it on my own. That's the difference, do you agree with that? Krista: Totally, yeah 100% it's simple yet very complicated. 

Dave: The idea is simple but it's hard to do because of all the fear. And I think that that's why not being very conscious and aware about asking for other people's opinions. You mentioned haters in the comments, all day long. You are being infiltrated with other people's fear, and other people's limiting beliefs, and a lot of times we've asked the wrong person a question, is all they do, sort of like asking a broke person for financial advice, what do you think they're going to do give you abundantly wealthy mindset knowledge now they're going to project the same mindset that's kept them bro. But you're asking them for their opinions.

Exactly and these crabs these people, like they just, that's the only thing that they're looking to do is just start a fight, they want to bring you down, that's I don't even acknowledge half these comments, you know, like I am like no I'm not even gonna waste my time and energy. I'm a mother to six kids running a business and growing. 

Dave: You should say budding million dollar business right, it's, it's, it's in the birth phases of becoming a million dollar business. And the reason why I offer you that is because you have to speak into existence, what you want, and you have to act as if you already have a million dollar business you're running a budding million dollar business.

Krista: Exactly right. Yeah, 100%. I totally agree with that and I will make it happen.

Dave: So, that's the different seat right because if Krista asks, pray, pray, nine and a half out of 10 of friends, family, and they're probably all great, but. Same thing with me, they'd be like, What are you doing, like, what they would project, all of their limiting beliefs in all of the same mindset that got that exactly where they're at, which God bless him and we love them for who they are, but we don't want to model their financial situation, we don't want their business advice, versus, you come on a show with me. Oh, the value that you get is I'm giving you my energy which is conviction and confidence right now. Right, it's in giving you permission to level up and see those are the kind of people that we need to talk to, and we need to ask their opinions because they're, they're never gonna make it. Here's how you know whether a mentor is a good mentor, a good friend, if you ask him a question they never make the decision for you. They always put it back on you to make the decision, because the power and making your own decisions, you can share you can gather data, but you have to be the one who makes the decisions, because if you're not, then you'll take total responsibility, and you don't get to build your self esteem, from making those tough decisions, and then reaping the rewards knowing that you're the one who chose that and somebody did just push you into it, or you didn't take somebody's advice. Right,

Krista: Exactly, exactly and having a mentor and a coach is really good and like you said, you. It's good to have another person that has gone before you. And you can see that they like, they have made it, they have made money in this business, etc. And you're not just asking for advice from your friends and family, like I just feel like it's important to surround yourself with other people that are like doing it and yeah, that's super important.

Dave: Yeah, I mean, it is so, what is your opinion of all the different things that you've seen online, our community here at legendary and, you know, How do you, how have you been affected or connected with others or impacted by what you know our community the others the training and so forth here. 

Krista: I mean I feel like it's really good, the Facebook group is really valuable to plug into the challenge. It was really good to go through and learn different things, different marketing techniques and stuff. But definitely the Facebook group is really good and don't just like you said, don't just take people's advice, add your own advice like if somebody is has a question, then you know you can answer it, you know, try to comment back and be a value like just be a value in all the different platforms that you're on, you know,

Dave: I feel like a lot of times you can learn how not to act and what not to do, you know, like a lot of times if you're not so desperate for somebody to tell you how to live, you know, like what to do. A lot of times you can kind of see yourself and other people like you can be like God, am I that lost or do I come off as desperate or do I come off as that negative like instead of just being another, you know, kind of, kind of zombie, you know, which a lot of times when we come in to starting a business from having a job or being sort of programmed by the system in a sense we are a little bit like a zombie and, and a lot of times people come in and they've got all this old programming of just, you know, negativity and in asking for permission and all this kind of stuff and I would also invite all of you who are in, you know, who are participating in our community to also, you know, also to learn, and not not judge not look down on, but look at others and be reminded who you are who you were, who you don't want to be, because, again, to step into leadership is the highest paid skill in the world, not sales not biohacking not brain surgery, leadership, leadership, and Chris I think that's what you were just alluding to was, don't just be a taker, be somebody who's there willing to give value and use communities use comment threads use post as a way to contribute and to add value instead of always looking at what you can take. 

Kristin: Right, exactly, and like people just check yourself like try, I would I would feel like, I try not to put out any negative vibes you know like it's so important to lift each other up, you know like there is enough room on this online space and online marketing and TikTok and everything. There's enough room for everyone. You know, so it's like keep adding value, giving away your free content, etc, like don't just hoard it for yourself, because when you help others. That's when you really grow yourself.

Dave: So I guess you don't think that saturation is real, like, they're like, the marketplace is saturated or TikTok or Instagram is saturated or the affiliate marketing space is saturated, which is such a common thing that people say or ask, what's your opinion on that?

Krista: Oh yeah I hear it all the time and I, I, I just talked to a guy and he's like, he was helping with my blog or something, and he was like, Oh, I see you're in the arm, or the make money online space. He's like, No, you don't want to get into that or whatever it's way too saturated, you're not going to see any growth from that and I'm like, thinking, Who are you to tell me, you know like what, no way because I am in it right now I am growing my following and making money as we speak, you know?

Dave: Right, what do you think I'm paying you're asked to do what I'm paying you to do right now. 

Krista: Exactly like I couldn't believe that he told me this.

Dave: I mean it’s a lack of, that's a lack of awareness, though, and that's what I'm talking about. We can look at other people and say, God, do I have that lack of awareness. Do I say things I call that, the guy who knows a little bit about a lot of things.

Krista: Yeah, you see that all the time and I'm sorry to the men out there. Oh, plain it's stupid it's off. Like he told me to go sell clothing and lipstick or whatever like massage and his poor massage and mystic pig. I know it's like okay women we can do this, we can do this, we can do this. Yeah.

Dave: All right well Krista, you are awesome and inspiration. Thank you for coming on and sharing value. I'm gonna let you get back because dad's probably needing some assistance in that other room with freaking. You know what I mean. So, anyways, thank you for your time, keep up the fantastic work, stay Legendary, you're doing an awesome job. And maybe we can talk a little bit more about parenting and so forth on round number two if you'll come back.

Oh, for sure. Yeah, definitely. Thanks for having me so much. All right, Chris, I will talk to you later. Okay, thanks. Hey, and don't forget to follow me on TikTok Krista greener I'm launching my courses and my coaching program soon. There you go.

Dave: Alright, awesome little plug there and I just told my daughter we were watching Shark Tank last night, and then this couple came on and the woman was sort of the main pitch person for their offer, and they all said no. And then she goes, all of them all five sharks said no. And then she said, Instead of turning around and walking off the stage, she said, I want to take one more shot at this. And she repitch them from a different angle, with a little bit of a different deal and just went for it. And she got a deal. Hell yeah, that's amazing. So I just I and I and you know what was cool about it was my daughter came down and gave me the puppy dog eyes and asked for some, some Ceci daddy time she likes to get five minutes right, you know, something she's always, we haven't had any Ceci daddy time in a long time even if we just had some like the night before, but this is after. This is in bed, and she gets out, but she was sitting on my lap as that happened, and I, and I said to her when that happened I said you see what just happened. I said, always keep trying, keep going.

Krista: Yeah, even if you fail even if it doesn't work out for you, like, No, it is gonna, it is gonna work out, have that mindset keep those positive vibes, so important.

Dave: Yeah. You stay awesome. Stay legendary, we'll see you in crypto. Yeah, thanks so much. Alright, bye. All right, bye. All right, my friends, go and follow okay check her out. And she's, she's awesome. What a great attitude, what, what a powerful, powerful, entrepreneur, though she is a woman just entrepreneur in general right and marketer. It's, it's, for those of you who are, You know, thinking that this is just a male dominated space, it's not, it's not there's incredible female leadership female marketers, that, that are doing the damn thing, and are really just proving the haters and as that asshole that she was talking about the sexist pigs out there who think that, you know, women have no place to come out here and kick some ass and take some names, you do, no matter who you are, where you're from, age, race, sexual identity, creed, religion, male, female, you know, whatever, however you identify, there's room for you. And this is where the market is going. The internet is the Wild Wild West, and there are no rules. Remember that, be Legendary. We'll see you back here tomorrow. Bye bye.

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Is Juice Plus a Scam?

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If you've been searching for a new business opportunity, you may have come across a company called Juice Plus.

As a major multi-level marketing (MLM) company, they are often an attractive option for people looking to earn a substantial income.

While their offering may seem exciting at the outset, it's important to consider if it's really possible to become one of their high earners.

Read on for our Juice Plus review to determine if this company is offering the right opportunity for you.

What Is Juice Plus?

Jay Martin founded the company way back in 1970, but it wasn't until 1993 that they began to operate in the health and wellness industry.

However, it has enjoyed a long successful trading history and now operates in more than 20 countries worldwide.

The company's longevity suggests it provides products that are popular and that it can also generate income for its partners.

One of the most attractive aspects of Juice Plus is that it offers the chance for people to make money while making a positive difference in the lives of others.

There is also no suggestion that Juice Plus operates using the illegal pyramid scheme model. It's entirely possible for partners to earn money selling physical products direct to the public.

These are all encouraging signs, and there's no doubt some potential investors would be tempted to part with their money at this point. But, as with many MLM companies, it's important to look a little more closely.

Can You Make Money with Juice Plus

Juice Plus has a low entry fee of only $52 to join the business. This is one of the lowest MLM fees around and would appear to represent good value for money.

Their system processes orders, ships the products, and handles the billing. This leaves you free to promote their products to increase your earnings. They also have excellent support when you are advertising to potential customers.

For example, the company provides personalized websites and marketing materials. They also put you in touch with others who are already successfully selling their products.

To give customers peace of mind, Juice Plus also advises there has been considerable research that confirms the products can have health benefits.

These include positive results for the cardiovascular and immune systems, dental health, and the ingredients can even help to improve skin hydration and thickness.

So far, everything seems extremely positive. In addition, it is certainly possible to make money as a Juice Plus partner. For example, their income disclosure sheet shows earnings of over $340,000.

However, this is when the picture becomes more complicated. Only 0.1% of all US partners generated this income level. In fact, only 1.3% of their US partners made over $22,740.

In contrast, a whopping 97.1% made $3,180 or less. This is a concerning figure that raises questions as to why this is the case. It is possible there is too much competition in the marketplace.

Or, maybe the products are too expensive. Whatever the reason, it may be why many MLM company partners recruit others to try to make sales on their behalf.

When a recruit makes a sale, the original member gets a slice of the profit.

Perhaps this is the best way to make money with an MLM company?

MLM Company Downsides

It can sound like a dream come true; recruit lots of new members to become part of your downline. Build a large team, and they can make enough sales to send a significant profit your way.

But, you need to consider if this is really likely to happen. After all, if most members struggle to make direct sales, why would your team be any different?

You could spend your time recruiting someone, training them, and then finding they want to leave soon after.

Although the Juice Plus advertising is very professional and appealing, their own income figures suggest this may not be enough for new members to make sales.

Often MLM partners turn to selling to friends and family, but this can lead to tension as they may not want to buy these products.

They may make one or two purchases to help you out, but are not likely to continue to buy long term.

Unfortunately, many people who had high hopes of doing well in their new venture become discouraged and look for other opportunities elsewhere.

But, there is another way to make an online income without experiencing these issues.

Affiliate Marketing

There is no fee to pay, you don't have to sell to people you know, and there is the chance to earn passive income. If this sounds good, then welcome to the world of affiliate marketing.

You've probably already come across examples of this marketing technique. For example, when someone creates a piece of content such as an informative article or video and posts it online, they can include affiliate links.

These links take the viewer to a sales page where they purchase a product that belongs to another company. Because it was your content that encouraged them to buy, the seller rewards you with a commission.

You can leave this content on the internet, and people can view it and click the links for months or years to come. Over time, you can build a library of content to increase your earning potential.

If you become a trusted source in an industry, you could find your sales skyrocket beyond your expectations.

However, it's important to understand how to properly create and market content to maximize your chances of success.

There are many aspects of affiliate marketing that can help you succeed or fail, and partnering with an expert team can be a sensible investment.

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You now have more information to help you decide if you can make money with Juice Plus. However, if you believe affiliate marketing is more profitable, we have a range of resources that can help.

At Legendary Marketer, we don't give you the hard sell. In fact, we tell you right at the start that this is not a get-rich-quick scheme.

However, with dedication, we're confident we can help you achieve your desired results.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Morinda Inc: Affiliate Marketing Opportunity or Just Another Scam?

David Sharpe bio

You may have come across companies such as Morninda Inc when searching for ways to attain financial freedom.

There are many multi-level marketing (MLM) companies that offer the chance to make large sums of money selling their products. However, this is not an affiliate marketing opportunity, and the structure works in a different manner.

In order to decide if partnering with Morinda Inc is the right choice for you, read on for our detailed review.

What Is Morinda Inc?

Morinda Inc is another company competing in the crowded health and wellness market. The business began selling its products in 1996, and it is a positive sign that they are still trading 25 years later.

The Chief Executive Officer (CEO) is Brent Willis, and he has extensive experience building and leading multi-billion dollar companies. He has even held crucial positions in businesses such as Coca-Cola and Kraft Heinz.

What's more, the company is a member of the Direct Selling Association, which helps businesses maintain ethical business practices.

Because Independent Product Consultants (IPCs) can make money by selling products to consumers, this means they are not operating a scam known as a pyramid scheme.

Pyramid schemes only allow associates to make money when they recruit more people. This is not legal, and you should avoid any business that operates using this structure.

Morinda Inc claims to have helped over 300 IPCs to become millionaires, a statement that is likely to inspire many people to invest in their products.

But, it's important to delve deeper to find out if it's possible for the majority of IPCs to make money.

How to Make Money with Morinda Inc

Morinda Inc sells a range of products based on the potential health benefits of a Tahitian fruit called Noni. The company claims this superfruit can aid aspects such as heart health, immunity, better sleep, and energy and focus.

They also state these claims are backed by science and advise they have been studying the fruit for over 20 years. They further support their claims by having published their research in over 300 peer-reviewed articles.

There is no doubt this could give many consumers peace of mind before they make a purchase. These are all selling points that IPCs can use to appeal to a wide range of potential buyers.

However, does this mean you can make money with this MLM company?

The first thing to consider is that you need to buy stock upfront from Mornida Inc before you can begin to make sales. The cost of packages is between $299-$365.

But, the company states that each package includes $955 of builder bonuses to help you grow your business. There is also a 90-day money-back guarantee if you follow their system and don't achieve your intended results.

While this might seem a good deal, you still need to find a market for these products to avoid losing money.

This is not always straightforward, and friends and family are often the first port of call.

You may find people you know will buy a small number of products to help you get started. But they probably won't become clients you can depend on for months or years.

It can also be challenging to find a steady market with new customers to replace clients that may leave. This is why MLM companies offer associates the opportunity to make money by recruiting other IPCs.

When one of these recruits makes a sale, the original IPC receives a percentage of the profit. This creates a pipeline of potential income, which can be an easier way to make money than selling products directly.

Potential Issues to Consider

While there is a legitimate method to make money with Morinda Inc, you may find it is extremely challenging. MLM companies do not have a good reputation as some people consider them to have a dubious sales structure.

While this may be unfair, there are other issues that may impact your sales figures. If you attempt direct selling to consumers, this can become time-consuming and expensive.

However, if you opt to make money from your recruits, this can also be problematic. Unfortunately, many people choose to enter the market thinking it is a get rich quick scheme.

When they realize this is not the case, they can quickly lose interest and leave. This can be frustrating if you have spent time trying to help them become successful.

However, rather than using this business model, you can earn money using a more effective strategy.

What Is the Affiliate Marketing Opportunity?

Affiliate Marketing involves making money from advertising someone else's products. Then, when they make a sale, you get a cut of the profits.

This is not the same as working for an MLM company because you don't need to purchase any stock upfront. This means you could potentially begin to make money without any initial expenditure.

You can also choose to work with brands that sell products or services that fit with your values. Many companies offer generous commissions, and you can sell high-ticket items that make substantial amounts of income.

However, affiliate marketing is a skill, and you can spend time and money investing in the wrong methods if you don't understand the processes.

When you use a winning formula, it's possible to create a residual income source so you can make money while you sleep.

One way to increase your chances of success is to work with experts who know how to create affiliate marketing income.

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The affiliate marketing opportunity is an excellent strategy to begin your online business journey. While short-term results are possible, this is also a long-term process. It takes hard work and determination.

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Health Coaching MLM: Optavia/Medifast Review

Building a home-based business that generates a substantial income is a dream for many people. In the modern world, there are also plenty of companies that offer you the opportunity to do just that.

Multi-level marketing (MLM) companies often make attention-grabbing statements that suggest anyone can make a large income in a relatively short amount of time.

While this may be true, it's important to choose the right company to work with to give yourself the best chance of success.

In this Medifast review, we will consider their business model and give you the information to decide if this is the most suitable venture for your needs.

Medifast Review – Who Are They?

Although some may know this company as Medifast, they actually rebranded to Optavia in 2017. The business began in 1980, which means they've been trading for an impressive 41 years.

They specialize in health and wellness products which is a competitive marketplace, so their longevity suggests they offer quality products.

As well as offering opportunities to sell to their independent coaches, they also deal directly with medical professionals.

This is another positive sign as the medical establishment has a duty of care to patients. They would not recommend ineffective or substandard products.

Optavia provides a range of weight loss products to its customers. But they also offer coaching to help support people as they improve their diet.

This is the business's unique selling point. They claim that this extra support can make a huge difference to consumers hoping to lose weight.

They also advise that their products have scientific backing. Their massive growth suggests many consumers believe their claims.

It's important to note that although many MLM companies have a dubious reputation, there is nothing wrong with Optavia's trading methods.

The company allows its coaches to make money by selling products and services to consumers. This is entirely different from illegal pyramid schemes that only let associates make a profit when they recruit more members.

So far, this seems like a great opportunity for an aspiring entrepreneur. However, can you really make money as an Optavia coach?

How to Make Money with Optavia

If you're asking whether you can make money with Optaiva, the answer is yes. But, it is not quite as simple as that.

Although there are some impressive numbers, such as some coaches making over $100,000 in 2020, only 0.55% of their associates reached this level.

Optavia openly states on their website that they make no guarantee of financial success. They also provide an income statement for their coaches during 2020, and the results are concerning.

Over 50% of coaches made $500 or less during this period. In addition, these figures do not take into account any expenses that they may have incurred during their marketing efforts.

These figures look even worse when you consider a coach needs to purchase a business kit that costs $199 before they can begin selling.

This may be why many people who join an MLM company try to make money using the second available method – by recruiting more members to increase sales.

When a coach brings on more members, these people become part of their downline. When one of these recruits makes a sale, the original member then receives a percentage of the profit.

Although recruiting someone else to make the sales sounds like an attractive option, it also comes with considerable difficulties.

MLM Model Downsides

Direct marketing to others is difficult because you have to identify a target market and close sales. When competing in a saturated market, customers have a huge choice, so you have to work hard to stand out.

When you recruit others to make sales, they are likely to run into the same problems. People who join MLM companies can sometimes overlook just how difficult it can be to break through this issue.

Not only do you have to get ahead of online businesses and retail stores, but you also have to compete with other coaches with the same company.

Because Optavia equips all its coaches with the same materials, this can be extremely challenging.

You also need to consider how motivated your recruits will be when they realize this is not an easy way to make a lot of money. Some may share your desire to build their own business, but others may not.

If you have spent time and effort recruiting and mentoring these coaches, it can be frustrating when they leave without generating any profit.

Fortunately, there is another way to build an excellent online business that you may have heard of – affiliate marketing.

Benefits of Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketing involves promoting other companies' products and services. In return, you receive a percentage of the sales profit. This is not the same as MLM  marketing because you do not need to pay an upfront fee.

There is also no requirement to hold stock, ship goods, or provide customer services. Instead, the product or service provider performs all of these actions. So, what do you do as an affiliate marketer?

Affiliate marketers advertise products or services through content creation or paid ads. One of the most cost-effective ways to begin is to create free blog posts or online videos and place affiliate links in the content.

If a consumer finds your content helpful, clicks on the link, and makes a purchase, you receive your cut of the profit from the seller.

While this may sound too good to be true, it's important to note this method takes skill and dedication. It's easy to spend time creating ineffectual content or spend money on ads that do not produce a return on investment.

It can be beneficial to work with an expert company with plenty of positive customer reviews to help guide you in the right direction.

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You can use the information in this Medifast review to help determine if MLM marketing is a useful business model for your needs.

 

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

MLM Companies: Everything You Need to Know About Lyoness

David Sharpe bio

Did you know that two-thirds of our country's gross domestic product (GDP) is thanks to retail consumption? It's clear that Americans love to shop!

So if you've been looking for business opportunities, then you've probably been considering getting into the retail world. People spend tons of cash on numerous items, after all!

While browsing business opportunities, you might've come across Lyoness, which is one of the numerous MLM companies out there.

So what is Lyoness? Can you make money with it? Keep reading to get a thorough Lyoness review!

What Is Lyoness MLM?

Lyoness is a multi-level marketing or MLM company (more on this later). It was first established in Austria in 2003 and caters to both consumers and merchants. This means that if you join this MLM, you can potentially benefit from being either one or both!

Lyoness actually is an umbrella name and there are several other brands that are associated with them. They include Cashback Solutions, Cashback World, and Lyconet.

How Does Lyoness Work?

For consumers, they can get some cashback when they shop through Lyoness's partner merchants. Usually, this amount is between 1-5%. There are also shopping rewards points that can be converted into either cash bonuses or discounts for future purchases.

For merchants, they can sell their products through Lyoness and be part of the company's international loyalty program.

We know we only mentioned consumers and merchants, but there's actually a 3rd group of people who can join Lyoness: entrepreneurs. They're also known as distributors and they usually focus on the MLM side of things.

Lyoness is somewhat of a unique MLM in that they don't have physical products for you to sell. Instead, you'll focus on recruiting people to join Lyoness as shoppers or distributors.

How Do MLMs Work?

The clue is in the name when it comes to how MLMs work. Basically, you recruit others to work below you, which is called your downline. Then, they recruit more people, and so on and so forth.

The more people you recruit, the higher you'll go up in the ranks. And as a result, you'll earn more money and perks with the MLM.

How to Join Lyoness

What's great about Lyoness is the fact that you can sign up for free. Many MLMs require you to pay a fee to join, so Lyoness has a leg up here. However, the caveat is that you must have a referrer's name and email address to fully register.

While you can certainly make some money with the free account, the Premium account is where it's at. Of course, this level of membership requires a fee. Once you pay it, you'll get full access to the Lyoness compensation plan.

Do People Make Money off of Lyoness?

We've explained above how MLMs work. For Lyoness in particular, you'll get 0.5% for every referral and purchases your downline makes. Lyoness refers to this as the “friendship bonus.”

If you'll look at Lyoness's income disclosure statement, you'll notice something that's pretty alarming: 97% of their distributors earn under $1,000 a year, with an average earning of just over $70. Fewer than 1% of their distributors earn above $5,000 a year, which definitely isn't enough for a living.

The truth is, yes, some people make money off of Lyoness, but they're far and few. In reality, an overwhelming number of people end up in the red instead of the green because they spend a bunch of money to get better perks through Lyoness. But then they aren't able to recoup their losses.

So if you're looking to make a living off of Lyoness, we don't recommend it, based on how little people actually earn over $1,000 a year.

Is Lyoness a Scam?

The nature of downlines makes Lyoness (and MLMs in general) sound very similar to pyramid schemes. These are actually illegal in the US!

However, MLMs are not pyramid schemes since they also have products to buy and programs, which means they're completely legal. This also means they're not scams. (Do note that there are several lawsuits against Lyoness in countries like Italy, Germany, Norway, and Australia; Norway's actually concluded that Lyoness is indeed a pyramid scheme).

But this doesn't mean that MLMs are automatically a good choice to join. As you can see from the above statistics from the company's income disclosure statement, very few people make it to the top.

This is because to be successful with downlines, you need to have excellent marketing skills. It's simply not enough to pitch to just your friends and family, because the profit you'll get from that is negligible.

To be good at marketing, you need to have years of experience and knowledge. Otherwise, the average person won't be able to climb the ranks in any MLM, including Lyoness.

Forget About MLM Companies; Try Affiliate Marketing Instead

As you can see, it's very tough for the average person to crack into MLM companies. While it's certainly possible to succeed and make some decent money, the reality is, it's not possible for the majority of people. Instead, most end up shelling out tons of money and get in the red, all with nothing to show for it.

So instead of hedging your bets on something so uncertain, you should try affiliate marketing instead. It's much easier to get your foot in the door and there's less of a risk of losing your money. And the best thing is, you won't have to be afraid of being associated with business concepts that others are wary of!

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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MLM Company Review: Fuel Freedom International

David Sharpe bio

Did you know that the average American spends almost 11 hours per week in their car? This means that not only do we spend a lot of time on these vehicles, but also money, especially on gas.

It stands to reason then that if there's something that can cut down on fuel usage, people are going to want it. And that's the niche Fuel Freedom International set out to fill!

Fuel Freedom International is an MLM company that promises to offer lucrative opportunities to budding entrepreneurs. But is it as good as they say it is? Read on to find out!

What Is Fuel Freedom International?

Fuel Freedom International is a multilevel marketing (or MLM) company that was created in 2007 by Wendy Lewis and Randy Ray. They're also the founders of Jeunesse Global, which is another MLM company. Forever Freedom is also the same MLM, just under a different name.

Fuel Freedom's main product is a pill (MPG-CAPS) you can put into your gas tank to cut down on emissions. This company claims that their special pill can not only do that, but also improve your miles per gallon (MPG), which means lower fuel costs. In fact, they even make bold claims that this pill was originally developed by NASA.

How to Join Fuel Freedom

To become a distributor for Fuel Freedom, you have to first pay $60 and fill out some forms. After that, there are several ways you can make some money.

The first is to make direct sales. This is where you just take the company's product and directly sell it to other consumers.

The other ways have to do with the MLM side of things. But before we discuss those streams of income, let's first delve into how an MLM works.

Basically, the entire principle of MLMs is based on you working hard to recruit others underneath you, and then them doing the same. This can potentially result in many tiers underneath you, hence the word “multilevel.” Your income is then tied to how well your downstream (the people you recruit and beyond) perform.

So the other ways to make money through Fuel Freedom (or any MLM really) is through mentor bonuses and recruiting others. The more people you have underneath you who are successful, the more money you'll rake in.

Is Fuel Freedom a Scam MLM Company?

Fuel Freedom International is not a scam MLM company. MLMs might sound a lot like pyramid schemes, which are indeed illegal in the US and many other countries.

However, Fuel Freedom has an actual product that's being sold and their entire business model isn't based on downlines alone.

You might want to take Fuel Freedom International with a grain of salt though. Their MPG-CAPS product isn't scientifically proven to work, so there's a good chance you're selling people placebo pills. This in itself might make you a scammer.

Also, there have been several lawsuits filed against Jeunesse Global, which as you may recall, is another MLM created by the same owners. Any practices they might have with Jeunesse are probably applied to Fuel Freedom as well.

Lastly, the company isn't currently accredited by the Better Business Bureau (BBB). If a company isn't BBB accredited, then you should always be wary.

What they do have going for them is the fact that they've been in business for almost 15 years. Any company that has some longevity means they must be doing something right.

Do People Make Money With Fuel Freedom International?

Selling products directly doesn't really gain people money. It's a lot of work for little payoff.

Instead, the money's in the MLM side of things. Do note that even there, very few people make some decent money off their downlines. For most MLMs (if not all), 99% of distributors don't make any money.

In fact, they end up losing some cash! This is because of the fees and paid upgrades many opt for to get better opportunities.

Those stories you see on social media about people earning tons of money with MLM companies are probably true and not just made up. However, you have to keep in mind that a very small elite minority can actually make a living off of MLMs.

These people are only so successful because they know marketing inside and out. And they're able to market like crazy to large audiences who are likely to join.

Also, marketing isn't something that anybody can just pick up in an instant. It takes lots of time to learn and become experienced in the best methods.

Many people think they can just join an MLM and market to their own social networks and they'll be successful. But the truth is, you need to be able to appeal to the masses to turn a profit that's worth it. Considering that most people don't have huge networks at their disposal, nor do they know how to access them, they end up making $0 with MLMs.

Try Affiliate Marketing Instead

So now you know all about the MLM company Fuel Freedom International, which sells fuel-saving pills.

If you were hopeful about joining as a distributor but don't have extensive marketing skills, this doesn't mean you have to give up on being an entrepreneur. What you can do is try affiliate marketing instead.

Affiliate marketing is much easier for those who are new to the world of marketing. Plus, it isn't attached to the negative reputation that MLMs tend to have. As a result, these factors set you up for a better chance of generating some income with ease!

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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How To Quit Your 9-5 And Grow 18k Followers On TikTok In One Month

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Below is the transcription for Friday's episode:

Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Welcome to wake up legendary. I am on the road this morning, actually got my pops, as my as my chauffeur, lucky me lucky. And we have a fantastic guest so let's go ahead and bring her in. Can somebody behind the scenes bring Jennifer in. 

Dave: Hey, what's going on Good Morning. 

Jennifer: Good Morning. Thank you for having me here. 

Dave: Oh my gosh. Hold on a second.

I got calls and texts coming out about my cell phone so I'm going to try to, I'm going to try to do this thing and not screw it up. Yes, it's, it's, it's an honor to have you. Thank you so much for joining us, and, and being willing to come on and share. I looked at some of your marketing and some of your content and stuff, and it's definitely, it's definitely fun, and I'm excited to hear about your, your story. So tell us a little bit about who Jennifer is, and, and how you kind of got started in this weird and wild world of online marketing.

Jennifer: Well, Jennifer is. I actually am a very shy person. And so that's that so if y'all didn't we kind of like being weird, but it's just maybe shy, I can't help but I'll warm up here in a few minutes. But, um, I actually, I came across Legendary by chance, like I wasn't looking for anything in particular, um, so I actually was a registered dental assistant and I graduated, down in Broward County Florida which is like right in Fort Lauderdale. In 2006, became a dental assistant. I did that for many years. And I specialized in endodontics which are root canals and orthodontics which are braces, those were like my two specialties and I absolutely loved working in the dental field, it was great, it was something I've always wanted to do ever from an early age, I had some kind of fascination about people's teeth. So, you know, I started there.

Dave: How do mine look? I actually had Invisalign a couple of years ago, and it got them straightened out a little bit. 

Jennifer: Well that's good. I need to get a you know, it's funny because

I worked in dental for all these years, and I've had braces 30 times and my teeth still keep moving. So, some of it was my fault. I didn't wear my retainer. And then, you know, some of it was not so much my fault because I left the office during treatment so I took them off early and then, of course they're going to shift, you know, when you do that. So that was that, but you know I loved working in general but my issue was, It became one of those things where as much as I loved my job, I would have such bad anxiety, and this might be a little graphic for some people but literally when I would hit my alarm when I woke up in the morning, just getting ready the entire getting ready process you know putting on my uniform fixing my hair looks reasonable. I would start going into major panic attacks and anxiety, and literally like making myself sick, and then I would get in my car and I would start driving, and then I had to turn around and go home, just use the bathroom. And because my nerves were just so bad that I would get the bubble gum bubbles in my stomach and I'm like come on I'm gonna make it to work, you know, I'll have to turn around and go home. It would be like that, you know until an hour later. I mean, like for the first hour of work, I'm still struggling with that, you know, my, I always let my anxiety get the best of me sometimes and. And I was like, this isn't working out, you know, I kept doing it, but you know I, Also, I've got three children so I have two older ones, and I have a 17 year old and a 14 year old and then I started over. And now I have a five year old, and she keeps me on my toes but I knew when she was born that I wanted to stay home with her. So, you know I did. And of course, we're a military family so my husband's in the army active duty, and he, he deploys a lot and he's gone. He's not here to like, go and six months home six months, gone six months because Special Forces that's what they do.

Dave: Tell him. Tell him thank you for his service and also you all as well, which I noticed on Memorial day that, you know, the sacrifice that families make is also, I think, sometimes a thankless kind of job if you will or role but thank you guys as well.

Jennifer: Well, I appreciate that I will tell him he is actually not here. He's out, he's on deployment right now for the next month, so he's in Colorado, so he's not in here, but when he's here I will tell him that you said that. But you know, that was another reason why I got out of dental, aside from the anxiety that I was experiencing, and just being a military family and him deploying and everything and we're constantly moving or pcse, or going to new duty stations. I was like, I got to stay home, I didn't need to stay home with my daughter, you know, and take care of her and it was just becoming too much for me. So I had to come take that back and of course, I've had a really rough, adult life, I've had a lot of trauma, a lot of past things that happened with, you know, just ex failed marriages and dealing with all that mess and stuff and I was diagnosed in 2016 with PTSD, anxiety, so you know I just kind of like took a break for a while and it was really funny when I last saw when the pandemic hit and everything. Everybody was like on board with TikTok everybody's like, Oh, everyone goes to TikTok, and you'll have fun. I actually kind of shunned it like I was like, I am not getting on TikTok, that I'm not doing it. And it was really funny because like in January, February ish of this year I started thinking more about it. I'm like you know, I'm so lonely because my support system all lives in Tennessee. I'm in Maryland, you know that were stationed in Maryland. I have no family here. My husband has no family here, we don't really know anybody because we got here right when the pandemic hit everything got shut down. And so, we still don't know a lot of people, and I'm just like my support systems down there and, you know, he's gone a lot, and I'm like, finding myself very lonely and bored and then I'm just like well I need to find some kind of like, entertainment, or something, you know, so exciting that, like I just said you know I'm gonna get on TikTok and just

play around maybe like, just have fun and watch some videos or whatever and I got on and actually started enjoying it and if you look away back to like my first video I look like an idiot like trying to sing. And it's still on there, but I was just doing it to have fun and just kind of make some friends. I wasn't looking for anything. And, you know I'd be scrolling, and it was really weird because I just feel like sometimes things are just put in front of you for a reason. Like, because my intentions were when my daughter starts kindergarten this year I was going to go back to work, go try to go back to work, you know, and legendary put all my, my four year page, every time I scroll out, all I would see and I wasn't even liking it, you know, because a lot of times when you like something they're gonna keep repeating it and so anymore I liked it I was just like, scrolling I'm like what is this, what is this, you know, and it really piqued my curiosity like I've done MLMs in the past, and I will tell you I had no success with that whatsoever. I did it for like six months. And you know we could talk about that in a few minutes, but I was like what is this, you know, so I actually reached out to one of the persons on one of the people. Chris, I don't know how to say his last name Dan Marino. And I'm like Chris, is this like real? Is this legit, is this like an MLM. Is this a scheme or a scam or I actually was one of those people like I question everything. And you know he was so down to earth and it just really, he really shook my hand.

And, you know, I did kind of, you know, ponder on it for a week or so. And then I was like, well, like for $7. Who cares if I lose $7 Like, I was like I'm gonna take the course, I'm going to learn from it. See what I did wrong and MLM. You know how can I, you know, try to do something because I find myself very lonely. I wanted to be able to do something just to give myself something to do you know it's not for me, I'm about making them some money like I really don't care I'm just looking for something that gives me purpose, because I felt like that was missing like I wasn't feeling like I was becoming anybody you know I'm just living day by day is like, what is my, you know, I was really lonely and I just wanted something to do. And he liked my hand and everything I took the course and I was like wow, I know exactly what I did wrong. Now, looking back, I'm like, no wonder I didn't make anything you know with me. When I told my family because I tried a couple of different ones. Well, I told my mom and I told my sister I told my husband, I'm like hey listen, you know start this course of learning something new I'm going to start my own business. They all fascinatingly laughed at me and laughed, I'm not gonna make it, you know, you're just gonna be disappointed again and you're, you know, you're just setting your folks up for failure and you know I'm the type of person like you're going to tell me that I'm going to work harder. Like, I'm very hard headed. So, you know, somebody says I can't, I'm going to be like no, I can, and I will, and it's funny because they start seeing my success. There, look, looking at me like, What is it you're doing again like, what do you need to show me what you're doing because I'm curious, I'm like, Oh, so you're coming back and now you're telling me

that actually I'm making some, you know, making something of myself, you know, so it's really funny but they crack me up. 

Dave: I love that story. Tell us what you learned that you were doing wrong. And some of those previous MLMs and, because I think a lot of people who have tried other things before also are scratching their heads, what was I doing wrong. So can you describe a little bit about what you've learned and what you've learned from the mistakes you're making in the past.

Jennifer: Yeah, so prior to TikTok, Instagram was like, even though I have an Instagram I don't use it hardly ever but I am on there all the time, like I'm looking at other people's things and I look at a lot of influencers, you know, and I always wonder like what are they doing, like how are they being so successful, I see them all renovating their house and constantly doing fun things they're going out there vacationing like, and I'm like there's some formula that they're using, there's some type of formula that they're using, what is it you know, but I was like, well let me, let me try MLM and, you know, that the one I joined I had actually watched them for two years before Jordan joining them, but they really didn't teach you how to really promote the product, do you know like, so I was promoting to my warm market. I was doing family and friends and, you know, well guess what, family and friends don't buy from you. They don't buy you hold market area and I'm like well how am I supposed to do that I don't know anybody, you know, I didn't know how to really put that into play, you know I plug it in and know how to actually reach people that I didn't know

to pull into that property, you know, being able to sell them products. I got very frustrated with it, and then I wasn't really getting any hope, either from anybody else. So I ended up quitting after six months, I'm like, I am done, done with this I'm not

doing it anymore I shut it down. And you know I just was living day by day, just hanging around the house, you know, and a lot of people

are like, Oh, my mom's great and everything, but after so many years of that you're like, No, I've got to find something else to do, I've got to keep my mind busy, to keep occupied, because otherwise you get really lonely. You know and I felt like I felt I had no life, You know, and I struggle every day with, you know PTSD and with anxiety, and, and I'll admit, like it's hard getting on TikTok, and doing that and honestly, because I I'm 41 years old, and I didn't know the first thing about TikTok didn't know how it work I still am learning how to talk work so I don't have to do all these fancy things that everybody else does. I'm like well how did they do that and how they did and I'm sitting there trying to Google, how do you do this kind of a video, as opposed to learning TikTok and that's, you know, for me that's my biggest challenge is how to navigate TikTok like the business aspect of it I got down you know, the training I got through Legendary. I understood it, you know, it was very clear cut like for me. I had no problem with that part of it but my issue now is I'm struggling with the desktop videos, and everybody thinks that that's the easy part. For me that's the hard part, you know, I struggle, you know, navigating I'm not 20 anymore. You know, so that's all I think.

Dave: I think I think everybody can relate to it and I think that's really great that you pointed that out, which is, which is the real, the real being potatoes of marketing is not really setting up funnels and kind of all that stuff. It's not even really understanding the business model like, it's about taking action in developing your message and figuring out how to come out with creative and unique ideas. So one of the things I noticed about your content is you just make a lot of sounds, you use a lot of pointing and text, I struggled finding the video to where you were actually even talking. So talk to us a little bit about how you've been able to get the results that you have gotten so far with your particular style of marketing on TikTok right now. 

Jennifer: Yeah, I don't do a lot of talking because again I am a very shy person, I can be very outgoing.

Dave: I noticed you said you are shy, a couple of times now but I don't know. I can't tell right now. And I think you should talk more in your marketing, because you've got some amazing stories. You really are fun to listen to. 

Jennifer: You know the people always say, well, your voice, you know, everybody wants to hear your voice and everything and I'm like, I hate my voice, and I'm not I know I'm not the only one we all cringe when I hear ourselves talk or like, I don't want to hear myself talk. I think the majority of the reason why I don't talk is because my mind is constantly in a circle, like you know with PTSD and anxiety. My mind runs so fast and I actually have a little bit of short term memory loss. So, I tried to figure out what I want to say but it doesn't always come out the way that I intended it to , so for me I'm like, just don't talk, you know, put it into words. And then that way I can control what I'm saying in my words versus what I'm speaking because I will go totally off the wall, sometimes. And that's why I did what I do, but I actually got lucky. I had one but one video, early on, that went pretty viral, and had a lot of controversy and at first I was reading the comments and everything, and then the people started arguing about it.

And I'm like, I'm just gonna sit back and let them argue because this is gonna help my account, you know, you know, it'll build, and actually was able to gain a lot of followers,

followers just from that video, you know, and I had to laugh about it now, because you know I was brand new, like I've only been doing this for like two months now, and I was still kind of like I was still new, I wasn't sure what

exactly what I was doing, and I'm just like well we can just argue it out. That's why I'm moving on. I'm gonna keep doing other things, you know, but I do try to find like most viral cells, you know that it takes me a while to figure out what, what do I want to use, and how do I want to use it. But I think for me, what I'm, what really gained my traction, I think, was going live. Now I haven't gone live. Recently, I noticed that when you go live, it really, really helps because people get to know you, you know you're talking to them face to face, you know, people can read people. You know, I can read people like I can look and know what their intentions are or, you know, I can just read it and I know if I can read people they can read me so getting live help. More than anything, I think. And then I tried to create content that is unique to me, and maybe someday try something that's not been done before. That kind of stuff, you know, just just be, you yourself. That's the biggest thing, you know. 

Dave: I think the power of going live is that you take the people who have been watching you and then you convert them, because they do get a chance to get to know you better. And it's been amazing how many people have said yeah going live, has really boosted my success. So. So what's next for you, What's your next challenge, what are you, what are you working on now, what I mean you, you said that you wanted more purpose, you wanted more growth, and now you have it. And so, what are you, what are you striving for now, what's next for you. What is your next chapter of growth? Where do you look to go just, let's say for the rest of this year.

Jennifer: Well, my real. I don't struggle we don't struggle financially, so I don't really do anything like for the money. Money is nice, but my passion and why I like to do it so much is because, you know, I know that I'm not alone in struggling with depression, anxiety, or PTSD, there's a lot of people out there and I feel like there's more people and then they want to. A lot of people don't want to talk about it because there's such a stigma behind it. You know, you get a lot of negative feedback with that, but you also have the people who enjoy that because they're like oh that's me, you know, and I can't do my business. You know I can't do a business because I know I have this, Or I'm scared to show my face or, you know, I get anxiety about going live or I get anxiety, or I'm here to tell everybody, if I can do it. And I can show my face and I struggle every day there's days I don't want to get on the bed I still forced myself out of that bed and I could do it, than they can chew and that's my goal is to help other people, you know, realize that no matter what you're struggling with in life, if you are if you really want something bad enough, you can make it happen. You know, if you want to change your life. You can change your life, you know, it's all about your mindset and your perception on, you know, what you want. Like I have to shift my mind every day, you know I have to say, Jen, you are worthy. You can do this, what makes you any different from anybody else, you know, we're all, you know, we're all different, but we're all the same, you know, and my goal is to help other people who have

the same issues as me, to be able to branch out there and say look I can do this, you know, um, so I just want people to be aware of that, you know, don't let any negativity, bring you down. Don't yourself, don't you know don't say I can't do this you know because you can do this. But you know I do. I've got like nine different nine different companies that I am promoting currently. And I'm hoping to branch into some more. But you know, again, I'm still new, so I don't want to put too much overload on myself. Um, but I would like to see. I would like to you know see me grow more I eventually like to try to do a course of my own, you know, to help people or make a book or something I'm just not there yet, you know, Because I'm still working on me, you know, but I'd like to help others as well. And, you know, for me, just, just, just helping others find success and happiness is good enough for me. You know if I can change just one person's life, then that's just good that I get more rewarded by that, you know, that makes me feel like I've accomplished something. I've helped somebody get from a low place to a place where they feel good about themselves, you know, that's my goal, my, you know

Dave: I love that. And I love, I love that you share vulnerability about yourself today, and I know that I'm inspired by it. And I learned that last year. 

Jennifer: I don't know if I'm the only one, but I can't hear you. Oh,

I can.

Dave: Hopefully I can make it back here and I can close. Well, I'm so sorry. Well, listen, thank you for coming on the show, let's, let's use, you've put a perfect bow on this episode, you have a wonderful story, and you have a kind in wonderful and inspirational spirit about yourself, and I hope that you'll continue to keep up the fantastic work, and even got a job and keep us updated and I promise to be in my office next time.

Jennifer: Okay sounds good to me. So, yeah, well thank you again for having me here and I hope that you know these words of encouragement can help others you know just to see that, you know, anything's possible if you put your mind to it and you, you know, plan it out right and you just, just stay focused and positive, you can do anything that you're setting your mind to, you know, that's, that's the important thing.

Dave: I totally, I totally agree, and, and, and thank you for that, and you keep up the good work and if there's anything that I can do or we can do here at Legendary to continue to help you grow, please let me know. 

Jennifer: All right, well thank you so much, you have a good rest of the day. 

Dave: All right, well, this is from my dad and I he's, he's got his dad, glasses, he's, he's doing a good job keeping us safe. We are signing off Jennifer, thank you so much, go follow her affiliate _Jen1 TikTok. You guys have a fantastic day, be legendary by Jennifer, we'll talk to you soon. Bye.

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How To Be Successful At Affiliate Marketing In College

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Below is the transcription for Thursday's episode:

Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to wake up legendary today. Today we have a 21 year old ex college student who discovers the greatest asset known to man. And also to women. Welcome to the show. Taylor what's going on, 

Taylor: What's up Dave?

Dave: Not much man, you are, hanging out in your car, we're going to do a car show today and I love it. 

Taylor: Perfect. 

Dave: Where are you at, where are you calling in from Oklahoma. Oklahoma Cornhusker. The native state for sure is that Nebraska oak Wait am I do I got my do I got my state's confused there is that Nebraska corn Husker mats laughing at me because he's, he's this sports fan, and I'm, it's, it's this Nebraska. Tornado state, when you put your foot in your mouth. In the first 10 seconds of the show. Yeah. Anyways, so well okay tornado state I've got a funny story about a tornado, I was actually had a tornado hit my house when I was like eight years old, and it took the roof off of my side of the house where I normally take a shower every morning, but for some reason, call it odd call it God, I took a shower in my parents bathroom that morning, and I may not be here so I've got a little tornado experience in my

life as well. 

Taylor: That's insane. I've actually lived here my whole life and never had a tornado hit my house.

Dave: You're the tornado that's hitting the internet now so let's talk about that so we say x college student. Are you a drop out like I am or did you tell us a little bit about how you been online, and what you were doing prior to coming online? 

Taylor: Okay, So I was in college at Oklahoma State. I found a job while I was there at a dispensary is marijuana is medically legal here and had a good time the classes I was in was online so I was working and I ended up getting some opportunity and do some sales and other stuff in the company, and potentially could make a lot of money doing that so I decided to take this semester off and see how that went. And I didn't end up doing so much of sales but more of like training and stuff, which was a really good day but it wasn't, it was only a couple times a month really wasn't working that much. 

Dave: I've worked in that industry before. Yeah, I really mean years ago, many, many years. This was well over a decade. Actually when I was a teenager but but anyways so yes go on, you were trimming buds, you

Taylor: I mean was over in the service, there you have great pays for two times a week, it was great but that became a point where we weren't going to have any for a couple months, and I was basically, basically, what they call that a bud shortage, right, dry spell. Right, and so I can either go work in the shop and work for the app by the hour or find something else to do, and luckily I came across Legendary through TikTok, and I was like, this might be the perfect thing to figure out how to make a passive income before trimming comes back up, And now I don't even need the trim anymore.

Dave: Right, I'll go get rich online right yeah no, my friends were like I thought I was crazy but well you are. I'm a little crazy right you gotta be a little crazy, Right.

So, tell us about your, like, when did you come across a Legendary and kind of how was your world or your eyes opened up to the possibilities when you enrolled in our challenge and started to learn?

Taylor: So the challenge itself was obviously different. I had never thought about making money online, up until then. And I think what really helped change my perspective was the book Rich Dad Poor Dad. I hate that book, like I read it in the first like four or five days that I got it, I loved it. I really liked how you guys wanted to shift my perspective, While you were teaching me about making money and working for yourself. And so for me it was just a really cool experience to learn to work for myself and not for someone else.

Dave: Yeah that's cool, that's great that you took the suggestions and actually really did the assignments and have invested, I mean you've enrolled in our challenge you've enrolled in our Blueprints how is this education experience. Did you know it was different from the education experience that you were having in college?

Taylor: Oh my gosh, I mean, first of all you're teaching me something actually that I can use actual skills. Thanks to all the professors out there but I didn't take much from the two years of college that I took. I would also say, just the team that you guys are and how you guys teach you guys are just so encouraging, and you actually care about the results, and that's like one of the first things I say when I talk about Legendary Marketer to my friends and family, it's just how great you guys are how encouraging and how you want me to succeed and that's all I can really ask from a teacher.

Dave: Yay. Well that's all we can expect from a student or client right so it's just that you're getting a lot of value and you're learning and you're changing the sort of direction of your life, which is really cool. I mean, I'm always inspired when people who are in their 50’s 60’s 70’s even 80’s, like take on a new challenge and go head in a new direction, but I'm also really excited when a young person which my wife just, I was looking at some vehicles, and I looked at one in a certain color and she said that that car might be a little young for you so she just reminded me that I'm not quite a young man anymore. So I can be kind of like the cool uncle here. I'm, I'm, you know, I'm happy when young folks come through here and change their lives. But I am I mean it's cool right it's, it's, I have a 21 year old child, as well, you know what I mean so you know I'm really, I'm excited to, I wish I would have had this information sooner, although I found that when I was 24, 25. That was awesome that I did because my life would have been totally different if I hadn't, you know, just just curious, do you have, do you have student loan debt or anything from your college or no?

Taylor: I was lucky enough to where my dad was paying for my college so I literally went out with no debt 

Dave: He went out with a debt. So how is, how is. How is your relationship with him based on some of the decisions that you're making? Is he on board or how have you navigated that?

Taylor: He loves it because he is so supportive. 

Dave: I'm glad because I was hoping that there wasn't a ton of friction but that's sometimes part of it.

Taylor: Like the epitome of like rich dad in that book like I was originally planning to go to law school, and he absolutely hated that he did not hide that at all like he was paying for me to go to school but he didn't hide the fact that he did not support that. He thought I was gonna be stressed my whole life.

Dave: What can I ask you this, like I'm just curious, what did he think about the marijuana stuff. Taylor: He has smoked so he was. Both my parents. Both my parents thought it was a cool job. 

Dave: Is he a successful business owner or is he kind of like a dreamer and starts businesses and, like, what just describe your parents just in a nutshell,

Taylor: So my dad started in car sales is like 16 years old, he didn't even graduate high school, and eventually got to a point he was managing them and then go into other dealerships to teach guys how to sell and just improve their dealerships overall so they have a company based on that and then he does quite a few other things that honestly I don't really know. I'm not even gonna lie, but my mom is a lawyer so that's actually what made me think to do that and my parents are divorced so if that makes you realize why my dad didn't want me to be a lawyer that might have something to do with it. But yeah, both of them are just in awe about the accomplishments that I've made so far with this, they think it's awesome and they love it.

Dave: Good for you and I'm so happy that you're getting that validation from your parents and that support, you know, I really, really am. I can tell that it's making a huge difference. You feel. We feel supported by them. Right, right. That's great. And those of you who have children I mean, it's really difficult thing sometimes to let our dreams for our children go, you know, and let them have their own lives and realize that we may have birthed them, but we don't own them, you know, and that they are their own people, and to really love and support their decisions and direction even though we may not understand it at first, I've had to learn to seek to understand, rather than judge and be critical, so I'm so thrilled that you're getting that validation and support from your parents, it means a lot you have any siblings?

Taylor: I do have an older brother. And he actually is working in a dealership right now in Texas.

Gotcha. So you've come online you started with affiliate marketing you went through our training you started to learn, you've now gotten back on TikTok as well throw your handle up make money with taste so you've kind of chosen to go into the make money online space, which is what a lot of people do, because maybe you don't, they don't have like yourself maybe a pre previous expertise or experience with a particular niche so you kind of go in and say hey I learned a lot and maybe others might be interested in learning something similar so it kind of is it caught like it makes sense to take that next step. So what do you have? What have you been doing that's working? Take us through your journey so far which has been about how long?

Taylor: About a month in a week or two weeks. 

Dave: Wow. So, super, super new so what's, what have you been doing over the course of the last month or so that's been working and what have you. What have you realized, didn't work to tell us some of your top learning lessons,

Taylor: So I really utilize TikTok, that is actually the only platform that I've been using so far. I find that if you can just go through popular sounds, do something somewhat entertaining or, you know, tell a story of some sort, like you guys kind of say in the blueprints. That's really what has worked for me. I was lucky enough actually to where my very first video blew up and is like my second most popular video so I think that helped me get that jumpstart and that confidence. Yeah, but before doing this, I spent a lot of time on TikTok just finding all different types of stuff. So maybe that's why kind of, it's easy for me to think of material when I see a good sound. And I think, honestly, really just TikTok is what I try to tell everyone if they want to get into this area that they really need to capitalize on that.

Dave: Yeah, Yeah, it's really a unique opportunity, I mean being in this business, again, you know, I'm an old, I'm an old man at this point, being in this business. For God's sake, I feel like a dinosaur. But I really haven't seen anything this powerful in terms of just the ability to get going fast, ability to have a video or piece of content take off and go viral. I mean right now, tick tock. Pinterest is really exciting. You know, and you can repurpose your videos which you say you're not doing, and I support that I want to. I want to dial in on that for a second. You guys can take your TikTok videos you can remove the, the, the watermark from your TikTok videos and you can repurpose them right on. If somebody would drop the software that you can do that with. If anybody knows about it I think Roxy knows about it. But if you guys can draw it in the comments. But, it's not necessary. And clearly, you are totally focused on this one platform. And how are you avoiding shiny objects because it's such a common thing for somebody like you and me to be getting some results and then say what else am I missing out on, and then start to spread ourselves too thin and diminish our results from what was working. So how are you staying focused and how are you thinking about focusing on growing your business? By focusing on what's working and building on that.

Sarah: I think for me, I've never been super on social media like I've always used it, but I've never been someone that posted a lot or anything. And I think I just saw that tick tock. You didn't have to worry about the likes you were getting and the followers you had. It was like every video you send out a chance for a lot of people to see it. And for me I almost think being in TikTok, I'm not even just focusing on that because I think that's all I need to do but it's the easiest right now I don't have to put in too much effort to get those followers and get those people interested in my content so for me it's honestly just been the easiest thing.

Dave: Yeah. And I think there's a lot of wisdom in that, you know what I found in my life in business, is that the most powerful and wise things I've ever done, are also the simplest, and even the easiest, and that doesn't mean that tough things don't pay off like, like, developing new habits like, obviously that's something that, that will eventually pay off like going to the gym or eating more healthy, but I've also noticed in my life that when I try to force things that are really difficult like say for example I'm trying to force, I'm doing video marketing so let me try to go force the YouTube thing, when, when TikTok really easy, the harder it is and the more I dislike it, the less I do or the less I want to do. So there's a lot of value in actually liking what you're doing and it being easy to do because you want to do it more. So to find yourself in flow state, because you are focused here you're keeping things simple. You're not stressing out trying to do too much early on, are you and are you finding your kind of flow, in terms of content creation and ideas, how would you describe sort of the, your content idea process how you come up with ideas?

Taylor: I would 100% say that I definitely have a flow going on with it because, like I said I ca make videos fast because I spent quite a bit of time on TikTok before but I mean I can bust out like 10 videos pretty quick just finding good sounds and thinking of clever ways to kind of use them. And I think that's why a lot of younger people can take advantage of TikTok because it's a lot easier for them to learn, navigate the app and they tend to feel more confident putting themselves out there because it's kind of like a lot of younger people are on. So, yeah, for me, I definitely agree that I definitely have some flow going on. And I think focusing on tick tock is what's worked best for me and like you said, kept me from putting too much time and effort into something that I didn't really enjoy and stressing.

Dave: I think that like for example we give you guys an example of what I'm talking about here with kind of just focusing on what's easy and focusing on what's simple, like there's a lot, a lot of you guys might be looking at tick tock like oh well that's just a simple one, that's just, I mean what's there really I'm just shooting videos but there's so much more like what I teach in the blueprints and the fishing formula, about the psychology of your, of your customer about really understanding the message that's going to resonate with them in developing stories that when they hear feels like you're telling their story on every situation when you get good at telling them the heroic story which is what it's like what happened what it's like now, you can apply that to things in your everyday life, so it doesn't have to just be. This is my life story and here's how I started doing this and why you might want to check out this product. It's also hey I just got into a fender bender today. Here's what happened and then you can tell a story related to business, or you can relate it to marketing online, or hey I just, I just was fumbling through some college papers and reminded about how many people are going down that path and have no idea that there's a different, better and simpler, easier and more lucrative way, which I've discovered, so I can turn just fumbling through some papers, or checking and getting an email from my old college or reading an article about college and I can turn that into a story that somebody, that sounds personal to me because it is, But it can relate in hit home for people listening, and I believe that really is an art, it's part art it's part science but it really is a learned skill that the more you do it, the more that you get good at telling those short little stories and analogies. And that's really the big part of marketing, because whether you're doing that on video or whether you're doing that in the written word. It's all about telling stories and making points and making points that kind of are wrapped in stories. So, so as you're as you're as you're as you're doing more content creating more videos. Are you are you are you building your confidence in your ability to be able to speak with some authority and not feel like insecure like well I don't have any results or how are you dealing with that quote what we call imposter syndrome or insecurity about being new, but also needing to talk with some confidence so people listen to you.

Taylor: I would say that at first, I had gotten any results, it was a lot harder for me to, you know, encourage people to take the course because it's hard to say that when you haven't technically had much to show for it yet other than, you know, switch a perspective for me now, I feel a lot more confident and definitely feel like I have the power to motivate other people to do the same and you know sometimes in the comments people want to accuse you of being a schemer lying and all that other stuff but I try to respond to them, and just make it apparent that, you know it's not a scheme, I'm not here to deceive anybody I'm trying to help you guys as much as I want to help myself. And I think it really just boils down to, you know, if I allow people to come into my DMs and ask me questions or concerns before they get started, I feel like that helps a little bit people. People can ask me questions but to what you're saying I definitely think as the results start coming in I feel more and more confident and more able to convince others that it's just as feasible for them.

Dave: Yeah. And so the question becomes how do I bridge the gap between being where I'm at having no results, and this is for any niche guys, this is for any niche, like, there is an element of, if I'm going to teach other parents how to how to get their baby to sleep in the first six months of its life. It's, yeah I'm gonna have more confidence if I've already done it, you know if I've if I've already had a kid or two or worked with other clients, and helped them to teach their children and gotten results from what I teach. So the only way to bridge that gap. The only way to bridge that gap guys, because I don't need to ask you this Taylor. This common sense is to just keep doing your best to speak with confidence in authenticity and honesty, until you start to get results. There's no shortcut. There's no there, or you can lie, and you can use fake screenshots or whatever like there's some people out there, but they're. The other thing to focus on is just edutainment, which is, here's what I learned and I like to share that with you if you're interested in learning more like this, click the link right or let me tell you so and so story. We can also use other people's stories as examples. When you got started before you had results, and you had confidence, what were some of the types of content that you were creating. To get started to just get going, and just get things off the ground?

Dave: So I was doing some videos trying to just kind of be hashtagging like financial motivation, Stuff like that to try to get some followers and just kind of motivate people to take another step. I also kind of one of the videos that did get pretty popular was me shouting out the blonde affiliate Sarah that was on here, kind of telling her story in a sense, just how much she's made not saying you know I've made this much but, you know, here's a girl, close to my age that's done this and that was one of my videos that got super popular so before I was able to have results, I kind of credited to her story a little bit and that's what was working for me.

Dave: I like that a lot and I think for all of us there's an opportunity to look for other people that we can align with, not to for any other reason except to be able to borrow each other's stories and to use, and have more social proof, like hey look it's not just me. Look at her. Look at him. We're all within the same age range or we're all similar in this way, and if this is you, and I also like people who are not similar hey it's not just me, look over here, a Tom, Dick or Harry who's in his 60s or Sally over here who is still has her corporate job but she's building a side income online with affiliate marketing, or was selling her own courses look at these other people, and you can you can do with them, you can on, if you're doing YouTube, you can clearly do screen shares and share their profiles, share their stories. There's so many different ways you can, if you're going to use one of their videos you can ask them, Hey, can I use your video, and then you can download their video and put it into a, a, you know, just edited into one of your own videos on Facebook, or, or Instagram or Twitter it's so easy to just use somebody's story and write it out maybe a picture of them of course, with their permission. But the point you make about whether you're in contact with them or whether you just have people that you're also showing your audience and social proof from you can lean on their experience and not just your own I think is so intelligent, so powerful, is there anything else that you think is is just would add value to people who are listening, have a few other a tip or two that has been, has worked for you.

Taylor: I think one of the biggest tips that you guys gave me, at least during the challenge and maybe in the blueprints was to take each step at a time, one step at a time and have the confidence that you can get through that because I hear a lot of people saying the same things were there on day seven or day a and they're so lost, they're so confused and it's all overwhelming and I think every single person has gone through that and it's a matter of if you're willing to take the time to get through that instead of just giving up. And so that's one of the things that I always have to say is just don't give up because I was discouraged multiple times and I thought about it and I didn't and I'm so happy that I didn't. Yeah so, and I like to point out that I am 21. I had zero experience going into it so if I was able to do it, anybody else can do the same. And I really like to emphasize that in my videos and stuff.

Dave: It's such an important point right and I think we're so hard on ourselves thinking that we're supposed to understand everything right away when in both trades or degrees that you have to get yours. It's yours to understand things I know for most professions, you've got to go through four to six years of college. Sometimes you gotta, you got to do internships. I mean, it's, it's a trade schools are the same thing you want to be a contractor, I want to be a contractor, you had to have so many years in the profession, you had to have so many years working under another contractor, I mean, it was, It was yours, and somebody who's going through your 15 days of training is, is, is, I see it all the time too is, is sort of throwing the baby out with the bathwater on day six because they're like, you know, or day three, for God's sakes like oh my god you know like and it's like, give yourself a break, you know, give yourself a break. Don't, don't, don't think that everything is going to make sense within that first week or two, some of it is OJT, on the job training out there and learn, you've got to pick the tools up and learn how they were in order for the training to make sense, would you agree with that.

Taylor: Oh yeah 100% I definitely agree, I think you definitely have to at least try, even if you aren't succeeding or whatever, as long as you're kind of getting yourself out there and opening yourself up to new experiences and problems that you can solve I think that's important.

Dave: It's one of the reasons why we do the show every day is to try to give people a perspective that, you know, you're, you're probably your heart your worst critic and you probably have unrealistic expectations for yourself and what you're going to produce. And it's one of the reasons why we try to encourage those who are our affiliates who are out there sharing our programs to not be you know, not us saying like I had to give somebody feedback the other day turned $7 into 7000 or, you know our, you know, earn money within 15 days and it's like, it's like, don't, don't, don't, if you're gonna say something like that give the full disclosure, you know what I mean like, like, be honest with people, I think, I think that we really underestimate the power of being honest and telling somebody, like, also the ugly parts of things, but not so pretty. The not so glamorous parts of things because we think that's going to turn them off, but really it builds more trust, how have you taken some risk or taking some chances, whether it's with, you know, telling people, bad or tough parts about the business or just being vulnerable in general, how do you begin to take risk like that and has it paid off at all. Do you have any examples?

Taylor: I tried to make some specific videos just about putting in work, maybe not even necessarily about affiliate marketing but just you know if you want to change your situation, it's not going to come to you you're going to have to put in some work effort and some time, and I make sure in my DMs and stuff when people are really asking me, the work that I put in, I'm 100% Honest, I spent two to three hours a day for over a month to try to learn with you know making no money spending money and you know sacrificing that for myself and I try to be as upfront as possible because the last thing I want to do is deceive anyone, and I definitely try to make videos specifically about putting in that work.

Dave: Yeah it's it's it's interesting I remember back when I was starting, like, I didn't want to use disclaimers I didn't want to, like, I wanted to make everything look like it was all peachy and rosy and easy and there was nothing bad and it was just the best. So much better than anything else that can do in the world and there was nothing that was bad about it or hard about it. What I learned was that when people heard that they were skeptical because they knew. And so I had to mature in my marketing and in learning the power of building trust with people by being more transparent, and in doing so, they already know nothing's perfect, they already have ingrained in their head if it's too good to be true it probably is like, that's great. You're not their parents, people said that all throughout their upbringing, you're not in 1/32 video gonna rewire that, that's deep. So, you can't make it sound too good to be true because that's exactly what they're going to say to themselves, the more transparent, the more that we give them both sides of the coin. And here's the thing that I've done that works really well. And I was talking to a buddy last night and he gave an example of a totally different situation where that kind of takeaway worked really well. Also, he's in the window business and he said that they went down to this apartment or condo community, and put on a like a wine and cheese kind of thing and presented their business to the people at the at the condo association you know their, their windows, their window options, and they were trying to win their business and they said that the sales lady got up in front of the room on stage just said hey I'm just only going to take a couple of your minutes this is not going to be a hard pitch as a matter of fact, we're not going to pitch you at all, I'm not going to follow up with any of you guys. And if you want to sign up today. It's fine if you don't, that's fine too. Again, we're not even going to take your information to follow up with you. Everybody in the condo is either an apple, banana or an orange, based on the type of condo that you're in. And the first ones to walk over to the booth and sign up if you want to, are going to be the ones who will get scheduled first, our credentials, and our work speaks for itself. You can look us up, we've got referrals, you can do all the research that you want on us. If you guys don't work with us we know that there's other businesses coming right around the corner, and we're not going to pester you or harass you. So, enjoy the cheese, enjoy the wine. Have any questions come over and see me, and we hope to do business with all of you in the room, it'd be our honor and she walked off the stage and signed up over 80% of the room doing that. Right, no bullshit, no, no long sales pitch about all this other stuff she just she just kind of took it away like hey I'm not going to chase you, I'm not going to be desperate and how that relates to us in marketing is sometimes when we're new especially we get into this desperate, kind of, I'll do anything for you to buy through me so I can make a commission. And that energy comes off, it kind of seeps through our skin, It's like we just people can smell desperation. And so, how do you, how does that apply to you, how do you trust the process and how do you not get? Do you know you're chasing a commission or you're getting lost with the tire kickers and the question askers. I've always found that the people who spend the least amount of money on complaints and questions. How are you holding your ground, is what I'm asking. And how does what kind of what I'm sharing apply to you, or what comes up for you as I say that?

Taylor: I think my experience with that is the negative comments that I get about being deceitful and, you know, part of the scheme and, you know, people will say pretty rude things and they don't even take the time to click on my link you know what I'm saying so I tried to just be mature and tell them you know, If you are skeptical, just go check it out, go check out the link, go check out my video and your video, don't like it, don't take it. No one's forcing you to do anything, I'm just trying to show you my experience and something that is obtainable for you. And when people are in my DNS asking me, well send me proof of your earnings, then it's like, that's the only way I'm gonna believe you and I say, I'm not gonna do that, and if you don't want to believe me, that's fine I can't make you do that, this is an opportunity for you and if you don't want to take that that's completely fine, but I try to just kind of do what you're saying, you can't defend yourself right yeah like, Yeah, I kind of just try to turn into, you know, I'm not forcing you to believe me, and if you don't want to that's fine but my contents here for maybe you to get some encouragement to try something new maybe not even marketing but just something to get yourself out of a situation that you've been complaining about or you don't like so.

Dave: And I can relate to that it's it's interesting because, you know, obviously, I've had like people just in general, say that those kind of things to me over the years, friends and family even in the last couple of years, several people pop up and may start bashing us and bashing what we're doing and thinking that that's that's that's a clever way to market. They're only actually making us look better by doing that because they're proving to the entire world that we're the you know we're the ones to take down were the ones that they're aiming for and probably secretly trying to be like. And for me, you know, I really I really know when somebody is attacking or when somebody is feeling extra insecure, you know they want to call me out, they want to call us out, they want to project that insecurity on and try to make it seem like what I'm doing is wrong or bad, and what they're doing is better. And if people are smarter than that. I know that people are smarter than that. So the way that I respond. Also, I'm never going to convince that person, nor do I need to, whoever is trolling hating, doing the low level kind of insecure marketing, but the way that I react can influence other potential clients and customers, right, so how you react, how I react. Here at legendary to trolls and haters and people can insecure marketers is maybe I'm not going to change them but I can influence people who may be on the fence, and who will see how I behave and say, Wow, this is, these people don't need to defend themselves, they just start doing their thing. And you, somebody could see you in the comments and how you respond, and you could earn a lot of respect from a potential serious buyer, by the way that you respond to a troll. So I think we all have to keep that in, we all have to remember that, that it's never about the person who's trolling us, it's always about the audience that's watching how we react. And I have built my career, my reputation in defining my integrity by the way that I handle and react to people who attack me. And you also have to remember if they're attacking you, you must be at the top right because no one calls out and attacks people when making moves, but, but does that resonate with you about about building your integrity and building your reputation and building, and also earning business from people who are watching, versus, you know, trying to win over some troll what comes up as I as I give that perspective,

Taylor: That is 100% What I try to do half the comments that are negative I just delete them and like get out of here. The other half, I respond to, to almost utilize that. Because I know. What if some one person comments that at least 100 other people are thinking the same thing and so I try to use that comment to, you know my answer so that someone else that goes in the comments that might think the same can get that answer as well so almost utilizing those bad comments in my advantage so that way I can respond to some of the things that people are thinking but not necessarily commenting.

Dave: You know, and I think that's the thing that's so every, every move is an opportunity and a lot of times we get afraid of negative trolling and insecure people marketers and people who attack us and so forth, right, the first reaction might be, oh God, you know, nobody likes to be attacked right, but how we respond to it can be a marketing strategy in and of itself. Right. And just like you say, people open up the comments and look at what other people are saying. It's a natural human thing that people are social creatures. They want to know what other people are thinking. And so, how you respond to a comment is my suggestion to all of you. Sounds like you're, you're really, you really, you really kind of are getting a got this in our kind of utilizing this is to get good at responding, clever, not passive aggressively, because people can sense that that small energy, but responding transparently and also with with esteem with self esteem, like for example somebody. Somebody posted in one of our groups. I don't give a shit what who's trolling us and me and everything because, you know, people think they can fill the shoes they don't, they don't know how big they are. Somebody said, there's people that are bashing you on TikTok, and I appreciate in love all of you guys who have our back, I got your back to like people. But here's what I said. I said the people bashing us on TikTok don't realize how much it's not hurting us and how bad it makes them look, and I don't feel the need to go out of my way to tell them that for, for all of us who. Here's the simplest way that I can wrap up this thought: when somebody is bashing, when somebody is trolling, when somebody is insecurely throwing stones because they're projecting their own shit onto you. Don't worry about them, know that your response is going to affect those who are watching, and you have a chance to earn a lot of people's business, who maybe didn't even watch your video, but just open the comments right up and saw how you move, and how you, how you work, right there in the comments, and I think we got to get good. It's a strategy to get good at responding to comments with big energy, with, with, with a, with confidence, energy, but not shaming, there's a balance to not being a doormat, but also not letting people walk on you. When you feel confident and you feel, sustainable and you feel okay with yourself, then that's when you can get into kind of your creative sort of responding witty nature, and you, you, again, you're not a doormat, but you also are not somebody who's, who's, who's kind of, you don't need to go out there and put people down I don't need to match blow for blow. Right. I like when somebody tells me to take more of a humble stance and be like, Look, that's not the game I play, sorry you're feeling like that, but I'm on a boat, a new level. The same level. and people can sense that energy, would you agree.

Taylor: Yeah no I definitely agree. I think also too, it's funny that some of the videos that I have had blown up, people will comment and it's almost like they don't expect me to reply to them. And there's been like a few people that I have replied to and they've almost back down like they'll say something like, yeah, you're not getting money from me today sorry, and then I'll say something like you know if you're not willing to spend $7 on something that could potentially make you in a limited passive income then this challenge isn’t for you. And I got a lot of people commenting back and liking that. 

Dave: Right, it's the takeaway man, that's not desperate energy that takeaway, and the psychology behind that takeaway is just that people want something that they can't have. So if you're, if you're desperately, begging basically. I don't mean like literally like please please please but there's a desperate energy versus taken away like I don't care whether you do it or not, like, man, people lean into that, because they want what they can't have and if they sense that you don't need their business, then they want to do business with you even more. 

Taylor: Yeah, I agree. 

Dave: And that is proven, like the guy or gal who walks into the room if there's two people that are, that maybe you're thinking about doing business with the person who really needs the money, the needs, the business is less likely to get the business and the person who's like super successful. Because humans just naturally want to work with people who don't need their mind.

Taylor: Kind of like in a relationship.

Dave: It is I mean, the person who's chasing you like you went out on a first date and they are crazy with texting and following up and seem like they have no life except now you're their obsession. It's natural, you're kind of looking at them and you're like, you know, this dude or this chick is a crazy man, like, and it's just unattractive right whereas, even though it sucks, right sometimes playing hard to get, you know, worked out works yeah. Go dumb guys. We love a chase. 

Taylor: That can apply to most things.

Dave: It does it apply it applies to all, it applies to all it's not just not just males It's everybody. We love a good Chase, we love to. We love to have what we, what we can't have or what it appears we can't have, and to use that psychology in our marketing requires some esteem; it requires us to amp up our confidence and to act as if we're already successful. But, that's this mental conditioning piece that we talked about so much. So, what is your, somebody was thinking about coming into our community coming into Legendary cut off the fan base maybe on a checkout page or maybe checking us out. What would you tell them that your experience has been in a nutshell, and if you would recommend them to get started in and kind of come and learn from us in run with us.

Taylor: I think my personal experience is absolutely just loving the community aspect that you guys provide with the Facebook with in general just I remember when I enrolled in the blueprints and I think I got like a personalized video from you saying, Hey Taylor like thank you for joining yada yada just kind of that acknowledgement. Every student you guys have, it's just so important, and I think anyone that's questioning starting this should definitely give it a shot because you really have nothing to lose and so much the game, and not only that but you get a community of people that want the same for you and will, are willing to help you so I just love I love it.

Dave: Yeah, well I'm proud of you and I'll join the club right with your dad. I'm really excited and I'll be your, hopefully cool, uncle. You know, so I am really just excited for you and happy for you and just, you're just such a bright young lady and you got so many cool things ahead of you in your life so keep up the good work and come back and keep us posted on your journey. 

Taylor: Okay. Awesome, thank you so great to talk to you. 

Dave: Alright Taylor, see ya. All right, my friends. How cool. What a cool young lady to go and check her out. Okay, over on. Make Money With Tay on TikTok and you can check her out. You know, go from there. She started the other platforms as she, my friends, my friends, lift her up. All right, and lift each other up in this community because this is a really unique thing that we have each other, who are sort of on the same path doing similar things maybe in different niches and maybe promoting different products, totally fine, we're all sort of on that same mission and we don't always find that within sometimes local friends and family and that's totally okay and totally normal. Okay, we're the weird ones little odd little out there, and, and it's always kind of been like that. And I'm just happy as I find more people who are on the same path that I am. And so cherish each other, and lift in support each other within our community, and who are on the same mission, and, and that energy will come back to you and we will see you all back here tomorrow for another episode to wrap up, wrap up the Week.

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Matt: Hey, welcome, Happy Wednesday. We are here to live for Wake Up Legendary. As always, this is not a simulation. This is not a pre-recording. We're actually here live, a few minutes late today but we're still here whether we're rocking or rolling. So, if you are here with us. Let us know in the comments you can leave us a little comment and let us know that you're here. I see some familiar, some unfamiliar, Laurie, Kara familiar names to me, Robert, Angela, what's going on, Glenn, Gage what's going on. Angel, James William. Awesome. Good to have you guys here. Welcome in, and if you are newer to our community or this is your first time tuning in, we host these every single Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern. And, I mean, typically, holidays, we're here, like, I mean it's, it's literally every freaking time so every freaking day so if you want to tune in and you'd like to get a reminder every time that we go live. Over here, you can text, WUL at 813-296-8553, you'll get a short little text message every time we go live in fact that, if I look down here, I have my text message right here, and gives me a little link I can tap on to join this stream so it's super easy. And if you want to do that, you can simply text 813-296-8553 Today we've got an awesome guest. I'm really excited to chat with her, she's got all sorts of cool stuff going on. And, and is just super skilled I'm very very curious to get to know her. And so we're just gonna bring her Sarah, what's going on?

Sarah: Hi, how are you? 

Matt: Good, I'm doing very well. Where are you calling from?

Sarah: I am in, where am I? I'm in Palm Beach, Florida. 

Matt: Sweet. Cool, moved from Hawaii to there. Yeah, a Southern way my parents are still in Hawaii but yeah okay now just came because of the pandemic and everything and I thought my parents would come with me, but they did in Hawaii. Nice.

Nice. Awesome. So bring us into your world a little bit like we don't know you, it's our first time meeting you. It's my first time meeting you. Bring us a little bit into your world of how you find digital marketing, how you go online, why did you go online. Tell us a little bit about you.

Sarah: Yeah, yeah, Well first of all thank you for having me. I appreciate it and Legendary Marketer and Wake Up are very cool spaces, like even the value just from these videos that you guys offer for free is really awesome so thank you. Yeah I got started in digital marketing, back in 2016 That's when I first learned about it, but I didn't do much with it because I didn't know how. There weren't there wasn't something like this that I was aware of that I, I felt was honest and ethical, and that could teach me the basic skill sets and everything, but I was at the time, working as a cleaner, and before that I was working in corporate, and I was just very unhappy. Very overworked, underpaid, stressed out, I know a lot of people can relate to those feelings and emotions. And I was always just grinded I felt like I was just always working and non-stop and just didn't have a life outside of work, and it was, I was at this point in my life where I was like you know I can. I can't live this way anymore. I know I have to give and I think everyone has felt that at some point they have that inner calling or that inner pole to do something more with their life, but they don't know how to go about it. Exactly. And so I was just praying to God and I was like to show me something, anything, I don't care what, and then I was introduced to digital marketing and affiliate marketing, and I was like, Yes, that's what I was looking for like something that's, that's rooted in helping people, that offers service products, but that can also create passive income streams for me so that I can help even more people because that was my main thing that I wanted I wanted to help more people. Because I knew what it was like to struggle. I knew what it was like to grow up in a very poor family, to have very little. I come from a very big family. I have seven sisters. So we grew up, like, huge family just not with a lot though so I have very humble beginnings. And I was just, I thought that I had to because I grew up poor, I had to be poor my whole life, and then I saw these people doing affiliate marketing and digital marketing, they had kind of similar stories to me like I grew up on food stamps or, you know like whatever it was just like a very similar narrative of poverty mindset and then they were able to break that chain and I was like well if they can do it, why can't I like what makes them so better or different or special. And yeah, so I got started in affiliate marketing, took it seriously in 2017 and four months later I was able to quit my cleaning job from the initial start date. Now my, I was hustling, I was working really hard that did that come like, I don't want to make it sound like oh I just slapped on the link, and it was like, there was a lot of work that I did a lot, especially a lot of work in here, a lot of mindset shifts that I had to go through. The cool thing that I thought I was able to do while cleaning houses even though it was the most humble, hard working job I've ever had in my life was that I could just listen to whatever I wanted, while I was cleaning. So, all day long while I was cleaning I was listening to podcasts and books and just expanding my mind and learning from so many people I was already doing that but I took it to a whole nother level and I felt like, Okay, this makes it worth it cuz I feel like I'm getting paid to learn in a way and then just making some extra cash to keep me afloat. Yes, so that's how I got started and then. Prior to that I was blogging and still do. I have my blog where I work with other people to help them with their blogs because building a brand online is super important. A lot of people are just relying on social media. And that's, that's great in one way, but it's not because those social media accounts can be stripped of you like that like people get their TikToks taken away their, like, their Facebook's their Instagrams you don't technically own that even if it's your name like @Sarafaith or @Matt like they don't care, but if you have a self hosted website and blog. You own that nobody can tell you what to write, what to do. And so I became very passionate about that. And so I make a full time living from blogging as well which is really cool. But affiliate marketing is a great component of like an income stream, and I've been able to just learn so much and yeah I have a lot of people asking me like, hey, you know, you talk a lot about affiliate marketing, but is there a course that you can promote and, or like, Do you have a course and people were asking me to teach it, but I couldn't find something that I could put my stamp of approval on and say like, Yes, like this is what I would, You know, share with you. And so I started researching and then that's when I found Legendary and I'm like you know what, I'll take one for the team. Seven Bucks let's try this 15 Day Challenge. That happens. That's like the cost of a coffee these days so I was like, What am I to lose? And I was, I was actually very pleasantly surprised and I was like you know like, this is something I wish I had started out like if I had had that 15 Day Challenge and applied it like took notes like listened to every video, plus all the free content from Wake Up legendary and everything. I was like I would be lightyears ahead. And so it was exciting to be able to offer that to people people messaged me all the time say oh my gosh like I've gotten such great results like I've learned so much, like it's such a great educational piece and here we're going and so I'm working with 2025 30, different affiliate products that were, that are in the blogging business niche, and health products because I do have a degree in health science so that's my story.

Matt: That's awesome. Yeah, yeah, like I had like, like I have certain kinds of interviews like cue questions or whatever and I feel like you were like, You got yourself to a point, and then like said them to yourself. That was incredible. No, so I wanted to go back to like, I feel like with, Well, there was a lot to pull out there. A few things jumped out to me is, I had a similar experience when I was working in basically in a coffee warehouse where I was like, you know, not making very much money, but I always had headphones that are always listening and I was always, I totally resonate with that, like the just, just the little times throughout your day when you can pump your ears, full of stuff that's like even just giving you new ideas or sparking new ideas or sparking new sort of inspiration. It's so powerful. I love that

Sarah: It’'s always feeding your mind with, with just positivity and a different perception from people who've gone through similar or even worse situations because I always thought that like, oh we had it so bad as kids and then, like I've listened to someone else who had way worse and I'm like, Well, look what they're doing, like, they were able to get out of that situation so I can I can too.

Matt: Yeah, wow that's very interesting. So right now you have this whole blogging brand to like you've got like multiple different brands going on and everything like how did you. Okay, the whole like what you said about blogging and having your own platform having your own thing, right, what you said about that is so powerful because it is true. But the truth of the blog thing right so there's, there's sort of pros and cons right like to get set up on a tick tock account start creating content and you can do that, boom today, and you could have five videos up at the end of the day, right, on a blog, like there's a little bit more learning curve there's till you actually getting traffic, there's a little bit more of, like, sort of work involved in intensity but, like he said the big payoff is like, you control things, right, like for the most part. Obviously, Google has a little bit to say about that too but, but for the most part, like, you're never going to get it taken down the contents always going to stay there, unless you're really conspiring some crazy terrorist organization or something right, like, for the most part, your contents always going to stay up it's always going to be there and you actually hold the keys to it. I feel like that's so powerful, and that oftentimes, I shouldn't say often times but sometimes people are so short sighted. When they come online, it's, it's crunch time or they're in a bind or whatever that like, there's like what's a cool little side hustle I can do that fast, right, but you've really taken a long term approach I mean you're already like you're kind of like five year four or five ish. And you've got this really long term sort of vision and feel to everything that you're doing, what, tell us about that, like the long term approach and why that's important.

Sarah: Yeah, no, I'm glad you brought that up because I kind of like, hit that for a second while I was telling my story but it, it's so important because I think we live in such a touch and go world now everything's instant from like food to like our phone to social media, and we feed off of that like instant like instant share read blog and we get a lot of gratification out of it and there was a documentary that came out about like how social media is like literally like warping our brains like controlling us to be less patient and everything. And it's, I'm not saying that social media is bad and saying that it's, it can be used in a bad way if you don't have a long term planning and mindset because like you said, and I was saying that like those things can be taken away like that I have a friend who had like, 150k on like their social media and they got taken down for them posting a video about like a belief that they had like they didn't do anything wrong, it was just tick tock was like nope, like your cut. And so then that traffic source, cut off so much income, and they put all their eggs in one basket which I've said from the beginning I was like, That's great that you have that but like don't put your, all your eggs in one basket and a lot of people that's what they're doing. And I just, I don't feel I would be a good teacher or coach or, or friend even if, if I didn't, educate on that and so you have to have a long term mindset. And you can, what's nice is that because of apps like. TikTok and Instagram and then like Snapchat spotlight and YouTube shorts where you can gain virality pretty quickly. You can leverage those absolutely in conjunction to building a brand that has this like a long term game of. And I would say like a website or blog, something that is your own self hosted, nobody can take it away from you do that simultaneously and you can feed traffic. The traffic. A lot of people who were on. And if anyone remembers by like buying signs, I felt like five seconds, like it was like, I seconds, and there were all these like Vine stars that just went up like had millions of followers overnight. And then a lot of them like nobody knows where they went, they fell off the face of the earth because they didn't redirect that traffic from mine to another traffic source like a website or blog, they didn't capture those email leads, they didn't, nothing. So I would have to do both, you know, Definitely take advantage of TiC tock, specially and just like all these different apps and use them to your advantage use Instagram reels and, you know, YouTube shorts and like within like your brand and mindset you know because not every app is going to be for you. But that's important too, like some people are like okay I'm going to be on Snapchat and I'm going around here and there and then it's like, no, like, stay focused on like two, maybe three, maybe, and really just leverage that while you build up a brand and a loyal following because that loyal following will follow you wherever you go, like I have people from my original blog that I started on Tumblr who still follow me to this day, years and years later before I was ever making like I didn't even know you can make money from blogging I first started it, like so. I'm talking about a long time ago. Those same people have watched me travel all over the world, they saw me live in Asia, they saw me live in Hawaii, they saw me go through these ups and downs, and they're still here and they would probably still be there later on then. And I'm not looking for this huge massive millions of followers of people I don't care about that I'm not a I'm not a numbers person really, I care more about the quality of those people, and who I can help with, I'd rather have four shiny quarters than the 100 little pennies, even though they might equal this thing. I'd rather have those four quality rock solid people because that's which one you know, and so I would say do both, definitely do both but don't, if you're thinking like, I'm just gonna rely on TikTok, and like, hopefully go viral on Pinterest, like, wow, like, let's come up with like, think long term social media could be taken away from us tomorrow, and your desk yourself if your TikTok, your Pinterest or Instagram or any of those apps were taken away tomorrow, would you have a business. Most people would.

Matt: Yeah. So, now all of that said, you do have tick tock. Yeah, you're smart enough to look at it and be like, hey, it might be temporary, but while it's temporary. Like, we should jump on. Yeah, yeah, for sure. What's been around for a little while like what's been your experience about TikTok, what do you think about it.

Sarah: I think it's a fun app. I think it's really cool, it's nothing like it has existed before, all these other apps are now copying and following Sue, they can see the game because they introduced short form video, and that was the primary focus of the app, whereas like Pinterest was all about the visual aesthetic and then, now they're copying with tick tock with their idea pins, they're called they're like story pins Instagrams follow, you know, they're copying them too with like reels and stuff and but short form video is the name of the game, and so like if anybody has an issue with being in front of the camera, I'm not saying that you can't be successful. I'm just saying that, like, you're gonna have a harder time, because people want to see your face and they want to see your name and what you're putting yourself behind a lot of people are hiding behind their phones and I just, I feel that you could get so much more out of it if you, if you're just willing to put yourself out there, you know like put your name with your brand and everything. I think it's a lot of fun, if there's a, you can. It's a double edged sword though because when you go viral on it. All this love can come and then all this hate can come to it's like, so you get this, this, these like two major feelings and you're like well this is great because like my business has grown I got like, 5,000 leaves overnight and then you're like wait, but like someone just told me the like jump off a cliff. So, like, literally could be like one or two or both ways so I would say, leverage it 100% I have multiple multiple TikTok accounts for different businesses, and they're all doing great and some I just have, because I am a Christian and I believe in God and I have an account where I just share more about my faith and there's no links, there's no like, hey, buy this or do that like, I'm not looking to sell anybody anything on that account, you know, I don't want to treat them like a bank. It's not everything has to be a transaction, but it's, it's such a powerful app to teach people on, like, and put in under a minute like focus on value, focus on, on, what can I do to bring more value to this video or this, this person even if it just hits one person focus on what is valuable versus what will go viral, because typically what is valuable will go viral. And so if you're focusing on that you can create so much more longevity and again it's like a lot of people, and I'm not hating on this because I've done it too, but like a lot of people will focus on that, like, look at how much money I made in a month or like two months or three months and that's fine like be proud of your results and everything of course, however, make sure that you are the bulk of what you're teaching and sharing about is how you got there, instead of just being like, oh woke up and $40,000 in my bank account like that's not helpful to someone who's starting out and it doesn't even know what affiliate marketing is or. You don't even have to actually educate people and teach because then they will treat you and look at you as a thought leader and then as an expert within that field and. And so yeah, I think it's a great app but you just have to be a little careful with it and do not put all your eggs in that basket because I know a lot of people who got their accounts taken off.

Matt: Yeah, it happens all the time, and it happens, I mean it happens on all kinds of platforms, too. I feel like it. So, specifically with like, Yeah, you said something I wanted to go back to. not putting your eggs in one basket and also like, like for instance the whole like sharing, sharing my end results right like sharing my end result and this would happen and this would happen in sort of the Make Money niche, this would happen in this would happen in the weight loss niche I'm trying to think of different niches, this would happen in a lot of different niches that have sort of before and after resort type posts, is what you'll typically find is like, how do you how a marketer frames, whatever they're pitching will end up sort of being the result of like, it'll end up giving them the feedback they are either looking for or not looking for meaning, like if you create a bunch of posts that are like I made $40,000 overnight like check this out. What will happen is you might drive a lot of sales. And those sales are going to be people who are pissed off because they didn't get that same result, right, and this leads us to this whole thing like misleading marketing and all that stuff right and we talked about that earlier. And, but then on the other hand, like what you said, and I thought what you said was exactly pointed correct was sharing the process you had to get there. And when you do that people realize, like, oh, Okay, this is not gonna be easy. I'm going to have to learn, and all of that stuff. This is a marketing strategy called pre-framing. So all of that is pre-framed for people so they actually like to have a bit of understanding of what's coming, and they don't feel blindsided when they purchase something, it's the same weight loss. Sometimes people promise you know overnight weight loss right and then people are pissed off and yelling about that and so I just think if people sort of learn, and come to understand that there's like this whole pre-framing that happens, it changes the feedback that you get. So, for instance, there's actually like, there's been affiliates for us, that have come back to me and been like, well people are mad or people like purchased or whatever, and then you go look at their marketing, and it's all about, right, it's all kind of super misleading but it's all a little bit like, Well, dude, like it's gimmicky. Yeah. And so no wonder if you're making sales based off of a gimmick. No wonder people are pissed off or unhappy or refunding, right? And that's the kind of thing where people come to me and they're like, well, what's the typical refund rate well, what's your marketing look like, right, but this is a bigger, it's a bigger picture, it's a bigger story than just what's our refund rate looks like they're really low, but for some people who do a gimmick type marketing, they're much higher. Right. That was just such a great point and I felt like for how somebody goes about creating content and everything like thinking through that and pre framing that while also still being able to drive curiosity and actually get views and attention is super important and it's a real skill, very, very real skill.

Sarah: Oh, totally. And you said that, so perfectly and I think that it also changes the quality of leads that come into. If you, if you're, if your only focus is all about the money, right, like it's just like money, money, money, money, you will attract leads that come in and their only focus is money. However, if you're teaching about value, and education, and, like, even just the honesty of being an affiliate and disclosing that and the legalities of it you will attract people who take that seriously, and then your refund rates will be very low. I have people who might have bigger lists than me or bigger followings, but their refunds on those affiliate products are astronomical, whereas mine are like, they're not basically non existent there's a little bit, you know, because that's just typical, but across all my affiliate products like I can, I can look at them and be like, Look 99% of that will be in my bank account because there won't be this huge refund rate, because I know I'm doing what you were saying like my pre framing work so important but not, that's not taught enough Unfortunately so. Unfortunately,

Matt: In your process of creating content and everything like which, like, then we've got a couple different, like, TikTok, Instagram stuff like which which. Do you have a preference like TikTok that we would put up here so people can follow you?

Sarah: Yeah, I mean for, since we're talking about affiliate marketing, I would say, @thesocialaffiliate with someone that people can go into, you can go and check it out, you know, feel like not to follow or just come say hi, like I saw you on their questions I really try to answer as many questions. My Instagram I just read, did it because we're doing like a social experiment so I got rid of, I had, like, 1000’s and 1000’s of followers on my old Instagram and I decided to delete that so that I could start a new one, because a lot of people are saying that like Instagrams dead, I don't think it's that I think it's just changing, and I think that they're creating the trend, more to a business platform, even though it started out in some social media platforms so you have to just go with it but if you want to talk to me that would be like the best place to ask for about. 

Matt: Awesome. And then the other one is oh how we blog right @ohhowweblog

Sarah: yeah that's more blogging, educational stuff because there's, I had to create two separate ones, Just different questions and stuff and

yeah I like it, you took something and then just super niche down, I think that makes sense. Matt: Yeah, absolutely. 

Sarah: He just said oh I follow you. I know I've seen you before. Like there's people on here.

Matt: Oh, that's awesome. With both of those are you actively just daily creating content and then also producing on your blog too?

Sarah: Yeah so, I, I'm in the process of hiring another VA because I just need help and I have so many, I have a lot of different projects beyond all this, so I have, I'm just a very passionate person. 

Matt: But I love that you said that in the questionnaire, I was like wow that's such a great word. Sarah: Yeah, it's the best way I can describe it and I seem to attract a lot of people in my life who are too. I just can't do one thing, I have to do. Yeah, so it's especially on the affiliate account. I aim to do daily content and my process for that is I'll just kind of see what's trending in terms of sounds and stuff. That's a great way to grow. And then also just taking like my own spin on something like there was, I think one of my recent videos, it was like, because I'm not in the fashion area at all. I couldn't care less about it, like it's just not my thing, but there was this one, like a sound where you show what you would wear into a fashion show or where he would wear something special. And I was like well, I work at home a lot and I go, I mostly go out on, you know, weekends and stuff and hang out with friends because I'm working throughout the week but I was like, I really want to do this sound, how can I do and I was like, you know, maybe I could show what I used to wear when I worked in corporate life versus what I wear now. And so I just did like all these like montages of me and like pajamas, because that's what I wear. And I was like I'm gonna keep it real and so I do this talk with Matt, I'm gonna wear loungewear, it wouldn't feel authentic if I would like show it up in a blazer and like classes like that, that wouldn't feel authentic so I was like I'm gonna rock the leopard onesie, and, you know, but I did that sound and it was fun and they brought in that like video alone brought in a lot of reason people are like, what do you do that allows you to work online in your pajamas. So I got a lot of messages, privately about that. Yeah just go with what's trendy and and just have fun with it and think outside the box, and you never know. You never know what you can create. 

Matt: Yeah I feel like it's funny because back in the day, like if you were to do this whole thing right now like you're in like the pajamas and you do this thing people just be like, This is so fake. There's no way this is real, and you're out here, and now it's just like, after the pandemic and year we just have people are just like, Oh, she's one of those.

Sarah: Well it's funny you said that because TikTok, I feel like changed that perception because Instagram was like the crowning or the crown of all social media platforms like everybody loves Instagram because it was like this highlight reel, whereas TikTok comes in and they, I mean, I think they also lucked out a bit because they rose up during the pandemic and people who are home anyway. Like, what you would post on Instagram is very different than what you would post on on TikTok like you could wear no makeup like you could have like barbecue sauce on your lips and people would be like I don't know I resonate with her, like, Let's make her go viral, like, that's the, that's like the mindset there whereas on like Instagram, you probably wouldn't post that and so I think that's why I like the app because it's, there's like this acceptance of like dopiness and stupidity and silliness and it's just nice, you know, It's more chill.

Matt: It's so nice. It's so refreshing. 

Sarah: Yeah, great word choice.

Matt: People have taken a total business approach but turned it into a fun platform like it's, it's a more fun platform to create content as opposed to something that has to be super instead. Like, there's nothing wrong with it well and even Instagrams getting that way. Right, so like the introduction of real is obviously their attempt at liking something very, very similar to TikTok and how they're putting the attention there and stuff, so okay. What for, for people who are just to like shift gears for people who are newer thinking through like, well actually, you know, for people who are on like day one of your, you know, your day ones a long time ago if you could think back to your day one, like, really tell people to focus their skills on or, or like what would you focus their time and energy on. In the early days if they're if they're working you know working a job working a cleaning job, and trying to figure this whole thing out.

Sarah: Yeah, I love that question. And that feels like a million years ago but. And I'm glad it feels that way because it's, it wasn't this overnight success and I don't want to ever paint that and I hate it when people do but I would say do legendary marketer, I can honestly say that through the 15 Day Challenge. I wish to God I had that at the start,

Matt: I get to honestly, and I'm, I'm like no trying to cut you off but every time somebody says that like, and I'm obviously biased, like, I'm, I work for a company like, but honestly, like, the amount of hours and headaches that like, I just, I just did not understand and I didn't have anybody to guide me, so sorry just keep going.

Sarah: No, I'm glad you brought that up but I felt exactly like it was just like a headache, and just there was a lot of snake oil ish Ponzi scheme like BS out there that was just like, Okay, goodbye. But I would say the skill sets you would definitely want to focus on would be copywriting. Copywriting is where you write words that connect, and convert people to do, and take an action that you want them to do. I, one of my constraints is copywriting, so I've been paid to copyright people and stuff. And you know you just develop the skill as a blogger, you have to, but it's obviously copywriting just learn all that you can about it. The main emotion that you need to have in copywriting is getting empathy and getting your buyer. So in order to get more buyers, you have to get your buyer, you have to understand what's going on here for them. Now, you're not writing from your perspective, I hate to break it to you guys, it's not all about you. It's not all about me, but it's about them and their issues and if you can provide a solution and show empathy and that you understand what they're going through, like, you could, like, if I understand that and you don't and you and I put up the same post, I'm going to get more sales, and you're not because I understand my buyer, but if we both do that then we're both getting sales and so just make sure that you get your buy it really starts to develop that quality of understanding people. Talk to your audience to make sure that you are mixed down. Do not be that person who's like, I promote this, but I also promote that I have, like, 500,000 different affiliate products. Do not be that person because people will not trust you at all. They just won't, and I didn't start out with promoting as many products as I do now, that was a very gradual thing, because I knew that my blogging community needed specific products to run their blogs and businesses. So it was a natural fit. So be very, have a very high standard, on what you will put your name on, and what you will say yes to and what you will. Who you, who you will work with just because someone's handing you money, it doesn't mean that it's worth it. That could make or break your brand. And so, that's very important, also develop a skill set of honesty and integrity. I don't know if that's a skill set, but the characteristic, the quality of it. A lot of people. And I hate saying it but I don't know why, like they have a hard time with being honest about the fact that they're an affiliate for the products that they're promoting, and that I find that so bizarre, like it's like the weirdest thing to me because like, why would you promote something but then when someone's like, are you an affiliate for it and don't like cool, I don't know maybe sort of kinda, like, just be honest about it be like yeah I'm an affiliate is I'm proud of it and like, yeah, I get a commission at no extra cost to you and here's my disclaimer, check it out and if you want to keep it great if not don't like people appreciate that and I have been told on tick tock that I'm one of the first people on that app to, to be very open and honest about the fact that I'm an affiliate for said course or product or I could screenshot you so many different times people have written that to me and that tells me that people are being a little bit quiet because they think that like well if I tell people that maybe they will lie, it's actually the opposite. If you are honest about it people, people are more likely to buy and want to work with you and I've screenshots of that too. So, just, just be open about it. And then just develop the mindset that things take time. You know, and that it's okay if you know for me it took four months to initially quit that job, but that doesn't mean that I was in a place of like okay well now I can just retire and kick my feet up like no I was still working and hustling. But I was in a position to be able to help more people I was able to help my family I was able to say yes to things and, you know, because I was making money a little more passively, but just because you're making money passively that doesn't mean that the work doesn't stop. And you have to know that maybe my timeline is going to be different than yours, and to not to not to not try not ever compare yourself. I know people say that, and it's hard, but do not compare yourself. It is the thief of what is it Comparison is the thief of joy. And it robs you of the opportunity to be grateful and glad to have the opportunity to look at your life and all the blessings that God has given you. And if I could go back I wish I could like slap myself across the face and be like Sarah like do not compare yourself, be patient, it takes time and yeah just continue learning and growing and reflux and show up to, you know calls like this this is like free value that you get, you know, from your time is valuable and life has valuable, take notes, you know, and just, I'm just like thinking of all the things I would have done differently, if I had started out but those would, that's what's coming to you right now, that's, those are the main ones.

Matt: There's this undertone of like, no you actually said it out loud of legends like sort of just like, like, like, just genuine pride in like what you do right like just taking pride in what you do. Taking pride that certain parts, you know that are difficult or a struggle are going to be part of your journey and that's just okay, like it's not a big deal. And yeah, I think Dave always says like, you know, stop comparing your day one to somebody else's day 600 right and that's like somebody who's been content and creating content and creating content and going out at heart, like, don't compare your day one of fumbling around a TikTok app or a blog or to somebody else's, you know, day, 1000, where they're seasoned and they've been doing it forever and they have momentum. It’s such a different thing.

Sarah: Right and you also don't know what that person had to overcome in their mind in their heart or like if they didn't have like some people have a really, I didn't. When I first started out I had family members that were like they're like, like they were like literally praying for my salvation and they're like, God, help her, because like, we don't want you to fail but like you need like psychological health if you actually think you can make money and then now those same people are like, weed. So how does it work? Please, like Teach me your ways so it's funny how it comes full circle but like, some people have really awesome support system, Great, but like not all of us had that and so maybe that's going to be the driving factor for you to work harder, you know, but don't, don't try to prove them wrong, prove yourself right and focus on helping people. I think money is just a resource and it's a means of exchange of value and how you exchange people if you drop a $20 bill on the ground that $20 Bill will stay on the ground until another human being comes and picks it up, so you need people to circulate money, But if you want money to be in circulation to you, then you need to help more people. And so just focus on giving value and helping people focus on your mission, the money will come later, you won't have to worry about that. the focus on your mission and your value. But like that's just how it worked for me and I was like okay, like, it's simple. 

Matt: Yeah, it's simple.

Sarah: I'm not saying it's easy but it's simple. 

Matt: Bingo. Simple not easy, it's simple, it's, it's, it's less complex than people think. It's simple, but it requires a ton of work, you're exactly right. Cool, man, I can't say it any better. Thanks for coming on. Do you have any final parting words? I felt like what you just said there was like, such a perfect capstone on this. Yeah.

Sarah: I would say just to keep going, guys, you know, I think we, God gave us all this beautiful life and what we do with it, you know at the end of the day, we do have free will and what you choose to do with that is up to you and you know just choose to live a magnificent life that's, that's rooted in service and helping people and. And now that I'm thinking about it, that was what I wanted to say, when you ask like, well, what would I have done differently starting out, I would have been more grateful. It would have been a lot more grateful because gratitude can bridge the gap between where you are to where you want to be. And you can create a magnificent life that's authentic and true to you, and that helps other people. And you can do that more quickly when you have gratitude, because things can always be worse. And I know that this was a hard year, so hard for a lot of people. It was a hard year last year. I had never gone through a pandemic before. It was like I was new to that. And so, I know we've all gone. It feels like it feels like through the wringer, but there are people out there who've had it way worse. And just always come back to gratitude and when you, when you think you want to give up, when you think you want to just call it quits. I know I wanted to call it quits a million times, I'm sure you did too, you know, you're I mean I did. Yeah, like you took a step to the side because you're still here, you know, and it was just like, wait, I think I'm great. So, just come back to gratitude and remember why you're doing this because I think at the end of the day you're only going to go so far for yourself, you can only push yourself so far but when you have this, this luminous, beautiful why, and it's outside of you, it's helping your family, your friends, your community, other people that will pull you forward to a place that you never knew you could go to. And so, focus on your why and stay grateful. And be kind too.

Matt: Awesome, well, Sarah, thanks for coming on and it was really great and maybe in a few months, we can have you back on and check in again and see how things are going. 

Sarah: Yeah, that'd be awesome. Thank you for having me and I appreciate you and Dave and everybody. Yeah, that's a lot of fun. 

Matt: Alright, sounds good. See you. Alright guys, another day. We've been doing these lives now for over a year, every single day and it's just cool to have real, raw, transparent, vulnerable Sarah on so that was really cool. So, again, Sarah, thanks for coming on. Please read through the comments because there's just a lot of people visiting. We had to share and it was, it was really great so I will be back here. Same time, same place tomorrow everybody so tune in live 10am Eastern, you can find us on our Facebook page or in the Facebook group, and have yourself a good Wednesday.

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Dave: Very special episode today, my friends in the Legendary community, we've got somebody here this morning who really needs no introduction, if you haven't seen his content out there online, I can guarantee. At some point over the next 12 months even if you don't search him out one of his videos one of his posts is going to come across your phone or your computer and it likely already has. We're honored and excited to have Calvin Hill on the show this morning. Calvin What's up, my man?

Calvin: Hey, what's going on everybody. Good to see you man. Good to see you still got the horn still got the wonderful office with the bat now I'm, I've got my background backup I think last time I had John I can't remember, but I don't think I had it up but I've gotten now my background up so we've got sort of met but you know what, man. Even though you modeled yours off of mine, yours looks better than mine does.

Dave: Amen. 

Calvin: You know when I built this house, I told my wife I wanted a really cool office, that would well, I was like, oh yeah I'm doing that. That's kind of a nice man. I got it from Dave, a model, something that I felt like was really really good and I was like that's kind of helped me be successful because I like the way it's gonna make me feel in my office.

Dave: Yeah, and, and I can relate to that, I, I like to have, I like to be in the zone I, you know, I've worked in some weird circumstances, I've got some pictures. I don't know if you have, or save any of your old pictures of things that you do, you did or kind of where you're at in your early days, but, but I've got, I'll just show you this one real quick. It's always, it's always fun to kind of go back and look at some of these old old things that we, things that we had things, you know, things that we drove places we lived, but this was one of my original setups, and this was sort of in the middle of my wife sitting right here brings back memories. Right. This is in the middle though Calvin of our living room so you can see the dining room table right over there to the left, and, and then this is the opposite view you can see the couch over here. And then, and then there's another one that I had somewhere in here of me sitting right here. So this one's funny. I'm sitting on some sort of I've got the new iMac, you know what I mean. So I'm falling out of control with the new iMac, but it's sitting on some sort of a dresser that's pointed backwards with all the cables coming off the front, you know, you just, just do it what I had to do you know what I mean,

Calvin: That's where it starts though man I mean, a lot of people think that they have to actually start off at this type of level, it's like right this get started, like, yet. Once you start, you know, having a little bit of success and you know start creating wealth for you and your family. This stuff will come, but I have some of those same type of pictures man it was just like, it just kept going, you know, right, because you've concentrated on what what do I need to have in my background, etc, then you can't concentrate on the kind of content that you need create focus on that.

Dave: Well, I think we get, I think, Calvin, we get super as just as just human beings, we get a case of the Keeping Up with the Joneses, right, that's what I call comparisonitis. And I think that when a lot of people come online, they look at somebody like like you or, or, or me or whoever, right, and they begin to compare, like, oh I don't have the office that looks like that, or I don't have that the Lambo that I see this guy over here, Gal standing in front of taking their pictures. You know we're going to talk today about creating this wealth, influence and power through content, and I would just say a little bit about, from your perspective, the power that somebody has in the office that they're sitting in, regardless of the camera that they're using. I'm not going to recommend that you can crush it with a flip phone, but everybody has an iPhone within their reach. And if you don't, then, then, then stop by Starbucks for a month and you can get one. But regardless of where you're sitting, the office, the house, the car you're driving. The power of this thing, and platforms like TikTok, that you have built in a short period of time, over a million followers.

Calvin: Yeah. Well, for me it. You and I were just talking about old pictures and so we didn't have access to the technology that we have today, so you just mentioned that iPhones and Samsung and stuff like that they, they all shoot HD video, right, that form like TikTok, I was just telling us, I was just sharing somebody literally yesterday, I spent an hour creating this piece of content, it was. Well, actually it was a total of three hours creating this content, I knew that it wasn't going to be something that was going to go viral, but it was just a piece of content that I personally wanted to create to give to my audience to do something that's going to be more social. But you have access to everything, right, you're the number one tool that you have at your disposal, is your cell phone, everybody that you want to reach, whether it is a client or a potential client whatever it is if you're trying to, you know, promote your product or service or whatever the case may be, everyone that you want to reach his own internet they are on one of the platforms where you go on a social media platform, or they're on a search engine, and all of those have apps, all of those can go right on your cell phone. And so if you just really think about the number one tool that you have to create content to reach those people, it is your phone.

Dave: Yeah. And as a guy who I'm not, you know, asking you to go back into your story too much unless you feel that it makes sense, we can jump around and you can you're good enough storyteller and communicator if you feel that it makes sense to tie that in you can, but I will say that, you know, you do have a cinematography background, you have a background that involves camera equipment and so forth. In, don't. Isn't it interesting, bro. Is it interesting that one time in order to get an advertisement out there. One would legitimately need to call up the you know the local videography company to come and shoot this commercial that nowadays we'd laugh at running on the television, that would be literally the playing field was like this, if you could afford that and you had the connections and the know how to get an advertisement on the television you could, and now it's been level, because the dude sitting in his car. He films TikTok videos every day on his cell phone. It literally blow up and become an affiliate or even sell his own courses right from his driver's seat, he's having the history that you have is that mind blowing to like do you ever just stop and say, What the hell happened like how

much of my backstory on that I will go deep into the backstory of this but it does because when we started out, we started out, I got my camera, because I've actually got, I got some stuff that I started with DSLR is this now, this is, this is a mirrorless camera right, I mean literally if you take this lens off. It's just, it's just a sensor on the camera. Back in the day man you had to, not only did you have to learn the skill of using a camera right videography, but who was going to edit the videos, right, you know, how much was he going to spend on the camera and stuff like that what platform was limited. Everybody has the power to create content like this right now with TikTok, TikTok has all kinds of filters for portrait mode and this and that, so that you don't have to have $8000, $1000, $3,000 lenses to blow the background. They got portrait mode. There's an artificial intelligence inside of these phones. It is my goal and I mean, you're now to do that right inside the phone and on an app like TikTok, I don't think they understand how powerful that is right now, but did you actually have you put it to use. You're on the same playing field as me and it took me years to learn some of these skills.

Dave: And I think that transitions like in tees up the topic that you're super passionate about talking about which is basically building influence and power through content. And the reason why I think it's the perfect transition in a way to tee you up to talk about that is because I think a lot of people come into the internet marketing world nowadays, And they say, it's hard. Right. And I'm not, and I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings. Because, if you're watching this, you may really be having some difficulty, most likely it's mindset stuff or maybe you're having some technical challenges. I don't want to invalidate your feelings like I legitimately understand that you may be struggling, and it feels that it's hard, it's overwhelming, it's new, but compared to what one had to do in past years to make money and build a successful internet marketing business. The ability for the average man or woman, or person to be able to create wealth, power and influence with a cell phone and a little bit of know-how is. It's just so what I what I wish to do is try to put that into perspective without shaming people without making them feel bad for half for for it being hard, but to put it in perspective so people can understand the opportunity it's I feel like it's a timing thing there's never been a better opportunity than right now especially, Calvin, one at one time people were like, make money online, it's gonna be a scam and now everybody has of Coronavirus is like make money online. Yeah, I need that. Yeah, that right now. So, in your words, like, talk to us about this, creating wealth, influence and power through content a little bit more compared to maybe other opportunities that are out there, or, or things that we may have had to do in the past. 

Calvin: So, what I think about this is when it comes to creating wealth and people ask me all the time like, what is that you do they're expecting this. This answer of all you know I'm a, I'm an affiliate marketer, I'm a digital marketing, we'll get into that, but I tell people, I help people solve problems through content I create wealth, influence and power through content right there's only four ways to create content on the internet, it's either video, images, text, or audio. And the cool thing about being on the internet, especially with your cell phone, all of those platforms to create video games is text or audio, they're all in one of those apps, it's either Twitter it's because Instagram it's Pinterest, it's YouTube, it's so decide which one of those actual elements, You're really good at, or you get a video fantastic and you're creating video then you should probably be creating content in YouTube or on TikTok. Two separate platforms here. Tik Tok is the number one video platform for social media, YouTube is the number one video platform as a search engine to different platforms there if you're doing. If you're creating video content right, then you have to decide okay if I'm going to create that content with video, which one of those is most important to me. Do you want to create small short lived content and what I mean when I say short live maybe on TikTok about three weeks worth of content that's potent anything in any form. What do you want to create on YouTube, where the average content life is the hubbub around three and a half months 234 years. Right, you're gonna have to do a bit more work as long form content, maybe you have that, you know, know how to do, you know camera or something like that or putting us out of edit of a video editor but if it's video, those two platforms, if you're really good at images, you're a photographer or something like that then you need to be on one of the image platforms. Pinterest is the number one image platform for images. Right. Instagram is the number one image platform for search I mean for social media platforms. You see what I mean is, are you getting audio maybe you have a podcast, maybe you should be on you know, whatever that new app is that everyone's going crazy, but I can't think of right now clubhouse clubhouse, right, those are your audio platforms so decide which one of the which one of the pieces of elements that you're good at video images, text and audio and go and start creating content, that's when you. I'm not trying to plug this but those three pieces that I have behind me produced published profit. It's in that order, produce good content that is going to solve someone's problem, publish that content on one of those platforms, a social media or in a search engine and you can profit from it that just just not mean money me at this point, yes I have over a million followers or whatever that's not just money that's wealth, of course, but its influence, and it is also powerful. I come across a lot of people, you know, in my comments and on my live and stuff like that. I'm actually doing something a lot more powerful for me than make it just didn't just making money. I'm actually saving people's lives. I know that sounds. That sounds weird to say that But literally, I have people who have lost their kids. Dave, to like cancer and stuff like that and come across one of my lines or something like that and let me know. Hey, I was watching your live, and it was because of what you were saying, on your life, helped me pull back from a dark place that's, you know we're here to be but really we're not here to just money, what is that you want to do for yourself, your family, your communities and stuff like that so that it's a lot bigger than just, you know, just having a bunch of coins in my bank account. 

Dave: Sure. I mean I can relate to that I was a mastermind one time down in Costa Rica was hosting a mastermind and I had somebody, they came in, he was a client, and he stood up in in shared this in this small group setting, we had 5075 people there. And he said that he was traveling down a road, and his car broke down, and he was on his way to go home to commit suicide, he was, he worked in the medical field, and he had taken. Whatever he was going to use to be able to do it, and his car broke down. Is it odd or is it God I don't know but his car broke down. And he had a. He had an audio of one of the audio programs I had made recordings of, of a show like this that I had done. I've always done something like this my entire career. I've always done something that was kind of live and on a consistent basis. And he plugged that in, and he said that he heard something, And that audio message that made him realize that it was not his time to go it was not his time to end his life and he pushed through it to get to this event to be able to share it in front of people. And it wasn't like he had this big huge life transformation and, but he had, he had a moment of clarity and awakening from listening to something that I was saying, in an audio I wasn't trying to save lives. I wasn't trying to be anybody's savior. I'm not trying to be anybody's guru, I'm not trying to be anybody's role model. I just tried to add value. I'm trying to build my business through service, same way that you're trying to do it I know if I solve enough problems add enough value at all, that all all make money, I'll be able to support my family but it is cool and I've said that to a couple of people who are new over the last week that when you start getting those messages from people in your audience that are like, like what you said really moved me or what you said, like really kind of changed my perspective or saved my life or whatever, you become that accountable to you, to your audience. And you don't, and you, you no longer have to be this struggling newbie, who needs others to help you but you get into this and it's I'm not saying it's not good to have people you learn from and get mentored by, I have coaches and mentors and people I look up to but you then become more accountable to your audience and you realize that, who you're really accountable to is, is to them, to serve them too. So can you talk a little bit about how, what, what kind of like your mission is you say I solve problems that when you, when you're, when you're approaching a day, and you're thinking about okay what am I going to do, or when you started this business because you just really started this online affiliate marketing thing or at least here with legendary. Not too long ago. Well, could you talk to us a little bit about the perspective that you have about, what is this business when you say I solve problems, a lot of people have a hard time making the connection between, like, is the money gonna start coming in, because I've, I've put together my funnel and I've connected it to AWeber and can you talk to us about what business are you in Calvin.

Calvin: So, so it's not it's not, it's not even about me, let me help everybody out with, actually, this is what I concentrate on telling your story. You can't tell you that, if you think about it, if you were to pin a book, right, it would have to be several chapters, right, and a ridiculous amount of pages. Well, on TikTok, you can't tell your entire story in one video if you have 59 seconds or people like me and video by us, but I can do three minute videos now. So you can't tell your entire life story, or your personal story and 59 seconds. Why don't you chop it up. Kill yourself. Don't cause it, don't try to help people make money and stuff like that so it's not like what is your personal story like that, that the second video that's at the top of my account right now is this that's a story piece. It wasn't about it going viral or something like that. It's the story piece it shows like hey listen, I used to do music, this is, this is the success I had the music and this is some of the people that I actually had encountered in doing music. So share your personal story, that's unique to you. Right, you're, you're trying to actually help someone, you know, get to where they want to be, and that is your storyline so meaning if you're, if you're a real estate agent or something like that, right, for instance, if you're a real estate agent and you're trying to say well how do I actually, you know, make a lot of money on the internet with digital marketing stuff like that. Well, your story and your intellectual property that you have, why don't you start creating content that's going to solve people's problems. Right and do that through what I call this poster How To video so if you're, if you're looking for someone who's actually trying to sell a home from right, their problem that they have is, I want to sell my house and I want to make the most profit I possibly can. Well a piece of content that you probably know in your sleep is seven ways to sell your house, you know, as you know, as you know, a beginning, home, home seller whatever or, you know, for the most, for the most money for the most savvy we should never do before selling your home or how to list your home 24 hours, and sell it in the next 30 days.

How to have people compete, how to have, how to have, you know how to have people outbidding each other for your house like all these things that people want three ways to get people to help each other for your house. It's about shooting story, it's not about when you duplicate, you know, success, meaning there's a lot of TikTok going viral and stuff like that, well, how can you take what's going viral and add a very variable in it, that is unique to your story, because people are going to go down and they're going to look at your timeline and you can see what you're doing, you want that to be unique to you in whatever way that you possibly can do. 

Dave: Yeah, I think that's I think that's important because a lot of people when they go out on TikTok and they model content they're modeling the wrong content like you're looking at people who are doing the side hustle thing. And while that's cool, like to mix that stuff into your content, and to share various different ways to make money or if you're in a different niche, various different ways to train your dog or various different ways. If there's no heart and personality in your content, meaning you're not mixing in your story, like Calvin's talking about which simultaneously. The goal of sharing your story is to get them to say, God I feel like he's telling my story right. The reason why we tell these stories is because we, it's the best way to get somebody to listen because we've been trained since an early age to listen to stories. And it also is, everybody loves to hear a story, nobody loves to be pitched to, nobody loves to be preached or for sort of a lecture to write but everybody likes to and this is a phrase that I use, and I've also heard you use this. Talk to us about this phrase edutainment.

Calvin: Yeah, I love it. So, I have content broken up into three. What I like to call the three E's or you can come look at the three P's the three E's I do, I really do. But those three E's it's easy for me to remember when you come online. Most people are going to be in the entertainment segment right they think that they need to do the latest TikTok dance or they, they need to do a reaction video or something like that, that's going to be education, I mean that's going to be, entertainment, and what happens is, if you're just doing entertaining type of content you're going to run numbers up on your account, and you're going to mess around and you're going to get people that are going to actually follow you, whatever, because they just want to let or something like that. And those tend to be gold's type of numbers. If you do educational content. Those are what's going, that's what's going to actually move the needle, because there's memory there's artificial intelligence, listening and watching your content, looking for those social media factors watch time, looking to see if somebody shared your, your content looking to see somebody follows you have to consume your content, all that stuff. And so, if you educate people, like we were just talking about. If you're a real estate agent and you got a piece of content that's telling people you know hey here's 10 things you should never do before selling your home, it was like okay I probably should listen to this guy, If you add the sweet spot edutainment. Like, you can do all this funny stuff that's on TikTok, all the funny, you know, you know, music and all the funny skits or whatever, definitely entertaining part but educate someone while you're doing that edutainment. That's the sweet spot.

Dave: And what about this piece bro because this is something that I, I was actually just sharing with a, with a blueprints and coaching client here yesterday, in an audio and video audio message back to them. They did a check in and I, they said you know, how can I take things to the next level, and I talked about the online persona. I talked about how, essentially, in a way. We all are performers, and in that might sound at first like cringy like, Wait, I don't, I didn't get into this to be a performer, I didn't get into this to be a salesperson I didn't get it, like marketing's one thing I'm okay with that word but when you start talking about performance and all that. But here's what I mean. When any of you all go to work, don't you put on a little bit of a different persona when you walk into the office, then maybe you have when you're in sweats around your family who you're totally comfortable with at home. Don't you kind of put on a little bit of a don't you turn up your persona, your personality, you put on your A game you, you turn on, right. In, I think a lot of us are missing out on the entertainment piece of edutainment Calvin Knight, by getting comfortable with the idea that I have my online persona. And then I have my offline persona. And let me give an example of it for me and then I'll see what comes up for you for me. I'm not going around to all my friends and family telling my story, my hero script story, you know, introducing myself and, you know, talking about my homelessness and addiction and in overcoming that and hunched over the computer, you know at 12 o'clock at night after I work I'm not going into all of my sort of heroes scripts story. I'm also not quite as intense as I am right now. Like I've developed sort of this persona that when you turn on the camera. I take it up a couple of notches. I'm not this intense in the rest of my life, you know what I mean like if I was, I, I speak exhausted, right, because you know what I mean like bro like I'm not talking like this to my wife I'm talking like this to you because this is a bit of my online persona also get excited about talking about marketing stuff. And in that piece of developing your online persona what your stick is right. It can also be in office I, we had, like, or have an awkward or an unorthodox office, we had a guy on the show a couple of weeks ago who filmed everything from his bathroom, and his whole shtick was that I teach you how to make money from your bathroom. Calvin: Right. That's good stuff. I actually got some notes here that I wrote down for this, to talk to us about it. So, that's about that authenticity, right. We talked about sharing your story but creating a branded format for sharing your story, like so, backgrounds, certain sayings that you may say it like you may say something like, every single video. This is something that you say, right, or, or maybe have a certain look, he's pacing about this, I wear this hat and most of my videos that strategic color Wait. There's no way that's making you successful. Wait for a second here. Listen, the reason that I wear this hat is because I understand, and looking at my analytics, I understand my audience, my audience is 57% Men, I'm not saying that this is not a lot of women of sports fans but here's what I'm saying, I know that sports is something that unites people a lot. Right, it's not about race, it's not anything about any of that stuff when this sport brings people together, right, and that's why you know we're in the playoffs right now. I wear this hat because first of all, it gives me a certain line of being familiar, right, people like they don't like, you know, constantly seeing different things so when they see my content, it's like oh yeah I'm familiar with this guy, I'm familiar with that piece of content, they know how to pick me out in the audience right, this is kind of like reading. The only thing about the Purple Cow if you've ever had that right. This is the Purple Cow. For me it's like, Did you see that guy was like the last black guy on TikTok talking about, you know, helping you get financially free or whatever. No, I'm talking about the guy who has the Spurs hat on. Right. I have so many people that follow me just because I have this hat on, they get engaged me they're Lakers fans or whatever the case may be, but this is because I'm reading my analytics 57% of my audience is guys and people who like sports and stuff like that so I immediately give them something to like okay I like this guy, he's a sports fan. Right. I like this guy. He's a Spurs fan like what, what kind of branded piece of content, can you create, are you the person that when you come online, you have pink hair or purple hair or your background is always blue like someone is in the bathroom. That's fantastic. You might be listening. I've heard it's actually not.

Dave: Yeah, and there's a lot of people who are always in their car, you know, they're always in their car, their every video, if you look in it you said something important people don't like change and to see different things all the time, every single day if you look at every single video from this Wake Up Show which is my primary way to produce and publish content every single day we're here, and then we take this content, put it on YouTube, repurpose it to a podcast, and we're mainly making content for the community but if you look, what's the same every single day. Well, I'm in a black hat, even though even though COVID, I actually am growing the hair back out at first. Yeah, at first at first, you know, throughout 2020 I had a shaved head, and I was like, Well, you know, the hat. The hat works for the shaved head, because when you're, when you got the shaved head and then you got the light, it just the bald bro the receding hairline is off the chain, but when I got the comb over going a little bit, you know what I mean it's a little bit better, but the hat is a brand new piece, you know that how does the breathing piece every single day I'm in a black shirt right every single day I'm in a black shirt, and every single day that I can be unless I'm at home, I'm in this chair. I'm not creating content just for me I'm not creating content in front of my Mercedes I'm not creating content out on the beach. I'm not creating content in all these different places. If you look at all of the content across the legendary platform that I am in, 90 plus percent of it, I'm in front of this wood background, and then most of it I have a hat and a black shirt.

Calvin: Same thing with me 90 percent of my content, I'm in front of this wood wall, and even if I take advantage of making something that's trending or something like that I'm doing something else. I have this hat on because it brings back the. I can't, I can't always see the familiar reality. Did I say that right, something like that but I know it's familiar to people right.

Dave: Yeah, it gives them that oh I know who that guy is about this guy What if that's him. Yeah, yeah,yeah. And guys, look, you know, I saw somebody comment, I think I need a wood wall, no you don't do it, trust me, it's kind of like the people who think, oh, I need this funnel builder and that's gonna make me successful. No, no it doesn't, no one piece of software, you're not missing the secret piece of software, it's about you finding your groove. Yeah, it's about finding your schtick. The bathroom. The living room or maybe when you're creating content you're in front of a chair 90% of time is, you're sitting in a chair or whatever, or you're in your kitchen. Right. Calvin: People think that, and when the reason I say sharing your story to build an audience is. This is Digital Marketing and affiliate marketing, right, But when people come on the internet. Everybody wants to make money so you think that you have to be this guy that's creating content or you know, always make money make money. That's not the, that's not the case people that you're talking to are, these are regular people. These are people who, you know, cut their grass they you know they wash dishes and stuff like that so if you're creating content or whatever, you should create content that can be social, you're missing a really really big piece I have it here, about, we're in the social era right now, there's not the industrial era or it's not the.com boom or anything like that. We're not in agriculture, this is the social era. Understand that if you don't take advantage of that, creating a piece of content to actually be social, like I can create content, all day long. Do you want to quit your nine to five job or do you know do you want to, you know, every now and then. And I do this a lot, like, again going back to that piano piece that I have on my, My account right now. That's a social piece that is a piece of oh man I didn't know you play like that it's a beautiful piece of music or whatever. Why, because the next piece of content that I create, if it is something talking about hey, do you want to leave your nine to five job or something like that or whatever. I have already created something that we uniquely had a relationship with, like music or whatever you know your cat lover or something like that, create a piece of content that is social. So, maybe like having an 8020 rule 80% of your content is trying to get people on leave for people that actually want to make money, maybe 20% of your content needs to be that social aspect of it works.

Dave: It's kind of like Gary Vee, came out with the Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook it was one of his books that he wrote and basically the whole entire concept is give value be social like do something that's not pitch heavy, You know, like you said 75 80% of the time, and then right hook right come in and ask for the sale, or ask for the click or ask for the email, or ask for whatever ask them to buy your book, ask them to buy your course. But, but within those Jab Jab Jab 25% 25% Right, that's like a total of, if you Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook, you've got 100% You divide that by four that's about 75%. If you do that on on say TikTok three videos to everyone in those three you're completely and totally focused just solely on building a relationship, I think that, that, or being social, like you said, I think that entertainment can also just be when we talk about telling story and we talk about, you're talking about being vulnerable and letting people know a little bit more about who you are so they can feel more connected to you and feel more like there's personalization between in you're not just somebody who's influenced or trying to sell stuff like, people want to legitimately have relationships, I'm the into into watches have been for a while now is a bit of a hobby and, and, and I want to I want to have a relationship with somebody at the brand. I don't want to just buy from the brand. I want to have a relationship. I want to have an experience when I buy something. I want to have somebody that I can talk to even if I'm not talking to them, or I'm not, I don't even have any questions for them. I want to feel as a human being, maybe it's natural and it's always been this way but particularly now in 2020, like you said in this social era. I want to feel like I have a relationship with somebody, with the things that I'm buying in the business that I'm doing. And I think so many people are missing that component in just desperate for the sale, pitch, pitch, pitch, all about the money and are missing this important piece that is, is really a long term thinking thing Calvin right it's not a short term thing, it's so talk to us a little bit about, you know, some people would think, wow, getting to over a million followers on a platform is, is the the arrival point, but I have just this weird feeling that you're just getting started. So tell us, like, what your vision is in terms of the long term game inside of your business so people can have a bigger perspective to realize where this can go and what you can do with this, versus just being in that desperation mode to make that first commission.

Calvin: When it's all said and done, I'm gonna have several books that I'm going to write. I'm actually writing some now but I'll have books, actually, especially when we get on the back end or COVID is just like a thing of past like maybe it's like a flu or something like that but I'm actually going to be in people's cities and states on stage talking about this stuff, talking about the everything you do on internet, again I try to, you know, plug this but everything you do on the internet is going to be the power of publish, nothing happens until you publish a piece of content, right, and people buy from people they know, like and trust, and the best way for you to get them to know you, is to actually share your story, and all of these different TikTok right, you're, you're going to create the stuff that you need to create because we're all in the same, you know, niche here right. The make money niche and the you know freedom and all of that stuff time freedom and all that but, but how do you actually, you know, become unique inside of that particular niche that we're in internet marketing space is by telling your story, people buy from people they know, like and trust if you think about when we putting a sales funnel together right and I always tell this to people, you got the front end of it. That's your traffic, right, then you got the opt in page, right and then you got your bridge page. Well if you look at those three things there know like and trust, created a piece of content that is trying to solve a problem on the front end, and then that's, that's your Tik Tok video for instance, they say okay, I like that piece of content I actually know a cat kind of know this guy now watched a couple of these TikTok videos. And then, at some point they're going to do what they're gonna to follow your call to action which sends them to your opt in page, right. So now they know, like they know they like you, because you've given them a piece of content, or something of value right a lead magnet to collect email address,

Dave: A free gift right off the writer who doesn't like gifts free gifts, everybody likes free gives

The bridge page is the trust page. I love that Calvin, like I literally love that band,

you tell your story, if you have a pitch. That's your story. Why did you become a dog groomer, why, why don't you, you know, why don't you actually Why are you, you know, a beautician or a barber or whatever, that's your story that you're telling you know like and trust, then you can ask them to do business. Right, we get their problem solved, and you make money. Right, but it's all about solving problems. Figure out what the problem is, work backwards, that's where you start with your content. I'm not trying to beat this in the head, but again, I'm using real estate but your real estate agent he's trying to look for leads. Fantastic, what's the problem, you want to get people that sell homes to work backwards. Yeah, now you know the kind of content you need to create in the front end of your funnel, how to sell your home in 30 days or five reasons you should use a real estate agent when trying to sell your home. Now you're creating this content now and trust, you're going to have a lot more success. And, you know, whatever, you know, if you're doing a product or service or someone else's but you're gonna have a lot more success doing that. I love that it simplifies it connects the know like and trust piece to us in a very concrete step in the process. And a lot of times we say these things like deliver value or get them to know and trust you but it's like how, what, how does that translate practically like in application. I had this thought I just want to share before we sort of transition and keep moving but there's, there's the same that Zig Ziglar said which is if you help enough people get what they want, you'll get what you want. But that's very ambiguous, it's kind of like what does that mean, okay, it sounds good. It sounds good in theory but I'm a new marketer and, or I'm new in sales or I'm new in business but let's take all my marketing for example, I'm new in marketing, what is, what do people really want and what people want is to be seen, heard and understood. That's what they want. So let me try, let me, let me rephrase this. So it's more practical. If you help enough people feel seen, heard and understood. You can have anything that you want. Anything that you want. Right now, the opposite. If you help, if you make enough people feel criticized, ashamed, less than, like you're better than, right. If you make enough people feel nervous. If you make enough people feel uncertain. You're not going to get what you want, right. If you make enough people feel like they're invisible, like they you don't see them, like you're just having a monologue only talking to yourself and talking about yourself, you're not getting what you want but again we go back to that breakdown, which, which was, I heard Oprah say that brother I went, I went to a event with Oprah, my wife and I was one of the only guys in a room of 10 or 15,000 women, lot, lot, lot more guys would be a lot more successful, they paid attention to what she's done. But I heard her say that this is what people want and all of my years of working on television and working with audiences, just understand the people, what I realized that they want is they want to be seen. They want to be heard, or be understood, that's all they want. They don't need you to save them. They don't need you to solve every problem in their life, they just want to be seen, heard and understood what comes out for you, as I, as I say what I just said,

Calvin: Yeah, the best because I love that the best way to do that, especially as a beginning marketer is to pay attention to your analytics. Oh my god. The world is not a perfect place is what I want to say, right, so my brother Dave is a white guy, I'm a black guy. I'm fortunate. Unfortunately, on TikTok when you're trying to model success and the reason that you got to pay attention and share your own story is because there's, there's certain songs that are going viral and I can't tap into that market, because I'm reading black analytics, I know that using this particular song, it's not going to reach my person that I'm trying to actually reach, there's certain things that you can and can't do, even as a black guy, or white guy some of this music. This is gonna save a lot of people here and help a lot of people, some of the music that is going viral on TikTok, because I know some of the some of the business owners and entrepreneurs here, because you don't know, because you don't have that on your playlist, or yet but listen to the full song on Spotify. It's hurting. You got to go listen to those, you got to go listen to the lyrics, and so what I'm saying here is, you know, there's certain rap songs and r&b songs or whatever it's like if you really listen to the lyrics as a white guy or white woman, you may not want to use that Tik Tok, that song in your TikTok video, You think because it's going viral that it's like all just a little piece in everybody's doing this, whatever. Here's what you don't realize that the kids that's making that piece go viral, they know what the words are to that song. And so now you're trying to figure out why my video is not going viral. It's like Have you listened to the words of that song. That's the wrong piece of content for you, not reading your analytics you got to read your analytics to so that you can understand if somebody's asking you, you know hey how did you get your hair pink is so beautiful. Maybe you should create a piece of content, here's the social part of that: create a piece of content about how you do your hair to make it pink or purple or whatever the case some people ask me to to my office or I get a lot of people, hey, what kind of camera do you use. That's why I create content about, you know, music and stuff like that that does not go viral. I'm watching and looking at my analytics, I'm reading my comments. When you make that type of content that's what gets shared, that is what's buzzing the algorithm people trying to figure out how I get to 1.2 million followers from January of this year. It's not because I'm creating a bunch of content about making money, going and looking at my timeline, I got a lot of content that is social, because I know that when I can really take this to the next level. I'm not going to be on stage talking about affiliate marketing, and stuff like that. I'm actually going to be doing something totally different, along with what I'm doing with power publishing. I'm already setting that up.

Dave: So do you fit? are you saying that you're getting specific demographics from your analytics to show you, ages, races, parts of all that kind of stuff because I think this is really important. And I think that you're really onto something here and you're really revealing something that I think a lot of people are not thinking about. So, is, is, is, is that what you're talking about all the way down to ages, races, parts of the world, right, a male female you already mentioned that, right, is that what you're talking about.

Calvin: Exactly so TikTok is. TikTok is limited to analytics. It's super important, it's going to tell you, you know it's going to give you stuff like you know, whether it's men or women and stuff like that and how long they're on him. Which one of these content is actually going viral now, I'm not talking about TikTok videos I'm talking about your content that's trending, that stuff. But this is the reason why you need to have sales funnels, why you should have your own website because there's other analytics that you need to be paying attention to the content that you create on your blog and your painting pans over at Pinterest. If you're running Google analytics on the back end of your blog, you're running Google analytics on the back end of your, your sales funnel, that's going to Google is going to give you a different type of analytics, it's going to tell you, you know where people are consuming your content in the world, it's going to tell you, ages, it's going to tell you race it's going to tell you what kind of, you know, you know, you know, cell phones, they're on, and that's important cell phones is not important. Is it because I know that TikTok is very different from joy, and iPhone. Joy's don't have certain things that actual iPhones have on TikTok, they don't. It looks a lot different. So if a lot of your audience is consuming your content on droids versus iPhones, you might want to get a toy, and see what your content looks like on a Droid phone. This is crazy. You have to read your analytics, not just on TikTok on Pinterest, you got to read it inside of Google Analytics, that's gonna tell you who your demographic is you're going to be able to create better content, you're gonna have higher conversions, higher click through ratios, which means you're going to have a higher ROI or a higher return on your investment. 

Dave: So our new, who is your, if, if you were to describe your target customer, and be as specific as possible with us so we can understand how your strategy, you know what your strategy is, who is. 

Calvin: So, I have three entrepreneurs. Right. Those who are working a nine to five job that actually either want to start some type of a side hustle or walk away from that. That's it.

Dave: So,  you're not focused on age, you're not focused on a any specific race you're not, you're not saying to any more to the black community than to the Asian community, the white coat, you're not You're not getting that niche specific, you're just focused on the sort of desires that somebody has, I want to work in a nine to five at all like, or I want to be or already am an entrepreneur.

Calvin: This is the interesting thing about it. This is another big plus for everybody that's listening, we're on TikTok, TikTok has a massive amount of teenagers, right, we know this. A lot of people ignore, and don't create content for the teens to grow up to be adults, are you in this for the short term, are you in, are you kind of Moxie? I'm playing the long game. Some people say, Oh, you have a million followers and you don't get that many views or whatever just send the third or whatever it's like, have you seen my email list. Do you actually know that the content that I'm creating and the people that I'm reaching are going to grow up to be adults, one day, and I'm putting my brain in their face every single day. What do you think happens when the teenagers who can't actually do affiliate marketing and that are not old enough, but I'm still educating them, showing them how to be entrepreneurs, and giving them information that is going to propel them and help them be really really good. You know, entrepreneurs, as adults, who they're going to actually be seeking out to get information from when they hit adulthood.

Dave: Yeah, I mean that's why like people like for Grant Cardone they call Uncle G like a lot of people call him uncle G, right, I would you know a lot of these people have been watching his content, since they were teenagers right a lot of people have been following me I don't think anybody calls me Uncle Dave but a lot of people have been following me for 10 years, right, they've been various of all my email list are just kind of following my content. Also, something that Gary Vee did really really well. Was he created content for teenagers because they're the ones who blew up all his accounts, so that he could take his massive social media accounts and have more authority to go to these brands that he wanted to do, he he wanted to get clients in his agency like dove and Coca Cola and said, Look at my accounts. Now those accounts, didn't have executives or may not have been had that many adults maybe a bit primarily teenagers because the majority of the content that he created was about what I would do in my 20s focus on being happy folk, you know what I mean, you've heard some stuff like a lot of it honestly dude. It's so interesting that you say that is focused on people who are in their 20s and about what they should be focusing on, and he does a good job of talking specifically to people in various videos, like, what I would do different if I was in my 20s for this video is five and under and you want to be an entrepreneur, listen to this, or if you're in your 40s Right, he calls people out very specifically. So I think your, your, you don't have to talk everybody in every video, you can take a piece of content and be specific to an age or a or a, whether you're still in a job, whether you're transitioning out of a job. Is that what you're saying? I think that's really powerful.

Calvin: That's exactly what I'm saying. In the beginning of this live show, I was talking about sharing your own unique story, but if you have to pin it out and write it out, you can tell it all in one TikTok video. I use Evernote to map your life out and decide how you want to tell your story, and each day there's going to be viral videos for okay how do I use this trending sound, and this trending viral video to tell a piece of my story. How do I do that, competing with people like me? Oh Calvin is doing this, he's on a leaderboard and this has nothing to do with you, your unique story, right unique value proposition. That is, I can compete with that. Yeah, right, this is, I watched the videos online and they were putting work in a grocery store, and they're having a massive amount of success, right you know who I'm talking about, like, that's incredible. That I can never compete with that stuff that's her story.

Dave: Yeah, that she'd be bet and she'd be and she'd be good to keep that job, right, because, because part of again her stick part of her persona is similar to an affiliate, that was our first diamond affiliate here at legendary Nathan Lucas who kept his military job for years. He had made six multiple six even seven figures, not yours. He kept it initially, quit it and then went back part time to the service after he had hit Diamond. I mean, dude, we're talking about. We're talking about what we're talking about here are some things that people do on accident but there is a way that you can get strategic with this when you start to think about your persona, and you start to think about your image online. There's an old song I can't remember the exact lyrics but it was just about a guy sitting in his basement and he could be whoever he wanted online. I think a lot of you guys just need to give yourself permission to develop your persona, and how would you speak, and how would you act and how would you create content if you were already a millionaire you didn't need to do this, how would you act if you are if you wanted to just simply be of service and share advice, and have a good time online, and you didn't need to do it, you weren't doing it because you needed to make money. Right. And what if, again, what if you could act as if you were already a successful millionaire, how would you speak, how would you act, how would you create content, instead of the person that you are today. What if you could, what if, what if you could step into the person that is the best version of yourself, who you're working towards and what if you could just act as if you're already that person. I think there's a, this is the mindset piece common that I talked about and kind of mentioned at the beginning of the episode too which is I think a lot of this mindset, a lot of people, when they start out, they have this, this imposter syndrome that I have a story in my head, we all have a unique story that says, I am not good enough I, why, why should I try people can go watch Calvin, like his stuff is so good, who would listen to me, do an event, Calvin, you could tell yourself this, why would I ever try to do events, people just go see Tony Robbins, right, there's, there's always ways that we get into our own imposter syndrome, and we and we and we make ourselves feel small we criticize and shame ourselves to be less than we are, and that affects our confidence and affects our self esteem. It's one of the reasons why say self esteem and confidence is the bedrock of success, but how have you overcome your own imposter syndrome to step into your online persona, as, as, as, as confident as somebody who is comfortable in your skin you do a lot of funny shit, you do a lot of just like straight up funny stuff, man. You remind me of Spice Adams.Have you ever seen any of his stuff, but he's an ex football player who is my favorites, But but you're funny dude you're comfortable in your skin like how and you're also you speak with conviction. How have you overcome your own imposter syndrome, which probably looks different than mine. In, Tom, Dick and Harry's over there we all got our own sort of limiting beliefs that imposter syndrome that we deal with, But how have you overcome disempowering stories or limiting beliefs that you've, you've had in the past or still have today, how do you overcome those on a daily basis, what do you tell yourself or how do I deal with them.

Calvin: It's funny that you mentioned that because I do my life, I go over what I call, you know, the digital marketing umbrella, Right, and all the things that are under that umbrella of things that you need to learn to be successful on the internet. And the last thing that I have is not sales funnels, email marketing, the last thing that I share is mindset. I literally, you should I tell people you should have a one signature piece of content that you're creating, and the signature piece of content that I have is, I'll just say a quote. And then at the end of it I'll say mindset. I had to shift and I ship, every day I shift my mindset I renew my mind every single day. We're in a social era, but guess what comes with social trolls, people, people that's gonna talk about your mom. He was gonna talk about your pimple on your nose, talk about your gold teeth in your mouth oh you four eyes you weren't glasses. Listen, mind set. Oh, you're probably the reason that your video didn't do that is because you are noticing. Every day I renew my mind, that's, that's literally the last thing I talk about when I in my lives about people just hey man you gotta you got to toughen that mindset of, you know, make sure you read books, make sure you look in the mirror every day before you actually get started and growing your business because that's going to remind you of who you are before the world starts trying to shape right before they start trying to tell you who you are and who you are not, you should look in the mirror and make sure you understand who you are I do that every single day I know that sounds corny but every day I wake up I look in the mirror and I talked to myself, and I don't answer myself Dave. But I talked to myself Calvin, this is what you're trying to do. This is the mission that you're on today so when you encounter these challenges these people are talking about your mom and talking about all kinds of stuff and you're just another black guy and bla bla bla bla bla. That stuff rolls off my back. I know who I am, I know what I'm trying to do, I know the goals that I need to accomplish, and no one else can stop me until I shape my, my, what I'm doing on a daily basis, but that's our mindset.

Dave: It's interesting you say that the trolls I guess there was some content, a content creator that was trolling trolling me trolling us here recently and, and, and not too many people have messaged me about it because I currently don't really care. I've never had a lot of people who have taken shots at me over the years, and underestimate what I do and what we do here and think that it's all just by mistake or luck. But somebody asked in a Facebook group the other day they said, you know, there was some people that are talking shit and trying to kind of, you know, just talking badly about legendary and Dave and, and, you know, how do you handle that and and I commented I said, the people bashing us on TikTok don't realize how much it's not hurting us and how bad it makes them. And I don't feel the need to go out of my way to tell them, right, because if somebody is, somebody has taken the time to say my name right. If you want me to say your name. We either got to be in a business relationship like you and I are or you gotta pay me I'm not just gonna go out and just, just tell your name, say your name right, I mean, I'm not out here to beef with anybody that's not the business and I'm playing another game play in a different, you know, we've got a, Almost 100 people on this team, we're building a company here I mean we've got, you know people whose families rely on us. And I mean we're just, you know this is not by accident, you know what I mean sure we've, we've thrown some spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks from time to time but this is not a, this is not a mistake. This is years and years and years of connections, efforts and late nights, blood sweat and tears, and I don't have time to waste my time with a troll or a hater or somebody who's trying to ride my coattails. But when I was new, I didn't feel that way, you know, when I was new and somebody came up in my comments and, you know, said something quits or whatever man it hurts, you know it's it's it especially if that's the only comment, like, like if I got to be the comment content and it's not good many views and like there's that one, when that one comment, it's like, Damn, man, like, the only people that see my shit, don't like it right and that's just not the truth and I, I think there's, there's an element of big scam there's a bit of kind of just kind of just, I almost feel like, like, like taking some of that on, and like almost welcoming. I had a goal for this year. Actually it was a goal last year to get more haters. Now, I don't really care anymore, but it was almost like I almost feel like there's value in just expecting hate, and then just sitting with it, and just, like, again in fighting it like, like expecting instead of being shocked by like

someone who left just expecting it right, because then you're not surprised by it. This is how people are, especially when they're behind there, you know there's a lot of keyboard warriors that slow you down at all. I mean when you get something negative or sad, I mean, it did at one time I mean did it, did it hurt worse that time than it does now.

Calvin: At the beginning, you know, it would bother you, Right, because this, this is new stuff, you know it's just like man you know you get all these people following you or whatever, just like you think everybody's gonna like you date, newsflash, everybody's not gonna like everybody, like, just get over it. I'm used to it now, I actually am and this is for everybody when, when you're bold enough when you, when you've shifted your mindset, create a piece of controversial content. That's every now and then, I purposely will create a controversial piece of content, just so the algorithm can go nuts because you know what happens. The arguing in the comments people decide with you people. You know what, guess what happens with that. It makes me. It makes me a shitload of money. Don't be gonna be able to be honest with you, crazy nuts in the algorithm. And you know what I do. I just laugh at it. Right. I'll get in the comments and I'm just like, you know, and especially if I'm getting ready to go live or something like that I was like, you know I'm going live tonight, and I'm going to actually prove what I'm saying, keep that same energy, that same energy.

Dave: I think that one of the things about when you know your thing is power of publishing in the idea that nothing happens until you create a piece of content and I love to plug that I think that's I think that's spot on, because simplifies things like a lot of things that you do and by the way I want to lift you up, I want to see anybody who I'm in contact with it's part of the abundant mindset that I've developed because of this industry and because of, you know, the way that I've chose to think and grow is that, you know the the amazing thing about this industry is that I have a chance to be able to have a small part, and being maybe it's a long term relationship. Maybe it's a stepping stone, but a small part in a ton, a ton of people's journeys and success, and honestly dude like I'm impressed by your branding, I love it but it also makes sense. And, and, you know, I think that, I think that, yeah, I was going somewhere with that. I remember where the hell I was going with it. What were we just talking about? 

Calvin: I actually don't know now. We were talking about something about like, something about like something with the haters and stuff. We were definitely talking about haters, but now we're talking about reading controversial content

Dave: Oh controversial content and that's right, that's right, that's right. So, so, like, I think that that one of the pieces of that is, is, is, is scary, but is really profitable, like you said, is, is to is to understand the psychology of a human being who they would much rather watch something negative or or or or kind of express their, their opinions or disgust or whatever, about something and somebody way so much more. They're so much more prone to leave a comment if they're inferior rated, or they disagree with what you're saying. Then if they're all inspired by it like I had a I had a coach, a blueprints and coaching client. Last, last coaching call and he was like well I'm creating all this personal development content and it's not really going anywhere. And I was like well, bro. I was like, because, honestly, people are mostly pessimistic lately like they don't react to positive stuff that much, it's just the truth because I've tried it. I've been Mr positive sharing motivational quotes and honestly I'm a positive guy in my life. But if we, if we look at news stations. There's a reason why the story about the firemen who saved the cat from the tree is the last 30 seconds. Bro, and why the 59 minutes is about why the world's coming to an end everybody's gonna die from Coronavirus and then asteroids, on its way to demolish us, and we're all going to burn up because of global warming and and all this shit might, it's all of it has some truth to it, but they want, It's outrage man it's they want to get people feeling outraged as they're watching it. What I mean is absurd, you know it's true.

Calvin: These several pieces of content that myself and others, you know, digital marketers create with affiliate marketing is better than drop shipping or, you know like drop shipping if you know I'm saying Dell or wherever the case may be. That's all that content is going to get a lot of comments from people oh no this episode or whatever, fantastic because it's always going to bring a bunch of people in there so what is affiliate marketing. There's a link in my bio for that. And again it doesn't just have to be the make money concept so maybe your background is, your fiscal as a physical education teacher right you came from PE and you're you know you do a lot of athletic stuff. Well, just because you're a PE teacher doesn't mean you can create a piece of controversial content that's been trying to create a piece of content that says that LeBron James is better than Microsoft, watch what happens to your video and your comments. Right, that's gonna bring you a lot of people that love basketball, and you have a basketball training program or dribbling. 

Dave: Oh I love it, man, it's that. That's why, like when, whenever I mean, like people are taking shots at Legendary or whatever, it's like, it's like, you know, it's like, say my, hold on, say, how to go you're using the music. Same on a Monday, where no one is around you say baby, love,

right, it's like, say by name, you know what I mean like cuz you gotta pay me to say your name right, but if you're gonna say my name for free, they're gonna look me up and you know what they're gonna look me up and I just have a small inkling that I might just be able to real admin, right, because I know me, right I know what I've been able to do and how I'm able to relate and communicate to people so if you want to talk badly about me or you want to troll me or you want to leave a comment that trolls me that boost me in the algorithm or you want to just say my name and have people googling me. Man, that it's all good man, it's all good because, you know, good press bad press. Controversy outrage, it all. Your marketing is like a good piece of art Calvin. you want to look at it and you want to feel something Brother Yo, Maybe it will make you maybe want to throw up. Maybe you feel inspired. But the worst thing is, as an artist is you, you don't want somebody looking at your art feeling nothing feeling nothing, right. So you know, people looking at your content feeling nothing if they feel nothing the algorithm is going to punish you for that, that, that artificial intelligence is looking at your content and it is trying to see who's commenting on it, who is sharing that content, Who is actually liking double tapping and liking that content, who is following you after they consume. You don't do that, that, listen that the computer's gonna start putting read checks. 

Calvin: Those are the social media factors, by the way, on any social media platforms comments like, likes, shares, people following you after they consume it while you're stuck, if you don't get checkboxes. Beside those, you start getting access to the computer that is going to take your content and put you in timeout, and it's going to tell you to go stand in the corner, you can't play with the rest of the kid on the platform.

Dave: Yeah, and it's not personal, it's just at all. 

Calvin: Yeah, it's not personal, it's just that, that mix in the trend content, but also have a variable in there that is unique to your personal type of story, and don't be afraid to tell your story because that will get people to comment to share your stuff right to like you, like ability double tapping right to follow you, after they consume your content. Those 1.1 million 1.21 point 2 million people following me. That's not an accident. I understand social media, I understand content marketing video images, text and audio. I know which element, I need to be creating to actually do a trend, if I see a trend that's like, Okay I need to do this in order to really make that trend pop, and how can I add my spin to it, and my element, my variable to it, and actually bring it to me to grow my business and my platform my profile, right, and not for the short term for the long term. Like, I know you're a multimillionaire. I love it. I'm going to be a multimillionaire, let me tell you that but the funny thing about this is that I'm not trying to brag, but when I filled out my first floor. Roxy sent me the first form, she's like, is there anything that you want to tell the date? Right. You know what I said at the end of that form, I said till date. I look forward to being platinum and getting that ring. You remember that. Yeah, two times platinum right now, this is just the beginning. Man, when this is setting. You see me like I remember seeing him on Legendary. I remember seeing his TikTok video to do as books now he's got courses, he's got, he's got okay he's on stage and all kinds of stuff that's happening.

Dave: Yeah. Well, man, it's an inspiration rather, it's an inspiration, and you know people, young and old people from all different walks of life, I mean, seeing you do your thing is, is a breath of fresh air, and, and you can tell that by the craze, the people who love watching your stuff, who has been following you, and this whole host of other people who are now going to be, you know in your audience who didn't know you before today. So, if somebody was sitting on the fence here, you know, on a checkout page, getting ready to decide to come into our community here at Legendary, what would you tell that person?

Calvin: That is what I will tell you. Here's why I thought legendary and why I can promote anything I'm good enough to promote anything out there. Here's why I like it. Here's why I actually love it. It's a platform that teaches you how to build a business on the digital side of things the right way. He's got a team. Right. And you know, with that team if you look at the 15 day business builder challenge you can hit anybody. You teach it. That's your person that ties into your personal story your love. I like it because of the community. If you go at this alone. It's going to be difficult. You got people like me inside of these forums that are inside of the Facebook group and stuff like that you got a host and a plethora of other entrepreneurs to help you out with this. This thing is easier, not easy, easier than it used to be. When we started out and you showed me those pictures and I had those same types of pictures and stuff. But yeah, the internet has leveled the playing field right now. It doesn't matter if you're black, white, you graduated Summa Kulani with nobody cares. The internet has leveled the playing field. Share your story, create content that is going to help people solve problems. Use the tools that Dave has given you. Right, it's doing all your bookkeeping for you and I can go and I get so many Legendary books for you. Do you guys not realize that stuff that I like, I can go. Listen, it's a great platform for you to start, and really learn how to do this business. I'm just gonna give you the honest truth on that. Plug it because I'm part of that they're definitely telling you the truth. Yeah, get off the fence. I think this is a great platform to do that.

Dave: Well, Brother we're, I mean, I know you can be doing anything anywhere in your, you're just, you know, you're a guy going places man I mean you've just in it's not just because of the skills that you have or that you developed it's because of the mindset that you have man, It's because of, you know, it's because of who you are and who you've become. I know, you know, you've become you've built Calvin Hill. Looks like I've built Dave Sharpe, you know I wasn't always the Dave that I am today. This is years in development. And so I'm having a lot of fun working with you, man. You know, and I'm looking forward to the next chapter brother, so keep up the great work. Please, and every time we reach out, you say yes, it's, we're excited it's a, it's a privilege man so I hope you'll keep coming back and guys go follow Calvin power of publish on TikTok connect with them, learn from them, and we'll see you later, brother. 

Calvin: Thank you brother. All right, man. All right, my friends, there it is. Let me put his, let me put his and I got to go to the gym, and I've got to be in the gym in 14 minutes. I've actually I'm finally going to lose some of this pregnancy weight, you know what I mean, this COVID this pandemic, these these pandemic pounds, okay. I'm feeling good, I'm just, I'm just grateful to be moving in, maybe getting back to some normalcy here, we've got some events and Masterminds coming up. Just a lot of exciting things in the works, but what's most exciting, is, is, is, has nothing to do with me, it just has nothing to do with even legendary it has something to do with the people in this community so I just I'm so excited to connect with people like Calvin and to have you folks watching the show every day and involved in our community and buying our trainings and most of all using our trainings. So keep up the great work, everyone. Thanks, Calvin for being here. Thank you all for listening, get the hell out of here now I'm gonna do something with your lives, be Legendary. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on my friend Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up Legendary we have yet another episode with this time this morning, it's going to be somebody who comes from my neck of the woods, a fellow construction dude. This man is a concrete cutter, probably a little bit of a harder worker than I was. Construction days, James Welcome to the show. 

James: Thank you for having me. 

Dave: You're welcome, my brother, so concrete cutting it is.

James: Yes, yes, I run a big diesel saw that kind of concrete. I usually just cut up to make 1415 inches deep and that's all I do.

Dave: Now, is that something that's run by a machine or is that something that you literally are sitting there holding the saw?

James: No, we do, we do hand saws and things like that but my job specifically what I do is I run a four cylinder diesel soft so it's, it's about 3000 pounds it's a big, big song. 

Dave: Let me see your hands. 

James: Yeah, they're not your gloves, your man. My wife doesn't like rough hands so I try to keep them soft. 

Dave: There you go. Attaboy. Alright man, so tell us a little bit about how you got started in online marketing and eventually how you found Legendary.

James: Well it all started really back in 2005. I was introduced to an MLM. That had a. They had a partner school, Basically, that had just a bunch of affiliations, my time they might link and shop at those stores. I got a commission out of it. Up to a certain volume, you know. Yeah, I did pretty well with that for a few years and then I branched off and started doing other things on my own.

Dave: And that was the big A right company to start with Ram way. 

James: Yeah, yeah, that was it. Great. I can't say anything bad about them. They are a great company, they are awesome, but I still use them today, a little bit but not affiliated with them at all. And then, last year, and 2020. I started, we got into a family situation where I had to make more money than I was making. So I started looking around. I thought affiliate marketing was a good thing back then. That was in 2005 I think it was. And last year, I'm like, That was a great thing. I'm gonna try doing that again. But I want to do it on my own without an MLM. And man, I tried. You know, there was the Amazon selling books on Amazon and there was, you know, looking at any affiliate links you could find trying to gather more but it went nowhere. I didn't know how to promote. I didn't know how to get real customers or anything that I saw on TikTok. For Legendary and I went to go check it out, and man it was the course, just, you know, I paid $7 for the course. And within day three. I, it just blew my mind. Everything that you guys offered so I went over force and got everything I could. And I don't know what else to say.

Dave: Yeah, you've invested in quite a bit of education here. I can see just from your account, you've enrolled in our blueprints and bought many of our kind of one off courses and stuff and how has that changed the game for you for, you know, making money. Right, needing to make money and starting a business for that reason, but also investing in education and, and, kind of, I guess, putting some skin in the game if you will and, and, You know, I guess, speeding up maybe the learning curve a little bit versus going out there and watching free YouTube videos and trying to kind of piecemeal it all together on your own, how has that changed the game for you.

James: Well, it's kind of it's narrowed it down to a simpler process. It's given me a lot of ways to change my attitude, my lookout on things, and it. There is a lot there, and I bought a lot, all at one time, and I kind of skipped around in there. So, I didn't. I didn't get it all the way I needed to. So at first and then I had to go back to start here and work my way down to the blueprints the right way. And then it all started coming together.

Dave: What is it like for you to know also with us, when you buy a piece of education, a program that it's going to be there, and also that you're going to get dates. For example we just completely renovated and updated a completely new version of the Affiliate Marketing Blueprint. And most of the Guru's and goblins whenever they launch a new course it's a 2.0 that sells again for retail price and everybody has to buy it all over again. What is, what does that like for you, what does that mean to, because I know what it means for me. I'm the one who's creating it and then making the decision to roll it out and just give it to everybody for free who's already bought it, what is, what does it mean for you as a client?

James: I don't know how to answer that question, to be honest with you, it's, it's seeing that. It makes me want to go back through it again and relearn more because you're updating everything's new information, and this industry changes all the time, obviously. Right and blowing that I have all your courses, or your teachings available to me with any update just means a world to me that I can keep updating my own business. And by the way, my goal is to help other people. So whatever information you give me is information I give them. Yeah, and that way everybody can grow together and we can help each other out.

Dave: Well I think coming from the construction trades you know that your reputation is everything, because if you, you know, if you want to set yourself apart from all of the others. Tom, Dick and Harry yayhoo's as my dad and I used to call them yayhoo's right you know who's this yayhoo, basically the guy who comes in and just throws things together, kind of sloppily cuts corners does, you know sells you a dream on the front end, and then you can't get them to show up for the job. Once you've given them that deposit or, God forbid if you paid in full. Never do that with most builders until they absolutely finish the job. But in this industry, those yayhoo's exist as well. And I think that's one of the reasons why a lot of people call things scams and are very skeptical because I would say the majority of people over promise and under deliver. Was that something that was important for you when you were coming online to kind of look out for who are the good guys? And who are the scoundrels, and how can I avoid the scoundrels, and align myself with people who I know are doing the right thing even when nobody's looking?

James: When I went online, I started looking for a mentor. Outside legend maybe another affiliate marketer that I can see is doing well, you know he's promoting his things. I look at how many followers I have. I look at other people that are following them and seeing where they're at because if I see people following them and they have good success. They are following them. And if they're doing a course or anything, you know, I'm definitely gonna get into it, there was one affiliate marketer that that really, really helped me out, right outside of the business blueprints, I was going through there and like I said I was getting all jumbled in there. He really helped me put things together. 

Dave: And that was Brian? 

James: That was Brian Brewer. Yeah Hey Brian, awesome. Of course there, and I went through and copied his funnel, you know, and it, that was what I've seen my first mission was after, after mentoring with him, and which was that as a story that that will tell forever seeing that first big commission. 

Dave: What was that like, tell us, give us a nutshell version. 

James: Well, when I saw it, I was getting frustrated because I wasn't seeing any results. There was one day and I saw $2.80 And then, you know, a couple days later I saw $100 You know and I posted that all on all Legendary like I got my first image you all so excited about it because the system works. After that I didn't see anything for a while, and got a little upset. You know I was ready to quit. Brian Brewer, went through things with him as a, as a try to pick things back up and, and nothing happened and then finally I'm sitting on the couch, my wife and I'm just sitting there watching the movie I'm so now I'm you know I'm gonna, I'm not gonna do that I'm going to do something else. And I have a notification in my email, open it up and it was. You earned your commission or can I say the amount I mean, sure, in my first big commission was $2,850, and like holy crap, I got to my I show it's my wife and she goes, you're going to get downstairs and start promoting North right now. That's why I came down and started making more TikToks.

Dave: Literally that minute?

James: Yeah, it was then ya know.

Dave: Netflix and chill came to an abrupt end and you went right to work?

James:Yeah, definitely. Anything that I do, you know, I, when I leave things I always look at it as if somebody else sees what I've done physically or online or whatever, that's going to be a piece of me. So when people see that especially what I do physically you know concrete lump and cut concrete. I want to make the straightest lines I possibly can. Does anybody who drives over it, or walk past it is going to see if there's a real split in the line. Nobody's good, they're going to point it out and make fun of it, you know I can't be proud of that product. So when I came online with affiliate marketing, I looked around and I tried different things that did what Legendary did. And so I promote Legendary because it's nice to me that people are seeing me, if that makes sense to you. 

Dave: Sure 

James: And I don't want people to see me as a scam or seeing me as flip flopping you know, and Legendary definitely isn't that. So I, that's why I like to promote Legendary

Dave: Yeah that's totally cool, I get it I mean, I have often as I've and I think one of the reasons why we have so many affiliates is the same reason why I promoted many of the things that I went through and get value from when I was learning the business. I would go through something, a program, a training, I would get value from it. It would, it would have an impact on me and I would gain clarity and then I would be able to use the, what I learned, and then it was just an obvious. It was an obvious next step for me to say hey how can I how can I share this with other people I was, it was almost like a natural thing, right, so that's one of the reasons why we do zero affiliate recruitment here at legendary like everybody is always, You know I hear people who are quote unquote talking shit about Legendary on TikTok or wherever, which by the way, is not hurting anybody who's doing that by the way is not hurting us any. It's just a public service announcement, doing that is that actually it's helping us, because it's kind of like the more you say my name, the more you say our name, whether it's, especially if it's bad. People look at you a little bit like, is that really how you get down you talk shit about people, that's how you try to lift yourself up, and then they come over here and they experience what we're doing and they're like, Wow, that's this is actually pretty cool right so, however, you know, we don't do any affiliate recruitment we don't, we don't try to get anybody to become affiliates of Legendary and sell our stuff people go through it get value from it, develop a story like you did, You know this this opened my eyes it was really useful and then they hit us up and they're like can I become an affiliate of legendary it's, it's kind of a pretty natural thing. But, for a lot of you who are getting started, that may become your path as well. You may want to become an affiliate of ours and that's totally fine, and you and you may want to go and be an affiliate in another niche, you may invest in our blueprints and come on to our decade in a day and we'll show you all of these different niches that you can be an affiliate for and things you may not even realize that you could do, and you may start out in the make money online space and working to make money online space for a year. And then you may say hey you know what I want to go back and, and I want to specialize in sort of target down on a specific niche. Teaching construction workers how to make more money than proud of their construction business, you're teaching plumbers, I've seen people even get specialized one today. Once they started to get comfortable with selling their own coaching and or courses could go back specifically to plumbers or specifically to attorneys or specifically to a actual very targeted niche and offer coaching or consulting or courses to show them how to grow their specific business using the marketing skills that you now know, so there's so many different directions that we can go once we understand the sort of mechanics and some of the dynamics of selling information on the internet we start out with affiliate marketing. We start out, oftentimes, you know, becoming an affiliate for maybe some of the courses or programs that we got value from. Maybe we stay there for years or decades, maybe we adjust it develop our own courses or coaching and specialize, or target in a different niche, but there's so many different directions that we can go and it was interesting James, because you said you were sitting on the couch, you were about right, but that bigger commission that you received gave you a boost. Now where is your head out? I just gave you a little bit of a 30,000 foot perspective about what's possible. Are you no longer needing those, those reassurances of commissions dropping into to validate this and get you excited, can you now see the bigger picture about where you're going and what you can do. Can you talk to us about that from your perspective?

James: I don't need those reassurances anymore I know the system works, and it is based on what I do if I, if I stop, You know, and take up a month break those commissions are probably going to slow down quite a bit. But if I keep consistent, keep promoting and put myself out there. I'm going to see them coming in again. And, and, and, as far as growing. You can use everything you learn in the blueprints. It doesn't have to be just affiliate marketing, you can use it in every aspect of your life, really. I mean I use it, you know some of the things I learned is I talked to my boss about it, you know, and he's, he's actually become curious about legendary because I do talk about it so much at work and he sees me sitting in my work truck, you know, main TikTok and what are you doing, but no it's he's all keep them completely informed what I'm doing. My goal is not is not to quit working for him. Right now, because he is a tremendous guide, it's a small family owned company. 

Dave: That's awesome. 

James: And I love the guys that I work with, so I don't want to put them in a bind by just quitting. Dave: Sure. And why would you want to cut off a stream of income from a profession that you know exactly how to make money, and you can you can you can completely for the most part, predict how much time or how much effort or energy you need to put in in order to get a certain amount of money, and you can cover your bills and cover your expenses by doing that, I went over the 24 hours in a day kind of exercise, last week with a guest, and if you've got 24 hours in a day you've got eight hours, say call it nine, you got a half hour each way, let's call it 10 Let's call it 10 Right, let's just get crazy call it 10, you've got, you've still got 14 hours, let's say the eight eight hours asleep. All right, so now you've got 18, You've got six hours left. What can you do with six hours? Well let me tell you something most people what they do, if you look at your phone and you look at the amount of time that you spend on your phone, you it'll, your phone will tell you what you're doing without additional six to eight hours or so, it'll tell you that you're on Facebook, screwing around, it'll tell you that you're on in scripts screwing around. But what if you got super focused and I'm speaking everybody got super focused, and took that additional six to eight hours, let's call it six to be super conservative, and you took three of those hours, exclusively every day totally and completely on your family, they probably be blown away, they parallel Who this new person that's totally full, they feel like they had a brand new dad or mom, or husband or wife, because you've probably never given them three hours of exclusive, no phone, no distraction time. And then the other three hours with exclusive business building, whether it be content creation, emails, building funnels, strategizing, it really is interesting when you, when you look at the math of a day and how many hours are in a day, James, and you say, what if I got real militant with my time management. What can I accomplish in terms of work, family, in my business what comes up for you as I say that?

James: Well, things that come up to me are time management. I'm one of those people who say I don't have any time. And that is because I really don't. I work with my job, early mornings, you know, I might start at 4am and 3pm. I'll come home, grab my son out of preschool and have dinner with my family, and be back to work by six o'clock in the afternoon, and work till one to three in the morning, come home shower, take a quick nap and get back to work. And that's how my days are all week long until Friday. So usually on Friday night, Saturday I'm usually catching up on sleep. And then so Saturday afternoon I'll get up we'll do something fun with family go out to eat dinner, whatever, and Sundays, I try to spend half my Sunday, doing, TikTok videos getting some training done, you know, doing a little bit of research on what, what I can do to make those bigger commissions again, and just try to grow on Sunday afternoons. And that's really the only day that I spend on this. 

Dave: Wow. Really?

James: Yeah

Dave: I wonder where I wonder where else just you based on what I just said could find more time, just by, again it's 24 hours and every day, you know we all have the same amount of time, and even morning hours, days, that's crazy man, 

James: One thing I do is I bring my notebook with me and I write down ideas as you as they come up. Yeah, if I'm not cutting if I'm waiting for a lane drop or if I'm waiting for a contract to come show me what I've got for the day you know I'm putting stuff down or, yeah, yeah somebody, another contract says something to me as like you know I use that, you know, and I'll write that down right.

Dave: I like that. I like to, I mean you got to do what you got to do with the time that you have. But that, you know, so all of you listening, just think about the time and again you can look at your screen time on the phone it'll tell you how much time you're on various different apps and in really being successful just like James said, has a lot to do with figuring out how to better utilize the time that we have, because you can make more money, you can't get more time. Right, but making more money has a lot to do with how we spend our time. I love the idea of having a notebook, not even a phone, I just like the idea of a hard notebook, even if it's a pocket notebook. Yep. Show us yours. I love that. I love that.

James: I think you can’t see the picture but there’s words all over the page. You know, on my TikTok yesterday I made a video of how I do them.

Dave: I love that. Well, the reason why I love that is because sometimes when we pick up our phone to use our notes or whatever. It's so easy to just accidentally hit that Facebook or accidentally hit that whatever, and then more down a rabbit hole, Right, and we've given up yet another 15 or 20 minutes, because we, you know just it's hard it's this this thing is something that we really have to have discipline about did you have any issues at all with getting distracted and allowing this thing. Okay, so, so talk to us about that a little bit. How do you mean the distraction monster because this is a gift and a curse. Right, it's helping you make money, it's helping you build your business but it's also a big distraction monster, how do you balance the two?

James: That's a great question, Well it's, it's, for me it's just, I tried to stay focused because I'm on limited time. So I tried to, actually I go through, like I said early I go look through the people that I follow, like Brian Brewer, Jonathan Montoya, and all them, And I see who, who's following them. I'll go into their tech talks or their YouTube channels or their Instagrams or Facebook's and I'll see what they're doing, or even legendary marketers, Facebook page and and just, you know look at look at who's there, and I'll try to follow them and see what they're doing that's I'll make notes off of that type, because it is a huge distraction because if you just jump on TikTok and start scrolling through your dances, you're gonna see you know, it's very indexing, you know, like you said, 15 20, 32 hours have gone by, and girls dancing shaking their butt

Dave: Right your instincts kicked in and you got distracted right it's like oh shit, you know, your wife comes out there starts yelling. Exactly right. It's like she walks up on you and you like got some, you know, somebody dancing like oh I’m doing research honey. You can get into a trance though, can't you it's like all these, I mean, this is why these apps are so powerful apply so many people are making so much getting so much traffic and building their business from these apps is because they are really hypnotic they, they'll pull you into a trance, a little bit and so you've got to be careful as you're doing your research to really be purposeful, if you're going to do research and you're going to, you know, I mean, dude. One of the things that I do with my five year old and it works really well is every single time that we sit down like we go routine at night, and that we have so much amount of show, right, so we'll sit down, and she'll get like some Garfield, or she'll get some spirit or she'll get some whatever she's into that day, and we'll set a timer, so this timer right now she likes to hit the green button. So I say 10 minutes, and then I hold it up and she likes to hit the green button, and I would invite you because sometimes we are adults. We think that things that apply to kids don't apply to us like we're too good, or we're too, we got it all together, but sometimes setting that alarm man is such a powerful thing because if you're like okay I'm going to do research or I'm going to write an email, I'm going to set myself an alarm for five or 10 minutes or 15 minutes, and when that timer goes off, I'm done. I'm done. I haven't done that but I probably need to, yeah, I'm done, because, dude, you can lose time, the same way that the other thing is, when my daughter's watching a show, sometimes I'll have my phone in my hand as well, I can easily lose time too, because I'm looking at whatever I'm looking at and then before you know it, maybe we've it's gone on 20 minutes I don't know how long she's been watching the show, it just okay it's time to turn it off I like snap out of it, got to turn it off and then she's like, ah!

James: I'll get into a trance just like that on a Saturday afternoon or Sunday, I'm doing research. I'll be watching my sons and daughters watching Youtube videos of kids playing with toys. 

Dave: Exactly dude and then and then the kid is like the kids kind of taken by surprise and is thrown off guard and then doesn't know what to expect as well and then does it build good habits and routines, and it has doesn't have a sense of time as either, you know some people have a sense of time, you know like kind of like some people don't have a sense of direction my wife's like that like she doesn't remember how to get back she's brilliant but it's, she doesn't have a good sense of direction where I can go into a parking lot at the airport after being on vacation and find our car. Well, I can get lost. I don't have a good sense of time, right, so that's something that I don't have I can get, I can be late, I'm late for a lot of things and I can get kind of just in a trance. So, I'm just talking about time management for whatever reason, I just, this is on my heart this morning because I think that we just constantly have a lot of people who are struggling and don't know why and I think one of the big reasons is about how we use our time, and that we don't set up accountability pieces with timers and so forth. In alarms, right, you can do it a couple of different ways. You can set an alarm for 15 minutes or you can just use this timer feature and it doesn't matter what you're looking at on your phone that timer will go off. And it's just what can I do to hold myself accountable, right, that's it. I wanted to go back one, one time to not being in a rush to quit your job, I like that. So many people are so in a rush to get to the other side where the grass is green and they want to quit their job and that's gonna make them happy and that's gonna make them complete and you seem like you're a patient man at least that's what you just said, Why do you I mean, obviously, the boss is a good guy, so forth but why do you think, from just a, a new entrepreneur business standpoint, do you think it might be a bad idea for you or others, to just prematurely, quit their jobs, to go full time as an online marketer?

James: A huge thing, people call me Mr patients. They're not saying I'm the most patient person they've ever met. But yeah, don't just jump in and quit your job because you're putting everything into this, because you will get certain you know small Commission's and big commissions and then all of a sudden there might be a month or two with nothing, and then you're scrambling to make money again somehow so if you're if your goal is to quit your job. I would say, don't quit until you have at least six months worth of money in your bank, at least six months, where you can pay all your bills and everything with no worries. And that's, for me, I'm not looking to quit my job right off the bat like I told you earlier, I mean that that would be a goal, we do have things we want to move we know we want to get close to the beach or you know whatever and, and those are nice things to do but that's more of a five year plan. So maybe in five years, I'll be able to quit my job. But at the same time I have affiliate marketing, business on the side that button, all my spare time into that is going to gain each word in five years, maybe I'll have an extra $100,000 in the bank, or more, you know, I mean that is my goal, and a couple of nice vacations to the beach in the meantime. That way every month I know I do have recurring if you $70,000 months, you know, where I don't have to worry about having to find another job when we do.

Dave: Yeah. So, this would be a moment, in full disclosure that I have to say, Do as I say an audit I did, because I did not personally have six months of finances when I quit my job, I didn't have a traditional job though. My dad and I basically were doing one off jobs, remodel tile, bathroom, kitchen stuff, and we didn't have, I didn't have a steady regular job, to where I clocked in clocked out work for a company, again it was just my data and I, and you know I had about $1,000 And I think that $1,000 came from me selling my vehicle, you know, and in my back was kind of against the wall and I just didn't have any work in the near future, that I was another kitchen another bathroom to remodel and I basically just said, Look, you know, I'm just kind of going to build this full time instead of sitting around and doing nothing or looking for more construction work. I kind of went all in on building my business. And so I think you've got to take a look at the situation that you're in, you know, if you're unemployed right so 2020, 2021 has brought this kind of unique situation for a lot of people to where you may be unemployed. You may be sitting around on your ass doing nothing, sitting around at home, collecting unemployment, whatever. What better could you do with your time, and I don't know I'm not here to judge I'm not here to say what you should or shouldn't do, but it's,  you have to you have to look at your personal situation I buy a pen, and you have to make an intelligent assessment of what you have going on if you have a good job that you like, and even a good job that you don't like it because I think there's also a myth that you're going to start a business and you're going to love every minute of it. Like I don't love every minute of my business I don't, I'm not happy all the time it doesn't always go my way. I'm to a point now where I'm pretty comfortable and pretty stress free. And I have a lot of fun doing this, but it's not always been like that, particularly in the beginning, there were some hard times, there were some, there were some times that were uncertain. I didn't know what was coming next, I was all over the place. My wife was frustrated because I didn't stick with things. There was, all I've been through all that I've been through multiple MLMs at the beginning when I had, I was in this company that set out these, these numismatic collectible silver coins. They were they were just silver numismatic and we paid like $100, a month for these things and they were like worth 20, 25 bucks, you know, so, anyways, times got hard enough due to where I literally had to take those numismatic coins and take them to a jewelry shop and sell them, because I needed to pay my half of the bill. I mean, dude. Like, there's been a lot of different times to where I've had really, You know, I was, I was really frustrated as well. But I didn't have a steady job, I was always sort of somebody who bounced around so it made sense for me to go full time early on because I didn't have a full time job. We had a guy, Nathan Lucas who's a part of our community, he's a, he's a piece of diamond affiliate with us I mean he's a, he's an awesome dude, you know, he, he stayed in the military for years after, and I think he just recently quit but he had made a lot of money, a lot of money in his business. It was actually quit and then went back part time because he sort of just missed the kind of camaraderie and so forth that he had, in the service. So, again, I like to say that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Sometimes it's artificial turf, And if you can have your cake and eat it too. Meaning that you can have your full time job in your full time stream of income and get better with your time management to where you can also build your business on the side. It makes sense, it's the smart thing to do. So I just want to tell everybody don't get sucked into the gurus and goblins and bro marketers out there who make you feel bad, or like you're not somehow part of the cool club if you also have a job, because that's bullshit. And it's not reality. Do you agree with that James?

James: 100%  Most people out there do have a job, and when they're looking for something they can relate to you more if you also have a job, and you're struggling with your time and you're trying to get where you can show them that it is possible, you're going to do it and try, if I can do it anybody can do it, I know that, you know, I’m the average person, and Brad, Brad just made a comment, what's up, Brad, regular viewer here and badass Legendary Marketer has been on the show before, he said I believe knowing you can quit your job can actually make it more tolerable I agree with that. You got it, you got a lot more swagger in your step. If you show up to your job every day. And you know that you got something in your back pocket.

James: Yeah and going on that I really feel that if you feel like you don't have to have your job. Yeah, you're going to perform better because you're gonna be less stressed about it.

Dave: I agree. I agree. So it's a great goal to have like let me get it, let me let me let me build my business to the point to where like I literally do this job and I keep this job because I like it because it brings me more security, but if I lost it, say for example, some crazy thing happened I mean let me scratch my head here and think like a pandemic hit like, we would never expect right in 100 years, a pandemic hit, and everybody and their brother got laid off and was all the sudden sitting at home scratching their ass going, oh shit, what am I going to do next, right, let's just imagine something weird. It Easily happened like that. Never. And you had something in your back pocket and you're good. That you knew. Yeah. Yeah. And there's so many people that are honoring to see, TikTok of people that did that, you know,

Dave: And that's called luck when preparation meets opportunity. Is that what that is. Yeah, because right. A lot of people were looking at us and others online going oh you're just looking it's like what I did prepare this moment, preparing for this moment for many years,

for this opportunity. Basically, the end result, they don't see the struggle beforehand, and all

the years of doing it when internet marketing, selling courses or selling products or whatever wasn't the cool thing to do online. That was the scheme thing, that was the scammy thing that was the thing that was, oh you get a job bro, like, Sure, around on your way you want to be an internet marketer you want to be a cool guy. Right, I've taken all those punches bro,

James: You're still going to get if you're new, you're still going to get that, no matter how popular affiliate marketing is extremely any website affiliate, you know, click that to get a link, whatever, no matter how popular it is, no matter where you are, you're still going to get that.

Dave: I still get that to this day, not only on post whatever but I mean I get that from friends and family, dude. I mean people who just feel us, I think it's just projecting their own, you know dislike of themselves on to me. It's not about me, but I still get that sort of weird look or that kind of like, Oh, you think you're whatever, I mean do it I'm telling you, it never ends. This path, you know, it takes a bit of thick skin. And I think that the earlier you can get the negative comments and build some tolerance for them. I think the better you know because if you're going to blaze your own path, you're going to go against the grain. Even though it's more mainstream now, it's more easily understood now than ever. You're still going to get that hay, and that jealousy and those kinds of those, those, those comments of the trolls out there and the thicker, the quicker you can, the quicker thicker picker upper. And anyways, the bounty, the better, right, I got the marketing phrases in mind.

James: I like it, because, the more people are talking about me behind my back, the more they're gonna say something to somebody's going, you know, I want to, I want to see what he's doing, you know, there's always gonna be somebody there. Look, there's always somebody looking.

Dave: Of course there is man and I mean, you know, the beautiful part about the internet is that it's not just people buying things and watching things following people on the internet. It's not particularly persuaded by social pressure, because you're doing it alone, you're doing, somebody is doing it in there, so it's not the herd mentality. People are not people who are not persuaded by the trolls as much because if everybody was doing it in a room together, you know like, whether they're buying something or getting involved with something, and it was everybody doing it in the room together. Nobody would want to be the first one because of the social pressure of the first one walking up in front of the room. But the reason why the internet is so great and why people buy so much stuff online is because they get to do it at the discretion of their own home with their phone or computer isolated, making their own decisions not influenced by other people. And so, it's why it's the easiest selling and marketing opportunity to make money that ever existed, because it's not persuaded by the social pressure that most people that, that human beings have had to, you know, have had to overcome in decades and centuries past, people can now make buying decisions in the in the comfort in the discretion of the secrecy the privacy of their own home. And so, you know, you can have this whole world that you're involved in that you buy from like for me it's like watches and I have these like little underworlds that I'm involved in, nobody even knows that I'm involved in, because it all happens between me and my phone or my device in the community that I'm in. Right. And so I think that, you know, a lot of you who are just worried about what people think you need to realize that the world is a lot bigger than what you're used to, like you're used to your little group of friends and family that exists in your world your physical world, but there's a virtual world that's a million times bigger than what you've been experiencing that can literally take, I mean that you can get involved in either as a consumer or creator and and experience things that are way beyond your imagination, whether it's, you know what we're doing marketing and building audiences and making money. I mean, it's to think about for me all the people buying from me over the years who have not met, they don't, I don't know them. Right, I don't know that I'm talking about hundreds of 1000’s of people, maybe approaching nearly a million people who have bought a book of course something like that attended a seminar. It's mind boggling. It's mind boggling James and you'll have that same experience 10 years into it if you stick with it to where you'll have sold things, you'll be the same guy same dad same husband, all that just your regular self, but based on the value that you bring to the marketplace, you will have had hundreds of 1000s of people who have bought something from you or through you, because of the decision you made to market and sell on this thing called the internet in these phones and computers and to me it is like the eighth wonder of the world. It's something that nobody ever thought possible, But these devices and these platforms have made commerce possible in a way that is maybe even more mind boggling and compound interest, which is, which is a mind boggling thing, I mean just, if you study compound interest, how it works. It's a mind boggling thing. But I'm getting lost a little bit right now and just my own kind of, I get to get blown away by this James because, to this day 10 years later I'm just as excited about this as I was day one or week one, because it keeps getting bigger change, it's never like, oh I've checked all the boxes, and I've covered all. I'm always like I continuously feel like a freckle on the pimple of a gnat's ass in this whole digital world, because I'm one of 8 billion people in the world who have only reached a small fraction of the people out there, and the potential is is is big as I want to grow. It's hard to wrap your head around, sort of like space it's infinite. It's hard to wrap your head around how much opportunity there is because we've been lied to for our whole lives. That opportunity is you trade time for money, you get what you want, you get what you work, you work hard you make money, you get $1 Raise etc. And it's like, as Warren Buffett said, if that's true, ask some of the secret millionaires and billionaires who've never heard of that there's, there's 1700 new millionaires back in 2017 or 18 by Forbes date 1700 new millionaires that were being created every single day. I'm sure that's more now wrap your head around that. Right.

And then tell me that it's not possible for me, telling me that it's not possible for you. That's why I'm ranting. Anyways, I want to give you the final word because your, your that you're the spotlight here and we're excited to have you I've been blasting your tick tock handles so hopefully people are going to go, following and lift you up and and support you and knowing that you'll do the same to them but if somebody was on the fence right now James and they're saying hey do I want to get involved in this legendary community or do I want to pull the trigger on this online marketing thing, you know, I'm not sure I've been burned before etc. What do you say to those folks?

James: Try it. Try it for the 15 day challenge, it's $7, where you got that's cheaper than a cup of coffee you pick up on your way to work, just try it. Go through the 15 days, finish it. If it's not for you. You lost seven bucks, and actually you didn't even lose it because you gained knowledge, you know you're going to use that in other aspects so just, just try it. If you like it if you want to go more by the blueprints, go through it and start with where it says start here. Don't skip around everywhere, Because you're not gonna see any results that way, start here and work your way down, everything is laid out for you. Just if you need help. You've got a Legendary Facebook group, you've got other affiliate marketers who are always willing to help and give the things that they've worked so hard for to see results from you. They're going to give it to you, Brian Brewer. How he gave me his plans he basically gave me his business. And I just copied it and ran with it and never looked back. I mean, and I'm still going through blueprints. Every day I go back through and I learn a little bit more because you update it, and there's always something new for me to see. Another video to watch is going to help me. Essentially I can help any of you.

Dave: Yeah, well, bro. You know, I like and I do predict that people are going to speak about you the same way that you speak about others, Brian, etc. Here in the very near future, if they're not already, because, you know, it's funny you know that that's what happens is, you know, when we know a little bit more than the next person and we choose to share that, even if it's scary to think of ourselves as like a teacher or something, you know we share that we just share what we learned and we share it humbly went off the lie and that's called education based marketing, you know, and then all of a sudden somebody says that changed my life or because of you. And it's like, really, like, holy crap, you know.

James: I would love to get there right now. I see myself there. I just see myself as the guy on TikTok, pointing out little things you can do, you know, Legendary, and just, just get started, just try it. You don't have much loot and the cost of going further is nothing. Once you get your first couple commissions, everything has already paid for everything else in profit.

Dave: Compared to starting in a traditional business. Take a look at the equipment that you would need. I mean it. Actually at one time I wanted to start a construction business. I wanted to get the licenses, I mean just just just going into study to take the test. They've got these things that you got to be a licensed contractor in Florida just to study these courses to study to take the test, they help you, they help you pass the test. We're twice as much as our blueprints are just to study, to take the test. That's not counting any tool that's not counting any equipment that's not counting any trucks, that's.

James: Anyway, brick and mortar business myself I did spray on truck bedliners. Yeah and I mean, just the cost of just starting that was outrageous, and you've got so much. You got so much money that you have to pay out before you can get anything in. Just make it simple. It was ridiculous. I mean I don't see how anybody in today's world can actually do that. I really don't, because I see things like this I see often, that is low cost to get started, and the outcome is tremendous.

Dave: We'll keep up the good work brother. Hopefully you'll come back. Keep us posted and, and, and, you know, continue to tell us about your journey and, You know how are you doing with your job and how you doing with your wife, how those hands are doing if they're getting any softer or rougher, maybe we'll have her join you next time for the for the intro and let us know whether your hands have gotten softer rougher over over the months of you doing more in your business but anyways.

James: I feel a little stiff from typing.

Dave: There you go. Alright brother, we'll talk to you sir. Thank you for having me, see ya James. Alright guys, there it is, James. I think it's pipes, how do you pronounce your last name pipes? 

James: Yeah

Dave: James Pipes, I like that. Pipes. Alright man, you guys have a fantastic day. It's Monday I'm fired up. I'm full of just passion and zeal here for yet another week, another opportunity to do what we do, it's a blessing I really look at it like a blessing. You know, that's why I stay energetic and energized about this is because it's a blessing. It's a great opportunity . I'm grateful for the opportunity to be able to do what we do every day. I stay humble and hungry, and I invite you guys to do the same. I'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode. Wake Up Legendary. Peace.

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Can You Make Money Selling Children’s Toys? Discovery Toys Review

Are you a stay-at-home mom or someone that loves the idea of helping children learn new skills through fundamental toys?

Discovery Toys might be compelling for someone like you because it hits close to home. You'll be able to sell children's toys that the children in your life love using.

When we think of an MLM company, the first thing that usually comes to mind is nutritional supplements, slimming teas, or even beauty products. Who would have ever guessed that a toy company could be involved in network marketing?

Whether you're a parent, teacher, or anyone interested in helping children, you might be wondering if Discovery Toys is a legit way to make money.

Be sure to keep reading for our Discovery Toys review and see if you can make money selling children's toys.

What Is Discovery Toys?

Most MLM companies sell products that are meant for improving your health, beauty, or even your home. You might be surprised to find out that Discovery Toys sells products for your children!

The company has an emphasis on play and learning new skills for children. You'll find when you're browsing the catalog categories of toys meant for play in language, logic, motor, numbers, reading, outdoor, fun, and more.

These toys are made of secure and high-quality materials so you can ensure each child is safe. You'll even find that the price for Discovery Toys is reasonable.

Overall, toys from Discovery Toys are unique, which is why many people enjoy selling their products.

Joining Discovery Toys

The first thing you might be wondering is how to join Discovery Toys. Almost every single MLM company is going to require some type of setup cost, and Discovery Toy is no different.

Their website says that you pay $79 to join and can pick $140 in toys to start selling. You can also pay more for a deluxe kit, which will give you more toys as well as excess to a Discovery Toys website that will help you sell your toys to potential customers.

Discovery Toys also offers training guides and materials to new people that sign up to help you get started.

Making Money by Selling Toys

The first way to make money when joining Discovery Toys is by selling the product through direct marketing. It sounds easy enough!

On your very first day, you will be earning 25% in commission on each sale. As you continue to grow and build a team, your commission can increase to 34%.

Having the toys to show off to potential customers is a great way to help sell them. Of course, they can sift through the catalog on their own, but it is always better to be able to demonstrate the product.

Many people have turned online for selling Discovery Toys so they can expand their audience.

You will get a website when you sign up, yet it is the same website that everyone gets. You won't find sales or signup rolling in from the website alone. You'll need to keep up with social media or build your own website to attract your target audience.

Hosting Parties

The best way to make money and sell toys is by hosting parties so more people can be exposed to the products. Parties tend to be hosted by someone that you know. That way, they can invite their friends and family to the party to see the products you have to offer.

These hosts can even earn free products and prizes, which is an incentive for them to invite more people.

In 2020, virtual parties became very popular for MLM companies, and they're not going anywhere. You'll be able to invite friends and family to a group on Facebook and host a party for everyone to join. You can have virtual games, post memes, and even give away prizes like a real party.

In-person parties are also coming back, yet they tend to cost a bit more. You're going to want to find a venue, purchase food, drinks, and even find party supplies.

As someone working for an MLM company, you might find that a virtual party is more cost-effective and a great way to get the word out there about your products or joining your team.

Build a Team to Make Money

Besides selling the products, one of the common aspects of MLM companies is that you need to recruit other people to sell with you. You'll find that building a team is a huge part of network marketing.

If you're able to become successful and convince other people to join your Discovery Toys team and start selling products, you'll be able to make a 7% commission on their sales as well. You can even be included in some other potential bonuses for adding people to your team.

That means once you've found people to start selling toys with you, the money starts rolling in. Right?

Well, as long as the people you're recruiting have a different audience than each other. You'll want to find team members that can sell to more and more people.

If you are unable to widen your scope, you might run out of people to sell to and recruit.

Another problem that you can run into with adding people to your team is they tend to be your customers. That means you'll be adding a team member but losing out on a customer to sell Discovery Toys to.

Deciding if an MLM Company Is Right for You

After doing the research, it all comes down to deciding if working with an MLM company is right for you. You'll find that you're going to have to put in a lot of work to grow your client base and even add on recruits.

If you're not convinced that Discovery Toys is the appropriate way for you to make money right now, don't worry. You'll find that there are plenty of ways to make money online. For example, with affiliate marketing!

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

5Linx: Ultimate Business Opportunity or Possible Scam of the Decade?

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If you're fed up with your 9-5 job or are perhaps just looking for a new business opportunity, you may be considering investing in 5Linx.

You may have heard about the potential in multi-level marketing (MLM), or perhaps a friend or family member has already had some success.

It can be tempting to rush into this business model based on details that suggest you can quickly make huge sums of money.

However, is this really the case? Let's take a closer look at 5Linx company and their offering for consultants.

What Is 5Linx?

5Linx is a network marketing company founded in 2001. The leadership team has 100 years of related sales experience, giving potential recruits confidence they will receive good guidance.

You should note from the outset that there is no suggestion 5Linx is a pyramid scheme. This is a type of selling process that means consultants only make money when they bring on other recruits.

This is an illegal practice and is not the same as direct marketing or referral marketing.

In contrast, 5Linx provides you with the opportunity to sell a range of personal and business products. This is slightly unusual as MLM companies usually have one niche market. But, 5Linx focuses on two separate fields.

You could look at this as a strength as you have a more varied product range. But, it can also possibly distract attention from concentrating on one target market.

5Linx seems to offer considerable support to their consultants. There is online training, ways to promote your business on social media, customer support, and more.

So far, there is plenty of positive information to suggest this is possibly a great opportunity. However, it's important to review if you can really make money with this company.

How to Make Money with 5Linx

The first way to make money with 5Linx is to sell products directly to consumers. You can offer energy programs, tech support, identity theft protection, and more.

But, as with all MLM companies, you need to purchase these products before you can sell them to customers. This means you are out of pocket before you start.

Also, in the modern era, consumers have more choices than ever before. Even if you have a good product or service, another provider may beat you on price or have a bigger advertising budget.

This is why many multi-level marketers end up trying to sell to people they know. However, this can be challenging, and it's unlikely to be a strategy that brings on long-term customers.

When you read about the high sales figures of some marketers, it's often because they have spent time and effort recruiting other consultants. This means you can earn income every time one of your recruits makes a sale.

The more recruits you bring on board, the more potential profit you can make. Some marketers are successful enough to build a successful team that creates a substantial income. However, this is not the most common experience.

MLM Method Issues

You may have hunger, drive, and energy to make your business succeed. But, this does not mean recruits will share your passion.

They may expect to make a high income in a matter of weeks and become discouraged when this does not happen. You could also find they are not natural salespeople and struggle to close deals.

In this scenario, you will earn very little commission from their efforts, so you'll have to rely on direct selling products yourself.

MLM companies also have a jaded reputation. Although it may be unfair, many consumers still consider them similar to pyramid schemes and are wary of buying from this type of company.

Although it can be disheartening to read about issues that could reduce your chances of MLM success, there is another business model you may want to consider.

The Affiliate Marketing Business Opportunity

There is no need to buy products or services before becoming profitable when you engage in affiliate marketing.

You can choose to work with one of thousands of companies and sell products that inspire you and align with your values. This makes it easier to make sales because people will feel your strength of belief in the product.

Rather than selling many low-ticket items, you can focus on promoting a smaller number of products with a higher sales commission.

This is also an excellent way to create residual income. This means you can earn money many times from one piece of content. For example, you could write an article about a service or product that includes your affiliate links.

Alternatively, you might record a podcast or YouTube video. You could find this one post still leads to sales months or even years down the line.

However, as with any new venture, you need to know the tips and tricks to help you achieve success. Otherwise, you could waste time and money on sales tactics that don't work.

This is why it's important to learn from others who know how to increase your chances of building an online income.

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The Legendary Marketer team has many years of experience in the affiliate marketing industry. Our experts can help you avoid common pitfalls and maximize your return on investment in terms of time and money.

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Dave: What's going on my friends is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary today we have yet another exciting episode. This dude is a delivery supervisor for Coca Cola by day and affiliate marketer by night. I love these stories about these kinds of people who are doing their thing, both day and night and, you know, work in their day job during the day and all their dreams at night. And so without further ado, everybody, please help me. Welcome to the show. Ben Fourtner. What's up, brother?

Ben: Hey, brother. Are you doing man? Thanks for having me. Very, very pleased to be here. Dave: Well, I love your shirt, dude. You got to represent it right. There you go, brother. There you go. Wear that at work one day, right. 

Ben: Today. There you go. 

Dave: Do you have to go in today? 

Ben: Yeah, I'm going to go into the office late this morning. So I can be with you.

Dave: Okay, how much time do we have? Are we on any time constraints? 

Ben: Not at all. I'm on your time. 

Dave: Okay. Well, Brother, tell us who you are. And kind of tell us a little bit about yourself in a nutshell and kind of how you got started down on this path. Marketing with us crazy internet marketers. Right?

Ben: Well, My name is Ben fourtner. Everybody, I basically work my nine to five, throughout the day, and I work on my business at night. I live a really busy life. I'm out here in California. And you know, I'm at the office every day about preprints. And I don't get home till about two, three o'clock in the afternoon, pretty much five days a week, Monday through Friday. And then you know, when you get home, you have to kind of decompress, be with the family, you know, take rest for a little while. And then I gotta flip the switch to working on my business. And I do that because I have some passion for it. So I try to, you know, kind of break it up a little bit between time so I can have my family time, but also do my business when the kids and the wife are asleep as well. So you know, how I kind of got into this business was just through TikTok with you know, a lot of people, you know, can pretty much relate right? So what happened was, if you look at my TikTok the early stages of my videos, my first 2, 3, 4 videos, were just with me, my kids, you know, that's the middle wing, right? We were just messing around on Tick tock, you know, you know, a while back and having some fun, and then I ran across some Tick Tock like everybody else does. And I ran into the man himself Austin Becker that everybody knows, Austin, I really, you know, gravitated towards his content. He's really passionate about what he is doing. And I knew this so I continued to watch his content and see what he was about and he was promoting legendary. And as you know what, let me give this a shot. And I wanted to do that because you know, me personally, I wanted more. I wanted some additional revenue stream for my family work at Disneyland. She was a cosmetologist, so she was doing all the hair and makeup and wigs for all the performers at the park. So but due to the pandemic she was furloughed and then later let go so she's at home with my two kids my son no he's doing homeschool learning and then my daughter she's three so she's not doing any scoring out but you know she she has her hands full with kids so you know I needed to find out what can I do personally to where I can bring in some additional income to try and make up for what we you know we lost at that time but I said you know what this affiliate marketing gig this might be for me Let me check it out. So I did I you know went into Legendary, I signed up for the 15 day challenge and you know, your teachings and how you come across with your message Dave it's just so you know, inspiring and powerful when you know somebody views the videos and and the courses that you teach, that was hooked, I was full of the new I was in the right place and I knew that this is something that I can definitely do because affiliate marketing you all you're doing is truly as you're promoting other people's products and in the process you're generating somewhat of a commission right. And I said you know what, I think I can do this part time while I'm working my nine to five job and you know, so because it helps me going to go into work early, and then also getting out of work somewhat early as well not getting out of five o'clock, but I'm getting out to three o'clock come home, be able to hang out with the family and then also you know, focus some time on the business. So I thought it was a great little mix that would really allow me to generate some income for my family, my family and that's what I'm doing now and I'm thankful that I got into the business I know affiliate marketing couldn't be a part of my life for a long time to come.

Dave: Well that really is a cool man. You really have Great attitude and a great spirit about yourself, man. I wonder if you were always just such a cool positive guy, or were you at one time skeptical of things like this?

Ben: I'm not really because I mean, I'm a real positive guy. So I'd see the positive light and everything. So even you know, with me being here, I do, I am a delivery supervisor for Coca Cola, I lead a group of 35 individuals on a daily basis. So I do have to stand up in front of a group and lead these individuals to be successful. So this in a sense, with affiliate marketing, kind of meshing that with what I do in my daily life, being a leader, and being able to, you know, speak with people, and actually help change their lives in the process, and get them to understand that Guess what, I'm just an ordinary guy to do just just what I'm doing and duplicate and do it even better than me. And so if I can inspire you, and empower you to, hopefully help your family as well, with some additional income, at the same time, that's what I'm going to do. So it's, I've always kind of been very positive. And I really take that back to my dad, my dad, you know, really instilled that in me when I was younger. And as I was growing into being an adult, and even to this day, as well, so I, I really thank him for a lot of the things that he brought me up to be and where I am now as an adult.

Dave: That's cool, man. That's cool. Yeah, I could say the same about my dad, not particularly that he's Mr. Positive, but, but he certainly has given me a lot, a lot of great qualities that I cherish as your pop is still around. No, you definitely must. Nice, man. That's great. Good for you. Good for you. Me too. As a matter of fact, my dad just took my kids to Busch Gardens today. As he was leaving, pulling away, said, wish me luck.

Ben: My wife will have to go to the store, my wife leaves to go get her hair done or something. I said, wish me luck. Because I have a six year old and a three year old and I love them to death. But you know, little kids, they like to bounce off the walls and test your patience, right?

Dave: Yes, they do. They'll make a very impatient man. I am very patient. So Wow. That's, that's, that's interesting. So where are you at? In terms of, of, you know, some people who work for big corporations are hesitant to come online and start to build these profiles and accounts and stuff. And where do you stand with that man? And because I'm asking you that question for others who are in a similar situation who are afraid of their boss seeing it? Or the company says or I don't know, there's all kinds of differences they've never done before. Maybe they've, I know, a lot of people who have corporate jobs who don't even have social media. So what went through your head? What were some of the things that you did? How did you make your decisions? And is there any advice that you could give to others who also are working not just nine to five, but have day jobs with others with big corporations That are clearly, you know, I mean, I'm not saying you're just a number, but but there's, there's 1000’s of employees, and you may not have as much of a, you know, a direct line to a big decision maker, like if you work for kind of a smaller company, and in things were a bit more tight knit. So what, what, has there been any issues with you? Or any hesitancy? Or were you just kind of full throttle and didn't see any, any issues with it?

Ben: Not at all, I didn't really see any issues with it whatsoever. I'm just an ordinary guy. Yeah, I work for a big company. And I'm in that type of leadership level where I have to, you know, kind of lead by example. Most definitely. But you know, I've, I've set myself up to have a side business from home as an affiliate marketer on the online space. And yes, it's pretty much out there for anybody in the world to see. It's not private whatsoever. But I'm doing something positive, I'm able to generate some income from my family, but I'm doing something positive. That's really, you know, I'm out there to help people and inspire people. And that's what I do at work. So I'm doing it now in two different ways at work and online. And if my boss wanted to come sit me down and say, You know what, I noticed, it was brought to my attention that you actually have a TikTok or Facebook or even a YouTube, I have all three. And what are you doing there? Why are you exposing yourself and I would, you know, I wouldn't let them know why. You know, I'm an inspiring guy. I like to help people. I like talking to people. I like to see the positive in people. And that's what I've tried to do with 1000s of people around the world, not just people within this building. And that's what helped. That's what kind of gets me going every single day and and Because especially with what we're going through right now, with the pandemic, you know, there's a lot of hurt and bad that's brought to the world, but there's a lot of positive that it's also brought to. And it's really helped people to really see the brighter lightest, you know, in life and see the light at the end of the tunnel that it is. It just doesn't stop here, there's more for you. And if I can really help conversing with anybody, like when I get when I speak with people through messenger or via speak with people through dm on tik tok, or, or whatever platform it is, that's my main focus before I even start talking about affiliate marketing. You know, I really tried to see where they're at in life and see what struggles or what goals they may have and see how they can, you know, intertwine affiliate marketing with what's going on in their daily life and see what I can do to help. Yeah, more of like, you know, motivational coach, in a sense. 

Dave: Yeah. No, I love it. I just, you know, there's a lot of people I think, who, you know, think that, well, I'm locked into this job, and I can't do anything else. Or I'm just afraid to lose my job, you know. Yet. There's nothing that I don't see that we're doing anything wrong. That's not what I'm insinuating. I'm just, I think that for so many people who have day jobs in regular jobs, they, they it may be, they might even feel like they're cheating. You know, I mean, like, cheating on their job. I do acid Dallas. And I think, I think there's part of, I think there's part of a limiting belief, a systematic or systemic, I guess, the kind of limiting belief that that you're the company that you work for owns you, right? In your, you're kind of that you have no more personal freedoms to kind of explore other passions or businesses. And I'm not saying that that's in writing anywhere. In some cases, it is right. In some cases, companies have contracts and so forth. But if I would have never ventured out in the afternoons and evenings, dinner, particularly more evenings, and early mornings, I wasn't, wasn't really still not an early morning guy. But back 10 years ago, when I was working construction with my dad, and days off, where we didn't have any jobs or whatever, if I was hunched over a computer, figuring out how to navigate in and build a business and, and do affiliate marketing and all the things that many of us are learning now or re learning because there's always something new to learn. I wouldn't be here either. You know, I think I think there is a big, I think, I think there's a big bridge that we all have to build between if we eventually want to do something like this full time, or if we want it to last, there's a bridge that we have to build between what we're doing during the day, our day job and whatever our businesses and and it's not about just quitting right away. Right. And it may not ever be about quitting that job, but it's about finding the balance between doing that and then saying, Okay, I'm done with that job. Now I'm gonna go work on what I want to work on with the rest of the personal time that I have with me in balancing those two. In being okay with doing those two things at the same time, I think is a real, I think it's the quicker somebody can can accept that and learn to do that I think the better that they're going to do, and not be in a rush to quit, and not feel ashamed to have a day job, right? Not not be like, Oh, I got to be full time or have all of these silly limiting beliefs that we all kind of tell ourselves. So what is ultimately your goal? Are you looking to eventually go full time? Or are you just looking to stay working, where you're at, and then also do affiliate marketing, and do them in, you know, in parallel with each other?

Ben: But my goal is to do this full time. But in time, I'm willing to be patient and willing to follow the process, because I know it's a journey. I've only been doing this since October 2012. We knew this. And I know it's not a get rich scheme. And I know I'm not going to be making thousands of dollars tomorrow. It's a process I'm continuing to learn every single day. I work on my business seven days a week. I'm a weekend warrior, because I'm passionate about what I do. And when I get home and I'm hanging out with my family, I need to work on my business. I am so excited to do this. I wake up every single day thinking about my business before I even go to work. So I know this is going to be a long term thing for me. I do want it to be a full time gig. But like I said, I still have a family to provide for. I have two wonderful kids. I have a wonderful wife. I live in California where it is very expensive to live. I have a mortgage, the whole nine yards So I do have my lifeline to help. Yeah, but what's what's so beautiful about this is that I've been able to, you know, establish an online business to help with all the little extras to help with, you know, going to San Diego on vacation, you know what I mean, just help with all that little extra stuff, you know. My son graduates kindergarten next week, so he's going to be going into first grade, so we're going to be doing a party for him. So it allows me to kind of pay for stuff like that. So, you know, that's where, when I speak with people, I let them know, my real life, you know, I'm a parent, just like you, I have a wife. I'm just like you. You can do this, but you don't have the time to do it, you do have the time, you just have to find the time. And if it's important to you, you can give up those one to two to three hours each day. Or if you're going to spend more time on it, you'll be able to find the entity and have to necessarily be all at once. It can be sporadic, you could block out your time to really be effective.

Dave: Time management is important, right? I mean, you know, especially if you're like you and have a family like me, I mean, man, you either get you either get good at time management, if you have a family and, and a job or you suffer, basically, this is always going to be the first one to go, right. So here's something to think about, right? Because if you're married or whatever, and you've got kids, and you've got a day job, and you're not, you're not managing your time, well, your spouse is not and you're not going to be your business is going to be the first thing to go. Right. So it's like either get good at something, if that's what you want to do. And it's not even for me, I know for a lot of us and Ben, you just hit on this, which it's like I want to provide for my family, I want to have some extra cash and stuff like that. But you know, I also want to just have my own thing. Right? Like, especially in this chapter of our lives, and for many of you have spent a lifetime raising kids and taking care of everybody else. Like for me, I just want to do what I want to do. I want to do this, what I want to do this time I started doing this, I love doing this, like I love doing it, why get up here every morning and talk about it and build the person that writes all my own copy and films, all my own videos and all this kind of shit. Because I'm not like, oh god, I can't wait to outsource all this stuff and go sit on a beach somewhere. It's like, I love to do this. And I think, for me, I had to get good at time management, I didn't have to stop my business, I didn't have to get rid of my business. Because my business kind of was, it's always kind of been my hobby. You know what I mean? Like, I've not really been, like, I like to go on walks. And I don't know, like I like to. I'm into watches and stuff right now. And kind of like I've had a few hobbies over time. But it's always just been my business bed. That's been what I'm interested in, like, in my off time I watch videos, and I listen to stuff. And I'm just fascinated by it. Like, I'll work if I can work, you know. And I think that, then you bring up the point about time management and learning how to balance things. And if we don't get good at that we're not we can't get rid of the kids, man, we can't get rid of the day job because that's what's paying the bills. Our business is what goes on yet again, we get back in this place, to where we don't have something for ourselves to channel our passions and our emotions, in that we get that personal feeling of payoff and reward. What comes up for you as I say that manner? Can you relate to that? And is that something that was definitely due to

What comes to my mind? 

Ben: It's really a mindset. Because if you can have the most positive mindset, you can do many things in your life, specifically working on a business aside from just your nine to five and you live a busy life with your kids and your wife. You know, guys, I don't even get three, four hours of sleep a day. You know, I'm up at two o'clock in the morning, I'm at the opposite three to open up, I open up the building for my team, get out and go to bed till 10, 10:30 at night. You know, so we go to bed late or the kids go to bed early. I'm working on my business and my time as well. So I suffer that sleep to work on my business. 

Dave: So you're in grind mode right down to like you're in grind mode. Like I couldn't do the three four hours of sleep each night like I got it, like I gotta get at least six. Like I got to get at least six and then occasionally I'll take it on the weekend. On the weekend, I gotta get up in the week with my kids and stuff my wife and I get up both. We both get up in the morning and we get up with our you know what I mean? So my kids wake up early. Do you know what I mean? Ben: Yeah, my kids have already been groomed to sleep in till nine o'clock.

Dave: I gotta get some sleep. I've got a five year old when the sun comes up. She slapped me in debt saying wake up, go make me breakfast, or let's go outside and play right here and her dude. She's like an alarm clock, little voice and she is like, it is time for the whole house to wake up. And then Sam, I've got a six month old If you ain't leaving, he's, he got he's on this whole facade comes up thing. So I like now what if you need six hours? Those of you who are listening, what if you need six, seven hours, you got to be more on point with your time management. Like if you got a nine to five, say you got kids and you need some sleep. Like you got to look at the 24 hours that you've got in your day and say, okay, ah, go into my day job. I got 16 left. Let's say I need six hours. So eight plus 6 plus 14. Right now I have 10 hours left. What can I do with that? 10? That's a lot of hours, dude. It is. I could spend five with my family and five on my business. A lot of people say, why can't there's not a time of the day bullshit. Eight hours, I'll give you nine, I'll give you 10 hours. On the day job. Let's say you got an hour commute, you got 10. Now you have 16. Right now you got eight hours left in the day, eight hours. Like when we look at it from that perspective of raw math, there's enough time,

There is a difference. You know, you've got to sit down and draw it out. And it really maps out your time. And I'm not going to tell you I'm the best at it whatsoever. Not at all. I'm still, you know, getting better at my time management. There's days where I'm like all over the place. Because of my work, and I come home and then the kids are screaming and the wife's frustrated and she wants me to take over. I've already had a rough day at work I like, but if you have to write you have to because you know your family's importance and your kids are important, your wife's importance. They come first, your business comes second. But you know, I also try to, you know, fit in my business time sometime throughout that afternoon or sometime throughout that evening. And guess what if I don't get to it that day, you know, it'll still be there. And I'll work. Yes. Beautiful Thing About affiliate marketing, guys, because we've built systems that work for us around the clock, right? We've built our funnels, we've built out our email sequence, we built out our content that is really, you know, running for us around the clock. So if we don't get to it right now we can get to it again later.

Ben: Yeah. I think you made a good point, which is, if I don't get to it today, that doesn't mean this is a failure and I need to continue not getting to it day after day. Like, I think a lot of people that happens with a lot of people it's kind of like working out, right? It's like, it's like if I don't work out one day. Oh, I've failed. And then I turn one day into two days, two days into three and then all of a sudden I'm not working out anymore. Saying working out everybody needs to work out it's not a fitness podcast. 

Dave: Like, look I struggle with all that stuff just as much as anybody else does. Like I have to get a trainer that's waiting on me as matter of fact I'm going after this to go workout and lose some of this pregnancy weight. But you know this Corona weight, but anyways, man, you know, if you don't get to it in a day, the important thing is it comes back to it. Because consistency is so key. So let's talk a little bit about what's worked for you. So what have you learned about marketing? What are you doing that's really working right now that you could share with the listeners about the strategies? I know you're doing TikTok, Facebook, YouTube and stuff. Why are you doing all three of those? And did you start in one place? Or did you just attack all three right out of the gate?

Ben: Well, I started with TikTok like a lot of people have and then I ventured off into Facebook. I just had a regular regular Facebook, I actually had a Facebook for family. And then once I got serious with this, I kind of asked all the family, I said no, this is going to be about business. Dave: Okay, so you're dealing with family friends, completely off Facebook and said, I'm not doing Facebook for family and friends, I have an Instagram, so I can save the family for Instagram.

Dave: I like that. 

Ben: So I kept Facebook strictly business. And then I continue to grow my Facebook and then I actually maybe several months ago, I started my facebook group. So I've been able to grow that which has been great, which allows me to really, you know, give a lot of additional support to a lot of new beginners in the business. So they want to come over and help me support them. Then I got into YouTube as well because I want to start, you know, really driving YouTube for long term sustainability truly, with building content and a lot of how tos and, you know, people interested in coming subscribing to my channel. So I tackled all three, but I started with tic toc as well, specifically, but what I do is just I show up every day, I'm consistent, and I engage. That's the biggest thing. I engage with my audience. I'm trying to build my brand, but also, you know, build my brand and since we're letting people know that they can count on, so I respond to all my comments. I like a lot of people's videos, I comment on people's videos. When people comment, you know, send me DMS, I try to get in depth with it, I don't just send them a one word answer. So I really try to just engage and really try to get as much as I can out of people that sometimes are very hesitant to speak, they're very hesitant to kind of open up to you. So you have to find out, try and find tactics to do that. And that's basically what I do. You know, so it's high engagement, building those relationships.

Dave: I think people undervalue commenting on other people's stuff as well. Like if you're out there, and you're like, if you're like, I don't think people realize how much traffic they can drive to their profiles if they leave awesome comments on somebody else's like if you've got a video that's going crazy on TikTok, for example, and you believe in awesome comment, like not just Hey, awesome video like that. But I'm talking about like, you really leave a thoughtful comment, like we had. David, I forgot his name. He's been building his affiliate marketing business exclusively on Twitter. And the number one thing that he did and we don't talk about this enough with with tik tok, the number one thing that he did that grew his account was leaving intelligent, thoughtful comments, on other heavy hitter posts that were going viral and going crazy, thoughtful, like, like adding value, like, legitimately also adding value, like not just coming in and being like, oh, great video, but like actually leaving a thoughtful like, here's, here's what's worked for me on this topic, like actually leaving a thoughtful comment. So that's engaging, of course on other people's stuff. But what you're talking about is that and also engaging with every single person that leaves a comment on your videos, and you're going live, is that right?

Ben: Most definitely, I go live every single day around 7pm Pacific Standard Time. There's days where I can't go live. And of course, with no family, but I try to be consistent and show up every day to where people know I'm going to be going live at a certain time. And that's what really helps grow your tik tok channel as well, you know, the algorithm sees you go live, and if you're live for X amount of time, it kind of boosts up a little bit more. But I try to do it all with Tick Tock and really, you know, grow my audience, but also know that, you know, they know who I am, I'm not just somebody on a video trying to spit up now. I'm a real person, and they can actually reach out to me and guess what I will actually respond, you know, so that's what I try to, you know, hopefully, they're comfortable with me.

Dave: So what, what, what, what did you do to get comfortable on video to allow your authentic self to come through, to have the courage to share story and personal details. So you can bond more and be a real human being to people instead of just somebody who people feel like they, you know, can't really connect with talk us through some of overcoming your maybe you had some uncomfortability with video, and also opening up as well to use your those personal details in your content?

Ben: Well, I think it just leads back to over the years being in a leadership level, because I've been doing this but for about six years now being in a leadership level within my nine to five day job career. So it allows me to have that confidence to speak to a group of people. Now I'm talking to millions around the world, totally, totally different. But I have the confidence to stand up in a group of 40 people and lead them in a discussion or in a meeting or in a training session. So bring that over to video. And now I'm talking to a video that's right in front of me and pressing play. I'm having to, you know, get my point across and give some value added content, to where hopefully it will actually inspire and help somebody who is different. So in the beginning, don't get me wrong, I struggled, you can probably go back to my early videos, and I did horrible. And I'm sure everybody can relate to that. And because you're consistent and you keep doing it, you're going to get better. And that's just what I continue to do. But I really try just to bring out my personality, and in my videos because you gotta be you. Because you know, excuse my language, excuse my language, but people can smell bullshit, right? So if you're being fake, and if you're not being who you are in videos, they'll be able to, you know, catch up on that. So just be who you are. And just, you know, press play. That's it. That's all you have to do. That's what you got to do to start. If you start doing it and being consistent every single day, you're going to get better, you're going to get more comfortable with it, then it's gonna just be like clockwork.

So you're talking about affiliate marketing you're talking about, that's basically the niche that you're in. You're talking about making money online and developing, you know, income streams and stuff like that. 

Dave: So one of the biggest, like, fears or, or issues that people have when they first get started, as they say, Well, what do I have the right to be talking about making money online? I'm brand new, I'm just getting started. How have you dealt with that? Was that an issue for you at all, the sort of imposter syndrome? And how did you overcome it? If it was? 

Ben: Well, I just understand where I'm at in my business and my knowledge in the business. And I'm not trying to go beyond that. So when I speak to somebody, I say, I'm not the guru. I do not know everything. But guess what, if you have a question, I don't know it, I'm gonna go get you that answer. And then I'll report back to you. But in my content, I don't try to say I'm making 1015 $20,000 a month, because I'm not everybody. And I'm not trying to portray that. But I'm going to let you know that I can actually help you. You know, get your business off the ground and help you get started and give you the tools to succeed in the beginning of your business. But guess what, you're going to have to do the work, you're going to have to go out there and continue to educate yourself, and learn the way you know about the business just like how I did, you know, nobody really held my hand, I had to actually go out and ask questions and interact with people. And that's the beautiful thing about this business. And the awesome thing about your community, Dave and Legendary Marketer and the Facebook group, everybody is willing to help one another. Doesn't matter if you're making three grand a month or if you're just starting out as a beginner and know little to nothing about the business. Everybody's willing to help you out, answer your questions, help guide you along if you need to. And if you know, you need to reach out to them for some additional one on one help Guess what, they'll probably respond and help you out. And that's what really allows me to continue to enjoy this business each day because I've grown, you know, so many friends since I've been on tik tok. And since I've been a part of Philly marketing, they're all over the world, all over the world. And, you know, a lot of them are some of your top affiliates like, you know, Austin Becker, and Brian Brewer and Jonathan Montoya, you know, and Megan and Ryan, and I could just keep going on on nonsurgical Sixto, there's a lot of awesome people named Brian, a lot of awesome people that I've met, and so thankful to me. And that's where, when I'm interacting with individuals that are new to the business, I try to return that favor, because it was given to me. So I try to help guide them along, hold their hand a little bit, you know, and so they don't give up, they can build that right mindset to keep going.

Dave: And, you know, man, that attitude, and that approach is the same exact approach that is used in 12 step recovery. And, and why that's relevant is because, because that's how I got clean, was, you know, I started going to meetings and, and, you know, had somebody who had gotten clean before me, who used me, as a way both to help me but also to help them. And in the end, what we would say is, you can't keep what you have unless you give it away. And that's kind of interesting, like a paradox, right? It's like, Wait, hold on a second. Wait, we mostly most of the time, I got to keep what I have by keeping what I have to myself. But the paradox and the power of that statement is that if I give it away, simultaneously, it's like the zig ziglar saying that if you help enough people get what they want, you'll get what you want. Same point is that and I think that's the piece that helps one overcome that imposter syndrome. And helps one overcome all those limiting beliefs and kinds of negative stories that we tell ourselves when we get started like, what do I have the right or I'm brand new, or who's going to listen to me or that person so much better when they just listen to them. That was at the beginning, and I still live by this philosophy today, that if I want to continue to grow my business, my life, my income, I have to help people. Same way that if I want to stay clean, I have to do I have to help people? I have to do some sort of service. Right? I have to do some sort of service. The way I serve has evolved over time. I go in cycles, right? Sometimes I'm of service to communities, sometimes I'm of service to just addicts who are trying to get cleaned. Sometimes I'm an observer to a friend. So lately I've been really upset. Most of my family has young children. But the point is, I can't keep what I have unless I have a way, which means that somebody helped me exactly what you just said, somebody helped me get clean, somebody helped me build a business. And if I want to keep that, and if I want to grow that, then I have to find the only way to do it, not learn more. It's not, it's not any other thing, like some of us think the way for me to become successful is to find another guru to take me through another webinar to do another thing to get right. That's not the way to take what I've learned, because somebody helped me, right, that's what we try to be here at legendary help you. And then you take that and turn around and go out there and use that skill now to take your information, whether that's in the make money, online space, or whether that's in the bartending space, or whether that's in the magic space, or whether that's in the helping baby sleep, an infant stage space, and whether that's, you know, empty nest, years after the kids leave space, and whether that's diabetes, whatever it is, take it out there, and then help people. And the more people you help, the more money you're gonna make. And it starts out by just helping them for free. And that's how it actually continues, we just help them for free. Within our content, we call that chumming the waters, right, we bring them to the boat by throwing that free chunk free chunk out there in the water. And then we offer an appetizer or some bait to get them to bite to say, Oh, yeah, that's cool. Like, I like that. Right? And then we rail up in the boat, right? But then we were able to do more business with them, we're able to sell the T bone steak, then we're able to sell them, the additional sides in the so forth.

Ben: Yeah, cause you're building those valuable, long lasting relationships, a lot of times in the end, they're investing in themselves. But guess what, they're actually investing in you. Because you know, what, you've been able to help them with what you've been able to do to help change their life, maybe change their mindset a little bit on, you know, what, there's actually more out there for me, I'm not stuck in my situation, there's actually more than I could, if I just apply myself. So they're invested in themselves to get themselves going, but they're really invested in you. 

Dave: Yeah. I mean, it's definitely a trust thing. And definitely, you know, something that that's, you know, it again, once again, there's another paradox I invest in you, then then you invest in it made, right, but it's always, it's always, if we I think life teaches us been that that hold on a second and get out of this. And in business, if you want to be successful, the question you have to ask is, how can I, how can I give something for free away to as many people as possible, give first, then receive. And that's the whole idea of this thing is, is is making the investment in somebody to be willing to give away content to give away your time in a free conversation on a DM to give away your time on a live stream to give away your time on a free show like this, like I do every day, to give away time and value up front to earn somebody's trust, to earn somebody's trust and to make a relationship a bond with them. And then to ask them to click a link to enroll in a training course because I think it's the right next step for you. By believing that I can say that with conviction, right? But it always starts with me with you. All of you listening, then in your business go out and help somebody get results in advance of asking them for any money, asking them to click any links, help them get those results in advance. Because if you can help them get results in advance for free on your TikTok, Youtube, Facebook in a live if you can help them get results in advance. Before you ever ask them for anything even before you ask them to click a link. If you can help them get results in advance. Right results might mean an aha moment results might be and this is another word for value, right? I'm switching out results because a lot of times they give value. What does that mean? It really means a result. If what I'm telling you can help you to get a result. Like hey, Ben, what I learned with my wife when she was really having a lot of big feelings instead of going into pensively and, and being like, well, I'm having a bad day too. Or why do you know what else you have to unleash on me?

Right? Instead of saying that what I learned was just to ask my wife, well, honey, looks like you're overwhelmed. How can I make you feel loved and supported right now? If my channel was about relationships or marriage or whatever, that would be a way that I could give you a result in advance. Because that simple little tip, you could use that it's clear, it's simple. It's easy to understand. You can use that and get a result with it. And then if you did Use that and get a result with it, then you would be so much more likely to take my suggestion to click the link and go watch another training, or go enroll in a course. That's what I mean by giving those results and value in advance. And it looks like you fake you've picked up on that then and that's why you're having the success that you're having. So what final words would you give people who are here within our community listening to you, the sound of your voice and your story today? What, What, what Final Thoughts Would you like to leave them with?

Ben: I would say, if you're new to this business, and this is something that you want to do, you know that this can really impact your life. Go go go into it full force, really be open minded, but also just have the most positive mindset that you can, okay. Because you're going to go through times where you're going to struggle, you're not going to understand something, the information that you might be trying to learn might not be maybe your way of learning. So you might have to figure out another way of how to figure it out. But ask questions, reach out to people, if you want to reach out to me, I will answer all the questions you want. Okay, so then open mind, have the most positive mindset as possible, because this is a journey, it's a process. And this can actually be a very nice business that you can do for you and your family as an affiliate marketer on the online space. So it can be a long term thing, but just the biggest thing, mindset mindset has the opposite mindset, and it'll take you a long way.

Dave: Well, brother, we're learning from you how to do that because you've got a lot going on and you're maintaining quite an awesome positive mindset and your family is really lucky to have you as a dad and a husband and a leader. They're at your job and a part of our community, a leader in our community, man. So keep up the great work, brother. And please come back and keep us posted. And let us keep learning from your experience and your journey here, man. It's awesome to watch. It really is.

Ben: Thanks, Dave. I appreciate you having me and very thankful and glad to be a part of Legendary Marketer.

Dave: See ya buddy. Alright. Alright, my friends. There you go. You can follow Ben on YouTube at Ben Fourtner. You can follow him on tik tok at Fortner dot official, you guys noticed also, we've been flashing those links up the entire show. So that's how you can find him. Go go hit him up, follow his stuff, support them, go lift him up. That's the way that you know, again, we can get back what we put out into the world. So if we support others, we comment on people's stuff. We like their stuff. And that's one of the ways that we can all support each other's businesses, right? A lot of times we scratch our head, and it's like, well, how can we actually lift each other up? How can we support each other's businesses, fellow entrepreneurs, supporting fellow entrepreneurs, businesses, because we all know that friends and family and stuff, they're confused, and oftentimes skeptical and sometimes even negative about those of us who are trying to build businesses and do more in life, right? It's unfortunate, but it's true. So how can we support each other? Well, we can support each other by liking each other's posts and comments and videos. And sharing whatever editing and all that kind of stuff helps our friends and fellow legendary marketers in our community, we didn't do that. So don't get frustrated if some do come back to you. Just keep giving, keep serving, and eventually all of that and that you know, that value will come back to you tenfold. Certainly not going to help. You know, he's going to go in and do his job and he's probably going to come back and work a little on his business later, after he spent some time with his family. And he's going on three hours of sleep, more power to him, more than three hours of sleep and you're ahead of the game. Okay, so be Legendary. Have a fantastic day. We'll see you back here on Monday. Get that hell out of here. Peace.

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Turning Your Job Skills Into Affiliate Marketing Gold

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I'm just going to bring this guy in you may, you may have seen his face you may know his name, AJ rants what's going on my brother, welcome to the show. 

AJ: What's going on Dave Good morning everybody.

Dave: You know you are, as they say, a return guest right not a first time caller, so this is your second time on the show the first time you talk to Matt. Now, now I have the the honor and the privilege to get to know you, this is our first time talking in, we didn't even talk for any time before so even getting to know hey how you doing a, you know, good to see, that's all happening live in front of everybody right now so kind of exciting, at least on my end. 

AJ: Yeah, I'm pretty excited. 

Dave: So are you in Oregon, are you in Seattle, or are you in Oregon. I'm in Seattle, okay you're in Seattle. Nice. Are you, are you a native?

AJ: I am a native here. I have lived all over the state, kind of, north, south, east and west but Seattle's kind of that, that home base that I always go back to.

Dave: And so that is where you did a lot of your bartending at where you were, you kind of in the city and working in bars or the same bar or whatever for basically up until either 2019 or 2020?

AJ: I started, believe it or not, there's a place called the Gorge in Washington, it's like one of the best music festivals in the country, or music venues, and I started bartending there. Because I'm like 21 years old and they're like, We need anyone who can serve beer. So it started there but yeah, once I started to get into the actual, real bartending. It was pretty much all around Seattle. I've probably worked through eight or nine different restaurants. I think just like anything, you got to move up, you know, through the tiers of your business and it started beginner level restaurants which I hate to say are out there but they're out there, and you can go into more higher tier restaurants where you start getting good pay, good customers, you know, less of the headaches, better tips, all that good jazz, right, less of the sloppy drunks and more of just the kind of people who can handle their liquor, a little bit and less of the you know the kitchen, you know, messing up your orders and things like making drinks is a small part of it. The rest of it it's like there's a lot that goes on.

Dave: So that's your pass man you did that you got online in the beginning of 2020 is that right?

AJ: Actually, yeah, a little bit so it was more like 2019. I started to get into this but I wasn't doing affiliate marketing, I wasn't doing, I guess, legitimate business type stuff, I was just trying any way to make money online so I went down all those get rich quick rabbit holes that were out there so that was a tough year, I'll be honest, that was a tough, tough starting point. And what happened after that, pretty much at the beginning of 2020, I decided that maybe this just wasn't gonna work for me. So I started job hunting and looking for jobs, and I ended up actually getting one job almost lined up like they were completely working your butt off, you've been trying to learn this marketing thing. We have kind of a beginning position for you down the street. They were in the travel luggage industry, seemed like a really cool company. I'm like okay cool, and they're like, we're not ready for like a month for you to come on board, so I'm like cool I'm going to go on vacation, and then come back. And, well, I went on vacation. At the end of February, early March, and came back to a pandemic and they were like yeah that job's not around anymore. And I'm like, oh, so I started looking at bartending jobs, and then the restaurant industry got hit hard. So here it was at rock bottom, like, holy crap, I have no money saved up now. I've spent this whole year trying to do something, and had to get real serious real fast. And I just like, I'm like you know what, I've been seeing people start affiliate marketing businesses takes time to build those foundations, and that scared me the time part at this point because things were kind of at a crucial point. But I just said, Forget it, let's do it. And I've been through the 15 day challenge before so it was just part of my interest, but I just wasn't sure if I was committed on that time yet, and went back through it got on TikTok, and we're heavy on that for three months and I guess the rest is history from there.

Dave: So you started. Are you kind of full time doing the cocktail cards now I want to talk about that in a second but, but, AJ has created a personal his own branded cocktail cards. I guess it's a game, is that right.

AJ: it's a, it's kind of like instructional flashcards

Dave: Okay, yeah, so good. Well, on how to make drinks and stuff? 

AJ: Exactly. Yeah. 

Dave: I got it. So that's something that you did. In mid, 2020 is that right after you had been going hard on TikTok doing affiliate marketing exclusively for, what about six months or so you then ventured into saying hey, How can I take this knowledge and you had a bit more confidence and so forth, and you created your own physical product and that's gone crazy is that right.

AJ: Yeah, exactly. Affiliate marketing was my full focus for at least three to five months. That's, That's all I was working on, and then growing on tick tock, I mean when you guys actually start grinding on social media and putting the hard work out there. People tend to notice, and they'll see you, and I did have one guy kind of reach out to me who was a, he's a pretty big Amazon seller, And he was seeing the hustle and he was like, I really think you could do really well if you did something within your knowledge, something you were passionate about and do that type of marketing. And for me, I guess, since the year before that I couldn't find a job or anything I was so scared to rely on one single income again. I'm like let's do it like, let's get as many streams of revenue rockin and rollin ‘here so. And then, that was a long process. That was like a year for cocktail cars to come to market with zero money coming in so that was more of a passion product thing while affiliate marketing was still the full time.

Dave: But now, it has your cocktail card side of the business in it. I mean, your TikTok and YouTube channel cocktail cards are bigger than your personally branded marketing channels, has that become a bigger source of income for you now or is affiliate marketing a larger stream of income for you?

AJ: Affiliate marketing is still 100% of my income. And the reason why is because the cocktail cards, the marketing, I'm telling you guys tick tock, oh my gosh, the kidding on cocktail cards are so crazy, I keep selling out of my product within hours. And my number one issue I have with cocktail cards is inventory, it's my number one problem. So, every single dollar I make I pour right back in. I do have another smaller investor in the business as well who's like he just wants me to just go all in. But it's a lot of money, it's a lot of money for production and shipping right now is really expensive. There's a lot of costs so, pretty much every penny I spent goes right back into the business.

Dave: Wow. So, affiliate marketing right now for you has not only kind of saved your ass when you were at rock bottom, as you put it, but it's also funding a passion project but what also has the promise to be potentially a pretty huge business in the future. If you can get the inventory, you know stocked up and actually sell supply the demand, but maybe there's even a chance that you get them into stores or you are acquired by some other company if you can ramp that up so I find that fascinating that affiliate marketing being such a low overhead business something that doesn't require you to constantly put money back in. Once you have the knowledge to do it initially, whether you figure it out because you're so broke you can't afford to pay attention, or whether you invest in training and get the knowledge a little bit quicker. Either way, once you have the knowledge, if you're taking advantage of all these amazing free marketing strategies that are available right now you don't really have to reinvest back into the business, it just is kind of sweat equity event, you build up these passive real estate, kind of like I like to think of like YouTube videos and some TikTok videos it's kind of like a it's like a it's like a rental property right if it really takes off and it continues to get views it's almost like passive income. You don't have to keep making that same video, you make new ones and add new streams of traffic that turn it into income. I just find that cool that affiliate marketing has funding has funded, you getting on your feet and it's also funding this other business that is really exciting may not be profitable right now, it is if you took the profits but it's got so much promise and it looks like you're really having a lot of fun doing

AJ: Yeah, I kind of think affiliate marketing is kind of like my nine to five, right, it pays the bills, and then the cocktail car business is kind of like my 401k. You know it's gonna be, it's not a long term investment that could pay off really, really big. But affiliate marketing, yeah it's the overhead, the lack of distribution, the, you know, the fact that you can get an audience of hundreds of 1000s of people with a single tick tock or YouTube video. It's incredible how much easier it is. Affiliate marketing is to earn a profit versus a physical, physical product, but they're totally,

Dave: Can I ask that question, I'm having this, like, I'm having this coming up for me right now and I just got to get it out before I forget it or I lose it. What, why are you not packaging this bartending restaurant, drink making this expert knowledge, this expertise, why are you not packaging this in an information product, versus a physical product?

AJ: I am. So the whole goal is to get this on Amazon for Amazon to do all the, all the work, you know, getting the customer service, all that stuff. And then what I'm working on is a monthly, almost like a Patreon thing but it's going to be an information course. It's going to be 10 bucks a month, four times a month I jump on. We do private bartending courses with people that are on, you get specialized videos and then I'm also going to hire bartenders from around the world to come in and also train in specialized videos as well. And it's pretty low cost for something like that. I'm going to have want to set up a feature where the viewers can tip the bartender, right so I can get people, I don't have to pay them 1000 bucks to do a video they can jump in for 100 bucks and make an additional $200 or 3$00 tips that will help bartenders around the world right now. And then at 10 bucks a month, or maybe higher we can scale to whatever price by the end of the year to get a thousand people in this course. So that's an additional $10,000 of revenue coming into the business. And all I gotta do is just show up a couple times a month.

Dave: Because ultimately when we say we're doing affiliate marketing, there's different ways that you can do affiliate marketing, Just in case you guys are new and affiliate marketing is not just selling information products or courses I mean affiliate marketing can be I'm an affiliate for any product on Amazon. Amazon has an affiliate program you guys could be an affiliate for a Jays cocktail card. Unfortunately he doesn't have enough cards for even him to sell so probably you're not going to make much money as an affiliate for his cards, or get your stocks up that maybe you could get some, some, you know your your inventory of you could get some affiliates but Amazon will does have an affiliate program, and that would be an example of being an affiliate selling a physical product. We teach basically selling information here at legendary. And the reason about that packaging your information is because when you do information, in to, I mean I, you could easily do create an E, like a, like a course to where for, You know 10 bucks or 30 bucks or whatever you wanted to charge on the front end just for that front end product you would send an email every day with a recipe basically a card like you have, and you wouldn't even have to have a membership site. You just literally once they bought you put them on an email autoresponder, and they just automatically get an email every day with the recipe, you could link to a video if you wanted of you making the drink, but in that video could be on a private Wistia or a private YouTube right you can hide or make certain videos on YouTube, private, and you wouldn't even have to set up a membership site you just would literally every day for 30 days and you could just have a brief video at the beginning that just shows them how to create a folder in Gmail so they could save all of them in a folder and print them out if they want to if they wanted that right so you got my juices flowing now because what the challenge that you're running into although I think that it's probably the path that you're on. I don't want to get in the way of it and I love when people, Blaze their own trail. But the thing that concerns me so much about physical products in your experience in this right now is the is the, the, exactly what you're going through, you got to buy inventory you get investors involved, all of this stuff, where there are people who are telling you, dude I'll buy your shit right now, I'll buy what you're selling, I want what you're selling your channels are taking off. And if you had something that was say, you know, $1 a day. Right, so each day for $1 I'm going to send you a, you know, a drink recipe. And for that $1 that you spend on that recipe that's going to probably be worth six figures multiple six figures who knows you in the future it's but it's one, somebody give you 30 of those, and then once they come on, they buy that you invite them onto a webinar where then four on that webinar, you pitch them your coaching for 100 bucks a month, or a one, two, or $1,000 a year or something like that, your high ticket comes into play if they want that more personalized hey if you want to know more than just how to drink, how to make drinks if you want to know how to how to upsell customers at the bar if you want to know how to start these, these know if you want to know my, my presentation, tricks or approaches, whatever value you could add all your knowledge and experience that makes you bad asset what you do and give you know how to choose the right bars and restaurants to work at which can mean the difference between, you know, making making 50,000 a year or 150,000 a year would that be worth you investing $1,000 For to work with me personally for a year, how to take your, how to also take your drink, making in create a content channel like I've done and take advantage of platforms like tick tock and so forth, to where you can become build a reputation to where people travel from different cities to come in. See you, personally, how to also build a reputation fame and a brand on social media so people invite you out to private parties to where you can generate 1000s of dollars for me just being present, take in example salt Bay, started out with Joe content, and now has scaled his simple little branding content, dripping salt on stakes, too.

I mean he's working on several I know he's got at least two or three locations Dubai, New York, Miami, he's got a multi million dollar empire that started out with a social media channel this is what's possible. Would that be worth $1,000 a year too. So, AJ I'm ranting. What's coming up for you. Are these new things that are, you know I mean information selling guys so these are why I'm, I'm, I'm, kind of, you know why this is bubbling up for me but anyways what's coming up for you as I'm going through some of this stuff?

AJ: Yeah, it's funny, I think there's a lot of similarities in what I've learned over the last year and what you're saying is, the more digital you can go the easier it is, the easier it is to sell there's less limitations so that's why I want to get into figuring out digital things to sell within this business. I've also made quite a bit of money in this business through affiliate marketing to, like, when people go to Amazon to buy Cocteau cards, they're clicking my affiliate link, and I get damn near like probably a quarter of whatever I made through the sales, I'm getting through affiliate commissions as well, when they purchase other things and, And going into it all that so I love those those are more ideas because I'm always trying to brainstorm how can I go digital, how can I go digital, but still be around the Octocat like the box is sexy, the box is offline the boxes, it's always gonna be available and, you know, I want it to be in stores and stuff like that. But the real money could be in the digital background. And I think that's where a lot of businesses lack the knowledge, and it also goes to show how awesome if you learn the basics of marketing and digital marketing, how you can sell anything. Like, when, when this, when the guy first originally came to me, he's like do you do like a cocktail product I'm like are you serious, like no one's gonna care about learning how to make drink like in my brain, who has been a bartender for 10 years. They wanna have it made for them, they don’t want to go and make them. But I was proven wrong.

Dave: So, so there's a magician named Julian something and he's a young guy, he's got kind of a little, like, like white guy afro, like, I'm talking about he's from the, from the UK, And he has taken his magic skills that he used to just create videos, and basically just generate revenue from like YouTube, you know, like, because his videos got a lot of views and those of you who don't know, as your channels grow. Actually, Instagram just rolled it out yesterday to where they're going to start paying you for being able to run ads on your, on your ID videos, exactly like YouTube does for their content creator so these platforms, come up with all these ideas to try to get you to create content on their platform and pay you for it. Because platforms like YouTube have already proven that it works but he went from just creating content on YouTube and making money that way and doing offline shows to then he packed his information, how to do magic tricks just for the average dude, or chick right to be. It wasn't because you want to learn how to be a magician. It was because you might want some of these tricks to be the life of the party, or to have something cool to do in a social setting to get chicks or whatever, just to be a cool dude and have something do magic tricks are really cool if you can pull them off. But for you, bro. I think that if, which I'm not a drinker, but if I was a drinker, and I had a lot of social stuff around drinking and parties and entertaining and stuff at my house, I would buy your recipes and cards and any tips or tricks that you can give, because I would like to make be able to make drinks to just be able to entertain in social settings in, so I think that there's an opportunity and that's the reason why I said that, that because your channels are exploding and your stuff is, is going kind of bonkers right now. I think the market, if I was to guess, is not just bartenders, it's also regular dudes and chicks maybe, but I'm just speaking for dudes who want to who would want to know how to have 30 drink recipes as well as a tutorial video to show me how to make that drain, so I could just be cooler at my little parties that I had, you know what I mean. 

AJ: Yeah, and it's been, it's been really shocking. I looked at the analytics and we made this thing to be as masculine as possible right, I'm thinking dudes with old fashioned Manhattan's if girls by great that'll be an added bonus, it's like, 80% women buying. 

Dave: Woe are you serious? 

AJ: They want it for themselves. They think it looks really, really beautiful, but it's the perfect gift for the husband, the dad, and the brother's 21 year old son. Yeah, I'm like, wow, that was not at all what I thought was gonna happen. Yeah, yeah, it's been, it's, it's been incredible and I've been, I've been lucky at IndieGogo. It's like a Kickstarter platform where you can be on there as long as you want, because they take the fees they don't care, they're like I'm going off my platform. Indiegogo is just like Kickstarter, you're trying to do a crowdfunding thing to try to build, to buy more inventory.Yeah, so it worked out really, it worked out really well. We actually just crossed $100,000 in sales. This week alone.

Dave: How long has it taken you to raise that 100,000? 

AJ: About six months.

Dave: And have you done that all from your audience has that, or has Indiegogo kind of promoted that?

AJ: Indiegogo has provided 4% of the sales.

Dave: So most of the sales are also coming from the channels that you've built, for example your cocktail cards, TikTok channel to where you're sending people over there telling them what's going on I got these cards, I need help, but also if you invest, you're going to get the product, because that's how it works right?

AJ: So I would say probably 80 to 85% of the sales have come from my Tiktok, and probably half of them have come from like five different TikToks I want to talk about. When we went live on Amazon, and we sold out on Amazon in two hours like it was bonkers how fast we sold out, and I'm like I don't want to lose, lose out on this momentum right now so I re set up the reopen the IndieGoGo and redirected everyone there and we ended up doing an additional about $45,000 in sales from that one single Tiktok that were on Amazon. They go to the profile, and I have a big giant thing like we sold out in two hours the pre order, and you'll get them when they're available, and people flooded, it was almost like the scarcity helped.

Dave: I think it does. I mean it's definitely a proven strategy when you create something that is, is scarce, when you have urgency there when, you know, There's limited supplies like all of those kinds of little things definitely and but most of all, they've built a relationship with you, right they five in so I'd like you to talk just briefly about how you have built such deep relationships bonds with your audience, not ever shaking a hand or giving a hug or talking to any of these people face to face, how you've come onto the scene and used the what you've learned both here legendary of course watching other people in our community and of course on Tik Tok, just being a learner and a modeler, what have you learned that has helped you to be so effective with growing audiences.

AJ: Well, I think, when I first started getting into affiliate marketing, I think one of the first things that came present to me when I started having success was the people want to buy from a person, not from a company, so I was very much a company at the beginning when I started Cocteau cards. I was rehashing old YouTube videos, I was just putting the product up there. And I think once I started having so much success with my personal account, and taking what I've learned through legendary and just doing affiliate marketing just learning about relationships. I was like what am I doing, I should try this with cocktail cards, you know like, I don't need to be the big business I don't need them to think that I'm just some, some, some corporation out there so I started doing more personal stuff, and it almost immediately took off like I went from 45 followers on my account to, like, 100,000, in less than a week. And it was all about sharing my story, which for a business I was scared to do, honestly I was scared to be like, do I want to do I want people to know my story, do I want people to know how hard it is to build this business right now, do I want people to know that, like, I need to crowdsource as I don't have money like, you know, like I'm like, Is this even a good idea to share with people. And then it just was like, Dude, how many reminders, do you need, is it worth with with affiliate marketing and now it's worked with Cocteau cards and at this point I'm like, Dude, that's how you do business nowadays, you know like, and it's been also a lot more off my shoulders as well because my audience now has this expectation and they know kind of what I'm going through, and the content, the followers are more supportive now than ever. It's wild like they seek out buyers for me, they seek out like the shank. Shark Tank guys gladly comment on my videos like they reach out to all these popular people and get them looking at my content, and you know it's wild because they, they now feel like they're on your team versus in your sales room, right, so it's like a total nightmare.

Dave: Right, they feel like they're on your team versus just being targeted, targeted lead you're just trying to sell something to Right, exactly. Yeah, so give us, can you give us a nutshell, an example of how you use your story in the cocktail cards like what was this, what was the story that you were afraid to say so we can have a bit of context and so people could get maybe an example of how they could do the same thing.

AJ: Yeah, so like I said, you know, a year ago I was, I couldn't even get a job as a bartender because money was tight, and affiliate marketing was making me money like it saved my butt. But, man, when you're paying off credit cards and doing all that type of stuff like you're, it's not like you're swimming in cash, even if, even if I was getting commissions at the time, so I have very, very little money to put into this business I was going to literally start as small as ordering 100 putting them on Amazon, sell those order 200 like very small incremental steps. And I shared with people that I couldn't find bartending work. I didn't have money to invest in this business. So I pulled out I basically got blank flashcards, started drawing on them I created a Facebook group with people that like cocktails, mostly friends and family at first, and started designing them and putting them up with my little sharpie drawn cards and getting feedback from people that would be cool to put on them, and then basically be like hey if I decided to make this a project. Would you guys be willing to invest in, like Kickstarter, and they're all like heck yeah we will let's do it so we're not Kickstarter, my goal is 1500 bucks right to be able to hire a designer to at least make the cards look cool and then I'll do more funding under that. That went really well because the YouTube channel was doing okay at that time. And so I got more than just friends and family in there, and it started to be spread a little bit more, I got five, five grand for it so I got a designer, and I could hire a manufacturer to make me a sample, and I basically I'm just sharing the story like, I don't have more money to do anything else, but here we go, I got this product and I'm pretty pumped. And that's where I, I, that's, that was the entire first story that I told. And people were like, I want that and I want it right frickin now. And when I went to Indiegogo, and in less than 24 hours. I raised an additional $22,000

Dave: Congrats on that so what they really wanted. If I was to put myself in their shoes, yeah, they wanted the cocktail cart. But really, they wanted to support you on your kind of heroic journey right, you're kind of journey from the bottom. Everybody loves a hero's story, and they love to people love to support people who are just working hard, and who they feel are just, we're not given something we're not, you know, we're not been handed a silver spoon but are just working their ass off, being real about it being humble, telling the truth about where they're coming from and even where they're at right now, and that gives people a sense of feeling like they can make a difference, right, and I think that so many people when they deal with companies feel like they have jobs feel like they don't matter, and what they say what they contribute their vote, just doesn't matter. Right. And so, if you give a person an opportunity to feel like what they do. If they take an action if they donate $1 If they vote if they can make them feel like it really is going to matter and make an impact. Then, they feel excited to do it, versus if they feel like or they're just one of millions who, and you're so big that you know you don't need their money or you, they start to get skeptical like, like you're not, you know like, like their contribution is not going to make a difference, I think that we underestimate that and especially when we come into using our personal brands to sell any product or service, which as you said works well in anything, not just in affiliate marketing guys so this is we don't we don't talk about the hero script and 10 story selling and all that because it's just something that works exclusively with affiliate marketing and selling courses or coaching, it works with everything, and you've just proven that. But I think people are really hesitant to reveal that kind of beat in the first chapter of their store. They want to wait to talk about it until they're in that third or fourth or fifth chapter and things are looking a little bit better and they're a little bit more successful right and they can. People are not going to be as supportive as they're going to buy from you for different reasons at that point. I think a lot of people really miss out on what you took the risk to do, which was to capitalize on that first chapter. I'm at the bottom and your contribution and your support or your like or your comment, even if you don't have $1 You're on that helps me, and I think we all miss out on that and so many, so many people miss out on that because we're afraid to not be the successful perfect person, and we want to wait to tell the story until we're in that fourth or fifth chapter, and you took that leap of faith and it paid off big time, am I right?

AJ: Yeah, and that's something I learned probably had to correct myself from getting into affiliate marketing in the beginning, right, we all have that imposter syndrome and it's like, who am I to talk about, especially you know something like legendary like who am I to tell people how to make money online, but I'm still learning, and I'm still trying to figure all this stuff out. And it was probably once I got on tick tock where I finally realized it's not telling people how to make money, it's sharing what I'm learning, it's sharing my journey, and, and bringing it out to them it's like hey, I'm trying to affiliate marketing for the first time and guess what I made 87 cents, and you guys don't know how pumped I am to make 87 cents. Like, I put a video out there. They went to Amazon and bought something. I got paid 87 cents for that like that's crazy. Imagine what, what I could do if I knew what the hell I was even doing like, you know so that's when things took off for the personal business, and all that was. And this this is what I try and tell people who who come to me for help is is like don't try to pretend like like you're anyone you're not like embrace, where you are because it's the most valuable thing you have is rising from the ashes right like people love that because it's more relatable. And if anyone else, especially in like the affiliate marketing niche. That's the only thing they want is something that's relatable. It's like a date and you teach me something that I can do, because I have no clue what I'm doing. If you're driving Lambos and depositing $100,000 checks that are not relatable at all, right. So, maybe for some people that's relatable because there are people out there that want to jump up to that next level but I agree with you 100% It's one of the most valuable points of any business, and I think doing it for a second time with Cocktail cards was like so much validation for me and the strategies that we're learning. And it's like, okay, to hear, like, maybe there's something to these types of strategies in this digital marketing thing because, like, how many times do I have to do this before I prove it to myself and others. And I'm not out here claiming to make a million dollars or anything. It's like, Dude, I've been able to replace my nine to five, how awesome is that, like, I don't have to go work till two in the morning every night now. Yeah, I get to set my own hours, I get to be excited to wake up on Mondays for the first time, probably in my entire life.

Dave: Yeah, it's crazy. And that's awesome. I think we also just underestimate the power and the attractiveness of just, if you're doing something, and you're just excited about it. And just put the money aside, it just, if, if we were all just to pretend that money didn't exist and none of us were doing any of this stuff for money, and just the payoff was just that you got to love what you were doing and actually be excited about life and feel like you had more of a purpose and you were making more of an impact, and you're filling your spirit more. I think we underestimate just the attractiveness of just that message for people, because, again, the money, most people if you say you're making a bunch of money they're skeptical and don't believe you anyways. So, you know, it's like, I've, yeah I just think that that just sharing and being excited energy, like, I think we underestimate just how attractive and magnetic it is just to come across somebody who's just really excited about what they do. I mean, sometimes that's the most I've had people who are not even interested in marketing dudes at all. Come in, in courses that I've, I've, I've had events that I've put on, just because they want to be in the environment of positive people who are super excited about, like life and honest about life, but really, problem solving and trying to come up in just having a positive attitude in trying to grow personally, you know, I think we underestimate that most people are surrounded by people in their life who are absolutely just doing the bare minimum, and are pessimistic about most things and skeptical about most things, and in when somebody comes across somebody like yourself who's positive who, who's, who's honest who's striving to make something out of themselves and rise up from the artists, it really is just attractive, and it's magnetic, and people just want to follow you, even if they're not interested specifically in the topic. It's so exciting to see somebody be on that journey, and get that energy. And I think a lot of us just miss out on that because we put too much emphasis on materialistic things.

AJ: Yeah. And it's kind of, kind of funny when you're, you're mentioning all that it's like I remember, I worked a million jobs, I, I have, I've only maybe slightly enjoyed bartending, it's like the only job I've ever enjoyed waking up to go do. And I used to think, why are some people so obsessed with their jobs, why do they wake up and they're just like, they want to go do what they're doing. Like it never even clicked to me once. Why would anyone be pumped to go to work and then to be where we're at now? Like you said, You learn the skills you can apply and do things you're passionate about. And it's like, I keep waking up earlier and earlier and earlier, not out of fear, not out of like panic, but out of excitement, like, I want to go check on the business I want to go see what I can do today I want to go, think of new content I can put up today like it's, it's finally fun to wake up and go to work, and the best part about all of it as well, is the second I'm done, like the second I'm like, I need a break. I can just go take a break. Like, Whenever I want for as long as I want, I can go Golf I can go to Mexico for the week and do whatever I want, right, and the business is still going to turn, as long as I come back to it, and it's like my mental health, like you said money is one thing, and I don't even really like the money's not even hasn't even been that much of a reward, I mean it's nice not stressing over bills, but it's got to be more the mental health of everything, waking up and dreading getting out of bed, versus waking up. Can't wait to get you meant. Your life is crazy.

Dave: It's a huge man, it's huge. I think a lot of us just kind of don't even realize how stressful some of the things that we do, whether it be the jobs that we have or the people that were around or the things that we're consuming sport, and how much of a toll that takes on our mental health and just kind of deteriorates. So it's not, you know it's it's that stuff is important and I put just as much of an emphasis on that here within our internal team at legendary and try to talk about that. I'm glad you mentioned that. So if somebody was on a checkout page to go through the challenge in, in get involved in our community and were skeptical or at the bottom and feeling like, Hey, I don't know if I can make this happen, what would you say to that person

if they're on the edge, and they're not quite sure?

AJ: I always leave an open invite for anyone to contact me. So that's kind of how I really started in this whole thing. You go to my profile and say, go check or chat with me one on one, and I answered all messages 100% of them. And in chat with them and figure out if they're not going to force someone to do something they don't want to do, I just think that's going to be counterproductive, maybe we can figure something out, but if they're looking for a way to acquire new skills and new abilities to market and be universal, I mean it could literally eliminate marketing now has given me like I have companies like big companies reaching out to me to join their marketing teams like, you can even get a good job, if that's your goal like it's you're learning a skill set that's so coveted that if you can go through for seven bucks and invest a few months of your time, you can go in any direction you want. And I think $7 is a low risk, especially healing seven but I mean, the cost of running a business, especially a physical products business I'm like seven bucks that's like, it's like flipping a penny in the air, you know, but simple acts of low risk, learn a skill. And I think what's even more important is going out there and starting a TikTok or a YouTube or a Facebook group, learn marketing learn how to put your emotions, your story and explain products to people where your grandma could understand, right, like these are all skills that you can apply anywhere in your life whether it's relationships, whether it's going to get a better job. Starting your own business. There's a lot to gain. Very, very little to risk, and that's one thing I do love about affiliate marketing in particular, overall other businesses is, you know, if, if I go all out and I buy high end software and I do all that stuff, my monthly expenses are 150 bucks a month like that is stupid. And it's so low risk like I can figure I can go mow lawns one day a month, and pay for that like, that's not a high risk thing. And, but the thing that you can gain from it is. It's incredible. It's incredible. So I think when you weigh the pros and cons, it's like what do you want to accomplish, and is it worth that little risk, you know, and time has value if you have a newborn child, for instance, do all these things it's like time is so valuable. And okay. Come back to me in a couple months when I won't have a little bit more time. And then let's take that risk a little bit because you're not you got another mouth to feed it's worth taking that risk where you can bring an additional source of revenue.

Dave: Well, but you’re talking about a year later, I mean, there was a time to where your back was against the wall and you and you now you got a little bit more breathing room, but it didn't go back what I think is really cool is if you want, if you if you if you've got to quit. If you've got to do it, and you're willing to apply and learn, and figure things out, not just expect that they're going to be, if you buy a training course, go through it right through it if you get into our Blueprints, go through it show up. If you have questions you're confused about, show up to our Thursday blueprint coaching calls, ask questions, ask clear questions. Right. Ask clear questions. The quality of your questions is going to be dependent upon the quality of your answers, not everybody's gonna understand everything right away. Don't. I mean some people go to college for four and six years to get jobs. This is a training program. If you bought everything that we had sent for our Blueprints, you could go, you could learn everything in 30 days, you know, don't expect to be an expert after 30 days, you can apply that information and then continue to have questions and learn. But if you're willing to do that, then you can achieve a lot and a little bit of time. It's not a guarantee of income, it's not a guarantee that your journey is gonna look like ages. I just, I just find it really inspiring. And really, I find, I find it really an excuse, and it limits, it just annihilating. When I see a story like yours of somebody whose back was against the wall and you literally correct remember pandemic broke, no jobs, remember that. Life's a little bit different for you but remember that. And you had your back against the wall, dude. You went to work, and you made it happen. And that's what's possible. And that's the takeaway for me: all this other cool shit you're doing now is awesome. And I'm so stoked for you that you're able to train, use these transferable skills as you were just mentioning to you know to get into cocktail cards and teaching and training and adding value but man, your back was against the wall, and you made it happen. And, and you did it relatively quickly compared to, say, other paths out there. Other schooling and so forth. And that man, then that is really, really inspirational ha man and I hope that you're able to take a moment to smell the roses. Amongst all your chaos and success nowadays to just really remember and give yourself a pat on the back of how awesome of a job you've done to get to where you're at, man. Yeah, it's

amazing when your backs against the wall, where you're capable of figuring out how clear your mind can get on a goal, because there's no other path, there's no, I'll do this later, there's no feeling like it. There's no excuses. It's only forward. 

AJ: So, it's amazing. And a lot of a lot of what we do a lot of building wealth, building a business, learning a skill a lot of what we do. It's just creating habits over anything else, it's, I'm going to do this before I go have dinner I'm going to finish, I'm going to come, I'm going to commit to three TikToks a day I'm going right, it's all forming habits, and that is something you have to do when your back is against the wall, there is no cheating, there's no shortcuts, and you go through it and then you realize, holy crap, this has been waiting for me the whole time, like, what have I been doing, you know.

Dave: Well, Brother, keep up the fantastic work man, and, and, you know if there's anything I can do to help you out please let me know and I hope you'll come back. Maybe we can get you to come back for a third time in a few months, just give us another update on how things are going. 

AJ: Sounds great. Love to be back. 

Dave: Alright AJ, take care of my brother, keep up the good work. Stay Legendary my brother and I'll talk to you soon. 

AJ: Thanks guys. 

Dave: Alright guys, you guys can follow him as I've put it up here a couple of times at cocktail cards on TikTok, as well @aj.rantz, he's a really really cool dude fun content, awesome human being and somebody who has, I think, really, kind of, it is quite an inspiration about what's possible of not an overnight success. But, as you heard his story, he's an overnight success that's been in the making for a few years. But how quickly things can change how quickly your life can change how quickly your, your, Your, your mental health can change. I love that it's not always about money. Money is great money does money does money does equal happiness in some respects, if you can gain some more mental health, right, from it less stress, not having to go to an environment that you hate. Right, so go follow AJ and I'm thrilled about the conversation and love to hear about his journey, and you guys make sure you never miss an episode because every single day of the week, we're here, you can text WUL to 813-296-8553 And we'll send a little text reminder in the morning, get the hell outta here go do something with your day. Have a fantastic day and we'll see you back here tomorrow. Peace.

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Matt: Hey there everybody welcome in. Happy Wednesday, June 2 And my name is Matt welcome in, if you are newer to our community or first time on. Here's what I want you to do I want you to leave us a comment letting us know where you're tuning in from and give me a little thumbs up if my audio is coming through okay we were having some technical difficulties earlier this morning but I think we got themselves, so I think we're good to go. But, you know, it's the internet you never know. Hey, if you're newer, if you're, you know, popping up for the first time or whatever. We actually have a text message service that alerts you that we are going live, so let me pull this open real quick, you can text this number on your screen. And I actually just got my text message right here you can see it right there. Okay, so you can get just, it's a short little text message we don't spam you we don't try to sell you stuff in the text messages, okay we don't do any of that stuff. So, you just text in 813-296-8553 There's 1000s and 1000s of people who get this text message every morning. And yeah, so good morning everybody, Michael from Chicago, what's going on, Jason. Andre snow all advisors are not on the show they're typically working away, you know, Cody Paul Tammy what's going on Brian, Good to see you just got my just got the text Okay awesome Laurie, Harris fire. Okay, Angela. All right, awesome. Cool. Well, good to see you on here and we've got an awesome guest today, so if you're unfamiliar with our show. We do this every single day at 10am Eastern. I look a little bit tired this morning, because I'm on the West Coast, and it's 7am here so I woke up at 6am. Scroll through some financial stuff, looked on Instagram for a little bit, and then here I am, I got my coffee brew and I've already got a load of laundry and for the day so like, Hey, I don't know what you're up to, but if you haven't got that far in your day you're a little bit behind, but, and yeah so it's 7am on west coast but I'm here every Wednesday so Dave host Monday Tuesday Thursday Friday I host Wednesday I'm the CMO here at Legendary I handle a lot of the affiliate stuff a lot of product development, a lot of education just kind of all the different stuff I've been in this industry for about 10 years, so has our guest today, and his name is Shane, we're gonna bring him in, in just a second, every single day, on these Wake Up Legendary shows, we'll bring on somebody who's either New to our community or been around for a while and has found success with our training or found success with digital marketing or affiliate marketing in some capacity and we became aware and wanted to bring his story or testimonial to light, and just let him share a little bit about what he's got going on, what he's excited about what's working and it's typically a pretty inspirational motivational message. So, enough for me. Anyway, Shane man, how are you? 

Shane: Good, I'm doing well 

Matt: We had a little before we brought you out to the show for everybody who's here we had a little echo going on, it sounds much better now. So I think we're great. 

Shane: Yeah, I think I'm gonna have to return that computer. 

Matt: Okay so you're up in the Northeast. We are excited to have you on. Thank you for taking the time to come on, you know, it's, it's not like we're paying people or compensating people with money to come on in and say hey Legendary’s awesome it's just kind of like, you know, Hey, you want to volunteer a little time and come on and hang out. So thanks, and can you just for everybody who's here, give us a little bit of background on you. I know I read some baseball stuff so we do a little questionnaire. I don't do too much reading on those but I read through yours and loved the story of your, of your baseball walk on, I'm a big sports guy so it's like, I kind of nerd it out on that. But just walk us through like, Where'd you grow up, you know what was interesting to you, tell us a little about the story because I think it sets up sort of your resilience and sort of your attitude towards business.

Shane: Yeah, so I grew up in Connecticut, and baseball obsessed, so I played baseball my whole life, my whole dream was to be a baseball player, that was it, that's all I was going to do. And so when I went through high school, you know I played varsity as a freshman. All State as a senior, but then when schools were recruiting me people were like oh we are way too small to go to division one, you'll never make a division one powerhouse program. And when somebody says you can't do something to me, is the time where I'm like FSU, I'm going. So, I had a bunch of offers at two schools the three schools and some lower level D one schools but there was one school in particular I wanted to go to, and it was Seton Hall University they were a powerhouse in baseball in the northeast and two years before that mo Vaughn John balanced and Craig Biggio all those guys had gone there so that's where I wanted to go and, and I talked to the coach and he said yeah yeah come on in. Come on in, you know, we don't have any scholarships for you. But you know short you look, you look pretty good as a shortstop so when I got in there and literally the first day I walked in the campus and we got into the practice field and there were 14 Other recruited shortstops, and I was the only walk on and there was one with a scholarship and I was like, Oh my God. And of course, you know, at 140 pounds out of high school I'm like all these people are right there I'm never going to make this, but I didn't give you know, the thing about. I barely made the team. I was like the last one cut. I actually made it as a walk on the next. I never suited up. I never played my freshman year, and I was, I was going to quit, I was going to be like you know what they were all right, I'm going to go back home with a tail between my legs and and find another small school, and my mother actually said to me, what, like what is wrong with you that's not who you are, so she took me to a trip to Cooperstown, to see the Baseball Hall of Fame, and like you know what she's writing like none of these guys just gave up. Every guy that's in this Baseball Hall of Fame, put in the time and after yeah they had talent but at the same time, they worked their butts off so I went back that summer, and I bought up, I threw a football my arm strength got better and when I got back to school. The third baseman that they had was like old world third baseman they brought in, he was a year older than me but he just academically couldn't hack it so I decided to move over to third base, and they put me in on our first trip down to North Carolina just to shake him up, just to make, like, Oh, you're going to lose your spot, and I ended up, I ended up, I think was like eight for 10 in the first three games when right from that point on I never relinquished third base. And so I was the first ever to walk on that was named Captain my senior year. So, and I told my parents that no matter what I'm going to graduate in four years, and I hit upon him with 17 other freshmen, I was the only one that graduated in four years. So, to me getting to get education was important but, by the end of my sophomore year I had a full ride. So it was, you know, all that hard work all those times, those guys went out drinking and partying, I was at the gym, and I was at the batting cage for hours and hours and he used to have to kick me out in the gym so when I left college, and, you know, played, you know, they asked me to play a little pro ball and I blown out my arm. When I started to get into marketing like marketing I decided that's where I wanted to be, I took that same work ethic, and applied it to my business and so I started in New York City and I was commuting in from Connecticut, and people would say you're nuts. Why are you doing that? That's a, you know, two and a half hour commute one way, on a train. I said because I, I have, I want to be some, like I want to, these are the steps I want to get to. And so slowly climbed the ladder and fell for a team of VP of Marketing, VP and CMO, and so you know I reached the top of the marketing food chain, because I put in the hard work that other people weren't willing to do, and thought I was crazy for doing so. That's kind of how you know I was always, I was always built to like to prove everyone wrong and to tell people like he would you say I can't do that. Yeah. So, and that's really marketing people, rat race, and I was paying affiliates, 1000s of dollars to promote my product. Every time I cut them a check like I cut this guy a $30,000 check for one week of work. I'm thinking to myself, what, what am I, like, I could do that like what am I doing, like I'm putting my check I should be getting that check, I know. So, and then people were like, well you're nuts, affiliate marketing, it's a scam. You'll never make any money on it. I'm like no. Okay. All right here we go, here we go again so I always have to have that challenge. People tell me I can't do something so then I work out much harder to make mistakes.

Matt: Yeah, totally, totally and I, it's just funny because the closest mentor that I had to myself when I was getting started about 2012 I remember him saying, you know, I remember him kind of giving this testimonial or something where he was explaining, basically, you know, I did it, I had a $60,000 month or something right in affiliate commissions or something and I was like holy, like I, my brain wrapped around that. And, and, and he was, you know, he's like, some people think this happens by luck, or by chance or something but he's like, you remember the NBA playoffs last week. All my buddies were, you know, six beers deep by the time the fourth quarter came he was buried in my basement working. And I showed up for the last three minutes to see the buzzer beater ending, and that's how my life has been for the last three years, but that's what you don't see is that, like, there's a level of like discomfort and uncomfortability and wanting things to change or even just maybe it's not even that, it's just I want to accomplish it right so for you, it's like, I got people I need to prove wrong like I got a little checklist. I'm gonna make this happen no matter what, which is, which is really cool, 

Shane: And to build on what you said like, people think it comes easy right because they only see the success part of it, they didn't see the struggle, the first year in college where I didn't even shoot up, and I thought I was done, and my parents are paying for this college and I'm like, I'm not gonna be able to afford to come back here, but they didn't see like the next year with my hands were bloody from them, you know everybody else going out drinking, but I'm in the batting cage like I'm getting less be like trying to trade my swings right, I see the ball better out of this side, this, like I'm doing things that nobody else is doing. And then when it comes to the game. You just like when it comes to affiliate marketing it comes to marketing, like you put all the hard work in the backend, people don't see all that hard work that you're doing the extra emails that, like, your brand voice everything that you do, that people are like, Oh, well, it must be luck or it's a scam and he's just getting lucky and it's like no, do you have to put in the hours and the time that's what people don't understand it's like, yeah, it looks easy to some people like Michael Jordan. It looks easy on the basketball court, but he spent hours and hours and hours in the gym, it just didn't, I mean, but it just didn't happen.

Matt: Yeah, of course he's talented but, same as the same is true for me and I think because your CMO or Ben and you understand sort of marketing or organic marketing and how hard it is to get something to go viral and how hard it is to get organic, attention, you understand the power of Tik Tok in this age, and I from 2012 to 16 Dude, I've been trying any organic platform. Anything I could just absolutely anything I could try to figure out.

Matt: Nothing, nothing in my 10 years of experience has worked like TikTok.

Shane: No, that screen ever Instagram maybe a tiny bit, yeah, that I felt was kind of lucky, there was no kind of algorithm that you can play with and test. I've never seen anything like tick tock, I literally have never seen it, and you got to ride that wave until it's done because you just never know when they're gonna change their algorithm or something's gonna, I mean I like when people come into my messages and write deals and tick tock and like you're a scam. If you were a legitimate cmo you wouldn't be on TikTok but I'm like, That's exactly why you have no idea how the platform works, you have no idea how marketing works, because that's exactly why every other CMO or everybody else that that should be pushing a brand should be on here because the organic reach is on believable.

Matt: It's insane. It's absolutely insane and it's from every business model I visited a buddy of mine who owns a coffee shop down the road in Gilbert, Arizona, he said, one tick tock, one tick tock, and, and their sales for that day was $1,000 More than typical and he's like a please like a pull up cart. A one tick tock video, it's just like people have no concept so any will they do now, the PVA doing listening here as the people who are tuning into these lives we keep hammering the hammer and we had a conversation internally about a year, well maybe like a year ago. You guys came by. We're like, hey, you know, we're doing pretty well here, we're getting all this traffic from tick tock, and we kind of rolled our eyes and was like, okay, yeah. All right, that's cute guys you know, you know, take a bill and come back in a month, and, and they came back in a month, and then we kind of started to look into it, we were like okay, you know, there's, there's something here. And, you know, ended up creating a little mini product on a 15 second free leads and then and then really from there, you know, our whole community a lot of our education focuses on it now at least, for right now, Because it's hot, it might not be hot forever, but I will say, you know, people think this is going away or that it's too saturated or whatever, just personally, I, I don't actually see that happening anytime soon because of how many people are still discovering the app.

Shane: And I did. I actually did a video on TikTok, about the saturation because I quoted it to like when you're buying a car, and you know this remains in marketing. If you decide, like one weekend, that you're going to buy a Jeep Grand Cherokee right it's in your mind now you're going to buy a Jeep Grand Cherokee. In the same way that frequency and marketing messaging works, often you're driving to work or you're driving to the gym that Monday morning after the weekend you decide you're going to buy that car. All of a sudden on the way to the gym or work, you see 15 Greek Jeep Grand Cherokees and you're like holy crap, I didn't realize how many Jeep Grand Cherokees are out there and they were always there. They were there every single day driving by you but you weren't in the market and you weren't so you didn't see that, and that's kind of how the TikTok algorithm works. If you're interested in affiliate marketing. If you've like shown an interest, whether it be keto to see, because that's how the algorithm works, it's not that it's oversaturated, but you're seeing those because you've shown an interest and that's another reason why TikTok is so great because based on, you can kind of control it based on hashtags or in the messaging that you have where other social platforms you really, I mean you put the hashtags out there, but you don't get the same kind of reach and the same kind of audience. Now, that's what I learned, initially on Tik Tok because I was doing these, you know, five websites to get jobs, and I would get like 30,000 views, but they weren't the right type of traffic, so they weren't converting. So now you know I'd rather have less traffic but more qualified based on how I'm kind of directing the hashtags for everything else, knowing that those people are actually interested in something that I'm speaking of.

Matt: Yeah, fascinating. So, it's so true that what you just said there about, you know 30,000 You know, whatever, get 30,000 views that particular one, but we bonded or. I spend a lot of my time watching and observing and then comparing sort of concrete stats and all that stuff and what you said there's very accurate, very accurate higher refund rates less conversions. But when it's, when it's more. Yeah. Anyway, that's very fascinating and a great insight that you've got there because it's accurate and I've seen it time and time again, it's so accurate. I'm so curious. You know with your history and also with your experience in marketing, how did you come across legendary. And then, you know, in terms of like, you've got a great history of marketing and a great marketing mind it seems like. What were your thoughts like from the time that you saw our sales video so curious to the purchase to like actually getting into it I mean, did you have doubts through like oh my gosh look at this joke.

Shane: I don't know because I was, you know I wasn't cocky. So when I decided to do affiliate marketing, I was like well, I got 25 years of marketing experience. I'll watch a couple YouTube videos. I'll get this rocking and rolling up to blow everyone away. And then I realized, I've set up affiliate marketing from the other side from the corporate side like through Commission Junction and impact and stuff, where I've you know, had forums and looked for affiliates and done the whole thing, but I've never set up on the other side of the funnel is the two pages the email autoresponder that connects to that I've worked with all kinds of email, you know, in masses but I've never worked with email autoresponders like, you know get response or Aweber any of those. So I'm like, Oh watch a couple YouTube videos, no problem. So, I'm watching them and then I start to doubt. I've learned and taught myself for 25 years, I'm like, wait a minute. Did I do everything wrong, like for all these companies I made millions of dollars for like, Did I do something wrong, like do these guys know something I don't know. And then I'm looking them up on LinkedIn, I'm like, they must be marketing geniuses and I'm like, they just literally started marketing like 14 days ago like what like, alright, they're not giving me the full picture. So, and then I went through another program and I went through another program and was like you know why you sleep for millions and I was before I tried that and I was like wait, I didn't learn anything here anything set up for me, like, like, so I keep seeing the $7 I keep seeing it and I'm like, what, put you into affiliate marketing first like oh that's all crap. seconds, like, I'll teach myself on YouTube. The third's like whatever $7 I'll try it. In my day to like I was like alright, you know what I'm gonna try it I see all these people talking about it $7 I've already spent all this money and all this time on YouTube, looking at her and I was like, this is legit. This is like kind of putting all those pieces together that I knew that I needed, just how they're kind of all fitting together for me, like how I needed to have that sit together in my mind like I you know had everything out here, and by day three when you started doing the funnels I was like, Oh, here we go $7 best $7 I ever spent. I mean, this is ridiculous. And I'm like why are why are people not talking about this more, because, and then you know everyone's like, well the upsells and all this other stuff and I'm like, Okay, if they're not valuable to you they're not valuable to you but they're valuable to a lot of people because they really are showing people how to build their business and for 15 days and $7 I mean, it's, it's really ridiculous and that's the program I was like alright that's it. Not only do I want to become an affiliate for them but they guys kind of taught me other things and then I built a golf website and I started with keto so I had other things I was like, okay, so I can take all that I learned here too and then translate it into the niches that I like, and the things that I'm interested in sports so that really, to me, like I kind of stumbled across when was the last thing was like, alright, I'll try before I give this up like defeated again right like I was like, I was like I'm gonna try one more time because I'm not going to be defeated. I'm going to do this, I'm going to figure it out, and the $7 I was like, there's no respect to my fiance, I'm like, holy crap, when I got through day two, I'm like this is legit like I thought was gonna be $7 It's a scam, she always associate, you know, and I get there's a barrier entry but at the same time in my mind I'm like, but it was awesome. So that's why I jumped into it that's why I started promoting it because I was like this is legit it actually helps.

Yeah, is it. 

Matt: Was it some like built thing in the actual like technical layout of like how the funnel process works that you found valuable

Shane: To tell you the truth, at the very end, all those videos that are in your affiliate back office right that you do like the pixel for Facebook which, you know, it's crazy now anyway but all of those things that you really walk people through and set up was so valuable. You know you could pay $15,100 Just for that ridiculous, the amount of detail you went into I thought those were more valuable than anything else and that's what I tell people they're like why don't you know, day eight, I don't like and I'm like stand in the end because once you become an affiliate, it opens up all these great videos that are going to be invaluable to you that you'll go back every day and kind of review.

Matt: Got it. Yeah. Wow. Interesting. Yeah, that's super fascinating. I sort of feel like, yeah, yeah, fascinating, it's so interesting, I get it from so many to hear so many different perspectives, your perspective from people who have never, ever, ever heard of marketing. It's just so interesting, like what clicks and what ticks and because with some people, for instance, that that training that you just talked about, creates a lot of chaos and confusion, because it's so overwhelming and so detailed, it's so meticulous right. But I see a lot of people that take that, that style of training or whatever and there's people who take that and they go create ads agencies, they go create like all kinds of weird stuff but it's, I think it comes from, you know, learning the skills and you keep like your, your story is big around sort of that resilience and grit and doing the work, right like that whole training for instance, and really every train that I ever created the first training I created was going to 2012 around SEO but that, and that I've created a few different ones since then but more of it has been built in or sort of embedded into different companies trainings and what people don't realize is that came from that all STEM course I bought shares on Google ads in 2011. And then I bought a Facebook course in 2013 or 14 or something around Facebook ads, and I would wake up at 4am. Watch that stupid frickin training, Go to work at six, come back at two. I was exhausted so I would nap for like 30 minutes and get right back on. And, and I did that for like a year or two where it was just like every waking moment I was deep into this like I was learning everything about how these ad platforms work and how they fit and how they target and how who they are seeing these ads out to and all of this stuff. And I think that, you know I get emails from people who are like I've been in this for two weeks and I just, there's nothing going on. And, and I just think sometimes there's this level of like, whatever it is I don't know how that happens. Maybe it's just missed expectations, maybe somebody dropped a hint that this was going to be easy or something I don't know. Or maybe they think they've never ever worked for something in their life, I don't actually know what yeah what I'll say is, it's just, I like coming back to the fact that you worked so hard on this, to build those skills, and then came into the challenge and took that same approach right like didn't even, you know you have the moment of like well I got this. But, really, like you came in and when you realize the value and kind of like, like Okay, shoot this is real, like this is an actual like real thing like this is pretty surprising that you were able to, to, like, okay, hey I remember, I remember how to do this, yes takes hard work, I gotta grind, I got a, I gotta like, I gotta get back on the horse here and like let's go saddle up.

Shane: Yeah, because for so many years being a chief marketing officer or vice president marketing I had like a digital team right so I oversaw that, but it didn't necessarily roll up my sleeves and get into the technical every day. Like I oversaw them, gave them suggestions, we went over the numbers. I was constantly looking at it but every day, it wasn't like building things, or connecting my HTML like I had been removed from that. So for it to jump back into it, you know, like you said, I tell you what if I was to start a company, I would buy the program and have every one of my digital marketers, watch 15 days and have those videos because they're invaluable, and it's something that even if the greatest digital marketer in the world will pick up something from it. If they're really watching now I've had people go through and said, like what nuts, was crazy, but those are the people I know at the end of the day. Sure, putting the time and the effort in so you can start to figure out who's gonna work who's not gonna work. And then I've had people blow through it and then are like ready to go. We're excited and like that was amazing. And I like to do follow up calls or live zooms with them just to make sure everything's hooked up, because, you know, sometimes the videos are outdated. So the way that Aweber has kind of changed their software and how it connects the HTML to ClickFunnels has changed, sometimes I kind of walk them through how to put in the raw HTML to connect everything, because things have changed so you know I want to make sure that they're set up for success if they've spent the $7 that they spent whatever they wanted to spend but they've gone through me, I want to make sure that they're set up and they're ready to go, like I want to be a part of that mentorship to them, so they're not just going through the program and watching videos and feel like they're less than an eye, like they have somebody with marketing experience behind them to say, Hey, did you try this or, Hey, I saw a couple of your tic TOCs, maybe you want to tweak your messaging or maybe your hook needs to be this or something like just to help them kind of order, you know, take the top five guys within your niche and take some of their like their top five videos when they're most views on it, and then recreate them in your own voice don't copy them, but you know kind of recreate them and if you want content ideas so it's just trying to help people understand that they you know they have people behind them, they have this great set of videos that you can go to any point at any time to rewatch, I just think it's a great program I really helped me. And like you said, I think it's built for all different levels. So there'll be days that you know for me and we're like okay, I get that I knew that. But then there are other days like up. All right, all right, that's cool, and I could see where somebody coming in that has no marketing experience at all the way it's laid out and how it's organized is very particular so it's, it should be for most people, very easy to follow and move along, and I think that's why people that have no marketing experience have success when they finish the program, I saw Michelle on here yesterday and I know she didn't necessarily have marketing screens but she's having great success with the program because she followed a she's putting in the hard work. And, you know, those are the kind of people that are always going to be successful so it's great to see people come out of it and really gain something from it.

Matt: Yeah, that's cool. So, and thanks for all that detail, just because it helps me so much get engaged and sort of just, you know what's valuable what's helpful and we try to just move things around, that's really helpful what um, so you're also diving into like golf niche, and, and, like, other stuff, what, What's the thought behind it, well how is that going what's been enjoyable about that, what's that.

Shane: So, the golf niche, you know when I first started out I was like, well, golf. Coffee is a little tougher to do on tick tock. Just because, I mean I could go to Pexels and get the videos and download them and I did. I actually tested it. I've tested a couple golf videos, and that's another great thing, like tick tock. Like, I know we did. We talked about how the algorithm can control what you see like, Yeah, I'll hit like on a couple of videos, and suddenly, I've got dudes who are like showing me all these crazy exercises and these things get crazy views.

Matt: Yeah, it's awesome. 

Shane: So I tested a couple on mine I took like a couple of Caddyshack, videos and posted my own kind of things on it, and I have like a golf website where I do reviews, because I just love the golf product so I'll go to Dick's are all critical galaxy and I'm literally like grab five drivers and bring him in, and I'm like I'm just, I'm testing. So I'll go in and out and then I'll come back and do a review on it, and then I did like, just recently, the top five golf gadgets you have to have for 2021 and I tested it on my, my tic toc page and I kind of blew up. So, and then I send them to my website, but then I have an Instagram and I have a Facebook and I'm running some golf ads over here, you know, some swing stuff. So, you know, websites, take longer for SEO so I'm just trying to build content for it, and then you know I did some health and wellness with keto and stuff like that I'm just I'm trying to test different things and see what kind of clicks and my whole goal is really in the goal and this might tell all, all the people that that work with me through affiliate marketing, the email list is gold. So even if you're not making sales right away, collect the emails, because, in two years, you're gonna be able to sit on a beach and send an email out with a product in it, and collect $30,000 Like the affiliates that I used to pay, so do the work. Now, do the loss or do the lead magnets of your emails and that's what I'm trying to do with the calls and the Keto so I'm building up my legendary list and I you know make money on my list and I have my golf list up here which I'm trying to grow with like a free ebook. And then, you know like the Keto 20 recipes because I just want, I want to eat. And then, as I see a good product come out suggested I saw this protein shake that I really liked I tried this diet on TV that I lost 11 pounds, two weeks, maybe you guys want to try. So I'm just trying different things to see what sticks and then I can see, obviously, by the stats like, oh, a 12 unsubscribes this week they did not like that like that again. So, you know, I'm just testing things I'm trying to see what works, what doesn't work like sending broadcast emails out just affect people hey did you see the new article that reviewing golf clubs, calm just wrote on the top five drivers for 2021 like I'm just testing things and seeing what kind of response and the open rate, click through rate and all those kinds of different things that, you know, again, I think it lost a lot of times with people with analytics like they just set it and forget it. A lot of times and they create content which is awesome, but then I look at the back end and see, you know their, their email sequence what emails, maybe it maybe I don't need 24 emails in that sequence, like where am I losing people. Like, where did it go from 20% open rate down to 2% open rate, like, obviously I didn't like that email, so maybe I'll remove that or maybe we tweak the wording in it. So, that's where I kind of, that's where the hardware comes in is constantly tweaking constantly looking and seeing okay what's resonating, like, and what I tell people all the time is it's not a granular thing, you can't look at it every single day and make a decision based on that day. You got to look at it as a whole. A week, a month, you know what I mean, because the overall like one day just kind of crap day, you know, could have a 2% click through rate but that email, traditionally will get you 25% And you just, you have to look at it as a whole. So you make a note of it. Okay, that was a, you know I'm not getting any emails, what do I need to do, and that's what I just recently did I wrote an ebook, and has. I have a loss leader on my team, Todd, because I just dried up for some reason. I don't know if Shadowbanning was a thing, but I was getting people through the funnel. So I was like, Alright, I gotta tweak that. So how are we going to tweak that and then like yesterday 100 people signed up through the email. Okay, that's working. So how do we build on that? So it's just constantly looking at the back end and then tweaking it from there.

Matt: Interesting, interesting, oh my gosh I love what you said about you having to evaluate things over a period of time. The amount of times that I learned that lesson, it was just stupid. I just, I don't know, I just, you know, overreact. It's just crazy how even after having been in this for so long. It'll still creep up and I'll still do it sometimes where I still, you know, overreact or freak out. And now, man, I have really re especially with the amount of like traffic and volume sales that come in here at legendary it's more like, I really look in like quarterly, and last like half a year because, I mean you got people who come in and out and affiliates traffic up and down and all this stuff and you have to start looking at bigger trends, and especially early on as, as you know as a digital marketer affiliate marketer your list is at 100 or 50 people or something. I just mostly tell people like, hey, track all of that stuff, but don't make any decisions about it, not like just track it all and make mental notes and actually have a, you know, if you're tracking this spreadsheet, make it, make a little note and just say hey today I felt like I should probably do X, Y, Z something, you know are super weird on this and I should probably adjust it but don't screw with anything, don't mess with anything, don't, don't, you know, start making a bunch of weird changes, like just keep it steady, and after a few months 90 days. Look back at everything and say well okay, now I have a body of work, yet I can actually make a decision on, right 30 days. Okay 60 days. Much better 90 days, if you're consistently accurate. You're putting marketing in front of people, for 90 days as a new affiliate or a new digital marketer, I mean, that's enough time to really say like, Okay, what I'm doing isn't working. Let's make a pivot or what I'm doing is working. Let's pour on the gasoline. Yes, but that was a really really big point. 

Shane: And the other thing to remember is, as a marketer, and I know you see this all the time, you know, as I'm building out campaigns, I could have been working on this campaign, you know, in the marketing world for six months before I hit the market, right. So I'm sick of it by the time it hits the market. So if it doesn't produce, and this is what I had to have the argument CEOs all the time because they've seen it for six months, and hit the market and after a week it's not doing anything, it's like well we need to change the campaign and that's what that's what happens with a lot of businesses and that's why they fail so like, we need to change the campaign I'm like, oh, timeout. The consumer has seen it for a week. You've seen it for six months so you're sick of it. It hasn't built in a frequency with your consumer to actually make a decision on anything. So and that's the same thing with, you know the people that come up after two weeks, like if it's a benchmark of anything yet. Right, you can't, you can't have videos inspected to make $50,000 It doesn't work like that you have to build and build and build. It's the frequency of three it's the frequency of seven where people need to see it and trust you, because people are gonna see your video, the first time and you know glanced over it second time they may watch it a little bit more by third time they're probably going to watch it more and be like, Oh yeah, I've seen this guy before, be able to trust you to make that decision and what are you saying of value. So, it's about building that frequency and understanding that it takes a little time to do that. I, you know, talking about brand new I was working for a company that was making $4 billion a year. And we literally would work, look at the sales numbers and I will argue this all the time. I'm like, we can't look at it day by day. I mean we can look at it but don't make decisions based on what happened yesterday. Based on previous years because we look over year over year we're down $50,000 year over year and I'm like, there's so many factors to that and last year was a Sunday was a big selling day today, this year it's a Monday. And then, you know, but the week we're still on track for the week, well we need to pivot we need to change. I'm like, you're making a decision based on one day with all these different factors. Let's get it for the month, where are we trending for the month where are we looking for, like you said, 90 days are we gonna make the quarter, then we decide but you can't make a decision based on one day or one email that was sent out okay it was disappointing didn't do that. All right, well why, like, how did you work, like, then it's like, you fail forward right you look at it you say okay, it didn't work. So then how do I get better tomorrow and I'm getting this email, what I put on it. No, probably not because it sounds generic, it's not in my voice it's. I use somebody a lot and change a couple of words for me. My name basically I didn't tell my story so of course people because they've seen it 70,000 times like who are you, what's your story, like, you know, that's what I try to tell people on that and, and I haven't done a good job of it either, and I'm trying to tweet my emails now to as I see how they've gone through because I basically start this in February. So I've given it a couple months, at a certain level, that's why I just made a tweet now because it kind of ran its course yet. Okay, people are kind of tired of that look in that field so let's tweak it again. Given enough time, so now I'm seeing results on it so then how you know I'm going to monitor that and then tweet from here, and send a couple messages there so it's really building on it and understanding who you're talking to, not just send it and then all of a sudden it stops and you're like, well, this sucks they quit, It's a scam.

Matt: Right. And it's just so many good nuggets there. 

Shane: I did, man. Yeah, I wanted to jump on all of those different things that I don't know which one's best but yeah just yes to everything, and I just feel like, gosh, the, the whole piece I here's the here's the main nugget that really stood out to me was, you got started. You changed your name and a few of the landing pages and a couple of emails whatever and you were like hey you know what, it's frickin good enough to go, like, it's loud enough for me to drive some traffic to it, see what happened see exactly, rather than going over perfectionist and then you got 90 days or whatever that you can latch on and now you're like, you know what, okay, now I can make some adjustments. 

Matt: Shane, man, like your, your Facebook ad. So you had that huge faith but your story, right, yeah. So, I took nuggets of that and I'm like, and then I'm like, that's not really like I started to run it and I'm like, I just want to get something out there, so I'll change some things here and there, and I got some response from it but I'm like that's not true to who I am and my fiance's like good Oh that's awesome. That's like your story, tell your story because you went through a ton of crap in the last four years you've dealt with a ton of stuff like, tell your story be authentic, and she was right because I, I'll buy from somebody that's authentic, Like I'll listen to somebody that I know is unfair and you can tell something's free, you can you can tell when somebody is not giving you the full story. You're like, I tried to be transparent, even on my lives like, um, what's the question you have. Okay, yeah, it's, it's 20 $500, and you have a lot of value in it. You don't have to buy it if you don't want to buy it is really up to you. No one forces you to buy what I recommended Sure, but I'm going to be transparent on everything I do, is it enough like people are trying to make money within 15 days I'm like no, you can get locked, you literally could get lucky and make money but you set your goal for 60 days, but if you make money before that it's great. Yeah, but there is no get rich quick scheme out there and I'm going to tell you that right now and if there is, it's going to last. It's short term, it's not a long term play. And if you want a long term play to really retire, and to really set yourself up for the future. Then do the work now, and they'll set themselves up but and I had that argument with people all the time they're like well you're scamming you told us I'd make $1,000 I said I never told you make $1,000 I said, 1000 virtual to put in the work. Yeah, and then people are like well build it for me, I'm like, okay, build it for me, do everything for me run by business for me. 

Matt: What kind of guy are you? 

Shane: ‘I can't stand you. You're such a scammer.’

Matt: Well you know I just, yeah, that's the head. Yeah, it's funny because I don't deal with this scammer thing so much as I just kind of deal with it like the Hey, nothing happened. Right, what do I do? You know what's next, what do I try next. And it's like, hey, you know, I got some really good training, You get your feet wet a little bit like before you run to me, and like you know, it's, it's, there's some conditioning, and we don't have to get super deep into this but I've realized that there's some conditioning of how people have grown up, and how they were parented to where in some households if something doesn't work, or if there's a problem or something's out of place or something's broken, it's mom. Yes. Yeah, before, as we're being like Hey, I wonder if I could fix this, right, and the parents are always, you know, In that house, if they need to be needed. So it's, Oh, mom, dad, you know, they might play it off. It's like, oh my gosh, what now secretly they love, but I can't notice it, but rather than saying, and Dave says that he does this with his little girl. What do you think you should do? Right. What do you think you should do, what could you do, what would you suggest, and I found myself being in this space. A lot of times being the person who needs to be needed and I've had to make that shift myself a little bit because I realized okay I'm kind of CO creating this situation. Yes, and had to take responsibility for my role in that, but now, you know, people come to me and say well it's not working. It didn't work, you know I did exactly what you said, you know, and I just say, What do you think you should do, what's the right step, what do you think, And sometimes I'll just get, there's no email response, there's Yes, our communication ends, and other times people are like, Whoa, I mean that's what I, you know, I paid money that's, I'm here to get your coaching, you know, or whatever, and and i It's subtle but you have to make that shift from. You're just a lifelong student, and somebody who needs, you know, doesn't know how to engineer or get their solutions. Yeah, and not telling them to, you know, screw off basically, you know, because I never want people to feel like that but at the same time, it doesn't do me more than any good to just sort of be like, well, you know what we fix your whole business for you. Right. You know you got to start getting good at Google search, you got to get skilled at YouTube searching okay something got up to, where do I go I probably go to AWeber and ask them what to do, right, it's like, And now I've got to find my solution and really like business ownership, I found entrepreneurship, digital marketing even. It's all the best people, the people who are really killing it, are problems, who can solve their own problems and iterate quickly. Not an approach ProAct wasn't good at emailing people and asking to fix this for me.

Shane: Right, exactly. It's the it's and I say this to my daughters all the time because they're not like if you come to me with a problem, you better come to me with a solution, it might not be the right solution but Comcast I used to kick people out of my office all the time. This isn't working. I don't know. I'm like, so what is your solution? Well, I don't have, like, get a kick out of office, like if you're gonna come to me with a problem and come up with a solution, even if it's not the right one, or at least we can talk through it but don't come with the problems, and I think it comes from that hole. Everybody gets a ribbon generation, like I tell my kids, like, you're not getting a ribbon, if you like, you lost, that's where you learn failing and losing is where you learn to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get better. If you're winning all the time or having somebody do it for you learn nothing. Yeah, learn zero, you need to get knocked down, we need to get your face rubbed in the dirt, a little bit, you need to be humbled because, like I was when I started affiliate marketing, like, you know, I got humbled because I was like are I am old smart, it didn't matter. I had no viewers on TikTok, I started from the ground up just like everybody else. It's just, you know how much you're going to work at it and you get knocked down, you get beat up a little bit and you're like, okay, all right. Let's go. Let's do this. And that's what I tell my daughter is like, you know, one of them playing soccer, and she's like well dad, you know, this girl pushed me, I'm like, didn't push her back. Get your body in like, don't let her take the ball from you, but just, you got to be tougher you got to, like, you want to win, then be tougher that's the bottom line doesn't care. She's not gonna like the score and then roll it over to you to get to a ribbon and say, that was awesome. Thanks for letting me know we can, and even in business, I tell people all the time I work 68 hours. I didn't get that, if I didn't take my vacation they weren't like hey, awesome job buddy. It didn't take your vacation. At the end of the year, they're like, oh we need budget cuts, and we can hire someone for half your cost to implement all your, like, make sure all your programs that you will implement are running. What, what's another family? So, you know, it's like, you need to look out for you and that's what I try to instill in my kids like, my oldest, she'll be in college in a couple years and I'm like, I'm going to teach you the tools for digital marketing. So you want all your friends to go out partying, you're going to be making money in your dorm room. Yeah, I'm going to teach her how to do it. I'm not going to do it, but she's going to learn how to do it. Give her the skills, because if I had come out of college with the internet was not a huge thing I'm not old now. Right when I came out of college, there was no such thing as, you know, the internet was just in its infancy, and there were no people making money online. If it was now when I came out of college, I never would have gone into corporate America. Never. Because there's so many different ways to make money online, I would have figured it out, or I would have faked it till I made it, because I would have been like on Fiverr I would have been anywhere doing what I had to do. 

Matt: Well yeah and especially, you know, especially just because the ROI on college and Edwin investment is so much more these days. Yeah, the actual, tangible ROI on that, you know, for the investment made the return is so much less, given the power of the internet, like it just how crazy that is. And that's so cool. We've got I mean, we do we've got people in the, in, in, we've got young guys 18, 19 year old. One of them actually stayed in town. And we had one of them on this week, or last week I think it was this weekend I think it might have been Monday, young kid 19 years old, and he lives in the same town as this other kid 18 years old, and this other kids got a, he's got an throughout high school and entire lawn care business in his, in his town that he's grown by himself. Basically, I think he might be hiring on one or two but anyway I had to call this guy to call this kid up to sign up for a program he's under 18 so I had to tell him, Hey, we got a refund yeah we got to can't basically you can't participate in our program and stuff being under 18 and the dude sitting out on his lawn mower taking the call, he's like hey let me just be just powers down right powers down his lawnmower whatever he might have been in his truck I'm not sure but I'm pretty sure he's sitting on his lawn mower in the middle of a job. And he's, and he's just sitting there and I was just like, Dude, are you working or what he's like yeah man just decide on a job it's been real busy, you know, and I just didn't like. See, there's the difference right this is just out there, growing, and he's like, I gotta hire somebody on. I got too many jobs. Plus, at ease, you know, whatever 17, 18 years old he's been doing it for a couple years, so I only bought a trailer. Got a nice new mower, like rolling, and he's making, you know, and now he's got his little affiliate marketing business that he's doing too I'm like, are you in school did you go to school, right, like Yeah, did school, you know, whatever, I'm like damn, like, you know, please, if you do go to college, you know, keep doing whatever you're doing so that you can just pay for it, because you have good to go. And anyway, on a shady week that we're coming up on the top of the hour, I wish we could just sit here and rant all day but we can't. Unfortunately, Shane, this has been really valuable, the amount of little tiny gold nuggets throughout this whole thing that are sprinkled and I hope people here, felt that and realize that and I hope they will. I know they got value from this, I got value from this. 

Shane: So, I appreciate it. This has been awesome, like I said I've been. There's very few products that I really would promote in legendary is one of them just because I believe, and it's helpful. So I, you know, and like I said, everybody. Anybody can do it, anybody can do affiliate marketing and that's why I tell everybody all the time, it's just putting in the work, that's the bottom line. Yep, and sometimes work sucks, but acknowledges a lot better doing it for yourself in your own house, dealing with some, you know 30 year old 30 year old kid who got a company handed to him by his father that's telling you like TikTok’s for 18 year olds and I'm like, Oh for the love of God.

Matt: Alright Shane well thanks for coming on man and, yeah, stay around I mean we'll we love to have people come back on, you know, if you find success with your thing or with your keto thing like, send me an email and be like a steak and often we'd love to showcase that. 

Shane: Sure, absolutely love to. Awesome. Well thanks for coming on Shane. Thanks man. I appreciate it. 

Matt: Alright. Alright guys, there you have it. Wow, that was ridiculously valuable. He gave a lot of value throughout this episode . If he didn't get to catch it all, that's okay, but go give Shane a follow up I'm going to put it up here. Shane Huerta. He is on tickets. Go check out some of the other stuff he's doing on Instagram with his golf. Just, you know, he's, he's taken a little bit of creative liberty to just go out and, and look up different stuff or different niches, different industries and dive into them, and it's really powerful. So, again, we are here to live every single day. I'm totally not pre recorded at all. And we're here every single day, Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern on our Facebook page, or if you're in a Facebook group. We also stream it there. Go give Shane a follow, and we will see you back here tomorrow at the same time.

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Dave: What is going on my friends, this is Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. Now, it was Memorial Day yesterday here in America as you guys know and what better. We didn't plan this at least, I didn't. We have a retired Army. Can I just say, badass Superwoman. Welcome to the show. Michelle, well, how are you doing?

Michelle: I'm doing awesome, how are you?

Dave: Michelle I'm fantastic thank you for your service. 

Michelle: That was amazing, thank you for providing support. I am very well. 

Dave: You're very welcome. I was sitting around last night, my father and uncle were over, who are both, you know, from the, you know, from, obviously from my previous generation. And I was noting that, that. Now, of course you are. You're a superwoman. We have many more. We have many more people than just males in the service, I'd say more so now, maybe than ever I think so. Which is awesome. And, and, yeah, there was, I have a lot of service, uncles, you know, Father stepfather pretty much every person from from that generation was in the in the military, one form or another, and so I of course thank them and I made a post in our Facebook group, of course, not just for service members but also families of service people right which oftentimes I, I would assume, Get, get maybe less thank yous, you know what a sacrifice that they make as well I can only imagine what it would be like for my wife to be with our kids alone, without me. What if I was overseas or just somewhere where I couldn't be with them. You know, yesterday just in the spirit of gratitude for servicemen women people is, is, is also, so can grow with this, this sort of mission that we are on here as entrepreneurs for freedom. I thought it, I thought it segwayed really well. So one of the things that seems to be a wire for you is freedom, how does that tie in to. Can you just speak a little bit about being a military woman? And now, I guess, protecting and seeking your own freedom, in a little bit of a different way.

Michelle: Yes, absolutely. So, I gave up a lot, being in the military. Now granted, in the amount of time that I spent in the military I never went overseas. Okay, the types of jobs that I had. I didn't go over I did recruiting for a little while, things like that. But I tried so many times to start my own little side hustle, if you will, but because I have to get sent away I was thrown away for a month or I go away for a week or two weeks or whatever the case may be. It was really hard to keep that do the army at the same time so it was really really hard for me to give that up, because that's definitely my heart was and I tried for so many years, I gave up a lot, I gave up time with my kids. I gave up a lot to serve the country and it was right toward the end I couldn't prefer more years. I chose not to. I said I can't, want this too bad. Just wanted to be able to work when I wanted to work wherever I wanted to work on the go sit on a beach and when I go sit on a beach. I felt tied to that obligation because of my work ethic and the way that I work myself. I give, I couldn't do a half assed job for either one. So, give my 100% So I gave my 100% in the army, and then I was like, I gotta go. And now, for myself and it's amazing.

Dave: Yeah, I'm thrilled viously, there was an element of providing for yourself and earning a living. But in the spirit of service and service to others and in your country, something that I'm extremely grateful for the more that I, the, the kind of learn about how wonderful our country is not America being better than others. Just the idea of democracy, the idea of of the freedoms that we have, I have traveled to other countries, and I am appreciative I am grateful and I think that that's why so many people from around the world, look at America with such as, you know, with such respect or or, you know inspiration as because who doesn't want to be free. Who doesn't want to be able to choose and decide and vote, and all that and I mean I I'm excited for how far the country has come in terms of giving more freedoms to more people. But, man, I'm excited for you because now you're focused 100% on your freedom, and that really is kind of a cool chapter that you've entered into so how long have you been focusing on this exclusively? Michelle: Well, today's the beginning of six months. 

Dave: Wow so you’re like a newborn, like my son turned six months? 

Michelle: So six months I've been going like straight at it because retiring from the army, it's a job itself like medical appointments, you've got certain requirements you have to make it takes a year, a full year to retire from the army, so it was a job in itself gathering documents from 33 years, it was it was a job in itself to try to retire and then they had to pick up my household goods and get those delivered for six months. So, the whole process in itself so January, and I gotta say my first TikTok was January 26 And I started promoting Legendary market I say you know my lives all the time because people like, I want to get on camera, and I'm like, even you guys, look at my first TikTok, you can see the fear in my eyes, was an awful video but I did it, I just, I climbed out of my uncomfortable skin, and I did it and it was amazing. Three days later I got my first commission. I was like, oh my God has worked, so I just went nuts, and I love it and I'm having, I literally tell people that in my life, you know what I do. I make videos for a living!

Dave: We've got a couple of other things going on too. You've got a Pinterest, you've got you've got Facebook you're marketing on you've got YouTube as well. We'll talk about that here, just in a moment but I love them. I love this attitude and this kind of advice that you give people which is, you know, basically, what I hear you saying is what you think you're unique. You think you're the only one that's uncomfortable, you think you're the only one that's afraid. It's kind of like we all had to walk through that and I see so many people who, what, it seems like to me are looking for the secret shortcut that's not going to, it's not going to let them feel like it's like you're a human being, you're going to have feelings you're going to be afraid of shit, you're going to, you're going to things are going to be scary. And like anything in life, If you want to push through that fear. You gotta face it. And that's what I did, and if you want to stay where you're at, then you're welcome to stay, but if you want to build a business and make millions of dollars and, or whatever 1000’s, Hundreds whatever if you want to do something different, you're gonna have to but that's kind of what I hear you. In your own words you said that but you kind of went into your badass military Super job and you're just kind of like any, you know, if you want to kick some ass you can kick some ass or you can not kick some ass and that's totally your choice, right, that's absolutely right. Yeah, I was in the military for 33 years. Yes. That really is, is something else I really just impressed by that dedication, and that sacrifice, and it really is such a cool thing and I'm so happy. You seem happy. You seem like you're excited now, it can't all be rosy, but you seem like you're generally excited about the journey that you're on.

Michelle: I can't even tell you how excited about the journey that I got that I'm on because I found, I found my thing. So when I was in the military I taught soldiers okay there's a lot of civilians you get you get good leaders you get bad leaders leadership is something I took very close to heart, so I tried to be the best leader that I could be in my, my saying if you will be the leader, you, you know what I mean, be the leader you were meant to be, and that's that's who I am. So I lead, and I teach, and I've come across so many people that didn't want to teach other people like oh no no no, if I'm the only one that knows this. Okay, I looked the other way. If I teach everyone how to do this I can go sit in the smoking area, like they could do it for me and I'm open and that's exactly what I did and I taught soldiers throughout my career. Now, I'm teaching budding entrepreneurs and I'm so excited about this because I get to teach the things that I'm learning and it's so exciting to me. I go on my lives and I teach, and I got a lot of inspiration from Paul Liqrui Francis and Casey La, and Brian Brewer. Brian's the one that brought me back, I guess you could say, and I reverse engineered and I was like, oh my god this works so now I'm super excited and I'm teaching other new people, just the world if they weren't gonna there's so many people that have no idea like what's affiliate marketing, I'm like, you don't know. Come here, let me show you. This is amazing and I'm so excited about my life and I go live, almost every night. Well, almost every night, and I'm so excited to do it and I have a, a tribe of raving fans that just sit there and I can only imagine them going, like at the screen like watching me like oh I should do that, and I'm so excited, so I found my thing and my thing is to help those that are confused and overwhelmed because I spend my time in a world of confusion in the world of overwhelm.

Dave: And I don't know. Before you kind of found Legendary and started down this path, it. You said that you lost or scammed or whatever, to the tune of 25,000 in the past so it's not just been overwhelming. But it's been, it's been, it's been lost, it's been a loss from following the wrong information from the wrong people. It could you just speak to us for a second about, about, about the importance of vetting people, and their importance, and maybe how you get differently than you did in the past or the add maybe less, maybe more esteem or less desperation, I don't know, in your own words tell us, tell us how you get people now and how you vetted US versus maybe how you vetted, whoever you dealt with in the past.

Michelle: Right, I did do my homework, okay and I know a lot of people don't do their homework, okay I look at the risk that's involved in getting started. So if I'm talking about a $7 risk versus a $1500 risk I'm gonna, I'm going to look more heavily on that 15 $100 risk versus that $7 Like Alright I got seven bucks for a cup of coffee I just won't have coffee. Let me check this thing out, let me watch this program and then you're like, oh wow this is real stuff in here, versus a $1500. Like that's substantial to a lot of people, you know, so I'm going to vet them. I'm going to some now if I watch reviews. There are so many things out there that you can look and find, there's going to be several people that he went on, I think, a scam and things of scamming people are just going to say that that's just people. Okay. But if you get more of the positive than the negative, you've got to make your own decision like nobody can make a decision for you, you have to make your own decision. So, and everybody goes through their learning process differently, not everybody learns the same, you don't like it. On Click Funnels like that, like, I could go to some funnels, you know what I'm saying like funnels I got. Okay, active campaign on love active campaign on automation. Oh my God picked it up. Love it. Everyone's gonna do that. So you have to make your own decision on who you decide to invest in, and if you feel the value and you've got the relationship and people ask me in my lives if you know about legendary I give them my full transparency, because I believe in being honest with people, I don't want people to buy from me and then be like, she's a liar. Not everyone can say that about me so maybe 100% Honest, and I absolutely love everything Legendary and like everything and I'm so regretting not purchasing my swag before today, amazing to have my swag on right.

Dave: Well, what do you think I mean and you I think you just have a unique perspective because you're you're military you're you're used to looking for holes and suspicious things and enemies and, you know what I mean like I just think of you like you're this badass sniper who's always kind of like, you know, protecting and kind of on the lookout, I mean, we, there are, there are tons of gurus there, there's, there's tons of different people that are pitching the latest greatest seminar webinar this and that and all this stuff. I mean, I just, I'm asking this because there are people who literally come in before, brand new, they got people hitting them up in their private messenger saying, Oh, come over here and come into this, do that and it's all kind of secretive and. But what do you think, what do you think is the thing that separates legendary and I don't mean me, because I'm not Legendary Legendary, but I'm just a, I'm just a, you know, I'm just a cog in the wheel, I'm just a part of it alone, I can't do this. It's a community team. We've got over 80 people that work inside of our company but your experience, what do you think is the thing that sets Legendary apart from the other gurus courses and programs that exist out there online.

Michelle: That's an easy one, Dave, it's the community 100% And I talk about your community on my lives all the time I say, if you get stuck, you can go in the community and ask your questions and there's always someone there to answer you in the community itself you, you build relationships with other people inside of the community that become literally besties, like friends like I've met so many amazing people inside your community that I'm like, I wouldn't have had these relationships if it wasn't for your community, like the community itself on the internet. I can only imagine if we were like, all in the same place, like, can we all get together like that would be amazing. The community is unmatched. And I click funnels. So if people are coming into your community and pulling people out. That makes me feel dirty. That just makes me feel dirty. You know what I mean because we're all together like a family and that's the way I am. I help people. I help people, you get stuck, you hit me up. I don't care who you signed up under, hit me up, I'll help you out, you get stuck and I have tons of people reaching out to me like Hey, I heard you know I put a little new video to help someone just because it's a lot easier to do a little tiny two minute video. Then what did she mean by that, you know, so I do have someone hit me up and they're like, Hey, can I get a copy of that funnel? Yeah, sure. Here you go. It's gonna help you succeed. Absolutely. I look at the community as a family in the community. I love it. I absolutely love the community.

Dave: I agree. I mean, well people are everything. You know, I mean, if you think about who this company is or that it's really the company is a company is nothing, its people, you know, a company is just a logo or something, but it's the people who are behind the company or the family. A family is just a word, a family is. The people are what make a family special, or great or whatever Legendary. And yeah, I bring that up just because, like there are so many people who are new in sort of a little bit naive, and they kind of come in to for example our Facebook group, and I've, I've, you know I've went back and forth on this, just because I want to protect people from it snakes that get into their inbox. But you know what at the end of the day, it's kind of like people, they don't need a protector, you know, they just need education they need, they need to take responsibility for their own decisions, as well, they need to learn how to ask the right questions and vet people, if somebody comes into their inbox promising them some, you know pie in the sky and they go for it, it's kind of on them, you know what, I think, entrepreneurship, similar to capitalism, which is another is another kind of thing that we embrace here and in our era, right, land of opportunity, right. Some people don't like capitalism. I do. I also like programs that help people in need. I do like that as well. People who are underprivileged or disabled or have, I like that too but I love capitalism because capitalism is the kind of, you know, format that has allowed this old construction work in ex junkie, you know, to build a life and a business, you know and use online marketing which thankfully requires no degrees or experience or anything, and in some respects, that's a challenge because any old  yawho can come out here and talk should say he or she is the greatest thing since sliced bread and there's always going to be somebody who's going to be looking to buy some sliced bread, but in the other, respect, it gives anybody and everybody a chance. Anybody and everybody has a chance. And you know what, the beautiful thing is, we ultimately get exactly what we deserve, not based on our worth. But based on our output in our effort. 

Dave:  Right. Yeah. And I think that's a big smack in the face for a lot of people now who suddenly get back exactly what they put out. Yeah, and to take responsibility and ownership for that and to say, I'm exactly where I am because of me. What ends up for you as I say that, which is a tough pill to swallow, and you want to, people want to skirt around that, but ultimately, that is kind of what it boils down to.

Michelle: And that's why I'm in the business of helping kids with, this is a lot to swallow this type of business if you, if you've never been online digital marketing, business isn't a show.

Dave: What business isn't hard, they're all hard.

Michelle: I put that out of my lives about, you know, you have to learn the skills first, you can't just jump in or think you can learn, you can learn some things on YouTube when I tell them that, sure, but you don't have the actual systematic process what's the one one step two, step three, you're hoping that yields right. So, I tell them all you've got to learn plumbing to learn how to be a plumber. An electrician is one I mean electrician and affiliate marketer needs to learn how to market. And that's what Legendary Marketer gives you an education on how to do that, Just that. And I'm telling you my. Every night I go live, my leads would just blow up, because people, people, they got to trust you. If they don't trust you, they're gonna go somewhere else, and that's, I'm into building relationships with people and helping people.

Dave: Well let's talk about that for a second, I mean, I'm looking at your TikTok, which has been a focus of yours, you've got 46,000 followers there which can ultimately mean nothing. So, if you don't know what to do with these followers so those of you who are just judging and criticizing yourself because you don't have many followers, just stop just know that it doesn't matter you can have one video that blows up, and you get 100,000 followers, and then you have no, no idea what to do with them. You can have a couple of 100 or a couple of 1000 followers and have deep bonds, and add tons of value and make tons of money. Do you agree with Michelle and take us through how, what you would do if you were, day one what have you learned in the last six months today, that is generating the results that you're getting.

Michelle: Well, what I have learned is followers mean nothing. Followers mean nothing if you could have 15 followers, you could have 15,000 followers, what are you doing with those followers. If you're, if you're building relationships with those 15 people or you're not, you're treating them like nothing, then you don't deserve 15,000 followers, you've got to treat 15 followers like 15,000 followers, it doesn't matter. And I've learned that I've learned, then you've got to follow, let me just say that so everybody hears that. You got to treat 15 followers, like they're 15,000 followers, what do you do with them? So what So what do you do with them talk us through you said you go live every night you send your teaching, talk, talk us through kind of what that kind of looks like and of course we can go and we can follow you and see what that looks like but talk us through sort of what goes through your head when you're about to go live. Do you pre plan what you're going to say? Do you do Q and A's talk us through a little bit about your kind of planning and strategy.

Michelle: I do a lot and I think the army taught me this because once I learned something, it was just there, so I didn't do well like reading a script, I just, so I do, don't do a lot of planning, I have my tabs open to them there. But I basically take people through what affiliate marketing is because like I said there's a lot of people that have like no idea about this type of business so I started with hey you know Amazon right, Amazon has an affiliate program I take them, and I try to pick something different, Amazon, Home Depot, Lowe's, I pick another company, and then I open up my Google and I try to get them to interact with me by saying, Okay, give me a passion. Give me something and someone challenged me when that game was great and I found out Pez candy does not have an affiliate program. So I just typed in whatever they say and one guy was like a tree cutting service so I'm like three funding service affiliate program, and there was there was like yes in there, so I tried to get them to interact so I can show them, you can literally promote anything and then I take them through an affiliate marketing funnel, like what is a funnel, right, like people like what's the funnel, and I go through explaining that and then I take them through with using funnel Linux one an actual funnel is and how you take them through every company has upsells, what's an upsell, where you go to McDonald's you're like hey can I get an evergreen they're like, want fries with that, like that's an upsell, where you go, Hey, can I get a number to mail you want an apple pie with that I'm like That's enough. So, every company has them online buying something day by day to get a third free. That's an upsell, so I'm trying to get them in their own layman's terms, what do you think they mean and then I take them through. Picking a product builds it into an email sequence so granted I don't do extreme detail into any of those, but I let them see each piece of it. I go on to click funnels, I go into Active Campaign, I show them what it looks like so they can kind of visualize it in their own mind, and then it makes them like, oh, okay, well maybe it is easy. And then my, what I offer is I offer a 30 minute zoom call with everybody. I will, when you get finished with that 15 day challenge you schedule a call with me and let's get your system set up and running. So I give that to several people that I helped set up, and they're off to the races right now. It's awesome to watch them grow, I'm loving it. I'm loving that part of it. 

Dave: So, is that your bonus for them signing up through your link?

Michelle: I guess you could say and I do tell them that yes.

Dave: Okay, so kind of interesting guys to think about what, what can I do? What can I offer somebody to sign up through my link, right? Couple of things I just want to tease apart and point out, from what she said first of all we're working backwards with the bonus thing. That's a great bonus. And the reason why that's a great bonus is because if you can get on a zoom call, or, or a call with somebody. You can even do that earlier, Michelle, like I would even offer for you to say when you're on day four, like for example if you're an affiliate of Legendary and guys, I just want to be clear about this, everybody doesn't have to be an affiliate of Legendary and that's not a requirement for buying our products and it's a completely separate thing. We teach affiliate marketing and how to do it, the fundamentals which, as Michelle pointed out, the fundamentals were the same in every industry and in every niche so if you can understand how to do affiliate marketing and make money online space you can know how to do affiliate marketing, in the, the diabetes space or the help your baby go to sleep in their first six months of life's niche. So the reason why I say just back to the offering the Zoom call earlier, is because you may influence more of our blueprint sales for you if you say, book a call when you're, when you finish day three, right, when you finish day three, because then you can get on the phone, and you can tell them your experience, and you can give them a little bit of that third party validation in third party right versus when they get to the end of the 15 day challenge, because they see offers throughout the 15 day challenge, if they're serious about this and if they want to take their training and their experience and their commitment to the next level than that we have the blueprints programs. And so, it may help you, Michelle, to have that call after, say for example of once you finish the first three days of the challenge, book a call with me and give me a screenshot or so, some proof or just, or you could just say once you're finished with, with day three. Whoops, oh, I'm sorry, I thought I froze there for a second I thought I lost you. But yeah, do you see what I'm doing? You understand what I'm talking about, of moving that call earlier. I want to. Yeah, I want to. Alright cool, I think that would, I think that would really help. I think that really helps. But anytime you can be in contact with your customers, and Brittany Riddleball just pointed out, day three would be great for her because it's all about funnel building right so it kind of makes sense, right, because on day three, we talked about that. So just think about guys, when you're an affiliate of any product program or service. Make sure that you're familiar with the company that you're promoting their process, so you can plant your or or plant the seeds of your bonuses in the, in the right places. Okay, in the right places. So you can influence more sales because Legendary Of course, if somebody refers a customer to us, then we pay that customer, or that affiliate on everything the customer ever buys, which is, which is unique, that doesn't always happen. But, but, and that's a question that you want to ask yourself. When you become an affiliate for a company, do I get paid on everything they ever buy, it's just one of those things to consider. But since you do here at legendary at least, and that's what you pointed out, being aware of what happens on the back end of the company that you're promoting is important because you can place your bonuses or follow up calls or coaching calls, or at you know getting started Fast Start calls whatever you want to do or Fast Start bonuses or whatever you're offering as additional value for them to buy through your link. You can strategically place those in a way because if you've got on day three, you could say, Well, are you how are you liking this. Are you serious about this because there are going to be some other options. If you want to take things to the next level, and I don't always recommend everything for everybody, but if you're sub, and based on what you tell me I'll give you the recommendation but if you say you're serious. If you say you have a bit of a budget to be able to invest in your business, then you may want to consider taking them up on the blueprints because this is my opinion on them, and you, you'll learn more about them. 

Michelle: But, you see what I'm saying you can, and I’m really transparent about all of my lives in reference to blueprint people ask me, Did you buy the blueprints? like yeah I absolutely did it's worth every penny of it, you know, and it got me to where I'm at right now and I tell them, I can tell the people that reached out to me. They didn't purchase the blueprints. It's totally 100% obvious. The other thing I offer is my Facebook group, and I've had people that signed up under other under other people, that totally get in your group. You got to be an affiliate is literally a private group of my affiliate so we can become legendary together if you will, so all of my legendary marketer affiliates are in one group in one place. Let's help each other grow so let's go let's grow, I call it my moolah mentors tribe. 

Dave: Wow, that's cool. That's very cool. That's very cool.

Michelle: And it’s an Active Campaign if they sign up and that's why like on my beacons page you see more than one lake, because people on my lives like, how do I join the group. So I give them my Click Funnels or Active Campaign, I'll let you in my group, you've got to be an affiliate it's technically a group.

Dave: Yeah, you got to buy through my group. It's, it's, yeah, I mean affiliate marketing, like, it's it's cool because, like, you know, if I was like let's say that I had you guys got to be creative, too, like if I was somebody who already had a funnel builder which I want to I want to just mention funnel Builders here in a second why I think that it's the most time wasted bullshit thing that people spend tracks. Should I go with Click Funnels or build a roller. I mean I don't give a shit if you go mix for God's sakes, or, I mean, seriously guys, I know that I know that I'm being a little bit of an asshole right now, but it's like, stop wasting time, acting like whatever software you use is going to make you successful, it's not, you can use, Tom, Dick and Harry's funnel building website extraordinaire, the thing, the things going to go out of business in three months, doesn't matter, because you could build another one using another company, it's a commodity. The reason why we're not a software company is because I don't want to be in that business, quite frankly, we may come out with some software and some funnel builders in the future, wink wink, nudge nudge, but who gives a shit, you know what my message is going to be when we, when we if we ever get into software and selling any tools. It's going to be like, I don't give a shit if you buy ours or not. I don't give a shit, because it does, I don't care. Right. No, I honestly guys, I'll be completely frank with you, I don't give a shit if you buy training from us or not. You can buy training from Tom, Dick or Harry, right, you can buy training from Gary the guru, if that's where, if your heart and your gut says, Who is cheaper, and you want to go buy from Gary the guru. Uh, well welcome you back with open arms when you realize that you made a mistake, or hopefully you don't make a mistake, hopefully. But here's the thing is that people think that I really care, and I'm going to sit up here and convince you to try to buy this or that or like it, guys, it's all about, like software and training or different software is like we're to the point now to where there's so many different options out there. It doesn't matter. Just close your eyes and throw a dart, because you're it's not going to matter, the software you have, it's about how you use it, it's kind of like I used this analogy in the Facebook group do they somebody was like, you know, for the millionth time Clickfunnels or Builderall or ActiveCampaign or I get that. I just like to say look okay. No carpenter goes into Home Depot and sits around in a circle, Jay, if you know what I mean, asking the other carpenters, what brand of a hammer, do you use, nobody does it because every hammer drives and nails, it's, you can get the most expensive hammer and I've been on construction sites with guys who it's kind of like the asshole who buys the pic set of pings in golf clubs, right, and thinks that's going to make his game better and he still goes out there and throws his back out because he's digging into the. He sucks, the better the clubs don't make you a bit like it's like, I'll use a military reference, you can have the newest, best most badass ar 15 The most expensive one, or you can have the old Hound Dog thing with a little bit of rust, and you know what it ain't gonna make you a better sniper. If you can't, if you don't know how to shoot the gun, you're still going to be an asshole who can't get the gun, am I right.

Michelle: You're absolutely right. That's exactly it. I like to use Clickfunnels but I became very proficient in that software. Okay, so I like to give my students, my fans, you know, options. Okay, well let me try to learn a different software, try and learn something new. So once you find one that resonates with you, it doesn't matter, it's just a tool, like you said, it's just a tool. Find it. If it's easy for you to use, use it. And that's exactly what I did. So, when to write the software, it's just a tool to get you to where you want to be and it doesn't matter what tool you use

Dave: Somebody who's listening to this for the very first time is going this guy here is something else he's a. This isn't very professional, but it's like a part. Tired of professional art yeah tired of smoke being blown up your ass. Aren't you tired of Gary the guru who comes in the nice Su and just blows absolute snake oil right up your anus. I know I am. I'm just tired of all of this bullshit. That is, Like, my thing is about. This software is the best. It's like no it's not, it's because you know what the reason why we sell training is because what you put on pages, what you write in emails, what you say on videos, that's what matters. It's not the software that you use, it's just, it's, it's not. Nobody gives a shit that you're in a suit or not in a suit that you've got your hair combed or brushed or not that you've got makeup on or not, that you're overweight or underweight or, or that your voice is high pitched or low pitch to whatever that you're Christian or Muslim or black who honestly they, it really, we don't care. We just give a shit if you care, and we and we care that you're actually telling, and teaching and give adding value you're, you're telling me something in my life, because as a human being, I'm a selfish bastard who the only thing I care about when I'm watching a video is how does this apply to me, that's human nature. Yeah, yeah,  and you're doing that well because you're focusing on being interested in people's needs, Instead of trying to be interesting yourself.

Michelle: Yeah, right. And that, I'll tell you, one day that changed the fear game for me when it came to videos like I was a stuffed shirt on YouTube videos. I'm sure. I'm like, God, you suck. So when I started going live, that's when I kind of came out of my shell and I became, Michelle, and I'm just like, like everybody comes in my life, they're like oh my god I love your energy and I'm like it's so not fake I'm like yeah, this is crazy. Come hang out with me, and people do and they love it and they need that motivation, like, let me show you how to do something like this, I literally make TikTok videos for a living.

Dave: If you're, you know, here's the problem, if you're being a stiff ass, and you are putting too much, you know, everybody can tell if you're trying to be perfect, you know what I mean, and what you're doing is you're reminding them of that school professor that they hate that made learning boring, insurance, and that's honestly that's subconsciously what people are thinking, it's like the minute they tune into your, whatever, and it's just like your old stiff professor, you know, whatever and they're like, this sucks like I don't want. So there's an element that you should all give yourself permission to just let let your hair down a little bit, you know, I would almost challenge everybody to look your worst, right, for like 30 days just instead of worrying about the hair and the makeup in the, in for us guys, It's still the same thing it's the hair and, you know, I mean it's like, I gotta, I gotta get the part right and I gotta, you know, whatever I mean you should have seen me when I first started I'm this ex, homeless, recovering drug addict who's homeless and doing drugs 30 days, you know, not 30 days ago I was still trying to glue my ass back on after 30 days but I got an online market about 12 months after I got clean in 2008. And here I am trying to you know be on video and have my hair and I'm like hi, my name's Dave Sharpe, it's like, that was the most, Not me. And everybody sniffed it out because they got a built-in BS detector. Everybody has that nowadays, and when they sniff out, you know you trying to be perfect so that back to my piece of advice, you know, everybody's trying, branding, and let me show you how to build your brand, right and it's like, no, don't listen to anybody here's how to build your brand. Look, your the worst for 30 days one why. Because you're going to get comfortable in your own skin. In the best brand that you can ever develop is a brand that's authentic. Why do you think, Ilan musk, I'll never forget I was watching Joe Rogan which I never watch this shit because it's three hours long and I'm like, I don't have time for this, but I do like Elon and I'll never forget, Elon was on Joe Rogan's podcast, and Joe bust out this massive spliff. You know what I mean there's a huge joint, and he fires it up in the lungs, the richest guy in the world. You know what I mean. And Joe takes a couple of jokes and passes it to Elon and Elon is like, is this illegal, and basically you could, he didn't say fuck it, but you could just tell he's like, is this illegal. Okay. You take a couple of jokes and then hand it back to Joe Rogan, right, it's like, come on, you don't I mean, that's the most bad. It's crazy. Like so. There's an element of quote letting our hair down and I think that the first those first 30 days would be good if everybody, Or the next 30 days gave themselves, took on that challenge to put less emphasis on yourself and how you look and sound, and just more emphasis on, because if you know you look like shit, like and nobody that I think looks like shit but if you know, that's not what you're focusing on tonight I'm gonna get ready, no showers, wrinkled clothes I seriously. I think I've worn it probably three or four times. It was literally laying on the floor when I came in at a tank top and I just picked this shirt up off the floor, and I put it on. It's probably dirty, maybe has a little fungus in the armpits, I have no idea. I don't care, because it's not important

Michelle: Right it’s not important, you know what I mean. Right, I can’t smell you. That's it 100% If I Was anybody out there that's new. That's like being scared by giving anybody some advice, it would just be yourself. Okay, people don't read, there are some people that don't resonate with me because of my energy and the way I talk or whatever and they're like okay this growth rate I can't, I can't. So they don't, they're not going to come to my world. But there's tons of people that do resonate with me and my energy just like someone's going to resonate with someone else because they're. I'm not gonna say stuff here but because they're a little more professional than I am, you know, to me, you're going to get your own unique audience because of your unique self. So be yourself. That's it. Don't try to be anybody else. We'll all take it.

Dave: I think the problem is people because of how society sucks, our identity from us. It's like when we finally want to turn the page on our life and start a new chapter of entrepreneurship for building a business, something like this and somebody tells you to be yourself. So almost like I don't even know who I am. I've been a mom for 20 years, or I've been in the military for 30 years, or I've been at a job in a cubicle for 20 years, I don't even know who I am. And so I think part of this journey, and that's why it's been actually therapeutic for me which I'm not saying that, by our shit and it's gonna be therapy. I'm not saying that this business has been therapeutic for me because it has, It has allowed me, or it's challenged me to focus more on others instead of being so self absorbed about myself and am I okay am I doing this right. Do I look okay which is what society kind of is, it's always about Image, Image, Image, Image, Image, in being perfect in sounding perfect and all this bullshit. And I think that for me, it's been this great sort of, it's almost been a it's been a it's been a secondary benefit you know is it's challenged me to be more comfortable in my own skin, and the more comfortable I've gotten in my own skin, the more that I've embraced who I am, the more that I've accepted who I am, with all my flaws and imperfections all the things that even other people have criticized. Oh, Dave, you're too hyper Dave you're arrogant, Dave this Dave that we're all the things shots that people have taken over the years, I've just, you know, in, in, I've turned all those struggles in the strengths, like if I am a little manic, you know, it's, I am a little bit, so I try to put that energy into, into my, my content in hyper now and then I'll, I'll maybe I'll be calmer for the rest of the day my wife will have to deal with me bouncing off the walls. You know, because I drive her friggin nuts, you know, when I don't know I'm like a dog that needs to be walked every day. And if I don't, I'm like annoying everybody around me. Right. you know, but I don't know I just, it's, it's, I think that this business, being an entrepreneur particularly online marketing but all the different ways that we can channel energy and emotion out even trauma I've turned struggles in the strengths by taking my past with addiction and so forth, and talked about that which has had an element of a therapeutic element to it. I've turned those struggles in my strengths by mess into a message, and it's been a channel for me to channel emotions, whether they're, you know, happy or sad or angry or mad. It's, I'm channeling those out into and I'm also working on accepting myself because I'm getting on camera with all my flaws and imperfections, all my gray hairs and wrinkles, and I'm just focusing more on you than I am on me, which fills my spirit in it and the end result is more happiness, more impact and income isn't a weird how we, in order, there's a sane and recovery 12 step recovery that says if you, you can't keep what you have unless you give it away. And what that means is, you can't stay sober unless you help others stay sober, and that is a paradox, and I think it works the same way in this business that you can't keep what you have, or gain more until you give what you have a way,

Michelle: That's the knowledge, it's the knowledge that we have. So, I learned something, I teach it. Hey guess what I just learned today, check this out. And so you Yes, and I can't. I think it was Brian. Man, Brian, I'm just saying, You know what I mean I am not worthy, Brian. I'm telling you, he is, he got me to where I'm at because I'll tell you what, so many life, life happens, life happens to every one of us, and it's how you come out of that and how you use, you know your strength I lost my sister I lost my father like two years ago,

Dave: My condolences to you and your family for those recent losses.

It's how you come out of that and how you, you build on that. And that's, that's been my Michelle: strength, and I know that I kind of miss them every single day. And I know they would be so excited to see me right now. Sure, but to teach other people and to help other people is what I find I meant to do. So when I was a millionaire, it's really irrelevant to me. I want to help other people that are struggling, you know, and show them that there are ways that you can do this without showing your face on camera. Let me show you how. There are ways to get over that fear and I tell them to go down and look at my first video, you'll see, go look at my YouTube that first one. Yeah, no, not good. Okay, but I'm learning and the more you learn, the more comfortable you get in the skin, you're developing, if that makes any sense. 

Dave: You know, I'm getting a lot more knowledge every day so I can't tell people enough, you just got to start, the only thing you have to do is start, are you an action taker, take some action,

but I'm not an action taker, learn how to be learned how to develop that muscle you're born a certain way, born an action taker and I know that because I'm watching my six month old work his ass off trying to learn how to crawl. I mean, I'm telling you we're all fighters. We're all fighters, we all fought early in life. And over time we just had different messages that were given to us from different people in society and so forth TV television shows all this kind of stuff, professors, teachers, bosses, that just kind of put a blanket on that. And I'm telling each one of you, we are fighters, I'm telling myself this too, I got a, you know, I'm a fighter, you got to tell yourself, I'm a fighter, it's in my nature. I thought to walk, I fought to crawl, I fought for everything that I have. I fought to stay alive, in many cases, I can, I can fight, and I can get anything that I want to show your proof of and you're not just inspiration for, you know, service people who are coming out and that's not easy. I don't have personal experience with that. But I also am not stupid. I know, particularly for people who have been exposed to traumatic things , and you're in the military for any amount of time you're going to be exposed to some things that are traumatic, maybe more people than others but that's not easy to transition. It's not easy to transition out of any career, but particularly out of military service, my lord. So your inspiration for those people and I would encourage any of you guys if you are having challenges making that transition you're recently out of the service or you're going to be in the near future connect with Michelle and gain some experience strength hope from her around that particular area, but you're also an inspiration for all of us civilians who are just trying to figure our shit out. And, and, you know, survive and thrive on a daily basis in a new area and a new business and get things kind of going so thank you for that. Keep up the fantastic work. It's wonderful. It's beautiful. It looks good on you. And I hope that you'll come back and keep us updated and lead me to learn from you and gain from awesome energy.

Michelle: Absolutely, my pleasure. Dave, thanks so much for having me. It's been great, it's been a great experience. I can't wait for more, I can't and I just got one piece of advice for anybody out there listening, you got to go get it. Ain't nobody got to give it to you. You got to go get it, so go get it.

Dave: There you go, Michelle, thank you so much, it's wonderful and beautiful. Have a great day, and again thank you for your service. 

Michelle: Thank you so much. Appreciate it. 

Dave: All right, my friends, there it is, we've got her, you know, TikTok up there. You can connect with her, and, and follow her and also please remember that you can go back and listen to these episodes on Apple, and on Spotify, Just look us up, Wake Up, Legendary. For those of you who are not kind of getting these little text message reminders every day they're really nice to get, I get them as well. You can see, is all we sent is just a little reminder with a description of the episode, and then a link so you can click directly to the live, okay so that is on the screen you can text the letters WUL caps or no caps doesn't matter WUL 2813-296-8553 Get on that text message list because tuning into this part of the community that everybody talks about is, is getting to see and hear from people every day. Like Michelle, who are using the strategies, the training, leaning on the community, and going out there and changing the world, but most importantly changing their world. And you got to start with you, you got to start with your home, your family yourself, and then work out from there. And the more people you help the more money you'll make. That's just how business works. All right, my friends. I'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode. Get the hell out of here, be Legendary.

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How To Start Your Business At 19

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Dave: What is going on my friends, welcome to Wake Up Legendary. It's a special Memorial episode. Happy Memorial Day to all of anybody who's celebrating particularly here in America. Yeah, thank you to all the Vets. And, you know, those who are in our community that have served here as an American that's a freedom man, freedom. It's an important thing, and it's our most important and treasure thing, and allows us to have, you know, the life that we have which, you know, as you guys can see this morning I'm gonna be with my son here. We're going to be doing our normal stroll here around the pool here. This is our kind of little. This is our little laugh track that we take quite a bit, and we're all after freedom, aren't we, that's why we do what we do. And so that's a good, it's a good having that gratitude for freedom this morning. Well, we got the sprinklers on so we could avoid getting wet here too. That's an inconvenient thing. Okay, my friends, well we've got a young entrepreneur. This dude has been hustling since he was 11 years old with some Instagram accounts and we'll hear a little bit about how he's been able to grow his TikTok account to over 100,000 people, and just rock and roll. So with that being said let's bring in James to the show.

James: Hey, how's it going? 

Dave: What's up, my man. How are you doing, brother? 

James: I'm doing good. Doing good, happy to be here. You're a young buck man tell us how old you are 

James: I’m 19 Right now, man. Wow, wow,

Dave: That's that's incredible to be doing what you're doing at 19 You know I feel like a grandpa here with the old school back when I was 19 You know I was, but I won't hit you with that, you know I was doing very different things when I was 19. So, you've got a, an awesome start but this isn't, this is this isn't the first chapter of your journey, tell us a little bit about what you've been doing, you know, for many years now, and kind of how you, how you see the internet being something that's a tool for you that you've been using ever since I guess 11 years old, right?

James: Yeah, definitely. so I'm pretty much when I started, I pretty much just started an Instagram account where I was posting things that I thought were funny. And all my friends followed it and you know it was going good, and then that's when Instagram kind of released their popular page feature. Back then, and occasionally my posts would get on the popular page and you know before I knew it I had about 7, 000 followers, and this was not me showing my face or anything like that you know strictly just reposting content I thought was funny. 

Dave: Memes right? I mean as we know them now as names right? 

James: Yeah. Back then they weren't called memes and people just thought I was weird, but yeah. 

Dave: Even though you're young, you're an OG, in the meme game. 

James: Oh yeah, definitely, definitely. And got to about 7000 followers and then that's when other accounts started trying to connect with me, asked me to do like shout out for shout out, so we would pretty much shout out each other's accounts, and you know it might sound easy but you know it was a hustle because each shout out with like 15 minutes so you had to be there to delete it and then ask them to repost it things like that. I would come back from, you know, 6/7 grade and have to be hustling on my Instagram accounts, and before I knew it, it's, you know, about three months and I had actually reached 100,000 followers on Instagram. That's probably not that impressive nowadays but back then, you know, when it first came out that was like a gold mine. 

Dave: That was like a very impressive bro I think that's even impressive nowadays but continue. James: Yeah, so, um, and then on my account and actually the day I reached 110,000 followers I remember I was sitting out back, and had a company, reach out to me on direct message, and they were offering me $750 For a shout out, and then I was like what's a shout out, you know, I had no clue what was going on I solely started this Instagram account, because I thought it was cool, you know, the followers, they were like a bonus, you know, everybody on my school thought it was pretty cool and then, you know, I was like, oh wow this is actually a way to make money, and, you know, from there, I would do shout outs, and I was kind of doing too much and I noticed the more you would do, the more your followers didn't like it. So you know I kind of found the way to steal it out what I would do one or two a week instead of doing them, you know, every day, and I was too young to have a PayPal account and I had one set up anyway and I remember my account had reached the $5,000 mark and that's whenever they make you verify with an ID or something like that. I wasn't able to do that and that's kind of like told my parents about everything because they were pretty skeptical, not gonna lie. And they were like, You did what? It was pretty cool you know they didn't really, they still really don't understand what I do but they know it works. But yeah and then from there, from that Instagram account. I started gaining up other ones so I had a little monopoly so anytime an account would ask for a shout out, I'd be like, Yeah, and I have all these other accounts, and ended up getting to a million followers on a couple different accounts, sold a couple of them a couple of them got hacked. And then whenever my biggest one got hacked. That's whenever I kind of transitioned away from Instagram. I put literally years worth of work into an account just for Instagram to do some back end stuff for employees there and completely take it from me. 

Dave: Wow, you think it was employees? 

James: God, yeah we have it all proven, but really nothing we could do about it. Super driving, but got out of that and actually I got on the bike a little bit more. And then my calendars disappeared one day whenever they deleted the app, but yeah I went from Instagram to fine back to Instagram for a little while and then I took a little break, started a Social Media Marketing Agency, and I still have packed going, and now I do the TikTok stuff.

Dave: Okay, awesome! How many clients do you have in your agency? Is that is that is that are you are you doing what, and we'll talk about the affiliate marketing thing here in a second but I was just wondering what are you doing with the agency because that can be fairly overwhelming for people to get clients but then, most of all, service those clients, and keep them on retainer which is where the kind of longer term money comes from. So what are you doing to what, what, what's included in your social marketing services and how long have you kept clients?

James: So, great question, the longest I've actually had a client, it's the planet still to this day. About a year and four months. It is definitely harder to keep them, you know intrigued in the social media marketing,

Dave: But so are you getting you know they've got to ideally see some sort of result right I mean, that's, that's kind of the biggest challenge is if you're going to keep somebody on retainer they got to be seen some sort of result but so and so what are you charging and what are you doing for them, I'm just somewhat curious, not that I want to advocate for that model for most of our clients here but I'm just curious because you're a savvy young guy and I'm just curious what you're doing.

James: So yeah, the bare minimum I would charge is sixty, a month, and that would include Instagram. Instagram, you know, running an Instagram account running Facebook account managing the Facebook advertising, and if they would want YouTube advertising their email marketing done anything else, extra, it would be, you know, probably about 150 more, but I like to look. Oh, yeah, like that's a month

Dave: $150 for email marketing and YouTube though that's cheap.

James: Well, yeah, I would pretty much be with YouTube I wouldn't include anything extra. I would pretty much be running the same Facebook ad that I would create for them on YouTube as well.

Dave: Right. Which, which in some respects, the creative that works well on Facebook doesn't always work well on YouTube question with clients and I just think, just to kind of move the agency piece along a little bit is, I think the question for a guy like you, who's developed your marketing skills, and you're at a place now to where you kind of know how to get results. And then, the question I think becomes time management, and then out, you know, like, where you spend Where are you going to get the most bang for your time. So, I think, I think the question that I would be asking myself if I was you and I'm curious if you've asked this and what the answer is, is, why not go 110% into your own stuff and just, just leave all the client stuff alone, because is it, is it not stepping over dollars to pick up dimes to be wasting your time and it's not a waste of time it's generating income it's, you know, but if you don't have a plan to keep a long term agency, are you stepping over dollars to pick up dimes, to still be keeping on these clients, or have you gotten systematize to where it's only a couple of minutes a week or whatever you understand my question?

James: Yeah I definitely see where you're coming from, um, so, pretty much, I kind of do have things almost on autopilot right now obviously I do have to go meet with my clients thinking like, in the month reports and the take pictures, things like that, but I have a majority of their Instagram, Facebook posts scheduled at the beginning of the month of content planned out, it's already, you know, click a couple buttons, and it's that you know posts, going up every Tuesday and Thursday on this account every Wednesday and Friday on this account. So there's not much you know there's not much. I can't really forget to do anything because I take care of it at the beginning of the month, but I definitely see where you're coming from. Landing a client is definitely hard, keeping them is even harder. That's kind of why I kept my theory that I know they're gonna stick with me, and, you know, went all in on affiliate marketing so I look at both affiliate marketing and my marketing agency is passive, but like you said, it's definitely not minutes a week but, you know, an hour a week for an extra, you know $1,500 bucks a month really doesn't hurt you. 

Dave: No, no, no, and I the reason why I'm asking the question, is just to kind of give listeners also, That, that kind of question to keep in their back pocket as you grow your business, things that you did at the beginning of your business to kind of scrap dollars to just put money in your bank account because that's what you do at the beginning of any business is you do whatever you got to do to put money in the bank, you know what I mean like you do whatever you got to do you, you coach. I mean, a lot of times if you're getting into coaching or something, you might take on a couple of clients for free or agency work just to get some testimonials, you know what I mean. But as you grow your business and have more success. It's really all about making decisions about what is the 20% that I'm doing that's getting me 80% of my results. And what is the 80% that I'm doing, that's giving me 20% of my results, that if I let that go, even though that's hard, even though it's hard to let 15 $100 A month ago if I use your example. If I let that go and freed up that time space and that mental space. How much more could I generate. If I went all in on the big levers in my business, you know, because there's big levers and they're small levers and usually in my experience, and again I'm talking to everybody here not just you James is my experience is oftentimes the things that are tedious and stressful and kind of take up the most of my time, oftentimes are the things that bring in the lit the least results in for example I'll give you all an example, people who pay $7 for our challenge, are the biggest, complainer's, and I appreciate every single customer. I really do. I love you all, but I'm just telling you not to talk to you but get you to think about it. Also, what to expect in this industry, in any industry, the freebie seekers, the people who spend the least always have the most questions and complaints, and the people who spend the most who are not who are, who kind of have an abundant mindset, we're not, we're willing to invest more into their education, you know, who, you know, our, our, our, the higher pain premium clients always have the least amount of complaints because they take more responsibility. Right, so. So anyways, I mean, again, back to my point, which I'm just bringing this up for everybody, is that oftentimes as you grow your business, you have more choices, you do have choices you may not feel like you have choices, but you do have choices. And the choice, oftentimes becomes, what do I need to take off my plate. In order to create more space for the things that are generating the most results in the most revenue with the least amount of work. Does that make sense to you, James?

James: Yeah, yeah, definitely. 

Dave: So how did you get into affiliate marketing and what's your, what I mean, I saw your TikTok you're over 100,000 on there. How long have you been on TikTok, to talk a little bit about finding Legendary. Talk to us like this next because you've taken us through the first few chapters of your life which are super interesting dude, super impressed by talking us through these, these latest chapters, how is that going?

James: So yeah, obviously, the marketing agency was a bit harder to scale. I knew I knew I needed something else I knew, you know, even if it wasn't the marketing agency needed to be something online, and that's actually, when my friend Braden Ebert. Do you remember, he actually, you know, we're from the same hometown Houma Louisiana, coma, yeah yeah about 4040 miles south of New Orleans. 

Dave: Nice man some south east folks, I'm over here in St. Pete, Florida. 

James: Gotcha. But yeah we he pretty much reached out and he was like, pretty much, I'm like known around town, make money online, I know what I'm doing, he reached out and he asked me, you know, man, you're like man you got that offline presence too. But he pretty much asked me, he's like, you know anything about Dave Sharpe? And I was like, No, not really. And he was like, you know, I'm about to enroll in this challenge I don't really know how it's gonna go for me, that he started up, and I was actually trying to get him to work with me on my marketing agency because you know around here, there really aren't that many people that want to, 

Dave: Or anywhere but I feel what you're saying is like in the South. Right, it's like, people can be super skeptical, right.

James: Yeah, and Braden was like, you know, he didn't really want to go in with, because he wanted to go all in with this, you know challenge and I was like, bro, you're probably wasting your time all this and all that, and you know it, probably about two weeks later and it's like I'm gonna start promoting on TikTok all this and all that I was just like yeah go for it, whatever, whenever it comes back and he's like, Dude I made five grand my first month. Right, well, what were you doing like them out, look you're over here you're over here, posting on Instagram for 650 a month. Right. Exactly. And, you know, I did my own research on you and came across the challenge to enroll in it myself. And here's the thing while I was taping the challenge I was just like, wow, because for years I sold people Instagram shoutouts that would literally go to a funnel, it would go to you know a $3 ebook and I was like, There's no way these people are making their money back from paying me $300 For a shout out, and now I know how the business model works and it's just like could have been doing this for years, you know.

Dave: So, that kind of was your introduction into really, really not only affiliate marketing, but also kind of using marketing funnels and more complex sale systems right yeah definitely 100%. Nice man, so what's your experience? When was that? 

James: Oh, So this was probably about two months ago. 

Dave: Wow, man. Wow, so. So in the last two months, how have things changed? How is life in business different?

James: So honestly when I was running the marketing agency I knew I could be lazy with it so I wasn't always you know trying to achieve more, I would just have like waves of motivation, and I'm like yeah I'm going to land on these clients and then time would come around, you know, just really wouldn't happen but you know what affiliate marketing, I like that I don't really have to deal with clients, and I'm a lot more motivated to do work, you know, I know no matter what I have about an hour of work to do each day, and other than that I'm done, but I really tried to make myself put in the hour each day. Really just keeps me motivated you know and especially seeing. I know it's not good to compare yourself to other people's results but seeing other people get good results, and you know having the Legendary community, you know the Facebook groups, things like that, it's just, it's all it's all really motivating and it's great. What you guys got going on.

Dave: Thanks, man. Thanks. Well, it's, you know, I'm sure people are watching you right now, feeling the same way, you know, and I constantly challenged people to get into being inspired versus, versus being being critical of yourself, you know, when you see other people that are succeeding, but I'm sure people are inspired by this conversation what you're doing as well. I want to you know I want to zero in a little bit on that, like how I don't have to deal with customers, you know, I think it's kind of a funny thing to say but it's so true right it's like when with all this other, with, with every other business model, you got to deal with customers, I mean, every other business model on mine, you got to deal with customers, I don't give a damn what they say in the webinar, right, it's like Amazon drop shipping, particularly marketing agencies, even coaching, consulting and events which is one of the things that we teach in selling information, there's kind of four business models we teach, but, but really if you're new, we encourage people to do affiliate marketing first because focus on the marketing aspect you can focus on one kind of department of your company, which is the marketing department, and you can spend as much time as you want or need in that department, getting good at, you know, creating content running ads, writing emails, dialing in your message, right, getting clarity on who you're talking to all those things you can take as long as you need and still make significant income, Because, because of the model because if you partner with big companies, then you can then they'll take care of that stuff on the back end. And it kind of really is the most timeless business model that's existed on the internet. And I think that looking at how some of these other companies like Uber and Airbnb and stuff has kind of taken the model to like a whole nother level of connecting people who have products to people who want those products. And, but, but, you know, I mean, obviously they've taken it to the next level because they're doing customer support and stuff but it is kind of affiliate marketing because they don't own any of the products, they don't. He doesn't own any hotels, Uber doesn't own any cars. So it's, I think it's your perspective here of the marketing agency stuff this morning and how it compares to affiliate marketing not that good, bad, whatever. What I'm looking at is what's better, what's worse versus for, I mean it's not kind of like that. It's just, just, just one eye wide open. Just understand the game, understand what's what, what is available out there if you want to go in, like if you're doing affiliate marketing those of you here's another thing that pops up a lot. It's like, okay I'm doing affiliate marketing, I'm getting pretty good results with affiliate marketing, I've got a little bit of momentum with affiliate marketing, now all of a sudden, like somebody reaches out to me and says, you know, will you build my funnel, or will you, you know, Do you know take on my run my ads or whatever, you've got to carefully balanced that in if you're going to take on a job, to, to bring in some extra income. That's cool. I kind of encourage that in some respects, that if you, if you have extra time, go put an ad up on. Go put an ad up on freelancer and, and, in do some copywriting games, right, must be eyes wide open about how you spend your time, and if you're having momentum with affiliate marketing. Then, then, be careful about shiny objects, and just become a garbage can of whatever you know opportunity comes your way, because that's one of the ways to get distracted. Right, and lose momentum. And I don't know if you've, it sounds like you've been pretty focused on what you've been doing. But I also think that we're all vulnerable to that because we're business opportunity seekers like we're entrepreneurs. So it's kind of like, you know, like I saw one of your textbooks and you're like, you know I'm making money online, and I'm not making it from Dogecoin I'm not making it from this I'm not making it from that. Some people will make $1 however they can. Great. Desperation mindset. But my point is that building a real business who succeeds long term has a lot to do with focus, insane notice right. Tell me what's coming up for you as I'm saying that because I think this is going to be something that's going to be important for you in the coming months and years.

James: You know, with having a TikTok I've had a lot of, like, random little cryptocurrency people ask me to, You know blow up their coin that offers they've gotten pretty good money just to make you know a couple of videos about this like, why am I. These people who put their trust in me and, you know, to help them start their own affiliate marketing business. Like why would I do that?

Dave: Like to go all on your account and be like, go buy this coin go buy. Yeah bro. Yeah, that's some shady ass like right like that you have to make right is like do I want to take do this quick cash grab. And maybe violate my audience's trust. I want to play the long game.

James: Yeah, and you know, I was pretty good money, you know, they offered me like 700 bucks or three, like to make free videos like for each video, and I thought about it for a little while but you know at the end of the batch really could. And you know I just do things like that and I'm gonna have to keep my guard up for it because I know obviously the bigger I get the bigger, they're going to be offering, but you know it's things like that kind of watch out for. Definitely, definitely see what you're talking about.

Dave: So being a content creator being somebody who's good at this, I mean, obviously you've been doing it now for eight years or so like creating content on Instagram and various platforms, TikTok now and in two months, year over 100k And you know what you're doing. So, give us some things that if you, you know that you've done in the past two months to kind of, kind of blow up your, your account like maybe two to three tips are things that you do, that anybody could kind of take and run with and get results with.

James: Yeah, definitely. So, um, you know, first things first TikTok. Personally I feel like they're looking more like quantity over quality. You know, if you, if starting off, I really recommend you try to post eight videos a day it might sound like a lot but it just takes one of those videos to go viral for you to make it, or whatever you want to call it. Eight posts a day, as soon as you can go live on target, Definitely go live, when you go live, they push out your old content like crazy trying to get you new viewers to stay consistent to, you know, my two months and I think I've only taken three days off. In total, where I haven't posted anything which has absolutely been instrumental in sure but, um, you know, I just, I see the bigger picture, you know, always, always try to look at the bigger picture. And a big thing you want to avoid know that there's no difference between, there's literally no difference for anybody on TikTok account, at least there's no difference between me and you like I, obviously there were hard times when trying to gain it and I thought anybody that gained a TikTok account they just got super lucky, you know, it's really not the case there's like a proven strategy if you post, they're gonna push your content out. It's really just up to you how much you post, and you know, the quality of content you put out there, but provide value, you know, provide value for sure.

Dave: You got a, you gotna schtick it all? Do you know what I mean by like a schtick, like, it's kind of like this is like your thing, you know, like, a couple of my sticks are, like, some like the brand name that I like always try to kind of wear the same thing so my, my image, always.

James: I have to wear a black shirt and the same jacket every time I'm making TikTok. Also if anything I don't have my brand on it but I feel like people can see me more and more, they probably see the same thing they recognize me and maybe follow.

Dave: Right. Also like I saw a guy this morning on the talk that was like this, Dan, like he was like a. He was like a, like, he was not in our niche or he was not even doing affiliate marketing it didn't seem like he was just doing content creation, building up his, his account but he would go to the gas station, and he would jump out of his truck, and to a to a song, and do a little dance right there at the gallery. He was like this kind of, you know, you know this, this, this kind of stocky, well built, handsome cowboy looking guy. And, you know, like I said he would, he would, he would hop out, you pull his like 90, plus percent of his videos for him pulling up to the gas station hopping out of the gas station. Out of this truck is doing a little dance. And then we had a guy a couple of weeks ago, who did his name but he was super cool. He was in his bathroom right there, his schtick was that he was in his, in his bathroom and his whole concept was like learn how to make money online from your bathroom. Right. And usually comedians have shticks, you know, like when you're a performer, you kind of, you want to be known for certain things, certain lines certain jokes, certain, you know, certain stories, certain parts about your personality, and I'm kind of, I'm kind of saying this because it's, it's, it's a great strategy. It's great to be known for something, because if you're not known for something or you don't have something that kind of sticks or stands out, that you do over and over again to kind of become that guy or that girl. You can just blend in, right and then you just, you know, it's like, it's like you don't really build a brand like every great brand is known for something, you know what I mean they're known for something. So do you have any kind of sticks or what comes up for you as I as I as I talk about this. Do you feel like you need one you thought about it I mean, obviously, the clothing deal going on. 

James: I mean, obviously, we got it, I think I definitely need one. You know only, only like random sort of thing I could think that I have going is like James is the guy to go to if you want to you know find out about a side hustle if it's legit have run with it, you know, but no, no, like, I guess physical kind of brands or no, what do you call it?

Dave: A schtick. Like, there is like a thing that like, it's like a word that comedians use, right, like, it's like a weapon. Your song and dance like your act like your, you know what I mean, like, but it doesn't particularly have to it can be just like hey stick is he's always got like, I don't know if you ever remember flavor. Flavor the rapper, he always had the big clock as a necklace or, you know, I mean, somebody might always, like, wear a certain kind of hat or be in a certain place, so for us as content creators and online marketers, again, a good example of his shtick is the guy who's always in the bathroom. Right. It's just something that catches your attention, and it's just different. Right. And for me, I guess my schtick has kind of been my story right my store I've been so transparent and open when I get on a video I'm just like, I'm an ex heroin addict who is homeless, that's kind of been my stick right it's kind of like, it's a dramatic, like, almost embarrassing like most people would be super ashamed. Most people never share anything about that kind of stuff. Right, it's kind of something that even if you had it you just kind of people are just embarrassed about it for whatever reason. Maybe it's because they, I don't know, it doesn't matter to me why they're embarrassed I just I'm not and maybe it's because I'm sober right I don't get high anymore. So it's, You know I can talk about it. But anyways, I'm just, I'm just offering this because for you, James. I think that you're so you're so good at, at, you know, you're you're savvy, you're so good at creating the kind of content you get it, you understand the platforms, how they work. And I think that if you developed a bit more of a shtick. Like, what's your thing, what's your thing that you need to use sometimes for us content creators. It can be something that we say at the beginning or the end of our videos like I always say, be legendary. Right. Like, that's kind of a shtick, you know, people say that back to me, You know what I mean, they say, be legendary. You know what I mean. And I got like the hat. There's a guy on Instagram, in social media called Ed my left, he's a big, you know, kind of motivational personal development guy, and he should schtick is max out, you know, like max out your day max out your life max out everything he's like max everything out. Anyways, it's just, I think it's for everybody to think about is, like, what are you known for, you know, if you're not known for something, then you're going to be just blend in with everybody, I mean if you think about brands that are really like look at popular brands and ask yourself what are they known for what is what is what is what is what is Apple known for, like, what is like somebody's Legendary brands, they're known for things, when they've got a schtick and you look at content creators if you kind of look at really successful content creators and marketers online. Oftentimes they have a bit of a stick and even if it's something that they say somewhere every time. Just what are they known for, you'll, you'll, you know, it'll take you to the next level if you can develop that. Right, that's absolutely. So, well, what, what, what would you tell somebody man who says, I love this story to about Braden and you and how that I just helped funny as that was he both, he hated know what the hell he was doing now he's crushing him and he's, you know, I mean he's just taken off, you would never think you would never know. He was just, it's hard to think of people when you see them succeeding and confident that they were just as unsure about what the hell they were doing, as, as anybody else. You think that gives us a lot of transparency and such a good thing to know. And then you too. It's like you were like a waste your time that come over here and, you know, posts on Facebook for clients with me, you know, I mean, your brain was probably going to make a 100th of what he's making to come over and post on Facebook accounts and stuff with you and, and then eventually you kind of followed in his foot track footsteps or, you know, got involved in all this as well, and now you're taken off to the moon, it's just it's incredible, man. It's incredible how this works when you're open to opportunity, and you're not closed off right. 

James: Yeah, exactly, exactly.

Dave: Crazy man. So if somebody was sitting on a checkout page right now and they were like, thinking the same thing skeptical about legendary and about what we have in our training and stuff and just unsure and not do I want to spend the time or do I want to spend the money, what would you say to them?

James: I'd say, you know, look at every opportunity, like a scam that really holds you back. The legend I get is that you know there are scammers out there, like, don't get me wrong, 100% online those scammers oh wait on one second. Sorry my back, I had a few computer scammers out there online, but I mean all you have to do is do the research, I mean 15 Day Challenge by itself wasn't featured on Forbes entrepreneur. It's a great program, you know if I could go back, the only thing I would do is take it sooner, in all honesty, it's been, it's been a road, there's definitely work to put in. Like when I promote the 15 Day Challenge and make sure people know like, you don't just watch the 15 Day Challenge and money shows up in your bank account or anything like that. There's definitely work to put in. But yeah, it's definitely worth it. Don't get me wrong, it's taught me a lot, even being an experienced marketer the 15 day challenge, you know, legendary marketer opened up new doors I didn't even know existed. And it's been great so far. So, I mean, you know if you need to do your own research to do it but you know this is just me talking.

Dave: Talking that 19 year old Louisiana like write that off that offline, OG meme legend. Yeah. Well, my man. Look, it's been really, really great to chat and, and, you know, I know I contributed quite a bit to this conversation but hopefully what I said also is helpful to you, because that's, you know, I mean, time is precious. We don't do these shows just, you know, just to, you know, prance, you know, successful students and clients out to show I mean, I want this time to be valuable for you too. Because you know what you're taking time out to come on and share your story and your content and that's the value. I want you to know that I mean I want everybody who comes on the show as well as those who are listening to know that I value your time. I bet and hopefully that's a confidence builder for you because you know most of the time we're not told that our time is valuable in this life, we're treated as if or we're taught as if our time is not valuable so we don't value our time. Right, we don't we don't walk and talk like our time is worth 500 An hour 1,000 An hour we walk and talk like it's worth $5 Now or like it's not worth nothing, you know, give it away to people who don't deserve it and, and eventually I think we just begin to believe that ourselves. And so, you know, I really appreciate you taking the time because your time is valuable and you've got now, nearly a frickin decade I mean, eight years of experience, I mean that's valuable so I hope you leave this show, and take your content and your marketing, even to a higher level because of the confidence you took from coming on the show and crushing it and knowing that you added a ton of value to our lives today in the show man so keep up the great work and I hope that you'll come back on and continue to let us know how you're doing. 

James: Definitely man, thank you for having me. Thank you for having me. 

Dave: All right, James will tell your parents I said hello to and tell them that I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you. Brother, keep up the great work, and I will talk to you later. Alright see you buddy. All right my friends will again have a great Memorial Day, and again I want to thank everybody who, you know, has, in any way shape or form contributed to my freedom, particularly those who are in our country and anybody who's had a family member that's entered a service. Their sacrifices there that go along and oftentimes that's the thankless job right, a family member. You know anybody who does anything on a daily basis to contribute their family's freedom or their own freight it goes the extra mile, which is each one of you guys I want to shout you out as well and leave the show like I started it with a mindset of gratitude about the freedoms that we have, and the freedoms that we're all continuing to work for, which is what this is all about. Alright, so be Legendary my friends, we'll see you back here tomorrow. Okay. and in the show's wrap. Peace.

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Matt: Hey everybody. Happy Friday welcome in, it’s 10am Eastern, we're live. This is totally live pre recorded. We do these every single Monday through Friday Live. My name is Matt. I'm guest hosting for Dave today, and we're here for Wake Up Legendary. And I'm just pumped we've got an awesome guest, I've never met her, but we're just gonna, we're gonna dive in and sort of explore her world and her journey of getting started in the online space and it's always an interesting conversation, you never know what's coming, and I'm excited to sort of see what comes up during the conversation so if you are here live with us. Let me give me a little comment let me know that you're here live with us, and we're going to get rockin, I'm going to bring in Chrissy right now. How are we doing?

Chrissy: Good! 

Matt: All the way up from Jersey. How's your morning so far?

Chrissy: Pretty good, I have to excuse myself if you hear a dog in the background. I have a nine week old boxer and I tried to run them around this morning so she'd be quiet.

Matt: It's all good, I like my eight year old Westie just chillin right next to me. There's a, there's a decent chance that if the mailman, or somebody the landscape person or something comes by she loses her mind. Exactly. You know, it is what it is. Exactly. So, we've never met before. We met one minute ago, two minutes ago. Tell us a little bit about you and bring us back right so, So that we get the full context of why you came online, tell us a little bit about, you know the different jobs that you've worked in sort of what that did to you, or, or how that made you feel and and where you're at now.

Chrissy: Okay, so I was a bartender. A 911 dispatcher, and I do nails in a salon, but I don't have nails because I hate nails but I do that. So COVID hit, and obviously lost the job at the salon bartending was out of the picture, And then I was still doing the 911 Dispatch but even our hours there actually got reduced so I downloaded a TikTok because I was bored at home, and I found a person Dawn Sargent and I kept following her and kept following her. And she really. I love her, I love Dawn Sargent and she's, you know, really a great mentor. So I didn't take action until a year later, and I had gone back to work, obviously didn't go back to bartending I went back to the salon, and even in the salon like I've lost a lot of clients because they were still scared to come back, I was like, Alright, I gotta do something and I always, I've always been intrigued with the whole making money online, but I just didn't know how to do it. So, One year later, I went, continuing following a couple different people Amanda's mentoring Don Sargent. And I said, I'm doing this, I'm going all in. I'm going to see how this starts and it's funny because I had talked to my coach one day and I said, Listen, I can make $500 a month doing this that would be great and I didn't realize that I would be making more, doing it so I'm really happy about that, and I'm a beginner, I'm still a beginner, I'm still learning. I try to learn something new every single day. But, yeah, that's where it brought me, and I haven't now I haven't gone back to the dispatch job, I haven't gone back to bartending. I'm still working three days a week in the salon, and I'm doing this on the side and hopefully one day I can do it full time and not have to go back to anything.

Matt: So all of your other stuff was sort of pre-COVID Right. Yeah. Is that then a little bit impacted by COVID?

Chrissy: Yeah, well, bartending was definitely impacted on the dispatch, you know, drive. Nobody, nobody was out and about, so it was quiet, it was so quiet, they didn't need as many of us on.

Matt: Yeah, so when interesting so when all that happens and you're sort of like it's, I loved how you put this in, we do a little for those of you who are newer to our show, we don't do a lot of set questions but we do have the guests fill out just a short little brief, like hey here's a little about me and you put something like I want to live a little bit more balanced life, and he said for years you would jump from one job to the next just money chasing right yeah,

believe me I was going, I was working at the salon and leaving the salon at five o'clock and being at my bartending job at six. Yeah, like one, two o'clock in the morning.

Matt: Bartending is not easy. 

Chrissy: Now, the older I listen, I'm 40 years old, and the older you get, you just, you can't deal with people anymore when they, I understand you're coming to the bar, because you have a problem because you just want a drink but listen, I'm just here to get a job, it makes money.

Matt: You sound like you sound like you'd be one of my favorite parts. I like the I like for, no bullshit, bars, and you got the little kind of northeastern Jersey kind of thing going on to do it. In that, in that combination happens it's like okay we're not. If you want shenanigans get out of this bar. Take him. Take him to another place. So, COVID hits, all this stuff, whatever, you're sort of, you're sort of lurking in the background which is also interesting because we get a lot of people who are in our community who will, they're sort of shamed for lurking in the background like hey where are you going to take action, you know, And I always tell people, anything with anything new, there's always this little Limbo or incubation period where you're sort of just, Hey, am I okay with this, am I am I actually going to be happy doing this and that's totally an okay thing. So you jump in, you're like, Hey, maybe I can make 500 bucks a month, we don't make a lot of income disclaimers but you've made more than that, so congratulations you're, you're doing well as an affiliate marketer. What I mean is, when you're on TikTok you're doing things on social media. I mean, okay, ex bartender dispatcher doing all these hustle things. Yeah, what has been hard or was there a big hurdle?

Chrissy: Extremely hard and you know I went so I did, I did work in the salon and did bartending for years and years and years, and then I think I want to go I need to do something I need to do something different I guess I had that like midlife crisis. So, three years ago, four years ago, I took a class to become a 911 dispatcher because in my mind I wanted to help people. I want to help people. I want to get them through hard times. Well, I was a year into dispatching and I said what, What am I doing, what am I doing because society in itself, I mean I don't know about you but do you call the police when there's a bear in your yard, do you call the police when there's a raccoon in your yard. It's like you have to handhold these people and it really is like I'm not helping these people. It just really…and COVID hit and it really puts it in perspective like this isn't what life is all about. I really examined things during the whole COVID And I said I want to do something different. There is something better out there and I've always wanted to help people and doing the police dispatch was not working out. I was getting more aggravated at people. So I said, you know, let me give this a shot and let me learn something, and that way I can help others learn as well and be able to stay at home and make money.

Matt: Oh sorry, I was muted. I said, Yeah, so with you currently and I wanted to I wanted to just, here's the cool part about this show is that I really like about the show but the thing I love about this show has been that people from all different walks of life from all different age groups we've had young 18 year olds we've had. We had a guy on the show who was 81 or 82 at the time, I mean, the huge range. But, you know, particularly like with your following. We've also had people who have had hundreds of 1000’s of followers, and people have had, you know, 1000 followers 2,900 followers, yeah. How about like what's your routine like on TikTok, I just, I just want to hear videos. I just saw one of your, your most recent video or there's like some sort of dog. Oh, it's your new little puppy. Can I pull this open? *plays video*I just saw the little clip with just grabbing your hair. You're having so much, it looks like you're having so much fun with it. What, what's your routine like creating content, how many, how much do you create per day like, how do you get in that rhythm?

Chrissy: I try to create three a day, sometimes even more if I can. And I just, I've been trying to do like one in the Mormon one mid afternoon. One that night, and I will, I noticed something. It's funny how the more you do this, the more you realize like this one tick tock I did, I mean, I think it got 40,000 views, but it was a lot of kids messaging me and I'm like, Okay, that didn't work. So you, you learn as you do these TikTok like okay this is working. This isn't working. But, you know everybody says consistency is key. Consistency is key. Well, since I got this puppy. Obviously, I have been in. Believe me, I could have taken five minutes to do TikTok but between going to work, getting him outside going pee going whoa Come on, let's go, let's vote without I been maybe putting two up a day, and my views have gone down. So, lesson to beginners. Consistency is key. Keep doing it.

Matt: Love it. Yeah. And, and I, so, there's also the bigger I wrote about this last week but the bigger, deeper piece to that too, that a lot of times people miss is what that consistency does this will help you sort of boost and create awareness like this is, it's not just like an online business thing it's like, you want to drive revenue to your pizza place want to drive revenue to your nail sounds whenever, like, like consistency with social media, it just has to be social media right now but maybe it was back in the day consistency with radio ads or TV ads or whatever. Now it's YouTube ads or now it's a tick tock channel or Instagram or whatever, that level of consistency, what happens there is Pete you're, you're literally garnering free attention like Gary Vee always talks about how attention is the commodity, the commodity that's being traded in the world right now on social media that commodity is people's attention. Right so consistency not only gets you in front of eyeballs, but it's also the benefit is it builds a habit. Like It, it, it, you know for 21 days, at least 21 days but I would say, you know, 60 days 90 days, you do that consistently suddenly there's a habit there. Right, there's sort of a reward, tangible reward you've got more followers. Also, you're growing your revenue. Yeah. Does it feel habitual to yet or is it still building?

Chrissy: No it feels habitual now. It feels eventual now I just started learning, you know a little bit about Pinterest and promoting on there as well. Yeah, my next step is going to be, I want to start on YouTube and so, you know, for the beginners out there and I know a lot of people are I don't want to show my face I don't listen. Once you do a couple. You're like, hell yeah I'm going to do some more. I'm going to do another one, I'm going to do another one, it gets easy, and it's just people don't care what you look like half the time my hairs up in abundance all over the place. Just put your face out there, give some people some information and it doesn't work.

Matt: Yeah, it does. And I think the whole, whole piece about like I don't want to show my face, like, the interesting part about this is, over the last couple of months that I don't want to show my face, that's always been a thing, and it always will be. And I actually think it's legit for some people, but it is interesting, because when I then describe or show specific examples of people who have built a full time income without showing their face, people do that, they still won't take action and try to sort of, Oh, that's a great case study I'm going to try that. They won't even try, they won't even go into it because why not? Well, I'm just overwhelmed with maybe the video editing or how do I do voiceover right so then it's like, okay, so the problem again isn't really that it's your face. The problem is really deeper than that. The problem is, you're stuck, and you're unwilling to get unstuck like an entrepreneur, an entrepreneur. I mean it's, it's like, it's like there's a problem, and, and an employee will go to their boss and say, I, I don't know what to do. What do I do as an entrepreneur, can't say that. An entrepreneur is like if I don't fix it. There's literally no one else to fix it. So it's sort of retraining. So, sometimes it's just a simple reframe of like I have to figure this out, the vibe I get from you is I feel sort of that you have that energy, or like, Hey, I've got to figure this out. Oh, this wasn't as bad as I thought.

Chrissy: Yeah, believe me there, there was when I was learning. There were definitely some crying episodes, saying I can't do this, I can't do this. But, you know one thing, a lot of your videos, and I loved how you put that like, Google it. Google it, you can find anything by googling it can answer your questions and it really can, there's a lot of people, and believe me I'm here to help out, however I can. But sometimes, messaging, or I've even had a couple calls with, with people that have gone under me. It's a little hard sometimes to explain it so that's why I just say you don't type this into Google, it will. It'll take you step by step how to do that.

Matt: Right, you know what I started responding to people with it. So what I would do before when people would ask you know how I do ClickFunnels or how do I integrate my autoresponder I used to respond with that, with the AWeber or ClickFunnels link, or whatever, here's the Help link. I respond with a Google link, and it's a link to my search on Google, answer I'll say hey look, here's a quick, you know, type this into Google just like I did hear, and then boom, it spits out the search results so then their brain is like, oh, I can just type that into Google, I don't have to wait a day or two from that to respond to me via email. So it's just a fascinating sort of, you're so right though, that the ability. I don't know how, You know, I think growing up in the internet age helped me but I've you know people who struggle with this skill but I don't know how I figured this out or whatever but I learned to Google search in YouTube everything. And I always just thought, Man, I probably can solve this on my own. Let's just figure this dang thing out, and, and it really helped me build a skill set where now I feel more competent, if there's something I don't know. I feel pretty dang confident I can figure that thing out, doesn't really matter what it is and it's just from one generation to the other. My dad, he was here a couple weeks back. And he said, Yeah, I mean, if I'm out there fixing my motorcycle or fixing my car, I can find just about anything on YouTube. Every model of motorcycle, every car, every brake pad, I mean, there's a tutorial video from some random guy in his garage right. The cool part is that a random guy in his garage is probably making money about my dad watching right which is hilarious right, one of them qriocity What's, what's your, are you getting going on Pinterest are you just kind of feeling out the waters?

Chrissy: I just started creating pins on Canva and guess I'm just testing it out saying I've heard, Pinterest is great, so I'm gonna give it a shot and see how it goes.

Matt: Cool. Yeah, seems like an untapped market we were just talking about that the other day, where there's, you know a lot of noise and energy on TikTok right now and there has been for a while and I feel like there's a secret society on Pinterest you're doing cool and very powerful things on Pinterest so that's cool you have to keep us updated on just how that goes and

Chrissy: Absolutely, yeah I want to start doing some YouTube videos to show all that good stuff.

Matt: Yeah. And what you can do is you can take your TikTok and you can, you know, there's all sorts of tools where you can download those without the Tiktok. Without the TikTok watermark on it. Yep. And, and put them on Instagram reels, put them on YouTube shorts, and be able to leverage content to different platforms before YouTube came out with sports that wasn't really possible. It didn't really make sense, different, different forms of contact, but now it's all sort of function.

Chrissy: But yeah, so and again, you know when I first started learning before I went on, went through dawn, I, I was like let me try doing this through YouTube because you can find everything on YouTube. Yeah, again for beginners and listen. After I took the 15 day challenge, I did go. I still learn from people on YouTube. But, before taking the 15 day challenge I figured, let me go on YouTube, let me try and figure this out on my own. It gets you, because everybody has a different perspective of affiliate marketing. And if you don't know the basis first you're going to get more and more confused. So that's why I tried to tell people through my TikTok like, get your basis down first. And then, you know, go on people's YouTubes and see what everybody else is doing, but trying to learn it from day one. You get so confused. It's very confusing.

Matt: Yeah and that's a good point. And that's, that's part of why like, look, there's me even admit this that Legendary like there's a lot of ways to make money on the internet a lot, we're not the only game and train only business model, but, um, but I will say that, that no matter which one you choose, you should choose to actually learn it and implement it right so it's like for legendary if you if you choose to go through our 15 Day Challenge. You're going to learn a specific business model, high ticket affiliate marketing or high ticket, high ticket Digital freelance marketing, and that's the bit, it's, it's based around information, selling information. And that's sort of our, you know, business model we like to teach because it's what we have experience in as what's worked for us. But there's e commerce there's dropshipping and there's a lot of different things that fit people's needs and desires and sort of quirks, better or differently right and so I think the big piece, sort of like you said is, there's, there's all these scattered pieces out there but if you can find a program or find a community that really fits your needs, fits what you're looking for, stick with that because there's less confusion and there's more clarity.

I think. 

Chrissy: Yeah, I've never tried any e-commerce or anything like that. A couple of years ago I started my own little site called bottles up on Facebook but I was too for extra money, I was taking. I went to school for graphic design so I am an artist. So I was taking wine bottles and painting them and putting little wine cork lights in them. and it really, it took off, it took off, and I was like oh wow I can actually do this as a side business. Well, last Christmas, I got so busy, and then I started shipping. Now, I said. I'm done. I'm only doing it for local people. I'm not shipping anymore. It was too much. Too much. Not for me. But hey, other people are doing it, good for you, I could not do it.

Matt: Yeah. And also, I mean think about just the logistical nightmare that I've done with different shipping types of stuff, more like for actual companies that are shipping their products or retail products, disasters, I mean, UPS, busting packages. Oh yeah, we're not receiving them and just, it's just selling information is so much simpler. So much more straight to the point. Yeah, absolutely and for beginners affiliate marketing, I let me tell you, when I was first winning. No, I would say no this is not easy, but now, looking back, I laugh. It is easy, it is easy to get going and get started there's going to be days, but once you get through them all, you're golden.

Matt: Yeah, and I think, I think the big key the big kicker is, well, yes, I think you're right. I think the word that I tend to use is simple. Like, like, there's a, there's this sort of immediate learning curve. And after that as long as you're sort of really focused and you have good guidance, it becomes more simple, like there's not a lot of complexity to it. What do you do as an affiliate? I drive traffic. That's it. I get people's attention, whether it's social media or paid ads or whatever, and I drive traffic. That's it. I don't do customer service, I don't do support. I don't do refunds, I don't do chargebacks, I don't do merchant accounts, I don't do any of that. Right. And that's a simple business model. Totally. Okay, so there's, I want to let you have the last word, but I want to preface it by saying, there's a lot of people on here, and a lot of people watch this as a replay, and many of them are newer, they're newer to our community but they're also like they're newer to like just the online space like some of them bought our challenge yesterday, some of the purchaser accounts. So like, very new, very fresh, what, like, and you're not all that like, I mean it's not like you're a veteran here, and if you can think back to that day when you're starting out, you're like, I can do this, what would you tell somebody who's newer who's here, who's looking around and it's, you know maybe struggling to take action or or commit or something like that?

Chrissy: Well that's, you know, definitely. As a beginner you doubt yourself all the time you're trying to learn the funnels when you try to learn email autoresponder me, never. I'm not, I'm not a techie person. I've never done any of that before. But definitely changing your mindset that you can do it and Rich Dad Poor Dad. Definitely read that book, it was an eye opener. So I would suggest any beginner, get that book. It's a great book, and just keep going like,

Take, you know, there were days I was spending on the computer. We just lost your audio. Sorry about that, but I just got a text or something. Yeah I did. There we go. It's all good.

Um, but yeah there were days that I spent like eight hours on the computer and if you just walk away. Just walk away and go back to it again. Get your mind refreshed. But keep going. It's definitely beneficial, and the commute. I know people are afraid to ask for help, but listen, I Michelle well she County, Barb MacAllan reach out reach out to me. I reached out to these girls. The community itself is wonderful. It's they're just real people, and we're all here to help one another, get going and get started so don't be afraid to reach out to people. Everyone's here to help.

Matt: Yes. 100 Times Yes. Yeah, this, it's weird how this community is in there, it's really been, you know, it's just a combination of a lot of things but yes, I we hear that all the time and it's, it's never this like here let me afford my secrets, it's always like, hey, you know like what I'm doing and let's rock, you know, and it really is this sort of thing that really lifts all boats, it's, it's been really cool for me to watch that's it's been just been incredible.

Chrissy: Yeah. Biggest thing it's fear, you know, everyone's afraid everyone's afraid of change everyone's afraid of, you know starting something new but you know I kind of believe me that was even being a 911 dispatcher I had to give CPR phone to people, you know, learning all of that it's, it's hard it's scary and doing that first 911 phone call. But the more you do it, the more you're like, This is a piece of cake. The little things in life right yeah keep doing it keep plugging along. And, you know, reach out to people if you have questions, don't be afraid to ask.

Matt: Yep. I think sometimes we have this piece of us scared of, you know, people, what are they going to think about me or I don't want to be observant than or something like that. You gotta

Chrissy: We have those trolls on Facebook or on TikTok that will comment on scam.

Matt: Okay, well I guess it didn't work for you but it's working for me. And now I just, I don't get upset, I just, I laugh at them, and I try hard not to. I try hard not to make a video back to them and it's mostly just like, it's mostly I would say just like, you know it's an insecurity thing and they're, you know, there's probably some pain and they're jaded, the more I'm in this industry, the more I have empathy towards people who respond that way because they it immediately tells me that they, you know, they've probably not just in this industry, their whole life, probably spent, like, a lot of time, you know, being told they're not enough or being told go through something and so they try something but they have too much fear and it's right. Well, Chrissy, thanks for coming on. Have a good weekend, having me. Being on. Yeah, please share, like, if you can go into our group and share a photo of you in the dog. I'm so happy. And just, and just share a little bit about like, you could just share a little bit about your experience on wakeup legendary or just whatever I mean, it's not a big deal but I just want more of dog content sucker for it. But anyway, have a good weekend. Thanks for coming on.

Chrissy: Hey, thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thanks everybody and I'm glad to be on.

Matt: Awesome. Alright guys, happy Friday, and happy weekend to the weekend warriors Let's rock. It's time to, you know, I always say a lot of times people are like, oh weekend, take off. I know when I was starting the weekends were my moment I mean it was like the time where I had a little bit of, you know, Time to myself and time to actually like grow my business and and put in place some ads create video content, stuff like that, but we've got a long, long weekend here in the US. So stay safe. And, yeah. Have a good weekend, everybody. We'll see you back here on Monday. Same time, same place.

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How To Follow Your Own American Dream and Leave Your 9-5

 

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. And that means that it's time to wake up even if you've already been well cared for a couple of hours, if you're catching this may be in Europe or even Asia. It's time to re-wake, baby because we've got yet another fantastic guest. Elias is going to be coming on and he's going to share with us from the great state of Iowa. Any, any Iowans. I don't know if that's up to confirm with him here in just a moment, any other Iowans on the call. I will see Elias, my brother, welcome to the call.

Elias: Thank you so much for having me. Iwoans, right. 

Dave: Yeah, I was right. Was that the right way to call you guys? That is alright man.

All right, well they call us Floridians down here in Florida. I read on your question here that you answered you may have a desire as you acquire more freedom to move to a warmer state is that right?

Elias: Absolutely one of the big reasons why you know, obviously online businesses is, you know I sucked, Midwest sucks we get like too good. Too good months of weather. Everything else here is super cold or super hot. And then I was terrible and I'm sure there's people who love the gold and God bless them, but everyone else. I'm like how we deal with it and I've been here for 20 plus years already. 

Dave: Are you where, you were? You were not born in Iowa?

Elias: No, I was originally born in Salt Lake City. And my dad migrated here to work and then we've been stuck here since we were five years old, so it's been 20 plus years now.

Dave: You're stuck in the snow, stuck in this snow. Well, I love you, I love your, your mission for why you're doing what you're doing, which is to kind of define that to talk to us about we created the headline that says, you know, father of two breaking generational cycle to provide a better life for his family. Tell us, tell us what that means for you.

Elias: Right and that's going back to what we're talking about being stuck in Iowa. So my dad came here when we were 2020 plus years ago, and he did it, just because his job was job plays here and then we're offering the same cycle right, we got out of school, we started a job and now we're essentially stuck here because we think we have a good job we think we have a good corporate job or whatever, because we're stuck in this one place or our family and and our workplace. That's a big cycle that we keep going and then what's going to happen next cycle, once my kids grow up, they're gonna have the same thing. Hey, they're gonna grow up here in Iowa, and they're gonna get a good job here and they're gonna feel stuck here. Because that's the thing, you know, no Ross them you can definitely get another job somewhere else, but it's, you had to step out of that, that comfort zone to do that and we'll be doing what I was been doing before is stain or bubble, and never wanting to move out because the discomfort of the new job is strong start something new. And that's what I'm doing when I'm breaking that cycle. I want to get out of, you know, my nine to five, I want to get out of Iowa, I want to get out of the Midwest, I want my kids to enjoy the outdoors. Not 24/7 but almost a year rather than just enjoying the you know, three, four months out of the year and the rest of the year bundled up inside because it's way too hot outside.

Dave: So let me, let me, let me ask you a question. Was your father born in Salt Lake City or was he also, were they also were they born in America?

Elias: No, so that's a big part right my, my father was born in Mexico. He came here from age 15. He has a you know, he has 15 brothers and sisters. He came over here to support them at 15. He started working, you know, he originally went to California business, they usually hire business. And he's been doing that since he was like 1516 years old. So he traveled to you know, he did he moved out to Utah to do the same thing. And then he moved on to Iowa to do the same thing. For 40 years now.

Dave: Here's why I ask, isn't moving somewhere and getting a good job and having 2.5 kids and having a dog and a white picket fence? Even if it's not the ideal place in the country, though? Isn't that the American dream? Or at least wasn't a dream for your father? And why do you think you are looking at life now differently?

Elias: Right. And that's what we always thought, right? The American dream is to just begin to get a good enough job, essential enough to pay the bills and have a white picket fence, have a dog and a couple kids and get married. Right? And that's what I was taught. I always thought, you know, hey, we have to have our nine to five, we have to have our dog, we have to have a couple kids and get married. And that's our end being stuck somewhere. Right? That's essentially the American dream that we were sold out or we were taught since we were little now once you know that you opened yourself up and opened yourself up to the online world and how free you can become. That's completely changed me right the American Dream is doing something you want to meet or being somewhere you want to be at and doing something that at whatever time you write if it's time with your kids time with the family or your friends, whatever it is, that to me is more of an American Dream than being stuck at a you know, were replaced right somewhere like cold or somewhere hot, or wherever it is and being stuck and just having that because you need that's just the part of the cycle right the American dream that you get a good job wherever it is, right can be it can be in the quarters in a spot in America. It's a good job and you're stuck there. Right? Because you think it's a good job. You think that's the only option you have.

Dave: Right? And that's why I thought the question was really interesting to separate the second generation. Okay, so immigrants from Mexico. You're your father coming over and you being he's still alive, right? So you still have a chance to even talk to him. You grew up around him. And it's interesting how I don't know. I just feel that that's really interesting how, how, in one generation because of what you've discovered and uncovered and met exposed to now. Your interpretation of the American Dream is completely different. And from what I'm hearing you say it's less about securing it's less about having a job and making that the priority. Like wherever we got to go, whatever we got to do, we just need to have a job, no matter where a number no matter how they treat us, it's just about really having that secure stream of income. So with that opportunity, what I hear you saying that it is, it's, it's, it's that is no longer your priority, what your priority is, is to be able to have more time freedom, the ability to be able to move around, in do more with your kids and your family when you want to do it and just have more control over your overall life. Is that what I’m hearing? 

Elias: That's absolutely correct, right? Time is so valuable. It's priceless, we can get time back. And I learned that the hard way, right, I learned my two boys, one is six years old. And one is there's one. So I know, I used to work 1012 hour days just to make ends meet. And at that point, you know, I'm missing a lot of the big part of my kids' childhood, and we can't get that time back, guys, we can't get that time back. It is what I express a lot to my you know, to people who I talked to in life, or wherever it is, on messages is time is so valuable. And I explained that to the point where they're thinking about, you know, investing themselves or going through training, right, going through the 15 Day Challenge is a big believer, you can do anything, you know, where you can go to YouTube and do whatever you want for free, right? But How valuable is your time, you can spend years trying to go on YouTube and learning but how valuable is your time? You can take the 15 day challenge in bulk. And save you so much time. To me time is the most important thing about it, right? So that's one reason I'm stepping out of my comfort zone to do what I'm doing. And that's why it's trying to push on someone else's Hey, especially if you have family. And you know, if you have family, you have kids, you have very limited time. So you want to make sure you choose your time wisely, especially when looking into training. Time you save is so important. It's important to me that absolutely this value is so valuable to me at this point.

Dave: So talk to us a little bit about you being exposed here for two Legendary because this was your very first online venture from what I understand. And for many years, you were skeptical about making money online or having your own business and what was possible because I would assume you're still kind of in the if you had the mindset of I am living the American dream. I do have a job. I do have a couple of kids. I am in corporate America. I think you're a loan officer. Is that right? 

Elias: Right. Yeah, I'm an underwriter. So yeah, the mortgage industry here. Right. So yeah. So talk to us about it, talk to us. Talk to us about how you kind of found us and how, as you've gone through our training, and now met new people and been exposed to a different conversation. Talk us through just what that process has been like, because it's actually been a pretty short period of time. If I'm correct, the timeline is when basically July of 2020 was when you kind of started and then but you Oh wait, you've kind of come online July of 2020. But you didn't do anything, or didn't have the tools to be able to get started with clarity. And after failing miserably. Dave: You said you came across Legendary in March of 2021. So talk to us about what happened from July 20, until March of 2020. What were you doing on that kind of YouTube? endless black hole shiny object syndrome? That kind of stuff? Right?

Elias: Yeah. So like a lot of people I, I came I was like, you know, I gotta change my life. I gotta, I gotta, I gotta take action, right? We got to take action and do something. So I started and that was in the middle of the pandemic, right? So, like millions of other people who were kind of like, Oh, crap, life isn't as secure as I thought it was.

Dave: Love, you know, property law, bad things happen. But also, you know, we've made us think about, you know, what, what other things we can do. And same to me, you know, I started searching online without going to pick a topic, or whatever is right. 

Elias: I was starting to, you know, I looked at Amazon FBA dropshipping. And then I was just looking through and I came through, you know, affiliate marketing. So I went through and it was like everyone else was hiding this for free. I thought I was a smart guy, it was really new on YouTube. I'm gonna try a couple of things. So what I did is I went through YouTube, I wrote Ogg and stuff like that, and I learned a lot of things about blogging, alella SEO and stuff like that. But in that time period , like march of 2021, I really wasn't successful. I would just, you know, I would just make admissions but not I will not see profit will fund expenses I had. So I was scrolling through tik tok with millions of other people. I came through Legendary highlights, kind of master Some bugs, you know, can't go wrong $7. So I took the challenge, and a wind threw it out. But I had the mindset though, I was like, I know affiliate marketing work, I've done my research, I know, it's a very amazing business model. So what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna take this challenge, I'm gonna put 120% into it, I'm gonna learn to implement, because we're really changing, right? Is the mindset I had to be totally, you know, invested in myself, and learn everything I possibly could and then just go from there, right?

Dave: Yeah. Yeah. So it was a shift. I mean, just like, Look, I'm on now. And I'm assuming this is what you thought, I'm gonna give myself the benefit of the doubt. I'm in the right place. I'm getting the right information from the right people in the right environment, because you then we're now in legendary, exposed to all of these other people who are in our community who are having success in getting results, and you're now seeing them and you're so you're in your right information. Right people, right? I mean, we may not . If you ask us to teach you to, or fix your car, teach you how to cook dinner or whatever, we are not you guys and gals. But when it comes to building businesses online, hey, we know what we're talking about. So in the right environment, so you kind of realized, it's me, it's on me, if I'm gonna make this work at this point. It's not like I've got the right information, right people, right environment, but another level of personal responsibility, from what I hear, you're saying, what you saying, kind of kicked in, is that right? 

Elias: Right, because when I first started the challenge, I noticed, this is an amazing guy, you're an amazing guy down to earth. You know, it really made me write this, you know, this, this train is challenge is so good, obviously, is the at the end of the day, it's up to me to take millions of trainees wherever it is, but I don't think I can fall into that where I'm learning is not gonna make any difference, right? I can go through 100 courses, like I said, and I learn a lot of things, but I need to actually take action. And I expressed this to a lot of people, I talked to a lot of people that hey, the most important thing is yourself, the only person that's stopping you from achieving anything is yourself. There are no other obstacles that are right, once you learn it, if you're not, if you're not implementing, you're never going to get your plots, you're never gonna actually change your situation. That's what I express in my, my big, you know, my big thing my take off where my wherever my social media is changing it as mindset and changing how you think and changing your situation, right? Well, you can change anything if you never take action. And there's no other no other obstacle out there by yourself. Yeah,

Dave: Yeah, that's kind of a little bit of a, I mean, this is a phrase to cover your kids ears, but it's a bit of a mindfuck, right, because it's like I, I, my mindset needs to change. So that means that I change my mindset first. And then I'm going to have the ability to take the action that I need, but it doesn't quite work like that. I was taught when I was getting clean from drugs, right? over 10 years ago, in 2008. This was when I learned this lesson, that you can't think yourself into a new way of acting, you have to act yourself into a new way of thinking or intent. And you're not going to follow your actions, your actions, it's not the other way around. And so, you know, building new habits is not about sitting there and saying, I'm going to go to the gym for the next 30 days, I'm going to go to the gym, it's getting out whether you got to have accountability, whether you got to have a trainer, whether you got to whether a player publicly on Facebook, I'm going to do this, right you post your before pictures you make your you do you put all these pieces in place, so you're accountable. And then you get up and you go, and then after 30 days, all the sudden it's like, holy crap, I can. Like I've looked at what I've just done over the past 30 days. So I think that's a bit of a difficult thing for a lot of people, including myself, when I first heard it was, I can't think of myself as a new way of acting. I can't sit around and go, I got six pack abs. I got a six pack abs, I got a six pack abs, right, I have to act myself into a new way of thinking So how have you over the course since March? I mean, it's literally been three months or so since you've really been kicking ass and taking names. Obviously you've gotten results, we wouldn't have you on the show unless you have gotten results. But more importantly, how have you built more confidence? I mean, you're sitting here clearly, you're sharing lessons you're telling I tell my audience etc. Within three short months, you've gone from basically a year of quote, in your words failure to now grow in an audience making money, big dreams. You're a guest on this. So how have you talked to us about kind of, you know, what I just said, the thinking and how that's affected your mindset and how you're a different person in just three months. Right? So

Elias: So the first thing is you got to think deep down, why are you doing this? What's your WHY? And everyone else in here? Comment down below what's your Why? What's your why That's really the deep down of it. For me, I explained that my wife is my kids, my family. My Why is one of the big reason why I started doing this stepping out of my comfort zone is, you know, I would have talked to my wife that she's throwing semester over there, but she's worried about, you know, how are we going to pay the next month bills, or how you know, she's, she's, she's having like, anxiety or stressed out about it. Now, like, near me, as if I were a man that killed me another day, or like, I'm seeing my wife, you know, we stress about this where I have absolutely no control, they have absolutely no control of it. So when I, so when, when I'm thinking, you know, what I'm showing when I'm taking action, and some days suck, some days are terrible. Some days, you don't want to show up, right? Same thing, if you go to the gym, right? Sunday may be the hardest day and you don't want to, you don't have you know, you don't have the energy, you'll have the you know, whatever it is right? You got things that will be white, you'll think it'll be why he founded You know, my kids and my family, my wife is, you know, I want to change the cycle, right? Building habits, because what happens, what habits, habits are shown to your kids and your kids will replicate what your habits are, if we're still going to pay our bills, or we're just doing a nine to 10 in the pair of bills, and being stressed out what's gonna happen in that cycle, our kids are most likely going to be doing the same thing, they're going to be struggling, they're barely going to be paying bills, because that's how it's gonna, it's gonna be the habits that they've, they've shown from you, we can say a million things, we're going to take an action, we're not really habits, and our kids are showing our kids those habits, our kids are just going to do the same things that we're doing, because they learn from what we do. And that's my biggest thing. I'm building. I'm taking action. I'm building every day I show up, because I'm learning the habits to be able to show my, my, and my children the same thing, right? When they come, when they grow up, when they've you know, they're 18, 20, wherever the age, right? Yeah, they're gonna think back is like, my dad showed up every day to his, you know, his business, and worked hard and made it successful.

Dave: And I can tell from listening to that that is your motivation. I mean, there's no doubt about that, you've, you've reiterated that over and over again. And it's powerful, I can tell that it's, it's something that you've internalized, and it's pushing you to take action, you know, that I, I think there's there's such a big disconnect between us wanting better things for our kids, one team wishing, right in or even even envisioning, right, but you know, a better life. But, but, but really, truly internalizing something, and I really feel like man, it is a switch that just gets turned on, like because I got the same switch. My, there's been a couple of switches that have turned on for me in my career here, since I found entrepreneurship and online marketing. I mean, the first one was really like, like just this kind of desire to just be more, you know, I was struggling with drug addiction and kind of dereliction and homelessness, even at a certain point in from about that time in my late teens and early 20s. And I just wanted to be more. I wanted to do more with me, I wanted to turn my mess into a message. You know, I didn't want all my struggle to be in vain. And as I've gotten more mature, my wife and I have had a couple of more kids. We've got three total now and, you know, I have that same internalized in my DNA was just a switch that was flipped. I mean, it's Matter of fact, the other day Elias, I looked at my son who's five months old, and obviously I have an insane drive to take care of him, right. But I looked at him and I had this thought. I said he did not, he did not ask to come into this world. He did not ask to be here and as much as I hope he has a joyful life and I'm, I hope he's happy to be here. He didn't ask to be here. Uh, my wife and I made a decision to have children to build a family. And when that hit me just different the other day, because I thought to myself, holy shit, man. It's like, my kids didn't ask for this man. My kids didn't ask for this life. They didn't ask to be in how dare I put responsibility on them, especially at an early age to, to, you know, I just I don't want to just hit me different man and I just kind of had another switch was flipped right to where I was like, it really is my responsibility to not only as you're saying, make money, that's just one thing. But it's also about building good habits, not having stress in the house and having to put them through traumatic things because of financial issues, because I'm not taking care of myself. Right. And, and I believe how you do one thing is how you do everything. So if I'm not really doing much in my job or my career, there's a good chance I'm going to be slacking in other areas of my life as well. Right? So I don't know, I just that that switch was flipped for me the other day, and I already had a lot of motivation and drive. But what would you say to people who are maybe not in the same place that you are with kids or whatever? And they're having a hard time finding their why, you know, they're kind of asking themselves? Well, I, I feel maybe burned out, or I've already raised kids, or and now I'm kind of, I'm kind of struggling to find what my y is. So I can have that real motivation. I mean, just what would you say off the cuff to somebody who might be thinking that as they're listening to us?

Elias: Yes. So I'm a big believer we all have wisdom, we just can't find it. Right? Money Money is in the why money is money is it's helping you know your why but it's not the main why you have you know, a lot of people are, if you can't find your why just sit down one day, just sit down, and dark spot wherever sit down in your bed and just think about it. Think about all the stuff, what's making you stressed out? What's making you stay up at night, what's making you not be able to sleep? Think about those reasons, industrial why, wherever it is, you know, if it's maybe you know, maybe you can go on a vacation. Maybe you couldn't, couldn't move. Or maybe you didn't get that promotion, for whatever reason, right? Or your job or maybe you know, maybe you can give that awesome president you want it to two grandkids or wherever it is right. You all think deep down, because the issue is what I've seen a lot of people who don't want to take action because they're stuck. They're stuck in their bubble and they're afraid right? They're afraid to pop that bubble and get out of it. You have to think about the why and making these something smart the very beginning like something small once you start getting burnt out like like you say they want you start getting burnt out usually have that just sit down and think what's my biggest Why? What's my biggest thing? Is it better for myself or better for people around me, right? 

Dave: I like how you alluded to it doesn't have to be your first why it doesn't kind of have to be your next Why? I believe our why’s can change. Like for a lot of people, maybe your why is just that you want to maybe you're an empty nester like maybe your kids just left for college or something. And you want to regain some of your own personal identity now in this next chapter of your life. Maybe Maybe it's that, I mean, that actually kind of is a pretty big thing, right? But, maybe it's just that, that you want to just do something for yourself. You want some excitement in your life. I mean, it doesn't always have to be that it's this big thing that I think you're wise pretty big. I mean, I think I've got like a 30,000 foot kind of like you're looking at your life you're looking at freakin generations past and forward and you're thinking I want to be a change maker but guys and gals listening i don't i don't i think that any Why is just as important as, as any other person's why I think that if you just want to get better at technology, if you just want to learn more about social media and the internet in 2021 if you want to just get better on the computer, like I know people who might their Why might be I want to become a better typer and I know that if a faster typer You know, I've got a dirty little secret after over 10 years of doing this I still can't look at the screen and type. I gotta look, I gotta hunt and frickin peck dude. Which is insane because I've written tons of copy tons of sales letters, but that's ultimately one day that may be why I want to be proficient at writing quickly in just being able to type without looking at the keyboard. So I think there's an element of comparison. It is that people may think when they hear us talking about are wise and they think by Why has to look like your why. So I want you to touch on the comparison. It is just as a general thing, you know, we come online and we start seeing other people. And one of the one it's human nature guys, there's nothing wrong with you if you're comparing yourself to other people. However, in this business, it can be crippling. So what would you say to people who are dealing with comparison, comparing their y, z or y comparing their videos to your videos comparing that right just people who generally are having a hard time overcoming that piece? 

Elias: Yeah. I've watched these shows every day. No, you get to the show a couple days ago with blue James and he's they did that and I love how clear that is. Dr. Pierce your step one with someone step 20. Or step 30. That's a big thing about it. You know, I'm guilty of this as well. Right? I see especially with TikTok, TikTok is when you see videos blow up and people get you know, it's viral is it's crazy news, man, well, why can't my wages go like that?

Dave: It's a natural reaction to just do that. Right? It's not that we're wrong, or something's wrong with us when we do that. It's just right. There's a difference between staying and having that thought. And staying in that thought, right? 

Elias: A big thing for me when I think about that, absolutely. To switch the switch over like, Hey, you know, congrats to that person? wouldn't let me see what they did. Right? Let me see what they're doing. Right? And then we, me, I mean, replicate. And that means like, you know, replicate what they're doing for their success and go from there, learn from what the people are doing, right? Don't Don't compare yourself with them. Just replicate and and and learn from what they're doing. Right? Take their tips and stuff, and their tricks and do it to yourself, or yourself, put yourself in that path for success, rather than just pushing yourself down, right? Don't push yourself down to that hole and start comparing or this person did a lot better than me or this, or this, you know, this person is making a lot more than me wherever it is, right? Or just same with the why right? You may have a smaller more my first wife, like I want to step out of my comfort zone and start making friends. Right? So I'm looking around like, Yeah, man, that was a small wire mine. You can't. You can't compare your sphere, hey, making friends online, can compare your small why with you know, possibly like yours days or or mine? You know, you just got to think why? Think about the message Really? What's the core? What's the core of it? There, we're all wanting to reach the same goal. And think of that, don't push yourself down to the hole and just think about the successes, think about what's what they're doing right? And help yourself get pushed out forward and start going right?

Dave: Well, I think there's a big, there's a big kind of it's, it's, it takes your biggest, the best version of who you are, right to really be happy for somebody, well, not cutting yourself down. You know, because I think the smallest version of me is when I look at people, and I'm jealous, or I look at people, and even worse, I start to shame and guilt myself for not being as good, right? That's kind of what I say, big and small. I mean, that's kind of like not the best. That's not the best version of who Dave Sharpe is the best version of Dave Sharpe, who I strive to be every day I fall short. But to truly have an abundance mindset to truly have, like, like legit happiness when I see people succeeding, like, like, if somebody attacks me, man, like which I've had happen 1000’s of times over a decade. Somebody attacks me, somebody literally even might even wish ill will on me, right like wanting something bad to happen to me. Like it, you know it for me to like really look at somebody in and just be like, Hey, man, that's just where they're at, like, you know, already seeding and I've been trying the same, the same thing for a long time and I haven't made it quite to that level, to literally just look at that to be inspired by their CSS and not be threatened by it or not, which I think is the most dangerous begin to cut myself down. I have a saying that self esteem is the bedrock of success. And I really, really believe that ever since I've been saying that let's never waver. It's not that intelligence is the bedrock of success. It's not a good look. It's not you know, it's not anything man. It's not it's not it's not it's not even skills. It's not even skills, although skills are mandatory. Right, it's self esteem. So if there's any way that I'm operating in this might be a why that I would invite all of you to either, you know, add on to your why, or to maybe make it your wife, if you need somebody to help with ideas, is to build your self esteem is to use this business as a challenge as a as a sort of like a training grounds for you to build your self esteem, because this business is going to this business is like New York City remember how they used to say, or maybe they still do that if you can survive in New York, you can survive anywhere, I believe, man in 2021, if you can build a business online, like if you can do affiliate marketing, if you can do what we teach, you can follow through with it doesn't matter how successful you are, if you can just running the business is about staying open. That's what running a business is about a successful business. The number one determining factor that defines a successful business is that the doors stay open, not that it makes a billion dollars, million dollars, six figures, five figures 1000 100 not even that it turns a profit. There's many businesses that never that don't turn a profit for years. And when the doors open, they've set themselves up for future success, right? Because they're laying a foundation. But what if through that means doors open, build the foundation for your future, that you practice building your self esteem, and I'm talking to each one of you who are listening, that you build your self esteem? And what examples of that would be developing an abundant mindset. When I see somebody who's succeeding more than I am, or who seems to be lucky or whatever, however, I want to interpret it, that I'm happy for them. And even if in what how do I be happy for them? Well, one of the things that I was suggested when when when I learned this in recovery, actually 12 step recovery. But if I had a resentment against somebody, one of the best things I could do was pray for that person. Now prayer, however it looks to you. Maybe it maybe it looks different to you than it looks to somebody else, but prayed for that person. Now, that's a hard thing to do if you really don't like somebody, right? If I'm looking at somebody, right now,

here's it, here's the suggestion, here's the hit. So listen, if I see somebody online, and I start comparing myself into jealousy, some envy, shaming, or blaming myself saying, I'm not good enough, instead, I stop. And I say a little prayer for that person. But a man god bless that person, their success, their family, proud of that person. Like that inspiring. I hope they continue to, to crush it. And in me, like, I hope that I can learn something in this moment, right? That would be like a little way for me to readjust. Now, if you're an atheist, and you're listening to this, then you can alter that. But you get the point. I'm saying I'm sending a little affirmation or a little prayer for that person. And what I'm doing is I'm redirecting those thoughts of either jealousy or shame, and I'm transforming that energy into something that's powerful. And I'm anchoring that in that moment, with a prayer or an affirmation, what comes up for you when i walk through that Elias?

Elias: Yeah, we go back to what we talked about, that switch, right, once you switch that switch, that's gonna change your life. Once you start seeing people not as competitors, but as friends, as a community, as someone you can learn from, you can start saying that prayer star saying hey, congrats, ratters lit, rather graduate now for goodness sake, the success they have, and hopefully better success for them as well. But what's next, the best which once that switches, skin change or world it's gonna change your mind, that's gonna change your self esteem. Not only are you not going to put yourself down, what you're going to right away, you're gonna start thinking a little Hey, absolutely grateful for you know, that person getting that success for that person being you know, where to add in their, in their inner journey, walking, and now what can I do? What can I do to get to that level? What can I do to

Dave: That's where it kicks in first, right? I, I might, you know, my thoughts follow my actions. Because that little prayer or that little affirmation to that person into me is an action. That's an action man. I'm intercepting a thought. And I'm doing something. I'm saying a little prayer. Maybe whenever I have that, maybe I put my hands together, maybe I send up maybe every time I have one of those thoughts, right maybe I get up and I walk around the block one time and I say those prayers, right. So what I'm what I'm, we're anchoring action. And then eventually our thoughts will follow like You said, the next step after I, that begins to be second, that when I see somebody succeed, and I no longer feel resentment or jealousy or shame, but instead I feel happy for that person and proud. The next is curious, what can I learn? Right? That's like, the next thing that happens is, once you once that that resentment or that jealousy or that shame, no longer kicks in you, you create space now, to look at people who were maybe at a different level. And now there's space for you to learn to have a different thought to think, Wow, inspired by him or her? What can I learn? That's where it gets fun. And that's where the results start kicking in? Is that what you're finding as well? 

Elias: Yeah, definitely like, so once I was able to switch, isolate a change, it changed for me, like, we're no competitors, here, we're all we're all here to reach our journey to reach our goals to to reach that finish line or race. And if we're gonna encourage that, we can say a little prayer for the awesome, and then do what you can. You're not learning every day, if you're not sitting specifically with TikTok, we just wanted to take that. And if you're not, if you're not, if you're not willing to take it again, if you see what I would be not learning from, you just change it up. You learn from everything that's going on, on TikTok on any social media, right? Or anything that you're doing email marketing, wherever it is, if you're not learning something new, a new trigger, or new ways of doing it every day, then maybe you can rethink your mindset and change your self esteem and say, What can I learn, but we don't know at all. We think we're experts, but we don't. And maybe they wish everyday we should be learning every day we can learn something new or new. The world is changing, especially the online world. Online will change every day, every hour. So once we were able to change it, once we're able to go with the curve, right? Go with the learning curve, that absolutely can change everything.

Dave: Well, brother, I am really happy for you and proud of you. My family is lucky to have you. And I know you feel the same way about them. We all know that from what you shared with us. So I hope you'll just keep coming back and keeping us updated and building growing. So we can keep learning from you and your, your achievements, your discoveries. And I'm so happy and proud of you for what you've accomplished in a short period of time, just really, more than anything. You know, really getting clear on what your why is. And brother that's going to take you to the moon because it's clear that your y is deeply embedded in your DNA. And with such conviction about what you're doing and belief about what you're doing, and your mission. There's nothing that's going to stop you in your way man. So be Legendary my brother, keep up the great work, great show. You can be proud of yourself for this moment as well. And, and we'll talk to you soon. 

Elias: Okay, man, absolutely. Thank you so much for having me. 

Dave: See, ya buddy. Well, guys, that that that that really was really a powerful, a powerful chat about how to give yourself a gift that will keep on giving for the rest of your life. which is which is that mental shift from lack in fear and shame into abundance and esteem, and positivity and creativity and creation. It really, really is a gift from Elias coming here and, and having that just as big of a lie as he has that just came to the surface as with every show, nothing is planned. We don't know what we're going to talk about. But that was really a divine conversation. And if you guys take that and run with it, maybe re-listen to it one more time and really internalize it and put it into practice immediately, it will change your life. I can say that without a shadow of a doubt. My friends. Let's get busy. Big Day. Finish the month strong. Be Legendary. We'll see you back here tomorrow.

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Matt: Hello, hello, welcome. Good morning, it's Wednesday, May 26. We're live. I'm live. My name is Matt and the CMO here at Legendary. And, yeah, you know we're getting good weather out here in Phoenix, so I decided, we're gonna get these nice beautiful allergies here in Phoenix. During this time of year. Yeah, I decided to take the show outside a little bit this last week or two, and it's nice out here so I do have this like bright sun sort of reflecting in my eyes so I'm like a little squinty but overall it's working great. What's going on James? Megan's in the house. Lady what's going on, Leslie, Jasmine, what's happening, Robert, good to see you. Wake Up Wednesday love that. Ariana. Raman, or Romana, I'm not sure you're guessing Shamy what's happening Stacy Good to see you. Awesome, down in Chandler. Emily Jose Jennifer Nicole. William John. All right, Awesome, good to see you all on here Kaitlyn, Tara, CJ. All right, Jorge, awesome. Yeah, we are live, we got an awesome guest today. I'm excited to chat with him. And if you're newer, you're just signing on you're like hey what the heck is going on, I'm the CMO here at Legendary and I host these on Wednesday. So Dave hosts monday tuesday thursday friday I host on Wednesday I'll also be hosting this Friday in place, Dave as well. But mostly, every day Monday through Friday, not mostly, we are here Monday through Friday freaking holidays. We come on these damn things every single day at 10am Eastern, and she's a good way to wake up, it's a good, I wrote this last week about habits, forming habits. And, man, one of the best habits you could ever do, I'm pretty convinced is just to sign on to these and get a little bit of inspiration, a little bit of motivation to start your day so if you guys in the comments can give me, you know, a little hand clap emoji or some likes and hearts on this. Let's welcome our guest for the day Paul, what's going on, brother?

Paul: Good to be here. Thanks Matt just up here in Washington State, I wish I could have the same problem as you do with the sunshine but we'll get it back eventually.

Matt: There's just endless amounts of sunshine, it's insane. It's like every single day, we're about to regret that though because of, you know, about this time, we start to dip into the low one hundreds, and everybody has this lingering feeling here in Phoenix, like, Oh boy, here it comes. Here comes the terrible summer, and then you get into the, you get into the 110s and it's like, Whoa, boy, it's fertile, but yeah. Wow. Yeah. So tell us a little bit about you, a little bit about your story, your journey you're just bringing us into your world, how did you find the online space you've been in the space, a long time. Tell us a little bit about your journey.

Paul: Yeah, it's kind of an interesting one. There's been some ups and downs of course like all journeys, but mine is kind of different, it may not have heard something like this before but I had, it's been about like since 2009, 2010, that I was kind of in introduced to affiliate marketing internet marketing, how to make money online that sort of concept, and looking into the Warrior Forum really like drew me that drew me into that and looking into how I can market services online and I got involved back community, which was kind of interesting back in that day. And so anyway I learned some methods, and I started making some money, but it took me a few years to actually start doing something interesting and making something more significant, which to me was like really exciting looking back on it, you know like I probably shouldn't have quit my job and moved because of it but, but I got super excited and I follow different people online and read their blogs about living the laptop lifestyle. So one of the guys I was really into, He moved to Puerto Vallarta, and he blogged about that. And so I thought that was pretty cool so once I really started feeling comfortable about my success online and doing SEO at the time I was doing sniper sites, what we call them building affiliate sites around products and ranking them. And so yeah I got into that yeah.

Matt: Yeah, back in the day I created a course on SEO in like 2011 Yeah. That kind of thing. That's hilarious. 

Paul: So, yeah, so this was. So you've probably experienced what I did back in. Well, I eventually moved. I was like okay, I got something going. This is great. I can get a little bit more freedom in my life, I'm going to explore Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. I'm going to move to a foreign country, and it was a bit crazy, and I did that in 2012. And that is like February, 2012, once I kind of started getting settled this was then March, when something big happened, that most SEO guys got hit pretty hard but, and myself, I got pretty much wiped out, and all my sites my rankings.

Matt: Was that Panda? 

Paul: Yeah, the big algo change I think it was panda. Yeah, major algo change. 

Matt: For everybody who's newer, like, there's gonna be a lot of people here who have no clue what we're basically talking about. If I could describe it in 20 seconds. Google has an algorithm in which they determine which sites are the best and so when you go and search on Google, you know, for instance, like how to landscape your yard, they they pick out certain characteristics of certain sites and place the best ones towards the top right so then there's whole strategies around how to rank and how to do that faster. So Paul had kind of mastered that and then panda comes in and, and that's just what they called their update to their algorithm they kind of named it, and, and, and I just remember the whole affiliate marketing crowd just freak out, and the whole SEO crowd just freak out, couldn't understand what was going on but all their sites, suddenly were not on the first page anymore. And a lot of people lost a lot of their income because of that. 

Paul: Exactly. So, for us as well, who've been involved with it's like this never really happened to this extreme. So this was just like, shocking, and so yes this algorithm change occurred. And so all the sites, AKA your income streams, right. So think about it, you know the money that you're making you're feeling good, and each month it's kind of more consistent and building and building and then boom, one one or two days and then you're out, and for me I just moved to a foreign country. So I was with my girlfriend who's my wife now. And, yeah, we were like, oh, we gotta make some happen for me. I mean it was all on my shoulders and I was like, it was really like a gun to the head type of moment. And it's interesting, thinking back on it too, though, because I think that brought a lot of positivity. There's a lot of good that came from that because had I not had such pressure like that. I don't know if it would have forced me to make the changes that I needed to make to scale and grow and rebuild my online business to bigger levels, so you know, if I was up here in the States again maybe I would have gone back to a job or something, I don't know. I'd like to think I wouldn't, but who knows. But what happened was it, it forced me to go into a different, different area, which at the time was fairly new to me, and that was video marketing, and I had a friend that introduced me to SEO and then recently he had been wanting me to get into video marketing he was saying hey that's really cool it's it's a fast way of ranking your stuff, your your content, and the being on video or shooting videos that seemed really new to me and different and maybe a little scary because it was just a whole new learning curve to master YouTube I just thought was a big deal and something new, why would I want to do that when I'm doing science. Well, at that time, you know after that algo change happened, I had to look for something different, quick. I needed to get my income streams back up. And so then I moved into video marketing. When I started ranking videos around the same keywords that I was using for my sites to make those profitable. I ended up doing review style videos and and ranking those on YouTube and to my surprise, they ranked so much faster than the traditional SEO website building process of optimization and backlinking and things like that to get your webpage, right, and it's still to this day I definitely enjoy YouTube videos and they they benefit so much more important ranking power and being quick to rank on Google, of course to get YouTube as well and get being the author that can bring in some more traffic but yeah so that changed that, that completely changed everything for me. And, and then I just started doing that scaling that and was able to rank all the existing stuff that I had, which was making money before, and now it's making money with videos and so I was able to do that and it's pretty funny because back in the day, and thinking of, sort resources that I had, it was just an old laptop, it was like a, like a $300 laptop and I which you know is a couple years old at the time but it just pretty clunky pretty slow, and I had this Logitech microphone from Target. That was like a $17 microphone, and I would review videos, my wife actually helped me out to, with some of the voiceovers. We never had to be on camera or anything but we're just doing some review videos around affiliate products. And the interesting thing is like even to this day I've watched some of the old ones and you can still hear that chicken in the background, because this is, is Mexico, and they have like a jingle like different delivery services that would have, like, throughout the day with different jingles to sell like propane tanks and bread, and one guy would deliver mattresses in the back of his truck every night. It was a different experience. 

Matt: Holy smokes. 

Paul: Yeah, but, but yeah just starting out with just a cheap laptop, a cheap microphone, you know, it doesn't take much, and and I believe even to this day you know with your phone and internet connection, maybe a cheap computer you know that you could definitely make some progress online, you can really change your life.

Matt: Totally, totally some of the some of my closest mentors, people I know that did not just not just six figures but 789 figures, man, cheap, cheap $100 laptop $500 Laptop, and like just absolutely nothing like just a cheap little laptop. In some cases, man. Wonder if I have all looked for it but I have this photo where I had pillows stacked around my laptop and I made myself a little recording studio. So I would stack pillows around my MacBook Pro. It's kind of a cheap MacBook Pro. When you talk into it, it sounds real echoey. But I could stack the pillows around it just enough to kind of create this this enclosed sound thing that sounded like a nicer microphone, but just I think sometimes people, you know sometimes people get imposter syndrome and think they need all of this stuff, you know, so that they're sort of legit, or whatever, but it's just like, you just you, whatever you've got make it work. There is a certain threshold, I think, like, that you actually, you need something like you do need the ability to sort of create a decent video that's not super grainy, if you're going to be on camera but like you said, I mean you could go to. For instance, you could go to this site, a site like, let me share my screen here real quick. But I was just, I show this to people all the time, and I talked about this site called Pexels, but like, yeah, you can just go to clouds and you can grab like videos right here this is Pexels calm, and for those of you who are watching on the stickiness in the comments, there's a lot of different sites like this, these are totally free. And, or this site in particular is totally free to use and you can just these, these like these stock video clips, and you were talking about doing voiceover videos right so like, being able to just take a take a stock clip or a stock image and put a voiceover over it and do sort of product previews or whatever you do, like I see people doing that right now on tick tock, like people are doing that as we speak, on TikTok right now, and they're doing it for all sorts of products and making money from it, and it's just as simple. They do either, either some of them don't even do voiceover, they just, they literally grab stock video and just put words up on the screen with noises. Wow, and to build audiences of 300,000 Plus, it's crazy. So, anyway, I just think it's, yeah, yeah, opportunities out there. Oh, it very much is.

So, anyone you have. It's like when you have that drive, then you can make anything happen. Right. 

Paul: Yeah, it really starts from within.

Matt: I believe, really does. I mean, and getting put on the spot like you did I mean I think that that is just, it's a crazy thing, and I think it's just funny that he had chickens in the background like little stuff that people overthink. Right. It's just so crazy and then you listen back to you. Just, I used to have stuff in the background going on in my videos because we were in a one bedroom apartment. It's sometimes like the door would open or whatever. So I would introduce some of my videos and literally just be like, Hey look, you know, I live in this one bedroom apartment here in Denver. I am going to be honest, we've got this kind of smaller living situation. At any point, like my wife could walk in here and yell at me to do the dishes or take the trash out or some random crap so I'm just giving you the heads up right now. People will just laugh and be like, That's hilarious. Like I love you're doing your thing and I love you're just kind of honest with it. And we've got affiliates who have gone through our training who make videos on TikTok, and they're just standing in the middle of their like studio apartment, and they're just like, it's so real and raw and honest that people are just like, yeah, yeah, I'm trying to like find an excuse to not believe you but this is too believable, it's too late.

Paul: I don't know exactly how to cover that up and it's just like just showing it. It's okay, you know.

Matt: Yeah, yeah, making it relatable makes it more engaging because some people can feel that themselves can relate to you, thinking that they're in the same situation and, yeah, I, it reminds me of this quote I don't know if I should share it. I heard one time about Oprah Winfrey and when she was on one of her weight loss kicks people her viewership actually went down. And when she was more overweight than she got more fans, more used that for some people was a lot more relatable. The fact that she was just being herself and not trying to be skinny. I thought that was interesting. Yeah. And yeah, like your arm in and then that little disclaimer that you, you said at the beginning, like, Yeah, that's great. So many people would probably be like oh yeah he reminds me of myself, my friend or something. He's a real guy. That's very for people out there making TikTok videos or YouTube videos definitely doing that and not being afraid of using what you have, whatever it's just a matter of just cranking out that content, producing that content, just getting it going. That's the important part. That is the important part. And I also think, you know, there's sort of an order that I would go in which would be like an order. The first thing which sort of be like, I, number one, let's just get your content going let's get something up but number two I feel like is, now I need to study and not be it, I don't. I shouldn't be consuming content just for entertainment, switching switching over to studying people strategies like studying called strategy on SEO, studying, Brian strategy on tick tock studying, you know, and actually becoming good at the craft and good at the craft of content creation or SEO or whatever you're trying to do whatever marketing platform you're trying to do, getting really good at the craft of it. The first barrier is usually just creating the content and getting over the fact that it's not perfect, getting over the fact that you suck. And it's embarrassing and humiliating and oh my god, and then it's just like, okay, it's okay to be embarrassed and humiliated like that it's okay for me to feel these feelings, right, and sort of just, you reframe all of that, then take that next step to actually become really skilled at it. Some people sit in this realm of Alright, finally just creating my content, and then I'll get, you know, I'll get an email or the post on Facebook or something, you know, two months down the road it's like nothing's happening. I've been posting, everybody says just post. And it's like, oh, well let's take this to the next step, let's take it to the next level right now you've been posting, we need to create good posts, engaging posts that really grabbed attention, you got a market. Right. And that's kind of the trick of getting to that next stage but you're so right that first moment is just like, hey, bear it all. I mean maybe don't like, keep your clothes on, but, you know, sort of just reveal all and have some fun with it. I think that's just the last few days in marketing.

Paul: Yeah, well definitely but I think it also has kind of made a comeback with TikTok I know for myself I did that I mess around with that a couple months ago and I mean even some of the videos that I have now I'm like, oh, that there's so many problems with this video but whenever it's getting used, and it is adding value and some people will like it and who knows, I mean some of, some of those bad ones go viral. Yeah, because it happens like I think anytime you try something new. That's where you're going to experience you're going to fail, you're going to fail forward hopefully you know, anytime you get hit with something just try to get yourself back up again, and keep at it, knowing that maybe you learn something for next time, you know, if, if this time didn't work out to your liking. Or, you know what you find is great and perfect perfection. I've heard an interesting saying about perfection. Makes you broke basically, like if you try to overanalyze, get analysis paralysis and you just spin your wheels and not do anything. There's no such thing as perfect anyway so you might as well just acknowledge maybe that's just, maybe it's just your own flaw that saying this has to be a certain way, that's preventing you to just publish it and get it out there, but anytime you do something new like no matter what, I happen to me all the time, like even though my video marketing my YouTube videos and review videos now, They're different. They're better now that I've been doing them for 10 years. But if I do something new like TikTok, it's like,  it's funny I laugh at it like okay I know I'm going to get better now because I see this video and I see little things and I know then that there's gonna be changes that I make the next time I do it. Totally, totally. So just believe in yourself and believe that you'll improve and hopefully I'll improve to when I, when I do that,

Matt: So in your experience or this like it's been like a real 10 year journey here experience like, like what are some, what are some bigger, larger themes that you've been able to pull out also, I mean, you've probably experienced a lot of different training, like, you've probably experienced a lot of different communities and training, and even like, I would say sort of ethos, what, like, what's your experience been like, let's say with Legendary now versus, like a lot of the stuff that you've experienced what other stuff have you experienced mostly I'm just curious. And then, you know, what's that been like over the years, like what if, you know, what do you look for in affiliate products we look for in communities like what, what's those 10 years taught you?

Paul: Interesting. Yeah, that's a good question. I think like, there's two points. One of them is like your question about my experiences and like, I guess, is your question as like a product creator or are just finding different ways to make money online. And then the other part is like affiliate selection affiliate product selection and that's, that's completely different, in which like yeah there's I'm, there's a lot of discernment, and there I have a lot more filters now, nowadays than I used to back in the day wouldn't be like oh look at the EPC suite, which stands for earnings per click and, and you can find that on networks where it'll say like this product could get your averages, this EPC, and for those that are not aware of that, that earnings per click, it's kind of exciting because you make it makes you think like, oh, if I just send 10 clicks and it has a $3 ABC I can make $30 Like, like that, and I know people on Tik Tok and I can get us 10 views or whatever, what doesn't really work like that. And you can actually get better earnings per click or lower earnings per click, depending on the quality of traffic that you send so it's all about quality of traffic. And with Legendary and that as, as a course and as a program, and as a community, I, I've been very impressed the whole way through. So the community itself has been interesting like not just inside the Facebook group, but outside, you know, the marketers, they're cool people think I learned stuff from them all the time, and I get value out of different content and I can't speak for everybody but there's been many like that I don't really know, one that's like really annoying or spammy or anything like that. I think that really says a lot to your guyses training, and how you set people up for success, because you set them up to add value, and to have content that's congruent to your services, and then also to have like quality traffic that's coming over there that's already framed and educated about what's going on. So yeah, I've definitely learned a lot from the community and the people promoting Legendary just from their free stuff. And so as far as a product and yeah legendary when I went through the 15 Day Challenge, just in a couple days I was really impressed, like, extremely impressed with, with what it is like what, what it teaches you like I've there's methods in there. This might sound kind of crazy but I've gone through other courses like $1,000 courses, and some of those concepts were like the aha moments I got from the $1,000 courses. So yeah, I was super impressed.

Matt: That's cool, that's cool, sometimes, like even just the amount of time that we spend sort of looking at the content in the in the challenge or stuff like that we forget that like, man, it's only $7 And there really are some people out there selling $997 courses, or even like $297 courses that teach basically sort of similar or, you know, you know, you get the same aha moments from yours. From those courses. And it's just, yeah, it's just crazy. It's very interesting. Well that's cool. I'm glad that you'd like the course and, you know, have, have had a great experience with our community. I feel like, you know, most people who come on here have mentioned or say something about the community is so great, just because of the collaborative kind of feel to it, you know, I think that's a, I think that's a unique thing that's been cultivated here that is, it's harder to cultivate that with. I think this is just a real credit to like the leadership at Legendary specifically Dave and his wife Erin and Julie and I think, like, we put a big, big emphasis on mental health, and on just being healthy holistic people like not in a weird way, like, like, Oh, we're good people. And I think that over time, that sort of wins out as where you and I have both been in this industry to know, we've been in this industry long enough to know there's there's guys out there who are young bucks or, you know, and they're all hyped up and excited and, and they get people ramped up and they kind of make false promises, or they kind of, you know, they prefer they there's stuff going on behind the scenes that might not be the most honest or, or have the highest level of integrity. And, you know, those, what ends up happening over time as those communities become really toxic and people start taking advantage of each other and it just, it gets real nasty real quick so I just, you know, for people who are new here, I'm obviously a little biased, I've been with Legendary for quite a few years now, or I guess three years now, and I'm obviously a little biased but I can still even if I wasn't in legendary I can tell you, there's other communities out there in the online space that are far more misleading and dishonest, and we do everything we can to make this a safe community. Are you going to get people who've messaged you in your dm’s trying to sell you stuff. Yes, it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen all over the internet, there's tons of people and it's just how it goes. But for the most part it's a, it's a real clean, you know, fun fair, honest community helpful people. I don't know why I'm ranting about this right now.

Paul: I think that's very interesting actually. So you mentioned mental health and I was curious what kind of things you do there, or that?

Matt: Mostly just like we make it an emphasis there's sort of this expectation of like you're going to take care of yourself. So, like in other circles that sort of the expectation is you're going to grind until you die. Right and it's like, and that's set from the owners, expectations, the owners there every day they're grinding every day they're working 16 hours, or they're burnt out and they hate their life, and that's not the case. And when it gets set at a higher level, you have this like, I don't feel nervous about working 16 hour days I feel nervous if I'm doing that, I feel nervous if I'm like, if I'm overworking myself, I feel guilty about that, because I know the expectation is like hey man, you've got to have a gauge and a pulse on yourself to take time away to set time away and to actually, like, take care of yourself, and if I don't do that and I'm burnt out. That's like part of my job description, like part of my job description is like, you take care of yourself when you show up to meetings when you show up for customers and clients. You're not giving them, you know, short answers or you're not, you know, treating them like you're not giving them the time of day.

Paul: That's, that's really interesting to hear I'm glad to hear 

Matt: It’s not some we're gonna give you $1,000 stipend for, you know, therapy or massages or whatever it's more of just like, Hey, make sure you take care of yourself, like yours, and it's sort of like this trusting like we trust you. We trust that you're smart, that you're intuitive and that you know yourself. Take care of yourself, you know, so.

Paul: Yeah, well yeah and it's interesting you say that because I think starting out, you're talking about my journey and stuff and starting out it's easy to just want more tactics and techniques, you know like, I want to get more traffic to this offer or I want a better conversion rate on my landing page or my funnel, you know, tweak this tweak that. But what's really interesting is that as you as you see things happen as you see big things happens like like what's happening with legendary or other successful entrepreneurs, and what they're talking about what they're doing is it's really a mental thing, And it's a mental health thing it's taking care of yourself. Now there's masterminds where people will talk for hours and hours just on sleep quality, and, and they will all like that they love that like that that's a huge value if you can master your sleep, then you can really do well in business you can do so much better in business if you get bad stuff down. 

Matt: That's some real stuff there. That's, yeah. And it's not to say that there's no time where, you know, you get four hours of sleep because you're grinding and you're getting ready for a big launch or whatever, but knowing yourself, knowing your body, knowing how to take care of it, that's huge. So yeah.

Paul: And as Matt was saying to it, it's how you show up. So for Dave and him, he was what we were saying David was, was telling you, or the team was saying that you know it's important for how you show up and so that that time that FaceTime, maybe the interviews or maybe talking to people selling something, that time is going to be so much better and it's going to mean a lot more when you show up in your presence, and you have the energy for it.

Matt: Yeah, it’s the difference between customer support, giving a one line response to a support question that doesn't really help anybody and it's like hey, we just need to get these tickets answered versus, you know, three to four paragraph responses detailed that gives links out to different videos and different resources and really actually provides value for somebody that little extra is all stemming from sort of that mental health space where they're, they log in, and they log into their support back office every day with a full cup, their cup is overflowing and they're ready to help people. It's that overflow comes in sales, marketing comes in content.

Paul: Yeah, exactly. I was gonna say for the people watching, if you're thinking that's really necessarily congruent to what you're doing because you may not have a business like legendary. It's actually very congruent to your affiliate marketing efforts. If you choose affiliate marketing, when you're handling support tickets or somebody is replying to your emails, then if you do that, like, it's amazing what can happen when people can see that you actually care. Wow. That's the difference between like $7, as commissioned and $1,000 Commission. Yeah what. Yeah, yeah cuz, cuz a lot of people are doing it, you know, most people aren't. Most people don't care. You know, they think about numbers and clout. And yeah vanity metrics and stuff like that. And then over-source or have like really poor quality customer service and it's good to delegate, but when you delegate you want to make sure that's quality too like, just how you would frame it and just how you would respond to somebody. So it makes a big difference because those numbers don't actually need to be that big for you to have significant changes in your life for you to make significant income.

Matt: Yeah, totally, totally. Man. Wow, this has been very valuable dude, this has been really fun. Thank you. Good. Do you have any? Do you have any, I'll let you have the last word. Do you have any parting sort of advice or thoughts for. Anyway, it could be, could be an affiliate who's already killing it, it could be. We've got people here today who like to purchase legendary an hour ago, and they're all here watching, you know, so like, there's people who were like, this whole thing is so brand new to me. You know, and they're just honored to be like, you know, what the heck is this Legendary Marketer. What is this 15 Day Challenge? And then there's other people here who are more experienced. What do you have, like parting advice or things that you what's on your mind today? 

Paul: Yeah, well, this kind of like what we talked about the theme of this is, has been consistency, showing up, and, and taking massive imperfect action, you know, but but making it mindful to, you know, don't just like throw things around like to, in terms of customer support, you know, don't just take that for granted and not handle that, but, but, in terms of your content getting that content out there and taking action on that and taking imperfect action and results will follow when you do that, it's it's been proven, and, and not to be afraid of just doing something or pressing record, you know, telling people who you are, I see that on TikTok all the time it's crazy man I'm sure you do too. It's like, you know these people like, they still have a job or they just lost their job or all walks of life, all walks of life, and they're just doing some TikTok videos, and then just all of a sudden they blow up. And they're, they're able to live that laptop lifestyle that live that internet marketing, lifestyle, from anywhere they want in just a matter of few months, because they're able to be consistent, and it's pretty tough, like it's not easy because it failure is sad, or feeling like you fail, it's really not about failure, it's about feeling like when your video doesn't do certain thing that you want it to do, but it will and another video might, you know, the next video might and the next next video that might be your viral video that changes everything. Right. It's a matter of showing up.

Matt: Yeah, there's a good chance. Actually, I mean, like there's actually a decent chance that it is, I think, I think people are. Yeah, especially on TikTok, especially into, because yeah, it's, it's like it's, it's, like, gosh, I could go on and on but it could just be like, it's such a hack, I mean it's such, it's, it's just, it's crazy. Thanks man, thanks for coming on. This is awesome, and that I got to meet you, and you know we're always kind of coming back to recurring guests later down the road so if you're around later, a couple months down the road, we'd love to have you back on. Sounds good. Great to meet you too man. Awesome. Have a good day, see. Alright guys, happy Wednesday hope your Wednesday's going well, middle of the week, we start to ramp up and get ready for the weekend, and I know many of you are weekend warriors, you're like hey I ain't got no weekends on Friday night, Saturday morning, I'm starting my business like that's that's not actually got time. I'm not working. I'm not on my nine to five, so it's been two days. But yeah, let's, let's keep going if you're newer to our community. I just want to say one thing, you're newer you're getting started with the challenge. Look, even if you don't do anything, Even if you never actually go forward and, and go crazy with this online business thing. Just my encouragement to you would just be to finish the challenge, right, doesn't even matter if you never do anything with it for the rest of your life. Just finish the challenge, get through 15 days, because there's something powerful and just finishing what you started that habit is such a big habit and if we don't ever teach you anything else here legendary Let us teach you how to finish something that you start and creating that new habit for yourself would be really powerful. So we're signing off for the day. We'll be back here again. Same time, same place next week. Okay, so we're here every single Monday through Friday 10am Eastern we're live. This is not pre recorded. I'm literally sitting out here, there's a freaking landscaper outside of me. I don't know if you've been able to hear him, the landscaper right outside of our fence, doing. I don't even know what, but this is just, we just go live and it's real and it's raw and it's honest. And we have real guests every single day. Unless they don't show up, but they usually show up, And, and we'll see you tomorrow at the same time.

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How To Balance Your Personal Life And Affiliate Marketing Business

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I am excited for a returning guest today so you guys may know this gentleman. Some of you will be meeting him for the first time coming all the way from across the pond, from me anyways. Okay, he may be local to some of you, my friend, fellow marketer, a platinum affiliate here at Legendary and somebody who is crushing it and I'm very proud of James Neville-Taylor What's up my, my friend, my man, the legend, what's up?

James: What is up Dave how's it going it's awesome awesome to be here again, thanks so much for inviting me back, always good to see you my friend.

Dave: Hey man, it's a pleasure. It's a pleasure. So where exactly are you now? Where are you living? You were traveling there for a long time. And now you I think you've been home for quite a while because of a pandemic and so forth where, where exactly do you live?

James: Just near Cambridge in the UK at the moment I've been travelling around the UK obviously we haven't been able to travel internationally lately. But yeah, a couple of years ago it was all over the place, all over the world and hopefully all things going well, I'll be able to start that up again real soon. They've just opened the borders in the UK, not able to travel to the US yet that's what the biggest one I'm aiming towards at the minute, but shouldn't be able to get started traveling again real soon.

Dave: Yeah, you did a lot of traveling there and that's one of the things your business has afforded you to do. For those that don't know who you are, take us back in a nutshell, and tell us how you got involved online in the first place, and what attracted you to it and kind of just your kind of origin story.

James: Absolutely yes. To cut a long story short, I had a pretty messed up and troubled upbringing suffered a lot of different abuse, moving into a lot of different kids homes as a child, and pretty messed up, up in the kind of mid 20s Really, and when I was in 2017, I took an overdose, and almost died. And that kind of spurred me to want to try again after not wanting to try and kind of locking myself away for almost 10 years. It's led me to realize how much time I've wasted and made me want to try again so I jumped into digital marketing and jumped into affiliate marketing. And six months later I made my first commission in affiliate marketing. And within under a year from content arrival was actually a top affiliate for, for a certain company. And since then I have been at the top of it for a number of other companies, launched my own successful digital products as well, and configured around so far since early 2017.

Dave: So I want to point out a couple of things. First of all, he said he earned his first commission within six months, but now he is running and operating a multiple six or seven figure business here. And for those of you who are thinking that your business is not successful, and I really really want you guys to lean into this for a second. If you're thinking that if you're in your first month or 2 or 3 or 4 whatever it is 5, 6, 7 Whatever. And you've yet to get any results in at least what you would consider results money because results come in many different forms, but if you feel like you are failing, or that you are not going to be successful because you have not generated income, or earned a commission within your first six months, or plus. You're short changing yourself because listen to what the man just said, over the course of how many years has it now been James when exactly was that when you got started over four years now. James: It was January 2017 When I first kind of jumped into digital marketing I made my commission. I remember the day that I made the first commissioners the third of August 2017 So it was about six months, pretty much all I know.

Dave: And now you've earned well over a million dollars. You're top affiliate, you're creating your own products. And, and, and just think, just think that's always say, Don't quit before the miracle happens because just imagine, and this is something that is kind of powerful and humbles me when I think about what if I would have quit. What if I would have quit before I got that first commission result, whatever. Just imagine how different your life would be James just just just talk us through that for just one moment how different your life would be if you had quit before you had gotten that first sign of success and how many other people who are probably even listening right now who are potentially on the brink, you know, on the edge of quitting. That same way right before that miracle happens, could you just speak to that for a moment.

James: Yeah, I mean I can't even imagine how much different. My life would be I don't even know, who knows, I could have gone completely the other way I might not even be here anymore, you know, if, if I'd have with the way I was back then, if it's some setbacks and stuff, you never know I might not even be here anymore but I definitely know my life would be very, very different to how it is now I wouldn't be able to do all the amazing things that I've been doing traveling around helping my mom with like medical stuff and getting her the medical care that she needs, and other things as well so everything would be a lot a lot different and I've been an inspiration to many of my family members as well so it's not just my life has been changed, but with what I've been able to accomplish over the last few years I've also inspired a lot of people I've changed a lot of other people's lives. From my time speaking on stage and everything so it would be worlds different absolutely worth different to where I am today and that's, I think I want to speak to what you said a minute ago on the kind of instant gratification thing. And there's, there's a lot of people out there, especially in the online make money world there's a lot of people claiming instant riches, you can get rich overnight you can earn a million dollars with just like an hour a week. And although there is some truth to that point, once you've put in the work beforehand, like I just recently went to Devon with my mum for a couple of weeks, and I still earn well over 20 $20,000, over the course of a couple of weeks while I was there, even though I worked about an hour a week, while I was down there, but I put in 1820, plus hour days for the last couple of years to build that up to build to the point where I am now. Now I can take a month off and still earn multiple five figures a month, but I had to put in a heck of a lot of work more work than most people are willing to put in on a weekly basis to get to the point that I am right now so if you're willing to put in the work. What I'm saying is if you're willing to put in the work for six months for a year, even if you don't see anything for those first six months that first year. Once you hit that point when you start getting some results, you can then take your foot off the gas pedal a little bit and start enjoying yourself a little bit.

Dave: Yeah. And you've been able to do quite a bit for your mom. You mentioned your mom. I know that you've been able to help her out. What, what, what has that been like for you to be able to actually be a blessing to your mom to your family, like you've been able to do.

James: It's been absolutely amazing. I mean, some of the health care that she got in the past, like on the NHS and stuff like that it was not. It wasn't great, let's just put it like that so they kind of left her to kind of not, they kind of gave up on her and didn't give her the care that she needed. She didn't have physio and stuff like that so I kind of took matters into my own hands over the last year and I've been paying for, to get better to be able to get treatment and stuff like that so it's kind of given her a new lease of life so to be able to see that and be able to have a direct impact on that it's, it's freakin priceless.

Dave: Yeah. And I don't think that maybe it's just the case if people didn't hear it is that you're on the brink of basically suicide, You're, you're at rock bottom and I can certainly relate to that. Could you just speak for a minute so people kind of have an idea of, of exactly what what you were like or where you were at mentally, just, you know, four years ago or so when you, when before you started this journey, and of course I'm not asking this to say that, starting a business is any sort of supplement for getting mental health care, or support or doctors or therapists or medication or anything like that so I want to be very clear to all of the listeners, that's not what I'm saying. But I do want to. I do want you to speak to those who feel like there's just no hope, whether it be for their personal life for their business life and how you've sort of transformed that over the course of the last four years, and of course how a lot of that, how you've maybe figured out a way to use your business as a way to contribute to healthy mental health.

James: Yeah, I mean, when I was suicidal back in 2017 I kind of didn't find any joy in anything. I like I said I locked myself away for almost a decade, and my social skills were absolutely terrible actually back in 2017 I was so scared to even put a profile picture up on Facebook like literally I thought my self confidence was so low I thought people would make fun of me I thought people would joke about the way I looked. And I thought, I didn't have anything useful to contribute so I never posted anything original, never had any original thoughts or anything, and I was just really kind of beating myself up whereas it was all in my head. really but I was really beating myself up, self confidence was at ridiculous lows, and I just didn't find any joy in anything, I didn't think that I'd ever kind of feel any happiness again i i used video games for a lot of years to kind of supplement to kind of get away from the real world and kind of get lost in a make believe world and when that started not bringing me any joy either, like what is the point of living anymore. I just don't feel I'm almost numb, I don't feel anything anymore. But after that near death experience that kind of woke, a new, a new purpose for me and kind of made me realize, not how stupid that I've been but kind of how COVID to try and get over the struggles and stuff that I've been through, it kind of like just brought out a new side of me which I didn't even know that even existed anymore. But yeah, going through the actual transition of, when I first got into the market and it was a quantum leap from the first year, because of the results that I've been having because of putting myself out there. I have a saying whenever I speak on stage I always say, feel the fear and do it anyway, because if I hadn't have taken advantage of all the opportunities that I've got, like, kind of like the first time that I first time that I made a post on Facebook, the first time that I, and these may seem like small insignificant things to a lot of people but when you're that beaten down, even just making a simple post on Facebook or putting a profile picture up can be a monumental step to your growth. But all those first times are the first time putting a profile picture, the first time speaking on stage for the first time being on a, on a summit or a podcast or anything. They all were incremental steps to me growing as a person, building my self confidence, and being able to transform into the person I am today.

Dave: Yeah, that's, that's incredible and very well said. You know, we have a lot of guests on the show, who like using TikTok and stuff. And it's you, you didn't, you haven't, You're not even on TikTok bro. I mean, you're not. That's not the primary way that you built your list, and that you've generated traffic so before we get into some of the mindset stuff, the balance stuff that you're kind of learning about now as you're building a bigger business and you have more things going on in your life. Can you talk just for a second for those people who just think that one platform is the only way to have success online and you know everybody's kind of maybe gets a little bit kind of narrow minded with with kind of the blinders on and focused on one thing, you know, you've built your success before, or at least the foundation for your success before Tik Tok was ever even here, it wasn't even invented yet. As did I. Can you talk a little bit about what you did at the beginning, and sort of drove, how you drove traffic and even some of the things that you're testing and trying today.

James: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I have been tempted by TikTok because I see that there's a good opportunity there but you've got to remember you have to focus on what's working, don't get distracted by the next shiny thing, when you should be focusing on what's working right now. So I've kind of stayed away from TikTok because I've got other things that are working for me right now. And I got my start on Facebook. Facebook organic. When I first started, I spent. I've got a few credit cards out and I spent probably 10,000 on courses on this on trying to make stuff work. So I didn't have a big budget for ads. So my first, my first success was with Facebook organic so posting in Facebook groups, the right way obviously not spamming Facebook groups, that kind of engagement post on my wall and stuff like that. With Facebook, that was where I got my first start and then when I started to build up a little bit of recurring income then I started going to paid traffic. So we're on a lot of Google ads. I want to go to YouTube ads. And they're the two biggest platforms that I pay for on Facebook. Honestly, Facebook ads are a pain in the ass. Like, they, I've tried so many times with Facebook as they changed their interface every week. And they are just so confusing once you think you've got it nailed down, they change everything, they change rules and they're a nightmare to be honest. But the ads and YouTube ads are my two biggest ones that I've paid to play on and Facebook organic is my biggest one as well.

Dave: Yeah, that's that's that's cool, you know Yeah. Facebook is, Facebook. Facebook is kind of its own monster. I feel like Facebook is where I learned to advertise, and I feel like Facebook is kind of like New York City, like if you can make it there you can make it anywhere. Yeah, which is, which is kind of one of the reasons why, like we, in paid ads, even in our Blueprints, we kind of start people out on Facebook, because if you can, if you can learn and understand Facebook, Then you can advertise anywhere that that knowledge, translates over to Google, acknowledge translates over to Yahoo, Bing, YouTube, which is Google, but I felt that that was like really important for me to ask because, because, Guys, there's, there's millions of people on the internet, there's, there's, there's hundreds of different ways to generate traffic, you know, right now there's a, there's, you know, there's, there's a couple of platforms that are getting more attention than others. For example in our community TikTok gotten a lot of attention, but there's tons of different ways to generate traffic and that's really the name of the game, whether you're, whether you're, I mean, especially in affiliate marketing, but even if you sell your own course or products or coaching, it's generating traffic and how you do that is, is, is kind of the same way the only additional thing that you could do is you could you could you could have affiliates promoting your products for you, which is just another way to generate traffic once you've built your own courses. But, you know, you've now sort of, you've now sort of climb that ladder of doing affiliate marketing of creating your own courses of even having your own affiliate program and having enough streams of income, and in doing enough of the right things that you've that you've now increased your income, significantly, and you've got a lot more on your plate, and one of the things that I know that you're encountering now is, is, is having to be more decisive, with what you do say yes to having to be more, I guess Careful what you allow onto your plate, you just said, I mean that's a statement to say that I've said whoa to one of the hottest platforms to generate traffic in 2020 and 2021, because I'm focused on what I'm doing, because it's working for me. Right, that's a big statement that's that's how successful people are successful for those of you who are wondering, it's not looking at what everybody else is doing and saying, oh I have to do that and I have to be disliked them, there's a point at which you become the Ilan musk and you say, You know what, this has never been done before, or I'm going to blaze my own trail and in be different, right, and that's a little bit of what you've what you've done, but you're also encountering sort of now, figuring out how to balance, more, more money, more income, more people who want things from you as you've grown. What talk to us about the current state of some of your challenges and some of the things that you're, you're having to learn about and learn how to do to give those who are just beginning maybe an idea of, of kind of what's the common some of the, the new challenges that they might face as they grow as well.

James: Yeah, it's kind of like a balance you know it comes down to a certain point, you've got, you've got to decide what is best worth your time because as you grow as you get bigger. People will try and take your time from you. And you've really got to be careful with who you give your time to where you choose to spend your time because there was a point, actually, not too long ago. Towards the end of last year where literally, I found myself jumping on like 10 calls a day. I had like 10 different projects on the go, I had a Trello board, the size of New York. It was ridiculous how many things I had going on different projects, different stuff. What is the highest use of my time and what is going to have the most impact. And where can I be most productive so now I'm in the middle of building a team. I've got a couple of awesome team members who were to handle a lot of the stuff which I used to do manually. And a lot of new things are going on, which don't require me to be at the center of things so I had a struggle. Obviously, you heard a little bit about my story. I've been let down a lot in my life. I find it hard to trust other people. So I was trying to do 10s of dozens of different things when they could be outsourced, it was like, I know how to do this, I want to do this myself want to make sure it gets done properly so handing over the reins of that stuff but people can be really really difficult especially when you've been through stuff like myself, and you have, it's hard to hand over the reins to your business professional baby right it's you've spent all this time, kind of nurturing it and building it up to the point where it is right now. And then, when it comes to kind of stepping away it's really really hard to kind of give it to the babysitter, if you will, to, to kind of help it along so that's one of the biggest struggles that I'm that I'm facing at the moment. But the biggest struggle for me was, especially when I was growing was not comparing myself to others, you know like, you can't compare your step one to someone else's step 20 You know I used to look when I first got started online I used to look at other people and I was like why can't I be like them, why can't I be successful like them but they may be like 10 years into the business and you're like one year into the business, and I used to be really hard on myself, I was like, really really really really hard on my, my downfalls and my kind of struggles and stuff like that. Whereas, you are always going to be hard on yourself, you're always going to be putting yourself down a lot more than anyone else everyone else's kind of struggling with their own stuff, you can't really be that, be that hard on yourself and kind of compare yourself to others so much so that's that's kind of the things that I've been struggling with more than anything, recently, and especially towards the beginning as well.

Dave: Yeah, and I want to point out something just so people are clear. Now I want to do just a quick public service announcement, okay a lot of you guys are interacting here and commenting and I just want to just point out that there are people that, that build their businesses specifically by coming on our show, and trying to direct message, those of you who are interacting in here trying to learn, and then they slide into your direct messages trying to put our training down and, and then sell you something else, and they do it secretly. And they do it snake Aliy in your, in your direct message and I'm a capitalist I'm all for doing business with whoever you want to do business with, but just if you're new, and if you're naive about some of the people, and some of their intentions in this industry, that is all I'm gonna say is just be aware and be careful, if people are sliding in your direct messages secretly. Just be very wary. Okay, and be careful and protect yourself. Okay, here's one thing that I want to say that I want to sort of point out which is something that you touched on, which here at legendary we teach people how to sell information right through courses coaching and events, and then also starting out as an affiliate marketer. And one of the reasons why affiliate marketing is so powerful and so perfect for a new person, is because the only thing that you have to focus on is the marketing. You don't have to focus on team building, you don't have to focus on customer support. You don't have to focus on all of the other things that come along with doing the marketing, doing the product creation, the delivery, the customer support, and the customer happiness, I'll just call it right when you've got somebody who maybe is not happy or maybe it's just kind of a problem person who just kind of, is it just wants to cause problems or maybe isn't is generally kind of disgruntled with most things that they do. And that's kind of what I found is that, you know, there's not a lot people are not just unless you have a shitty product. People are not just unhappy people have patterns. And so sometimes we can even get hard on ourselves if somebody complains, but then we realize that they just are at kind of a generally disgruntled person and they kind of have patterns of being negative, and in putting the responsibility on other people in their life, and that's just kind of part of the business you have to learn how to not take it personal, but law, a lot of you guys are wanting to eventually create your own courses you're wanting to maybe have your own coach programs you're wanting to sell a course or a coaching program or an event for multiple 1000s of dollars and have your own high ticket products and programs and. And that's an awesome aspiration to habit, it's something that you have my permission to do it at any time you want. But one of the reasons why we, we recommend starting with affiliate marketing there's so you can just focus on that one piece of the business, which is affiliate marketing, selling somebody else's product because if you can sell somebody else's product successfully, then you're more likely to know that gene in the copy in how to structure an offer that people actually want to buy your more because you've because you've, you've focused on that area of the business exclusively for a significant period of time, whereas the moment that you go and now you are selling your own products and programs, all of these other departments, now suddenly are open right James yield suddenly they're like, oh shit, customer support merchanting certain product delivery, all this different kind of stuff, and hiring people is, is can be a challenge. I like to, I like to, you know, I have found James one of my, one of my best skills in one of my most valuable skills is finding the right partners and say I'm very careful I consider the people that I work with, essentially partners, and I try to treat them like that and I try to think of them like that and I, because really, really essentially I am partnering with them, and if you're smart, you figure out ways to make it, win, win, right, maybe, is an element profit sharing or paying them as much as you can pay them so they are doing what needs to be done. But, I found that one of my, one of my, most valuable skills is knowing how to find good people. And I think that that's something, James, that is a part of it can be, you know, kind of you're born with it but I think most of it. Most of it is really a learned skill. And I've made a lot of bad choices in the past, I've made some awesome choices here. More recently, and I'm really proud of the team that we haven't Legendary. But what I wondered if, if, you know, if you know the kind of trust issues that that you had, as you as you spoke about, you know, how are you learning to, what are some of the things that you are personally looking for all commented on as well but what are some of the things that you look for when you look for people to your team, and, and help build the business that you're building.

James: I totally agree with you, it is a learned skill. I've made a few mistakes with our team members as well. But the biggest thing that I'm looking for when I hire someone is loyalty and trustworthiness. I mean, skills, skills can be learned, as long as they've got a kind of adapted intelligence skills that can be learned, but they aren't actual, what's the word that I'm looking for, character, integrity. 

Dave: Integrity Yeah.

James: Yeah, That's, that's something that you can't teach no matter what you can't change someone's integrity, you can't change someone's character skills can be taught. Yeah.

Dave: I wholeheartedly agree with that, I, one of the things that the number one thing that I look for in somebody is, Is their integrity. What do they do when nobody's looking. And I like to gauge the first couple of months that I'm working with somebody. I like to really, really try to pay attention to how this person operates when I'm not looking. And what I found is that everything always comes to the surface. There's a saying that I love which is if it doesn't come out in the wash it comes out, rent, and, and that's been true. Every single scenario situation, and I've got enough experience now over a decade, with, with people that I've worked around and worked with that, that, that I, that I know that with enough time, whatever it is, whatever it is, I mean I've had people steal money, who were in charge in the accounting department I've had people who have ended up having wildly different personal built over into the business, and basically, we're, we're, we're, we're so big that I had to leave the relationship. You know, I've had people who abuse power, you know, whether that's just kind of a position to where they're like just mainly it's just when somebody who has insecurities gets into a position of power where they're in charge of other people, and they just abuse that power they just, you know, I mean, whether it's, I mean, I've had people who have, who have, you know, sexually harassed people that was an abuse of power, right, those are things that you now suddenly have to be aware of human nature. I've had people who, you know, just mistreat people, and sort of treat talk down to them or or treat them as if they're less than, because they're in more of a leadership position. So I've gone through a lot of these, these, these, these situations with people and that's why those first couple of months when you're working with somebody. It's so, so important in my opinion to pay attention to their level of integrity, how they operate, you know, What do they do when nobody's looking. And also, do they constantly need to be managed. Like for me, I don't like it. I'm not a manager, I've never been a manager of people, I like to lead people and I like to work with people. So one of the big qualifications for somebody to work with me and me to work with them is that I don't have to ask them to do things they kind of know what to do. Now if I want them to do something. I do take responsibility to be very clear about my communication and very clear about what I'm asking them to do and not beat around the bush or not, you know, expect them to read my mind. But the general things once we kind of get into the flow of things of operating the business and kind of what needs to be done. You know I don't want to have to, like, you know, I don't want to have to hold somebody accountable for doing the things that, and I don't want to have to hold people accountable for, for also brainstorming and thinking about new ideas and stuff like that, like I want people to be motivated to do that. Part of it is their nature, part of it is compensation, making it a win-win for them as well. And, and, and, and, you know, I can say that after 10 years, you know, I'm a lot better at it now that I was at the beginning, you know, I really, I would say James my picker was broken. At the beginning, I don't know if you can relate to that at all, but, you know, if you're smart, and you're aware you really learn from those experiences and you really begin to value different things and people like you, like you said.

James: Yeah, I've had a number of horror stories myself where people have changed their payment details to their own to try and siphon money off there's been people who've instantly had some very, very big personal problems like you say who've completely derailed customer support and everything you've had to do, then you've got a big mess that you've got to clear up afterwards and it's just your prevention is, is so important on that. You don't want to mess up.

Dave: Another thing that I've learned and I think this is important for all of you new marketers to hear as well is that I've realized that a lot more can be done with, with, with, with good people than it can be with more people. A lot more can be done with good quality, smart, like people who take care of themselves. I mean these are nuggets right here, letting all of you know because the majority of people think, to get to six multiple six seven figures you got to have, you know your team's got to grow huge, etc, etc. And, I've found that it's about quality. It's about good quality, smart people who have the characteristics and qualities that I've been listing out versus more, because what happens when you have more. A lot of times it's the 80% of the business that's generating only 20% of the results so now you have somebody who requires more management, more accountability holding hand holding etc. And they're working in a part of the business that's not generating the majority of the income anyways. Do you have any experience with that James or is that just something that you can put in your back pocket as you grow?

James: That's definitely something that I can put in my back pocket, I mean, the. I've always had, I think my maximum was three members of stuff at once so I haven't had too many. And I know it's quite lean at Legendary as well considering how big Legendary is you've got quite a small team for what you do so.

Dave: We’ve grown quite a bit. We've got 79 People now. Wow. Yeah. Yeah 79 People now. But you know the way in which we, the way in which we, you know 79 People for the size of the business that we are, is, is it's not unreasonable. And, you know, it's, yeah, it's, it's, it's, it was lean for a long time, and you know I think that for me, it's as important as James who I'm working around every day, as it is how much money I'm making. Now I know that's a, that's a bold statement, but it really is. It really is, it's, it's important, it's as important as I'm working around, I do not want. I can't deal with constant crises from people. I can't deal with people who can't take care of themselves. I mean I've just, I've done too much work on my own life, to get to a place where I've got my priorities in order. And I'm not in constant crisis in my personal life, that I just don't have time to, to do to to basically be somebody. It's not even about mentorship, it almost becomes a lack of boundaries at a certain point, you know, when, when you, when you basically allow somebody to continue to work with you around you. When they can't take care of themselves you know that's one of my expectations, is that I expect people to take care of themselves. And I talked about that self care piece quite a bit. It's one of the reasons why I like talking to you because you're big into mental health and stuff. So, sort of as we bring it.

James: I would say that working with who you work with is actually more important than what you do, you've got to be around people that you enjoy working with that you've enjoyed being around it's kind of like when you're, when you're at school right you had some lessons that you really hated, but they were all right if you were around your friends if they were if it was people with good people and then if you have a lesson that you liked it was even better when you were around good people, so it's kind of the same in your business when you're working with people that you love people that you like and get on with it doesn't matter what part of your business that you're doing as long as you're doing it with people that you get on with people that are good at what they do, then it's going to be infinitely better doing it right.

Dave: And you're gonna have more fun solving problems, you know what I mean it's kind of like being married like I feel, I feel like in a sense, this will be weird for some of you guys to hear but in a sense, I'm sort of married to some of the people that I work with in a business sense, you know, like we're, and like I've been in toxic relationships with people in work environments before. It's like, it's just as stressful as a toxic relationship in your personal life like marriage, you know what I mean. Like it's literally just as stressful. And so, you know Yeah, I think, I think, like, for if you think about my wife and I like we've been through crisis and we've been through a lot of shit in our in our marriage or in our relationship pre marriage, but now we're to a point to where we're not in constant prices we're not in crisis, hardly ever. And, and solving problems with my wife and things like that like dealing with our kids and how to take care of them and keep them alive and all of this shit, right, right, because it's kind of the bare minimum, some days, right, just keep them alive. Keep getting them fed, right, just keep them fed and don't let them hurt themselves. And then, and then most days we can nurture their brains and their spirits but other days we're just exhausted and it's like kind of trying to figure out with my wife, how do we navigate life, and it's a lot more fun when you really love and you're, that you're, that you're in a relationship with, I think, in business, the same goes, you know when you respect, I think that's what it boils down to also you respect, mutual respect, you know, mutually respecting people. And I don't really feel like I'm above anybody. I feel like I understand my responsibility which is, if a final decision needs to be made. Ultimately that's going to fall on my lap. But I also don't think I'm the only one who can make a decision. I actually rely on people around me to make decisions to be able to make decisions, and I think that's another thing that you it's your responsibility if you're going to hire and bring people into your business to challenge them to make decisions, because oftentimes they won't, James I could really talk about this for a long time, seriously because there's so much here to unpack, but I just want you to know that I love the conversation in your business so we can have these kind of type conversations because we don't always do it because most people are kind of at the beginning, so I'm super proud of you, man, and I'm really really thrilled, and I'm here to help you as I have been in the past. In the future, to help you continue to grow my man, and I just hope you can take that in and really be proud of yourself because I know for much of your life like me. We've been down on ourselves, we felt badly about ourselves and I really hope that you can you can you can hear my validation and my affirmation to you about how proud I am of you and how good of a job you're doing, of building your life in your business in a way that, that, that anybody could be proud of my friend.

James: I really appreciate that my friend and yeah, it's, it's good for good for ones to be told that as well because a lot of people during my life didn't say that. So, I appreciate you, my friend and I appreciate the help along the way. And I know it's gonna be an awesome few years, so to go on, I'm super impressed at how you've grown legendary as well. It's been an honor watching you grow from, from, from legendary as well. So, really, really excited for the future and really excited, into the doubt.

Dave: Well I know that you send a lot of people our wage as an affiliate and you've gone through our training and you've come to our events as a matter of fact, you're a member of our mastermind which is, which is awesome. You've come as a student, and we actually have asked you to speak on our mastermind stage before. For anybody who knows you or doesn't know you or that are thinking about it, hey it's lit I've seen a couple of people in the comments. It is Legendary work that is their training worth it, is it a good place that I can grow? What would you tell those people about Legendary?

James: I would say definitely go for it. There's a lot of different training out there, and legendary is definitely one of the best. I've seen the tips and tactics in the training there and stuff that I've used to help build my business as well so I definitely recommend it wholeheartedly.

Dave: Yeah, so if you guys know James, and, and you've, you know found us through him then. You know, now you've got now you've got multiple people in your corner who will support you and help you, and, and not do it for you. But route you on as you're growing, and, and, and hopefully one day you guys will also come and meet James and hang out with us at an upcoming mastermind, which I can't wait to see you, if you're, if you're able to make it over.

James: Yeah, hopefully we'll be able to start traveling and do events soon. I've been in withdrawal from the lack of events that I've had over the last year.

Dave: Could you just speak on that just for a moment before we wrap up, could you just talk about the impact of going from live, getting out from behind your computer and going to live events and meeting other people from the industry and being in rooms and, Like, how that has impacted you. 

James: It's definitely helped. I mean, depending on what stage of the journey you're at obviously when I first started in 2017 there was no way I could go out and and socialize with other people I was too too nervous at some points I even had panic attacks being around people so if you're at that level, then the best thing is to gradually step out your comfort zone but when you get to a point, you've, there's only so much you can get from behind a computer screen you've got to go out there make the connections, meet new people, and push yourself out of your comfort zone, and you cannot get that same level of of kind of pushing yourself behind a computer as you can out with other people, it's been integral to my growth going to think I went to like 17 events in 2018 So I was all over the place going to lots of different events, meeting new people, and it was part of pushing myself out of my comfort zone and growing, as I have over the last few years, pushing, every single day, step by step, little by little, to kind of push myself every single day so it's been incredibly important for me to be able to go out and meet new people actually meet people face to face as well. Yeah, we do get a ton of what's the word, you get more of a bond with people when you're, when you're face to face.

Dave: And we've met before our mastermind I think we met face to face, I mean, we have hung out and been around each other multiple times now, in real life, not just virtually here. And yeah, it adds an element of also humanity to this, hopefully a confidence booster because you're looking at other people and you say, I mean I'm not trying to talk down about the guy or gal but for Christ's sakes, if, if they can do it so can why they put there, they seem to have their pants on the same way that I have my pants on. Right, so they must have just put them on the same way that I put mine on in that room over there, right, you know, and I think sometimes we put people on a pedestal. And we think because they're on a TV screen so it's like we're conditioned to look at somebody like they're a celebrity but when, when, when they're just sitting next to us or standing over they are in the same room where we get to shake their hand and talk and hang out and laugh and just be normal people, man for me it's also, it's really a confidence booster it's really, like, it's really just a, it just is. Yeah, I look at people and I'm like wow man like it's inspiring like the person is legitimately if I passed, so and so in a grocery store, I wouldn't look at them like oh there's the millionaire market or I'd like I wouldn't do that like I just like there's a person, you know what I mean. So I think that's an aspect that also a lot of you guys, I think could gain a lot of confidence from coming you've been asking when our mastermind is coming in, it's coming up, we haven't scheduled the date, make sure that we're all good with restrictions and people be able to, but we've got, we've got several masterminds to do live upcoming, I can't wait to hang out. See you guys. One of my favorite forums that we haven't been able to do here for the past year and a half or so or whatever feels like 20 years. But, but anyways. Brother, I am. I'm proud of you. I'm looking forward to hanging out with you. If there's anything I can do to help please let me know, and please keep coming back and giving of yourself and teaching and sharing your journey with us because it's really really helpful.

James: Likewise absolutely my friend I'm always happy to come on and speak. One of my passions is speaking about mental health and stuff like that so come on any time we can I'm looking forward to the platinum ring that you're going to be sending me out real soon as well. Have a blessed day stay legendary my friend and I'll talk to you soon. 

Dave: Okay, thank you to my friend, take care James. Alright my friends. Go and find James Nevel-Taylor on various social media platforms, he's not hard to find, not huge on TikTok. So, I mean he's got a TikTok account. You guys can go and follow him but, as he said he's not, he's not a big bear doing other things. He's, he's doing, what's working for him, and he started this journey before Tik Tok and some of these platforms, we've been hot, so there's a lot of takeaways from today's lesson. There is a element of, of taking care of yourself, of seeing your story through and turning your mess into a message of using business, although it's not a substitute for, you know, professionals, medicine and whatever is going to help you and it's not a substitute for that but I found that my business can help me to find purpose, it can help me to learn more about myself to realize that I've got more inside of me than I thought that I had, and eventually it's been therapeutic for me because I have been able to be myself, and share my struggles challenges stories with you guys and get in most cases positive feedback, positive affirmation, and even occasionally be inspirational to other people so I hope you were inspired by today's message, and also the fact that James has gone from the bottom of the barrel, complete near suicide overdose. And, and, and, and a childhood that we wouldn't wish on our works to me to now be a blessing to his mom, his family, and building a life in a business that he can be proud of and I'm certainly proud of as well. So take that with you today. As you may be you worked yours right on the edge of stopping or quitting or throwing in the towel and know that your time is coming, it is your time now, and the only way that you can seize that is, is to put one foot in front of the other take action today, and keep in stay in today, not in 10 years from now, not in 10 What do I need to do. Tip day to move my life and my business for it. That's the question, figure it out, and we're here to help you be legendary. We'll see you back here tomorrow. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on my friends? Good morning. How are we, Legendary Marketer in the house!

Alright my friends. Let's go. Yes, I am hyped now. I need to bring our guest on so I can actually clean this protein bar out of my teeth as he's talking because I eat these are RX bars. I don't have the wrapper, I already threw it away. I've never had a protein bar that sticks to your teeth like these protein bars do, I mean literally, I think half of the bar actually is just sticks in your teeth and then you get the nutrients and everything over like the next hour, as it kind of melts out of your teeth. But anyways, that's how we do right. We do and we got to do it, baby. All right. So, listen, as you guys can see in the description. We're going to be talking to a former security contractor getting back on his feet with affiliate marketing and I'm excited because I always like a back on your feet type of story so with that being said Daniel Welcome to the show my brother. 

Daniel: Hey Dave, how are you? How are you guys, man?

Dave: I'm excited bro to talk to you. Are you actually from New York or do you just like New York and you just like hats?

Daniel: Well, I used to live in New York. Okay, I was originally born in Taiwan, and I moved to New York in 2003 and stay there for a while, and to pursue my education and also did my job there. Then I moved to Los Angeles in 2009.

Dave: Okay, so that's where you're at right now. Right, yes. La baby la wonderful melting pot isn't it. Yeah, LA, it's a lot cooler than Florida and I don't mean temperature wise I just mean. Florida is like where you come to retire, so it's like, tons of, you know, senior citizens, which we love our seniors, I mean don't get me wrong, I love my seniors, particularly, I have many family members who are seniors but LA man it's just kind of vibe to it, doesn't it, it's got a, it's a vibe. 

Daniel: Yes, Yes. 

Dave: So talk to us about what brought you online, like, like, what, what, talk to us about how, what is, what does it mean for a former. I don't know if you're still doing security, okay former security contractor so talk to us about a little bit about your journey in a nutshell.

Daniel: Yeah, I mean, for me personally, I'm very honored to get on this show with you. I'm kind of emotional right now, because you don't know, I mean, actually get to know you or I actually follow you, before I even know what video marketing is about I was back in 2017, and I shifted my career, away from security contractor, because I don't want to travel to all those countries anymore after my first son, Ace was born. And it was not easy because I didn't have any online experience in the past, so I wouldn't have a lot of struggles, okay and especially finance wise, as well. While I was following you, I started another business. I did Amazon FBA for Hollywood Movie Star for like three years. That was not easy, and I lost a lot of confidence, okay because that's another area I have the media with.  I came from business security. I'm in the security business background. So I went through a lot of hard times, especially within my family, and also myself, I don't know what direction I should go. And your story is very inspiring. Okay, I learned a lot from your story and you. I should, I should say that you are power. I mean, I learned from that keeps me keep going. Then, in 2020, I decided to start my own business. And that's when I got into media marketing. And I started my own video marketing back in May, 2020. Initially, I just made a lot of beginner mistakes. I tried to learn from YouTube, I tried to do everything by myself, and that journey was not was not enjoyable. I should say, a lot of fights are going on between me and my wife. Yeah, she's thinks I'm stupid. Okay. She thinks I'm stupid, why, why should I do this why can’t I just go to get a normal job, just like regular people? Then, after trying this for a while without going to the professionals, I decided to give myself a chance to really learn how to do this properly. And in November, I started learning the basics to remote yourself, Then my entire business just went from there. 

Dave: Well, thank you for that and I'm so I'm so thrilled that we, you know, you kept me in your eyesight and we stayed connected I guess online even though you were good, you know you had found me and were following me for a little bit of time then you went off and you did some other stuff, but you kind of stayed connected to me and I'm glad now, this moment, we're sitting here talking to each other, and it's it's pretty cool right that's how, that's how this thing works, you know about that 2017. That was four years ago, right, you had initially connected with me online and started following me and now here four years later, you circled back after some other ventures and a few shiny objects and a few fights with the wife. You know you circle back around and, and we're having a conversation here talking about your progress and your success. I just really think that that's cool and I'm, I'm just as I'm talking, I'm soaking up this moment. And I'm just, I'm really happy to be connected with you and sharing this moment with you right now, brother. Thank you. Really cool man, really cool and I can certainly relate to the fights with the wife, you know, I mean when I, when I, I mean I've got tons of stories and everything but I mean, I, I can talk to people about those fights and those, it's really more of just a misunderstanding, you know, and the biggest thing, I mean my wife we, we've had some knockdown drag outs back in the day, you know, when I was just spending money and it looked like I was losing money and I wasn't going anywhere and things weren't going anywhere and and life wasn't getting any better, but of course I was, you know I was, I was kind of at that point I was more popular than results, you know, I was great at selling the dream but, but we were still living a nightmare. You know what I mean. And, and, you know, I wish I would have learned early in my career to just ask my wife how I can make you feel loved and supported right now? Because I realized as all my wife was just scared, you know, and she didn't understand she just wanted to feel safe, she just wanted to feel secure, she just wanted to know that we were going to be okay. And of course I took her doubt and her skepticism as a personal insult. She didn't believe in me, and that really wasn't the case. I've learned that over the years, and she still has those tendencies to be skipped. She's not as entrepreneurial as I am. She's not as much of a risk taker, but what I found is that that balance of her being more conservative and her being less of a risk taker has worked really well in our marriage because if there was two of me, I would have been broke, busted and disgusted a long time ago, you know what I mean. Man, if there was to me. Holy smokes, I probably would have, you know, I'd be dead or in prison for God's sakes or something I don't know, I would have done something crazy but I try to surround myself nowadays with people who disagree, who, who have different opinions, who can give me different perspectives. And that's one of the things I actually value most about my wife nowadays. And I know you guys will get there. It doesn't matter, it's a matter of time so I'm rooting for you. So talk to us about what the journey has been like you're getting on tick tock of course you've got a follower count now of almost 50,000 people, which is pretty cool. And what is, what is your business, I mean, what are you doing that's working and what have you learned top lessons over since 2020 When you started?

Daniel: Yeah, when I first started, I mean, because when I look back, okay if I need to restart again I probably would do this in a more efficient manner. When I went back in May 2020 Like I said, I messed with a lot of low ticket items, and also I started doing YouTube reviews. And, number one, financial wise it’s not rewarding enough number two I do need to put in a lot of work, just like a full time job and going after each different low quality software product, and making YouTube videos, and the later on in November, I keep hearing I keep hearing this, you should do high ticket. Then I decided to pursue the 15 day challenge, and all the education that you guys provided to learn how to really do a video marketing business as a beginner, especially focusing on the high ticket of feeding and monitoring. And when I started my YouTube channel. In January, and my regret is that I didn't learn how to do this properly, early enough time and money, and mess around with other products in the marketplace. So just give you an example: get started from YouTube, and probably a lot of our viewers are thinking about doing YouTube. I got about my first and two other subscribers that took me over like a month of time getting. And, but, after learning from from you guys, I started my channel, I started my channel back in January 2021 So within four months of time, not only on building a good size of email list by using TikTok, and also I have over 50,000 followers and so my regret is that I didn't join this party early enough, at the beginning of my business career.

Dave: Yeah. So what would you say to somebody who's thinking now, today, six months later, only six months but you know how some of us are we think oh I missed the boat, you know, Oh man, what would you say to the person who's sitting on the kind of fence of action in inaction. Today, or as I pointed out in one of our Facebook groups over the weekend. A lot of people are shopping for software tools and setting things up and kind of procrastinating getting ready to get ready because of course that stuff makes us feel busy but it's not really taking action. What would you say to the people who are not going all in. Right now taking advantage of the opportunity that's in front of us, which to me is a massively viral, organic platform that you can build huge audiences in big businesses with free traffic, And also an entire planet. The now completely opposite Daniel from back in the day when people were like, Why do I need to make money online or from home? I've got a job, now everybody's like, I need to figure out a way to make money from home. So what would you say to the people who think that they missed the boat, who are sitting sort of on that fence of inaction today?

Daniel: Okay, so here's my honest advice. Okay I'm telling you from my own experience, if you're gonna do this. Okay, number one, you learn from professionals, okay, and forget about all. I know some of you guys, including myself, we all have shiny object syndrome, okay, we chase after different software and look for that magic pill. Okay, there's no magic pills, okay. And you've got to learn from a professional how to do this properly, and trust me the effort, if you know how to do this correctly, and utilizing the best tool, which is TikTok is an amazing organic platform that you should start with before you expand your reach to other platforms. So for all the beginners who are sitting on the fence right now, I will suggest number one, you learn from the professionals. So you will. I mean that's gonna save you money and time down the road. So you learn from a professional, and also utilize this opportunity, as your first step, and to get at least to get it going. And then you should keep learning, okay it's never non stop learning. You should keep learning, and take action, and most importantly is to, number one, believe in yourself, and also believe in other people who have walked the path before you.

Dave: Yeah, so I love that. So, what, what, in your opinion, is, you know, Actually let me ask you this. There's a lot of people who look at themselves and they think, you know, I could never be like this and so or English is not my first language, or I don't look like her or I don't sound like him or whatever. I'm asking you this because I assume that English was not is not your first language . Okay, okay, I'm glad that I'm accurate with that because, although your English is clear, and it's, it's, it's perfect. I had a sneaking suspicion that you speak other languages, correct. So, what, and I would also assume that you're primarily marketing to people in America. Right, exactly. English speaking people in America who are predominantly probably even more white. Right. Or maybe I even think the African American population in the Americas is around 13% And I think the Asian population is, is quite a bit less than that, so. So there's a lot of things that people like for example that you have, if you wanted to tell yourself a story. Oh, I I can't succeed because of this or I can't succeed because of that, how are you, or what would you say to people who are also counting themselves out in making up reasons why they can't be successful, before they even get started right and you know what I'm talking about we all have these maybe it's not some of the ones that I listed but I just wanted to point to guests some of the ones that somebody who's not has an English as their first language, somebody who is, you know what, maybe not. Were you born in Taiwan?

Daniel: Yes

Dave: You were born in Taiwan? So you weren't even born in the United States of America?

Daniel: No

Dave: So you've overcome a lot of mental obstacles to be able to, I mean I can't even imagine Daniel like moving to Taiwan. And, and, and marketing in, I don't know I just like I have a lot of respect and obviously America is full of people who have come here from other countries. That's what America is all about. But, but, I just, I just really want to validate you for overcoming, like a lot, and, and, and really clearly having a mentality and a mindset that you've worked on, what would you tell somebody who has limiting beliefs around what is possible for them, and maybe comparing themselves to other people or looking at who they are and saying I'm not good enough.

Daniel: Right, I mean, okay, here's buying a device, okay because I also came from a place that because, well my last business, Amazon business failed okay and there was a lot of conflict within my family also within, within my team okay my coworkers, so I had to leave. And after that, I mean, I feel, and also a video marketing I just didn't. I just didn't get any results. Okay, there's no results, I can show so my, my self esteem was quite low, at that time, okay. And here's one thing I do learn okay sometimes just look at me as an example, English is not my first language. And also, I was so afraid to be in front of the camera. And so it took me a while to get used to it. And, but here's what I learned. Sometimes, you cannot trust the voice inside of you, telling you that you are not good enough, okay, you don't have white takes, because sometimes that means that that small voice is actually the thing that's stopping you going after what you really want in life. So you should seek an end just number one handout with like minded people, like the community within the Legendary Marketer and just learn from other people's story, I mean if other people who are in the worst situation than you are at right now, they can still push through, okay, because they have something better. They feel they deserve it. Okay. And if you always want something better in your life, then find that courage, find some support, and really go after what you want to have in life, that's my advice.

Dave: Yeah. Wonderful. So how did you get over the camera fear, Daniel like how did you are you are you completely over it now? What what did it look like and how, like, like give us some examples of like for me, when I started, I would record something and then if I fumble just a little bit I would stop and re-record the entire thing because I thought I had to be perfect or whatever. I did that to exhaustion. I did that, I would record one simple video 50 to 100 times. I mean it was insane. It was exhausting, and it wasn't fun. So not only was I not making money because no business makes money right out of the gate, but I was also exhausted and miserable because I was being a perfectionist, and, and I just, it took time to feel comfortable, so what, what did the beginning look like for you coming on camera, and like, what are some of the things that you could, that you could recommend to people to overcome some of those fears.

Daniel: Well, initially, okay, when I first started my TikTok videos, initially okay I will spend like two, Three hours just to make one video. So it was very time consuming. And later on, I learned that I tried to kill myself as a friend, as the person who is relatable to people. Okay. And initially I was so any part of me that I was not comfortable with the camera because I want to be perfect. Okay, I want to show my best size out there to the world. So hopefully that people will like me, but I was actually locked wrong, okay, and you need to learn how to be the real you, be authentic and because people can relate it to your authenticity, and when people, is less people are less interested in what kind of achievement you have, because that is not really relatable to their lives. So, number one, you have to recognize who you really are, and people will appreciate who you are and also the value, okay you can bring to the table, even if it's not perfect. Okay, maybe that's some dark side story of your life, but other people can learn from that, use yourself as an example. Okay, I think, in order to really be good with a camera. Okay, you have to, in a mindset of helping other people, okay even if I'm not perfect, but you can use my example. My story, hopefully, is what inspired you to move towards something better. That's my goal. 

Dave: Yeah, I think that I think that the the greatest freedom that any of you guys will ever get the greatest freedom which will also be the most profitable, move that you ever make is to completely let go of the need for acceptance from other people in the read and what, what, who that is, that's looking for acceptance is the 10 year old you. It's the 10 year old you who is in school, who's looking around, or, or is afraid that people are making fun of them, or afraid they're not going to get, make friends, or afraid that you're not going to get picked on the basketball Corps, or you get laughed at in the lunchroom, and we all have had that experience and that literally is our 10 year old self. And as an adult, oftentimes what I find is that I can still operate from my 10 year old self, I can still that person is still there that inner child wherever you want to call it is still there. And and I can still get into that mindset of who I hope, I hope, I just hope I don't get made fun of, I just I don't want to get made fun of because there's nothing like getting laughed at, it's that that that feeling of rejection of that people are laughing at me or don't like me. It's one of the scariest things in the world for human beings, it's probably right up there with public speaking as one of the most feared things his tip is to not be like to not be accepted. And so that's why it's so profitable, is because most people can't get over it. Most people can't step into their adult self, and put all of the self absorbed self centered, insecurities aside, which are not which those are actually part of who we are. So it's not that we need to get over them, it's that we need to talk to our 10 year old self and say, little Dave little Dave buddy. It's okay, I got you. We don't need to, we don't need to be afraid of that anymore. We're adults, we're grown now. And I'm serious, like if you have to talk to yourself. If you have to get up a little teddy bear or a stuffed animal and set it there on your desk in front of you in that your 10 year old self, and you talk to him and say, little, little Dave, you're not running the show today. You're not running the show today, adult Dave is running the show today. Adult Dave is running the show today, not 10 year old Dave. We're going to get up here and we're going to serve people and it because you know what people don't give a shit about how we look, give a shit about whether we took a shower, people don't give a shit about what clothes were wearing they simply care about what we do in what we say how it can add value to their lives, how it can help them that's all they care about. And so as my adult self. That's who I'm going to step in and that's how I'm going to deliver on this video as my adult self and I'm telling you. As for me, as I've as I've nurtured that little boy inside me. Who's afraid of rejection, who's not that I don't try to deny him. I don't try to abandon him. I don't try to throw it outside and say, Get out of here you little shit, or try to act like he doesn't exist, because he's still here man. He's still here. But if I just say you know what today, little guy. You're not running the show adult Davis, and I'm going to serve some people even if, even if the haters don't understand even if other people and here's the other key, even if other people are going to project their 10 year old self onto me in the comments, right, because that's the other thing that happens is that other people's child self, their 10 year old self, they get in the comment section, and they get me, just like they did in the lunchroom, just like they did back in elementary school and middle school they get all me know you little shit. You don't know anything, you're a rich scammer, whatever, right, yeah. And so now all of a sudden I because their 10 year old self now brings out my 10 year old self and I'm like oh my god, they don't like me they're calling me a scam right, we just call get up in our 10 year old selves, and that's why you got to step into the room with the adults people, you got to be the adult in the room. If you want to make a lot of money, do you want to be successful in business, you've got to be the adult in the room, and that's what I've learned over the years it's come through a lot of therapy, it's come through a lot of personal development I've gone, you know, I don't just go to seminars and jump up and down and say I'm healed, I battle through this stuff in lots of different ways including facing myself on camera and being aware of how I'm feeling. Insane. This is not my adult self. That 10 year old is running the show today. Why is that, and maybe I need to give him some love. Maybe I need to step away from the camera and I need to do some self care, maybe I need to go take a nap, whatever, right, but I got to have my adult self running the show. Not the 10 year old I'm ranting what's coming up for you right now, Daniel?

Daniel: No, I'm just learning from you. I mean I'm just learning. 

Dave: Yeah, it's, it's, so here's the other thing I look at, I'm not perfect. I'm not perfect, I still have more money. I have a 10 year old self that pops up every now and then I get insecure I get scared, same thing, but I'm telling you I think this is the thing that we don't talk about enough in this entrepreneur world of Lamborghinis on Instagram and all this bullshit is that it's, it's not about, you know, not feeling. It's not about not being scared. It's not about not feeling insecure. It's about feeling those things, acknowledging them, and in walking through them, saying, “My adult self is stronger than this my adult self is, I can handle this, maybe 10 year old Dave couldn't handle this. But adult Dave can handle this situation. And I'm going to take care of my business myself and my family. And one of the things that's really helped me Daniel, do you have any kids? I have two, you have two boys, and you know how they don't know it's so it's, it's so clear when you're around children because they really don't. They're pure and they're beautiful, but they're, they don't know how to operate in the real world, when we have to protect them, right, we have to look out for them and that's one of the things that I think is important for us to do as entrepreneurs, adult entrepreneurs, is to look out for that little tiny kid inside and not treat ourselves badly, not, not, not chastise ourselves not not get down on ourselves, but just realize that, okay, that's okay, Like I'm feeling scared. Today I'm feeling sensitive today, because some of these comments hurt, but you know what the adult version of Dave is, I can handle this stuff, man. I mean like I can handle this. And I think that's one of the most important things for us to remember is that we all can handle this Daniel. One of the things among my now five year old is, you can do hard things you can do and I love how you said it's not easy, you got to work your ass off. But haven't you realized that you can do hard things brother that you can actually accomplish Tough shit and you are absolved. When you work your ass off, you actually can. How has this business, you know, and being an entrepreneur taught you about who you are and how much you really can handle?

Daniel: Well, I mean, we, everybody I mean everybody has more than what they do, they can give me okay, if you find a purpose. And also I also would like to enhance the last subject, which is that for people who are on the fence, okay here here's how I look at it. Number one, you have to find your why, Why you want to start this business, okay, even though you are scared, even though you have fears, you have to find out your why. First, why you need to do this for me is my, my family, okay, it's my two kids. And that's, that's, that's the, that's the power of the fire you had, you had to find first, okay your why. Number two, there will be a lot of challenges when you are doing a new business, for example, how to get over my fear of being in front of the camera, how to deal with those negative comments and all that good stuff. So they would challenge the stock, but how I looked at it, is that by doing this business, or by doing this new venture. Instead of focusing on what you get on it, which is why I always started, okay we want to make more money, but to take it one step further. Is that who you can become by doing this business? Okay, so I like, I would like to become a powerful presenter one day in front of the camera, and not just the, just the Dave how you doing, I was totally blown away. Okay, by the details how, how you talk to people in front of the camera. That's something I'm looking for. So there are a lot of pieces that I don't have. And I know by going after this new business is going to bring me more skills, okay become the person I want to become, and also become a better father to my kids.

Dave: Yeah, I mean, it really is amazing how many different areas of our lives can be improved. When we use entrepreneurship in this business, as the sort of the way to grow, you know, it's like, it's like there's not a whole lot of things that challenge you, the way that being an entrepreneur does, you know, there really isn't. There's not a lot of things, and, and what I have found is absolutely in combination with really good personal development I've done therapy I've done. I mean, obviously, a lot of you guys know I'm in 12 step recovery because I'm a recovering drug addict, you know I've been, I've been clean and sober for over 10 years, so that all is a lot of personal development work and stuff too like real work not just sharing fucking memes on Facebook, you know what I mean like, like, like a lot of times we think we're doing personal development because we're, you know, listening to a bunch of audio books, it's that's fine, information is fine. But, but, but, execution is where real power comes from, you know, information is just information, it doesn't it's not anything until we do something with it. You know, and lots of people get lots of information. I know people who sit in front of the boob tube and they just watch documentaries and they, they, they've learned so much but they don't do shit. They just sit on their ass, you know, I know people who go to. I know people who go to college for decades, and they don't do shit, they get a bunch of degrees, and that's fine. I'm not putting that down, I'm just saying that there's a difference between, you know, getting information and then using that information, you know, executing on that information, and then finding out who you really are, and there's not a whole lot. I believe this. I believe this is my belief Daniel is that every single person here that's listening to every single person just in general, but each one of you guys and gals, has everything inside of you that you already need to be successful. It's just that, as, as you said Daniel, sometimes the pros can help you to go inside and find what you didn't know is there, like, I don't, I don't need anybody to, I don't want anybody to be in, like dependent on me, like, I don't, I don't want I know there's a lot of gurus out in this industry, who want to be like, oh I got the secret and they keep moving these you know what I mean it's like, oh, you know they dangle the carrot, it's like go to this seminar then go to this seminar, then go to this seminar then but it's like, you know, it's like that's that's that's a that's a that's a predator, you know, we all have what we need inside of us, we just need the right information from the right person in the right environment, but in order to get that information out of us, and get that personal power up out of us to feel courageous enough we look around if we're in the right environment, we look around we see other people doing, like, I can do it, we say something people validate as you come on the show people comment supportive stuff, you're like, I can do this like, I feel supported, that's why environment is so important. But those three pieces: right information, right people, right environment can help you all to bring out what is already inside. So a lot of you guys are searching for the right guru or the right opportunity or the right this or the right, that things outside of yourself thinking those things are going to fix you or make you happy or successful. And the truth is that you need to. My opinion is, get in, get the right information from the right person in the right environment, who will help you to find your best self, the best version of yourself that's already waiting to be uncaged inside of you. Right? And, and then and then you run and you know what a great mentor or a great coach is not going to give a shit if you fly the nest, they're going to be happy that you fly the nest, they're not going to feel like they need to have control over you. You know what I mean like they want to keep you down or only support you if you're doing a certain thing. Right, I've had in my decade in this industry people, maybe as many success stories as anybody, organic, I don't, I don't work with gurus, I work with regular people who are, who have no experience. And if you look at our community the amount of people who are just brand new never been entrepreneurs before but are having success. It's on matched in the real reason is is because of what I'm talking about right now. And the problem with this industry is there's too many predatory unqualified coaches and mentors who are pretending that there are people saviors, and instead of creating a supportive community. And I think that's one of the biggest assets that we have here, and, and. And anyways, so I just I'm passionate a shit about this stuff and I think that if, if we all just took a breath, you know, I saw somebody who said in our one of our Facebook groups yesterday I just made my first commission any advice, like the fucking advice is do more of, like, the advices don't ask for advice. Okay, that's the advice, the advice is don't ask for advice because you're making, you're making, you know what Daniel, I'm ranting like a son of a bitch right now but it's Monday I'm going hard. You know, look, here, here, here's my here's my. Here's my thing. When I stopped listening to everybody else, all these assholes out here on Instagram and Facebook and all this other shit when I stopped listening to people is when and when I started listening to this, in this. That's when my life in business blew up. You know what I mean, because I was like, Look man, I, for so many years I felt insecure and I felt inadequate and I felt like I needed somebody else to tell me what to do. And it's like, you guys know what to do, but you got to you gotta quiet the voices in clear out the Creativity Channel, because right now it's like you're you're like, You're like an artery that's blocked, and I feel like my job here at legendary is help you guys unblock that passion artery that that that vision artery that confidence artery unclog it. It's like a sewer pipe man. It's got shit all in, in, throw a router in there to clear it out. So you guys feel more confident in yourselves, and you begin to listen to yourselves, because Daniel, what you're going to find as you become a better and better presenter and speaker is that you have amazing confidence and amazing value. When you get into flow state, right, when you, when you when you when you just really just because you you know so much, and when you get into flow state and you're comfortable in your skin and you're feeling confident you show up as your adult self and not, you know, little 10 year old Daniel like little 10 year old day laborer, show up as that adult self the guy you are. Your father to your kids like that guy, that guy who is the guy who if your kid ran out to a street, you'd snap that little fucker. Right that's instinct baby that's instinct, if your kids run out into the street you don't turn to book and Joe Schmo next you know, what should I do, you know, do that,

you get back over here you snapped his arm and it's instinct, man. I'm going to tell you something. We all have that instinct inside of us, we all know what we need to do next. And it's just a matter of sometimes that is that we just need to keep going and keep doing and stop looking for others to tell us what to do. And that's exactly what I see you doing brother, so a big round of applause for you, and I want to give you the last I've been talking my ass off, thank you so much Daniel for letting me rant and rave. 

Daniel: Thank you for having me here. I'm learning. I mean, learning from you. Oh, great advice. Thank you so much.

Dave: So, what if somebody was on the fence about getting involved in our company, our community and coming and joining us and locking arms. What would you tell them about Legendary Marketer today Daniel?

Daniel: Okay, I'm thinking this because I've been, I've been to a lot of courses, okay, I came from the product review aspect. So I pretty much see what's out there in the software shiny object and all that good stuff. So, the regret I'm having Okay, is that I didn't choose to do this properly, and then foundation during marketing earlier enough, so I wasted like six months of my precious time. And if I can start like six months back, my business will be at another level. And that's number one. Number two. Why does it take that small step, with just a little bit of fate? Okay, you believe you can do this. Okay, and just take that first small step, that's gonna lead you to a totally different path, because I came from nothing, and after learning from Legendary Marketer, I started doing my affiliate marketing business properly. I'm still small right now, but I can see other members inside this community. I mean they have crazy results, I admire them, I should say, Okay, so those are the role models and learning, and also I tried to, I tried to build my business, following their path. So they are inside this legendary marketer community, okay. You don't need to wait till you are perfect, because that is not going to happen. you just need to take a small step, and that small step will lead you to the entire new opportunity, and also by building this business, you're going to become a better person. Okay, you're going to build your confidence by doing shit okay by doing things, not by sitting on the sidelines.

Dave: Right. And there it is, folks. You know, I also want to say that we're not perfect, right, we're not perfect, there is no perfect course or program out there. Right, there's no perfect, and I'm not perfect, and it's not me that makes legendary marketer what it is, it's, it's, it's actually you. It's actually, people like you, because if I was just standing alone out here on the internet, screaming and talking and shit like I do every day. And nobody like it didn't resonate with anybody and they were like, you know I'm not. I'm just gonna sit here and do nothing, right, it's because of like people that, that also have like you that have the same visions and goals, and this message resonates with so I'm eternally grateful for you. Daniel, and the fact that, like you've taken the journey from Taiwan to New York to LA, that you've done everything that you've done up until this point that you started following me in 2017 and went off and did whatever you did and that eventually you found your way back we've connected now, and I've helped you, you're now helping me you're helping our community just with the inspiration of what you've done, because we all need that man six months, look at what you've done, I can't imagine another six months imagine six years I've been doing this for over 10 years imagine where you'll be in six years, you can imagine, Daniel, you actually can't imagine if you tried to right now you would shortchange yourself. You will shortchange yourself, of what's possible brother. So keep up the great work, man. Come back and see us in a few months and keep us updated, keep learning, keep growing and keep up the great work, brother. 

Daniel: Okay, Thank you, Dave. Thank you for having me.

Dave: All right, Daniel, see you later. Right. Later, tell your wife and your family I said Hi

Hey, tell him that you crushed it, brother. Okay, I wouldn't tell them to put on their seatbelt and tell them to get ready for the wild ride because this next year, Daniel brother, it's going to be a wild ride for you my man so keep it up. 

Daniel: Yes, sir. Thank you. 

Dave: See you man. My friends, get the hell out of here. Go do something productive this week for God's sakes, I love you all. Be Legendary, we'll see you guys back here tomorrow. All right. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is David Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I am excited today to have a guest today who is really every day in the business of, as far as I understand, taking risks flying helicopters. Even saving lives. And so I'm really excited to hear about his journey here with affiliate marketing, Legendary marketer with building his business online so with that being said let's welcome to the show, another, David, what's going on my friend? 

David: Good morning. How are you doing, Dave?

Dave: Good brother did I get that right, are you an SMS helicopter pilot?

David: Yes, that's correct Verminnen that's, that's me. 

Dave: Wow man so you're, you're in the business of, like I said, taking risk flying high and saving lives right. Wow man, well that's that's really cool. So, um, so what, what led you to the online world, man? I mean, how did you eventually find us as well? 

David: Um, so, it honestly actually started during my flight school my flight career so a little backstory as far as how I all started this, you know, military, I was in the military. I went to flight school flight training, and that was back, back in 2014 I went to my full flight school, I got certified trained on my degrees and then I started, you know, being a flight instructor doing tours and then came through a mess, but during around 2016 2017 That's when the, the wheels kind of started turning in my head like hey, what if for whatever reason I can't fly anymore right What if I can't, if I lose my medical my physical that I'm not able to fly, lose an arm, whatever the case is right. So that's kind of what started turning the wheel saying I gotta make like an extra income or something. In case, all this work that I put in for my flight school doesn't work or whatever. That's how I started going into, like, trying to make money online, and of course the whole typical, you know, going on google how to make money online. I've tried everything from Amazon FBA, my own drop shipping store, you know, eBay, pretty much all that stuff. But what I tell my guys. The reason I basically failed those is because I didn't really have anybody I can actually turn to ask questions when I needed help. So when I found affiliate marketing, and believe it or not actually funded, tick tock, I was, it was one of those were also typical where I just kind of downloaded it, I was just kind of scrolling through it got curious I clicked on somebody's link and I started my train. As soon as I went through the training, and I saw that there were advisors who mentor somebody like somebody in real life on the other side that I can talk to and ask specific questions, that's when I pretty much said I was all in. So that's how I kind of got led into this whole group into this whole community because like I can talk to real people, there's a Facebook group, I had so much support that I could answer questions when I would get stuck. That's how I actually got into this whole thing.

Dave: Nice man, so I was curious how has your experience here at Legendary Marketer been so far?

David: Amazing, have definitely been amazing. Like I said, I mean when I would get stuck, you know I would see other affiliates or I see other people like how are they having success and I would try to copy them, it didn't work. I would ask questions, I started getting, I started like having, you know start getting new friends from affiliates hear from other platforms and I mean I would just be able to reach out to people, that's basically why I pretty much stuck to it I said I was a land, and that's why I continued on in this in this area.

Dave: Yeah, so you've benefited from making a lot of new connections. You've had a lot of people in your network, a lot of real people. And that, I mean I would assume just like helicopter school or helicopter. The helicopter community if you will, knowing people learning from people being able to talk to people just, you know, it just makes such a big difference, right, and unfortunately, a lot of times, in, in the online world. There's a, there's, I don't know, it's difficult to find. It's difficult to find a community and make connections that are really helpful versus just people that are just trying to tell you what you want to hear, so they can sell you something. I mean, it's no secret here legendary that we have courses and training for sale. But, I mean we have several 103 to 500 people taking our challenge a day, and you guys who are all listening you wouldn't believe how many people that we turn down, if, if we feel that it's not a good fit for them, meaning that it's going to put them in some financial distress to buy one of our trainings, or if they have some sort of, I don't know, some sort of an obvious thing that's going to hit them for being successful. I mean, we're very non predatory. We challenge people, we push people, we say things that might make people uncomfortable. Absolutely. But, I think it's really fun. Nowadays, for us to find real communities and people that, that really actually are going to give us what we, what we need and not just what we want, and so is that something that, what are the values and principles that guide your guide you and your business. I mean, what are some of the things from a dynamic standpoint? We can talk about mechanics and how you've been marketing and stuff here for a second, in a second. But what are some of the things that are driving you and are beyond or underneath, sort of, the mechanical elements of your marketing? What are some of the principles and the values that are driving you in this business?

David: So, um, so first of all, like you would all say in whatever states like what is your why? Right like you have to get in this and you got to see like what is your why, so obviously for mine was for like my family right if I was to lose my job, something was to happen. I couldn't fly I have to find like another way for family you know put my kids to college, whatever the paces, but also when we get into this business I have noticed like everybody else, you know, we want to make extra money for whatever reason, but when you start actually getting those emails from like those people that kind of look up to you hey I made my first lead my first commission that's like a whole nother like feeling right like, like, like your baby's like starting to walk for like, like them right realizing because I was like that too. Right, yeah, my baby come on baby you

I know I mean I have a 5 month old, right now, so that’s a real life situation for me yeah no for real men like when you have people who are better. Like I, and that's what I was getting to I'm glad that you brought that up and I'll let you finish your thought.

Dave: But it becomes a whole bigger thing when you realize what you're saying and what you're doing. People are actually taking it seriously, man. and they're putting their money and their time and everything on the line based on what you're saying. And to really believe in what you're saying and really believe in to really feel like my ‘why’ has evolved for it not just being about me and my family but also helping other people help their families, right like be there for the brand new person to get started with their dream and say yes to themselves and I think that's kind of what you're getting.

David: Yeah definitely, definitely that's exactly what it is it's like that's kind of that's kind of how it all kind of shifts as you go through a whole process and you start to learn and grow and, and, you know, just continue on forward. So, definitely.

Dave: Yeah so and that's one of the things that I tell our team all the time, is that like that. There's a way that I think it's really powerful if you can, if you can adopt a reason that's bigger than yourself. And, and for me, I'll tell you guys, real clearly again what my ‘why’ is. It's not just about me and my family, absolutely I want to take care of me and my family. That's something that I think is is is natural, right, like I want to provide for my family, I want to make sure that they're comfortable I want to make sure that they have what they need and I haven't decided whether I'm going to leave generational wealth or whether me and my wife are going to spend every damn dime before we die. Yeah, I haven't decided that, right, because I'll figure that out later right but, there's a, there's also another element of my ‘why’ which is being there for that brand new person, like somebody was there for me. Somebody had to have said yes to their dreams. Somebody had to have taken a risk in it with their business to be there to inspire me to then say yes to my dreams. And that is a. To me that was, that's really important, and I don't think, I don't think I didn't see that at first, David, I didn't see that. I didn't have that appreciation for people like when I was early in my career I was pretty desperate for that sale and you're like, it was kind of just like a me me me thing and it was just all about me and, and, but today I really see the domino effect of people saying yes to a bigger version of their life, to the best version of themselves, to going for their dreams, somebody had to have said yes before me, to inspire me and give me permission to say yes to my dreams and. And now, one of the most rewarding things about my career in this industry is that I've been able to help people say yes to their dreams man, and I think like you're talking about when you get those first couple of people giving you that positive feedback. It really does take your motivation, and your ‘why’ up a notch, doesn't it bro and I'd like you to just say a few more words on that just to give some people who are new here, that that inspiration to stick with it until they start to make that impact on people,

David: That's that's definitely definitely that's, that's the actual thing because, I mean, believe it or not, like I was saying like I filled in all these other business models from I tried Amazon I tried drop shipping, and I didn't really know what I was doing so when I found affiliate marketing, you know, I was kind of slow skeptical I didn't want to fail again right I didn't want to try another thing and be another failure but like I said, like when you started seeing when I started talking to advisors and people right that I had support, and, and just help right like that's what kind of made me continue on, and that's why when I talk to, when I get on my, I do a lot of TikTok lives now. And I tell people, like hey, if you guys want that you guys have access to me you guys can reach out and ask me questions, if you don't really understand this model. So you can actually understand before you just go through right first you gotta educate yourself to make sure you know what you're doing, how you're doing stuff and like you guys have access to me because that was one thing that, that really got to me when I first started my whole trying to make money online thing because I didn't know what I was doing and of course I didn't really have anybody reach to I would, you know, turn to the obvious Google, YouTube and they wouldn't answer a specific question, so definitely that's what actually kind of get me going, that's to say.

Dave: So now you've turned around and are using TikTok as sort of your primary marketing platform, what have you learned about marketing there on TikTok that might be helpful for some of our listeners here.

David: So, yeah, definitely I do use tick tock my main ones are TikTok, and then I want to start growing like my YouTube channel, then I have my Facebook group but TikTok, is my basic my primary one, and of course I'm sticking to that one platform it's like learned and how it works right. It's still a little tricky I'm still trying to work out all the bells and whistles, but definitely it's one of those board like if you start learning and you start kind of like, you know, your mistakes that you make, you start learning from them, you'll start seeing results right you'll start seeing more views you'll start seeing people comment and then you can start engaging in these stuff.

Dave: Yeah, so how are you coming up with ideas for content? Are you kind of modeling after other content that you see? Are you answering questions that you see pop up in your comment section like, where's your inspiration for your content coming from?

David: So I do actually watching the people you know I try to see and I try to kind of not copy them but kind of put in my own flavor for like the other videos but right now I'm also doing a lot of like answering questions, a lot of people are answering the same kind of questions so I answer questions and then what I kind of tell my guys is, You know I make regular TikTok videos content to put it out there. And then in my TikTok lives I like to go on there and ask questions, it's a lot easier for me to go into detail, answer these questions. And then of course on my YouTube channel I like to take them step by step as far as the whole process, kind of thing.

Dave: So are you engaging with people in your Facebook group more one on one or you like kind of what is your what is your call to action that you're giving people are you saying hey go click the link, click the link in my bio and come over and join my Facebook group, are you offering them some sort of like what is kind of your like your meta strategy for meaning, kind of 30,000 foot perspective, how are you utilizing Tik Tok, and Facebook, and YouTube together, that's, that's my question?

David: So, YouTube, YouTube, I basically that's basically where I can get the eyeballs of traffic so they can, And then that's when I direct them to my YouTube channel so they can see how you can make money, you know, different ways as far as affiliate whatever the case is, my Facebook group. 

David: Yeah, I do actually take them in and it's more of a one on one if they need a chat FaceTime, as questions whatever I can actually engage with them a lot more in my group, but that's kind of how I have my YouTube, I post videos I can take you step by step I can show you all that stuff, and then TikTok is to kind of introduce you, and then I'll bring them over to like my Facebook group and my YouTube channel. 

Dave: Are you doing, are you after they get to Facebook are you doing any one on one messaging with them to engage and welcome them to your group, anything like that?

David: Yeah, definitely I do I actually answer or message all my guys that come in and of course you know you have the questions in the beginning what they need help on whatever and I kind of go from there like okay you need help from affiliate marketing or how to make money online, or maybe you guys are in here, you already started your journey but you're having trouble setting up your videos, whatever the case is, but yeah, definitely I do message them when they come in.

Dave: So how did you develop David the confidence to be able to help somebody, when we were new and you're still at the beginning of your journey. I'm asking this because so many people have a hard time with their confidence, thinking that well I'm not really qualified if you will. It's kind of like a pilot, I know a lot of pilots, one of the, one of the things that you guys do at the beginning of your career is, and you just set it, and I have a friend that the pilot this is also how I know this is that one of the first things he did at the beginning of his career is went into training school to, he started training other pilots, not at the end of his career, not in the middle of his career, like at right immediately at the beginning of his career, as he was trying to get a job somewhere else, he, that's what he was doing was actually training other pilots, which is kind of an interesting thing. But how did you overcome the imposter syndrome, or that I'm not good enough or I knew I didn't know enough I don't have enough success or whatever the kind of story. People are pretty prone to tell themselves, to give yourself that permission to sort of be somebody of service, be somebody who can help, be somebody who can coach?

David: So, yeah, definitely as far as that whole flight instructor yeah that's actually kind of weird how you start off starting to instruct people like in that school that whatever school you went to the higher you there as a flying shifting your start training, and believe me I was awkward I was, you know, just a guy that I would just read off the PowerPoint had no idea, by the way I like to do a lot of stuff with my hands, my, my students didn't really know cuz I like to do. And, but, um, as well and then once I got into this, into this business model. Again I feel kind of awkward like I'm not a mom. I don't know I don't know the best but the one thing that actually made me kind of come out of my shell was I read Russell Brunson's book, like you don't have to be an expert on that actual model, you just have to be. You just have to be to that next level. From who you're teaching, that makes sense. You can reach that next chapter, that's all you really need to do. And yeah, tht as soon as I started reading that you know I would get on my TikTok and my first videos on Tik Tok were so awkward as well you know was a hit on my friend. I didn't know what I was doing and stuff, you know after a while you start building confidence, he's like getting on videos you start understanding, like okay yeah I do know this I can actually help people, you know like, as far as I know what they're asking. As far as the questions and you basically start building that confidence you start moving forward. 

Dave: Yeah. So Megan commented that here the this training concept direct directly after your training should be more utilized if you're able to reteach the concept that means you're truly obtaining and learning the material then she went on to say I make my kids do this to each other but we do that we that is part of our process that is part of our system. Unfortunately, it's a challenge to get some of our students here within our platform and community to do that, too, because they have that sort of imposter syndrome, that's what we call it imposter syndrome newbie complex, which tells them well I don't. I need to get a little more success under my belt, which is exactly why I asked the question. It's called learn, do, teach and when you, when you, when you do what you've learned and then you turn around and you teach what you've learned, or teach what you did right. It solidifies so much more into your DNA into your subconscious, it boosts your confidence, and again it solidifies what you just learned. So I think that, for those of you who are wondering what's the missing piece to me in my business and getting started and, and really kind of taking things to the next level. It is to get into teaching, first of all you gotta do what you've learned. That's huge, that's the middle piece, that's kind of the bridge that that kind of allows you to connect the learning and the teaching, right, you gotta do it. So if you learn it, then you do it, you build that bridge, and then you can teach it over here on this other side, teach people how to get over that bridge, right, it's such a powerful, powerful concept in concrete what you've learned and what you've done simultaneously. It is the marketing strategy that's going to help you to be successful no matter what the niches. It's called education based selling. If I can teach somebody how to, in a sense, give them results in advance, so give them some sort of a result, before I ask them to spend money. So I'm going to teach you something if you guys notice any of my marketing. I'm teaching something before I give a call to action to do anything. Look at this show, I mean every day there's not even a call to action right i mean the call to action is essentially ideally you're already in the community and you're probably going to see something for sale at some point, but we're giving you results in advance right here, right, so Yeah, certainly. 

David: Yeah and that's exactly true because it's like I even tell my guys like hey I'm here to help you guys out you have access to me there's something I'm no guru but there's stuff that I probably won't know, I know where to go find it there's a community out there that I can actually ask because or whatever question somebody is asking me or what I haven't gone through somebody else has definitely asked him, but I tell him straight. Okay, I'm here I can help you guys out. If I don't know the question or something, I can definitely know how to find the answer I can, I know who to reach out to, and that's definitely that's that's amazing. That's awesome.

Dave: Well, that's such a powerful concept too. I just know, it is just having confidence in your resourcefulness, it's like, and I tell people that even within our team, all the time, don't pretend that you know everything, don't feel. Don't feel pressure that you also need to know everything. You don't know that you can be resourceful and know also that if you tell somebody, you know what I don't know the answer to that but, but let me go check with a couple of friends or check with a couple of people that I think may have the answer you earn so much trust like you really do earn so much trust from people, because if you're bullshitting them. Everybody has a built in BS detector. You know what to do. And, and so, so there's no need to lie, there's no need to, you know, have puffery and kind of try to make yourself seem as if you know more than you do. Just be real in offer, what you can. And again, the majority of people just need to be at the beginning so they just need to know those, those initial steps, how do I get, how do I make my, get my first commission? Right, so you don't need to know advanced concepts, just the fact, as you said, if you're one step ahead of somebody I remember when I started to market back 2009 2010 I was, I was generating a lead or two a day and that's kind of the result that I would market, I would be like, Hey, let me, let me, let me teach you guys how I've generated two leads a day over the past week, right and to somebody who's generating zero leads a day. That was interesting. It was also believable, which is one of the reasons why marketing in teaching, like the lievable things, is so powerful because if I was like, let me show you how to generate 10,000 leads per day, like that's just overwhelming. Let me show you how to make 10,000 a month, like to some people that's unbelievable. Let me show you how to make an extra 2,000 a month, let me show you how to make an extra $100 a day. Now, that's going to be the first step that somebody is going to take anyways, and it's more believable. 

David: And that's exactly yeah that's exactly how I kind of think of myself when I start doing stuff like okay, what would I do or I was in my shoes like six months ago back six months ago. All I wanted was to make a commission. I didn't even care if it was 19 cents. I didn't care if it was five bucks, I just wanted to make a commission. So you know I mean, or I just want to get my first 100 I wanted to hit my first 1000 I just wanted something right, and that's basically it's like and it's and then you just work up the baby steps, fail, like you said, till you can get to those 10,000 leads or whatever the case is.

Dave: Yeah, honestly I mean once you start getting crazy big results like it's, it's, I see all these people out here that are like, I will millionaire now it's like, well, gives a shit like, but that that's so unbelievable to most people, you know what I mean?

David: People are not gonna really like to believe it like they don't, you don't mean it's just one of those things. It's like I don't really care about you. I care about me, how are you going to help kind of thing

Dave: Totally, totally man, and I mean, I think that that's what I've learned in sort of the evolution that I've taken because, I mean I made my first million man back in 2011 or 12. You know what I mean, like, but I don't have to say that on every video, you know, to me, like, it's like, it's like, I, I've learned to be more interested in what people want and more interested in where they're at and try to worry about being interesting all the time, and I do see a lot of people who, who, who really struggle with, I believe it's like, it's an insecurity, even as they begin to get results, they think that they need to push and put those results in people's faces all the time. And while that might be attractive or inspirational to some people to others, it's a real turnoff. And it's especially in this day and age, like being able to read the room, like for example in 2020 Man, I mean, we had a great year in 2020, but I didn't throw that in people's face every single video because I'm reading the room. I'm trying to be sensitive to what other people are going through . Honestly, I don't live a normal life anymore. I mean I don't know what it's like to be a nine to five worker who goes into a job at Starbucks or a retail store. Right, so I do have to try and think about what it is like, and for a person and try to speak in that language right so they can understand what the hell I'm talking about. We were doing a, an interview with, with a guy a couple of weeks ago who said, you know, he would come across the videos that were like $100 a day, and he was like, man, just I want to just I just I want to find the video that's like show me how to make $5 a day

show me that it's real man, you know.

David: Exactly and it's like you connect a lot more and I've noticed that as far as my journey right like you can make a lot more of you tell your story because there's gonna be people in that same boat that you're telling, they don't want to see the Lambos and the trips or whatever like they want to see like real life, you know, it's like hey I just made five bucks, we can turn that five into 10, and 20 Whatever the case is, and he actually started connecting a lot more with those people right because it was actually, we were, we were close right we were actually kind of like in the same boat. 

Dave: Yeah, I think it's really powerful for, for, and that's, that's one of the things that I wish more of you, all of you guys listening would would embrace is the fact that where you're at in your journey right now is actually really a pretty, it's really a pretty. It's really a pretty powerful place. It's a powerful title, It's the most important time in your business and also, it's also the time in which you can actually connect to people the most, you know, is because you know what it's like to, like, to, to kind of really struggle through some stuff, you know what I mean, it's fresh, right, like, one of the things and take lots of pictures of your journey right like take pictures if you have a nine to five job, Take pictures of it like this picture to me is, is priceless. It's the one of the only pictures that I have of me working construction. this picture right here is priceless. Like to me this was at the very beginning of my journey. I've got the nicotine patch on there you can see I was, I just stopped smoking cigarettes. I've got the laptop that my, my, my wife who is then my girlfriend. Let me put on her credit card and pay it back like 50 bucks a month, you know, until I had it paid off my desk as you can see the couch is right there my desk setup was literally right in the middle of the living room. 

David: People are actually kind of connect to that because that's the same story that's the same quote like, like hey if he's actually if he's doing construction, and he's starting his online business now he's here like, that's probably me as well, right, like, and that's kind of how I kind of see it as well like I tell my story, and like they always say like story sells right like tell your story and people are going to be like hey I'm in that same boat, I want to make five bucks a day I want to make 10 100 Whatever the case is, and you start making a lot more.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, It's definitely this is this is the other angle, there's the dinner table on the other side of the desk right and this is me probably one day doing a webinar where nobody showed up but I delivered it anyways because I was too prideful to tell my wife that nobody actually showed up.

David: I remember you said that one time when you remember that you just went on, the show must go on. 

Dave: Yeah, no, I would like do these live, you know, back again it was webinars like on GoToWebinar zoom what I don't remember of zoom, I didn't use Zoom I use GoToWebinar but like, you know, tick tock Instagram Live on Facebook wasn't a thing you have to go live, you had to do a legit webinar. And so I would do a webinar, I would at least promote a webinar and then like, you know, 80:5, 8:01, 8:02, 8:05 8:10, you know, nobody's there yet, you know, kind of like, you know, my wife, you know is skeptical at the beginning right it in just cut it and I'm like, I gotta deliver this thing so I'm like, welcome to the webinar, we got a packed house here on like trying to be extra loud so my wife hears it right and I deliver the whole thing, you know.

David: And your wife is in her backyard, that's my baby

Dave: Nobody shows up but you know I got good presentation practice, you know what I mean. Like, it was, yeah, it's, you know. That's the beginning of the journey, it's like, get lots of pictures you know what I mean like tell that story, like for months and years into the future be just like I'm doing right now because, you know, it connects with people, because that's where they're at, you know as you you guys become more successful you gals become more successful. And you do pay off, you know all your credit cards, pay off your mortgage, or you know you buy your dream house so you buy your dream car you go on your dream vacation. Like, I mean those are things that not everybody's going to be able to relate to some people may be inspired by what their what their what what everybody can relate to, is those early days of starting a business. Yeah, everybody can relate to, You know what I mean so document stories and really keeping your mind on that and keeping your heart on that brand new person being there for them telling their story through your story, and it's just such a powerful concept I'm glad you brought it up today David and, you know, I'm just, I'm thrilled for your success and I'm thrilled to have you as a part of our community, what would you say to somebody who might be sitting on the fence right now maybe on a checkout page or something, ready to take our challenge or whatever and is wondering, is this the right thing and is legendary actually have the potential to make an impact?

David: So what I tell you know my guys on on my lives or whatever the case when they asked me the hardest part in all of this is to start, and stay consistent, that is the hardest thing other than that, it's actually really easy, but as long as you're actually able to wake up for about an hour to a day in creating content, emails, whatever the case is and actually starting, I always tell about that matrix movies like I could open the door, you basically have to walk through there, it is going to be your business is going to be yours, you do have to put the work in the effort, what do you guys are, I'm willing to help you guys out. I'll be here to ask me questions, whatever the case is, but that's actually the hardest part to start and to just stay consistent. Other than that, it's not really that difficult, it's just, you know, those are what I truly do believe and what I seen, because there are some times that I don't want to get up and I don't want to create a video or whatever the case is right I worked late, I got off whatever the case is, but it's, those are what I truly believe are the most difficult ones.

Dave: Yeah. And where do you see your future here? Where do you see the next year or two, I mean what are some of your goals and what have you already accomplished that's exciting? That, that, that is sort of maybe even beyond your expectations and what else, what are your sights set on over the next 12 months or so?

David: So, we all started I started this for you know for backup whatever multiple streams but I see this, I mean, I could, I could actually see myself because I do travel with this EMS job you know they send me to little small towns, and I do travel a lot here and there and of course my kids are getting bigger. I do have a five year old and a 16 year old right now so maybe you know maybe making this into a full time thing later on in the future we'll see how it is I love flying but if I can make it into a full time thing, like, I'll be here talking about my TikTok lives or making content, my little one she has a little, we're here in the office, she has a little tape on the side with the cartoons, and she's on her iPad too you know. She's, she's, she sees a dad gets on video. She’s not shy or whatever and she's also doing it too so I'm actually kind of impacting her too, who knows what might you know I mean she might be on it too but it's like, it's just one of those things that like she sees me go on and she's also trying to do stuff on her iPad as well. But, I mean, honestly, right now I love flying. I really like where my journey is going, but in the future my goal, you know, is to make this as far as my full time, my full time job, so I can stay home with the kids you know go to those soccer practices. You know, graduations, anniversaries parties, stay here at the house kind of thing.

Dave: It's nice to have many choices. I mean, flying is not a not an unfunded thing. You know I mean I have, I have some pilot friends, they really love it. You know, they really that's kind of one of those jobs that it's kind of hard not to love, especially if you like being up in the sky. I like the way my office looks. Yeah, I can, I can understand that, well hey brother thank you for your service in that particular area of business, and thanks for being a great example for those of us in this community, appreciate the thinking, you know, get in there get rockin learn do teach you brought up some really powerful principles day and made it really valuable for people who are listening I hope you'll come back and keep us posted here in a few months, I appreciate it. David: Thank you for having me, Dave, I appreciate it. Alright, David, see my brother take care of my man. 

Dave: Thanks, appreciate it. All right. All right, my friends, have a fantastic Friday, and a great weekend. Do something today to finish your week strong, you know, take a risk and do something that makes you uncomfortable. Finish, finish strong and then utilize some of your time this weekend, even if it's just during some of your relaxation to maybe catch up on some of these episodes go through some of the training that you that you have here at Legendary if you're a blueprints client go through some of that training, maybe rewatch some sections if you need to brush up or get clarity, and most of all, take what you've learned. Do it, do it, and then teach it to somebody else. All right, be Legendary. We'll see you back here on Monday 10pm Eastern Time for another episode. Peace.

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Dave: Hey, what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I am really excited to be with you guys here this morning. Hold on a second. Okay, let me, Let me look at something here. Let me see if that allows me to use my microphone here. Okay, okay, okay. All right, John, are you there, my friend? John, Can you hear me, buddy? John, can you hear me?

John: Hello.

Dave: Yep. John, can you hear me, buddy.

John: Yeah, I can now. Alright, sweet

Dave: Man sweet sweet sweet. All right my friends welcome to wake up legendary as you guys can see from the headline here which I love from Dust and coal mines $2 online. I like that John Does that, does that describe you and your journey here my friend.

Oh yeah, it's been a rough journey for me man. If there was ever a skeptical person to be alive. My story is pretty unique, because I went from coal mining into pipelining and actually running the dozer around the time the COVID here, and I had come home because my wife was pregnant with her youngest daughter, and when I came home. They called me. Within three days McHenry came back to work and told me I was laid off for permitting issues. Okay, and they said that it's going to be a temporary layoff of about one, two weeks on that. Well, I kept coming back and saying well we're still working on it, I think we can all go change. They said we were still gonna get to come back to work. So I wouldn't really worry about it too much, even though I still tried to find something local around the Gulf Coast. And long story short, they ended up shutting down my job, we ended up running through our mind. I literally borrowed money. 

John: This program, it's been life changing.

Dave: It's been life changing in terms of your life around in a positive way?

John: Yes. Wow, wow, man, that's, that's, that's, I'm really happy for you, my brother. Really happy so tell us how it's been life changing.

John: Well, like I said at first I was skeptical but I was literally on rock bottom, where we ran through our money, we didn't have enough money to keep up the house we ended up having to move from place to place, me and my family loved everything. Wow, it's been a journey, and I really buckled down and I started learning everything that I studied. Good luck I was going for a master's. Because literally our life ended on my children, all of us depended on it, and I put it to work. I found out what to do with it, I stayed consistent with it and started implementing everything I learned and put it to work and I think I've seen my first two weeks. 

Dave: Wow. And are you doing this full time now?

John: Yes, this is all Oh, come on man, I'm just unbelievable. 

Dave: Unbelievable. I'm so happy for you, John, I really am. I mean it sounds like you've been through hell and back, man.

John: It's been rough. Really.

Dave: Yeah. Yeah. So, you bought the blueprints when?

John: I haven't even purchased the blueprints yet to be honest with you.

Dave: So you borrowed the $7? 

John: Yes

Dave: Unbelievable. I mean you are so rock bottom, You had to borrow $7? Wow. Wow. That's unbelievable. It's unbelievable.

John: And I get money from my ClickFunnels. 

Dave: Yeah, That's pretty incredible, man. You just work with what you can right you do, you do what you can with what you've got. And so. So talk us through this mentality that you've that you've that you've have, there's this, I hear a lot of things coming up for me, I hear some, I hear the need to have humility, right, because you had to ask to borrow some money and no but no, no prideful person wants to do that and I don't mean, I don't mean you got to be, you know, I don't mean like prideful to a bad point I'm talking about just any person who has just, you know, regular pride, wants to be able to afford things on their own but you know, you got you got hit with some a couple of double triple Whammies, and you had to ask for help from somebody, yet you also took that in turn that, you know sprinkled in a lot of personal responsibility because after you after you borrow that money and ask for help now all the sudden, you know, you, as you said you were at rock bottom and this, you had to, so walk us through the mindset that you have had to have or and or things that you have had to develop that maybe you didn't have that have enabled you to turn your life around the way that you have.

John: Really the mindset was sink or swim. Because, like I say, COVID was running rampant there just won't work. I left no other options but. Yeah. And when I started learning, and I will tell you one other thing I do, I did. Plan another work at home job from taking your course. Okay, is that by learning in Legendary actually someone reached out to me for a copywriting job.

Dave: Really, you got a copywriting gig?

John: That’s another great thing that I got from it. So why am I able to do this business on the side, as well as that, okay, I guess. When your backs are against the wall, you have a choice.

to think I will succeed. Yeah. Yeah, is it lagging bad on your side?

Dave: It's lagging, it's lagging pretty bad on our side, maybe if you could go off of your Wi Fi or something, I don't know I know on my phone, I have the option to be able to just go off on my WiFi and just use my network but I don't know if you can do that or not but yeah it's lagging pretty bad on our side. So, you know.

John: We’re all the way in the hills in West Virginia. 

Dave: Okay, okay. Well, you know, I'm,

I'm thinking, I'm thinking about so many people who are watching this right now and so many people who are going to hear this and to know also the, you know, how many different people are struggling, the same way I mean, Maybe not the same exactly but feeling like they're in the same place, you know, like it's kind of sink or swim or like they don't have any more options or, like, maybe they're there, they feel like there's no jobs or what are they going to do witness unemployment runs out or whatever the situation is right, what would you say to those people who are also now that you've kind of come out the other side of it, and you found some solutions, and you're now doing this full time, what would you say to that person who is feeling that same hopelessness and that same kind of pain and pressure that you were feeling back, you know, some months ago?

John: Just do it. Take a leap of faith, stay consistent with it. Give it all you got. And don't give up. If people's views on TikTok aren’t with it, views don't truly don't matter, because you are literally your target audience. We're trying to get people who like you, and it's actually about showing people that there is a better way. Because like I had an 18 years in the coal mines I had three on the bottom line and I had a year and that rock. And that's, that was right, you know, work hard, if you want something a lot of you work hard for it. And that's just not the case. If you work hard on your own and work smarter. You can do better than what you can out in the actual employment world. And it. It's mind blowing for me, I never thought was possible. Yeah, but honestly just be consistent with it. Don't give up.

Dave: Well, I think so many of us are, you know, taught that time equals money, and we were so conditioned to this idea of trading time for money, that we think way to get ahead is to put in more hours, and the only way to get rich is, well, there is no way to get rich because I there's literally not enough time in a day for if I work 24 hours a day, making the hourly wage. Then, I still wouldn't have enough to really get rich. And that's where this knowledge and the skills come in, and that's where leverage comes in, and that's why we asked you guys to read the Rich Dad Poor Dad book, because he talks about the CashFlow Quadrant, and he talks about on that left side, you've got your employee, and you're self employed people. And that's not quite. That's not the side that you want to be on. You want to get to a place where you're a business owner and investor and the main thing that defines a business owner is either having people doing work for you or having systems doing work for you. Ultimately it's about having leverage in the biggest thing that the Internet gives you guys, just so you understand, even if it's just you, that's the only person that's working in your business. The internet gives you the ability to speak one to many. So you're not just having one on one meetings with people, or one on one conversations because that's, you know that that's in the typical world of selling, you know, even specially lower ticket stuff but even sometimes higher ticket stuff. You want to be able to speak one to many. You want to be able to have your pipeline constantly full. Most people in sales, the reason why, the reason why sales can suck for a lot of people is because you have to go out and you have to generate the leads, you have to, then you know you have to then have the conversation close the deal, you know, do a bunch of follow up all this kind of stuff. And, and that's that's that's overwhelming for a lot of people, you know, to be able to have to be able to have a business where you can use your phone, you can use your cell phone, and you can speak one to many and have people watching your videos and your content even when you're sleeping. In today's day and age, is the fastest way to go from that left hand side of the Cashflow Quadrant over to the right hand side so you have, you know people and or systems that are working for you and essentially it's new you're multiplying yourself hundreds and 1000s of times over because people are watching your videos, oftentimes hundreds and 1000s of times So, John, did you ever think that, that you could be successful man using platforms like TikTok for example? Did you ever in a million years envision that that would be a tool that you will be using to make money with?

John: My wife actually used to get on TikTok and be doing so much more we with our day, and sitting there wasting our time and doing nothing. Well I got into it, into the God side, and I'm a Christian, with documentary stuff. And I came across the guy who was talking about how he made 10,000 and I jumped on it. He stepped down to our line. And they said, and they're telling me about how he used to be a cable splicer now, don't lie to me.. And it's like no I'm serious. I'm 100% Serious so that's the MO word. And I'm like, You know what I got. I have absolutely nothing to lose. So I went forward. And when I did it. It's really hard to believe to this day, I thought I'd worked, why not. Yeah, I mean that I didn't even think I was gonna see.

Dave: So, one of the things that I see that you're doing is you're, you've also. You've also written an e-book called from dust to dollars. And, and a lot of people would, would be very intimidated by that, and, and people think well what do I have to share and what do I have to say, but here you are as a, as a brand new marketer, and you've already created your own free giveaway in this ebook from dust $2 Can you just can you just say a little bit about that. How did you come up with the idea, how are you using it right now in your business, how has it boosted your confidence and or boosted your income?

John: When I first started out on it, I had a little bit of help, but not while I pretty much had to learn from the community and stuff I got a lot of help from that. But, like the tech, the real technical stuff I had to learn on my own. And I thought, man, it'd be so great if somebody hadn't gotten to show him how to do this. So the book is basically a little bit of my story, and exactly my strategy of how I'd done it. You can literally go and download ebooks that someone wants the wrong, honestly. Dust to dollars because I would barely come from the dark. Yeah, I mean we really come from losing everything to reward.

Dave: Yeah. Is that something? Is that something that you wrote? Is that something that you wrote in. Sorry we're getting a little mixed up because of the delay here but is that something that you wrote in, on a Word document or a Pages document and then you turn it into a PDF, or do you just have that held on like a Google document or something and you just send people to that Google Doc, how do you deliver that?

John: No, actually I turned it into a PDF, and made it into a downloadable file. So when they opt into my page, they automatically get my book down divorce it's a free ebook and sign up that way again like that.

Dave: Yeah, yeah. So, give us one or two of your tips that you would give us one or two tips for TikTok, okay, that you would, that you would recommend to people who are trying to sort of market, and build an audience and generate leads in traffic from TikTok. What are, say, the top two or three things that you've learned that you could pass on to the people that are listening and learning from you right now here on the show?

John: It's okay to put your own twist on it and be authentic, build your branding. By using something similar, but your own twist on it. And because, honestly, tick tock favors similarities. And that's the quickest way I found my video that actually got me to where I am, was a video about video. Just something I had to talk about, people to make money playing video games. That one. So, I've only got branded games. I've taken a break free, trying to get back to the actual teaching and education and stuff.

Dave: Yeah, well that's cool man. Well I am so thrilled and excited. I'm so thrilled and excited for you buddy. I just, you know, I just want to tell you, just congratulations man. I'm really really thrilled that our paths crossed and you are a part of our community, and a part of, you know, what we're doing here and we're part of what you're doing here. Before we go, Would you say a couple of words for anybody who's on the fence about getting into our community and becoming a part of our sort of legendary family here who also might be looking to change their lives, and learn some skills that can really take them to a new place in life, Would you talk to those people who are trapped for the very first time, and they're looking into maybe they're also skeptical as well?

John: Yeah. Listen, there's nobody out here that was more skeptical. Nobody. But I didn't believe in getting rich quick. I saw an opportunity at your opportunity and I'm asked to buy Best Buy and honestly I probably best. This was a God thing. God put the man who I ran into in my life to lead me to this. It's 100%. And if you've got to go all in. There is nothing bad can come out of everything that you can get down, this is nothing but good you can build upon, not a business. You can go on so many different endeavors, including work from home jobs because I actually got a word from God amazing and it continually continues to grow. And I would say probably 85% of the income I get is as efficient as well.

Dave: Well, man. Well listen, John, I'm gonna let you go, my brother thank you so much for your time for sharing your story. And I've put your I've put your tick tock up so you know if people want to catch some of your content and get to know you a little bit more they can go. Unfortunately our show, our internet here today was lagging a little bit, yours was. But, but that's okay, we got the gist, we got the story, we got the, we got the heart of, of what you've done here, and I couldn't be happier for you and your family man, so keep up the good work, my brother, and, and I look forward to having you back if you're willing to come back and keep sharing with us. Okay.

John: All right, sounds good. 

Dave: My friend, it's all good brother. It's all good. Take care man. We'll talk to you soon. John, see you buddy. Thank you. Alright my friends. Yes, that was awesome. Besides the lag, just the, the idea that, well, I mean, it wasn't funny then I'm sure. I'm sure it was, it was the farthest thing from funny when he got laid off and couldn't, couldn't afford to take care of his family, he said the only thing that they had left was their car had to borrow $7 even to get started with the challenge. I thought he, I thought he meant well I had to borrow money to buy the blueprints now, he was, he was more rock bottom than that, he had to borrow money just to get started with the challenge. It's just amazing. It's just amazing. It's just amazing what is possible when, when you really want something, and when, when you really put your mind to something, and when you really utilize all of the resources that are available to you, you know, because each one of us has different resources that are available to us. If you have the money, and you have the ability to be invested in mentors in training, then, then do that, right, because you have those resources, you, you work with what you have in there for. In most cases you have a better experience, you avoid pitfalls, you have more coaching and more hands on attention. But if you're in a position where you have nothing. You, you have to work with what you have, you have to work with what you have. Because this is this life that we're all living in, it's it's like, it's like unforgivable you know what I mean like it takes its choices up and it spits at us like an old man. If we don't, if we don't, if we don't step up and take responsibility for our situation, you know, unfortunately, you, you can be a victim in many cases, right, you can be a victim of a layoff, you can be a victim of COVID. But, but, but the stain of it is different. Right, being a victim, and then staying a victim is different. Right, that's what separates people who go places in life and people who stay the same. And there's a lot of people who literally, if you look at where they're at compared to where they were 10 years ago, they're in the same exact place. And that's oftentimes because that person decided to stay a victim, right, which we all sort of have that choice. In some cases it's just capabilities, in some cases it's disabilities, in some cases it's, different things that we don't have power over but in most cases we do. In most cases we do. And my message to you today, and quite frankly I'm only piggybacking on this because John's internet was so bad I wanted to leave you guys with some clear my clear takeaway from this is that each one of you has the power to do anything that you want in life to do anything to turn things around. And it really all is a decision about, you know how bad do I want it, and how hard am I willing to work to get out of the situation that I'm in? And I know we've heard that 1000 times, but one of the reasons why we bring people on this show, each and every day is to hear stories like we did today from John somebody. It's one thing to like your national speaker something sitting there kind of ranting and raving or preaching and teaching from some stage and being like, yeah, you just gotta want it, right, but it's another thing to hear a guy who like lost his coal mining job, you know, to me, in lost everything, except his car, and his family and he were jumping from house to house and couch to couch, and he had to borrow $7 To get started, and now he's working full time from home, right full time online, supporting himself and his family. Like that. That is so I don't know, it just gets me so excited, it's one of the reasons I think that separates both you guys who are a part of this community, but also just in general, is it's a bunch of people, not everybody who's taken the maximum amount of action, but there's enough of us here that are setting the precedent and example, for those of you who are on the fence that you can see it to believe it. We're not asking you just have faith. Right, we're saying, look, here's the people that are, that have done it. Here's the guy who had to borrow $7 Here's the guy who had to sleep in his car and various houses and couches with his family. Is it guaranteed for you? Hell no. Are you going to get rich overnight? Hell no. Are you becoming a millionaire doing very little, hell no. But is it possible, is it realistic? And is it probable if you have the mindset, and you take the action. Hell yes. And there's proof, every single day here. Sure, there's been truth all over in our community for years and years, but we still continue to show proof of that every day and I think that's really important and powerful. So thank you guys for continuing to come on John, of course, for coming on this morning but all of you, because you play an important role and here's the role that you play is you play the role of being there for that brand new person when they want to start saying yes to themselves and their dreams. That's the role that John played this morning: being there for you was watching and listening, who's at the very beginning of your journey, or maybe you're wanting to start over. And he's giving you that inspiration and he's being that power example to show you. It's possible. And yes, you should. Yes, yes you should not say yes to me not say yes to Legendary not say yes to John, but say yes to you. Say yes to you, because you've likely been saying no to you for long enough having to happen to you say yes to everybody else, but you always say no to yourself. That's kind of how human beings work.

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Matt: Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Happy Wednesday. It's March 19. We're here for Wake Up Legendary and I thought, you know, let's see what's the temperature outside today, it is. Bear with me, bear with me. I'm here in Phoenix, it's 78 degrees here in Phoenix, so you know I was like, I need as much outdoor time as I can, because in Phoenix. Once you hit about, let's say, 10am-11am, it's just super freaking hot and it just stinks to be outside. It's no fun at all. So, here we are, we might have a little background noise. Just chilling kind of by the pool you can see it there. And it's just a nice day. And this is just, you know, I was on a Thursday business blueprint and somebody was asking for it, for an MTV Cribs tour. And so this is your cribs tour. That's all you get is this cute little backyard and wanted to hang out outside today so that's what we're doing. We've got an awesome guest lined up today and by the way if you don't know me or if you're unfamiliar with my face or whatever. Sorry about that. I, my name is Matt and I typically host these Thursday, or I'm sorry Wednesday Witkop legendary shows. Dave post monday tuesday thursday friday and I host these Wednesday ones so I'm the CMO, the chief marketing or marketing officer here at legendary. And so I do kind of a lot of different stuff. I help with affiliates management i i coach, teach on various webinars the decade they things like that. And just overall, kind of, you know, jack of all trades marketer I guess so. For those of you who were involved or saw a little bit about our move, the movement was great. We were only moving five, five minutes down the road, thanks for asking now. It was great, Doug, I'm not moving to Vail, the whole reason I moved to Phoenix was to get the hell away from all the snow, so I have no interest in going, I actually moved from Colorado to here. I like snow. I like snowboarding. I just don't like living in it. The first time I moved here, somebody said, you don't have to scoop sunshine. So, and I was like, You know what, that's right you don't have to scoop sunshine, so. Alright, enough about me. We've got an awesome guest Priyanshu coming on. He's a beast, and I think we've got a lot to learn from him this morning so I want to maximize our time for that. So, Priyanshu, how are you? 

Priyanshu: Yeah, I’m great. Thank you so much for this amazing opportunity and hello everyone. I hope everyone is doing great. So yeah, everything is going well. It's 23 degree celsius in Scarborough, Ontario as well. And it's summertime as well but there is no space to sit outside. 

Matt: So I was just reading through your bio a little bit, and I thought it'd be cool if you kind of told people, you know, a little bit about your story. Being, you're still working right. Okay. I just, I want everybody to know here. These making a good amount of money online, I'm not going to make any income claims I'm just gonna say, you know, I'm just going to tell people, you know, for the most part, if you're trying to make any money online and you're buying courses or even if you're buying our courses, you shouldn't expect to make a lot of money because most people just don't. And we'd like to give clear expectations about that but with Priyanshu making a good amount of money I know that just because I can. We've talked and I know I just know. But here's my question to you. Tell everybody a little bit about what you're currently doing for work, how you're finding time outside of your job because I know you work really long hours to get everything done that you're doing.

Priyanshu: Yeah. So first of all let me tell you about myself. I am, so I was an international student. I came to Canada in 2019. So it has been only two years. So currently I'm doing security shifts of 11 hours, and I do night shifts. Okay, so many people will think how am I making a huge amount of money. First of all, I have been on social media platforms for the last five years. So it means like, I built my audience I worked hard for you. 

Matt: So, you’ve been doing social media for five years?

Priyanshu: Yeah, yeah, I'm going. I'm on YouTube, I have, I have three YouTube channels. So firstly, I earned my first $100 in 2017, from a team. I paid my Ambassador fees for that $100 So it was a really good thing because at that time there was not any monetization of YouTube like 4000 hours and 1000s of scribing conditions, But, after one year I got the payment of $100 that I bought to know who we can earn money online. So when I came to Canada in 2090. I started working out on myself and helping international students. For the immigration purposes like to apply for a work permit, and many, many queries, I always solve people's queries regarding the investment crypto stocks, and people follow us. So, if everything takes time people do what people do, they focus on the results. They focus on the results like when I will get the commission. When I will get the high ticket blueprint, a commission so first of all, I want to ask them Are you worthy enough to get the commission to get the Commission, we should become the converti why people will follow me, if we have knowledge, then people will follow me, so people don't work on that content, and they focus on the results. That's why they get disappointed. So my first tip is like, first of all, you need to make 100 reviews on TikTok, then you can compete like, I'm not getting any results. People don't create content, and even people don't even make content. If you don't have anything to give, then why will people come to you? So my point is this platform is amazing and I'm feeling very grateful because this platform gave me this amazing opportunity to make a lot of money, there is no limit to.

yeah. So how it started. So first of all, I joined Legendary like last month in the month of happiness, first app rate 2021 And what strategies I followed the first strategy was, first of all to help people. We should always think about helping someone, adding value since almost like if we will add values in someone's life, that person will automatically follow you back. And with time, there will be a pressed build up with you and your audience. Everything takes time in this world. We should understand this simple thing. And we should have patience. I have seen so many statuses on Facebook and I have followed so many people as well on Facebook and they followed me back. We don't give personal time to someone else, We just send me, yeah. You can do plate marketing from here, and that's it. We don't reply. If somebody will send me a link, and he will not talk to me or she will not talk to me definitely I'm not gonna click on that link and I will not buy the course. So my first strategy is to create content, and build trust between me and my audience. Second, the second strategy. Strategy is firstly we need to learn. Then we will be able to earn. Okay. What will people do if they want to earn but they don't want to? I have spent a lot of time in earning, I have learned crypto stars, investment from well simple application regarding immigration How to Apply work permit, how to Apply like USA Visa, how to apply these kinds of things and I had people, a lot at free of cost that I gave my all time to my audience. And now, it's payback time. Yeah, I gave my like three to four years to my

audience. 

Matt: Yep.

Priyanshu: And now I'm getting the results

Matt: It reminds me of like, what's the tree that you planted it takes like five years before ever even think it's a bamboo maybe, or something like that reminds me of that investment mentality, because it's funny you said, I learned investments I learned crypto I learned those things, but all throughout that time you were also making an investment, right, you were also actually putting into practice, that type of investment, maybe it wasn't with crypto because maybe you didn't know a lot of money, maybe it wasn't with stocks or because you didn't know a lot of money at the time but you were making little miniature investments based on what you were learning and you were teaching it to people, and you were sharing your journey throughout that with people, and investing in people. And now suddenly people, you know, it's, it's the Gary Vee Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook kind of thing. You give you give you give you give you give a little more. And then finally, something comes back and you make an ask and so and sort of the the piggy bank has sort of built up some and then the the bottom comes out of the piggy bank and, whoa, there's money or it maybe it's even a payback in money, maybe it's something else but typically in business, it's money. Yeah. Wow, so I didn't actually know that you had been doing, you know, sort of the YouTube game and this kind of community building for that wrong, that's really cool, it makes sense though because, you know, we do these affiliate audits and we run through people's profiles and through all their stuff and I, I took one look at you and I thought to myself, you know, I'd be surprised if he's brand new, I wasn't sure about three or four years, but I just I kind of saw the writing on the wall I there was a, there's a feel to somebody when they're a little more seasoned in our industry or in, even in just in content creation, and I definitely felt that, and I definitely got that. So I think it's also important for everybody who's watching them to really understand that like, hey, this didn't happen overnight, right, like, but I will also say in the world of business, the type of money that you are making in the world of business like a two to three year investments actually a pretty short investment, considering you have zero overhead considering the fact that you're still working a job, considering and all of this other stuff. You know, I just think you're, I think that your return on investment is, is huge and well deserved. I think that's probably the truth. So what, you know, you talked a little bit about, and I titled this, I took out, I took your title and ran with it a little bit but you know how to sprinkle, how to sprinkle in marketing magic to, to build and really nurture your audience, I think one thing that I'm pulling out of you or you're sort of giving us right now is that you've really cultivated and nurtured your people, your audience, your, your group or whatever you want to call it. How have you done that, what's been your secret, aside from just giving your time and energy; What's that look like on a day to day basis you create content and then what?

Priyanshu: First of all, I did good content. The second thing is the second strategy that I follow. I check other profiles who are making a good amount of money, and what they are doing. Can I do like them like getting knowledge from them, and transforming like converting it into my own way and share as content because there are so many people who even don't know what to upload what to provide even, like, if I don't know about English, so I can't teach English, right, yeah. So whatever, like 15 Days Challenge, whenever we did the15 day challenge. 

Matt: Yep. 

Priyanshu: According to me, 80% People haven't read Rich Dad Poor. Okay. I have like five to 10 books as well. Regarding like business as well as how to influence, friends, like these kind of books I have read like every like 10 to 15 books. So I just want to tell each and every person just focus on yourself, self development is the best thing, even, even our iPhone, our Android. It also gets updated after four months like you need to update your software. While we are not working on ourselves. We should update ourselves every day, how we can do that. We should have a list but I will. I have a list in my jacket. So I have a list of goals, like, whatever I want like to make like $100,000. In December, like to get like 1 million followers on Tiktok, to get 100,000 followers on YouTube, and I just break down each and everything how I can achieve that, like, five steps, or five things I have to do daily in order to achieve that and put a date, put a date set a goal and put a date like till this time I will achieve my goal. And seriously, it works. Okay, so last month. Last month, I had like, my goal was to get 30,000 subscribers, till till 30th April, 2021, and right now I have 30,300 subscribers. Okay, so, it totally depends on what is your goal. Like, people even don't know what to do whenever they wake up in the morning. They don't know what to do. They only focus on the results. They don't focus on what they have to do in order to get the results. So my suggestion will be. Write down everything you want in life, in one one paper. Okay. And after writing down each and everything, read it every day. Okay, read it every day, and definitely you will get to know, like, Yeah, but I have to, you will prioritize your time. There are so many people who don't prioritize their time that's why they get confused if they will get confused, they will get become frustrated I have seen so many people like no I'm not getting any commission man, this system, don't work system works very well. We don't work, we blame the system, we blame other people, we don't blame ourselves. It's human nature. So I will suggest to you first of all, write down everything like what you want in your life. Okay, after getting to know, if you will, if you have the best aeroplane in the world. If you don't know where to go. It's useless man. If you, if you will have anything like if you have a supercar and if you don't know where to go. It's a waste. So write down your goal, you should have a visit like okay from legendary how much I have to make, and how much my followers should be followers also matter at some extent, I have seen like, there are some people who have 100,000 followers, even they haven't got any commission, because their content was not relevant. They were not. They were not connecting with the audience, like their content was not up to that mark, so that they can connect with their audience. So their content was like lip singing or dancing, and suddenly they joined Legendary Marketer, and they started sharing the ideas how to make money online, then their audience got confused, like what this guy's doing. I followed this guy, because this guy's dancing and dancing and lip sync that's it. I don't want to make money, man. Then, this guy will get depressed. So first of all, everything will take time, so don't expect, like, I will get the Commission as soon as possible. Let me finish this 15 Days Challenge in seven days. Not even 15 days. Let me finish this talent in seven days and execute. Have you seen any doctor performing surgery while watching a tutorial? No. Don't be like that doctor. So I would suggest you give your time, give you time to this 15 Days Challenge and understand each and every concert, would they be speaking, because it's his experience, like, it's like 20 years like I guess right 20 year experience we are getting in 15 days. We should have patience to understand each and everything like a sherry is like 20 year experience of affiliate marketing, and we are just focusing on let's end this 15 Days Challenge and let's execute. So guys, which, which, which do I have to use Clickfunnels other big broad, like they, they discuss these kinds of things, but they don't know, like, how to use it.

Matt: You are dropping so freaking much gold but I have to latch on to this last piece because, because, you know, this has been such a big thing for for Dave and I, and our team trying to explain to people he's a carpenter right so he explains this in terms of, you know, if you've got a Makita drill or a Milwaukee drill, and these are just different brands of hardware tools right or Ryobi or a DeWalt drill right carpenters don't spend all day, You know, sitting at tables saying, Oh man, my branded drills better than your drill It's like no, dude can you use the drill or not, like, it doesn't matter what drill you use, just freaking get the drywall up. Like it's, you know, and it's just this silly thing that we do. It's not to say that maybe one brand doesn't have an advantage over the other one brand maybe isn't built with more quality parts right maybe, maybe ClickFunnels has better support, maybe it's easier to use, maybe builderall's got better, you know people like their Facebook or better I don't know, whatever. But it doesn't matter, like I've seen people use a landing page that was made in Builderall, that's one of the ugliest pages I've ever seen in my entire life and it converts like crazy, and it's the ugliest nastiest like I like good design. And I looked at it was just like, this is horrendous, and this person is getting great opt in rates. So, I just, oh, man, this is so good, I hate to cut you off but they keep going because this whole piece is about like sitting and sort of how fast can I get my commission and how fast can I make this is, is it's always in the world and the universe. It's always, you reap what you sow. And if you, if you put in the ground and you go out in the ground, you plant a quick turnaround mentality and can guess what this sprout comes up quick, and it dies very quick, very, very quick. That sprout perks up real quick, gets excited, and then poof it dies, real quick, and in the garden for many people who try to make money online in their garden. There's a million sprouts right there's crypto there's affiliate marketing there's drop shipping there's Ebay there's Amazon there's all of these different things, they sprouted up quick, and they all look like little twigs that are all dead. They're all brown, they're all little twigs. And they’re all dead. In the garden of, let's say, Priyanshu, there's full lush, tall plants. You can see I've got some plants back here. Oh, that way there's lush plants that leave, and they're flowering right why is that because in the garden? You dug deep, as far as you need and then, you know, for years, he sat and watered that frickin thing and nothing was happening. Maybe get that first $100 Commission. Not happening. And, you know, instead of saying wow that was a scam all this doesn't work, you put more fertilizer on it, right, you put more water on it, you gave it even more sunlight, so okay, we need more sunlight, what do we need here. I gotta figure this out, and then when the sprout comes up, it's solid, right, and the wind comes and blows and it stays there and the sun beats down on it and it soaks it it doesn't fry up, you know, it's a big, it's just, that's a big law of the universe, that people, they want to Facebook hack, they want a TikTok hack. They want to opt in page hack. They want to do something out of the ordinary that is this magical formula, but this reaping and sowing principle of life, it applies to relationships, spirituality, all this stuff. And it's, there's no way around it. There's no special way around it, and if you find the way around it. It's always going to dry up, it's always eventually going to come to light, it's always going to get exposed and it's always gonna die. That's how it always works. 99.999% of the time. Okay, keep going, I'm, I'm just in love with everything that you're saying I love your energy, I love the way that you attack this. I don't even know where we were just keep going.

Priyanshu: Just want to say to each and every person who is watching my real life. So I just want to say Believe in yourself but there is so much negativity in this world. Whenever he will start something. When I had 10 subscribers. I used to tell every person please subscribe to my YouTube channel. I have started my YouTube channel. And they were making fun of me, like what are you doing man, you can't do anything. Because, if you will do something different. If you want to become different. People will grab you, man. Like, what are you doing, you can't do anything. Because if you. I remember one thing, right. If you put a fish in an aquarium. Shark, sorry shark in the aquarium, it will grow according to the aquarium, if you will put a shark in the ocean, it will grow according to those. Okay, so show me, like, I have seen one amazing video, like, show me your friends, I will show your future. Show me your brand, and I will show you. I have like I have just broken all my connection from those people who were dragging it out, like, who were making fun of me. Okay. And, who, who didn't have any goals. When I came to legendary. I met so many people who are making a good amount of money, and they have a positive attitude towards Word and Word. Okay, and I haven't thought like, I will. This kind of amount because I did like hard work for four to five years, online that's where I'm getting the word like it's so whenever someone asked like, do we need followers per shoe to get the Commission, we need a lot of followers like if I can do while you can't. I also have two arms, I'm also human. That difference is mindset. Okay, we should change our mindset, how we can change our mindset, by developing ourselves, learning new skills every day, then you will be like a leader. Okay, you will become a leader, not a label, okay. So, if you become a leader people will definitely gonna follow you because you have knowledge, you will share knowledge, you will help people, and people will admire you. And there are a lot of people, I just said there's some songs like it will grow. And that stopped nude up, and every month. Everyone made a good amount of money from that, and everyone was very happy to Tango like, Like they follow me. They were very thankful, and loyal to your audience. Don't expect don't treat them like they are my customers, and just send them a link. That's it. Don't reply to their questions, don't ask them what I do, like for high ticket affiliate marketing, I gave my 15 to 20 minutes to every person on phone call after that person complete his challenge for fourth or fifth the day that question definitely gonna come to me and I will give him my personal WhatsApp number. Okay, personal WhatsApp number, which I don't use, which I don't use which I only use for demos. Okay, so I use the like broadcast, and I have to add it to so many people. So I send them motivational videos. I send them my experience, I send them you can also do this. Yeah, and there are so many people who are getting results. Okay, so we can't force anyone. Like, because that person will definitely get frustrated and that and that and that person will spread negative one negative comment is equal to 50 positive comments, always, like, a be on it. So, we should, if someone is making negative comments, we should solve his or her query. I just DM that person. I asked, Yeah, can you tell me what's your problem? Then that person tells his brother, why I'm commenting like this. So I saw that person quickly. So I converted 180 equal to my father, and that follower will increase my like that call, we will spread positivity from next time, instead of blocking that person talk to that person. What's that person's problem? Change that person's perception towards you. Don't run away. I know there are so many people they just ignore these kinds of comments. Like, it is only their work but we should change those people's minds and maybe that person can make a good amount of money from affiliate marketing. We don't know anyone's capabilities. Maybe there are some people in the chat who are more capable enough to make more than $100,000 but due to surroundings, and their mindset, they are not doing it because if, if it is easy to become a millionaire you, you can, you will see everyone. Becoming a millionaire in every house. It is difficult. Yeah, it is difficult, but when you will focus on when you will focus on self development, instead of getting the results, definitely you will get results automatically results are the reward. Okay, results are the reward. Yeah, I did bodybuilding like I used to work out. So, my weight was something like 45 kg something, and I was skinny and people were making all this fun of me like how you look, how do you see your belly, what I have done. I started my workout, and I have got, I haven't got any results from three months, and I was focusing like everyone is getting results why I'm not getting any results in our life, there is always a plan to come, for example, your growth will be like this and there will be plenty. When there will be no growth. But you don't have to focus on that, like you are not getting dessert, if you will work hard, definitely you will get amazing in bodybuilding . Whenever we workout, if we lift too heavy weights, our muscles tear. Okay, if our muscles are two years old, definitely it will grow. So, if you want to, if you, if you want something in your life you need to sacrifice. Okay, you have two things, either money and time. It's better to spend money, as compared to time because time is replaced and like we can't buy time again, but we can make money again. Okay, so it's better to pay someone who has 20 years experience as compared to spending your own five to 10 years, like, wondering what to do. So, it's your choice. And I just want every person, like it's your decision, and your life, no will gonna change. No one's gonna come and say, I will make you a millionaire, why would a person spend time with you. Yeah, so this word is like salvage I know, but we have to understand, like no one gonna help us. We have to help ourselves by ourselves. So people who are watching. I just want to say, you are amazing, and definitely you will get set, you will get success, just focus on goals, not on the outcomes. Outcomes, if you focus on the outcome, definitely you will get disappointed, because if you will get results, I know you will become happy I got the commission but the next day, when you will not get the commission, you will become disappointed. Definitely. So don't focus on the results, don't say I'm not getting the result. Okay. I just want to say, create 100 videos, then haven’t 100 videos picked up? Okay, how many books you read, have you read three books in one to two months. No, if you haven't learned what you have read. Just focus on development and give values to your customers. It's not your customer, give you values to your followers, because your followers will definitely tell other people to follow you because I just guided that person wise, I just converted that into my follower, and I haven't abused anyone on social media platform, and I'm very calm. I just asked them what happened, just let me know, just DM me your concern, and that person, tell me what that person thinks about me, and I changed that person's perception by talking to him by going full on. That's it. So I just converted my haters, into my followers, and I'm getting the results like this. 

Matt: I don't know what else to say, I just, for me, this is so powerful and RJ just said, You're on fire, bro, and you are on fire doing this. Yeah, I saw that, I just wanted to just look that we can close on that, I don't know what else to say I just wanted to emphasize the fact of just, if you focus on that end result, you'll always feel disappointed. And that's so right and it's so true. And I, you know, I feel like, you know, I don't know if people are super religious here I'm not trying to be religious but I did, I went to a small Bible College for college, and there's a lot of, there's a lot of things you know that I disagree with about sort of my, you know, whatever organized religion or whatever but there's a lot of great parables. And one of the parables, from the Bible from Jesus. He starts out by saying, for those who have ears to hear, and, you know, regardless of where you fall on the whole religious spectrum doesn't even matter right. He said he starts the parable by saying, for those who have ears to hear, because when you say when you say Priyanshu, don't focus on the end result. Not everyone here is going to be able to hear that. Right. And, I was one of those people. I was one of those people when I was first getting started, I couldn't hear that, because I had screaming debt, and I had screaming, anxiety, and I had all of these different things kind of piling up right. And I just think for for everybody who's here, I just write have ears to hear what Priyanshu is saying, please have ears, because if you, if you have the ability to hear his message about not focusing on the end result, but focusing on, as you said goals and I would also add the process of what's happening to you during your chase of those goals, man. The year reward is so massive, you don't even know I mean, even forget about the money which that will, that could change your life too. I won't make any guarantees but that outpouring of money and income could change your life too, but also the person that you are will be totally different. I don't know what else to say, This is awesome. Hey, thanks for coming on. I think we'll close with that, man, keep rockin ‘we are blessed to have you in our community. Seriously, I mean that, and please continue to take care of your people in the way that you do, it's amazing, and your energy is infectious, there's no wonder people follow you. I mean, there's no one I haven't really spent much time with you. Took me about 20 minutes here today and I was like, Oh, okay I get it. I'm all bought into this guy. I get it, his energy is infectious, his mindset is impeccable. And that's something that's been honed in and crafted for years I can tell. And that's something that, that's, that's, for me, more than somebody earning money more than somebody, you know, being a social media guru. That for me is something that I envy a lot, and I took a lot away from today so thank you for that. And if you need anything, we're here to help.

Priyanshu: Yeah, definitely. I believe in you.

Matt: All right, awesome. Well there you have it guys. We did a little, we did a little backyard pool action today Dave we'll be back tomorrow. Same time, same place 10am Eastern I look forward to seeing all you guys here. We'll be live. We're live every Monday through Friday. I was gonna say seven days a week, five days a week, Monday through Friday 10am Eastern. See you guys.

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Why High Ticket Affiliate Marketing Is Better Than Dropshipping

 

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary we've got a gentleman by the name of Tyler I'm bringing him out here in just a moment, who has done quite a bit of drop shipping and he's going to explain today why affiliate marketing, high ticket affiliate marketing and selling other people's information products is better than drop shipping I'm excited to learn from Tyler and have him on the show so please help me, everyone in the community. Everyone on the show. Welcome Tyler to the show what's up buddy.

Tyler: Hey man, not much thanks for having me on the show. 

Dave: Hey brother, it is my pleasure man so nine times nine times, you. You did the old drop shipping deal and oh by the way guys, we're not here to, you know, say that you can't be successful with any business model out there said oh, you know, don't, don't take it the wrong way this is Tyler story it's his journey. You can tell your story when you're on the show but Tyler, you are more of a fan of affiliate marketing than Drop Shipping tells us a little bit about your, your journey, up until this point and kind of who you are.

Tyler: So, yeah, I love affiliate marketing by far. Drop Shipping has been a headache for me. The whole process. I honestly started about two or three years ago with drop shipping, I really wanted out of the nine to five, rat race. Some people call it. And so I was looking for any way out, and I would just get these YouTube ads to check out this new way of making money online and it happens to be dropshipping. And so you know I wouldn't buy the course. I never buy a course. So I would go ahead and just try to learn as much stuff as I could, through YouTube. And so the first three or four times, scientists I just tried everything on my own. I joined a bunch of dropshipping Facebook groups, hoping that that would help me. Some guy reached out to me and he was like, hey, I can sell you this course for $100, and it's one that I've had success with. So I would have tried that and it was, it was a little bit helpful. But what I started doing was I started outsourcing to Fiverr. And that's when I started to get some success, but doing what I would sell a bunch of items just selling items was a success for me for a while.

Yeah. And, but about a month or so later, I get all these hateful emails and like where's my products. It's been 30 days. And I have to refund these people's products because I couldn't do customer service prior to that. It's a pain.

Dave: Yeah, it's interesting how many people have tried drop shipping in Amazon, man. You know what I mean. I had no idea like how you know how, how many people have tried this, these business models and, and there are people who have been successful these just like there are people who are successful with affiliate marketing, and there's a lot of people who are not successful with affiliate marketing, let's not, you know, let's not hype this thing up here today, as in I'm talking to everybody here, that's listening, we're not hyping this up as affiliate marketing is the, you know, or even selling information products in general is the Holy Grail and every single person who does it is going to be successful guaranteed that that's not what we're saying. The majority of people that try aren't successful. And the reason why is because I think a lot of people do the whole thing. I'm going to try to learn for free and I'm not going to. I'm going to try to pinch every penny of every step of the way. And also just, I talked about this all the time and the mechanics and the dynamics and mechanics or how the business works the dynamics or how you work, you know, and. And so, anyways, you you you've stumbled upon affiliate marketing you stumbled upon legendary how to talk to us about sort of that discovery and sort of what light bulbs went off for you and what you saw and and kind of why you decided to pull the trigger on affiliate marketing and, and, you know what you're doing now. 

Tyler: Yeah, definitely. So funny after the ninth time of doing it, after a time of doing drop shipping, which was actually just during COVID time, because I was trying to sell. Wireless thermometers, I'm sure you see him all the time though. So, after that I wasn't doing too well. I was like okay well I can see affiliate marketing on the internet, you know, and I actually found it on TikTok, which I'm so glad I love TikTok. And so, I'm so happy I found TikTok. But, so I was like okay maybe I should try affiliate marketing, and through the education and the community that I've been doing provides, I was able to finally leave my nine to five job because I was looking at, I was working at US Bank, prior to do, so it wasn't an awful job, obviously, but it just, you know I wanted out the nine to five, I get home o'clock at six o'clock today. And, you know, maybe people to do, maybe one or two shows after eating dinner or something and it wasn't, I didn't get to spend any time with my family. I didn’t get to spend time with people who I love. And that's really what it was motivation wasn't never about money for me. It was about my time, I just wanted my time back. After going to college because I went to Penn State University, and I have my bachelor's in business. I think I got used to having all that time to myself, and having time to be around people I enjoyed. So it was working a nine to five where you don't have any time at all, really. I would come home after I started affiliate marketing and after a certain theory, I would come home and for about one, two hours after my nine to five job, I would be just making TikToks just every single day. I was exhausted, but eventually it paid off, I'm up to 3000 followers on TikTok.

Dave: Wow. Really, that's crazy, bro. Yeah. Do you have multiple profiles?

Tyler: So I do have one more like a backup I was trying to start making just because I know tick tock sometimes gets eager to be in people.

Dave: Okay, so you're Wow dude so basically you kind of went full throttle on on organic marketing kind of building your own personal brand, right instead of, I think the challenge with, with a lot of, and maybe you could speak to this a little bit about what your experience and sort of your, your approach to this, but I think a lot of people when they say when they hear make money online in their first thought and reaction is, okay, I'm going to basically broker products. I'm going to just randomly sell products. I'm not going to put my name or face out there. I'm just gonna kind of try to hawk. Whatever seems to be a hot selling product to whoever will buy it and kind of not put any skin in the game in terms of my reputation, right, because I'm not showing my face, right. More times than not, for the new entrepreneur that bites them in the ass. Oh yeah, guys. The reason why is, is because a major part of business is your reputation. It's, being willing to put your reputation on the line, it's being willing to put your name and your face on something, which also the marketplace recognizes as, okay, this person's putting their name and their face and their reputation on the line here. And I think that's a big distinction Tyler between a lot of these online marketing, making money models out there like drop shipping and so forth. In the difference between having a brand in quite frankly, whether you're selling physical products through TikTok videos I mean I can very easily start a TikTok channel in the health niche, become an affiliate for various supplements, herbal supplements protein powders, physical things, but there's still an element that I, as the marketer, are putting my reputation on the line, by putting my name and my face out there. And that makes it more important for me to actually sell a quality product so that therefore I go and I look into what I'm selling a little bit more to make sure that it's going to make people happy, exactly what comes up for you as I say that and now that you've kind of transitioned from the model that I spoke, you know, where you're kind of nameless and faceless and kind of like okay I hope people like the product and then shit, the product doesn't even get there but now putting your name your face, your reputation on what you promote and having to have your reputation online, how do you think that's changed the game for you? Obviously it's a little, maybe scarier to put your face out there, but how has it changed your results and just what has changed for you in that change?

Tyler: I mean, kind of like what you said, like you want to make sure that your face is providing value for the product that well, let me, Let me let me, let me backup. So you want to make sure that your face is selling a product that provides value, and that you really believe it because these other marketers are going to see this, and they're going to be like okay well is this guy, the one make sure you can trust. That's all it's all about for us. And so basically what I did was, I mean it was a big risk to put my face out there. But I saw how other people were doing it and I was like you know what I want people to trust. I want people to know that I know what I'm talking about and I want to help them, and then became more about helping people, and then trusting me. And knowing that I want what's best for them. And so, you know whether I promote any of these other affiliate products I want them to know, hey, I'm not trying to steer you and make you go in the wrong direction at all, you know, this is something I would use to benefit me, so I want it to benefit you.

Dave: Yeah, and even more important, that's why we talk about the hero's story and everything we teach that in the blueprints and you guys talk about telling your customers story all the time, for telling your own story, it's even more powerful. If you have an actual story or testimonial from the product or service that you're promoting doesn't mean that has to be the only thing you promote ourselves. It just adds so much more credibility when you can share both your own personal testimony, as well as other people's there's other social proof that other people are getting results from this product as well. I mean you see that with Legendary there's an overwhelming amount of people out there who have positive experiences here with Legendary that's why it's a popular product. Now that doesn't mean it has to be your only product in your in it doesn't even have to be the niche that you're in, I mean, many of you guys have picked other niches, but there's not too many people who are affiliates of legendary toys who have not also experienced our training and have a positive experience with it. Same way, if I'm going to go and I'm going to promote a credit repair service it's so much more powerful. If I'm telling you, I am promoting this because it boosted my credit rating 20 up to 100 points 20 points, whatever, Here's what it was. Here's what happened. Here's what it's like now. I don't know if it's. I can't guarantee it's gonna work for you but it's worth a shot if you're worth it to take the time to invest in yourself, and invest in your future, fix your credit. Now, or pay more later. Right, it's just, I mean, that kind of framework that you use is kind of the same for every product. So how have you now come up with content, to be able to create, to get to 300,000 followers between your account, how, how, how have you. What have you learned in this kind of organic marketing journey that you've taken on tick tock, there's so many people come into it, particularly after I fail and would think. I have no right to create a single video right these are limiting beliefs of, right, right. What have you done that has allowed you to create and take so much action and get so much results?

Tyler: So I look for content that provides value. I mean it's more so about content that they're going to want to watch. And because TikTok is so, I pretty much can tell if a video is going to go viral or not just when I'm making it. And I solely because I look for a couple key factors I look for. Okay, is this going to people who don't want to watch this a couple times to understand what I'm saying, or are they missing people and make sure they're getting every single little key factor in it. Are they going to want to share this?  Are they gonna like it? Replayability is such a key factor on TikTok. So honestly, I'm not just growing my TikTok I'm growing my I grow I use Pinterest. I use Instagram, I use Facebook, and I use all of these, and basically what I just do is I recycle my conflicts from TikTok. And I just post them all to all these other networks because a lot of these other social media networks are. They're creating a platform that's allowing people to create videos just like TikTok because TikTok is just the main competitor now. Yeah so realz is being heavily present on Instagram. So if people aren't utilizing rules at all. I definitely recommend it because, on average, I will get 30,000 views on a reel that I upload, and it's just recycled content from TikTok. That's it.

Dave: Holy crap dude are you serious?

Tyler: I’m serious.

Dave: Wow. So you're literally using the same exact video in just saving and downloading to your phone and then uploading that same video with the TikTok branding on to Instagram.

Tyler: So, I use a website that takes away the watermark from tick tock and reuploads it..

Dave: What website is that

Tyler: It's called snaptik.app

Dave: And is that its sole purpose is to remove that watermark?

Tyler: Yeah. 

Dave: Get the hell out of here. You dirty dog. That is incredible. I love it. Is that snaptik.pp?

Tyler: Yes

Dave: Right right right. Okay, cool. Wow, it's just, wow, it's a little thing that somebody made to remove that watermark. Oh, it's crazy, awesome, awesome. That is really incredible. So, how are you posting that, how are you repeatedly repurposing that content? Now we got it for Instagram, how are you? I guess there's a lot of, There's a lot of apps that will take that watermark away. Okay, okay. All right. Okay. My bad, my bad. So, how are you repurposing the content on Facebook? And on Pinterest I saw somebody ask a question about how you are posting like videos, what in particular, are you posting on Pinterest let's start there?

Tyler: Okay so, Pinterest, if there's a feature and now it's in its beta phase right now, but it's basically called stories really basically it just allows you to upload videos that are similar to TikTok. And then you can just post them on there and so I basically just re-upload my TikTok there. And right now, I mean I just started about two months ago on posting on Pinterest, and I get 2.1 million monthly views. I'm done. Free that's crazy. I can't believe it.Okay, this is just too much. This is insane, all with, so you're taking one video that you post on TikTok, and now. Now reposting that to Instagram rails, the new Pinterest stories, feature. And is that something that's available for everybody.

Tyler: Yeah, you're gonna want to make a business account on Pinterest, but then you should have no problem.

Dave: Okay. And how are you now repurposing that on to Facebook, or what do you post it on Facebook.

Tyler: So what I do is I go live on Instagram,

Dave: You go live on Instagram.

Tyler: And then, I save the live, and re-upload the live.

Dave: Okay, Now are you, you can go live on TikTok, which a lot of people do as well. Are you doing that at all?

Tyler: I find more engagement on Instagram.

Dave: Real. Hello, they're really interesting. Interesting, so you're not going live at all on TikTok

Tyler: No. 

Dave: Okay, you're going live on Instagram. And then you're re-uploading that into your Facebook group, so is that primarily how you're using Facebook is your is you is you have a Facebook group?

Tyler: Yes. 

Dave: And how have you added people into the Facebook group?

Tyler: So, I'll see my email marketing, typically, it'll just be like in one of my first email sequences, it'll just be sent out during my Facebook.

Dave: Yeah, so, and I noticed you also have a YouTube channel. Are you Are you by chance, uploading your TikTok videos without the watermark of course on to YouTube, the stories feature on YouTube?

Tyler: I just started doing that because I guess YouTube is going to start paying creators for using shorts. And so, there's a party game.

Dave: I don't create, like, I don't know if you're in the cryptocurrency or anything, are you, dude, it's like, for me, man. They like the big opportunity. There's so many opportunities that I don't personally have time to take advantage of them all, you know, like I'm not in the crypto I just, it's not that I don't think it's probably a great opportunity and lots of people are getting rich I'm sure lots of people are losing money as well. But dude, the money that is available in the next five years for just marketing online. I mean these platforms like what you just said, are paying people to just simply upload content and that's happened on YouTube now for a long time. Oh yeah, I mean YouTube pays out. I don't know if it's billions but hundreds of millions of dollars I would assume, you could probably quickly research that and in fact check that number to get exact numbers about what YouTube pays its content creators, but it's a lot every year. If you if you allow ads on your videos it's all you gotta do is just pick want ads to be shown and if you have a video that does 50,000 views 100,000 views, a million views, that could be a video that's worth 2030 $40,000 over a 12 month span and then continues, so there's there's a lot of opportunity, way more than even what what I can take advantage of. So, what else? The email thing I think also wants to touch on that is kind of a thing because a lot of people off because they think, Well, you know, I, what emails do I write? So, the way that I teach it essentially is kind of have a first serving product and you send some emails about that first product and then you can have a second survey, or a third serving or a fourth serving product, and you can send emails about that. That's one way to do it, and that's kind of a, that's kind of a, you know, that's a pretty predictable way to where you know that you're going to at least get five to 10 exposures of that product in front of that person after they subscribe to your email list. So you pretty much follow that same framework in, and then just include some ‘Hey, join my group’ here?

Tyler: Pretty much.

Dave: I mean I can't argue with a system that works. Yeah. So, before you got into Legendary you knew nothing about affiliate marketing and you weren't doing any of this stuff, I mean you were just kind of fumbling around coming off of your nine lives that you basically died from drop shipping?

Tyler: Pretty much. Yeah, I heard about affiliate marketing. A couple years ago, I joined this site, it's like an internet jet set or something.

Dave: Right, right.

Tyler: And I was like okay well this sounds interesting, and then I never did anything with it again until now Legendary.

Dave: So what's your experience been here like with Legendary I mean how, obviously you've gotten incredible results you've now quit your full time job. Tell us about that. Walk us through kind of those little points of how your life has changed in how long it has been now?

Tyler: So I started in November, everything. The TikTok page with Legendary and all that.

Dave: So that's been right around six months, In six months, walk us through. You took our challenge with you. When did you quit your job? Walk us through what has happened for you to give people a little bit of hope and inspiration of what you've experienced. 

Tyler: Okay. So yeah, basically, round November. I was like, you know, I keep seeing people do Amazon affiliates. I keep seeing people do this legendary marketer saying oh, okay, I might as well take the challenge. So I took the challenge, and I just absorbed all the information I possibly could from it. I finished it in 15 days. I was like I need to know I need to get out like I need to get out. And so, basically, I had some commissions about maybe three months later. And I said, product, some of it was working for me. But it was just like what is going on, why, why am I, why is this not working and then I just went back to the challenge. Occasionally, I would just rewatch and watch you know some of the other affiliates I know that are successful like, I'm sure you know Brian Brewer. 

Dave: Yeah, I watch his stuff. He's fantastic. 

Tyler: And I was like okay well you know I obviously can do this with organic traffic. I just need to make sure my funnel is completely optimized, and once the funnel was out in December, okay I was starting to post my rules and everything on Instagram. And I made $10,000 that month. And I didn't change anything, I was just posting on wheels. It was just, I don't, traffic was the problem, it wasn't nothing else. And so, from there on, I wanted to make sure I made my entire salary before I left. I wanted to make a friend of mine and if I was like, I want a full year, at least, to know I can keep doing this and still succeed. So I didn't, I didn't leave until I made my entire salary in the bank.

Dave: And when did you do that when? When did you quit your job? 

Tyler: Two months ago,

Dave: So in four months basically four months. Yeah. Wow. Congrats, bro. How's that feel? Now you've got that time back right, you've got freedom back to do what you want with your time.

Tyler: Yeah, it's been crazy i. So have you felt like I, it's crazy how draining a nine to five can be when you're not really wanting to be there, because I don't have a nine to five. Sure. But, I mean, some days I would just be, I would make my, my entire month's salary at the bank, and I came in one day, and I just be like, Why am I here?

Dave: Yeah. Now, being a bit of a ridiculous disclaimer for all of you who may feel desperate like you want to get out of your job. This is not easy. Okay, this is. Remember, nine lives. He died nine lives in other businesses leading up to this point and didn't quit. Okay, got into this whole process and found us started affiliate marketing started selling information products in training and so forth. And I assume will continue to sell information in many different forms Tyler right? I mean, we were for so you can see your, your future you can see a career of selling information and doing affiliate marketing whether that's other people's courses coaching events or your own. But I just want to be clear, guys. That is an incredible story, it's an incredible testimonial, but there's a lot of hard work behind that, there's a lot of dedication behind that, there's a long time coming up to that point, right Tyler? I just wanna, I want everybody to understand that if you are quitting your job in four months and making your monthly salary in one day. Don't get a comparisonitis because there's a good chance that maybe you didn't do the same things that Tyler did or whatever, right, each person is on their own journey. So I want us all. If we're going to get excited about this opportunity to also go into it, eyes wide open, knowing that there are certain levels of commitment and discipline and so forth that are required. We're not here to just act like this is some pie in the sky bullshit, overnight, get rich quick thing. No no no no no, this is, this is running a real business, and what is it like, just give us a day in the life of kind of the discipline, what just in a nutshell your kind of day looks like or your week looks like like what sort of systems have you set up in order to keep track of all, both, both be creative, but also pay attention to the systems and so forth, that you kind of need to be on top of in be consistent with it may even get redundant, right, but you continue to follow through and do them because that's what works talk us through a little bit of that sort of routine, so we can get an idea of what a day in the life or week in the life of you really is.

Tyler: So yeah, when I was doing my nine to five job, like I obviously I'd have two days off a week. Some days it would be like a Thursday and then always on Sunday. So on my Thursdays and Sundays, I would always, I would get up and I would immediately start to research tech talks. And I was hurt to research, you know, different kinds of content to make. And then I would execute for the next one to two hours just creating content, non stop. When I wouldn't stop. So now my schedule. I work maybe one day, Monday to Wednesday. And I've worked maybe from 10 for. So I woke up content, you know, same, same procedure. And now I'm prioritizing going live, whether it's on TikTok or Instagram. Instagram is my main priority though. And then just after that, I grab some lunch. And then I started researching and creating the content, and I have to do that. Even if I don't feel like it. I mean I've been, last week I was sick to film. You still have to make content. And don't get me wrong, I mean like, going back to what you were saying like this is not a, you're not going to have amazing results you know don't be upset if you can't find these results for us. I mean, I wanted to give up a couple of times. I did. I mean, when I was, when there was an after upgrade immediately after the legendary 15 Day Challenge about two months after that and I wasn't getting the commission, why people like what's going on, why am I not succeeding. But you know I just kept pushing through and it really is a challenge, you dedicate a lot of time towards the end, you know your motivation and your mindset. And most of that's like 80% of this entire owning a business is just your mindset out of eight years ago. I was fortunate, but I still graduated high school. My dad took me to a Tony Robbins seminar. Okay. It was like walking across fire or something like that, it's like walking across coal. Anyways, the first day, it's like he is just talking about, you know, the mindset that if you believe you can achieve it. You have, I mean it's all about you. Get rid of your limiting beliefs, and you have to believe that you will succeed. Yeah. And so after I did that, you know, I came back and it was like you really believe, if you really believe in it. You can pull through eventually.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, I get that experience too. You know, I like Tony, he's incredible, you know, he's an incredible commanding presence in the room. I don't quite remember really anything about what he said. I went to a UPW. I also went to a business mastery. I bought his $15,000 package. When I was there, just because I wanted to invest in myself, and I wanted to, I wanted to buy other higher ticket coaching programs to give myself more conviction. When I was selling coaching programs, and so forth of my own. And I did go to the to the other events and so forth, and, and learned a lot more than anything, I got a lot of that same those same takeaways of just what's possible, right sometimes when you put yourself in an environment, you just, you just really level up your, your, kind of what you believe is possible. Right, so somebody like Tony who's been selling information for 25 or 30 years and has five or 10,000 people who will pay a couple of thousand dollars to be in a room. It levels up your thinking right oh yeah right when you're thinking that oh, nobody buys stuff out there, nobody is certain nobody that or there's not a lot of money out there. There's not a lot of opportunity like you go and you see people who are crushing it, and it just expands opportunity, or at least my, my understanding of what's possible. But I also did the coal walking thing and that was, that was really, that was really a unique experience but dude I love it man. And I thank you for sharing that there were a couple of times that you felt like quitting because I think we've all been there. Most of us are there, often, right, it's like, I'll often, you know there's something that happens and or something that doesn't go right or life gets in the way. And then, we get away from it, we don't get back to it or whatever. And, you know, and that's very, that's normal, I just, I appreciate you saying that, I just want to hammer that home but that's totally normal. And what, what, what I notice with people who are successful is they, they, they push through those moments, and they, they, they just, there's no secret, there's not some secret discipline formula, there are some secret success strategies. It's just embracing, last week we had a guy who was recording and does all his content in his bathroom. So you know, we gotta do what we gotta do. Yeah, and he's like, and he's like lean in, lean in, like that was his thing like, that's what he told himself was tough moments, things that were uncomfortable up just last Tyler. But anyways, he was like lean in. Lean in, lean in, lean and, and, yeah, it's like lean into those uncomfortable moments right lean into those, those, those moments that you don't really want to lean into those moments that are, you know, make you scared. You know what I mean. Tyler, were you ever scared like as you started this like just outright just fearful and scared?

Tyler: You know what's crazy is that I was about two or three years ago I was camera shy. I hated hearing my voice, I hated being on the camera. And so for me to be here right now, as a stepping stone. I can't believe it because two years ago, I've never seen myself through this effort. And here I am. I mean sorry I was afraid. I'm afraid of what people would think, you know that would always get into my head, but I have the mission. And like what my goal is, and I haven't lasered on it. So I don't even think about that anymore. I mean I didn't get hateful comments on my posts. Oh yeah. Do I ignore them? Yeah, because it's like, I know what I'm doing, like, if you're gonna hate on me. That's cool. You know, I know what I'm doing, I'm confident and by hating you’re just giving me more views anyways.

Dave: I know it's so funny. It's so funny. Yeah. Yeah, you should you shouldn't want haters, you shouldn't want, you should want people leaving, you know, I know this is kind of a weird thing to say but you should want people to leave negative stuff, right, because, you know, I know it's hard to take those, those blows, but like all press is good press. 

Tyler: Exactly. 

Dave: You kind of learn that as a marketer, like, it's like, you know, you kind of realize that wow, whether somebody left a positive or negative comment, like, there's a comment there and they're watching my videos and they're, you know, they're, they're, they're responding, and you know that's really a lot of times what marketing is all about is it's about engagement that engagement doesn't always have to be that engagement doesn't always have center effect you'll get more engagement if you, if you get people disagreeing. People are angry, if you get people in and it's not particularly that you're trying to piss people off and be that if you get people disagreeing with you get people who have opposing views. You know those people always want to voice their opinions. They always want it if you ask for it. If you create content that asks for people's opinions. A lot of the big, you know I was doing some research on cars recently so I was watching some YouTube videos on various different cars and, you know, it's easy to get into a rabbit hole, and so I started watching some various videos on guys who had supercar collections and I was looking at supercars and just, just not into it that much but you know I was looking at various videos from guys who had supercar collections, different, you know, reviews on this car and that car, and they were always like one of the main things throughout the video was, what do you think, what's your opinion, leave it down in the comments do you like that feature, do you not like that feature. Yeah, agree with my opinion, What I'm saying here about this car do you disagree with it. Right. And it's like, there's nothing that people like more than to voice their opinions into and if you notice, human nature, people will just, they'll just give an opinion even if they know nothing about what they're talking about, they'll say it is what they do and what social media does gives people a platform to be able to do that. Right, they can leave a comment. So, you know, it's just human nature. So, when we, when we begin to frame it like that like it's just human nature that people are leaving, they're, they're there, they're voicing their opinions, they're letting people know what they think, even if it's like, it's hard to not take it personal, what have you, if you don't take it personal and you look at it objectively. People are just doing what people do, and you can use it to your benefit, because if everybody agrees and nobody feels anything when they watch your video or read your email, then it's probably not going to go far, but it's like a good piece of art. A good piece of art when you look at it, you feel something, If you feel sick. If you feel happy. If you feel sad, right, right, content when you're watching it, or you're reading it, you feel something, you have some sort of a reaction. Nowadays, that's more important than ever because people are looking for that stimulation. That's why they're on social media. Do you agree or disagree with me?

Tyler: I agree completely, and because, I mean, I see some people on TikTok, or even YouTube when their whole entire goal of their videos, is just to make people mad or upset, somehow, and then you go into the content people are like, going back and forth but, I mean, this is all benefiting the greed or it's, yeah, we just got to be strategic about it. 

Dave: The creator’s, sitting there God. He hates me. Right, I mean even all the hate in the comments like, I mean even on YouTube right before like take like you can leave a thumbs down. It's like that thumbs up, thumbs down, it's still, like, some sort of engagement which YouTube wants, they want, YouTube's not stupid YouTube knows that just like major media outlets like Fox, CNN, MSNBC, NBC, like, Why do you think that there's only a small section at the end of the program for, you know, the little cat that was saved by the firemen? The good news right, the other 98% is just the crisis and everything that gets people pissed off and saying I can't believe these Democrats. I can't believe these Republicans right? I mean, they're, they're, they're feeding their audience stuff that gets them outraged, right, why because they know that that's what keeps people engaged so, I said this to somebody on a coaching call Tyler last week he was doing a lot of personal development slash motivation stuff. And I said that one, and he said well my contents are not taking off, and I said we'll do one of the reasons why your contents are taken off is because people really the masses don't really like to be positive. 

Tyler: You're right, though, I mean 100%

They don't like to be positive, dude, They want to be negative, they look at things and try to figure out what's wrong with them, or what they don't like like, like I'm getting a new car and it's like, it's like got a red exterior with a Tesla, so excited about it, but it's got a red exterior dude, and it's got the white interior, right, and you know the two people that I've told that bro to beside you, you just like nice which is cool. The other two people that I told they're like, oh that's the highest ticketed car and actually what my mom said. Right, so, I mean, but her first response was just, oh that's the highest ticketed car, read, and then my aunt, uncle, loved them too, but their first, my uncle said white? Boy I like to see that with two kids, right. And it's like, Do you know what I mean like, it's just, but I'm not mad, it's just human nature. People like to point out what they think is wrong. You know what I mean? So, if we use that in our marketing if we go into our content creation our marketing with that in mind, we don't have, we can expect those things we can even invite that controversy, into our content without getting so personally insulted if somebody says something negative, do you do use any of those tactics at all, try to create a bit of controversy or are you mainly just trying to kind of do trainings and value and stuff like that?

Tyler: So I moreso do that like on my Instagram Stories, which is one thing that I have said a lot. And I love that feature on Instagram. Just because I can engage with my family a lot more. And I kind of have a gauge of what kind of information they want to know and they're always asking me what affiliate marketing program should I get into and stuff like that so I use it all as an advantage. But yeah I mean I'll try to use that more on their TikTok I mainly just here's some apps you can use there's some websites that will be valuable. And then, you know, they'll go to the link in my bio. The process starts from there.

Well, you got lots of time to do lots of tests, bro. Lots of different stuff out, I mean you're so early in your journey, you know, and, and honestly, the more successful that you get nude, also the more people just naturally just hey you know what I mean. It's hilarious. You know what I mean like they'll naturally just hey, at it. I've experienced that quite a bit over my career, you know, just, it just nowadays it's like success is like negativity and hater catnip, you know what I mean, it's just been just, I mean people just. And that's, and that's fine you know it's it's it's, again, when we set ourselves up to expect it and not be personally insulted by it. Nowadays, that kind of stuff is really fuel for me, you know, I figured out along the way. At a certain point that I was going to challenge, both my pain, trauma, sadness, anger, all that into a pot like turn my best into a message like into a positive, something that was going to be helpful for me. And also, negative feedback from people I think has been one of my biggest kind of success hacks, is to turn negative feedback from people into like an inner charge that motivates me to be more.

Tyler: Yes. Yeah, like oh, you know, I was thinking of like who would be a good example for like who is using the haters to their advantage and it was like you know, Jake and Logan Paul, because I'm sure you're familiar with. Yeah, but like, they get so much hate, but it only makes them more popular. It only makes them more successful. 

Dave: Yeah, I mean, even Conor McGregor and Floyd Mayweather I mean, those people love a paid off this guy Oh yeah. You know what I mean. And Conor was Forbes Highest Paid athlete last year. You know, I mean, I mean, Paul, Logan Paul or whatever, one of the guys who's, I think he's gonna, he's got a fight with Floyd Mayweather.

Tyler: Yeah, yeah.

Dave: Did you see the video though where he snatched the hat? 

Tyler: Yeah. Like, Logan Paul was the one with the hat. 

Dave: Who's the guy who's going to fight? The brother? I think Jake is, Jake Paul is,  the guy who's a boxer who I think is going to fight. Floyd Mayweather but I mean, dude, This guy was just it's just two words. Just a YouTube IV. But think about this for a second. I mean, even Floyd is smart enough to realize that it's like, I don't want to fight some no name guy who might be a better fighter or might provide a better mechanically good boxing match. Floyd wants to fight the dude with the massive YouTube following, more exposure for, I mean, the game is just changed, it's gonna bring more controversy. Well, we could rant forever. I’m really impressed and proud of you. A lot of people have been asking for your handles to go find you. He’s getting 3 million news off Pinterest he's not hard to find. For God's sake, so you guys are to use, put up everybody's handles you can go just type it in and you'll find the guy no research and he's everywhere.

Tyler: Yeah, pretty much.

Dave: Alright man, well listen, I enjoyed this chat and I hope you'll, you'll come back man and another four months or six months or whenever you want and keep us posted in it teach us more cool stuff.

Tyler: Definitely no thanks for having me.

Dave: All right, Tyler, we'll talk to you soon, buddy. Alright guys, that was a that was a that was a winner right there that that was a winner, that. Yeah. All right, so I was just kind of trying to look at some of the comments but you guys are just awesome and funny. Love the support that you give our guests every morning, it's really, really cool. So let's show Tyler lots of love, so he can go back and read some of these comments. It feels charged from his wonderful contribution this morning, a lot to learn from, from that dude so you want to learn more from him. Go. Go and find him. With that being said, we will be back tomorrow for another episode of wake up legendary, we just, You know the value just never stops it just, I actually think I may be a little biased. This is the most valuable podcast show out there on the internet, you know what, at least in this industry. It's because of this amazing community, you know, I'm just like, really I said this to our internal team we've, we've got a team of 80 people or something now that work within Legendary all virtually by the way, so it's not, you know, it's kind of cool that we have 74 people who are working virtually here to serve you guys, whether it be customer support or marketing or training or, or BPA’s, or whatever. I just said to them exactly what I'm gonna say to all of you guys now, I'm just really really honored and humbled to be working around such incredible people, the spirit of this community, this family. The reason why I call it a family is because of family. You know, you love people you go above and beyond for people. You also tell people the truth you really care and love about love them, you tell them the truth. You give them what is best for that. And we don't blow smoke up your assets here. I mean, we don't get on here, just like Tyler's had incredible success but we're not blowing smoke up your ass saying it's guaranteed for everybody. If you just, you know, put your money down and your success is guaranteed, just not right, we're not we're not blowing that type of smoke, you know, but the spirit of this community is, is incredible, and I'm honored to be part of it, and thank you guys for all being here, people see your assets back here tomorrow for another episode. Be Legendary.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. Listen, we're going to be rocking this morning with not one, but to David's to David's, okay, not one. Because the only thing that's better than one, David. the only thing that's better than one David is two David's Okay, as you can see, we're going to be hearing. David's two p’s to success. What the heck does that mean? Well, let's bring the man, the myth, the legend in to explain it, David, what's going on my brother, welcome to the show, what's going on? Appreciate you man.

David: It's my pleasure, are you coming from Canada, or?

David: Yes. Yeah, I'm coming from Canada. How are you? 

Dave: Wonderful, wonderful. And you're 19 Is that right?

David: Yes. 

Dave: Okay, wow. I, what was I doing at 19 I was not marketing online, making money building. I was actually trying to destroy my life, good for you, bro. Good for you. 

David: I appreciate it

Dave: Yeah man, big things. So, tell us how you got started, man, I mean, what led you to even be like looking for alternative ways to make money to build a business at such a young age and I think you've been kind of hustling and doing entrepreneurship for a year or two at least to talk to us a little bit about what led you astray to start bui;ding your lif maybe a little bit earlier probably than most of your friends? 

David: Yeah so, I realized my passion for business and making money in general is through a non normal way that people around us were making money in general. So, at a young age even in school I went away to a boarding school back home and I was still selling lollipops and I just always was thinking of new ways and had a business mindset. So, once I realized even in class, the only thing I was really having good marks in was everything that's related to business. I really just looked more into it and started finding different paths as social media grew and eventually after going through different, different things, trying different routes, I came across marketing. And I realized as social media roles, this is one of the biggest opportunities that I could not just pass on so I just tried my best and really put in my effort and well I ran into you guys and was able to find a way that I was not really getting more information from other other places so once they found their market and started the 15 Day Challenge and learn more about funnels, different websites and all these things came together and eventually led me to where I’m at and helped me open up other ventures when it comes to monetization. In general, we are different from the traditional way that people know how to make money. 

Dave: So, you've done, you've done some cool things, which we'll talk about here in a second. I think up to 160,000 followers on TikTok you generate some good traffic leads sales. And, and, it's, it's pretty exciting, isn't it. So I want to clarify something just for everybody listening, the first thing that you were doing with social media marketing is that right to where basically we're trying to get clients and run their advertising? 

David: Yes.

Dave: Okay. And did you find that more of a challenge because of the fact that, that, you know you now are kind of a professional service, service agency and you're kind of going out there trying to find clients and then you got to service those clients and they have expectations and it's, it's a, it's a customer facing business and there's a lot more moving parts. 

David: So SMMA compared to, say, affiliate marketing a lot of people think might be easy, but it's definitely, it's definitely a way that really opens up opportunities without having to go through, other walls that the business is really putting in front of you so with SMMA, you can make you can have success but there's a lot of factors that go into it you have to learn multiple skills you have to go. It's kind of door knocking you're contacting these people to generate these leads, if you're just like running ads to gate, customers and was basically, that want to stamp that people might think so yes it was definitely a much bigger wall that aspect of everything, especially if you don't have the grasp of social media and how to really establish your brand. 

Dave: Yeah. Yeah, so I want to just point that out because, for, for a big moment there. One of the big guys that was Pushing Social Media Marketing Agency was Ty Lopez, right, and he was selling that kind of business model to tons of people. And a lot of other people did that you know this was one of these kinds of trendy things, 19 and 2022 where it was like, open up a Social Media Marketing Agency, right. Basically, you use the good word to describe it. It's door knocking, you're basically going around and you're prospecting, local businesses like bike shops and coffee shops and, you know, your real estate agents law for all these kind of people and saying hey I'll take over your social media marketing all run ads, so you have to know how to, first of all you just have to be able to get your foot in the door, I mean it's basically exactly like people used to do with door knocking except you're reaching out to people via email, you're reaching out to them on their LinkedIn profiles, all this kind of stuff. Now, I like your attitude, because you can be successful with that, just like anybody if they have the right skills and the right effort they can be successful in anything, but it's important to understand, especially if you're new, or you, you, you don't want to run all of those facets of a business you don't want to have to do all of those things before you make your first dollar to kind of understand what you're going into, eyes wide open. So, you know, I appreciate that perspective so you, you kind of stumbled upon Legendary, what's like your first impression and what have you learned about our company, our community, and what's your experience been so far as you've been learning affiliate marketing and now executing and having success with it?

David: Yes, so the first impression was I actually learned through you guys through a person who was marketing on social media. Same way I wanted to get started, and I got started with an e book and I just learned more and more about affiliate marketing, and I really just had the foundation. And I just needed that extra push and that's exactly what I found and I found assistance and a guide through the way I knew, I literally found questions and didn't even know I had. And that's exactly why I needed to get started. And when I go into the Facebook community, other places that we just found more motivation for people doing it, and a lot of times people are really self destructive just tried to find this by not into some things, maybe a wall here or there, but what I realize is just learn something, take action if a problem comes along the way, you're in business, you're not meant to be a perfectionist as you just, you get more perfect along the way I guess right so yeah just took action later was in my opinion what I needed to get started. And he was right so that's exactly how my experience was. 

Dave: Yeah. Oh great, man, I'm glad that we met it at the time that we did and your journey and gave you that push so now let's talk about these kinds of two p’s. Alright, two p’s to success. You've had some, some pretty significant success you've really kind of taken your, your, you know you've, you've been doing this now for about how long?

David: I'd say a little bit under six months. 

Dave: Okay, so now that is not a whole lot of time but you're not in your first 30 days so. So what have you learned in the six months, and talk to us teach us a little bit about these, these two p’s to your success. 

David: So what I realized is just like, when it comes to affiliate marketing a lot of people might also take away the statement affiliate you are really just a marketer, and you should  treat your market like it’s your business is yours, and you're the one who's gonna make those Commission's if you could get those sales so you finally have to find a way. Depending on the platform you're using to utilize that platform, in the way it's supposed to be utilized. Some people might be very good content, video content, the place, the best places is TikTok and YouTube, If you go to Instagram or Pinterest might not be the best route so once I realized that I, and then I realized what I was good at I just took action with those specific places and stayed consistent, and really just tried to give value in connecting through those people in video and into email marketing. And that's really what is gonna bring success in the future because you can't really guarantee but if you take the right steps and a proven method, a proven system in place and you stay consistent you are going to start seeing those results sooner. 

Dave: So, so, so, what are the two p’s standing for? 

David: The two P’s?

Dave: In the questionnaire. Yeah, let's see here. Okay, patience and perseverance. Okay here we go. He put patience and perseverance and I turned it into the two p’s. Alright cool, so. So patience and perseverance. Yeah, success is no accident you wrote down in your questionnaire. So, you know, I certainly know that you know a lot of people, a lot of people, I think underestimate, like, like what I've done in my career, for example, like, oh, like what what what I'm doing or what we're doing here and Legendary is just like some hacks that like, anybody can do this and it's like, I can't tell you how many people have tried to like copy me and what I do over the years and it's like they think that they're just gonna, you know, just, you know, duplicate, in, in kind of like I had a company many years ago and people tried to knock it off and now. The same thing is happening now with people they think they're just going to kind of step into, you know, a company with, you know 70, 80 People running it and just like that takes time. You know what I mean like it is not an accident. So, what is your experience with kind of being on purpose, and like how this patience, this perseverance kind of plays into your success and how your success has not been an accident, some people might look at your marketing and think Oh, yeah. Whatever I can do that, that's just an accident, he just stumbled, he just got lucky, like, talk to us a little bit about what you mean for you specifically and what you've been doing, how it's like not an accident. 

David: So, what I also need is the opposite. So, failure is not an accident. So people who just sit there and you're always trying like you put in effort to fail, right, people just sit there and they don't put in work, they don't take action you are literally trying to fail, don't take action so it goes both ways you don't succeed without putting in work, it's not a natural human failing, It's not an accident you did something along the way to kind of guarantee your failure, and you have to realize all you have to do is do things along the way to guarantee your success. So that's what I realized and to put it together with patients you just is not gonna happen overnight, a lot of things come easy overnight way to build wealth but that's not the case you have to put in time you have to be patient, you have to see what works for you, and might not do what works for somebody else, you know, it might not work for your friend or somebody else but you have to put in time to see what works for you and leverage that to keep building your brand growth along the journey. 

Dave: So, what do you, I like that so, so you're doing, you're kind of in two niches right now the kind of online marketing or make money online space you're also in the health niche, and clearly we were showing your, your, David links 250. TikTok link and you guys can go follow David and kind of, you know, learn from them and follow them and support them and stuff like that but obviously you've got other channels and you're doing other things and, and that's cool, I'm not gonna ask you for those because we'll take your word for it and obviously just what you've done on this TikTok is, is, is impressive enough. Well, there's a lot of people right now because in our community TikTok’ hot and people are, we're teaching it and we're talking about it and you've obviously, you've obviously had quite a bit of success with it so, like, what would you, what have you learned about TikTok, that that has worked really well for you. What have you learned  that doesn't work so well? I mean you really kind of moved here especially in six months, there's a lot of people who would love to have 100 nearly 60,000 followers on one account but it seems like you have a couple of accounts. What, what have you learned man that it's working for, and what have you learned along the way that that didn't work as you said a second of all you got to, you know, you got to test things out to see what works, see what doesn't, so talk to us a little bit about some of those learning lessons.

David: Yeah, so when it comes to TikTok new, just like a lot of things, there is really not a proven way to success but there is ways you can put yourself in positions to, quote unquote, be lucky to grow or start getting traction, just like on any other platform right but with TikTok, especially being a brand new platform where there is a lot of organic reach and potential. What you have to do is leverage the platform like I was talking about, once you learn a platform, you have to find a professional platform to be YouTube can be, you just looking at what other people are doing, and you leverage that by giving yourself motivation to other people's content to see how you can then transform your message to be pulled out into the platform and really get those leads and get those customers by putting out your unique message and putting a spin to it and putting it out there without infringing on other people's content by by leveraging what has worked in the past so a lot of people, they want to say to do what they want, it's not that type of platform, you're not going to go on, on Pinterest or Twitter, and expect to get YouTube type of organic reach but so when you go to TikTok, you have to leverage what's working on TikTok, so if it's trade if it's something whatever it is you leverage, and then you find a way, once you're

a marketer you can find a way to leverage a message into different types of video content types, so that's what I've been doing and focused on so if you're struggling with TikTok like for example, all you do is look around you see motivation from what other people are doing you see what's happening to be successful in general, and you're going to really find your place you're going to find your specific place that works best for you. 

Dave: So you think it's key on TikTok to really pay attention to kind of what the trends are like that week or that month, like it's such a quick and evolving platform that you think that that's super key to identify okay what are the trends, even that are working outside of my niche, like, Are there certain songs are there certain dances or certain just types of videos that people are doing that are kind of trending really hot on TikTok, right now, and to kind of take that template of a trend in to fit your sort of unique personality and message inside of that particular trend is that what you're saying?

David: Yes, exactly. Exactly those trends, generally don't even last a long time, some might go for weeks, others might be 24 or 48 hours. So when you're on the platform. Anyway, you might as well just look at what is coming on your for you page so you see content that's doing great. So once you see the content of doing great. It can be something as little as a style that you can put into your video while you're talking to people about something, whatever it is, marketing, and that can really make a difference in how your content is going to do so TikTok really just wants people on the app, it doesn't care who you are, it doesn't care what you look like doesn't care your age doesn't care. So it just wants people on the app so if you can learn how to keep people on the app by doing what's already working, they're gonna put your content out there to a lot of people because they want them on the app so that's why leverage trending can be a trending hashtag get trending sell a training, dance and it's going to get their attention because it's trending. And you can also leverage your message into that type of piece of content. 

Dave: I think that's really key man, and we've I don't think we've really talked about it on this show anyways it's like really leveraging trends, and I like what you said that you know, there's a little bit of luck with it. Right, it's, it's, although it's not an accident. It's also, you know, you're kind of you're, you're looking at trends, and you're trying to fit sort of your personality and style into what's already workload on the platform. And, I like what you said a couple of minutes ago which was, you're not just going to come onto the platform you can do whatever you want. Right, although you can look however you look, whatever you want, you can sound however you want right I mean like you can have your own personality and you should, and that's what really is going to probably ultimately give you an edge, but there's, there's, there is templates or trends in the case of TikTok there is trends that are working. And I think that like somebody just pointed out, Aryana said top sounds can boost your popularity and can be located in tick tock. on the Discover section in the sound section, right. So, how, how are you, because I think a lot of people are also David, and what's better than one David, two David’s like I think also a lot of people I know I would. I was brand new, dude. Like, I'm going to the for you page on the scroll when I'm going. What's a trend, like how long do I have to, like, you know, I'm looking I'm trying not to get sucked into content, how do you operate in terms of identifying these trends or identifying what type of content you're going to create that day, without, you know, sort of getting lost in in scrolling endlessly. And also, at what point when finding something do you say okay now it's time to stop researching, there's a difference between consuming and researching. At what point do you stop researching and say okay now it's time to go execute and create?

David: Alright so first thing you have to do is have a plan, right, you need to have a plan just say for your business, you need a tic tac plan so how many times are you posting what structure those posts are going to be so are they going to be doing. Are they going to be original types of content, are they going to be something you really just transformed into your own way, or something you like, or you got motivation from maybe another creator who you're in the same category as. So what you do instead of, because a lot of, I get what you're saying a lot of people can go and consume and even forget about researching so when it comes. Yeah, so when it comes to researching that you can go into discover they have two sides there's a Discover tab where you can search in, you can definitely see trends you can see trending music you can see content that has been created, or you can go on before you page and see trends that are coming over and over again. Or you can simply even search a top hashtag in your category and see what

Dave: Okay, here, pink, David, we were down to one David bro I was, I was thinking, David down, we got one David. Alright so I lost you at like, You know, I lost you at. Anyways, you're like, you know you can go to top categories.

David:  You can top hashtags like I kind of lost you right there.  So after going into the hashtag, finding the types of content what to put out there. Now, all you have to do is really scroll through and you can leave a comment to another account you have or like a comment, like a video. And after you find the videos you want to recreate the videos you want with you just simply now you know what you have to do so you can just go and execute, or you can simply keep consuming I suggest you go and execute but yeah so that's basically what I do I just find content I want to recreate that I go and execute and then after I have that secure, I can go to other stuff, knowing I have a plan, my plan is set, this is when I'm posting this is what I'm doing. And can you just even save it in the Favorites tab. And yeah, that's basically how it works, secure, after I've secured the bag I move on with my life for that. 

David: Yes. 

Dave: So, so, wow. So, I mean, like what I find interesting about like a platform like all the platforms right now, is that when it comes to content creation, marketing, like, there really is kind of a formula, you know, if you kind of pay attention and you know what to look for, you know, you have to, I think I always talk about the mechanics and the dynamics everybody puts so much emphasis on the mechanics but the dynamics are in the mechanics are like okay I found something now I'm gonna execute I'm gonna shoot it I'm gonna post it knowing what buttons to push. But the dynamics are really how you move, right, it's like, at what point do you cut off the research and pull the trigger on execution? It's Like building your plan, the mindset that you have about the perfectionism, you know, it's all these pieces about willing to take a risk willing to you know put yourself out there, and, and kind of, you know, not care that oh this piece of content that I'm kind of modeling, or re-creating in my own kind of way. The other one is better than mine. Oh, a lot of people say, well, what's the point right I mean, if this piece of content is better than mine, who's gonna care about mine right? That's a, that's a limiting belief you know that's a mindset issue that we end up being our own worst enemy, you know. And so, what sort of mindset, dynamic issues have you encountered within yourself? So what sort of mindset hurdles David, have you had to overcome that have you identified within yourself in your business, that that, that, that, you know you've had to kind of maybe you're even still dealing with, I don't know but what are some of those things that we don't see when we're watching you move within your business from a distance or watching your market, what are some of the things that have gone on with your go on with you, that you battle, and you persevere through, could you talk to us about some of those hurdles lagging a little bit over here. 

Dave: Yeah lagging, I got you. Yeah, so what it is, lag and I think there's something going on on your side. I don't know if you've got a lot of slow WiFi connection or something like that but you seem to be kind of in and out, I don't know, we'll try. We'll try one more time. What are some of the big mindset things that you've had to overcome is the question. 

David: Yes. So the number one thing I had to overcome was communication of thinking that I can't do what somebody else has done, or reach specific levels that are were beyond my expectations, right, so a lot of people have certain expectations but the reality of the situation is all you have to do is do what works, and like I said, yesterday you do require like, What is more, if you put yourself in the best position in those things, those blessings, they're going to come to you to put yourself in the best position. So the mindset, just keep creating, and I realized along the journey, especially as a goal. Some days, especially when you're starting, you may feel like it's not worth it, you might feel like you came off like a monster, you just realized it's all worth it. And so that's, that's the, that's what I do and haven't been doing to keep really persevering, like I say to keep putting in effort to keep going to need a big reason why, and you don't have to take everything so personally, don't have to see stuff ago this not going to be for me it's not going to be for this, just keep going and realize you really have all the control in the scenario. 

Dave: Well, you will actually say that before. Your Why wasn't that your why wasn't big enough when you had the first agency business that we were talking about a moment ago. It's why we evolve. Why is it and how is it bigger now than it was before what's changed? 

David: So, as a beginner when, especially when you're younger, was like a lot of beginners computers making a lot of money just like a lot of money, although that is part of my why now I realize it's bigger than that right freedom is more, more important, so when you look around the world, you realize you don't really have a privilege of just sit in, they don't realize you don't have, because they're just ignoring that, you know, a job is not really secure. The future is not that secure so if you realize that your family, you care about the future and what comes ahead of everything else, You can't afford not to put in work you can't afford not to give you all you got right sometimes the parents wonder why I spent some, some times, because my parents. My parents right now but sometimes even siblings and even people around me wonder why I give it a lot of time. I'm always working to get new ways to do different things, creating content, and unless you really have a big reason or you realize how the future may look for what's, what's coming next. You don't really see through the same lens that I'm seeing stuff. And so, once you have a big enough why in, you know what you can have, I don't know why. Sit and choose the ultimate opposite. So, yes, that's really what comes ahead of everything else because motivation sometimes can be overrated, right, so you're not always going to feel like you want to do something great, now it's going to feel like you're out for the test, but the reason, the reason why we want to be the next 10 years 20 years 30 years. When I see myself on an island somewhere in I see how I just I just feel happy as it is already imagine what it's going to feel like I can't afford to sit there and ignore my artists to go succeed I can I can afford to sit there and not try to give you all I got at least even if I don't achieve anything. Once I do get to those years I can No I give all the handbrake, the worst thing you can do for yourself, is go on to your 60, 80 and realize you could have had three could have been happier could have really missed out you missed out on a big opportunity to really have a better life. And it was in the year now living in regret for life, but if you give all the hat, even if you didn't achieve so and so, however many things you wanted to achieve, you have no regrets, and you're gonna live a happier life. At the end of the day.

Dave: Really inspiring. David, I really appreciate your insight I appreciate the fact that you, you did you know you did this work and so thrilled that we could be a part of your journey bro and, and, in give you some of our experience and wisdom but I always tell people, I mean, I don't, I don't want to take credit for people's success it's like, you know, the hardest part is executing, you know, the hardest part is putting the stuff to work you did that, and now you're really bringing a lot of experience and wisdom to share with people I just want to really validate you for that, I mean you're you're a young guy but you're really, you know what you have to say is, is really, it's really spot on man, and you've got a really, really solid outlook for not only to influence other young people, but also for anybody any age, you know what I mean so I want to just tell you that, to hopefully boost your confidence and, and, you know I don't blow smoke up people's ass if I don't think what you're saying is useful. I'll tell you hey maybe you want to think about this or work on that but I really think that your head is in the right place brother and I'm really proud that you're part of our community and I can't wait to hopefully have you back in a few months and continue to learn from you and kind of grow together man so keep up the great work, brother. stay safe. Be Legendary David, and I'll talk to you soon my friend. 

David: Okay. All right, thank you.

Dave: Alright guys, there it is man, go follow that dude he's, he's, he's really on to something there, And, and I love the, the, the, the realistic approach to things, I mean, it's, it, there is an element of luck but you got to be in the right place at the right time you got to be taken action you got to be putting yourself out there, and, and, you know, when you do that preparation meets opportunity. And, you know you'll be amazed, you know you'll be amazed if each one of you guys just commit to the next 12 months, just just just putting yourself out there as many times as you can. I think you'll find that, whether you want to call it luck or whatever you will experience, way more success than you imagine. You will shortchange yourself, and that's exactly what I can tell you if I would have looked back when I was six months into my affiliate marketing journey like David is and I would have said hey this is what what I can do in the next 10 years, and I would have way shortchanged myself so all of you, no matter how old you are. Okay, no matter how old you are. I don't care if you're 19, or if you're 60 or 70. You will shortchange yourself if you try to look, and guess what you can do in the next 10 years, you will short change yourself. So maybe you say what it's like to be a millionaire. You will shortchange yourself. You could be a multi, multi, multi millionaire. I'm not saying it's guaranteed. I'm not I'm not making income claims I'm just saying that you can shortchange yourself, you will shortchange yourself. Just make sure you don't step over dollars to pick up dimes, right, and what do I mean by that. Start and Stop start and stop. Right. A lot of times we start something, and it takes time to let that thing, build and grow a lot of times we get shiny objects that oh let me go grab this done, let me go grab this dime. Right. So all I'm doing I'm stepping over dollars to pick up dimes, that was a lesson that I learned early on in my career, the one thing that I've done, is stick with what I'm doing and see it through. And if you ask anybody What's the thing what's one of the things that Dave's done to be consistent. It's kind of like what David gathered David said, patience, perseverance, I like that. I'll see you guys back here tomorrow for another episode. Be Legendary. Peace.

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The Body Shop Review: Success or Scam?

David Sharpe bio

Are you trying to start making a secondary income stream? If you're like many people, you have friends or family members who have started working with network marketing (or multi-level marketing) companies.

They may talk about their success, their money, and how much freedom their business gives them. They look happy, so should you try it?

While you're probably familiar with some of the more common MLMs, like Herbalife and LuLaRoe, what about The Body Shop?

Many people, even beauty lovers, have no idea that The Body Shop is a multi-level marketing business unless they're already in it.

If you've had your eye on selling skincare, we want to talk about it first. Keep reading to learn all about this MLM company before you make your commitment.

What Is The Body Shop?

The Body Shop is a popular skincare store in the United Kingdom. It started in 1978 and it's since made its way to the United States. These shops are often found in airports, making them convenient for anyone who's on the go and looking for some last-minute skincare staples.

Is The Body Shop an MLM?

Alright, so far The Body Shop doesn't sound like an MLM, right? They're a skincare store, so what's the problem?

While The Body Shop itself is innocent enough, it has an MLM program: The Body Shop at Home. As with other MLMs, The Body Shop at Home recruits people to distribute their products to strangers, friends, and family.

As with every other MLM, there's an income structure in which distributors can make a commission based on their monthly sales. It's “not” a pyramid scheme, but the bulk of each distributor's money is going to come from recruits.

So, in short, The Body Shop itself is not an MLM, but their side business, The Body Shop at Home, is.

What Do They Sell?

To be clear, there's nothing wrong with the products that The Body Shop sells. There's a reason that their brand has been so successful. While they're not high-end, they have quality skincare for decent prices and overall, there are no complaints here about that.

They have good sales, they have good service, and they're a great place to stop in and grab a quick lotion or bubble bath.

They sell nicer skincare products like CBD balms and hydrating products with vitamins C and E that are often used for anti-aging benefits.

They sell decent makeup products that, while not high-end, perform well enough to be worth the cost. They even have fragrances and hair-care products. In other words, they're a well-rounded company.

With this in mind, it might seem like it's a good choice for an MLM. While they're better than some shadier companies who offer shoddy or overpriced products, it's still not a reliable way to make money.

Who Is Their Target Audience?

The Body Shop casts a pretty wide net, and The Body Shop at Home is no different. Everyone needs skincare products from time to time.

That said, the primary audience for The Body Shop at Home is going to be women of all ages (with a larger focus on young and middle-aged adults for most of their products).

Most of their distributors are women (similarly to most multi-level marketing businesses).

What Is Their Income Structure?

This is where things get a little bit complicated. It's hard to say exactly how their income works, but there are a few key things to point out.

First, you're going to need to recruit people in order to meet your goals. There's very little information online about how those uplines and downlines work, but it's clear that uplines earn commission from the sales that their downlines (recruits) make.

As with any other MLM, you also make money from your own sales. That said, it's not a lot of money, so you need to hustle if you want to make it a viable income option.

For the first £599.99 (around $843), you earn a 25% commission. After this, you earn 30%. This is for every month so your commission potential ends with the end of the month.

To do this, most people who work for The Body Shop at Home host parties (if those sound familiar, it's because they're incredibly common amongst MLMs). Basically, you sell to and recruit friends and family under the guise of a fun get-together.

Your goal is to recruit the people at the parties.

Can You Make Money?

This is tricky.

Yes, you can make money with The Body Shop at Home, but you're most likely not going to make any kind of livable income unless you're a very savvy marketer.

Some Body Shop recruiters will tell you that you only need to host a handful of parties in order to make £1,000, but this isn't true for most people. The general income from each party is around £50.

The math doesn't add up.

If you make a habit of not making enough money to please The Body Shop higher-ups, you risk having your sales suspended. This further gets in the way of your ability to make money.

If you decide to stick with The Body Shop, you need to up your marketing skills and find new ways to make money without harassing your friends as if they were dollar signs.

Getting on social media is a great start, but it's best to get some marketing classes under your belt.

The Body Shop: A Good Idea?

From where we're standing, The Body Shop has great products but a poor at-home business model. No matter how you cut it, it's an MLM, and like every other MLM, it relies on predatory business practices.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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What Is Barefoot Books?

David Sharpe bio

The children's book publishing industry is valued at just over $2 billion in the US, alone. If you have a passion for children's books and promoting children's literacy, can you turn it into a career?

This is the opportunity Barefoot Books offers to its affiliates. With an ever-expanding line of high-quality children's books, puzzles, sing-along CDs, and more, Barefoot Books remains a successful publisher and seller nearly 30 years after its start.

Like other MLM companies, however, Barefoot Books does come with some setbacks for sellers and affiliates. How does it work? Can you make money by joining the Barefoot Books team?

We're always looking for ways to help new entrepreneurs expand their business and marketing savvy. Read on to learn everything about Barefoot Books and find out if this is the right place to grow your direct marketing experience.

So, What Exactly Is Barefoot Books?

Barefoot Books is, at its core, a publishing company of children's books. It was founded in 1993 by two moms, Nancy Traversy and Tessa Strickland, who were looking for ways to make money while connecting with their young children. Over the years, Barefoot Books has published a wide and diverse array of high-quality hardback books for young readers in different age brackets.

In the early days, Barefoot Books was based in the UK and much of the profits came from selling the rights to their books to American publishers. Finally, the two women decided it was time to take Barefoot Books overseas and start selling across the United States. This is when the MLM model took hold.

Now, Barefoot Books offers budding entrepreneurs such as yourself the opportunity to try their hand at selling children's books on their own time.

How Does the Barefoot Books Compensation Plan Work?

There are a few ways that you can go about making money as a Barefoot Books affiliate. Of course, the most obvious way to earn money is by selling books, which you can do through in-person events, social media outreach, and partnerships with schools and libraries. However, Barefoot Books affiliates have another goal in mind: to build up a team of affiliates that sell in their downstream.

Under the Barefoot Books FAQ, they lay out some of the basics of their compensation plan. You can earn 30% commission off of in-person or online sales, 20% commission off of discounted sales to nonprofits and schools, and a variety of bonuses for unlocking certain achievements. (Achievements include hitting a high level of personal sales, hitting a high level of team sales, bringing in new team members, and so forth.)

Keep in mind that in order to start earning money, you have to invest money. Barefoot Books claims to be free to join, but you'll have to purchase a starter pack of books, catalogs, and marketing materials to start selling. It appears that this starter kit costs $159.99.

What Are the Perks of Becoming a Barefoot Books Affiliate?

Perhaps one of the biggest draws to the Barefoot Books direct marketing team is that they're selling real, high-quality products that actually make a difference. Many of their books appear to be award-winning, and all of their products are designed to encourage literacy, engagement with the arts, and cultural awareness. All told, you can feel good about selling these products.

Plus, Barefoot Books offers the same perk that attracts most people to MLM companies: you can set your own schedule. This is appealing for just about anyone, but especially those who have other obligations or other jobs and want to earn some extra income.

Finally, there is a theoretical opportunity for growth. Barefoot Books offers a tiered affiliate network that allows affiliates with consistently strong sales to earn higher commission rates, access more opportunities for bonuses, and more. That being said, it tends to be difficult to climb the ladder of any MLM company.

Is It Easy to Make Money With MLM Companies?

While MLM companies offer plenty of opportunities to make money selling their products or bringing on new affiliates, it's not as easy as it sounds. Why?

Let's take Barefoot Books as an example. First, think about how many children's booksellers are on the market–especially now that things like eBooks and audiobooks are growing in popularity. Second, think about how many people you know off the top of your head who would buy children's books from you.

Automatically, you can see that this won't be easy. That is, not without legitimate marketing skills.

In order to make money with any online business endeavor, you have to understand the ins and outs of digital marketing. You need to learn how to maximize your use of various social media platforms, knock out the competition, and reach buyers outside of your personal social circle. Without these skills, it can be difficult just to break even when you're selling for an MLM company.

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Like other reputable MLM companies, Barefoot Books offers high-quality products and an honest business model that direct marketers can tap into. They're not con artists. They're honest publishers of children's books offering you the opportunity to bring in some extra income.

That being said, you can only get out what you put in. Without having a strong understanding of digital marketing, you're going to hit a wall with any online business endeavor.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Can You Make Money Selling Ann Summers Lingerie?

David Sharpe bio

The Ann Summers lingerie company as we know it today wouldn't exist if it weren't for the entrepreneurial prowess of one woman, and her name isn't Ann Summers. In fact, the woman who made Ann Summers a success wouldn't be involved in the company's history for the first eleven years of existence. That woman is Jacqueline Gold.

When Gold's father came to own the company, it had a few storefronts spread around London, England. Just as they do now, Ann Summers sold a large line of lingerie and adult toys–and the shops weren't cutting it.

It was in 1981 that Gold realized that if they wanted to reach their customers, they'd need to get a little more personal. It was then that Ann Summers expanded from a small brick-and-mortar chain to an international MLM. According to their website, they currently have over 20,000 women in their salesforce, and you could be one of them.

The question is, is Ann Summers lingerie the right company to join as a budding entrepreneur? Will you make good money selling Ann Summers products? Keep reading to learn more.

The Pros of Selling Ann Summers Lingerie

If you're taking advantage of our online marketing tips, you're probably looking for ways to launch your own online business career. Becoming an affiliate of the Ann Summers lingerie MLM is a viable option when you're starting out, and there are some compelling reasons to make that move. Let's take a look at what they are.

Building Your Own Schedule

When you become an affiliate of Ann Summers, you make an initial investment of either £39 or £69 for access to your digital account and your starter kit. From there, you can start earning as soon as you want by hosting parties (in person or virtual), marketing products on your social media, and building up your downstream. All of this is done on your own time, which means that you can break the doldrums of the traditional 9-5.

Networking With Other Entrepreneurs

No matter how you launch your career as an internet-savvy entrepreneur, it's important that you master the art of networking. The Ann Summers business model presents the perfect opportunity to get to know the other people in your community who are also interested in paving their own path. As you host parties and build your social media presence, you'll make the connections you need as you continue to grow your own online business.

Making Commission

Ann Summers offers a 25% commission rate on all of their products and a potential monthly bonus of 5-10%. That means that you don't have to push for a promotion to make more money or worry about an income cap. Like any MLM, you tend to get out what you put in, which means that the better you can market Ann Summers products, the more you can increase your sales–and your income.

(Speaking of promotions, it does appear that there is upward mobility when you sell for Ann Summers. However, it is unclear what the perks are of moving up the Ann Summers ladder.)

The Cons of Selling Ann Summers Lingerie

No MLM opportunity is perfect, and Ann Summers is no exception. For full transparency, we'll take a look at some of the cons of selling Ann Summers lingerie and other products.

Minimal Training

Oftentimes, new entrepreneurs join MLMs with the hopes that it will teach them the ins and outs of running an independent business. They are then often disappointed by the lack of resources provided by the company they sell for.

Ann Summers does provide training and support, but it certainly doesn't provide sellers with the full scope of tools they'll need to succeed in their online business endeavors. Instead, you will need to find marketing courses outside of Ann Summers' internal training if you want to learn the truth about online marketing.

Unclear Investment Requirements

If you're new to the MLM industry, you may not realize that many MLMs require you to make product purchases in order to make sales. Granted, these products tend to come at a discounted (think wholesale) price, which means that you're not paying nearly as much as your end consumer. Still, the investment can take a toll, especially if you're struggling to land sales.

As we mentioned earlier, you'll need to purchase a starter pack to begin your sales journey with Ann Summers. You have the option to purchase the Starter Kit or the Party Pro Kit, which gives you a little wiggle room on your initial investment amount. However, it's unclear how much you'll need to spend to keep your arsenal stocked with Ann Summers products over time.

Unclear Income Possibilities

You came here to learn if you can make money with Ann Summers and the answer is yes. What's unclear is how much you realistically stand to make.

Many MLMs offer what's known as the income disclosure form. This form tells you how much an MLMs affiliates are making on average, which can offer you a much better indication of how you can expect to do selling their products. They may say that you can make up to six figures as an affiliate, but when you see that 90% of their salesteam is making a much lower amount than six figures, it paints a different picture.

Ann Summers appears to be one of few MLMs to keep their income disclosure form under wraps.

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Ann Summers may be a good starting point for your career in online marketing, but it may not get you where you want to go. There is money to be found in selling Ann Summers lingerie, but not without the right marketing skills.

To start developing your marketing skills, consider enrolling in one of our online marketing courses. Our Online Business Builder Challenge is a crash course that will help you maximize your entrepreneurial potential and only costs $7 to enroll. Join the 80,000+ new marketers who have already unlocked their potential with the help of Legendary Marketer.

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MLM Company Review: AMSOIL

David Sharpe bio

The multi-level marketing (MLM) road is littered with potholes. According to an AARP Foundation survey, only about 25% of MLM businesses ever turn a profit. When considering an MLM company as a business venture, it is extremely important to know the company and its products before you invest.

AMSOIL is one of the hundreds of companies with a distribution model defined as network marketing or MLM marketing. Their primary product, synthetic motor oil, is the first of its kind and backed by the automotive industry as superior to non-synthetic motor oil.

The combination of a great product and a solid networking model makes AMSOIL a popular company to work with. But, how exactly does MLM work, and is AMSOIL the right company for you? Keep reading this review for honest answers.

The Basics: How Do MLM Companies Work?

Like all product-based businesses, disruptors earn revenue through the direct retail sales of a product to consumers. However, with network marketing distributors have the opportunity to earn commissions from the sales of distributors they recruit into the business (their distribution downline).

Those that brave the waters of a challenging MLM business model have essentially two paths to success – build out a large customer base with direct marketing or build out a network of distributors that do the same.

Pyramid Scheme and MLM: An Important Distinction

Although network marketing is sometimes referred to as “pyramid marketing”, it is important to realize that this type of marketing is not the same as an illegal “pyramid scheme”. In order for the MLM company to be legal, earnings must come from the sale of products and not directly from the recruiting of distributors.

Caution: Be Aware of Wolves in Sheep's Clothing

Some so-called MLM opportunities are in reality, scams. Others are borderline legal and could be shut down at any time. AMSOIL is a proven, longstanding MLM company with a genuine opportunity to enter into the profitable synthetic lubricant industry without a large investment.

The AMSOIL Networking Model

AMSOIL sells high-quality synthetic oils. In 1968, Albert J. Amatuzio founded Life-Lube Inc. At the time synthetic oil was used exclusively in jet engines.

Amatuzio was no stranger to synthetic oils. He joined the airforce shortly after World War II and flew America's first operational jet fighter, the F80 Shooting Star. It was in the Air Force that Amatuzio first saw the opportunity to take superior synthetic oils to the automotive market.

The company struggled to gain consumer confidence in the “big oil” controlled marketplace. Amatuzio remained confident that if consumers were given the opportunity to learn about the benefits of synthetic oils sales would follow.

He decided the best way to accomplish this was a direct sales distributor model for his business. The AMSOIL Dealer network was established in 1973 on the concept of building brand awareness through word of mouth and the sharing of profits through network marketing. The direct door-to-door sales and commissions you make are not unlike affiliate marketing businesses.

Getting Started: The AMSOIL Way

The good news or bad news, depending on how you look at it, is you can start your own AMSOIL Dealership for only $15, $30, or $65, depending on which new dealership option you choose. You can find AMSOL authorized dealers online that will be more than happy to show you the ropes (join their downline).

The first step is to fill out a simple one-page form with your personal information. You will be asked to choose one of three options:

  1. Six-month trial Dealer registration and Starter Kit ($15)
  2. Twelve-month regular registration and Starter Kit ($30)
  3. Twelve-month registration and Business Manual ($65)

However, don't be fooled by the low bar to enter into the business. Just like any startup, you will need to spend time and money to build the business. You will quickly learn the business through an abundance of support materials available such as:

  • Literature
  • PowerPoint presentations
  • Business blueprints
  • Field sales tools
  • Business development tools
  • Webinars and study courses

The Benefits of AMSOIL MLM

The most important factor in choosing an MLM company is the products. With AMSOIL you get an industry-recognized brand backed up by over 50 years of market testing. The tagline “first in synthetics” says it all.

Other advantages of AMSOIL MLM are:

  • No inventory requirements
  • No capital investment required
  • No territory restrictions

The synthetic oil market is far from saturated and a determined dealer has only to convince others of the product's value. Of course, that is easier said than done.

Is AMSOIL Right for Me?

In order to maximize your chances of success, you will likely need two qualities – passion for the product and excellent sales skills. If you can't claim these two qualities, you would need to develop them.

Even great salespeople have trouble selling products they don't know well and believe in. And, without excellent people skills, you are going to struggle to set up meetings, make sales, and convince others to do what you do.

If you have a love for the automotive industry, know how to talk motors, believe in the value of synthetic oil, and know-how to sell you stand a good chance to power through as a winner in this MLM opportunity.

A Good MLM company to Consider

The secrete is to find the right MLM company for you and go out and build a network of people that share your passion for the product. AMSOIL isn't for everyone but, as a low-budget startup, it is an attractive option.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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How To Hold Yourself Accountable As An Affiliate Marketer

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, as you can see I have my guest right here with me. I usually bring them on, but Susan, hey what's up. Good morning.

Susan: Good morning

Dave: So as you guys kind of threw me off a little bit I usually have kind of a little intro.

Susan: pretend I’m not here

Dave: I can kind of do it in my sleep here but, you know, golly, it's Monday I'm thrown off. Okay, so as you guys can see from the title, okay, how to have success online even if you're 60 Plus, you know, what I've always said is that no matter your age, no matter your background, your ethnicity culture, religion, whatever your beliefs are whatever you look and sound like the Internet has a way of leveling the playing field for people and oftentimes some of the most unassuming, people are the ones who were, who have made the easiest success if you want to say that are the quickest to the start line and then get going, there is no finish line, that's why I say the start line because sometimes, with, with us, entrepreneurs, it's just getting to the start line that's oftentimes the problem. But today, and I want to say one more thing, even if you're not 60 Plus, which I'm not, I want you guys to pay very close attention to this conversation, because of what I just said, which is, everybody has a story in their head. Everybody has a, well, I can't succeed because of this or this is not a good fit for me because of that, or look at everybody else and it's just it's comparisonitis and, and we're going to talk about a couple of different things. Susan just, just so you know I think it'll be really interesting to talk about the, you know, obviously, how to have success in your mindset, being where you're at in life, age wise career wise, all that, but also the idea of no being, not an option, and then also getting really clear on your target market, those are kind of things that I think would be really cool to touch on you are blueprints and coaching client at Legendary. Also, for full disclosure, but that's not why Susan's on the show this morning. She's on the show because she's a member of our community, she's gotten some early results, and, and she's serious about this, this, this business and, as I just said this is her saying that mine. No, is not an option. Let's start there. What does that mean to you like where did you hear that from and how does that apply to what you're doing right now?

Susan: Well, this actually came from someone who used to work with me who and we ran really, really large, expensive events with great senior people as participants, and she would get your perfect job to be getting things done, it's your job to get things done. Some of them work. I would think that's impossible, like that's, that is just not gonna happen. And I'd say, I'm sorry, I I don't know how you're gonna get this done. And she'd say, Well, you know, no is not an option, and she would get it done. And and it's really, I mean I guess that's a mindset thing right, it just,

She did very difficult things, and she got them done so lately I've been thinking a lot about her and thinking about my journey in affiliate marketing because, because everything's kind of hard, not everything. I was thinking about that, everything is not hard to do. I'm doing many things that are hard but I don't recognize them. I just every time somebody gets hurt. I think it's too hard, I can't do it. And then I think, no, no is not an option, either and the big thing with me has been, from the time before I started, other people are doing this, you know other people who teenagers are doing this, you know there's at least one at this, you know, there's people from all over the world. So many different kinds of people are doing this for no reason, I can't do this. And besides, I kind of have to, and so no is not an option.

Dave: And also, people are not just doing this here in Legendary, that's another important distinction. You know we just happen to be a community in a, in an ecosystem, a platform, a company, a training, whatever you want to call us. I mean we are many things, but this is not just specific to Legendary, that's another thing that I think is really important for everybody to listen to. Really here is that this is, this is a business model that's being used in many different forms and fashions now it has been for the last decade, if you look at Airbnb. Airbnb, acts as the middleman. If you look at Uber, they act as the middleman, they don't own the product. They simply connect the people who are looking for a ride to the people who have the cars, and that, you know, so those are sort of bigger and a little bit more dynamic examples of affiliate marketing, but you also have. You also have multi billion dollar companies who have joint venture relationships with other companies you have companies like Credit Karma, these credit score mortgage companies, Amazon, Walmart, all of these different companies who also pay an affiliate commission to give you you a unique tracking link, that if you want to write blogs with reviews, share it with friends, or share it on your social media or share it to an email list, they'll pay you a commission, if somebody clicks through your link and buys. We can then talk about selling information which is, which is sort of the big idea here, but just affiliate marketing alone is, is not just specific the legendary marketer and I think when you say that, like, other people are doing this not only other people but, but companies that are right under our nose, every single day, everywhere are doing us and I almost think sometimes the opportunity is kind of so big, it's kind of like the elephant in the middle of the room that we don't notice how has your, how has, you know you have glasses on, I use that analogy a lot like you put on these glasses, these marketing glasses, and you see the world differently, how has the world changed in your eyes in terms of marketing and making money online and making money as a solopreneur, you know, a one woman show there how has, how has that evolved for you in the last few months or so?

Susan: Three months ago, I didn't know this existed. You know, this, this kind of thing. And now I'm so awake to it because, as you say I see it, you know I get emails from companies, unrelated to anything I'm doing here, I think, Oh, they're doing the same thing. Right, so, but so yeah so three months ago I didn't know about this, and so it's a complete awakening for me. And, I mean there's just so much potential in it and one thing there's potential in this deal when I was when I first looked into it, I came in through Kelly Olson and I asked her, like, I don't actually didn't understand, that it took did take me a while to really understand it so you just really just doing this so that you could sell Legendary Marketers she said no. That's not, that's not it at all that, you know, she said. It's so wide and what she liked she said she really liked it was she could really help people through it and I thought, yeah, okay. You're Not You did this to make money. That's fine you know we make money right, but now I see and it’s interesting yesterday I told Kelly, how much he helped me and how and how you know how I'm doing what I'm doing, only because of her. If she hadn't been who she was when she was doing this. And she said, she answered I can't tell you how happy that makes me to know I've helped, I've helped somebody. And now I see that for me this is also a way to really help people because my situation is not unique. Now I'm 60, I’m almost divorced. Separated for a couple of years. And my life is good and I'm not poor, but I don't have enough money for the kind of retirement that I want, I have enough money for, you know, pretty impoverished that you know you're not. It does not have the kind of retirement I want at any rate, there's a lot of people like me who exist. So, I really have seen this as a way to help people like me. So partly through promoting Legendary but then there are lots of different ways to help people like me like to open up their eyes to possibilities, and I don't, I don't know how I'm going to do that yet. So I'm starting with Legendary but there's lots of lifestyle things. Other financial things, you know, I can see budgeting and things that people maybe are just getting divorced to haven't done before.

So I can see, I don't know how to access them or have to put it together yet but that's what I want to, to really help people and sincerely help people through this.

Dave: Well, first of all, I mean, there are a lot of different ways that you can help people, just by teaching them various ways to generate extra income online. That's That's one. You know that's what that's one of my just and I'm talking to everybody here by the way, the, you know that that tends to be a message and an offer, but not too many people have a problem with right I mean, there's a lot of, you know, it meaning that not to people are not in not too many people are not interested in, you know, budgeting, saving things like that can tend to be things that some people don't think particularly applies to them, or at least you kind of start teaching them that after you give them what they want, upfront, and you give them what they need on the back end. And a lot of times, we sort of learned this as we go, you know, Susan at the beginning, we want to change the world when we start seeing this potential that we can help people, and then we realize that people don't. We have to help them in a certain way, we have to use our experience and knowledge to help them. And here's what I mean is that oftentimes we can give them what they need upfront because they won't take that bait. Right, so we have to give them what they want upfront, which is, hey, here's how to. Here's how to make money. Here's how to. Here's how to generate extra income online from home. And then what happens is, if we're if we're good at, at, and we want to give them the full picture, we begin to introduce these other pieces on the back end. Hey, here's how to think like, you know, here's how to change your mindset, you know, here's how to think about budgeting and saving here's how to think about living below your means, you know, here's how to think about, you know, you know, taxes or all these various things that are really important that that quite frankly, a lot of us don't, just don't learn about in society or from our employers or from school. So I would just invite you all to keep that in your back pocket as you're looking to clarify your messaging out there online. If you if you if you're talking about things that are not like catnip, right, like catnip, you know, then, that it may not be as, as, as, you know, you make people may not bite as much as they as they would if you give them that catnip up front, and then you introduce them and that's how I've been able to build my businesses over the years is giving people what they want up front, then still continuing deliver to deliver on what they want, but then also giving them more of what they need, as well, the skill sets, things of that nature, you know, because I mean, quite frankly, Susan if you. There's no way to explain everything that somebody needs to, to, to have and develop I mean I don't, I don't even know what somebody is going to need to develop in order to do this because we're all different. Some of us have skills, characteristics, some of us have to have to develop them. But, you know, if you were to try to explain that to somebody before they got started with something that's low ticket, you know like, maybe you started them out with an appetizer of tech five or seven or 10 or 20 or $100 You tried to give them this whole big picture, it's kind of like trying to explain everything, somebody is going to. Going to, going to experience trying to become a doctor when they're sitting there and that guidance counselor office making the decision to go through in pursuing that degree, it's just unrealistic. So, and it also will overwhelm people, so you have to clarify the message, which we'll transition to talking about a little bit right now. You had mentioned in your questionnaire that you filled out for us before you came on that you think it's really important to clarify, you know who you're talking to. You said that you made your first commission, right after you finished the 15 Day Challenge. Now full disclosure, the customer was your personal trainer, who's a little younger than you are in the same situation that you are knowing that she does not have the money saved for retirement that she wants. And this helps you decide on your target market women 55 to 65 who are retired or close to retirement, and who know they don't have enough money saved for the retirement that they want you said, I think being very clear on your target market and making it quite specific, is key.

How combined with what I just said, right, which is, you know who the person is now you combine that with what you're going to talk about with that person. How, how, how can you, how do you plan on navigating the next few months, as you continue to specify who you're talking to. And what you're going to talk to them about, and I know I'm putting you on the spot a little bit because I'm also giving you ideas and feedback but anyways what's coming up for you around that question?

Susan: So my background is professional business communicator, that's what I am and that's what I have been. And part of that is a real planning role so planning, strategic. Strategic Communications Planning, and the two most important parts of that are really understanding your objective, what, what you're doing, what you want to achieve, what you want to achieve, not what you're doing, and understanding your audience in a very clear way. And then comes messaging. So right now I'm, I'm clear on the first two. And I have to work on my messaging to an eye so what I've done is kind of done. It's not exactly in line with that because I've spent the last couple of months learning it you know I've done the blueprints and I've done. Try to. There's so much there just so much information it's amazing and it's so overwhelming. It says I learned so much. So finished the blueprints of doing and starting with tick tock, but I just have this burning urge to get started, I don't know everything and for me not to have my messaging down pat, is really not good but I just I couldn't, I have to start TikTok, I could spend another month, two months figuring out my messaging figuring out my content plant you know all this, so I just decided last week though, I was I was starting by Saturday, I was going to have my first TikTok on Saturday, and even by Saturday I am still learning stuff. I still didn't have my message and guess I just started so I now I've done, I guess, TikTok through the day and, and they're just kind of getting comfortable with it right. I realize it's kind of good that I did this now because I understand it way better from having done it, than I did before, you know, before applying all this kind of theory to it right so, uh, so I'm going to keep doing that and develop my messaging and content plans I need to like just can't do it. Doing these off the cuff, like, it's kind of, they're not hard but it's overwhelming for me to keep doing them. Repeatedly I want to batch them and schedule them to hear what other people talk about. I don't know my messaging but I will know my messaging and it'll be very specific to the audience you've described. Now I've worked more on psychographic like really looking at that, it's not too hard because I'm really talking to myself, but a bit broader than me, not, not me.

Dave: So, Susan. it does and you gave a lot of, I think, really well articulated clarifying points for people working work, Working backwards here first and foremost is yeah guys start with talking to you. It's so beautiful in a very clear and simple way to put it, just start by talking to yourself. If you're in your 30s then, talk about your life, talk about what you're going through. If you're in your 40s Talk about that. If you're in your 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s Whatever. Talk about that. Talk about what it's like to live your life, and the problems and the challenges that you go through because here's the thing that I think in telling our story gets a little bit lost, is that we're not really trying to tell our story, we're actually trying to tell our customer story. And we do that through telling our story. So we want when they listen to what we say we want them to say, oh my story. And I, the first time that I really saw this was in recovery rooms, you know 12 step recovery rooms, a na programs like that and a speaker, it was a couple of different kinds of 12 step meetings sometimes it's open discussion where people just share. Hey, this is how my day is going and this is, you know, some of the challenges I've had and here's how overcoming them and thanks for letting me share it other times, it's a speaker meeting, which is kind of cool because that's really where I learned and have heard some of the best speakers in the world is right in those rooms, some of the best storytellers. And oftentimes, we wouldn't walk out of the room, or discuss the speaker after we were out in the smoke pit or whatever, you know, because everybody goes out and stuff. And, and one of the most common and you really knew that the speaker hit home if people were saying, I felt like he was telling my story. That's when you really knew that that person connected with the Speaker Now, not everybody said that right, not everybody said that they'd be a room of people, not, not 2000 People are gonna walk out of that room and say that, but there's going to be a certain percentage that are going to really identify with that person's journey and and their challenges. And so, with us when we're talking through our content through our edutainment. The goal is to have somebody say the person is really telling my story, not by talking, and this is a big distinction, not by waving a finger and talking at somebody, by telling somebody what to do. But by simply telling somebody your experience, and then, fighting it if they are going through the same challenge and they're looking for a solution. I invite you to just click the link below and take my free training, or get the free training, or get the free gift right that I have for you. I think it'll be really helpful and I'll see it in the next video. It's really a simple process. What's coming up for you right now, Susan as I'm walking through some of this stuff in my perspective?

Susan: Yeah, I mean I think it's really interesting because you, you have the ability to connect with a lot of people, and I don't know that your story is that similar to a ton of people I don't know, but the, but you connected with me and we don't, we don't have surface things in common right really. But I mean, are you really connected with me but I think what I've realized is not this and this, this is not the first time I realized that every bit, right, everybody, and I think everybody has had. Seriously, certainly by the time you get to 60 has had really bad problems in their life, and you don't know I used to think this when I was walking the dog in my neighborhood where I knew a lot of people, and, and I'd look at the fly but I look at these doors and I think if they look at that nice house, and there were so many but they've put there, have this problem they have this problem they've had this problem, and you realize that people have awful problems, and it's kind of, you know, it's a whole social media, you know I'm much worse now than it used to be. I'm on Facebook, whatever, anti social media, but we all present our best lives right, we're not basically talking about our problems. And people, everybody on there was having this beautiful vacation. Well, we used to have beautiful vacations in Paris or wherever, you know, they're there to save their marriage, or their, you know, are there because, because they've been so ill and now that you know, nobody's, most people are not talking about that so much so, get to know everybody's had a problem you've had a really significant challenge I've had really significant challenges and I think that's what revenue resonates with people so I think.

Dave: Well, if you ever. If you ever pay attention in. In, as I'm saying this, many of you maybe will pay attention to this more over the next week. If you are, if you do have scroliosis. I am recovering from scroliosis, sometimes I relapse, but in your scrolling through your Facebook or whatever. You see, you know, some guy taking a selfie in the living my best life, you know, like, five or six likes, and then you see somebody who's like, just lost my mom, or having a really tough day today, you know, just wish that, you know, We just wish I could get a break or something like that, right 100 comments, you know. Yeah, and here's why. Here's why, is because nobody likes to feel badly about themselves. Nobody likes to look at somebody else and think, wow, look at how much better that person doing than me. Nobody likes that. Nobody goes on social media, even though, you know, we pick and choose what were inspired by and mostly were inspired by people that we don't know, because we don't know their problems, right, but our friends and our family and this is basic human psychology. So because we're community and village oriented people we live in communities. We typically know the people in our communities and we know their problems, you know, marriage problems or that person's kids got behavior problems or that person's kid was held back in school or that person is divorced or whatever, right. So, when we see somebody within our community, who is, we, we will Oui, interpret, is equal to us, or even below us struggling in that moment, we tend to lean into that person with more compassion, and more connection, versus when we see a friend or a family member who's doing well, we tip weak, we will more likely scroll past that post and not engaged with it. And that's where this whole idea as an entrepreneur that some of the people who are least likely to be happy for you are going to be your friends and family, and the reason is is because we, we, everything that we we relate to ourselves, it's our self absorbed nature, as human beings, our number one goal is self preservation. Right. So when we see somebody that we perceive is doing better than us. Our first natural inclination is not to be happy for them. That's a learned skill. Right. It's a learned skill. For us, and that's something that we develop over time, as we realize, as we develop our abundant mindset, that's my, that's my experience anyways, it's not an opinion, that's just my experience, right. So, how does that relate to marketing. Well that relates to marketing because if you are only talking about your successes and how great your life is, and how you also can help somebody else change their life, right, and you even identify what they're struggling with. Right. But you don't you don't inject your own pains and struggles, so they can feel equal to you, so they can feel on the same page with you, so they can feel like you're not judging them or looking down on them. That's how I connect with me is because I reveal my own pains struggles vulnerabilities and that's really, if you want a great read and a great philosophy, look up, Rene Brown. She wrote a book called Daring Greatly and she talks about vulnerability and a lot of men in particular have a hard time grasping this concept, but what I just went through was sort of a miniature, you know, my version of a master's level kind of,

you know, dialogue, or monologue, on, on, you know, basic human psychology, and in how. Certainly if we were the way that we're talking about and in market the way that we're talking about we can connect with people at our age, but we can also connect with people who are lots of different ages, and that's likely how I connected with you and you connected with me. Anyways, what's coming up for you as I go through that?

Susan: Well, one is love Bernae Brown and I think, you know, when you're talking about being vulnerable Tip two, to our group. I think it would be great if everybody would pay a bit of attention to Bernae brown because it really opens your eyes to the value of not being vulnerable. And also, anyway, won't go beyond that but she's really something to give a little Bernae Brown lecture but not to. And for me, vulnerability is actually hard like me. I'm a pretty open person except I don't like to talk about my problems, I don't think anybody's interested in it. I don't know and I don't know that I mind people knowing it. I don't feel that that's a, it's a challenge for me when I wrote, I did the copywriters, part of it was the whole thing I guess quite early on and wrote my story, based on that story, but I did it based on that story I realized that I didn't know it's like my facts, but it's not from my heart, I think, yeah, yeah. So I think I need to go back and look at it and bring that vulnerability into it instead of itself just the litany of facts and its entry because I do, I do struggle with that and when you talk about it. It's so real. And, you know, it's so yeah, I mean you just feel this compassion for, for what it is for who you were and you're this admiration for who you become. And, yeah, I need to get more. You're right, I need to get more vulnerable.

Dave: This is another thing that I think is a useful way because again, it is all just putting on the marketing lenses right I mean this is all stuff that as I've taken off my consumer slash, the way that the world thinks and has taught me how to communicate and I put on my marketing glasses and my IQ my basic human psychology, whether it's, you know there's there's six major forms of psychology that's been taught from, you know, he all the way back from freight and some of those guys up into, you know, mass low and so forth and when we also take a look at some of that stuff and just kind of what makes people tick. We can understand that we, I think the biggest thing that I've learned is that it's a lot simpler. What more than what you know, I used to make it out to be. I used to think that persuasion and, you know, influence, and all the majority of people who are talking about teaching like those kinds of things. They are not very persuasive people, right, they like I know a guy who, one particular gentleman is coming to mind and he's a persuasion and a closure, speaking teacher, and I can tell that he's just not very in touch with his own feelings, and that makes it hard to connect with him. And, and so plug for therapy, you know, I also think that, you know, I also, I also think a lot of for me just my own recovery work from recovering from drug addiction and home homelessness and some low grade mental illness and so forth, right. I wouldn't consider myself clinically depressed but I've experienced depression. I wouldn't consider myself on the extreme scale of bipolar but I can get a little manic sometimes, you know, I wouldn't consider myself debilitated from anxiety but I got anxiety I mean my hands just wet all the time. I think it might be genetic. He's like five months old and stuff like you get, you know. So, my point here is that, that, you know, persuading people is a lot less about learning the trick in doing it perfectly, and more just about getting in touch with my own feelings, and as a man, we just don't feel our feelings I mean, if I was to ask a group, a roomful of men, what do you feel and right now, most wouldn't be able to identify, they'd be like, they'd say things like, I'm feeling okay and okay is not a feeling. Right, So, so sometimes it's just really about getting in touch with our feelings, and then just sharing them authentically. The other thing that I wanted to say was that, in terms of helping people. You know you said that at the beginning of the conversation I really enjoy the idea and the opportunity to help people and not just sell. And I have a belief that when I sell somebody something, I am helping them. Now that's a frame that I chose, I choose to put selling and trading because that's an empowering frame that allows me to, to have no, you know, a lot of conviction around selling in, get in and making it easy for people to give me money and check out and pay for things right versus selling to Aiki that's, you're not going to attract a lot of money in your life, if you think that. So I think that whenever I give somebody a chance to say yes to themselves, to say yes to a dream, to say yes to invest in themselves. I always know that investing in yourself is the best investment you can make. I believe I actually believe it's very difficult for somebody to have overwhelming help or transformation or change in their life without in our society the way money is such a dominant role. It's hard for people to actually change without spending money, whether that be for therapy or just this morning I texted my old trainer because I'm going back to the gym, it's like, I need accountability. So anyways, have you ever had any attachments or frames that you've framed selling in that has made it more difficult to be in sales and marketing and I'm just asking because I hear that a lot from people. And I just wonder if you have at all ever experienced that? 

Susan: Absolutely sales not marketing I mean I have a bit of a marketing background. But that's not the point getting to the close, that's not that. Yeah, the convincing or the persuasive right it's, it's not that part of it, it's less persuading but. But yeah I have very I have until. This is not the first time I've had a guest, it's funny I don't, I have trouble thinking of myself as an entrepreneur, but it's not my first entrepreneurial adventure. I tried to be a communications consultant for a while and I found it very difficult because you have to sell yourself that's what you're selling, really. 

Dave: Totally And you are the number one salesperson.

Susan: And then usually you have to take the payment exactly your

are everything in that in the stack, kind of, it's, it's a great way that this is not like. But I had a lot of trouble with that. And I got over it a bit, as I went through it I didn't really last too long, because of my life but I was starting to get over it a bit like just sort of a lot of a lot of times I have to tell myself to get over myself right like that's fine. I am definitely my when I talk about no is not an option, if suddenly because if you said no to me, then I would think, I think about I think well then maybe I would say, you know, but I say no to myself all the time and I said no I can't sell for a long time. No, I couldn't look at jobs that involve sales no I There's no way and I did that, really, pretty much. So now, and, but now it's I'm seeing it differently, what you just said was, was clarifying and also I'm thinking I'm feeling excited about when I get to the point, a TikTok where people are asking me questions and I can, I can talk with them, you know about their situation and share my situation and you know and get more into the connecting and explaining.

Susan: What if your assignment today was to go offer a coaching package for $10,000 and collect payment and enroll one client this month. Do you think that that would be. But what do you think that experience would be like for you?

Dave: Okay, so I think I might be able to do it. But do I think I could deliver it, right that's the, that's the question right to actually tell us all. Tell us the story that you're, I like this because it's literally you're telling us the story that's happening inside of your head right now

Susan:  I'm thinking, there's no problem for me, coming up with a message and risking whatever researching it. I know enough about this.  But that's actually delivering that kind of value. I don't even know how I could sit down and do it alive right now. TikTok live and answer that alone, you know, put myself out there as a consultant, you know, a $10,000 consultant, but

you know I could probably you know. Wait, you know, I might feel like it's an impulse, selling part is possible, it's the delivery part that I'm having trouble with.

Dave: Delivery we realize is, is a lot of is a lot of actually delivering on coaching is is really one of the easiest things once you get over yourself you can breathe their ego take a big deep breaths, oxygen is good. She's taken off her scarf. Is it hot in here? I don't know I'm not there. So it's a fun exercise to think about. I think that doing things that, that, that scare you, is important to do them often and early on. And, and, you know, the, you're always going to be your best salesperson as well. You know that's another thing to remember is you're always going to be your best salesperson. Nobody's going to be as interested in the delivery as you are, you know, nobody's going to be his, his, his interest. Laurie said I'd panic also Susan if he said that.  But, you know, nobody's going to be as interested you are always going to be your number one marketing agent, you're going to be your number one salesperson you're going to be your number one customer support person, and, and it's a, it's a mind, it's, it's, again, we're looking to attach empowering meanings. Okay, to events, that's one of the big mindset shifts, you know, the problem with mindset is there's a lot of people on Instagram for example and TikTok or whatever talking about mindset but what is mindset. Well, mindset for example, one example of, of transitioning, and in developing our money set if you will, is to attach empowering meanings to things, right. So, for example, there's the story of the, of the, the lady who was absolutely terrified to, you know, go on stage and speak in front of a group of people and when she got on stage, you know she would do what you just did she caught a hot flash would come over her body, you know the palms would light up and start dripping the hits would start, I mean it was like a shower a faucet come like I am all the time, right, that's why I wear black shirts so I might see what doesn't show on my body, but it's not because I'm maybe I am nervous I don't know I just pushed through it I probably am I probably have anxiety and I just push through it anyways. But, and she said this is how I know that I've heard stomach return like she had to take, go to the bathroom, and she goes, she said this is how she was describing this this is how I have a breakdown. This is how I know I'm about to screw this up, and then they did an interview. Somebody did an interview. This was a segment with some interviewer, don't remember the interviewer just the story, and they interviewed bado, the lead singer of YouTube. And he said, Man, when I get up, when I'm getting ready to go onstage my palms start dripping my armpits, my stomach starts turning, and that's how I know I'm about to go out of time, I'm really ready I'm really alive. I'm really ready to go out there and crush it.

Yeah, this fascinating, isn't it.

So it's like, it's like, what meaning do we want to attach to a event tend, you know, for me, I've done. I've done things, and that's why this conclusion that I came to I studied all, and I'm about to release a training on this. It's going to be an updated version of the current training that we offer, but it's, it's, so I went through and I, I've studied all six perspectives of psychology. Okay, biological psychodynamic humanistic cognitive evolutionary behaviors. I mean there's just so much information on all of that, can you know the big conclusion that I came to was this. You can't think yourself into a new way of acting, you have to act actualize means make reality of act yourself into a new way of thinking, which means that you can't, you can't sit there and go, there's no weeds in my lawn, there's no weeds in my lawn there's no weeds in my lawn. You know you can't sit there and go, I got big muscles I got big muscles I got big muscles I mean, you could say that walk around like you got big muscles but it's not going to be the reality and that that may be the mindset that you have. And that's cool, that's maybe you've achieved the goal by doing that, but the same way I can't sit around and go, good at sales or I can take $10,000 payments I can take $10,000 payments I can take 10 That that there's no, that there's no external reinforcement that anchors. And in order to make something, become part of our DNA, and then to actually land in our neural pathways of our brain, which are the little things in our brain that, you know, when I, when, when I'm getting ready to say, okay, the price is $10,000 You know, my brain is either going to say, you know, right before I say that, get the hell out of here. You're not worth that no oh my god, I gotta go to the bathroom. Can I call you back. Or, you know, it's gonna say, hey, it's I'm gonna say anything, it's just gonna spit it out and just go, you're not even gonna be in you're the only way to get over that and to rewire your brain if you have a different reaction to that sort of a situation, it's just to do it is to act yourself into a new way of thinking, and I learned that when I was getting clean from drugs, because I was trying to think myself into and I was like, I can outsmart this thing look I'll only use on the weekends, you know I'll downgrade from heroin to marijuana. You know what I mean. I'll have one, I'll have one shot with dinner. I'll just, I'll just shoot up for dinner, kind of like people have a glass of wine. Right, I'll just use heroin socially. You know all of these ridiculous things were things that I was like, I can think my way out of this hole that I'm in, and I had to act my way into a new way of thinking, meaning that I had to get abstinent. And then, over time, if I did that for enough days there was no way around that there was not a secret, it was just I had to get abstinent. And then once I got apps. Over time, I believed that I could stay sober. It's just the same thing applies with the every single person who asked for a $10,000 payment the first time they do it and somebody actually pays, they go I cannot fucking believe that person just gave me $10,000. You know what I mean, like, every single time. And there's also. Why do we always it's always this in you're in this phase right now, this is why I'm so interested why I love doing these shows, because you're in this spot right now that you see this big, you see all these different things in your way, you got to learn the enough, You got to be ready to do the delivery you've got it right, there's all these things that you think you need to do. And part of the dirty little secret about entrepreneurship is you just figure it out as you go. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right. I hadn't thought of that. You know what I mean. And sure, certainly having some training where you understand some of the fundamentals and it helps you to know where to go, you know, it's sort of like bringing a horse to water, what event but the horse has to just stick in the first time the horse strength, he's going to stick his whole head down to the lightning it's gonna be, you know he's gonna be like, ah, you know like what was that, you know, we, in a sense, at legendary we bring horses to water. And then they just got to dump their heads down and, you know, and then kind of figure it out as we go because different situations are going to come up for different people but how hot is that sort of uncertainty really uncomfortable for you. Would you say that personally?.

Susan: Yes, uncertainty is very comfortable. I don't, I certainly don't think that's unique, but yeah.

Dave: Yeah right, no it's not.

Susan: But, yes, and I was just thinking when you're talking about, you know your idea of acting, I took I think I told you this. I did a kind of therapy called ACT therapy which stands for but actualization is the first. And it's really, even the therapist called it, you know, getting up off your rear end and doing something. You can only talk about your problems for so long, and where they came from and. But something that she talked about the therapist talked about was the thoughts in your head right because the thoughts in my head are saying you can't. Are you crazy, you're 60 years old, what do you do, you know, it's like you're fine. You're great, but anyway, and she just said, your brain is a thought maker, it just makes thoughts. True, it's it’s job, it just makes what doesn't mean they're true. You don't have to listen to it, and the whole thing with a lot of it is The senses like to pay attention to what your senses tell you more than, which has helped me a lot. It's a lot of anxiety, but it's an input act. I completely agree, you gotta do it for him, find out my therapies and you just have to do it.

Dave: Well, there was a study that I read that said a human has 6,200 thoughts a day 6,200 thoughts a day. Right. 

Susan: And most of them aren't that supportive.

Dave: No, I mean, and I, and I was, I was working on this, this, this new training that I'm gonna release here soon. It's just gonna replace the attraction code and it's something that we're going to put in our front end funnel and we'll, we'll probably charge, 50 to 100 bucks for it but it'll probably be worth, you know, it'll probably be the most valuable thing people go through because of the you know the importance of developing a, you know, developing your mindset, and, and again I hate using that word because it's so overused, that we, we undervalue it, but. But yeah I mean 6200 Dots a day and the majority of them are completely useless, if not all of them. You know, if not all of them at a certain point I can remember what I was getting cleaned from, from, from my, my addiction, and every single thought was completely useless. You know, until it wasn't, you know, until it wasn't. And that became and then even today. Now, I have a lot of useless thoughts, my wife will say something to me and I'll have four or five, maybe a dozen useless thoughts that goes through my head when she may be asked me to do something, right, that I thankfully now have learned to not vocalize, those thoughts, there's a comedian named Mark one hole, who's a recovery. And he thought he goes and does comedy shows for recovery conventions and stuff and he has this, this kind of joke sequence called first thought wrong. Right. You know, it's kind of that philosophy of like first row, you know like second thought and that he kind of goes third thought fourth or fifth or sixth thought wrong. You know, it's it's kind of it's really true, it's like, it's like, I think part of approaching this business is, is, you know, can I really trust my thinking, I can trust my instincts, you know, because my instincts, I really do have good survival instincts you do too. We all do. Those are millions of years old, and they've developed in us. We have parts in our brain, the amygdala, all that it's like fight or flight, you know, It will get you out of a burning building if there is a way to get out. But, but, you know, our brains over the two decades that the computer has been around one year, two years that tick tock has been around has not developed the function to say that record that video posted, you're not gonna get eaten by a saber, saber toothed Tiger. You know what I mean. So we, it's a new it's kind of a new thing for human beings to be dealing with this whole social media and in the fear of rejection and what are other people going to think and the truth is is that nobody's really going to see your shit in the beginning anyway so it doesn't matter. You know what I mean I mean nobody even know and then and then, you know the truth of the matter is is that and this is why direct response marketing is such a timeless marketing strategy, which is the idea that we're marketing directly to a target a specific person species, a specific person with a specific offer, and we're asking them for a specific direct response. The reason why that marketing technique or philosophy is so important, and timeless but even more important now today than it ever has been before, is because attention spans are so short. So, the majority of what you're going to get nowadays, in terms of response is going to happen from the first time they see the content, you know, like, it's not like, oh, there's, there's a couple of dozen tick tock videos out there and they see that same one cup No, it's like, you know. So usually if you put out something that it doesn't really hit, nobody's going to remember it, in point seven five seconds, because they literally moved on to the next thing we put this sort of what I do, as if we're like, you know, as if we're making a presidential address that, you know, that's going to be down in the historical archives, you know what I mean like somebody is going to be recording this in the eyes of the world or on us, we gotta make the TikTok video, and I mean I'm not trying to say that what you do doesn't matter what I do doesn't matter but it's just not that big of a deal nowadays.

It's really something important to think of. It's just your word, not a word not. It's not a sign of anything except just, you know, it's just not that we don't have to take ourselves that seriously, there's a world, I'd say there's room to learn as you go in this business, and I think that's really important for you to hear but also for others to hear because we get into lifetime. And we think we have to really be perfect before we start, and we don't. So any final thoughts from you that you think would be important. I'd like, I mean, one question that I have is if somebody was sitting on a checkout page, making a decision to get involved with Legendary, what would you tell them based on your experience here?

Susan: Oh well I have been telling people, and because I keep telling people about this in my life, and because what happened to me was, you know I did sign up the $7 challenge, and fence about 200 and everything, every single thing I paid for it, the value is unbelievable every, everything I experienced through legendary has such huge value I can't believe I really can't believe it. You know, I heard you on a $1 Tick Tock training or something. You know the value is so huge as something like our copywriters, it's dollar is $1. You know, that's 1000 to 10,000 whatever the value with Legendary is kind of unimaginable to me, and, yeah, I didn't really do much research, I just decided my daughter sent me. Kelly Olson on tick tock. She said maybe you'd be interested in this mom and I. I looked at it, thought about it for weeks and got up for the office so when I said, I am doing that and I'm really doing it. I signed up because I paid for everything I signed up for. And, you know, and here I am today doing things like every three months. I was looking for a job, work from home, like, and I almost took a job doing customer service for minimum wage. And now I'm doing this so, because of legendary, and I guess there are, because you say that I've heard you say there are other companies that do this I don't know who they are, and I don't want anybody go to them because the value you get from legendary is just phenomenal and I just wanted really to say I'm grateful to you and Mads and Drew, everybody Roxy have countered now and then also the people in this community because it really is a community and I'm like, that I'm getting that more and more with Kelly and Laurie and Mark and other people who who are be supportive and help I can be supportive to them you know so it's really community and it's like you've built a beautiful thing and so I want to thank you.

Dave: Well, thank you for saying such kind words. That's true. You have already given them value, and you're doing so at this moment, and that's one of the things that is also really important for us. I like to point things out. I know sometimes I point the obvious out but sometimes things aren't real until we say that, you know, and I think a lot of us, When we speak for myself, I used to go through life and just kind of just just experience things and even appreciate things and even appreciate people, but I didn't say that. And I also, and I also didn't, I didn't. Yeah, I just didn't, I didn't say things like that. So they, they just, they were almost like this unspoken thing and then what I see happen in life is that somebody dies and we tell them all the things that maybe we should have told them when they were alive, and I'm not trying to get so sentimental and morbid, but the reason why I'm saying that is just because, you know, it's, it's important to, I think, in this journey in, in any journey to have supportive people around us that will validate what we're doing with words. And even if they want to take it to the next level, figure out how we feel love and do that right I'm an affirmation person so you can show me love, by, by verbalizing that love my wife is a service oriented person so I can take out the trash, and even though I, you know sometimes have lots of first thought wrong is when she asked me to take out the trash or reminds me when I've literally got it in my calendar on my phone to do it, but I take it out, she feels loved, right. So, I say that you're giving value, you're doing it right, today you're already, you've been doing it now so when you came on this show, you can talk about the things that you've talked about you've taken the actions you've invested you've taken, went through training you've taken action I mean you literally you're literally a wonderful inspiration example of how to get a good start, right, to not just, you know, not just hang out in the training for a couple of decades, or, you know, get ready to get ready or or totally skipped any training and go right out there and then come back and say that this ain't working or whatever right and it's like, it's, it's, you're, you're, you're really, you're really offering a lot of value that we can that we're showcasing today but also we'll showcase in a follow up email next weekend and, and then it will be on the podcast and who knows maybe in the in the new challenge update in, say, because it's been a really powerful mindset thing but thank you for the value that you are providing because of the action that you've taken. It's really important to spotlight that it's not just, you know, it's not just happened happening by osmosis, you know it you know you didn't just land in the chair and on the live and now all of a sudden you're imparting all this value but it's, it's, I hope that you can take from this show some confidence now to go out and clarify your message, and then, and then turn up the volume.

Susan: I will. Thank you so much for this.

Dave: Alright, well thank you, Susan. And I'm going to let you off without any, any, you know, heart attack, assignments or any help save those for later. Okay. All right, thank you, and we'll talk to you later. Okay, thanks. Well, that'll be fun to have her back on, in a couple of months. If she's willing and continues to get an update about her journey, which I think she's still listening to, I wanted to make sure she heard that as well. Because, you know, there's, there's, there's a lot of things that are happening in this company and community right now. And part of that is just pieces of accountability spread out over time, you know, There's a saying that says, Rome wasn't built in a day and neither was your company, neither is my company's anybody's companies were not built in a day. And over time, with the right accountability community support. Basically the right information from the right people in the right environment. You can go as high as you want to go, and I say that because now, certainly there's a lot of people who say, Oh, I'm a self made millionaire. The truth is, we all have an incredible amount of help and support as we go. Okay. And, and I just want to thank every one of you guys who are willing to come on the show and share your wisdom and your value and I, I really invite all of you guys who are listening to think about the value that you're going to give back. When you come on the show in the future as well. And I hope to be able to have all of you guys to give you that platform to showcase your action, and the results that you have earned, even if they're not significant in your eyes. The truth is they are significant, they're much more significantly probably what you're giving yourself credit for. This is a journey. It's not about a destination, there's simply milestones along the way and sometimes taking a moment. We do it every morning at 10am Eastern time to celebrate those wins. The new member of our community here is what this is all about. All right, so you guys have a fantastic Monday. Let's have a kick ass week and we'll see you guys back here tomorrow for another episode. Get the hell out of here, be great, be Legendary. We'll talk to you soon.

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Dave: All right, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe hey I got my guest right here what's going on, brother.

Kyle: Hey Sir Hello good morning.

Dave: You are in Arizona is that right?

Kyle: I am not my phone number from Arizona. I grew up in Arizona, I moved out to California 23 Okay.

Dave: Awesome, man. Well, thank you for sharing with us the autism element of your, of your life. It's really, it's really amazing to have such vulnerability as you know I've shared the addiction side of my life in the even even yesterday I think I went into a bit of the mild mental illness with some kind of low grade depression and a bit of, you know, mania, you know, that might pop there might not pop up on the full blown scale of bipolar but I can get a little manic sometimes just ask my wife, you know what I mean. So, so tell us a little bit about yourself in sort of what led you online man and how you're kind of, you know, utilizing your creativity and in your, in your, in your skills in, even your weirdness just just like I utilize my weirdness to have some fun and build a business here. Sure, yeah,

Kyle: I mean, if you can see it too well but I'm in my bathroom. By the way,

Dave: I noticed the shower back there but I just, who knows, it could have been a zoom screen, you never know now. So,

Kyle: No and I think, I think one of the things that I did this year and I've learned is, is lean into stuff. You talk a lot about the audience, and everybody's got an audience, and I think that's a huge realization is, you know, I'm a little kooky, have fun, and I do things in a different way, and lean into it. Stop. Stop trying to be what everyone else is. You know, I think you guys talk a lot about not comparing yourself to the top right, not not seeing that that great person out there and, you know, saying, cuz I'm not that I'm not that talkative or I'm not that attractive or you know, all these things. I, you know, filming from my bathroom. I don't care, start looking at the bottom people, to be honest that I mean I, I don't want to insult anybody but there's a lot of people out there that aren't that great. And they're, they've got, you know 20,000 followers and if you look at that. It's easier to put yourself out there and just be like, That guy, I could, I could do that. And so that's a lot of it is just as leaning in and saying, This is what I am. And there are people out there that'll buy into it and they'll listen to me and things like that and just realize that, you know, if they're not necessarily around you, right now they are out there and I don't know. Hopefully that makes sense. 

Dave: But, yeah, yeah I did, and I also want to say that one thing that I talked about, was on a coaching call yesterday. I talked about how people, if you try to hide all of your imperfections in the present as this perfect person. People naturally don't celebrate or feel connected to you, they don't celebrate for you, or feel connected to you. As a matter of fact, that's why it's so common in online business and entrepreneurship that a lot of people say, Yeah, my friends and family didn't support me. Well, it's because you know naturally humans when somebody else is doing something, pursuing goals whatever it makes them think about their own life and if they're pursuing their goals and if they're not maybe they might be a little bit jealous or not feel as connected whereas if you reveal your imperfections which we all have, whether it be your, your past or some of your some of your current struggles or whether it be mental illness, one of the most, one of the biggest topics that I think has brought people together, especially throughout the last couple of years is talking more about mental illness, it's talking more about the things that have always kind of we've we've hit in the closets and we've swept under the rug, you know, because for whatever reason, society has told us that those things are things we should be ashamed of right like we're the only ones that have them, right. And as people have talked more about those things, it's, it's brought people, it's brought them together and it's actually, I've seen marketers who have become more vulnerable and shared who they are. And both their strengths but also their imperfections, and it has massively grown their, their, their connection with their audience and made more people follow them and want to support them because they're relatable. So I think you just have make sense what's coming up for you as

Kyle: I found this really odd thing that I really come into and I'm sure, I think you're touching on it quite a bit is, you know, you go out, you put yourself out there right and so much of this isn't, you know, the dynamics and mechanics. So much of this is just getting to that level where you're comfortable to put yourself out there, right? Like, I'm talking on a live show right. A bunch of people, and I didn't have the confidence to do that a year ago, right. To make my first video took a lot, but I guess what you're saying there's, it's so weird because the support isn't in the small circle that is around you right now your, your, your close friends and your close family. The support is not there. They see you in a different light. They, you know, they see the person that was always there, and they're gonna assume that you're, you're not going to be able to accomplish, extra stuff, I don't know, I really don't get it. But the second that you leave that circle, and you put yourself out there to strangers right to TikTok and YouTube and this right here. Those people that don't know you, that didn't know you originally that see you in this new light. They're just so much more apt to support you.

Dave: Do business with you and give you money and buy your recommendations I mean, it's it's kind of like the the old story that I think is so funny and true is that like somebody close to your maybe a child or a spouse, you know, you could say something share a little nugget of wisdom with them for years, and it's like they never hear it and then the same, the same nug wisdom is shared by some homeless person one day they come home, they're like, You're not gonna believe what I learned today and it's kind of like, wow. For years, but it is coming, I think that the, I think you make a wonderful, really powerful point that everybody can hear this. I just want to say it in a different way, it's scary to put yourself out there, it's scary to begin to build your personal brand, But your most supportive people, your new best friends. Your biggest cheerleaders and those who are actually going to contribute to your bank account, you know, it's the kind of like you can't borrow $100 from your brother, but strangers will buy from you and help you to build your, your personal financial freedom, and it's, it's, you know, man, you make a phenomenal point with that man.

Kyle: It's so odd just finding out those things and it's been a crazy journey. And I think, again, dynamics mechanics. It really is just getting your mind straight because there are a bunch of ways to make money online. And once you, once you set your mind, they're there they all open up, it's not like the one, the one that you're looking for, you know it's not, it's not that one rich quick scheme and that's the golden ticket and all the other ones are garbage and you know whatever. It really is just like opening your brain to get into this mentality of like you know, have money to make money, or, you know, use money to make money for yourself and be able to put yourself out there. And once you, once you're there, you're, it's, I don't know it's just it's just so many things like, I think, just to kind of go back and take a step back and kind of talk about my last year. I didn't, I got fired twice a year. And, you know the first time I got fired. I went, so I got fired for my career job. In May because of COVID. And the first thing I did was look for another job. Right, stocking shelves, You know bartending, whatever, that was my go to that was, like, panic in my head, what do I need to do to get a frickin job, anything, you know, whatever. So I started calling around a friend who knew the general manager at Costco. And, you know, as you recall, probably as shit was hitting all the businesses were declining but Costco and grocery stores were going up so they needed it. Right, so it was like okay cool pop in there, I, my friend knew the general manager. So I made a couple calls, got in there for stock shelves for 15 bucks an hour stocking shelves but that was, you know, that was, that was where life led me you know that's a gift, freakin job, puts them on the table, do something. So that happened, got the job there, you know, as a favor you know they call in as a favor for me. I would, you know, I'm 43 years old with gray hair. I was the only one over 30 That got hired. So it really was, you know, I got called it was a favor, you know, they were most like 22 and 23.

Dave: But, like growing up here you are like grandpa around all these teenagers right

Kyle: For sure, like pushing the carts out in the parking lot, people are like, you're….

just stay six feet away. So I was like, you know, that's, that's what I that's where my brain went right and that's where everybody's brain goes is when you get fired. You'll find another job. And one of the weird things that, that I noticed, you know, recently is when I was looking for a job, you know, you pop on the, you know the job websites or whatever, and you scroll through. And there's a certain number of them that you automatically pass right it's the, the sales, or the you know the cold calling ones or the, you know, blah blah blah, and you just, you pass those new ones that are for you, costume and blah blah blah. And it's odd. I'd finally realized recently it's like, No, those are jobs, you know, the ones that they're, you know they're sales and you have to put yourself out there and you know there's probably some crappy ones but those those things that I've always scrolled past my entire life and looking for jobs, those are jobs. I've always dismissed them, but I'm not saying to you but it's weird to just open your mind and be like, those are actual things. Yeah, and I, it took. And I'm kind of skipping around my story but my Costco tenure ended June so it was a three month contract or whatever. And at that point I got like a constant. And it was, it was nothing. You know that was, you know, if you can't keep a job, stocking shelves. Frick bro like there ain't much left. So it took that mentality of, there's nothing, there's nothing here, what's here to do? Garbage right. 

Dave: Your internet's just going a little wonky right now. I don't know if that's, I don't know if that's just me but your internet just went like, it was wonderful. Now all of a sudden just going all over the place.

Kyle: I saw a couple but I was back now.

Dave: Looks like you're not coming back. You're coming back into focus right now. Okay, now, now your yes your, I can care. Yeah. I'm actually back you know. Yes, you went very wonky there for a second here like the internet like kind of had you frozen it was weird like face, you know. Anyway, so we kind of lost you where it was like, basically, I kind of like if there was nothing, that's kind of basically where I lost you.

Kyle: Yeah, sure. I lost my train of thought. Anyway, but no,

Dave: I would assume, like going towards the fact of how the hell you came online, right i mean like yeah, it literally was just,

there's nothing like so after you know, I went to Costco and my, My, my three months ended at Costco. That was it, you know, if you can't, if you can't have a job stocking shelves at Costco if you can't keep that you're done, you know there's nothing. So, so you have to It's like going back through all that stuff that you've always turned down, and you've always just automatically scrolled past, and honestly really turned down like it wasn't conscious decisions to be like, Okay, I'm not gonna do that, I'm not gonna cold call people I'm not gonna go door to door. It was just an automatic. These are the ads kind of mentality, right, you just boom boom boom mentality but it took a situation of There's nothing. There's nothing here, there's an economy shot. I have to look for something so I started digging through those and I started just digging online of, you know like, I don't need to make $1,000 a day can make 50 bucks a day 20 bucks a day like, where's where those videos, you know, I don't need those Lamborghinis and stuff like that.

Dave: Right and I think I think a lot of us, I think a lot of us, and that's the whole thing I think that's really a key thing is that, you know, everybody's like well how can I talk about such and such. If I don't have any results it's like well, just make a $5 video , because most people don't believe your $1,000 a day anyway.

Kyle: That was the cook for me honestly, that was the one I think was Thomas Yeah Thomas Stewart's, and his video said, 50 to 80 bucks a day, and I was like, that's believable, okay. I get that, not $1,000 a day for me but anyway. It's just, it's, it's leading into all these things that, that you just, you've never, you never really thought of before you never really put yourself out there before you never really tried before and I'm lucky because I got forced into it, you know, I wouldn't have had 2020 not happened, I wouldn't be here, you know, just be my old job, chillin. So it's good, it's happened it's good that I'm, I'm an. I'm a new person and that just scrolling down a little bit but

Dave: I wanted to jump in and just say that like for me too. I, you know, I, it was, it was a good thing that my dad and I, when I was working construction back in 2008 Nine, that my dad and I were basically so sick of looking at each other, you know what I mean. And I just, I am the worst manual labor worker in the world, you know, my dad's like this world class craftsman, like seriously like he's really good. And he's, he can work on anything he can work on houses, cars, and I'm not just talking about break stuff I'm talking about build stuff, and break it down, build it back up the whole line. And he works his ass off and he's got like alligator skin and I mean it's just me I get a little bit of sun I get skin cancer. It's just we're different, like that, you know, he's just been doing it all his life, and there's, and I guess he never had another option or whatever but I kind of got it. You know I got a taste of this kind of like entrepreneur thing from my first experience in network marketing right and I started like listening to, like, all these like, you know people who are like, you know, fire your boss and you know you're trading time for money, I started listening to that stuff back like when I was in drug treatment in 2005 You know what I mean. And like right when I got out of that, I got into this company called Market America and like you get into some of these big network marketing mlm and like there's some really prolific speakers, and in just people who will introduce you to ways of thinking that like are just totally different kind of like we do, those guys are next level, you know, and in 2008 and nine like when I got started here online, I mean the only reason I came online, was because first and foremost, like I got prospected into a network marketing company, and I was so broke and tired of working construction with my dad that I literally took every dime I had and joined the company, the company literally shut down in three months, like it wasn't the business but I was like, that pushed me online because I was like, what next, what now what are we going to do now to get rich because that just shut down, you know, so I literally went and I'd be sitting on my dad's computer that was like one of those big boxes, you know, like kind of like, you know, it was like, like 100 pounds you'd walk around with it, kind of move it around, you'd have to hug it like a bear. You know the thing was so slow like it had like 1,000 viruses don't ask me why, you know, who knows what was being done on that computer, but uh, but, you know, man, it was like I would sit there and just wait for pages to load for like minutes, you know minutes. In like videos, you know, I'd come to somebody's landing page you know because I was often into 1000 different lists, you know what I mean, you know, getting on people's eat you know I went from like having no email account ever to having to be unsubscribed like 1,000 lists within a week and I'm getting all these emails and I'm trying to watch videos and they're not loading and I'm just sitting there waiting. You know, it was just, it was kind of like that same thing of just being forced into it and I almost feel like, you know that that's a gift, in a sense, it was a gift for me to not have a real cush job that I that I really, you know, could have, could have stayed out or whatever because who knows, I might have stayed at that too, like if it was just a chill job that I just kind of enjoyed or or I didn't predict or I didn't particularly hate or was paying the bills or whatever like I don't know, like that's why I don't like get too preachy about like to be entrepreneurial, hustle, you got to work 18 hours a day like I think Gary Vee and all his hustle porn is cool and all these work, you know, I'm gonna, you know, sacrifice in your 20’s and, like I think that's all cool that, like, whatever. But the truth of the matter is is that there's a lot of happenstance and luck for me too and I think if anybody, if any of you guys listening end up being successful. It's just like, you know, it's, it's just a gift in, in, and you gotta you gotta keep working to keep it. And, you know, nothing is handed to you, and sometimes if you have that cush job or you have something that's keeping you comfortable. You know maybe you might need to go the extra mile to make yourself uncomfortable, you know you maybe you need. I don't know, like there's different ways that we can hold ourselves accountable like I don't have the answers to everything, it's just kind of like, it's just kind of like, I guess, you know, luck, luck is at least this is what I heard my uncle say the other day, is when opportunity and preparation meets you know each other. And, and, and, you know, I wasn't, I wasn't prepared really like I didn't have any skills or anything, but I think I just had like the hunger, you know, back in 2009 When I started, similar to what you had, you know you had the hunger to basically just put food on the table, and that kind of preparation met that opportunity you came online, you saw Thomas Garrett's video how to make $5 a day whatever, and it was like, okay, you know, let's give it a shot. Like, I'm willing to basically try anything because I, because I'm uncomfortable with, and you run with it right and now you're making videos in your bathroom.  And I want to make sure that we talk about that because, like, like, obviously you've gotten started marketing I put your TikTok channel up there, You, you had to do have 20,000 followers on your ticket and all these while all these guys, these bro marketers are out here, being being being badass mega douchebags. You know in front of their Lambos and rented mansions and stuff, you know, which really is a turnoff to most people, by the way, you know a lot of you guys. Yeah, a lot of you guys think that you need that kind of stuff. I mean, I got some, some cool cars or whatever but honestly nobody even gives a shit about it. You know what I mean like I don't talk, I don't pose in front of them and try to be cool because honestly, I'm more, I'm so much of a dad now I probably could all my mostly all of my cool factor is gone. Anyways, I mean the grace here for me. I am just, I'm away, there's no coming back, you know, I'm, I'm Dad Bod, dad jokes. Dad flex. Dad life, I'm the guy now who goes out. Like the other day I peeked out the window and saw my neighbor checking his sprinkler system. So I was like, so I went out into the, I went out into the garage and I took her for a test run spend two minutes on each his own, you know what I mean just to make sure everything was working properly, just to Dad flex, you know, and the good, you know, just take her for a spin. Let them know hey I'm on top of my game over here too, you know, don't worry, we're good, you know, we're in the game. But, but, and also I'm the funniest guy that I know, you know, that's the other thing you have to be able to laugh at your dad jokes but you have taken this sort of kind of weird, like it's almost a steak break right by doing stuff in your bathroom, I think it's the coolest thing because it sends a message that I'm different, and you can do this from your bathroom, tell us how the how you came up with that.

Kyle: Again, out of necessity, but it's, it's a new pad to write there was like, you haven't the only quiet room in the house, but the only quiet, because we have COVID Obviously, Windows so you know, the kids are in the house students in school. So, there's not a lot of space, and I did a few videos, you know, kind of in the corner with the computer propped up on a table, you know, so I just like to get, you know, a back wall that was clear, you know, so I'm in the middle of like, I think I did one for my daughter's room to get like a clear wall and there's just not a lot of clear walls and I'm like, and I'm not gonna set the frickin computer up every time you know some like screw it. So, there's just a nice little spot in the middle, bathroom. It's quiet here and so much of this journey is lean in. Right. I think that's, that's been one of my bigger mottos is just, you are you, you have an audience. This is real and you know don't fake anything and show, you know, don't show the Lambo show the bathroom, and just show like, hey, I can do. One of the things I say is you know you can do this from anywhere. So, it's just having that mentality of, I don't care. I'm going to do this, I'm going to do what it takes, if I'm stuck in my bathroom I don't like it's, it's you know I've got a lot down here, it's fine. I'm good, let's, let's go. So I think that's just the mentality of it and I have fun with it. I did a shower for a whiteboard at one point in a video didn't look too good so I only didn't want but that's what it is, I just, just lean into what you are guys like, don't, don't do the Lambo Don't, don't try to say things that you don't know, teach what you know, don't teach what you don't know. Don't. Don't say things that are true, don't you. Do you reckon you'll have an audience, you really don't be like I'm going to film TikTok videos for my bathroom and follow me. Right, okay, right, like, but it happens, you know, is a thing. Hey, James little says I remember the shower whiteboard lol.

Dave: Wait, wait, wait, woo says what is he sitting on, don't worry about what he said at least in one word. Don't worry about what he said.

Kyle: The joy of TikTok. Yeah, and that's another thing is, I bet you know I've got new friends James is one of them and I've had three or four other folks on Tik Tok and, you know these people that are just doing the same thing that I'm doing, and in the same way and, you know, putting ourselves out there, you know, some older, older 4050 year old folks just, you know, on TikTok having, having a blast and the best thoughts are in the shower.

Dave: There you go, there you go, have a shower. I think a lot of, I think a lot of people do have, like, good for me, honestly, man, like the shower because I have two kids, for my wife and I, the bathroom is actually like a, it's actually like a bit of a, like a vacation, you know what I mean. Like, like, like with two kids at home, like sometimes you just, you're like, I gotta, I gotta go poop, right, and then you go in there and you just hide for 20 minutes, you know what I mean?

Kyle: I wish but they would interrupt us, but I'm glad your kids are respectful.

Dave: Well you gotta have locks on the doors or dead bolts, I mean, you know it's time to go back. Right, exactly, it's time to go back to Costco or Home Depot and as your kids get older, you get to the bridge. Would you put the two by four off the things that they just can't break the door down, you know, And you just hide in there, you know.

Kyle: It's been, it's been fun, they, they, the little one actually hops on the freakin lives with me. So, yeah, lock that door. That's a bit ridiculous they're into it, they're liking the click talks quite a bit.

Dave: Yeah, my daughter really likes when she sees me recording videos, like she, she likes to just run up and get in the video, and, and the old me would have stopped stopped in bed like, oh, you know, like, you know, leave daddy alone or right like I'm talking about like years ago like we're starting, you know like when I was a lot younger I would have thought, oh, that's embarrassing himself in a row, you know, I gotta, I gotta do that over whatever. And now, like she runs up in it, like, first of all, I'm too tired to record it again. Like I'm just like, it doesn't matter if I'm recording a video or something and I, you know, I Hawk a loogie up or I, I gag on a hairball or I trip up on my words I just, I have a I'm just too tired to record it again so I just keep going, you know I lean into that. And then, in the same way if my daughter runs up if I'm at home recording videos and she runs up and she's like, I'm just like, you know, I just kind of like try to like walk away, kind of like Homer Simpson that mean he backs into the bushes, I just kind of, you know, try to keep walking away like hey hi honey and just keep recording the video, and you know what it does, it kind of lets people know, I think it's like living a real life you know what I mean like this is just real stuff and they can relate to that.

Kyle: I think that's a huge point, the whole thing again the lean in, right, like you said. But, yeah, and just, again, lean in audience have those have those moments like again like I don't care, I'll, I'll still add words. And I'll just kind of laugh and then repeat the word and, you know, it is what it is and I leave those in it, really. Number one, it's you don't want to spend frickin all day editing your videos but number two, like that's that's it That's you, right don't. It's, the more authentic, you can be. The more audience, the more people you're going to attract and so it's just friggin, like I said earlier, stop trying to be the guy at the top, stop, Stop looking at people and saying, well, that guy has a guy's more attractive than that guy's more outgoing than me I can't do that. One of the huge things I realized at my old job, I was a purchasing manager. So sales reps would actually come in and talk to me all the time, like from all these different companies trying to sell me stuff to for me to buy from the warehouse, right, and they're not all, you know, flashy suits, talking, having things to say constantly. There were a handful of them that came in, walked up to me and kind of stood there. Do you want to buy this? Okay. Okay, bye. Right, and like I can do that. I'm better than that. And he has a job and he's making money, and he's been coming back in here once a month for like a year so he's keeping his job. Right so, you know, don't look at the people at top to bottom. I don't know, that's, that's kind of, I've been just flipping my just trying to flip my perspective, yeah and find those ways to tell yourself. You can do it instead of you can't do it, these people that aren't that great can do it. You can do it. Some of them you don't have to. You don't have to have a million followers. Right. You don't have to be that, that guy you. I mean, the weatherman in Delaware right on the local news. He, you know, probably a million or two people watch him every day and he's got a bunch of money and he's a celebrity in that little town, but you've never heard of him. And it doesn't, you know, there's, there's so many stories like that, that's which, you know, and I'm not saying don't aim for the stars, but you can aim for something a lot lower and make a lot more money and be cool and you don't have to be so flashy, you don't, you don't have to think that that's where you need to be you can be so many other places and be successful with your, a little phrase of lean in, which is a phrase that a therapist that I work with uses, and he uses this quite a bit about leaning into uncomfortable feelings and leaning into uncomfortable conversations and leaning into what you like you say, just your, your authentic self all your flaws and stuff. And I like how I can tell that you've kind of taken that term, and made it sort of like a life mantra, or, or, or kind of mission statement for your life in your business right now through this chapter of your life. Lean in, lean in, lean into the uncomfortability lean into who I am.

 Dave: I just wanted to tell you that I love that. I love it because I can tell that it's really helpful. I just wanted to validate you for coming up with something so empowering that works for you. I can remember that when I was going through a tough time in my marriage. A long time ago, my wife and I separated, and I was living on my own, and I didn't know how to take care of myself, and I had this mantra that I said that was self care self care self care, and I just walked around the house all day and I just repeated that, you know, that was just something I said to myself, all, like, almost all the time, right, I'd be like self care self care okay what's the next thing that I should do to take care of myself. Wait, myself, dinner or order some food or right, go to sleep. Go to bed now Dave it's actually time to go to bed, you should go to bed now. In those little mantras that you come up with for your life, we can all do them and whatever is appropriate, you know, we all know what kind of, we need to like work on our focus and sometimes we can borrow a mantra from somebody else. But I just think those little simple mantras that can become like life's mission for that little season of our life, that are just simple that we can say all the time that sort of become a theme for what we do I think are so powerful. I just wondered if you could say more about how you came up with it and you know just how it is. You've said it so many times, but I just say, Say say more about that if you're just interested in it.

Kyle: Sure, yeah, it's, it's about. It's just about overcoming those fears, overcoming those, those little hiccups and those little little things that pop up in your head. I can't do it because of that, ‘I can't do it because of that’ and it's not going to be perfect because of this and, you know, and then I'm gonna have to film from my bathroom crap. And it's all those things. And if you just say lean in, you know, just like, well that's what it is, well I'm gonna have to film from my bathroom. Well that's what it is. Okay, lean into it, that's that's your life, that's your, that's your position. You're okay with it, just be okay with it, it's fine, like lean into it, use it right don't. When I say lean in, it's saying, accept it and don't hide it and use it, and I guess the most important thing is to use it, don't go the other direction, don't cover it. Don't pretend it doesn't exist. Don't. When it comes up in the conversation. Don't you know, dance around and lean into those things, that's, that's who you are, that's what you are, that's fine. All of those things are freaking fine, I don't care. Just let it go, lean into it, accept, you know, that's who you are, be that. It's okay. I'm great here to do something from my bathroom. It's it you know everybody else on there is 22 years old. It's by, I don't give a shit. It is what it is and I have fun with it.

Dave: Yeah, that's one last question that I have and this has just been so powerful. I really really appreciate all your, your, just your experience and your thoughts and sharing with us today. But I wondered if you would say, talk to people who do have various. I mean, whether disability is that some people do have disabilities or mental illness, Or, I mean I do various different things. I still battle with them on a regular basis. I've already mentioned addiction and some mental illness, mild depression and some, some mania.

But would you speak to people who feel that their characteristics, and in these, these, whether they're dealing with a mental illness, disability or just something that maybe, maybe society has told them or maybe it does make it more difficult for them to be able to focus or operate or or feel a steam bubble or whatever, or makes it difficult to get up off the couch or out of bed or, you know, all these different illnesses and so forth and disabilities affect us differently, you know, but would you speak to people who are dealing with, with, with those type of things in their life and are still wanting to pursue goals and dreams and build a business.

Kyle: It's hard, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna lie, you know you're in, you're in over your head compared to other folks and it's just, you know that, that, that's the light that, that we have and, and, you know, we've, we've come to accept it and go. But,

you know, these mental disabilities, depression, things like that. Yeah, they're there's, they're so debilitating. Gosh, I'm getting into myself a little bit. Gosh. Yeah, I don't know, I don't.

I'm trying to give hope. I don't know where I got the strength to pick myself up so many times last year I just kept doing it. It was rough and I saw the light at the end of the tunnel and, man, I keep going. You know it is there guys and I think I'm going to get to it but man it's, it's there, and when you get there. It's brilliant, it's, there's, there are so many folks out there, and I touched on earlier but there's so many folks out there just waiting, just waiting to be inspired by you and just waiting to hear your story, and just and sitting out there looking for some hope, and, and, you know, and they don't know where to find it and you can be that and it's, it's so odd for me to say that I brought people hope. When I was, I had no hope. It's, it's such an odd friggin thing, but I assure you, I promise you that is there, put yourself out there. And there are people even though the people, right next to you, you know, your, your close friends and you close like, even though they, they're not necessarily supporting you right now and they might think that you know the things you're doing are dumb or ridiculous or a waste of time. Just put yourself out there, and those people that are that next level those strangers and those folks that are out there looking and waiting for. They're going to jump on your bandwagon, and they're going to love you and support you and push you out there because they see what you're doing. They see that you've put yourself out there to that next level. And they're going to support that the people around you that are close, they don't, they don't see that you've changed, so they don't, they don't make that connection, but just put yourself out there, it's, it was so effing weird, I made a video out, getting like a Costco, and it got, I think you got like, damn near 100,000 views. And I think everybody that watched it I think there's like under the comments. We, you know, and I've seen other people make videos like that all the time but I didn't do it for me but you know it was weird to just put myself out there and say, This is me to sweat, gone through these are my struggles. And, you know, this is where I'm going. And this is what I hope to achieve in this, and if you want to come with me. Come with me. The response was crazy, you know, and it was to seal those people, all those strangers supporting you is freakin mind blowing. It really is, but they're, they're looking for the same thing that you're looking for and they just want someone to help them get the message and teach them those things and, And you can be that person, you know, it doesn't matter who you are where you come from, it's, you know, you can you can do it.

Dave: Well, what I'm just, I'm loving this and I can tell that so many people are getting so much out of this I just, I hope that I hope that you never have to of course, no go looking for job ads again and go and find another job and stop sharing your message from your bathroom and if you one day move into a bigger house or a different house. I hope you'll continue to shoot from your bathroom because it's funny, it's cool and your message is cool, man. I mean like, seriously, your messages are really cool in your courage and your vulnerability, and your honesty is really something special man, so I'm really, really, as much as it sucks, glad you got fired from Costco. You know what I mean, back and forth and plenty and found Thomas Garrett's video and, and, and, yeah, just, I hope you'll keep coming back if we ask you and sharing your experience and your wisdom with us, brother, because it's been a pleasure.

Kyle: Thank you as well. So, appreciate it.

Dave: All right buddy, listen, be well stay Legendary my brother, and we'll talk to you soon. Okay, see you buddy. All right, my friends, wow, what to do, what to do, go and follow Kyle, we've got his handle up there on the screen, show him some love, shoot him a message, all of you guys have been real kind and honest, I can tell in the comments. With, with all the positive feedback and it's so true, you know, I think Kyle for sharing the, the artistic piece with us so we could share that with you and it just, you know, it's always it's always like who's gonna go first, when you're in a group of people it's like, who's gonna share something first right and then it is all it takes is one like one person sharing their honest truth in being vulnerable and it's like a domino effect it not only unlocked, other people to be willing to share vulnerabilities and truths about themselves, but it just deepens the community when that happens, and I've been, I've been able to be that first person to share and I've also been the person who was afraid to share it with somebody else share something vulnerable and then I felt courageous enough to share. So, yeah, it's, it's, it's a cool, it's it was a cool conversation today and worth a read, listen for those of you who didn't catch the whole thing, because of the power of leaning in, as Kyle said leaning in to your what you think are your flaws and imperfections and things that you should hide are really your biggest strengths you can turn those quote struggles into strengths. And it'll deepen your connection with people and it'll deepen your influence with people because they'll trust you. All right, so we'll be back here tomorrow, guys, for another episode of legendary or wake up legendary. My name is Dave Sharpe if you don't know me, and I'm your host, four out of five days Matt will be with you guys tomorrow, and we'll keep on rockin we'll keep on doing this every day, we'll keep on being there for the new person who comes into our community looking to start a business that's why we're here every day. It's not particularly for you, you old farts who have been around here for a couple of months or years. It's really to be there for that new person so they can hear a story like Kyle and say, I think I can do this right. And if that's you and you're listening today. Yes you can. Peace.

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Tupperware MLM Review: The Pros and Cons Explained

David Sharpe bio

The Tupperware MLM (multi-level marketing) offering has been about for many years and seems to offer an exciting opportunity. You could start your business part-time and potentially turn it into a full-time venture.

The ability to work from home and achieve financial freedom is a dream for many people, but is this likely to happen if you join up with Tupperware?

In this review, we'll take a closer look at their business model and consider if it can provide the desired financial results for members.

Read on to find out more about this company, its products, and if it is the right business opportunity for you.

What Is Tupperware MLM?

Tupperware is unlike many MLM companies because it doesn't sell dietary supplements or weight-loss products. Instead, it provides customers with non-breakable plastic containers, kitchen tools, bakeware, and more.

Earl Tupper founded the company in 1946, meaning the business has existed for 75 years. This is an exceptionally long time for any company and is a good sign.

After all, if the products were of poor quality, customers wouldn't have continued to buy for such an extended period.

Affiliates can also make money by selling Tupperware directly to customers, which means this is not a pyramid scheme.

A pyramid scheme exists when it's only possible to make money by bringing on other recruits. This is an illegitimate practice, and you should avoid any company that trades in this manner.

However, although all the information so far is promising, it doesn't answer the most important question. Can you make a significant income with this company?

How to Make Money With Tupperware

Although it is certainly possible to make money selling Tupperware products, it is not the most lucrative method.

First, you have to pay an initial upfront fee to get started, so you will be out of pocket before you have a chance to turn a profit.

The Tupperware marketing is excellent, but you still have to find customers and convince them to buy the products. This can be a difficult problem to solve because, initially, you may find yourself pitching to friends and family.

Although they might buy one or two items to help you out, they are unlikely to become long-term customers. You could also find it awkward to pitch to people if you know them and don't think they really want to buy your merchandise.

But, there is another way to make money when you are part of the Tupperware network. You can bring on new associates and receive a percentage of the profits each time they make a sale.

The more associates you recruit, the more your income could increase. This can seem like an easy way to make money, but there are many problems with this marketing method.

Disadvantages of MLM Companies

If recruiting new members and making money from their sales was easy, everyone would do it. Therefore, you need to consider the downsides and consider if this is the most suitable business model for your needs.

Many people have a negative view of MLM companies. Although Tupperware is not a pyramid scheme, you may have trouble getting some potential customers to agree they are a legitimate company.

In addition, to increase your income, you need to find new customers continually. This can be challenging, especially now that customers have access to any product they desire online.

If you're not familiar with digital marketing, it can be challenging to compete for the attention of potential customers. You may have the best product, but can you contend on price?

You may also come up against companies with large marketing budgets and need to find a way of telling customers why they should come to you instead.

That is why recruiting other people can seem like an attractive option. If they can find solutions to these problems, then you will also benefit.

However, there are potential issues when working with people who may not share your enthusiasm.

Although recruits are not your employees, if you are to mutually benefit from their sales, you may need to spend a considerable amount of time helping them.

Some might need coaching to improve their sales pitches. You could also find recruits view the opportunity as a get-rich-quick scheme and leave when they realize this is not the case.

However, if you're committed to making money online, there is a better way.

Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketers promote other peoples' products and get a commission when a customer makes a purchase due to their advertising efforts.

Affiliate marketing techniques include writing blog posts or making interesting video content that appeals to potential customers. One of the most attractive aspects of the business model is that there is no need to buy stock upfront.

You could even make sales without spending any money at all.

Affiliate marketing is also an excellent method for earning residual income. You could create a piece of content and still earn from the post several years later.

However, you could also lose money easily if you do not understand the best ways to make a profit. Therefore, your affiliate marketing strategy should have a clear plan, and you need to measure the results of each step.

You can then optimize your advertising efforts and drop any methods that are not producing the desired results.

Because you can choose who you work with, this can also be a great way to sell products or services that you truly believe are beneficial to potential customers.

Although this sounds like a dream job, you can increase your chances of success by working with the right partner company.

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This review should give you a better idea of the Tupperware MLM opportunity. You can also consider if affiliate marketing offers a more suitable model for your specific needs.

If you decide on affiliate marketing, there are many online affiliate marketing tips. But how do you know if they are legitimate and if they can really help?

The Legendary Marketer team has many years of experience in succeeding in a challenging industry. There is also no need to commit to a considerable upfront expenditure to try out their service.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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Isagenix Review: Is It Too Good to Be True?

David Sharpe bio

Many multi-level marketing companies like to give the appearance of offering a dream opportunity. They often claim they can give their associates the possibility of achieving financial freedom.

However, many people are skeptical and want to know more before investing in a program.

While one company may offer a legitimate way to make a significant amount of money, a closer look may also show which businesses you should avoid.

Continue reading this Isagenix review to find out if this is a suitable opportunity for you.

What Is Isagenix?

Isagenix is a health and wellness MLM, founded by John Anderson, Jim Coover, and Kathy Coover in 2002. Their longevity is a positive sign, and there is no suggestion the products they supply are an Isagenix scam.

Their offerings are wide and varied to appeal to a large number of potential customers.

Associates can purchase shakes, cakes, soups, and other supplements related to improving the health and wellbeing of those who go on to buy the products.

Associates can also benefit from selling bundles of items that could possibly improve bodily processes.

The Isagenix nutrition products are relatively expensive, although the company reports making over $1 billion in sales, so there appears to be a market. So far, if you're wondering is Isagenix legit, the answer would appear to be yes.

However, this is not the complete picture when considering the Isagenix MLM offer. After all, this is supposed to be an opportunity to make money, but is this really possible?

Isagenix Review Profit Potential

Isagenix encourages associates to make money by selling products. This is another positive indication that the company is not illegitimate.

Some MLM companies give the industry a bad reputation because associates are only successful if they bring on more investors. These are often known as pyramid schemes.

If you come across a company that trades in this way, this is a warning sign that you should not work with that business.

Although Isagenix is operating successfully, there is little doubt you also make more money as you bring on other associates. Using this technique, people can get a percentage of what their associates earn on each sale.

By selling your own Isagenix stock while building a team, it may be possible to build an income in your spare time. Over a longer period, it may even be possible to turn this side hustle into a full-time job.

However, there are some potential drawbacks you need to take into account before joining their team.

Possible Downsides of Working With Isagenix

An important question to ask before purchasing any stock from an MLM company is ‘would I buy the product to use myself?'

There is considerable unease in the industry that many products do not perform as they should, so you need to be careful.

In fact, Isagenix has a disclaimer on its website you should take into account.

It advises that its nutritional foods and dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Medicines and Healthcare products Regulatory Agency (MHRA).

If you wouldn't choose to use the supplements in your own daily routine, then it could be tricky to sell the benefits to reluctant buyers. You may find some family and friends buy one or two items to help you out, but they are not likely to become regular customers.

Many people are also uncomfortable selling to people they know, so this may not be the most suitable business model for your needs.

If you outsource most of the selling duties to the team of associates you recruit, this can also result in problems. Not all recruits will be good at selling, so you'll need to spend time training them on how to promote the products and close a sale.

You may also find that some recruits do not share your dedication and leave after a short period of time. Fortunately, there are better ways to make money outside of your 9-5 job.

Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketing is one of the safest and most effective ways to build a substantial online income. There is no need to buy any stock upfront because you get a commission when you sell someone else's products.

This is an excellent way to do business because you never need to have the items in your possession. After you make a sale, the seller handles all the distribution aspects, leaving you to continue with your marketing efforts.

When you become an affiliate marketer, you can also build an ethical business. You can choose which companies to work with, meaning you can engage with people who share your values.

Affiliate marketing also provides you with the opportunity to promote high-ticket items. These could offer a large profit margin for your efforts. There is also the chance to earn a residual income from the content you create.

If you write an article or create a video, this one piece of material could earn you commissions for years to come. Because you only need to do it once, you can focus on making new content that can add to your profitability.

However, affiliate marketing isn't as simple as some people believe. This can lead to marketers spending their money on online ads that don't give a return on investment.

As with any industry, there is a learning curve, and it is beneficial to work with a partner who has experience in the sector.

When you can benefit from the advice of people who know how to succeed in affiliate marketing, you could increase your chances of making a profit.

Partner With Legendary Marketer Today

After reading this Isagenix Review, you can decide if the opportunity is worth exploring further. You can also consider if you'd prefer to follow the affiliate marketing route for your business venture.

Tens of thousands of affiliate marketers have also taken our Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7). This is an excellent way to learn how to benefit from the experience of others who have made a substantial online income.

In order for you to develop your skills, you should consider taking a free or paid marketing course. There are a variety of digital marketing courses you can take from businesses that can help you enhance your skills. As of writing this, over 80,000 new marketers have taken the Online Business Builder Challenge (only $7), and that might be a good starting place for you as well.

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5 Tips On How To Turn Your 9-5 Into Stay At Home Affiliate Marketing

 

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Dave: Alright my friends what's going on?

This is Dave Sharpe, welcome to Wake Up Legendary. This morning we're going to be hearing from a kindred spirit, a fellow construction worker who almost died.

Hopefully he'll be willing to tell this story, and then had a, I guess you could call it a spiritual

full time treat also affiliate marketer, so this is somebody who's looking for deals, and now as opposed to being able to business from home. So with that being said, Jason Minor to show what's going on, brother?

Jason: Good morning. 

Dave: Good morning, and where are you calling in from?

Jason: I'm in Northern Virginia right outside DC. Okay, okay. All right well cool, man.

Well, hopefully you'll tell the story here about your near death experience. You put it in our intake form so I wanted to take the risk of throwing it out there at the benefit that you might tell the story. Would you tell that story and tell us how you got into Online Marketing and Entrepreneurship from construction in the first place?

Jason: Mainly we are storytellers, right. I mean that's part of my story, you have your story we all have our story. Yeah, so I was working construction than five years. And last November right before Thanksgiving, I got the job, which you know at that time. I'm a 38 year old man who didn't think much of it. I thought you know I'm a healthy non drinker, non smoker. I get it, I get it, it's gonna be fun. Well it wasn't fine that infection. Last taste and smell than the infection went to my brain. And when it went to my brain it affects respiration and also affects heart rate. And then there was swelling around my heart, and when there was swelling around my heart. My heart stopped, my oxygen levels were crazy low for a long period of time, my heart rate can go over 200 and stay there for weeks. And they couldn't get it under control. And when I tell you that I could have died a few times I, my heart legit stopped. And I remember crying in bed, and not knowing, yes. I was even gonna make it. I had a dream that night. And then my dream. There was a spirit. It wasn't like a person but there was a spirit that just said, you have to go help a million people. And I was like, Dude, I'm just a regular dude. How the hell am I supposed to help a million people, I don't have any kind of reach like that. How do I do it. What am I doing, They said you have to help a million people. I was like, that doesn't make any sense. Give me some guidance. You have to help a million people and I remember waking up going, Holy shit you're I'm alive. Was that actually, am I supposed to do that. Is that the reason I'm here and I had no idea how to do, what to do whatever. Obviously I lost my job, it's been six months. A lot of the people in this community have made, and they see me I'm still on oxygen today. Like the last couple days margin has been in the low 80s Which anything under 95 is dangerous. So if I if I have a brain fart it's because my oxygen is legit low and my brain just sometimes it happens. But it's, it's, it's been a hell of a ride.

Dave: So what led you to Legendary? I mean was that a part of you finding direction.

Jason: My son was on it, so I got on TikTok, as a joke, just to see and see what he was into. And I stumbled upon Legendary, and I saw everybody and their brother talking about. Yeah, that's seven bucks someone gives a check. Yeah. Worst case scenario, amount of a cup of coffee right. It's still going against knowledge. Yeah, like, I'm all. And then I saw what the community was like and then I got the knowledge, and then the more research I did, I was like man, I just fell into it I was like this is, this is rad, man.

Dave: Nice, nice. So, this is all transparent obviously we can see that you've got your day trading setup behind you as well and so you're, you're kind of a multi. Sorry. So you're so you're all this is transpired and happened over the last six months?

Jason: Yeah, back I haven't even I've only been doing Legendary stuff in affiliate marketing for almost three months. Okay, I started a year ago to start learning day trading. Yeah. As while I was still doing construction I'm sure you understand. It's hard work. And I've been 20 some years, and I wanted something more passive. I wanted more income. I wanted more time with a family. I didn't like working 10, 12 hour days, five, six days a week, busting my butt. I was making amazing money, don't get me wrong, I was sure it's not where I wanted to be long term, when I'm 60 years old, I can't do what I was doing. I can't sling an engine and a plywood, up to the next to the next floor up being almost 200 pounds a sheet, you know, I can't keep slinging this stuff all day long. Yeah, but although there has to be a change. I'm okay doing it now, but at some point there's going to have to be a change. Yeah, I already had that little seed in the back of my head where I need to make a change. Something has to happen. So, I am getting sick. Just kind of pushed now that first three months of me being sick. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't do anything I could day trade, there was nothing I could do. I got lost in my own house, I forgot how to talk for two weeks.

Dave: Holy crap, like you could have so easily been one of the statistics man, that we lost in this past year from this.

Jason: Man 100% And I never want to, you know, maybe he's young and dumb, but I really thought that I would never be that statistic you know. Sure, a little kid and you're like, I'm gonna take that bike and just make that ramp. I'm gonna make it. It's like all stupid.

Dave: You're one of the people which, which it would totally make sense that you would be that was kind of like hey, no big deal at first but then you got it, you're like hey take this thing seriously.

Jason: Oh I took it seriously. 

Dave: Yeah, you just didn't expect to be as sick as you are.

Jason: Exactly. So like I didn't know, one of the guys that I worked with ended up getting it. Yeah, didn't necessarily tell us that he got it and didn't want to lose work.

Dave: I think there's a lot of, I think in that makes sense, you know, I mean like it sucks in you, it makes you angry and like you, it's that's kind of like after the fact that damn they're unforgivable offense but like I think a lot of people were put up this last year, which is a little sniffle I've got a little cough, I'm not going to tell anybody, it's just going to go away because I'm living paycheck to paycheck. I can afford over two weeks, you know, and I think that brings up an even bigger point, Jason, which I think is, is, we all we all really have to come to. To be honest, and in reality, with the fact that most of us are a statistic that we're one medical emergency away from financial ruin. And that most of us if our kids got into some sort of an accident or something to happen to a family member, we wouldn't be able to afford the medical bills, or if something happened we got hit by an uninsured driver and say we don't have, you know the type of insurance that covers our car, we wouldn't be able to afford to get our car and I was in that position for so long, myself, and of course, Pretty rooted in drug and alcohol addiction, so a lot of that didn't even matter to me, You know what I mean like I wasn't even really but having a family and have it. Yeah, having a family, having, having kids having a wife like I can't imagine that, and I think that your story brings up the reality that so many of us face, but don't talk about, because if we don't talk about it it's not real, you know, which is how a lot of people handle problems in their life. Hey, just don't talk about it, just if I don't talk about it, it's not real, therefore I don't have to face it. And how do you feel about the idea of having reserves, having cash flow, having the ability to be able to continue to bring in income even if you are sick, and what would your message be to people?

Jason: I think you should prepare for the worst, which thankfully I am OCD, I was raised by people that grew up in the Depression, by my grandparents. Because of that, there's that, that scarcity mindset. They pushed on to me, so I'm thankful for that. Like, I go a little bit overboard, and I'm a prepper. So now the other friends I try to get them into a position where they save and they already not only have a passive income, but have a just in case fund. Like, I had all my bills and for my house for my, for the water for the electricity I'm three months ahead. I've always been, I've had for the last 20 years. I have six months worth of food in my house, I have everything that we need. I have just in case fun to get me through one or two years, if something hits the fan, but this takes that to say that 75% of people can't even come up with $500 Yeah. That, that's, that's frightening. Yeah, you don't have a passive income stream, or have somewhere to have some just in case you need to find something, even if you're still working your nine to five, passive income stream and then though affiliate marketing is fantastic. There are lots of other options. This is not for them, but if this is always prepared. I am super prepared for almost anything and I'm thankful that I was prepared because of those three months. I couldn't do anything. Yeah, you know, on the inside. As a man, maybe this is stupid and cliche with today's times but I have that masculinity where like I need to provide for my family. Even though my wife's a nurse, she does find our health insurance is covered. Because of her work, she makes a good living and we can live with her income. That's fine, you know. Dave: I think it's fine. I think it's I think it's our nature, you know, we want to provide and I think it's actually I talked to women I, it's about being productive, you know, it's about being responsible Jason, and clearly, you know, there's a lot to be said about your values that you were taught about being responsible, because when we have a family man we have little kids, we're responsible for them, you know, and I had to really grow myself up when I,  when I had kids at least this round to have one that's older as well but I had to really grow myself up and realize that you know these kids can't fend for themselves. I mean it's literally my responsibility to make sure they eat, you know, and, and, and I think that just, you know, you've gone to an extreme of prepping and I know a little bit about preppers I wouldn't particularly call myself one but financially I am. But I think that just everybody who's listening right now, is having that real conversation with yourself, to kind of, kind of, kind of leaning on Jason's story about the COVID thing and putting that, like, literally, a near death experience. I mean, it didn't have to be like that it could have been, it could have been, it didn't have to be that particular situation, it could have been a broken leg that puts you out. It could have been a broken hand that puts you out and so it doesn't have to be a near death experience, it could be something that's minor, the company that you work for could go out of business, you know, and then you have a hard time finding a job. Well, if you don't have, you know, something stocked away if you don't have six months to 12 months of expenses put away. If you don't have a stream of income, additional skills that you can generate income with, then you're at the mercy of somebody to pay you less than what you're worth, because you're desperate. You're at the mercy of, you know, of asking to borrow stuff and you're talking about masculinity, Jason. Actually I think it's pride, who really wants to go and ask to borrow money to pay bills, it's just, it's about, there's just so much to learn from that story, man, I'm so happy that you're okay but there's so much to learn from that story man, you know in this entrepreneurship game.

Jason: You know when I first started even before I was sick, there was that stigma, still around COVID and people who are getting it. I must tell the story, because when I was that selfish, because I knew a lot of people that had that mindset oh it's just the flu oh it's just this, I was just this and I'm like, how. Not that I know, know that it's not necessarily just the flu. Okay, it's not. Let me tell you it's not.

Dave: And it affects everybody differently right so that's the whole thing and I think that that kind of that analogy works with everything because you, you may be at a point in your life to where if you did lose your job, it may affect you harder than somebody else, or it may affect you harder than if you were at a different place in your life. And I think that, I think that the bottom line Jason is, is, I am really thankful that you told that story because you're the first person at least on this show that we've had that's had COVID and affected them at that level and in, and you may not be the only one but you may have been the only one who was courageous enough to tell the story because like you say, maybe there's a stigma or somebody might feel like they don't want to tell her whatever but dude frickin I am thankful and proud of you that you told that because it's, it's real, it's, it's, it's your story, and there's so much value, there's so much gold in telling that story, especially coming out of 2020 and now everybody experiencing this pandemic. And it wasn't just you having to get sick to death. Again, it could have been you losing your job, it could have been something else happening. So I'm thankful you told that man and I don't think there's any shame at all and look at me I pulled the drug and alcohol being a junkie story. I mean, it's like, it's our story.

Jason: That was good and I say it's our story, that's what it is, whether you like it, good, bad or indifferent, it is our story. It's what makes us genuine. It's what makes us different, and it's what we went for. And if we could change our path, or we can change our path and change our future, we can see what we're from.

Dave: Well, it's not even failures, man, it's just, you know, it's storytelling, for those of you who are like wondering, you know, maybe you're new, you're wondering what what a story has to do with marketing, it's all about how you use the story you know if you've asked yourself what point am I trying to make here in my marketing or in this video, and then how can I find a story that matches with that that sort of uses gives an analogy or a parable to it, or a metaphor to help tell us to to help prove the point, and stories sell, they are what human beings are used to listening to they want to listen to stories they want to know what happens at the end, they don't want to just be spoken out with facts and details and told what to do. They want to be entertained and that's why I call good marketing edutainment because there's an element of education, and there's an element of entertainment, and the element of entertainment is your personality, and it's the stories you tell, and I can tell that you've got some personality, first and foremost, the brand, it's a good, it's a cool setup that you got there with your computers in the back you've got the islands of Hawaii, they're kind of all over the place, what's the relevant took for Hawaii for you.

Jason: That is my happy place. So, back in 9092, 95 My mother bought a condo in Hawaii back after a hurricane basically wiped out the island, and she was able to buy. And it was cheap, it was great, but then I was able to spend my summers there, and now that is my happy place. And you know I tried to take my family there every year, every other year whenever that is the one place that I feel like it's home. You know, it's my happiness to find it's fantastic whatever but it's not my happy place. Yeah, this is not the place that I'm like oh I love the air, and walk outside and like, wonderful No but I do have that feeling when I'm there. So when I, when I have my Hawaiian stuff around and do whatever it is, it makes me feel more at home, it makes me feel more comfortable and this is a part of me.

Dave: Do you have a goal one day to move there full time?

Jason: One day we actually almost moved there full time. But the schools were not where I wanted them to be for my kids, I got super advanced super smart, they didn't have a program that I could put him in that would work for him. My daughter has her own struggles, and they didn't have a program that was gonna work for her, and where I am here. The programs in the school system are some of the best in the country. So I was like, I need to do what's best for them. I got you going there, and putting a man. I didn't want to have to do that with them and I couldn't afford the private schools.

Dave: Yeah, I gotcha. That makes sense, man, that makes sense. Well, putting your responsibilities first is a big deal and once again that seems to be a theme with you. So let's transition a little bit to your affiliate marketing journey. I noticed that you have a tick tock channel yourself. You've got 21,000 followers. There is that sort of your main platform for driving traffic right now.

Jason: That is one of my platforms for driving traffic, multiple pages, that's the one that I'm using for Legendary. Okay. But from your people that go way beyond Legendary Marketer I put together a program that I call Now. Okay, which is basically I'm going to do something right now, right, and the N is for niche, O is for finding an opportunity, and W was for win, which is not just winning for me but it's a win win for the better win for me and a win for the end person right. That's my current method. So, one of my niches, day trading, right, which is, there's a big opportunity in day trading everybody's talking about it, you even came on and started saying crypto and this and that, right, everybody's talking about that. Yeah, that but there's that opportunity. Right. So I went out to find another opportunity at one of the training platforms that I borrowed from 30,000 students currently, they don't have an affiliate program. Well, so what did I do, I saw an opportunity there. I went to them and said, one you need an affiliate program, and here's why. And I want to create that program for you. Well, and when I create that for you. I want this for this amount of time. Right. And then we want to open it up to other people. And then I already have my base community that I helped bring the way and make that business successful, so I found a niche. Yeah, I found that opportunity. And then it was so it's going to be a win for that company, It's gonna be a win for me, it's going to be a win for the end consumer too because the content that I provide them like I will literally trade live with people on a daily basis for about 30 minutes a day before the market opens so they can see my strategy they can see what stocks I'm looking at, they can see this, they are not going to be able to trade with me, but they can see what I'm doing. So, that gives them knowledge I give them little key little pieces here and there here and there here and there, and then creates that curiosity. Right, they always want to see what's going on. Watch me and other people trade, live, and get the full training. By signing up. Sure, right value first right edutainment first, a live webinar should let me show you watch the live video let me show you how I do this, and then if you want more, sign up for the entry level monthly membership community mastermind whatever it is,

exactly niches.

Dave: So you've taken this, this idea of selling information. Okay that we teach here at Legendary drop shipping is cool Amazon is cool these other businesses are cool just what we specialize in is selling information, and you can sell information about making money online like we do here at legendary, you can sell information about parenting, raising getting newborns to sleep, day trading, so you've, you've, you found a hot topic, which is cryptocurrency and just stocks in the in the market right now and you've taken in you've instead of even going and creating your own kind of entire platform, You actually found a company that was already doing it that had great training and approach them with this idea, this, this, affiliate marketing concept that you've learned here at legendary and you saw play out and you're profiting from here as well because you're, you're an affiliate here and you have a niche page on TikTok, for Legendary, but you've used these what we call transferable skills, because it's not just about Legendary if you're used these transferable skills now to go over and essentially broker a deal, right, to where you've helped create an affiliate program for this platform made a chunk of change upfront, and now have an opportunity to be able to share that with others. And essentially, earn commissions and get paid when that happens, and quite frankly, you talk about helping a million people, you've created an opportunity, a bunch of other people to be affiliated to and to make money when they are promoted as well.

Jason: So I created a platform for people to learn how to make, and learn affiliate marketing. Here I have the opportunity now, if, if, stock trading is their niche. Yeah, they can go and do that. I have another niche: my other niches RV’s. Right. So I create content about RV stuff. So, when I first bought an RV, they don't set you up for success, you cannot literally go and just go that day and go are being, they don't give you the pipes that you need, they don't give you the supply lines, they don't give you electrical life, there's literally a whole list of things that they don't even give you and set you up for success, to go out on your first trip. So, what did I do, I saw a problem. So I create content of things you need, things you're going to want winterizing maintenance things that you need to check every once in a while or you know, whatever.

So, how to, how to have a better trip, how to do things easier I mean I've been, there's no limits, bro. I know because several of my family members RV, and it's like, It's endless it's endless problems that could happen that you need solutions to, and it's also endless possibilities.

So we know that okay, there's so we've now picked that niche, the opportunity is, we're in COVID states right, we're still going through COVID. People weren't able to travel, people weren't able to do things in the RV industry right now, because of people traveling and being stuck in their house is skyrocketing, there's the opportunity. Right. And then they win. So I had to come up with a win win. So now, $1,000 they are getting content for me telling them all the products that they're going to need they're gonna want whatever our job as affiliate marketers is to capture emails right because that's our lead, that's our lifeline. So how do I do that, and provide value, so I came up with a physical checklist before you go checklists winterizing checklist things in the kitchen checklist, I literally made safety checklists I made these checklists, and I give that away, obviously I get the email. Now I can retarget that audience. Okay so now I've retargeted that audience. I have a completely other page that drives traffic to not the newbie people, but now the people who are living in RV full time. Okay, they literally travel to the US. They go in and travel with the RV full time, which is one of their major problems by traveling full time employment. What can I teach them as either a passive income, or a traveling income where you can work from anywhere. Where can I drive them? That platform for me is already set up. Yeah, so I'm taking my one niche and literally bringing it back circle and bringing them back around, so that even for Harvey, its value as value over here too. Yeah. And so I'm taking all these ideas that I have and literally combining them all to work together. And that's part of my current method. And I've worked with a ton of current affiliates, which, my job is also to help as many newbie affiliates because a lot of people feel stuck. They do this for a month, two months, three months and they feel stuck. Right, I'm helping these people get unstuck, break free. Get it because it's easy for me to talk to somebody, figure out what's going on in their head, figure out their path, figure out their love and I can see it from the outside, but they can't see people and I'm helping these people through.

Dave: We've all got blind spots.

Jason: We all have blind spots so I find those blind spots for them, and I open up their eyes.

Dave: Now, two things. The first thing is that if you have multiple niches. There's always a way to connect them. There's always a way to connect them. And here's the, here's the one line I'm going to give you all that is the key that unlocks all of this world for you, and Jason is utilizing this, your income is dependent directly in proportion to your creativity. So your ability, your creativity. In terms of, like, this is a perfect example of that sequence that Jason just went through that you just went through connecting each of those pieces that you could present each of those new opportunities to somebody as sort of a new problem, you present a new problem, and then you present the solution. And what the example is and this is oftentimes what to kind of, I think a big secret to marketing is that people don't really know they have problems until you kind of present it to them and remind them of it, right. So, as people, that's how things are sold. So, say for example, a lot of you guys, maybe we're here because of TikTok or whatever ad you saw, you didn't wake up in the morning saying, Man, I need passive income like today's the day that I'm going to take a training, and I'm going to learn how to create a stream of income online, but you saw a video likely if somebody that's presented the problem in a way that really made it click for you, and you were like, how do you know what they're right today is going to be the day I want to take that challenge. The same way that Jason you just went through. Okay, now you've got your RV. Well, how are you going to make income, would you like to do this for a year? Would you like to go home? Would you like to never have to go back home and get a job, because a lot of people do it for part of the year, or maybe take just random trips, what if you could be on the road all the time, it's matter of fact, I know somebody who's on the road right now, and feels a lot of pressure because they need to create income so they can continue to do it. Well, what if I told you there was a way that you could generate income online by developing a skill set you can do this 365 days per year. That whole opportunity was created because you explained their problem to them in a way that made it make sense. And I think that's the power of communication that a lot of us under, we don't, we don't really kind of graphs that people don't already know what problems they have, you literally have to present the problem to them in a way that makes them to say, You know what that is a problem. He's got a point. the same way that people get involved in prepping, right, Jason. It's like you never knew that prepping was a good idea until somebody sat there broke it down and said, Jason, what if, what if, what if somebody dropped a nuclear bomb on this country and everything went out for six months. What if some explosion happened in the electrical grid or something happened with the internet, and all your bank accounts suddenly went to zero? What if your company went out of business? What if, what if we got this right. Oh, and then you sit there and you're thinking, son of a bitch, this guy's got… Holy shit, like, I'm, I would be screwed right? And that's how people get into prepping, they don't just wake up and go. You know what it'd be a good idea to have six months of food, they have somebody explain it to them, so they understand their problem. This is a big, big deal. And in Jason, you're, you're doing that what comes up for you as I, as I'm going through this, presenting the problem in making it known to the person so they, they realize they need the solution?

Jason: It actually started making me think. When I was young, my grandpa, obviously also the guy who wanted me to be corrected. The things he instilled in me was, be good at a lot of things. You know construction might be okay, okay, my father was working at a printing firm. Printing Presses don't exist anymore. He wanted me to be good at so many different things that no matter what happened in life. I always had work. I always had an income. And I could always make something work and make something happen. So I've done exactly that, I've been a real estate agent for a long time. Some of the people in here know that I had a niche, nobody else in the country had. And I exploded the hell out of that niche, as long as I could, until it literally disappeared, but I made a killing on that niche right. I've been, I've worked in NASCAR. For many years I can, I can race cars, I can build cars. You know I could do construction. I've been an electrician, a plumber, a farmer and a Mason. I can do drywall insulation or roofing, there is no trade within construction that I can't do and can't do, at a higher level than most. So literally just all these skills that I obtained over time I can cook I could work in a restaurant if I had to. Now look, I'm in a trade I can do marketing. There's nothing that I can't do. Yeah. Well, I think everybody else should know that. Okay, if you're an accountant, though that job might be great or you're working as a bartender or as you're working as this. For that time being. What if something happens to the pandemic? Yeah. You know the restaurant shut down. Did we ever think that the restaurants would literally just up and closed come last. Last January, February, do we ever think that everything would be shut down.

Dave: Yeah, I just I keep going back to this thing of, of you being in these multiple niches in then, and then being able to, to have the, the new opportunity in a completely different and totally, you know, new niche, make sense for the person who, what is maybe in the RV I mean the way that you're connecting these niches together, you know, by presenting the problem, I would assume like be in an email sequence you know if somebody signs up for your real estate for your, for your for your crypto are your day trading, you know, checklist and then they get on that email, of course you present them with that day trading training opportunity which that creates a commission for you. But then, hey wanna want another stream of income, well, but I also do affiliate marketing, check this out, and then. Hey, what happens if something bad happens? Let me tell you my story about COVID Are you prepared, you could get into doing it, you can be an affiliate for prepping products, you can have your own prepping checklist or training courses. Hey, want to get on the road, want to travel. Now there's an introduction to RV. I mean, there's a way that if you guys want to, to expand in the different niches. You can do that, and also a lot of you guys have information and knowledge that you could talk to people like you do Jason, that you're just sitting on, not monetizing like Jason's doing what's coming up for you, Jason?

Jason: In my head, it made me think. We're not in sales, what you just said and all those questions that you just came across, We're not in sales, we're problem solvers. That's our problem that we are problem solvers. You just said the problem. Okay, people came into this class 97% of people who day trade lose money and fail 95% lose money, and fail. That's statistics Hi, So, yes, I can show them the training, I can take them over there, but I know, 95% of those people most likely will fail very hard. Okay. But those people also like another end to go probably want passive income they want something, the chances of somebody losing their backside. Learning affiliate marketing, not as high. Yeah, like, they're gonna get in and lose 20, 30 $40,000 like that, like, since we've been on here I'm down $26,000 Okay, I can lose everything like that. Right. You're not going to do that in affiliate marketing, you may not make as many commissions with this day but then the next day it gets better, way more passive too, if I'm not trading, I'm not making money. Super volatile, so now I can take that pain point of oh they've lost, or they're losing. And I can push that low pain point a little bit and bring them in, and let them find success in another way, because maybe it's not for them. It's not for everybody. And I don't just tell everybody, hey go out and do it. We do want, but you do have a passion for it here. This is the train that I learned. This is the best training. I've spent $15,000 In the last year going through different training platforms, I know which ones are good, I know which ones are crap. This is the good one. Don't waste your money on all those other ones. This is the only one I believe. And, and here's why. All right, so I'm providing that value. I'm trying to set them up for success, but in the back of my head. I know. 95% will fail. That's just the statistic that's the way it is. Yeah, like some of the people that I trade with, they're jet pilots and test pilots. I have one guy who is a surgeon. There was kind of just something fun for them. And I asked him, I said, So what's harder is learning how to do surgery, and learning how to fly a jet. I learned in day trading basically day trading is so much more difficult. What does that say about, okay, it's hard. Yeah, is affiliate marketing, all that hard to learn. I didn't think so.

Dave: Yeah. Well, that's, I mean, that's. And I will also say that you know you got to have some mindset to be able to do, you know, an interview, and know that you've got 60 26,000 in the red behind you, you know what I mean you got to be able to hold your composure, there's ebb and flow. I, it's just like it's the same thing where we're at here, right 90% of day trading is mindset. 

Jason: I think 80% of affiliate marketing or any kind of marketing is also mindset, if you don't have that right mindset, it's not going to work, and your sales, it's not just not. I'm confident that it's gonna be fine. And I'm right, my statistics say that I'm right 70% of the time. And because I know I'm right 70% of the time even if my losses and wins are equal, Because I'm right 70% of the time, a profit. Though I'm confident in my statistics. And just like trading, I have statistics I know when, what time I'm profitable, I know what size, large stocks, small cap stocks, I know when I'm profitable or not profitable, I know the time of day that I'm trading. I know the price of the stock, I know the float, I know everything about a stock, I can literally track it just like we track our email sequences, our funnels are, how we constantly test. The same idea. If you look into that mindset, they're very similar.

Dave: And also, what gives you the confidence to have the mindset that you do is certainly confidence that's been built in that you're building by taking action. And then the evidence from those actions so you do that enough, you build confidence, but also, one thing that I want to point out is, you're also not making emotional decisions you're making decisions it's based on data, and that's one of the big pieces that a lot of marketers leave out is what make a decision based on the data, you don't need to guess you don't need to ask somebody else to make a decision about everything you do in your business, test it, look at what works, if you have one bridge page video, that, that you have for the month of April, do another bridge page video with a tweak for the month of May in test, the difference, how many leads did you get how much money did you make from those leads, you know, we teach that specifically in the business blueprints, right, there's a, there's a part right on testing and tracking. It's about letting the data guide our decisions, and not just making emotional decisions or getting into this, this sort of thing like, Please help me. It's that newbie, you know, you're not a newbie, you're just not ready and you're just, you're, you're new at this, and you're, you're not letting the data drive your decisions, you'd rather somebody else make the decision for you, which is a bit of an employee mindset. If we look at mindsets, as an employee, I beat you to the boss to tell me what to do, and if, if something doesn't go right, well it's what you told me to do, right, you told me to do it this way. So as an entrepreneur, I have to shift that mindset into taking responsibility saying okay I'm going to test this, see how it works out. And then I'm going to test something new and see if that works better. And then I go with a better version. It's actually really simple, right, then I do that again the next month and I go with a better version. 

Jason: Yeah, it makes me think I made a tech talk yesterday about the nine to five, being an employee versus being an entrepreneur, and how basically being an employee, It's carrots or sticks. So they give you the set of tasks right and you start doing those set of tasks, there's already a system in place, we're going to give you a little bit we're going to give you a character, whether that's a little raise or we're gonna give you a pat on the back or maybe you move up in your position right little carrots but what if you don't meet that test, they're gonna beat you with that stick right they're going to give you how they're going to constantly give you hell about it or you potentially can lose your job or whatever, and you got it. What if you don't like carrots? Right. What if you don't like somebody saying, Oh well, you can't. We've already structured this is what you're doing. And this is your cap, this is where you can get and you have to work up this corporate ladder. What if that's not for you, what if you're not into carrots? Some people aren't. Do I think a nine to five job is good for some people? Yes, do we need nine to five jobs 100%? Do I think it's for everybody? I don't think so. Some people need that structure because they can't manage themselves, so they need somebody to manage them. But if that's not you, and you want that time, you want that option. Or, I said, I just need to clear it, you know, and find approval. Wait for two to three weeks for fine coverage, whatever, Right. I can't live like that anymore. I'm a workaholic. Right. Um, I'm okay. Getting up early, I'm okay day trading, I'm okay running my business, I'm okay. Sometimes building this empire that I'm trying to build. So, in the future, I can have that more passive income, and have more time, but I also have the freedom as I go, You know what, I'm not doing anything today. I have that freedom. And I like the option that just having that option is freeing. 

Dave: Yeah no it is man, it is this has been great. If somebody was sitting on our checkout page, maybe some of them, you said maybe somebody else who knows, and they're making a decision, you know, do I want to get involved with legendary and go all in. In, be a part of this community and learn from the people who were here and learn from the curriculum, start one of these business models that we teach here, what would you say to that person?

Jason: I would say jump. Dive in. It's a small little micro investment they even see if it's for you. And if it is for you. I think that's fantastic. The community is amazing. and, like, I've now put together some masterminds that I do every other week, with some of the top affiliates, and we literally get together and throw ideas back and forth, going back to that thing we talked about earlier, sometimes you have an idea, you have a passion, but you can't see it yourself, but having that community around you that sees your idea sees that passion, now they're throwing things at you, and then you're going to be able to see things for them, and literally we help each other, right, where this is not a competition, nobody's here competing with anybody else. It's not the see who's got the best followers there see who's got, oh I've got this many opt ins or I've got this make Commission's if that's not what this is, this community is here to help each other and see each other succeed. And that itself is a mindset. All right. It's a beauty, it's been the most beautiful community that I've ever had to work with, you know in construction, it's looking much, much better looking. Look at those lines my lines are straight but my this, you know, through the trades, it's always cut down framers goddamn drywall guys goddamn finisher goddamn Sanders damn painters, right, and everybody gives each other hell along the way, I have not seen any of that here. Yeah, the community is phenomenal. So you're gonna learn a skill you're going to have a community that's going to be able to push you up, push your boundaries, keep you accountable, and keep you going, because there's gonna be times that are rough times, sometimes things are hard. We all hit that, that peak, and we all go into that valley of despair, and we all need somebody to help us bring us back out right, we all hit all of us, everyone, and without that community, You might quit, you might never ever find that success because you literally quit right before you found that success, and you would never know. And then you get those people that do quit, which I'm sure you see, oh it's a scam it's a this is a this, well no you just quit. You didn't have the creativity, he didn't have the drive and you literally just quit or maybe you didn't have. He didn't find that low community you didn't find when you didn't ask for him. Ask for help if you guys need help, ask for help if you need my help. I'm happy to help. I had a I was supposed to have a one hour meeting last night that ended up turning into five hours last night, literally helping other affiliates with their ideas and their dreams, one vision, and they married one system, but what does that do when they marry one system, if that system falls off disappears, whatever, what happens to their business. Right. Yeah, I'm not saying don't use this, but let's have a niche, find the opportunity within that niche, and make a win win. And literally I went through, person by person found their passions. We came up with a niche, we found an opportunity, and we found a win-win solution, and we did that, as a group and as a community. 

Dave: And just to think Brother I mean six months ago, you're not even, you know you're not even, you're not even at the starting one and you're just getting ready to step up to the starting line. I mean, it's just amazing how quickly things can change how fast you can make progress here. If you get in and get to work in just a plot like you know just let all of those old stories go, and step into your most brilliant self which is really your authentic self, you know, And, and I can see that you're doing that, and it's a beautiful thing to watch man, it's a beautiful thing to watch. I hope you'll be willing to come back and do a part two with us and continue to share some of this, I can't wait to see where you're at after 12 months of being in this industry.

Jason: And I hope to be on top. One day I hope to be where you're at. 

Dave: Well, Brother, you know, look man, I mean, it's, I like to do the shows and I like to. I like to be right down in the trenches with people, man. You know what I mean, that's, you know, it's, it's time things I must earn as well, right, it's time in the game, you know what I mean

Jason: 100% You got to put in that time upfront. Yeah, you have to. 

Dave: Yeah. It doesn't have to take, doesn't have to take 10 years, doesn't even have to take five years. But time is something I must, or it's, it's, there's no way around that and I that's what I liked about what you have to say so much is that, you know, you're, you're not wasting time, you're not waiting for permission, you’re not getting ready. When you first take time to be able to succeed, that thing if you learn to learn this practice and I like that message man because it's really true. So, well, brother. I'll let you get back to your other activities there hopefully that market turns around, we don't have to know that number, man,

Jason: It's gotten worse.

Dave: I could have guessed that by the look on your face well I'm sure it'll come back around for you man. And if it doesn't then I'm sure you'll make it back in affiliate marketing, you know what I mean.

Jason: There's always another day it's even flow.

Dave: That's it man, of everything. Yeah. Well Jason thanks for sharing your story brother, the honest courageous truth in what you've been through. I'm glad you made it through and I'm glad that you're, you know, now a part of our community and you're giving back, so much I really appreciate it man. And I'll look forward to part two.

Jason: Man, I appreciate you having me and any of the affiliates if you guys are struggling, let me know. I'll help you out and we'll go through my now method with you to at least find your, your niche and find your, your strategy and even with what you're currently working with I'm happy to help anybody I throw people in just large groups as part of my helping a million people right, I got to offer you and we'll all work together and we'll make you amazing and bring you to the next level. I love seeing people succeed. That makes me happy, makes me smile.

Dave: Nice Jason, well thanks brother appreciate your spirit man, and, and have a great day stay Legendary my brother.

Jason: See you buddy.

Dave: All right, my friends. There you have it, just, wow, what an incredible what an incredible journey just in a short six month period. What can happen coming back from being in a, in such a bad place, You know, Jason coming from struggling, just as any story I've ever heard, to now take it to his own hands, and, and, and really taking control of his future in a way that so many people wish they could, and here's the beautiful news, you can, you can write, and it starts with a decision so whether you're just getting started or you're starting over today, which is completely okay. Get in the game, stay in the game. Come back here every morning for the sort of motivation 10am Eastern time if you want us to send you a little reminder of these, these wakeup shows you can text Wu l, 813-296-8553, I’m Dave Sharpe, on your pilot for this journey, this adventure, at least for today and I'll see you back here tomorrow. Peace.

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Matt: What’s going on everybody Happy Wednesday. It's May 5 We're here live. I got a guy Logan sitting on Deck. I can see him like he's down there in the waiting room. And we're live. So, if you're here with us, if you're here live with us. We've got Julius in the house Casey, what's happening Casey? Good to see ya. Jim is in the house as always, Mark,

what's going on, William. I imagine Mark right here screaming at a screen, Matt!

Jolene, what's going on and good to see you. Hey, if I'm coming through if you can hear me okay if it's loud and clear and there's no weird internet interruptions or anything. Hit the little Like button, give me a thumbs up, let me know that there's lots of people who are here who live with us, and you can hear me okay the audio is clear, I'm not going in and out my connections, not bad, anything like that. If you are newer or maybe this is your first time tuning in, pumped to have you here. If you don't know who I am, I'm the Chief Marketing Officer here at Legendary so typically we go live on these wakeup shows, five days a week, Monday through Friday, and Dave will host most days and I host Wednesdays typically, everybody says they can hear me just fine so rock on. And, yeah, we bring on guests, people who are affiliate marketers, digital marketers coaches, consultants, people who have been through our training, people who haven't been through our training, most of the people have been through our training or found our training somehow online. And, and then we just do a little interview and just see what's up with them, and it's pretty rare I've, I've been in this industry for a long time, I started. I first bought a Google Ads course, and started selling some high ticket travel products in 2010-ish, so about 11 years ago and have been just around the industry for a long time, it's pretty rare to have, actually, to have a company actually interview their students. And the reason is because most people sell a sort of digital education online, they're worried about results and they're worried that their stuff doesn't really work or whatever. But in our case, we like to just kind of put it on display, and let the market decide if they, if they like us or if they don't, so I'm excited to be here, and I know that this interview today is going to be really interesting Logan's started in like pest control and doing door to door sales and I thought his analogy of, of doing basically online door knocking as opposed to being a door to door sales that was fascinating to me so let's, let's Logan, without further ado, and for everybody who's here live with us. This is actually live this and that we don't actually pre record these, although that would probably be a more efficient way for us to do this and probably you know maybe more reliable, but we actually do get on at 10am Eastern, we actually do go live, and, and I've got Logan here with me so Logan's gonna come on if you all can greet him with a round of applause or, you know, give us some clapping emojis, or give us some fires parts or something, give us something fun and Logan, what's going on?

Logan: Hey, what's going on. I’m originally, Wisconsin, but now I live in Idaho. Okay, cool.

All right. So you're out in Idaho. Let's see what oh ClickFunnels is in Idaho, I was like,

I used to live in Boise, and I would go by Clickbank and ClickFunnels all the time.

Try brick by. You actually got your start by googling some marketers over there. It’s booming. Matt: Yeah. So tell us a little bit about yourself, so bring us into your world of, you know you were doing door to door sales and you can take us back as far as you want but you're doing door to door stuff pest control stuff, tell us about that. How did it lead to affiliate marketing?

Logan: Sure. So if it's okay with you, I'm actually gonna go one step ahead of that. So I've got a bachelor's in recreation management. My dad's a CEO of a YMCA and so I was like oh well I guess I'll just do that since I didn't really know what else to do. So I got a job at the YMCA and my dad got me a ton of connections and that's actually how I lived in near Boise and I opened up a new branch YMCA, I was a membership coordinator there. And I did that for a year and I realized I hate being told what to do. I hate being unappreciative. And I love my staff, I mean like, I didn't want to work there for 20 years before I started making good money like my dad, you know. Yeah, every day I'd come home, and kind of like YouTube, how to make money online and all this stuff every day and he was like, that's where I first learned about Filip marketing and that's actually where I first learned about legendary, You know back in the day brown days and the old school that was like three or four years ago but yeah, I ended up just so my buddy, my good, my good friends, he did door to door sales and I said, Dude, what is all this about was his commission stuff and he's like well just come out and give it a try so I quit my job got a new home and went all the way back started training. Then I started doing pest control sales so I would recruit people. I train them, I go hit doors all day, every day for like six months out of the year for Siri West Sacramento, and like 110 degree weather. And I am without my wife so it sucks because, like, it was hard. And then the next year, like I'm a kid trying to find a good vehicle to get what I want out of life basically. Yeah, it was cool because for six months, I busted my butt but then six months like I could just do whatever I wanted, you know, which mostly ended up being recruiting and training people, but just let you know I became a regional so I oversaw ATF sales reps, and we'd go every summer door to door, but last year with coke well first of all the job itself, just so everybody knows, like some people love it some people don't like. It's very mentally and physically draining, you're not going to the door, you don't know it could be, you know, anyone behind the door and they can hate you, they call the cops on you, you know, it's very unhealthy and almost in my eyes. And so not only that but I was like, I have a one year old son so he was born in February, and the first part didn't see him at all. Like I'd leave an ad I'm gonna get 10pm And I was like, Dude, I don't even know who my son is really. And so, with all that going on and then COVID hit two of my via two branches where they were doing pest control and sales reps, one of them completely fell apart, of like 50 sales reps quit. And so just my income got slashed by like 70%, I was like geez, I gotta figure something out because I'm not happy over here either. And so, back towards the end of July, I took the 15 day business challenge. I already liked you guys started watching guys a ton on YouTube and I've always liked legendary. And I was like man. I wonder if I can apply this to my job now, so instead of knocking doors and, and so it's funny because I brought my 18 year old brother. So we're like 10 years apart. He's right out of high school and he and I decided hey let's try this out for Pest Control and so we use all the strategy strategies that we learned there and we were just making sales online at home while the sales reps were busting their butts. We're just having fun, actually hilarious. 

Matt: What do you mean, what types of strategies and stuff?

Logan: So the maximum both the good and bad thing about pest control and the difference between like what we can do here on like TikTok and YouTube and all that stuff, it doesn't wear local company so I'm basically an affiliate for the local company here, and it's called Insight and so anytime someone signs up I got a commission, a fixed commission just like any affiliate company. And so all I did, I had to work with more locally and worldwide so I'd use Facebook groups locally, I'd go on the Buy Sell trade the garage sales, everything out of every little city near me, and I would just I would just use the lead generation strategies in the copywriting to Hey, like spiders, ants and wasps so my, you know like some like that, and say hey if you guys want control let me know. And then I'd, you know, I would do my exact same pitch on the door but online. Just the messages so

Matt: I love it. That's super cool. My brain goes a million places, it reminds me of this guy. So, so there's this guy, his name's Joe Polish and we know. He basically took, you know, strategies and copywriting and direct response marketing and applied it to his carpet cleaning business. And same deal just door knocking constantly going door to door to door to door, just took that basically went online with advertising and sales letters and you might have actually done some like direct mail stuff too but just exploded now he's got a whole marketing mastermind that people pay. I mean, I think for him, it's like $25,000 for his mark, or his like Kimmer what he calls it anyway, just funny how the skills are so transferable and hilarious. It's crazy. And the cool part is is like sometimes people are like, it people are a little bit hesitant or they're or they're nervous about going into like, like, sort of, More, more like physical services, type things, like, like I think about air conditioning, handyman services, Pest Control stuff like that, like, But the cool part is is like 95% of businesses and those industries suck at marketing, no clue how to get business and you apply any good marketing strategy in those industries, and we’ll have a line out the door forever, because they're so easy to market that people just don't know how to market them.

Logan: You can literally reach out to probably, it's a thing like window washing machine going up here in Idaho, there's a lot of snow like snow blowing and like it gets heavy heavy snow. If you can, if you can find the CEO of any of those companies a lot of times they'll pay you a high fixed commission, like upwards for pest control it's upwards, usually rookies start around like 30% and it goes all the way up to 50 or 55% Sometimes, and they sign up for the year so you get, you get the value on the whole year and so one thing I do like that's cool is a lot of people are like, Oh man, I have to promote courses I have to promote this or that there's a 1,000 things in this world that you can take from this challenge, and promote them people need to open up and widen their perspective a little bit because that's how I got started, and obviously I promote Legendary because I love it, and software is now I'm affiliate for a lot more things but it can just, I like it because whenever I'm talking to people and teaching people it's like you don't have to just on the doula courses you can do whatever you want.

Logan: Yeah, totally. And I think one of the, one of the best realizations that I had and that I see people have is just, it's, it's almost like this sense of relief, a little bit because they'll they'll purchase something and they assume that they've because maybe they've come from network marketing or MLM or whatever and it's sort of a red weird feeling like I've got a recruit and do what you did and do it exactly how he did it or whatever. And then they end up getting into it and they just don't like it. And I'm like, hey you know what, like, like you might, you might, you might fail or it might take you longer to do something like pest control if you're, if you know if you don't have the model set for you. But if you're really into pest control you'll probably enjoy it a lot more and you probably long term have way more success, because, like you're actually like talking about something, you know, and you're pumped about it, you know, it's just, it's fascinating.

Logan: Well, and also, also you have to think like when I'm knocking on doors the coldest of cold calls, like interactions like they don't like me they I'm interrupting their dinner, whatever they hate me. And that's hard to take mentally, and as opposed to that where it's like hey guys, if you haven't, tons of bugs I'm giving a discount. People are like, seriously helping me out and getting to my house like it's a warm up warm lead, and just the fact that it's like my life becomes 1,000 times easier.

Matt: Number one, You've got people who already have a problem and need a solution, and then number two, you've got a huge portion of the public who loves a deal. Who doesn't love a deal, I know people who will buy stuff just because it's a deal, like, you know when I've got when I like, I, it's always just interesting when you move into a new house, and, and we're kind of going down the pest control route but cool who cares. It's like, it's like when you move into your new house you just don't know what you don't know right so like, so for instance like when we moved in there was evidence of termites but not active termites. Termites that had previously been cleared out but they hadn't really like cleaned the lines off the wall and everything or painted over them or whatever. And then there's also just little things like about the pool that I'm, you know, I don't get disclosed every single detail about the pool. And so, you know somebody, if I see a little ad or I see something in a Facebook Local Group or something about like, hey, you know for first time pool cleaning is 10 bucks right or it's it's 30 bucks, because that's a huge thing here in Phoenix, kind of like the snow thing up there, you know, cool thing down here, same deal, it's like, well shoot, I'll give it a shot. I'll see if I like the guy and my if I don't like the guy I think he's weird or I think he's untrustworthy, he's not trustworthy or something then, you know, whatever I'm only out 20 bucks and my pool got cleaned, you know, and I'm still actually pretty happy about it because I at least got some diagnostic done on my pool. Same with pest control it's like, you know if I got, if I got a great discount and then from the business end, you know, the business owners and they know for every $20 coupon that they give out. They're going to convert x amount, you know, whether that's 10% or 50% or whatever, those people into long term. In the long term, pest control services, so they just know like I can afford to pay this to an affiliate or to a you know a salesperson whatever is its Yeah, and then as the affiliate, it's like a, it's a huge win, you get to actually leverage the power of the internet. Yeah, especially like with that like if it's something you know and something useful even inherently like obviously pest control like that's a pretty big thing you don't want to be living with freaking rodents running around, you know like, it's, I don't know it's just fascinating, and I'm always these kind of conversations always excite me because it's, there's just this, there's this final gap of sort of creativity that I want more people to realize in their life of like taking taking skills, taking training and and applying a little bit of themselves to it, right just applying a little bit of sprinkling in themselves into the situation and like what am I actually interested in what, you know, what problems could I really help the world, and then going out to a company and being like, hey, I can bring you XYZ amount of leads. You can even do this with paid advertising right people. Yeah, people do. Totally. A lot of people do. Some people do it with SEO. Some people do it with paid Google ads. And, yeah, Facebook, exactly Facebook ads. I think Facebook ads might have been bigger when you could target homeowners, right so they remove some of those demographics and then. Yeah, just a couple. So, you know, it's just, I hope that people see that just because that's such a powerful takeaway and I don't know, essential fun, actually so are you still doing the pest control?

Logan: Just a little bit on the side. Like, there's pros and cons to it because a lot of it is they, so like, you basically are selling someone a year long contract. And so you get the contract value and then you get a percentage of that. But the thing that I don't like about it is there's a lot outside of my hands like what if the technician doesn't show up, You know what, if they didn't do a good service like that and then also I'm out of money. And so that's why it's an awesome thing because people like that, tangible, they see the person they see, it's not like any question of ethics, and you're helping people there's a need, but digital products are awesome because it's just like, boom, you download it you get what you get and that's it and, you know, there's really, yeah there's a lot less guesswork I feel like. So it's been fun for me to kind of jump into this industry, as well and kind of help others, you know, promote things that I'm actually passionate about because, like, You can probably understand I'm passionate about Bug's Life. But I enjoy helping people and I enjoy that it was a good vehicle for my family and stuff but I definitely enjoyed helping people see the power online and leveraging what people can do and finding their passions and it's fun for me to see people's light bulb go off in their head like, wow, you know, maybe I can do something to actually enjoy, instead of being sucked into a job that I hate my whole life and you just think that's how it is.

Matt: Yeah, yeah, I love that. Yeah, I'm big, that's that's me too. That's what makes me tick is when those light bulbs start kind of being and people start to see that. That's always been a trick for as long as I've been teaching people in courses and helping mentor people in this space has always been sort of making that connection.

Logan: One thing that I might want to add to the order of our industries, doing door to door sales for like 15 or 20 years right. Some people are like, Wait, that still exists? Yeah, so those like whenever I, I've always loved the online aspect, like I said I found you guys like four years ago so even before I did test, I was like trying to always incorporate How can I do some of this recruiting, how can I do some of this sales online, and every time I would bring it up, people would shut my ideas down because it no just stick to the doors like just hard work grit, you know, put in more time. So I just feel like you, like you kind of set sprinkling that in creativity, if you kind of have a vision like I would stay up at night sometimes and just think, like, Man, how can I make this. The reason I wanted to name this online door knocking is because when I'm in front of someone's door it's just one person to one person. When you're online, some of these Facebook groups or when you make a TikTok video or YouTube video, I'm pitching or talking to or teaching one to 1,000’s or even hundreds of 1,000’s of people, it's just like so much smarter in this digital age if you're not leveraging that stuff, then in my eyes are kind of falling behind. Yeah, and I feel like a lot of people are just kind of stuck in the way especially maybe some of these older CEOs or business people can help them see what about like, maybe I'm doing this incorrectly or there's something out there, else that can help like you have a lot of power, a lot

of power,

Matt: A lot of power. Yeah, that's, that's one thing I did when I, when I first kind of fell in love with paid advertising and little bit after that basically I yeah I mean I started an ADS agency here in Phoenix, where I was doing that with, with, for instance, one guy was a fitness instructor had six locations, and couldn't drive a lead to save his life he hired three different social media agencies who, you know just posted and created cute content never generated any leads form. So, you know, after working with me, his review was, you know, I told myself, I'll never hire another marketing agency ever again. After my experience with those. And within just two days of mastering my ads, I had, like, not only leads people signing up for a free session, but people who actually then went on to pay me money, and I just was shocked. and I was like, that was it for me right, like having gone through, basically, I would say that my training hasn't been much more than sort of training that we offer for instance like in our traffic university or like it, you know, a Facebook ads course, it wasn't that complicated. I was like dude just frickin target people in Phoenix, have a great video that talks about what you do and what and let people sign up for a free session, and that dude. The crazy part is for CEOs or for people who actually do the business, closing people in the long term, like physical fitness is, that's nothing for them, they don't even, for him it was like, I asked her I was like well how many of these do you actually close like I want to know what percentage and he was like, it's pretty rare that I don't close, like I've seen like nine out of 10 people come in for a free session end up. I was like, down so I think for most of these people, they, they live, eat and breathe their business, they know it inside and out, it's all they know that's why they're in the business they're in. And if you can bring more people who are excited to their doorstep like that's really all that they need. And then, you know, that's, that's affiliate marketing, that's what affiliate marketing is I essentially you know he was paying me a retainer fee but could have easily just went the other way, and, and I could have just, you know, become an affiliate for him, I think. I think for some people just using that creative mind or that creative power and finding, you know affiliate offers in their niche, Marissa was on here, a week or so ago, and she came in, watch the challenge, and she bought our Blueprints. And she was like, did she was literally one of the first things she did was just think to herself like what could I promote that I would know about, and she had been. I, I don't want to get this wrong, I think I think I'm remembering this right but she had essentially like like mugged or or something like assaulted, import. And so, she was passionate about self defense, and online googling. A little bit found a Self Defense Force talk to the person into allowing her to be an affiliate, the guy even bumped her commission, and started promoting a self defense course and just blew it up 10s of 1000s of dollars in sales. And so, it's just that tiny bit of creativity, and then she was like, Look, I know how to speak to these people, I noticed to women, I know how to speak to women who have been victims of self defense, are victims of assault or maybe fear that maybe not victims of it, maybe just fear that and having some sort of courses like that such a great course to know how to defend yourself strategies, things like that she really believed in it so she went whole hog. So I just think him. I love that I love that messaging and I love just, you know, not even getting into different business models which I've done like forget about getting into running ads and, you know, e commerce or whatever else he could just stick inside of about pretty basic affiliate marketing model and get really creative on what you actually promote.

Logan: Yeah. Well, what I liked about what she said is she knew the pain points, and then she could just speak to that. It's the same thing with me like if you're wanting to be an affiliate for pest control. Now the pain points of like a while there's some bugs in my pool you know or I keep getting these things my house like my wife hates spiders like know those pain points and then for me also, on the other side as a door to door salesman. I know all the pain points of being a door to door salesman like I could also, if I ever wanted to put together a program of just teaching people how to get sales online. Instead knocking doors all day like I know that you're out there all day you're getting rejected it's sunny outside, you're getting anxiety, depression, you don't know how to respond like all these things, all these payments as a door to door salesman I could say Dude, why not just stay at home, host something for an hour a day and get people flooding into you, like, that'd be another pain point just because I've been there and I know it. And so, what I, there's a lot of people who are watching this or who will watch this, that you guys in your own industries knows the pain, you guys know the pain points and you can become affiliates for things that can help you know solve those problems, because in the end that's all his marketing is and solving problems.

Matt: Totally. Tell her that that's all that marketing is, I wanted to juice on the note of this whole like getting creative thing, this is a blog by Spencer. Spencer Mechem. I don't know if you've heard of him, but he's a popular affiliate marketer. Yeah, so he has his blog posts, I show this to people quite often but it's, it's just basically on dog affiliate programs but like sometimes people want to get into certain niches to where like, you know, and I'm thinking about, you know, your idea with pest control or whatever like there's so many different ways to go about this but, like, people forget that, you know you can you can be an affiliate for a $200 smart dog collar right like a GPS tracking dog collar. This is a Clickbank course here, there's, there's Furbo, there's all, there's the fitbark right so there's I just inside of and even on his thing, I mean he, he shares. He shares different industries to surance or spirituality or like all these different all these different niches and, man, I just think if people were to dive into an industry that they're like freakishly past passionate about, and on fire about, He would make this whole journey so much easier and then if they can get into that and then realize, oh my gosh like throughout my email follow ups as I build a list in the dog training niche, I can throw them, I can throw them a deal or something for, for the smart dog collar or as I was in the as I was playing around this dog niche I signed up for today's affiliate program so chewy is an online dog. Basically dog food and treats. You can buy dog food online whenever they got a bunch of other stuff too, and you can sign up in their affiliate program, and they have like a very detailed affiliate manager, who will send out like weekly deals or new sales for the weekend or holiday sales that are running with prices and product listings and like resources you can use images, stuff like that. And you can grab those, throw them in your email autoresponder and make a couple sales on physical products too. So sometimes, like, I just think, as people are building their list, they forget or maybe they don't know that there's this whole world out there of physical products, digital products, even coaching, consulting dot like actual in person dog training programs. just crazy. I get pumped up about this because I think people would really benefit from connecting passions to affiliate marketing that's certainly just where the fire really lights.

Logan: You said a lot of cool things. So one thing that also got set up is even a passenger industry. I'm always building someone else's business like when I find someone else up. I'm getting, you know I'm getting that email for that company so that's one big reason why I loved, start building my own email list and my own businesses because then you can promote nine different things you know you're not just subject and kind of like chain and ball to one little thing where that's why it's important to, you know, do it the right way which which we teach here Legendary like get the opt in page the bridge page or whatever, and build that list because all of a sudden you're in control, and you're not just being told what to do and how to say it, you have all this freedom where you, you know, say this pest control company all of a sudden, you notice, like I'm just going with pests, right, but they don't, they start not to do the service or well or if things aren't working out, you can always just switch to a different company, or, you know, even let's say that like I completely get away from this local pest company, and I wanted to make like a tick tock on bugs and just how gross they are you can recommend all the products, you know, online, all the different products so they could do a DIY your house right. Yeah, a lot of people are doing it themself. The thing that kept me up all night for like four years before I finally got the courage to start online was just the endless possibilities that can, that because of this digital age, we all have at our fingertips. A lot of times like I was just scared to start for a long long time. Yep. And so, if you know that's what I love about Legendary in general, the community is amazing. The training is amazing. I've met like so many cool friends, just from marketing and doing what we all love and it's fun, and we all help each other which is so cool. If you're dealing with the Doggy Dog world. Yep. So that's what I've really enjoyed.

Matt: I love it, dude. I love it. So good. Yeah, I, yeah, there's so many golden nuggets. Yeah, I think, man, I don't know what else to say. Like auto words I just, I yeah, I don't know anything, I'll give you the last word. I was trying to pull something and I was just like I feel like everything, everything, said, it's yeah, it's been. 

Logan: For me it's just I think marketing is amazing. I think it can help them feel a lot of people's lives every day, like I just started this talk two months ago and obviously the biggest I got was like 25 or 20,000, which for me is crazy. Is this cool how you can get in front of people to help people out and I would say anyone who's gonna start just dismiss all the weird people that say crazy weird stuff like, and really hone in on the community and all the support that you guys can have. If you guys are maybe thinking about legendary or pursuing more education, I would say go for it like you want to keep growing and expanding and trying new things and if you're thinking about it, just start it and you'll be. It's so funny like my first video I've ever made was really garbage, but it's so fun to see the progression. And this has nothing to do with anything but like my entire life I think I've always been addicted to like leveling up, like, like you know the rank up now people that you guys have on here, things forever go leveling up in real life, right, the cool the cool thing about marketing guys is every video ever, you know, post every blog post every podcast you guys are literally leveling up you're helping more people getting more viewers, and it feels good, there's like no way that you can succeed in the long run. You know what I mean because the more action you take, the more people are going to be in front of the more people you're helping, you're gonna you're gonna succeed so that's, that's kind of my thoughts.

Matt: I love that. I, I don't know, just sometimes I get the sense that somebody like he actually said it but sometimes it just get the sense that somebody just really loves marketing that I love marketing but, and that's really funny because I referenced that goes full circle I referenced Joe Polish earlier that he runs a podcast called The I love marketing podcast. I don't know if that's still going I haven't, I haven't listened to that for four years but anyway. Cool Logan thanks for coming on man, keep it. If I can help you in any way, let me know, I'm always available. Thanks for the value brought today, that was incredible.

Logan: Thanks man. Thank you.

Matt: Yeah. Alright guys, that's a guy who loves marketing that's for damn sure. And it's, and it's killing it, he's crushing it so thanks to everybody for tuning in. We're here live 10am Eastern every freakin day. Well, not every freaking day, every Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern. It's not a seven days a week show. I mean we do need to live somewhat so if you're newer though, you can text this number on your screen and you'll actually text the letters. WUL 813-296-8553 What'll happen is you'll get a text message reminder every time we go live. So, Ryan is about to tell you a little, the guest and then we'll send you a link to join you. Just tap that link, it'll go straight over to the live, it's super easy. And yeah, if you prefer to listen to these as opposed to watch them you can find us on like Apple podcasts Spotify. A few others. The other ones are a little less well known so wherever you listen to podcasts on just go search it, if it's not there, find it on Spotify or Apple, or just find us on Facebook, it's the Legendary Marketer fan page, and we'll be back here tomorrow. Same time, same place, Take it easy.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe, Welcome to Wake Up Legendary once again here we are here this morning. We are going to be talking to an ex publicist who is making more money now, as a digital marketer using the skills that we teach right here at Legendary copywriting funnel building running ads, promote products, obviously then moving on to promoting your own coaching courses or even services really selling information using direct response marketing, and we'll get that. Talk a little bit about what exactly those direct response marketing skill sets are a little bit more because they're very different from what you learn in school or college but with that being said, Please everyone in the comments, help me welcome to the show. first time guest, Andrea, are you there, can you hear me?

Andrea: I think, how are you?

Dave: I'm great. I'm great. I'm great. Can you hear me okay? 

Andrea: Yep. Yep, I sure can. 

Dave: So where are you calling from. Are you in Peru?

Andrea: Yes, inside.

Dave: Well I was just there in the beginning of 2020 I came down, I flew into

the capital, Lima. And then we went out. That's where you are?

Andrea: Yes.

Dave: So then we flew out to Peru. Where is the place that you, the other big city in the middle of the country before you get to Machu Picchu or that's a city that's close to Machu Picchu?

Or Cusco. Yeah. So then we went out to Cusco, and we went to Machu Picchu, which is, of course, one of the wonders of the world. And it's really a, it was really a great trip. So,

before the pandemic. It was so it was so big. One last incredible event was before the pandemic and we absolutely loved it and it's I'm just I'm sharing this travel this travel story, traveling to your country because you know that's what we titled this, you know we titled this particular episode X publicists makes more money traveling than at her corporate job. So, to give us a little bit of your backstory about what you used to do, and how you got into online marketing.

Andrea: Okay, so I went to college for something called Communication Sciences, and advertising. So just follow like a regular but school for life and then I went. I started my corporate working first like in ad agencies, just doing regular advertising. I worked as an audiophile just like no one was doing some. So, I don't care. And then, it was very like freedom. I didn't like it very much. Besides the regular daily job. There's a lot of festivals and awards that you cannot push to participate in, so you need to go almost twice. I didn't know there was like no other possibility of making money in a different way, I felt like you either have a regular job, or you start a business like an offline business. So I was trying to find a way to bring my outside corporate job, I was kind of trying to say, like within interlace purposes I didn't know which one was what I was trying different things. I even had like, Just, just in business at one point. And then I did a couple other online things before I got into affiliate marketing. I met this guy, like in a travel group because I always like to travel. I want to travel and I only had like two or three weeks a year, so that was definitely not enough. Yeah, I just feel like people make time in the office, which I do. Yes, I met this girl, and she was traveling, full time. So kind of, you know, she's on. She went through housing and so I started researching about it. The first thing I did, like, in the online work, I guess because I had a little bit of background with advertising and copywriting, in that, in that way. So I started doing that first. I launched my first product, and I was doing fine, we started from my first launch it was successful. So that's when I say I'm gonna quit my job. I was doing that for about six months and it was my 30th birthday, so I was like I'm not going to do this anymore. So I went out and quit my job and I wasn't able to find any more there like a couple ranks more inventory. And then all of a sudden when I was struggling, I was literally. And then I got like a couple who were so awesome, they were competitors. And it was healthy but eventually I realized that it wasn't very sustainable because you were not in full control of the thing, and you could lose your business, at any point. So that helped me inventory, and they know what to do with it. And I was like a gentleman so I need to find a way to give me money. So I started doing like, I just thought about inventory, in a way. And I, it was the only thing I knew how to do all night at that point, selves. So, I started to adopt it. Very well. But it was barely sustainable I felt because, like I was always trying to fix something, just add shipping, and I was doing, I was dealing with customers, I was really hoping it was a lot to deal with and you could also like your ads. And you have like your Facebook account banned so I felt like it was always like, trying to put up the firing sort of something. So I yeah I feel like it was not sustainable. And then I got into it. Yeah, I feel like those people are doing. I guess the people that I saw that were doing it were promoting good for us, that looks interesting, Like everybody that I was learning from and that was awesome like sharing their knowledge, like reverse this. I mean as part of their job was doing affiliate marketing for. Clickfunnels software companies. Yeah, yeah, that's when I started learning about that. But in the middle of the pandemic. When that happened, the first thing I said was, Well, I'm still working on a couple of books. So I started with that, because I didn't feel like I still knew a lot. So I was trying to learn.

Dave: Andrea, what led you, what led you to legendary marketer, how did you find us in what did you find appealing or attractive about, about our community and our company, I think it was one of the groups for instance, the circle of people, especially for my gun. Making a group. Yeah and I saw that they were talking about it and they were doing very well with it.

Andrea: Like, I would get that okay with us, but I feel like I had like Polish like

I wouldn't be able to enjoy people, but, like, somebody else's experience and knowledge, but also sharing what was working for me. But still, it's like having a reputation that, like, somebody that had.

Dave: Andrea, you have a lot of connection issues, we can't really hear you that well and it's cutting in and out, is there a place in your, in your house that you would get a better internet connection? Okay. All right, go ahead and pull up your laptop. Sorry, guys. I'm aware, I know everybody's in the comments like she's having connection problems it's like we know guys, she's in Peru. So, Let's see, let's give her a chance. All right, let's, let's see here.

Let's see here. All right. Hang up on your hang up on your phone there.

There you go. Okay, so, now give me a microphone check.

A bit better. Yeah, yeah, okay. Yeah. Okay, Okay, good, good. Okay, so. So, tell me again what, what you got into affiliate marketing, and you, you found Legendary Marketer and what was appealing and attractive to our community?

Andrea: Well, obviously, I saw that people were doing very well with the product and then the offer was converting very well for a lot of people, and I also liked that it was like a very diverse company because I asked not white women. I see a lot of white men doing very well in the internet space. So, I saw that there were a lot of women and a lot of non white people, so I like that. I like that, it was like, like everybody would like to do well with the company. And besides that, I like that. I always say, the highlight like a good reputation, and I could promote this, like, Sure, a little bit of affiliate marketing that I felt like I knew when I was starting the experience I had with digital marketing in general, but also like, obviously, be able to share, like, some, some knowledge from somebody to handle a lot more experienced than me.

Dave: Yeah. Cool. Well, absolutely. We love, I love that. You know you saw diversity here because that's from the inside out, we're a really diverse company. And that's actually really, that's really, I mean, I think part of it is just like it happened, but a lot of it is created we want. We want to have women, we want to have non white people in positions of influence and leadership here in this company, both inside of our team, that do inside of our internal team but also inside of the field and in our trainers and everything because, yeah, this is a worldwide business and we want people, no matter what country they are, no matter what gender they are, no matter what race they are to know that you can be successful, I noticed also. And I'm just assuming because you're from Peru English is not your first native language, right, of course, as you can

hear because are you marketing primarily to English speaking audiences though?

Andrea: Yes, yes. Yeah, like, my loyal customers. So, both from Tiktok, nd Facebook like speaking in your speaking like this, like huge weight more so. So some questions about people trying to learn the course in Spanish, because it's not very profitable in Latin America just picking stuff out. So, I do get questions about it but yeah like.

Dave: So you're, you're doing a couple of cool things that I want to point out, the first thing that I know that you're doing that's cool is, you're doing a lot of marketing on Pinterest. And you're also. You're also blogging. So talk to us a little bit about how you got into Pinterest, why there's opportunity there and exactly how you're using it.

Andrea: Yes, so I got into Pinterest from blogging courses that I took. I, after taking quite a few courses because I always find them very valuable and I feel like, different people are very expert in very different specific things. So I go and take courses like blogging courses, some Pinterest traffic, or whatever. So I did this. Well in cars. It was focused kind of like on getting traffic trumpeters, so the good thing about Pinterest, like, it's like a search engine like Google, the same way, but people say it's like a Thumper Google because you don't need to do so much, optimization for your content to rock, you know, because there's not, not as much competition, competition as there is in Google. And, yeah, also because it's like a visual search engine, so you have like two times the opportunities for your content around, and you can also like to make it way more appealing that way. And also, a cool thing about Pinterest is that you can promote affiliate links without a website, or with Tableau, which is something that a lot of people always ask me, How can I get started with our website, because I guess people think that it would say something very complicated. They don't want to, so you can actually promote to the links of features without a website or blog. But as I learned it's not the best way to do it, because you don't get to get the emails and you don't get to follow up and you'll get to increase your conversions. It's like a really good way to get traffic first for some niches, is very focused on the audience is a lot of women, and a lot of like, moms, so it has a lot of people on the fitness niche or on the decor or beauty of fashion, but it also, like with cycles and trying to build lots of make money online so has, like, more specific niches than let's say Google, but yeah, it works really well. It has a huge audience. And it's also known to have like a better conversion rate than other social media platforms, like a lot of people out there looking to buy the house like more of have like a more purchase and know how to collect like purchase power

conversion rate, purchase power conversion rate.

Dave: So, people out there like buying more than in other platforms they're

there, they're there, they're shopping and they're in there ready to buy something that's

my intention, yeah. Okay, So tell me how, how, if I was getting started brand new and I wanted to use Pinterest, are you, how would I use it. Are you mainly using or let me ask it differently, how are you using, are you taking blog posts because I also know that you're blogging. Are you taking blog posts that you write and looking to promote those blog posts on Pinterest, or are you using Pinterest exclusively to post images there to send them right to an offer?

Andrea: Now I am using it is sending traffic to my blog, and then on my blog, I have the links inside of content like content links, and I also have different lead magnets, lead magnets, where I collect people's emails and then I take into a funnel, which is the same funnel I use for Legendary in different platforms like on TikTok on Logan prisoners, I use the same funnel. So, I offered them a lead magnet that it can be either, like for the high ticket affiliate programs, or for how to create your own lead magnet like different freebies and they had taken to that segment. And I then promote the offer to show the pre bridge page, and enter the email. 

Dave: Okay, so let's say that I have a blog and we do each of our own. Each of our wakeup shows, we actually take and we transcribe them and put them on to the blog. And as you can see we've got also the video. We've got a headline, we've got the video, we've got a call to action that goes into our funnel, and then we've got the transcription of the blog, because it's good, you know, good solid heavy, you know it's keyword depth, a lot of content to 3000 words per post. And it's easy to do because it's, this is just really repurposing content guys, that's the reason why I'm pointing this out with this show every morning. This is our as a company content strategy we do the show. We take the video posted on YouTube, transcribe it, put it on the blog to rip the audio out, put it on a podcast, and now one singular piece of content, it's live, gets repurposed. Well it's, it's streamed live, it goes, it stays on Facebook so it gets rewatched there it goes on YouTube. It goes on the blog, so it ranks in Google for it over time. It goes on lots of other platforms, Apple Spotify, you know, all kinds of different podcasts platforms so this one show that I do live, that requires zero prep preparation on my part gets repurposed at least seven to eight times. I digress. So if I wanted to take this blog, these blog posts every day, and I wanted to repurpose and post them on Pinterest, what would I do? Andrea walk me through the process of actually pinning something, and promoting my blog post.

Andrea: Yes. So, first you need to do a little bit of keyword research, which you can use the search bar for, like if you start typing your query there is. Yeah, so I would decide what it means. Yeah affiliate marketing, probably, and then it's going to suggest some firms. Yeah, just if you just write affiliate marketing is gonna, yeah, yeah cuz there's no one so smart, you know, so he only knows a few terms. Yeah, so then you have some suggestions that you can target in your title and your description. Okay, this is the type of pills that I use, and that I recommend using because you can optimize them with that title on Diamond, so a lot of people just like the product picture, or the yeah like a recipe or something. But if you have the title on the, on the Scripture in the image, then you can get more of them optimized. So okay, we'll just find a search term that I want to target like say Affiliate Marketing For Beginners so affiliate marketing with Pinterest and affiliate marketing with Instagram just choose one of those, and then we'll make a little thing like this one to know like just the image with the title.

Dave: Now I need to go over and I need to make a little image right.

Andrea: Yes, yes, you can use Canva, which is free. And of all the pins that would work better, are those that are kind of like bright colors and white backgrounds so you want it to be white, clean looking.

Dave: So why do I need to use a vertical image like this?

Andrea: If you go on the templates, they're gonna have like a Pinterest template.

Dave: Oh, they will?

Andrea: Yeah, I think you need to search for it. I can't see you, see my screen?

Dave: Yeah, yeah, there it is, that's just nice.

Andrea: Alright so you can start with, or you can start from scratch but then there you have the sites.

Dave: I'm gonna do one and I want and I want you to give me your. I want you to give me your opinion here, on, on, let's see. Okay, I want to go black. And then because of the reason why. The reason why I'm going black is because I don't see anything here with black and I feel like these, these ones that have color in the background, or have a face that we'll do, we'll do better. Okay. All right, so stand out from the, from the rest of them.

Alright, affiliate marketing for or beginners upsets- horrible spelling. Alright let me pull this out.

You guys didn't know this morning that you were going to get a tutorial did you

come on now. Interesting, yeah, that's, I know I'm gonna, and you know what, I'm all Pro. I'm also learning to hear this morning, I'm taking my Pinterest game to the next level.

eBay something, or you get something to it.

Andrea: Ah, do you have a Pinterest for Legendary.

Dave: No, no. Yeah, no. Isn't that. Isn't that sad.

It takes a lot less time to run on Pinterest: . Really. Yeah, like, three to four months.

Alright, so now I'm going to put this, find, find out what it means to take risk as an affiliate marketer. Alright, and let's see here, what I need. Actually, let's try this. Okay, now we're getting somewhere. We're getting some water baby oh yeah I'm liking what I'm seeing a little bit bigger. Find out what it means to take risk as an affiliate marketer. Let's see if I have any. Can I throw a picture in the air of myself and. Oh, I see I think I've seen like probably somebody else has. Though something's for or allegedly because I've seen your face..

Oh, I'm sure. Look at this, look at this the clickable, the clickable video looking image.

Andrea: Yeah, that's a good one.

Dave: Now remember guys, why am I, why am I building, this, this image to look so ugly. Because ugly converts, that's why.

Andrea: Yeah, I was like, I was still like sales funnels, well mergers actually really like, basic, but yeah, I've tried with my now and they convert and printers that actually read that text from the image. So, it is good that you take some time to do the appropriate things.

Dave: Alright so here we go. Find out what it means to take risk as an affiliate marketer and make money from it. Affiliate Marketing For Beginners, alright. Oh, here we go. So now I'm going to take this and I am going to download it. All right. Oh here we go. Alright so now I got to go back here and how do I even make a post.

Andrea: Do you have an account there?

Dave: I do yeah I've logged in.

Andrea: So you just good, good. Yeah, click on your, like, account

you're like, oh, I should have appeared like a plus sign. Yeah, you should see the plus sign on the right.

Dave: Create a path, okay, okay. Boom, here we go, people here we go we are pending baby, we are pending.

And I do have left boards now, but on Pinterest, you have these collections that are called boards. So, you will need to add like a proper title and description to your boards, because it helps you rank your account name and your birth name.

So what I've been doing on my Pinterest is I've been using it for like, like, like jewelry and stuff for my own personal jewelry design. So I made rings for my wedding day.

So I need to make a board called affiliate marketing, right. Yeah. Okay, and now, now I'm going to add this pan to my Affiliate Marketing Board.

Andrea: Yes, and you can add a title and a description, like those who need to be optimized for keywords.

Dave: Yeah, what it means to take risk as an affiliate marketer and make money from it. How's that title too long?

Andrea: Nice fine, you still have some like space left you want to use as much as you can. Dave: Okay, let's see, share an amazing journey, afraid to talk to people. Just looking for it. Alright, let me just, let me just, I'm just gonna right, tell everyone what you, What your pain is about keywords from it game risk. Now how to make money from taking risk, and turning that risk into profit. Should I give them a call to action and my description.

It's not gonna make such a difference. I do know that it's not recommended that you add a click here on the thing because that can be seen as spam. Okay. As soon as possible. Okay. You can select like hashtags but Pinterest has changed a little bit so it's calling the same if you have the hashtags, or just the words. Business model online work, creamy where I will click anywhere, work from home, big Monster profits, work less. Alright here we go so now I'm going to take my now I'm going to take my blog post link, and I'm going to put it down here at the add the destination link right. Yes. Okay. Save, do I put press save.

Andrea: Yes.

Dave: Now, do I want to promote my pen as some sort of paid thing or is it. Okay, I just want to see it now. Yeah, so we're pinning, would you so whoa, You know what, when you click that bad boy. That's what I like about clicking when you click that thing, man, it goes right, or right corner or whatever, man, I should. It's like, here's the, here's the problem. Here's the problem with online marketing. I'm gonna be how many of you guys are getting value out of this. Come on, break down what, now we are doing things this morning. Okay, they're rooting me off. I want to see more. Okay. So, the problem, Andrea, the problem with the internet, Here's the problem is there's actually too many opportunities. And once you see that something's working you realize that you can make anything work yet like you just don't have the time to do everything but you realize that there's like a lot of ways to make money. So, so you're basically guys you really need to stop egging me on because you know I'm gonna, I will I will I will get up and drop my Eagle, I will, I will do the Tootsie Roll, I will do the as Drake calls it the to see slide, I'll do it all, and I will, I will turn this into a dance party straight up, and I'll be the only one dancing right because every morning. I don't just like meditation dance parties. You know, those kinds of things hold hands singing Kumbaya virtual hands singing Kumbaya, right, blessing Egypt. Okay, so, yes, there's too much opportunity, there's, there's, there's literally, like, there's, there's so many different ways that you can create passive traffic in but when the reason why I say passive traffic, all my words I use very purposefully is because that little bit of work that literally took, you know it's my first time ever doing a pin, okay, okay, a virgin. I was a virgin pinner

Interesting. Yes, and now that I know how to do it and I could train somebody of course to do that too. It takes five minutes, and those pins can literally create, You know, passive traffic for me, as those continue to get ranked in the Pinterest search engines and show up there. What else do we need to know about Pinterest?

Andrea: Well, it's kind of like a numbers game. So you need to add the more pins you make, the better, because not all of them are going to rank, because that's the way the platform works and because people are bidding on it. So, the more things you have, the more chance you have to have one result, and that is bingo via make you get a lot of traffic, but there's like a few fancy to consider like you don't want to ping the same URL, too often, to be spammy, so you want to like wait a week in between, and then you can create like images, both Thank you ever like every week for the same like look all the same things they want to make.

Dave: What if somebody has just one funnel one offer you know they're new at affiliate marketing. I mean, is that really gonna hurt them to use the same link over and over again on every on every pin.

Andrea: Well, if you pin the same post like everyone else they definitely can, like hear you and can help you like my spam, so they can even take them into account, or just not not show them on a result. 

Dave: What would be some creative ways that somebody who is brand new, who only has, you know that one, that one link to their funnel, they don't have a blog, they don't have, should they send pins to their tic tock videos, should they send pins to YouTube videos, should they send pins to other people's content and just, just find other things to promote or to link to? So it's kind of like value value value, and then pitch.

Andrea: right, like Twitter, or YouTube or Instagram, any, any other like content, you can be in there. So, that can definitely help you. If you are in deeper you're probably creating videos every day, and you can just spin them, and you can paint your funnel like once a week, and they've been your videos have been your funnel once a week. You can also use like, like a link tree, or like something like that if you only have like one URL, you can pin that like every now and then, also,

Dave: I'm gonna see I like to be a little bit more aggressive. Alright so here, let me let me throw this out there. All right, if I'm going to drop, if I'm going to do Pinterest seriously, right, which is everything that I do, I'm not going to do it half ass I'm going to do it seriously and I'm going to try to build up a serious traffic source from it. So here's what I would do: tell me what you think about this, what I would do is I would take my pants because the reason why I'm talking confidently or can talk confidently about a platform, even though I've not used it is because most of the internet platforms work the same. And when you understand the basics of platforms, there are nuances. There are slight differences to most platforms but most of them are pretty much the same. So here's what I do, what I would do is I would pin probably three to five times per day. Right. And, and every day. I would probably take three of those pins and send them to tick tock videos mine or other people's I would send them to YouTube videos mine or other people's I would send them to Facebook post or Instagram post mine or other people's just adding value finding cool stuff that's on my topic so if I haven't great if I got to send somebody else's fine. I'd send them to a Legendary Marketer blog post which by the way, you know, I know that everybody is not an affiliate who watches this, but you can put a question mark, AID and your ID, at the end of any blog post, and that blog post will be cookied to you. Right, so you could send traffic to an affiliate for a Legendary marketer blog post, right, and then twice a day, so two out of those five, I would send right into my funnel

Andrea: I didn't know about that blog post from Legendary that you could also use like affiliate link, I think that will be like a great idea because you can use, like, all the blog posts and kind of like, use them as your own, and you can reach out.

Dave: Let me show everybody like so, just so everybody can see right here that the end of the blog post, ?AID equals whatever your by my personal affiliate IDs 106 So, ?AID stands for affiliate ID, AID= and then whatever your affiliate ID is so how do you find your affiliate ID. Now again guys, I know everybody on Earth are an affiliate for legendary marketer, so if you're not that you'd want to find other blogs or whatever, but you can always find your affiliate ID by going in here to any of the funnels, but just looking up, there's the end and you can see that's how we tag every page, question mark, a ID, and then your affiliate ID will be right there. And again, you just add that right to the end of the link, and now that page is going to be coded to you, right so you can use the blog, as another source, again, if you are an affiliate for legendary. But, Andrea, I want to know, that's, that's me being a little bit more aggressive in the reason why I'm trying to find a middle ground and listen guys, she said. She said, You know only posts, your link to your funnel or something once a week, I know, as it is we're listening and going, what the hell's the sense of that right, but I'm going to see here's what I'm doing and this is how you got to learn to think like an entrepreneur. I'm going to come back in and I'm going to push that and I'm going to say, Hold on a second, how can I make this. Is there a bet there is another way that I can do this and get more out of this. So that's my proposal to you, Andrea is, I'm, I'm, I'm, I want to do five pins per day, three to various other links blog post videos TikTok post whatever to my funnel directly into my landing page, what do you think of that.

Andrea: Yeah, if you just see other blog posts, like different URLs and different pieces of content, then you can definitely paint your same like landing page, more of them. I do like being just wild like.

Dave: All you guys are in the comments. This is. That was a big moment and I hope you caught it. Andrea gave her instruction. This is based on her own experience, she's running her own business. She's just giving generalized advice, and as an entrepreneur I don't just, oh, okay, Andrea, whatever you say, let me go to know an entrepreneur, let's talk, Andrew, let's, let's, what else can I do, how can I. Right. How else can I do this, how else can I work this? I want to be more aggressive, I want to go faster, I want to build quicker. I want to do more and get more out of it. Right, that's what I would that's what we all have to learn how to do right which Andrew is exactly why you're where you're at, because you've gone and you've take trainings, and then you would go apply that, and maybe it didn't work and you'd have to tweak it a little bit, right, it's about it's about testing, testing, testing, and pushing the limits pushing the limits, pushing the limits. Am I speaking your language right now, even though. Right, it's not your native language, but it's about that hustler mentality that entrepreneur mindset right yeah like that training is only gonna take you so far, you know like, you have to figure out like, what's working, what's not working, and find a way to improve it because like that. Even if the teacher, like they want to help you like they ultimately, kind of like to do it for you so you have to find a way to solve problems everyday let's ask intrapreneurs like a lot of work we do. So you need to find a way to improve it and do it on your own. So here's something else I wanted to do. I wanted to talk to you about before I let you go, which this has been God, the time is flown by. Thank God we got you back on your computer and we can actually hear. Yeah, you should have pushed back on us when we were like, get on your phone, you should have been like, no. Anyways, the other thing that you're doing is you're using TikTok and stuff like promoting different products in different niches. Some people, that's, that's so daunting to them they think oh my god that's how in the hell could she ever do that. So what is your approach, are you using, are you using, like, where are you finding products to promote and like how are you creating content on TikTok?

Andrea: Yes, so I work in two niches which are affiliate marketing, or making money online. And for that desktop, I have my, my own face and just making my own videos with my image on it. And I have like a fitness account where I just animations or repurpose content from the internet, which I find either on YouTube from videos that are creative, you can use them without any issues or you can find videos on sites like pixels which you get like free videos without any like copyright on them there's like a few places where you can find content that you can use it with the only issues.

Dave: You can even find it on Canva now I think.

Andrea: I think it's incumbent. I think they can source it from, from others like, yes.

Dave: So you're basically. So you're basically going. So, I posted the link, obviously it's up right now. Andrea underscore business hack so we've go Go follow Andrea there, but you're also going which I've shown this before you're going over to sites like Pixabay like this. And what was that what was the next other niche besides affiliate marketing that you're, that you're building it. I thought there was a way to search the, the, the vertical ones on here I just I don't know where it is. I didn't know that I could just take them and then I'll be able to make them just like I'm gonna like to crop them. What is it Kap Wing? 

Andrea: It's pretty easy to use. It's like an editor editor. Okay.

Dave: Wow, so this is the little tool that you use and you turn the, you turn the video into a little 15 20/32 Fitness fitness tutorial or something like that, is that right.

Andrea: Yeah, you can use, I use this one to prop the video and then you can use that tic tac toe, because it has like the sound. And you're

right. 

Dave: Yeah, right. Where else do you find your royalty free videos and images from.

Andrea: Well there's no political pixels, like pixels but with E. 

Dave: Okay right right here. Definitely a lot of called free pick free pick with the key. Okay, free pick with Okay, I got you. Free. Alright, sweet. Yeah, on YouTube, as well.

Yeah. So, YouTube, you guys got to be careful with YouTube, how do you find that free Creator content. Yeah, just do like a regular search. and then you need to add, like,

you add the filter again, just type, just to the search first. And then on the filter thing. You just gotta go with Creative Commons. I can see right here right here right here. Creative Commons.

So this is all this Creative Commons content. This is stuff that you can rip from YouTube, and it's royalty free you won't get in trouble for it.

Andrea: Yeah, and you can find transformations like people like that before and after we solve. So, I use a lot of those. 

Dave: Now a lot of people don't know how to download these from. What do you use?

Andrea: I just like the first one that pops up when I type download youtube video. So, I noticed that a lot of people don't, don't like to Google a lot but there's like a lot of, yeah that's a good one.

Dave: Yeah, Y2M8 , so if I find a video so I want to take whatever this video right here is all I gotta do is I take the URL of the video I put it into why to mate. Okay, and

I let it do its thing here. Okay, here it is here it is right. Alright so I'm going to download this of course it's going to pop me over, it's a little ad thing. But then I go boom, I go Wallah, I go wham bam Thank you ma'am. Hello there, how are you doing? Nice to meet you. Nice to see you are in my download folder, and you're almost done. And boom, you know, now I've got this video off of. I've got this video off of YouTube, Right, YouTube, one that's that fast, right, just that fast. How you guys like this I mean this is like, this is, this is Andrea I think we need to, I think we need to pass the basket. You know what I mean: pass the tithing basket around and get some donations going and pass around the hat. 

Andrea: They can just follow my TikTok, yeah.

Dave: That's a good enough compensation. That's good.

All right, well, Well that's, that's great. Look, what has your experience been with Legendary? Would you recommend our community to somebody if they were on the fence about jumping in and getting involved in learning here.

Andrea: Yes, definitely, I love the community. I love that Facebook group. Everybody's always very helpful. Of course you have, like, people with a lot of experience and beginners. They're everybody trying to help each other, so that's really nice. Also it is like a very big community, so you can like get inspired, which is like very different ways to promote the product and do affiliate marketing. So, yeah, in a diverse community right, an inclusive community,

not just a bunch of white dudes. Like seriously, man, if there's too many like just white people hanging out I'm like yo man, this is, this is we gotta get some diversity I've been, we've

got a community. 

Andrea: That's one of the reasons why I joined because I saw that per day and I hope that I can do the same for others, trying to, Like, find out what they should do.

Dave: Yeah, for sure, I mean I think it's really, I think it's, it's absolutely so inspiring for women to see other other women here, you know, mobs, I mean, obviously, for me, I've, I've been able to reach and speak to, Like a lot of dudes who were like in construction and you know maybe had like drug or alcohol addiction or something like that you know what I mean, or maybe had drug or alcohol addiction in their family or something but you know I mean, there's a special, There's a special identification, that happens when, when somebody see somebody that looks like that is from where they're from or that has maybe a certain native language that they have or whatever and that they see them, you know, doing something in the language that's not theirs. And you fit a lot of those so you're, You know you being on here this morning has been quite an inspiration for me I know there's so much more to your story, there's so much more we could talk about so we absolutely need to do a part two. I hope that you'll be willing to come back on so I want to learn more about your your journey your story, how you learn to write copy there's just so I would encourage everybody that's listening and everybody, everybody's watching everybody's gonna see this in the future, go follow Andrea she's on TikTok, Andrea_business hacks, and, you know, let's keep learning from each other, tell me that if we reached out to you, again, to invite you to come back and do a part two.

Andrea: Yes of course I would love to thank you.

Dave: Alright, Andrea will keep up the great work and be Legendary. We'll talk to you soon. Okay?

Andrea: Take care. Bye.

Dave: All right, my friends. Wow, that was cool. That was a good, that was, there was a lot of really good. There were a lot of really good kinds of mechanical nuggets there but also behind all of that as, as I said there at the end. I know that she's got a special and unique story, and I know she's persevered through a lot of things, and, and I'm really excited about part two of that conversation. Now if you guys want to make sure that you never miss an episode. Okay. You can also text this number on your screen actually text, the words or the letters WUL to that number 813-296-8553 And every single morning, when we go live, we'll send you a little text message you get it on your phone and just a little gentle reminder that we're going live. My friends, my friends, my friends, have a fantastic day. Have a fantastic week. We'll see you back here tomorrow, Be Legendary. And we'll talk to you soon.

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up, Legendary on Monday morning for this conversation with this marketer, this entrepreneur who's going to be talking about how she after being an empty nester is giving back and being a value of contributing value in creating value for herself through online marketing and through legendary right learning here and as part of our community. So with that being said let's welcome to the show. Gennifer Mitchell, what is going on, Gennifer?

Gennifer: Hey, thanks for having me. I'm good.

Awesome where you call in from California, northern. Okay. Nice. Most people are usually from Southern California so it's nice to get a northern Cali person in the house.

Gennifer: Yeah, I lived in San Diego for a few years but came back.

Dave: Cool. I love it. Yeah, so you are still in real estate?

Gennifer: Yes, still in real estate still selling houses, okay 16 years doing that empty nester, as we've put in in the title here. How many, how many little birdies have now flew the nest,

I have two daughters, so they're 19 and 21. Wow, and one still in college, in San Diego, but the other is married and having a baby in August. I’m my grandma. I know. Very weird. Weird. It

took me a little while but I mean, she went to a Bible school for two years, and they just like to do things differently in Texas.

Dave: I got it, get married, have kids young, I understand. I did things differently myself and I didn't go to a Bible school in Texas. I had, I have a 21 year old Barry, I had him very early. And so, yeah. I also have a five year old and a five month old so yes it is so talk to us about, like, what has, what led you online. I mean, what was it COVID What, what, what brought you online and what I mean obviously you've got a bit of an entrepreneurial spirit. I think selling houses, is that what you would consider yourself as, a realtor? 

Gennifer: Yeah.

Dave: Okay, a realtor has to have a bit of entrepreneurial spirit in them at least a little bit because of the way that the job, work you're kind of hustling you're generating leads you're kind of in charge of your own oftentimes you're on commission only, I always, yeah. So, what, how did we get, how did we get to where we're at right now. 

Gennifer: Well, I've always wanted to do something, passively I've always, gosh, so in 2015 I moved with my daughters to San Diego. After a very difficult 17 year marriage. And so I have an adventurous spirit and I knew that I wanted to travel.  I've traveled a lot, and I knew I wanted to travel and I just wanted to figure out how, if I'm doing real estate obviously I have to be there, and I have to be with the clients and you're always tasting the deal. So, you know, it's just really difficult to go anywhere or do anything. I mean, you know, most Realtors sell till they're 85 or something you know they were eating and never stopped working. If you're not working you feel guilty because you're not working and you're not making money. So I always wanted to learn how to make money online, that I've had. I mean I've been to a few MLMs and stuff and nothing was ever really like that. Nothing that I was passionate about. And so when I moved to San Diego I flipped houses, and didn't just sell that I was flipping and doing stuff and so that was a whole nother thing, and it was amazing and fun and very high risk, and then ended up coming back because my youngest daughter wanted to come back but the online. I just always knew I mean I before I was planning I'm like okay four years, my time's up, my kids are going to be out I mean I love them to death but I could not wait for my time to my life to start again, because you lose yourself when your mom, especially a parent, you lose yourself, and I had to, after my divorce I had to recreate myself, who am I, what am I going to be what am I going to do. And I knew that I wanted to travel. And so, I mean I was selling everything I was gonna literally do figure out something online and go live in Bali and Thailand for a year. Did my Eat Pray Love tour. But then my daughter wanted to come back. So I said, I always told them yes absolutely, we'll go back and she wants to spend more time with her dad. So we came back, and then I got involved in a relationship. So I'm still here, but he's an entrepreneur. He's a broker, he has his own business, and so I'm always around that and he knows very much as well that I just want to do something online, and I tried a few things, but nothing ever really worked, and I literally was just on Tik Tok for fun, and looking at funny videos and stuff and I started seeing, you know, FBA, all the different you know Shopify, whatever, all those things and I'm thinking, okay, so it started spring that nd again okay I could do this still and I could talk him into, you know, putting his hiring someone to run his business and you know I've been planting those seeds for years. So, anyway, so yeah I literally just fell into it I had no idea what affiliate marketing was, I just knew that there's a way and I'm going to figure it out to make money online, and so I can travel and now I have no I need to go travel to see my kids because they didn't stay in the same town as me. That was my plan and they didn't do it. They're gonna be off wherever they are and I need to be able to go see them anytime I want.

Dave: Yeah. Wow, that's great so you, you fell on what made you pull the trigger on enrolling in our education versus other things that you were seeing out there on wherever you were seeing them TikTok etc? What compelled you to get involved with us here and start learning this business model, and then now, I mean, I was looking at your TikTok you got 44,000 followers on TikTok, I mean, you're, you're kind of off to the races but. But still what made you just for the people here who are just still the same business model and maybe have a little bit of a shiny object syndrome going on, what, what made you really pull the trigger on this model and focus here?

Gennifer: Well, I loved the professionalism of your videos and stuff, I mean I did research a little bit, not a whole lot of long time. I mean, probably at the end of the last of 2020 I was looking, I wish I had seen all this during 2020. I had so much time on my hands. I could have done it all then. But that's when most people were looking at what we're still looking at but I, I looked at a lot of YouTube videos, I looked at so many different business models and honestly I couldn't figure it out I didn't know. I mean I didn't try but I also know very well the risk involved in, you know, putting out a bunch of money and not having an education around it and I know the value of protein very much. I've spent 1000’s and 1000’s of dollars on coaching over the years. So, I saw your video, you know, I don't even know who the person and my upline is I have no idea. I don't even follow him. But yeah, I just saw your videos and I was like wow this is really professional and you know I mean I can see a ton of it but I just thought it was really well done, you're relatable. You know you're just kind of a normal guy, you're not all flashy with your Ferrari mansion and I don't like those kinds of people. So I like the normal people, I mean that's what people relate to and I know that and so yeah so I just knew that it was a step by step, but honestly still I was still timid, thinking, you know, I mean obviously it's a low entry point. And I thought, you know I had nothing to lose and I was sitting by myself in my house. I lived alone at the time. Now I'm engaged and I moved in together, but I didn't even tell him I didn't tell him that I was doing it at all until I got my first high ticket. Yeah, I was so nervous I'm like okay we're moving in, I have to do these lives now and I'm so nervous.

Dave: Totally well I can only imagine that you've got this big secret. Like, it's not a bad secret if you're nervous to kind of just reveal what it looks like behind the scenes and everything.

Gennifer: He had no idea. And I was like I have to tell you something and he's probably like, Oh my gosh. And I'm like, Well, I kind of have this business and he was like, Are you kidding me? This is so amazing!  I mean he, he's so supportive, like I said he's an entrepreneur. He has like five businesses, he has a nonprofit. He's very supportive and he knows very much. He is a very schedule regimented structured person and I am the dreamer but, he's a dreamer too but I'm like let's go do this thing, you know, let's see, I want to travel I want to get an RV and go travel into the US now. So anyway, he was very supportive, he still is.

Dave: Sounds like my wife and I, I mean we've literally got tattoos mine says hold on her says let go because I help her. Let go. She helps me hold on, cue the but sound, I mean it sounds very similar to my wife and I just opposite you know when I'm the kind of the dreamer the bit unorganized but more organized but just kind of free spirit where she's kind of the more you know structure boundary, plan, plan, plan.

Gennifer: Yeah. Well, I think for sure because, otherwise I'd be, oh my god, if I right exactly if I had to have me if I would if I was in a relationship with me oh my gosh, I would be in a totally different place in life and I don't think it would be better, I think it would be worse, because we would probably spend ourselves into oblivion, we would, we would just, you know. 

Dave: Yeah, so. Okay, so you've, you've come in you went through the challenge, initially, you were digging that that made sense to you, as you saw the pieces being put together and you also, I hope and I, I'm assuming, saw kind of the bigger picture here versus MLM or. And I'm not putting in a lot of down because I got started in MLM as well, but MLM typically the business model if you're I do the business side of MLM, it's really your only kind of choice is to get in and then resell their products. Now, obviously, people can be an affiliate for Legendary, but and many do, that's that's fine, but these are transferable skills, and this is a huge large industry that once you understand these skills and understand how the internet works, and understand how to pick a niche, and then how you can sell lots of different offers specifically information offers but I even see people who have sold information products like courses coaching events and done affiliate marketing, then get into selling planners or selling various other physical things, but what did you, what was your biggest aha moment of course that's, I don't want to lead you with that. That was your aha moment below was your aha moment as you're going through the challenge and you were seeing this business model. I was laying it out and trying to spoon feed it but also give the bigger picture. What were your aha moments, what were your big takeaways?

Jenifer: Well definitely the bigger picture, because I mean as an entrepreneur, I know very much, you know, you have to be up here, looking at how can I plug this in, but I could see all the different avenues that I could take with it, and I mean I didn't know. Honestly, I didn't even know about digital marketing before I was thinking about products and I'm like, you know mugs or something, I mean the stuff that I buy mugs and T shirts and sweatshirts and I was thinking all of that. And once I started to see the digital products, and the ability to educate people, and I mean just in, in my TikToks I mean literally, I mean that was a big learning curve for me. I had never posted a TikTok before January, 20, my first one. And, but I started seeing so many people that are out there hurting and need help and you know so many people need this direction, they have nothing and I loved how the, I mean, yes, I could see the big picture, but everybody doesn't see big picture, and I loved how the training was step by step, and a beginner, entry level, and then the ability to, of course progress and I did invest in the blueprints, so that I mean, just the steps and for someone to be able to take it as far as they want. So I loved that, you know I could help people because I'm at this stage of my life. Realize that true joy comes from helping other people, and a famous Zig Ziglar quote that I love is “if you help enough people get what they want, you'll naturally get what you want.” And so, my heart has honestly always been, since my divorce, I've been divorced seven years to help women, I mean, getting out of a long term marriage where I've worked, I sold real estate the whole time but pretty much part time, I was mostly with my kids. You know I didn't have to work, per se. i It's hard when you start over after 40 Something you know, and so I have a heart for women in particular, to help them realize that there's other things out there, and I've known for years that trading time for money is just a total scam. So I want to help other people, not just women I'm talking about as marketing mamas and start more, I mean obviously Mama's because I'm a mama but I didn't want to put my name on there to have my name and I am still having a hard time combining because like my facebook is about my real estate so when to figure that out. But anyway, the big aha, is how many people you can reach, I mean I've talked to people in Pakistan and Africa, and Georgia and Florida, you know, I mean, it's amazing. 

Dave: We got people from probably 30, 20 to 30 Different countries on our decade in a day which is training blueprints, the other day on Friday we literally, I mean, conservative in terms of how many different countries I mean if you include states, we had, we had probably, I mean people from from at least a quarter of the states across the country and then 20 Plus to 30 countries around the world. It was just incredible. I wanted to touch on something before we glossed over it, which is finding who you want to serve in finding who your target market is. This is exactly. Now, if you guys, if you own the blueprints, you go into the blueprint you go into the fishing formula, go through that process. And the first section is of course, who's your target audience, the species, right, and that is so important. That's our whole business blueprint philosophy is, we're going to give you some various things to do to sharpen your skills while you take a bit of time to get clear on your niche. And if you guys are going through the blueprint, then you know that if you've gone through the blueprint, then, then you know that if you haven't, you guys are on the fence. This is what we're going to do, we are not going to just say, Oh, go to school, promote this or just tell you what to do, we're going to give you various different things, different products in different niches to help you to sharpen your skills and get used to your tools and all that kind of stuff. Wow, Will you take up to 90 days to pick your niche and the niches of is,  it's not a very humanizing way to describe it, but it's really who is your target person whom is the person that you want to serve, you say women, and you talked about a divorce, and you talked about reinventing yourself after 40 And what I wanted to say is, it's so powerful because for women of many who are moms who, that becomes a such a big part of your identity. And, and, and, and then once they leave or even while they're still there. Oh yeah, I can tell you that my our little ones are five. My oldest is out of the house but my little ones are five and five months, and my wife and I, but I'll just talk about my wife for a second what I've seen her go through absolutely wanting her own thing absolutely needing her own identity, not just friends and social circle, but actually being productive and wanting to be a value and wanting to make money or contribute to your business. And guys, it is that such a big, honestly, for those of you who are listening to this who are 40 and above, stop being jealous of young people because it's the boomers who have the money to spend. Anyways, yeah. So, you have such an advantage and of course I'm speaking to everybody, I'm so thrilled that you figured this out, but there's so many people who come in and who put so much emphasis on the glass being half empty that LM, I'm older or I'm not technically savvy or whatever, and it's like you have such an advantage if you can just see it, and you can speak to people who are in that age range, about the things that they're experiencing in their life right now. You have solutions to it. Gennifer congrats for like seeing that and now taking action and now you've turned around from a simply scroller. Curious about a business to now have a TikTok channel 44,000 followers you're making money you're I mean, how this is, this is really incredible good for you.

Gennifer: Thank you, thank you yeah it's pretty exciting because I felt from the beginning of my marriage ending that well obviously before that I was like okay this isn't what I was supposed to be, this should be more to this and I needed more. And that started about 38 and. But from the beginning, women came out of Woodworks to, for me, and I felt that that was a God thing God was using me to then help other women and I knew in some way that I would be helping women and other people because, I mean, it's a pretty, you know, Everybody talks about men having a midlife crisis but women do too. And women do it big time, and it's about our self worth. It's about who we are and our self worth and all of that so, you know, and so many people unfortunately you know, are divorced and just figuring it out again and so know that that was my niece really and and you know I mean I haven't, I do gear it a little bit towards women, but in this, that I've had a few guys like, I'm not a mama can I come in, I'm like, of

course you know. 

Dave: You know that's really interesting that a lot of people went by picking a target audience, and kind of even narrowing down, not just their edge right there top, you're talking about making money online, you're talking about starting a business and making money online, and then you've kind of narrowed it down to your specific audience and target customer being women, and in women who have kind of crossed over the 40 age and they're kind of trying to figure out what's next, but it's so funny because the more you target down like for example, I haven't. An example of an ad in the Facebook funnel in the blueprint of a ad that a girl ran that was calling out nurses, the men talked about hey if you're a nurse and you're working all these hours and you're probably stressed out and you probably went into it because you thought it was gonna be this and now it's not what you expect what you really love to help people and it's not that you want to just abandon that but you want to do something that maybe can have more of an impact but also pay you what you're worth. So, even though she called out nurses in the ad, everybody in the ad blew up or down to the comments like, I'm not a nurse, but I feel that way. Yeah, yeah. And the interesting thing is that if you call out a specific, specific segment of like an audience. Yeah. Anybody who's having that human experience is going to be like, not, you know, a nurse but or I'm not a mom all but I'm a PA and the same exact way, that's just it's it's it's counterintuitive because we think that oh if I niche down and get more specific, I'm going to be the lead people out and leaving opportunity on the table, but that's not the case. Yeah, you just found your tribe. Yeah, and people want to be a part of your tribe. Yeah, they are exactly the, the, whatever they think that the you're calling out, they want to be a part of it it's really fascinating you're really taking a lot of, you're really, you're really being decisive in your in your decisions about what to do, who to target, you're hopping on TikTok pulling the trigger creating content, how to overcome your, sort of, That that indecisive miss that insecurity that overthinking that perfectionism, whatever your kind of big, you know, whatever flaws weaknesses, whatever newbie complexes whatever we want to call them, how, what are what are yours? And how are you overcoming them to be so decisive and take so much action?

Gennifer: Well, the beauty of being in your 40s which I'm at the tail end now,

is that you stop caring what people think. It's amazing, it's the best decade of my life so far. So I would say I mean, the technology I've really, I mean, I literally could I couldn't figure out how to do TikTok, you know, and I thought, Okay, I'm old, but it's hilarious to watch I mean there's, I'm a GenXer, and GenXers apparently I found now on TikTok with others, we don't care about anybody. Which is great, and it's not that we don't care. Obviously I care about people, but I don't care what people think anymore. And, I mean, they're not paying my bills, I'm not worried about those people if there's somebody who doesn't like me. That's fine. You don't have to like me. I don't I'm not trying to please everybody, and I'm not trying to please hardly anybody anymore, but now I'm like this is my life, I get to do what I want to do and I'm here to empower other women and other anyone, all, all men and women, but I'm here to empower other people to find themselves, and to just say you know what, screw what you've been taught, throw it all out the window, you need to do what makes you happy today because working a nine to five, even though I've been an entrepreneur and I've sold real estate, it's still the grind, I mean I still, I mean I've, I've battled depression and anxiety a lot. In fact, even a month ago I was like, I don't know if I could do this anymore. But, you know you do things and you get back and it's fine so I have that relatability as well with so many mental health is a big deal for me and supporting that. My oldest daughter after my divorce, or before I even got divorced. She struggles as well as a result of people that were in our life, and I mean I had to institutionalize my daughter, you know, so I am a big advocate of empowering strong girls strong women, and helping them realize their power, I mean, women and men can do anything and I don't think women are equal or, you know, I know where I want to be and I'm at the point where I'm happy to allow men to do certain things I don't need to be everything, but I know that I can build up other women and other girls and younger women, and empower them to just be themselves, but the technology. So I'm not afraid to ask for help. So I know very very well that I need coaching and training. And the key is to being a sponge and being willing to learn and always in learning mode because, I mean, you have to, or if you're if you're not learning, you're dead, you know, to be learning and always reading and self start but you know, honestly, none of that started for me until 2014 I wasn't in that space at all. I was very, in a very difficult relationship and I was very submissive and not shy. I was always, you know, outgoing, but I didn't have a voice, and now I do and so it's kind of loud.

Dave: No, no, well great, great, and how does that feel now that you feel like your voice has you haven't had a voice and now you have just for those who can relate to that. Can you tell us what it looks like and feels like on the other side of that I mean I know you just went through a little bit but that specific piece what does it look like and feel like now on the other side of actually finding your voice and realize that you have one and that it can make an impact can can you just talk, say more about that just for a moment. 

Gennifer: Yeah, I mean I, really. It took a while to overcome, but once I started seeing, you know, it was almost like I was sheltered but I wasn't at all I mean, not at all but in myself I was I lost myself. I didn't have a voice like I said and I once I realized that there were there was another way of thinking, which then what I was thinking is, it's not about getting the biggest and best house and cars and all of that and climbing the ladder of the corporate ladder, it's really about giving back to people, you're going to find true value there, and also helping other people. You know that's where my voice came in, if there's another way of thinking, you know, living beneath your means and having a richer life without being you know I look rich and have all the things it's really about living a quality life with less and giving back more. And, but my voice, the voice part was really impactful when you know obviously when I moved away and be able, It's just brain it's like you just feel, I suppose, I felt like a dog lead out in the field for the first time that sounds terrible, but, you know, I get to run free and I can be whoever I want. I mean, people were, I mean I've lived in Northern California for more than. Gosh 35 more years, but at the time when I moved I had lived here for over 30 years and people were like, Oh, you're so brave and you're moving your whole life and I'm like, I know and I started to think there was something wrong, like, should I not be doing this, you know, but it was so afraid, I mean I went to San Diego and learned how to sail and you know I was flipping houses on my own I was running the show and writing the checks for all the contractors. I mean it just allowed me to be this whole other person that I didn't even know existed. To be honest, it was because I was suppressed, and depressed, and, you know, just, you know, and so I had this drive to show my daughters that that wasn't one of marriage was, and that that's not how life has to be and I had to be strong for them. I mean, they were in high school and I was like, you guys, it's not about being, You know everybody says I want to be a strong woman. Well I, you know, because of my faith, it's more about being a woman of strength. You can be strong, you don't have to be everything. Yes, you can have a person in your life to build you up and you need that that's what we're called to have as a partnership. But yeah, I mean my drive was really my daughter's and it was freeing and it was so important for them to see. They saw me vulnerable and broken, and you know I was very open, and we all kind of healed for three years, whether. Yeah,

Dave: I mean, just so much to unpack there. But really, the, the, I think that, for, for me, You know I think a lot of people there Why is sort of what you said and I heard you kind of having two Y's there with the first one was you really put the mask on yourself in the airplane before you start were able to really be what everything you want it to be for your daughters, Right, I think, I think finding the motivation in in front and taking the risk to find your voice and to kind of step out on faith, take those risks to do entrepreneurship and do stuff is, is an act. It's, it's, and also be able to be whoever we want, right, is, which I thought was really powerful when you said that because I want to be whatever I want, and maybe some days I feel a little bit silly, and some days I feel a little bit more serious, and some days I feel a little bit sad. And what I found is, is that when I'm, when I'm in flow and creating content and marketing that there's space for me to do all those things and quite frankly, the more that I allow those things to kind of come up to the surface in my personality and my emotion, the more effective I am because those, that is the full range of human experience. Everybody, nobody's like a robot. We're not robots. That's what makes us human. And so step in like into that authentic self more and just kind of like clean all the ropes and chains and tie downs and all that, like you said the suppression, the depression, and in stepping into our real authentic self, our purpose, it just not giving a damn not living our lives for everybody else anymore, and to saying hey, this is what I want to do, and this is I'm going to stop what people think and I'm just going to focus on delivering value in helping people and being whoever I want to be today. I just think that that's kind of a cool way to look at it because it kind of, it makes it more of like it puts me into that childlike phase, that I really, I love being and I think we all have an inner child right that likes to dress up and pretend it on the internet, be whoever we like today I'm going to be this guy and tomorrow, I mean, it's that full range of human experience and emotion. And then as we do that, it's, if you have kids that you want to set up an example for if you want to build a business and create generational wealth. You kill those two birds with one stone because the best thing that you can ever give to your children is to have them watching you, living full out amazing authentic experience and that will be so much more valuable than money that you can pass on, that's great to hook them up with some some some generational wealth if you can, I'm all for that. But the best thing that we can ever give to our children or those people who, in our lives who we care about his, his two, because if you think about it, Gennifer like what I want for the people that I love more than anything, is for them to be as much of themselves as they can be and not live their life for anybody else but just themselves in so what more of a powerful gift that I give to my loved ones my kids is to have them see me doing that that is really, really powerful Gennifer.

Gennifer: Thank you. Yeah, no it's a big deal and I mean, like, my daughter, my oldest who's in Texas now and went to Bible school. I mean that was always an asset both of them were going to go to when their dad went to that Bible school. And, you know, but she needed to. She has her own tribe now, and it's hard for me to let go because I was a helicopter mom and I'm all about my kids you know I was like I'm going to move and be near you and then I'm like, Hold on I don't want to move Texas, but she has found her people and I and even now she's having a baby and she's like, totally different and my parents are both passed but I remember my mom was there when I had my girls, and she, you know, I knew everything, of course. And so now I'm in that position and I'm like, you know, she's like, Mom, I know you don't like this or whatever I'm like, Honey, this is your kid, this is your life this is your marriage you could do it the way you want. That's the beauty. I mean I can't wait. I can't wait to meet her it's boy and I can't wait to meet him, but because I didn't have boys at all but she has her own way of doing everything and like I only want wood toys and I'm like okay, he's gonna be colorblind but anyway, but yeah, I'm like, this is your life, you get to do this, you're an adult, you get to live yours. 

Dave: You're set, you're giving your kids just a great gift without and also by having your own life and having your own path and your own purpose and not needing to know. It's like, I see a lot of parents may be in one as well but I see a lot of parents, and this is I'm not saying this coming from a judgmental place because I really do believe we're all just doing the best that we can but we say oh I want my own identity I want, I love my kids I want to be a phenomenal parent but I just need my own identity I need to I know I need to do something for myself and all this, I want to do so much, but they just can't detach, they can't let go because I think parenthood, in, in those roles that we have in our sort of domestic life, our home life they give us a lot of control, right, they give us a lot of control even though we may we may not even want that much control but it's something that we can control and then we want these other things we want adventure we want travel we want something more of our own something that's outside of home, but that doesn't offer that same level of control, you know, That is risk, that is, you got to be uncomfortable all over again. And you know what, it's not a baby that you take care of and you have to take care of it or else it dies, right, right, right, you can start it and then if it dies well oh it's just a dream that died or it was just, you know, we tell ourselves these stories that, well that's not really what's important is long, right, and it's just kind of this cycle that we get into and we can never really let go of those, those controls of that of that certainty. Uncertainty is scary over here although we want it to go badly. And that's why I commend you so much because it's not the money that you make in the audience that you're building all that, it's the real, it's that you've taken these risks into uncertainty, to, to let go of something, not totally, but that was so important that is so important to motherhood and into being a great mom to your kids, but now you. It's almost like a snake who sheds its skin. You know it's not that you're not a snake anymore, it's not that you're not a mom anymore. You're starting a new chapter and that comes with uncertainty but you're walking through it briefly, and I really, really respect that and commend you for that.

Gennifer: Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, it's pretty cool. It's cool with this at this stage when they're older, you know, and then now I get, I mean I'm starting something totally new, getting remarried and in my business. This business but we're always, you know, a lot of, There's a lot of people that would have moved to Texas that would have followed the kids that would have not been able to let go of that state, that illusion of control and would have said well I want to be closer to the kids or whatever, and there's nothing wrong with that. But my point here is that starting a business, guys and gals, comes with uncertainty while taking risks. And the more that you can detach from meeting certainty and needing control at all aspects of your life is going to be, make it easier for you to transition into that uncertainty, and to continue pushing forward, and then eventually to embrace the uncertainty and get excited about it and get excited about the fact that you don't know what's going to happen from day to day, it's a sense of adventure in your business, it's a sense of adventure this wakeup show it's incredible. I don't even know who I'm going to talk to. 

Dave: Every morning I get to start my day talking to somebody new, in our community. It's really cool. One last question and then I've got a call coming up. I got to transition and bring this airplane in for a landing but if somebody was, was, was asking themselves do I want to get involved in Legendary do I want to be a part of this community, is this the real deal.

What would you say to them? 

Gennifer: The bonus that I always say, I've had so much help from the community. I know people say that a lot because it's 100% True, the community is so helpful I've reached out to so many people that are big, big wigs and I'm like this little fish, and they're so willing to help. And so, you know, just, everybody's so encouraging and willing and everybody wants to succeed, nobody, not nobody but you can't have a scarcity mindset of this business if you do, you're never gonna make it because there's plenty of business for everybody there's a million people out there. More than a million, of course, billions of people out there, and there's more business for everybody and just to have an abundance mindset, and knowing that this community and I've seen a few trolls out there saying, oh, you know, it doesn't work it's a scam and nobody helped me and they just threw me out there and that's 100% not true. They didn't complete anything because there's so much help and people are so willing to help and I mean even if they're not, you know, didn't go through your link or whatever, it doesn't matter. you help people and that's how you get ahead and that's how you adjust to life is so the community to me was a huge bonus, the training, you know is continually you can level up over and over and over when you're at the stage that you need to be where you've kind of gotten through the first part, then you can level up and go to another stage and you can get more training and more and it's all professional, and you're a real person. It's not just selling you some training, and then you go away and they never hear from you I mean you're active and I love that you're active in the community, and always sharing other people's knowledge because everybody with their own history, brings their experience right and you know like I've seen the email stuff somebody, I think it was Elisa recently that was sharing about the email and all the email marketing and different, just different experiences and you just continually grow so that's why it's so beneficial because it's a living breathing object you know everything is moving and improving every single day.

Dave: That's a really great way to explain it, it's, and I think that's so true for good, a good training and educational experience is dynamic. It's not just some. And this is good for us to also be thinking about course creation and coaching, if that's a business model that any of you guys want to transition in and start it. Yeah. You know, creating a course is not about, you know just filming some videos and then they're good for the next 10 years I mean, the best part of the educational experience. Nowadays, online. Is this like lives and webinars and like stuff, conversations and take me behind the scenes and show me how you did that and it's just, yeah, it's, it's so different and I think that makes it less intimidating for us to create a course or to provide a training or even provide value for people because value is not just something that you just create one time and then it doesn't have to be perfect. It doesn't have to be perfectly created one time. And then, and then it's, it's this love that description that really, so I'm gonna stop ranting, because you said it so perfectly, but I just was kind of like wow that was really well but Gennifer, really, Seriously, this has been fantastic and I'm really super happy and proud of you and impressed and just keep up the great work, and please come back. Please say yes, and update us in maybe three or four months down the road, and we'd love it.

Gennifer: Thank you. 

Dave: All right, Gennifer. It's been our pleasure. All right, we'll talk to you later. Keep up the great work, we'll talk to you soon. Okay guys, go follow her. That is a really strong woman of strength. We don't always have to be a strong man, or a strong woman, a woman or a man of strength and that strength can come from lots of different places as she said faith right family, community, that's what I think this is about, I don't have to be strong. I don't have to be somebody who does it all by myself. And I think that's one of the cool things. Obviously, that's why people's faith is so important to them. Also though. This community is that for so many books it is for me, it is for me as well. Right, because I'm not this, you know, you know, I'm always strong guru, I'm not the Incredible Hulk, right, even though sometimes I used to think that I was a legend in my own mind if you know what I mean. But now I realize I'm human, right, I'm fallible, I'm vulnerable, and I get strained from you guys, I get strength from this community. I get strength from my faith as well. Right, my spirituality, I get strength from my wife. So guys, I just wanted to leave you with that thought as you please go follow, Gennifer, she's on tick tock at marketing Mama's to realize, just that you don't have to do this alone. You can also text. This number WUL to the number on your screen 813-296-8553 And we'll send you a little text message when we go live in the morning, just so you can have a reminder, I'll see you back here tomorrow. Another episode. Be well be great. Have a great week, and of course, Be Legendary. Peace.

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Dave: What's going on my friend this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I love this topic that we're going to be talking about with Joshua Dean today. He's our guest, and I'm excited to hear from him and learn from him and talk with him. As you can see the title says how comparison can basically just kill your dreams. It's such a thing. It's such a terminal illness for businesses all over the world, particularly solopreneurs and like online marketers because we look at everybody and then we think we're not good enough, etc, etc. And it's such a powerful conversation I think it's gonna be so relevant for all of you guys out there. Plus, who knows what else we'll learn. So with that being said, Let's welcome to the show Joshua Dean What's up, brother.

Joshua: Hey Dave Good morning man happy to be here.

Dave: Hey, all the way from Denver, right?

Joshua: So, born, bred and buttered in Denver, Colorado, living in Northern California now.

Okay, okay, but I see you, I saw you reppin, the Broncos so diehard diehard yeah. 

Dave: Nice, dude, nice. Good work. I know you work in the healthcare industry, did that take you out to California or did something else where you were chasing somebody? How'd you end up in Cali?

Joshua: Yes, a little bit of both actually grew up like I said, Colorado, first like 29 years of my life and then work took me and my wife to a Wyoming, where we got into the healthcare industry, and then actually followed her job out here to California, and I kind of, honestly got lucky and in landed in a position here in California after we moved.

Dave: Nice, nice. Are you full time still in the healthcare industry and doing this sort of as a side business?

Joshua: Exactly, yep yes I put in, you know about 50, 55 hours a week I mean COVID And everything that happened last year, didn't do anything to cut hours but yeah so still, it's still doing that and, you know, trying to get my, my business up off the ground. In my spare time.

So tell us I mean having a good gig obviously you and your wife I mean in the healthcare industry, you're probably not, you know, starving right i mean I'm not saying it's, it's everything you want it to be but it's, it's, it, you know there's potential there there why also do you want in online business, either to transition to that full time or as, as having it on the side, talk to us a little bit about why why an online business, what what is appealing to that. 

Dave: Is it money like what's your motivation? 

Joshua: Yeah, so it's not so much the money, and this is really a great question and honestly, I'm kind of passionate about this one. For me it's really free, and it's time and freedom. When I was younger, I think I spent a lot of time and energy fixating and focusing on, you know, upping the bank account right which it's not really a bad thing to do, but I kind of started to think, when I got older and I lost. I lost my father, I started to think back about all the time that I spent trying to chase that number in a bank account. Instead of could have spent, you know, doing things that I enjoy with people that I love. And when my mom got sick. It kind of was there was a switch, right. And I you know I just kind of, I just kind of realized that I don't I don't want to spend my life, you know, doing 5055 hours a week to spend a little bit of time, you know, earn a little bit of money actually doing the things that I that I enjoy with people that I love right so, like, hundreds and 1,000’s of other people. You know I kind of got online and looked for ways to kind of help make close to right the, the amount of money that I was making. But with nowhere near the time commitment right so my big thing right now is just kind of freedom.

Dave: Yeah, well, I mean, super. You got a big why right there, you know, and when, when that pain hits close to home, it's like a wake up call, and although I'm thankful to still have both of my parents alive I can only imagine how much of a motivator that is to look back at your life and, and ask, How can I do things, to where I can. Or how could I have got more time or how can I make sure that I have more time with the people that I love here so if something, well it's destined nobody gets out of this thing alive right. When, when, when it is all said and done, I can really say, Man I soaked up every minute, you know what I mean like I did everything that I could, because at the end, bro. I mean, you and I both know this man I mean any, any, any sane person would have to admit, and I think, not saying but common sense is that, like, Dude, I've imagined myself on my deathbed before, and, and nothing about that visual is me saying, I got like all this money and because of that I'm totally satisfied with the way that I live my life, it's totally gonna be. Am I on good terms with my people, like, are my kids on my side, is my wife there, did I spend adequate time with them, like that is the deal, man, I really feel that, well I think everybody can relate to that, you know?

Joshua: Yeah I mean I heard a quote, so powerful. It's so close to home just yesterday morning. And it was you know I was listening to a podcast. The guy said the one thing you'd never see behind her first driving down the street is a U haul truck. For real, man, you know, it just, it got me it got me thinking man, you know you can't take it with you. The only thing that you can take with you is those experiences and the time spent so that's what I want to, that's where I want to try and focus the rest of my life.

Dave: Yeah, well to be it's a it's a big and important goal and I know you'll I know you're gonna achieve it because you are so clear about it and I really think that's what the difference between people who achieve stuff and people who don't is is are you super clear about what you want. And are you super clear about what you need to go about, you know, go about it to be able to get it so you're using online marketing as a vehicle, what led you to Legendary?

Joshua: You know, I think this is a perfect example of social proof, right, so one day I finally bit the bullet right I've been putting it off putting it off, I finally bit the bullet and just downloaded Tic Toc, right, like so many other people in the pandemic, and I just kind of started started scrolling through right and I hit the financial side of tic toc and I saw tons and tons of people speaking and talking pretty passionately about affiliate marketing. And, you know, I got to the point where I was seeing so many people talk about it, that, you know, because first off you know I started looking at you know drop shipping and E commerce and I put down the you know the scary road of MLM there for a quick little minute didn't didn't dive in or anything but started doing research and then when I came across affiliate marketing, how many people were being successful in really, in what I would say a relatively short amount of time, we're being able to achieve the goal that I was, my like my main goal right and have more time freedom, that's that's really what really what looks right. So, like I said just scrolling through tick tock and coming across. Some of the people that I think have been doing it on this app and it before this app really well. That's really cool.

Dave: So that's that's so funny dude I mean, like, I actually think if it wasn't for this silly little app that many of us just wouldn't know each other, you know what I mean, like, cause YouTube's not as addicting, you go on you watch a couple of I'm not saying YouTube doesn't work really well as a marketing like technique and strategy because it does but TikTok really opened up a whole new can of worms and opportunity for marketers and now you're turning around and using it right. So talk us through the first couple of the first sort of phase of your business and what it was like and how this comparison itis piece came up for you?

Joshua: Yeah so, I think, honestly, where, you know, as I try to stay away from conventions because it's so easy so I think I was I was putting a lot of undue pressure on myself because of my why I thought that you know because other people were doing it that I could be, you know, super hyper successful overnight. Right. And so when you know my own business or my tick tock videos, or my you know traction wasn't seeing the same kind of success that I was seeing other people getting doing seemingly, you know, the same kind of content kind of pushing out the same kind of message. It really, it really kind of struck home and it can be discouraging. Dave: Right, yeah, you know, you do you put out a piece of content, and it gets 100 views or something like that, not, not any real traction and then you're scrolling through the app and you see somebody else do something similar, you know, and it's got hundreds of 1000s of views, you kind of start to compare and you think well, you know, what are they doing, how are they built for this, and it just, to me, it can really be a slippery. Slippery slope. And really what brought me back home or you know, TrueNorth if you want to call it that was just kind of remembering. Everybody's got their own journey. You can't. You can't compare the steps that somebody else is taking and apply them to your life, everybody's got a different set of circumstances everybody's gonna see success and in different ways. So, yeah, yeah it's it's as I said and I think I said this yesterday I've been saying it a lot lately. I mean, I said at the beginning of the show I'm just restating comparison. It is truly a terminal illness if there ever was one for businesses, because, particularly new entrepreneurs. Notice I didn't say newbies there guys, I don't like that word, and I think how we label and describe ourselves is really damn important and powerful. So do entrepreneurs do marketers not newbies, not so I'm struggling, I really just please guys please, all of you who are listening, be very mindful of how you describe yourself, because we create self fulfilling prophecies and in the name in the spirit of this whole collect thing almost got into like a whole like church or in the name of the spirit of the holy phenomena. but in the spirit of comparisonitis  right, it's kind of all in the same boat, right, like when we, the wave, it all kind of is the same. It's all in the same bucket. Describing ourselves as struggling or, and that's really just limiting beliefs popping up. Self Sabotage, it's, you know, I just got off of a training where I was kicking off a decade and a day for our blueprint students and I said that all your self sabotaging like limiting beliefs are all going to come up at the beginning of your business. At the beginning of you launching this business, all your shit, man, all your garbage, dirty, like everything, all those self sabotaging things are going to come to the surface, and instead guys of just repeating the same thing over and over again expecting a different result letting that soundtrack be the be the soundtrack for this new chapter this new movie. It's like we got to gain some awareness that oh there's that song again. And I need to sing a different tune. So Joshua, What were some of your old soundtracks, some of the things that played inside of your head that you said yourself, and what are some of the new soundtracks that you're trying to play now?

Joshua: Yeah, it's crazy that you mentioned that because that self sabotage in the beginning, whose limiting beliefs. I will be completely candid and honest here, the moment or the very few moments immediately after investing in and purchasing blueprints. I'm not too proud to admit I had a bit of a panic attack in my immediate thought was, or my immediate I guess mind frame was going back to limiting beliefs and self sabotage right I immediately wanted to know, okay, how can I get a refund, how can I get my money back for this right and in staying up in bed that entire day, and it actually took my wife to kind of push me away from those those bold thoughts and with that bull sound soundtrack that it really kind of like focus on my why and really dive into it right so the one of the things that in the in the seven days that really spoke to me was, or I'm sorry the 15 days, that really spoke to me was the dynamics right and that mental mind shift that you have to go through, you know to be successful and really just get out of your own way. And I think that's the new soundtrack right for me now as compared to. Okay. Did I just make a mistake, and how can I fix it. And that's the old mindset, the new mindset is okay. I just, I jumped into this opportunity, how do I make the best of it?

Dave: Yeah. And what Josh was talking about there, everybody. What he's talking about is, is, is this concept of and this is the visual that I sort of use now to explain this mechanics versus dynamics the mechanics are really the, you know, basically the tools that you use the thing, it's kind of like the mechanics for a carpenter would be, hey, Joshua what's, what kind of sauce, do you use what brand of hammer do you use do you use RYOBI or dwell, Right. But, if that's what everybody sees right you see the carpet or you see the truck that the carpenters driving, you see the tools that he has on the back of his truck and you might think, oh, that's what makes him successful. So, another guy could go out and purchase that same exact truck and those same exact tools and be an utter flop, because he played himself and thought, oh well I have the same exact tools and the same exact truck. Why, why aren't I successful, right. And what, what that second Carpenter, doesn't see is that big part of the, the iceberg that's underwater, which is the dynamics, and that's his ability that that first carpenters ability to read blueprints, it's all the ups and downs that he's went through that's developed his mindset is his it's his discipline that he has, it's it's habits that he has. It's all of the perseverance, the grit, it's his ability to be able to market himself and sell jobs right, it's all those other pieces that we don't see, right, that are sort of beneath water but are really the large part of the avalanche. And so, you know, what are some of your big dynamics man I mean, what have been the big deterrents like the big big levers inside of your business that you know like, this is what I need to do is consistency. Is it attitude, you know, Is it that it isn't that self taught, like what do you think your big dynamics are, that have, you know that move the needle for you specifically?

Joshua: Yeah definitely, you know, you have to cut out the negative self talk right any, you have to be your own biggest fan, right, because you can. It's such a powerful, powerful thing your own judgement of yourself and like I say with comparison, your own judgement of yourself I think is so much more powerful than anybody's outside judgment of what you're doing so that Bill flipping just attitude and being your own, you know, biggest fan just to keep pushing forward. Being consistent right, doing the things that you always want to do that you know are going to benefit you in the long run, right you just you just have to keep that attitude of positivity, right.

Dave: Yeah, no I, it's so true man. We are, what we think of ourselves, is the most important person's opinion of us, and that's one of the reasons why I say that self esteem is the bedrock of success, because without self esteem. You know I'm not going to have the confidence to shoot and then post. Right. Right. Right. I might I might I might keep that bad boy on draft you know what I mean, like, oh man I gotta do a whole file a draft, maybe. I'm listening. The other thing man I used to do this all the time, bro. Honestly, this was back before I was, for whatever reason, I don't know, but for whatever reason, when I started I used to ask my wife to stand there and hold the camera woman. I didn't make her but I said, Honey, would you hold the camera and filming, and I don't know why just didn't get a stand or something but I, you know, it'd be our she'd be staying there, because I'd go, hey guys how's it going, this is David. Oh crap, Let me start over, and then maybe is right because, because she'd be like hating me she hated me. Right, because she didn't cheer, see what I saw of course but also I I'm a miserable son of a bitch doing this because my self esteem, I think I'm I you know I think I'm so I'm such a big deal. I'm so self absorbed and I was so insecure that I thought that people were going to pick apart my speech as if it was like a presidential address or something. I mean I'm posting a frickin video that at the beginning probably wouldn't get any views anyways, right, and I'm sitting here meticulously trying to get it to be perfect or whatever and it's like as I've built my self esteem, first of all, the words just come out smoother. And the second piece that's happened Joshua is, if I stumble or fumble. I just, I'd like that's just who I am, that's just who I am authentically in this moment I'm just this myself, I just had a bubble or a stumble or farted or did whatever I did, and sorry that's just me and what I found is, The more that I've embraced my own authentic self and built my self esteem. Also, the more people have embraced and enjoyed my content. So, what comes up for you as I say that?

Joshua: Yes, that's that goes all the way back to that comparisonitis right trying to try to, you know, it's really, it's really easy to compare yourself to others and then start to kind of, you know mold into, or do you know shape shift out of what you are being authentic and unique to yourself to try and match what you, what you see or what you're comparing as as success and I think that it's just, it's super important to just kind of, you know, follow your TrueNorth state stay true to you because I think, if anything, if I've learned anything about just this whole online businesses, regardless of how unique you think your idea or, you know, a piece of content might be, chances are on the internet, somebody has already done it right. So, the only thing that you have that they can really unique and authentic to yourself is yourself. Right, so that's why you gotta kind of put up the blinders when it comes to comparison. And my wife says it all the time just Do you boo boo.

Dave: Boo boo. We should have said Booboo Dean this morning that might be the new TikTok handle. 5280affiliate is your TikTok handle?

Joshua: Yes sir.

Dave: What's the 5280 just curious?

Joshua: Mile High City 5280 feet tall now.

Dave: We're elevated. High is high, you know, we were not progressing over here. Florida is all over on that west coast road I mean we're still making a big deal out of a couple of bugs, you know, I don't smoke, personally, but see, I'm the recovering drug addict who's got to make the conversation about drugs. You know what I mean. 

Joshua: It's unique and authentic to you.

Dave: Yeah, and I agree, like when we when we go to, it's funny I mean going back to that center of the universe self absorbed thing like, it's just so funny how much importance, we put on it's like I'm going to make my first video, trying to come up with, like, what the video is going to be about I mean we literally act like we're, we're debuting a movie at the Sundance festival or something. I mean, it's like, it's like, bro, chill. It's a, it's a TikTok video or it's a YouTube video, You know, I mean, it's like, it's not that big of a deal and I think that that's a bit of an adjustment because when you go into business, that grand opening. Let's cut the ribbon, that's what we're all trained, that's what we've, that's what we've been raised to think that launches you to business, get ready to get ready. Let's do a launch party. Investors are their customers' family. Alright guys let's cut the ribbon, as if that sort of performance or big to do is going to happen the first time you post the video on the internet, it's like, it's not that it's not that big of a deal, bro. It's not like that that's that kind of business launch Grand Opening does, that's all staged anyways, that's just the movies that shit doesn't even really happen in real life honestly I've seen plenty of offline businesses launched and it's like kinda like, usually it's a fumble and Bumble and oh shit  we got to cut through here and oh, you know it's not anything that's like really put together. So I think learning to just let life in our business happen the way that it's kind of supposed to happen right which is probably not what we expect, or not the, it's kind of like Joshua, speaking from a woman so be very careful. But I've had plenty of people, women, my wife included say that the idea that I had growing up about princesses and getting, getting rescued by a white knight and all this that I watched in movies that fairy tale ain't real life, right, right, right, it's kind of the same thing. It's kind of the same thing with businesses that I think we have this expectation that it's going to look and feel a certain way and then when it doesn't. We're like, Ooh, something must be messed up right?

Joshua: Right I mean nothing has to be perfect. I mean the first big, probably before I posted this set in my drafts for two or three weeks, for I just pulled the trigger right I was just trying to make sure that every little detail was perfect but again when you, when you try to start doing that kind of stuff, you're not being, you know, authentic to you, like that's, that's not me. That's not how I operate right I fly by the seat of my pants, in 90% of my life so the moment that like, it just got a trigger for me it was like okay, why are you spending so much time doing this, we don't spend that much time to anything else in your life. This is just 15 second video

running. 

Dave: So how, how long ago was that?

Joshua: So I posted my first TikTok, like mid December of last year.

Dave: So how, what's your method of operation. Now, if you were to describe the things sit in drafts I mean How different is it now. Give us some contrast.

Joshua: So I mean, I used to spend like in the beginning, I used to spend, you know my opinion, I would spend hours trying to, you know, create an edit crappy Tiktok. And now you know the crappy is subjective right so now, if an idea hits me or if a thought strikes me, I just hit the record button, and I think the trick is not to rewatch it more than once, right you want to make sure that your message is getting across and you're not stumbling or saying anything that goes against guidelines, God forbid, but I think the more you watch the more critical, you're going to be and the more you'll start to compare it to other things, because you just watch it once, make sure it's good to go, and then send that sucker out. 

Dave: Yeah. Yeah man. No, I totally I totally agree about watching it, I think that's great advice that maybe is some of the best advice I've ever heard about reviewing content, don't watch it more than one time, right, one time is enough, you just want to make sure there's not a major flaw, but honestly just like Ariana said hearing a stutter or a small misstep in your videos is the most human thing and it gives you so much more credibility. I agree with that. Absolutely.

You know, that's one of the reasons why, why, kind of like going live, you know what I mean. Because going live which you can do on every platform now you can do that on Facebook, which we're on, you can do it on YouTube you can do it on, TikTok, you can do it on Instagram, every platform has the ability with a push of a button to go live. I think going live really if you guys want to really improve your skills like you want to really improve your communication and your self acceptance and to grow your self esteem and get more comfortable just kind of talking to a live audience, and just improve your communication go live, have a schedule to go live, a couple of times a week, or every day. I mean, look at me, man. I mean I'm 10 plus years into this game, and I'm going live, a minimum of four times per week for a minimum of 30 minutes a day man. It keeps me sharp, man, no pun intended.

Joshua: Absolutely I mean it's a skill set, right, it's a skill of being able to kind of fumble and fumble your words, but maintain your track of thought. I mean it's a skill set I think it's really powerful, especially when you're kind of like presenting yourself to the masses.

Yeah, it's powerful and it's profitable. You know what I mean, like, profitable, because, because you, it's a leadership skill. It's a leadership skill because now in any scenario offline with a group of people, whatever you have the ability to know that you can communicate to a group of people. And the real secret to making money online is leveraging tools that allow you to speak one to many. Right, that's what this whole thing is all about. Right, it's videos it's it's whether I'm doing a live and speaking to 140 people at one time, or whether it's putting up a video that's going to get hundreds of 1000s or 1000s of views or whatever hundreds of views millions of views, or, or whether I'm doing a presentation on a webinar to where I'm going to make an offer to 1000 people, right, though, it's leveraging these tools allow us to speak, and sell one to many. And it is absolutely the most profitable skill. Okay, I would say I would 2021 Now, copywriting is right there, neck and neck with it because the ability to be able to write persuasively, it's so profitable, it's so underrated. But in 2021 with all these platforms man that allow you to go live and allow you to post video the ability to be able to communicate. Like, what I call edutainment entertaining and educational. is So, it's the most profitable skill you'll ever develop so that's why I like going live, and I like I like anything that just helps me to anything that helps me to grow right in, and that's going to be uncomfortable, Joshua, what's been your most uncomfortable. But, you know, actions that you've taken in your business recently that you know that you haven't particularly liked but you know that their growth pieces.

Joshua: I think, honestly, the hardest part for me was probably going live, I think there's always like, kind of like a shield or an armor, when you post a video and then you can step away from it, right, and you don't have to worry about, you know, the judgment because as soon as the judgment comes in that's when the comparison starts. So when you post, you can kind of set it and forget it. But like you said going live. It really just kind of puts you in the middle of it, that I've been, I've been trying to do that more and more just to kind of get over, you know that that negative self taught with the judgment that's coming, coming from within, I think that's super powerful. And yeah, I just want to mention, I think you mentioned it yesterday or the day before. In this call in the wake up call, but I just, the, the time that we live in, we're not doing your business to consumer tomorrow we're in that C to C mentality and I think that's where going live like you said is so powerful because its creator, directly to consumer when you go live, you have that, you know, for lack of almost one on one connection with everybody. That's, I think so far that's kind of been. That was the most uncomfortable.

Right, I just got I wanted to, again, like I just wanted to do the mechanics right and it took a lot more to kind of shift that mental mind frame for the dynamics right just posting a piece of content than just letting everything kind of work on the back is, yeah, getting over that spin, but difficult but also super super rewarding.

Dave: Yeah, well, you know, you are, is that I want to just confirm that your tick tock candle five to eight oh affiliate. That's right?

Joshua: That's it. Yep.

Dave: Okay, okay. Yeah, you guys can search him Joshua Dean, or 5280affiliate, I would assume both of those are going to pull up his TikTok on, pull up his account. Yeah man, I did this. That's the whole piece about going live in even doing videos, what I, what I see a lot of people do that is less effective, is when they're like, like they shoot a video and they're like hey guys what's going on. It's, it's, can be more effective when you shoot your videos, as if you're just talking to one person, because then that person feels more connected to what you're saying, versus, you know, referring to your viewers as, hey guys what's going on this is a and I wanted to tell you guys like if you're on a live. And there's tons of people and that might be more appropriate or make more sense but if you're shooting a video. It always and I see even really popular marketers successful marketers who shoot videos and do webinars and stuff like automated videos and sales videos and stuff and they refer to, they call pick say hey guys and Hey guys. Hey guys, this way. Hey guys. Hey guys, it's like he's really missing out on that opportunity to connect more and just look into the camera and just say, when you get started and what I want to show you today, right, it's really a missed opportunity to connect because like you said, Joshua, it's such a huge opportunity, whether you're going live or whether you're doing a, you know, a video to make somebody feel like you're talking directly to them, you know to make somebody feel like you're talking directly to them, and you are, you know what I, what I try to think of when I'm filming or I'm doing lives or whatever is and there's somebody on here may not be everybody certainly everybody that listens. Some people are gonna listen and really not like it, but there's somebody that really is hungry man, and there's somebody that really is like looking, they're taking notes, they're like, written I'm speaking to that person, you, I'm speaking to you, that person that is like that wants this back. It's like here that's like, you know what time it is, you know what where you've been in which you see how powerful that is when I know that, right like clip, like, one of you if not many of you as I was just talking right directly to you you were going on about bits This mother, her nose on here is funny. You know what I mean.This this technology that we have, although it's a double edged sword right it's like we can never get away from it, we got to create boundaries and shit for me anyways I do, so I can get away from screens and enjoy nature and stuff like that but man it's such a powerful tool to build businesses Joshua I'm glad you found that brother, and I'm glad you got connected with us. I'm glad we're connected with you and I'm so thrilled that you. What would you say to somebody who's sitting out on maybe a legendary marketer checkout page about your experience here and if maybe they should consider becoming a member of our community.

Joshua: Oh absolutely lead absolutely leave I think one thing think one of the biggest benefits of joining the Legendary programming in the community is just that right to community of people that are just so incredibly willing to genuinely and truly offer help, and help you along the path right and I think something that really I didn't know when I first got into it but I think kind of why I was subconsciously gravitating towards affiliate marketing is it's, it's more than just promoting right or digital marketing it's more than just promoting some product or some service right it's really it's creating a bond with like minded individuals that you just haven't met yet. And I think going through this whole experience has really has really driven that home for me so I guess my one piece of advice, you know, if you're on the ledge just believe just leap, jump in with your feet and don't look back.

Dave: It's not, it's not as big of a fall as it looks right. Exact right because it looks like, kind of like the story that you shared earlier about after, you know, buying a training program you're like, oh my god I just jumped off the ledge and I'm gonna literally die. And then it's like, oh wow, it's kind of like the, the, the, I don't know the person who fell into the water and it's like I'm drowning, and then it's only two feet right it's a stand up, Brother. Hey man, Thanks for coming on. Thanks for your time today. And, bro. Keep up the great work and I hope you'll come back and keep us posted.

Joshua: Oh absolutely, absolutely. I'm here for the long haul, that's for sure. I think the next one of these, I'll be in. I'll be on the beach somewhere enjoying my time freedom so

nice, nice. 

Dave: Well awesome and it sounds like you've got an awesome wife, so give her our best and you guys, stay safe, be legendary we'll talk to you soon, buddy. 

Joshua: Alright, I appreciate it. 

Dave: Alright my friends have a fantastic Friday we'll see you back here on Monday. Please go follow Joshua also let me throw his banner up one more time. Five to eight oh affiliate you can find him on TikTok and connect with them elsewhere, they're just a lot of knowledge, a lot a lot of good experience for those of you who are just kind of either getting started or starting over and battling with some of these limiting beliefs in this comparison odors and these things that all of us deal with, even that powerful story about buying our blue friend prints and then panicking right after such an authentic and transparent look into what all of us go through. We all have these feelings we all have these similar experiences. Sometimes we think that we're the only ones who do right like, Oh, I'm, you know this must just be me, it's not, it's not just you, right. It's all of us. Right, we're all having this incredibly raw human experience all the time. I know we dress it up in which but it's just that's what I think the more we embrace that, the more successful we are because we get comfortable in our own skin, and we just stop overthinking things stop comparing, and just pull the trigger and just make moves span, and the more moves you make, the more it builds up and success. Success is there somewhere, right, sometimes we stumble on it most of the time we just accidentally stumble on it. And sometimes it's, it's perfectly executed hardly ever, but, but, but it's there. And the number one rule is don't quit. All right, so we'll be back here Monday, be Legendary my friends. Have a great weekend. We'll talk to you soon.

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You can see me okay. And you can hear me okay let me know in the comments. I got my coffee here. And yesterday was moving day for us. I'm still in the place we're clearing out. This is our old place. This is our old bedroom we just moved out and so now I've got it, I got to do all that work of you know, the fun stuff, the cleaning and all of that nonsense, so. Okay, let me make sure that I've got a little send on the text message. Alright so I just hit send on the text message reminder for those of you who don't have, if you're not currently getting our text message reminders, you can get a reminder every time that we go live in the morning. You just text 813-296-8553 And then in the message you put WUL sometimes it'll auto correct, sometimes it will do something weird so if it does that just send it again, I guess, I don't know what to do. But yeah, so. Okay, we've got an awesome guest today. I'm excited to bring her on and had a little bit of both moving and technical difficulties so we're getting a little bit of a late start today but hey it's okay we're here, we made it, and I'm excited to bring her on. I think her story, but we do a little questionnaire, just to get a little bit of background on people before we get started, and so we did this little questionnaire and I'm just excited to hear her story because I think there's power in new beginnings, I think there's power in as she calls it starting over. So, for everybody who's here with us and we are here live. This is not pre recorded or anything like that, I mean it's, it's Tuesday, April 27 at 7:11am. But we do these every, every Monday through Friday at 10am Eastern. For those of you who are here live if you can give us a thumbs up and also give us some clapping emojis or something to welcome Michelle into the show. How's it going, Michelle?

Michelle: Good morning it's going. I'm very nervous this morning.

Matt: Where are you from?

Michelle: I'm originally from Corpus Christi Texas we live in the Houston area of Texas right now for probably about the past 20 years but originally from Corpus so the Gulf Coast.

Matt: Okay, right on. Very cool. Okay, so now you got started with Legendary or sort of our community, our courses. How long ago was it?

Michelle: It was just February I actually started looking into it in November of last year. And February 9 is when I actually started, you know, doing my TikTok promotion for legendary was my very first video it was kind of ridiculous but. So from November till now is when I started I started the 15 Day Challenge originally, About a month or so before that, and I, and I kind of like, kind of let it fall to the wayside, I, I just was like, just second guessing it I didn't know if it was for me. And I went back and I finished it up and I just haven't looked back since. So it's just been a couple of months for me.

Matt: Oh, awesome. Yeah, I feel like it's a pretty common story of people purchasing or and kind of feeling it out a little bit right just a little bit of feeling, just like, Is this something I actually want to do. It makes sense. Have you tried other things before? Well, before we get into that. Take us back into a little bit of like the why behind why you're here. You worked in, you had a full blown career for like 17 years. We had to make a big shift. Can you take us to, like, your career, did you enjoy it, what was that like and then also help us shift into now I'm looking for something online and what came about, or you can share as much or as little detail as, as you would prefer.

Michelle: Okay, no, absolutely, I was in healthcare for about 17 years. You know it was, it was enjoyable. I went through, you know, a couple of different specialties but towards the end, I was getting a little washed out with it and I had kind of been, you know, thinking I wanted something new. And then I actually had a, like a health scare that kind of in 2019, just kind of threw my whole game off. I had just some out of control health issues with diabetes and my kidney and I knew that it was going to come to the point where I was going to have to leave my full time job some point, I had spent all year 2020 Or not only with COVID But you know on FMLA trying to get control of my health. I had a couple of surgeries, so at the end of the year I knew already, I knew I was going to. I was looking for something new. I got on TikTok, just like everybody else for the funny stuff and you know whatever and I don't know, I don't even remember honestly, sadly enough, I don't remember who I signed up under I just know I saw a video one day and it caught my attention and I had no idea what any of this was, so I kind of, you know I did a little research on the side and then it came to the point where I was getting more antsy with it I knew, you know, my time has come in I'm about to put in my resignation letter. It's coming down and I need to figure something out. And so I went ahead and signed up for the challenge and like I said I started it and I kind of let it teeter because I wasn't really sure, and I threw out other ideas of what I might be doing. You know, starting an Etsy shop and doing selling on Amazon and then I went through the whole ordeal of trying to find items on clearance and selling. I was like, oh, like I was like this is not, I'm 48 I don't want to chase clearance items for resale. It just wasn't for me. So finally I came back and addressed the 15 day challenge, and I came and I spoke with my coach with Joanne who was amazing. She is amazing. And I just knew there was something clicked. I don't know if it was just that time of like it caught me at the right time but I just knew that this is what I was going to do and this is going to be my new career. February 2 I turned in my resignation letter. And a week later, I made my first post on TikTok. So, here I am. Most

Yeah, it's been a whirlwind for sure. 

Matt: Well, that's cool I mean I feel like it's a big testament to where we are in the world and like this has been happening for so long, I feel like, you know COVID brought it to more people's attention or really brought it to the mainstream. But I mean, this whole movement, this whole like this whole ability to, whether it's a job, or whether it's sometimes people having, like, a lot of times moms when they have kids, or when people get laid off, like, this has been a full movement now for like a decade or more probably 15ish years where people are going online, and, like, building out a new career and they're like, this is actually possible, and now I feel like it's, it's becoming this thing where people are now not as skeptical of it. I think before it was like, all these people out there in outer space, making money somehow on the internet, I don't really know how it works and I don't really know what they do, now it's like, okay, yeah, you're one of them right make sense. Cool, right, you know, it's like almost this embrace thing going from, so turning in a resignation letter, not an easy thing to do. 

Michelle: Income you've guessed it, tied up in that. It was tough, I, and I kind of just sprung this on my husband, I've got, I've got grown children. There are years old 30 years old and 19 and I, I've got grown children so I kinda was like, you know, this may be, this might be my time, you know, and I'm just, and I knew and I, so my husband. I kind of went to him and I was like, I'm thinking about doing this class and I think, you know, we knew that was coming because of my health, but I just don't think that he realized where I was with it I don't think he realized that I was ready to take this, this big, like okay I'm resigning from this job. So I, within a few days actually literally I just said this is what I want to do. I wrote a letter to my boss and I talked to her about it  on the phone, and I went in there and actually I was dealing with health issues at the time so I was on like a 10 day leave. And I just was. I just came back. I broke it down to her and I just said you know I, this is not gonna work. I'm not coming back. I don't want to end my 17 year career in healthcare, with having to be let go because of, you know. You don't want to ever even, especially at my age, you don't want to get let go for something like that and then have to go out and do another job search and be like, Well, why were you let go, well, I wasn't coming to work all the time because I was, they don't hear I was sick, they just hear I wasn't coming to work all the time you know so it wasn't it was a big step, it was a big step, my husband was kind of like, oh, oh okay that. Not this week I was like no I'm done and he was okay well let's, let's do this. He's like, if you're gonna do it this is the time to do it, I guess. So he was supportive. I think I just kind of, I caught my whole family off guard. I don't think they realize how serious I was about making a change, and I think they were all terrified because who does that just, especially for some, not like if I told them I was changing careers and going back to school to be you know, a lawyer or some, You know something that they think it's look more credible right what do you do you change. When I said I'm going to resign from my job and I'm texting money online. They said, How are we doing that?

Matt: I imagine the faces

Michelle: Right?

Matt: Yeah okay mom, that's a cute idea,

Michelle: Right, yeah that's great mom. Sure. But yeah, it went great, and they have supported me and they've actually been just as surprised as I am, I've been. I mean it's just, it's just been like I said it's been a couple of months, and it's been a whirlwind, for sure, but I love it I love, I love this so much, so much. Yeah.

Matt: So do you have a little, what's your office, I'm just curious like you're working out of your house you have your own little office setup?

Michelle: So, I do have an office in my house. I have grandchildren that are living with me. So, when I, this is now a corner, which makes for a very romantic setting. These include her in my bedroom with this backdrop of a brick wall, you know, that is right. I've got a booth set up a desk and a couple ring lights. That's it, and this is where I come every day and I'm here, I go live, two times a week my content right here in this little corner of adventure.

Matt: I love it. I, so, for everybody who's here I'm moving out so you can see here I'm standing in a totally empty room and I've got a box setup that I was sitting at my computer, but on your note about having a little corner.  This is one of our main closets that we just moved out of right and when I first got started online we had a closet about this size. And I kid you not on this bottom shelf right here. I removed that 2013 or 2012. And so you can see and then I turned this into it. So I'm not joking you, there was clothes all around me, and I would just set it right here, and then I would like, you know, try to adjust the doors and try to make it look like I wasn't in a closet, and then I, you know, just try to cover everything up with my body or whatever. And, yeah, I mean, I made my first, you know $3,000 commission or whatever a $3,000 sale, per month, you know, working on the freaking closet yeah so I to me I'm not that isn't surprising to me I actually think in most cases like it's a cool story, like people always are like, you know, it's all about how you think about it's all about your frame of mind because a lot of people are they feel shamed over that or they feel like, oh, how could I, you know what a poser I am and they there's such this imposter syndrome but, like, Who gives a crap like Apple’s built out of a garage I mean, look at if you look back at the start of Amazon, to what they are now, it's not like Jeff Bezos was sitting in his little tiny crusty office space that he leased for almost nothing, thinking like oh well we're not even like a real legit bookstore company online like we're just this like no, this is the new, this is, this is what it is to be a new, a new world, a new age, entrepreneur online it's like, set up of  maybe 20 square feet or less, and you need a table and a freaking laptop.

And in some cases you don't even need that. Right and in some places you don’t even need that, you need a freaking phone.

Michelle: It's, Yeah, it's definitely, it's definitely my space, and it feels literally when I have it kind of blocked in with a file cabinet here on my desk and it's, it's almost like walking into another room. It's like this is my, this has become my workspace, this little corner, and so I can be downstairs doing whatever and then I'm like, Oh, I gotta go post something I ran upstairs and I come right back here to this corner and this is my little safe zone of where I can get things done. Matt: It turned out to be okay for me, that's exactly what my whole little closet setup was to me is a place where, like, I mean, it was tiny, and like almost embarr I feel almost embarrassed about it now. It was a closet like that is that's maybe one step too far, but we just didn't have any other space and I always felt like I wanted a little bit of just pure privacy like I wanted a place where I'm just actually alone in my zone, and in my space and I'm such an introvert that like my wife like Catherine she, she needs like windows and she needs like to see out and not feel like contained. I feel like I want to feel contained and that that little space, like you said is, is so powerful because it allowed me to just be creative and to get out of like, are people watching me or people like whatever I was just like in my little zone, I guess, right. So do you think that helps you create most of your content, right there?

Michelle: My very first post was downstairs in the family room in front of a bookcase, and I'm not joking when I say I was like, make sure all the good books are posted and make sure that everything's stacked up just right behind me and I was like, I can't do this every day and then when you're posting, when I was making this first video, I had my daughter, my 19 year old I'm like okay, where I look what do I do, how do I and it was just, And then I felt embarrassed. I felt embarrassed in front of her because I was like all that. Here I am 48 trying to start over with something new and I'm on Tik Tok making little dancey videos and that was like my very first one and so I was like I can't do this in the living room. Out here in front of everybody coming and going and I was like, Nope, we're taking it upstairs. So yeah, This is it. This is where I, you know create most of my stuff unless I'm outside or anything.

Matt: Yeah, I feel like I feel like they'll see what's, what's powerful, I feel like, so I'm gonna project a little bit onto your kids. Okay, so I feel like what I feel like is powerful to me about your story is, if I were watching along right so if I were, if I were like daily around you or you or my mom or your like my sibling, or even, whatever. To me, I feel like what's powerful about that is, you've been consistent. Right, so sometimes what I just I've coached a lot of people online who have done tried this and tried that and tried this and tried that and everything had this habitual pattern of just kind of dabble dabble dabble dabble dabble and then with the kids, what happens to their kids, I talked to about, you know, oh, my kids are saying I got into this other thing again. And the kids start to learn that pattern, they start to pick up on the fact of like, oh, you're just, you're just playing around here, and I feel like, you know, the vibe I get from you, number one, having worked that long in a career is a lot of consistency. And also, when you did make that switch, it wasn't like, let's, let's play around and be cute, I mean you got 36,000 followers on TikTok, and you're posting aggressively, a lot, you're building a following you're building an audience, and you're generating some income, right, right on top of all of that, you know, as they're looking on. Now I feel like it's just, to me it seems so powerful that that later restarting, and getting everything, you know from ground zero a total restart, then they sort of look on and look at that and be like, well, dang, like Michelle, she's kind of like, I agree to a lot of guts, you know, it really does. It's crazy. It's not. Yeah, I just think that that shouldn't be something taken lightly because it's just such a cool thing. So, Yeah, it's very cool. So, what's, what's like what's next. Like 6,000 followers, and I think my guess is you'd probably just remain consistent with posting and keeping your video content going, what's, like, what's the next horizon or like kind of what's we thinking about what's going on in your mind?

Michelle: Well, so when I just, you know, when I started I originally was just like, oh, you know, I'll just stick with, you know, promoting Legendary and I'm going to do that for three or four months, just so I can learn, I mean literally I did the blueprints and such, the decade and the day that the blueprints and there's things that I still haven't even gotten to, like, there's still so much that I haven't learned within that because it's so much information, and honestly, I'm, I'm taking advantage of the fact that I do get the chance to work from home, so I work on this in the morning, and then I do, you know, go about my day and do all of the other mom and grandma, things that I need to do here in the home. But I just started about a week and a half ago, I just want to do two more domains to start up, start promoting other things. I put like two, two posts I haven't really gotten tried to get followers yet because I kind of wanted to feel out what other than this, what is it that I wanted to promote right I have the field other niches are you looking at,

yeah, so I did go into health and wellness specifically because of my health issues. And so I've got that going, I do have the pet thing going and actually, I started, i started. I'll say started. I started with like my own online pet fabulous business. Several years back, and I bought all this inventory and I did all of the whole like, I just actually found my folder on it this last week, and I was like, oh my, I forgot it was even a thing, because I tried it, and at the time you know like half the time, we didn't really even have a lot of internet access at the time like I was just out of my league. You know I mean I was, I was not ready I thought a lot of spice and things and I'll just sell them and it'll be great. So I had a passion for that already, so I did do the whole, I've got a pet side and I'm a health, promote because I love it I love the product, at least not but the health is going to kind of be like a kind of was like Legendary it's going to be a journey because I'm promoting it, while I'm doing the very thing that I'm promoting. Do you know, like, because I need to see results from it, it's been the best thing that I found so far so that's gonna, that's me starting my journey with it and and that's going to be, be my story and have people try to follow along with me. This is for me, affiliate marketing that's it for me. 

Matt: Yeah, cool.

Michelle: I won’t go back to working a 9-5 or for somebody else because I've tried to be in the entrepreneur mindset. I've been in it my whole life. I just didn't have the resources, I was not educated about it and you know, when, like I said I'm 48 When When I was growing up it was like you go to school, and you'd be a doctor or lawyer or a teacher or a nurse, and that's it. And I was like, Okay, well I'll go to my I'll go and I'll work in the medical field and it's like, What do you mean there's a whole world of other things you can do on the computer, it's just, it's just mind blowing. So yeah, that's where I'm at. 

Matt: Yeah, man. I feel like I just have a prediction, I just, something, something about just your journey, your story or everything, I feel like that Health niche. Like I feel like that, that'll probably come easy for you. I do I feel like that's going to be just almost second nature because it's been such an integral part of your life, right, and more so than like the ability to make money online I, that the health piece just is, it's such a core piece to somebody's identity, and, and, yeah, your specific story and all that goes with it. I just feel like that's, you know, if I had any encouragement and be like, jump into that, and just like run with that. But keep aiming, keep going, keep doing what you're doing, really explore that because that's going to be like just such a, it'll probably be even more fulfilling to write I think that's the one that resonates.

Michelle: It's more personal for me, that one. So that's more of where I'm starting to put more focus on, you know, And it's, and I mean honestly, I It's, I tell people, okay this is what I'm doing and it's become more of a part time I've had the option to do this part time. Luckily, my husband is, you know, taking care of home and bills and such and so the money that's coming in the Commission's is, it's great, it's, it's an added bonus, you know, to be able to do this. So I feel like there's a little bit less pressure for me because I can make a new post today and I started in the beginning wanted to do two or three posts on TikTok and I started a Facebook group and I did all this, and then I was like still doing, you know, I still had mom and grandma, things to do and I was like okay this is good because this is a career where you can do this and still do other things that need your attention, you can still take care of all those other things. So this is, I won't. I don't like the word part time. It's given me the opportunity to start something, go through my day, and then still take care of the home that I need to and I think that this jumping into this health and wellness side is going to be, it'll take up a little bit more my time because I'm so just passionate about the things that I've been through and wanting to reach out to people who are, you know, doing the same thing, going through the same thing.

Matt: Yeah, it makes sense. Yeah, and even with the things you mentioned like working full time. Like, even, even if you are devoting full time, hours to it, there's something really powerful about the flexibility you're offered. You know, if you've got like an all day event for one of your kids or grandkids or something, and it's on a Thursday, right and it's like oh no one can take the kid to this, whatever field trips, or a baseball game or something. It's like you know what, my entire day can get this can all happen on Saturday, or this could happen tonight when the kids go to bed or it's like, yeah, that's really come to really appreciate that probably more than anything.

Michelle: That's helped me a lot because of the flexibility that you say because you know just like today I've got a two year old grandson that's with a fever home with a fever can't go to daycare, so I'll be watching. And then I have a 10 year old grandson who needs a ride home after band practice today so I'm still able to be everywhere I need to be but, but they all know that you know when it's time for when it's time to go in here this is my little space here, you know, I can just get away even if it's for a few minutes and do that. And that's what I love that I love to be able to still be here for them, but still have a chance to make do something for myself, you know when you're, sometimes when you're a parent or grandparent, whether you're full time parent or part time, you forget that you still, you still had at one point you still had, you know, wants and ambitions and you know things that goals and you don't always, you put those to the side a lot to do those family things and take care of, you know, your responsibilities, and so it's nice to be able to do what I want to do, and focus on myself and still be able to do the other things also. So that's given me, that's this opportunity that's exactly what it is. I can't stress enough how important that is, you know, a balance, a work life balance is absolutely important, so that you don't get overwhelmed with either one of them.

Matt: Yep. Love it. Oh, yeah. What a great interview event really great. I very much enjoyed this and I feel refreshed. I always just love hearing, like a real human beings, I don't know it's just so different, like sometimes there's the celebrity like things or even, you know, nothing is saved, but like Dave's story of like going from drug addiction and sort of reinventing himself and, like, it's so refreshing to just hear it from a person that I just met like 30 minutes ago. And congrats, because you're working so damn hard and I can tell and you're paying such like even just in a quick scroll through TikTok pay such close attention to detail on your content creation and I can tell that you're really like hyper locked in on that so congrats. Do you have any for people who are watching, you know, we have 163 Live and then, you know, typically there's a couple 1,000 That'll watch like just for people who are just figuring it out or just, you know, trying to kind of work their way into the online space. Got any final words or any, any words of advice, um,

I would have to say. Just don't give up when it gets hard especially if, and I can relate to. When I first got on here and I watched my very first live Wake Up Legendary it was with Callie Vernon, I felt like I was like, she was like, I’m gonna set this goal and I put it on my list. And let me just say, persistence, if you set yourself a goal, determination, it's not always going to be motivation, it's not always like, Oh, I'm not really feeling motivated today. You just have to find the determination to keep going. And if you make a goal for yourself, it's, write it down, it's so much more. It seems so much more available to like you're going to work towards it turned down I saw Callie say okay I wrote my stuff down. I got myself a notebook. And just a quick bit, I wrote on. In March, the beginning of March, I wrote, I want to get to 20,000 followers on TikTok, and I want to be on Wake Up Legendary before the end of April. Okay, and when they, when rocks can reach out to me, she said, Well the only data I have available in April. My next one available is the 27th of the 28th and I was like, What are you telling me that I wanted to be on before the end of April, and the only two days have left are the last two of the month. Holy crap, I'm writing everything down now, you just got it, you just got to work towards it, write it down and make it a goal and it's just amazing the power of the pen. You know, it just helps hold yourself accountable and you know just don't give up on it, it's, it's completely worth it, it's completely worth it and it makes you feel good, makes you feel good to accomplish your goals.

Matt: Absolutely, you wrote that down. Callie just commented that what she wrote down was, I wanted to have somebody inspired by my live, and she just checked that off.

Michelle: Check it off your box cause I was just I was just, she's actually the first one I started following on my journey I was just so I related, you know, being in the healthcare field, and she was able to work, and I was like, this is, This is too good to be true, I appreciate it. 

Matt: I love it, it's just a test, it is just a, it is such a clear example, that like you have no idea in the world, what person is going to relate to your content, no clue, Callie would never in a million years guess that some person in Texas, Michelle with your story and your journey would sit there and look at one of our videos and be like, damn, they absolutely are like this, this would absolutely change my life. And the same thing goes for whatever niche in the world you can ever be in: health and fitness, dog training, motivation, spirituality, sports training like whatever that is, there's that. There's always, you know, physical rehab, mental rehab, relationships right like relationship coaching like all of this different stuff, you have experience, you have a passion behind something. And you can connect to an audience, and you know, at least in my experience of creating content, just never know that it's going to be. 

Michelle: Absolutely. So excited to follow her and as you know, I fell in love. Cuz I got to the point where I was like, Oh, this isn't gonna work for me, I'm not gonna look at all the time I wasted doubting, I could have started this in November, you know. And then, six, seven months into it now but I mean I think it's okay, you have to get to a point and, and actually, like I said, when I saw Callie on her Wake Up Legendary interview and she was just saying you know I wrote it down and I wanted to be on and I just was like, You know what, that's a great idea. I'm gonna set goals I'm gonna write them down and hope a lot of people won't admit to being my age and taking getting inspired by a younger, you know, somebody in their 20s because they don't want to get to this point, and be like, oh well maybe I need to kind of backtrack and maybe I can learn something from the somebody else the younger generation, but I've certainly learned from legendary and from Callie and all the other affiliates or affiliate marketers on here.

Just how, how much of a difference, you know, one little, you know, it's never, no never no I get I get messages from people saying, oh my god, I'd sign up for my first as an affiliate today because of your video or for your words or your encouragement, and that's what Callie did for me, so shout out.

Matt: Well, cool. Well, Michelle, thanks for coming on. This is great. This is inspiring. I've been sitting here watching the comments, the whole show, and they're blowing up this, you know, between people loving your eyes, and people loving your story. I've seen it all so they're very, they're very thankful that you've been on and I'm thankful, thanks for coming on and I appreciate it. Yeah, we have another opening later down the road we'll reach out and have you back on and get a little progress update.

Michelle: Absolutely. I'm so glad to have been here, and it just gave me just, you know, it's what I needed, it's just kind of get a check in, right, you check in with yourself and you remind yourself of when your questionnaire, it's, you know, it reminds you, oh right, what what is my why. Why did I start this, even two months down the road, you might be questioning or forgetting why you even started it. So it's great, it was a great opportunity and I appreciate it.

Matt: Thanks Michelle. I'm gonna wrap this thing up. Have a good rest of your Tuesday.

Michelle: Thank you. You too, bye guys.

Matt: All right guys, next time you see me hopefully I'll be in my new house, and not in our tiny little apartment here. Hey, if you guys can leave a comment for Michelle, and just let her know. You know what you took away, or what, what was what was powerful to just leave her a comment here because that was really, really powerful. I hope you all realize that I'm sure you did but Michelle maybe can run through the comments later after the show and maybe, maybe give it a couple of days for people to rewatch and stuff like that but we're signing off for the day. Have yourself a great rest of your Wednesday or Thursday, Tuesday, whatever it is, the 27th, And we'll be back tomorrow which is Wednesday and Dave will be back here tomorrow at 10am Eastern same time same place. Have yourself a good rest of your day, See ya.

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Hey this is Dave Sharpe unmuted now, and in full effect here. Good morning everyone, we've got a great guest this morning, we're going to be talking about how you can see how to shed the imposter syndrome, start rocking and rolling so let's get right into this, Kara, Morrison, welcome to the show. Are you hanging out in the Amazon rainforest right now?

Kara: Sort of, yeah, this is my tapestry, I got it off Amazon so I guess it is an Amazon rain forest because it came from Amazon. I wanted a cool background, you know, when I was on and I just thought you know I have a little brick thing too, so I can have like bricks in the background but I see people with really neat backgrounds and I thought, why not be somewhere I want to be.

Dave: Get that yeah you got that done for sure. I like it, I love it. It looks good. So, tell us a little bit about yourself and kind of what led you to legendary like what you did a little bit before this and and what ultimately, you know led you to this kind of crazy world, which is affiliate marketing, and then ultimately, this crazy community which is Legendary.

Kara: Sure. So, um, well I'm 41 and this last year and so my 40s has been quite an adventure, especially with the COVID and everything. And, you know, currently I'm a secretary in the guidance office of a high school here locally in our town. And I've been doing that for five years, and I fell into that because I was a server at a restaurant for many many years, and I did a few different restaurants through the years, but that was my main thing. And, I met my husband in food and beverage as well. And so, with both of us working restaurants, it was not conducive to family life. So, I said I gotta get out. I got to go be mom, you know, I mean, especially when the boys were little and I said you know I need something else. And we worked with someone who was a counselor, and she works you know summers and part time and everything, and she said hey we've got this spot opening up, so I took this position and, you know, it's been great as far as the schedule is concerned, you know, people tell you when you get involved in working at a school as a parent you get really hooked on the schedule. But the truth is that you know, working at restaurants, working in different capacities you know, I didn't finish college. As a result of a car accident that I was in and all kinds of stuff that just kind of took me sideways, and I've always believed in something bigger. My parents when I was growing up, weren't big business people or anything. My dad worked and my mom was a stay at home mom. She did Tupperware and Avon and things like that through the years, my dad tried to get into Amazon a couple different times, you know, so I was aware that there were other things out there. But, but, but never had massive success with it and so I didn't really I didn't really know what to do, you know, I just knew. There's got to be something else. Yeah, and especially when you're a parent, and, you know, thinking okay well how can I better serve my family better serve what I want to do. For us, you know, school is great for schedule but let me tell you what, as somebody who's not a Certified Employee like a teacher or a counselor, the money isn't exactly, you know, anything to talk about. And while it's a great package and everything, I thought you know yeah but I don't have any word growth. I can move from this position to that position, but I can't go up. Well, and, you know, so I've tried, you know, through the years I know I thought okay well I'm gonna jump into an MLM. And I'm still part of an MLM, but I've never had the business success of it, you know, and that's what I got to it for, You know, products and I love people. I love the events and I love the stuff. Yeah, business. Yeah, and so it comes down to mindset is what I've started to realize. The biggest thing for me has, has been, you know, the shift here. This is where it all happens, no matter what you want to do. And, you know that MLM happens to be in the health and wellness field. And the same is true for you getting healthy. The same is true for you knowing being successful in anything you want to do, the game is here. And so that's kind of where I thought, you know, this is this, you know a good conversation to have.

Yeah. So I love that so tell me where your mindset is from previous ventures, approaches that you've taken compared to your mindset now? Talk to us a little bit about what the journey has been like with you, with you, be a difference maker, and where you think that in that because I can tell you take a lot of responsibility and that's for your own, you know you're not playing the victim card you're not saying that clearly you've had some tragedy car accident, things have not worked out perfectly in your life, I think we all can say that, but but you're here, and clearly you've demonstrated some, some that you've got a good mindset, how has your mindset differed from, from where it's been in the past, compared to now.

Kara: Sure. So, you know, when you talk about that victim mindset, I was one of the people who, you know, was kind of headed down that dangerous slippery slope of the victim mindset, you know, and it would have been very easy to play that card. I mean, you know, things haven't worked out the way they quote unquote should have things have been, you know, not anything close to what I would have planned them to be. However, as I've started to get into the personal development side of it. Even just listening to books, I can't sit down all the time and just read a book but I drive places and I clean the house, and I do other things so I listen to books, and I listen to a personal development book because it's like a conversation with somebody, and not just a story being told. And so, for me, each one of those things kind of builds upon another. I can tell you that you know the personal development journey from from learning how not to be a victim from learning how to take responsibility for also going on in my life from learning how to hurt my marriage, you know, we went through some serious counseling some serious personal development I could have sat back and said, You know what, it's not me, it's all him. He needs to change, he needs to do this he needs to do that. And sure, there may have been some truth in that. But I had to look in the mirror and say, Okay, fine, but I can't control him. I can control myself. So what do I need to do differently? What is the common denominator, I haven't been successful at this. I haven't been successful at that, I'm having trouble over here, the common denominator and all that is me. And that's what it boils down to. I think that's the same and all those scenarios and if those things aren't going well, maybe it's time to look inside and decide what I need to do to start to shift on this thing.

Dave: You are talking so you are dropping some not just little, you ain't dropping no crumbs right now you're dropping some gold bars, okay. My wife says she loves you. She's listening to this conversation. She loves this right.

Kara: And I come down there and I'm gonna be one of the big people on the stage teaching other people how to do all this so that's my goal.

Dave: Okay girl okay my wife said yes boo get that.

Kara: My business plan advisor, I told him back in the day I said look, when I was in my MLM one of my big goals was to get up on that stage, but it worked out that way. So now that I'm in this and I have so much belief in this, I want to show people there is a better way.

Dave: Well, and you are dropping some massive gold bars but let me, let me offer you this total belief in you is what the difference maker is because the truth is is that a lot of, you know, we spend our whole lives believing in everything and everybody else, but never really in ourselves, and we say Kara, I've heard this for so many years, it's not even funny. I can't tell you how many 1000’s of people say that well I didn't, I didn't succeed in past ventures because I didn't have the right support, I didn't have the this I didn't have that it was a scam it was this it was that. And the truth is is that that's a scam, guys, is where literally somebody takes your money, and just steals it and disappears like that's a scam, a scam is where somebody says can you, they email you and it ends up in your spam box and they say, can you please send $10,000 Because I need, you know, there's a million dollars here I'll give it back to you and all that and they're trying to get you to send that money, and then steal it. A scam is not when you join like an MLM, and it, like you don't do anything and then you don't get any results that's not, you didn't. You just didn't do anything. Right? And then, and that's so, I say that because we've all had things that we haven't succeeded it, and it's, it's directly 99 ish percent of the time, because of our own, you know, either inability to be able to like get started or our unwillingness to do certain things or our own fears or whatever, which you're so like courageously taking in, you know, ownership of and it's very inspiring to hear you do that right now and I think I can speak for everybody here it's very refreshing, right, to be in these are the conversations that I am excited to have here every morning. And so I would invite all the guys who are listening and I'm mainly talking to everybody who's listening as you're kind of stepping forward with this courage and honesty that you're demonstrating is listened to what Kara is saying, because we're we most of the time, scam ourselves, we are the greatest scam artists of our own self, we talk ourselves out. I mean we scam ourselves out of love. We scam ourselves out of money. We scam ourselves, we scam ourselves out of friendship, we scam ourselves out of every, I mean so many things we scam ourselves out of getting a good experience at a restaurant because we walk in and titled in rude. Right, I mean just, all of those examples are instances where we're scamming ourselves, nobody's scamming us. Right. And that is such an empowering approach, and that's what I'm hearing from you care is that, yes, I'm happy to hear that you have belief in in us, but I also what it sounds like to me, is that you just simply have more belief in yourself now as well and I've had a lot of awakenings and awareness. Is that right?

Kara: Absolutely, and you're so right. You know I think people get into things and they have this picture. This is what I was always guilty of, I had this picture of what it should look like. This is what my marriage should look like. This is what my family should look like. This is what this business should look like this is what it's supposed to look like, and if it didn't look like that, I mean like, even the slightest details were off. If it was not that picture, it was wrong, and what I had to learn is, it's not going to be that picture. If, but more often than not, not ever going to be that picture, but once you start to incorporate like the belief that hey, it is the picture that it is. Now what am I going to do with it? And what am I going to do about it and how can I make this work, you know, I tell people with okay health and wellness is a great example because look what diet works. The one you stick to, period. I mean, Weight Watchers, and it works for you and you stick to it and you follow it, great. If you drink shakes, and that works for you and you stick to it. Awesome. If you exercise 95 hours a week and you're a bodybuilder and, and that works for you. Awesome, but you have to stick to it. And you have to break it. Because nothing is going to do it for you. That's kind of what I'm finding with this, you know, when I, I'll tell you a quick story. I was on a journey to continue to try to find something I knew with the internet and I knew, you know okay maybe MLM structure and all that kind of stuff, maybe that's maybe that's not the thing for me, maybe that's maybe that's just part of my learning journey, right. So, what is it out there, what else is out there, you know, so there's Amazon FBA and I spend money on courses I spend money on things, you know, can you know what, I'll just do a blog, because the blog is, I can make the blog whatever on it today, I'm gonna vlog, I could totally be a blogger, and I'd sit down and I would go. Why am I going to talk him out to talk about. So, you know, it's always different steps along the way and it's like, you know, each one of them though, taught me something. So last year, COVID, you know, all kinds of downtime at home I was not unemployed but I was at home a lot, and I decided okay I'm gonna reach out and start to search the internet again and try to find something and you know, this is the time, this is it. This is the pivotal moment, And I'm gonna change everything. And you know, this is what this is the time. And so I you know I got on all these different webinars that I signed up, all these different calls and I you know I talked to all these different people, and this one day, I'm very extremely non confrontational, like, to a fault, it pains me like physically to tears, to be in a confrontation with somebody. But again, the growth journey so crazy 90 minute webinars you know learn how to make money online. And after you go through the 90 minutes, which is just the big long 90 minute ad, you get on a phone call. I got on the phone, and this guy is basically saying to me, he had nobody had told him the nine minutes, They still haven't really told me what they do. Okay, so I'm on this 90 minute call, or I'm not and then I get on the phone call afterwards, and I'm talking to the guy and he's like, now if you want to sign up, you got to give us $35 Right now, you didn't tell me what you do, what do we do? We'll see if you're an entrepreneur and you can do this you know that you're going to be able to just jump right in and you just need to give us some money right now. And I'm like well you listen, what do we do, what are we doing. Well here's the thing, you know, once you get in you know you're gonna learn all this stuff. And I was like, but you're not telling me anything. And I can't get that kind of money out, upfront, I am not in a position where that kind of money laying around, and I can't just invest in something like that without you even telling me what it is, and I was on the phone for 45 minutes with this guy going round and round, but I was standing my ground. And I literally use it as a growth opportunity, I used it to say, You know what I'm gonna get, I'm gonna wear this guy down, because he's got to either tell me what the heck we're doing like this is ridiculous. You can't do this to people who if you can't do that right up front, Then you're probably

not the kind of person we want to work with. You haven't told me what we do. And so I got off that call and I was like This is insane. This is nuts like there is got to be something out there that is not just full of crap. There has to be. So I put everything aside for a little while, and I thought I gotta just, you know who saw. And so, I saw this ad, I'm pretty sure it was the Facebook ad. I can't remember how I clicked the thing that made it Legendary. But as I listened to the person in their little, you know, job page or whatever, and I listened to you. Okay, this guy's not just trying to sell me something. This is not just, he's actually giving me information, which was like, my experience so far. And I decided that I would just continue to listen. And I decided that okay, the 15 day business builder challenge. Look, I've wasted a lot of time on courses and webinars and all that kind of stuff I was like 15 days, okay I hate 15 days. Sure, sure. I mean, you know, it's not going to cost me any more than all this other crap is cost me, and I literally thought. But here's the thing. I have to invest myself into it, too. And so when I got in, and I started with, you know the day one, the day two, the dates right now. It was challenging, because I got on the phone with Ricardo and I had my defences up because I was like oh here's the guy, it's gonna ask me all the money. Here he is. Let's go. There is the opportunity to invest in something more. And one day when I am able to, I will invest in more, and I have because I've gotten the Omni presence at training. I've gotten, you know the 15 second leads training I've invested in the small trainings along the way because here's the thing, I understand the value of the actual education you're offering of the fact that you're teaching people real skills that are transferable, I can take these skills and I don't have to promote you. Now, I want to, because I see what you had to offer, and this is such a great starting point for people, but I'm, you know, the other part of it is, I can take these skills, and I can go work at any business and say, but marketer now. My friend just is starting a business with her mom here locally and I said to her I said, I'm learning, marketing, so I might be able to help you out because she doesn't know how to really put together a successful like business Facebook page and things like that and, hey, look at the skills I'm learning. I might be able to help you out. And I'm starting, you know, but here it is, the game is here.

Dave: Yeah.

Kara: So that's kind of my story. I wanted to share it. Well I wanted to share it because when I, when I sort of half jokingly said Hey Dave, do you interview new people, you know, when I got my first commission. And by the way that wasn't a first high ticket commission that was a first first commission. Okay. but know what it is, is believability. That's real. It happened, which means it works. If you work, it works. And I wanted to hear that from somebody that isn't, you know I haven't been doing it for 12 years, I haven't quit my nine to five, yet and I haven't, you know make $50,000 a month yet and I will. I'm going to. But the thing is, I want people to hear that all it's look, I didn't do it in my first month, you know, I had to go through a learning curve with TikTok, I have to ask my teenagers, what I'm doing. I'm still learning, all of these platforms you know I used to yell at my kids, why are you wasting your life on TikTok, would you please get off a TikTok, this is ridiculous. What the heck is decap. Now I'm one on TikTok, and the videos and they're laughing at me because I'm, you know, making a fool of myself on TikTok, but here it is. Okay. It's working. 

Dave: I mean, all this stuff that you're saying it's so powerful and important, and I just, I, what you're saying right now. How you're talking and in the experience and the value that you're sharing and delivering. I just hope that all of you guys who, who say to yourself constantly, this is just such a common question and it's a limiting belief that people have, which is, well, how can I go out there and market on the internet if I'm not a multi million dollar producer and I haven't made, or I haven't lost 1000’s of pounds or if you have to be in the health industry right i, this or I that or I don't, who would listen to me. It's like, here you are simply just sharing your transformation, about your mindset and how important it is in how, how, how it's changed your life just simply the way that you think and the way that you see the world and the way that you see yourself, how that has changed your life. It is such a powerful thing to talk about a topic to talk about anyways because guys, once you start making a bunch of money and you have a bunch of stuff and if you start talking about that stuff. If people honestly they look at you and they and they and they say, and they judge you and they're jealous, and they and they, and you come across as arrogant so this thing that you think you need or you want in order to start creating content and start marketing is not actually the thing that you actually need this mental transformation is mindset, it because it's true, it applies to relationships it applies to health. It applies to making money to start getting results, and even to break through to get started on the path, you have to have the right approach, the mindset, because shit is not going to work out right, it's not going to go as planned. We're going to start the diet and want to quit it probably stop it, throw it out the window, and if you're but then you get back on the horse, why because of this, you the relationship, you are going to get up and stormed out of the counseling session where you are going to get in a fight, it's not going to your marriage, not gonna change overnight, or your business you are going to get facebook ads account shut down, you are going to have negative comments you are, your first videos probably aren't going to get any views, and that might happen for months. All is going to be your old screaming, saying, quit you ain't shit. This is why you shouldn't start this and it will never work. He's an asshole. I'm a loser, whatever your typical story is that it's the record that always plays in your head it's gonna start popping up. And in order to be successful at anything at anything. First, this mindset has to take place this mental transformation taking ownership, taking responsibility, and, and really everything that Kara is talking about and I keep shifting over to talking to all you guys who are listening, because what she's doing and how she's talking and what she's sharing right now is a perfect example of what type of marketing and content, you guys can talk about I say every day this show is a perfect place to come and get nuggets to come and get topics to come and get things that spur your creativity, and it's a masterclass this morning on what to talk about in how to create content that's not directly related, It doesn't have anything to do with all this flash and trash bullshit that everybody thinks that you need to have in order to start becoming an authority and be somebody that people listen to people are engaged, they're fired up the comments are going off, I'm leaning in my wife screaming I love her. And it's not because you've made a million dollars or you've done, it's just because you're talking such trying to fit in, everybody not Yeah, not Yeah, it's big, but But you are talking such truth in your talking, it's so inspirational you continue to do this care, and you're, There's no way that you're not going to be a magnet for people to, to, to listen to, to be inspired by, because the more relatable you are. And I love the way that you're also telling us the kind of the the not so glamorous parts of your story in life, because we all need to hear that we I think one of the biggest pieces of marketing that we all forget is we all think that all of our content needs to be super positive and we need to impress people know, people need to know that you're real people need to know that your journey is a struggle, people need to know that you're a real person nowadays I call it the CETA see economy. Okay, pay very close attention, that's everybody. We are in the C to C economy, not the B to C, not the B to B, right those pieces all still exist but the place that we play is C to C. And what does that mean? Creator to consumer. Okay. And, as a creator, anybody can be a creator, by the way, just the second that you decide and say you are, and you start creating that type of content on your channel, or whatever, you become a creator, so there's no certificate, there's no, no permission, there's nothing you just can start doing it anytime. Right. And as a creator thing that makes influencers, real influencers real people like the people who you see in our community and the people who you see on Instagram and Tiktok who are attracting people to them and getting them to watch their videos and it's selling products and making lots of money, they're doing that by being human, as a, as a, as a, as a creator, the best way to do that is to is to share authentic stories to tell your customer story through your stories to stories that they relate to, to be relatable. Right. These stories are relatable. It's relatable so this is a real masterclass for people to, to hear what it sounds like for somebody who's, who's really brand new at this journey. And by the way, Kara, also is here, because she posted a comment, and asked for it. Right. And I said, Ooh, she seems like she can bring some great energy to the show. Let's get her on. Right, usually we reach out to people. And, and I also want to show you. By the way I screenshotted that and I sent it to Matt and I said, Let's get her on. That's how, that's how that happened, right. So already, you know, you are you. You're here because you're like, you're manifesting that through your mindset and then you're taking the actions to back that up. And we get what we what we asked for, and we also get what we settle for right so if all you guys want to sit around and say and tell us all you guys want to sit around and in settle and say you know what, well, I'll just start creating content or I'll get started whenever I have success or whenever I've gone through enough training and education that I'm really an expert but no, that's never going to happen. That's never going to happen, there's never enough training that you're going to go through, there's never, that's a mindset hurdle there. There's never a right time. What's coming up for you as I'm ranting here about this you can tell I'm passionate about this as well.

Kara: Yeah, no it's a great well here's the thing, it's so key. You know, I mean I'm realizing that, even in reaching out and saying like I told you it was half joking, half serious, I didn't know if it would get attention or not to comment on the thing where I posted you know hey I got my first submission. Hey Dave, you're the guy, you know, you run the company here just the you know, CEO who has the company, why don't I just post this thing and say hey, look, did it. I'm a real person, like, I'm just living my life doing my thing, and I'm learning from you and I'm learning from the team and I'm learning from these calls. And the best thing for me is that, look, I've got notes here, because I'm, I have to make notes so I kind of can remember things that I want to say. And, you know, I've been kind of scribbling down thoughts and things you know, the last couple weeks once I found out I was going to be on the call because limiting beliefs is such a massive thing you have to become the person you want to be, to be the person you want to be. It isn't just, I mean it is, it's as simple as a decision, right. You can wake up in the morning and you can say, I am a successful affiliate marketer, without anything without following, you can say that without having made commissions, you can say that without having done it yet, but you have to believe it. You have to believe. I am a successful person, and I will do then what successful people do I have to make those steps, okay, I used to be that person that said, Well, you know once I learned enough and once I hear enough and once I see enough of that practice enough and once all that, you know, I mean yeah, I do buy. I bought the cheap $10 wooden light off of Amazon because I knew I needed something better like this little desk right here that this is all clipped to and sitting on his desk from Walmart, and my bedroom, because it's the only place I can get to see in my house. Okay, and I set this little corner up because I said you know what I need, I need a definitive space that says, This is who I am when I'm in this corner. When I'm in this corner. I am the successful marketer I want to be. And I'm going to put out the content that the successful marketer that I want to be putting out, and then that is how it's going to happen. The, you know, one of my favorite things is they say, in order for a caterpillar to become a butterfly. It has to become a ball of goo. It has to dissolve itself. In order to regrow back into that butterfly. And so we have to go through the pain, and we have to go through the mess, and we have to go through the actual work that it takes in here and in here, to be able to say you know what, hey, I can I can let go of that I can shed that piece of me I can let go of that limiting beliefs now, and I can say, Hey, okay, yeah, that was before, you know, I am by nature generally a shy person if I enter a room full of people I don't know, I'm gonna stand in the corner and I'm gonna watch before I ever try to interact when I'm trying to come out of that shell I'm trying to work on that part of me. You know, I said that to one of my friends. I said I'm really actually a shy person and she was like, There's no way you're a shy person said yeah but I I'm not shy with you because I know you. I mean, I wasn't nervous about this call, until this morning. And then the morning, I started to feel like holy, this is actually being, and I'm pretty sure I'm talking to Dave himself, you know, but I'm like, okay, you know what. So Dave's really successful but you know who Dave is Dave's just another real guy, he's just another real person. He doesn't have anything that I don't have necessarily, because it's up here. And if I have the same things up here that you have up there, then I can have the same things out there that you have. Yeah, so it's not about the stuff, and it's not about the money, you know, success is more than just financial, I want the financial peace because the financial peace buys you freedom. That's not what it's all about. And my end goal is not just to be you know yes I want financial freedom and I want to have time freedom and I want to travel the world and I want to take my kids all over the place and all that, yes, but what I really want is I want to show other people and help other people that's always that my end goal. I want to not be the only person who has that freedom. And the only way I can do that is by putting myself out there. So when I asked you, Hey, do you ever interview people you know like this. This is an accountability call as much for me as it is for everybody else, because I knew coming into it. What I would get out of it is, look what I just did. I mean I just was on the actual call with the guy that runs the thing. And now I can put that out there and say, Look, I've made a step. And I've put it out there and it's out there now, and I can grow now more into that person because it's out there. 

Dave: Yeah, I just, I can listen to what you have to say for literally hours and I feel like every single person needs to hear what what you've been talking about today because it's literally I mean it's been such an absolute blessing that you that you made that comment and then I screenshot it I threw it to Matt I said, get this get this woman on She's. She's on fire I mean, whether you're kidding or not, I mean, just so much wisdom in what you're saying and so much truth and. And you're right, I mean, you this, this is a, like, I kind of envision us when we're starting a business, kind of like infants right and it's like buying the bigger clothes, you know, to grow into it. You know what I mean. Like if you want to be, if you want to be at a different, if you want to be at a level. When I was growing. Like if you want to get. You play with people who are more young, or just young older or better, just all around, and that was a big deal for me. That's why, that's why we use, you hear that if you're, if you're an entrepreneur and you're the smartest person in the room we can get a new room, you know, get a new group of friends get get a new, get a new circle of influence, right, and I feel like this action is such a powerful example of how to grow like you, saying, Look, I, I'm brand new, I bring me, do you ever interviewed like brand new people who, and it's like it's like, that is such a power move in terms of power growth move, because it's putting yourself out there and doing something that now is whether you like it or not, it's gonna force you to grow this moment, and also what what is cool is that when we show up to things that we think we can't do, and then we crush it like you're doing today, all the sudden we're like, damn, I crushed it I can do this shit like I'm better than I thought I was like I thought I looked at people on this show or whatever and I listened to him and I think oh I could never do that. Oh they're so great, they're so special, they're so powerful, as I look up to them and they're so much better than me and it's like that's bullshit. It's like they're not there, every single person that you see on the show and that you see in this community, including me, puts our pants on the same way, and is, is, is honestly a lot of time just bootstrapping shit, throwing big spaghetti at the wall, like, I don't know what we're going to talk about honestly we can have some absolute nut job come on this show because we don't sit there and, you know, interview you and interrogate you before we go live, I mean you could have come on and said, Dave, he is an idiot. Don't do any of this stuff right or what like we I don't know this is just, I think that's what this journey we've got to embrace that unknown and put ourselves out there, because those are huge growth opportunities. And in those moments when we're on the field actually playing, not in the tape room watching video, but when we're on the field actually playing like you're doing right now this you're on the field playing right now this is live, this is real life. You're growing this is a big ass for you. and in each one of you, my hope is each one of you today is inspired enough to do something that scares you a little bit, do something that is totally outside of your comfort zone, that putting yourself in the game on the field is where you're going to prove to yourself that you can do it, is where you're going to have your biggest growth not in the taper not watching the videos, we love you guys, through our courses, we love that you buy our education, we think you should or else we would sell. I think it's important.

Kara: Absolutely, absolutely. You know, for me, that the thing about TikTok, right, and the growth on TikTok have been painfully slow. And I, because one is I jumped right into the business account because I want the clickable link because I know people are not necessarily going to take the time to copy paste, you know, everybody wants an easy clone. There it is, if I don't see it right when I like it. I'm not gonna spend time still slower, but I also realized that in that slow growth, which gives me the time to, you know, to really grow myself into that person my first few tic tock videos were ridiculous. I didn't know what I was doing like you said throw spaghetti at a wall, listen I was throwing pots of spaghetti at the wall, and I had no idea which ones were gonna stick and I've shared a couple that kind of went viral, but I mean when I say viral I'm talking about 2000 views not 20,000 views and, but here's the cool thing, since you told me that I was going to be on the call. My following on TikTok doubled. And I didn't tell anybody until this morning that I was going to be on the call. And the thing is though, I was like, oh, I want to be on the call, that means I need to be that person. Okay, what's that person going to be, who's that person, what are they going to set, what are they going to do, what does that person, all about, and each little step like you said, doing this right here, this is a major pivotal moment for me yes I want it to help all the people that are listening. Yes, I heard that all the people that are listening are getting something out of this, but I knew that for me, it was going to be masked, because, you know, they're gonna watch now. Not all of them, but a lot of them might be watching me. Okay let's see where this girl is because she does, so I have to step into those shoes now and say hello. Okay, put on your big girl pants, let's go do this thing, because I'm putting it out there and say, and this is why I am. And if this is who I am. I have proven to people. And that's really what the thing is, you know, when people are looking at what I do and say on TikTok. First you go watch the people on TikTok, I follow almost every single person that gets on this morning show, because I can get something from what I know, what they are doing, how they are presenting themselves. What kind of subject matter, And I don't always use what everybody's doing because some of the people on here are super super successful. And they're further ahead than I am. So I have to kind of look at that and that's all you do you just say, What am I attracted to, in a person on TikTok, you know, am I attracted to messenger. My attraction there, you know, their method of putting it out there, whether it's the captions thing whether it's the silly dance with music, whatever, you know what it, what is it that attracts me to that person. And then just try to emulate that. You know and say okay, they're just another person like me. So all I have to do is do that. And I'm just talking to my phone, like I don't need to see I don't know how many people are on this call right now, I'm just talking to Dave, and ultimately, that's to my phone screen in the corner of my bedroom, which is not intimidating. So this isn't like yes I want to be on that stage and I didn't want to be in front of hundreds of people. I do want to grow into that person. This is to get there.

Dave: Yeah. Well, this is, this has been absolutely fantastic and I'm just so thrilled that we had you on the show today, and that you know you spoke up and we invited you and you accepted in because it's been just invaluable. I mean, this is one of those kinds of episodes that I just, I want everybody to hear and I, we may figure out a way to try to do that. So, everyone. Everyone, please go follow Kara, we've got her TikTok. Up on the screen. Make sure you put the W in there Karen W Morrison and, like, keep up this amazing work, and I just can't wait to have you back in a couple of months, and continue to get an update on where you're at, then because I just have this feeling that you're going to be in a completely different place, because it's sort of like, just to leave everyone here with another analogy about the butterfly. You know one of my favorite little quote names is where the butterfly is sitting on the, on the bench with a caterpillar and the caterpillar says you've changed. Butterfly says you're supposed to. I just love that and you're, you're supposed to, you're supposed to there's nothing wrong with that, that you're supposed to change that's a good thing. And so I just can't wait to see where you're at in another few months, and thank you so much for coming on. Thank you for your time. I know you're busy as a mom, and in all the other things you have going on, so thank you for being willing to come on and share such a powerful message with us this morning. Keep up the great work, be legendary. And I'll let you have the final word to everybody listening.

Kara: Well, like he was saying, you're supposed to change. Now you're either growing or your thing, they say, right, and I guess I would much rather be growing, you know than staying put and dying. The only way around it is through it. So you've got to get through it, and you've got to get, you know, up the mountain, and the only way up the mountain is declined so just keep pushing, make the next step. Just make the next step. Yeah.

Dave: All right my friends where you can hear more from Kara. 

Kara: The journey of 1,000 miles starts with the first step.

Dave: Yeah, it sure does. Yeah, no, you cut out a little bit there so sorry to interrupt but it does, and I would encourage each one of you guys to go over and connect with, with Kara on her Tik Tok and to hear more from her and to stay connected with her and to support her and allow her to support you and I know she's going live, we didn't need that or I think you are, but maybe you're not live, you should go live, because you're doing absolutely incredible storyteller. But go and connect with Kara on her TikTok and Kara once again thank you so much. Keep up the phenomenal work, be Legendary stay Legendary. And we'll talk to you soon. Okay.

Kara: All right, thanks Dave.

Dave: Yep. All right, my friends. That's it. Wow, great show. You guys have a wonderful day. We'll see you back here tomorrow for another episode, bring in more value, drop more bombs who knows what's gonna happen. No one knows. No one knows what's going to be said, what's going to be shared, I don't, that's the beautiful part about this journey, as I was talking about with Kara. Look, I don't know what tomorrow brings. But I'm willing to take that risk, because I know it's going to be another opportunity to grow deliver value, and I just hope that each one of you guys like heard that today and take that away and go do something that challenges you, that put you out of your comfort zone so you can grow too, and, and then come and share that with us and one of the Facebook groups are in a comment on a future show, share with us what you're doing, make yourself accountable, you may not be on the show yet, but there's other ways you can share your wins and share what you're doing and make yourself accountable by just commenting participating in the in the community here. And of course, building your own audience so you can then deliver value to them. All right, We'll see you back here tomorrow for Wake Up Legendary, peace.

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Dave: What's going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. We have got another exciting episode this morning. You're gonna hear from shy grocery store clerk, right now, obviously she has much more in store, particularly now that she's discovering this amazing potential that she has, but goes from zero to 19,000 followers in 24 days and also from really just barely getting by, to now generating some pretty significant revenue for herself. So, let's hear from Sarah herself Sarah, welcome to the show. 

Sarah: Hi, thank you for having me.

Dave: You're so welcome, thank you for taking the time to come on. Where are you, where are you calling in from?

Sarah: I'm in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, a nice sunny day down here.

Dave: Okay, nice. Nice, nice. So, my daughter would love your hair by the way. I love it too, but she would be obsessed with it. So, what, what led you to Legendary I mean it's it's a, it's a pretty incredible story. And I just, I don't know how much you're using this story I mean it's, It's really you know in the marketing world, it's one of those stories that we kind of, you know we dream about like shy grocery store clerk, you know goes from barely just getting by. to Now, you know, making some pretty significant income probably for you. I don't know if I use the word life changing. I mean it might not. Okay, so, so, like, first and foremost, how do you feel about this new direction and this new kind of you know this new venture that's happening in your life right now?

Sarah: I'm completely blown away. Every day you know comments coming in from people saying that they love how I'm trying to you know, help them learn and grow as well, seeing the growth in the short amount of time I believe it's like a month in 19 days now I've been, you know, posting content and everything, I'm just blown away. And like you said, it definitely was life changing. I was only barely getting by running in me and my boyfriend I live with, to now being part of a community that isn't just about, you know like the financial part it's also about like helping others learning and growing and that was just something that when I came across it was different than anything that I had seen.

Dave: Yeah, you're talking about Legendary right. So, well awesome What's your boyfriend. What's he, what's he think of all this?

Sarah: honestly, every time I talk about it is just kind of like in awe. He didn't realize you know we both grew up with the, you know, get a nine to five and no work till you retire so seeing that you can learn something from such a great company like legendary and grow not only just as an individual but you know with, you know, expanding your reach and like helping others as well. He thinks it's one of the best things that I've started doing.

Dave: That is awesome, good for you, you know, really, I'm so happy for you. So happy for God. You know I love to see, I love to see, you know people when in general, I love to see women, when I mean, you know, it's such that I'm surrounded by wonderful women in my life. And, you know, it's such a cool thing to see, to see you win, and to see your boyfriend, be excited for you and quite frankly, in awe of what you're doing. Everybody is always in awe of what a guy is doing. As if they're like, it's like, women are shining in this business, and in our community, and I love it, women run our company. It's just a beautiful thing, you know, I'm really really excited for you and I'm excited that your boyfriend is so supportive so good for you guys. So, what led you to Legendary basically is  what I'm curious about.

Sarah: I had seen someone on TikTok talking about the company and I had seen, you know, other things out there that didn't really catch my eye as much as Legendary did. Um, I ended up looking at your YouTube channel and seeing some of your interviews with other people. Before I actually did the 15 day challenge myself. And once I kind of got an idea for your message and your story and community and family and everything, I was I was folks, it was like from there it was just up.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, it helps to see these these interviews that we do everyday that you're now doing right now, right real life happening right now are really helpful right because you get to see and hear from other people and as you just experienced when we started the show there wasn't any prep, there was no script, there was, you know, there was just okay ready. You know, it's pretty, it's pretty, and we really thrive off of that. I personally thrive off of that I guess variety or spontaneity you say you're a little shy. What, how has this whole business and this, this venture slash adventure that it seems like you're on right now, especially in the beginning stages. How has it changed you as a person?

Sarah: I think it's made me realize that I shouldn't be so concerned, you know, with the outside world beyond me as far as you know what people are gonna think per se. I kind of just kept to myself, you know, did what I needed to do and kind of went about never really, I never ever thought that I would be, you know, communicating with so many people through social media and posting on social media, helping others like that I never thought that I would be in that realm. And I think that is the idea that, you know, like how you talk about in your videos that you're solving a problem for people and you're helping others learn and grow really helped me change my mindset on okay so, you know, don't worry so much about what you might look like or sound like just, you know, go out there and try to solve and help others. 

Dave: When you say look like and sound like literally do you mean like your physical appearance like or getting dressed up or or in your, maybe, maybe, a woman's case getting full makeup on and all that, like you're saying like that shit doesn't really matter as much as the message that you deliver if you're literally helping people?

Sarah: Yeah, you know a lot of sweat, especially in the realm, since we're speaking of women it's very you know, Glamour and makeup and fashion and I'm just I'm jeans and a T-shirt no makeup, you know, dyed hair. So I was a little nervous to get out there and try to put a message out and relay information, not fitting into that kind of standard, but realizing that that doesn't matter that the message is more important, was something that really changed the game for me.

Dave: I think that's just a huge thing, I mean, I'm just, I'm pressing on this a little bit because I think we all in our own way whether male or female or, or, you know what, however you identify genders, is not really important. But we all have this, our own story, slash, image management is kind of what I call it. It's like we want to manage our image, you know, and what I realized was I was putting a lot. Personally I was putting a lot more importance on my image than anybody else was, you know, like and I don't mean a little bit I mean like I was putting this much in others, we're putting like this much, as long as I wasn't like butt naked, and just in, you know, like absolutely inappropriate on camera, nobody really gave a shit what I look like, or if I had a haircut or not or if I have gray in my beard or if I wear the same shirt every day or the same hat every day, which I do, you know, nobody cared about that, I just, it took me like a long time to really realize that, but it seems like you're picking up on that so early in the game, and it seems to be a big, big deal, and I think it's a, I mean, would you say that just letting go of that sort of image meant, I mean what's been, what would you credit your, your sort of breakthrough success in this early season two, is it a bit of that. What else would you credit?

Sarah: I think I would credit it also to watching Wake Up Legendary seeing other people get on here. You know my age, a little younger, older, you know, my grandparents age, seeing, and realizing that it doesn't have to only be about that aspect. I kind of just said, you know, screw it, and was like, let's take a chance on not caring about it and from there, I just found it to be such an easier way of relaying what I really wanted to get out there and just made me, you know, more relaxed and happier and doing it as well. And I credit these Wake Up Legendary videos that I've been keeping up with in your YouTube and just the entire message itself.

Dave: That's great. I really, really sense that, you know, I really sense that you are becoming more comfortable in your own skin. I mean, just sitting here talking with you right now it's, It comes, you know, I haven't watched a ton of your videos, and so forth. I'm really just meeting you here for the first time today, but I sense that and I think it's such an empowering decision to kind of say screw it right it's like I'm going to kind of stop living my life for everybody else. I'm gonna stop worrying about what everybody thinks of what I'm doing or what I really, ultimately, kind of kicker is, is it's not really what anybody else thinks it's really actually, I'm going to stop worrying about what I think so much, you know, because I feel like a lot of these limiting beliefs that we have where we say, okay I'm gonna stop caring about what everybody else thinks it's kind of like a boogeyman like we tell ourselves, it's somebody else, like our friends are unsupportive or all the haters out there but really it's us, you know what I mean, really, our own self criticism and our own insecurities and So talk us through a little bit of that, of self talk that you that you had before, I'm not talking about the messaging you got when you were young, because you said that. Good girl. Be a good little boy, go to school, get a job, be quiet. I also heard don't make too much noise just stay in line. And don't make too much noise. What was your self talk like before the actual things that you said in your head, and what is it changing to now?

Sarah: Beforehand I used to kind of just, you know, you know, go buy go buy the rulebook they gave you, I would just say okay well just keep doing what I'm doing working six days 40 to 45 plus hours you know keep doing that one day it'll pay off one day it'll work out. One day, everything's gonna be okay. And it just kind of transitioned into don't have to just keep doing this, you know like a hamster wheel and hope for the best. I can take the action and do it myself and do it for me, you know, I, for my family as well I have a younger sister wants to spend more time with us, see her grow up I have grandparents, but it was also for me myself because I've always sat there and been listening to the voice in the back of my head telling me what you don't want to do that, you know might result in this. So now it's kind of transitioned into this you've got this you can do this. No. Who cares if someone says something or doesn't have, you know, the same mindset as you do or thinks that you're wrong, if you believe in what you're doing and you're happy with it and you're having fun, and, you know, making a difference than that is what really matters. 

Dave: Yeah. And do you now. Do you believe in what you're doing, do you have conviction about what you're doing in terms of what you're talking about and the messages that you're sharing and the value that you're sharing? Is there a real true belief there at what you're saying?

Sarah: Oh yeah 100% When I first started out, you know first kind of said you know let's, let's try it and did the challenge, there was still that you know, message that my mom instilled you know question everything, be really careful but then as time went on learning, you know, reaching out with questions, and you know getting real responses, and the idea of family and growth, really changed it all around to now, I won't go back. I won't go back to working, what I was, I won't go back to that mindset that I'm at now like everything's genuinely changed for the better, and hopefully keeps going.

Dave: Yeah, I really believe the reason why I asked you really believe in what you're doing and saying right now, this, this, this business model of internet marketing and selling information and quite frankly, I mean, really, what we're talking about here is entrepreneurship, we're talking about leveraging the tools that are available to us in 2021 which is the internet and cell phones and social media viral social media platforms and so on and so forth. All these tools are available, we don't have to get our information from an encyclopedia and yeah, I mean, we don't have to, we don't have to sit in a classroom for six years before in before we can go out and get a job that pays $10 An hour or whatever I had worked my way up the corporate ladder like that's that's a 1980s life in work model. The 2021 Life and Work model is work from home, sweat pads. Laptop cell phones like, I'm not saying that jobs are not still necessary but the tools that are available to us now are different so when I say Do you believe in it I also ask everybody who's listening, do you believe in this, because, because it also do you believe that, you know mindset in, in thinking, you know, not caring about not living your life for somebody else or not being critical of yourself, do you believe that that's an empowering message do you believe that that's something that you should. Other people need to hear. Here's why I say that is because if you, I believe that success comes from conviction. If I sit down with you, Sarah. And you and I are sitting across the table, and I have a belief and you have a belief and we're going back and we're there kind of opposing beliefs. I have more conviction about my beliefs than I have a better chance of influencing you because you have less conviction about your belief. Right, so, yeah, so I have more of a chance to sway you. So, what when I've been training marketers and salespeople over the last decade. Everybody is always looking for the secret this or what's the secret software the secret school or the sales people say, what's the secret closing line tell me that, what's the line, how do you write, it's none of that. The person who has the most belief in what they do in that belief in that conviction comes across in their communication and then their content. Those are the people who are most successful. I 100% agree, you know. And so, as you know what, here's another thing. We even said in the, in the, because you said you describe yourself as shy. Being shy or being introverted or extroverted has no determination about your success. I'm an introvert to the max. Now when I get here on the show and I do content and stuff, I come alive, but I really enjoy it. I really enjoy being alone. I really enjoy it. I don't particularly call it isolation more like solitude like how I recharge and, you know, like maybe a good show or a good cigar, maybe, something like that. So, Sarah about the belief in the conviction as I'm talking about the belief in the conviction, you know that I have a mindset and in entrepreneurship and stuff, you know what comes up for you. How is your beliefs, your, your, your belief system about making money. How has that changed over the last couple of months?

Sarah: I think the biggest thing was going from a mindset of, you know, just like kind of like collecting hoarding you can never have enough you need, you know, emergency etc etc has changed to a mindset of just not focusing so much on that aspect, and focusing on, you know the real like you say belief and the conviction behind what I believe. I believe in it. And the finance part will just follow. You know, the idea of not trying to just sell but to try to aid has really changed that mindset, you know, the, the mindset of money I was constantly stressing about, you know, each month set of bills, you know, eventually having to get, you know, an actual working car, you know all of that kind of just went away because I knew that if I kept doing what I was doing, and believing what I was doing it would all just come later. 

Dave: That's a big shift going from that sort of scarcity mentality to where like this few $100 Or a few $1,000 and I have saved here as all the money I'm ever going to see for the rest of my life so I really have to guard it and protect it like it's like the most important thing in the world, versus in a, in sort of an abundance growth mindset in sort of philosophy, where you know that you're a money magnet, you know that you're going to attract more money you know that you're just getting started attracting money you actually also know that there's a, there's so much money in the world, that there's no shortage of it, if anything, there's, there's like too much of it, you know, like, as governments are printing and it's just it's there's whether it's valuable jewels, gold whatever property, things. There's just an abundance of currency and wealth that you can attract and that's a big, being willing to spend your last, like, being willing to spend your last $100, or and this is just a hypothetical thing right being willing to spend your last $100 knowing knowing that it will come back to you. That's a powerful place to be because it removes all that desperation Sarah right, that like those feelings of desperation like I have to make. If I don't make my first sale or make money in this first week, then I don't know what I'm going to do this I've been scammed again, you know, like, that's, That's a, that's a desperation mindset, nothing gets done in that mindset versus kind of sitting back and letting things come to you. So, that's how marketing works right there's an element of putting value out and trusting that things are going to come back to you. So, what's been your content approach you're exclusively on TikTok for now. What have been your, what have you learned in that process about how to create content and kind of how not to create content, right like kind of like the desk pretty pitchy sales the please click my link and buy, you know that, what have you learned, and it may not be that I'm just giving an example, what have you learned that works, and what have you learned that doesn't work in creating content specifically on TikTok?

Sarah: Specifically on TikTok, I think that what I've kind of learned you know, as far as what you're putting out there is you can take any trend, whether it's in your, you know, specified direction or not, and somehow make it not only work for you and show your personality in it but you can also make it work for whatever you're talking about. So I've taken, you know, audios or dances, or, you know, transitions, and been able to kind of work it to get my message across, but also leave an open end for questions. I really like it when people will ask me questions, either in the comments or you know, when I section being able to you know get the gears going for other people that they want to ask questions they want to know more and you know I want to answer I try and try my best to answer absolutely everything. Yeah, really opening the platform up for a community of just you know everybody helping each other and everybody asking questions and getting answers for anything that they need.

Dave: Yeah. So are you if you are doing a lot of trends slash, you know, that kind of do you do more talking, or do you do more audio and sounds in the background with text on the screen?

Sarah: I think right now I'm doing a lot more of like the audio with the text on the screen, I tend when it comes to me talking on videos I tend to you know, fumble with words or set around or, you know, lose my way of what I want to say and it ends up taking longer than I'd like in should so I tried to keep you know, to answering questions on videos, me responding to them. Only for answering questions but I like to do the audios, with, you know, just showing text on them I think it's fun, you know, I can add in facial expressions or hand movements, you know, different transitions to make it just a little more captivating, or just fun at the end at the end of the day when I'm making TikTok videos and posting them. It may, you know, take like an hour to make a few, but it's all fun when I'm doing it. I think that's the best part of being on TikTok.

Dave: Yeah, so you're, so what, because I'm sure some people are thinking, as they hear that well it's not been fun for me I'm struggling right and they and they and they and they label themselves as the old newbie or the old struggler, which I really encourage all of you guys to stop doing that, stop labeling yourself as I'm struggling because if you and I know I'm doing the old, I'm doing this thing sorry but I just feel like an old, old grandpa right now saying, don't do that. Get off my lawn. But the old ‘I'm struggling' thing let's really be conscious of our language but I know a lot of people are thinking that so how are you having fun with it, how are you making this fun, what, when, when really it can be it can be frustrating at times? How are you, what is your, what is your secret sauce to keeping things light, not taking yourself too seriously and keeping things fun?

Sarah: Um, I'll have a list, you know what kind of videos I want to put out or what the message might be I kind of sit down in the morning and I'll say, “Okay, how many do I want to make today?” What's the overall message and then let's look at you know, what is kind of popular right now as far as sounds and then I just kind of keep it, keep it light, I don't put so much on my gosh I need to make these I need to get this done. I need to do it now. I kind of turn it into you know I'll bring my bunnies I have four bunnies I'll operate them into videos. I've got a few stuffed animals lying around or incorporate that, you know, just kind of up in the air, you know, thinking of it as if I'm making videos with my friends to just for fun, instead of taking it in the aspect of like it's necessarily like I'm making these for a job it's more or less I'm putting myself in the mindset of just, I'm making the videos in general for fun and just, you know, to get other people asking questions so I can just, you know, park and grow from there. 

Dave: Well I, one of the reasons why I asked Sarah and I'm asking this also for all of you guys is because if I'm watching somebody and they don't look like they're having fun. I'm probably not going to be that interested in what they're doing, you know what I mean, because a lot of times, I look at somebody and I look at if they're having fun and looking like they're enjoying what they're doing. And I judge if I want to take the next step based on that. Right, so if you guys are not having fun and you're looking kind of all stiff and rigid and kinda you like you got a scowl right under that fake smile that, then don't. I mean people can read your energy, right, people are not gonna remember everything that you say, even on video, they'll remember 10 ish percent of what you say but they'll remember how you made them feel when they watched your content. Right and I think that having fun is not just, you know, first trying to have fun sure if you're struggling, if you're trying to have fun, but then get yourself to the point where it is fun, you're not taking yourself so seriously. And I love that I love that Sarah, what else would you, what, what else would you tell you if you were talking to yourself. On day one, what is some, some kind of day one, or first quarter advice to this game that you could give some of the folks and already.

Sarah: I'm definitely the first. Even though I am part of the, you know, younger tech generation, I'm 22. I'm not very tech savvy, and I think the first thing would be just, you can learn, people here to help you, you know, breathe, relax. Don't get too, you know, worked up about the idea of what you don't know, just soak it all in, if you take a breath and sit back and just kind of take in information and take in knowledge, willing to ask questions, you know, it's okay to reach out, you know, there is no, there is no dumb or stupid question that's something that I say you know when answering people's questions as well. You know when they're apologizing, you know, there's no need to apologize, there's absolutely no limit on what type or how many questions that you can ask. I think that would definitely been the first thing, and then basically what I just said about you know not taking it too seriously as necessarily a job, but just you know, make it fun for you, you know, do it for you, and do it to help others and spread a message instead of just focusing on like that aspect.

Dave: I just, I just love the message this morning, of just like, it doesn't matter about how you look or sound or even you said, sometimes I fumble a bubble so I've adjusted and now I do stuff that I had never taught but now I do more of these other style videos, I'm finding my lane. And I'm just focusing on delivering value, having fun, and engaging with people like delivering value also through the comments and answering questions and stuff like that, and just being of service, you know, not everybody's a Tony Robbins fan. I don't like everything he does, but, but there's a, there's a lot of validity in the message of, of, the more you give, in the more you serve. If that is your mission in your work is just to serve and give in, deliver value like that's my mission. My mission is not, I never have income goals, which is a weird way of day. What do you mean you don't have income goals, I just don't I don't sit around and obsess about, okay, I want to make 10,000 or 100,000 or million or whatever this month or this year, whatever. I just asked myself, How can I deliver more value?” How can I help people get more results? How can I update Training How can I do this show when the pandemic struck in early 2020 We got together I thought for just a couple of split seconds and it was like, Okay, I got to do this show every day. It just was that it was just like, this is a huge ass commitment to do this every day, and the organization of reaching out to people and do it, it's a big commitment. And it's not an immediate like, oh everybody now go buy stuff right off the show, right, but it's an investment of delivering value. And that's what I'm obsessed about. And I think that what you're talking about today with just getting out of your own way, just getting comfortable in your skin. Don't worry about the makeup, don't worry about the suit and tie, don't worry about how you look, how you sound, what your background is, I mean I got look at this. I mean I got this hilarious light that is like, it's just, it's a light that doesn't even have a cover on it, I mean it's a janky ass thing, but it's like, who gives a shit? Yeah, who cares, it does not matter because what. Now could I have the most, I could get any light I want but it just doesn't matter. It doesn't matter, you know, really doesn't, it doesn't, nobody gives a shit, nobody was like oh my god I can't believe that light in Dave’s house back there.

Sarah: Yeah, I have my couch in the background of most of my videos, you know, I'll just get in my living room.

Dave: Well that's why people want to see real life. They talked about this yesterday, but to see the economy creator to consumers. And that's where we're at right now, and quick but, you know, it's, we're both humans we're both real people it's not company right but it feels like it's just person to person, although it's created a consumer, like one person has a different agenda than the other, But the consumer wants to feel like the Creator, they can relate to the Creator, they can identify, they like, oh that's a real person. And yeah, it doesn't matter across what niche you're in, what subject matter, if somebody is watching your stuff on Instagram, Facebook, watching an ad video doesn't matter, they go, and I really like that purchase relatable I can really like I can really relate to that person, you know, and that is the glue that moves this new creator to consumer economy that we're in right now, and your perfect example of that, So thank you. Keep up the great work, and I hope that you'll continue to come back and keep us updated on your journey.

Sarah: Definitely, thank you so much for having me. This

has been great. 

Dave: Well, you've been great. Alright, so keep up the great work and we'll talk to you soon. 

Sarah: All right, thank you.

Dave: Alright, See ya. Alright guys, go and follow Sara at the blonde affiliate over on Tik Tok she is, she's doing, she's doing cool things she's just crushing it and just doing a great job. And, and I can't wait to see sort of how she expands and what's next, I mean this isn't, this is early in the game for her, just like many of you, and I want to say this before we end, whether you're just starting, or my friend, you want to start over in your business, it is. Oh kay. Right. Take your time. Give yourself a break, realize that this is not even though some people make it seem easy. It's like Sarah Wilds 24 days, holy crap like sometimes I was in recovery. Many of you guys know I'm in a long term addiction for drug and alcohol dependency, right, you guys. I mean, basically what I'm trying to say is I was at Yankee at one time, okay, is what I'm trying to say here. I got clean and have been in long term recovery for over a decade, and there's a saying that sometimes we heal and recover quickly, and sometimes slowly. And that was a lesson that I learned early on that I didn't want to compare myself to other people. If I was you know, two years clean and didn't have a car yet or whatever. I didn't want to compare myself to this guy over here who had been clean for 30 days and got a job in a car and I'm going, what the hell like God you forgot about me, you know, sometimes quickly sometimes slowly, just stay in the game. Don't quit before the miracle happens that's another thing they told me, I'm passing that on to you. Don't quit before the miracle happens. Okay, see you guys back here tomorrow for Wake Up Legendary. Be Legendary. Peace.

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Dave: What going on, my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary I am waking up Legendary right now with you, literally still wiping the sleep out of my eyes. Okay, if a, like a boulder of sleep falls out of my eye during the show. Don't mind me. Don't mind me. I had my face, deeply embedded in some pillow here not too long ago and it was a wonderful thing. But I am waking up legendary right along with you guys and I am excited. Well, some of you around the world have already been up, but I am excited as you guys can see by the title and if you're just listening to this, this audio, we're going to be talking to Olivia in hearing how she went, basically from zero to 150,000 followers on TikTok in 30 days.

And how did she do it like, what's, what's going on, what's her secret? What, how did you get involved in online marketing? So all the way from Plymouth County Massachusetts, Olivia. Welcome to the show.

Olivia: Thank you.

Dave: Yes, you're so welcome. Thanks. Thank you for being on and sharing your amazing journey here that you've been on over the past, short little while. Seems like a lot happened for you really fast online is that accurate? 

Olivia: Yeah, that's kind of scary, not gonna lie, very overwhelming. I had experienced before like working online do I on Fiverr, but like, once I went on social media I didn't expect it to explode the way it did and it was kind of, kind of scary, a little bit.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, totally scary, overwhelming to have so many people looking at you or scary that oh this is taking off, I'm almost scared of success like now I might be on my path to success and oh it's scary. It's scary and in a new and different way. What do you mean it's scary?

Olivia: I think it was more like overwhelming in the sense like everything took off so fast like, I'm not afraid to like talk to people on camera like that's not a big deal to me it was more like, so many people started looking up to me when I had very little knowledge of what I was doing and displaying information I was like, I know what I'm talking about. But I'm not like an expert on it yet so it was just like everyone was reaching out to me and asking me all these questions and I'm like, I'll get back to you I'm not really sure that stuff like that it was just, it was kind of, yeah, like me, and since then it's like forced me to learn a lot really quick So, I don't know I like my success happened but yeah I wasn't ready for everyone to be bombarding me with questions on things that I had no clue the answer to.

Dave: Yeah, so like I have so many directions I want to go but I want to just touch on the fact that I love how you just said that, hey, let me get back to you. I don't think people understand the power of just saying, I don't know but I can find out, I talked about this with so many people so often. And with so many of you guys who are kind of in are struggling with your own form of, I call it imposter syndrome. It's kind of like, it's kind of like, I'm talking about success but I don't really have a lot of success in your case, it's like you, people are asking you about success because of a because of a vanity metric right uh followers, right, but you don't really have the, you know, tons of experience so you're so there's kind of these different ways in which we, we feel like we either, you know you don't have the information, or maybe are even unworthy. We're just not ready to be talking about success in a certain way. And I think that just being ourselves, and just being honest, is the absolute best way to go about it in a confident way, like, you know, without the confidence piece, it's hard. But if I say, You know what, Olivia. That is a fantastic question. And I want to go check on that to make sure that I answer right and I'll get back to you.

Olivia: Yeah. Yeah, cuz when I first started my tech talk it was more of like, documenting my journey and everything I was doing because I started my tech talk back in December, and at the time I was just giving people tips about things like Fiverr and stuff like that. And I was like, kind of just showing them that sort of realm and then once I started affiliate marketing I started documenting that more. And that's when it really took off. So, yeah, I was just trying to, I'm still trying to just be open and honest with people but what I do, I think a lot of people really appreciate that, because you get a lot of people out there that kind of just like the point like hey this is this this is less but like you don't really give them like the information they're looking for. Dave: I agree 100% with that. So you went through our challenge back in June?

Olivia: In January and I finished them like the beginning of February, I think,

is this your. Was that your first experience or or journey into affiliate marketing and learning about selling information and stuff like that?

Olivia: Yeah, a little bit so on Fiverr I am actually a copywriter on Fiverr and I do sales copy. So I had a general idea, because I've had people reach out to me about like hey can you write sales pages and like funnels and stuff like that and I have no clue what that meant but like I did some research on it. But yeah, this was kind of like my first real experience with affiliate marketing, I saw it on TikTok at first I'm like Daryl and Stacy and stuff like that. And then I watched a few YouTube videos on it but I still had no clue really what it was that I just challenged and that's the first real experience.

Dave: Wow, so you kind of came in and went through our training and kind of got expanded your vision, a little bit about what's possible clarified some of the like definitions of what things are and kind of how they work together, and then got into action. I mean, so many people take a course or go through education, and, and then don't bridge that gap between then putting it into action. So what was that experience like for you, and why do you think you were. Did you do it right away, or and what did that look like a little bit to help people understand how you went from learning to earning?

Olivia: So what I did after was I joined a bunch of Facebook groups because after the challenge like you get the basis information which is awesome, but like it's still not enough to really like, completely start like everything, so I joined a bunch of Facebook groups and I saw what people were doing and then I'm like okay I'll make my own Facebook group, Facebook group and like just do freelancing tips because I know a lot about copywriting himself. So I did that and then it kind of just built from there. I think I applied a lot of my skills that I learned before, to actually marketing myself. So that's kind of how I bridge the gap first with the Facebook group and then I started. I already had the TikTok account but I'm like, I'll just start posting a few videos and see what happens. And then I decided to make my Instagram kind of just like spreading myself out across platforms and like I recommend everyone do that because you really don't know what's going to take off. For some people, Instagram does for some people tick tock does and for me it was TikTok, but I made Instagram and I kind of just posted like business tips because why not. And yeah, that's what I've been doing ever since that's how I kind of bridge the gap between everything.

Dave: Yeah, you, you sort of leaned on the community a little bit you combine the education with the community. I, yeah, so that's that's that's important, that's one of the pieces that we've sort of, we've we've updated a lot of pieces, recently with this adding in case studies and adding in like different things, particularly in our Blueprints that kind of be, hey here's, here's how to do it hey here's some other people that are doing it. You know, because I think that I think that one of the big challenges that people have is they get off into a rabbit hole, or, or 10 or 15 rabbit holes, you get into a Facebook group, you get start getting hit up by a couple of people on instant messenger, and it's it's really, it's really, it really becomes overwhelming for people to not to not get on 15 or 20 other people's agendas. How have you kept from getting on people's agendas in following shiny objects down shiny trails?

Olivia: For me it comes down to time management because I literally just don't have the time to do that like I am in class from like eight to four, pretty much every day and then I have to swim after and then I only have a few hours to work in my business. So for me personally, like if I'm being honest here, it just comes down to the time crunch that I have, so like I literally don't have the time to go down that that rabbit hole, I kind of just try and focus on one thing, like I write down everything I have to do for the day. So if I write down those stuff, then I kind of just try to focus on that stuff and get it done. And then if I have time I might go down a rabbit hole every once in a while but like, honestly, for me it literally just comes down to I have a set schedule and I have to stick to it, otherwise I won't get the rest of my day done.

Dave: Yeah, no time management, so important right i mean it's everything. I mean, we people value money more than time, it's kind of interesting. But, with money you can actually get more of time, you can't. Right. And there's the secret combination is when each hour that you work, produces, you know, 10 times what you once earned, right, it's like where you begin to where you begin to kind of experience that compound success I call it sort of like compound interest over time it just builds your. You don't have to work as hard each hour for the many dollars that you now make so I think that that's great, I think that that's a great tip writing down everything that you need to do for that day. And what if you're in, do you order them in order of priority, Olivia like this is the most important one thing that I need to get done? 

Olivia: Yes, I do it also based on time because like I have assignments to do at certain times, so like I base it off of that as well. But yeah, that's that's pretty much what I do.

Dave: So let's talk about TikTok you've, you've, you've gone on tick tock and you've, you've, you've really kind of experienced an abnormal amount of growth, really quick and I just want to be really clear with everybody about, you know, what your expectation should be first and foremost for many years. This sort of growth didn't even exist on the internet. Tick tock is sort of a platform and Olivia is just doing copywriting now for a period of time. How long had you done that before?

Olivia: From August till I still do it but I started in August.

Dave: Okay so you hadn't been doing it that long. So, if I take you get if I, if I can be, you know, Grandpa here for a second, in like five years ago, like, there was no 150,000 followers in 30 days like that didn't exist, that wasn't a thing. Now it's a thing like, we're seeing it. We've seen it happen but, you know, if, if I think back to when I got started, you know, it's like man 150,000 followers or something, maybe you achieved after a decade, you know what I mean, of, of doing, like, consistent ass hard content creation and good quality value based marketing, you know. So I just want to like put that out there for all of you folks who are now going to get a big ol bad ridiculous case of comparison itis with Olivia thinking that Whoa man I really know I, I ain't even close to that right in the same so, and you even mentioned that before we started, there was a little bit of luck there and so I think that that's, that's appropriate to just say right up front, but there's also been other elements, and if you know, my uncle said the other day. And I've heard this before but it was cool to hear him say luck is when you know preparation meets opportunity. And, and I believe that that's true, I believe you've been preparing for this moment for a while. I believe you've, you know, All the things that you've done in school and all the things that you did with copywriting and all that have prepared you now for success. It's just the opportunity presented, it's in you prepared for it. So talk us through these last 30 days, what are some of the things that you did that didn't work or what are some of the things give us your kind of your journey in a nutshell, of, of what you've discovered works really well, and kind of how you create content on a daily basis now. 

Olivia: So what I do is I kind of just take it day by day, so a lot of people like to batch it in the beginning of the week. I don't like to do that personally because for me it doesn't feel like, I like to document my journey more than like actually give out like videos of like pointing at the camera about like what affiliate marketing is I have a bunch of those but for me I kind of just like to take it day by day and see what happens because people are more interested in that is what I found. I also learned that, like I guess the biggest thing I've learned is, you obviously want to have those videos that go viral, so I try to have like one viral video, per se, for like every five videos I have of like genuine information I'm giving out to people. So there are some days where like I talked about builder all, there are some days where I just kind of give, you know, random information and then there are other days where I post videos that I have a feeling will somehow get on the for you page for people. 

Dave: So that's kind of what, when you say when I create viral content on purpose, what can you kind of, what does that look like, what is what is viral content versus this other type of style of content that you're talking about?

Olivia: So for me, viral content is anything that's under like 20, 15 seconds because people have such a low attention span nowadays but like you have to keep it short and sweet. I also base a lot of it on for those people that I've seen like have successful videos so within like the past, I don't do anything over like two or three days because typically those videos fade out but like if you see people that have like bunches of views on certain videos I try and like replicate the videos obviously like in my own way but like similar similar content, stuff like that

style, the style of the video, like, like what they're doing, there was a there was a trend that was happening not too long ago, maybe it's still, maybe it's still popular but where you kind of created a loop at the end of your video so, or you started off with a loop, right, like, so when somebody would get to the end of the video, it just started over, it would start over and you didn't really know, as you were watching the video you didn't really know when the video started like kind of like if I was recording, I might be like, Hey, get out of here. And then, and then at the end of the video would be like, Hey honey, and then the beginning of the video would then be like, Hey, get out of here and it was just so you'd end up getting three views or so from one person, and the reason why you make them 15 to 20 seconds. Just so everybody's clear is because one of the big things that TikTok is looking for is a full video view is are people actually watching this video are they struggling away after two or three seconds that tells that's a metric that tells TikTok, that maybe people are not interested in this video so we shouldn't move it to that next level of a bigger audience is. Is that your understanding as well Olivia?

Olivia: Yeah 100% 

Dave: You're doing a short video, looking at other people whose videos are going viral and trying to sort of replicate that in your own way. What else are some of the characteristics of a viral video for you?

Olivia: I've learned that the trending sounds are huge and a lot of people overlook that literally all you have to do is go to the Add sounds button and then go to tick tock viral and just use those top 10 sounds, because like tick tock is trying to flood the algorithm with all of those sounds right now so like you have a higher chance of your video being shown on the for you page.

Dave: TikTok is actually trying to get as many videos as possible using the same 10 sounds. Why do you think they're trying to do that?

Olivia: I don't know, probably because like, everyone starts doing random trends with those sounds like. Yeah so I think that's the reason why, but I've learned that's a huge key so anyone out there that's wondering why their video isn't going viral I highly recommend at least trying out the sounds, because that for me that was a huge, huge factor in why so my videos got shown.

you learn that like, you want to have higher quality content rather than higher quality videos like if you look at my videos that kind of crap to be honest like the quality of the video itself is really really bad. And like the timing is off with a lot of the stuff but like, at this point I don't really care. I just kind of put them out there. But people are more interested in the content rather than quality unless you're doing like dancing videos or art videos like nobody really cares, like, as long as you have good quality content that people are interested in then like, they'll watch your video and then we'll go from there.

Dave: So, this is something that, when we talk about good quality content. This ties in back to the original thing that we were talking about in the first couple of minutes which is how do I make good quality content, how do I how do I develop or how do I have valuable things, say, especially if I'm new and I don't feel like I'm particularly knowledgeable or successful. So, I mean how would somebody who is new, or how did you find valuable things to say like good quality content that was of value to other people?

Olivia: So when I first started out, I, I just posted what I wanted to post like, I mean I still do that but you kind of just have to play around with a bunch of different things and just, yeah, I literally just posted whatever in the beginning and I was like, this is information on how to start a business this is information on Fiver like just random information and then look in the comments, like people, if people ask the same question numerous times I try and make a video on that question. A lot of my videos are actually based on questions and I think that's why people find so much value in what I'm saying is because, like, they have those specific questions and they want them answered. So if you can answer those questions for people and I mean like in the beginning. Now you're not going to really know what to post but that's that's okay like it's not, you know, you're probably gonna put up like 20, 25 videos and you might have successful songs so you can run with that. But yeah, in the beginning it's just kind of like playing around with everything because nobody's gonna know i mean I'm still playing around with tick tock because it's constantly changing but yeah that's my biggest piece of advice and then once you have those videos up just see what people are asking like write down the questions and then make some videos on them.

Dave: Yeah, I think, I think going back to like the point that you were making, when I was like, So, what's your strategy and you're like well I just kind of like to figure it out on a day to day basis. I almost feel like that's kind of like what people are looking for in a sense, simply because that's how people live their lives is not everybody so reduce borrow and know exactly what tomorrow is gonna look like. So you're here you are, you just kind of show up on their, on their, you know, in their feed and you're sitting there with your hair in a bun or you're kind of look like you're lounging in your bed and you're just like, This is what's on my mind today and, and then you throw in like a business eight like you tie the situation, or your day into something that's valuable a nugget, a tip something that you're thinking about. And I think that that spontaneity, that kind of randomness. I think it keeps people on their toes. And I think that the, I think that people are more attracted to you if you look like you're just their friend who's sitting in a dorm room or sitting in their house, just chilling out versus like all made up, and, you know, like proper and looking all like perfect and shit like, I mean, nobody can relate to that like if I wanted to see that I'd be watching TV and look at million dollar produced commercials, but nobody likes that shit anymore. Nobody. Nobody wants to see commercials. People want to hear real people talking so have you realized that or are you realizing that or do you just not give a damn. And that's how you're going to show up anyways that people really are attracted to and want to hear real shit from real people.

Olivia: No, I 100% agree with that, like that's kind of what I base a lot of my content off of is because, like I like to put myself in the shoes of people who are scrolling on TikTok, like, you know, I think a lot of people overlook that fact like if you were scrolling on tick tock, do you want to stop and watch this video like if I was scrolling as a 20 year old would I want to stop and watch this video. If I was scrolling as a six year old and I want to stop and watch this video. And I think a lot of people just overthink the process too much, and I mean I did in the beginning I spent like probably an hour on one video and then I'm like, like screw it i don't i don't care at this point and then that's what I ended up going viral. And I think that's the mindset people have to have, and like I'm a very type of person you can ask my boyfriend like he knows, but you kind of just have to have that like, Screw it mindset and just go for it sometimes and then that's when it works out.

Dave: Yeah, I totally agree with that, I mean as a marketer for over a decade now. My, my, My, my, literally, my most every single one of my most, and most everything that I've done has been when I just was like screw it I'm just gonna start writing or screw it I'm just gonna start recording, right and then as I'm recording right. The, the ideas come out or I was like holy shit, that was good or whatever, and and I'm like, even if that's not like the total finished like, like for example if I'm recording up or writing a sales letter or something or recording piece of content, like the act of doing it gets the juices flowing, for them the next piece of content, and then the next piece of content. And I think, I think we drastically underestimate the value of the creativity, and in the sort of momentum that we get from just taking action. And, and I think that we also get confused with watching a course or reading a book while taking action. That's not taking action that's watching a course that's going through, there's nothing wrong with learning that reading and going through courses we sell courses, it's really important but we don't design those courses for that to be the thing that you end up doing that's not the result. The result is that you go out and you create shit you do stuff. And then, and then but here's the other thing Olivia, not that you do it one time. And it's like, open the heavens up and dump the gold coins on my head like, it's an art like building a business is consistent action every day, and throwing spaghetti at the wall in testing new things, and it seems like you've kind of got that piece figured out a little bit.

Olivia: Yeah, I played around with the algorithm too and I was like hey I'm not going to post for like two or three days and see what happens. And it's kind of shocking how less views you get like how, like there's so much less engagement like that's the key is like on a platform you have to keep posting or like at least just create consistent content every single day and it doesn't have to be anything crazy like, you know, just take a picture of something and post it on Instagram with, you know, cheesy little caption or something like that, it just keeps people engaged. 

Dave: So I don't know, it's crazy. The, the, the type of consistency like even the show right now we've got 194 people on when, when we first started doing the show. I mean there was 20 or 30 people at max, you know what I mean. Max, and now we've got this show it's every day we've got a couple of 100 people on a couple of 1000 total because, you know people are jumping on and off and. And then, you know, a couple of more 100 watch it on YouTube, a couple of more 1,000 listening to it, but like it just, it's just consistency it's building, it's just doing something over and over every day and building a little bit of a routine with it. And, and I think that there is a lot of perfectionism, and there's a lot of getting ready to get ready. That takes place. And that never did just, it's sometimes. I can't really, I can't really think of anywhere like really getting ready to get ready. Like saying we'll take your, like taking your time can be good but the getting ready to get ready that whole mentality of I'm not ready at all with next week, like when I know more I'm more prepared or whatever, only leads to just, it's called. It's actually called procrastinating lucky nation. You know what I mean like, that's what it's called. And, and you seem to have overcome that peace, and that trumps, not knowing everything that Trump's not like not being experienced that Trump's, not having tons of success, like that just getting into it and taking that level of action, not caring. So how do you deal with when somebody gives you negative feedback on something or says oh look at this, whatever calls you a name or whatever, Like how do you deal with that?

Olivia: Alright, so I actually have a story and a half for you. So, when I first started out. If you're looking at my tic tock my most viral video that I have is about creating color coloring books like you buy them from people on Fiverr like obviously you tell them that you're playing on like reselling them and stuff. But essentially you buy coloring books from people on Fiverr and then you resell them on Etsy, you know you make like passive income when people download them, digital downloads. So I made that video, and I like essentially got in war with artists on Tik Tok, because they were like freaking out, they're like, You're stealing from artists like, keep in mind, I don't actually do this side hustle I just found it and thought it was super cool, and they're like you're stealing from artists, you're doing well, blah, blah, this is all illegal you're promoting this and like people trying to like shut me down. Like, this isn't even like my regular content, it was just a video on a side hustle it was super cool and I'm like, oh my god, is this like childhood actors on Disney feel like when I first started out like all this hate and stuff like that I'm like this is terrible, why am I doing this like, I don't even take on TikTok for like maybe a month and a half, two months at this point and I was like This is terrible. I hate those. But like my boyfriend helped me out a lot like he was just like, you know you're never gonna like, you know you're making it once you have haters and stuff like that. I'm like, I guess, but it still really sucks. I don't like being told this, I'm like you're a terrible person like we're gonna come on your lawn and put up posters and stuff like that, like, I'm not doing anything wrong, but I've definitely had my, my dealings with the haters.

Dave: Young people are so peaceful in their, in their like threats and violence, you know, it was like a, it was like a boomer man, they'd be like, oh like kill blow in millennials and like, like Gen Z or whatever your generation is like, I'm going to come and put a sign on your lawn.

Olivia: Yeah, but that was my first experience with hate on social media. After that I just get a lot of people that are like wow this is a scam like I'm literally giving you other information besides just, you know, I don't know people are just there to look outside of, they don't they don't do their research that's my biggest thing that it's like really pisses me off about people online is they don't do their own research. Everyone asks me the same question and I have like five videos about it like scroll through my TikTok before you ask me the question, it's a waste of my time it's a waste of your time.

Dave: That's never gonna change. You know, I've been doing this for, plus, and, and when I say doing this like affiliate marketing push marketing with it having like that, see to see content that creator to consumer content, right. And it's like the same questions, man, it's the same challenges, the same things that come up the same mental issues I mean this is why I can talk this stuff in my sleep, backwards, you know, hanging upside down, you know, in the dark is because it's just, it's literally once you, once you understand the challenges of your target audience. Once you've heard it for a couple of months, you basically, you have the pains, the, the aspirations down as a copywriter, this is valuable for you as well and everything is copywriting, by the way, just in case you guys are wondering like what is copywriting, is that something that's over here in marketing No, everything's copywriting because copywriting is essentially the words that you use to sell and persuade and, in, in math, you know magnetize yourself pull them into your content and then eventually convert them into a sale. and obviously that starts in the original way that it was done was basically on on piece of paper that were mailed out to a mailbox it's called direct mail right from business to consumer, right, that was how stuff that was how information was sold, somebody would open up their mailbox look it up, look at a thing read it and get excited about it, just like we watch a sales video. And then, you know, go and sneak over to the cabinet and get their checkbook, in, and mail a check back in, and then the person would send them their tape, or their booklet, or whatever they bought, right, and now the Internet has sort of changed the game but, but we still use those same principles in headlines in an emails in in various in even in how we structure our videos right, it's kind of like, there's, there's kind of a formula we've all got our own sort of rendition of it right I mean Russell Brunson says hook story offer I say what it was like what happened what it's like now, you know what I mean like there's all these different kind of out pains to lose, you know pain agitate solution, you know, there's all these different kind of formulas, but it's really, it's really a valuable thing, when you do it for long enough that you hear the same questions come up, because it helps you to develop stories that you can tell in your content in things that you can say that just sort of overcome those objections upfront, you know they overcome the objections upfront, and they're, they're bigger than the objections, so people are more kind of sucked in by the story and what you're saying, than their questions. They're common objections. And I think that's the power of. It's kind of like, this is the power of being consistent with this stuff with this marketing in a niche and learning everything about your target customer it's like this. It's like walking into a foreign land, with, with a group of 10 friends, and nobody in a different language that everybody speaks, but you're the only one in the group that speaks the language. And you can communicate with the people in connect with them, and that you know, get one right and get what you need, and that's the power of learning the vocabulary and the language of your target customer. And I think that being, having copyright experience you're aware of that. But now, being in this niche kind of makes money online, online business niche you're learning that even more and you're sort of, you're becoming you're mastering it even very quickly. So tying that back into the original thing that I said that you're, that you're having some luck and you said that before we went live some of this is luck, right, but a lot of it again is preparation met opportunity, you're doing the research you're doing the work, you're learning and you're combining that now with a real live audience. And it's working, figure eights work.

Olivia: I know it's crazy. So that must feel good. It does. Honestly, I'm really blessed that I had copywriting experience before I came in and I mean it's it was very brief like it only been doing it for a few months but it was still like I learned what people wanted in like didn't like because I would get feedback on it, but it was definitely, it was definitely very helpful and I will attribute that a lot to my success, and I honestly like it, regardless of if you're going into affiliate marketing or drop shipping or website design whatever you want to do like understand copywriting, at least on a basic level, like, then you'll know if the copy that you order is actually good or not because copywriting is literally the key to selling so that's my biggest piece of advice for people out there is like at least have a basis in copywriting and understand like what makes copy, like a piece of copy good.

Dave: So do you have? Have you done any study of any old, you know, oh geez in the game copywriters and stuff like that. Do you have any, any favorite copywriters or any, any copywriting books or anything or anything that you kind of, really, or real kind of gems to you in terms of your kind of learning process over the last year so?

Olivia: I mean… So, one of the first people that I found was Alex Buzzsumo I don't know if you've heard her name but she's, she works on Fiverr and that's how I kind of got interested in it. She was kind of like my mentor with copywriting because she's been doing it for I think like seven or eight years now she's young, she's in her 20s as well but like she's been doing it for such a long time. Though she was kind of like my, my guide with everything. And I still keep in contact with her and everything. I mean she's probably the only one I've really kind of like, stuck with the information I'm playing with because like it's worked for me it's worked so I've worked

with god you guys so much too, to just do and learn and it's, I think you what your story shows is the power of, really, like, how much you can learn through taking action. 

Dave: You know, it literally is, I mean if you can combine that with with reading or watching courses and then you can take action that's more power to all of you guys who and Olivia has, has said that she's, she's done that but the big piece here the big secret is the getting it into action and learning and adjusting and tweaking as you go and then use in a community around you to bounce ideas back or use it for feedback or watch them and look at what they're doing and kind of, you know, learn from others as well, so congratulations on that. Before we bring this in for a landing. What you know if somebody was thinking about getting involved in a Legendary kind of on that checkout page or something and trying to decide whether they was the AMA is this going to help is this community valuable you know what would you tell that person about getting involved with our community?

Olivia: I'd say that you're very very personable, and I think that's a huge key in taking any sort of online course or like being part of a team, is that you want that personal experience, like, I contacted Sean numerous times, when I had problems with like converting from Builderall to Clickfunnels vice versa, stuff like that, Like, it's very very personable, and that's why I love being part of legendary right now is because of that. And, you know, everyone has their like preconceived thoughts when they go into like a checkout page and stuff like that, even if it's just $7 it's like I don't want to get scammed on stuff but like you kind of just have to take that risk every once in a while, and at least just go through the course and do it fully and apply those skills. And then if you feel like this is for you and you really want to go like forward with it. Then keep investing in yourself because that's what I've been doing and it's worked out a lot for me and that's my biggest tip for everyone is just never, never stop learning, and never stop investing in yourself keep reading. Keep taking extra courses, get mentors, stuff like that I mean, it's, it'll. I think people are afraid of the whole money aspect like when, like with the business blueprints at least like 20 $500, like yeah when I first started, I could not afford that, but like, thinking back on it, like I made like three grand my first month I could have easily made that money back if I wanted to, so I just, I don't know I think people just need to be more open to taking risks, like if you play it safe, we're never gonna get anywhere.

Dave: Man, we could know if we would have set you know interestingly enough, Olivia if we would have titled this. If you never take risks you never get anywhere we would have probably had half of the people who clicked on it right to view it right because that headline is not as attractive as she got 150,000 pounds 30 days. Right. But, what you just said is, like, the most valuable thing, right, it's like, you got to be willing to take risks. That's the definition of an entrepreneur that's the definition of being in business. And I think that's the definition of really living a fulfilling life. Like, you got to be willing to go over in just, you know, obviously it would be sexual harassment if you just kiss the girl or right, but at least go over and be like, Hey, can I get your number, can I take out sometimes, like just that ask in business, it's like, yeah, like parting with that money that you feel like it's just the only money that exists in the world and you're never going to get any more of it right we hold on to our paper, you know, because like we're never gonna get any more. Mine, you know, but man, like, It's like taking risks is life, man, that's like we're all of our happiness and all of our growth comes from is doing something that, that is scary, or that is uncomfortable, right, and you're just doing that and you're such a beautiful example of that. So thank you, and say hello to your, your wonderful and supportive boyfriend who’s got your back, what a guy. And, and I hope you'll come back and keep us updated and let us know, you know, in the next month, you know, we'll give you three months right see where the hell you are in three months of planning that imagine.

Olivia: I couldn't even imagine getting here so I guess we'll see.

Dave: Yeah. All right, Olivia well thank you so much for your time and thank you for just doing a fantastic job and being a great example for everybody and being so real with your experience and making it, you know, reachable and attainable and that's really important, and I know it's really valuable for everybody so I know you're busy, I'm sure that to do list that you've got sitting there as long. 

Olivia: I have class in a few minutes.

Dave: We'll let you go Olvia, have a great day.

Olivia: Thanks. All right. Bye. 

Dave: Look at that, she's got class, I mean come on people, I mean what is going on, like you know, there was something there was a quote that I heard that's always stuck with me which is you can have excuses or you can have results but you can't have, you know, you just can't have both. And life is full of those, those, those little those little two sides of the coin the choices, you know, do you want excuses or do you want results, you know, in every, every day so many times a week we have to make that decision, you know, and Olivia's is clearly just so choosing results over excuses, and, and it's scary and it's not easy, and she said that. Right. But, you know, look at kind of look at, at what can happen when you take those risks and yeah it's not gonna happen for everybody the same way like I want to just remind everybody of that like Olivia's journey is not going to look like yours, so don't beat yourself up Don't shame yourself don't guilt yourself don't compare yourself. We just you, we just look at other people and we and we just use. We don't use them. They’re inspiration to us, they’re motivation, there's somebody who we can add to our network that we can learn from. Right. But let all of these guests in the stories and these other students in our community who are having success let them just be a shining light, don't let, Let them be a big dark cloud that makes you compare yourself and makes you feel bad about yourself. That's my greatest fear when we, when we demonstrate big success stories, because everybody's journey is going to look different, but, but you can have results or you can have excuses you just can't have both. Right. And in my, my hope for each one of you guys is that you'll choose to get results, and you'll choose to take risks and you'll choose to get uncomfortable because the payoff and the reward is so much better. Okay, so have a fantastic day. Get the hell out of here. I know you guys got stuff to do as well, God I do too. Sheesh. See, peace, See you tomorrow.

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Dave: Hey what's going on, my friends, this is Dave sharp Welcome to wake up legend every listen we got a fantastic, we're gonna jump right into it, we're going to be talking about how to do things with a small email list, okay this is gonna be a fantastic show. I'm really excited about it and I want to welcome Elisa to the show, how are you doing Elisa?.

Elisa: Hello guys I'm great, Dave, how are you? Thank you for the opportunity to be here.

Dave: I'm fantastic I'm fantastic. Yeah. Oh, it's, it's my pleasure. It's my pleasure, thrilled to have you on and really excited to learn from you. So, what, what, what got you started in online marketing in the first place?

Elisa: Oh gosh, It was two years ago, when I finally saw and understood that it would be impossible to work in my career in international logistics here in the UK. I'm Brazilian. And I've been living here for four years now. And as my career was very specific in Revelations, I would need to start over again actually. And when you are in a different country, and a different language and different everything. Actually, I understood that it was very difficult for me to get the same position that I've got in Brazil. So, at that time I thought oh my god I need to think about something that is a free location that I could do whatever I am even if I return to Brazil after my visa expires. I need to restart over again so there. It was very difficult for me to make this decision, but I've started to like Google, my options. Well, I just type on Google how to make money online. That was probably the best option and then lots of opportunities have come to my mind, without the things that I've never thought about. Yeah, and definitely affiliate marketing was the best option for me in my situation in my options. 

Dave: So we're excited to have you as a part of our, you know, a client here and a part of our community and what, what we've titled this show today is how to do big things with a small email list. So, I'm intrigued because, in particular, Back in December. You started running small little Facebook ads, with a budget of about $30 a day. Yeah, built your email list from, from, from 800 subscribers now to 5,000 subscribers that in that email list if I'm correct, and I understood what, when I was learning about you before we started the show if I understand correctly that email list is now is now creating ongoing income for you because you're sending out offers to them and you're nurturing that list and building relationships with those customers. So, why? What happened in December that made you start advertising that particular way. And what did you try up until that point that either did or didn't work, walk us through the, the, the journey of your marketing strategies that led you to kind of these last six months.

Elisa: I've always been afraid of pay. That's okay, I've always been afraid of investing in it because I knew that I would need a lot of knowledge to make it work for me. But I've tried, since April of last year, we've met with Matt’s training that can accommodate, I've started there, but I have been blockaded, everything was getting worse and worse, and the free traffic wasn't working for me at my speed that I would like. Then I started searching out, and I found a guy that had a very different strategy that I've never heard of before. And it was about lead ads, to generations of Facebook ads and I didn't know that we could do that. And I understood his strategy and duplicated it for me. So, normally, depending on the target audience that to you put in your Facebook ads, we could have leads for five cents. And that was a very big deal for me because I had the new book, a very good ebook that I wish I could share. So I structure all my strategy using the tools that I stole from the marketing platform that I use, and just duplicate the idea of the guide that was basically given away for free by ebook, and then put this people inside the Facebook Messenger. And this, in this moment you still keep people inside Facebook that's why it's cheaper. And when they opt in to download my ebook, they would go directly to my autoresponder system connected to another tool that would make it automatically. And that was it actually, since December. I've got almost 6,000 people. And I've increased my revenue with these people actually only using my mail marketing list for, I don't know 50% So it was like a huge step for me and when you decide to do lead generation with Facebook ads, you need to be patient, because it's not conversion that's you, you want to see the sales pouring in right after you start running ads, It's, it's, like you said, nursery is trying to again engage with his people in another guest. This is a very interesting strategy with people that are just starting out with new domains that they need to increase the domain reputation, inside this email marketing just tweet. So I put people to open their emails to find my equal. So I guess I'm, I'm getting, I'm getting sales and I'm getting better and my reputation shows. So yeah, it's been amazing so far.

Dave: So, you're giving away an ebook and are you sending them directly so Facebook lead ads are a way that Facebook will allow you to advertise when you enter your information right on Facebook. So it's kind of like a little landing page or opt in form that pops up right on Facebook? Are you sending them to a lead ad form, or are you sending them directly to messenger?

Elisa: At first they pass through the lead form, where they put the affiliate link. When they opt in, and then they could go wherever they want to actually but I put them to go to the messenger, where I have legendary marketer as an option for them to purchase in other products too it's, it becomes to communicate actually conversation with them. And there's another thing, every time that I upload a new video on youtube I use these people there that are my subscribers inside messenger. And guys, I've been increasing my views on YouTube, this way too. So, now since December I have like 2,000 people in my messenger subscribers list, which is amazing, actually. And nowadays, I've been spending less money because I optimize that campaign. Yeah, I'm not spending more $30 A day I'm spending $20 A day I'm getting the same result. Dave: So in order to communicate, you're so you're building both an email list and a messenger list at the same time? And how are you communicating with those people through messenger?

Elisa: You can work in a flow. You can imagine that you have something to say and then you ask a question, and then people you have like two buttons. Yeah, For example, and are you part of the Legendary Marketer? first button: No, not yet. Second button: yes. So yeah, so, according to their answers, you can continue the conversation. But you, it's like a bot.

Dave: Are you doing that through Facebook? Can you do that directly inside of the Facebook interface?

Elisa: I don't know I'm using chatbot messenger inside the digital marketing platform that I running my business on,

Dave: I got you, I got a couple of different tools that you can use for that. Yes, you know, chat, chatbots are killer. Yeah. And so, yeah, so, I mean unfortunately the challenge with Facebook has been that they ultimately control the platform, so sometimes they might put a regulation or they might, they might block some sort of a robot that you're using. So, but I think that I think that, I mean obviously if you're able to use an automated tool, you know, some sort of a software, that's fantastic. But even if you are not using a robot or a tool. And you're driving people into messenger and then you're just having actual conversations with people say somebody's spending five or $10 a day. And when, when, when you put them into the lead form and collect their email address, and then when they come into messenger. You know you have either you're an assistant actually engaging somebody manually, having a real conversation with right and if you have five or 10 leads a day. That's incredible. It's incredibly realistic to engage with somebody. Yeah, and Amazon just came out with a study, the other day. Let me see if I can find the stats about it. It was pretty interesting. It was pretty interesting information from Jeff Bezos annual letter for Amazon. So, 28% of purchases on Amazon are completed within three minutes of somebody landing on the site 50% of purchases on Amazon are completed in less than 15 minutes. So, I find the same experience here within our company in our ecosystem is that when people first come in contact with you when they're, when they're most likely to buy something. Yeah. Now, certainly there's going to be a percentage of people that maybe get your email follow ups or buy from you again. If they buy from you, and then they're happy, right, and then they are on your email list and you send them more offers, you'll find that the majority of people who buy from your email list are oftentimes people who have already bought from you before because they've had a good experience. Yeah, but my point is that even if you're not able to automate, you know when you bring somebody into Facebook Messenger. I think we I think we underestimate the value and the power of just engaging somebody I know a guy who's running a 10 plus million dollar a year business selling courses and coaching, and his entire business model is driving people from ads into messenger and he's got a team of virtual assistants, there in chat with people and celled and qualify them and sell them right in chat live conversations. Right. And so I think this strategy that you're, I think the strategy that you're running, can be done a couple of different ways. And no matter which way you do it, I think you can be effective with it. So congratulations for you for figuring this out and continuing to try, you know, continuing to not stopping, that's such an important thing. No one strategy works for everybody. Right, yeah, but you've taken a strategy that can be done several different ways and you kept pushing and kept trying and that's why you're successful. And then, in the majority of people, you know, unfortunately, who come into this industry and try to make money online, don't. And the reason why is because the minute that they run into their first challenge, they stop it don't why and I want everybody to hear this loud and clear the reason why you are successful, okay, is because the reason why Alyssa is successful is because of her ability to adjust when things don't go as planned. So what is your mentality around your business, Alyssa that helps you when something doesn't go as planned. And that happens every day and you and I both know this, but how do you adjust how you view that situation or that problem in a way that keeps you going instead of getting you frustrated and mad and makes you want to quit?

Elisa: Well, it's not easy, actually. That's my first try, and in business actually I've never been an entrepreneur before. So it's all about mindset right. And I guess I just want this to work for me, and I really want to make a lot of money and help a lot of people with that. And I guess, I guess this is it, guys. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and that just, I just can't work. It's so much content to create so many videos for you too, because YouTube is my main free traffic stream. And sometimes you just don't want to do that, even in this pandemic it has been very difficult to stay positive and go ahead but I believe that if you have something inside of you that really drives you, just sit down and work. And that’s how I’ve been doing this, even if I am not in the mood to work. I came here and then I just shorted my list to three things. Okay, so they all do my TikToks, and then I'll do, I'll try to work on the script, and then I'll see my accountant and see if I need to do something for my business. And this way I'm going to check out my list. And by the end of two hours I can see okay, I'm not in the mood, but I am still here and I'm still checking out my list so I guess it's okay, let's talk a little, and then when I'm in the mood, my dear nobody stops me. I just sit here and do whatever I need to do, it's like crazy. 

Dave: Yeah. No, I love you. I love how real you're being about this business because it is not easy, it's not but nothing is easy, it's going to be hard. Either way, it's going to be hard to be successful and it's going to be hard to make a lot of money, and it's also going to be really hard to be broke and be miserable. Both are hard. Both are really hard. It's hard to be broke. You know I was talking to a friend yesterday who is, is actually a really successful marketer in his own right, he's the. He's the CEO of a very popular company that we all know is a software company in our industry. And he, we were talking about our kids, and he was talking about, you know, the fact that he really is thankful that he has some money and he knows he makes a good living and then. And because he said that you know he's got a brand new baby girl, only eight months old and he said, life would be a lot different and really hard right now. If my wife and I were raising our daughter, and, and really struggling to pay the bills. So, you know that I think that we just have to really kind of understand that whether we want to be successful and rich or whether we want to be broken, and, you know, unhappy or whatever, or unsuccessful both our heart, both our heart, you know, both our heart, and so we have to choose our hard. One thing that I noticed about you, you've got a TikTok we've got your, your, your, TikTok candle up here for people to go check you out you've got a YouTube channel, you're running Facebook ads, you're building your email list you're building your messenger list. I mean, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook ads which are building your email list. Okay and are also building a messenger list. Okay, an email list. So, yeah, and you've got Google ads so Google ads are feeding your email list basically. But I mean you've got five, six different traffic sources now.

Elisa: And Cora.com I'm always answering questions there. I have 1,000s and 1,000s of views in my coordinates of traffic there too. 

Dave:  Tell me about your mentality about multiple sources of traffic, why do you feel that it's important to have these different sources of traffic for your business?

Elisa: You can't put your eggs in one nest. If in this industry, considering that we have our, I have my audience online, and each and every social media. It's just a matter of me to try to put myself out there and reach them. So why shouldn't I be only on TikTok or only on YouTube. It's very difficult to get likes, lots of different social media, but I guess this is the way my Instagram is also growing. Afterwards, I decided to use it more often. And, and I've been getting free leads from there too. But guys, I don't know, I think that saying that is the best resource of traffic for me. Nowadays, and if I understand well this industry affiliate marketers are a breach between people and the products, so I need to be a specialist in traffic. So I need to test it out. Everything actually I have a plan to scale a little bit more for other sources that I don't have yet. And I don't think that I'm okay with what I have today. I'm still growing, you know.

Dave: Yeah, I mean your paid ad budget is only $20 a day I mean yes, there's so much room to grow. Yeah, I mean, I, on one hand, it's super inspirational and I hope that everybody is like getting their mind blown about what's possible with just $20 a day in advertising. But on the other hand, it's like you've not even really started yet, I mean you're just getting started. I mean,

so your YouTube channel is really kind of, it's not even picked up steam yet. Your TikTok account has not even picked up steam yet, you're just at the beginning baby step stages of your business.

Elisa: And I'm already making sales, that's the thing.

Dave: Right, That's what I'm saying is that you're at this infantile stage, this exciting beginning stage to where you've taken action on all these different strategies, and now you've got yourself a good foundation.

Elisa: Yeah I guess so, yeah, foundation. Yeah and this is something that I, I preach in my book too, so you need to have a solid foundation to move forward. Otherwise, your building is going to break up. It's not going to be like, it's not going to work right yeah so I have lots of things that I need to improve. I know that, but I still work alone, which gives me a little more difficulty to, it's a little more challenging to like do everything that I need to do. As you said. I am only growing. I would say because it's only been two years and I was in a totally different industry before that. So lots of things to learn and you guys helped me a lot on this, the training that I have inside Legendary just made friends since the day one. And thank you for that, Matt and Dave You are the best. Thank you so much for that. It definitely has changed my way to see marketing my voice, and how the way that you put yourself out there also resonates a lot with me, and I really learn a lot from you. Since day one so thank you so much for that.

Dave: Well, I, I'm excited about what more I and we can learn from you now. And see, that's how this business works, you know, I really I really the reason why I love this industry in this business so much is because there, you never arrive, you never get to a place to where you're all knowing, and, and in the in the minute the minute I want everybody to hear this loud and clear. The minute that someone thinks they've got it all covered that they know it all, is the minute that they have lost at all. Yeah, because this, this internet game, which is really if you look at it like a game, then it's a lot easier to deal with the changes, because it's like, it's like every so often sort of like, you know how you would buy like a video game every so often, maybe it's every two months or three months or six months there's like a big software update to the internet. And and and it's like the rules might change or there might be new obstacles that you have to overcome. And, you know, you have to relearn things or you have to get used to a new platform where you have to just be willing and ready to adjust and learn new things. And so I think for you know for me, one of the things that's kept me successful is not knowing everything. It's being willing to constantly continue to learn. Because I know that I don't know everything and because the game is constantly changing, and the new marketers like you who come in, oftentimes are the people who I can learn the most from because you're, you're trying new things and that's the power of a community like we have here at legendary is is that there's so many smart marketers that are trying so many different things. And then, I've never been in an industry before to where people are willing so willing to share that because they actually are excited about what they do, what they're doing, and they're working in a business it's about freedom, not about competition, it's about collaboration, not about competition, because there's really enough for everybody out here. Yeah. And we're willing to help you know we're willing to help each other, you know, and it's just a beautiful thing. So I just want to tell you thank you for being so willing to share and I see ways that we can have more with our audience and share more with our students, and just continue to help everybody grow and then in turn, you grow too because the whole idea of this right is that we learn it, we do it, then we teach it. And a lot of times for somebody like yourself, the next level for you is to is to is to is to improve your teaching and your presentation skills, because then you become a better communicator you become a better presenter, right, and that's how ultimately you improve your content, that's how you build your audience right so, yeah. 

Elisa: So, yeah, it's, I guess, Dave, I guess, the video is the most important thing that we'll have at this moment on the internet, because It can reach so many things, so many people. And when you put yourself out there the game changes. I was afraid about putting myself out there. I put my face in front of the camera because of my English. And one year ago when I started my YouTube channel that has changed my perspective on my business, for the better, you know, and you weren't talking about something, this kind of thing, or sharing with people what to what we know. I've been releasing a set of four videos, a series of four videos kind of explaining these strategies that I've been using on Facebook ads. So I've read release two. And there are two more to go. And it's just about sharing, and then there I asked people okay if you want to know exactly how I do it using Facebook ads, and this video is going to be the next one, it's not on air yet. If you want to know please comment here. If you want to know how I, I've done it, then I can do a series of other videos to show you exactly how, how I've done it. And, and I guess this video probably will go on there on Thursday but I believe that I'm going to get lots of comments from it, because people really want to know what's working and if it's been working, why shouldn't.

Dave: Right. I totally agree with it well, and also your, the more value you bring the more people tune in to what you say. Yeah, and I think, I think the other benefit in this industry anyways, is when, when you go and you do something that works not only do you get results with it but then you can share it with others. And that and that compounds your results, that, that brings more people to you because you're actually delivering something that's valuable to them. When we talk about delivering value that's exactly what that means, what can I share with people, what can I teach people, what can I create a video about that somebody can use, and get results with, that's the bit that is valuable to them. That's what delivering value means. And that's the difference between people who really, you know, get a lot of results with their content, and people who don't. I call it edgy edutainment. It's educational, and it's a bit entertaining, right, it's not like it's not like. Now click here and go to Facebook right I mean you insert a little bit of your personality you have a little fun. It's like learning. It's like who is your favorite teacher in school. It probably wasn't the person that was like, Well, come to class, it was probably the person that made you feel good about yourself. Yeah, what made you laugh and made learning fun right, so, so, you know, being a teacher is also a learned skill. I mean it's not, it's not, it's not something that you were either born with or not born with. It's a, it's a learned skill, just going out and learning something doing it around and tell you that. Thank you so much for sharing that it was your, your accent. That was such a insecurity for you, because I want to tell you that your accent, and listening to you talk is really music to my ears I love, I love the way it sounds, it's it's really nice to listen to, as a person who, as a person who, you know, as an American, that speaks English as his first language I love to hear people that have different accents from different countries talk. And so, we never know. We never know. How beautiful, what we have to say or what we have to present to somebody can be because we're so critical of ourselves so I'm so thankful that you push through that fear that you had, and are now sharing your voice because it really is beautiful. 

Elisa: Dave, It's my first live show today. Today, I've never done it before. Well, we need to take out the Zoom calls that I've been doing. That is just one on one, but that's my first live, you have no idea how I'm afraid of doing this. So yeah, so today I'm overcoming one more fear actually, well not only about speaking in English in the correct way. Being people really understand my message. Message and in my voice, but put your face out there. Live as you do every single day. It's something that was in my plan and now I guess I need to do it every single day too, because I've already done it, guys.

Dave: Very inspiring. I mean, very inspiring and I just want to tell you that this moment right now for you watching you live this moment right now and do this is really a beautiful sight.

Elisa: Thank you,

Dave: You're having a beautiful human experience right now. Rocking through a fear that you had. And you know what you showed up showing up is half the battle. You showed up, you had, we had technical challenges we were a few minutes late because we couldn't even hear your microphone you end it now you're on your phone, and even that didn't discourage you pushed through that and here you are

Elisa: Sweating.

Dave: And you know what sweating doesn't matter. It's wonderful, it's it's just to witness it right to witness it to for you to be sitting and I'm just trying to point it out because this is a moment for you, moment, and it's also a moment for everybody else by you doing this you're giving such a powerful experience to all of everybody who's listening right now, and experience that they'll never forget.

Elisa: Yeah guys, it's difficult but it's not impossible. You always need to try something else and get out their comfort zone to get better results. Otherwise you're going to get whatever you've been getting. So yeah, that's why being afraid of overcoming your fears. It's not going to give you. And I guess that life is set in every area of our lives, not only business but everything that you need to sort out. You should go and solve it, and move forward, and go ahead. So yeah, that's that's the way I tried to live.

Dave: That's the way you're living today, and that's the way we can see intel that you've been living because of what you're doing and just the results that you're getting the confidence that you're building. It's, it shows. It shows not just in the money. The money is great, but it shows in your, in your, in your spirit, it shows in the energy, it shows in your attitude, and it's been a pleasure. I really hope that you will stay, that you'll come back, that you'll keep us posted, that you'll continue to contribute to our community because we are incredibly grateful to have you.

I'm grateful to Dave, I can't wait for this pandemic to end because I really want to go to the mastermind event. Yeah, I want to be there and hopefully it will be next year, or even this year,

Dave: Who knows. Yeah, I think it's gonna be this year, my guess is it's gonna be this year, and, and I can't wait. I can't wait. Okay we will give each other big huge, high fives, elbow bombs whatever we feel comfortable with and have a fantastic time okay, hug, that's fine too. I'm fine with that. Okay,  I am excited for you, and I am, yeah I'm excited to know you and get to know you more and to continue to see your journey. This is what is exciting for me is to see people grow. And because, because this is not, you know, this is not for the people who, who, it's not for the people who need it. We all need, you know, it's for the people who want it. You know it's for the people who are willing to go after it, you know, I mean, anybody can get something from listening to these, these shows and anybody can get something from going through our training, but, but to put to actually apply it and then to go through the process of growing, and then and then earning your results, it's a beautiful process, and you are showing us how how really amazing. it can feel and in what it looks like people this is what it looks like right here. Okay, thank you so much, keep smiling and and keep, keep up the great work. Okay, Elisa will talk to you real soon.

Elisa: Thank you so much guys, Thank you. All right, you're

welcome. Take care.

Dave: Alright my friends, I mean if that doesn't get you fired up I really, I don't know what will. Okay, I just don't know what well, you know, so I love you all, I appreciate you all, I'm going to start my day filled with tons of gratitude and inspiration this morning from that wonderful conversation, and I hope you guys have an amazing day, be legendary my friends, and we'll see you back here tomorrow 10am Eastern Time.

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Dave: Yo yo yo what is going on guys this is Dave Sharpe. Welcome to Wake Up Legendary, and as usual, we have a awesome guest this morning I'm really excited for you guys to hear from her and I’m gonna bring her out and just a moment and her name is Lori, and it's gonna be a great show if you're new to Legendary and this is one of the first interactions or experiences the we wanna welcome you, we wanna let you know that we are here five days a week doing the show, on top of all the other events and curriculum and things that we have going on here, inside of our community. And so, sit down, put your seatbelt on, get ready for the ride of your life. Okay, and, and, and whatever your goals are, whatever you want to achieve, most likely you are short changing yourself, okay. And so now let's hear from somebody else, somebody who is a client, a student here, somebody who's a member of our community, our family here at legendary Lori Richardson. Lori, welcome to the show.

Lori: Thanks Dave. Good morning. 

Dave: Hey, You're Welcome and good morning to you where. Where are you calling in from?

Lori: Southern Oregon.

Dave: That's right. I thought you were in Oregon but I didn't want to assume so, welcome from the west coast where you are three hours behind me so good, good, early morning to you.

Lori: Yeah, I got up much earlier than normal. This morning.

Dave: We appreciate that we appreciate you getting up and making time for us here to share your experience so you are somebody who, who I've gotten to know, and I've really enjoyed getting to know, I enjoyed watching you take action and get results, and begin this journey. So many people set out on. But, but they, you know, it's, it's just tends to be a challenge for people because they maybe have unrealistic expectations, maybe they, they, for whatever reason, but I've seen you just take consistent action to keep a positive attitude, because of that you've, you've gotten results, you've not gotten rich overnight, but you're, you're building confidence, you're growing it, you know, obviously, I'm really proud of you and happy for your progress, so. So how does it feel to be kind of where you're at three months into your blueprints and coaching client here at Legendary as well. And that's how I've, for those of you wondering, that's how I've gotten to know. How does it feel to be, you know, three months into this, and, and, at least, I, I'm super happy and proud of you. Do you also feel a sense of accomplishment and see and feel the growth as well?

Lori: Absolutely. I feel like I'm right on track. I did not expect this to get rich quick. Obviously, I literally expected… I didn't expect a lot of the things that have happened for me so far but as far as where I am with the business Excel itself. It's definitely a marathon not a sprint and I'm, I'm doing all the training to make it to the end, you know, and it's, it's really exciting. I'm learning so much every day trying to put it into action. I didn't set my expectations really high as far as income that I'm bringing in right away and I think that helps a lot. I've owned a business for 23 years that was started out, not being online just because of my age and what the technology was when I started it but ended up online. And I know that that first year, you're not going to make as much as you would necessarily like to but that's, a year to year for growth. So I went into this, eyes wide open, knowing that.

Dave: Well that's great I mean, I think you have such and you have made money you have gotten results. I mean, for those of you who are wondering if she's actually, you know, quote unquote, making money. Yes, she is how much, quite frankly, it's, it's, it's none of your business. And and the reason why is, why it's none of your business is because her results are not going to be your results. Anyways, you may get more, you may get less. You may have a different growth, you're absolutely going to have a different growth path than Lori does but what I respect about you so much is that you have just such a healthy perspective about what it actually takes to build a business and what it takes to build anything. I mean, anything that you build that's going to last, it's going to be worthwhile. It takes time, in that first year, like you said, is such an important year to lay the foundation. So, talk to us a little bit about what your, what the major milestones for you have been over these past three months. What are some of the things that you look back and you say, that was a big growth moment or this is something that I've really overcome and I can feel the growth in this area?

Lori: Well I've had several of those I mean, starting with just actually posting things on social media, putting my face out, you know I liked all of us went on Tik Tok originally to just amuse ourselves and I think I, my personal account I have one post, that's my cats. So actually putting my face out there and, and talking to people, trying to do, talking, trying to talk, just to one person at a time through the camera versus everyone out there, you know, trying to make those connections online. That is, this was one of my first milestones. As recently, the biggest one that I'm working on with you is just following up with the email campaigns, learning, working more with my copywriting skills because that is something that is so crucial in the marketing of any type. So, I feel like I'm getting close to a breakthrough there. It's that the challenge you have given me I'm working, I'm striving forward with it and I will make that at the end of the month. So when we meet in our next group call, I'll be able to say, Yep, I did it here it is.

Dave: That's great, it's interesting, I want to talk a little bit about coaching for a second, my wife woke up this morning and she said well, I hired a sleep coach for the baby right in, and I just thought, I said to her I said well, if you want really any results in any area then, the best way to get it is to hire a coach, right, if you want great results in fitness, you're, I guarantee you no matter how motivated you are and no matter how much you know about fitness. If you hire a coach to push you and to challenge you, and to do a lot of the thinking for you in terms of, like, what, what you should be working on this month. Instead of trying to conjure up the vision in the, in the task in all this and then go and execute it. Right, well one of the reasons why I love a fitness coach is because he does the thinking in terms of what I need to be working on right he I don't have to think of the exercise I just do them. But, you know, my wife hired a sleeping coach for a baby just to get some extra tips just to just to, to figure out what she knows from working with hundreds of other babies. So, what is your, what was your thought when you invested in our, in the blueprints and coaching, most people would look at that as a cost. What was your perspective going into that and how do you view coaching and accountability, just in general?

Lori: Well, just getting the feedback from someone that has done it successfully is huge. And I love helping set my goals for me with me. Not for me. And having accountability because I'm the type of person that once that has been verbalized, not just myself but to other people. And if I, I tried to keep my word and if I tell you, yeah, Dave, I'm gonna do that. It makes me way more determined to accomplish that. I also. It makes me so proud of myself when I do accomplish that and I can say, you know, well, I did that, and the coaching has really really helped me because there have also been times that I'm a little. Having someone with your experience to bounce that off of, is really crucial I feel for me. It's definitely, it was definitely an investment. And that is, that's how I viewed it, it was not just an expense, which by the way can be written off. But it is. It is definitely an investment and it's not just an investment in my business but it's an investment in myself.

Dave: Yeah, yeah, I think that a lot of times, the benefits you know I've had I've had all kinds of different clients over the years, I've even got lots of different clients right now. Right. And I don't. I don't have favorites. I just have ones that I can see that this person is really, is this real, this person really is, is, is going to get a lot out of this, and, and maybe where somebody else isn't, and that has nothing to do with me, right, that has everything to do with with how the person uses the coaching, you know, and, and, so, you know, one of the things that I think is is really important. And for a lot of us we come into this, this, this environment, and we've never had coaching before we've never had training before. What I think a lot of people come into coaching and. And this is essentially coaching. We're here, educating learning, growing, and sometimes people don't really know how to be good mentees, or students, they think that it's a power thing, like I'm less than and that person's better than and so they might feel insecure might feel like, Like, you know like inferior or something and, of course, nobody wants to feel in fear, and then and than other people in coaching don't really know how, what questions to ask whatever. So what has your experience been with getting the most out of a coaching experience, because you're certainly growing you have a positive attitude about it? I feel like you're utilizing the coat as well. And so, what, what, what tips would you give to people who actually are seeking mentorship in some capacity to actually get the most out of the experience to make sure that they grow the most during that time period?

Lori: I would say probably to, first of all, don't be intimidated. I was that first month it was like, Oh crap, this day. Don't be intimidated. Listen to what they have to say, take, take the challenge. They are, they will challenge you, and they will. They're in it for helping you. So, you know, listen to what they have to say, and if there is any type of comments they give you is not cutting you down. They're not criticizing you, they're literally just trying to help you succeed. And don't let don't get down on yourself. If you fall a little short of what their expectations are just show some growth. Baby steps. And that's, I'm making a lot of baby steps forward. And sometimes, sometimes I make a huge leap forward and I think that it's. Don't be disappointed if it's a baby step. Huge leaps are great but Baby Steps Get You There is also just a little slower.

Dave: Yeah. Yeah. Somebody else said you don't want to feel like you're bugging, a mentor, right, and that probably is something that's really common I know that that's something that came up, common in, in, in recovery, you know I've had sponsors in different mentors and coaches in recovery as well as business and yeah you don't want to feel like you're bugging them. But I want to give you guys all a little bit of a quick little tool, a quick little resource that can help you to not feel like you're bugging them. And, and, and if you use this tool, it will essentially help you to get what you want by asking better questions and asking better answers, but also when you go to ask a coach or mentor or someone for support or guidance, you can know that you've already taken certain steps to that you've done your homework, and that you're not just asking the mentor to do all the work for you. So I call this getting what you want by asking better questions and getting better answers. And what this is is this is basically a checklist to kind of go through and ask yourself Have I have I sort of checked all the boxes before I go and I ask a question now this can be a format that you can use in a Facebook group. If you ask a question, it can be a format that you use to send a mentor or a coach, a question, it can really be a format that you use to ask anybody a question right because it helps you to build personal responsibility and do as much homework as you can before you ask the question. So the mentor the coach doesn't feel like you're just trying to get them to do all the work for you, because I don't care what like think about it in athletics or sports if you were trying to Ask your coach to come out and throw the ball for you, they're gonna say, get like, literally get off the team like this is, I, I'm the coach I'm over here right it would be ridiculous. So a lot of times when we come into a sort of a personal counseling or coaching situation or a business coaching situation, particularly in this industry. There's a misunderstanding about what a coach is really what their role is in their role is to help you to find the answers within you first, if they can. And then if you have or need that you know the answers because you just literally don't have that experience, then they can give you their experience, but really never tell you exactly what to do because ultimately you have to make the decision, right, and you may be saying Well, Dave, if I hire a coach I want that coach to tell me exactly what to do. But the problem is is that if they tell you exactly what to do, then a lot of times you're just going to buck it because nobody likes to be told what to do, right, so it's it's it's it's a it's a delicate road to travel, and it's really important to hire somebody who is experienced coaching. And out of all my years of experience in coaching, this is one of the tools that I've come up that I think is one of the most helpful. So, how to get what you want by asking better questions and getting better, better answers first get clear on what simplify clear, simplify, clarify and then briefly and clearly explain what you've tried already. Right. So you ask the question. Here's my question. Here's what I've tried already outline what you think the solution might be so to lessen the workload for whoever the, the, you know, the coach or the person that's answering the question, right, ask respectfully and humbly for feedback or thoughts and let the coach know that you'd be grateful for their help. Congrats asking for bench strength not a weakness. Now if someone has time to help and they might not so don't take it personally just ask him to be in later. Make sure to put it into action, and then update whoever helped on how their advice, worked, or if it didn't work, but make sure to take responsibility for that outcome, no matter what. Right. And what's really important about this process are these first three pieces because a lot of times we don't really get clear on what our question is so there's this a bunch of back and forth or we don't really get the answer that we're looking for. We don't try other things we just throw something that somebody else hopes for them to just sum up. We don't like, do any work mentally to try to figure out an outline of what the solution might be, which is really useful when you're working with somebody for them to know that you're also, you know, brainstorming and thinking for yourself. So, I know you've heard me go over that tool before, Lori, but what comes up for you as I kind of go over the some of these outlooks that I have about coaching, like, you know, finding that helping somebody find the answers within themselves, you know, some of these pieces that I've just gone over what comes up for you and, and what, what, what advice would you have maybe for people who, who, you know, are, are looking for a coach, but more looking for somebody to kind of maybe do it for them instead of understand the power of having somebody help to empower them, what what's coming up for you?

Lori: Well, a couple things. Mainly, if they do it for you, you're not going to learn, you know, this is your business and you are for this particular you know looking at it here. It's your business, it's not their business, you need to know how to run it, and to solve these things after you stop having that coach if you're just expecting them to do it for you. You know, you might as well just close the doors now because it's, it's not going to your business won't last long. If you don't learn it. 

Dave: They won't last long, and that's a great point. I mean, the, the way that I coach is, is, I don't, I don't want to have people dependent on me. Right, right. I don't want that it's not about, you know there's a lot of marketers who, there's one marketer in specific he's a mentor. And he, he prides himself on people, re, you know, re, re upping on his coaching, year after year, and that's fine if they, if they, if people want to do that but, but, you know, if you're going to work with somebody, then ultimately the best coaches that I've ever had have a goal of the of the mentee being independent. Sort of like, you know, sort of like working in housing. My wife used to work in a homeless shelter where they would bring people in from the streets, give them housing, and then ultimately the next step would be they would help them get up an apartment, and kind of go out on their own and be independent and, and that is sort of the philosophy that I have about coaching as well. Now is that the best thing for my pocketbook. Right. Well, no, I mean if it sure would be better for my pocketbook if I received coaching clients for 10 years and convinced them every you know, to put on a big sales pitch in the last month of their coaching term to get them to re-up. But that, you know, I think it's to look for a coach and look for a mentor. Mentors, who are also mentally and emotionally healthy, and will actually put you over profits you the client you the person over profits, I know you work in a minute, you know, we've got a medical facility but it's in a mental health facility, and mental health is a big part of your life as well. Right. What would you, where do you see the correlation between good mental health and positive results in life, and also business?

Lori: Boy that's, I can tell you, having worked in mental health. It is… Your whole life is affected by how you feel about yourself. If you are, if you don't feel good about yourself. You're not going to be successful in relationships, you're not going to be successful in your business, you're going to be most likely miserable. So, I've been there, you know, it's I've been through a lot of shit, and getting out of it is not fun, but getting once you're out of it. Life changes, and that's what my last several years have have been is just suffer I suffered a lot of losses all kind of one right after the other and go got my mind right, just working on, on it and that's, that's when I started this, you know this venture is, you know, I, my, my body, I lost 50 pounds over this last year which was exciting thing for me so I changed my, my health is better. My mind is better. It's time to, you know, get the rest of my life going forward, and this was a great new step for me to do that.

Dave: Yeah, I can tell you that you said, feeling good about yourself, is, is, is important. I have a belief that self esteem is the bedrock of success, how you feel about yourself, is, is, is everything. If any of you guys consider yourself struggling in your business. Your business is probably not the only area that you feel is struggling, if, if you look at all of the different areas of your life. Usually there's a pattern and it overlaps and it's not just we don't just struggle in one area, while the other areas are blossoming and blooming in doing great. Whenever I've struggled in my business, or I was unclear or I felt like I wasn't making progress. Ironically, I felt similar about my marriage. I felt similar about my fatherhood. I felt similar about my health or whatever I felt similar about my recovery. Right, so. So the first step of actually being successful as an entrepreneur, ironically, is, is, is, is not only building self esteem, but it's combining the mechanics, which is what we're all interested in, what's the funnel builder? What's the auto response, where do I click, click, click, click, click, pull the lever right and money is going to explode out of my computer? No. It combined those panics, which are important. With those dynamics, those dynamics being self esteem building activities. Now, what are self esteem building activities inside of our business. Well, Lori, you said you lost 50 pounds over the past year? I would assume that I built massive amounts of self esteem for you, am I right. Oh yeah. And what were, what, what were some of the components of you losing that 50 pounds that helped you do that? I'm looking for things like consistency.

Lori: Absolutely, yeah, it's just changing habits, you know, I'm drinking water, I didn't drink water, because I don't like the flavor, you know.

Dave: yes, there is no flavor.

Yeah, well, city water is nasty. I'm sorry, I lived, we lived out in the woods, we had new and nice water versus having chlorinated pool water. So I, that was a huge change for me is to start drinking a lot of water, and, you know, just the habits of sitting in front of the TV eating from the time I got home until the time I went to bed, you know those getting rid of those habits, was really crucial, and it. In doing so, that also freed me up and allowed me to do other things beyond that, as well as knowing that I can take charge and I can make change for myself, and by doing so, you know I have the health benefits, my mind is, is much better. I think clearer, you know there are a lot of things that came with that weight loss.

Dave: I'm going somewhere with this thank you and congratulations for that, where I'm going with this is those same sort of blueprints to losing that much way that's, that's hard work, I mean I know that that is hard work that that takes to follow through and consistency and changing of habits, and just in, in, you know, it's it's takes, it takes good, solid, it doesn't it's not doesn't take a lot of work just takes, takes consistent work over time. Right. And, and the same thing applies with our business, you know, The one thing that I know and I saw another successful entrepreneur that I respect say this the other day, the single most important component of us being successful in business is consistency. It's literally consistent. It's literally if I'm going to try, if I want to get better at writing copy. I'm not going to just take a course and magically just become a world class copywriter, I have to take what I learned in the course, and apply it consistently over time. And part of the learning experience is actually applying that education, and then tweaking it over time. So tying that back into self esteem and how we feel about ourselves and our mental health. If I do those positive aspects, those stealable actions out of my business. Over time, I literally will become more confident because I feel better about myself, the more I shoot tic tock videos, the better I will be on video, the better, more confident I will feel there's not just I see people asking all the time, it's like well how do you know I've done put up two videos and I haven't had any sales yet and I've just been wondering what I'm doing wrong. Well what you're doing wrong is nothing, absolutely nothing you're not doing anything wrong, you just, you've only put up two videos. That's a freckle on the pimple of a gnat's ass compared to a career, right, of actually doing something for a consistent period of time I know marketers who put up two videos on tick tock before 10am You know, every day. So, these, you know, this, this, this mental health how we feel about ourselves, I believe it's the number one most not talked about topic in entrepreneurship. And the marketers and the entrepreneurs that I know who are the most successful are the ones who literally had, you know, had some skills and maybe had some success but crashed, and then said, timeout, I need to take care of myself. I need to go to therapy, I need to get myself right, and I need to develop some healthy personal habits and start taking care of my mental, emotional and physical health. And then when they showed back up all of the other clutter and the distractions in the stuff, like, you know, all that was calmer, they were out of crisis mode, And they could actually show up to their business focused, full of full of confidence, full of full of, you know, with the ability to be consistent and not distracted, and I feel like that is, I get that vibe when I work in talk to you, Lori, that you have put mental and emotional health, as a priority, and that is one of the reasons why you're moving forward and growing and progressing at the rate that you are. Would you agree with that?

Lori: Yes, yes. I had to get my mind right, I just, I needed to be able to trust myself, I needed to be able to make it, you know, I, I had a lot of years where I didn't, and I have that, and I feel good about it, and consistency persistent, you know, not giving up all those things that came with that.

Dave: Yeah, I want to talk to everybody who's listening very briefly and give you just an opportunity of a lifetime, an opportunity of a lifetime. And what that opportunity is is to use this journey of building your business as exactly what Laurie said when she lost 50 pounds, right. If you have not accomplished something by just simply sticking with it. If you have not built in filled up your self esteem gas tank in a long time. If you're writing literally on e, if you're a steam is writing on E. You have the perfect opportunity right now, not only to make money, because I know that's the care that everybody chases you have an opportunity not only to make money, but you have an opportunity to fill your self esteem gas tank up your confidence, gas tank up by following through, in being consistent and overcoming challenges in sticking with this for a significant period of time until you do get sizable results, which will then take that's when compound self esteem interest kicks in. Because once you have loaded self esteem and you've stuck with it for long enough that you've gained traction. That's when your results go to the moon, and that's what a lot of these folks that you've seen that you guys look around on the internet, TikTok, YouTube whatever you see these marketers who have taken off people look at me what's my, what's my secret? Well, I've been doing this for 10 years plus. I've been doing affiliate marketing and coaching and creating courses and following through with stuff, I mean I was a low self esteem mass in constant crisis mode when I started, and I had to push through in my recovery, I had to constantly put out fires, and I had to keep coming back to that well of building self esteem, outside of my business, and inside of my business by persevering through. And over time. Time has allowed me time, things I must earn time has allowed my success to compound to where now it's it's at the point to where, you know, it's, it's, you know, it's at a place that I never thought that it would be, where, where I'm not I'm not the hunter I'm the hunted. Right, but I've been hunting for a long time. Right, meaning that I'm not chasing people I'm not asking for people things, you know, success tends to bind me now. Right, but that's only because I've built this sort of self esteem kind of this, this, this, this self esteem kingdom that's what all my success is built on is self esteem, it's it's it's been, you know this rigorous, personal development that I've done. It's not just been sharing memes Laurie on Facebook, it's been going to therapy it's been, you know, following through with a working on my marriage, it's been leaning into my business, you know, focusing, when, when I got bored just focusing anyways and not switching gears and going off to another shiny thing. So, you're three months into this, where do you see, what are some of the goals that you have for yourself over the course of the next nine months, that will kind of bring you to that one year marker?

Lori: To be able to build the. Gosh. Now, in the next nine months I want to be able to have the mechanics down better. I'm still working on the mechanics, I'm three months in. I'm alright with that I'm working on more follow up through emails through reaching out to clients and helping them with getting their businesses started that is, you know, definitely I want that to be in a more more part of the business because that's not what I'm, I don't have a lot of that right now I'm answering questions but I want to be able to work a little closer with people. I want to. Gosh, I want to be able to take time off. I'm working full time plus, I'm working on my business a lot on that when I'm not at my other, you know, my, my day job I want to be able to go and then see my kids I want you know those are all the goals that I have and I know that by the this year is going to be a busy year, and I'm alright with that. But I want to be able to get to the point that I can walk on my own.

Dave: So, your why has tweaked a little bit. Okay, your why has tweaked a little bit, you obviously you want to travel, you want to see your kids but you also want to, you also now feel passionate about this online marketing kind of this this opportunity, and you're, you're, you're excited to share it with people, tell, tell us how your why has evolved. And we you know your internal motivation and your why, where it was when you started maybe more specifically being all about you, you, you, you, you, and now it's moved and sort of morphed into also adding an element of being of service to others and actually using your business to serve people and help them help themselves.

Lori: Well as people have reached out to me, even just three months worth of experience doing this. At first it was really intimidating, speaking with people trying to, you know that imposter syndrome, but I know I am helping people. I'm answering questions and people really appreciate it and appreciate the time I spend with them, and that is very rewarding. I want people to be able to experience the freedoms that I am starting to achieve, and I want them to be able to, you know, not have their kids at the babysitter, all day, you know letting babysitters, raise their children. I want those things for other people, It's, it's part of my nature. I've been a caretaker, all my life and, and, you know, now my kids are grown. It's just me and it's time for me to, to experience a lot of different things I haven't been able to, and I still am a caretaker at heart, you know, I want to I want to help, and it feels good to do so.

Dave: That's great. I think a lot of people can relate to that. Now, do you feel cared for? Then, and then give and then being a marketer who gives calls to action and then has to transition from that caretaking role to also then that call here's my call to action for you to actually go and do something, buy something, take some action, get a training etc. Do you feel that there's any conflict there with you, is that a muscle that you've needed to grow?

Lori: Absolutely. I do a lot of talking with people and knowing that, I mean a lot of the people I'm helping have already started Legendary, you know, I'm, I'm helping people that I'm not getting any money for it. I'm not spending, you know, an hour at a time with them at this point but I, I could just say sorry you bought from someone else, but that's not, that's not my nature. So, you know I'm doing what I can to help if I can help.

Dave: Yeah, so one of the suggestions that I would, I would give to you is in everybody is if you do help somebody, then there is something that you can get out of that, that will actually help you in your business you can actually ask them for a testimonial and have them shoot you a little short little 32nd testimonial that you can then use and build up your testimonial file folder, that, that you can use on future sales pages current landing pages bridge pages, sales pages email follow ups. You know, if somebody asked for references or referrals if you're ever selling coaching or something like that, you can easily just set to a page that has all of your testimonials on it right so testimonials can be one of the most powerful things that we get inside of our business, right, it's a third party validation invoice from somebody else, and it literally nowadays, take somebody 30 seconds to record it on a on a on a cell phone or a loom video and just send it to you, and just, you can even give them instructions, like hey would you be open to, you know, recording me a quick testimonial that I can use in my marketing to acquire other clients and coaching clients and other clients of products I'm selling in the future, and you can have a little one page document that just gives them a couple of helpful tips about what to say in the testimonial so you actually get exactly what you're looking for, and exactly what would help you, you know, because it's, there's nothing wrong with guiding and leading people, coaching them about the type of testimonial that you're looking for. So anyways, I just wanted to offer you that because, especially early in our careers, one of the smartest things we can do is be of service to other people in ways that maybe we don't get paid for, but we can build up that testimonial portfolio, and that really, really is beneficial for us, it can be beneficial. right away. When we start to put those on our bridge pages and landing pages and stuff like that. Does that make sense Lori?

Lori: That makes great sense, that is such a great idea, I jotted it down real quick, that's, I will do that. It never even occurred to me so that's, that's wonderful.

Dave: Thank you, and I would even go back to the old you that you've written to me, literally, each every single one of you guys it's like, it's like every conversation that you have. You can turn around and ask somebody for Hey, I, I hope this interaction this conversation helped. Was it helpful to you? Was it valuable to you, and you get that? Yes, it was, Hey, you know, it would be really helpful to me, it is a quick little testimonial, right, little 30 seconds here's kind of a one pager about what I'm looking for. I'd really appreciate it if you take 20, 30 seconds and just record a minute, whatever, and just record something for it. I'm telling you guys, it's, it's, it's, it's a big deal, it's a big, big, big deal, and as you begin to expand your business, even if you're just, even if you're just doing affiliate marketing, but if you expand into courses or doing your own protein those testimonials can be priceless. They can be priceless.

Lori: That's such a great idea.

Dave: Yeah, you're welcome. And so, we always want to make sure that, and that's one of the things that I, one of the reasons why I asked I think for so many people who are not, you know, I believe, being successful is not about being good at sales, and I believe that sales is not even about being good at sales, what is sales, I don't even know, sales is just when a transaction happens, what it's called getting what you want in life. And you know how to get what you want in life? Ask for it. That's how you get it. There's no other way. You can be the best person in the world, the most deserving person in the world. And you can serve the whole world, you can just give your entire life, in that if you sit back, you will not get anything in return, except the feel good feelings inside but you know what good feelings inside. Unfortunately, I wish they did just like I wish good looks paid bills, they don't. They don't, they don't pay bills. Right, so the way that we get what we want is we ask for it, and I think that this is a huge takeaway, particularly for all of you who are caretakers, in our have a servant's r, and then you get into marketing, it's like, well, I'm helping a lot of people but I'm not getting what I want and need, and what we have to learn how to do, and this is, whether we're on the phone and doing phone sales all day or whether we're marketing or what we have to learn to ask what we want, and in need with to ask for. We have to ask for that and that's how I train salespeople. Your biggest job is to bring people to a decision. Ask them for the sale, and to ask them for a yes or a no, it doesn't have to be a yes, a nose just as good because at least you've closed the conversation. You've brought you didn't leave an open ended cover, well maybe I'll get back to you see that's just lying to each other. I'll call you back. Let me think about it, that's just lying. Instead we have to make it okay for people to say no. We have to be able to restock. We have to go nose, because at least we're putting a period on the end of a conversation instead of a dot dot dot dot dot. Right. So with all of these actions that we're all taking every day. The number one thing that we need to remember that if I want to get more leads, I need to ask for more emails. If I want to get more sales I need to ask for people to click more links, I need to direct them, I need to ask them specifically if I want to get more testimonials if I want to get more of this. I got to ask for it. If I want to get more guidance, if I want to get more insight from the crew from a coach, I get to ask for it. Right and I think that that's just a big major takeaway, Laurie for all of us who are caretakers or he feel like we have a great servant's heart, but we're having a difficult time making that transition over to like kind of hardcore marketer right it's like how do I blend these two skills together well, it's really just about, what did I, what did I ask for in this email. Did I ask for anything in this conversation, or did I feel guilty or bad about it? Right, that's a muscle that we have to condition is asking for things because sometimes we feel guilty asking. Oh, I don't want to ask them, I don't want to ask for anything. I don't do it on my own. Right. But the only person that you're hurting when you don't ask for things is just yourself, right, because then you don't get your needs met. And what that's called is codependency. Right, and that's called people pleasing, that's where we put everybody before our own self. So we have to become equals in this game. And in order for me to, and that's another self esteem building tool if I'm doing something, I’m interacting in a situation, say it's a friendship and then I'm give, give, give, give, give, listen, listen, listen to your problems talk talk talk about you, but then I don't ask about me hey you know what I need right now? One of the things I learned, Lori, I just sometimes needed to be held by my wife to heal that inner child that little boy in me, I just, I need you to just hold me baby. I learned to ask for my needs, you know, I, this is adult conversation- a lot of you guys are sexually frustrated in your relationships, just because you're not asking, ask. Maybe I really, I just wondered, I'm looking at you, you're so sexy and I'm just, I'm just wondering if we can make time for each other tonight? You know what I mean, like sometimes we just don't we just don't ask so anyways, I'm ranting here, what's coming up for you I want to give you the final word and also bring this conversation in for a landing but what's coming up for you as I'm ranting about this, asking for stuff Lori?

Lori: Well, that we've all heard it needs to call to action. You know, you need to ask them to do something, you know, You need to absolutely call to action. Click that link in the bio, you know, let's follow, you know, comments, whatever. Please, by, you know, they don't. Hopefully they'll, you know thanks but, but no. You know that, that absolutely is. Makes perfect sense, and that carries over, like you said that's a life skill that's to be able to do that.

Dave: So, overall, if somebody like yourself brand new three months ago was sitting on a checkout page or thinking about getting involved in Legendary Marketer, what would you say to that person.

I would say do it absolutely, it will change your life, not just making money, but there are so many other things that you will get from doing marketing online marketing, Legendary marketing, I can tell you if you're looking. It is. It is Legendary corny, sorry, but there are, you know, The community is fantastic. Oh my gosh, the support is great from your peers, and from obviously from the staff and Dave and Matt and Roxy and everyone that's, that's out there, helping us. I would do it because you. It will give you the freedoms that you're looking for, it will give you the support, the resources will be there, you know, with you for life. Pretty much if you buy the blueprints. Do the blueprints, oh my gosh, if there's any way you can afford it, do the blueprints. They are more advanced skills. They work with you longer, harder. I would jump on it, you will absolutely not be sorry.

Dave: Well that was quite a testimonial thank you for that Lori.

Lori: It's how I feel. It literally changed my life. I'm so excited each day to get home and start working on this, you know, what am I gonna learn today, I want to learn something new every day.

Dave: Yeah, well, it shows I mean, your attitude and your just your outlook is just, it's contagious. So everybody Lori's financial freedom is her TikTok, You can connect with her there. Go now, let's draw it, let's also make it a clickable link, I'll drop it right in the comments right now. This is somebody who you guys, I mean, I mean, obviously fellows, but also, you know, ladies, I mean, talk about talk about somebody to have inside of your network in your mastermind, it just as part of your network. I mean, jump on it. I mean it, this is, this is when we talk about community, this is what we're talking about. It's not just about. It's not just about. It's never about me, I don't want it to be about me. I don't want it to be about Matt I don't want it to be about any one person, particularly on our team, it's about us building connections and finding peers and friends and people to support us and people out there that are on the same path that we are, That is so that it's so energizing to know that there's hundreds 1000’s 10’s of 1000’s of people out there that are literally on the same path doing the same thing, even if there's not our neighborhood or town it's like I look around and I see a bunch of weirdos that I have nothing in common with in my town, you know, relatively speaking, but not not marketing anyways. But there's, there's 1000s out here and Legendary is full of them. So Lori, had a fantastic show. Well done. Great job, we'll let you go I know you've, it's coming around to eight o'clock there be your time so gotta get another cup of coffee or whatever you drink in the morning and take the dogs out. Start your day. Thank you for spending an hour with us in giving back. And I know you've, you've gained some new fans and new followers, some new friends here this morning, and just keep up the great work any final words you get the last, last word.

Lori: Well thanks Dave for having me. It was a goal to make it here, and so I'm thrilled to have been here and thanks guys for for watching, and the support that you've given me, and

I love you guys.

Dave: Awesome. Love you too. Lori, you are just a real gem, and I'm looking forward to continuing this journey, and for many years to come. I love when my clients turn into friends and we stay connected and look back a decade, you know, later and say, remember when, you know, all the memories and in the journey, it's, it's, it's really, it's really a cool thing, so keep up the great work. I hope you'll come back and keep us posted on your journey every few months. And, if you will all look forward to it and I'll talk to you soon. Okay.

Lori: Okay, thanks Dave.

Alright see you Lori. All right, my friends, seriously Lori's tick tock is up here on the screen, go connect with her go support her lift her up let her support you lift you up, and, and just, just a wonderful, wonderful person to have as a part of your as a part of your sphere of influence, right. They say that we're a combination of the five people, whatever that we, how many ever it is that we surround ourselves with and I believe that. I just believe that, you know, there's, there's different people in different mindsets here even in our community. And so we have to be really careful about who we associate with who we who we're listening to, who we're getting information from, who we're talking to, and Lori is the type of person, the model type of person to have in your corner, and also to model her mindset and behavior, because just in three months. She's just growing, not only the money aspect, but also just is, is developing the skills that are going to be there for the rest of her life to be able to thrive and be able to achieve her goals. So anyways, be legendary my friends, we will be back here tomorrow at 10am Eastern time. Have a fantastic day. Have a Legendary day. Have a great week. Let's end this month strong, And we'll talk to you tomorrow. Peace.

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Dave: What’s up my friends, this is Dave Sharpe Welcome to Wake Up Legendary. I feel like the guy who announces the boxing matches when he's like let's get ready to rumble. I actually can do it better, like if I'm if I'm in my full mode like I can really get it going, not like him but damn close. So I hope you guys are doing well this morning, I am doing well and I'm doing fantastic. We've got a great guest, just an average new taking radical accountability to completely change his life. I love it. I'm excited to hear about it. I hope you guys will help me welcome Grant Temple. What's going on my brother?

Grant: Hey, what's going on Dave? 

Dave: I'm excellent, man so where are you calling in from? 

Grant: I'm from Wilmington, Delaware, Yeah, most of the time a couple minutes right outside of Philly no one has any idea where this is. Yeah I mean I have heard of Wilmington before so, so great. So tell us how you got started online I mean what, what, what led you to this, this weird and interesting space we call the Internet in us weird. Um, so I work at a car dealership, I'm a service advisor there so in the service department I'm the guy who gets you the bad news when your car breaks down. But you know how much it's going to cost, worked all the way through the you know the pandemic dealership went down the kind of bare bones staff I was, you know, one of the ones that was kept there I was fortunate, but I was putting in a lot of hours, you know 50, 60 hours a week they're kind of trying to run the place. So, about July, I guess. After a long ass week at the car dealership, I went home and did the famous YouTube search on my back porch, how to make money online, went down the rabbit hole.

Dave: The gateway drug. 

Grant: Exactly, man you know that the million things pop up on there and I'm sure most people have the same exact story dropshipping. That's what it is. That's what was filtered into my YouTube search there started watching some videos on it was like hey, you know, this is an opportunity. I sit at home at night and you know, like workout and everything but when I get home from work and work it out sitting there on my, my computer anyway said hey, why not try something new and it started trying to do drop shipping… un successfully. Honestly, unsuccessfully, but I found it fascinating being able to kind of build a store online and learn Facebook ads and you know I really enjoyed trying to learn Facebook ads for some reason and the marketing aspect of it, so kind of started with that. 

Dave: Yeah, no, that's, that's really, that's really interesting drop shipping is quite the phenomenon, it's so many people have tried it, it looks really appealing because it's like, I can just hit a few buttons I can just do a couple of mechanical things in the money's just gonna pour in. But you know it's it's, you know you got to make a lot of sales, you got to make a lot of sales, to hit the profit margins that you're looking for because the margins can be so small. And then also shipping things I mean there's just a lot of logistical stuff and yeah it's there's a lot of challenges. I mean, I think if one wants to be successful with it they could, it's there's just a lot of moving parts, more than, than the average thing so you found affiliate marketing? And you're loving that. Why do you let and you've had success with affiliate marketing, without getting into numbers you've had some pretty decent success since the beginning and tracking some of the looking at some of the commission's that you've earned, you told us about, in the, in your form here for the for the show, and it's very different from your initial three sales that you've made in your entire dropshipping career. So, what actually, what has been what has been, what have you liked about doing affiliate marketing, and in specific, the selling information I mean, talk to us just a little bit about why you favored this model why it's been a breath of fresh air for you. Grant: Um, so, as far as, you know, I guess dropshipping goes you're not really using yourself to sell so much it's running ads for the product. So it was doing a little bit of, you know, trying to run Facebook ads for for businesses it's some point there and I've had moderate success with that but when I found Philly, marketing, I kind of look at what I do at, you know my regular job and what is is basically, you know, selling services and helping people get their car up and running correctly, and I figured a lot of those skills are transferable now. You know, one thing I tried to do with you know customers I have that, you know I'm trying to translate the to being able to do it or a computer or TikTok, is, you know, let them know hey you know I'm here to take care of you, I have these resources at my disposal and I can help you have a viable car and that can serve its purpose for you. And I think that's, you know, something I'm pretty good at and I thought okay, well, you know, affiliate marketing, there's really good products out there and if I can let people know hey I'm here to help you, and you know kind of advise you on how you can start making money online. You know, affiliate marketing seems like a place for that now. It is a little bit different trying to sell that directly face to face with someone, and it's not even selling exactly it's when you look at it as trying to, you know, hey, I'm taking care of you. I want to help you and put you in a good place, that the sales just come with that and that's true in my regular job and that's true here. Just trying to transfer, you know, being able to do it in person when I can look at my diversity looking into a camera and trying to reach, you know, each individual with 1000s of people saying it.

Dave: Yeah, well you've, you've taken up TikTok, and you've, you've gotten some good traction there, you've gotten the authority 6,000 followers on TikTok. Is that where you learn about TikTok, did you go through one of our training and kind of jump on where you were listening to the wakeup shows how you find and decide to execute marketing on TikTok?

Grant: I mean I've been on tick tock, not, not me personally posting, you know, been on there for a little bit of time I found that found it kind of funny that the platform's interesting. The short form, videos, you know entertained me. And then I guess just because the algorithms are good at what they do, I started seeing videos about making money online. I'm sure at some point I liked something or I did something that put those into my feed. I came across a couple people that you know were promoting affiliate marketing and capturing board but not with see the views and like oh my god that's you know that's crazy, it's how much traction you can get on it and you know I assume just by even some of the content quality some of these people were new, you know, and not that's not a knock on anything that's just saying, Hey, you don't need to be studio at home you to produce art, and a lot of use and traction. Then of course you know I went through the 15 Day Challenge and, you know, did some of the other courses here and realized how serious an opportunity, you know, TikTok was. 

Dave: Yeah, it's pretty pretty crazy. So, um, when we say when we say, you know, just an average dude taking radical accountability to change his life let's talk about that, what do you, what is, what is radical accountability look like in your life?

Grant: Um, it was funny, so I actually, this questionnaire, I'm pretty sure I filled out about a month ago you, you have one show where you didn't have anyone on the night before you had that show and you were talking about taking accountability for yourself I filled out that that questionnaire and said that and the next day you came to just hammered the point home, But I realized a long time ago, I mean I've I'm 29 now, when I was younger I made some mistakes I really did. You know I put myself in a bad position and at times I wanted to blame it on circumstances or other people or, you know, anything that would, you know, kind of mitigate the responsibility that you know I could put on myself but I mean you can you can put that facade on for other people and they they might believe the bullshit that you tell them, but inside, you know, I knew I'm where I'm at because of all the choices that I've made, and if I'm not happy with that, there's only one person that can change it, you know, No matter how much your mom, your dad, your girlfriend, your best friend wants something for you. They can't even help you if you're not willing to help yourself. And ultimately I found that if, if I want to make something of myself and do better in life and be where I want to be, you have to start making good choices and hold yourself accountable in those choices you know if something goes wrong with it, it's your fault if something goes wrong with it, it's your fault if something comes out of left field. It may not be your fault but you're the only one that can gauge the, you know, response to the outcome of it. So, I mean really just got to say, Hey, I'm, I'm in control of my life and every decision I've made is put me here, and all the decisions I'm making right now will put me where I'm at the future and you can make good choices or bad choices, most of the time, you know the difference. 

Dave: Yeah, man. Bro, you had you had a, I would say the what I I believe you, based on what you just said, I, you know, sometimes, sometimes when people talk about taking responsibility, I immediately based on how they talk and how they, how they explain taking responsibility and so forth, I immediately know how deep that accountability that they have with themselves goes, one, one particular thing that stands out with your vocabulary is just the way that you actually personalize yourself in situations saying, I, you know a lot of times, one of the ways that we distance ourselves from our own lives. If you know to distance ourselves from our choices as we describe our choices in ourselves, as you like, you will go and make choices you know I'm talking about me but I'm saying you. Right, and I, when I got clean from drugs from heroin back in 2008 I did. I never used I mean my statements, so I never really kind of talked about myself in the first person I always talked about myself in a second person. Right, yeah, because it was like this way for me to just, it's a, it's a very common thing you'll, you see it happening all the time we do it all the time and it doesn't particularly mean you don't take responsibility for your life, it just, it's really important, if I'm in a situation to where I need to really face my choices, and if I really want to change. One of the best ways that I can do it is to just personalize, how I talk about myself and just say this is my, that's my choice, you know. And so, that's the one thing that stood out to me. The other thing is, it is just the, the way in which you're talking about taking responsibility for your own actions and your own choices. I mean, this is such a quality that is mandatory for an entrepreneur, it's not an optional thing, it's kind of mandatory and I would say that probably 99% of people couldn't learn the skills and be successful. There's like 1% or less of people that are just maybe just like maybe something's wrong, maybe there's a learning disability or, you know, like something serious, you know what I mean like some thing that maybe a mental illness, something like that that literally is staying in the way. But the other, but the reason why most people don't succeed is not because they can't learn the skills. It's because they aren't willing to take responsibility for outcomes. And isn't that an interesting thing? It's not the mechanics, it's not the mechanics Grant, it's the dynamics, it's the inability to take personal responsibility. We're actually creating our own problems by doing what comes up for you as I'm now, reflecting back.

Grant: Yeah. I mean, again, it's just the you know it's about consistency and making, you know, good choices, kind of a, Hey, today I know I can make a good choice by doing this I can, I can say hey, I'm responsible for the progress I make today so I mean there's times where I don't feel like, you know, waking up it, you know 4:30, 5 o'clock in the morning to record my videos before I go to work, but I know that the outcome of doing that is ultimately what I want to see and if I don't do it that day, then I can't be disappointed at the results that don't, don't come because of that, you know I work long hours I work seven to five, every single day of 50 hours a week sometimes 60 hours a week and for, you know, I still have a relationship and I gotta mow the lawn and take care of the house, um, you know, I have responsibilities but at the same time. I'm a real person, obviously I mean, I know some people 

Dave: So am I. I mean I don't mow the lawn, damn it. I live in Florida not Delaware but I do dishes and I, you know, I mean, no I totally get it. I have two small kids, I got to, you know help take care of I mean, no I totally get all the other things that come along with, with, with, with life and being a real person. But I want to ask you this, and I want you to finish your point, I know I interrupted, but I also want to know, before I forget the question how do you balance not shaming, blaming and guilting yourself, right, and being too critical and hard on yourself with holding yourself accountable? I feel like that's a fine line that we have a hard time finding.

Grant: Yeah and I'll say, I mean that is a struggle sometimes it helps in some aspects where, you know, I've really stopped caring what, what other people think and I think that's important if you're gonna be doing this and putting yourself out there but a part of, you know, doing that is no will no one's going to be more critical of myself than than me. You know I hold myself to a high standard because I'm holding myself accountable for where I'm at, but once you really start holding yourself accountable, you become more confident in the decisions you make. And then once you have that confidence in the decisions you know you're doing the right things for you and you're on the right path. It's easier to one forget what other people think about it and to go, Hey, I'm, I'm doing my best and I know that and even though you know this might be a struggle or that might be a struggle or I do this well, at least, I'm confident in the decisions I make and yeah I may be a little hard on myself but you know I'm not gonna I'm not going to tear myself down when I know in my heart that I'm giving the best effort, so I mean it kind of makes it easier for me to look at myself and really not care what when other people think about it either because I know that's a big hole back for people that want to start doing this and so you know what's, what's everyone going to think about this, and you hold yourself accountable, and you know you're making good decisions. It's easy to put a comment to the side that someone goes out. You're out. You're a scam and people that guide this guy see me for 15 seconds he doesn't, he doesn't know anything about the decisions are not going to affect me.

Dave: Yeah, right. So, how, how do you, when we talk about accountability, and, and you also talked about, like your, your, getting up at 4:30 or whatever, like to me that just makes me like that just, That just that just that sentence alone makes me like crap, I might almost run the opposite way like I was like on day one, and I heard somebody say that, and I was like shit like do I gotta wake up at 4:30 in the morning to be successful at this. But anyways, how, like, so I just want to tell you guys I don't wake up at 4:30 in the morning and I actually wake up, I'm going to be completely transparent. In, dude, I can roll out of bed, dude. I will be alive within five minutes away from special talent. I do that all the time do I do that all the time do you do, I was minute late today to getting on here with you. Now I am kicking off another training, but I do that all the time. I roll up dude, a minute before we go live every day on this wakeup show, literally a minute before we go live if that and then I'm just like, Alright, ready to go. And people are like, you know, kind of like, sometimes they're a little shocked, usually mats there to kind of prep them but I just want to kind of tell everybody that, that, you know, I'm clarifying for you but if you're new and you're thinking do I get to wake up at 4:30 I'm never woke up at 4:30 my entire life. I don't think unless we're traveling or something. But what I do want to ask you is, in the area of radical accountability, how do you balance, a job, and also your business? Like give us a, a structure or some are some tips or some advice on how you do scraped boundaries with your time. 

Grant: It's difficult, honestly, and I think that's kind of why you mean you don't need to wake up at 4:30 in the morning but if that's the time of the day where you do have time that could be used, particularly on distracted time, then, then that's what you got to do I mean I have to you know leave work at 6:45 So if I wake up at 4:30 smack my face a couple times drink of coffee and I'm ready to make a couple videos by 4:45 or five o'clock. 

Dave: I've got a lot of respect for you well, you know what I mean, like, that's, I love that. I mean, I'm not saying like, I, I like what you're preaching right now, the whole do whatever it takes, man. You know what I mean, and like, so anyways continue about kind of what the day looks like for you and where you fit these pieces in. 

Grant: Yeah, so I mean what I tried to do is film a couple videos in the morning and not even really edit at all at once so I can just put it out there in the morning, I got about an hour lunch break and work sometimes. You know I’ve always got customers there. So, but I try to take my lunch break, I'll sit in my car. I'll add it up a couple videos, you know get done works though like the to go to the gym, make sure I'm staying in shape, you know, come home, do the kind of the dinner nighttime cleanup routine and then, you know I still try to spend time with my girlfriend but you know if there's an hour or two at night that I get where I can, you know, work on posts that kind of started on Pinterest. Just trying to build some of the smaller ends of the business as well and it's really, I wish I could be more structured but, you know, I just don't know when I can. Dave: I got an office house that I work out of and primary residence, I got a gym in both of those places, and I can't get my fat ass out there to eat, you know, it's just, it's crazy man, like, like I am, there's one thing that I that I am just militant about, and it's, it's like doing my job every day, you know what I mean it's like doing my work, like, like there's nothing I can be doing better in terms of, I shouldn't say that, but like I crush it as the, the, the CEO of this company in, in doing the things that I need to do. Also as a dad, but like sometimes the self care pieces get put to the side like the gym the working out bro like like that honestly is where I will cut corners on man so to hear that you're doing, you're at this place in your life right now to where you're checking all these boxes man, like it's really impressive dude, and I know how hard that is to keep up with all that shit and in like even do the workout thing and everything like that man I mean you're in go mode right now. 

Grant: Yeah, and I mean, I would honestly say now, such as the person who likes fitness preaching but there's something, there's direct parallels in keeping in shape and online business or business in general I mean you don't you don't work out twice a week and get to go bench press 250 pounds or deadlift 350 pounds I mean you got to put in the work every single day, and before you know it you're, you're doing the things that you couldn't do four or five months ago but that's from consistency and making it a part of your life, and a part of your routine, and I've just tried to take those, those same principles and apply it to my online business where you know it's I don't feel like working out every day I mean sometimes it's a pain in the ass day at work and I don't feel like, but there's very few times I go there, and then once I'm there don't want to put the work in, we're unhappy that I went there. So I mean really just trying to, you know, consistency, it's small steps and you stack small wins and over the long run that, that turns into something I just tried to translate that right to my online business as well as I put the work in daily, and see what the outcome is 60 days now 90 days from now. And once you see those results you can go ahead and maybe I can do this for the long haul. Let's see what it looks like six months from now but focus on the day by day putting the work in and see what comes to fruition at the other end. 

Dave: Yeah, Jamar Jones just commented on accountability so important hold yourself accountable every day. Here's what I know about me is that, for me, accountability is everything. So, before Corona hit right, I for 10 years, Dude, worked out with a trainer, and, and I know how to work out like I can go out there and work out I know the routines man I know the basics, the fundamentals of how to work out and build muscle and I know how to eat healthy, I can count calories if I want like I know everything about, like, I got a head full of knowledge and a belly full of fat right which is everyone's story right it's like nobody's dumb right yeah we get the information. But for me, the part about accountability that's so important is that every area that's, that's thriving at any time in my life is because I have accountability there. So, the reason why this last year I've fallen off the fitness train is because my accountability is gone. So, I can always come up and what I'll do is I'll work, it's like, Nah, I'll work like I got a lot of stuff to do. So I'm going to work instead of going to work out because I don't have somebody waiting there for me. Right, but I do have people waiting for me in this business right people are waiting on this or that or what I've got stuff on my to do list. So, I think, I think and I think most I mean, obviously you're saying you, you work out on your own, but I do, but we're also talking about accountability, and how important it is. And so I think there's kind of two forms of accountability. The first form is the promises or commitments that we make to ourselves. And then the second form of accountability is who are we putting in place like actual other human beings to hold us accountable to show up because they're like they're waiting on us. Right, what comes up for you as I say this, do you agree with that and, and how do you where do you where do you feel like you're being pulled more right now are you being pulled more to self accountability? Are you being pulled more to other people waiting on you even maybe your audience on TikTok now on your list being accountable to them to create content and stuff? 

Grant: Yeah, well, I guess I think you know it is even draws back to personal accountability more accountability, more than anything where, if you know how can I be accountable to someone else if I can't even be myself so the foundation is all just, hey, on you to make this happen, do what you have to do. And then, hey someone else needs and I need to be accountable for someone else's will. I've got a good foundation for that I can, I can add one person into the mixer to 36,000 on TikTok, which is crazy to even think about but yeah I mean, I think it all starts with, with personal and making sure that that you know that you're held accountable and once that confidence to hold yourself accountable to other people. It'd be really difficult to hold yourself accountable to other people if you're not, you know, doing the right things to hold yourself accountable, you know yourself. 

Dave: Yeah. And I feel that the first thing that, like in order to even get the, like if we talk about fitness or whatever like, like, the first thing I need to do is to hold myself accountable to actually earn the money so I can afford the trainer right so there has to be an element of me following through and actually doing what I say I'm going to do achieving some goals so I can then have money to afford a trainer if that's what I'm doing, but I, I really believe that the foundation of success is self esteem and I the reason why I say that is because I think that so many people coming into this industry, or who have already been in this industry for a long time, have, have, have beat up their self esteem so much because they've started things and then not follow through with them. And if you do that enough times, you begin to lose trust in yourself, and begin to feel badly about yourself and you've had one of those with the Drop Shipping thing, and, you know, I don't know how you would explain that but, but it's, it's, it's irrelevant, we don't need to go there, I want to stay with the idea that self esteem and being accountable to your health, meaning that if I say I'm going to learn affiliate marketing and succeed with affiliate marketing, I'm going to buy this train I'm going to go through this train. I'm going to implement this and I'm going to do this for a year. Minimum without starting something else new, regardless of how it goes, because I know that I need to give myself time to succeed, those type of commitment when you follow through with that to be accountable to sell first man that builds some insane self esteem dude, absolutely sane self esteem, and that is what then leads to success and I think you're seeing that right now because you're going like you're doing that because you're waking up at 4:30 You're following through with your commitment, and now you're 36,000 deep on tick tock you're earning commissions, you're seeing the fruits of your labor. Does this description feel like it fits the building of your self esteem and your business?

Grant: Yeah, exactly. I mean it really does like I said, I mean, I've done some poor choices in the past and you know I've started affiliate marketing recently and I've seen the success but you know it's easy to kind of look at that and almost forget the, you know, the four or five years of trying to make good decisions or better decisions, I'm not saying you know I was making a decision bad but really holding myself accountable for this time and it's you know it's it's a journey it's, you know, I went from a job just working at a small repair shop working on cars and kind of managing that with my cousin and then I want to do something a little bit bigger hey I want to go to a car dealership and try to, you know, scale it a little bit, and, you know, making sure that in the process, I'm making good decisions to put me in a position where that is possible, and then it's you know hey maybe I want something different, and I'll, I'll keep working hard on this. So, I mean it's it's a long journey to get there but then when finally I got to here I've made every decision I've made about me, right here, and, you know, the sum of all those decisions I've made is that since I'm content with that and that content isn't, I don't want any more but I can look at it and go hey I'm confident in the decisions I'm making it's pointing me in the direction that I want to go, keep making these types of decisions and, of course still I'd love on some of them, but when that happens, go hey, that was my fault, that wasn't anyone else's fault, you made that decision, it didn't work out, learn from it, don't do it again and try to make a better one next time, and, you know, make more better good decisions and bad decisions and you can end up in a much better place. 

Dave: Yeah, yeah, I love this conversation, because it is, it is the truth, it's, it's real, it's, it's like, I just think there's too much bullshit about motivation, in, in, in making building a business and living life out to be like it's some easy thing, it's not, it is hard. One of the things that we tell our, this was started by my wife, she's a fantastic mom, and she says to our four year old, you can do hard things, you can do hard things, you know and and I feel like it's just, instilling in her early on, that she can do hard things because, because life is hard, building a business is hard. Relationships are hard. Fitness is hard. All these things are hard, they're actually hard, nothing is easy. Nothing is easy. I mean, even, Even the smallest things I mean you can do something in during your day that go in and get in a new drivers like it's just hard it's just you gotta go and you sit and wait, fucking life is hard. And it's like, Man, when we accept that and stop trying to expect everything to be easy or get disappointed or even humans have this, this real, real, rooted tendency to want everybody to think that everything's perfect all the time in their lives. I mean it's kind of like, hey, you know, how you doing, oh great, you know, life's like falling apart, but

it's like, Hey, I'm great, I'm fantastic, you know, new boyfriend, new girlfriend, new. It's like we want everybody to believe that everything's perfect and okay and that we're doing great. And I think there's a lot of power in just acknowledging that things are difficult and acknowledging that things are hard to do because it validates our experience, this is hard for me to do. So when I actually can say, Wow, this is hard for me to do, and I'm, and I can do it, and I can do it, I can do this hard thing, I can follow through with this, I am, and there's a payoff and the payoff may be that I get rich, but the payoff is also that I'm going to build self esteem, and I know that confidence in that self esteem that I build is going to is going to be like worth 100 times more than anything else, towards my finances and stuff because man when you start executing confidently and stop living in here, and you're just let by your gut and your heart, and you're just like, you know, executing, Tony Robbins says if you're in your head, you're dead. Right. He says if you're in your head, you're dead. It's just kind of a true thing because we live in our heads so much guilting ourselves and trying to pretend like things are hard and all this, and we're just like you know what this shit is hard, and I can do it. And I'm gonna do it, and I'm going to build some muscle along the way, that's going to, that's going to, you know, it's going to be there to get me through new situations, and take me to the next level. That's an empowering inspiring message I can get behind. Not the whole, let me post on Instagram like everything's good selfie time smile like the kids, like you got two kids, it's like come on, act like you’re, you're out or something and they're crying like act like you're happy to get this picture right, it's like man what a way to live. But when I'm just like, man, the shits hard but I can do it and I got a supportive community around me. Man, that that's, that's a different approach, right. 

Grant: Yeah, and I think you know one thing to note on the flip side of that, I mean, fucking up is hard, not doing well in flight is hard, you know what I mean I've been broke I've been down and out, and that was hard. I mean, honestly, it was harder than what I'm doing right now, so I could sit there and go, you know wallow in self pity and go hey this is this is hard and this isn't fair, but that doesn't help me and then no one can help me if that's my mindset in the first place I mean no one can drive by the collar and do take you to where you want to be, even if they wanted to, and most people don't want to. You're not I mean most people are self serving and that and that's okay. I mean, you have to be self serving as well and you can do that by going hey, there's no one, no one that will do this for me, I have to do it. And then once you're in that place, you can try to help other people but I mean even you trying to help other people can potentially be in vain if they're not of the same mindset that hey I'm ready to help myself or hey I'm willing to be drugged to the finish line and I can be coachable and learn and and put in the work in the meantime. 

Dave: Yeah. Really great stuff. So what's your if somebody was sitting on a checkout page right now wondering if Legendary’s the real deal can Legendary help them based on your experience, what would you, what what is your experience bet?

Grant: I mean it's been great. Honestly, I mean, the community around the training. I mean really, really good stuff and I've spent a lot of time, a lot of the courses, you know I've done other things I've been down the YouTube rabbit hole for months and this is by far the best quality, it really inspires change in yourself. It really does. And there's a good you know if you're going to be an affiliate for it, there's good the product to stand behind and that's important when you're trying to, to get people to buy something, you want say hey I can stand behind this and I can feel confident telling you that this is a good way to go and Legendary provides that it provides community just excellence, all the way around then want to applaud you for that.

Dave: Thanks, man. Well, I mean, it's been a big, it's been a big asset to have, you know, people like yourself, be willing to come back on and share value and experience so it's it's certainly a team effort and it's been, there's, there's over 50 people behind the scenes who are working their ass off every day to make a good experience for people here our clients and students and affiliates and everything else so it's really grown well beyond my, my impact on it. And that's something that I think all the people here at legendary are proud of, you know, and that's all the difference in the world and, and I would also say to everybody who's listening, you know create something that you're proud of, you know, creates create keep working in your business until you're damn proud of it. You know until you really can look at your audience and your clients in the eye and say, I'm proud of what I have here, and I know it delivers value. And if you don't want it, that's fine, but I'm not looking for people. I'll keep looking. The door is open, I'll keep the door open. You know, because you, the one person who's got something bad to say because they're judging off of a 15 second video doesn't doesn't waver. It doesn't it doesn't move my confidence in what I've got and what I've built, and that goes back to the, you know, the overnight success, right, 10 years in the making of an overnight success, and all that sticking with it in, has built that self esteem that accountability, all the things we're talking about has has, is, is the exact secret sauce of what makes Legendary great and all of the people who are succeeding right at any level, to what makes them business great what's what makes them great at what they do and that's why I think these conversations are so valuable because we get to hear the kind of behind the scenes of oh what's Grant doing? Oh shit I didn't know he was getting up at 4:30, I didn't know he was that honest about willing to take responsibility with his path. I didn't know he thought like that, this makes a lot of sense. Why the attraction that he is so, dude. Good for you and congrats to you, and I hope you'll keep us posted on your success, and any final words that you want to leave all of the listeners in the, we got tons of new TikTok fans I'm sure in people that are going to be following you and learning from you but any final words you want to leave them with?

Grant: Yeah, I mean again just, you know what you can do, hold yourself accountable to that, really learn or analyze it and just do things. Stop overthinking it, you know, just start and start making good decisions, and those things will compound quickly. If you do so, just just get started, whatever it is you want to do, make good decisions with it, and hold yourself accountable. 

Dave: Alright, my brother, wise words from the man from Wilmington. Your time brother, and I'll talk to you really soon. 

Grant: Okay. All right, thanks, Dave, I appreciate it man, see you buddy. 

Dave: All right, my friends, there you have it. Grant temple. You can find Grant Temple on TikTok, and you can go from there, right into his world. As a marketer, I'm sure he's got a couple of paths for you to take. Guys, it's been, it's been a great, it's been a great week. It's been a great year for online marketers, it's been a great year for online marketers, those, those of you who are taking advantage of this timing and of these platforms like TikTok and, in, in the opportunity of everybody coming online because of things that have happened over the past year, you're reaping the rewards of that. And if you're sitting on the sidelines and you're kind of getting ready to get ready. I just really encourage you to take the advice that Grant gave today and get in the game, you know, get off the bench. It's okay, it's okay to have been on the bench, it's okay to continue to take some breaks on the bench, and in the stands, but also get in the game, get on the field, get on the field, man. Because there's, there's a lot of opportunities in that field right now, and it's unlike any opportunity that we've seen before in the past. And so I hope that these week's cover stations on the wakeup legendary show have moved you to want to do that. And if not, then keep tuning in, and we're going to keep trying to convince you of this opportunity that's in front of you. So when you're ready, right, to stand up in CS, it will be there to support you every step of the way. Okay, so with that being said, we'll see you back here for Wake Up Legendary 10am Eastern time next week, starting on Monday. Have a great weekend, be legendary. Peace.

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